1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:03,000 Hello, everyone. 2 00:00:03,000 --> 00:00:09,000 Welcome back to another episode of Wholesome Black Girl podcast. 3 00:00:09,000 --> 00:00:11,000 I'm your host, Kayla. 4 00:00:11,000 --> 00:00:16,000 We have a special guest, Miss Tati. 5 00:00:16,000 --> 00:00:21,000 And we have this birthday girl, Kamri. 6 00:00:21,000 --> 00:00:23,000 This is the birthday episode. 7 00:00:23,000 --> 00:00:27,000 Woo, woo, tour season. 8 00:00:27,000 --> 00:00:36,000 Okay, so we can start by doing our first segment that we always do, Life Be Life-ing. 9 00:00:36,000 --> 00:00:38,000 Yep. 10 00:00:38,000 --> 00:00:43,000 You know, just giving us a rundown on what's going on, how y'all been feeling. 11 00:00:43,000 --> 00:00:46,000 Kam, you can start. 12 00:00:46,000 --> 00:00:51,000 So my life has really changed. 13 00:00:51,000 --> 00:00:53,000 Probably like a week before my birthday. 14 00:00:53,000 --> 00:00:54,000 I'm not going to get too into details. 15 00:00:54,000 --> 00:00:55,000 I'm going to say it changed drastically. 16 00:00:55,000 --> 00:00:58,000 I'm not going to talk about it until it glazes over. 17 00:00:58,000 --> 00:01:04,000 But it was like a change of events in my life that really like, surprisingly, I should really be scared. 18 00:01:04,000 --> 00:01:07,000 But I'm more so just like anxious about it. 19 00:01:07,000 --> 00:01:11,000 Also, I had a therapy session today before I came here. 20 00:01:11,000 --> 00:01:12,000 And I don't want to cry. 21 00:01:12,000 --> 00:01:15,000 But like me and my therapist is part ways now. 22 00:01:15,000 --> 00:01:21,000 And it's kind of making me sad because I don't know, you build that connection with your therapist. 23 00:01:21,000 --> 00:01:24,000 It's just like you don't want to go to nobody else because like they already know everything about you. 24 00:01:24,000 --> 00:01:27,000 So you don't want to start over with a whole nother person. 25 00:01:27,000 --> 00:01:32,000 But basically, we part ways because she working in a trauma unit now. 26 00:01:32,000 --> 00:01:36,000 So she really got enough time for like for like private practice. 27 00:01:36,000 --> 00:01:37,000 I think that's what it's called. 28 00:01:37,000 --> 00:01:38,000 Yeah. 29 00:01:38,000 --> 00:01:39,000 Private practice. 30 00:01:39,000 --> 00:01:40,000 She don't got enough time for it. 31 00:01:40,000 --> 00:01:42,000 So yeah, that's what my life has been. 32 00:01:42,000 --> 00:01:47,000 Also, I've been I try and jigs nothing or anything or like ruin anything. 33 00:01:47,000 --> 00:01:52,000 But I've been dating around and I've been. 34 00:01:52,000 --> 00:01:54,000 No, I'm going to shut the fuck up. 35 00:01:54,000 --> 00:01:56,000 Shut the fuck up. 36 00:01:56,000 --> 00:01:57,000 I'm going to shut the fuck up. 37 00:01:57,000 --> 00:01:59,000 But that's really where I'm in life. 38 00:01:59,000 --> 00:02:01,000 I'm about to move soon. 39 00:02:01,000 --> 00:02:02,000 Yeah. 40 00:02:02,000 --> 00:02:03,000 How about y'all? 41 00:02:03,000 --> 00:02:05,000 Go ahead, Tati. 42 00:02:05,000 --> 00:02:09,000 I've been chilling. 43 00:02:09,000 --> 00:02:12,000 Dating life still non-existent. 44 00:02:12,000 --> 00:02:13,000 But you know what? 45 00:02:13,000 --> 00:02:15,000 It's OK because the sex life is there. 46 00:02:15,000 --> 00:02:17,000 OK. 47 00:02:17,000 --> 00:02:21,000 I know that's motherfucking. 48 00:02:21,000 --> 00:02:26,000 But yeah, you know, just trying not to not to end it all. 49 00:02:26,000 --> 00:02:27,000 But it's OK. 50 00:02:27,000 --> 00:02:28,000 It's OK. 51 00:02:28,000 --> 00:02:29,000 I'm still here. 52 00:02:29,000 --> 00:02:30,000 Um. 53 00:02:30,000 --> 00:02:34,000 I'm sick as fuck. 54 00:02:34,000 --> 00:02:35,000 I'm sick as fuck right now. 55 00:02:35,000 --> 00:02:37,000 The way she hit that um. 56 00:02:37,000 --> 00:02:41,000 You know, every time I don't I don't know what I don't know what's going on. 57 00:02:41,000 --> 00:02:43,000 I'm really confused right now. 58 00:02:43,000 --> 00:02:47,000 As always, I'm doing a lot of chaotic stuff. 59 00:02:47,000 --> 00:02:49,000 Who cha? 60 00:02:49,000 --> 00:02:55,000 A lot of chaotic, a lot of chaos that I'm starting because I'm bored. 61 00:02:55,000 --> 00:02:56,000 Um. 62 00:02:56,000 --> 00:03:00,000 Hopefully I ain't fucked nothing up. 63 00:03:00,000 --> 00:03:06,000 But we will see in the foreseeable future. 64 00:03:06,000 --> 00:03:08,000 Damn. 65 00:03:08,000 --> 00:03:13,000 You know, I mean, I mean, I always act like I don't give a fuck because most of the time I don't. 66 00:03:13,000 --> 00:03:22,000 But when it comes to like dating and stuff like that, I really give a fuck way too much. 67 00:03:22,000 --> 00:03:26,000 And there's that. 68 00:03:26,000 --> 00:03:34,000 So, yeah, I feel like I was at that point when I was dating people like I gave a fuck too much and they always just like, I don't care no more. 69 00:03:34,000 --> 00:03:35,000 Yeah, I don't. 70 00:03:35,000 --> 00:03:39,000 Yo, I shouldn't even be saying this. 71 00:03:39,000 --> 00:03:44,000 I've been lying to everything. 72 00:03:44,000 --> 00:03:47,000 Yo, everybody get a different time to you. 73 00:03:47,000 --> 00:03:50,000 A nigga had he I ain't speak to him forever. 74 00:03:50,000 --> 00:03:52,000 Just stop talking or whatever. 75 00:03:52,000 --> 00:03:55,000 He called me. He's like, so you ain't fuck with nobody else? 76 00:03:55,000 --> 00:03:56,000 Nope. 77 00:03:56,000 --> 00:03:57,000 I was there. 78 00:03:57,000 --> 00:03:58,000 I was there. 79 00:03:58,000 --> 00:04:00,000 Nope. 80 00:04:00,000 --> 00:04:02,000 What if he watched this? 81 00:04:02,000 --> 00:04:03,000 I don't give a fuck. 82 00:04:03,000 --> 00:04:05,000 Whole time I got fucked last night. 83 00:04:05,000 --> 00:04:08,000 Good night. 84 00:04:08,000 --> 00:04:11,000 Yo, me and my day in life, I'll say I've built up my roster again. 85 00:04:11,000 --> 00:04:12,000 So I'm happy about that. 86 00:04:12,000 --> 00:04:14,000 I got like four niggas on my roster. 87 00:04:14,000 --> 00:04:16,000 Summer on the way. 88 00:04:16,000 --> 00:04:18,000 And niggas is just coming. 89 00:04:18,000 --> 00:04:21,000 Put me back in the motherfucking game, coach. 90 00:04:21,000 --> 00:04:25,000 OK, I don't even know what game we playing. 91 00:04:25,000 --> 00:04:29,000 I don't know what game we playing. 92 00:04:29,000 --> 00:04:32,000 You don't want to build up a roster like. 93 00:04:32,000 --> 00:04:36,000 Please don't get me in trouble on this fucking podcast. 94 00:04:36,000 --> 00:04:41,000 I'm like, Cameron. 95 00:04:41,000 --> 00:04:49,000 Please don't get me dragged from point A to point B because I don't have time. 96 00:04:49,000 --> 00:04:52,000 OK. 97 00:04:52,000 --> 00:04:57,000 So wait, let's talk about because we mean you had a conversation about dating creatives, right? 98 00:04:57,000 --> 00:05:05,000 And how the Philly creative scene I've realized is a very fucking small. 99 00:05:05,000 --> 00:05:08,000 You all fuck each other and call each other bro and sis. 100 00:05:08,000 --> 00:05:10,000 It's really insane. 101 00:05:10,000 --> 00:05:11,000 I'm scared. 102 00:05:11,000 --> 00:05:14,000 I can't ever like. 103 00:05:14,000 --> 00:05:19,000 Once I finish with this. 104 00:05:19,000 --> 00:05:21,000 See, this is why you don't date creatives. 105 00:05:21,000 --> 00:05:23,000 I've never. 106 00:05:23,000 --> 00:05:24,000 Tati really don't date them though. 107 00:05:24,000 --> 00:05:26,000 She really don't. 108 00:05:26,000 --> 00:05:28,000 They all fuck each other. 109 00:05:28,000 --> 00:05:30,000 Like literally, they all fuck each other. 110 00:05:30,000 --> 00:05:32,000 You could be in the same room. 111 00:05:32,000 --> 00:05:37,000 Yo, they be yo, they be oh my God, I haven't seen you in so long. 112 00:05:37,000 --> 00:05:39,000 What do you what do you mean? 113 00:05:39,000 --> 00:05:41,000 What do you mean? 114 00:05:41,000 --> 00:05:45,000 And yo, I swear to God, it's so chaotic. 115 00:05:45,000 --> 00:05:53,000 And it's just like as soon as the thing that I hate is that and this is because me and Cam have just got we just got here. 116 00:05:53,000 --> 00:05:55,000 We just got a couple. 117 00:05:55,000 --> 00:06:03,000 We just I mean, we started this like what six, seven months ago, but we just started like popping like the last month or two. 118 00:06:03,000 --> 00:06:07,000 Right. 119 00:06:07,000 --> 00:06:15,000 When they catch new fresh meat, they all they all want it. 120 00:06:15,000 --> 00:06:19,000 And and they say they say the same thing to you every single time. 121 00:06:19,000 --> 00:06:22,000 Like, oh, yeah, you won't be around. 122 00:06:22,000 --> 00:06:23,000 Yeah. 123 00:06:23,000 --> 00:06:25,000 You won't be around. 124 00:06:25,000 --> 00:06:31,000 So I just don't be around where you at. 125 00:06:31,000 --> 00:06:33,000 Yeah, like you won't be around. 126 00:06:33,000 --> 00:06:35,000 And that's what I that's what I really like. 127 00:06:35,000 --> 00:06:38,000 And I just be like, I'll be sitting there like, oh, really? 128 00:06:38,000 --> 00:06:40,000 Oh, thank you. 129 00:06:40,000 --> 00:06:44,000 I really don't like we really low key can we really don't be around. 130 00:06:44,000 --> 00:06:45,000 No, we don't. 131 00:06:45,000 --> 00:06:46,000 We don't be around. 132 00:06:46,000 --> 00:06:50,000 But it's like it seems real predatory sometimes when they say it. 133 00:06:50,000 --> 00:06:52,000 Yeah, it do. 134 00:06:52,000 --> 00:06:56,000 I'm not going to lie to the niggas that said that shit out they mouth to me. 135 00:06:56,000 --> 00:06:58,000 I sighed I sighed at you. 136 00:06:58,000 --> 00:06:59,000 Yeah, I always sighed. 137 00:06:59,000 --> 00:07:02,000 I don't want to sit there like, oh, you don't be around. 138 00:07:02,000 --> 00:07:07,000 Because they give nobody know who you are and you don't know who I'm fucking on. 139 00:07:07,000 --> 00:07:10,000 So we can keep things separate, which is cool. 140 00:07:10,000 --> 00:07:12,000 Like, keep shit separate. 141 00:07:12,000 --> 00:07:18,000 But another thing I don't like about they and creators is y'all have the nerve for y'all to be so slutty. 142 00:07:18,000 --> 00:07:23,000 Y'all have the nerve to be possessive. 143 00:07:23,000 --> 00:07:41,000 Like, they don't want you to fuck nobody, but they can fuck every female photographer, videographer, poet, screenwriter, digital artist, graphic designer. 144 00:07:41,000 --> 00:07:44,000 You, you motherfucking David. 145 00:07:44,000 --> 00:07:55,000 You, guitarist, bassist, rapper, singer, A&R. 146 00:07:55,000 --> 00:07:59,000 You could really do your big one, but I can't do mine. 147 00:07:59,000 --> 00:08:01,000 Yeah, it's really insane to me. 148 00:08:01,000 --> 00:08:02,000 It really is. 149 00:08:02,000 --> 00:08:06,000 Also, I want to talk about like how it's a particular type of creative. 150 00:08:06,000 --> 00:08:11,000 They're very stuck up and they feel like, huh? 151 00:08:11,000 --> 00:08:12,000 Pompous, very pretentious. 152 00:08:12,000 --> 00:08:14,000 Yeah, very. 153 00:08:14,000 --> 00:08:16,000 I was just talking about this with somebody actually. 154 00:08:16,000 --> 00:08:19,000 People who went to CAPA. 155 00:08:19,000 --> 00:08:21,000 Y'all motherfucking suck. 156 00:08:21,000 --> 00:08:22,000 Yeah. 157 00:08:22,000 --> 00:08:28,000 People who went to CAPA and we in KELA, we really just realized this because again, we just got in the scene for real, for real. 158 00:08:28,000 --> 00:08:37,000 They think because maybe you didn't go to CAPA or perform art school period that your opinions or anything is invalid or you don't know what the fuck you're talking about. 159 00:08:37,000 --> 00:08:38,000 And it's really crazy to me. 160 00:08:38,000 --> 00:08:46,000 I was just talking about this with my sister who actually went to CAPA and she's like, yeah, that's why I don't go to creative events no more because people who go to CAPA really think that they're better than you. 161 00:08:46,000 --> 00:08:47,000 They do. 162 00:08:47,000 --> 00:08:56,000 And the shit is really crazy because a lot of them didn't really do that well in school and couldn't even manage to like further their education. 