1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:03,680 Welcome to Fit to Be Real and a little extra. 2 00:00:04,640 --> 00:00:06,940 We're talking about all of the extra today. 3 00:00:07,500 --> 00:00:10,440 We have one of our lifelong friends 4 00:00:11,300 --> 00:00:13,680 here to teach us how to be cool, 5 00:00:14,880 --> 00:00:19,280 even though we're in our thirties and we're we try too hard. 6 00:00:19,280 --> 00:00:20,440 We're losing it a little bit. 7 00:00:20,440 --> 00:00:24,800 So we need to, you know, up our game, the TikTok, the social media, 8 00:00:24,800 --> 00:00:29,200 the slang, all the things that really should be left for the 20 years. 9 00:00:30,560 --> 00:00:31,440 She's going to teach us. 10 00:00:31,440 --> 00:00:32,200 Yay. 11 00:00:38,200 --> 00:00:40,600 I'm Victoria. Hey, guys, I'm Carly. 12 00:00:42,000 --> 00:00:46,040 And we are here with my mini me. Yeah. 13 00:00:47,400 --> 00:00:48,840 I don't know if that's insulting or not. 14 00:00:48,840 --> 00:00:51,200 I honestly don't know if she wants to be that. 15 00:00:51,200 --> 00:00:56,000 But she is. Here's the deal. 16 00:00:56,000 --> 00:00:57,640 Here's the deal. 17 00:00:57,640 --> 00:00:59,960 She is a double major at Westchester University, 18 00:01:00,240 --> 00:01:04,400 and I just learned that in early grades and special education 19 00:01:05,400 --> 00:01:08,640 and you are going to be a senior, which is awesome. 20 00:01:08,640 --> 00:01:13,080 And she's minoring in assisting Carly in life and raising Carly's children. 21 00:01:13,800 --> 00:01:14,800 That's her minor. 22 00:01:14,800 --> 00:01:17,800 I mean, that those are lessons you cannot. 23 00:01:17,800 --> 00:01:21,040 You know, get at school. 24 00:01:21,640 --> 00:01:24,680 Oh, no. Oh, no. 25 00:01:24,680 --> 00:01:27,840 I meant to say go life lessons, but I already said lessons and I didn't know 26 00:01:28,600 --> 00:01:31,280 bring it back. That's why I need Julia. 27 00:01:31,640 --> 00:01:34,680 So she's been dancing her whole life. 28 00:01:35,000 --> 00:01:36,080 She still dances. 29 00:01:36,080 --> 00:01:38,440 She assists at Carmella's dance studio. 30 00:01:38,440 --> 00:01:43,600 She was an intern through the program and she better never leave. 31 00:01:43,600 --> 00:01:47,800 I'm not leaving. Julia Barbi, everyone. 32 00:01:47,800 --> 00:01:50,360 Yeah. Hey, guys. 33 00:01:50,360 --> 00:01:52,160 Oh, that was a good one. 34 00:01:52,560 --> 00:01:55,920 That was cool. She just said she didn't even say her name because she's that cool. 35 00:01:55,920 --> 00:01:59,520 She just said, hey, guys, because that's how cool she is. 36 00:01:59,520 --> 00:02:01,880 No name needed. Yeah. Oh, boy. 37 00:02:02,040 --> 00:02:04,680 OK, today's going to be fun for a lot of different reasons. 38 00:02:05,040 --> 00:02:08,680 I have loved Julia's vibe since meeting. 39 00:02:08,680 --> 00:02:13,080 Yes, since meeting her because she's like, I don't even know how to describe it. 40 00:02:13,080 --> 00:02:14,640 So chill. So chill. 41 00:02:14,640 --> 00:02:16,440 So yeah. So so. 42 00:02:16,440 --> 00:02:18,600 Can we say so chill? Is that a cool thing to say? Yeah. 43 00:02:18,640 --> 00:02:20,000 Yeah. OK. Cool. 44 00:02:20,000 --> 00:02:25,000 She's been so chill where like her excitement is like, wow, that's really exciting. 45 00:02:25,160 --> 00:02:27,200 Yes. And that's probably her max. 46 00:02:27,200 --> 00:02:29,960 And that's a really good representation of Julia. 47 00:02:29,960 --> 00:02:30,760 Thank you. Yeah. 48 00:02:30,760 --> 00:02:35,360 I think that's why my kids love her so much is because she doesn't come in. 49 00:02:35,600 --> 00:02:39,320 This is probably not cool to say, but like balls to the wall like, hey, guys, 50 00:02:39,320 --> 00:02:41,400 what's up, let's play. She's like, fake. 51 00:02:41,400 --> 00:02:43,080 Like, hey, fake. 52 00:02:43,080 --> 00:02:45,600 Yes, she'll walk in and be like, yeah, what's up? 53 00:02:45,640 --> 00:02:49,960 Yeah. You know, she's just like very even when the kids are 54 00:02:50,600 --> 00:02:52,880 like upset, she's very even when they're happy. 55 00:02:52,880 --> 00:02:55,520 She's very even. So like the kids really gravitate towards her. 56 00:02:55,680 --> 00:03:00,680 Not only my kids, the studio kids that she teaches, they love her. 57 00:03:00,680 --> 00:03:05,160 And wait, she's one of our Seafit birthday party necessities. 58 00:03:05,160 --> 00:03:06,280 Oh, necessities. 59 00:03:06,280 --> 00:03:10,240 Because she plays all the games after the dancing and the cake and the pizza happens. 60 00:03:10,240 --> 00:03:14,200 And when they're getting rowdy and wild and running all over an open dance floor, 61 00:03:14,440 --> 00:03:16,840 she's like, yeah, no, we're not going to do that. 62 00:03:16,840 --> 00:03:17,520 We too. 63 00:03:17,520 --> 00:03:18,920 We're just going to do that. 64 00:03:18,920 --> 00:03:19,720 Don't do that. 65 00:03:20,640 --> 00:03:21,520 And they don't. 66 00:03:22,040 --> 00:03:24,240 And we would be like, get off the stage. 67 00:03:25,280 --> 00:03:27,920 That's why we have to leave and we leave Julia in charge. 68 00:03:29,120 --> 00:03:30,240 100%. 69 00:03:30,280 --> 00:03:35,640 So the inspiration behind this episode is because really, Karlie, Karlie 70 00:03:35,640 --> 00:03:39,840 really tries too hard. I don't think it's trying too hard. 71 00:03:39,840 --> 00:03:41,520 It's like, I think I'm right. 72 00:03:41,520 --> 00:03:45,120 Like, I think the past episodes, when I look in the mirror, I'm 21. 73 00:03:45,120 --> 00:03:50,120 So to me, I should be fine doing all this. 74 00:03:50,320 --> 00:03:52,520 I am super cool. 75 00:03:53,040 --> 00:03:53,520 Yeah. 76 00:03:53,520 --> 00:03:58,160 I am not that when I look in the mirror and actually do it, I'm like, oh God. 77 00:03:58,160 --> 00:03:59,160 No. 78 00:03:59,160 --> 00:04:03,160 And Julia legit gets embarrassed by me like I'm her mother. 