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What is up everybody?

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I am George Mossey

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Please say hello to my co-host, DeeDee.

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Hi.

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Hi.

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So we're talking Darcy and Stacy this week and we're on season four, episode nine.

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And there's a lot.

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This was a very dramatic episode, so I don't want to waste any time because we don't have

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a whole lot of time.

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So first of all, we want to say congrats to Annico who has packed up her life and moved

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to Arizona and she's going to college, going out on her own.

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And I think that we have something in common.

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She said that it was the day that she was supposed to leave for her flight and she

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hadn't packed.

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I usually am not done packing until my flight is about three to four hours from takeoff.

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So I feel like we have that in common because I was like, oh, I feel you, I do that.

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I'm literally supposed to be getting in my Uber and I'm still putting things in my suitcase.

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So I totally understand that.

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And I love the dorm room, right?

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Like I felt like it was small and it was generic, but it was clean and it had an air conditioner

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that you could control.

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So I feel like Annico has a nice little place for her and her roommate seems really nice.

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And unfortunately Darcy's life pack kind of left the room smelling like raw sewage because,

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okay, so what are your thoughts on putting eggs in the microwave?

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I was always told that you don't put eggs in the microwave under any circumstances.

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Am I right or is Darcy right?

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I've always been told the same, never do that.

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So I've never, I've never heard of that.

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I was speechless.

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I was surprised and I was like eggs in the microwave.

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I've never, I've always told not to do it.

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And then we learned something about Darcy on this episode.

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So apparently she was at a vanilla ice concert and she was going to go up on stage with him

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and stage dive and then everyone who was yelling jump decided not to catch her and she landed

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face first and face planted on the ground.

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So that was interesting and even Annico and Aspen were like, oh, well, that's embarrassing.

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And I love that Annico was like, mom, stop worrying about me.

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She's like, I'm going to take care of my grades myself.

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I'm more motivated in school.

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And it was interesting because Darcy was so worried.

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Like it's interesting to see this side of her, the motherly side of her, because we

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always see her in her relationships and in her business.

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And sometimes she's making decisions that we don't agree with.

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But being a mom, Darcy really has it down.

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She is such a great mom.

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And I felt like she was so worried and it's going to be difficult because her two daughters

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are the most constant things in her life other than her sister, Stacey and her dad.

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So she's going to be like really trying to adapt to a lifestyle of knowing that her

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little girl is a grown adult woman living her own life on the other side of the country.

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So I feel like those emotions were so real on this episode.

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Yes, and I can totally feel exactly where Darcy's coming from.

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I mean, I'm a mom and my daughter lives an hour from me and I'm always texting, calling,

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just to see if she's okay.

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And so I can definitely relate.

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I wouldn't know how to react if my daughter flew pretty much across the world to college.

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I mean, but Annico, she has got a good head on her shoulders and Darcy is, she's a wonderful

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mom.

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And I love seeing that side of Darcy in this episode.

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That really, that's a side that we never get to see.

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So that was special.

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It was.

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It was special.

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It's nice to see that side of her because we always see her in her personal life.

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And she did try to leave her daughters out of the show in the beginning and then she

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brought them in later on.

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And it's just nice to see that side of her.

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So I want to talk about Stacey because she was unable to find a dress in a store that

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she liked.

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And she's been planning this wedding this whole season and Florian has been trying to

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stop her from planning the wedding this whole season because everything is too expensive,

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waste of money, out of control.

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So Stacey found this woman, Katarina Bucci, who is a huge big name dress designer and

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she specializes in personalized dresses.

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She makes dresses that are made for specific women, what they want.

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And they even talk about the designs that they want.

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And she decided on like a mermaid fitted dress.

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So this dress is going to be amazing.

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And she was going to show Stacey kind of the design that was going to go on the dress,

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not the actual dress.

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And with permission from Stacey, so Florian could see it because Florian was like, you

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know, even in my culture, in my country, you're not supposed to see it, but it wasn't the

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full dress.

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So they did show Stacey the vision that they had been talking about and creating.

