1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:04,000 Welcome to Fit to Be Real and a little extra. 2 00:00:04,000 --> 00:00:08,000 We have a very special guest and I know I say that to all of our guests, so they're all special, 3 00:00:08,000 --> 00:00:17,000 but this one is really special because he is overworked and underpaid for what he does here for Seafit 4 00:00:17,000 --> 00:00:22,000 and for Fit to Be Real and for Carly's marriage. 5 00:00:22,000 --> 00:00:26,000 So hopefully you know who we're talking about. It's Andrew! 6 00:00:26,000 --> 00:00:32,000 Andrew Dykman! Let's figure out what he does for a living. 7 00:00:32,000 --> 00:00:36,000 So we're going to find out and I'm excited to have him on. 8 00:00:36,000 --> 00:00:44,000 Music 9 00:00:44,000 --> 00:00:53,000 We are so excited to have Andrew on my husband of how many years now, let's say 12 years. 10 00:00:53,000 --> 00:01:01,000 Going on 12 years. Father to Melody Lewis and Dean, awesome unofficial CEO of Seafit. 11 00:01:01,000 --> 00:01:08,000 And today we're actually going to find out what he does to make money because nobody ever knows. 12 00:01:08,000 --> 00:01:11,000 Well, he started as an actor in New York City. 13 00:01:11,000 --> 00:01:17,000 He did, right? He grew up in upstate New York. He is not from Delaware County and when he got here, he was like, 14 00:01:17,000 --> 00:01:22,000 what is this world that you all live in? What is Delco? 15 00:01:22,000 --> 00:01:24,000 But now he wears sweatpants to Wawa. 16 00:01:24,000 --> 00:01:29,000 And he used to count how many people wore pajama pants and sweatpants and now he's one of them. 17 00:01:29,000 --> 00:01:35,000 But he's from upstate New York, Cooperstown. He went to Williams College for English actually. 18 00:01:35,000 --> 00:01:41,000 And he became an actor and that's how we met. We met doing theater in the Poconos and now we have three awesome kids 19 00:01:41,000 --> 00:01:44,000 and we're going to find out a little bit more about Andrew. 20 00:01:44,000 --> 00:01:53,000 From acting, he got into the concert scene. He worked for a company that put concerts together. 21 00:01:53,000 --> 00:01:54,000 Yes, he did VIPs. 22 00:01:54,000 --> 00:01:55,000 And he did singers, not just theater. 23 00:01:55,000 --> 00:02:09,000 Right. So he worked for a lot of country artists and he would do VIP, anytime you go to a concert and there you know that the artist is actually somewhere else in the arena doing a small private event and he would work those small private events. 24 00:02:09,000 --> 00:02:15,000 And he worked for a company that was very much for one, at least one time, filtered into a Super Bowl VIP. 25 00:02:15,000 --> 00:02:24,000 And then he got the dream job, which is with Speakle World, which is what he will talk to us today about, which is more Vegas type entertainment. 26 00:02:24,000 --> 00:02:29,000 Yes, and it's super fun and I'm excited for you all to hear what he does. 27 00:02:29,000 --> 00:02:34,000 Yeah, because I really don't know. 28 00:02:34,000 --> 00:02:39,000 Like Andrew, he knows how to do a bunch of stuff. He's the roadie. He's the on stage talent. 29 00:02:39,000 --> 00:02:45,000 He's the ticket guy. He's the guy who just like, if you want to ask him something, he's Google. He's our personal. 30 00:02:45,000 --> 00:02:51,000 He's yes, and he's the most level headed, calm person you will ever meet, which is the calm to my crazy. 31 00:02:51,000 --> 00:02:55,000 And he's like, look up, there's Google. Look it up. 32 00:02:55,000 --> 00:03:00,000 We're like, yeah, you do it for free. 33 00:03:00,000 --> 00:03:05,000 Let's talk to him. 34 00:03:05,000 --> 00:03:10,000 I'm Victoria. Hey guys, I'm Carly. Hey guys, it's Andrew. 35 00:03:10,000 --> 00:03:14,000 Wait, that was good. Do it again. 36 00:03:14,000 --> 00:03:19,000 Hey guys, it's Andrew. Oh, we've got options. Third time. Best time. 37 00:03:19,000 --> 00:03:24,000 Hey guys, it's Andrew. 38 00:03:24,000 --> 00:03:28,000 There's a lot like the second one. That's kind of like Robert Goulet. 