79 00:04:03,160 --> 00:04:03,680 Yes. 80 00:04:03,680 --> 00:04:06,400 And like we get embarrassed by mom. 81 00:04:06,400 --> 00:04:09,240 But I think Mrs. Barbier gets embarrassed of you as well. 82 00:04:09,240 --> 00:04:11,360 So like it's not like a mother thing. 83 00:04:11,360 --> 00:04:12,360 What's up, Jen? 84 00:04:13,360 --> 00:04:14,560 Getting jiggy with it. 85 00:04:14,560 --> 00:04:16,160 She's always getting jiggy with it. 86 00:04:16,160 --> 00:04:18,160 The woman is always getting jiggy with it. 87 00:04:18,160 --> 00:04:19,960 I'm going to ask you a question. 88 00:04:19,960 --> 00:04:23,560 Is it true that less is more for you guys? 89 00:04:23,560 --> 00:04:24,560 Yes. 90 00:04:24,560 --> 00:04:26,160 Like in all ways. 91 00:04:26,160 --> 00:04:27,360 Well, I think so. 92 00:04:27,360 --> 00:04:28,360 Some people don't. 93 00:04:28,360 --> 00:04:31,160 I think you just got to be just like subtle. 94 00:04:31,160 --> 00:04:34,040 Like, oh, like if you want to throw up the peace sign, you can. 95 00:04:34,040 --> 00:04:35,040 You just do it like. 96 00:04:35,040 --> 00:04:36,040 Yeah. 97 00:04:36,040 --> 00:04:39,040 She did it like so calmly and there's me like a Chihuahua. 98 00:04:39,040 --> 00:04:40,040 Yeah. 99 00:04:40,040 --> 00:04:41,040 It's like a little aggressive. 100 00:04:41,040 --> 00:04:46,040 That was very sweet of you to say that's a little aggressive because usually she goes, 101 00:04:46,040 --> 00:04:47,040 oh no, no, no, no. 102 00:04:47,040 --> 00:04:49,040 And she walks away. 103 00:04:49,040 --> 00:04:50,040 Okay. 104 00:04:50,040 --> 00:04:51,400 I have a problem being chill. 105 00:04:51,400 --> 00:04:55,240 I think that I'm chill, but I've been told that I'm not. 106 00:04:55,240 --> 00:04:56,240 Yeah. 107 00:04:56,240 --> 00:04:57,240 Wait, do you know who you are? 108 00:04:57,240 --> 00:05:00,640 I, of course, I cannot think of this character's name in Greece. 109 00:05:00,640 --> 00:05:01,640 I know what you're going to say. 110 00:05:01,640 --> 00:05:02,640 I know what you're going to say. 111 00:05:02,640 --> 00:05:03,640 I know what you're going to say. 112 00:05:03,640 --> 00:05:04,640 Patty Simcox. 113 00:05:04,640 --> 00:05:05,640 Patty Simcox. 114 00:05:05,640 --> 00:05:06,640 I was thinking about this episode. 115 00:05:06,640 --> 00:05:08,280 It's so weird that you said that. 116 00:05:08,280 --> 00:05:09,440 That's so weird. 117 00:05:09,440 --> 00:05:15,120 I was driving over here thinking about this episode and what I can make it known to everybody, 118 00:05:15,120 --> 00:05:20,400 like how I normally am and how Julia maybe needs to reign me in a little bit. 119 00:05:20,400 --> 00:05:23,680 And I was thinking I'm how what's a good analogy? 120 00:05:23,680 --> 00:05:25,040 I'm the Patty Simcox. 121 00:05:25,040 --> 00:05:26,040 I am not the Rizzo. 122 00:05:26,040 --> 00:05:27,040 Shut up. 123 00:05:27,040 --> 00:05:28,040 I'm not the Jan. 124 00:05:28,040 --> 00:05:29,880 And I was like, I was president of student council. 125 00:05:29,880 --> 00:05:34,600 I was always like, guys, I'm the most like, let's be happy and let's do this. 126 00:05:34,600 --> 00:05:35,600 And let's do that. 127 00:05:35,600 --> 00:05:36,600 I'm Patty Simcox. 128 00:05:36,600 --> 00:05:38,880 And I was thinking about that on the drive over. 129 00:05:38,880 --> 00:05:39,880 Weird. 130 00:05:39,880 --> 00:05:41,640 Rizzo was like super cool. 131 00:05:41,640 --> 00:05:42,640 You're very Rizzo. 132 00:05:42,640 --> 00:05:43,640 Me. 133 00:05:43,640 --> 00:05:44,640 Yeah. 134 00:05:44,640 --> 00:05:46,840 And Victoria is without all the scandal. 135 00:05:46,840 --> 00:05:49,240 And Victoria is more Rizzo. 136 00:05:49,240 --> 00:05:50,240 I'm Jan. 137 00:05:50,240 --> 00:05:52,200 I love Jan. 138 00:05:52,200 --> 00:05:54,760 She loves the toothbrush commercial. 139 00:05:54,760 --> 00:05:55,760 That's me. 140 00:05:55,760 --> 00:05:58,680 I always wanted to be Marty. 141 00:05:58,680 --> 00:06:00,880 But I'm not her. 142 00:06:00,880 --> 00:06:03,280 No, you are not a Marty. 143 00:06:03,280 --> 00:06:04,280 Let's go back. 144 00:06:04,280 --> 00:06:05,280 Do you know the movie Grease? 145 00:06:05,280 --> 00:06:06,280 Are you old enough? 146 00:06:06,280 --> 00:06:07,280 Yeah. 147 00:06:07,280 --> 00:06:10,560 I've never like fully watched it, but I've seen scenes. 148 00:06:10,560 --> 00:06:12,640 I've never sat down and watched the entire thing. 149 00:06:12,640 --> 00:06:15,240 But I also know because of the music and stuff. 150 00:06:15,240 --> 00:06:19,600 Well, that's why we need this episode because the person we have on the podcast doesn't know 151 00:06:19,600 --> 00:06:20,600 the movie Grease. 152 00:06:20,600 --> 00:06:22,160 Here's the thing. 153 00:06:22,160 --> 00:06:23,640 Patty Simcox. 154 00:06:23,640 --> 00:06:25,560 Everybody should be Patty Simcox. 155 00:06:25,560 --> 00:06:27,600 There's nothing wrong with her, right? 156 00:06:27,600 --> 00:06:34,360 In this movie, the cheerleading, pom poms, good girl, student council, all the things, 157 00:06:34,360 --> 00:06:35,840 lots of energy. 158 00:06:35,840 --> 00:06:42,160 But if you're trying to be in a TikTok world today, it's a no for me. 159 00:06:42,160 --> 00:06:50,120 I think everyone of the generation that you are in of what cool versus the main confusion 160 00:06:50,120 --> 00:06:54,080 for me when it comes to all of this is is the word you choose to say. 161 00:06:54,080 --> 00:06:55,080 The slang. 162 00:06:55,080 --> 00:06:57,400 Which we'll get into the slang of it all. 163 00:06:57,400 --> 00:06:59,680 The vibe, I think I get. 164 00:06:59,680 --> 00:07:02,720 Your vibe just needs to change, not change, actually. 165 00:07:02,720 --> 00:07:05,880 You be you, but know that it's not what you want it to be. 166 00:07:05,880 --> 00:07:06,880 I know. 167 00:07:06,880 --> 00:07:07,880 It's not. 168 00:07:07,880 --> 00:07:11,160 I think what I see coming across is not what comes across. 169 00:07:11,160 --> 00:07:12,160 Exactly. 170 00:07:12,160 --> 00:07:13,160 Yeah. 171 00:07:13,160 --> 00:07:14,480 Well, let's get into it then. 172 00:07:14,480 --> 00:07:16,920 You know that I use many words incorrectly. 