1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:01,800 Welcome to Fit to Be Real. 2 00:00:01,800 --> 00:00:03,360 And a little extra. 3 00:00:03,360 --> 00:00:05,960 We have a very special guest for you today. 4 00:00:05,960 --> 00:00:09,440 Talking about something I don't really know a lot about. 5 00:00:09,440 --> 00:00:10,240 So this will be fun. 6 00:00:10,240 --> 00:00:12,000 And something I love. 7 00:00:12,000 --> 00:00:13,200 And something Carly loves. 8 00:00:13,200 --> 00:00:15,240 I think this would be your second business option. 9 00:00:15,240 --> 00:00:17,440 Yes, this would be my career 10 00:00:17,440 --> 00:00:19,920 had I not gone into what we went into. 11 00:00:19,920 --> 00:00:21,400 Hey, let's film it. 12 00:00:21,400 --> 00:00:22,440 It's about weddings. 13 00:00:22,440 --> 00:00:24,440 I don't know why we're keeping it. 14 00:00:24,440 --> 00:00:25,680 I want them to keep guessing. 15 00:00:25,680 --> 00:00:26,480 What is it? 16 00:00:26,480 --> 00:00:29,120 It's about weddings. 17 00:00:29,120 --> 00:00:30,120 It's about weddings. 18 00:00:30,120 --> 00:00:32,320 It's about attending them, being in them. 19 00:00:32,320 --> 00:00:34,440 The best ways to get through them. 20 00:00:34,440 --> 00:00:38,720 The best ways to maybe not the best ways 21 00:00:38,720 --> 00:00:40,640 to be financially a part of it. 22 00:00:40,640 --> 00:00:41,520 If you're a guest. 23 00:00:41,520 --> 00:00:42,040 Yeah, right. 24 00:00:42,040 --> 00:00:42,520 Or not. 25 00:00:42,520 --> 00:00:44,040 We're going to talk about the other thing. 26 00:00:44,040 --> 00:00:48,120 But our very special guest has been. 27 00:00:48,120 --> 00:00:51,440 She's the equivalent of the movie 27 dresses. 28 00:00:51,440 --> 00:00:53,320 Yeah, but not necessarily being in them. 29 00:00:53,320 --> 00:00:54,680 Actually, we might find out. 30 00:00:54,680 --> 00:00:56,320 We might find out otherwise. 31 00:00:56,320 --> 00:00:57,040 That might be true. 32 00:00:57,040 --> 00:00:57,600 Yeah. 33 00:00:57,600 --> 00:00:58,240 We'll see. 34 00:00:58,240 --> 00:00:59,040 She's right here. 35 00:00:59,040 --> 00:01:00,040 But we can't let her talk. 36 00:01:00,040 --> 00:01:01,040 But you're not allowed to speak. 37 00:01:01,040 --> 00:01:01,560 It's great. 38 00:01:01,560 --> 00:01:03,280 This is fun for us. 39 00:01:03,280 --> 00:01:05,960 So our guest is in sales operations. 40 00:01:05,960 --> 00:01:08,520 We'll get into that when she can talk about it. 41 00:01:08,520 --> 00:01:12,520 But we met her when she was three. 42 00:01:12,520 --> 00:01:13,120 Yeah. 43 00:01:13,120 --> 00:01:14,120 At the dance studio. 44 00:01:14,120 --> 00:01:16,720 Yeah, she started dancing at mom's dance studio 45 00:01:16,720 --> 00:01:18,560 when she was three and two and a half. 46 00:01:18,560 --> 00:01:19,400 Two and a half. 47 00:01:19,400 --> 00:01:19,760 Yeah. 48 00:01:19,760 --> 00:01:20,480 Five years ago. 49 00:01:20,480 --> 00:01:21,520 Look, she has a voice. 50 00:01:21,520 --> 00:01:22,400 She's not here. 51 00:01:22,400 --> 00:01:22,920 She's not here. 52 00:01:22,920 --> 00:01:23,560 You didn't hear that. 53 00:01:23,560 --> 00:01:24,720 She didn't say hi yet. 54 00:01:24,720 --> 00:01:26,760 So yeah, we've noticed that she was three. 55 00:01:26,760 --> 00:01:31,440 She danced through the studio, went away for college, 56 00:01:31,440 --> 00:01:32,880 came back, came to Seafit. 57 00:01:32,880 --> 00:01:34,920 She now teaches for Seafit. 58 00:01:34,920 --> 00:01:40,400 She is our hardcore stretch teacher, tone up, bar in tone. 59 00:01:40,400 --> 00:01:42,080 And she keeps us calm. 60 00:01:42,080 --> 00:01:42,600 She does. 61 00:01:42,600 --> 00:01:44,800 She has the best calm voice, which you probably 62 00:01:44,800 --> 00:01:46,680 need in all your weddings. 63 00:01:46,680 --> 00:01:48,000 And in this episode. 64 00:01:48,000 --> 00:01:50,080 I would want her to be in my wedding. 65 00:01:50,080 --> 00:01:50,840 Her name's Julia. 66 00:01:53,960 --> 00:01:54,840 Let's get into it. 67 00:01:54,840 --> 00:01:55,340 OK. 68 00:01:55,340 --> 00:01:56,800 I'm Victoria. 69 00:01:56,800 --> 00:01:58,160 Hey, guys, I'm Carly. 70 00:01:58,160 --> 00:02:00,080 And who do we have with us? 71 00:02:00,080 --> 00:02:01,560 Hey, guys, I'm Julia. 72 00:02:01,560 --> 00:02:02,560 Oh. 73 00:02:02,560 --> 00:02:03,560 Whoa. 74 00:02:03,560 --> 00:02:04,960 That. 75 00:02:04,960 --> 00:02:06,560 Can you do it again? 76 00:02:06,560 --> 00:02:07,560 Yeah. 77 00:02:07,560 --> 00:02:08,560 Not as loud as you did. 78 00:02:08,560 --> 00:02:09,560 OK. 79 00:02:09,560 --> 00:02:10,960 Hey, guys, I'm Julia. 80 00:02:10,960 --> 00:02:12,960 That was a very, like. 81 00:02:12,960 --> 00:02:14,560 It's natural. 82 00:02:14,560 --> 00:02:16,960 I want to call you on the phone. 83 00:02:16,960 --> 00:02:18,960 I want to call you on the phone. 84 00:02:18,960 --> 00:02:21,960 I want to call you on the phone. 85 00:02:21,960 --> 00:02:23,960 I want to call you on the phone. 86 00:02:23,960 --> 00:02:27,040 I want to call you on the phone. 87 00:02:27,040 --> 00:02:28,200 You don't like talking on the phone. 88 00:02:28,200 --> 00:02:28,600 I don't. 89 00:02:28,600 --> 00:02:29,480 I hate it. 90 00:02:29,480 --> 00:02:31,160 Wait, why do you want to call her on the phone? 91 00:02:31,160 --> 00:02:33,480 That was like she was selling me something 92 00:02:33,480 --> 00:02:34,960 and I would buy it over the phone. 93 00:02:34,960 --> 00:02:36,200 It was more of like a. 94 00:02:36,200 --> 00:02:37,480 Like a 900 number? 95 00:02:37,480 --> 00:02:38,120 Yeah. 96 00:02:38,120 --> 00:02:38,680 No. 97 00:02:38,680 --> 00:02:41,600 Oh, no. 98 00:02:41,600 --> 00:02:42,840 What's up, Joe? 99 00:02:42,840 --> 00:02:44,120 You know, just live in the dream. 100 00:02:44,120 --> 00:02:45,200 Live in the dream. 101 00:02:45,200 --> 00:02:46,560 I, you are live in the dream. 102 00:02:46,560 --> 00:02:47,680 I'm living someone's dream. 103 00:02:47,680 --> 00:02:48,680 I don't know that it's mine. 104 00:02:48,680 --> 00:02:50,560 You are always somewhere. 105 00:02:50,560 --> 00:02:52,080 Yeah. 106 00:02:52,080 --> 00:02:53,360 I am always somewhere. 107 00:02:53,360 --> 00:02:54,800 That is true. 108 00:02:54,800 --> 00:02:56,160 You're here right now. 109 00:02:56,160 --> 00:02:57,320 I'm in fact here. 110 00:02:57,320 --> 00:02:58,480 No, no, you know that. 111 00:02:58,480 --> 00:03:01,440 I'm so excited to ask you all things wedding. 112 00:03:01,440 --> 00:03:04,800 I think people out there are in weddings, 113 00:03:04,800 --> 00:03:07,760 are planning weddings, even if you aren't. 114 00:03:07,760 --> 00:03:09,120 We've all been to them. 115 00:03:09,120 --> 00:03:11,400 We know the fun things, the not fun things, 116 00:03:11,400 --> 00:03:13,720 but you've been to more weddings. 117 00:03:13,720 --> 00:03:14,440 How many? 118 00:03:14,440 --> 00:03:17,360 OK, I'm going to get the first question right off the bat. 119 00:03:17,360 --> 00:03:20,840 How many this year have you been to? 120 00:03:20,840 --> 00:03:22,680 This year, surprisingly. 121 00:03:22,680 --> 00:03:25,000 Well, if I include the one I'm going to this Friday, 122 00:03:25,000 --> 00:03:29,160 it will be four, which isn't a lot in a year. 123 00:03:29,160 --> 00:03:32,960 But it's four weddings, four showers, four bachelors. 124 00:03:32,960 --> 00:03:33,560 Yes. 125 00:03:33,560 --> 00:03:34,640 That's what makes it a lot. 126 00:03:34,640 --> 00:03:35,600 That's what makes it a lot. 127 00:03:35,600 --> 00:03:36,480 Because she's always. 128 00:03:36,480 --> 00:03:38,760 I still think four weddings is a lot in one year. 129 00:03:38,760 --> 00:03:41,680 But also, didn't you have them every weekend? 130 00:03:41,680 --> 00:03:42,480 Yeah, back to back. 131 00:03:42,480 --> 00:03:43,040 Back to back. 132 00:03:43,040 --> 00:03:45,920 I had a break this past weekend, and now I have one on Friday. 133 00:03:45,920 --> 00:03:46,080 Yeah. 134 00:03:46,080 --> 00:03:46,760 And then I'm done. 135 00:03:46,760 --> 00:03:47,520 I had a break. 136 00:03:47,520 --> 00:03:48,160 I had a break. 137 00:03:48,160 --> 00:03:51,800 And it wasn't just like in Springfield. 138 00:03:51,800 --> 00:03:52,720 None of them were in Springfield. 139 00:03:52,720 --> 00:03:54,920 They was like Montana. 140 00:03:54,920 --> 00:03:56,200 So that was a bachelor. 141 00:03:56,200 --> 00:03:57,520 No, that was a wedding. 142 00:03:57,520 --> 00:03:58,080 That was a wedding. 143 00:03:58,080 --> 00:03:59,280 Yeah, yeah, yeah. 144 00:03:59,280 --> 00:04:01,880 This is why we wanted Julia to come on today, 145 00:04:01,880 --> 00:04:06,080 because she's always running off to do one of the things 146 00:04:06,080 --> 00:04:06,480 that she said. 147 00:04:06,480 --> 00:04:09,120 A shower, a bachelorette party, a wedding. 148 00:04:09,120 --> 00:04:11,040 She's always showing the pictures 149 00:04:11,040 --> 00:04:13,880 of the either bride's maids dress or the regular dress 150 00:04:13,880 --> 00:04:16,880 that she's wearing as a guest, because you have to plan ahead. 151 00:04:16,880 --> 00:04:18,680 And you have to be, you know, you 152 00:04:18,680 --> 00:04:21,040 have to know when it's leading up to you. 153 00:04:21,040 --> 00:04:21,880 You have to be ready. 154 00:04:21,880 --> 00:04:23,480 You also have to know how to pack 155 00:04:23,480 --> 00:04:25,280 if it's something you're traveling for. 156 00:04:25,280 --> 00:04:27,400 So we talk about this a lot, because it's always like, 157 00:04:27,400 --> 00:04:28,600 Julia, where are you going now? 158 00:04:28,600 --> 00:04:30,560 Where are you headed this weekend? 159 00:04:30,560 --> 00:04:34,440 And so in those little moments, really, 160 00:04:34,440 --> 00:04:37,960 27 dresses does come to mind, just because that movie, 161 00:04:37,960 --> 00:04:40,720 I think, everybody loves for so many different reasons. 162 00:04:40,720 --> 00:04:44,280 But it's fascinating how different each wedding or bride's 163 00:04:44,280 --> 00:04:46,720 maids dress is, which I'm sure you've experienced. 164 00:04:46,720 --> 00:04:52,240 But you, from what I know off of the top of my head, 165 00:04:52,240 --> 00:04:55,200 you have gotten to pick your own bride's maids dresses 166 00:04:55,200 --> 00:04:55,920 for a lot of them. 167 00:04:55,920 --> 00:04:56,800 For all of them. 168 00:04:56,800 --> 00:04:57,720 For all of them? 169 00:04:57,720 --> 00:04:58,720 Yeah. 170 00:04:58,720 --> 00:05:02,800 For two out of the three, they gave us a website and a color 171 00:05:02,800 --> 00:05:05,120 and said, you have to get a dress in this color. 172 00:05:05,120 --> 00:05:05,720 And we were allowed. 173 00:05:05,720 --> 00:05:08,240 She gave us some options that she liked. 174 00:05:08,240 --> 00:05:12,120 You can, on this website, as Ozzy, sponsor me. 175 00:05:12,120 --> 00:05:14,120 You can create a showroom, the bride can, 176 00:05:14,120 --> 00:05:16,920 and put in like, she put like 20 to 25 dresses just of what 177 00:05:16,920 --> 00:05:18,600 she liked and said, pick one of these. 178 00:05:18,600 --> 00:05:20,920 They all came in the color and the fabric she wanted. 179 00:05:20,920 --> 00:05:22,960 The same happened for another wedding I was in. 180 00:05:22,960 --> 00:05:24,160 She was like, this is the color. 181 00:05:24,160 --> 00:05:24,920 This is the fabric. 182 00:05:24,920 --> 00:05:25,600 Any style. 183 00:05:25,600 --> 00:05:26,080 Stop. 184 00:05:26,080 --> 00:05:29,120 And then the last one I was in, it was any floor length 185 00:05:29,120 --> 00:05:30,080 black dress. 186 00:05:30,080 --> 00:05:33,400 Any fabric, any style, any floor length black dress. 187 00:05:33,400 --> 00:05:38,000 That's what I did for my wedding 14 years ago. 188 00:05:38,000 --> 00:05:40,720 And I thought I was like, trending. 