39 00:03:28,000 --> 00:03:33,000 Hey guys, thanks for inviting me to come over here. Not at all. Last minute. Not at all. 40 00:03:33,000 --> 00:03:38,000 Totally, totally planned and calendar and Andrew loves lists. 41 00:03:38,000 --> 00:03:43,000 Not at all. Hurry up. We've 20 minutes. Don't be bad. Be good. 42 00:03:43,000 --> 00:03:52,000 Listen, Andrew has been trying to get me on a calendar share like a family calendar for, I don't know, 16 years. 43 00:03:52,000 --> 00:03:55,000 But you two are the family. I know. 44 00:03:55,000 --> 00:04:00,000 Can't you just talk? Well, yeah, that's what I do. He doesn't like when I say things. 45 00:04:00,000 --> 00:04:08,000 Well, yeah, I mean, I do like when you say things, but we have different organizational approaches. 46 00:04:08,000 --> 00:04:13,000 I'm organized and you're not. Accurate. 47 00:04:13,000 --> 00:04:17,000 He likes it to be written on his phone. I like things to be written in pencil. 48 00:04:17,000 --> 00:04:20,000 But you don't even do that. Well, no, but if I were to do it. 49 00:04:20,000 --> 00:04:24,000 But that's not it. No, you like nothing. Yeah. Well, because I got it all up here. 50 00:04:24,000 --> 00:04:32,000 You organize. You keep it mentally organized, but then you your style of communicating that sometimes. 51 00:04:32,000 --> 00:04:40,000 I say it. Just say it out loud and you repeat it a lot and that works for you because you like it hammers it home in your mind. 52 00:04:40,000 --> 00:04:44,000 But it just goes in one ear and out the other for me because that's not how I actually work. 53 00:04:44,000 --> 00:04:47,000 Because when I talk, it just goes in one ear and out the other. 54 00:04:47,000 --> 00:04:48,000 This makes total sense. 55 00:04:48,000 --> 00:04:54,000 And it's not that I didn't ever operate like that, but I'm I've adapted to modern work tools. 56 00:04:54,000 --> 00:05:01,000 So I have a calendar and I have a list and I have communication tools and I use those all day every day. 57 00:05:01,000 --> 00:05:05,000 And you are on a completely different system. 58 00:05:05,000 --> 00:05:07,000 He's working. 59 00:05:07,000 --> 00:05:13,000 My brain doesn't actually literally doesn't function that way anymore because like those synapses have withered and died. 60 00:05:13,000 --> 00:05:15,000 He's working smarter, not harder. 61 00:05:15,000 --> 00:05:20,000 I know. And we do dumber and longer. I mean, dumber and harder was that part of it. 62 00:05:20,000 --> 00:05:25,000 It's off to exhibit a exhibit a. 63 00:05:25,000 --> 00:05:38,000 Okay. So, and besides being Carly's husband, which is a job and a dad of three and the CEO of Seafit unofficially and kind of. 64 00:05:38,000 --> 00:05:40,000 And you don't want it, but we're forcing it on you. 65 00:05:40,000 --> 00:05:48,000 Yeah. And the sound guy and the lighting guy and kind of everything else guy for Seafit. 66 00:05:48,000 --> 00:05:55,000 You're Chandler Bing. What do you actually do for your job? 67 00:05:55,000 --> 00:06:02,000 I'm Chandler Bing. Me. You just don't know. I work in live events and I am a production manager. 68 00:06:02,000 --> 00:06:06,000 I'm the head of production, comma, creative for speed. 69 00:06:06,000 --> 00:06:17,000 Comma creative. Yeah. We have other heads of production, but I focus on the creative development process. 70 00:06:17,000 --> 00:06:27,000 So it's basically like a management role, but you know, with the production focus, you know, it's basically anything that's physically produced as part of what we do. 71 00:06:27,000 --> 00:06:31,000 The production team handles and takes care of. 72 00:06:31,000 --> 00:06:39,000 And what he's talking about are shows in Vegas type of entertainment. 73 00:06:39,000 --> 00:06:48,000 Right. You used to do concerts and venues and what we do now is that we have a focus on building new entertainment venues. 74 00:06:48,000 --> 00:06:54,000 So it's really construction and it's a construction process. 75 00:06:54,000 --> 00:07:02,000 The current project, we're just opening up the hook in Atlantic City and that's been a two plus year timeline. 