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And it looked amazing.

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And the fact that she said that each piece was hand sewn.

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Can you imagine how many hours that took?

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Because there had to be like five or six thousand stud diamonds on that.

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And she was just like, oh yeah, all of this was hand done hours and hours of work.

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And I was like, how amazing is that?

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They didn't say how much it was going to cost.

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I guarantee you we're talking thousands and thousands of dollars, right?

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Well, first off, you know, us women, we, whenever we're small, that's what we dream of.

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You know, the perfect wedding, the perfect dress, you know, the perfect look.

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And I was like, come on, Florian, you're trying to talk her out of it.

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Come on now.

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This is Stacey.

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We're talking about Stacey here.

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Come on.

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She's got to be, you know, top notch.

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It's got to be like a showstopper when she walks in the room.

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And you know, just seeing her get emotional off just a little sample piece, I can imagine

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how emotional she's going to be.

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Whatever the whole dress is done.

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Like, I mean, just by that little sample piece, I was like, oh my gosh, you know, it is going

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to be a gorgeous dress.

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I'm excited.

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I can't wait to see the finished, you know, the finished dress and exactly, you know,

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how it's going to be.

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And, but with it being Stacey, she's going to be gorgeous anyway.

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So it's going to be in a site to see.

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So after the dress, after seeing the dress, she got a missed call from Conrad.

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Conrad is their designer back at House of 11 in LA.

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And apparently the samples that Conrad sent them, the promo samples for the Impossible

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Kicks collab were needing to be sent back to LA so they could go to production because

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they're going to be launching this very soon.

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And they need a large amount of clothing to put in the stores for this launch.

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So the problem was they were waiting to do a promo shoot for the actual sample.

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So they had something to post on social media, something to put on Houseof11.com.

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And Darcy was obviously in Arizona and couldn't do that.

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So Stacey made a executive decision.

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She's been making a lot of those this season.

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And she decided that she and Florian were going to have a last minute photo shoot and

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get some promo material because she felt something is always better than nothing, which I actually

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agree with.

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But Darcy didn't feel the same way.

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Darcy felt like as a 50-50 shareholder in this company, she should have been notified

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even if she wasn't going to be in the photos, she wanted to be able to have a say in it.

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And she also said that she would have used more than one model.

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She would have had guys and girls and she would have done different backgrounds and

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she would have wanted a glam team.

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And a lot of the stuff that she wanted, I don't know if they had enough time for because

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I know that this was very last minute.

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They had to FedEx overnight these samples back to LA.

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So I know Darcy wanted to have her say in it.

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But how much of that do you think was feasible?

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Do you think that if Stacey would have called her, they would have had time to pull off

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the photo shoot that Darcy wanted?

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Or do you feel like this was the best that they could have done with the amount of time

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they had?

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In this situation, I would have to be on Stacey's side because she was trying to give Darcy

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the time and the respect for her to get everything organized with Aniko out in Arizona with the

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college.

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And with her being pressured to overnight the material, it's like they had one day to

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the next to get everything done.

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And I think it was a blown out of proportion just a little bit on Darcy's side.

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I see where Florian and Stacey was going with it.

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You know, like Stacey said, the business has to go on, it can't stop for anyone.

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It has to keep going.

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I feel like they had good intentions.

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I don't feel like that Stacey and Florian did this in any gevious way because I feel

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like Darcy looked at it as, well, you waited till I was out of town and you started making

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decisions without me and you're doing things that I wouldn't approve of.

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And I don't feel like Stacey and Florian had any negative intention when they did it.

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I felt like they felt this was a good business decision because once the samples were gone,

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they probably weren't going to get anything back until a day or two before the launch.

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And they weren't going to have a lot of time to get promotional photos done because they

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could have posters made, put in the store to show people they could have banners outside.

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They could have social media posts leading up to the event, but without the samples,

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they wouldn't be able to do that.

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So like you said, I think that they did it in the best interest of the business, but

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since Darcy was left out of it, she kind of felt like, well, you don't get to decide

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what's the best interest of the business without me.