189 00:05:40,720 --> 00:05:42,520 I was like, whatever black dress you want, 190 00:05:42,520 --> 00:05:43,360 that's what you can wear. 191 00:05:43,360 --> 00:05:46,000 Because it was David's bridal only. 192 00:05:46,000 --> 00:05:47,240 That was the only option. 193 00:05:47,240 --> 00:05:50,160 And it was that stereotypical, like, clearly you're not 194 00:05:50,160 --> 00:05:51,760 going to wear this dress again type of thing. 195 00:05:51,760 --> 00:05:54,760 And then you, well, I wasn't allowed to pick mine. 196 00:05:54,760 --> 00:05:56,560 No, I picked her a long black dress. 197 00:05:56,560 --> 00:06:00,960 But I thought I was like totally new and different. 198 00:06:00,960 --> 00:06:02,600 And now that's all you guys do. 199 00:06:02,600 --> 00:06:05,880 I mean, 14 years ago, it probably was not the norm. 200 00:06:05,880 --> 00:06:08,640 No, it was one dress, one style, one color. 201 00:06:08,640 --> 00:06:10,080 Everyone gets it. 202 00:06:10,080 --> 00:06:12,640 But now it's such a body positivity thing. 203 00:06:12,640 --> 00:06:13,480 I know. 204 00:06:13,480 --> 00:06:15,280 That's where it comes from, that it's like pick a dress 205 00:06:15,280 --> 00:06:17,400 that you look good and feel good in. 206 00:06:17,400 --> 00:06:18,240 And I'm like, okay. 207 00:06:18,240 --> 00:06:19,280 That was never the case. 208 00:06:19,280 --> 00:06:22,320 It was like, oh my gosh, you need to be a certain size, 209 00:06:22,320 --> 00:06:26,400 a certain shape to even feel comfortable in this type of thing. 210 00:06:26,400 --> 00:06:28,400 But you have to wear it because that's what the bride is. 211 00:06:28,400 --> 00:06:31,440 And the thing that I like most that I see in your pictures 212 00:06:31,440 --> 00:06:32,880 is that they're always long. 213 00:06:32,880 --> 00:06:33,720 Yeah. 214 00:06:33,720 --> 00:06:35,520 Thank God. 215 00:06:35,520 --> 00:06:36,360 Why? 216 00:06:36,360 --> 00:06:37,800 You don't like a kneed-a-chin? 217 00:06:37,800 --> 00:06:40,160 No, I don't love a good kneed-a-chin. 218 00:06:40,160 --> 00:06:43,080 But also, how many times do you get dressed up? 219 00:06:43,080 --> 00:06:44,800 I know I don't get dressed up. 220 00:06:44,800 --> 00:06:47,600 So when I go to a wedding, I want to dress up. 221 00:06:47,600 --> 00:06:48,440 Yeah, me too. 222 00:06:48,440 --> 00:06:50,200 And it also helps because then the bride's like, 223 00:06:50,200 --> 00:06:51,400 I don't care what shoes you're wearing, 224 00:06:51,400 --> 00:06:52,240 cause you can't see them. 225 00:06:52,240 --> 00:06:53,080 Cause you can't see them. 226 00:06:53,080 --> 00:06:54,360 So I re-wore the same pair of shoes 227 00:06:54,360 --> 00:06:55,400 for every wedding I go to. 228 00:06:55,400 --> 00:06:57,960 They're just simple, new shoes. 229 00:06:57,960 --> 00:06:58,800 They're like 20 bucks. 230 00:06:58,800 --> 00:07:00,600 Here's my other thing. 231 00:07:00,600 --> 00:07:02,560 So you weren't in all of those weddings. 232 00:07:02,560 --> 00:07:06,680 Will you re-wear a bride's maids dress to another wedding? 233 00:07:06,680 --> 00:07:08,120 Probably just the black one. 234 00:07:08,120 --> 00:07:09,280 I feel like some of the other colors 235 00:07:09,280 --> 00:07:11,840 and some like they look two bridesmaid-y 236 00:07:11,840 --> 00:07:12,680 where like the black one, 237 00:07:12,680 --> 00:07:14,120 you wear black dress anytime. 238 00:07:14,120 --> 00:07:15,040 Right. 239 00:07:15,040 --> 00:07:15,880 I'm wearing one to the wedding. 240 00:07:15,880 --> 00:07:18,960 So still though, as a bride's maids dress, 241 00:07:18,960 --> 00:07:20,120 you're probably not gonna wear it again. 242 00:07:20,120 --> 00:07:20,960 Probably not. 243 00:07:20,960 --> 00:07:22,400 But it looked good on you for the day. 244 00:07:22,400 --> 00:07:23,240 Yeah. 245 00:07:23,240 --> 00:07:25,200 Okay, so that's still the same. 246 00:07:25,200 --> 00:07:26,600 You're probably only gonna wear it once. 247 00:07:26,600 --> 00:07:28,880 I mean, I'm gonna disagree with you though. 248 00:07:28,880 --> 00:07:33,120 Cause I've seen all of the dresses that you had to pick out 249 00:07:33,120 --> 00:07:35,760 and you tried on and you took a picture in your room, 250 00:07:35,760 --> 00:07:39,260 not done up or whatever, but they're gorgeous. 251 00:07:39,260 --> 00:07:42,160 And I feel like they're not like, ooh, 252 00:07:42,160 --> 00:07:43,160 she wore that to a wedding. 253 00:07:43,160 --> 00:07:45,240 She was in a wedding and that like it wasn't poofy, 254 00:07:45,240 --> 00:07:47,280 it's sweetheart, that line. 255 00:07:47,280 --> 00:07:48,120 I don't know. 256 00:07:48,120 --> 00:07:50,840 But it's still very much bright, in my mind anyway, 257 00:07:50,840 --> 00:07:52,640 looks so much like a bridesmaid's dress 258 00:07:52,640 --> 00:07:54,400 that I feel like if I rolled up to a wedding and that 259 00:07:54,400 --> 00:07:56,160 they'd be like, did you get the wrong color dress? 260 00:07:56,160 --> 00:07:57,160 Like, shouldn't you be up there? 261 00:07:57,160 --> 00:07:58,000 Yeah, yeah, yeah. 262 00:07:58,000 --> 00:07:59,400 And I'm like, no, I just, 263 00:07:59,400 --> 00:08:01,040 yeah, the surprise made last week. 264 00:08:01,040 --> 00:08:03,280 Well also you guys are all going to the same weddings 265 00:08:03,280 --> 00:08:04,120 with the same people. 266 00:08:04,120 --> 00:08:04,960 That's true. 267 00:08:04,960 --> 00:08:06,600 So they're like, oh. 268 00:08:06,600 --> 00:08:08,120 Yeah, me and four of my friends could wear our 269 00:08:08,120 --> 00:08:09,560 bridesmaid's dress at anyone's wedding. 270 00:08:09,560 --> 00:08:10,800 And they'd be like, why do you guys, 271 00:08:10,800 --> 00:08:11,880 why do you go match? 272 00:08:11,880 --> 00:08:13,360 Because you're all in the same dress. 273 00:08:13,360 --> 00:08:14,520 Here's my other question. 274 00:08:14,520 --> 00:08:16,000 Let's start from the beginning now. 275 00:08:16,000 --> 00:08:17,640 Okay. 276 00:08:17,640 --> 00:08:21,000 Is it still a big thing to get asked to be a bridesmaid 277 00:08:21,000 --> 00:08:22,240 like in a certain way? 278 00:08:22,240 --> 00:08:25,480 Sort of like a gender reveal, like a package, 279 00:08:25,480 --> 00:08:27,400 like you open it up, will you be my bridesmaid? 280 00:08:27,400 --> 00:08:28,320 Do they still do that? 281 00:08:28,320 --> 00:08:29,160 Yes. 282 00:08:29,160 --> 00:08:30,000 They don't. 283 00:08:30,000 --> 00:08:33,720 I've gotten a lot of little mini bottles of wine, 284 00:08:33,720 --> 00:08:35,360 a lot of scrunchies. 285 00:08:35,360 --> 00:08:38,440 I got a few wine glasses. 286 00:08:38,440 --> 00:08:40,480 I got a couple like cute little makeup bags 287 00:08:40,480 --> 00:08:42,160 that have my name on it. 288 00:08:42,160 --> 00:08:44,040 Yeah, I got a lot of stuff. 289 00:08:44,040 --> 00:08:44,880 You get some swag. 290 00:08:44,880 --> 00:08:46,600 And then you get a bridesmaid gift 291 00:08:46,600 --> 00:08:48,120 the night before the wedding. 292 00:08:48,120 --> 00:08:50,140 So, oh, did you not get that? 293 00:08:50,140 --> 00:08:55,140 I mean, your gift was a brother-in-law. 294 00:08:55,960 --> 00:08:56,800 Oh. 295 00:08:56,800 --> 00:08:59,280 Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh. 296 00:08:59,280 --> 00:09:00,480 See, I got more than that. 297 00:09:00,480 --> 00:09:02,240 I got a Stanley. 298 00:09:02,240 --> 00:09:04,040 One of our bridesmaids gift was a Stanley. 299 00:09:04,040 --> 00:09:05,800 I usually get some sort of pajamas 300 00:09:05,800 --> 00:09:07,720 that we wear the day of getting ready. 301 00:09:07,720 --> 00:09:09,760 I have a ton of matching sets. 302 00:09:09,760 --> 00:09:11,600 I got a little jewelry travel case 303 00:09:11,600 --> 00:09:13,280 with my initials on them. 304 00:09:13,280 --> 00:09:14,120 I got a lot of stuff. 305 00:09:14,120 --> 00:09:16,520 I, well, somebody asked me to be in your wedding. 306 00:09:16,520 --> 00:09:18,280 Please, who's getting married? 307 00:09:18,280 --> 00:09:19,240 I want to be in it. 308 00:09:19,240 --> 00:09:20,600 I love weddings. 309 00:09:22,160 --> 00:09:24,240 Victoria's never been into it. 310 00:09:24,240 --> 00:09:26,120 Yeah, I don't get it. 311 00:09:26,120 --> 00:09:28,320 I love, I mean, thank God I love weddings. 312 00:09:28,320 --> 00:09:29,160 Because I'm a pessimist. 313 00:09:29,160 --> 00:09:31,000 Okay, so you get asked. 314 00:09:32,000 --> 00:09:33,000 Fine, that's great. 315 00:09:33,000 --> 00:09:34,520 Congrats. 316 00:09:34,520 --> 00:09:35,360 Awesome. 317 00:09:35,360 --> 00:09:36,200 Awesome for you. 318 00:09:37,200 --> 00:09:41,240 Then do you plan the shower as well? 319 00:09:41,240 --> 00:09:43,400 So I haven't planned a shower. 320 00:09:43,400 --> 00:09:44,440 The maid of honors do. 321 00:09:44,440 --> 00:09:45,280 Okay. 322 00:09:45,280 --> 00:09:47,920 I, you know, let them know if they need help to let me know. 323 00:09:47,920 --> 00:09:49,720 Usually it's day of, can you come early 324 00:09:49,720 --> 00:09:51,400 and help decorate the venue we're at? 325 00:09:51,400 --> 00:09:52,720 Can you pay for some of it? 326 00:09:52,720 --> 00:09:53,560 Oh yeah, that too. 327 00:09:53,560 --> 00:09:54,640 They're like, can you send me money? 328 00:09:54,640 --> 00:09:57,440 And I'm like, yeah, please just take all my money. 329 00:09:57,440 --> 00:10:00,080 The bachelorette's, I only planned one of them. 330 00:10:00,080 --> 00:10:02,880 The other size is, again, it's like, yes, my money. 331 00:10:02,880 --> 00:10:03,720 I'll be there. 332 00:10:03,720 --> 00:10:06,280 But these bachelorette parties are not local. 333 00:10:06,280 --> 00:10:08,440 Have you been to a local bachelorette party? 334 00:10:08,440 --> 00:10:09,440 I find them local. 335 00:10:09,440 --> 00:10:14,160 Okay, when you don't need a plane, train, or, 336 00:10:14,160 --> 00:10:15,000 what is that movie? 337 00:10:15,000 --> 00:10:15,840 You need an automobile. 338 00:10:15,840 --> 00:10:16,680 Yeah, you need an automobile. 339 00:10:16,680 --> 00:10:19,360 I mean, the closest one was Atlantic City. 340 00:10:19,360 --> 00:10:20,200 That's the closest one? 341 00:10:20,200 --> 00:10:22,120 That for people not in this area, 342 00:10:22,120 --> 00:10:24,680 that's about an hour and 45, hour and a half. 343 00:10:24,680 --> 00:10:26,640 Hour and a half, yeah. 344 00:10:26,640 --> 00:10:28,640 But it's like a two night ordeal, right? 345 00:10:28,640 --> 00:10:29,760 Yeah. 346 00:10:29,760 --> 00:10:33,360 One of the ones, I honestly can't keep track, 347 00:10:33,360 --> 00:10:35,960 they did themed nights, right? 348 00:10:35,960 --> 00:10:37,400 Like you dressed up, we did a lot. 349 00:10:37,400 --> 00:10:39,320 It was a 90s theme she needed. 350 00:10:39,320 --> 00:10:40,640 I gave her some good stuff. 351 00:10:40,640 --> 00:10:42,080 90s theme. 352 00:10:42,080 --> 00:10:45,880 Did you dress up as one of your brides or one of the grooms? 353 00:10:45,880 --> 00:10:48,040 So I've had a lot of themed nights. 354 00:10:48,040 --> 00:10:51,200 One of them we did, you dress up as somebody 355 00:10:51,200 --> 00:10:52,640 with the name of the groom. 356 00:10:52,640 --> 00:10:54,360 So the groom's name was Chris. 357 00:10:54,360 --> 00:10:55,600 And we all dressed up as Chris's. 358 00:10:55,600 --> 00:10:57,200 So I dressed up as Chris Hemsworth. 359 00:10:57,200 --> 00:10:58,440 I was Thor. 360 00:10:58,440 --> 00:11:00,040 That was fun. 361 00:11:00,040 --> 00:11:03,400 That same one, we did a disco night. 362 00:11:03,400 --> 00:11:07,360 So I had like disco pants and then we played Mamma Mia. 363 00:11:07,360 --> 00:11:08,840 But like in the hotel room? 364 00:11:08,840 --> 00:11:11,880 This was just all like in the Airbnb. 365 00:11:11,880 --> 00:11:12,840 We just Airbnb. 