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Welcome to Fit to Be Real and a little extra.

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We have a very special guest with us today.

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You've heard of him before.

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We reference him as our number one bibliography link.

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Dr. Justin!

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Woo!

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What's up, third C-fit sister?

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Listen.

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Hi.

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You asked to be here.

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Let's be completely factual and transparent.

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He said, I'm coming back on the podcast.

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I have something to say.

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You are our most reoccurring guest.

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Yeah, it just came up.

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It was a year ago, yesterday, that I did the first.

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Really?

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First episode, yeah.

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It was the end of January, would have been.

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Yeah.

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The first one.

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And you are our first guest.

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Yeah.

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And now our first third guest.

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Woo!

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Woo!

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Woo!

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Justin, I just want to put it out there

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for everybody that knows you.

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Your nose looks fabulous.

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I always love coming on the podcast

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because it gives me an opportunity

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to set the record straight.

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I'd correct all the misinformation

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that Carly's been spreading.

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So I didn't have a rhinoplasty,

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which is a nose job by the septoplasty.

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Which is a nose job.

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Okay, all right.

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My nose looks the exact same.

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I know, you walked in and I was completely,

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I was looking forward to seeing somebody

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completely different.

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The look of disappointment on your face.

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But see, that is the epitome of like making something up

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and then deciding it's true.

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That is Carly.

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That's every, my whole life.

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That's what Carly has done to me.

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I mean, that is why we call you Dr. Justin.

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Exactly.

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My whole life.

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My whole life is a lie to you.

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Since 17.

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I'm Victoria.

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Hey guys, I'm Carly.

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And I'm Justin.

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Yes.

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But I'm not a doctor.

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We have a very special episode

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and one that we did not think of,

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but are very excited to do.

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Justin, tell everyone what we're talking about today.

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So we're gonna be talking about unpopular opinions.

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This is Justin's like forte, all right?

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He always likes to go against the green.

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He does not think like everybody else.

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He's always the, and Victoria is the devil's advocate

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for the most part.

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Am I?

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Every situation you're always like,

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all right, well let's think about this way.

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Oh, but that's just because you are completely

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reactionary and swing to a very extreme.

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I swing both ways.

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Moving on.

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I don't, I swear I don't.

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I just,

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I am just easily persuaded.

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If I say something and I'm like,

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this is law, but then you give me a really good reason

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why it's not law.

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I'm like, oh, all right, I like what you said.

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I like how you said it.

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With absolutely no fact to back it up.

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I love NPR and TikTok.

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Well, let's get into some unpopular opinions.

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All right, I just wanna say,

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so let's not get into them.

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Please don't cancel us

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if you don't agree with our opinions, okay?

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I'm speaking to all of you.

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If you don't agree with us, don't hate.

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It's just our opinion is is not law.

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And it's gonna be a wide gamut of things.

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Like it's not all like fitness things or other things.

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It's a variety.

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All right, Justin, why don't you start us off?

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All right, now that I said that,

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my first one actually is gonna be fitness related.

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Oh my God.

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So specifically fitness influencers.

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All right, so this is a very popular saying

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and it drives me crazy.

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We all have the same 24 hours.

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That is a very common thing that fitness influencers

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will say to say, oh, you have no excuse

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to why you didn't do this, that, or the other.

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I hate that saying because we don't have the same 24 hours.

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Like there are people that work at home.

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There are people that have to commute an hour

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to work every day.

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They do not have the same 24 hours

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that they can be getting workouts in.

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like we have the same 24 hours, we have the same 24 hours.

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Do you think it's the no excuses or the 24 hours?

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I think you can have the no excuses without

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we have the same 24 hours.

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Because we don't.

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Like I have three kids.

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A lot of my day is getting the kids ready,

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getting myself ready, getting to work, working,

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getting home, getting the kids dinner,

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getting the kids to do their homework,

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putting the kids to bed and having three kids.

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A lot of the time is spent on those kids.

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with my remaining hours to like something has to compromise.

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Your 24 hours is very different from somebody

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that doesn't have three kids.

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So you, yeah.

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That is an unpopular opinion

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because influencers are popular.

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Influencers are popular.

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Also, Karlie doesn't care.

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Get it done.

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Figure it out because you're not speaking naturally

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for yourself.

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Usually it's blah, blah, blah, get your shit together.

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Okay, Karlie has no empathy.

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What's yours, Karlie?

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No excuses.

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My first unpopular opinion.

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You're gonna like this.

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My unpopular opinion is I believe that you can be friends

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with a guy and have no attraction to them.

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And I believe that guys can have girlfriends

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and be not attracted to them.

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That is an unpopular opinion.

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It is.

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I agree.

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I agree with you though.

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I think that should be more popular.

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someone warned her like,

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oh, he's like a player basically,

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which is hilarious.

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Because I had a lot of friends who were girls.

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it's not having a lot of gay best friends.

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You know what I mean?

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I have a lot of gay friends,

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but I think the unpopular part is that

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I also have a lot of straight guy friends

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who I am not attracted to.

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Yeah, just look at Justin.

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Exhibit A.

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Exhibit A, I'm staring in the face.

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Never have I ever.

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I think Andrew has a lot of straight girl friends

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and always has and I don't have a problem with that.

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I did when I was younger.

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I think you have to like grow up a little bit.

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I'm going out to dinner with Amber.

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What's up Amber?

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And I'm like, okay, cool.

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You know?

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Well, I was gonna make a Dungeons and Dragons reference,

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but Amber isn't a D&D or so.

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Cool.

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Well, mine is, drum roll please.

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Wait, do you want to actually do one?

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No, no, no, I'll put something in there.

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Thank you, thank you for the clarification.

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Brilliant, awesome.

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Crocs are cool.

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Are you kidding me?

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I, listen, you own them, I know.

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I own a specific kind of croc.

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They are Jesus sandals.

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Oh my God.

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And shh, and they still have the little holes in it

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where you can put the little pop.

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I don't know, there's like a name to them.

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Yeah, like the kids do.

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You can give yourself a piece of individuality

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while your feet are super comfortable.

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And if it's raining, you don't have to worry

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about ruining them because they're rubber

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and they're comfortable.

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So they're good for your knees and your feet.

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And who gives a flying anything about what's on your feet?

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Well, there you go.

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I do.

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Wait, I have a fun fact about Crocs.

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So do you remember the movie Idiocracy?

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Yes, with Dax Shepard.

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Yes.

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So it came out, I wanna say early 2000s.

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Early 2000s, that's when he became popular.

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They, it's the premise of the movie

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is it's based in the future

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and everyone turns into an idiot.

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Like all the genes are dumbed down and people are dumb.

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And they were thinking, what clothes can we get

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for this movie to show how like dumb the population

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has got stopped.

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I hate you.

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Crocs.

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No.

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I swear to God.

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I swear to God.

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Whichever you have to watch the movie.

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See if you're in it.

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Get out of my house.

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I am gonna go with I'm on the popular opinion.

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I hate the way they look.

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I'll never own them.

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But they're trendy now.

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Like they're the thing.

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With socks.

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Oh God.

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That makes me cringe.

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it's because his nose job.

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He's recovering.

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Yeah, I currently have stents in my nose.

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So I'm constantly congested.

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Second unpopular opinion, Carly.

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Just period.

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But that's a popular opinion.

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I think to myself it's a popular opinion.

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Oh wait.

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Whatever is the insult?

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I'm with you.

283
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Well, clearly that's the popular one in the room right now.

284
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Justin, go for it.

285
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All right.

286
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You're not gonna like this one.

287
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Christmas is one of my least favorite holidays.

288
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No.

289
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Get out.

290
00:09:39,480 --> 00:09:40,320
Okay, but why?

291
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Tell us why.

292
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It's just kind of everything you talked about in your episode.

293
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It's just so commercialized and there's so much stress.

294
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And I, my favorite holiday,

295
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which this isn't gonna shock anyone.

296
00:09:55,040 --> 00:09:55,880
Is it flag day?

297
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Can I guess?

298
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You can guess.

299
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So it's not flag day?

300
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No, it is not flag day.

301
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I'm not shielded.

302
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All right, it is Easter.

303
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St. Patrick's Day, Valentine's Day.

304
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No.

305
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Fourth of July.

306
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Can I just say it?

307
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We cannot, nope.

308
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Memorial Day.

309
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Nope.

310
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Labor Day.

311
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Okay.

312
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Memorial Day.

313
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I guess this is gonna surprise everyone.

314
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Thanksgiving.

315
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Oh my God, I totally forgot about Thanksgiving.

316
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Because who cares?

317
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Because Thanksgiving is just about being with family,

318
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coming together, eating a meal, being thankful.

319
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There's no other agenda.

320
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There's no stress to the day unless you're cooking.

321
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It's price tag.

322
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It's just about being together.

323
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We all know what happens when Justin doesn't eat.

324
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He gets hangry.

325
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Exactly.

326
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That's why I thought people would know

327
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Thanksgiving was my favorite, apparently not.

328
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That's a non-popular opinion.

329
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Yes.

330
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I'm drinking out of a Christmas mug right now.

331
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Yeah.

332
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I can see it though.

333
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I can see it.

334
00:10:53,400 --> 00:10:54,480
I'll devil's advocate.

335
00:10:54,480 --> 00:10:56,720
I was just gonna say, all right, devil's advocate.

336
00:10:56,720 --> 00:10:57,560
I agree though.

337
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I do think it is very, we've said this before.

338
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It's different than it was in the 90s.

339
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Why is it different than the 90s?

340
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Because we have way more comparison

341
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from social media now of knowing what everybody else has.

342
00:11:08,720 --> 00:11:11,040
It's all about material items and price tags,

343
00:11:11,040 --> 00:11:13,040
having the top notch brand.

344
00:11:13,040 --> 00:11:16,040
Hey, all of the videos for the most

345
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favorite and coveted surprise gift were Stan Lee's.

346
00:11:18,840 --> 00:11:21,520
And now they're coming out that they're all really bad,

347
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full of lead.

348
00:11:22,520 --> 00:11:24,800
And that was what was, are you joking me?

349
00:11:24,800 --> 00:11:25,640
You don't know that?

350
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No.

351
00:11:26,480 --> 00:11:28,720
I mean, I got different ones that are BPA free

352
00:11:28,720 --> 00:11:30,240
and environmentally friendly.

353
00:11:30,240 --> 00:11:31,080
I mean, you hear that.

354
00:11:31,080 --> 00:11:34,920
And just exactly the same, but not the brand of Stan Lee.

355
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Because there's lead.

356
00:11:35,760 --> 00:11:37,120
They're all being tested with lead

357
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and they're coming up positive.

358
00:11:38,480 --> 00:11:39,560
And other brands.

359
00:11:39,560 --> 00:11:41,480
Now all these kids are getting lead poisoning now.

360
00:11:41,480 --> 00:11:43,760
Right, but to have one means you're cool.

361
00:11:43,760 --> 00:11:45,400
And so that wasn't like the 90s.

362
00:11:45,400 --> 00:11:48,600
Yes, it was Furby like people were running into the stories

363
00:11:48,600 --> 00:11:49,760
to get a Furby first.

364
00:11:49,760 --> 00:11:50,600
Yes.

365
00:11:50,600 --> 00:11:52,240
And that will always happen.

366
00:11:52,240 --> 00:11:55,840
But a lot of good and happiness can come

367
00:11:55,840 --> 00:11:59,600
from the dollar store and not necessarily Gucci.

368
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Yeah.

369
00:12:00,440 --> 00:12:03,000
And now in this day and age, it's a Gucci Christmas.

370
00:12:03,000 --> 00:12:03,840
Yeah.

371
00:12:03,840 --> 00:12:06,200
And so I agree with that part of it.

372
00:12:06,200 --> 00:12:07,240
It's still about family.

373
00:12:07,240 --> 00:12:08,320
It's still about getting together.

374
00:12:08,320 --> 00:12:10,520
It's still about honoring people with love.

375
00:12:10,520 --> 00:12:12,960
But the price tag of the love, I think,

376
00:12:12,960 --> 00:12:14,120
needs to shift a little.

377
00:12:14,120 --> 00:12:14,960
Yeah.

378
00:12:14,960 --> 00:12:16,120
Yeah.

379
00:12:16,120 --> 00:12:17,320
Whatever, Justin.

380
00:12:17,320 --> 00:12:18,160
Okay, sorry.

381
00:12:18,160 --> 00:12:20,480
Carly doesn't understand.