173 00:07:16,920 --> 00:07:17,920 Yes. 174 00:07:17,920 --> 00:07:20,240 And when I say them, I shouldn't. 175 00:07:20,240 --> 00:07:21,240 Yeah. 176 00:07:21,240 --> 00:07:22,240 Slay. 177 00:07:22,240 --> 00:07:23,240 Slay. 178 00:07:23,240 --> 00:07:25,240 Am I young enough to say slay? 179 00:07:25,240 --> 00:07:26,960 You could say slay. 180 00:07:26,960 --> 00:07:30,280 Slay in the right time. 181 00:07:30,280 --> 00:07:31,280 So when do you say it? 182 00:07:31,280 --> 00:07:32,280 Here it comes in. 183 00:07:32,280 --> 00:07:33,280 No. 184 00:07:33,280 --> 00:07:37,560 That's when we should be saying slay. 185 00:07:37,560 --> 00:07:38,880 So when do you say slay? 186 00:07:38,880 --> 00:07:43,080 I say slay when you're like, if I do something for you. 187 00:07:43,080 --> 00:07:44,280 I said it the other day in a text. 188 00:07:44,280 --> 00:07:46,440 You said something and I was like, okay, slay. 189 00:07:46,440 --> 00:07:50,760 Julia, you text me in one word full. 190 00:07:50,760 --> 00:07:53,440 You have a whole conversation with me in one word increments. 191 00:07:53,440 --> 00:07:54,440 I'll say slay. 192 00:07:54,440 --> 00:07:55,440 Period. 193 00:07:55,440 --> 00:07:56,440 Yeah. 194 00:07:56,440 --> 00:07:57,440 I'll say queen. 195 00:07:57,440 --> 00:07:58,440 Yeah. 196 00:07:58,440 --> 00:07:59,440 Cool. 197 00:07:59,440 --> 00:08:00,440 Or okay. 198 00:08:00,440 --> 00:08:01,440 Yeah. 199 00:08:01,440 --> 00:08:02,600 I would say more cool than okay. 200 00:08:02,600 --> 00:08:05,480 Like because you can use it in different ways. 201 00:08:05,480 --> 00:08:09,440 Like maybe like slay. 202 00:08:09,440 --> 00:08:10,440 Let's get into the next one. 203 00:08:10,440 --> 00:08:14,440 My favorite one that you've taught all of my kids that say it all the time. 204 00:08:14,440 --> 00:08:15,440 Period. 205 00:08:15,440 --> 00:08:16,440 Oh, oh. 206 00:08:16,440 --> 00:08:17,440 The voice change. 207 00:08:17,440 --> 00:08:18,440 Was that too much? 208 00:08:18,440 --> 00:08:19,440 Yeah, my voice changed. 209 00:08:19,440 --> 00:08:20,440 It was a lot. 210 00:08:20,440 --> 00:08:21,440 Okay. 211 00:08:21,440 --> 00:08:22,440 Just period. 212 00:08:22,440 --> 00:08:23,440 Period. 213 00:08:23,440 --> 00:08:25,320 If you say period, it's just like, yeah. 214 00:08:25,320 --> 00:08:26,480 It just means yeah. 215 00:08:26,480 --> 00:08:28,640 It could be more like mic drop too. 216 00:08:28,640 --> 00:08:29,640 Mic drop. 217 00:08:29,640 --> 00:08:30,640 That makes no sense. 218 00:08:30,640 --> 00:08:31,640 Mic drop is like, you know. 219 00:08:31,640 --> 00:08:34,000 So then why don't you say mic drop? 220 00:08:34,000 --> 00:08:35,000 That's too long. 221 00:08:35,000 --> 00:08:36,000 It's too long. 222 00:08:36,000 --> 00:08:37,000 Period. 223 00:08:37,000 --> 00:08:38,000 Period. 224 00:08:38,000 --> 00:08:39,000 Get it? 225 00:08:39,000 --> 00:08:40,000 Period. 226 00:08:40,000 --> 00:08:41,000 End of sentence. 227 00:08:41,000 --> 00:08:42,000 Done. 228 00:08:42,000 --> 00:08:43,000 Period. 229 00:08:43,000 --> 00:08:44,000 Period. 230 00:08:44,000 --> 00:08:46,760 If I was like, oh, like do you want to go to the mall? 231 00:08:46,760 --> 00:08:47,760 Just be like period. 232 00:08:47,760 --> 00:08:48,760 Slay. 233 00:08:48,760 --> 00:08:49,760 Period. 234 00:08:49,760 --> 00:08:50,760 Maybe not the slay. 235 00:08:50,760 --> 00:08:52,760 Just be like period on my way. 236 00:08:52,760 --> 00:08:53,760 Period. 237 00:08:53,760 --> 00:08:54,760 Queen. 238 00:08:54,760 --> 00:08:55,760 Period. 239 00:08:55,760 --> 00:08:56,760 Okay. 240 00:08:56,760 --> 00:09:02,240 So if I was like, if you say you pay me, right, for babysitting, I'm like, yes queen, thank 241 00:09:02,240 --> 00:09:06,240 you, because like you're giving me money, you know, you're a queen. 242 00:09:06,240 --> 00:09:07,240 Yeah. 243 00:09:07,240 --> 00:09:08,240 Okay. 244 00:09:08,240 --> 00:09:09,240 She says it so easily. 245 00:09:09,240 --> 00:09:10,720 She just goes like yes queen. 246 00:09:10,720 --> 00:09:11,720 Yeah. 247 00:09:11,720 --> 00:09:13,040 Like yeah queen. 248 00:09:13,040 --> 00:09:15,040 Let's use it in a sentence. 249 00:09:15,040 --> 00:09:17,400 Jewel, do you want to come over today? 250 00:09:17,400 --> 00:09:18,400 I'll give you money. 251 00:09:18,400 --> 00:09:19,400 I'll give you money. 252 00:09:19,400 --> 00:09:20,400 I'll never do it. 253 00:09:20,400 --> 00:09:25,040 I'll never do it. 254 00:09:25,040 --> 00:09:26,040 No cap. 255 00:09:26,040 --> 00:09:27,040 No cap. 256 00:09:27,040 --> 00:09:28,200 So what does no cap mean? 257 00:09:28,200 --> 00:09:33,520 No cap is like, like no caption, like no comment, no comment needed. 258 00:09:33,520 --> 00:09:35,720 No cap. 259 00:09:35,720 --> 00:09:41,520 If you like are telling a story, like you, someone can be like, oh, no cap or like no 260 00:09:41,520 --> 00:09:43,120 filter used to be. 261 00:09:43,120 --> 00:09:44,120 Yeah. 262 00:09:44,120 --> 00:09:45,120 Yeah. 263 00:09:45,120 --> 00:09:46,120 I'd say so. 264 00:09:46,120 --> 00:09:49,760 Or just like, like if you're doing something that like say like you're like teaching and 265 00:09:49,760 --> 00:09:53,200 you're doing something like nobody wants to do. 266 00:09:53,200 --> 00:09:54,200 Okay. 267 00:09:54,200 --> 00:09:58,000 So if somebody just didn't like what I was doing, I could just be like, no, no cap. 268 00:09:58,000 --> 00:10:00,680 I mean like you could, but like it would have to be the right, it would have to like 269 00:10:00,680 --> 00:10:04,360 fit and I, you can't just be like, if someone like says they're in pain, can just be like, 270 00:10:04,360 --> 00:10:05,360 no cap. 271 00:10:05,360 --> 00:10:07,480 Like that's not going to work out. 272 00:10:07,480 --> 00:10:08,880 How does she know you so well? 273 00:10:08,880 --> 00:10:09,880 Carly, because I can just see. 274 00:10:09,880 --> 00:10:11,880 Carly is about no one's injuries or weaknesses. 