76 00:07:02,000 --> 00:07:21,000 So it's everything from the beginning of that, which is, you know, the drawing everything in detail and coming up with the creative concepts and then handing that over to a team of consultants who then actually produces real working drawings like electrical drawings and architectural drawings and, you know, every little detail bit and Bob about the venue. 77 00:07:21,000 --> 00:07:32,000 Bit and Bob. Love them. And see in person was committed like in a drawing to paper first so that the people who need to build the venue understand how to build it. 78 00:07:32,000 --> 00:07:50,000 And then there's a whole process of them, the people who are building it kind of questioning what you designed and all of that gets documented and then we're kind of right in the middle of like managing that whole process and answering questions and then going back to our creative team and figuring out what they want to do or what their vision is and then just sort of gluing it all together and 79 00:07:50,000 --> 00:07:59,000 communicating everything there is to, you know, everything that needs to be shared between all these different people and then owning kind of like the budget and account. 80 00:07:59,000 --> 00:08:09,000 So they just opened, they have a couple shows in Vegas, but they just opened a restaurant and a show in Atlantic City. 81 00:08:09,000 --> 00:08:27,000 So that's, we're happy because it's Atlantic City and his travel commute is shortened by a plane flight for now. But it's a really cool Cirque du Soleil type of show. I always say that to people Cirque du Soleil, but it's not. 82 00:08:27,000 --> 00:08:36,000 Yeah, that's like that. That's the easy touchstone for people is to think of variety and circuses Cirque du Soleil, but we're kind of like the anti Cirque du Soleil and not in a bad way. We're not like enemies of Cirque du Soleil. 83 00:08:36,000 --> 00:09:05,000 No, what we do is very different. It's like a dirty show. Yeah, Cirque du Soleil is like a big giant picture frame where you're very far away and looking at this beautiful spectacle and a Spiegel World show is something incredibly intimate where you are literally two feet away from the performers and they're, you know, you can see every beat of sweat and you can watch their muscles strain and, you know, being that close gives it a sense of excitement and danger and, you know, you can, you can see them working. 84 00:09:05,000 --> 00:09:08,000 Yeah. You know, through their act. 85 00:09:08,000 --> 00:09:20,000 Or you can see how effortless it is for them and Marvel. And then it's a mixture of that and like really kind of raunchy comedy, usually. Yeah, which is we don't usually find in like a Cirque show. 86 00:09:20,000 --> 00:09:22,000 No. 87 00:09:22,000 --> 00:09:37,000 So Spiegel World is your company and just rattle off the names of all of the shows that you're in charge of or Spiegel World. Yeah, we've got three shows in Vegas. Currently we've got Absinthe, which is like the OG flagship. 88 00:09:37,000 --> 00:09:50,000 We've got the Atomic Saloon show at the Venetian. And then we've got OPM at Cosmopolitan and our restaurant Super Freakos also at the Cosmopolitan kind of like right next door to OPM. 89 00:09:50,000 --> 00:10:01,000 We've just opened up the hook in Atlantic City and we've got two more and as well as the second Super Freakon, we've got two more venues in partnership with Caesars that are opening over the next two years. 90 00:10:01,000 --> 00:10:13,000 The next one's going to be in Vegas like same time next year over the summer of 24 and then New Orleans is after that. We're trying to get New Orleans in kind of like around the time of the Super Bowl. 91 00:10:13,000 --> 00:10:16,000 I'm trying to get it soon too because I've never been and I'd like to go. 92 00:10:16,000 --> 00:10:20,000 So we're having right from one fire into the next. 93 00:10:20,000 --> 00:10:28,000 So when you say restaurants, are there, is there entertainment pieces to the restaurant as well? Or is it strictly a restaurant? 94 00:10:28,000 --> 00:10:38,000 Yeah, yeah, no, what's part of like the brand for Super Freakos is that the restaurant is activated, we call them by Super Feats. 