382
00:12:20,480 --> 00:12:22,280
Listen, that's fine.

383
00:12:22,280 --> 00:12:26,200
You said that one first to sort of let me say this one.

384
00:12:26,200 --> 00:12:27,040
Okay.

385
00:12:27,040 --> 00:12:29,640
Which I may get canceled on the spot.

386
00:12:29,640 --> 00:12:30,480
Okay.

387
00:12:30,480 --> 00:12:31,800
You might lose a lot of clients.

388
00:12:31,800 --> 00:12:37,200
I don't feel that there are any divas in this generation.

389
00:12:38,320 --> 00:12:42,280
I don't feel there's a Mariah, a Whitney, a Celine,

390
00:12:42,280 --> 00:12:43,760
an Aretha.

391
00:12:43,760 --> 00:12:45,680
I don't think anyone compares.

392
00:12:45,680 --> 00:12:47,320
A lot of different generations, you said.

393
00:12:47,320 --> 00:12:49,760
No, that's like, it's the 80s and 90s.

394
00:12:49,760 --> 00:12:53,800
I don't think there's any 2000s to 223.

395
00:12:53,800 --> 00:12:56,240
You could say Ariana Grande, she's not a diva.

396
00:12:56,240 --> 00:12:58,240
All right, describe a diva.

397
00:12:58,240 --> 00:13:03,200
A diva is someone who commands,

398
00:13:03,200 --> 00:13:07,920
they command attention, they are the best at what they do.

399
00:13:07,920 --> 00:13:12,680
They do all things and they become legends.

400
00:13:12,680 --> 00:13:14,040
You don't mean bitchy.

401
00:13:14,040 --> 00:13:15,640
No, I think no.

402
00:13:15,640 --> 00:13:16,480
Uh-uh.

403
00:13:16,480 --> 00:13:19,640
No, I mean talented, like beyond.

404
00:13:19,640 --> 00:13:21,160
Almost like legendary.

405
00:13:21,160 --> 00:13:23,840
You don't think Taylor Swift is legendary?

406
00:13:23,840 --> 00:13:28,720
Well, my little side note is I'm not a Taylor Swift fan.

407
00:13:28,720 --> 00:13:31,400
And that's why I think I'm going to get canceled.

408
00:13:31,400 --> 00:13:33,560
I don't care for her.

409
00:13:33,560 --> 00:13:34,880
There's two right there.

410
00:13:34,880 --> 00:13:36,640
So we got to start with the first one.

411
00:13:36,640 --> 00:13:38,080
What about Beyonce?

412
00:13:40,720 --> 00:13:43,520
I did think about this because I was like,

413
00:13:43,520 --> 00:13:44,880
is Beyonce a diva?

414
00:13:44,880 --> 00:13:45,920
I guess she is.

415
00:13:45,920 --> 00:13:47,960
But to me, she doesn't compare to Whitney.

416
00:13:47,960 --> 00:13:49,840
Yeah, I was actually thinking of bringing up

417
00:13:49,840 --> 00:13:53,840
Beyonce and one of my unpopular because I'm not a huge Beyonce fan.

418
00:13:53,840 --> 00:13:54,480
I know.

419
00:13:54,480 --> 00:13:58,280
I liked her years ago, but recently, like her newer music,

420
00:13:58,280 --> 00:13:58,880
I just.

421
00:13:58,880 --> 00:14:03,040
Yeah, but you're talking about the music and what she puts out

422
00:14:03,040 --> 00:14:04,240
specifically by music.

423
00:14:04,240 --> 00:14:05,720
Doesn't she have like a clothing brand?

424
00:14:05,720 --> 00:14:06,320
She does.

425
00:14:06,320 --> 00:14:07,920
So she does a whole bunch of other stuff.

426
00:14:07,920 --> 00:14:09,360
And that's like, Rihanna.

427
00:14:09,360 --> 00:14:10,800
Rihanna's a billionaire.

428
00:14:10,800 --> 00:14:13,520
She's worth like five or $7 billion.

429
00:14:13,520 --> 00:14:15,760
But I would not consider her a diva.

430
00:14:15,760 --> 00:14:20,440
Like there used to be in the early 2000s divas in concert.

431
00:14:20,440 --> 00:14:23,760
And it was Celine, Mariah, Whitney.

432
00:14:23,760 --> 00:14:27,000
You're talking about people that only do one thing.

433
00:14:27,000 --> 00:14:28,000
One thing.

434
00:14:28,000 --> 00:14:30,840
They're the best singers in the land.

435
00:14:30,840 --> 00:14:31,400
One thing.

436
00:14:31,400 --> 00:14:33,560
So Beyonce does a lot of things.

437
00:14:33,560 --> 00:14:36,200
So no, I don't mean empire.

438
00:14:36,200 --> 00:14:38,080
I would consider Beyonce an empire.

439
00:14:38,080 --> 00:14:40,640
I would consider Rihanna an empire.

440
00:14:40,640 --> 00:14:50,080
I would consider Taylor Swift, she is legendary because of the things

441
00:14:50,080 --> 00:14:51,120
that she's done.

442
00:14:51,120 --> 00:14:53,520
But I would not call Taylor Swift a diva.

443
00:14:53,520 --> 00:14:54,200
No.

444
00:14:54,200 --> 00:14:55,720
What about Jessie J?

445
00:14:55,720 --> 00:14:57,680
No, I don't think I'd call Jessie J a diva.

446
00:14:57,680 --> 00:15:01,320
She doesn't have the status of the popularity of the Whitney.

447
00:15:01,320 --> 00:15:02,920
Jessie J can sing.

448
00:15:02,920 --> 00:15:03,960
It's not about the talent.

449
00:15:03,960 --> 00:15:07,480
No, I think it's like the star power.

450
00:15:07,480 --> 00:15:09,000
Divas have the star power.

451
00:15:09,000 --> 00:15:10,000
Dolly Parton.

452
00:15:10,000 --> 00:15:11,560
Dolly Parton, I think is a diva.

453
00:15:11,560 --> 00:15:12,240
Got it.

454
00:15:12,240 --> 00:15:13,160
Got it.

455
00:15:13,160 --> 00:15:13,680
I agree.

456
00:15:13,680 --> 00:15:15,160
So now go to the second one.

457
00:15:15,160 --> 00:15:17,520
I'd Taylor Swift is not for me.

458
00:15:17,520 --> 00:15:22,200
But is it her as a brand, her as a person, her as a singer?

459
00:15:22,200 --> 00:15:24,880
I think her style of music is just not for me.

460
00:15:24,880 --> 00:15:28,080
Her, I can go through all of her albums and I can only pick out three

461
00:15:28,080 --> 00:15:29,600
that I can dance to.

462
00:15:29,600 --> 00:15:34,600
And for me, she's just not like, what does Austin Powers say?

463
00:15:34,600 --> 00:15:36,400
She's not my bag, baby.

464
00:15:36,400 --> 00:15:38,400
Please don't do that ever again.

465
00:15:41,400 --> 00:15:42,400
That's fair.

466
00:15:42,400 --> 00:15:43,400
That's cancel me for that.

467
00:15:43,400 --> 00:15:45,400
But please.

468
00:15:45,400 --> 00:15:46,400
Victoria Cannon.

469
00:15:46,400 --> 00:15:48,400
I'm mortified.

470
00:15:48,400 --> 00:15:49,400
I don't know.

471
00:15:49,400 --> 00:15:51,400
Is Taylor Swift for you?

472
00:15:51,400 --> 00:15:53,400
Her music is not for me.

473
00:15:53,400 --> 00:15:56,400
The fact that she has now redone every single one of her albums so

474
00:15:56,400 --> 00:16:00,400
that she and the people that have actually worked to put the album

475
00:16:00,400 --> 00:16:03,400
out gets the money versus the big corporation.

476
00:16:03,400 --> 00:16:07,400
Music industry is she does a lot of good in the world.

477
00:16:07,400 --> 00:16:10,400
She puts out her political preference, whether I care about her

478
00:16:10,400 --> 00:16:13,400
political preference, but she believes what she believes and she's

479
00:16:13,400 --> 00:16:16,400
not conforming to the music industry.

480
00:16:16,400 --> 00:16:17,400
You like her as a person.

481
00:16:17,400 --> 00:16:21,400
I think her is what she's putting out is as authentic as she a

482
00:16:21,400 --> 00:16:24,400
celebrity could possibly be.

483
00:16:24,400 --> 00:16:26,400
And I think that's rare.

484
00:16:26,400 --> 00:16:30,400
I think she might be the only one that is actually what we get is

485
00:16:30,400 --> 00:16:33,400
who she is.

486
00:16:33,400 --> 00:16:34,400
Right.

487
00:16:34,400 --> 00:16:37,400
So I for that fact is to me more legendary than her singing

488
00:16:37,400 --> 00:16:39,400
ability, obviously.

489
00:16:39,400 --> 00:16:42,400
I don't particularly every song kind of sounds the same to me.

490
00:16:42,400 --> 00:16:45,400
And I think that's part of our generation.

491
00:16:45,400 --> 00:16:46,400
She's a storyteller.

492
00:16:46,400 --> 00:16:47,400
She's a great songwriter.

493
00:16:47,400 --> 00:16:48,400
Yeah.

494
00:16:48,400 --> 00:16:50,400
So I think there's so much good.

495
00:16:50,400 --> 00:16:53,400
She's not someone I'm going to put on the radio on my off time.

496
00:16:53,400 --> 00:16:54,400
No, right.

497
00:16:54,400 --> 00:16:57,400
But I don't know if that would fall under like Taylor's not for me.

498
00:16:57,400 --> 00:17:00,400
I think I love the little girls can look up to somebody like Taylor

499
00:17:00,400 --> 00:17:01,400
Swift.

500
00:17:01,400 --> 00:17:04,400
Yeah, I really wish Melody did because I think she's a good role

501
00:17:04,400 --> 00:17:05,400
model.

502
00:17:05,400 --> 00:17:06,400
You don't play it at home, though.

503
00:17:06,400 --> 00:17:07,400
I don't.

504
00:17:07,400 --> 00:17:08,400
I don't play it at home.

505
00:17:08,400 --> 00:17:12,400
I think she's a great role model and way better than Brittany was

506
00:17:12,400 --> 00:17:13,400
for us.

507
00:17:13,400 --> 00:17:14,400
Oh my God.

508
00:17:14,400 --> 00:17:15,400
And Madonna.

509
00:17:15,400 --> 00:17:16,400
Yeah.

510
00:17:16,400 --> 00:17:17,400
But I think.

511
00:17:17,400 --> 00:17:19,400
But she Brittany was a diva.

512
00:17:19,400 --> 00:17:22,400
But yeah, but Brittany, yeah, Brittany's got a different star

513
00:17:22,400 --> 00:17:24,400
power, though, than Whitney and Mariah.

514
00:17:24,400 --> 00:17:26,400
And because Brittany is not really a singer, Brittany is a performer.

515
00:17:26,400 --> 00:17:27,400
Right.

516
00:17:27,400 --> 00:17:30,400
But she has she's a star, but she was the best performer.

517
00:17:30,400 --> 00:17:31,400
Right.

518
00:17:31,400 --> 00:17:35,400
So I wish Melody for the role model purposes like Taylor Swift,

519
00:17:35,400 --> 00:17:37,400
but I'm not.

520
00:17:37,400 --> 00:17:39,400
I'm OK that she's into Imagine Dragons.

521
00:17:39,400 --> 00:17:40,400
Yeah, right.

522
00:17:40,400 --> 00:17:41,400
Right.

523
00:17:41,400 --> 00:17:44,400
You know, I think, you know, I've always thought she's had some

524
00:17:44,400 --> 00:17:47,400
good music over the years, but I think in the past few years,

525
00:17:47,400 --> 00:17:50,400
I've respected her more like my respect for her has grown in

526
00:17:50,400 --> 00:17:53,400
just what she's been able to accomplish, what she's been

527
00:17:53,400 --> 00:17:54,400
able to do.

528
00:17:54,400 --> 00:17:58,400
I love loves listening to her and I like that aspect of it,

529
00:17:58,400 --> 00:18:01,400
that there's someone who's more wholesome that they can, you know,

530
00:18:01,400 --> 00:18:02,400
look up to.

531
00:18:02,400 --> 00:18:05,400
So I definitely I think she's great.

532
00:18:05,400 --> 00:18:08,400
Yeah, I really respect her.