366 00:11:12,840 --> 00:11:14,840 So before you went out or you didn't go out, 367 00:11:14,840 --> 00:11:16,200 you just hung out in the Airbnb? 368 00:11:16,200 --> 00:11:19,640 Well, these bachelorettes are like a two to three night thing. 369 00:11:19,640 --> 00:11:22,280 So it's like you stay in one night, you go out one night, 370 00:11:22,280 --> 00:11:24,400 you stay in one night. 371 00:11:24,400 --> 00:11:24,880 Yeah. 372 00:11:24,880 --> 00:11:26,920 And it's like booked minute to minute. 373 00:11:26,920 --> 00:11:27,840 Everything is booked. 374 00:11:27,840 --> 00:11:30,600 You had like a professional brunch. 375 00:11:30,600 --> 00:11:31,200 Yeah. 376 00:11:31,200 --> 00:11:33,520 Someone came and set up one of those long tables 377 00:11:33,520 --> 00:11:35,680 with like little pretty everything 378 00:11:35,680 --> 00:11:37,280 and had brunch brought to us. 379 00:11:37,280 --> 00:11:39,200 I had one a couple months ago. 380 00:11:39,200 --> 00:11:41,040 We had an at-home Hibachi come. 381 00:11:41,040 --> 00:11:43,200 The guy came and set up his Hibachi table 382 00:11:43,200 --> 00:11:45,520 and just made us dinner, which was delicious, by the way. 383 00:11:45,520 --> 00:11:46,720 I'm like, this is amazing. 384 00:11:46,720 --> 00:11:47,880 Did they throw it in your mouth? 385 00:11:47,880 --> 00:11:49,160 Yeah. 386 00:11:49,160 --> 00:11:50,400 Did they throw it in your mouth? 387 00:11:50,400 --> 00:11:52,680 They also had a water gun full of sake. 388 00:11:52,680 --> 00:11:54,080 This is scaring me. 389 00:11:54,080 --> 00:11:56,320 Stop it. 390 00:11:56,320 --> 00:12:00,240 OK, how much does a bachelorette party, 391 00:12:00,240 --> 00:12:03,240 let's be general here, how much does it cost you 392 00:12:03,240 --> 00:12:04,600 as a bridesmaid? 393 00:12:04,600 --> 00:12:05,920 Flight or no flight? 394 00:12:05,920 --> 00:12:07,920 All right, give us one with a flight, one with a no flight. 395 00:12:07,920 --> 00:12:13,840 One with a flight is probably $600. 396 00:12:13,840 --> 00:12:16,760 One without is probably three to four, 397 00:12:16,760 --> 00:12:17,920 depending on where and how much the price. 398 00:12:17,920 --> 00:12:20,000 And you're paying for the bride. 399 00:12:20,000 --> 00:12:21,080 The bride's everything. 400 00:12:21,080 --> 00:12:24,360 So you guys are paying for yourself and also splitting 401 00:12:24,360 --> 00:12:26,800 the brides. 402 00:12:26,800 --> 00:12:28,000 And that's a no from me. 403 00:12:28,000 --> 00:12:30,680 All right, can I tell you what I did? 404 00:12:30,680 --> 00:12:31,440 Please. 405 00:12:31,440 --> 00:12:33,400 We rented a yellow school bus. 406 00:12:33,400 --> 00:12:34,160 Sure did. 407 00:12:34,160 --> 00:12:36,680 And we went to Manny Yonk. 408 00:12:36,680 --> 00:12:37,200 Sure did. 409 00:12:37,200 --> 00:12:38,520 And then we went home. 410 00:12:38,520 --> 00:12:41,320 We partied and we had pretzels. 411 00:12:41,320 --> 00:12:43,640 We had soft pretzels on the bus. 412 00:12:43,640 --> 00:12:44,160 I remember that. 413 00:12:44,160 --> 00:12:46,320 And then we had like an old man for a bus driver. 414 00:12:46,320 --> 00:12:47,040 Yeah. 415 00:12:47,040 --> 00:12:48,560 And then he dropped us off at Manny Yonk. 416 00:12:48,560 --> 00:12:50,800 We went to a couple bars and then he drove us home. 417 00:12:50,800 --> 00:12:52,560 Great, because the bachelorette party used to be 418 00:12:52,560 --> 00:12:53,960 a night, not a weekend. 419 00:12:53,960 --> 00:12:56,880 Now it's a two to three day event. 420 00:12:56,880 --> 00:13:00,000 And it's making me not that I'm close to getting married, 421 00:13:00,000 --> 00:13:01,880 but I'm like, if I ever get married and I have a bachelorette 422 00:13:01,880 --> 00:13:04,280 party, it's going to be like in my parents' backyard 423 00:13:04,280 --> 00:13:06,760 at their pool with like mimosas. 424 00:13:06,760 --> 00:13:10,960 But I feel like you're not going to do that because you've 425 00:13:10,960 --> 00:13:12,720 been to so many. 426 00:13:12,720 --> 00:13:14,200 And she sang four this year. 427 00:13:14,200 --> 00:13:16,240 She's been to a million weddings. 428 00:13:16,240 --> 00:13:18,160 I feel like you're going to be like, you're going to do 429 00:13:18,160 --> 00:13:19,080 what I want to do. 430 00:13:19,080 --> 00:13:20,400 Do you have a number? 431 00:13:20,400 --> 00:13:20,880 Total. 432 00:13:20,880 --> 00:13:21,480 Like, do you know? 433 00:13:21,480 --> 00:13:22,000 Do you know? 434 00:13:22,000 --> 00:13:22,520 My entire life. 435 00:13:22,520 --> 00:13:23,760 Yeah. 436 00:13:23,760 --> 00:13:24,480 Yeah, I count on last night. 437 00:13:24,480 --> 00:13:25,880 I was 18. 438 00:13:25,880 --> 00:13:27,240 Oh my God. 439 00:13:27,240 --> 00:13:28,920 I don't know that many people, Jewel. 440 00:13:28,920 --> 00:13:31,640 I think I've been to four. 441 00:13:31,640 --> 00:13:33,200 And like most of them, they're all family. 442 00:13:33,200 --> 00:13:33,400 Yeah. 443 00:13:33,400 --> 00:13:35,440 Well, a lot of that's cousins. 444 00:13:35,440 --> 00:13:37,680 A lot of that's cousins. 445 00:13:37,680 --> 00:13:39,120 Right now you're in your friends. 446 00:13:39,120 --> 00:13:40,720 Right now it's all my friends getting married. 447 00:13:40,720 --> 00:13:42,560 If you asked me five years ago, it was all my cousins 448 00:13:42,560 --> 00:13:43,200 getting married. 449 00:13:43,200 --> 00:13:45,600 And I still have not been to 18 weddings in my life. 450 00:13:45,600 --> 00:13:46,800 I know I haven't. 451 00:13:46,800 --> 00:13:49,960 So when we're talking about going to these weddings 452 00:13:49,960 --> 00:13:52,200 in succession, I asked you this for the other day, 453 00:13:52,200 --> 00:13:54,480 because I was actually curious. 454 00:13:54,480 --> 00:13:56,880 Does the food get boring, like wedding food? 455 00:13:56,880 --> 00:13:58,040 Oh, God, we got to drink again. 456 00:13:58,040 --> 00:13:59,680 Here's another chicken. 457 00:13:59,680 --> 00:14:01,200 Here's another chicken. 458 00:14:01,200 --> 00:14:03,640 Like, the. 459 00:14:03,640 --> 00:14:04,520 Bon? 460 00:14:04,520 --> 00:14:07,400 They've changed a little. 461 00:14:07,400 --> 00:14:09,240 At least the cocktail hour food has changed. 462 00:14:09,240 --> 00:14:10,800 Your meal is kind of the same. 463 00:14:10,800 --> 00:14:14,560 It's like chicken or vegetarian or steak. 464 00:14:14,560 --> 00:14:16,920 But I just was at a wedding two weeks ago. 465 00:14:16,920 --> 00:14:19,520 The cocktail hour had a bacon bar. 466 00:14:19,520 --> 00:14:20,840 It had chicken and waffles. 467 00:14:20,840 --> 00:14:23,280 It had like six different kinds of wings. 468 00:14:23,280 --> 00:14:24,880 It had like mac and cheese bites. 469 00:14:24,880 --> 00:14:26,680 And I eat everything. 470 00:14:26,680 --> 00:14:28,960 And then my meal got put down in front of me. 471 00:14:28,960 --> 00:14:30,080 It was like shrimp and asparagus. 472 00:14:30,080 --> 00:14:30,920 I was like, I don't want this. 473 00:14:30,920 --> 00:14:31,920 You're like, I'm not even hungry. 474 00:14:31,920 --> 00:14:32,760 I'm not even hungry. 475 00:14:32,760 --> 00:14:33,560 I don't want this. 476 00:14:33,560 --> 00:14:36,880 And I'm going to one on Friday and my meal options 477 00:14:36,880 --> 00:14:39,880 were either ribs or brisket. 478 00:14:39,880 --> 00:14:40,240 What? 479 00:14:40,240 --> 00:14:40,880 At a wedding? 480 00:14:40,880 --> 00:14:42,400 At a wedding. 481 00:14:42,400 --> 00:14:44,840 I'm like, well, I don't know that I can eat ribs all 482 00:14:44,840 --> 00:14:45,800 decked up and ready. 483 00:14:45,800 --> 00:14:46,720 So I got the brisket. 484 00:14:46,720 --> 00:14:47,960 Also, it comes with mac and cheese. 485 00:14:47,960 --> 00:14:48,960 So that's fun. 486 00:14:48,960 --> 00:14:50,240 Was this the Montana one? 487 00:14:50,240 --> 00:14:51,800 No, this one is in Brooklyn on Friday. 488 00:14:51,800 --> 00:14:54,960 The Montana one was very, there's a lot of meat. 489 00:14:54,960 --> 00:14:56,960 A lot of like weird meats. 490 00:14:56,960 --> 00:15:00,760 Not weird, but like venison, bison. 491 00:15:00,760 --> 00:15:01,880 Bison, that's what I had. 492 00:15:01,880 --> 00:15:03,040 I couldn't think of all the animals. 493 00:15:03,040 --> 00:15:04,320 Brooklyn, that sounds hipster. 494 00:15:04,320 --> 00:15:06,840 That's what it is. 495 00:15:06,840 --> 00:15:07,120 Wow. 496 00:15:07,120 --> 00:15:11,080 So you've experienced a lot of different types of weddings 497 00:15:11,080 --> 00:15:12,640 through that. 498 00:15:12,640 --> 00:15:16,360 And how, what do you drink so that you don't get wasted? 499 00:15:16,360 --> 00:15:17,400 She just gets wasted. 500 00:15:17,400 --> 00:15:18,880 Yeah, no, I just drink a lot. 501 00:15:18,880 --> 00:15:22,840 No, the key is to drink water. 502 00:15:22,840 --> 00:15:24,760 It's like you have a drink, you have another, 503 00:15:24,760 --> 00:15:25,880 you have a water. 504 00:15:25,880 --> 00:15:27,000 Do you actually do that? 505 00:15:27,000 --> 00:15:28,920 I drink so much water. 506 00:15:28,920 --> 00:15:31,080 Because they also refill in your little water glass 507 00:15:31,080 --> 00:15:31,680 at your table. 508 00:15:31,680 --> 00:15:32,440 That's always full. 509 00:15:32,440 --> 00:15:33,880 Every time I go to like check my phone, 510 00:15:33,880 --> 00:15:35,000 I chug my glass of water. 511 00:15:35,000 --> 00:15:36,600 She black out, if not. 512 00:15:36,600 --> 00:15:37,720 Oh, I know that. 513 00:15:37,720 --> 00:15:40,440 But she goes to a wedding or bachelorette party 514 00:15:40,440 --> 00:15:41,880 or shower every weekend. 515 00:15:41,880 --> 00:15:44,440 So it's like, how do you go and just not? 516 00:15:44,440 --> 00:15:46,200 I mean, I'm going to go big or go home. 517 00:15:46,200 --> 00:15:46,960 Yeah. 518 00:15:46,960 --> 00:15:48,840 So I'm probably going big. 519 00:15:48,840 --> 00:15:49,760 But you're like, it's fine. 520 00:15:49,760 --> 00:15:51,040 I am. 521 00:15:51,040 --> 00:15:52,040 I'm definitely going home. 522 00:15:52,040 --> 00:15:53,680 I'm going big and then I'm going home. 523 00:15:53,680 --> 00:15:54,680 That's true. 524 00:15:54,680 --> 00:15:56,080 That's true. 525 00:15:56,080 --> 00:15:59,400 Julia, that to me, because of the type of person, 526 00:15:59,400 --> 00:16:02,600 you're very social and you're very good at that. 527 00:16:02,600 --> 00:16:03,960 To me, that sounds like a nightmare. 528 00:16:03,960 --> 00:16:05,160 And I love weddings. 529 00:16:05,160 --> 00:16:08,280 But the thing is, and this is what I do now, 530 00:16:08,280 --> 00:16:14,000 is because of my job, I get a decent amount of PTO. 531 00:16:14,000 --> 00:16:16,240 And I have very flexible working hours. 532 00:16:16,240 --> 00:16:20,680 I almost always take off the day after a wedding weekend 533 00:16:20,680 --> 00:16:23,720 or bachelorette weekend, just to give myself that day, 534 00:16:23,720 --> 00:16:26,160 to reset that Monday. 535 00:16:26,160 --> 00:16:27,240 I'll take off that Monday. 536 00:16:27,240 --> 00:16:29,560 Even if I get home 9 AM on Sunday, 537 00:16:29,560 --> 00:16:33,280 I'll still take off that Monday to catch up on the emails 538 00:16:33,280 --> 00:16:36,400 I missed, catch up with a laundry that's piled in my room, 539 00:16:36,400 --> 00:16:37,160 clean my house. 540 00:16:37,160 --> 00:16:39,440 Because if not, all of that just piles up. 541 00:16:39,440 --> 00:16:41,360 And then I'm crying by the end of the week, 542 00:16:41,360 --> 00:16:43,120 because I'm like, I didn't get anything done. 543 00:16:43,120 --> 00:16:44,960 I know, because you're just. 544 00:16:44,960 --> 00:16:46,840 It's a whole weekend. 545 00:16:46,840 --> 00:16:50,480 Have you dealt with any bride zillies? 546 00:16:50,480 --> 00:16:51,680 Luckily, no. 547 00:16:51,680 --> 00:16:52,280 None? 548 00:16:52,280 --> 00:16:52,760 None. 549 00:16:52,760 --> 00:16:53,760 No bride zillies. 