275 00:10:11,880 --> 00:10:15,280 Like we're in a squad and everybody's moaning that they don't want to get lower and I'm 276 00:10:15,280 --> 00:10:17,280 like, no cap. 277 00:10:17,280 --> 00:10:22,240 See I was told no cap meant like no lie, but like, yeah, it can be used like that too. 278 00:10:22,240 --> 00:10:23,400 Or just like no way. 279 00:10:23,400 --> 00:10:24,400 No cap. 280 00:10:24,400 --> 00:10:25,400 Like no way. 281 00:10:25,400 --> 00:10:26,400 No way. 282 00:10:26,400 --> 00:10:27,400 No cap. 283 00:10:27,400 --> 00:10:30,400 Maybe don't do that. 284 00:10:30,400 --> 00:10:33,280 This one is actually one I feel like I can get behind. 285 00:10:33,280 --> 00:10:34,280 Okay. 286 00:10:34,280 --> 00:10:35,280 Potential. 287 00:10:35,280 --> 00:10:36,280 Oh yeah. 288 00:10:36,280 --> 00:10:39,800 See this one, I don't really know if like a lot of people use it. 289 00:10:39,800 --> 00:10:40,800 Of course. 290 00:10:40,800 --> 00:10:41,800 Cause I like it. 291 00:10:41,800 --> 00:10:43,600 I kind of just like created it. 292 00:10:43,600 --> 00:10:45,720 So yeah, because we don't want to waste time talking. 293 00:10:45,720 --> 00:10:46,720 No. 294 00:10:46,720 --> 00:10:47,720 We want to be there. 295 00:10:47,720 --> 00:10:48,720 The attention span for the whole world. 296 00:10:48,720 --> 00:10:49,720 So just potential. 297 00:10:49,720 --> 00:10:51,720 That's why I say obby and like no props. 298 00:10:51,720 --> 00:10:53,720 Yeah, it's like it's like obby and no props. 299 00:10:53,720 --> 00:10:54,720 Yeah. 300 00:10:54,720 --> 00:10:55,720 It's easier. 301 00:10:55,720 --> 00:10:56,720 Potential. 302 00:10:56,720 --> 00:10:58,200 Now could we get away with saying potential? 303 00:10:58,200 --> 00:10:59,200 Yeah, I think you could. 304 00:10:59,200 --> 00:11:01,200 I think that's that's cool. 305 00:11:01,200 --> 00:11:02,200 Bussin. 306 00:11:02,200 --> 00:11:03,200 Yeah. 307 00:11:03,200 --> 00:11:04,200 You're right. 308 00:11:04,200 --> 00:11:06,200 I've aged out of this. 309 00:11:06,200 --> 00:11:08,120 So because you like pronounce it. 310 00:11:08,120 --> 00:11:09,120 Because I said Bussin. 311 00:11:09,120 --> 00:11:10,120 Yeah. 312 00:11:10,120 --> 00:11:11,720 So what is how do you say it? 313 00:11:11,720 --> 00:11:12,720 Bussin. 314 00:11:12,720 --> 00:11:13,720 Like what does it mean? 315 00:11:13,720 --> 00:11:16,200 It's like it's kind of like, oh, like, yeah, like that's Bussin. 316 00:11:16,200 --> 00:11:17,200 That's awesome. 317 00:11:17,200 --> 00:11:18,200 Oh, that's what it means. 318 00:11:18,200 --> 00:11:19,200 Yeah. 319 00:11:19,200 --> 00:11:20,200 You could say it like that. 320 00:11:20,200 --> 00:11:21,200 I'm making fun of you. 321 00:11:21,200 --> 00:11:23,200 That was not a definition. 322 00:11:23,200 --> 00:11:26,200 Like it means that's cool. 323 00:11:26,200 --> 00:11:28,200 There's just too many ways to say cool. 324 00:11:28,200 --> 00:11:30,200 You could be like, that's awesome. 325 00:11:30,200 --> 00:11:31,200 Or that's cool. 326 00:11:31,200 --> 00:11:32,200 That's Bussin. 327 00:11:32,200 --> 00:11:34,200 So that it means fire. 328 00:11:34,200 --> 00:11:35,200 Fire. 329 00:11:35,200 --> 00:11:36,200 Fire. 330 00:11:36,200 --> 00:11:37,200 Here's a side note. 331 00:11:37,200 --> 00:11:38,200 It's on fleek. 332 00:11:38,200 --> 00:11:39,200 Not cool anymore. 333 00:11:39,200 --> 00:11:40,200 That's like that's old. 334 00:11:40,200 --> 00:11:42,200 I'm so on point right now. 335 00:11:42,200 --> 00:11:45,200 Oh, can I say on fleek? 336 00:11:45,200 --> 00:11:46,200 Yeah. 337 00:11:46,200 --> 00:11:51,200 Because maybe if you say on fleek, it sounds like you're trying to be like to use slang. 338 00:11:51,200 --> 00:11:52,200 Yeah. 339 00:11:52,200 --> 00:11:54,200 But I don't want to be like I'm trying to use slang. 340 00:11:54,200 --> 00:11:56,200 That's the whole point of this episode. 341 00:11:56,200 --> 00:12:00,200 But like if you said on point, like, oh, I'm so on point right now. 342 00:12:00,200 --> 00:12:02,200 Like just say on fleek, you know? 343 00:12:02,200 --> 00:12:03,200 Yeah. 344 00:12:03,200 --> 00:12:09,200 I've never been in a conversation more where I don't know what's going on. 345 00:12:09,200 --> 00:12:10,200 Salty. 346 00:12:10,200 --> 00:12:11,200 Yeah. 347 00:12:11,200 --> 00:12:14,200 Like if you're salty about something, you're bitter. 348 00:12:14,200 --> 00:12:16,200 It's like, don't be salty about that. 349 00:12:16,200 --> 00:12:17,200 Yeah. 350 00:12:17,200 --> 00:12:18,200 Get over it. 351 00:12:18,200 --> 00:12:19,200 Yeah. 352 00:12:19,200 --> 00:12:20,200 Like she's salty. 353 00:12:20,200 --> 00:12:21,200 Yeah. 354 00:12:21,200 --> 00:12:22,200 She's just annoyed. 355 00:12:22,200 --> 00:12:23,200 Yeah. 356 00:12:23,200 --> 00:12:24,200 She just is. 357 00:12:24,200 --> 00:12:25,200 Mostly I would say she's annoyed. 358 00:12:25,200 --> 00:12:28,200 I would use the proper word. 359 00:12:28,200 --> 00:12:29,200 Flake. 360 00:12:29,200 --> 00:12:32,200 If you're a flake, you're a flake. 361 00:12:32,200 --> 00:12:37,200 Tell the people what you were voted in high school. 362 00:12:37,200 --> 00:12:38,200 Oh, yes. 363 00:12:38,200 --> 00:12:39,200 I was voted biggest flake. 364 00:12:39,200 --> 00:12:43,200 And I take it to heart in a good way because I am a flake, especially in high school. 365 00:12:43,200 --> 00:12:45,200 You are the most reliable person. 366 00:12:45,200 --> 00:12:46,200 Not to you. 367 00:12:46,200 --> 00:12:48,200 I would never flake on you. 368 00:12:48,200 --> 00:12:49,200 Yasqueen. 369 00:12:49,200 --> 00:12:50,200 Slay. 370 00:12:50,200 --> 00:12:51,200 Period. 371 00:12:51,200 --> 00:12:54,200 But if people would ask me to do something and I don't feel like doing it, instead of 372 00:12:54,200 --> 00:12:56,200 just saying no, I'll be like, oh, maybe. 373 00:12:56,200 --> 00:12:57,200 And then I just would never go. 374 00:12:57,200 --> 00:12:58,200 And people called on to it. 375 00:12:58,200 --> 00:13:00,200 So then I was the biggest flake. 376 00:13:00,200 --> 00:13:01,200 Stop. 377 00:13:01,200 --> 00:13:02,200 Flake is a flake. 