533
00:18:08,400 --> 00:18:11,400
Do you think that we'll lose people because I said that?

534
00:18:11,400 --> 00:18:13,400
I think a lot of people already turned it off.

535
00:18:13,400 --> 00:18:18,400
OK, next one.

536
00:18:18,400 --> 00:18:21,400
I would bring masks back in general.

537
00:18:21,400 --> 00:18:22,400
Unpopular.

538
00:18:22,400 --> 00:18:24,400
Unpopular opinion.

539
00:18:24,400 --> 00:18:25,400
I know.

540
00:18:25,400 --> 00:18:26,400
Tell us why.

541
00:18:26,400 --> 00:18:30,400
Well, so before the pandemic, before 2020, if you lived in New

542
00:18:30,400 --> 00:18:32,400
York City.

543
00:18:32,400 --> 00:18:35,400
And this is this is just a fact.

544
00:18:35,400 --> 00:18:39,400
Every Asian person or part of the community was already wearing

545
00:18:39,400 --> 00:18:41,400
masks in New York City.

546
00:18:41,400 --> 00:18:42,400
I cannot speak for Tokyo.

547
00:18:42,400 --> 00:18:44,400
I can't speak for those countries because I've never traveled

548
00:18:44,400 --> 00:18:47,400
there, but New York City where it's the biggest conglomeration

549
00:18:47,400 --> 00:18:50,400
of lots of different cultures.

550
00:18:50,400 --> 00:18:52,400
I at the time didn't understand it.

551
00:18:52,400 --> 00:18:54,400
And I was like, oh, they're really sick.

552
00:18:54,400 --> 00:18:55,400
Why are you out in public?

553
00:18:55,400 --> 00:18:58,400
I made it in my head thinking they were the ill.

554
00:18:58,400 --> 00:18:59,400
Right.

555
00:18:59,400 --> 00:19:01,400
It was a prevention.

556
00:19:01,400 --> 00:19:04,400
And that's how they now I think a piece of that, though, for them.

557
00:19:04,400 --> 00:19:09,400
Isn't Tokyo the worst air pollution or something from all the cars?

558
00:19:09,400 --> 00:19:10,400
It was until covid.

559
00:19:10,400 --> 00:19:11,400
Oh, until covid.

560
00:19:11,400 --> 00:19:14,400
There was like a picture of the sky before covid.

561
00:19:14,400 --> 00:19:18,400
And then when the streets were like abandoned for a while.

562
00:19:18,400 --> 00:19:22,400
And the actual sky you could see.

563
00:19:22,400 --> 00:19:23,400
Yeah, it's a crazy picture.

564
00:19:23,400 --> 00:19:24,400
You should look it up.

565
00:19:24,400 --> 00:19:27,400
So I think it's that I think a part of that is because of the air

566
00:19:27,400 --> 00:19:28,400
pollution, too.

567
00:19:28,400 --> 00:19:29,400
And maybe it's mixed.

568
00:19:29,400 --> 00:19:34,400
I don't have any steps about the medical versus whatever reason

569
00:19:34,400 --> 00:19:37,400
that they were masked before the pandemic happened.

570
00:19:37,400 --> 00:19:40,400
But then we started having to wear masks.

571
00:19:40,400 --> 00:19:42,400
So I feel like.

572
00:19:42,400 --> 00:19:46,400
Not necessarily going to the grocery store or going to write

573
00:19:46,400 --> 00:19:48,400
aid or whatever.

574
00:19:48,400 --> 00:19:52,400
But if we're all gathering in a large concert type situation or

575
00:19:52,400 --> 00:19:55,400
the NFL, like think of the amount of people.

576
00:19:55,400 --> 00:19:57,400
This is very Victoria.

577
00:19:57,400 --> 00:19:59,400
In a good way.

578
00:19:59,400 --> 00:20:03,400
I just feel I just feel like it makes a lot of sense to just

579
00:20:03,400 --> 00:20:06,400
protect everyone in those settings.

580
00:20:06,400 --> 00:20:10,400
If you're going to a restaurant and you're taking it off anyway,

581
00:20:10,400 --> 00:20:12,400
I thought that was always silly.

582
00:20:12,400 --> 00:20:15,400
There's no point when you have to take it off as soon as you sit

583
00:20:15,400 --> 00:20:16,400
down at the table.

584
00:20:16,400 --> 00:20:17,400
But like.

585
00:20:17,400 --> 00:20:18,400
But waiting for the host to talk to you.

586
00:20:18,400 --> 00:20:19,400
You have to keep that mask on.

587
00:20:19,400 --> 00:20:20,400
Yeah, yeah, yeah.

588
00:20:20,400 --> 00:20:22,400
Like that makes absolutely no sense.

589
00:20:22,400 --> 00:20:23,400
I don't know.

590
00:20:23,400 --> 00:20:26,400
I going just watching the Super Bowl and being like, oh my God,

591
00:20:26,400 --> 00:20:27,400
look at all of those people together.

592
00:20:27,400 --> 00:20:31,400
I'm going to piggyback off this and say I wouldn't mind it if

593
00:20:31,400 --> 00:20:32,400
you are sick.

594
00:20:32,400 --> 00:20:36,400
If you're sick and have to wear a mask to be around other people,

595
00:20:36,400 --> 00:20:39,400
but you still want to go, but you're like, I have a cough.

596
00:20:39,400 --> 00:20:40,400
I have a runny nose.

597
00:20:40,400 --> 00:20:41,400
I would understand.

598
00:20:41,400 --> 00:20:42,400
All right.

599
00:20:42,400 --> 00:20:43,400
I'll give you that.

600
00:20:43,400 --> 00:20:47,400
And then you can't even look at it without a mask.

601
00:20:47,400 --> 00:20:49,400
You just have to be wearing a mask.

602
00:20:49,400 --> 00:20:51,400
I mean, just be with the people.

603
00:20:51,400 --> 00:20:54,400
I mean, if you're a voluntary person, persons.

604
00:20:54,400 --> 00:20:56,400
I, there's no way to regulate that because people don't care about

605
00:20:56,400 --> 00:20:57,400
other people.

606
00:20:57,400 --> 00:20:59,400
So for me, it's like either do it or don't do it.

607
00:20:59,400 --> 00:21:02,400
But yes, it would basically just be the people that could be

608
00:21:02,400 --> 00:21:05,400
possibly aware of anyone else in the world, put a mask on.

609
00:21:05,400 --> 00:21:06,400
Yeah.

610
00:21:06,400 --> 00:21:07,400
I don't know.

611
00:21:07,400 --> 00:21:08,400
I don't know.

612
00:21:08,400 --> 00:21:09,400
Justin, Dr. Justin paging Dr. Justin.

613
00:21:09,400 --> 00:21:12,740
Because if you look at hospitals like infection rates

614
00:21:12,740 --> 00:21:16,820
with viral illnesses, that patients picked up

615
00:21:16,820 --> 00:21:18,520
once they were admitted to the hospital,

616
00:21:18,520 --> 00:21:21,740
drastically dropped when you stopped having visitors

617
00:21:21,740 --> 00:21:23,340
and everyone had to wear a mask.

618
00:21:23,340 --> 00:21:28,340
There was no hospital acquired infection, viral infection,

619
00:21:29,260 --> 00:21:31,580
because there were no viruses being spread

620
00:21:31,580 --> 00:21:32,420
because of the mask.

621
00:21:32,420 --> 00:21:34,980
So it's great in theory and yeah, I love it.

622
00:21:34,980 --> 00:21:37,940
But like you said, people will never do it.

623
00:21:37,940 --> 00:21:40,180
I think it was because we were forced.

624
00:21:40,180 --> 00:21:41,540
Yeah.

625
00:21:41,540 --> 00:21:44,380
The whole like forbidden fruit thing of it.

626
00:21:44,380 --> 00:21:46,100
Like if it was something that was a suggestion of,

627
00:21:46,100 --> 00:21:47,820
hey, this would actually help you

628
00:21:47,820 --> 00:21:50,580
or the people around you or the kids in your family

629
00:21:50,580 --> 00:21:52,900
or your elderly, if you did this

630
00:21:52,900 --> 00:21:54,660
and this was like a thing that we normally do.

631
00:21:54,660 --> 00:21:58,500
Like basically any of the Iceland, Norwegian,

632
00:21:58,500 --> 00:22:00,260
Swedish countries that like think

633
00:22:00,260 --> 00:22:02,300
of other people in their lives.

634
00:22:02,300 --> 00:22:05,580
Then I think it wouldn't be so like political.

635
00:22:05,580 --> 00:22:07,660
But people just don't like being told what to do.

636
00:22:07,660 --> 00:22:09,220
Yeah.

637
00:22:09,220 --> 00:22:10,340
Justin, it's your turn.

638
00:22:10,340 --> 00:22:11,180
Go.

639
00:22:11,180 --> 00:22:12,020
Okay.

640
00:22:13,100 --> 00:22:14,940
Do you watch Gilmore Girls?

641
00:22:14,940 --> 00:22:15,780
Yes.

642
00:22:15,780 --> 00:22:16,980
Okay.

643
00:22:16,980 --> 00:22:17,820
Oh, shoot.

644
00:22:17,820 --> 00:22:18,660
I know.

645
00:22:18,660 --> 00:22:19,940
We're gonna have to ask you to leave.

646
00:22:19,940 --> 00:22:22,620
Lorelai Rory are bad people.

647
00:22:22,620 --> 00:22:23,460
Oh!

648
00:22:23,460 --> 00:22:25,540
They are bad people.

649
00:22:25,540 --> 00:22:28,460
So Abby watches, I guess this is a thing.

650
00:22:28,460 --> 00:22:31,580
Every fall you rewatch all the Gilmore Girls.

651
00:22:31,580 --> 00:22:34,220
Because they live where they, and stars hollow

652
00:22:34,220 --> 00:22:35,620
and it's like a fall thing.

653
00:22:35,620 --> 00:22:36,460
Yeah.

654
00:22:36,460 --> 00:22:37,300
Yeah.

655
00:22:37,300 --> 00:22:38,740
They're not good people.

656
00:22:38,740 --> 00:22:39,580
Okay, tell me why.

657
00:22:39,580 --> 00:22:40,420
Yeah.

658
00:22:40,420 --> 00:22:43,260
Because so there was like one episode or something

659
00:22:43,260 --> 00:22:45,380
where Lorelai freaks out on people

660
00:22:45,380 --> 00:22:47,220
because Rory got in a car accident.

661
00:22:47,220 --> 00:22:49,660
It wasn't that person's fault,

662
00:22:49,660 --> 00:22:52,980
but she's just berating them like a kid for no reason

663
00:22:52,980 --> 00:22:55,060
because of this car accident.

664
00:22:55,060 --> 00:22:56,180
It was Jess.

665
00:22:56,180 --> 00:22:57,500
Sure.

666
00:22:57,500 --> 00:23:01,820
Then how many people did Rory sleep with

667
00:23:01,820 --> 00:23:03,940
that were in relationships?

668
00:23:03,940 --> 00:23:05,540
Because it's definitely.

669
00:23:05,540 --> 00:23:08,060
Listen, listen.

670
00:23:08,060 --> 00:23:09,220
I'm just saying.

671
00:23:09,220 --> 00:23:10,460
And I'm asking you to listen.

672
00:23:10,460 --> 00:23:11,580
Okay.

673
00:23:11,580 --> 00:23:12,900
I don't have anything to say.

674
00:23:12,900 --> 00:23:13,740
Okay.

675
00:23:13,740 --> 00:23:16,060
But just like, okay, okay.

676
00:23:16,060 --> 00:23:17,260
Fact.

677
00:23:17,260 --> 00:23:20,420
And I think Lorelai will go and cut anyone out

678
00:23:20,420 --> 00:23:22,740
at the knees for her daughter, whether it's right or wrong.

679
00:23:22,740 --> 00:23:25,660
And that I am all about sticking up for your kids.

680
00:23:25,660 --> 00:23:27,180
But you can't blindly do that

681
00:23:27,180 --> 00:23:29,420
because then you're teaching your kids that like,

682
00:23:29,420 --> 00:23:31,140
it's okay to not be a nice person

683
00:23:31,140 --> 00:23:33,340
because you have the wrong perception.

684
00:23:33,340 --> 00:23:35,580
I don't know how to react.

685
00:23:36,580 --> 00:23:37,940
Well, I'll let's hear.