550 00:16:53,760 --> 00:16:56,600 There have been some interesting other bridesmaids 551 00:16:56,600 --> 00:16:59,320 that I've had to just be with. 552 00:16:59,320 --> 00:17:01,120 Bridesmaids? 553 00:17:01,120 --> 00:17:02,680 Bridesmaid zillies. 554 00:17:02,680 --> 00:17:03,880 Bride millies? 555 00:17:03,880 --> 00:17:06,000 They're like the evil stepsisters. 556 00:17:06,000 --> 00:17:08,880 Oh, we'll call them that. 557 00:17:08,880 --> 00:17:10,080 And they weren't even evil. 558 00:17:10,080 --> 00:17:11,640 It's just different personalities. 559 00:17:11,640 --> 00:17:13,800 And I'm like, oof, I'm just going to go over there. 560 00:17:13,800 --> 00:17:15,440 Well, that's what gets me is that she'll 561 00:17:15,440 --> 00:17:19,520 tell me that she's traveling to some state or some whatever 562 00:17:19,520 --> 00:17:21,440 with 16 girls. 563 00:17:21,440 --> 00:17:24,000 Like there's so many females. 564 00:17:24,000 --> 00:17:25,560 Because it's not just bridesmaids. 565 00:17:25,560 --> 00:17:26,200 It's friends. 566 00:17:26,200 --> 00:17:27,120 No, it's friends. 567 00:17:27,120 --> 00:17:28,240 It's extensions. 568 00:17:28,240 --> 00:17:29,640 And that's a lot of personality. 569 00:17:29,640 --> 00:17:30,320 Yeah. 570 00:17:30,320 --> 00:17:32,280 Of girls. 571 00:17:32,280 --> 00:17:36,360 So how do you plan stuff like that with all those girls? 572 00:17:36,360 --> 00:17:38,000 And what if somebody's like, wait, 573 00:17:38,000 --> 00:17:43,120 I just saw an Instagram meme, because I love reels and memes 574 00:17:43,120 --> 00:17:43,520 or whatever. 575 00:17:43,520 --> 00:17:44,800 It's a real. 576 00:17:44,800 --> 00:17:48,640 So it's somebody saying, then don't show up. 577 00:17:48,640 --> 00:17:50,520 And the thing said at the top, when 578 00:17:50,520 --> 00:17:52,840 you're about to go on a bachelorette party weekend 579 00:17:52,840 --> 00:17:54,800 and your friend says, I have no money 580 00:17:54,800 --> 00:17:56,840 and I can't spend a lot of money this weekend 581 00:17:56,840 --> 00:17:59,520 and she's at the bottom going, then don't show up. 582 00:17:59,520 --> 00:18:00,160 That would be me. 583 00:18:00,160 --> 00:18:03,080 Because how do you deal with somebody that's like, 584 00:18:03,080 --> 00:18:04,600 I have no money. 585 00:18:04,600 --> 00:18:05,720 I can't do any of this. 586 00:18:05,720 --> 00:18:07,680 And then somebody said, well, this is what the bride wants. 587 00:18:07,680 --> 00:18:09,800 You need to pay X amount of dollars. 588 00:18:09,800 --> 00:18:10,400 Yes. 589 00:18:10,400 --> 00:18:12,600 A lot of times, the big expenses, 590 00:18:12,600 --> 00:18:14,480 they'll ask the money ahead of time. 591 00:18:14,480 --> 00:18:16,120 Like if we have a sit down dinner, 592 00:18:16,120 --> 00:18:20,840 a lot of times it'll have a prepaid so much per head 593 00:18:20,840 --> 00:18:22,440 and we'll pay that ahead of time. 594 00:18:22,440 --> 00:18:24,760 And then other than that, I'll just not drink. 595 00:18:24,760 --> 00:18:26,520 I'm like, we're at the bar and they're like, do you want 596 00:18:26,520 --> 00:18:26,960 another drink? 597 00:18:26,960 --> 00:18:27,760 I'm like, no. 598 00:18:27,760 --> 00:18:29,600 I'm like, I don't want to spend another $12. 599 00:18:29,600 --> 00:18:31,680 When we've got cases back at the Airbnb. 600 00:18:31,680 --> 00:18:34,720 And I'm like, I'll just shock on a white cloud before we go 601 00:18:34,720 --> 00:18:36,120 and I'll be fine. 602 00:18:36,120 --> 00:18:38,280 You're so smart. 603 00:18:38,280 --> 00:18:40,040 How did you get to be so smart? 604 00:18:40,040 --> 00:18:42,560 You're so smart. 605 00:18:42,560 --> 00:18:45,160 Now the brides are like, you don't have to come. 606 00:18:45,160 --> 00:18:48,920 But there's that like guilt where it's like they invited you. 607 00:18:48,920 --> 00:18:50,440 They want you to be there. 608 00:18:50,440 --> 00:18:52,080 If you really can't afford it, you can't afford it. 609 00:18:52,080 --> 00:18:52,800 You can say no. 610 00:18:52,800 --> 00:18:55,760 But a lot of times it's people just being like, oh, 611 00:18:55,760 --> 00:18:56,760 it's a lot of money. 612 00:18:56,760 --> 00:18:57,600 And I'm like, it is. 613 00:18:57,600 --> 00:18:59,120 But we all did it for them. 614 00:18:59,120 --> 00:19:01,040 That's the other thing is like, these are my friends that 615 00:19:01,040 --> 00:19:02,040 are already married. 616 00:19:02,040 --> 00:19:04,440 You're like, we did this for you. 617 00:19:04,440 --> 00:19:05,680 It's your turn to do it now. 618 00:19:05,680 --> 00:19:06,480 Right. 619 00:19:06,480 --> 00:19:10,800 But I'm looking at your past four weekends shelling out $600, 620 00:19:10,800 --> 00:19:13,320 $800 a weekend. 621 00:19:13,320 --> 00:19:15,960 Then you have to get them a wedding gift. 622 00:19:15,960 --> 00:19:19,400 What do you give the brides when you are a bridesmaid after you've 623 00:19:19,400 --> 00:19:21,920 spent hundreds of dollars on them? 624 00:19:21,920 --> 00:19:23,720 Just tack on another hundred and call it a day. 625 00:19:23,720 --> 00:19:26,720 You do. 626 00:19:26,720 --> 00:19:28,280 That's actually a good idea. 627 00:19:28,280 --> 00:19:33,280 Well, because it's, you know, there's probably $50 to $75 628 00:19:33,280 --> 00:19:34,880 for a bridal shower gift. 629 00:19:34,880 --> 00:19:39,040 All of the, which I think is stupid, that girls have to give 630 00:19:39,040 --> 00:19:41,120 a bridal shower gift and then a wedding gift. 631 00:19:41,120 --> 00:19:42,000 Yeah, I think so too. 632 00:19:42,000 --> 00:19:43,640 Why am I giving you all of my money? 633 00:19:43,640 --> 00:19:44,040 Yes. 634 00:19:44,040 --> 00:19:44,520 Pick one. 635 00:19:44,520 --> 00:19:45,680 I'll give you one or the other. 636 00:19:45,680 --> 00:19:47,920 Bridesmaids just need to show up to the shower. 637 00:19:47,920 --> 00:19:50,360 You can leave the gift to everybody else. 638 00:19:50,360 --> 00:19:52,760 But even not a bridesmaid at these showers. 639 00:19:52,760 --> 00:19:54,880 I'm like, I still have to get you a shower gift. 640 00:19:54,880 --> 00:19:57,200 And it's usually like a pretty bowl or a plate or something. 641 00:19:57,200 --> 00:19:58,800 But it's not cheap. 642 00:19:58,800 --> 00:19:59,280 No. 643 00:19:59,280 --> 00:20:01,280 And then I'm sitting down with my checkbook the weekend 644 00:20:01,280 --> 00:20:02,040 before the wedding. 645 00:20:02,040 --> 00:20:04,440 I'm like, well, all right, I already spent this much. 646 00:20:04,440 --> 00:20:06,760 What's the reasonable amount? 647 00:20:06,760 --> 00:20:08,520 And I'm like, I don't know. 648 00:20:08,520 --> 00:20:08,960 I know. 649 00:20:08,960 --> 00:20:09,440 I don't know. 650 00:20:09,440 --> 00:20:09,960 I know. 651 00:20:09,960 --> 00:20:10,560 I call my mom. 652 00:20:10,560 --> 00:20:11,720 I'm like, what do I give her? 653 00:20:11,720 --> 00:20:15,360 That's something that I still struggle with because there's 654 00:20:15,360 --> 00:20:17,320 apparently like an unwritten rule. 655 00:20:17,320 --> 00:20:22,520 If you're a couple, it's changed, obviously, over the years 656 00:20:22,520 --> 00:20:23,600 financially. 657 00:20:23,600 --> 00:20:26,720 I think the last time mom and I talked about it, 658 00:20:26,720 --> 00:20:30,480 it would be like 50 a person in your couple. 659 00:20:30,480 --> 00:20:33,520 So it's like $100 per couple. 660 00:20:33,520 --> 00:20:34,680 And I was like, all right, cool. 661 00:20:34,680 --> 00:20:35,480 I'm a single. 662 00:20:35,480 --> 00:20:36,240 I'm going to pay 15. 663 00:20:36,240 --> 00:20:37,760 She was like, no, you have to do 75. 664 00:20:37,760 --> 00:20:39,560 And I was like, what? 665 00:20:39,560 --> 00:20:41,200 It's $100 per person. 666 00:20:41,200 --> 00:20:43,280 You're supposed to cover your plate. 667 00:20:43,280 --> 00:20:46,880 You're supposed to pay for what your plate costs. 668 00:20:46,880 --> 00:20:50,240 But I didn't pick farm at the then. 669 00:20:50,240 --> 00:20:53,800 I didn't pick the place with $160 for the food. 670 00:20:53,800 --> 00:20:56,160 You're supposed to give the bride and groom 671 00:20:56,160 --> 00:21:00,000 their money back for their wedding, basically. 672 00:21:00,000 --> 00:21:02,040 That's a no for me. 673 00:21:02,040 --> 00:21:04,120 You get 50 bucks. 674 00:21:04,120 --> 00:21:04,600 I know. 675 00:21:04,600 --> 00:21:05,080 I know. 676 00:21:05,080 --> 00:21:08,040 It's so hard because you're just shelling out this money 677 00:21:08,040 --> 00:21:10,360 and it's a lot. 678 00:21:10,360 --> 00:21:10,840 It is. 679 00:21:10,840 --> 00:21:14,840 And it also being a single person going to all these weddings, 680 00:21:14,840 --> 00:21:16,720 I'm paying all of it by myself. 681 00:21:16,720 --> 00:21:19,320 Like the hotel rooms is, I do end up splitting a room 682 00:21:19,320 --> 00:21:20,600 with my other single friend. 683 00:21:20,600 --> 00:21:23,400 We kind of laugh about it because we'll both book a hotel room 684 00:21:23,400 --> 00:21:25,320 and then like two weeks before, I'm like, well, neither of us 685 00:21:25,320 --> 00:21:26,080 have dates again. 686 00:21:26,080 --> 00:21:28,560 Let's just share a room. 687 00:21:28,560 --> 00:21:30,440 But it is. 688 00:21:30,440 --> 00:21:33,040 But even still, there are a few weddings where I had to get 689 00:21:33,040 --> 00:21:36,000 the hotel room by myself and I'm like, I have friends who 690 00:21:36,000 --> 00:21:37,960 are splitting this with their significant other. 691 00:21:37,960 --> 00:21:39,560 I'm giving all this money by myself. 692 00:21:39,560 --> 00:21:40,360 Yes. 693 00:21:40,360 --> 00:21:44,480 Even the wedding gift, they're giving more per person. 694 00:21:44,480 --> 00:21:47,160 I'm still doing everything else by myself. 695 00:21:47,160 --> 00:21:47,600 Right. 696 00:21:47,600 --> 00:21:48,440 And that's hard. 697 00:21:48,440 --> 00:21:49,120 A lot of money. 698 00:21:49,120 --> 00:21:49,840 I know. 699 00:21:49,840 --> 00:21:52,920 And are you invited as a bridesmaid with a date? 700 00:21:52,920 --> 00:21:53,320 No. 701 00:21:53,320 --> 00:21:54,640 You're not? 702 00:21:54,640 --> 00:21:58,080 Usually it's every bridesmaid or groomsman gets a date. 703 00:21:58,080 --> 00:22:01,760 And it doesn't matter if the bride or groom knows them, 704 00:22:01,760 --> 00:22:04,640 but they're in the wedding, so they get a plus one. 705 00:22:04,640 --> 00:22:05,760 I think it's changed. 706 00:22:05,760 --> 00:22:06,240 Yeah. 707 00:22:06,240 --> 00:22:08,400 I think it's not the rules that you. 708 00:22:08,400 --> 00:22:09,480 I mean, that was how many years ago. 709 00:22:09,480 --> 00:22:11,640 Because I had some people at my wedding that I didn't know. 710 00:22:11,640 --> 00:22:15,160 And I think that's what a lot of these couples getting married 711 00:22:15,160 --> 00:22:18,160 are trying to avoid not knowing people at their wedding. 712 00:22:18,160 --> 00:22:20,480 But also, I'm like, I wouldn't bring one. 713 00:22:20,480 --> 00:22:21,040 You wouldn't? 714 00:22:21,040 --> 00:22:21,760 No. 715 00:22:21,760 --> 00:22:22,840 I'd have to find one. 716 00:22:22,840 --> 00:22:24,360 Well, I know. 717 00:22:24,360 --> 00:22:25,960 But even a friend. 718 00:22:25,960 --> 00:22:27,080 But all your friends are there. 719 00:22:27,080 --> 00:22:27,640 All my friends are there. 720 00:22:27,640 --> 00:22:28,600 All your friends are there. 721 00:22:28,600 --> 00:22:31,320 I have a couple of college friends who are engaged. 722 00:22:31,320 --> 00:22:32,960 And I'm like, if I get invited to them, 723 00:22:32,960 --> 00:22:34,080 I would like a plus one. 724 00:22:34,080 --> 00:22:36,080 Because I don't know how many people will know with that one. 725 00:22:36,080 --> 00:22:36,560 Yeah. 726 00:22:36,560 --> 00:22:39,760 But all these weddings, I'm just like, I know everybody here. 727 00:22:39,760 --> 00:22:40,840 I don't know the date. 728 00:22:40,840 --> 00:22:41,080 No. 729 00:22:41,080 --> 00:22:43,320 And you don't want to babysit anyone. 