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What is up everybody? I am George Masi. This is the George Mossey show. Please say hello to my host,

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Dee Dee. So Darcy and Stacy season four, episode 11 and 12 is aired now. This was a pretty intense,

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emotional roller coaster type episode. There's a lot that happened and we have to talk about all of

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it. So let's start with the party bus. So they get in the party bus and Darcy hops on the stripper

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pole and we kind of see a side of Florian that we weren't used to. Like he was kind of controlling

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and he was telling Stacy what she could and couldn't do. And in this episode, I think Stacy finally

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realized that she didn't want to be in a relationship with someone who was going to control her

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and tell her how she could live her life. Now, I know a lot of husbands, you know, are going to

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feel like I don't necessarily want my wife on a stripper pole. So when Darcy told her to get on

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and Florian's like, well, there's no way. I'm not 100% off board with Florian on that. Like if I was

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married, I wouldn't want my wife to be on a stripper pole, especially in front of other people.

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But again, is that fair or is that being selfish? Because men are very territorial and men seem to

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think that they can control things and control people and control situations. So how do you feel

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about Florian's controlling nature? Because he said that it has to do with his culture. Is that an

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excuse? I am on Darcy and Stacy's side with that because it's her bachelorette party. And it's with

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people that they know. So it's having fun. I could see if it was somewhere else where, you know,

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there's like people there that they didn't know, but everybody that was on that bus is, you know,

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close friends. So I didn't, I don't see any reason why Florian couldn't have, you know,

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let her have like a little bit of fun. And I think that was just an excuse for him to be able to

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control her in that moment, especially, you know, how he's been acting, especially around Georgie.

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I think Georgie had a lot to do with that, to be honest. So we watched the tension with Georgie and

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Michael kind of build on the bus. Like they were taking jabs at each other. And so we kind of felt

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like Michael Benz and Georgie, the situation was building up. So once they get to the bar,

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we see Georgie and Michael taking hits at each other. And a lot of people online are kind of

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divided on this situation because a lot of people said that Michael got in Georgie's face. And they

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were like, that was uncalled for. And then a lot of people are saying, well, Georgie shouldn't have

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thrown him on the floor. And so I think that both of them were out of line. Right. Do you feel like

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that? But I feel like Michael was poking at him and he was getting in his face and he was kind of,

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you know, poking the bear and tormenting him. And at some point, Georgie was like sick of it.

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And things got physical, which was super embarrassing for everyone there. Like they were

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so humiliated that that happened. And Stacey is like, this is supposed to be a party in a good

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time. But again, this is why you don't mix bachelor at and bachelor parties. You always should have

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it separate because there's always going to be issues, probably not these type of issues.

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But everyone knew inviting Georgie and Michael Benz and Darcy to the same event was going to end

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this way. Right. Exactly. Those three put together is like putting oil and water together. You never

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what kind of explosion is going to happen when them three are in the same room. I think that,

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you know, both Georgie and Mike both cross boundaries that they shouldn't have crossed

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at that time because they should have put their issues to the side. That was supposed to be a

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fun night for Stacey and Florian. Whatever's going on in their personal life, they, that was really

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disrespectful for them to bring it into that situation. And if, you know, if it was getting

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out of control that much, even though Georgie is best friends with Florian, Florian should have

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took Georgie to the side and calmed him down as well as Darcy should have took Mike to the side

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and calmed him down because that wasn't about them. That was about Stacey and Florian having their

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bachelor, bachelorette party and that was just a ticking bomb waiting to go off. Explode. All right.

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So we watched Florian and Georgie go on a golf outing and Georgie revealed to us some information

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that we all have been speculating in the back of our minds, but it kind of explained a little bit

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of why Georgie has been acting so weird and territorial about Darcy. So apparently during

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the Cicero debacle, Georgie was in town in Miami. We knew this. We saw because, but the way that

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Darcy reacted to him being in town, this information kind of caught us off guard because

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Georgie revealed to us that they had hooked up and this gave him a false sense of hope that

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there is an opportunity to rebuild their relationship and rebuild their connection.

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Darcy looked at the night as a drunken mistake, a one-time thing. You know, she was lonely. She

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was dealing with Cicero ghosting her and he was there for someone to support her in that moment.

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And Georgie's like, well, I feel kind of cheap, you know, and used because she knows how I feel

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about her. That was not a one-time thing for him. So that kind of explained a little bit as to why

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Georgie was reacting the way he did when he realized that Darcy was texting a boyfriend,

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because in his mind, they were rebuilding things together. But in Darcy's mind, they

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weren't rebuilding anything. He was just in town. She was in town. That was something that happened.

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And I think Georgie is unable to let that go. And I think on this trip, he's going to tell

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everybody that they hooked up. I feel like that's his agenda. And as soon as he finds out that Zach

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is going to be at that wedding, he's going to tell Zach too. Yes. Whenever I seen that part where,

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you know, he told Florian that him and Darcy had hooked up and he was explaining how it all happened.

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I was like, oh my goodness, here comes the fireworks. You know, he's starting to put that

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little bit of oil in that water. It's fixing to explode. But still, at the end of the day,

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even though Darcy and Georgie hooked up in Miami, because apparently they were both drinking,

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they were both vulnerable, yes, Darcy did mislead Georgie, because we don't know what Darcy said

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to Georgie. That was behind closed doors. So how do we know Darcy wasn't stringing my long on a little,

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you know, like her little puppet to have him as a backup if nothing else, you know, like with Zach,

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if it doesn't go well, or if he or if she chooses someone else, if it doesn't go, you know, the way

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she wants. So, but at the end of the day, Georgie should have waited after the Baxlerette party

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and then talked to Darcy. And, but I understand, you know, if he was, if he was thinking that that

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was, they were getting back together and she was leading him on, then yeah, I mean, who wouldn't

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explode, especially with her, you know, Texas and another man right there in his face, right in front

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of them, right. So the next morning, things are even more intense and serious, because we found

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out that Michael Silva, the twins dad, the maitreaka, the family had a mini stroke, which kind of put a

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damper on the entire party. The twins were like, well, we're definitely not doing anything else

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in this Baxlerette party. We're going to go home. We're going to go take care of our dad.