378 00:13:02,200 --> 00:13:03,200 Flake is a flake. 379 00:13:03,200 --> 00:13:04,200 You're a flake. 380 00:13:04,200 --> 00:13:05,200 Yeah. 381 00:13:05,200 --> 00:13:06,200 You're a flake. 382 00:13:06,200 --> 00:13:07,200 So is BB Bouffet. 383 00:13:07,200 --> 00:13:08,200 She was. 384 00:13:08,200 --> 00:13:09,200 Do you know who that is? 385 00:13:09,200 --> 00:13:10,200 No, I don't. 386 00:13:10,200 --> 00:13:11,200 Oh my God. 387 00:13:11,200 --> 00:13:12,200 Fam. 388 00:13:12,200 --> 00:13:14,200 So if you say like, what up, fam? 389 00:13:14,200 --> 00:13:17,200 Like next time I walk into your house, I'll be like, what up, fam? 390 00:13:17,200 --> 00:13:19,200 It's just like, hey guys. 391 00:13:19,200 --> 00:13:22,200 So I'm going to say, fam, it's Carly. 392 00:13:22,200 --> 00:13:23,200 Don't have to. 393 00:13:23,200 --> 00:13:24,200 Not me. 394 00:13:24,200 --> 00:13:25,200 Hey, fam, it's Carly. 395 00:13:25,200 --> 00:13:27,200 No, she said it means like, hey guys. 396 00:13:27,200 --> 00:13:29,200 So I'm going to be like, fam, it's Carly. 397 00:13:29,200 --> 00:13:30,200 No, no, no. 398 00:13:30,200 --> 00:13:32,200 So it just means like. 399 00:13:32,200 --> 00:13:37,200 My uncle will text me when he wants me to like walk his dog and he'll be like, yo, fam, 400 00:13:37,200 --> 00:13:38,200 you home. 401 00:13:38,200 --> 00:13:39,200 To you. 402 00:13:39,200 --> 00:13:40,200 Just you, solo. 403 00:13:40,200 --> 00:13:42,200 Yeah, it can be to a single person. 404 00:13:42,200 --> 00:13:43,200 I'm very literal. 405 00:13:43,200 --> 00:13:45,200 So if I'm texting the family, I'm calling them family. 406 00:13:45,200 --> 00:13:47,200 If I'm texting you, I say, Julia. 407 00:13:47,200 --> 00:13:49,200 You can call me fam if you want. 408 00:13:49,200 --> 00:13:51,200 Well, you are fam. 409 00:13:51,200 --> 00:13:52,200 Yo fam. 410 00:13:52,200 --> 00:13:54,200 No, I'd be like, yo fam, what's up? 411 00:13:54,200 --> 00:13:55,200 That was good. 412 00:13:55,200 --> 00:13:56,200 That was good. 413 00:13:56,200 --> 00:13:57,200 That was good. 414 00:13:57,200 --> 00:13:58,200 But it's so wrong. 415 00:13:58,200 --> 00:14:00,200 But I can also really tell you're trying. 416 00:14:00,200 --> 00:14:01,200 Ready? 417 00:14:01,200 --> 00:14:03,200 I'm going to not try to hate trying. 418 00:14:03,200 --> 00:14:04,200 Yo, yo fam. 419 00:14:04,200 --> 00:14:06,200 Why did your voice change? 420 00:14:06,200 --> 00:14:09,200 Why do you become a character in like a mob movie? 421 00:14:09,200 --> 00:14:10,200 Because it doesn't. 422 00:14:10,200 --> 00:14:11,200 Yo fam. 423 00:14:11,200 --> 00:14:14,200 Shadda gets really low or really high. 424 00:14:14,200 --> 00:14:15,200 It doesn't come naturally to me. 425 00:14:15,200 --> 00:14:19,200 I wouldn't just be like, yo fam, I'm coming over today. 426 00:14:19,200 --> 00:14:20,200 That's a question. 427 00:14:20,200 --> 00:14:22,200 When people walk in to see fit. 428 00:14:22,200 --> 00:14:25,200 No, next time you start class, just be like, what up fam? 429 00:14:25,200 --> 00:14:26,200 No cap. 430 00:14:26,200 --> 00:14:27,200 Period. 431 00:14:27,200 --> 00:14:28,200 Let's slay. 432 00:14:28,200 --> 00:14:32,200 And then everyone will leave. 433 00:14:32,200 --> 00:14:34,200 We about to bust in. 434 00:14:34,200 --> 00:14:37,200 No, we about to bust in. 435 00:14:37,200 --> 00:14:39,200 That's how I know she's really embarrassed. 436 00:14:39,200 --> 00:14:40,200 Her eyes get big. 437 00:14:40,200 --> 00:14:43,200 She puts her finger up and she steps back from me. 438 00:14:43,200 --> 00:14:45,200 That's how I know she's serious. 439 00:14:45,200 --> 00:14:46,200 We about to bust in. 440 00:14:46,200 --> 00:14:47,200 That was bad. 441 00:14:47,200 --> 00:14:48,200 That was bad. 442 00:14:48,200 --> 00:14:49,200 Rent free. 443 00:14:49,200 --> 00:14:50,200 So. 444 00:14:50,200 --> 00:14:51,200 I like it. 445 00:14:51,200 --> 00:14:55,200 You can be like living rent free inside of someone's head. 446 00:14:55,200 --> 00:14:56,200 I see that. 447 00:14:56,200 --> 00:14:57,200 Okay. 448 00:14:57,200 --> 00:15:04,200 I see this on Instagram, Tik Tok where it says this video lives rent free in my mind. 449 00:15:04,200 --> 00:15:06,200 And it's like a funny video. 450 00:15:06,200 --> 00:15:07,200 It just keeps playing. 451 00:15:07,200 --> 00:15:09,200 It's just always up there. 452 00:15:09,200 --> 00:15:12,200 So like I can live rent free in your mind. 453 00:15:12,200 --> 00:15:13,200 You're always thinking about me. 454 00:15:13,200 --> 00:15:15,200 I am always thinking about you. 455 00:15:15,200 --> 00:15:17,200 So I live rent free in your mind. 456 00:15:17,200 --> 00:15:18,200 A sim. 457 00:15:18,200 --> 00:15:19,200 A sim. 458 00:15:19,200 --> 00:15:20,200 A sim. 459 00:15:20,200 --> 00:15:21,200 What the heck is that? 460 00:15:21,200 --> 00:15:26,440 If you're being a simp for someone, you're like, it's more like, I guess if you're a simping 461 00:15:26,440 --> 00:15:29,200 for someone, you're like falling for someone. 462 00:15:29,200 --> 00:15:30,200 What does this mean? 463 00:15:30,200 --> 00:15:32,200 It doesn't mean simple? 464 00:15:32,200 --> 00:15:33,200 No. 465 00:15:33,200 --> 00:15:38,200 If you were calling someone a simple minded person, why would a simp ever mean simple? 466 00:15:38,200 --> 00:15:39,200 No. 467 00:15:39,200 --> 00:15:43,200 Like if you're a simp, it's like, yeah, I'm a simp for so and so. 468 00:15:43,200 --> 00:15:44,200 I'm down bad. 469 00:15:44,200 --> 00:15:45,200 I'm down bad for them. 470 00:15:45,200 --> 00:15:46,200 You're down bad. 471 00:15:46,200 --> 00:15:48,200 Down bad is not on this list. 472 00:15:48,200 --> 00:15:49,200 What does that mean? 473 00:15:49,200 --> 00:15:51,200 A simp for someone. 474 00:15:51,200 --> 00:15:53,200 Like I have a crush on you. 475 00:15:53,200 --> 00:15:55,200 I'm a simp for you. 476 00:15:55,200 --> 00:15:56,200 Yeah. 477 00:15:56,200 --> 00:15:57,200 No, you wouldn't say that. 478 00:15:57,200 --> 00:15:58,200 You wouldn't say that. 479 00:15:58,200 --> 00:16:02,200 But like say like my friend is like obsessed with this guy or whatever. 