163 00:08:56,000 --> 00:09:02,000 Maybe use some words like nuance and intricacies so they can seem deep. 164 00:09:02,000 --> 00:09:04,000 Y'all get on my fucking nerves. 165 00:09:04,000 --> 00:09:07,000 Oh, and don't let them be a singer. 166 00:09:07,000 --> 00:09:09,000 Oh, bitch. 167 00:09:09,000 --> 00:09:13,000 Inflections. 168 00:09:13,000 --> 00:09:14,000 I swear. 169 00:09:14,000 --> 00:09:19,000 And then I feel like they kind of look down on us sometimes because you know how we're like a sex positive podcast. 170 00:09:19,000 --> 00:09:20,000 We're very sex positive. 171 00:09:20,000 --> 00:09:23,000 Me, I like to say I'm very ghetto fabulous. 172 00:09:23,000 --> 00:09:25,000 I feel like we're both ratchet. 173 00:09:25,000 --> 00:09:27,000 We're both ratchet in our own right. 174 00:09:27,000 --> 00:09:30,000 They look down at us like, oh my God, like what the fuck. 175 00:09:30,000 --> 00:09:32,000 And on top of that, because we podcasters too. 176 00:09:32,000 --> 00:09:33,000 Yeah. 177 00:09:33,000 --> 00:09:35,000 So it's like, bitch, are you mad? 178 00:09:35,000 --> 00:09:37,000 Because my pussy pops so hard. 179 00:09:37,000 --> 00:09:39,000 You're down. 180 00:09:39,000 --> 00:09:42,000 They treating us when we go in these spaces, they literally do look down on us. 181 00:09:42,000 --> 00:09:43,000 They look us up and down. 182 00:09:43,000 --> 00:09:44,000 They do. 183 00:09:44,000 --> 00:09:50,000 And then also it's like what a lot of them, it's like they always wearing designer and shit like that. 184 00:09:50,000 --> 00:09:53,000 And Cam and I really just be on our own shit. 185 00:09:53,000 --> 00:09:54,000 Like whatever I like. 186 00:09:54,000 --> 00:09:55,000 For real. 187 00:09:55,000 --> 00:09:58,000 I like and I'm a fucking wear that shit bitch. 188 00:09:58,000 --> 00:09:59,000 You know what? 189 00:09:59,000 --> 00:10:03,000 It's getting a little personal. 190 00:10:03,000 --> 00:10:07,000 I was about to say something, but I had to like hold it back because I don't want it to get too personal. 191 00:10:07,000 --> 00:10:09,000 I don't want it to get too spicy here. 192 00:10:09,000 --> 00:10:10,000 I've never been a designer type of girl. 193 00:10:10,000 --> 00:10:13,000 Like I pull up everywhere and some leggings and a shirt. 194 00:10:13,000 --> 00:10:16,000 I'll be looking fine as shit in my sheen and my Fashion Nova. 195 00:10:16,000 --> 00:10:17,000 Okay. 196 00:10:17,000 --> 00:10:18,000 Please. 197 00:10:18,000 --> 00:10:19,000 I don't care. 198 00:10:19,000 --> 00:10:20,000 And that's the thing. 199 00:10:20,000 --> 00:10:21,000 Like. 200 00:10:21,000 --> 00:10:26,000 Our ologies is fucking us up. 201 00:10:26,000 --> 00:10:27,000 Oh my God. 202 00:10:27,000 --> 00:10:29,000 Anyway, that's what I get for talking shit. 203 00:10:29,000 --> 00:10:31,000 God don't like ugly. 204 00:10:31,000 --> 00:10:33,000 But y'all are uglier. 205 00:10:33,000 --> 00:10:38,000 Anyway, that's why you'd be struggling to get more than a thousand views on your reels. 206 00:10:38,000 --> 00:10:46,000 Oh, Kella, you really going there? 207 00:10:46,000 --> 00:10:47,000 I just had to get that one. 208 00:10:47,000 --> 00:10:55,000 Yeah, we had to get it out because they for the most part, I'd like to say, I don't want to say that not that all the creatives are like they look down on us. 209 00:10:55,000 --> 00:10:57,000 But there are some that are really supportive of us. 210 00:10:57,000 --> 00:10:59,000 And they really do love us. 211 00:10:59,000 --> 00:11:00,000 And we really do appreciate you. 212 00:11:00,000 --> 00:11:01,000 We really do appreciate y'all. 213 00:11:01,000 --> 00:11:05,000 But we've been in spaces where like the energy is just like standoffish. 214 00:11:05,000 --> 00:11:08,000 Yeah, just because of what we do, just because we're podcasters. 215 00:11:08,000 --> 00:11:11,000 They think we're like messy or I don't know. 216 00:11:11,000 --> 00:11:14,000 I mean, and we do have the tendency to be messy. 217 00:11:14,000 --> 00:11:16,000 But also, this is what I feel. 218 00:11:16,000 --> 00:11:21,000 I feel like you niggas do shit to us and then you expect us not to respond. 219 00:11:21,000 --> 00:11:22,000 Bitch. 220 00:11:22,000 --> 00:11:24,000 And that's the shit that really bothers me. 221 00:11:24,000 --> 00:11:28,000 And then also like that's really what it is. 222 00:11:28,000 --> 00:11:30,000 Like y'all will sit there and treat us like shit. 223 00:11:30,000 --> 00:11:33,000 And I'm not allowed to talk about my experience. 224 00:11:33,000 --> 00:11:35,000 And if I do, it comes across as messy. 225 00:11:35,000 --> 00:11:36,000 But you know what? 226 00:11:36,000 --> 00:11:37,000 Let me shut the fuck up. 227 00:11:37,000 --> 00:11:39,000 A little too personal. 228 00:11:39,000 --> 00:11:46,000 Like y'all like especially when they're older, like the younger the younger Jordans, like they'd be pretty cool. 229 00:11:46,000 --> 00:11:47,000 I'm not going to lie. 230 00:11:47,000 --> 00:11:50,000 Like for sure, it'd be the younger ones is cool as shit. 231 00:11:50,000 --> 00:11:51,000 Excuse me. 232 00:11:51,000 --> 00:11:52,000 Like y'all be cool. 233 00:11:52,000 --> 00:11:55,000 But once you get like 25 and up. 234 00:11:55,000 --> 00:11:58,000 Yep, pretty much. 235 00:11:58,000 --> 00:12:01,000 I had somebody tell me that podcasting is not creative. 236 00:12:01,000 --> 00:12:02,000 Now, I'm like how? 237 00:12:02,000 --> 00:12:05,000 Because you have to literally come up with segments. 238 00:12:05,000 --> 00:12:06,000 That's very creative. 239 00:12:06,000 --> 00:12:07,000 Come up with segments. 240 00:12:07,000 --> 00:12:09,000 Come up with like tag lines. 241 00:12:09,000 --> 00:12:11,000 You got to keep people engaged. 242 00:12:11,000 --> 00:12:13,000 You got to keep people engaged for real. 243 00:12:13,000 --> 00:12:19,000 And you got to also come up with topics that are relevant or topics that other podcasters are not talking about. 244 00:12:19,000 --> 00:12:20,000 So how is that not creative? 245 00:12:20,000 --> 00:12:21,000 Somebody let me know. 246 00:12:21,000 --> 00:12:23,000 But I find it interesting. 247 00:12:23,000 --> 00:12:24,000 And not everybody has a sense of humor. 248 00:12:24,000 --> 00:12:25,000 I'm a funny ass bitch. 249 00:12:25,000 --> 00:12:26,000 Exactly. 250 00:12:26,000 --> 00:12:27,000 I really am funny. 251 00:12:27,000 --> 00:12:32,000 And my funniness, across the board. 252 00:12:32,000 --> 00:12:35,000 Like I can make babies laugh. 253 00:12:35,000 --> 00:12:36,000 She really can. 254 00:12:36,000 --> 00:12:37,000 For real. 255 00:12:37,000 --> 00:12:38,000 I can make babies laugh. 256 00:12:38,000 --> 00:12:40,000 I can make old people laugh. 257 00:12:40,000 --> 00:12:42,000 I can make everybody laugh. 258 00:12:42,000 --> 00:12:44,000 Because I got a joke for everybody. 259 00:12:44,000 --> 00:12:45,000 Yep. 260 00:12:45,000 --> 00:12:46,000 So fuck you bitches. 261 00:12:46,000 --> 00:12:47,000 I just find it interesting. 262 00:12:47,000 --> 00:12:48,000 And I posted about this. 263 00:12:48,000 --> 00:12:56,000 I find it interesting how it's considered creative if you're like, if you're super transparent in your music or even with your art. 264 00:12:56,000 --> 00:12:59,000 But if it's podcasting, it's just like, it's messy. 265 00:12:59,000 --> 00:13:01,000 I can't be transparent in... 266 00:13:01,000 --> 00:13:06,000 If Chris Brown can scream Karushi's name in that fucking song, I'm pretty sure we can give a nigga a fucking nickname. 267 00:13:06,000 --> 00:13:07,000 No, real shit. 268 00:13:07,000 --> 00:13:09,000 And talk about how they fucked us over. 269 00:13:09,000 --> 00:13:11,000 Maybe y'all need to just stop like playing with bitches. 270 00:13:11,000 --> 00:13:13,000 Because if you play with me, I'm going to talk about it. 271 00:13:13,000 --> 00:13:14,000 I don't give a fuck. 272 00:13:14,000 --> 00:13:15,000 And I'm going to put a nickname on it. 273 00:13:15,000 --> 00:13:16,000 Yank. 274 00:13:16,000 --> 00:13:17,000 Just stop. 275 00:13:17,000 --> 00:13:18,000 Just stop with that shit. 276 00:13:18,000 --> 00:13:19,000 Like for real. 277 00:13:19,000 --> 00:13:21,000 But let's get into a different topic. 278 00:13:21,000 --> 00:13:22,000 Can't look. 279 00:13:22,000 --> 00:13:25,000 This is getting a little too personal and spicy up in here. 280 00:13:25,000 --> 00:13:26,000 Fuck it. 281 00:13:26,000 --> 00:13:28,000 I don't know what you want to talk about next. 282 00:13:28,000 --> 00:13:29,000 All right. 283 00:13:29,000 --> 00:13:36,000 So I guess we could do a wholesome talk. 284 00:13:36,000 --> 00:13:41,000 Especially since it is about you. 285 00:13:41,000 --> 00:13:48,000 So I want to know how you have been... 286 00:13:48,000 --> 00:13:51,000 Like how has your self-love journey been going? 287 00:13:51,000 --> 00:13:54,000 Like within your like 24th year around? 288 00:13:54,000 --> 00:13:57,000 The sun. 289 00:13:57,000 --> 00:14:03,000 I feel like I've been doing like a bunch of shadow work. 290 00:14:03,000 --> 00:14:05,000 That's like my favorite fucking phrase, shadow work. 291 00:14:05,000 --> 00:14:10,000 But I've been doing like a bunch of shadow work and just realizing my worth more and what I deserve. 292 00:14:10,000 --> 00:14:13,000 Not only when it comes to dating, but even myself. 293 00:14:13,000 --> 00:14:16,000 Like it'll be days sometimes where I eat once a day. 294 00:14:16,000 --> 00:14:21,000 And I'm like, do you really deserve that bitch to be eating once a day? 295 00:14:21,000 --> 00:14:23,000 And it's like, no, you don't deserve that. 296 00:14:23,000 --> 00:14:27,000 So I've been like changing around like my appetite and stuff like that. 297 00:14:27,000 --> 00:14:31,000 And I've really been incorporating... 298 00:14:31,000 --> 00:14:35,000 And this is going to sound weird to some people, but like I was talking to my therapist about this. 299 00:14:35,000 --> 00:14:39,000 Like masturbation, incorporating masturbation into like your self-love journey. 300 00:14:39,000 --> 00:14:44,000 That's like very important because it's like when you're not getting it from somebody, you got to give it to yourself. 301 00:14:44,000 --> 00:14:46,000 So I don't want to... 302 00:14:46,000 --> 00:14:48,000 I mean, you don't have to, but... 303 00:14:48,000 --> 00:14:50,000 Yeah, you don't have to. You don't have to. 304 00:14:50,000 --> 00:14:54,000 But me, like I'm like, I be horny. 305 00:14:54,000 --> 00:14:56,000 I be very horny. 306 00:14:56,000 --> 00:15:01,000 So I've been using like Rose Kwan. 307 00:15:01,000 --> 00:15:03,000 I don't know. 308 00:15:03,000 --> 00:15:07,000 I just been like just paying attention to me and doing more things for me. 309 00:15:07,000 --> 00:15:09,000 I just like to get myself out on dates and stuff like that. 310 00:15:09,000 --> 00:15:11,000 So that's where I'm at. 311 00:15:11,000 --> 00:15:13,000 Okay. 312 00:15:13,000 --> 00:15:16,000 I mean, how has incorporated masturbation in your self-love journey? 313 00:15:16,000 --> 00:15:22,000 How has that changed the trajectory of like you, how you feel about yourself? 314 00:15:22,000 --> 00:15:24,000 I feel like... 315 00:15:24,000 --> 00:15:27,000 Because we be having a conversation about sex appeal a lot. 316 00:15:27,000 --> 00:15:31,000 And I feel like when you love yourself more, like your sex appeal kind of... 317 00:15:31,000 --> 00:15:34,000 It exudes sometimes in your energy. 318 00:15:34,000 --> 00:15:36,000 Like even it comes through, like your confidence. 319 00:15:36,000 --> 00:15:38,000 And then some pictures and stuff like that. 320 00:15:38,000 --> 00:15:42,000 So I feel like it's kind of helped me with that a little bit. 321 00:15:42,000 --> 00:15:44,000 And I also feel more connected to my body. 322 00:15:44,000 --> 00:15:47,000 I feel way more connected to my body. 323 00:15:47,000 --> 00:15:51,000 I know more of like what I like and what I dislike. 324 00:15:51,000 --> 00:15:53,000 Like I'm figuring that out along the way. 325 00:15:53,000 --> 00:15:55,000 So I would say that. 326 00:15:55,000 --> 00:15:59,000 All right. So my next question is like, what are some things... 