730 00:22:43,320 --> 00:22:45,760 So you did the shower. 731 00:22:45,760 --> 00:22:47,480 You did the bachelorette party. 732 00:22:47,480 --> 00:22:50,120 Those are your obligations as a bridesmaid. 733 00:22:50,120 --> 00:22:55,160 Is your obligation to go dress shopping with the bride? 734 00:22:55,160 --> 00:22:55,720 No. 735 00:22:55,720 --> 00:22:59,040 And I have gone dress shopping with two of my friends 736 00:22:59,040 --> 00:23:03,560 that I was a bridesmaid because they invited me 737 00:23:03,560 --> 00:23:04,400 and I wanted to go. 738 00:23:04,400 --> 00:23:05,280 I think that's fun. 739 00:23:05,280 --> 00:23:08,360 But it's usually mom and sister. 740 00:23:08,360 --> 00:23:09,400 Yeah. 741 00:23:09,400 --> 00:23:10,440 I was just lucky in there. 742 00:23:10,440 --> 00:23:12,760 Like, hey, you can bring a third person if you want to come. 743 00:23:12,760 --> 00:23:13,600 And I was like, OK. 744 00:23:13,600 --> 00:23:16,320 And listen, apparently I'm good luck because both times I went. 745 00:23:16,320 --> 00:23:16,640 They found the dress. 746 00:23:16,640 --> 00:23:17,240 They found the dress. 747 00:23:17,240 --> 00:23:18,320 I'm two for two right now. 748 00:23:18,320 --> 00:23:21,480 So if you need a dress, bring me along. 749 00:23:21,480 --> 00:23:23,440 Well, David's bridal is no longer. 750 00:23:23,440 --> 00:23:26,880 So where do you go to get a dress? 751 00:23:26,880 --> 00:23:28,160 Do you know? 752 00:23:28,160 --> 00:23:31,600 One of my friends got hers from Claire's boutique in Delaware. 753 00:23:31,600 --> 00:23:32,560 I heard that name a lot. 754 00:23:32,560 --> 00:23:34,920 There's I forget the place somewhere in Ardmore. 755 00:23:34,920 --> 00:23:35,840 We went to a couple in Philly. 756 00:23:35,840 --> 00:23:39,040 So like little boutiques because there's no big other 757 00:23:39,040 --> 00:23:40,760 than Kleinfeld in New York. 758 00:23:40,760 --> 00:23:41,040 Yeah. 759 00:23:41,040 --> 00:23:42,680 There's no big dress shop. 760 00:23:42,680 --> 00:23:42,920 No. 761 00:23:42,920 --> 00:23:45,560 And from, you know, my little time in these dress shops, 762 00:23:45,560 --> 00:23:47,960 their little boutiques take more time 763 00:23:47,960 --> 00:23:49,800 to like understand what you want. 764 00:23:49,800 --> 00:23:52,880 They'll like have you look on there online before 765 00:23:52,880 --> 00:23:55,280 and like flag dresses you like. 766 00:23:55,280 --> 00:23:57,840 And then they'll have those dresses pulled for you already. 767 00:23:57,840 --> 00:24:00,160 So you don't have to like waste time looking through every single dress 768 00:24:00,160 --> 00:24:02,000 where they have it already for you. 769 00:24:02,000 --> 00:24:02,440 Gotcha. 770 00:24:02,440 --> 00:24:05,120 And we just I just sat there with a glass of champagne and watched. 771 00:24:05,120 --> 00:24:06,760 That's what I would do. 772 00:24:06,760 --> 00:24:10,200 I would be that one saying, listen, I know this is your dress. 773 00:24:10,200 --> 00:24:15,200 So like I want to find this and help you find this dress for you. 774 00:24:15,320 --> 00:24:17,320 That's what I love about bridal dresses. 775 00:24:17,320 --> 00:24:18,720 Go do it, Carly. 776 00:24:18,720 --> 00:24:20,040 Carly, I'll come with you. 777 00:24:20,040 --> 00:24:21,560 I love weddings. 778 00:24:21,560 --> 00:24:23,520 Actually, I want to be a wedding planner. 779 00:24:23,520 --> 00:24:24,520 You want to be a wedding? 780 00:24:24,520 --> 00:24:26,600 No, at one point in my life, I wanted to be a wedding planner 781 00:24:26,600 --> 00:24:27,480 and being at all these weddings. 782 00:24:27,480 --> 00:24:28,840 I'm like, I don't know. 783 00:24:28,840 --> 00:24:31,560 I know it's a lot like Jennifer Lopez. 784 00:24:31,560 --> 00:24:33,480 Like she had it rough. 785 00:24:33,480 --> 00:24:34,080 The wedding plan. 786 00:24:34,080 --> 00:24:35,480 Yeah, but she like found love in the end. 787 00:24:35,480 --> 00:24:36,640 She's probably fine. 788 00:24:36,640 --> 00:24:37,880 And it was Matthew McConaughey. 789 00:24:37,880 --> 00:24:39,560 So it's Jennifer Lopez. 790 00:24:39,560 --> 00:24:39,920 I know. 791 00:24:39,920 --> 00:24:41,200 I mean, don't give in to her. 792 00:24:41,200 --> 00:24:41,760 Stop it. 793 00:24:41,760 --> 00:24:43,480 Stop this right now. 794 00:24:43,480 --> 00:24:46,680 I just love wedding dresses so much. 795 00:24:46,680 --> 00:24:50,720 I think what you two need to do and I I'm busy this day. 796 00:24:50,720 --> 00:24:53,160 I'm very busy and I cannot join you. 797 00:24:53,160 --> 00:24:56,280 But what you need to do is you're going to go wedding 798 00:24:56,280 --> 00:25:00,840 dress shopping with Julia and just get wasted and try on a bunch 799 00:25:00,840 --> 00:25:05,200 of dresses as if you're doing a dual friend wedding and they 800 00:25:05,200 --> 00:25:08,040 will never know and then you'll leave and not buy the dress. 801 00:25:08,040 --> 00:25:10,840 Like Phoebe and Monica from Friends. 802 00:25:10,840 --> 00:25:11,360 Yeah. 803 00:25:11,360 --> 00:25:11,760 Yes. 804 00:25:11,760 --> 00:25:15,040 And then you can sit on the couch in them and watch TV. 805 00:25:15,040 --> 00:25:19,200 Or Miranda and Carly from Sex in the City, 806 00:25:19,200 --> 00:25:21,360 except she ended up getting hives and having to take the dress 807 00:25:21,360 --> 00:25:24,560 off one episode of New Girl where Cici and Winston go shopping 808 00:25:24,560 --> 00:25:28,320 and they get so very drunk that she buys a really ugly dress. 809 00:25:28,320 --> 00:25:28,680 They're there. 810 00:25:28,680 --> 00:25:30,160 That's more like it for you. 811 00:25:30,160 --> 00:25:31,560 That I think is the real one. 812 00:25:31,560 --> 00:25:33,840 But then I'll just turn it inside out and wear it that way 813 00:25:33,840 --> 00:25:34,880 and it'll be perfect. 814 00:25:34,880 --> 00:25:38,760 Best episode ever. 815 00:25:38,760 --> 00:25:39,800 Moving on. 816 00:25:39,800 --> 00:25:43,000 Moving on to the more ridiculousness is. 817 00:25:43,000 --> 00:25:43,560 Yeah. 818 00:25:43,560 --> 00:25:46,160 If you have any fails or funny stories, 819 00:25:46,160 --> 00:25:47,240 I feel like you have a lot of them. 820 00:25:47,240 --> 00:25:49,160 I do. 821 00:25:49,160 --> 00:25:52,920 One of the weddings I was in at recently in July, 822 00:25:52,920 --> 00:25:55,760 it was a decent sized bridal party. 823 00:25:55,760 --> 00:25:57,680 So we're taking pictures and the photographers 824 00:25:57,680 --> 00:25:59,200 like telling us to move certain ways. 825 00:25:59,200 --> 00:26:02,080 Like we couldn't all be next to each other because it was too 826 00:26:02,080 --> 00:26:02,400 long. 827 00:26:02,400 --> 00:26:04,920 So he says to some of the groomsmen like come kneel down 828 00:26:04,920 --> 00:26:06,120 in front. 829 00:26:06,120 --> 00:26:09,560 So one of the groomsmen gets over, kneels down 830 00:26:09,560 --> 00:26:10,760 and you just you hear it. 831 00:26:10,760 --> 00:26:11,600 His pants ripped. 832 00:26:11,600 --> 00:26:12,480 No way. 833 00:26:12,480 --> 00:26:15,040 The whole like the seat and he didn't move. 834 00:26:15,040 --> 00:26:17,400 He stood there for the pictures and I don't know if everybody 835 00:26:17,400 --> 00:26:18,120 heard it. 836 00:26:18,120 --> 00:26:20,440 But I heard it because I was standing right next to me, 837 00:26:20,440 --> 00:26:23,360 stands up and I look at him and I go, did you rip your pants? 838 00:26:23,360 --> 00:26:25,240 He was like, oh my God. 839 00:26:25,240 --> 00:26:28,360 And surprisingly enough, that is the third time out of wedding. 840 00:26:28,360 --> 00:26:29,400 I saw a guy rip their pants. 841 00:26:29,400 --> 00:26:30,520 No way from dancing. 842 00:26:30,520 --> 00:26:31,480 I'm dancing usually. 843 00:26:31,480 --> 00:26:34,240 One of them he tried to do a split. 844 00:26:34,240 --> 00:26:35,080 I don't know why. 845 00:26:35,080 --> 00:26:37,440 And then spent the rest of the night with his jacket tied 846 00:26:37,440 --> 00:26:38,640 around his waist. 847 00:26:38,640 --> 00:26:42,160 This is his answer for that is so funny. 848 00:26:42,160 --> 00:26:47,360 OK, so give us a fail or I guess that's a fail. 849 00:26:47,360 --> 00:26:50,240 I have this isn't one specific story, 850 00:26:50,240 --> 00:26:52,200 but this happens at every wedding I go to. 851 00:26:52,200 --> 00:26:55,680 And if my one friend started it and it just we continue to do it 852 00:26:55,680 --> 00:27:00,600 every wedding we're at, we find a man with a belt and we take his belt 853 00:27:00,600 --> 00:27:02,800 and we make the whole dance floor play limbo. 854 00:27:03,600 --> 00:27:05,720 It's so much fun with a belt with the belts. 855 00:27:05,720 --> 00:27:08,120 We just take the belt and we add to people and we just start 856 00:27:08,120 --> 00:27:09,560 making people play limbo. 857 00:27:09,560 --> 00:27:10,800 Hilarious crowd. 858 00:27:10,800 --> 00:27:14,000 Do you pick the belt from the guy who ripped his pants? 859 00:27:14,000 --> 00:27:16,680 It's like we find one of our friends, someone we know. 860 00:27:16,680 --> 00:27:17,760 I'm like, hey, can I borrow your belt? 861 00:27:17,760 --> 00:27:19,320 And they're like, oh, I don't know. 862 00:27:19,320 --> 00:27:20,480 It's fine. 863 00:27:20,480 --> 00:27:22,640 And they give us our belt and we play limbo. 864 00:27:22,640 --> 00:27:24,600 It's so fun because everybody does it. 865 00:27:24,600 --> 00:27:26,840 The aunts, the uncles, the moms, kids, everybody. 866 00:27:26,840 --> 00:27:28,040 Everyone does it. 867 00:27:28,040 --> 00:27:29,560 It's hilarious. 868 00:27:29,560 --> 00:27:30,520 Take that to your next one. 869 00:27:30,520 --> 00:27:31,720 Do you done? 870 00:27:31,720 --> 00:27:33,680 Are you a dancer at these? 871 00:27:33,680 --> 00:27:36,400 I mean, I know you're a dancer, but like are you a stupid question? 872 00:27:36,400 --> 00:27:39,560 I know. But see, we it depends for us. 873 00:27:39,560 --> 00:27:43,640 Sometimes we don't like to dance at weddings because people expect us to 874 00:27:43,640 --> 00:27:47,840 like get the party started and to us, that's like a job. 875 00:27:47,880 --> 00:27:51,040 So we sometimes we're like, OK, we'll get in there when we want. 876 00:27:51,160 --> 00:27:53,600 I mean, if the music is. 877 00:27:54,760 --> 00:27:57,600 Something I like, I do not leave the dance floor. 878 00:27:57,680 --> 00:27:59,640 OK, second, a slow song comes on. 879 00:27:59,640 --> 00:28:01,000 I'm getting your out. 880 00:28:01,000 --> 00:28:02,760 I'm like, where's the snack table? 881 00:28:02,760 --> 00:28:04,200 I heard there were cookies. 882 00:28:04,200 --> 00:28:05,120 I'm going there. 883 00:28:05,120 --> 00:28:06,520 Let me know when the song's over. 884 00:28:06,520 --> 00:28:07,640 That sounds like my vibe. 885 00:28:07,640 --> 00:28:09,720 But other than that, I'm on the dance floor. 886 00:28:09,720 --> 00:28:11,200 You are. I don't leave. 887 00:28:11,200 --> 00:28:14,960 Do they still do the baskets in the bathroom with like everything you need? 888 00:28:15,080 --> 00:28:16,480 Yes. Yeah. 889 00:28:16,480 --> 00:28:19,280 Yeah, that was cool when I was getting a basket of flip flops. 890 00:28:19,760 --> 00:28:23,280 And then it's gone before I even a chance to see them because everyone books it, 891 00:28:23,280 --> 00:28:25,600 gets their pair and hides it under their chair until. 892 00:28:25,920 --> 00:28:28,120 Oh, until it's time to put them on. 893 00:28:28,120 --> 00:28:30,200 Stop. Oh, yeah, they're gone. 894 00:28:30,200 --> 00:28:33,400 And then the first like minute of the reception. 