95 00:10:38,000 --> 00:10:48,000 The treats are, you know, it's like performances that happen within the space or they're like moments. They're not really, it's definitely not like dinner theater. 96 00:10:48,000 --> 00:10:50,000 They're like silly little vignettes during your meal. 97 00:10:50,000 --> 00:10:58,000 Vignettes is a good word. It's a moment, it's a vignette, something that happens and it's usually only involves a few people in the restaurant. 98 00:10:58,000 --> 00:11:05,000 So they're like small little vignettes while you're eating dinner. They're like little mini performances of like 10 seconds and then they're gone. 99 00:11:05,000 --> 00:11:09,000 You really have to like, you watch them, but you're not really involved. They're just the waiter? 100 00:11:09,000 --> 00:11:16,000 No, they're performers that just have to like go around and do their little 10, 20 second act and then they go away. 101 00:11:16,000 --> 00:11:28,000 Yeah, it's performers in the show and part of their show, their performance track, we work in moments where they go through the restaurant and they have a thing that they do. 102 00:11:28,000 --> 00:11:39,000 Vignette is a perfect word because it is short. It's a moment, for some people it's an intimate experience and for other people you're watching it happen to another table and enjoying it that way. 103 00:11:39,000 --> 00:11:43,000 I like it that way. I don't like it when it's happening to me. 104 00:11:43,000 --> 00:11:52,000 It adds a lot of energy to the restaurant and excitement and brings something new and the whole point is that it's not something where you need to stop and what you're doing and watch. 105 00:11:52,000 --> 00:12:00,000 You can kind of either catch it out of the corner of your eye and enjoy it or you might get wrapped into it more deeply or you can ignore it and go on with your dinner, your conversation. 106 00:12:00,000 --> 00:12:11,000 I feel like you're describing yourself at Seafit. You are a vignette that happens on the left side of the stage that you either catch or maybe you don't or maybe you're involved. 107 00:12:11,000 --> 00:12:13,000 Oh, that's my performance track. 108 00:12:13,000 --> 00:12:25,000 The people on the left side get a show every Saturday morning and during the week when he comes to, but definitely every Saturday morning left side of the room gets a full on performance from Andrew. 109 00:12:25,000 --> 00:12:27,000 We should be paying you more. 110 00:12:27,000 --> 00:12:32,000 Yeah, you know my style was born out of like a survival tactic at the beginning. 111 00:12:32,000 --> 00:12:41,000 I was just like out of my comfort zone. It was me, ladies, which you know, isn't a bad thing, but I had to learn to act. 112 00:12:41,000 --> 00:12:47,000 My method of coping was to get a little silly with it and that's become my trademark style. 113 00:12:47,000 --> 00:12:52,000 Yeah, it is trademark style. We totally get it. Super freak out. Andrew and Seafit. 114 00:12:52,000 --> 00:12:59,000 Andrew, what is your favorite thing about working with us at Seafit CEO? 115 00:12:59,000 --> 00:13:02,000 We're switching gears. Got it. 116 00:13:02,000 --> 00:13:10,000 My favorite thing is the feeling of excitement for where Seafit is going and you can be real. This is a real. 117 00:13:10,000 --> 00:13:15,000 You can be real. Potential of Seafit. 118 00:13:15,000 --> 00:13:21,000 Was that real? That was real. I didn't even tell him to say that. Like I tell other people to say things. 119 00:13:21,000 --> 00:13:26,000 It's just like an awesome insight to what home life is for you to. Amazing. 120 00:13:26,000 --> 00:13:30,000 Look how positive and hopeful though. I like that. I like that, Andrew. 121 00:13:30,000 --> 00:13:45,000 What is harder? Opening up a brand new restaurant, show commuting to Vegas and back or Atlantic City and a home or working with Carly? 