327 00:15:59,000 --> 00:16:03,000 What are five things that you learned over the course of like your year? 328 00:16:03,000 --> 00:16:08,000 Not like from January to now, but your personal year. 329 00:16:08,000 --> 00:16:09,000 Oh, 23? 330 00:16:09,000 --> 00:16:10,000 23 to 24. 331 00:16:10,000 --> 00:16:11,000 Okay. 332 00:16:11,000 --> 00:16:12,000 I've learned... 333 00:16:12,000 --> 00:16:16,000 First thing I've learned is if you think that he don't like you, he don't like you. 334 00:16:16,000 --> 00:16:17,000 He fucking don't. 335 00:16:17,000 --> 00:16:19,000 If you think he don't like you, he do not like you. 336 00:16:19,000 --> 00:16:22,000 Even if that's not the case, it's like why is he making you feel that way? 337 00:16:22,000 --> 00:16:24,000 They just mean he not the one for you. 338 00:16:24,000 --> 00:16:25,000 He's... 339 00:16:25,000 --> 00:16:27,000 He don't like you. 340 00:16:27,000 --> 00:16:36,000 Another thing I've learned is sometimes you can tell other people your plans, 341 00:16:36,000 --> 00:16:38,000 but they'll speak fear into it. 342 00:16:38,000 --> 00:16:42,000 Like they'll put fear into it, even if that's not their intentions, for real, for real. 343 00:16:42,000 --> 00:16:46,000 So I've learned to like not share all of my decisions or like my moves. 344 00:16:46,000 --> 00:16:48,000 Because I was just talking about this with my therapist. 345 00:16:48,000 --> 00:16:52,000 Like my mom, sometimes I'll go to her for advice on something like that. 346 00:16:52,000 --> 00:16:56,000 And I'll get her opinion on something and then I'll second guess my opinion 347 00:16:56,000 --> 00:17:00,000 and I'll be scared about my opinion on something that I have or like a decision that I want to make 348 00:17:00,000 --> 00:17:02,000 because she has an opposing view. 349 00:17:02,000 --> 00:17:03,000 But it's like... 350 00:17:03,000 --> 00:17:04,000 It's not her life. 351 00:17:04,000 --> 00:17:05,000 Yeah, it's not her life. 352 00:17:05,000 --> 00:17:07,000 And then I'm grown on top of that. 353 00:17:07,000 --> 00:17:09,000 So that's another thing I've learned. 354 00:17:09,000 --> 00:17:10,000 Three... 355 00:17:10,000 --> 00:17:11,000 Hmm. 356 00:17:11,000 --> 00:17:12,000 What else have I learned? 357 00:17:12,000 --> 00:17:16,000 I'm like forgetting everything I've learned. 358 00:17:16,000 --> 00:17:18,000 Three... 359 00:17:18,000 --> 00:17:20,000 I want to live in a moment more. 360 00:17:20,000 --> 00:17:23,000 Like I just want to live in a moment. 361 00:17:23,000 --> 00:17:29,000 Like I don't always want to like record everything, which I don't think is anything wrong with that personally. 362 00:17:29,000 --> 00:17:32,000 But sometimes I feel like when you're recording everything and taking pictures of everything, 363 00:17:32,000 --> 00:17:37,000 you kind of get like lost in the moment that you're supposed to be in. 364 00:17:37,000 --> 00:17:40,000 So I want to be in a moment more. 365 00:17:40,000 --> 00:17:42,000 But that's one thing I've learned. 366 00:17:42,000 --> 00:17:45,000 And then what else? 367 00:17:45,000 --> 00:17:46,000 Hmm. 368 00:17:46,000 --> 00:17:49,000 This is a tough question, Kella. 369 00:17:49,000 --> 00:17:55,000 Um... 370 00:17:55,000 --> 00:18:00,000 I've learned that two things can be true at once. 371 00:18:00,000 --> 00:18:04,000 It's always a gray area. 372 00:18:04,000 --> 00:18:05,000 It's not always... 373 00:18:05,000 --> 00:18:07,000 Everything is not always so black and white. 374 00:18:07,000 --> 00:18:08,000 So that's another thing. 375 00:18:08,000 --> 00:18:09,000 And then another one. 376 00:18:09,000 --> 00:18:10,000 Five... 377 00:18:10,000 --> 00:18:15,000 Hmm. 378 00:18:15,000 --> 00:18:16,000 I don't know. 379 00:18:16,000 --> 00:18:19,000 I want to have friends who... 380 00:18:19,000 --> 00:18:20,000 Their views. 381 00:18:20,000 --> 00:18:22,000 Not that I want like a mimic of me. 382 00:18:22,000 --> 00:18:26,000 But from this point on, I want all of my friends to... 383 00:18:26,000 --> 00:18:28,000 They have to somewhat make me feel good. 384 00:18:28,000 --> 00:18:30,000 I have to love them as individuals. 385 00:18:30,000 --> 00:18:31,000 They have to also inspire me. 386 00:18:31,000 --> 00:18:34,000 If I don't have that, then it's like, it's no point in a... 387 00:18:34,000 --> 00:18:35,000 That was shade. 388 00:18:35,000 --> 00:18:37,000 No, I'm not even trying to be shady. 389 00:18:37,000 --> 00:18:38,000 I'm really not. 390 00:18:38,000 --> 00:18:40,000 That's just something that like 23 has taught me. 391 00:18:40,000 --> 00:18:45,000 Like if you can't even inspire me in some kind of way or like... 392 00:18:45,000 --> 00:18:49,000 If you're like super clingy, for example, like it's just not going to work. 393 00:18:49,000 --> 00:18:50,000 It's not going to work out. 394 00:18:50,000 --> 00:18:52,000 So I really just want friends who are more... 395 00:18:52,000 --> 00:18:54,000 Like their views are in alignment with mine. 396 00:18:54,000 --> 00:18:56,000 And that's how I feel about y'all two. 397 00:18:56,000 --> 00:18:59,000 And I feel like that's why we still friends. 398 00:18:59,000 --> 00:19:00,000 Because... 399 00:19:00,000 --> 00:19:01,000 He's like, girl, I don't... 400 00:19:01,000 --> 00:19:02,000 Yeah. 401 00:19:02,000 --> 00:19:03,000 So that's... 402 00:19:03,000 --> 00:19:04,000 I would say those are the five things. 403 00:19:04,000 --> 00:19:05,000 I hope I didn't sound like... 404 00:19:05,000 --> 00:19:07,000 That sounded right, right? 405 00:19:07,000 --> 00:19:08,000 Yeah. 406 00:19:08,000 --> 00:19:09,000 Okay. 407 00:19:09,000 --> 00:19:14,000 So what are some sexual experiences that you would like to have in your new year? 408 00:19:14,000 --> 00:19:15,000 In your new... 409 00:19:15,000 --> 00:19:16,000 Okay. 410 00:19:16,000 --> 00:19:19,000 I want to have a MMF threesome. 411 00:19:19,000 --> 00:19:21,000 I want to get a train ran on me. 412 00:19:21,000 --> 00:19:26,000 Because really it shouldn't be called a train. 413 00:19:26,000 --> 00:19:28,000 It should still just be called a threesome. 414 00:19:28,000 --> 00:19:34,000 You can also call it a Devil's Three Way. 415 00:19:34,000 --> 00:19:35,000 Yeah. 416 00:19:35,000 --> 00:19:37,000 Basically, I want to do that. 417 00:19:37,000 --> 00:19:38,000 I want to go... 418 00:19:38,000 --> 00:19:40,000 We were supposed to go to a sex club, but like that didn't work out. 419 00:19:40,000 --> 00:19:41,000 But I still want to go. 420 00:19:41,000 --> 00:19:42,000 We should go. 421 00:19:42,000 --> 00:19:45,000 I want to go to a sex club for sure. 422 00:19:45,000 --> 00:19:47,000 You want to come, Tati? 423 00:19:47,000 --> 00:19:48,000 No. 424 00:19:48,000 --> 00:19:50,000 I want to have another experience with a girl. 425 00:19:50,000 --> 00:19:52,000 The niggas are going to be there and it's not going to be my time. 426 00:19:52,000 --> 00:19:53,000 You don't want to go? 427 00:19:53,000 --> 00:19:54,000 We don't have to have sex. 428 00:19:54,000 --> 00:19:55,000 You don't have to have sex. 429 00:19:55,000 --> 00:19:56,000 You could just watch them have sex. 430 00:19:56,000 --> 00:19:58,000 You could watch niggas have sex. 431 00:19:58,000 --> 00:19:59,000 Unless you... 432 00:19:59,000 --> 00:20:06,000 But like, I know the type of niggas that I want to see are not going to be there. 433 00:20:06,000 --> 00:20:07,000 You never know. 434 00:20:07,000 --> 00:20:08,000 Wait, I'm cracking... 435 00:20:08,000 --> 00:20:10,000 Wait, but, Kelly, she do got a point though. 436 00:20:10,000 --> 00:20:13,000 The type of niggas that Tati like, they're not going to be in the sex club. 437 00:20:13,000 --> 00:20:14,000 They're not. 438 00:20:14,000 --> 00:20:15,000 You think so? 439 00:20:15,000 --> 00:20:20,000 Honestly, I don't think the type of niggas any of us want to be. 440 00:20:20,000 --> 00:20:21,000 You know what? 441 00:20:21,000 --> 00:20:22,000 You're absolutely right. 442 00:20:22,000 --> 00:20:24,000 I just want to go just for the experience. 443 00:20:24,000 --> 00:20:25,000 I just want to watch. 444 00:20:25,000 --> 00:20:26,000 Just to watch. 445 00:20:26,000 --> 00:20:27,000 I'm into voyeurism. 446 00:20:27,000 --> 00:20:28,000 Yeah. 447 00:20:28,000 --> 00:20:30,000 You just go and look at it and you're just going to be like, oh, wow. 448 00:20:30,000 --> 00:20:31,000 Yeah. 449 00:20:31,000 --> 00:20:32,000 You could touch yourself if you wanted to. 450 00:20:32,000 --> 00:20:33,000 I'm like... 451 00:20:33,000 --> 00:20:34,000 Yeah. 452 00:20:34,000 --> 00:20:37,000 So, I want to go to a sex club. 453 00:20:37,000 --> 00:20:40,000 I want to have another experience with a girl. 454 00:20:40,000 --> 00:20:42,000 What else do I want to do? 455 00:20:42,000 --> 00:20:44,000 Oh, I want to experience... 456 00:20:44,000 --> 00:20:48,000 Because some girl I followed, she was talking about like affirmations during sex. 457 00:20:48,000 --> 00:20:49,000 I want to experience that. 458 00:20:49,000 --> 00:20:50,000 Let me tell you something. 459 00:20:50,000 --> 00:20:54,000 I experienced this last night actually. 460 00:20:54,000 --> 00:20:56,000 It's amazing. 461 00:20:56,000 --> 00:20:59,000 It is. 462 00:20:59,000 --> 00:21:03,000 Like, imagine you coming and a nigga is just like, I'm so proud of you. 463 00:21:03,000 --> 00:21:05,000 You really doing it out here. 464 00:21:05,000 --> 00:21:07,000 He was really like, you're so pretty. 465 00:21:07,000 --> 00:21:08,000 You just... 466 00:21:08,000 --> 00:21:09,000 Oh, God. 467 00:21:09,000 --> 00:21:10,000 Come on. 468 00:21:10,000 --> 00:21:13,000 He said, what did he say to me? 469 00:21:13,000 --> 00:21:15,000 He was like, I'm so proud of you. 470 00:21:15,000 --> 00:21:18,000 You deserve everything that you're getting right now. 471 00:21:18,000 --> 00:21:19,000 Yes. 472 00:21:19,000 --> 00:21:20,000 Oh, my God. 473 00:21:20,000 --> 00:21:21,000 Bitch. 474 00:21:21,000 --> 00:21:22,000 Like, I couldn't be on my... 475 00:21:22,000 --> 00:21:26,000 You know, that sounds nice because when I was getting fucked last night, he told me to 476 00:21:26,000 --> 00:21:27,000 shut the fuck up. 477 00:21:27,000 --> 00:21:32,000 You know, maybe I'm fucking the wrong niggas. 478 00:21:32,000 --> 00:21:35,000 Yo, I'm crying. 479 00:21:35,000 --> 00:21:38,000 He was, oh, my God. 480 00:21:38,000 --> 00:21:43,000 You see, Cam, this is why I'm in the predicament that I'm fucking in. 481 00:21:43,000 --> 00:21:47,000 Because he should have never did that shit to me. 482 00:21:47,000 --> 00:21:48,000 I get it. 483 00:21:48,000 --> 00:21:51,000 I said, oh, okay. 484 00:21:51,000 --> 00:21:53,000 I was about to cry. 485 00:21:53,000 --> 00:21:56,000 If he would have kept going, good thing... 486 00:21:56,000 --> 00:21:57,000 Never mind. 487 00:21:57,000 --> 00:21:59,000 I mean, I say it like that. 488 00:21:59,000 --> 00:22:03,000 Okay, so I want to try affirmations or insects. 489 00:22:03,000 --> 00:22:08,000 What else do I want to try? 490 00:22:08,000 --> 00:22:10,000 I think that's about everything. 491 00:22:10,000 --> 00:22:11,000 I think I said everything so far. 492 00:22:11,000 --> 00:22:13,000 I'll probably come up with some more later on. 493 00:22:13,000 --> 00:22:15,000 But that's about everything. 494 00:22:15,000 --> 00:22:16,000 Okay. 495 00:22:16,000 --> 00:22:17,000 All right. 496 00:22:17,000 --> 00:22:19,000 Tati, do you have any questions for me? 497 00:22:19,000 --> 00:22:20,000 Hey, I'm me. 498 00:22:20,000 --> 00:22:23,000 Y'all asking me questions is making me nervous. 499 00:22:23,000 --> 00:22:25,000 I don't know why. 500 00:22:25,000 --> 00:22:28,000 Damn, I know I'm supposed to come up with questions. 501 00:22:28,000 --> 00:22:33,000 Tati, any other time, you have all this stuff to say. 502 00:22:33,000 --> 00:22:35,000 No, real shit, she really do. 503 00:22:35,000 --> 00:22:37,000 I know I'm supposed to come up with questions. 504 00:22:37,000 --> 00:22:43,000 Okay, what was your favorite sexual experience from this year? 505 00:22:43,000 --> 00:22:47,000 I don't want to give this nigga any more attention in our podcast. 