686
00:23:37,940 --> 00:23:41,540
This is how you constructively have a conversation

687
00:23:41,540 --> 00:23:42,940
with disagreements.

688
00:23:42,940 --> 00:23:43,780
Okay.

689
00:23:43,780 --> 00:23:46,900
So I can see that because I think there's a lot

690
00:23:46,900 --> 00:23:49,940
of reactionary pieces to this story

691
00:23:49,940 --> 00:23:51,540
when it comes to those characters,

692
00:23:51,540 --> 00:23:55,740
but it's based off of Lorelai's mother,

693
00:23:55,740 --> 00:23:57,980
who is a horrible person.

694
00:23:57,980 --> 00:23:58,980
Yeah.

695
00:23:58,980 --> 00:24:01,980
However, she's of that generation.

696
00:24:01,980 --> 00:24:03,580
And of that demographic.

697
00:24:03,580 --> 00:24:05,380
So then it's hard to be like,

698
00:24:06,380 --> 00:24:07,980
everybody like that is a horrible person.

699
00:24:07,980 --> 00:24:08,820
Right.

700
00:24:08,820 --> 00:24:12,380
So she is, I think their bond is what makes them great.

701
00:24:12,380 --> 00:24:14,820
But if you take away some of maybe those moments,

702
00:24:14,820 --> 00:24:17,580
then it could be like, well, that's kind of weird.

703
00:24:17,580 --> 00:24:18,420
Yeah.

704
00:24:18,420 --> 00:24:20,740
And that, I don't watch all the episodes.

705
00:24:20,740 --> 00:24:22,580
I'm not invested in this obviously.

706
00:24:22,580 --> 00:24:23,820
So I'm just seeing these snippets.

707
00:24:23,820 --> 00:24:24,660
Fits and pieces.

708
00:24:24,660 --> 00:24:25,500
Yeah.

709
00:24:25,500 --> 00:24:26,340
Okay.

710
00:24:26,340 --> 00:24:27,180
It's an unpopular opinion.

711
00:24:27,180 --> 00:24:28,020
Yes.

712
00:24:28,020 --> 00:24:30,460
But if you watched with the through thread,

713
00:24:30,460 --> 00:24:32,660
I'd be interested to see if that were different for you.

714
00:24:32,660 --> 00:24:33,500
Like if you watched it.

715
00:24:33,500 --> 00:24:34,820
I probably won't do that, but.

716
00:24:34,820 --> 00:24:36,140
Well, that's a problem.

717
00:24:36,140 --> 00:24:37,260
Do you know what I'm going to say?

718
00:24:37,260 --> 00:24:39,420
To have an opinion that you don't really understand.

719
00:24:39,420 --> 00:24:40,260
But that's okay.

720
00:24:40,260 --> 00:24:41,580
We lost a lot of people for you.

721
00:24:41,580 --> 00:24:42,420
Yeah.

722
00:24:42,420 --> 00:24:43,260
Sorry.

723
00:24:43,260 --> 00:24:45,460
The little we had left from the Taylor Swift comment

724
00:24:45,460 --> 00:24:46,860
are now gone.

725
00:24:46,860 --> 00:24:49,260
Because it's the 30 year olds.

726
00:24:49,260 --> 00:24:50,860
They got out.

727
00:24:50,860 --> 00:24:52,060
Who's left?

728
00:24:52,060 --> 00:24:53,060
40 and up.

729
00:24:53,060 --> 00:24:55,860
The 20 year olds are like, who's Lorelai?

730
00:24:55,860 --> 00:25:00,660
All right.

731
00:25:00,660 --> 00:25:02,260
This is a very unpopular opinion,

732
00:25:02,260 --> 00:25:05,260
but when I stand by 100%.

733
00:25:05,260 --> 00:25:08,260
Telling somebody that you forgot to press send

734
00:25:08,260 --> 00:25:10,260
in a text message is a lie.

735
00:25:10,260 --> 00:25:12,060
You didn't forget to press send.

736
00:25:12,060 --> 00:25:13,460
You didn't respond.

737
00:25:13,460 --> 00:25:14,860
You ignored them.

738
00:25:14,860 --> 00:25:17,260
When somebody texts you back and says,

739
00:25:17,260 --> 00:25:19,060
oh my God, I mentally responded.

740
00:25:19,060 --> 00:25:21,060
I totally forgot.

741
00:25:21,060 --> 00:25:22,860
I thought I pressed send.

742
00:25:22,860 --> 00:25:23,860
You're lying.

743
00:25:23,860 --> 00:25:24,860
You're lying.

744
00:25:24,860 --> 00:25:25,860
You're lying.

745
00:25:25,860 --> 00:25:26,860
I do that all.

746
00:25:26,860 --> 00:25:27,860
I know you do.

747
00:25:27,860 --> 00:25:28,860
And I do it too.

748
00:25:28,860 --> 00:25:29,860
It's horrible.

749
00:25:29,860 --> 00:25:31,860
No, I do it where the text is still in there

750
00:25:31,860 --> 00:25:32,860
and I didn't press send.

751
00:25:32,860 --> 00:25:33,860
I've never done that.

752
00:25:33,860 --> 00:25:35,860
I have done that a couple of times.

753
00:25:35,860 --> 00:25:36,860
I do that all the time.

754
00:25:36,860 --> 00:25:39,860
But more often than not, I'm like, oh, I swear I responded.

755
00:25:39,860 --> 00:25:40,860
I mentally responded.

756
00:25:40,860 --> 00:25:41,860
I swear.

757
00:25:41,860 --> 00:25:42,860
Yeah, I'm horrible at it.

758
00:25:42,860 --> 00:25:43,860
I've never said it to you.

759
00:25:43,860 --> 00:25:44,860
I just don't respond to you.

760
00:25:44,860 --> 00:25:45,860
There's a difference.

761
00:25:45,860 --> 00:25:46,860
Yeah, you don't respond to me.

762
00:25:46,860 --> 00:25:47,860
That's true.

763
00:25:47,860 --> 00:25:48,860
The two of you.

764
00:25:48,860 --> 00:25:49,860
Like I'll be in our group text.

765
00:25:49,860 --> 00:25:50,860
It's just cricket.

766
00:25:50,860 --> 00:25:51,860
So I'm like, cool.

767
00:25:51,860 --> 00:25:52,860
I don't do group text.

768
00:25:52,860 --> 00:25:56,860
I'll circle back next week and maybe I'll get an answer then.

769
00:25:56,860 --> 00:26:00,860
But I firmly believe that when somebody says, oh, I mentally responded

770
00:26:00,860 --> 00:26:02,860
or I forgot, I thought I pressed send.

771
00:26:02,860 --> 00:26:03,860
They did not.

772
00:26:03,860 --> 00:26:04,860
Yeah.

773
00:26:04,860 --> 00:26:06,860
But I don't think that's fair to be like, you just ignored it

774
00:26:06,860 --> 00:26:07,860
and didn't want to text it.

775
00:26:07,860 --> 00:26:09,860
I feel like what if you're opening it while you're in the middle of

776
00:26:09,860 --> 00:26:11,860
something going, oh, I'll get back to that.

777
00:26:11,860 --> 00:26:14,860
And I didn't get back to it because I completely forgot

778
00:26:14,860 --> 00:26:16,860
considering I was in the middle of a meeting

779
00:26:16,860 --> 00:26:18,860
or I was taking care of my children.

780
00:26:18,860 --> 00:26:19,860
That's me 90% of the time.

781
00:26:19,860 --> 00:26:23,860
So I don't necessarily think it's of like, I'm completely

782
00:26:23,860 --> 00:26:25,860
dismissing your text and who you are.

783
00:26:25,860 --> 00:26:28,860
I think that's a deliberate ignorance.

784
00:26:28,860 --> 00:26:30,860
That's a deliberate ghosting.

785
00:26:30,860 --> 00:26:33,860
You can't say that every single person that's ever done that is

786
00:26:33,860 --> 00:26:35,860
deliberately ghosting someone.

787
00:26:35,860 --> 00:26:37,860
It's my unpopular opinion.

788
00:26:37,860 --> 00:26:38,860
She's sticking to it.

789
00:26:38,860 --> 00:26:40,860
No, I don't think it's everybody.

790
00:26:40,860 --> 00:26:41,860
It doesn't.

791
00:26:41,860 --> 00:26:42,860
I don't think it's everybody.

792
00:26:42,860 --> 00:26:47,860
I just think in general, if somebody says I mentally responded,

793
00:26:47,860 --> 00:26:50,860
that means they just didn't text you back.

794
00:26:50,860 --> 00:26:52,860
In general, not everybody.

795
00:26:52,860 --> 00:26:54,860
It's a blanket statement.

796
00:26:54,860 --> 00:26:57,860
It is a blanket opinion.

797
00:26:57,860 --> 00:26:59,860
Blanket.

798
00:26:59,860 --> 00:27:07,860
I can't wait to tell you that I mentally responded to your last text.

799
00:27:07,860 --> 00:27:09,860
And you'll know exactly what I mean.

800
00:27:09,860 --> 00:27:11,860
But you won't even do that.

801
00:27:11,860 --> 00:27:12,860
So it doesn't matter.

802
00:27:12,860 --> 00:27:15,860
You're just going to go, okay, I don't care about this.

803
00:27:15,860 --> 00:27:17,860
And I'm not going to answer you.

804
00:27:17,860 --> 00:27:20,860
And then when I see you in person, you're going to go, oh, I missed it.

805
00:27:20,860 --> 00:27:24,860
So what she does is what she does just so that you know if you have more than one thing

806
00:27:24,860 --> 00:27:30,860
to text her or ask her or show her one thing at a time, even if there are three or more,

807
00:27:30,860 --> 00:27:35,860
send one wait for that response, then send the next one.

808
00:27:35,860 --> 00:27:36,860
Wait for that.

809
00:27:36,860 --> 00:27:37,860
She's choking on coffee.

810
00:27:37,860 --> 00:27:38,860
I hope you do choke.

811
00:27:38,860 --> 00:27:44,860
I hope you choke very badly because what she's know if you do not know.

812
00:27:44,860 --> 00:27:45,860
No, no, no, no, no, no.

813
00:27:45,860 --> 00:27:46,860
I'm dying.

814
00:27:46,860 --> 00:27:47,860
It's lazy.

815
00:27:47,860 --> 00:27:48,860
It's laziness.

816
00:27:48,860 --> 00:27:50,860
Whatever you text, right?

817
00:27:50,860 --> 00:27:52,860
There's a couple of things.

818
00:27:52,860 --> 00:27:56,860
So what you, when you open the text, the last thing you text is the first thing to be seen

819
00:27:56,860 --> 00:27:59,860
and you just scroll up a little, she won't scroll up a little.

820
00:27:59,860 --> 00:28:01,860
She won't only look at the very last thing.

821
00:28:01,860 --> 00:28:05,860
So then when you go, hey, you didn't respond to the first three things that I said that

822
00:28:05,860 --> 00:28:06,860
I really need you to answer.

823
00:28:06,860 --> 00:28:07,860
And she goes, oh, I didn't get it.

824
00:28:07,860 --> 00:28:08,860
I didn't say it.

825
00:28:08,860 --> 00:28:09,860
You've done that to me before.

826
00:28:09,860 --> 00:28:10,860
And you're like, I didn't know that.

827
00:28:10,860 --> 00:28:12,860
Like I texted you it.

828
00:28:12,860 --> 00:28:14,860
Okay, unpopular opinion.

829
00:28:14,860 --> 00:28:21,860
I think how, how can you already huff and puff and I already know I don't agree.

830
00:28:21,860 --> 00:28:23,860
That was a huge eye roll.

831
00:28:23,860 --> 00:28:27,860
Look away.

832
00:28:27,860 --> 00:28:31,860
I think all of you are going to hate this.

833
00:28:31,860 --> 00:28:33,860
I'm smart.

834
00:28:33,860 --> 00:28:37,860
That's victorious.

835
00:28:37,860 --> 00:28:43,860
I'm popular opinion.

836
00:28:43,860 --> 00:28:45,860
I think this is anything to do with smart.

837
00:28:45,860 --> 00:28:46,860
Okay.

838
00:28:46,860 --> 00:28:54,860
I think any show on television or wherever you watch shows anymore about weddings should

839
00:28:54,860 --> 00:29:00,860
be canceled.

840
00:29:00,860 --> 00:29:02,860
Carly, pick up your jaw off the floor.

