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What is up everybody? I am George Massey. Please say hello to my co-host, Heather C.

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Extreme sisters season two episode nine. This is the George Massey show. We were talking about

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part two. Actually, we've been talking about the show. Anna and Lucy were not on this episode.

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They will be back next week for the finale. So we'll learn about that later. But Vee and Ashley

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are back. They took a week off last week. And we found out that Vee got some great news from her

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cardiologist. Her heart is doing fine. She is a clean bill of health. She is in great health.

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First of all, first and foremost, congratulations to Vee. That is something we love to hear.

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Second of all, she is clear to carry this baby for Ashley. Now, even though that's good news,

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where they kind of are right now, it's not really good news because Vee feels like

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she's very hurt by the statement that Ashley said. She's like, oh, well, even though we went through

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all of this and you told your family and we've had this huge obstacle of getting people on board,

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it's not really something that I can afford to do right now. And Vee is like, oh, wow, okay,

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I feel kind of stupid because I risked my relationship. I had an argument with your mom

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and I've been going to doctor's appointments. I've been changing my life to make this happen.

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And Vee was actually hurt that Ashley wasn't able to go to the cardiologist appointment with her.

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And Ashley did say to Vee that it was because she couldn't take off from work. But in her

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confessionals, she did say that it was more so because of the confrontation at the restaurant

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and the tension. And she said that going on these appointments and doing this,

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it's very hard and emotionally draining for her knowing that the $28,000 is the

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obstacle she doesn't really know how to overcome. So she said it's more so she wants to protect

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herself from the hurt and the pain. So she would rather just not do it, not go, not be faced with

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these obstacles. But Vee felt just as her sister, she wanted her there, whether they were going to

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go through with the the surrogacy or not. She just wanted her sister to be there. So do you feel like

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this surrogacy offer has brought them farther apart? Do you feel like they're not as close as they

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used to be? I think only because the fact that they're not being completely honest with each

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other. I think Vee is very compassionate and she's very vocal. You know, like she basically

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will just tell it like it is, like I'm upset. This is why I'm upset. And I feel like

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Ashley is more guarded. And I feel like she handles her feelings and her pain differently.

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And that's what's causing the clash. Because it seems like Vee doesn't understand like,

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why would you joke like that? Why would you make hurtful comments like that? You're not taking

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my feelings into accountability. So I think it's just like one of those classic cases of

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not being on the same page because they're two different types of strong women that handle

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things completely different. I think that it is amazing that Vee is healthy and she was able to

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come back from such a horrible thing that had happened to her. I mean, it's such a young age

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to have experienced, you know, a stress heart attack and, you know, think that your life is

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going to be completely gone. And to be able to come back from that, that's amazing. And I understand

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wanting to have somebody there because what if the news wouldn't have been in her favor?

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She would have been alone. You know what I mean? Like nobody wants to like

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be alone in that situation. And she probably also looks at it like, okay, the reason why I did this

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in the first place was to make sure that I was cleared to help give your baby to you. So, you

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know, that's the reason why I was going to get checked out in the first place. At least you

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could do is come with me. I mean, we all have, you know, our jobs, we all have commitments that

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are hard to like get out of and break. But I think she should have been like, okay, this is the day

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I have an appointment. I'd love for you to come. And if she's like, well, I can't get out of work

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whatever, then maybe they could try to like reschedule or do like a zoom, you know, where

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she couldn't be there, you know, physically, maybe she could be there virtually, take like a

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lunch break or something. There's always ways around stuff. But like in this case scenario,

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she said it wasn't even her job period. She just couldn't deal with all that. But I don't feel

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like they even really looked into everything. Like, was she able to get all the answers to this?