895 00:28:33,960 --> 00:28:36,480 And are you after partying? 896 00:28:36,840 --> 00:28:39,720 Like is there always an especially as a bridesmaid, right? 897 00:28:39,720 --> 00:28:42,440 You have the responsibility of like you have to stay up. 898 00:28:43,160 --> 00:28:50,760 Yeah. But the past few the after part or not, there was a there's a couple where 899 00:28:51,400 --> 00:28:55,240 I think this was like a may it started as a COVID thing 900 00:28:55,880 --> 00:28:59,280 instead of having like a separate place for the after party. 901 00:28:59,280 --> 00:29:03,720 They just like extended the reception to include another two hours. 902 00:29:03,720 --> 00:29:06,760 Really? These are just like five hours long. 903 00:29:06,760 --> 00:29:08,960 Oh, my God. And I'm like, I'm so tired. 904 00:29:08,960 --> 00:29:12,760 And the band and the DJ have to keep playing because everybody has to keep getting paid. 905 00:29:12,800 --> 00:29:13,800 Yes. 906 00:29:15,160 --> 00:29:17,240 I mean, yes, the DJ keeps playing. 907 00:29:18,240 --> 00:29:20,360 Yeah, what do you do? Music stops and everyone's like. 908 00:29:21,600 --> 00:29:26,480 No, but the reception time will end and the DJ will be like, OK, 909 00:29:26,480 --> 00:29:28,200 after party starts now. 910 00:29:28,200 --> 00:29:31,400 And that's when they bring out like their late night food and there's like pretzels 911 00:29:31,400 --> 00:29:33,280 and cheese steaks and like pizza. 912 00:29:33,280 --> 00:29:34,880 We had pizza at this last one. 913 00:29:34,880 --> 00:29:37,680 And I'm like, yeah, I'm going to go get a slice of pizza and get back on the dance 914 00:29:37,680 --> 00:29:39,640 because it's midnight now. Right. 915 00:29:39,640 --> 00:29:41,240 It's a different feast. 916 00:29:41,240 --> 00:29:43,240 It is what it was for years. 917 00:29:43,720 --> 00:29:48,560 I thought so for mine, we had the wedding was early. 918 00:29:48,960 --> 00:29:52,640 I don't like big gaps in between weddings and receptions, 919 00:29:52,640 --> 00:29:56,200 but I had an away wedding, which was very non-traditional. 920 00:29:56,680 --> 00:30:00,440 So I got married in the Poconos, so people traveled, had to stay overnight. 921 00:30:00,440 --> 00:30:04,280 Now it's like a big deal back then back in the day. 922 00:30:04,280 --> 00:30:08,040 But we had to have a certain amount of time because of the church or whatever. 923 00:30:08,320 --> 00:30:10,440 So we ended up having a bourbon and cigar bar, 924 00:30:11,360 --> 00:30:15,000 then a cocktail hour and a half, then a wedding. 925 00:30:15,000 --> 00:30:17,240 And that was like a huge deal. 926 00:30:17,720 --> 00:30:19,840 And then a bonfire after the wedding. 927 00:30:19,840 --> 00:30:22,360 So, yeah, we did do like an after party. 928 00:30:23,480 --> 00:30:25,600 And that, yeah, but you didn't provide. 929 00:30:26,480 --> 00:30:30,200 Like what they're doing for Philadelphia weddings is like the staples of Philadelphia. 930 00:30:30,200 --> 00:30:35,600 Yeah, their late night, like 12 o'clock in the morning moment was soft pretzels, 931 00:30:35,720 --> 00:30:37,880 cheese steaks, tasty cakes. 932 00:30:38,400 --> 00:30:41,480 Like it was all the things that I guess represented Philadelphia, 933 00:30:41,480 --> 00:30:43,000 but it was at midnight like you didn't do that. 934 00:30:43,000 --> 00:30:43,760 No, no, no, no, no. 935 00:30:43,760 --> 00:30:47,920 Hey, if you guys don't want to go to sleep, we're going to dance around this fire out back. 936 00:30:49,000 --> 00:30:52,920 And she's going to put a top hat on in his robe because he forgot to pack clothes for the hotel. 937 00:30:53,760 --> 00:30:55,840 And we're and that was the beginning. 938 00:30:55,840 --> 00:31:00,160 Yeah, of the end of the end for for us. 939 00:31:02,720 --> 00:31:04,640 I think before we do anything else, 940 00:31:05,800 --> 00:31:08,440 it's really for me so I can listen back and remember what you said. 941 00:31:08,440 --> 00:31:14,960 But for everybody, where is your go to wedding dress shop? 942 00:31:14,960 --> 00:31:17,320 Like as a guest, where are you shopping? 943 00:31:17,320 --> 00:31:21,680 Either Lulu's or Amazon. 944 00:31:22,080 --> 00:31:24,520 Yeah, but I love Lulu's. 945 00:31:24,520 --> 00:31:27,360 I love Lulu's also and I like them because I. 946 00:31:28,480 --> 00:31:30,320 I know my size at this point. 947 00:31:30,320 --> 00:31:31,320 That's always a hard thing. 948 00:31:31,320 --> 00:31:33,120 Is it true to size? 949 00:31:33,120 --> 00:31:36,640 Yes, if you guess a thing and this is what I found. 950 00:31:36,640 --> 00:31:39,400 Everything is true to size if you read the reviews the right way. 951 00:31:39,760 --> 00:31:45,840 And if you read what the fabric is, if you read reviews, people's people are so good about. 952 00:31:46,160 --> 00:31:49,760 I'm this tall, I weigh this much, I ordered this size fit perfectly. 953 00:31:50,080 --> 00:31:50,960 I'm like, amazing. 954 00:31:50,960 --> 00:31:51,920 Yeah, that's also me. 955 00:31:51,920 --> 00:31:53,200 I'll order that size. 956 00:31:53,200 --> 00:31:58,400 But a lot of times reading what the fabric is, you know, if it's going to give a little 957 00:31:58,400 --> 00:32:00,640 give, it's a little stretchy order, same size. 958 00:32:00,640 --> 00:32:05,680 If it's something that might not be, you get a size up and you really got that same with Amazon. 959 00:32:05,680 --> 00:32:10,080 I mean, I get so much on Amazon just by reading reviews and seeing pictures. 960 00:32:10,120 --> 00:32:11,800 And I'm like, she looks amazing. 961 00:32:11,800 --> 00:32:12,920 She's about my height. 962 00:32:12,920 --> 00:32:14,240 I'm going to get that dress. 963 00:32:14,240 --> 00:32:15,920 But I'm wearing on Fridays from Amazon. 964 00:32:15,920 --> 00:32:17,040 Do you review? 965 00:32:17,040 --> 00:32:18,000 No, I really should. 966 00:32:18,000 --> 00:32:19,240 You should, Joel. 967 00:32:19,240 --> 00:32:20,480 You could make money doing that. 968 00:32:20,480 --> 00:32:21,480 I know, I really should. 969 00:32:21,480 --> 00:32:23,040 Pay for these weddings. 970 00:32:23,040 --> 00:32:26,840 For people that like weddings like us, Julia. 971 00:32:27,880 --> 00:32:29,160 I don't not like wedding. 972 00:32:29,160 --> 00:32:31,160 Hold, hold the phone. 973 00:32:31,160 --> 00:32:32,560 I don't not like weddings. 974 00:32:32,560 --> 00:32:38,760 I think over the years and I think a catalyst to it was Pinterest, where everybody was 975 00:32:38,760 --> 00:32:40,480 getting ideas from other people. 976 00:32:40,480 --> 00:32:43,400 Before that, you just talked to someone. 977 00:32:43,400 --> 00:32:44,280 Oh, how was that wedding? 978 00:32:44,280 --> 00:32:45,840 How like what happened? 979 00:32:45,840 --> 00:32:50,200 There wasn't a picture board for you to be able to see different colors together or 980 00:32:50,200 --> 00:32:54,600 how they did their centerpieces and yeah, there's some really, really, really good 981 00:32:54,600 --> 00:32:59,440 ideas to keep things, you know, frugal or simple. 982 00:32:59,440 --> 00:33:01,600 Like you're you didn't do centerpieces. 983 00:33:01,600 --> 00:33:02,120 You did. 984 00:33:02,120 --> 00:33:03,440 I did cupcakes. 985 00:33:03,440 --> 00:33:06,280 That was your wedding cake was your centerpiece. 986 00:33:06,280 --> 00:33:07,440 Yeah, cupcakes. 987 00:33:07,440 --> 00:33:09,600 And that was before Pinterest. 988 00:33:09,600 --> 00:33:11,720 I know I was so ahead of my time. 989 00:33:11,720 --> 00:33:13,240 So I'm going to ignore you. 990 00:33:13,240 --> 00:33:18,320 So after Pinterest, I feel like everything got sensationalized. 991 00:33:18,320 --> 00:33:20,440 And some things are over the top. 992 00:33:20,440 --> 00:33:21,680 Some things are not over the top. 993 00:33:21,680 --> 00:33:25,760 I think, you know, there's so many pieces to it that are perfectly fine. 994 00:33:26,480 --> 00:33:30,320 But like a three day, four day bachelorette party. 995 00:33:30,320 --> 00:33:31,960 Yeah, I think is wild. 996 00:33:31,960 --> 00:33:35,040 I think that's a lot to ask of your friends. 997 00:33:35,720 --> 00:33:37,560 It definitely is because it's it's. 998 00:33:39,280 --> 00:33:41,040 I mean, it's the flight. 999 00:33:41,040 --> 00:33:41,840 It's the house. 1000 00:33:41,840 --> 00:33:44,320 It's, you know, the food and drinks for the house. 1001 00:33:44,320 --> 00:33:45,840 It's the outfits for the night. 1002 00:33:45,840 --> 00:33:49,720 So it's even if it's not like a theme, it's still OK, we're all wearing black. 1003 00:33:49,720 --> 00:33:50,720 She's wearing whites. 1004 00:33:50,720 --> 00:33:54,360 Now I have to plan my black outfit, which is, you know, I have one black, 1005 00:33:54,360 --> 00:33:55,360 very simple dress. 1006 00:33:55,360 --> 00:33:57,760 I bought it to four bachelorette parties at this point. 1007 00:33:57,760 --> 00:33:58,760 So I'm like, why would I? 1008 00:33:58,760 --> 00:33:59,760 Yeah, it's black. 1009 00:33:59,760 --> 00:34:01,960 But, you know, some of them are more than that. 1010 00:34:01,960 --> 00:34:04,040 Like I don't own a lot of blue clothes. 1011 00:34:04,040 --> 00:34:05,040 I'm not a blue person. 1012 00:34:05,040 --> 00:34:06,240 I was at a bachelorette party. 1013 00:34:06,240 --> 00:34:10,640 One of the night themes was something blue and we all had to wear a blue outfit. 1014 00:34:11,040 --> 00:34:12,040 Looked so cute. 1015 00:34:12,040 --> 00:34:13,440 We're all in different shades of blue. 1016 00:34:13,440 --> 00:34:14,040 Looked adorable. 1017 00:34:14,040 --> 00:34:15,040 But I had to buy. 1018 00:34:15,040 --> 00:34:16,040 You had to. 1019 00:34:16,040 --> 00:34:17,040 Yeah. 1020 00:34:17,040 --> 00:34:18,040 And I probably never wear it again. 1021 00:34:18,040 --> 00:34:19,040 I don't wear blue. 1022 00:34:19,040 --> 00:34:20,040 Right. 1023 00:34:20,040 --> 00:34:21,040 So if you need a blue outfit, let me know. 1024 00:34:21,040 --> 00:34:22,040 I mean, see, see fit blue. 1025 00:34:22,040 --> 00:34:23,040 Yes. 1026 00:34:23,040 --> 00:34:24,040 I don't. 1027 00:34:24,040 --> 00:34:25,040 I don't hate weddings. 1028 00:34:25,040 --> 00:34:28,040 I hate you. 1029 00:34:28,040 --> 00:34:31,040 I just there are some things that I think people could dial back. 1030 00:34:31,040 --> 00:34:32,040 Like, yeah, no, I agree. 1031 00:34:32,040 --> 00:34:34,040 Save your money, you know, do it. 1032 00:34:34,040 --> 00:34:36,040 Save it for my wedding gift. 1033 00:34:36,040 --> 00:34:37,040 Simpler. 1034 00:34:37,040 --> 00:34:38,040 Yeah. 1035 00:34:38,040 --> 00:34:39,040 Yeah. 1036 00:34:39,040 --> 00:34:41,040 I thought you were going to make fun of me for that. 1037 00:34:41,040 --> 00:34:43,040 Are you getting married again? 1038 00:34:43,040 --> 00:34:44,040 No, I want to. 1039 00:34:44,040 --> 00:34:46,040 I'm not going to Andrew, but I want to. 1040 00:34:46,040 --> 00:34:47,040 I'm busy. 1041 00:34:47,040 --> 00:34:48,040 Okay. 1042 00:34:48,040 --> 00:34:49,040 I'll be there. 1043 00:34:49,040 --> 00:34:50,040 Okay. 1044 00:34:50,040 --> 00:34:51,040 Thanks. 1045 00:34:51,040 --> 00:34:52,040 Julia will go to the bathroom with you. 1046 00:34:52,040 --> 00:34:55,040 I will make sure your dress is in the right place. 1047 00:34:55,040 --> 00:34:57,040 I'm wearing a cigarette in the background. 1048 00:34:57,040 --> 00:34:59,040 I'm wearing the same one. 1049 00:34:59,040 --> 00:35:00,040 I'm wearing the same one. 1050 00:35:00,040 --> 00:35:01,040 David's bridal. 1051 00:35:01,040 --> 00:35:02,040 David's bridal. 1052 00:35:02,040 --> 00:35:07,040 David's bridal, which is no more RIP and also not the dress she wanted. 