841
00:29:02,860 --> 00:29:03,860
Why?

842
00:29:03,860 --> 00:29:04,860
Why?

843
00:29:04,860 --> 00:29:05,860
What?

844
00:29:05,860 --> 00:29:06,860
Why?

845
00:29:06,860 --> 00:29:11,860
Because weddings are very personal and individual.

846
00:29:11,860 --> 00:29:17,860
So it's feeding into the comparison aspect of having the best party.

847
00:29:17,860 --> 00:29:22,860
It's just a party compared to someone else's love story.

848
00:29:22,860 --> 00:29:27,860
It's comparing and putting a price tag on love and relationships.

849
00:29:27,860 --> 00:29:32,860
So like that, there was a show where like there's four people that they all have a

850
00:29:32,860 --> 00:29:33,860
wedding.

851
00:29:33,860 --> 00:29:34,860
Oh, I used to watch it.

852
00:29:34,860 --> 00:29:37,860
And they used to go to each other's weddings and then they got judge.

853
00:29:37,860 --> 00:29:38,860
They had to score each other's weddings.

854
00:29:38,860 --> 00:29:40,860
Like how horrible they got that.

855
00:29:40,860 --> 00:29:41,860
That's horrible.

856
00:29:41,860 --> 00:29:44,860
Only horrible if you lose and you don't have the best wedding.

857
00:29:44,860 --> 00:29:50,860
How are you married?

858
00:29:50,860 --> 00:29:52,860
I don't agree with them.

859
00:29:52,860 --> 00:29:57,860
And like picking out, I think maybe picking out a bride's wedding dress, whatever the

860
00:29:57,860 --> 00:29:58,860
show that is.

861
00:29:58,860 --> 00:30:01,860
Say yes to the dress at Lano or say yes to the dress in New York or say yes to the

862
00:30:01,860 --> 00:30:03,860
dress in Miami or say yes to the dress in the UK.

863
00:30:03,860 --> 00:30:04,860
We got it.

864
00:30:04,860 --> 00:30:05,860
We got it.

865
00:30:05,860 --> 00:30:06,860
Yeah.

866
00:30:06,860 --> 00:30:11,860
I think picking out a dress and having people around you saying yes or no, like that's

867
00:30:11,860 --> 00:30:14,860
harmless because that is individualized, I guess.

868
00:30:14,860 --> 00:30:18,860
But when it comes to like things, maybe not even television.

869
00:30:18,860 --> 00:30:21,860
Now that I'm talking out loud, Pinterest.

870
00:30:21,860 --> 00:30:23,860
Pinterest was after your wedding.

871
00:30:23,860 --> 00:30:25,860
No, I used Pinterest for my wedding.

872
00:30:25,860 --> 00:30:27,860
That's I didn't use it.

873
00:30:27,860 --> 00:30:29,860
But I like it was like a storyboard.

874
00:30:29,860 --> 00:30:30,860
It wasn't.

875
00:30:30,860 --> 00:30:32,860
No, the place to be.

876
00:30:32,860 --> 00:30:38,860
No, that was more for my house when I started doing DIY for my house and stuff, which was

877
00:30:38,860 --> 00:30:39,860
you lived in New York.

878
00:30:39,860 --> 00:30:40,860
Yeah.

879
00:30:40,860 --> 00:30:42,860
So that was a couple of years after after your wedding.

880
00:30:42,860 --> 00:30:45,860
And you would you remember you said, I wish I had Pinterest for my wedding.

881
00:30:45,860 --> 00:30:51,860
You started to degrade, which not really, but like people could start to diminish and

882
00:30:51,860 --> 00:30:55,860
degrade all of the like hard work and love and preference that they put into their wedding

883
00:30:55,860 --> 00:30:57,860
because they saw somebody else's wedding.

884
00:30:57,860 --> 00:31:02,860
But it just changes the narrative and the story of like it should be simpler.

885
00:31:02,860 --> 00:31:04,860
I just think it should be simpler.

886
00:31:04,860 --> 00:31:05,860
Yeah.

887
00:31:05,860 --> 00:31:07,860
I think weddings are too.

888
00:31:07,860 --> 00:31:08,860
Ditto.

889
00:31:08,860 --> 00:31:09,860
Inflamed.

890
00:31:09,860 --> 00:31:15,860
I mean, if you look at weddings today compared to weddings 30 years ago, they are definitely

891
00:31:15,860 --> 00:31:17,860
inflamed more than they were.

892
00:31:17,860 --> 00:31:21,860
Like our parents rolled kegs into firehouses and that was the wedding reception.

893
00:31:21,860 --> 00:31:22,860
And how fun.

894
00:31:22,860 --> 00:31:23,860
Yeah.

895
00:31:23,860 --> 00:31:27,860
And now it's it's just about money, so it's similar to the Christmas, I think, unpopular

896
00:31:27,860 --> 00:31:28,860
opinion.

897
00:31:28,860 --> 00:31:32,860
I just think when it comes to the television and putting it out there for young girls who

898
00:31:32,860 --> 00:31:36,860
aren't 38 years old to be watching these.

899
00:31:36,860 --> 00:31:37,860
Is that too old to be watching?

900
00:31:37,860 --> 00:31:38,860
Say yes.

901
00:31:38,860 --> 00:31:40,860
And feeling so strongly about it.

902
00:31:40,860 --> 00:31:41,860
Yes.

903
00:31:41,860 --> 00:31:44,860
I just watched I watch it on Friday nights.

904
00:31:44,860 --> 00:31:46,860
Watching being like crazy.

905
00:31:46,860 --> 00:31:50,860
I can't if this guy if this guy that I'm going to meet doesn't agree with all of the ins and

906
00:31:50,860 --> 00:31:54,860
outs of the Pinterest boards and all the things that I'm seeing on TV that better be at my

907
00:31:54,860 --> 00:31:56,860
wedding, he's not for me.

908
00:31:56,860 --> 00:32:00,860
I think it gives that gives that outlet or that pathway of possibly going down there.

909
00:32:00,860 --> 00:32:01,860
And I just I don't get it.

910
00:32:01,860 --> 00:32:02,860
I don't understand it.

911
00:32:02,860 --> 00:32:03,860
You're right.

912
00:32:03,860 --> 00:32:06,860
That is unpopular.

913
00:32:06,860 --> 00:32:07,860
Next.

914
00:32:07,860 --> 00:32:08,860
All right.

915
00:32:08,860 --> 00:32:11,860
My opinion.

916
00:32:11,860 --> 00:32:13,860
Coffee makes you weak.

917
00:32:13,860 --> 00:32:14,860
God.

918
00:32:14,860 --> 00:32:16,860
Oh, why?

919
00:32:16,860 --> 00:32:17,860
Oh.

920
00:32:17,860 --> 00:32:22,860
So caffeine in general is like one of the most.

921
00:32:22,860 --> 00:32:27,860
It's not an addictive substance because it doesn't work the same way as like cocaine and

922
00:32:27,860 --> 00:32:28,860
alcohol.

923
00:32:28,860 --> 00:32:30,860
But you have withdrawal if you don't have it.

924
00:32:30,860 --> 00:32:32,860
But you it you still have dependence with.

925
00:32:32,860 --> 00:32:33,860
Dependency.

926
00:32:33,860 --> 00:32:34,860
Yeah.

927
00:32:34,860 --> 00:32:38,860
I think like 8% of the population has a caffeine dependence.

928
00:32:38,860 --> 00:32:39,860
Yeah.

929
00:32:39,860 --> 00:32:40,860
Wow.

930
00:32:40,860 --> 00:32:43,860
And you can get a dependence just from drinking one cup of coffee a day.

931
00:32:43,860 --> 00:32:46,860
So what happens when you have four?

932
00:32:46,860 --> 00:32:48,860
You are looking at it.

933
00:32:48,860 --> 00:32:50,860
Do you want to know why you need four?

934
00:32:50,860 --> 00:32:51,860
Are you coming at me right now?

935
00:32:51,860 --> 00:32:52,860
No, no, no.

936
00:32:52,860 --> 00:32:53,860
This is the problem.

937
00:32:53,860 --> 00:32:55,860
This is the problem.

938
00:32:55,860 --> 00:32:57,860
From a biological standpoint.

939
00:32:57,860 --> 00:32:59,860
Tell me why you need four cups of coffee.

940
00:32:59,860 --> 00:33:00,860
Yeah.

941
00:33:00,860 --> 00:33:01,860
Tell me why.

942
00:33:01,860 --> 00:33:02,860
All right.

943
00:33:02,860 --> 00:33:04,860
So there's transmitters.

944
00:33:04,860 --> 00:33:06,860
Sorry, I'm getting doctor adjusted on you.

945
00:33:06,860 --> 00:33:12,860
There's transmitters in our body that create signals in our brains and do things.

946
00:33:12,860 --> 00:33:14,860
Think of it as like a key and a lock.

947
00:33:14,860 --> 00:33:17,860
Each transmitter fits in a certain lock.

948
00:33:17,860 --> 00:33:20,860
When it's unlocked, it does a certain thing.

949
00:33:20,860 --> 00:33:21,860
Okay.

950
00:33:21,860 --> 00:33:25,860
So we have what's called a dentin in our bodies.

951
00:33:25,860 --> 00:33:30,860
And when a dentin goes into its receptor, it makes us sleepy.

952
00:33:30,860 --> 00:33:33,860
And that's how we like at the end of the day, that's why you're more sleepy.

953
00:33:33,860 --> 00:33:34,860
You've used energy.

954
00:33:34,860 --> 00:33:39,860
You've created a dentin and you start getting sleepy because it goes in this receptors.

955
00:33:39,860 --> 00:33:43,860
What caffeine does is caffeine blocks that receptor.

956
00:33:43,860 --> 00:33:46,860
It looks like a key, but it's not a key and it fits in that lock.

957
00:33:46,860 --> 00:33:48,860
And so the adenosine can't get in there.

958
00:33:48,860 --> 00:33:51,860
So your brain doesn't know that you're sleepy.

959
00:33:51,860 --> 00:33:54,860
The caffeine blocks it from getting in there.

960
00:33:54,860 --> 00:33:55,860
Okay.

961
00:33:55,860 --> 00:33:58,860
Your body wants to be in homeostasis.

962
00:33:58,860 --> 00:34:04,860
So your body starts creating more receptors so that the adenosine has somewhere to go.

963
00:34:04,860 --> 00:34:05,860
To go.

964
00:34:05,860 --> 00:34:06,860
Yeah.

965
00:34:06,860 --> 00:34:10,860
So now when you don't have the caffeine to block those receptors, you now have twice as

966
00:34:10,860 --> 00:34:11,860
many receptors.

967
00:34:11,860 --> 00:34:17,860
So now your twice as tired because all of this adenosine is filling all of those receptors.

968
00:34:17,860 --> 00:34:19,860
You keep drinking coffee.

969
00:34:19,860 --> 00:34:21,860
You keep making more receptors.

970
00:34:21,860 --> 00:34:23,860
You keep being more tired.

971
00:34:23,860 --> 00:34:24,860
And so you need more coffee.

972
00:34:24,860 --> 00:34:25,860
It's a vicious cycle.

973
00:34:25,860 --> 00:34:27,860
It's like a hamster wheel.

974
00:34:27,860 --> 00:34:28,860
Hold on.

975
00:34:28,860 --> 00:34:29,860
Sorry.

976
00:34:29,860 --> 00:34:30,860
I'm drinking my coffee.

977
00:34:30,860 --> 00:34:31,860
Yep.

978
00:34:31,860 --> 00:34:32,860
What number of times today?

979
00:34:32,860 --> 00:34:33,860
Yep.

980
00:34:33,860 --> 00:34:34,860
For the third time today.

981
00:34:34,860 --> 00:34:37,860
So it makes you weak, meaning you're tired.

982
00:34:37,860 --> 00:34:39,860
Now he thinks you're a weak person.

983
00:34:39,860 --> 00:34:42,860
Look at him be smiling and laughing.

984
00:34:42,860 --> 00:34:45,860
Yes, because now you have a dependence on it.

985
00:34:45,860 --> 00:34:48,860
And if you don't drink that coffee, you are going to be tired.

986
00:34:48,860 --> 00:34:49,860
You're going to be irritable.

987
00:34:49,860 --> 00:34:50,860
You're going to go through withdrawal symptoms.

988
00:34:50,860 --> 00:34:51,860
What about tea?