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Like, I know like when we last saw them, you know, we were looking to see if you know, they were

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even healthy enough to be able to continue with this journey. But like, did anybody even like

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discuss like the payments, the plans, the amounts, do they have like a payment plan? Do they have

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like where you can put so much down? Like, you know, like, does she just automatically hear the

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number? And she's just like, there's no way I can do this. You know, I mean, I think that's where we

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should have been able to hear more, because then we would understand the situation better. Because

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right now we see one sister that's upset because she looks like she's continuing with the process.

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And we have this sister who wants the baby that kind of just was like, that's not going to work. So,

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you know, let's see what else can happen. And I feel like it doesn't have to be that way,

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what they always say, if there's a will, there's a way, maybe, you know, there's more options that

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they can look into instead of just pushing it out. So that's what I would like to see for the

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season finale with these sisters. I would like to see some type of like peace. I would like to see

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some type of common ground, them get together and actually communicate and not just play off of their

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feelings and their emotions. Just be like put on the table and like, here, I'm your sister. I've been

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with you for day one. I'm trying to help you be there for you. Meet me halfway. Yeah, I feel that

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way too. I feel like Ash, Ashley and V just need to open up, communicate and listen to each other.

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And like you said, emotions are too high. Just listen to each and don't react. Don't listen to

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to defend, listen to react. All right. So I want to talk about the Capasso,

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Hannah and Nadia and Catherine. So it's the day of the rattling fundraiser for their brother,

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Eden, where they need to raise $12,000, which I think is really high. So I don't think that

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that's going to be possible. But they tell us that they got a burst of energy and they pulled off a

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lot of things that they need to do the night before. But Hannah wants to say that she got the

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burst of energy and she did most of the work the night before, even though Nadia and Catherine

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don't agree. So there were no cameras present. So we don't know who actually made the baskets

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and who did everything. But we do know that their mom, Donna came over and she's helping them cook

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the food. And it does look like they're going to pull it off. The food actually gets to the venue

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and we're watching it happen. And there was some arguing and fighting about like the salad and no

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one was helping. And one of the triplets was like, how long is this going to take? I want to get my

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nails done. You know, there wasn't a really big sense of urgency. So their mom, Donna just feels

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that opening a restaurant with them is probably not going to be the best course of action for her.

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But I will say this, the fundraiser, there was food, there was baskets, they were manning the

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door. Unfortunately, Catherine lost the 50-50 bucket a few times, which I think it had money in

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it. So that was pretty bad. So I was hoping that she would start guarding that with her life a

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little bit more because when people pay for the 50-50, half full, they give you money, you give

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them a ticket. So if you leave the bucket somewhere and somebody just finds the bucket of money,

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everyone is always super honest. Like somebody might say, oh, I just want a bucket of money. And

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then just hop up and leave and there's the money. So I'm hoping that they would take it a little

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more serious. Pam came through with a $5,000 donation from the Plaza Automall, which is a family

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friend that owns that dealership. And even she said it, she's like, I'm the one that made the call.

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I'm the one who got the check. But in the end, it's the Capasso triplets who did this, who

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got the donation. So they raised a total of $6,500. They're more than halfway there.

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But Hannah feels like, especially with the check situation and the amount of work that she put

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into the fundraiser, she wants to start being graded in Beliefer efforts. She said her brother,

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Aiden said to her that they're holding her back and it really got to her. She said that she wanted

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to know what her capabilities are without them, what she's capable of doing, what her limits are,

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how far she could go. So she's decided to go on a solo trip, which is not a big deal to normal,

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like not triplet people, because you know, everyone's gone on a solo trip. In this situation,

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she's never gone anywhere without her sister. So this is a big deal for her. And sisters are confused

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because like, well, why would you leave without us? Tell us where you're going. We can determine

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if we're going to go with you or not. But I think that this is going to be a good experience for her

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just to see what it's like in the real world without her sisters. And it's going to be good for

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Nadia and Catherine to beat for Hannah because Hannah's the ringleader. She's the one that runs

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things. So I feel like this is a good kind of test run for all three triplets, right?