122 00:13:45,000 --> 00:13:52,000 Sorry, which is harder? See, he totally like went away a little bit. 123 00:13:52,000 --> 00:14:07,000 At work we've got our lanes. Things are very well defined. With working at home, it's all about figuring out who's doing what. 124 00:14:07,000 --> 00:14:15,000 I think communicating about roles and then also differences of opinions sometimes. I mean, they all have their own challenges. 125 00:14:15,000 --> 00:14:21,000 We're not allowed to have a difference of opinions. So Carly is harder. Basically, the answer is Carly. 126 00:14:21,000 --> 00:14:29,000 We always say, is Andrew here? Because he's so quiet. He's just so quiet. And I am not. 127 00:14:29,000 --> 00:14:36,000 Are you just too loud? But that's what I mean. He could be next to you and be like, oh, Andrew, hey. 128 00:14:36,000 --> 00:14:40,000 Because he's just a very quiet person and he's always been like that, right? 129 00:14:40,000 --> 00:14:42,000 Yeah. Right? 130 00:14:42,000 --> 00:14:52,000 Well, yeah, I mean, I have a twin brother and when we were growing up, we had our kind of own sort of silent communication. 131 00:14:52,000 --> 00:14:59,000 And then we did have to overcome that and learn how to actually verbalize. And that was a big step and a big challenge. 132 00:14:59,000 --> 00:15:06,000 But I do remember distinctly like, for some reason having some meeting in the guidance counselor's office, we were talking about, 133 00:15:06,000 --> 00:15:15,000 there was something to do with college admissions and there was this conversation about, you know, I don't want to say talking out loud more, 134 00:15:15,000 --> 00:15:21,000 but it was something more about like using our outside voice. Your big boy voice. 135 00:15:21,000 --> 00:15:25,000 To express our internal life more clearly. 136 00:15:25,000 --> 00:15:32,000 So that was, is that just a twin thing? Because you were able to kind of, I don't know, it was a twin thing. 137 00:15:32,000 --> 00:15:35,000 Telekinesis. 138 00:15:35,000 --> 00:15:39,000 But I mean, it was something that we had to deal with. 139 00:15:39,000 --> 00:15:42,000 Not all twins. Who knows? Who knows really? 140 00:15:42,000 --> 00:15:47,000 Yeah, I don't really know. That's just kind of how we communicated. 141 00:15:47,000 --> 00:15:55,000 We would have full on kind of conversations. And it was a lot of little phrases and words and sounds and stuff, which sounds silly, 142 00:15:55,000 --> 00:16:03,000 but it's like when your kids are like singing a little song or then they change it. You know, they're laughing about something you kind of don't really understand what they're talking about. 143 00:16:03,000 --> 00:16:05,000 You're in language. You're in your own language. 144 00:16:05,000 --> 00:16:13,000 Yeah, it's not like it was like fucking Klingon or something. Or like Elvis or whatever. It was just, you know, it's... 145 00:16:13,000 --> 00:16:17,000 Oh my gosh. I really, that's what I'm picturing though. That's what I'm listening to. 146 00:16:17,000 --> 00:16:24,000 No, it was just little words and phrases and sounds and snippets of a song or what, you know what I mean? 147 00:16:24,000 --> 00:16:34,000 Basically just little jokes back and forth or, you know, expressions or just a lot of things that when you're side by side with somebody who's a... 148 00:16:34,000 --> 00:16:36,000 Since you were a baby, like you just developed these... 149 00:16:36,000 --> 00:16:37,000 Yeah, yeah, yeah. 150 00:16:37,000 --> 00:16:41,000 So you think that contributes to the miscommunication. 151 00:16:41,000 --> 00:16:48,000 Yeah, bring it back full circle. No, you were asking about why I'm so quiet. 152 00:16:48,000 --> 00:16:53,000 I also grew up in a house where you could hear everything. So we learned to be stealthy ninjas. 153 00:16:53,000 --> 00:16:55,000 Stealth is kind of your house now. 154 00:16:55,000 --> 00:17:04,000 Yeah. So Andrew grew up on a 100 acre property in a house, like a wooden house. 155 00:17:04,000 --> 00:17:12,000 So you can hear everything on lots of land. So like when you went outside, you went outside to land. You didn't go outside to Wawa, you know? 156 00:17:12,000 --> 00:17:18,000 So every floorboard creaks in his house. It's like a big cabin in the woods basically. 