506 00:22:47,000 --> 00:22:48,000 So I don't want to... 507 00:22:48,000 --> 00:22:49,000 Bob? 508 00:22:49,000 --> 00:22:55,000 Bob. 509 00:22:55,000 --> 00:22:56,000 Okay, yeah. 510 00:22:56,000 --> 00:22:59,000 His nickname is going to be Bob. 511 00:22:59,000 --> 00:23:05,000 And we're not going to get into details on why that is his nickname. 512 00:23:05,000 --> 00:23:14,000 Okay, I would say Bob because compared to the other guys that I had had sex with, 513 00:23:14,000 --> 00:23:16,000 yeah, it might have been good. 514 00:23:16,000 --> 00:23:20,000 But with him, I just felt like it was very passionate. 515 00:23:20,000 --> 00:23:27,000 And I felt like he was very attentive to what my body really responded to. 516 00:23:27,000 --> 00:23:32,000 So yeah, I would say that would be one of my favorite sexual experiences. 517 00:23:32,000 --> 00:23:36,000 And I really didn't want to answer this question because I don't want to keep talking about him here. 518 00:23:36,000 --> 00:23:39,000 But that was my best experience for me personally. 519 00:23:39,000 --> 00:23:42,000 All right, so what was your worst? 520 00:23:42,000 --> 00:23:46,000 My worst? 521 00:23:46,000 --> 00:23:48,000 Not this year. 522 00:23:48,000 --> 00:23:51,000 I don't think I had any worst ones. 523 00:23:51,000 --> 00:23:53,000 Well, like, okay. 524 00:23:53,000 --> 00:23:56,000 What you got against spitting in their mouths? 525 00:23:56,000 --> 00:23:57,000 I don't like that shit. 526 00:23:57,000 --> 00:23:58,000 That's very nasty. 527 00:23:58,000 --> 00:23:59,000 Do not spit in my mouth. 528 00:23:59,000 --> 00:24:00,000 I will smack the shit out of you. 529 00:24:00,000 --> 00:24:01,000 Do not do that. 530 00:24:01,000 --> 00:24:02,000 I will really smack the shit out of you. 531 00:24:02,000 --> 00:24:03,000 I like that. 532 00:24:03,000 --> 00:24:04,000 It's just nasty. 533 00:24:04,000 --> 00:24:05,000 I like that. 534 00:24:05,000 --> 00:24:06,000 It's just disgusting. 535 00:24:06,000 --> 00:24:07,000 Like somebody spitting in your mouth. 536 00:24:07,000 --> 00:24:08,000 Y'all like that? 537 00:24:08,000 --> 00:24:09,000 Yeah. 538 00:24:09,000 --> 00:24:12,000 Saliva going in your mouth. 539 00:24:12,000 --> 00:24:15,000 Like that is just nasty. 540 00:24:15,000 --> 00:24:16,000 Look. 541 00:24:16,000 --> 00:24:18,000 So yummy. 542 00:24:18,000 --> 00:24:19,000 Yummy? 543 00:24:19,000 --> 00:24:20,000 Do y'all swallow nut? 544 00:24:20,000 --> 00:24:21,000 Yes. 545 00:24:21,000 --> 00:24:22,000 Okay. 546 00:24:22,000 --> 00:24:23,000 I swallow nut too. 547 00:24:23,000 --> 00:24:24,000 That's crazy. 548 00:24:24,000 --> 00:24:27,000 I only said that because when I say I don't like spitting in mouths, people are usually 549 00:24:27,000 --> 00:24:28,000 like, but do you like swallowing nut? 550 00:24:28,000 --> 00:24:29,000 And I'm like, yeah, I do. 551 00:24:29,000 --> 00:24:30,000 But it's different. 552 00:24:30,000 --> 00:24:32,000 I like to look at you when I do it. 553 00:24:32,000 --> 00:24:33,000 I don't know. 554 00:24:33,000 --> 00:24:34,000 It's different for me. 555 00:24:34,000 --> 00:24:36,000 I can't really explain what the difference is. 556 00:24:36,000 --> 00:24:38,000 I just know I don't want saliva in my mouth. 557 00:24:38,000 --> 00:24:39,000 Like I don't want you spitting in my mouth. 558 00:24:39,000 --> 00:24:40,000 What is come? 559 00:24:40,000 --> 00:24:42,000 And them niggas don't even be drinking water. 560 00:24:42,000 --> 00:24:44,000 Oh my God. 561 00:24:44,000 --> 00:24:46,000 Don't get me started. 562 00:24:46,000 --> 00:24:47,000 No. 563 00:24:47,000 --> 00:24:50,000 Niggas really don't be, they don't be drinking water for real, for real. 564 00:24:50,000 --> 00:24:51,000 They really don't be. 565 00:24:51,000 --> 00:24:54,000 I realized I never want to fuck with a nigga who don't drink water. 566 00:24:54,000 --> 00:24:55,000 No. 567 00:24:55,000 --> 00:24:56,000 Yeah. 568 00:24:56,000 --> 00:24:57,000 Cause that shit tastes disgusting when they are. 569 00:24:57,000 --> 00:24:58,000 Oh my. 570 00:24:58,000 --> 00:25:00,000 I've never fucked with a nigga who don't drink water. 571 00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:03,000 But when I did one time, don't judge me. 572 00:25:03,000 --> 00:25:04,000 All right. 573 00:25:04,000 --> 00:25:06,000 I swallowed this nigga nut before. 574 00:25:06,000 --> 00:25:07,000 It's cool. 575 00:25:07,000 --> 00:25:11,000 But it was this one time and that was the last time I ever swallowed y'all. 576 00:25:11,000 --> 00:25:12,000 Cracker. 577 00:25:12,000 --> 00:25:16,000 I'm sitting here like, oh that shit tasted sour. 578 00:25:16,000 --> 00:25:20,000 There was somebody that told me, I'm not going to say who it was, but it was somebody that 579 00:25:20,000 --> 00:25:24,000 told me like she was giving a nigga head and when he came, it was, it was literally like 580 00:25:24,000 --> 00:25:25,000 clumps in her mouth. 581 00:25:25,000 --> 00:25:28,000 I said, oh baby, he must have had a STD. 582 00:25:28,000 --> 00:25:32,000 No, that's um, wait, wait, wait, clumps? 583 00:25:32,000 --> 00:25:33,000 Yeah. 584 00:25:33,000 --> 00:25:36,000 She said it was clumps, like literal clumps. 585 00:25:36,000 --> 00:25:42,000 I love how y'all all got silent. 586 00:25:42,000 --> 00:25:45,000 I don't know what to say. 587 00:25:45,000 --> 00:25:48,000 How did clumps come out of a dick? 588 00:25:48,000 --> 00:25:52,000 He had a yeast infection. 589 00:25:52,000 --> 00:25:53,000 Please y'all. 590 00:25:53,000 --> 00:25:55,000 She said it was clumped like pieces. 591 00:25:55,000 --> 00:25:58,000 Like it was thick. 592 00:25:58,000 --> 00:25:59,000 I'm like, did you swallow it? 593 00:25:59,000 --> 00:26:01,000 He had a yeast infection. 594 00:26:01,000 --> 00:26:03,000 She said she did. 595 00:26:03,000 --> 00:26:05,000 Oh my God. 596 00:26:05,000 --> 00:26:10,000 For you to see that and then swallow it. 597 00:26:10,000 --> 00:26:14,000 Well, if it was already in, in her mouth, you could spit it out. 598 00:26:14,000 --> 00:26:20,000 I would be like, that's what I did when I tasted that sour and I spit that shit right 599 00:26:20,000 --> 00:26:21,000 out. 600 00:26:21,000 --> 00:26:22,000 Oh my God. 601 00:26:22,000 --> 00:26:24,000 You couldn't spit out clumps. 602 00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:25,000 That's disgusting. 603 00:26:25,000 --> 00:26:28,000 Whoever you are, you're nasty. 604 00:26:28,000 --> 00:26:32,000 Yo, that is really crazy. 605 00:26:32,000 --> 00:26:33,000 Yup. 606 00:26:33,000 --> 00:26:35,000 Now I doubt she don't watch this podcast. 607 00:26:35,000 --> 00:26:38,000 It was actually somebody I was cool with a couple of years ago, but yeah, she told me 608 00:26:38,000 --> 00:26:39,000 that. 609 00:26:39,000 --> 00:26:41,000 I was like, wow, that's insane. 610 00:26:41,000 --> 00:26:44,000 I'm clumps bitch. 611 00:26:44,000 --> 00:26:48,000 So what you got for me next, Ketla? 612 00:26:48,000 --> 00:26:53,000 Let me get myself together. 613 00:26:53,000 --> 00:26:56,000 I'm really sitting here still trying to think of my worst sexual experience. 614 00:26:56,000 --> 00:27:00,000 I don't even think I had one within like me turning 23. 615 00:27:00,000 --> 00:27:04,000 I don't think I had one because I literally was, I don't even want to say too much. 616 00:27:04,000 --> 00:27:06,000 Be very, very happy. 617 00:27:06,000 --> 00:27:07,000 Yeah. 618 00:27:07,000 --> 00:27:09,000 I didn't have a bad sexual experience at 23. 619 00:27:09,000 --> 00:27:11,000 I've had them before, but not at 23. 620 00:27:11,000 --> 00:27:15,000 Like I didn't have one because I literally only had two sex partners and they was both 621 00:27:15,000 --> 00:27:18,000 like, whoo. 622 00:27:18,000 --> 00:27:19,000 Yeah, baby. 623 00:27:19,000 --> 00:27:21,000 They was both like really good. 624 00:27:21,000 --> 00:27:25,000 So that whole year I ain't, I have no bad ones. 625 00:27:25,000 --> 00:27:26,000 I didn't. 626 00:27:26,000 --> 00:27:27,000 That's really great. 627 00:27:27,000 --> 00:27:28,000 Yeah. 628 00:27:28,000 --> 00:27:31,000 That's really great. 629 00:27:31,000 --> 00:27:37,000 It's crazy because like people think since we're so sex positive that we be having sex 630 00:27:37,000 --> 00:27:38,000 with everybody. 631 00:27:38,000 --> 00:27:39,000 We don't. 632 00:27:39,000 --> 00:27:42,000 And this is not even to brag about my body count, but I really just don't be having 633 00:27:42,000 --> 00:27:43,000 sex with people like that. 634 00:27:43,000 --> 00:27:44,000 Like I just, I don't. 635 00:27:44,000 --> 00:27:45,000 Cause I latch on. 636 00:27:45,000 --> 00:27:46,000 It's gonna be a waste of time. 637 00:27:46,000 --> 00:27:47,000 For real. 638 00:27:47,000 --> 00:27:49,000 Cause a lot of y'all niggas don't know how to fuck. 639 00:27:49,000 --> 00:27:52,000 I latch on to one person. 640 00:27:52,000 --> 00:27:53,000 Yeah. 641 00:27:53,000 --> 00:28:01,000 There might be a little sprinkle, but if it don't hit, then it's just like, uh, yep. 642 00:28:01,000 --> 00:28:05,000 But usually most of the time I latch on to one person. 643 00:28:05,000 --> 00:28:08,000 And then once I do that, it's just like, all right, I'm not giving this coochie up. 644 00:28:08,000 --> 00:28:10,000 And that's why that's me. 645 00:28:10,000 --> 00:28:14,000 Like once I have sex with somebody, it's like, I only want to have sex with them, especially 646 00:28:14,000 --> 00:28:15,000 if it's good. 647 00:28:15,000 --> 00:28:18,000 But it kind of like, it's ain't that kind of bad though. 648 00:28:18,000 --> 00:28:20,000 Cause like. 649 00:28:20,000 --> 00:28:22,000 Well, we're lover girls. 650 00:28:22,000 --> 00:28:29,000 Like we just, we can't get, we, me and Kim can't get out of the habit of just being so. 651 00:28:29,000 --> 00:28:32,000 And I know these niggas be fucking other bitches too. 652 00:28:32,000 --> 00:28:33,000 Like they be fucking. 653 00:28:33,000 --> 00:28:34,000 I just can't. 654 00:28:34,000 --> 00:28:35,000 Whores. 655 00:28:35,000 --> 00:28:37,000 And I just, I can't. 656 00:28:37,000 --> 00:28:43,000 And then it's, and they be extra, extra whores because we love dating dumb ass creat- 657 00:28:43,000 --> 00:28:46,000 Oh, real shit. 658 00:28:46,000 --> 00:28:50,000 Every time I think about my taste in men, I get stressed. 659 00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:51,000 Girl, me too. 660 00:28:51,000 --> 00:28:53,000 I get so stressed. 661 00:28:53,000 --> 00:28:57,000 Y'all actually just made me realize, well not Tati, cause Tati not in the group chat, 662 00:28:57,000 --> 00:29:00,000 but y'all was making me realize I got tight for musicians. 663 00:29:00,000 --> 00:29:02,000 And I ain't even realized that until a couple of days ago. 664 00:29:02,000 --> 00:29:03,000 I might wait. 665 00:29:03,000 --> 00:29:05,000 I really do always date musicians. 666 00:29:05,000 --> 00:29:07,000 Like that's literally my whole catalog of musicians. 667 00:29:07,000 --> 00:29:11,000 Like, and if not a musician, every now and then I'll dip and dab into somebody, like 668 00:29:11,000 --> 00:29:13,000 some type of creative. 669 00:29:13,000 --> 00:29:18,000 But yeah, that's, I feel like dating a musician is the most traumatizing thing that you can 670 00:29:18,000 --> 00:29:19,000 do to yourself. 671 00:29:19,000 --> 00:29:20,000 Yo. 672 00:29:20,000 --> 00:29:25,000 I be scared cause sometimes I send voice messages to niggas and I'm just like, please do not 673 00:29:25,000 --> 00:29:27,000 put me in no fucking song. 674 00:29:27,000 --> 00:29:30,000 I try my best to only have hard conversations in person. 675 00:29:30,000 --> 00:29:34,000 Yo, I swear to God, cause I've been sent a lot of niggas of voice messages and I'm just 676 00:29:34,000 --> 00:29:36,000 like, please do not put me in a song. 677 00:29:36,000 --> 00:29:37,000 Yo. 678 00:29:37,000 --> 00:29:39,000 Do not do that. 679 00:29:39,000 --> 00:29:41,000 I'm so afraid. 680 00:29:41,000 --> 00:29:43,000 I'm so afraid cause- 681 00:29:43,000 --> 00:29:46,000 And they be sluts. 