480 00:16:02,200 --> 00:16:04,200 I'd be like, oh, you're a simp. 481 00:16:04,200 --> 00:16:05,200 You're a simping for him. 482 00:16:05,200 --> 00:16:06,200 I can tell. 483 00:16:06,200 --> 00:16:07,200 What does it mean? 484 00:16:07,200 --> 00:16:08,200 You're down bad. 485 00:16:08,200 --> 00:16:11,200 And if you're down bad, you're down bad. 486 00:16:11,200 --> 00:16:13,200 Like you're into it. 487 00:16:13,200 --> 00:16:14,200 You're too into it. 488 00:16:14,200 --> 00:16:15,200 You're too into it. 489 00:16:15,200 --> 00:16:16,200 You're like obsessed. 490 00:16:16,200 --> 00:16:19,200 You're obsessed, I guess. 491 00:16:19,200 --> 00:16:28,200 When you're talking about fam and potential and with obvi and no prob, simp is not short 492 00:16:28,200 --> 00:16:29,200 for simple. 493 00:16:29,200 --> 00:16:30,200 No. 494 00:16:30,200 --> 00:16:32,200 It's not really going to use simp. 495 00:16:32,200 --> 00:16:37,200 I'm thinking very hard at as to why. 496 00:16:37,200 --> 00:16:43,200 But I think that's the point is that we shouldn't be wondering why so much. 497 00:16:43,200 --> 00:16:44,200 It just comes naturally. 498 00:16:44,200 --> 00:16:48,200 We have to accept that it doesn't come naturally to us. 499 00:16:48,200 --> 00:16:52,200 So that I might not be able to spill the tea. 500 00:16:52,200 --> 00:16:53,200 Good one. 501 00:16:53,200 --> 00:16:56,200 I did teach her that one a long time ago. 502 00:16:56,200 --> 00:16:59,200 Try it without the eyebrows. 503 00:16:59,200 --> 00:17:02,200 Spilling the tea means getting the gossip. 504 00:17:02,200 --> 00:17:03,200 Yes. 505 00:17:03,200 --> 00:17:04,200 I understand. 506 00:17:04,200 --> 00:17:05,200 Spill the tea. 507 00:17:05,200 --> 00:17:09,200 And if it's really good gossip, you can be like the tea's boiling. 508 00:17:09,200 --> 00:17:10,200 Oh my God. 509 00:17:10,200 --> 00:17:11,200 Yeah. 510 00:17:11,200 --> 00:17:12,200 Different levels. 511 00:17:12,200 --> 00:17:14,200 Some hot tea I got. 512 00:17:14,200 --> 00:17:22,200 I want you to use all of them in one phrase like your cool self. 513 00:17:22,200 --> 00:17:23,200 Okay. 514 00:17:23,200 --> 00:17:25,200 That's dope. 515 00:17:25,200 --> 00:17:26,200 Period. 516 00:17:26,200 --> 00:17:28,200 I'll be there queen. 517 00:17:28,200 --> 00:17:29,200 Slay. 518 00:17:29,200 --> 00:17:30,200 See you soon. 519 00:17:30,200 --> 00:17:31,200 No cap needed. 520 00:17:31,200 --> 00:17:32,200 Period. 521 00:17:32,200 --> 00:17:33,200 That was amazing. 522 00:17:33,200 --> 00:17:34,200 Thank you. 523 00:17:34,200 --> 00:17:36,200 You did that off the top of your head. 524 00:17:36,200 --> 00:17:37,200 I tried. 525 00:17:37,200 --> 00:17:38,200 Yeah. 526 00:17:38,200 --> 00:17:39,200 Okay. 527 00:17:39,200 --> 00:17:40,200 Carly. 528 00:17:40,200 --> 00:17:41,200 Same thing. 529 00:17:41,200 --> 00:17:42,200 Oh my God. 530 00:17:42,200 --> 00:17:43,200 Potench. 531 00:17:43,200 --> 00:17:44,200 That is so rent free. 532 00:17:44,200 --> 00:17:45,200 Can I go with my fam? 533 00:17:45,200 --> 00:17:46,200 Period. 534 00:17:46,200 --> 00:17:47,200 Oh my God. 535 00:17:47,200 --> 00:17:48,200 Slay. 536 00:17:48,200 --> 00:17:49,200 Yes. 537 00:17:49,200 --> 00:17:50,200 Queen. 538 00:17:50,200 --> 00:17:51,200 No cap. 539 00:17:51,200 --> 00:17:52,200 I'm super chill. 540 00:17:52,200 --> 00:17:53,200 Super chill. 541 00:17:53,200 --> 00:17:56,200 I liked everything but can you go with your fam? 542 00:17:56,200 --> 00:17:57,200 Yes. 543 00:17:57,200 --> 00:17:59,200 I don't think you used hay fam. 544 00:17:59,200 --> 00:18:00,200 Right. 545 00:18:00,200 --> 00:18:01,200 Okay. 546 00:18:01,200 --> 00:18:02,200 Victoria. 547 00:18:02,200 --> 00:18:03,200 Oh no, no. 548 00:18:03,200 --> 00:18:04,200 I wasn't. 549 00:18:04,200 --> 00:18:06,200 You made me do it. 550 00:18:06,200 --> 00:18:07,200 Like I'm 100% doing it. 551 00:18:07,200 --> 00:18:08,200 Okay. 552 00:18:08,200 --> 00:18:11,600 I just want to mention that we have lost all of our young followers because they have 553 00:18:11,600 --> 00:18:13,200 not been able to get through this episode. 554 00:18:13,200 --> 00:18:14,200 They turned it off. 555 00:18:14,200 --> 00:18:15,200 Yeah, they turned it off. 556 00:18:15,200 --> 00:18:16,200 It's okay. 557 00:18:16,200 --> 00:18:17,200 It's fine. 558 00:18:17,200 --> 00:18:18,200 They don't need to know this stuff. 559 00:18:18,200 --> 00:18:19,200 They already know it. 560 00:18:19,200 --> 00:18:20,200 You're being a sim. 561 00:18:20,200 --> 00:18:21,200 You're being a sim. 562 00:18:21,200 --> 00:18:22,200 You're being a sim. 563 00:18:22,200 --> 00:18:23,200 No, no, no, no, no. 564 00:18:23,200 --> 00:18:24,200 Hay fam. 565 00:18:24,200 --> 00:18:25,200 You're being a sim. 566 00:18:25,200 --> 00:18:26,200 Good. 567 00:18:26,200 --> 00:18:28,200 I'm totally not busing. 568 00:18:28,200 --> 00:18:30,200 Like no cap. 569 00:18:30,200 --> 00:18:31,200 Sleigh. 570 00:18:31,200 --> 00:18:33,200 I hate your sentence. 571 00:18:33,200 --> 00:18:38,200 First of all, and second of all, and third of all, I hate it. 572 00:18:38,200 --> 00:18:39,200 Okay. 573 00:18:39,200 --> 00:18:40,200 So now that's over. 574 00:18:40,200 --> 00:18:41,200 Thank you Julia. 575 00:18:41,200 --> 00:18:42,200 You're welcome. 576 00:18:42,200 --> 00:18:43,200 Julia, she doesn't pay you. 577 00:18:43,200 --> 00:18:44,200 Queen of the cool. 578 00:18:44,200 --> 00:18:47,200 I have to think so hard. 579 00:18:47,200 --> 00:18:48,200 I know. 580 00:18:48,200 --> 00:18:49,200 That's the problem. 581 00:18:49,200 --> 00:18:50,200 I'm thinking so hard. 582 00:18:50,200 --> 00:18:51,200 I can't talk quickly. 583 00:18:51,200 --> 00:18:52,200 It's okay. 584 00:18:52,200 --> 00:18:53,200 It's practice. 585 00:18:53,200 --> 00:18:57,200 There are just so many different ways to say one word. 586 00:18:57,200 --> 00:18:59,200 It's honestly like learning a new language. 