157 00:17:18,000 --> 00:17:26,000 And our house has a lot of wood in it and it's like very open and you can, you can hear everything in our house, but his is like a pin. 158 00:17:26,000 --> 00:17:33,000 Oh my gosh. I don't know how you guys talked on the phone as teenagers without the entire house hearing. 159 00:17:33,000 --> 00:17:34,000 Maybe you didn't. 160 00:17:34,000 --> 00:17:35,000 We didn't have a phone. 161 00:17:35,000 --> 00:17:38,000 You did too. 162 00:17:38,000 --> 00:17:43,000 Yeah, we did. But when I was growing up, we literally had like two landlines. 163 00:17:43,000 --> 00:17:48,000 We had courted phones for a while and they're only like two phones in the house. 164 00:17:48,000 --> 00:17:53,000 So we did get a handheld. So you just would take the handheld and go in your room. 165 00:17:53,000 --> 00:17:56,000 For those of you who don't know, Andrew is a little older than I am. 166 00:17:56,000 --> 00:18:02,000 So there's a, there's an age gap. Okay. So just so we all know. 167 00:18:02,000 --> 00:18:07,000 Basically Andrew is way more cultured and doesn't just listen to in sync. 168 00:18:07,000 --> 00:18:13,000 Every time we just went on a road trip two weekends ago and he was like, whatever you want to listen to. And I was like in sync. 169 00:18:13,000 --> 00:18:16,000 He was like, no, no. And he never says no to me. 170 00:18:16,000 --> 00:18:23,000 And he was like, no, no, we didn't listen to smart list. A podcast. 171 00:18:23,000 --> 00:18:26,000 Carly likes her things. 172 00:18:26,000 --> 00:18:32,000 She likes her things and she doesn't like change, which is why you two are very compatible. 173 00:18:32,000 --> 00:18:40,000 Well, you met Victoria when she was only 15 years old. Can you believe that? Oh yeah. She was only 15. 174 00:18:40,000 --> 00:18:48,000 You were only 19. I was only 19, but when and Andrew was, I think it was 42. 175 00:18:48,000 --> 00:18:54,000 See guys, if you listen and you let him talk sometimes he's funny, but nobody ever lets him talk. 176 00:18:54,000 --> 00:18:57,000 Okay, not in this family, not in this family. 177 00:18:57,000 --> 00:19:04,000 But it was like when he would come visit because he didn't live in Springfield. We lived in New York. 178 00:19:04,000 --> 00:19:10,000 My mom would make him sleep in our basement and I slept in my room and Victoria slept in her room. 179 00:19:10,000 --> 00:19:15,000 And even though we live together in New York and I'm like, mom, come on. He's 26 years old. 180 00:19:15,000 --> 00:19:19,000 Like why can't he sleep in my room? And he was like, I have a 15 year old daughter. 181 00:19:19,000 --> 00:19:23,000 I would never let him sleep in your bedroom. She is 15 years old. 182 00:19:23,000 --> 00:19:27,000 Secretly Andrew was like, thank God, I'm in the basement. This is awesome. 183 00:19:27,000 --> 00:19:34,000 Quiet. We go see you guys and go to bed. Do you remember that? 184 00:19:34,000 --> 00:19:39,000 Yeah, I mean, that was the summer during which, are you talking about that summer? 185 00:19:39,000 --> 00:19:45,000 Summer of 2005, 2006, yeah. Those two summers, she was 15 and 16 years old. 186 00:19:45,000 --> 00:19:48,000 Those were the year? Yeah. 187 00:19:48,000 --> 00:19:55,000 We wanted to bring Andrew on today so you could get a little glimpse into what he actually does. 188 00:19:55,000 --> 00:20:02,000 And he's not just the Seafit handyman go to every man, which he is. 189 00:20:02,000 --> 00:20:09,000 That is his side hustle, which he doesn't get paid for. He gets paid for in love and temper tantrums. 190 00:20:09,000 --> 00:20:13,000 It's his side sacrifice. It's his side sacrifice. 191 00:20:13,000 --> 00:20:19,000 But he actually does have a real job when he's not around. He's really not around. He's in Vegas or Atlantic City. 192 00:20:19,000 --> 00:20:24,000 But we all need to go see the hook. Look it up. Atlantic City. Go. You will have the experience of a lifetime. 