682 00:29:46,000 --> 00:29:47,000 They do. 683 00:29:47,000 --> 00:29:51,000 And it's like, it's cool, but like, I don't know. 684 00:29:51,000 --> 00:29:57,000 I guess for me, it's just like, I don't want to, even though I'm sex positive and I feel 685 00:29:57,000 --> 00:30:02,000 like you probably feel the same way, like you still don't want to be perceived as a 686 00:30:02,000 --> 00:30:06,000 slut because like people treat you really differently when they feel like you're loose. 687 00:30:06,000 --> 00:30:07,000 No, I get that. 688 00:30:07,000 --> 00:30:08,000 I definitely get that. 689 00:30:08,000 --> 00:30:10,000 And that's, that's, that's like what we was just talking about. 690 00:30:10,000 --> 00:30:14,000 Like when we go into certain spaces, people think that like, not that there is anything 691 00:30:14,000 --> 00:30:17,000 wrong with being a slut, but like the stuff that comes with being perceived as one, it's 692 00:30:17,000 --> 00:30:18,000 just like- 693 00:30:18,000 --> 00:30:20,000 Like the things that people say and the things that people do. 694 00:30:20,000 --> 00:30:24,000 Even the things that some men have said to me, like I remember one nigga actually suggested 695 00:30:24,000 --> 00:30:28,000 a threesome with me and my friend that he had literally just met like a couple of days 696 00:30:28,000 --> 00:30:29,000 prior. 697 00:30:29,000 --> 00:30:34,000 And I'm just like, you thought that was okay to ask me just because, you know, I'm assuming 698 00:30:34,000 --> 00:30:38,000 it's because I'm a very sex positive person and I like to talk about it openly, but it's 699 00:30:38,000 --> 00:30:41,000 just like, it's crazy to me. 700 00:30:41,000 --> 00:30:46,000 The stuff that people would say to us, like, like just random ass shit. 701 00:30:46,000 --> 00:30:49,000 Like you won't even have to be talking about sex, but they'll just say like the most random, 702 00:30:49,000 --> 00:30:50,000 outrageous shit ever. 703 00:30:50,000 --> 00:30:52,000 And I'm just like, you thought that was cool? 704 00:30:52,000 --> 00:30:59,000 Like you talking about, you post a quote on fucking Instagram, you post the fucking random 705 00:30:59,000 --> 00:31:02,000 post and niggas be like, let me eat your ass. 706 00:31:02,000 --> 00:31:05,000 I swear bitch. 707 00:31:05,000 --> 00:31:07,000 They definitely doing that. 708 00:31:07,000 --> 00:31:08,000 They definitely doing that. 709 00:31:08,000 --> 00:31:13,000 And if, and it sucks because like in this scene, especially because we are a sex positive 710 00:31:13,000 --> 00:31:14,000 podcast. 711 00:31:14,000 --> 00:31:21,000 And I think that's one of the, like other than like, like the older ones, like Ler and 712 00:31:21,000 --> 00:31:24,000 Lionel and shout out to y'all. 713 00:31:24,000 --> 00:31:27,000 We love y'all. 714 00:31:27,000 --> 00:31:30,000 We gonna clip this part. 715 00:31:30,000 --> 00:31:36,000 Ler and Lionel, um, East Your Heart Out and like a couple others, like, but they're older 716 00:31:36,000 --> 00:31:37,000 than us. 717 00:31:37,000 --> 00:31:44,000 So like they've lived life more like people are a lot less, um, judgmental at that age. 718 00:31:44,000 --> 00:31:49,000 And because we're young, it's not calling them old, but like they're older. 719 00:31:49,000 --> 00:31:51,000 So they're like 10 years older than us. 720 00:31:51,000 --> 00:31:53,000 Like, like, let's keep it a buck. 721 00:31:53,000 --> 00:31:54,000 Oh wait, they are. 722 00:31:54,000 --> 00:31:55,000 You're right. 723 00:31:55,000 --> 00:31:56,000 Yeah. 724 00:31:56,000 --> 00:31:57,000 Like let's keep it really like a whole stack. 725 00:31:57,000 --> 00:31:59,000 Like they, they are older than us. 726 00:31:59,000 --> 00:32:00,000 So like they've lived life. 727 00:32:00,000 --> 00:32:01,000 It's more accepting. 728 00:32:01,000 --> 00:32:02,000 Yeah. 729 00:32:02,000 --> 00:32:05,000 Because like they understand that that shit like shit like that don't really matter. 730 00:32:05,000 --> 00:32:06,000 Yeah. 731 00:32:06,000 --> 00:32:13,000 But when you're like niggas are 20, between like 18 to probably like 27, I'll give. 732 00:32:13,000 --> 00:32:19,000 Like especially in this scene, especially like when we're, we're bringing on musicians 733 00:32:19,000 --> 00:32:24,000 and all that other stuff, their first instinct is like, they gonna let me fuck. 734 00:32:24,000 --> 00:32:26,000 Can I get a dick suck? 735 00:32:26,000 --> 00:32:27,000 No, real shit. 736 00:32:27,000 --> 00:32:28,000 It's really, and it's like what? 737 00:32:28,000 --> 00:32:34,000 And I guess I never even realized how crazy it is until we started doing this podcast. 738 00:32:34,000 --> 00:32:36,000 Like it's really insane. 739 00:32:36,000 --> 00:32:38,000 Well at first the momentum was real slow. 740 00:32:38,000 --> 00:32:39,000 Exactly. 741 00:32:39,000 --> 00:32:40,000 It was real slow. 742 00:32:40,000 --> 00:32:42,000 So it's like, okay, nobody really knew us. 743 00:32:42,000 --> 00:32:43,000 We was able to chill out. 744 00:32:43,000 --> 00:32:52,000 But like now that people know who we are more and they hear us joking, all that other stuff. 745 00:32:52,000 --> 00:32:56,000 I prompt, it's joke, jokes, jokes. 746 00:32:56,000 --> 00:32:58,000 I be playing. 747 00:32:58,000 --> 00:33:00,000 I be playing. 748 00:33:00,000 --> 00:33:02,000 I be playing bro. 749 00:33:02,000 --> 00:33:04,000 I be playing. 750 00:33:04,000 --> 00:33:06,000 I'm serious right now. 751 00:33:06,000 --> 00:33:10,000 But other like I be joking. 752 00:33:10,000 --> 00:33:12,000 It's just for shock value. 753 00:33:12,000 --> 00:33:14,000 Like this is, this is click baity as fuck. 754 00:33:14,000 --> 00:33:20,000 My nigga, like don't, don't stop trying to get me to touch the private parts. 755 00:33:20,000 --> 00:33:21,000 This is the thing. 756 00:33:21,000 --> 00:33:23,000 A lot of niggas don't understand what sex positive means. 757 00:33:23,000 --> 00:33:27,000 Sex positive is really just normalizing conversations around sex and talking about it. 758 00:33:27,000 --> 00:33:31,000 That does not mean that you don't fuck a whole bunch of niggas, which if you did, 759 00:33:31,000 --> 00:33:32,000 you'd feel nothing wrong with that. 760 00:33:32,000 --> 00:33:33,000 But I'm just trying to clarify that. 761 00:33:33,000 --> 00:33:35,000 It doesn't mean that you fuck the whole bunch of niggas. 762 00:33:35,000 --> 00:33:37,000 Doesn't even mean that you're super experienced. 763 00:33:37,000 --> 00:33:39,000 You could have like one body and be sex positive. 764 00:33:39,000 --> 00:33:42,000 Like I just feel like niggas are just very dense and they don't know what it means. 765 00:33:42,000 --> 00:33:43,000 And that's why I do that. 766 00:33:43,000 --> 00:33:46,000 It doesn't, I just think that they don't want to see women happy. 767 00:33:46,000 --> 00:33:47,000 Yeah. 768 00:33:47,000 --> 00:33:54,000 And I think that they also have their own sexual trauma to, to unpack and understand 769 00:33:54,000 --> 00:33:59,000 because I feel like a lot of them aren't getting pleased either because they're scared to try stuff. 770 00:33:59,000 --> 00:34:04,000 They're scared to talk openly in a more positive manner about sex. 771 00:34:04,000 --> 00:34:08,000 Like even I was watching, I was looking at something and it was like, 772 00:34:08,000 --> 00:34:11,000 there's so much negative talk from men around sex. 773 00:34:11,000 --> 00:34:14,000 Like, like I'm going to beat this pussy up. 774 00:34:14,000 --> 00:34:15,000 Yes, I know what you're talking about. 775 00:34:15,000 --> 00:34:16,000 I'm going to do that. 776 00:34:16,000 --> 00:34:20,000 And it's like, okay, sometimes I like that. 777 00:34:20,000 --> 00:34:24,000 But the language used around sex is like very violent. 778 00:34:24,000 --> 00:34:26,000 Touch the cervix if you can. 779 00:34:26,000 --> 00:34:29,000 And a lot of y'all can't, oh Kayla. 780 00:34:29,000 --> 00:34:30,000 I'm cracking up. 781 00:34:30,000 --> 00:34:32,000 Jesus. 782 00:34:32,000 --> 00:34:38,000 But like that was really crazy to say. 783 00:34:38,000 --> 00:34:42,000 But like if you can't touch the cervix, touch it. 784 00:34:42,000 --> 00:34:44,000 Touch it. 785 00:34:44,000 --> 00:34:45,000 But also it's a time and a place. 786 00:34:45,000 --> 00:34:53,000 Like sometimes I really want to be like admired and yeah, you know, for real. 787 00:34:53,000 --> 00:34:58,000 And niggas can't, niggas just don't have it. 788 00:34:58,000 --> 00:35:02,000 Maybe y'all should beat y'all dick to Sade or something like that. 789 00:35:02,000 --> 00:35:03,000 Not Sade bitch. 790 00:35:03,000 --> 00:35:04,000 Like what? 791 00:35:04,000 --> 00:35:05,000 Beat your dick to Sade. 792 00:35:05,000 --> 00:35:09,000 Yeah, I think they just, I think that men need sex appeal too. 793 00:35:09,000 --> 00:35:11,000 Like in sensuality. 794 00:35:11,000 --> 00:35:12,000 And you know what's crazy? 795 00:35:12,000 --> 00:35:16,000 The main people that beat on women about having like sex appeal, it be men. 796 00:35:16,000 --> 00:35:19,000 But like a lot of them, the same niggas do not even have sex appeal. 797 00:35:19,000 --> 00:35:23,000 They think they can just come up to you and lick their lips and be like. 798 00:35:23,000 --> 00:35:25,000 Real shit. 799 00:35:25,000 --> 00:35:30,000 A lot of y'all niggas don't have sex appeal, but y'all be the main ones trying to criticize women for not having it. 800 00:35:30,000 --> 00:35:34,000 And can we also talk about how every woman doesn't have to be a sex kitten? 801 00:35:34,000 --> 00:35:37,000 Like I feel like a lot of people think that like even when it comes to like. 802 00:35:37,000 --> 00:35:38,000 Hold on. 803 00:35:38,000 --> 00:35:39,000 What the fuck is a sex kitten? 804 00:35:39,000 --> 00:35:40,000 Like a sex kitten. 805 00:35:40,000 --> 00:35:41,000 Like just. 806 00:35:41,000 --> 00:35:42,000 I know Tati was thinking the same thing. 807 00:35:42,000 --> 00:35:43,000 No, okay. 808 00:35:43,000 --> 00:35:46,000 So like a woman that just exudes sex appeal or just sex period. 809 00:35:46,000 --> 00:35:54,000 Like I be seeing that conversation on Twitter a lot like they be like, for example, Angela Simmons or like Aisha Curry. 810 00:35:54,000 --> 00:35:56,000 Like they really be like, they both are very awkward. 811 00:35:56,000 --> 00:35:57,000 No, they are. 812 00:35:57,000 --> 00:35:58,000 And I acknowledge that. 813 00:35:58,000 --> 00:36:02,000 But I'm just saying I don't like the fact that people be trying to count on for not having sex appeal because who said that? 814 00:36:02,000 --> 00:36:03,000 Even Chloe Bailey. 815 00:36:03,000 --> 00:36:04,000 Who said that? 816 00:36:04,000 --> 00:36:06,000 Even Chloe Bailey. 817 00:36:06,000 --> 00:36:09,000 Like people and I'm one of those. 818 00:36:09,000 --> 00:36:11,000 I'm not even going to sit here and try to fraud like I'm not. 819 00:36:11,000 --> 00:36:13,000 Y'all heard me. 820 00:36:13,000 --> 00:36:19,000 But like that is like a lot to live up to because some people just don't have it like that. 821 00:36:19,000 --> 00:36:20,000 Like some people just. 822 00:36:20,000 --> 00:36:23,000 And there's other ways to be mesmerizing too other than having sex appeal. 823 00:36:23,000 --> 00:36:26,000 Like you can be like super intelligent and that can be sexy too. 824 00:36:26,000 --> 00:36:27,000 So I think that. 825 00:36:27,000 --> 00:36:29,000 Can they don't give a fuck about that shit. 826 00:36:29,000 --> 00:36:32,000 Like let's be let's call a spade a spade like. 827 00:36:32,000 --> 00:36:37,000 But I'm saying like overall I'm just saying you can be mesmerizing in so many other ways. 828 00:36:37,000 --> 00:36:39,000 It doesn't have to be sex appeal. 829 00:36:39,000 --> 00:36:41,000 And I hate that people try to force like every woman needs to have it. 830 00:36:41,000 --> 00:36:43,000 Like you don't have to have it. 831 00:36:43,000 --> 00:36:44,000 You don't have it. 832 00:36:44,000 --> 00:36:45,000 You don't have it. 833 00:36:45,000 --> 00:36:46,000 It's fine. 834 00:36:46,000 --> 00:36:47,000 And it's hard. 835 00:36:47,000 --> 00:36:48,000 And sex appeal is really. 