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And it kind of catapulted them back to reality, like whatever cloud they were on experiencing that.

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And even Darcy said it was already a crap show. But like now at that point, it had gotten to the

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point where they're like, we don't even want to be here. We want to go to take care of our dad.

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And finding out that he couldn't travel, knowing that Stacey wanted to get married. And the only

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way she wants to get married is if her dad walks her down the aisle, which I completely understand,

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her dad is probably the most important guy in her life other than Florian. So that made a lot of

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sense. So they ended up moving the wedding to Connecticut so he could physically be there,

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because his doctor said that traveling would be out of the question for him, because he's highly

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susceptible to a reoccurrence. So I think that this really put into perspective how stupid

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everything has been on this trip. They're like fighting and arguing and all of this negativity.

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And then they realized this is the real world. Things could happen in the blink of an eye. They

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need to be more understanding that they're wasting time on stupid things. And I think that this is

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maybe going to give all of them a better outlook and perspective on what they're doing in life.

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Because it kind of opened up Stacey's eyes to getting marriage counseling. And we know that

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Florian is against marriage counseling, like 134,000%. He doesn't believe in it. So she had to

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deceitfully get him there. So she said she was hiring an officiant and the officiant was actually

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there to help them. But it actually worked out in the end, because the officiant did get Florian

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to admit his part in it. And he did agree that he wanted to change and he wanted to do better.

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And he even apologized. And I think that counseling therapy, I'm an advocate for it,

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because I feel like we never analyze ourselves. We usually stand on the outside and we analyze

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others and we always project things onto other people. So I think renewing their vows after two

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years, this is a good time, you know, to talk about some things going on in the relationship

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that you want to change, because no marriage, I think the marriage counselor said it,

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is going to be easy. This is going to be a job, it's work, and you have to put time into it.

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And I feel like they definitely are giving themselves the opportunity to grow by opening

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that conversation. And without the counselor, talking to Florian was like talking to a brick

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wall. Like trying to tell Florian he did something wrong was like telling a deaf person

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something out loud, you know, without the braille, it just didn't get through.

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Yeah, exactly. First of all, you know, I want to say that I am very sorry to hear what happened

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to Darcy and Stacey's dad. You know, I hope he recovers 100%. You know, he is what I've seen

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after following Darcy and Stacey all these seasons. I mean, he's an amazing man. So

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I am praying and hoping for 100% recovery. And I am on board with what Stacey and Darcy did.

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They stopped what they were doing. You know, they went home to take care of their dad.

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You know, that is the main, the main and important thing is taking care of, you know,

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your parents. If they need you, you stop what you're doing and you start, you know, you run to their

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side and make sure that everything is okay. So, but you do remember that it was said that

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he doesn't need any stress. And whenever he was on the phone with Darcy and Stacey,

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that's the first thing that he said, you girl stress me out. So they promised him,

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they wouldn't stress him out. So we'll see. But, but no, in all seriousness, I know Darcy and

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Stacey love their dad very, very much. It's totally obvious. And as far as, you know, the

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you know, the wedding, you know, that is really generous of Florian and Stacey moving their wedding

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now from Miami to Connecticut. So, and then, you know, like you said, Stacey bringing in the

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one that's going to marry them, you know, it did catch Florian off guard because he thought they

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were just going to talk about the wedding. He didn't know that they were going to be in pretty

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much marriage counseling, counseling. So I understand where he's coming from. Stacey should have told

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him, you know, look, we're not only going to talk about, you know, what's going to happen at the

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wedding, how we're going to do it, but we're also going to be in marriage counseling as well.

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That way he didn't go in, you know, into this with like deer and headlights because it really,

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really, you know, it upset him and I get it, you know, but I get it where Stacey's coming from as

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well. And, you know, me being married to someone in a different culture, you know, whenever the

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culture you have is a, it's a give and take, you know, he's married to an American. He accepted

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her the way she is. She's married to him. She married him and accepted him the way he is.

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So whenever you bring in two different cultures, there has to be some give and take. You have to

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have, you have to find a happy medium somewhere. That's the only way it's going to work. That's

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true. I agree with you 100%. And I feel like she not told them because he wouldn't have shown up,

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but it was at the house. Where was he going to go? You know, maybe that was that too. He couldn't

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really hide. Maybe not in the bedroom. So we found out that Zach is going to be in Connecticut at the

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wedding and that is a little alarming because things are going well with Zach and Darcy needs to

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tell Zach that she hooked up with Georgie, not because it happened while they were together,

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anything. It happened before him, but she just wants him to know from her, because we know Georgie

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has a very loose mouth and we know that he's going to be telling people, especially when he sees that

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she brought a date to the wedding. He's going to be telling people, oh, by the way, we hooked up and

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I think that we should be together. I'm in love with her. You know, he's been speaking all season.

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So, and that could, that could be a deal breaker for Zach, you know, because Zach doesn't like

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drama. You know, a lot of people don't like drama. Drama can be extra and unneeded in any situation.

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So that's what we're going to watch next week on the two hour wedding finale. It's the finale of

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the season. I'm excited for that. We've run out of time, unfortunately, but this has been the George

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Massey show Darcy and Stacey season four episode 11 and 12. Thank you so much to my co-host, Dede,

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