587 00:18:59,200 --> 00:19:00,200 Yeah. 588 00:19:00,200 --> 00:19:02,200 So I've decided I'm just not going to. 589 00:19:02,200 --> 00:19:06,200 But she still will and she'll still be trying. 590 00:19:06,200 --> 00:19:07,200 Yes. 591 00:19:07,200 --> 00:19:09,200 We're going to play a little game. 592 00:19:09,200 --> 00:19:13,200 You have to answer the questions as truthfully as you can. 593 00:19:13,200 --> 00:19:20,480 The game is called Sleigh or Nay. 594 00:19:20,480 --> 00:19:23,480 What does Sleigh or Nay mean? 595 00:19:23,480 --> 00:19:24,480 All right. 596 00:19:24,480 --> 00:19:28,480 Basically, it's if you have to tell us if it is still acceptable for us to do or if 597 00:19:28,480 --> 00:19:32,480 it's unacceptable at our young age of 30 years to do. 598 00:19:32,480 --> 00:19:33,480 Okay. 599 00:19:33,480 --> 00:19:34,480 Got it. 600 00:19:34,480 --> 00:19:35,480 All right. 601 00:19:35,480 --> 00:19:36,480 Got it. 602 00:19:36,480 --> 00:19:38,480 Is it okay to think Justin Bieber is still hot? 603 00:19:38,480 --> 00:19:39,480 Sleigh. 604 00:19:39,480 --> 00:19:40,480 Yeah. 605 00:19:40,480 --> 00:19:41,480 That's acceptable. 606 00:19:41,480 --> 00:19:42,480 Yeah. 607 00:19:42,480 --> 00:19:44,480 Is it acceptable to pose with duck lips at our age? 608 00:19:44,480 --> 00:19:45,480 Nay. 609 00:19:45,480 --> 00:19:46,480 Immediate nay. 610 00:19:46,480 --> 00:19:47,480 Damn it. 611 00:19:47,480 --> 00:19:48,480 Okay. 612 00:19:48,480 --> 00:19:51,480 Is it acceptable to pose with a peace sign? 613 00:19:51,480 --> 00:19:52,480 Nay. 614 00:19:52,480 --> 00:19:53,480 Sorry. 615 00:19:53,480 --> 00:19:55,480 I didn't get the sentence out because I just know what it looks like. 616 00:19:55,480 --> 00:19:57,480 I've seen it so many times. 617 00:19:57,480 --> 00:19:59,480 It's just such an aggressive. 618 00:19:59,480 --> 00:20:00,480 Okay. 619 00:20:00,480 --> 00:20:01,480 Noted. 620 00:20:01,480 --> 00:20:02,480 Okay. 621 00:20:02,480 --> 00:20:04,480 Is it acceptable at our age to wear bike shorts? 622 00:20:04,480 --> 00:20:05,480 Sleigh. 623 00:20:05,480 --> 00:20:06,480 Yeah. 624 00:20:06,480 --> 00:20:08,480 Please don't think about that because we're literally in bike shorts. 625 00:20:08,480 --> 00:20:09,480 No, they're in. 626 00:20:09,480 --> 00:20:10,480 That's a Sleigh. 627 00:20:10,480 --> 00:20:14,480 Is it acceptable to post more than once in a day on like Instagram? 628 00:20:14,480 --> 00:20:16,480 Sleigh because who cares, you know? 629 00:20:16,480 --> 00:20:18,480 Because if you don't care, then you're cool. 630 00:20:18,480 --> 00:20:19,480 Yeah. 631 00:20:19,480 --> 00:20:20,480 Just like who cares? 632 00:20:20,480 --> 00:20:21,480 Yeah. 633 00:20:21,480 --> 00:20:22,480 Who cares? 634 00:20:22,480 --> 00:20:25,480 Is it cool at our age to wear sneakers with a dress? 635 00:20:25,480 --> 00:20:26,480 Um. 636 00:20:26,480 --> 00:20:28,480 If you have to think, then nay. 637 00:20:28,480 --> 00:20:29,480 Nay. 638 00:20:29,480 --> 00:20:30,480 It depends. 639 00:20:30,480 --> 00:20:34,480 If you're wearing like workout sneakers with a dress, no, but if you're wearing like 640 00:20:34,480 --> 00:20:37,480 simple sneakers with a dress, I'd say Sleigh. 641 00:20:37,480 --> 00:20:39,480 To clarify, not a simp sneaker. 642 00:20:39,480 --> 00:20:40,480 Not a simp. 643 00:20:40,480 --> 00:20:41,480 Um. 644 00:20:41,480 --> 00:20:44,480 I don't think that exists yet. 645 00:20:44,480 --> 00:20:46,480 I didn't know there were differences in sneakers. 646 00:20:46,480 --> 00:20:49,480 We'll do that on another episode. 647 00:20:49,480 --> 00:20:53,480 Is it acceptable or okay to twerk at our age? 648 00:20:53,480 --> 00:20:54,480 Sleigh. 649 00:20:54,480 --> 00:20:55,480 Yeah. 650 00:20:55,480 --> 00:20:56,480 Because we don't care. 651 00:20:56,480 --> 00:20:57,480 Yeah. 652 00:20:57,480 --> 00:20:58,480 We don't care. 653 00:20:58,480 --> 00:20:59,480 Because we don't care. 654 00:20:59,480 --> 00:21:00,480 Yeah, we don't care. 655 00:21:00,480 --> 00:21:02,480 Is it okay to post a selfie? 656 00:21:02,480 --> 00:21:03,480 Nay. 657 00:21:03,480 --> 00:21:04,480 Well, it depends. 658 00:21:04,480 --> 00:21:05,480 No, no. 659 00:21:05,480 --> 00:21:06,480 You just be honest. 660 00:21:06,480 --> 00:21:08,480 Like, I would say Sleigh. 661 00:21:08,480 --> 00:21:09,480 To Victoria. 662 00:21:09,480 --> 00:21:10,480 To Victoria. 663 00:21:10,480 --> 00:21:11,480 Oh. 664 00:21:11,480 --> 00:21:15,480 But I could just, I would think I would say nay to you. 665 00:21:15,480 --> 00:21:16,480 To me. 666 00:21:16,480 --> 00:21:17,480 That's fine. 667 00:21:17,480 --> 00:21:18,480 Why? 668 00:21:18,480 --> 00:21:19,480 Just because I can see it being like. 669 00:21:19,480 --> 00:21:20,480 Aggressive. 670 00:21:20,480 --> 00:21:21,480 Aggressive. 671 00:21:21,480 --> 00:21:22,480 A lot. 672 00:21:22,480 --> 00:21:24,480 And I could see Victoria being very like chill, like posting a chill selfie. 673 00:21:24,480 --> 00:21:29,980 Well, from what I've noticed, the selfies that people take are like of a shoe and it's 674 00:21:29,980 --> 00:21:31,480 like thinking about life. 675 00:21:31,480 --> 00:21:35,480 And mine's like my face and I'm like, I'm loving life. 676 00:21:35,480 --> 00:21:36,480 And you know what? 677 00:21:36,480 --> 00:21:40,480 Your selfie would be what people have rent free in their mind. 678 00:21:40,480 --> 00:21:43,480 Yes, it would live rent free in a lot of people's minds. 679 00:21:43,480 --> 00:21:46,480 Thank you guys for putting that all together for me. 680 00:21:46,480 --> 00:21:47,480 Of course. 681 00:21:47,480 --> 00:21:48,480 Does it make sense? 682 00:21:48,480 --> 00:21:49,480 Period. 683 00:21:49,480 --> 00:21:50,480 Okay. 684 00:21:50,480 --> 00:21:51,480 Sleigh or nay. 685 00:21:51,480 --> 00:21:52,480 Is it okay to like Carly more than Victoria? 