836 00:36:48,000 --> 00:36:50,000 It's something that's built. 837 00:36:50,000 --> 00:36:53,000 But also like some people just naturally have it. 838 00:36:53,000 --> 00:36:54,000 Yeah. 839 00:36:54,000 --> 00:36:59,000 And also it's garnered in a safe in a safe place like. 840 00:36:59,000 --> 00:37:06,000 There could be one nigga that's just like oh she's just like really weird or awkward. 841 00:37:06,000 --> 00:37:10,000 But there's some niggas that I've done swooned. 842 00:37:10,000 --> 00:37:11,000 OK. 843 00:37:11,000 --> 00:37:13,000 I also kind of feel like sex appeal is subjective. 844 00:37:13,000 --> 00:37:14,000 It is. 845 00:37:14,000 --> 00:37:20,000 I feel like it's subjective because some some niggas they feel like Chloe Bailey has sex appeal and other niggas be like she don't got it. 846 00:37:20,000 --> 00:37:21,000 It ain't there. 847 00:37:21,000 --> 00:37:22,000 So it's subjective to me. 848 00:37:22,000 --> 00:37:26,000 Now Cam it's like 80 percent people are like. 849 00:37:26,000 --> 00:37:28,000 No but I've seen people say that. 850 00:37:28,000 --> 00:37:29,000 I've seen people say. 851 00:37:29,000 --> 00:37:30,000 And 20 percent like. 852 00:37:30,000 --> 00:37:31,000 I don't know what y'all talking about. 853 00:37:31,000 --> 00:37:35,000 I feel like her her she's just trying to find. 854 00:37:35,000 --> 00:37:36,000 Yeah she's still trying to find her. 855 00:37:36,000 --> 00:37:38,000 She's trying to find her pocket. 856 00:37:38,000 --> 00:37:39,000 Yeah. 857 00:37:39,000 --> 00:37:43,000 Like as as I see her progress she's getting better and better. 858 00:37:43,000 --> 00:37:48,000 I just I'm just praying that she. 859 00:37:48,000 --> 00:37:56,000 Like she gets more comfortable because it doesn't necessarily like it's not that it's not sexy because she's beautiful and her body's crazy. 860 00:37:56,000 --> 00:37:57,000 Yeah. 861 00:37:57,000 --> 00:37:58,000 OK. 862 00:37:58,000 --> 00:38:02,000 But like I can like she's just trying to figure herself out. 863 00:38:02,000 --> 00:38:03,000 Yeah. 864 00:38:03,000 --> 00:38:10,000 So that's a part of finding yourself and being sex positive is really finding who you are. 865 00:38:10,000 --> 00:38:11,000 Period. 866 00:38:11,000 --> 00:38:13,000 What sex appeal to you Tati? 867 00:38:13,000 --> 00:38:15,000 A funny nigga. 868 00:38:15,000 --> 00:38:16,000 Oh my God. 869 00:38:16,000 --> 00:38:17,000 OK. 870 00:38:17,000 --> 00:38:20,000 Yo if a nigga can make me laugh. 871 00:38:20,000 --> 00:38:24,000 Ninety nine percent of you can. 872 00:38:24,000 --> 00:38:25,000 I'm cracking up. 873 00:38:25,000 --> 00:38:26,000 I do love a funny nigga. 874 00:38:26,000 --> 00:38:32,000 No listen what if you're funny I don't know you automatically find me. 875 00:38:32,000 --> 00:38:33,000 OK. 876 00:38:33,000 --> 00:38:36,000 So that's sex appeal to Tati. 877 00:38:36,000 --> 00:38:43,000 And and I know y'all don't like them but North niggas. 878 00:38:43,000 --> 00:38:46,000 What about what about what is it? 879 00:38:46,000 --> 00:38:47,000 I don't know. 880 00:38:47,000 --> 00:38:51,000 Please tell us what do you like about dirty niggas. 881 00:38:51,000 --> 00:38:55,000 I don't know. 882 00:38:55,000 --> 00:38:57,000 But I really love North niggas. 883 00:38:57,000 --> 00:38:59,000 Like damn y'all just fine. 884 00:38:59,000 --> 00:39:03,000 What are some traits that they have that you like about them other than being funny. 885 00:39:03,000 --> 00:39:08,000 I don't even want to say it because you know it might be looking wrong but I don't know. 886 00:39:08,000 --> 00:39:10,000 Maybe like they want hood niggas. 887 00:39:10,000 --> 00:39:15,000 I'm from the hood so I love all all them niggas. 888 00:39:15,000 --> 00:39:19,000 So are they like do you like that they're like aggressive? 889 00:39:19,000 --> 00:39:22,000 Yo I love aggressive ass niggas. 890 00:39:22,000 --> 00:39:26,000 I like it in a sense only I feel like I like it when it comes to like sex. 891 00:39:26,000 --> 00:39:27,000 Yeah. 892 00:39:27,000 --> 00:39:28,000 No I love it period. 893 00:39:28,000 --> 00:39:29,000 Period. 894 00:39:29,000 --> 00:39:30,000 Okay. 895 00:39:30,000 --> 00:39:35,000 Now when I say aggressive I don't mean rude. 896 00:39:35,000 --> 00:39:41,000 I mean like just you could be a very nice gentleman but you aggressive as fuck. 897 00:39:41,000 --> 00:39:42,000 I like that. 898 00:39:42,000 --> 00:39:43,000 Okay. 899 00:39:43,000 --> 00:39:44,000 I like that. 900 00:39:44,000 --> 00:39:45,000 That makes sense. 901 00:39:45,000 --> 00:39:46,000 That makes sense. 902 00:39:46,000 --> 00:39:47,000 Did you feel like when we went to DC the niggas was like that out there? 903 00:39:47,000 --> 00:39:48,000 Yeah. 904 00:39:48,000 --> 00:39:49,000 Wait. 905 00:39:49,000 --> 00:39:52,000 Let's talk about our DC trip. 906 00:39:52,000 --> 00:39:56,000 Let's talk about it. 907 00:39:56,000 --> 00:40:00,000 We went we sang and we left that's it. 908 00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:01,000 All right. 909 00:40:01,000 --> 00:40:04,000 I kind of want to we're going to glaze over it. 910 00:40:04,000 --> 00:40:05,000 We're not going to give y'all all the deets. 911 00:40:05,000 --> 00:40:08,000 We just going to glaze over it. 912 00:40:08,000 --> 00:40:09,000 Oh my god. 913 00:40:09,000 --> 00:40:11,000 We almost got kidnapped. 914 00:40:11,000 --> 00:40:12,000 No. 915 00:40:12,000 --> 00:40:14,000 We almost got trafficked. 916 00:40:14,000 --> 00:40:16,000 We were almost murdered. 917 00:40:16,000 --> 00:40:21,000 We witnessed a lot of illegal activity. 918 00:40:21,000 --> 00:40:23,000 We witnessed illegal activity. 919 00:40:23,000 --> 00:40:26,000 But he was fine so it was okay. 920 00:40:26,000 --> 00:40:28,000 You thought he was fine? 921 00:40:28,000 --> 00:40:32,000 The one that I was not bitch I was holding on to that seat. 922 00:40:32,000 --> 00:40:34,000 Oh he was cute. 923 00:40:34,000 --> 00:40:35,000 He was cute. 924 00:40:35,000 --> 00:40:38,000 Were we looking at the same niggas? 925 00:40:38,000 --> 00:40:41,000 He wasn't fine but he was cute. 926 00:40:41,000 --> 00:40:45,000 The one I was behind I was holding on to that seat for damn. 927 00:40:45,000 --> 00:40:47,000 Yo and then also. 928 00:40:47,000 --> 00:40:48,000 Wait. 929 00:40:48,000 --> 00:40:50,000 The one with the locks? 930 00:40:50,000 --> 00:40:51,000 Did he have locks? 931 00:40:51,000 --> 00:40:52,000 Yeah. 932 00:40:52,000 --> 00:40:53,000 He had locks. 933 00:40:53,000 --> 00:40:54,000 He was cute. 934 00:40:54,000 --> 00:40:55,000 He was cute. 935 00:40:55,000 --> 00:40:56,000 He was cute. 936 00:40:56,000 --> 00:41:00,000 My eyes must be just moving me. 937 00:41:00,000 --> 00:41:02,000 Side eye. 938 00:41:02,000 --> 00:41:04,000 Bombastic side eye. 939 00:41:04,000 --> 00:41:08,000 Yo DC niggas is cute as hell. 940 00:41:08,000 --> 00:41:15,000 Shout out to everybody that worked at 1865. 941 00:41:15,000 --> 00:41:16,000 Oh we going to tag them. 942 00:41:16,000 --> 00:41:17,000 We going to tag them. 943 00:41:17,000 --> 00:41:19,000 I don't even have their gram. 944 00:41:19,000 --> 00:41:24,000 If we not going to talk about the situation where we almost got trafficked. 945 00:41:24,000 --> 00:41:29,000 Can we please talk about the situation when we went to 1865 and the girl. 946 00:41:29,000 --> 00:41:31,000 Kelly can you please tell the story. 947 00:41:31,000 --> 00:41:32,000 Listen. 948 00:41:32,000 --> 00:41:35,000 I don't have no decorum or cooth but I need them to please. 949 00:41:35,000 --> 00:41:38,000 This is no disrespect to his girl or nothing. 950 00:41:38,000 --> 00:41:39,000 Shout out to her. 951 00:41:39,000 --> 00:41:41,000 I owe you some pussy. 952 00:41:41,000 --> 00:41:43,000 Ay yo. 953 00:41:43,000 --> 00:41:48,000 I owe that man some pussy okay. 954 00:41:48,000 --> 00:41:49,000 Yo I'm dead. 955 00:41:49,000 --> 00:41:52,000 Yo Kelly please tell them the story. 956 00:41:52,000 --> 00:41:54,000 Please tell them the story. 957 00:41:54,000 --> 00:41:58,000 Apparently I don't have no decorum or cooth but I need them to tell you the story. 958 00:41:58,000 --> 00:41:59,000 Okay. 959 00:41:59,000 --> 00:42:03,000 How ready y'all. 960 00:42:03,000 --> 00:42:06,000 Because it wasn't that bad to me but to them it was that bad. 961 00:42:06,000 --> 00:42:07,000 Okay. 962 00:42:07,000 --> 00:42:10,000 What if they watched this because y'all did give them the card. 963 00:42:10,000 --> 00:42:11,000 Fuck it. 964 00:42:11,000 --> 00:42:13,000 Y'all almost fucking killed. 965 00:42:13,000 --> 00:42:14,000 Okay. 966 00:42:14,000 --> 00:42:16,000 Kelly just tell them the story. 967 00:42:16,000 --> 00:42:20,000 Okay so we were coming from the African American Museum right. 968 00:42:20,000 --> 00:42:22,000 You know a wholesome day. 969 00:42:22,000 --> 00:42:24,000 Very wholesome. 970 00:42:24,000 --> 00:42:27,000 By the way to the Caucasians. 971 00:42:27,000 --> 00:42:31,000 We'll talk about that in a couple minutes after she tell the story. 972 00:42:31,000 --> 00:42:39,000 Alright cool so we go to this spot bar who could lounge call 1865. 973 00:42:39,000 --> 00:42:41,000 Don't know where it's at we not from here. 974 00:42:41,000 --> 00:42:45,000 So we walk in and so the hostess is like you want to come in? 975 00:42:45,000 --> 00:42:47,000 The hostess is like you want me to give you a tour? 976 00:42:47,000 --> 00:42:48,000 You fine too girl. 977 00:42:48,000 --> 00:42:50,000 She was so cute. 978 00:42:50,000 --> 00:42:53,000 I'm sorry for the disrespect. 979 00:42:53,000 --> 00:42:55,000 He be too. 980 00:42:55,000 --> 00:42:58,000 So she like you want me to give you a tour? 981 00:42:58,000 --> 00:43:00,000 So she walk us around. 982 00:43:00,000 --> 00:43:07,000 We get upstairs to the bar. 983 00:43:07,000 --> 00:43:10,000 Everybody's ears shut off. 984 00:43:10,000 --> 00:43:12,000 Except my eyes. 985 00:43:12,000 --> 00:43:14,000 I just saw a fine nigga. 986 00:43:14,000 --> 00:43:16,000 That's clearly my type. 987 00:43:16,000 --> 00:43:20,000 We literally sitting like standing here. 988 00:43:20,000 --> 00:43:27,000 So she like y'all want to come in the other room to see. 989 00:43:27,000 --> 00:43:32,000 And everybody was like no. 990 00:43:32,000 --> 00:43:34,000 I'm like we picked the room already. 991 00:43:34,000 --> 00:43:35,000 What is this? 992 00:43:35,000 --> 00:43:36,000 What is going on? 993 00:43:36,000 --> 00:43:39,000 She was trying to show us the other rooms because she was trying to seat us. 994 00:43:39,000 --> 00:43:41,000 And she was trying to show us the other rooms. 995 00:43:41,000 --> 00:43:47,000 But by the time we got to the second floor and we saw that me and Tati our ears shut off. 996 00:43:47,000 --> 00:43:49,000 So she talk and she's like come on, come on, come on. 997 00:43:49,000 --> 00:43:51,000 So we go in whatever. 998 00:43:51,000 --> 00:43:54,000 And they're like so she's talking. 999 00:43:54,000 --> 00:43:56,000 They're not even letting her finish no sentence. 1000 00:43:56,000 --> 00:43:57,000 Here go Cam. 1001 00:43:57,000 --> 00:43:58,000 Yeah. 1002 00:43:58,000 --> 00:43:59,000 Uh huh. 1003 00:43:59,000 --> 00:44:07,000 And Tati's like. 1004 00:44:07,000 --> 00:44:09,000 And I'm like oh my God. 1005 00:44:09,000 --> 00:44:13,000 So she's like all right I feel like y'all just want to sit in here. 1006 00:44:13,000 --> 00:44:16,000 We like yeah she's like yeah. 1007 00:44:16,000 --> 00:44:20,000 So they sit right in front of the nigga. 1008 00:44:20,000 --> 00:44:22,000 Okay. 1009 00:44:22,000 --> 00:44:25,000 So we're talking blah blah blah. 1010 00:44:25,000 --> 00:44:27,000 She like laughing but peeping. 1011 00:44:27,000 --> 00:44:28,000 You know what? 1012 00:44:28,000 --> 00:44:32,000 Now that I think about it what if it was her that set us up? 1013 00:44:32,000 --> 00:44:33,000 Huh? 1014 00:44:33,000 --> 00:44:38,000 Oh bitch. 1015 00:44:38,000 --> 00:44:40,000 Tati look lost. 1016 00:44:40,000 --> 00:44:41,000 I got it. 1017 00:44:41,000 --> 00:44:42,000 I got it. 1018 00:44:42,000 --> 00:44:43,000 Okay. 1019 00:44:43,000 --> 00:44:44,000 Okay. 1020 00:44:44,000 --> 00:44:45,000 I was about to whisper in your ear. 1021 00:44:45,000 --> 00:44:46,000 Damn. 1022 00:44:46,000 --> 00:44:47,000 Anyway. 