989
00:34:51,860 --> 00:34:53,860
Could be the same thing.

990
00:34:53,860 --> 00:34:56,860
Some tea has more caffeine than coffee does.

991
00:34:56,860 --> 00:34:57,860
Yeah.

992
00:34:57,860 --> 00:34:58,860
Yeah, that's true.

993
00:34:58,860 --> 00:35:00,860
So when I texted you guys today and said, Hey, do you want me to pick you up some coffee

994
00:35:00,860 --> 00:35:02,860
or hot chocolate for the child?

995
00:35:02,860 --> 00:35:04,860
The child being you.

996
00:35:04,860 --> 00:35:05,860
Because I don't drink coffee.

997
00:35:05,860 --> 00:35:06,860
Because you don't drink coffee.

998
00:35:06,860 --> 00:35:08,860
I just raw dog life.

999
00:35:08,860 --> 00:35:15,860
A shock and unpopular opinion.

1000
00:35:15,860 --> 00:35:18,860
He can't breathe.

1001
00:35:18,860 --> 00:35:22,860
Not only did he get a nose job, but he can't breathe out of his mouth now either.

1002
00:35:22,860 --> 00:35:25,860
Yeah, I just drink water.

1003
00:35:25,860 --> 00:35:27,860
How do I come back from that?

1004
00:35:27,860 --> 00:35:30,860
Speaking of, what's not speaking up.

1005
00:35:30,860 --> 00:35:34,860
I am going to agree with you for the science portion.

1006
00:35:34,860 --> 00:35:35,860
Okay.

1007
00:35:35,860 --> 00:35:37,860
But I'm not going to listen.

1008
00:35:37,860 --> 00:35:39,860
That's called an addiction.

1009
00:35:39,860 --> 00:35:43,220
And called how all of her opinions have gone.

1010
00:35:43,220 --> 00:35:45,100
Remember when you were like,

1011
00:35:45,100 --> 00:35:47,020
I can adapt, you can easily tell me something

1012
00:35:47,020 --> 00:35:48,340
and I'll be like, oh, that's true.

1013
00:35:48,340 --> 00:35:50,620
That's not Bible, that's law.

1014
00:35:50,620 --> 00:35:53,140
You have learned and listened to nothing.

1015
00:35:53,140 --> 00:35:54,900
Unless I agree.

1016
00:35:54,900 --> 00:35:59,420
My last one, and this is a very unpopular opinion,

1017
00:35:59,420 --> 00:36:02,460
one to which I know Justin is gonna disagree with me

1018
00:36:02,460 --> 00:36:03,540
and I'm okay with it.

1019
00:36:03,540 --> 00:36:06,800
I don't like the kids going back to school

1020
00:36:06,800 --> 00:36:08,060
at the end of the summer.

1021
00:36:09,900 --> 00:36:11,060
I don't like it.

1022
00:36:11,060 --> 00:36:14,500
The commercial, when the parents have the shopping carts

1023
00:36:14,500 --> 00:36:16,460
and they're singing it's the most wonderful time of the year

1024
00:36:16,460 --> 00:36:19,580
with all of the stationery, I hate that commercial.

1025
00:36:19,580 --> 00:36:21,860
I don't think it's the most wonderful time of the year.

1026
00:36:21,860 --> 00:36:23,780
I wish the kids were home all the time.

1027
00:36:26,700 --> 00:36:27,980
I don't like that time of the year.

1028
00:36:27,980 --> 00:36:29,620
I like it the kids being home like yesterday,

1029
00:36:29,620 --> 00:36:31,220
this no day and I was so happy.

1030
00:36:31,220 --> 00:36:34,700
That I don't like the lunches and the drop offs

1031
00:36:34,700 --> 00:36:36,380
and the pickups like I wish.

1032
00:36:36,380 --> 00:36:39,820
I liked virtual home school.

1033
00:36:39,820 --> 00:36:41,580
I don't like it for socialization.

1034
00:36:41,580 --> 00:36:42,980
I don't think it's good for them.

1035
00:36:42,980 --> 00:36:45,340
I don't want them to be home for them.

1036
00:36:45,340 --> 00:36:47,300
I think they need to be with kids,

1037
00:36:47,300 --> 00:36:51,140
but I so much rather like doing our own thing

1038
00:36:51,140 --> 00:36:53,620
and having our own adventures and stuff like that.

1039
00:36:53,620 --> 00:36:54,700
No, give me.

1040
00:36:54,700 --> 00:36:56,260
What if you had three deans?

1041
00:36:56,260 --> 00:36:57,460
If you had three deans.

1042
00:36:59,220 --> 00:37:00,740
You may say differently.

1043
00:37:00,740 --> 00:37:02,900
However, deans going to kindergarten early.

1044
00:37:03,940 --> 00:37:05,700
Exactly.

1045
00:37:05,700 --> 00:37:07,460
Now here's a legitimate question.

1046
00:37:08,740 --> 00:37:11,860
Do you think this is your opinion?

1047
00:37:13,300 --> 00:37:17,060
Or do you think you heard mom say this our entire lives

1048
00:37:17,060 --> 00:37:19,100
and that's why you feel the same way?

1049
00:37:19,100 --> 00:37:21,900
I had a feeling you were gonna say that

1050
00:37:21,900 --> 00:37:24,940
because mom, our mom did say that all the time,

1051
00:37:24,940 --> 00:37:27,220
but I do know that every Friday

1052
00:37:27,220 --> 00:37:28,740
when we pick them up from school,

1053
00:37:28,740 --> 00:37:32,100
I'm like, finally and we like party in the car

1054
00:37:32,100 --> 00:37:34,020
because we're so excited it's the weekend.

1055
00:37:34,020 --> 00:37:36,780
So I do know that that is my own feeling.

1056
00:37:36,780 --> 00:37:38,580
But I knew you were gonna say that

1057
00:37:38,580 --> 00:37:40,220
because our mom did say,

1058
00:37:40,220 --> 00:37:42,740
but I probably has a lot of the similar opinions

1059
00:37:42,740 --> 00:37:44,780
as what she grew up with

1060
00:37:44,780 --> 00:37:46,780
because it's just the fact of how she grew up

1061
00:37:46,780 --> 00:37:47,940
and that's how it should be.

1062
00:37:47,940 --> 00:37:49,500
So sometimes it's interesting,

1063
00:37:49,500 --> 00:37:52,220
but I didn't have the summers that we had.

1064
00:37:52,220 --> 00:37:54,980
I wish our kids had the summer summers that we had

1065
00:37:54,980 --> 00:37:57,020
like in the Poconos and with all that stuff.

1066
00:37:57,020 --> 00:38:01,340
Yeah, but I do like going on adventures

1067
00:38:01,340 --> 00:38:02,540
and things with the kids.

1068
00:38:02,540 --> 00:38:03,900
Like I like traveling with the kids.

1069
00:38:03,900 --> 00:38:05,540
I like doing new things with the kids.

1070
00:38:05,540 --> 00:38:09,180
Now, what I don't realize is that that's not normal life.

1071
00:38:09,180 --> 00:38:12,940
And if that was an everyday thing, I don't know.

1072
00:38:12,940 --> 00:38:16,380
But in theory, I don't like when the kids go back to school.

1073
00:38:16,380 --> 00:38:19,900
I think it's, you also don't like how it gets sensationalized

1074
00:38:19,900 --> 00:38:22,900
of how happy parents, like that's what's marketed.

1075
00:38:22,900 --> 00:38:25,300
Yeah, the Kermudgeans like Justin.

1076
00:38:25,300 --> 00:38:26,940
Yep.

1077
00:38:26,940 --> 00:38:29,140
Justin tell me your feelings on that.

1078
00:38:29,140 --> 00:38:30,540
He also does like Christmas.

1079
00:38:30,540 --> 00:38:33,900
Just a regular scrooge.

1080
00:38:33,900 --> 00:38:35,740
That's it.

1081
00:38:35,740 --> 00:38:36,900
That's all you're going to say about it?

1082
00:38:36,900 --> 00:38:38,180
Yeah, I mean, I.

1083
00:38:38,180 --> 00:38:38,820
He disagrees.

1084
00:38:38,820 --> 00:38:39,220
That's all.

1085
00:38:39,220 --> 00:38:42,100
Yeah, I could see why you feel that way.

1086
00:38:42,100 --> 00:38:45,700
And I understand that I in my life don't feel that way.

1087
00:38:45,700 --> 00:38:47,140
I love my children.

1088
00:38:47,140 --> 00:38:48,540
I would die for my children.

1089
00:38:48,540 --> 00:38:50,900
I just don't want to kill my children.

1090
00:38:50,900 --> 00:38:52,660
And that's why they need to go to school.

1091
00:38:52,660 --> 00:38:58,380
Listen, I'm saying this and it hasn't actually happened.

1092
00:38:58,380 --> 00:39:00,460
My kids were not school age during covid.

1093
00:39:00,460 --> 00:39:05,100
So like I didn't have a third grader and a seventh grader

1094
00:39:05,100 --> 00:39:07,540
to be home all day, every day on their phones.

1095
00:39:07,540 --> 00:39:09,500
So I didn't have that.

1096
00:39:09,500 --> 00:39:11,300
So I don't really know what that's like,

1097
00:39:11,300 --> 00:39:14,660
but be more like me, Justin.

1098
00:39:14,660 --> 00:39:15,780
That's a nightmare I have.

1099
00:39:19,820 --> 00:39:23,100
All right, last one.

1100
00:39:23,100 --> 00:39:28,780
I don't know how to word the actual like individual phrase

1101
00:39:28,780 --> 00:39:31,980
of what my unpopular opinion is.

1102
00:39:31,980 --> 00:39:40,740
I think the shoulds and conditions that we all know

1103
00:39:40,740 --> 00:39:47,140
to be understood as the way life should go is a farce.

1104
00:39:47,140 --> 00:39:48,860
What?

1105
00:39:48,860 --> 00:39:50,580
Going.

1106
00:39:50,580 --> 00:39:53,020
We send our kids to school.

1107
00:39:53,020 --> 00:39:58,060
And we were sent to school for how many hours out of the day?

1108
00:39:58,060 --> 00:39:59,820
Eight.

1109
00:39:59,820 --> 00:40:00,980
Oh, wait, was that a question?

1110
00:40:00,980 --> 00:40:01,460
That was good.

1111
00:40:01,460 --> 00:40:01,940
No, that was good.

1112
00:40:01,940 --> 00:40:02,620
That's a good answer.

1113
00:40:02,620 --> 00:40:03,860
That was a good answer.

1114
00:40:03,860 --> 00:40:06,460
Eight hours of the day.

1115
00:40:06,460 --> 00:40:11,460
And then we're taught that you have to continue going to school

1116
00:40:11,460 --> 00:40:14,780
being taught a specific way by these specific books

1117
00:40:14,780 --> 00:40:16,580
to learn specific things.

1118
00:40:16,580 --> 00:40:18,820
And you're not allowed to figure out what you really

1119
00:40:18,820 --> 00:40:21,500
like and want to venture into until you have to go

1120
00:40:21,500 --> 00:40:25,700
to an institution called a college that basically just

1121
00:40:25,700 --> 00:40:29,100
puts you in debt so that you can't get a job to work

1122
00:40:29,100 --> 00:40:31,500
in how you want to live for the rest of your life just

1123
00:40:31,500 --> 00:40:33,900
to pay the bills and the rent.

1124
00:40:33,900 --> 00:40:37,100
And then you have to do the personal situations

1125
00:40:37,100 --> 00:40:37,660
the same way.

1126
00:40:37,660 --> 00:40:39,820
You have to get married.

1127
00:40:39,820 --> 00:40:41,780
Still, it's more of like the religious side

1128
00:40:41,780 --> 00:40:45,540
that for some reason we still have the society go off of.

1129
00:40:45,540 --> 00:40:49,620
You have to get married, then buy a house, then maybe get

1130
00:40:49,620 --> 00:40:54,020
a dog or have children and do everything by this this book.

1131
00:40:56,060 --> 00:40:59,740
And I feel like it's a cookie cutter way of a shoulder and need

1132
00:40:59,740 --> 00:41:01,660
to and it must be.

1133
00:41:01,660 --> 00:41:04,140
And I I don't think we're meant to live

1134
00:41:04,140 --> 00:41:05,980
on a giant floating rock in the sky.

1135
00:41:07,140 --> 00:41:09,180
In a cookie cutter way.