1053 00:35:07,040 --> 00:35:08,040 No. 1054 00:35:08,040 --> 00:35:09,040 Not what you went in. 1055 00:35:09,040 --> 00:35:13,040 I was going to say, I've seen pictures of your dress and that's not what I would have. 1056 00:35:13,040 --> 00:35:16,040 So Andrew and I are the same size. 1057 00:35:16,040 --> 00:35:23,040 I did not want a dress that made me enormous and him look like little because, you know, 1058 00:35:23,040 --> 00:35:28,040 like ball gowns were big when I was getting married and I was like, I don't want a ball 1059 00:35:28,040 --> 00:35:29,040 gown. 1060 00:35:29,040 --> 00:35:34,040 I want a very tight mermaid comes out of the knee, like, you know, kind of dress and I 1061 00:35:34,040 --> 00:35:39,040 tried them on and then I picked a ball gown because I am a ball gown kind of person and 1062 00:35:39,040 --> 00:35:43,040 that that is me and I was like, I'm getting this dress. 1063 00:35:43,040 --> 00:35:47,040 I put it on and people can make fun of it all they want. 1064 00:35:47,040 --> 00:35:52,040 But when you know it's the right dress for you, you know, and I put it on and I was like, 1065 00:35:52,040 --> 00:35:53,040 that is the right dress for me. 1066 00:35:53,040 --> 00:35:58,040 Well, I also, you know, going to all these weddings and I've gotten good at kind of 1067 00:35:58,040 --> 00:36:02,040 and knowing my friends to getting a guess on what like their dress will look like. 1068 00:36:02,040 --> 00:36:03,040 Really? 1069 00:36:03,040 --> 00:36:07,040 And I mean, even the ones that I went shopping with, you know, they tried on a bunch of different 1070 00:36:07,040 --> 00:36:10,040 styles, different things and I'm like, no, you're going to get this. 1071 00:36:10,040 --> 00:36:11,040 You're going to love it. 1072 00:36:11,040 --> 00:36:15,040 And I like, you just know, but they have, they both, the ones I went with tried on like 1073 00:36:15,040 --> 00:36:20,040 ball gowns and there's just something about a ball gown that I'm like, but it's so pretty. 1074 00:36:20,040 --> 00:36:21,040 It is. 1075 00:36:21,040 --> 00:36:23,040 And when else do you get to wear it? 1076 00:36:23,040 --> 00:36:24,040 Right. 1077 00:36:24,040 --> 00:36:25,040 Where it's like normal. 1078 00:36:25,040 --> 00:36:29,040 But then I'm like, okay, but two hours into the reception, I'm going to be like, get this 1079 00:36:29,040 --> 00:36:30,040 skirt off of me. 1080 00:36:30,040 --> 00:36:31,040 No, you won't. 1081 00:36:31,040 --> 00:36:36,040 But that's the thing is this change at the reception. 1082 00:36:36,040 --> 00:36:41,040 So many people will have a big ball gown on for their ceremony and then get like a little 1083 00:36:41,040 --> 00:36:44,040 white slip dress to put on at the reception. 1084 00:36:44,040 --> 00:36:45,040 Yeah. 1085 00:36:45,040 --> 00:36:46,040 And they'll change. 1086 00:36:46,040 --> 00:36:47,040 That's a new thing. 1087 00:36:47,040 --> 00:36:48,040 I don't know how I feel about that. 1088 00:36:48,040 --> 00:36:51,720 I don't either because I'm like, if I'm spending all this money on a dress, I'm wearing it 1089 00:36:51,720 --> 00:36:54,040 until the second I have to take it off. 1090 00:36:54,040 --> 00:36:57,400 But I also would want it to be something comfortable that I will stay in all night. 1091 00:36:57,400 --> 00:37:02,840 I'm not a fan of the second dress and then people are wearing like the sneakers, the 1092 00:37:02,840 --> 00:37:04,040 white sneakers with the dress. 1093 00:37:04,040 --> 00:37:05,040 Oh, see, I'm a fan. 1094 00:37:05,040 --> 00:37:06,040 Guys, come on. 1095 00:37:06,040 --> 00:37:11,040 You guys get one night to be the princess of the ball. 1096 00:37:11,040 --> 00:37:12,040 I'm a princess every day. 1097 00:37:12,040 --> 00:37:13,040 Why are you wearing sneakers? 1098 00:37:13,040 --> 00:37:16,040 Because do you know, feet hurt after a while. 1099 00:37:16,040 --> 00:37:18,040 I wore belly slippers under my wedding dress. 1100 00:37:18,040 --> 00:37:19,040 I didn't even wear shoes. 1101 00:37:19,040 --> 00:37:20,040 I just... 1102 00:37:20,040 --> 00:37:21,040 And that's embarrassing for you. 1103 00:37:21,040 --> 00:37:22,040 I'm embarrassed for you. 1104 00:37:22,040 --> 00:37:23,040 That's the same. 1105 00:37:23,040 --> 00:37:24,040 It's just different. 1106 00:37:24,040 --> 00:37:25,040 But I will say... 1107 00:37:25,040 --> 00:37:27,040 It's the same, but it's different. 1108 00:37:27,040 --> 00:37:32,040 I will say a bridesmaid hack is numbing spray on your feet. 1109 00:37:32,040 --> 00:37:33,040 Stop it. 1110 00:37:33,040 --> 00:37:34,040 What? 1111 00:37:34,040 --> 00:37:35,040 Is that... 1112 00:37:35,040 --> 00:37:38,160 I can't remember the brand, but there's this numbing spray that I think is supposed to 1113 00:37:38,160 --> 00:37:40,040 be for like aches and pains. 1114 00:37:40,040 --> 00:37:42,040 No, spray it right on your feet. 1115 00:37:42,040 --> 00:37:44,040 You're good for a few hours. 1116 00:37:44,040 --> 00:37:45,040 You're good to go. 1117 00:37:45,040 --> 00:37:46,040 Oh, that's amazing. 1118 00:37:46,040 --> 00:37:47,040 Yeah, gosh. 1119 00:37:47,040 --> 00:37:48,040 What other hacks do you have? 1120 00:37:48,040 --> 00:37:50,040 Do you have any other hacks? 1121 00:37:50,040 --> 00:37:51,040 Yes, I have a few. 1122 00:37:51,040 --> 00:37:52,800 That's a good one. 1123 00:37:52,800 --> 00:37:54,040 Another one is always... 1124 00:37:54,040 --> 00:37:55,040 I mean, this isn't a hack. 1125 00:37:55,040 --> 00:37:56,400 This is just a thing to know. 1126 00:37:56,400 --> 00:37:59,600 Always have your lip gloss with you because you're... 1127 00:37:59,600 --> 00:38:00,920 As a bridesmaid, you're getting makeup done. 1128 00:38:00,920 --> 00:38:03,600 They put your lipstick on there and giving you anything to go. 1129 00:38:03,600 --> 00:38:08,320 So get a lip gloss with a little bit of color in it so you can just reapply as you go. 1130 00:38:08,320 --> 00:38:09,840 Brilliant. 1131 00:38:09,840 --> 00:38:13,520 If you have your makeup done and you're in the wedding, it's an outdoor wedding, it's 1132 00:38:13,520 --> 00:38:17,720 hot, you don't need to like bring powder or anything. 1133 00:38:17,720 --> 00:38:21,280 All you need is a clean brush and just dab. 1134 00:38:21,280 --> 00:38:22,280 Stop. 1135 00:38:22,280 --> 00:38:23,280 You just dab. 1136 00:38:23,280 --> 00:38:24,280 Don't wipe. 1137 00:38:24,280 --> 00:38:25,280 Just dab the sweat away. 1138 00:38:25,280 --> 00:38:26,280 It doesn't mess up the makeup. 1139 00:38:26,280 --> 00:38:27,280 It just keeps it good, but it gets all the sweat off. 1140 00:38:27,280 --> 00:38:30,940 Just a clean, dry makeup brush. 1141 00:38:30,940 --> 00:38:31,940 Always have that with you. 1142 00:38:31,940 --> 00:38:32,940 Such a good idea. 1143 00:38:32,940 --> 00:38:35,240 I'm going to do that as a guest. 1144 00:38:35,240 --> 00:38:36,240 Tell me more. 1145 00:38:36,240 --> 00:38:38,600 I always have a brush with me. 1146 00:38:38,600 --> 00:38:41,160 Whether it's for me or someone else, I always have a brush with me. 1147 00:38:41,160 --> 00:38:42,160 Oh, wow. 1148 00:38:42,160 --> 00:38:43,720 Are you holding a pocketbook? 1149 00:38:43,720 --> 00:38:44,720 I do. 1150 00:38:44,720 --> 00:38:45,720 I have a little... 1151 00:38:45,720 --> 00:38:46,720 A little clutch. 1152 00:38:46,720 --> 00:38:47,720 A little clutch. 1153 00:38:47,720 --> 00:38:48,720 Yeah. 1154 00:38:48,720 --> 00:38:49,720 A pocketbook. 1155 00:38:49,720 --> 00:38:52,720 Are you holding a pocketbook? 1156 00:38:52,720 --> 00:38:56,520 I'm trying to think of other hacks. 1157 00:38:56,520 --> 00:39:00,240 This isn't a hack, so to speak, but it's fun. 1158 00:39:00,240 --> 00:39:06,160 I now, I think all three of the weddings I've been in, the bride has said, can you just 1159 00:39:06,160 --> 00:39:08,920 take little videos all night? 1160 00:39:08,920 --> 00:39:09,920 Yeah. 1161 00:39:09,920 --> 00:39:11,420 You get the pictures. 1162 00:39:11,420 --> 00:39:17,200 Everyone's taken pictures, but getting the video of the groom dancing with the mom or 1163 00:39:17,200 --> 00:39:20,760 the bride's maids all dancing together, that you may not get if the photographer is not 1164 00:39:20,760 --> 00:39:21,760 there. 1165 00:39:21,760 --> 00:39:24,280 I have so many little videos. 1166 00:39:24,280 --> 00:39:27,600 Has that been your job to just get little videos throughout the wedding? 1167 00:39:27,600 --> 00:39:31,720 When I send them and the bride can decide what she does with them, some people will 1168 00:39:31,720 --> 00:39:36,080 make a little montage of it all before the actual wedding video comes out. 1169 00:39:36,080 --> 00:39:39,360 Some people just have them, but it's a lot of fun. 1170 00:39:39,360 --> 00:39:41,880 Oh, here's another thing. 1171 00:39:41,880 --> 00:39:45,240 This has only happened at one wedding, but it was so funny. 1172 00:39:45,240 --> 00:39:52,640 The bride's cousin brought a GoPro on a bottle of fireball with one of the poor spouse. 1173 00:39:52,640 --> 00:39:55,720 It's recording every time someone takes a drink. 1174 00:39:55,720 --> 00:40:01,040 There's a 10 minute long video on YouTube of everyone in this wedding just drinking 1175 00:40:01,040 --> 00:40:02,040 the fireball. 1176 00:40:02,040 --> 00:40:04,240 It is so funny. 1177 00:40:04,240 --> 00:40:06,720 I mean, that is a good idea. 1178 00:40:06,720 --> 00:40:10,880 And it's like a GoPro, so you get the person drinking and it's like the wide frame, so 1179 00:40:10,880 --> 00:40:12,960 you see everything happen in the background too. 1180 00:40:12,960 --> 00:40:13,960 Hilarious. 1181 00:40:13,960 --> 00:40:16,360 Then you're all sharing the vid. 1182 00:40:16,360 --> 00:40:19,760 COVID and the video. 1183 00:40:19,760 --> 00:40:29,200 That's where I insert a little thing that goes and cue that sound now. 1184 00:40:29,200 --> 00:40:30,200 Great. 1185 00:40:30,200 --> 00:40:33,480 I just learned this hack too. 1186 00:40:33,480 --> 00:40:39,080 We got very strict instructions from our hair person at this last wedding I went to. 1187 00:40:39,080 --> 00:40:48,520 The night before, we had to shampoo our hair twice, no condition, and blow dry it straight. 1188 00:40:48,520 --> 00:40:50,520 Yes. 1189 00:40:50,520 --> 00:40:56,240 So then the next day when the people doing our hair were doing it, everyone's curls 1190 00:40:56,240 --> 00:40:59,240 stayed until the last second of that wedding. 1191 00:40:59,240 --> 00:41:00,240 No way. 1192 00:41:00,240 --> 00:41:01,240 Everyone's hair looked so good. 1193 00:41:01,240 --> 00:41:06,080 My hair was up, so it really didn't matter, but the girls who had the long, big curls 1194 00:41:06,080 --> 00:41:08,880 the next day looked so good all day. 1195 00:41:08,880 --> 00:41:11,200 That is such a good thing to know. 1196 00:41:11,200 --> 00:41:14,160 Well Julia, we are going to play a little game with you. 1197 00:41:14,160 --> 00:41:15,160 Awesome. 1198 00:41:15,160 --> 00:41:16,160 Are you ready? 1199 00:41:16,160 --> 00:41:17,160 I don't know. 1200 00:41:17,160 --> 00:41:24,480 We're going to find out all of the things that Julia loves or doesn't love about weddings. 1201 00:41:24,480 --> 00:41:29,360 It's called rapid fire with Julia Gullia. 1202 00:41:29,360 --> 00:41:30,600 Tell me you know who Julia Gullia is. 1203 00:41:30,600 --> 00:41:31,600 I know who Julia Gullia is. 1204 00:41:31,600 --> 00:41:32,920 I said Victoria, she's not going to know. 1205 00:41:32,920 --> 00:41:33,920 She's so young. 1206 00:41:33,920 --> 00:41:34,920 That's amazing. 1207 00:41:34,920 --> 00:41:36,520 I have seen the wedding sing. 1208 00:41:36,520 --> 00:41:41,960 All right, Julia Gullia, I'm going to say something. 1209 00:41:41,960 --> 00:41:44,760 You're going to give me the answer, rapid fire. 1210 00:41:44,760 --> 00:41:47,280 Lots of flowers at a wedding or no, not at all. 1211 00:41:47,280 --> 00:41:48,600 Lots of flowers. 