1023 00:44:47,000 --> 00:44:50,000 So you know we talking blah blah blah. 1024 00:44:50,000 --> 00:44:52,000 We talking to what's his name? 1025 00:44:52,000 --> 00:44:53,000 Her. 1026 00:44:53,000 --> 00:44:54,000 Her. 1027 00:44:54,000 --> 00:44:55,000 Shout out to you. 1028 00:44:55,000 --> 00:44:59,000 And so we're talking and then she come back upstairs. 1029 00:44:59,000 --> 00:45:00,000 She was like hey Stink Stink. 1030 00:45:00,000 --> 00:45:02,000 I was like that's her man. 1031 00:45:02,000 --> 00:45:05,000 And she went over to him and they was like oh boo. 1032 00:45:05,000 --> 00:45:08,000 I was like girl get off of my man. 1033 00:45:08,000 --> 00:45:09,000 I was like oh shit. 1034 00:45:09,000 --> 00:45:12,000 And that's when Kayla was like I think that's her man y'all. 1035 00:45:12,000 --> 00:45:13,000 And I was like oh shit. 1036 00:45:13,000 --> 00:45:16,000 I said I didn't even say I think. 1037 00:45:16,000 --> 00:45:17,000 I said that's her man. 1038 00:45:17,000 --> 00:45:21,000 And I knew I knew that from context clues. 1039 00:45:21,000 --> 00:45:24,000 She was looking at us like we was fucking crazy. 1040 00:45:24,000 --> 00:45:25,000 I ain't peep shit. 1041 00:45:25,000 --> 00:45:26,000 I pay like. 1042 00:45:26,000 --> 00:45:27,000 I seen a fine man. 1043 00:45:27,000 --> 00:45:28,000 Brain shut off. 1044 00:45:28,000 --> 00:45:31,000 And everything else after that was just like cut off. 1045 00:45:31,000 --> 00:45:32,000 Like my sight was. 1046 00:45:32,000 --> 00:45:33,000 Coochie was on hard. 1047 00:45:33,000 --> 00:45:34,000 I was just like. 1048 00:45:34,000 --> 00:45:35,000 That that nigga was fine as hell. 1049 00:45:35,000 --> 00:45:38,000 I really wasn't paying attention to nothing. 1050 00:45:38,000 --> 00:45:39,000 OK. 1051 00:45:39,000 --> 00:45:40,000 Continue Kayla. 1052 00:45:40,000 --> 00:45:41,000 Because remember to choo choo. 1053 00:45:41,000 --> 00:45:42,000 OK. 1054 00:45:42,000 --> 00:45:43,000 OK. 1055 00:45:43,000 --> 00:45:45,000 So then we like we get our food or whatever. 1056 00:45:45,000 --> 00:45:46,000 The food was OK. 1057 00:45:46,000 --> 00:45:47,000 It was all right. 1058 00:45:47,000 --> 00:45:48,000 I had mashed potatoes. 1059 00:45:48,000 --> 00:45:49,000 It was all right. 1060 00:45:49,000 --> 00:45:50,000 OK. 1061 00:45:50,000 --> 00:45:51,000 Because Tati and her mac and cheese. 1062 00:45:51,000 --> 00:45:52,000 There's some fine men that work at 1865. 1063 00:45:52,000 --> 00:45:53,000 OK. 1064 00:45:53,000 --> 00:45:54,000 OK. 1065 00:45:54,000 --> 00:45:55,000 OK. 1066 00:45:55,000 --> 00:45:56,000 So then. 1067 00:45:56,000 --> 00:45:57,000 I was like. 1068 00:45:57,000 --> 00:45:58,000 I'm going to go. 1069 00:45:58,000 --> 00:45:59,000 I'm going to go. 1070 00:45:59,000 --> 00:46:00,000 I'm going to go. 1071 00:46:00,000 --> 00:46:01,000 I'm going to go. 1072 00:46:01,000 --> 00:46:02,000 I'm going to go. 1073 00:46:02,000 --> 00:46:03,000 I'm going to go. 1074 00:46:03,000 --> 00:46:04,000 OK. 1075 00:46:04,000 --> 00:46:05,000 So then. 1076 00:46:05,000 --> 00:46:06,000 This other. 1077 00:46:06,000 --> 00:46:07,560 Very handsome man. 1078 00:46:07,560 --> 00:46:09,620 He follows the page now. 1079 00:46:09,620 --> 00:46:10,620 No he doesn't. 1080 00:46:10,620 --> 00:46:11,620 He DM'd me everything. 1081 00:46:11,620 --> 00:46:12,620 Oh. 1082 00:46:12,620 --> 00:46:13,620 You lying. 1083 00:46:13,620 --> 00:46:14,620 He was like. 1084 00:46:14,620 --> 00:46:16,120 Oh, would you like some hookah? 1085 00:46:16,120 --> 00:46:18,040 We was like sure. 1086 00:46:18,040 --> 00:46:19,520 I'm very against hookah. 1087 00:46:19,520 --> 00:46:21,440 I want everybody to know this. 1088 00:46:21,440 --> 00:46:23,160 I'm very against hookah. 1089 00:46:23,160 --> 00:46:24,520 Y'all know that it contains tobacco. 1090 00:46:24,520 --> 00:46:25,680 I'll crack her up bitch. 1091 00:46:25,680 --> 00:46:26,680 Think about that. 1092 00:46:26,680 --> 00:46:27,680 The next time. 1093 00:46:27,680 --> 00:46:30,680 You decide to smoke hookah. 1094 00:46:30,680 --> 00:46:32,280 Niggas be smoking backwards. 1095 00:46:32,280 --> 00:46:35,120 I'm here for a good time, not a long time. 1096 00:46:35,120 --> 00:46:37,620 I want everybody to just stop smoking. 1097 00:46:37,620 --> 00:46:41,000 I may ever go and do that now. 1098 00:46:41,000 --> 00:46:42,500 That's something I'm not gonna do. 1099 00:46:42,500 --> 00:46:44,000 You're not gonna be able to finish this damn story. 1100 00:46:44,000 --> 00:46:49,040 So he give us the, he give us, he get our order for the hookah. 1101 00:46:49,040 --> 00:46:51,840 He don't even step two steps on the hookah. 1102 00:46:51,840 --> 00:46:53,440 I didn't think I was that loud. 1103 00:46:53,440 --> 00:46:57,240 And all you hear is Kare say, choo choo. 1104 00:46:57,240 --> 00:46:59,940 I was that loud? 1105 00:46:59,940 --> 00:47:01,420 Who was loud as shit? 1106 00:47:01,420 --> 00:47:09,760 And they told me I don't have no decurals and I don't have no coot. 1107 00:47:09,760 --> 00:47:11,760 I said, can we? 1108 00:47:11,760 --> 00:47:12,760 He did. 1109 00:47:12,760 --> 00:47:17,100 He said, choo, she said, choo choo. 1110 00:47:17,100 --> 00:47:21,280 He literally looked back and he did. 1111 00:47:21,280 --> 00:47:22,280 I'm so sorry, sir. 1112 00:47:22,280 --> 00:47:23,280 I'm so sorry. 1113 00:47:23,280 --> 00:47:26,280 I did not know you heard me. 1114 00:47:26,280 --> 00:47:27,280 Do you care? 1115 00:47:27,280 --> 00:47:28,280 Not really. 1116 00:47:28,280 --> 00:47:29,280 We ain't ever gonna see that man again. 1117 00:47:29,280 --> 00:47:30,280 We not gonna back? 1118 00:47:30,280 --> 00:47:35,280 We just gotta go back this summer. 1119 00:47:35,280 --> 00:47:36,280 No I wanna go back today. 1120 00:47:36,280 --> 00:47:37,280 Oh, Cricka. 1121 00:47:37,280 --> 00:47:40,280 I was just saying, Herb, I owe you some pussy. 1122 00:47:40,280 --> 00:47:41,280 And doom. 1123 00:47:41,280 --> 00:47:47,120 Let's talk about the African American Museum though. 1124 00:47:47,120 --> 00:47:52,920 Because when we was in there, I'm not gonna lie, if y'all go, definitely prepare yourself 1125 00:47:52,920 --> 00:47:56,440 mentally because it was some graphic images in there. 1126 00:47:56,440 --> 00:48:01,120 And each time I stare at the fucking pictures, I wanted to smack the shit out of one of them 1127 00:48:01,120 --> 00:48:02,120 crackers. 1128 00:48:02,120 --> 00:48:03,120 I'm sorry. 1129 00:48:03,120 --> 00:48:04,120 Stop! 1130 00:48:04,120 --> 00:48:05,120 I really did. 1131 00:48:05,120 --> 00:48:06,120 Now can! 1132 00:48:06,120 --> 00:48:07,120 No! 1133 00:48:07,120 --> 00:48:09,200 I really wanted to smack them because I was so mad, the privilege that they have at being 1134 00:48:09,200 --> 00:48:14,240 able to look at these images and not feel anything. 1135 00:48:14,240 --> 00:48:16,880 It's just like, it's mind boggling to me. 1136 00:48:16,880 --> 00:48:19,480 Now, of course we know that not all white people was bad. 1137 00:48:19,480 --> 00:48:21,440 It's just in the moment, it was like so heavy. 1138 00:48:21,440 --> 00:48:24,880 Like when you go to that museum, it's very, very heavy. 1139 00:48:24,880 --> 00:48:28,080 I was angry the whole time. 1140 00:48:28,080 --> 00:48:30,080 Tati was too, as was Kella. 1141 00:48:30,080 --> 00:48:32,640 Kella and Tati was sitting there laughing in the museum. 1142 00:48:32,640 --> 00:48:36,160 But it was funny because I'm thinking like, oh my God, they laughing and they gonna think 1143 00:48:36,160 --> 00:48:37,160 we laughing at these images. 1144 00:48:37,160 --> 00:48:38,160 But the whole time. 1145 00:48:38,160 --> 00:48:41,160 We just got our conversation going on. 1146 00:48:41,160 --> 00:48:43,360 Wait, wait, hold up. 1147 00:48:43,360 --> 00:48:45,880 Wasn't there a whip? 1148 00:48:45,880 --> 00:48:49,560 It was a whip there and it said that it was gifted by Oprah. 1149 00:48:49,560 --> 00:48:52,400 Why the fuck would Oprah have a whip? 1150 00:48:52,400 --> 00:48:53,920 Why did you own a whip? 1151 00:48:53,920 --> 00:48:57,400 I just want to know why you own the whip and why you gifted it to the African American 1152 00:48:57,400 --> 00:48:58,400 Museum. 1153 00:48:58,400 --> 00:48:59,400 Like what's going on? 1154 00:48:59,400 --> 00:49:00,400 They said she was a coon. 1155 00:49:00,400 --> 00:49:01,400 I don't know. 1156 00:49:01,400 --> 00:49:02,400 Now, Oprah is a... 1157 00:49:02,400 --> 00:49:03,400 Is she a coon? 1158 00:49:03,400 --> 00:49:04,400 I don't know. 1159 00:49:04,400 --> 00:49:05,400 Do you think she's a coon? 1160 00:49:05,400 --> 00:49:06,400 I don't have any opinions. 1161 00:49:06,400 --> 00:49:15,960 I feel like she owns half of the world or some shit and one day we might get annihilated 1162 00:49:15,960 --> 00:49:18,520 because she got so much money. 1163 00:49:18,520 --> 00:49:20,960 So there's so much access and power. 1164 00:49:20,960 --> 00:49:21,960 Yeah. 1165 00:49:21,960 --> 00:49:22,960 I don't know why she owned the whip. 1166 00:49:22,960 --> 00:49:25,400 She's on Oprah bad side. 1167 00:49:25,400 --> 00:49:26,880 She seemed like she's super... 1168 00:49:26,880 --> 00:49:28,520 What's her sign? 1169 00:49:28,520 --> 00:49:29,520 She gives invaders energy. 1170 00:49:29,520 --> 00:49:30,520 What is her sign? 1171 00:49:30,520 --> 00:49:31,520 I'm going to look it up. 1172 00:49:31,520 --> 00:49:32,520 Oprah side. 1173 00:49:32,520 --> 00:49:35,520 I feel like she's a Virgo. 1174 00:49:35,520 --> 00:49:41,880 Oh, she's an Aquarius. 1175 00:49:41,880 --> 00:49:44,120 I don't know much about them except that they lie a lot. 1176 00:49:44,120 --> 00:49:45,120 I've heard they lie a lot. 1177 00:49:45,120 --> 00:49:48,520 I've heard that they have God complexes. 1178 00:49:48,520 --> 00:49:49,520 Who? 1179 00:49:49,520 --> 00:49:50,520 Aquarius? 1180 00:49:50,520 --> 00:49:51,520 They do. 1181 00:49:51,520 --> 00:49:52,520 Really? 1182 00:49:52,520 --> 00:49:53,520 I've never seen an Aquarius ever in my life. 1183 00:49:53,520 --> 00:49:55,080 I don't even think I've ever met one. 1184 00:49:55,080 --> 00:49:56,080 My brother is an Aquarius. 1185 00:49:56,080 --> 00:49:57,080 That means he's on my nerves. 1186 00:49:57,080 --> 00:50:03,520 But y'all, if you go to that museum, just understand that it gets deep. 1187 00:50:03,520 --> 00:50:04,520 It gets deep. 1188 00:50:04,520 --> 00:50:05,520 You'll be angry. 1189 00:50:05,520 --> 00:50:09,120 You'll be sitting at museum looking at the people in other race all mad. 1190 00:50:09,120 --> 00:50:10,120 Like, what the hell? 1191 00:50:10,120 --> 00:50:12,000 Like, why y'all here? 1192 00:50:12,000 --> 00:50:13,880 But it was definitely an experience though. 1193 00:50:13,880 --> 00:50:19,480 And besides the slavery exhibit that they had, they had a sports exhibit. 1194 00:50:19,480 --> 00:50:23,560 They had one on Afrofuturism. 1195 00:50:23,560 --> 00:50:24,560 What else did they have, y'all? 1196 00:50:24,560 --> 00:50:25,560 It was sports. 1197 00:50:25,560 --> 00:50:26,560 It was Afrofuturism. 1198 00:50:26,560 --> 00:50:29,840 They had something dedicated to Trayvon Martin. 1199 00:50:29,840 --> 00:50:31,440 I thought that was so beautiful. 1200 00:50:31,440 --> 00:50:32,440 Yeah, they did. 1201 00:50:32,440 --> 00:50:33,440 They did. 1202 00:50:33,440 --> 00:50:34,440 They did. 1203 00:50:34,440 --> 00:50:35,440 It was also one for Emmett Till. 1204 00:50:35,440 --> 00:50:39,240 And I'm still so confused as to why that man still in there. 1205 00:50:39,240 --> 00:50:40,240 No, for real. 1206 00:50:40,240 --> 00:50:41,240 So confused. 1207 00:50:41,240 --> 00:50:42,240 Somebody need to kill him. 1208 00:50:42,240 --> 00:50:43,240 Kill him. 1209 00:50:43,240 --> 00:50:44,240 I've been saying that for years. 