193 00:20:24,000 --> 00:20:27,000 Before he leaves, though, we're going to play a little game. 194 00:20:27,000 --> 00:20:35,000 That I like to call sure or psych man. 195 00:20:35,000 --> 00:20:39,000 What? Because his name is Dykeman. Oh my God. 196 00:20:39,000 --> 00:20:46,000 Psych man. Like, sure, that's true or psych man. That's false. 197 00:20:46,000 --> 00:20:53,000 Okay, I'm going to say things, Andrew, and you are going to say sure, that's true or psych. That's false. Are you ready? 198 00:20:53,000 --> 00:21:01,000 I'm ready. All right. Sure or psych. You met Carly in 2005 doing theater. 199 00:21:01,000 --> 00:21:05,000 Sure. Yeah, that's 100% sure. It means true or false. 200 00:21:05,000 --> 00:21:10,000 We used to have a dog growing up named Balboa. 201 00:21:10,000 --> 00:21:15,000 Psych man. What was it? Rocky. Yes. Very good. 202 00:21:15,000 --> 00:21:23,000 Carmella once gave you rose petals in a box and told you after two weeks of dating me that if she could dream up a guy for me, it would be you. 203 00:21:23,000 --> 00:21:27,000 Sure. Yeah, you can't make that up. That is 100%. Sure. 204 00:21:27,000 --> 00:21:34,000 Victoria loved living with us in New York. Psych man. 205 00:21:34,000 --> 00:21:42,000 Accurate. You broke up with me two times. Psych man. How many times was it? 18. 206 00:21:42,000 --> 00:21:52,000 No. Andrew broke up with me three times before. I actually thought that was true. Two? No, it was three. You broke up with me three times. 207 00:21:52,000 --> 00:21:59,000 No, it's 100% sure. It's awesome. Carly knows how to make coffee. Psych man. 208 00:21:59,000 --> 00:22:04,000 Victoria knows how to make coffee. Sure. Yeah, that's true. 209 00:22:04,000 --> 00:22:10,000 Carly and Victoria looked forward to having business meetings with you all the time. Psych man. 210 00:22:10,000 --> 00:22:18,000 Andrew likes to tell us how we need to improve and we like to shoot every idea down is basically what how those meetings go. Sure. 211 00:22:18,000 --> 00:22:24,000 And Carly's aggressive. Sure. Sure. That was worth it. That was worth it. That was worth it. 212 00:22:24,000 --> 00:22:31,000 Up until two weeks before Dean was born, his name was going to be Duke. Sure. Yeah, that is 100% sure. 213 00:22:31,000 --> 00:22:39,000 The blanket to prove it. Carly is super handy around the house. Psych man. Psych. 214 00:22:39,000 --> 00:22:48,000 This is a good one. If you want something done right, call Carly. If you want something done really fast but wrong and then cry about it all day, call Victoria. 215 00:22:48,000 --> 00:22:57,000 Surely. I don't know what to say here. Sure. Say it again. Yeah. If you want something done right, call Carly. 216 00:22:57,000 --> 00:23:04,000 If you want something done really fast and wrong and then cry about it, call Victoria. Psych. 217 00:23:04,000 --> 00:23:12,000 I've never done things right on the first time. That's what I'm saying. This is also. Oh, that's right. You got it right. You got it right. Yes. 218 00:23:12,000 --> 00:23:22,000 Oh my God. Your favorite seafood sister is Carly. Sure. Your first. Your first one. Wait, we need to hear that a little louder. No. 219 00:23:22,000 --> 00:23:31,000 You said, sure. Like you didn't even say it. No, because he's obligated. There's a ring on his finger, but you got it, Carly. You won. 220 00:23:31,000 --> 00:23:38,000 Saying the word sure. Sure doesn't have like a, it's hard to make that sound snappy. Sure. I mean, you can. You're an actor. 221 00:23:38,000 --> 00:23:50,000 Sure. You should see her eyes. You should see the level of her eyes she just gave him. Keep going. That is it. That was my last one because I thought he would end with a sure. Nailed it. Nailed it. 222 00:23:50,000 --> 00:24:10,000 Guess what, Andrew? Nice try, though. No. You won. Oh, nice. Nice. You are no longer a psych man. You are a dyke man. Fantastic. I enjoyed that one. Oh my God. 223 00:24:10,000 --> 00:24:28,000 So for your real tip today, we're advising you that you go check out the hook in Atlantic City if you're local, of course, you take one night schedule it with your friends and have the best time. 224 00:24:28,000 --> 00:24:44,000 And one now you know kind of some of the ins and outs of someone who put it all together. And