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But when it comes to business, it's kind of like show business.

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Like Stacey said, it has to go on.

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You have to make decisions.

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And if someone isn't there to make a decision, Stacey being a 50-50 shareholder, she isn't

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allowed to make decisions on her own being that much of a shareholder.

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And that blow up at the end that we watched, I guess that's part of the consequences of

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being a business owner, especially when you're sharing it with someone else because it's

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hard to please two people, right?

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Like, you know, you're doing something that in your mind is right, but in the other person's

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mind, they're like, well, I would have had better photo shoot.

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I would have had a better background.

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I would have had, and it's like, I would have, I would have, I would have, but you weren't

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there to do it.

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And it's like, I want to, I want to be on Darcy's side, but I feel like Stacey did the

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best that she could with the time she had.

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And I, and Stacey was like, just say thank you.

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You know, say thank you to me for what I did because I didn't have to do anything.

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We wouldn't have anything at all.

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And Darcy's like, well, it kind of looks like we don't have anything at all.

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You know, like, I don't like what came out of this.

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And I, I hate seeing that because I remember there was a time when Darcy and Stacey were

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so close watching the seasons and watching them back on 90 day.

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And Darcy said something on this episode that caught my attention.

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She said when she got back to Miami, the first thing she did was call Leslie.

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And I was like, I remember a time when she would get back to Miami and the first thing

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she would do is call her sister.

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And I was like, it's really growing evident that they're growing apart.

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And this season is really showcased how different they're becoming.

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And it's almost scary because we've watched them literally dress alike, do the same things.

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They were going to have a wedding and get married at the same time.

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And now they don't even speak.

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Like there's times where one will be out of town, come back in town, not even call the

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other one and say, I'm home, I'm here, I made it safely.

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And it's like their relationship is really changing.

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And I think it has to do with the fact that Stacey is getting married and Darcy isn't.

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And it's funny that this is driving them apart because Darcy marrying Georgie wasn't a good

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idea.

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And I feel like she made a great decision postponing and stopping an end in that relationship.

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And speaking of that, there's a new guy that she's kind of excited to start talking to named

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Zach.

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I want to get your thoughts on Zach because he's more her style, right?

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So far.

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So far.

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I was like, like, just by looking at the picture and talking to him on the phone, it was like

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she just she fell in love.

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And that's that's Darcy.

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That's who Darcy is.

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That's who Darcy is always being.

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And I don't I don't I don't really know what to say on this one because just like every

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time I think Darcy is is she's going she's fast, coordinate too fast.

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And she needs to like pump the brakes just a little bit, you know what I'm saying?

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And but Darcy deserves happiness.

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Darcy deserves, you know, the best in life.

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But for her to, you know, make the comments that she made just by looking at a picture

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and talking to him on the phone, you know, talking about vibration all over her body

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and stuff.

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I mean, that's just that's that Darcy, you know, but that's going a little bit too fast.

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She needs to pump the brakes just a little bit.

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Yeah, she's all in all the time.

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And I think she is excited about the idea of finding someone.

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And I think, like you said, she falls in love with their looks and an idea.

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And I think she should focus more on getting to know that person and seeing if they're

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compatible because attractive doesn't make them compatible.

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And I think Darcy, she kind of bases her compatibility on attraction.

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And I think that's kind of how we've ended up in this place with her and her dating history

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now because attraction is like her number one thing that she's looking for.

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And unfortunately, attractive people can be horrible people.

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So it's like we have to focus a little more on the deeper inside of that person and not

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just how good looking they are on their Instagram.

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And I think that's something that we're going to learn along the way with Darcy.

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All right, we've run out of time.

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First of all, thank you so much to my co-host, DeeDee Castile, for joining me today.

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Thank you for having me.

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I'm George Mossy.

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Make sure you're following all social media platforms at georgemossygeorgemossy.com.

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And anywhere you get your podcasts, this has been the George Mossy Show.

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We will talk to you guys really soon.