1212 00:41:48,600 --> 00:41:49,920 Long dress or short dress? 1213 00:41:49,920 --> 00:41:50,920 Long dress. 1214 00:41:50,920 --> 00:41:52,320 Big wedding or small? 1215 00:41:52,320 --> 00:41:55,440 Medium. 1216 00:41:55,440 --> 00:41:56,440 Church wedding or non-traditional? 1217 00:41:56,440 --> 00:41:58,080 I would do church wedding. 1218 00:41:58,080 --> 00:41:59,320 Church wedding. 1219 00:41:59,320 --> 00:42:02,680 Pre-wedding fireball shots or please don't drink before the wedding? 1220 00:42:02,680 --> 00:42:05,720 Pre-wedding fireball shots. 1221 00:42:05,720 --> 00:42:08,040 Destination bachelorette party or keep it local? 1222 00:42:08,040 --> 00:42:11,800 Keep it local. 1223 00:42:11,800 --> 00:42:14,160 Destination wedding or keep it local? 1224 00:42:14,160 --> 00:42:15,960 Puzzles on the destination. 1225 00:42:15,960 --> 00:42:16,960 That's true. 1226 00:42:16,960 --> 00:42:19,720 All right, strippers at a bachelorette party? 1227 00:42:19,720 --> 00:42:23,720 No. 1228 00:42:23,720 --> 00:42:27,040 Give me a budget or give the bride whatever she wants. 1229 00:42:27,040 --> 00:42:28,040 Budget. 1230 00:42:28,040 --> 00:42:29,920 I agree. 1231 00:42:29,920 --> 00:42:32,880 Long and funny speeches or not funny, keep it short? 1232 00:42:32,880 --> 00:42:34,760 Keep it short. 1233 00:42:34,760 --> 00:42:37,760 Stay for brunch after the wedding or no, my duties are done. 1234 00:42:37,760 --> 00:42:38,760 No, brunch. 1235 00:42:38,760 --> 00:42:40,480 I need that for the next day. 1236 00:42:40,480 --> 00:42:43,880 I know this answer, but hair up or down? 1237 00:42:43,880 --> 00:42:45,640 Makeup done or save the cash? 1238 00:42:45,640 --> 00:42:47,640 Makeup done. 1239 00:42:47,640 --> 00:42:50,440 Bridesmaid flash mob or no, that's 2000 and late? 1240 00:42:50,440 --> 00:42:52,240 No, that's 2000 and late. 1241 00:42:52,240 --> 00:42:54,280 Oh my God. 1242 00:42:54,280 --> 00:42:58,520 Bridesmaid and groomsmen make an entrance and be funny or no, just walk in? 1243 00:42:58,520 --> 00:42:59,520 Funny entrance. 1244 00:42:59,520 --> 00:43:00,520 Funny entrance. 1245 00:43:00,520 --> 00:43:01,520 Carly or Victoria? 1246 00:43:01,520 --> 00:43:02,520 Pepper. 1247 00:43:02,520 --> 00:43:03,520 Oh, Pepper, you got a vote. 1248 00:43:03,520 --> 00:43:04,520 You got a vote. 1249 00:43:04,520 --> 00:43:05,520 Guess what, Julia? 1250 00:43:05,520 --> 00:43:06,520 I win. 1251 00:43:06,520 --> 00:43:07,520 You won. 1252 00:43:07,520 --> 00:43:13,520 You don't have to be a bridesmaid for at least a month. 1253 00:43:13,520 --> 00:43:14,520 Oh, you're right. 1254 00:43:14,520 --> 00:43:20,000 I do have to go to another wedding on Friday, but I'm not in that one. 1255 00:43:20,000 --> 00:43:22,200 But it is in Brooklyn because nothing's lit up. 1256 00:43:22,200 --> 00:43:23,200 Nothing's local. 1257 00:43:23,200 --> 00:43:25,200 Oh my gosh, that's right. 1258 00:43:25,200 --> 00:43:26,200 Julia, Julia. 1259 00:43:26,200 --> 00:43:31,080 Julia, Julia, you won the game. 1260 00:43:31,080 --> 00:43:34,600 You are the forever wedding guru. 1261 00:43:34,600 --> 00:43:35,600 Yay. 1262 00:43:35,600 --> 00:43:38,960 I'm going to be a professional wedding guest. 1263 00:43:38,960 --> 00:43:43,200 You are very chill and I feel like you'd be a very chill bridesmaid and nothing would 1264 00:43:43,200 --> 00:43:45,560 phase you and nothing would be too dramatic. 1265 00:43:45,560 --> 00:43:50,760 So I mean, bridesmaid in my mind, a bridesmaid's duty is to be there for the bride. 1266 00:43:50,760 --> 00:43:53,480 Not cause drama, not make anything about myself. 1267 00:43:53,480 --> 00:43:54,480 I'm there. 1268 00:43:54,480 --> 00:43:57,040 Maybe that's why I've never been a bridesmaid. 1269 00:43:57,040 --> 00:43:59,240 This could be the longest day. 1270 00:43:59,240 --> 00:44:00,320 I could be that tired. 1271 00:44:00,320 --> 00:44:01,320 I could be this. 1272 00:44:01,320 --> 00:44:02,320 I could be that. 1273 00:44:02,320 --> 00:44:03,600 But like, come down to it. 1274 00:44:03,600 --> 00:44:04,840 These are my friends. 1275 00:44:04,840 --> 00:44:06,840 The ones asked me to be in their wedding. 1276 00:44:06,840 --> 00:44:08,180 I'm honored. 1277 00:44:08,180 --> 00:44:10,800 People think that being a bridesmaid is like, oh my God, I can't believe I'm in another 1278 00:44:10,800 --> 00:44:11,800 one. 1279 00:44:11,800 --> 00:44:15,840 I love the chance that my friends are like, I love you enough for you to stand next to 1280 00:44:15,840 --> 00:44:17,800 me while I get married. 1281 00:44:17,800 --> 00:44:19,000 I'm like, thank you. 1282 00:44:19,000 --> 00:44:20,000 Like I love this for me. 1283 00:44:20,000 --> 00:44:21,880 I'm literally honored to be your bridesmaid. 1284 00:44:21,880 --> 00:44:24,040 Like put me up there. 1285 00:44:24,040 --> 00:44:26,200 I want everyone to see that you love me this. 1286 00:44:26,200 --> 00:44:30,840 No, but actually I'm like, I'm like, this is, I, people think it's such a burden because 1287 00:44:30,840 --> 00:44:33,320 there is so much that goes into it. 1288 00:44:33,320 --> 00:44:37,640 But in my mind, the day of you're standing up there, you got your flowers, your hair, 1289 00:44:37,640 --> 00:44:43,840 your makeup's done and you look at your friend who is beaming so happy, could not look better, 1290 00:44:43,840 --> 00:44:47,640 like truly the best day of her life and you just get to be a part of it. 1291 00:44:47,640 --> 00:44:48,640 And I'm like, I love this. 1292 00:44:48,640 --> 00:44:49,640 I love that. 1293 00:44:49,640 --> 00:44:50,640 I love that for you. 1294 00:44:50,640 --> 00:44:51,640 Me too. 1295 00:44:51,640 --> 00:44:52,640 I love this for me. 1296 00:44:52,640 --> 00:45:00,640 That's the nicest thing you could say about your friend. 1297 00:45:00,640 --> 00:45:01,640 Yeah. 1298 00:45:01,640 --> 00:45:07,080 My friends are just the most thankful for the showers and the Bachelorettes and everything 1299 00:45:07,080 --> 00:45:08,080 we do for them. 1300 00:45:08,080 --> 00:45:09,080 But you're lucky. 1301 00:45:09,080 --> 00:45:12,800 I'm like the most appreciative and just like love that we are all there for them, which 1302 00:45:12,800 --> 00:45:14,680 makes getting through it a little bit easier. 1303 00:45:14,680 --> 00:45:15,680 Yeah. 1304 00:45:15,680 --> 00:45:16,680 And it's worth it for you. 1305 00:45:16,680 --> 00:45:17,680 It's worth it. 1306 00:45:17,680 --> 00:45:19,080 I'm like, this is, they are why I'm doing this. 1307 00:45:19,080 --> 00:45:20,080 Do you cry? 1308 00:45:20,080 --> 00:45:21,080 Every wedding. 1309 00:45:21,080 --> 00:45:22,080 Oh, without fail. 1310 00:45:22,080 --> 00:45:23,080 Oh, I love that. 1311 00:45:23,080 --> 00:45:24,080 That's so sweet. 1312 00:45:24,080 --> 00:45:25,080 Yes. 1313 00:45:25,080 --> 00:45:36,560 They both looked at me for a response. 1314 00:45:36,560 --> 00:45:38,680 And I agree. 1315 00:45:38,680 --> 00:45:40,180 It is very sweet. 1316 00:45:40,180 --> 00:45:43,000 Well, thank you so much, Jewel. 1317 00:45:43,000 --> 00:45:44,000 Thank you. 1318 00:45:44,000 --> 00:45:49,720 And if you want to see Julia in person with her Zen voice and her sweet little nature, 1319 00:45:49,720 --> 00:45:54,960 you can come to her class and her sweet little nature. 1320 00:45:54,960 --> 00:45:58,080 I love your little sweet little nature. 1321 00:45:58,080 --> 00:46:04,920 Real quick before we send off, because I think all people want to know, band or DJ. 1322 00:46:04,920 --> 00:46:11,360 So I'm going to say DJ, but I've been in a few weddings where there's a little bit 1323 00:46:11,360 --> 00:46:14,040 of instrument that plays along with the DJ. 1324 00:46:14,040 --> 00:46:17,720 There was a drum, the little drum set at the last wedding I was at and the drummer just 1325 00:46:17,720 --> 00:46:19,160 played along with the songs. 1326 00:46:19,160 --> 00:46:20,160 So much fun. 1327 00:46:20,160 --> 00:46:23,200 A wedding I was at, there was a saxophone player who just walked around the dance floor 1328 00:46:23,200 --> 00:46:25,920 and played a saxophone along with DJ. 1329 00:46:25,920 --> 00:46:29,720 But it's still, I mean, the band gets a little, a whole strictly a band. 1330 00:46:29,720 --> 00:46:31,040 You're like, okay, let's be done. 1331 00:46:31,040 --> 00:46:33,640 Like I want to hear Beyonce and I want to hear Beyonce sing Beyonce. 1332 00:46:33,640 --> 00:46:34,640 Right. 1333 00:46:34,640 --> 00:46:39,080 And I want to hear Beyonce sing it, but having a little something to go along with it. 1334 00:46:39,080 --> 00:46:40,400 It's a lot of fun. 1335 00:46:40,400 --> 00:46:42,120 That is really cool. 1336 00:46:42,120 --> 00:46:43,120 Yeah. 1337 00:46:43,120 --> 00:46:49,320 I've also seen like a band during the meal, like playing some like, you know, chill stuff 1338 00:46:49,320 --> 00:46:51,360 in the background while we're eating. 1339 00:46:51,360 --> 00:46:53,880 And then when we're on the dance floor, it's the DJ. 1340 00:46:53,880 --> 00:46:54,880 Like I've seen both. 1341 00:46:54,880 --> 00:46:58,440 Oh, that, that bride has a lot of money. 1342 00:46:58,440 --> 00:46:59,440 Yes. 1343 00:46:59,440 --> 00:47:00,440 Correct. 1344 00:47:00,440 --> 00:47:02,680 That is accurate. 1345 00:47:02,680 --> 00:47:05,400 We just love your little nature. 1346 00:47:05,400 --> 00:47:08,360 And we really appreciate your hacks. 1347 00:47:08,360 --> 00:47:09,360 Actually. 1348 00:47:09,360 --> 00:47:10,360 Oh, yes. 1349 00:47:10,360 --> 00:47:11,360 That's huge. 1350 00:47:11,360 --> 00:47:17,600 Your hacks and we just are in awe of you and your stamina and your financial stamina 1351 00:47:17,600 --> 00:47:22,040 to get through all of this and that you are so happy about it. 1352 00:47:22,040 --> 00:47:25,440 I know that you're a night, you're genuinely a nice friend. 1353 00:47:25,440 --> 00:47:27,040 I think we would be the opposite. 1354 00:47:27,040 --> 00:47:28,040 Yeah. 1355 00:47:28,040 --> 00:47:29,040 We would be the complainers. 1356 00:47:29,040 --> 00:47:31,960 But seriously, thank you so much for taking the time today. 1357 00:47:31,960 --> 00:47:32,960 Thank you. 1358 00:47:32,960 --> 00:47:36,200 There is no one else we would talk about weddings to than you. 1359 00:47:36,200 --> 00:47:38,400 And we're going to go dress shopping and we'll document it. 1360 00:47:38,400 --> 00:47:40,880 I'm telling you, it should happen. 1361 00:47:40,880 --> 00:47:41,880 It should. 1362 00:47:41,880 --> 00:47:42,880 We'll go. 1363 00:47:42,880 --> 00:47:43,880 Okay. 1364 00:47:43,880 --> 00:47:44,880 It'll be fun. 1365 00:47:44,880 --> 00:47:45,880 She's busy for the next 12 months of wedding. 1366 00:47:45,880 --> 00:47:46,880 Going to weddings. 1367 00:47:46,880 --> 00:47:47,880 We only have one more. 1368 00:47:47,880 --> 00:47:49,440 But we'll figure it out. 1369 00:47:49,440 --> 00:47:50,440 Love you, Joel. 1370 00:47:50,440 --> 00:47:51,440 Thank you. 1371 00:47:51,440 --> 00:47:52,440 Love you guys. 1372 00:47:52,440 --> 00:47:53,440 Woo. 1373 00:47:53,440 --> 00:48:00,800 Remember, you are always fit at Lulu's and on Amazon, but you're always fit to be real 1374 00:48:00,800 --> 00:48:11,520 and always allowed to be a little extra. 1375 00:48:11,520 --> 00:48:15,880 With your little nature. 1376 00:48:15,880 --> 00:48:19,080 For legal reasons, we have to tell you that this podcast is meant for entertainment and 1377 00:48:19,080 --> 00:48:20,880 educational purposes only. 1378 00:48:20,880 --> 00:48:23,080 We are not healthcare professionals. 1379 00:48:23,080 --> 00:48:27,200 For all of your health, wellness, fitness and self care needs, please refer to the medical 1380 00:48:27,200 --> 00:48:28,880 professional in your life. 1381 00:48:28,880 --> 00:48:33,960 Your primary care physician, your 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