number two, I have not seen it yet personally, but I will be soon and I already know it's going to be amazing. If you are not local and you want to go to Vegas, check out one of Spiegel World 225 00:24:44,000 --> 00:25:04,000 shows out in Vegas again, plan it with your friends, have the best time and and just forget about your lists of everything of life for one night. I always do. You forget. Well, we learned you like to pencil it in in your head with imaginary lead. So real tip plan. 226 00:25:04,000 --> 00:25:09,000 Check out a Spiegel World show and have the best time. 227 00:25:09,000 --> 00:25:21,000 And now for your real extra tip of the week. It's called you stay classy Atlantic City. Oh my God. What does you stay classy Atlantic City mean? 228 00:25:21,000 --> 00:25:32,000 It means if you're anything like me, you have a closet full of clothes that you've never worn, but you always intend to get dressed up and go out. But you always sort of dress down a little bit. 229 00:25:32,000 --> 00:25:48,000 Yeah. If you're going to the hook in Atlantic City or you're going out, get dressed up, put on the dress, put on the nice clothes that you've been saving for a special occasion. The special occasion is now. I guarantee you wearing something from your closet. Do not go buy something. You don't need it. 230 00:25:48,000 --> 00:25:58,000 You've got the nice clothes in your closet will make you feel so good and be so happy. Take the pictures, take all the selfies and you stay classy Atlantic City. 231 00:25:58,000 --> 00:26:07,000 It's so true, though, we're always like worried about being too overdressed. Yeah, we're always like, Oh, what are you all wearing? I don't want to want to dress down. Yeah, I don't want to. 232 00:26:07,000 --> 00:26:18,000 I don't want to jeans if you're into weapons. Yeah, something like that. Just put the red lipstick on have have a blast. I agree. I like that. Just just to put a fun fact in for this episode. 233 00:26:18,000 --> 00:26:30,000 So we all listened to Carly and her extra tip, right? She names it. She tells us the name of it. And then she says, What does it mean? Like she has we know what it by now basically. 234 00:26:30,000 --> 00:26:42,000 So we're teaching. I forget which which class but we're teaching a class at Seafit. And she did something that she does all the time, every single time. And we're making fun of her the whole class. Everybody knows. 235 00:26:42,000 --> 00:26:55,000 Shocking, shocking. And this she meant to say, I'm a creature of habit. Like that's what she meant in her brain. She penciled it in and that's what she meant. But she didn't she couldn't articulate it. 236 00:26:55,000 --> 00:27:08,000 And so what came out was I'm a person of consistency. So the next time you have an explanation to someone where you're like, I'm a creature of habit, I would like you to try to say, I'm a person of consistency. 237 00:27:08,000 --> 00:27:13,000 Listen, saying you're a person of consistency is way harder than saying you're a creature of habit. 238 00:27:13,000 --> 00:27:21,000 It's about I feel like it goes with state class. The Atlantic says, What does I'm a person of consistency mean? I'll tell you. 239 00:27:21,000 --> 00:27:34,000 Remember, you're always fit to be real and always allowed to be a little extra. Let's say goodbye to Andrew. Okay. 240 00:27:34,000 --> 00:27:44,000 We love you, Andrew. Thank you for coming on the cast. He's so busy. He has a meeting right now. He's running late for his meeting. Goodbye. 241 00:27:44,000 --> 00:27:47,000 Bye bye. 242 00:27:47,000 --> 00:28:07,000 For legal reasons, we have to tell you that this podcast is meant for entertainment and educational purposes only. We are not healthcare professionals. For all of your health, wellness, fitness and self care needs, please refer to the medical professional in your life, your primary care physician, your therapist, a certified coach, whoever it may be. 243 00:28:07,000 --> 00:28:16,000 And then let us know what they say because I guarantee we need to know what to do. Okay. 244 00:28:16,000 --> 00:28:18,000 Okay. Bye.