1136
00:41:09,180 --> 00:41:10,540
I agree.

1137
00:41:10,540 --> 00:41:13,300
And I feel like we are.

1138
00:41:13,300 --> 00:41:18,100
Branching out of that more in these most recent generations.

1139
00:41:18,100 --> 00:41:19,420
All right, I'm hoping.

1140
00:41:19,420 --> 00:41:21,260
I think I hope.

1141
00:41:21,260 --> 00:41:25,500
And I think we are because we can't afford to do the cookie

1142
00:41:25,500 --> 00:41:27,220
cutter way. Exactly.

1143
00:41:27,220 --> 00:41:33,340
Not because we we are trying to break the mold because that

1144
00:41:34,060 --> 00:41:36,100
isn't realistic anymore with what we have to work.

1145
00:41:36,100 --> 00:41:37,580
That's true. We've talked about this before.

1146
00:41:37,580 --> 00:41:41,100
I also think part of that is the reason

1147
00:41:41,100 --> 00:41:45,420
they're people are breaking the mold now is because of mental health.

1148
00:41:45,420 --> 00:41:47,180
I mean, people were getting married unhappy.

1149
00:41:47,180 --> 00:41:49,100
People are having kids that didn't want to have kids.

1150
00:41:49,100 --> 00:41:50,780
Yeah. But because they were supposed to.

1151
00:41:50,780 --> 00:41:52,060
Now it's more normalized.

1152
00:41:52,060 --> 00:41:53,980
Like if you don't have kids, you don't have to have kids.

1153
00:41:53,980 --> 00:41:55,540
If you don't want to get married, you don't have to get married.

1154
00:41:55,540 --> 00:41:58,020
If you don't want to go to college, you don't have to go to college.

1155
00:41:58,020 --> 00:41:59,780
You can still get a decent job.

1156
00:41:59,780 --> 00:42:02,540
But it wasn't like that in the 50s and 60s and 70s.

1157
00:42:02,540 --> 00:42:05,020
Yeah. It was you do this or.

1158
00:42:06,460 --> 00:42:08,460
Or you don't. Yeah.

1159
00:42:08,460 --> 00:42:10,340
Yeah. Then you're like a social pariah.

1160
00:42:10,340 --> 00:42:11,940
Right. Yeah. Right.

1161
00:42:11,940 --> 00:42:13,820
But that's I mean, it's the same thing we talked about.

1162
00:42:13,820 --> 00:42:17,980
How we disagree with the cancel culture of what's it called?

1163
00:42:17,980 --> 00:42:19,780
Quiet quitting. Quiet. Yeah.

1164
00:42:19,860 --> 00:42:22,980
But maybe they have something to it where they get to stop at the end of the day

1165
00:42:22,980 --> 00:42:26,900
and then enjoy life and go out with people and experience things and wake up

1166
00:42:26,900 --> 00:42:31,340
and go to do some work the next day instead of like a live and die to make money

1167
00:42:31,540 --> 00:42:34,260
so I could survive. But it's really hard to do that.

1168
00:42:34,260 --> 00:42:38,620
Millennials are the are the number one generation

1169
00:42:39,540 --> 00:42:42,500
for the most debt due to schooling and education,

1170
00:42:42,500 --> 00:42:45,300
even though they were told and forced to go to college.

1171
00:42:45,300 --> 00:42:48,980
And that was the only way you were going to make a living and make a life for yourself.

1172
00:42:48,980 --> 00:42:53,340
Yeah. But we're the only generation in debt for just education.

1173
00:42:54,140 --> 00:42:55,940
And it's we're all burnout.

1174
00:42:55,940 --> 00:42:58,460
Yeah. So like I just I don't know.

1175
00:42:58,460 --> 00:43:01,900
So that's why I don't I'm not 100 percent sure I'm like what the unpopular opinion is.

1176
00:43:01,900 --> 00:43:04,500
I just feel like the way that life. Yeah.

1177
00:43:05,500 --> 00:43:10,420
The way that life is told us we quote unquote should be doing it like the steps

1178
00:43:10,820 --> 00:43:12,260
of like what's normal.

1179
00:43:12,260 --> 00:43:16,180
Like. Like who made that up and why is that still?

1180
00:43:16,180 --> 00:43:18,900
Yeah. Yeah. Why is that still a thing?

1181
00:43:18,900 --> 00:43:21,940
Yeah. Like why isn't Montessori School a little bit more normalized?

1182
00:43:22,940 --> 00:43:27,620
It's not putting a kid behind a desk and being told that you have to read like this

1183
00:43:28,260 --> 00:43:32,660
and this pacing and at this level, even if you can't.

1184
00:43:32,660 --> 00:43:33,660
Yeah.

1185
00:43:33,660 --> 00:43:35,660
And you're not smart enough if you can't.

1186
00:43:35,660 --> 00:43:38,260
Yeah. Even though you could probably do it in a different way,

1187
00:43:38,260 --> 00:43:41,460
but we're not going to take the time to teach you that way because we don't know

1188
00:43:41,460 --> 00:43:42,980
because we don't have the resources.

1189
00:43:42,980 --> 00:43:46,380
That's not how it should be done and whatever else the reasons are.

1190
00:43:46,500 --> 00:43:49,620
Yeah. Now, and I think in our lifetime, I'm hoping in our lifetime,

1191
00:43:49,620 --> 00:43:53,220
we will see a change in what college looks like.

1192
00:43:53,300 --> 00:43:55,220
Hopefully what school in general looks like.

1193
00:43:55,220 --> 00:43:58,780
But but even going when you go to college the first two years,

1194
00:43:58,780 --> 00:44:01,780
you're taking Gen Ed classes. It's doing high school.

1195
00:44:01,900 --> 00:44:03,060
Yeah. You're still in high school.

1196
00:44:03,060 --> 00:44:06,660
Like a sociology class that I didn't need and a psych class that I didn't need.

1197
00:44:06,660 --> 00:44:09,420
And basic English. I took a poetry class. Why?

1198
00:44:09,620 --> 00:44:11,220
Yeah. I wanted to get credits.

1199
00:44:11,220 --> 00:44:14,380
A medical degree. Yeah. You needed credits to fill out poetry.

1200
00:44:14,380 --> 00:44:18,540
Yeah. So I just think, you know, there needs to be a shift because in 20 years,

1201
00:44:18,980 --> 00:44:20,940
people won't be able to afford it.

1202
00:44:20,940 --> 00:44:23,020
Well, we were I would I say to you all the time, I'm like,

1203
00:44:23,020 --> 00:44:24,860
I feel like you have to push the plumber.

1204
00:44:24,860 --> 00:44:26,620
One of your kids needs to be a plumber.

1205
00:44:26,620 --> 00:44:29,460
One of your kids needs to be a construction worker, like building things

1206
00:44:29,660 --> 00:44:33,860
because we're losing all of that demographic of people that want to use their hands

1207
00:44:33,860 --> 00:44:36,100
and not necessarily go to the trades. Thank you. Trades.

1208
00:44:36,460 --> 00:44:38,700
Remember, if you remember, and I don't know if this is.

1209
00:44:38,700 --> 00:44:42,060
I don't know if this was everyone,

1210
00:44:42,060 --> 00:44:44,340
but it was like the kids that did the.

1211
00:44:45,340 --> 00:44:47,340
In high school, you went to O'Hara.

1212
00:44:47,340 --> 00:44:50,420
Votek. Yeah. So the vote is that O'Hara too?

1213
00:44:50,420 --> 00:44:52,860
So Votek kids that went and did like.

1214
00:44:53,860 --> 00:44:57,860
The hair salon or, you know, the Williamson trade school for the rest of your day,

1215
00:44:57,860 --> 00:45:00,100
like they were like looked down upon.

1216
00:45:00,100 --> 00:45:02,780
Yeah. I don't know why, but why? Yeah.

1217
00:45:02,780 --> 00:45:04,940
And it's basically the unpopular opinion.

1218
00:45:04,940 --> 00:45:07,500
Like why? Why?

1219
00:45:07,500 --> 00:45:10,860
Why? Why? I just I don't get it.

1220
00:45:10,860 --> 00:45:16,220
And maybe I'm drinking the the yoga juice, but yeah, it just I don't understand.

1221
00:45:17,380 --> 00:45:19,220
I don't understand.

1222
00:45:19,220 --> 00:45:21,220
And I'm sure a lot of people are going to come back and be like,

1223
00:45:21,220 --> 00:45:26,140
well, politically and the government and capitalism and money and and I and I get it

1224
00:45:26,140 --> 00:45:27,780
because that's what we're in.

1225
00:45:27,780 --> 00:45:30,220
But like, if we were all able to take a step back

1226
00:45:31,180 --> 00:45:32,740
and be like, what are we doing?

1227
00:45:32,740 --> 00:45:35,780
I said, I also don't get it because if the world were to go under,

1228
00:45:35,780 --> 00:45:40,580
money is not going to save us like the earth is going to die and money is not going to be able to fix it.

1229
00:45:40,580 --> 00:45:41,540
You know what I mean?

1230
00:45:41,540 --> 00:45:44,140
So I don't have poetry class like talk ain't going to help me.

1231
00:45:44,140 --> 00:45:48,100
So you could talk to the flowers and you can make them feel very happy.

1232
00:45:48,100 --> 00:45:49,100
Yeah.

1233
00:45:49,100 --> 00:45:53,020
I think what Victoria meant to say was her favorite song is Photograph by Nickelback.

1234
00:45:55,140 --> 00:45:57,940
Carly really wanted me to say that is an unpopular opinion.

1235
00:45:58,260 --> 00:45:59,820
But you like Nickelback.

1236
00:45:59,820 --> 00:46:02,100
I don't hate Nickelback. Unpopular opinion.

1237
00:46:02,100 --> 00:46:07,820
I don't understand why they get a bad rap. I understand why you get a bad rap.

1238
00:46:07,820 --> 00:46:10,660
Yeah. That's a popular opinion.

1239
00:46:11,380 --> 00:46:16,820
Well, now with all that being said, we can all agree to disagree and still be friends.

1240
00:46:16,820 --> 00:46:17,820
Isn't that nice?

1241
00:46:18,660 --> 00:46:19,660
No one's friends with you.

1242
00:46:19,660 --> 00:46:20,660
I know.

1243
00:46:20,660 --> 00:46:21,660
At this moment.

1244
00:46:21,660 --> 00:46:22,660
It's because I signed a blood contract.

1245
00:46:22,660 --> 00:46:23,660
That's why I'm here.

1246
00:46:25,580 --> 00:46:31,100
I'm just saying, I think some people find it very hard to even voice their unpopular opinions.

1247
00:46:31,100 --> 00:46:32,020
Yeah.

1248
00:46:32,020 --> 00:46:35,140
Because it's not taken very well.

1249
00:46:35,140 --> 00:46:36,140
Yeah.

1250
00:46:38,340 --> 00:46:39,980
We're going to play a little game.

1251
00:46:39,980 --> 00:46:40,980
Yay.

1252
00:46:40,980 --> 00:46:41,980
It's called Hurry Up.

1253
00:46:43,780 --> 00:46:46,260
Because we're running out of time because both of you are late.

1254
00:46:46,380 --> 00:46:47,740
Say yes or no.

1255
00:46:47,740 --> 00:46:49,300
OK, I'm going to say something.

1256
00:46:49,420 --> 00:46:52,540
You both say yes or no as quick as you can.

1257
00:46:52,620 --> 00:46:53,220
OK.

1258
00:46:53,220 --> 00:46:54,740
I don't care to know why.

1259
00:46:55,020 --> 00:46:56,020
OK.

1260
00:46:56,380 --> 00:46:58,180
That's how she goes.

1261
00:46:58,180 --> 00:47:00,060
But I just want to know if you say yes or no.

1262
00:47:00,060 --> 00:47:01,060
OK, ready?

1263
00:47:01,060 --> 00:47:02,380
I'm not so sure.

1264
00:47:02,380 --> 00:47:05,180
Buying stylish clothes for babies is a waste of money.

1265
00:47:05,180 --> 00:47:06,180
Yes.

1266
00:47:06,180 --> 00:47:08,180
Cold play is overrated.

1267
00:47:08,180 --> 00:47:09,180
No.

1268
00:47:09,180 --> 00:47:10,740
All dogs are annoying.

1269
00:47:10,740 --> 00:47:11,740
No.

1270
00:47:11,740 --> 00:47:14,140
The TV show Friends is overrated.