686 00:21:52,480 --> 00:21:53,480 Do I have to answer that? 687 00:21:53,480 --> 00:21:56,480 You do not have to answer that. 688 00:21:56,480 --> 00:21:59,480 Wait, you're the only one that's going to say yes to this? 689 00:21:59,480 --> 00:22:00,480 It's okay. 690 00:22:00,480 --> 00:22:01,480 But she wouldn't. 691 00:22:01,480 --> 00:22:02,480 No. 692 00:22:02,480 --> 00:22:03,480 Just say yes. 693 00:22:03,480 --> 00:22:06,480 Well, I feel like I'm forced to say yes. 694 00:22:06,480 --> 00:22:10,480 But me and Victoria, like she knows that I feel the same. 695 00:22:10,480 --> 00:22:12,480 She said I feel like I'm forced to say yes. 696 00:22:12,480 --> 00:22:16,480 It's the same love, but I have to say yes. 697 00:22:16,480 --> 00:22:20,480 No, because you are basically my boss in my life. 698 00:22:20,480 --> 00:22:22,480 So she's minoring and Carly. 699 00:22:22,480 --> 00:22:23,480 Right. 700 00:22:23,480 --> 00:22:24,480 So I have to say yes. 701 00:22:24,480 --> 00:22:26,480 Yo, fam, you failed the game. 702 00:22:26,480 --> 00:22:27,480 Oh, sorry. 703 00:22:27,480 --> 00:22:32,480 You won, Julia. 704 00:22:32,480 --> 00:22:33,480 No cap. 705 00:22:33,480 --> 00:22:35,480 You won, you queen. 706 00:22:35,480 --> 00:22:40,480 Thank you, queen. 707 00:22:40,480 --> 00:22:43,480 That was awesome, Joel. 708 00:22:43,480 --> 00:22:44,480 You're the best. 709 00:22:44,480 --> 00:22:45,480 Thank you. 710 00:22:45,480 --> 00:22:59,480 Here's your real tip for our listeners out there who have turned 30 and up finding young 711 00:22:59,480 --> 00:23:00,480 friend. 712 00:23:00,480 --> 00:23:08,640 Have this conversation with them just to understand them or get a little bit more confused by 713 00:23:08,640 --> 00:23:11,280 what they say and how they say it. 714 00:23:11,280 --> 00:23:12,280 It's interesting. 715 00:23:12,280 --> 00:23:13,480 It's fun. 716 00:23:13,480 --> 00:23:16,480 My brain really hurts right now. 717 00:23:16,480 --> 00:23:19,200 But find this conversation. 718 00:23:19,200 --> 00:23:22,000 Connect to the younger generation. 719 00:23:22,000 --> 00:23:23,000 And you know what? 720 00:23:23,000 --> 00:23:24,960 Just still be you. 721 00:23:24,960 --> 00:23:29,760 Don't try to be them, but just understand, you know? 722 00:23:29,760 --> 00:23:31,760 Stay woke. 723 00:23:31,760 --> 00:23:33,760 We didn't talk about that one, Julia. 724 00:23:33,760 --> 00:23:35,760 I like it. 725 00:23:35,760 --> 00:23:39,760 Now for your real extra tip of the week. 726 00:23:39,760 --> 00:23:44,440 It's called do whatever you want. 727 00:23:44,440 --> 00:23:47,200 What does do whatever you want mean? 728 00:23:47,200 --> 00:23:49,880 It means say what you want to say, do what you want to do. 729 00:23:49,880 --> 00:23:52,480 It doesn't matter what anybody else thinks. 730 00:23:52,480 --> 00:23:56,960 Yeah, maybe learn the right descriptions of the words and that's fine to find out. 731 00:23:56,960 --> 00:24:01,600 But honestly, do the peace sign, do the duck lips, do the selfie. 732 00:24:01,600 --> 00:24:04,320 Maybe just don't show Julia or anybody her age. 733 00:24:04,320 --> 00:24:06,280 And you be you. 734 00:24:06,280 --> 00:24:07,280 Do it all. 735 00:24:07,280 --> 00:24:09,960 You will live rent free in all of their minds. 736 00:24:09,960 --> 00:24:15,200 I find that this was a very informative episode for all of us. 737 00:24:15,200 --> 00:24:19,880 This is all stuff that we wanted to know, that I needed to know, some things I didn't 738 00:24:19,880 --> 00:24:20,880 want to know. 739 00:24:20,880 --> 00:24:22,120 I thought it was fun. 740 00:24:22,120 --> 00:24:23,120 Yeah, Julia. 741 00:24:23,120 --> 00:24:27,040 Thank you for bringing your your vibe to the tribe. 742 00:24:27,040 --> 00:24:28,520 You're so welcome. 743 00:24:28,520 --> 00:24:33,640 I hope you've learned how to be cool and be kind and to be kind. 744 00:24:33,640 --> 00:24:34,640 Yeah. 745 00:24:34,640 --> 00:24:35,640 It's her voice. 746 00:24:35,640 --> 00:24:37,400 I think it's the voice. 747 00:24:37,400 --> 00:24:38,400 Chill. 748 00:24:38,400 --> 00:24:39,400 Yeah. 749 00:24:39,400 --> 00:24:46,960 I honestly think the biggest takeaway is that it is the mixture of not caring, but 750 00:24:46,960 --> 00:24:48,440 caring, but caring. 751 00:24:48,440 --> 00:24:49,440 Yes. 752 00:24:49,440 --> 00:24:51,640 Less is more chill vibes. 753 00:24:51,640 --> 00:24:55,280 Sure, get it on a poster, hang it in your room. 754 00:24:55,280 --> 00:24:57,440 My God, look at it every day. 755 00:24:57,440 --> 00:24:58,440 She's so cool. 756 00:24:58,440 --> 00:25:03,840 That's why I keep her around, like around me all the time, because she's so cool and 757 00:25:03,840 --> 00:25:06,600 I feel like she levels me up. 758 00:25:06,600 --> 00:25:07,600 Thank you, Julia. 759 00:25:07,600 --> 00:25:08,600 You're welcome. 760 00:25:08,600 --> 00:25:09,600 Thanks for having me. 761 00:25:09,600 --> 00:25:10,600 Are you free tonight? 762 00:25:10,600 --> 00:25:11,600 Can you baby kiss? 763 00:25:11,600 --> 00:25:12,600 I'll be there. 764 00:25:12,600 --> 00:25:13,600 It's like. 765 00:25:13,600 --> 00:25:20,920 We hope you know you are always fit to be real and always allowed to be a little extra. 766 00:25:20,920 --> 00:25:21,920 Slay. 767 00:25:21,920 --> 00:25:22,920 Period. 768 00:25:22,920 --> 00:25:23,920 Yes, queen. 769 00:25:23,920 --> 00:25:24,920 No cap. 770 00:25:24,920 --> 00:25:25,920 Bussing. 771 00:25:25,920 --> 00:25:26,920 On sleek. 772 00:25:26,920 --> 00:25:27,920 And that's where we finish. 773 00:25:27,920 --> 00:25:28,920 Oh my God. 774 00:25:28,920 --> 00:25:40,320 For legal reasons, we have to tell you that this podcast is meant for entertainment and 775 00:25:40,320 --> 00:25:42,120 educational purposes only. 776 00:25:42,120 --> 00:25:44,320 We are not healthcare professionals. 777 00:25:44,320 --> 00:25:48,040 For all of your health, wellness, fitness and self care needs, please refer to the 778 00:25:48,040 --> 00:25:50,080 medical professional in your life. 779 00:25:50,080 --> 00:25:55,200 Your primary care physician, your therapist, a certified coach, whoever it may be. 780 00:25:55,200 --> 00:25:59,280 And then let us know what they say because I guarantee we need to know what to. 781 00:25:59,280 --> 00:26:00,280 Okay. 782 00:26:00,280 --> 00:26:20,280 Bye.