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Yeah, I feel that way too. I think that they need a little bit of space to get everything strained away,

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because I think that Hannah is starting to feel some type of way because she's starting to feel

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like she's unappreciated. Nothing is worse than when you're trying to like really do something

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and get noticed and do big things. And then people constantly always remember the past or

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those compare you to other people. And it's like, you're sitting here purposely going out of your

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way to do big things to show that there's a difference being made. And yet it still can't be seen.

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So I think that it's always good to take yourself out of the equation every once in a while to like

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let people miss you. This is what life would be like without me. And we already know that Nadia

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and Catherine love her to pieces and already miss her and she wasn't even out the door.

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And you know, I think that with her being gone, even if it's two hours or 24 hours,

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that they might take a look at it and be like, wow, why did she leave? Did it have something to do

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with us? What can we do? And it might help make changes for everybody all together. I am disappointed

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that we didn't get to actually see the fundraiser. I think that it would have been cool to have like

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an inside look kind of like how we saw the restaurant with Anna and Lucy and stuff. I think

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it would have been cool to actually see like, how did everything pan out? Like we didn't even get to

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see her lose the 50 50 bit and we didn't get to see any of that. It was all like word of mouth.

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And I feel like they're always being rushed. Their segment is always being rushed. And we don't ever

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get to see anything other than them sitting around, you know, with the fingers being pointed

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saying what they're doing, what they're not doing. And it's like, I want to see more. I've said that

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from the beginning, I've always wanted to see more. This is supposed to be an inside look to show us

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why they're extreme. Well, why are they extreme? How could we never get to see them stream together?

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Like how can we never get to see them go out to a concert together or bar together? Like it's always

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like in that one room in the one house. And there's so much more that could be done or said. And I

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feel like it's being slept on. And as far as the restaurant situation goes, maybe if it's in the

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cards, the mom can still open the restaurant, maybe run it with her son and the older responsible

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daughter. Yeah, Regina, Regina would be a good fit. And then Hannah too. And then, you know, if the

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other two want to come along and help out, they can. But I don't think that they should throw

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it down the drain just because not everybody's on board. Because just because somebody's not on board

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right away doesn't mean that they can't change their mind. Some people just haven't found their,

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you know, their purpose in life. They haven't tried to find their path in life. Sometimes it takes

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people a little longer than others, especially with children, people that have kids, they should

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know that every kid they have is different. Even the triplets are different. So hopefully they'll

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still reconsider and open that vegan Italian restaurant because I'm really hoping that they'll

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send us some samples because it sounds intriguing. And I would love to try something different.

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That sounds good. So, but I love them. And I feel like TLC, you should give them a chance. We want

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to see more of them. Yeah, I would watch a show just about the triplets. But like you said, I think

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that if Hannah was to start doing the restaurant with her mom, you know, if they saw her committed

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to something and doing something completely on her own without them, they're going to want to be a

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part of it. Exactly. They don't like doing things separately. So when they saw her with her luggage,

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you're like, tell us where you're going, we can go to like, so I feel like if Hannah does do

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something on her own, it will attract the interest of the other sisters because they're going to be

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like, well, if you're doing it and you're doing good at it, and our mom is proud of you for doing

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it, I want to be a part of that. And I just feel like they just need that push, you know, they just

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need that push. And I think Hannah's going to always be the one that gives them that push,

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because I feel like the fundraiser probably took off because Hannah got that burst of energy. And

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when they saw her working, they started helping and they were able to do that. I do, I do feel like

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they feed off of each other. It would be difficult for them to just break off into three separate

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people cold turkey. So I do feel like they are going to need to do something together, but

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individually at the same time. All right, so we've run out of time. Thank you so much for

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joining me to my cohost Heather. I'm George Matzi, make sure to follow me on all social media platforms,

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GeorgeMatzi.com, and anywhere you get your podcasts. And we will talk to you all next week for the

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finale of season two of Extreme Sisters.