1271
00:47:14,140 --> 00:47:15,140
No.

1272
00:47:15,140 --> 00:47:16,740
Pineapple belongs on pizza.

1273
00:47:16,740 --> 00:47:17,740
No.

1274
00:47:17,740 --> 00:47:18,740
Sure.

1275
00:47:18,740 --> 00:47:19,740
It was yes or no.

1276
00:47:19,740 --> 00:47:20,740
Sure is not an answer.

1277
00:47:20,740 --> 00:47:21,740
Yeah.

1278
00:47:21,740 --> 00:47:22,740
I don't give a shit.

1279
00:47:22,740 --> 00:47:25,420
Mushrooms are the work of the devil and should stay in the ground.

1280
00:47:25,420 --> 00:47:26,420
Yes.

1281
00:47:26,420 --> 00:47:27,420
No.

1282
00:47:27,420 --> 00:47:29,420
The work of the devil.

1283
00:47:29,420 --> 00:47:32,420
Cold weather is better than warm weather.

1284
00:47:32,420 --> 00:47:33,420
No.

1285
00:47:33,420 --> 00:47:34,420
Yes.

1286
00:47:34,420 --> 00:47:35,420
No.

1287
00:47:35,420 --> 00:47:36,420
Football is really boring.

1288
00:47:36,420 --> 00:47:37,420
No.

1289
00:47:37,420 --> 00:47:38,420
Yes.

1290
00:47:38,420 --> 00:47:39,420
No.

1291
00:47:39,420 --> 00:47:40,420
I don't know.

1292
00:47:40,420 --> 00:47:41,420
No.

1293
00:47:41,420 --> 00:47:43,420
Disney movies are only for children.

1294
00:47:43,420 --> 00:47:44,420
No.

1295
00:47:44,420 --> 00:47:46,420
Androids are better than iPhones.

1296
00:47:46,420 --> 00:47:47,420
No.

1297
00:47:47,420 --> 00:47:48,420
No.

1298
00:47:48,420 --> 00:47:51,420
Avocados are gross, but guacamole is delicious.

1299
00:47:51,420 --> 00:47:52,420
No.

1300
00:47:52,420 --> 00:47:53,420
No, they're both amazing.

1301
00:47:53,420 --> 00:47:54,420
Agreed.

1302
00:47:54,420 --> 00:47:56,420
Yes or no.

1303
00:47:56,420 --> 00:47:58,420
Harry Potter books and movies are not that good.

1304
00:47:58,420 --> 00:47:59,420
No.

1305
00:47:59,420 --> 00:48:00,420
Bless for me.

1306
00:48:00,420 --> 00:48:01,420
Avogado!

1307
00:48:01,420 --> 00:48:04,420
Two weeks in the row.

1308
00:48:04,420 --> 00:48:08,420
That should be banned for at least six.

1309
00:48:08,420 --> 00:48:11,420
The Star Wars movies are ridiculous and stupid.

1310
00:48:11,420 --> 00:48:12,420
No.

1311
00:48:12,420 --> 00:48:13,420
No.

1312
00:48:13,420 --> 00:48:14,420
Dark chocolate is better than milk chocolate.

1313
00:48:14,420 --> 00:48:15,420
No.

1314
00:48:15,420 --> 00:48:16,420
Yes.

1315
00:48:16,420 --> 00:48:19,420
Online learning is better than learning in a classroom.

1316
00:48:19,420 --> 00:48:22,420
It's a yes or no, people.

1317
00:48:22,420 --> 00:48:24,420
Based on what I just said, no.

1318
00:48:24,420 --> 00:48:25,420
The BS?

1319
00:48:25,420 --> 00:48:26,420
I can't remember it.

1320
00:48:26,420 --> 00:48:27,420
Okay, you're done.

1321
00:48:27,420 --> 00:48:30,420
The beach is better than the Poconos.

1322
00:48:30,420 --> 00:48:31,420
Yes.

1323
00:48:31,420 --> 00:48:32,420
Okay.

1324
00:48:32,420 --> 00:48:34,420
Strawberries are disgusting.

1325
00:48:34,420 --> 00:48:35,420
No.

1326
00:48:35,420 --> 00:48:36,420
No.

1327
00:48:36,420 --> 00:48:37,420
Carly is better than Victoria.

1328
00:48:37,420 --> 00:48:38,420
No.

1329
00:48:38,420 --> 00:48:39,420
Never.

1330
00:48:39,420 --> 00:48:40,420
Impossible.

1331
00:48:40,420 --> 00:48:41,420
Did I win?

1332
00:48:41,420 --> 00:48:42,420
Did I win?

1333
00:48:42,420 --> 00:48:43,420
You won!

1334
00:48:43,420 --> 00:48:44,420
Shocking.

1335
00:48:44,420 --> 00:48:45,420
You never know.

1336
00:48:45,420 --> 00:48:53,420
You guys need to learn yes and no questions and maybe go back to either online or classroom

1337
00:48:53,420 --> 00:48:54,420
learning school.

1338
00:48:54,420 --> 00:48:55,420
There's a lot of gray area.

1339
00:48:55,420 --> 00:48:57,420
It's a world of gray.

1340
00:48:57,420 --> 00:49:00,420
You can learn from the trees.

1341
00:49:00,420 --> 00:49:02,420
Very unpopular.

1342
00:49:02,420 --> 00:49:03,420
Well.

1343
00:49:03,420 --> 00:49:08,420
Happy Valentine's Day, guys.

1344
00:49:08,420 --> 00:49:11,420
Unpopular opinion.

1345
00:49:11,420 --> 00:49:12,420
Stupid holiday.

1346
00:49:12,420 --> 00:49:14,420
Made by Hallmark.

1347
00:49:14,420 --> 00:49:15,420
Come on.

1348
00:49:15,420 --> 00:49:19,420
She's wearing a head to toe pink.

1349
00:49:19,420 --> 00:49:21,420
Head to toe.

1350
00:49:21,420 --> 00:49:22,420
Baby pink.

1351
00:49:22,420 --> 00:49:28,420
I'm pointing it out there that I am spending Valentine's Day with my straight guy friend.

1352
00:49:28,420 --> 00:49:29,420
And it's normal.

1353
00:49:29,420 --> 00:49:32,420
Head to toe pink.

1354
00:49:32,420 --> 00:49:35,420
He doesn't even care.

1355
00:49:35,420 --> 00:49:36,420
Nope.

1356
00:49:36,420 --> 00:49:37,420
He can't breathe.

1357
00:49:37,420 --> 00:49:39,420
He's having a hard time functioning right now.

1358
00:49:39,420 --> 00:49:42,420
Laughing and breathing at the same time is very difficult right now.

1359
00:49:42,420 --> 00:49:43,420
But you know what?

1360
00:49:43,420 --> 00:49:45,420
Your new face looks fantastic.

1361
00:49:45,420 --> 00:49:47,420
I look the same, everyone.

1362
00:49:47,420 --> 00:49:49,420
It's a deviated septum.

1363
00:49:49,420 --> 00:49:50,420
Nine rhinoceros.

1364
00:49:50,420 --> 00:49:51,420
You had a deal.

1365
00:49:51,420 --> 00:49:53,420
Rhinoplasty.

1366
00:49:53,420 --> 00:49:55,420
He had a deviated septum.

1367
00:49:55,420 --> 00:49:56,420
Oh, God.

1368
00:49:56,420 --> 00:49:57,420
He's deviacrolix.

1369
00:49:57,420 --> 00:49:58,420
Great.

1370
00:49:58,420 --> 00:49:59,420
Oh, my God.

1371
00:49:59,420 --> 00:50:00,420
Thank you.

1372
00:50:00,420 --> 00:50:01,420
Can we get this back on track?

1373
00:50:01,420 --> 00:50:02,420
I could do this all day.

1374
00:50:02,420 --> 00:50:04,420
I could seriously do this all day.

1375
00:50:04,420 --> 00:50:05,420
She has pink power.

1376
00:50:05,420 --> 00:50:07,420
Go, go, Power Rangers.

1377
00:50:07,420 --> 00:50:13,420
Music.

1378
00:50:13,420 --> 00:50:20,420
We hope that this was fun, first of all, because it was like a fun, silly day with some serious undertones.

1379
00:50:20,420 --> 00:50:21,420
That's a good word.

1380
00:50:21,420 --> 00:50:22,420
That's four colleges.

1381
00:50:22,420 --> 00:50:25,420
That's four colleges right there that I still pay for.

1382
00:50:25,420 --> 00:50:26,420
Good job.

1383
00:50:26,420 --> 00:50:27,420
Exhibit A.

1384
00:50:27,420 --> 00:50:28,420
Amen.

1385
00:50:28,420 --> 00:50:30,420
No, it's supposed to be fun.

1386
00:50:30,420 --> 00:50:32,420
And I think it's a really, I like what you said.

1387
00:50:32,420 --> 00:50:38,420
It's a good description of being able to agree to disagree or disagree or agree and still

1388
00:50:38,420 --> 00:50:39,420
have the same friendships.

1389
00:50:39,420 --> 00:50:44,420
And it shouldn't cancel history with when it comes to friendship.

1390
00:50:44,420 --> 00:50:46,420
Even if you wish it would.

1391
00:50:46,420 --> 00:50:48,420
Oh, we wish so hard.

1392
00:50:48,420 --> 00:50:51,420
You say it, Justin.

1393
00:50:51,420 --> 00:50:52,420
Say it.

1394
00:50:52,420 --> 00:50:53,420
Never say it.

1395
00:50:53,420 --> 00:50:54,420
No, say it.

1396
00:50:54,420 --> 00:51:00,420
The louder you go doesn't mean it's going to scare him.

1397
00:51:00,420 --> 00:51:04,420
You're wearing pink with lightning bolts and gold chains.

1398
00:51:04,420 --> 00:51:06,420
Listen, I go forward for a theme.

1399
00:51:06,420 --> 00:51:09,420
We hope you have some of your own unpopular opinions.

1400
00:51:09,420 --> 00:51:10,420
Do not share them with Carly.

1401
00:51:10,420 --> 00:51:13,420
She will not receive it well.

1402
00:51:13,420 --> 00:51:18,420
But thank you, Justin, for having this idea because this was 100%.

1403
00:51:18,420 --> 00:51:22,420
If you have any issues, you have to contact Justin Scaracagli, S-C-A-R-I-C-A-C-I-O-T-T-O-L-I.

1404
00:51:22,420 --> 00:51:23,420
Good job.

1405
00:51:23,420 --> 00:51:24,420
And it's his fault.

1406
00:51:24,420 --> 00:51:28,420
So if you liked it, please come back for more.

1407
00:51:28,420 --> 00:51:31,420
And we won't always talk about Taylor Swift like that.

1408
00:51:31,420 --> 00:51:33,420
Thanks, Dr. Justin.

1409
00:51:33,420 --> 00:51:35,420
It's my pleasure.

1410
00:51:35,420 --> 00:51:36,420
It's my pleasure.

1411
00:51:36,420 --> 00:51:41,420
I'll send you my bill.

1412
00:51:41,420 --> 00:51:46,420
We want you to remember that even with whatever opinion you have, as long as it is said and

1413
00:51:46,420 --> 00:51:52,420
articulated in a respectful way, you are always fit to be real and always allowed to be a

1414
00:51:52,420 --> 00:51:53,420
little extra.

1415
00:51:53,420 --> 00:51:54,420
Love you guys.

1416
00:51:54,420 --> 00:51:55,420
We didn't let him say goodbye.

1417
00:51:55,420 --> 00:52:07,420
Can I go blow my nose now?

1418
00:52:07,420 --> 00:52:13,420
For legal reasons, we have to tell you that this podcast is meant for entertainment and

1419
00:52:13,420 --> 00:52:15,420
educational purposes only.

1420
00:52:15,420 --> 00:52:17,420
We are not healthcare professionals.

1421
00:52:17,420 --> 00:52:21,420
For all of your health, wellness, fitness, and self-care needs, please refer to the medical

1422
00:52:21,420 --> 00:52:26,420
professional in your life, your primary care physician, your therapist, a certified coach,

1423
00:52:26,420 --> 00:52:28,420
whoever it may be.

1424
00:52:28,420 --> 00:52:32,420
And then let us know what they say because I guarantee we need to know what to do.

1425
00:52:32,420 --> 00:52:33,420
Okay?

1426
00:52:33,420 --> 00:52:37,420
Okay, bye.