1210 00:50:44,240 --> 00:50:47,240 Like, let's be for real. 1211 00:50:47,240 --> 00:50:50,080 They also had an exhibit for Emmett Till too. 1212 00:50:50,080 --> 00:50:51,080 Like, that was... 1213 00:50:51,080 --> 00:50:53,080 Good thing that bitch died. 1214 00:50:53,080 --> 00:50:54,160 No, real shit. 1215 00:50:54,160 --> 00:50:55,160 Let's talk about that. 1216 00:50:55,160 --> 00:50:57,440 Because do y'all feel like that was her karma? 1217 00:50:57,440 --> 00:50:58,840 No, it wasn't her karma. 1218 00:50:58,840 --> 00:51:00,200 She got to live out her life. 1219 00:51:00,200 --> 00:51:01,200 They killed that little boy. 1220 00:51:01,200 --> 00:51:02,200 Yeah. 1221 00:51:02,200 --> 00:51:03,200 That little boy. 1222 00:51:03,200 --> 00:51:04,200 They killed him. 1223 00:51:04,200 --> 00:51:06,680 And I seen that he was a Leo. 1224 00:51:06,680 --> 00:51:07,840 And that made so much sense to me. 1225 00:51:07,840 --> 00:51:09,880 I was like, oh. 1226 00:51:09,880 --> 00:51:12,600 Now Kella, you made a connection that actually stuck out to me. 1227 00:51:12,600 --> 00:51:14,040 I've been thinking about it ever since. 1228 00:51:14,040 --> 00:51:17,840 When we was at the African American Museum, you said, do you feel like because during 1229 00:51:17,840 --> 00:51:22,760 slavery times we was exposed to the sun and like, you know, a lot of nature and stuff 1230 00:51:22,760 --> 00:51:25,400 like that, that's why we're so connected to like... 1231 00:51:25,400 --> 00:51:26,400 What did you say? 1232 00:51:26,400 --> 00:51:28,840 I don't want to word you wrong. 1233 00:51:28,840 --> 00:51:31,200 Basically I was saying that like... 1234 00:51:31,200 --> 00:51:32,200 Because we were talking about... 1235 00:51:32,200 --> 00:51:35,800 We were looking at slave shoes and I was like, that's not... 1236 00:51:35,800 --> 00:51:36,800 Those don't seem comfortable. 1237 00:51:36,800 --> 00:51:38,800 Because they was just like a little like, slide. 1238 00:51:38,800 --> 00:51:41,240 I'm like, that doesn't make sense for them to wear. 1239 00:51:41,240 --> 00:51:44,160 I feel like they probably wear barefoot. 1240 00:51:44,160 --> 00:51:47,920 But I noticed what I said was we always had a really like... 1241 00:51:47,920 --> 00:51:50,760 We've always had a really deep connection to the earth. 1242 00:51:50,760 --> 00:51:55,320 Like you always notice that most people who have seasonal depression are usually black 1243 00:51:55,320 --> 00:51:56,320 people. 1244 00:51:56,320 --> 00:51:57,320 Yes. 1245 00:51:57,320 --> 00:51:59,560 And when the sun is out, we're always so much happier. 1246 00:51:59,560 --> 00:52:05,440 I mean, when you're in like cities like ours, like of course there's still violence happening 1247 00:52:05,440 --> 00:52:06,560 and stuff like that. 1248 00:52:06,560 --> 00:52:12,720 But we're still more outgoing and willing to be out and free and happy. 1249 00:52:12,720 --> 00:52:21,560 And I said that, do you think that because slaves probably were barefoot a lot, if they 1250 00:52:21,560 --> 00:52:26,840 were in the house, I mean in the field, that they had a deep connection to earth and were 1251 00:52:26,840 --> 00:52:33,200 like a little bit more optimistic because like all the creativity that they had, like 1252 00:52:33,200 --> 00:52:37,120 braid patterns to make maps and all the clothes that they used. 1253 00:52:37,120 --> 00:52:38,520 Writing poetry and stuff like that too. 1254 00:52:38,520 --> 00:52:41,240 Yeah, like all that stuff that they used in order to survive. 1255 00:52:41,240 --> 00:52:46,400 Like the conditions in which we were in at the time, well not we, but our ancestors were 1256 00:52:46,400 --> 00:52:51,800 in at the time, did not warrant for all the beauty that came out of it. 1257 00:52:51,800 --> 00:52:52,800 Like it didn't. 1258 00:52:52,800 --> 00:52:53,880 Like there's no... 1259 00:52:53,880 --> 00:52:59,640 I don't understand how we made it, but I think that it was directly because their feet were 1260 00:52:59,640 --> 00:53:03,680 in on the soil and they were in the sun. 1261 00:53:03,680 --> 00:53:04,680 No I agree. 1262 00:53:04,680 --> 00:53:08,280 When you said that, I was like, I never thought about it like that. 1263 00:53:08,280 --> 00:53:09,600 That actually does make sense. 1264 00:53:09,600 --> 00:53:10,600 Like it really touched me. 1265 00:53:10,600 --> 00:53:11,960 I've been thinking about that ever since you said it. 1266 00:53:11,960 --> 00:53:13,760 I was like, hmm. 1267 00:53:13,760 --> 00:53:19,320 I'm like, maybe that is why we so creative and like we're also very like athletic as 1268 00:53:19,320 --> 00:53:20,320 well. 1269 00:53:20,320 --> 00:53:21,320 And innovative. 1270 00:53:21,320 --> 00:53:23,920 And we thrive in like any space that we're in for real, for real. 1271 00:53:23,920 --> 00:53:27,280 Like we're always like the best. 1272 00:53:27,280 --> 00:53:33,040 Like sports, music, sex, sports, music, fashion. 1273 00:53:33,040 --> 00:53:34,040 Like we just thrive. 1274 00:53:34,040 --> 00:53:36,400 And I just feel like maybe it's because of that. 1275 00:53:36,400 --> 00:53:37,960 Maybe it is a correlation to that. 1276 00:53:37,960 --> 00:53:38,960 I don't know. 1277 00:53:38,960 --> 00:53:46,000 But I also feel like them being enslaved like that, that's why we so creative because we 1278 00:53:46,000 --> 00:53:49,200 had no other choice but to use our brains and to just think outside of the box. 1279 00:53:49,200 --> 00:53:55,200 It was a lot of slaves that actually like wrote a lot of poetry and stories that was 1280 00:53:55,200 --> 00:53:59,840 just like way ahead of their time, like way ahead of their time. 1281 00:53:59,840 --> 00:54:03,920 And again, I feel like that has a lot to do with the fact that we were basically forced 1282 00:54:03,920 --> 00:54:06,920 to be creative and be imaginative. 1283 00:54:06,920 --> 00:54:11,560 So yeah, that Afrofuturism exhibit that they have in the African American Museum, it really 1284 00:54:11,560 --> 00:54:14,240 made me think about a lot, like a lot. 1285 00:54:14,240 --> 00:54:21,400 But yeah, you want to talk about anything else, Kyalla? 1286 00:54:21,400 --> 00:54:22,400 Let's do Internet Hub. 1287 00:54:22,400 --> 00:54:23,400 Okay period. 1288 00:54:23,400 --> 00:54:24,400 My favorite segment. 1289 00:54:24,400 --> 00:54:25,400 All right. 1290 00:54:25,400 --> 00:54:26,400 What has been happening? 1291 00:54:26,400 --> 00:54:27,400 What has been happening? 1292 00:54:27,400 --> 00:54:28,400 Do you see Dr. Umor and Suki? 1293 00:54:28,400 --> 00:54:29,400 Oh my god. 1294 00:54:29,400 --> 00:54:30,400 Do you see Dr. Umor responded to her? 1295 00:54:30,400 --> 00:54:31,400 He was like, oh, we could lead a revolution together if you were ready to reinvent yourself. 1296 00:54:31,400 --> 00:54:32,400 I was cracking up. 1297 00:54:32,400 --> 00:54:33,400 I said not Dr. Umor, it's you and his shot back at Suki. 1298 00:54:33,400 --> 00:54:34,400 Like that shit was so crazy. 1299 00:54:34,400 --> 00:54:35,400 But you didn't see what Suki 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01:04:10,400 --> 01:04:16,400 I didn't. 1410 01:04:16,400 --> 01:04:22,400 I didn't. 1411 01:04:22,400 --> 01:04:28,400 I didn't. 1412 01:04:28,400 --> 01:04:34,400 I didn't. 1413 01:04:34,400 --> 01:04:40,400 I didn't. 1414 01:04:40,400 --> 01:04:46,400 I didn't. 1415 01:04:46,400 --> 01:04:52,400 I didn't. 1416 01:04:52,400 --> 01:04:58,400 I didn't. 1417 01:04:58,400 --> 01:05:04,400 I didn't. 1418 01:05:04,400 --> 01:05:10,400 I didn't. 1419 01:05:10,400 --> 01:05:16,400 I didn't. 1420 01:05:16,400 --> 01:05:22,400 I didn't. 1421 01:05:22,400 --> 01:05:28,400 I didn't. 1422 01:05:28,400 --> 01:05:34,400 I didn't. 1423 01:05:34,400 --> 01:05:40,400 I didn't. 1424 01:05:40,400 --> 01:05:46,400 I didn't. 1425 01:05:46,400 --> 01:05:52,400 I didn't. 1426 01:05:52,400 --> 01:05:58,400 I didn't. 1427 01:05:58,400 --> 01:06:04,400 I didn't. 1428 01:06:04,400 --> 01:06:10,400 I didn't. 1429 01:06:10,400 --> 01:06:16,400 I didn't. 1430 01:06:16,400 --> 01:06:22,400 I didn't. 1431 01:06:22,400 --> 01:06:28,400 I didn't. 1432 01:06:28,400 --> 01:06:34,400 I didn't. 1433 01:06:34,400 --> 01:06:40,400 I didn't. 1434 01:06:40,400 --> 01:06:46,400 I didn't. 1435 01:06:46,400 --> 01:06:52,400 I didn't. 1436 01:06:52,400 --> 01:06:58,400 I didn't. 1437 01:06:58,400 --> 01:07:04,400 I didn't. 1438 01:07:04,400 --> 01:07:10,400 I didn't. 1439 01:07:10,400 --> 01:07:16,400 I didn't. 1440 01:07:16,400 --> 01:07:22,400 I didn't. 1441 01:07:22,400 --> 01:07:28,400 I didn't. 1442 01:07:28,400 --> 01:07:34,400 I didn't. 1443 01:07:34,400 --> 01:07:40,400 I didn't. 1444 01:07:40,400 --> 01:07:46,400 I didn't. 1445 01:07:46,400 --> 01:07:52,400 I didn't. 1446 01:07:52,400 --> 01:07:58,400 I didn't. 1447 01:07:58,400 --> 01:08:04,400 I didn't. 1448 01:08:04,400 --> 01:08:10,400 I didn't. 1449 01:08:10,400 --> 01:08:16,400 I didn't. 1450 01:08:16,400 --> 01:08:22,400 I didn't. 1451 01:08:22,400 --> 01:08:28,400 I didn't. 1452 01:08:28,400 --> 01:08:34,400 I didn't. 1453 01:08:34,400 --> 01:08:40,400 I didn't. 1454 01:08:40,400 --> 01:08:46,400 I didn't. 1455 01:08:46,400 --> 01:08:52,400 I didn't. 1456 01:08:52,400 --> 01:08:58,400 I didn't. 1457 01:08:58,400 --> 01:09:04,400 I didn't. 1458 01:09:04,400 --> 01:09:10,400 I didn't. 1459 01:09:10,400 --> 01:09:16,400 I didn't. 1460 01:09:16,400 --> 01:09:22,400 I didn't. 1461 01:09:22,400 --> 01:09:28,400 I didn't. 1462 01:09:28,400 --> 01:09:34,400 I didn't. 1463 01:09:34,400 --> 01:09:40,400 I didn't. 1464 01:09:40,400 --> 01:09:46,400 I didn't. 1465 01:09:46,400 --> 01:09:52,400 I didn't. 1466 01:09:52,400 --> 01:09:58,400 I didn't. 1467 01:09:58,400 --> 01:10:04,400 I didn't. 1468 01:10:04,400 --> 01:10:10,400 I didn't. 1469 01:10:10,400 --> 01:10:16,400 I didn't. 1470 01:10:16,400 --> 01:10:22,400 I didn't. 1471 01:10:22,400 --> 01:10:28,400 I didn't. 1472 01:10:28,400 --> 01:10:34,400 I didn't. 1473 01:10:34,400 --> 01:10:40,400 I didn't. 1474 01:10:40,400 --> 01:10:46,400 I didn't. 1475 01:10:46,400 --> 01:10:52,400 I didn't. 1476 01:10:52,400 --> 01:10:58,400 I didn't. 1477 01:10:58,400 --> 01:11:04,400 I didn't. 1478 01:11:04,400 --> 01:11:10,400 I didn't. 1479 01:11:10,400 --> 01:11:16,400 I didn't. 1480 01:11:16,400 --> 01:11:22,400 I didn't. 1481 01:11:22,400 --> 01:11:28,400 I didn't. 1482 01:11:28,400 --> 01:11:34,400 I didn't. 1483 01:11:34,400 --> 01:11:40,400 I didn't. 1484 01:11:40,400 --> 01:11:46,400 I didn't. 1485 01:11:46,400 --> 01:11:52,400 I didn't. 1486 01:11:52,400 --> 01:11:58,400 I didn't. 1487 01:11:58,400 --> 01:12:04,400 I didn't. 1488 01:12:04,400 --> 01:12:10,400 I didn't. 1489 01:12:10,400 --> 01:12:16,400 I didn't. 1490 01:12:16,400 --> 01:12:22,400 I didn't. 1491 01:12:22,400 --> 01:12:28,400 I didn't. 1492 01:12:28,400 --> 01:12:34,400 I didn't. 1493 01:12:34,400 --> 01:12:40,400 I didn't. 1494 01:12:40,400 --> 01:12:46,400 I didn't. 1495 01:12:46,400 --> 01:12:52,400 I didn't. 1496 01:12:52,400 --> 01:12:58,400 I didn't. 1497 01:12:58,400 --> 01:13:04,400 I didn't. 1498 01:13:04,400 --> 01:13:10,400 I didn't. 1499 01:13:10,400 --> 01:13:16,400 I didn't. 1500 01:13:16,400 --> 01:13:22,400 I didn't. 1501 01:13:22,400 --> 01:13:28,400 I didn't. 1502 01:13:28,400 --> 01:13:34,400 I didn't. 1503 01:13:34,400 --> 01:13:40,400 I didn't. 1504 01:13:40,400 --> 01:13:46,400 I didn't. 1505 01:13:46,400 --> 01:13:52,400 I didn't. 1506 01:13:52,400 --> 01:13:58,400 I didn't. 1507 01:13:58,400 --> 01:14:04,400 I didn't. 1508 01:14:04,400 --> 01:14:10,400 I didn't. 1509 01:14:10,400 --> 01:14:16,400 I didn't. 1510 01:14:16,400 --> 01:14:22,400 I didn't. 1511 01:14:22,400 --> 01:14:28,400 I didn't. 1512 01:14:28,400 --> 01:14:34,400 I didn't. 1513 01:14:34,400 --> 01:14:40,400 I didn't. 1514 01:14:40,400 --> 01:14:46,400 I didn't. 1515 01:14:46,400 --> 01:14:52,400 I didn't. 1516 01:14:52,400 --> 01:14:58,400 I didn't. 1517 01:14:58,400 --> 01:15:04,400 I didn't. 1518 01:15:04,400 --> 01:15:10,400 I didn't. 1519 01:15:10,400 --> 01:15:16,400 I didn't. 1520 01:15:16,400 --> 01:15:22,400 I didn't. 1521 01:15:22,400 --> 01:15:28,400 I didn't. 1522 01:15:28,400 --> 01:15:34,400 I didn't. 1523 01:15:34,400 --> 01:15:40,400 What's my name? 1524 01:15:40,400 --> 01:15:44,400 And follow black girl. 1525 01:15:44,400 --> 01:15:54,400 And follow black girl.