1<br>00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:05,800<br>What is up everybody? I am George Mossey. Please say hello to<br><br>2<br>00:00:05,800 --> 00:00:09,800<br>Corona. This is the George Masi show Darcy and Stacy season<br><br>3<br>00:00:09,800 --> 00:00:12,600<br>for episode eight. There's a lot to talk about. I can't waste<br><br>4<br>00:00:12,600 --> 00:00:15,100<br>any time. We have to get into this. This episode has been<br><br>5<br>00:00:15,100 --> 00:00:18,000<br>making waves is trending on all social media right now because<br><br>6<br>00:00:18,000 --> 00:00:20,800<br>of something we're going to be talking about. So we learned<br><br>7<br>00:00:20,800 --> 00:00:24,500<br>that after that meeting with Georgie, he started calling<br><br>8<br>00:00:24,500 --> 00:00:27,400<br>and texting Darcy in the middle of the night thinking that<br><br>9<br>00:00:27,400 --> 00:00:30,800<br>the communication lines were now open because Florian got<br><br>10<br>00:00:30,800 --> 00:00:33,600<br>him that face to face meeting with him. So that wasn't the<br><br>11<br>00:00:33,600 --> 00:00:36,600<br>case because Darcy stood her ground. She also did not respond<br><br>12<br>00:00:36,600 --> 00:00:39,400<br>to those tech messages. She did not answer the phone. I'm so<br><br>13<br>00:00:39,400 --> 00:00:43,200<br>proud of her by the way Darcy is being so strong. She told him<br><br>14<br>00:00:43,200 --> 00:00:46,600<br>off at the place. She walked away from him after he was telling<br><br>15<br>00:00:46,600 --> 00:00:50,200<br>her he loved her and offering her diamonds. I am so proud of<br><br>16<br>00:00:50,200 --> 00:00:53,400<br>her. So also I'm proud of Florian because Florian met with<br><br>17<br>00:00:53,400 --> 00:00:56,200<br>Georgie and was like bro, you went rogue. We had a meeting.<br><br>18<br>00:00:56,200 --> 00:00:59,000<br>We discussed everything. You completely went rogue on the<br><br>19<br>00:00:59,000 --> 00:01:02,200<br>plan. I can't even have you as my best man now because I can't<br><br>20<br>00:01:02,200 --> 00:01:05,100<br>trust you. I can't trust anything that you do is like if you<br><br>21<br>00:01:05,100 --> 00:01:08,100<br>came to my wedding and said that you were going to behave and<br><br>22<br>00:01:08,100 --> 00:01:10,800<br>then you came to my wedding and completely ruined this wedding<br><br>23<br>00:01:10,800 --> 00:01:14,800<br>that Stacy is paying a lot of money for you will basically<br><br>24<br>00:01:14,800 --> 00:01:18,200<br>not be a part of my friend circle ever. So I think that<br><br>25<br>00:01:18,200 --> 00:01:23,000<br>Florian made the right decision to stop this weird Darcy<br><br>26<br>00:01:23,000 --> 00:01:26,600<br>obsession between him and Georgie and it's like I don't know<br><br>27<br>00:01:26,600 --> 00:01:29,400<br>how it went on for so long because Florian had to feel weird<br><br>28<br>00:01:29,600 --> 00:01:32,000<br>every time they were on the phone or having a conversation<br><br>29<br>00:01:32,200 --> 00:01:35,000<br>was always Darcy. I want to talk about the phone call that<br><br>30<br>00:01:35,000 --> 00:01:37,300<br>happened at the art studio because it kind of makes sense to<br><br>31<br>00:01:37,300 --> 00:01:40,500<br>this part because he called him to tell him to leave Darcy<br><br>32<br>00:01:40,500 --> 00:01:43,500<br>alone. Did you notice the very second thing that Georgie said<br><br>33<br>00:01:43,500 --> 00:01:46,900<br>was how's Darcy? Where is she? Let's talk about Darcy before<br><br>34<br>00:01:46,900 --> 00:01:50,300<br>he could even get anything out to Georgie. It was always<br><br>35<br>00:01:50,300 --> 00:01:54,300<br>about Darcy and I feel like Florian is finally seeing what<br><br>36<br>00:01:54,300 --> 00:01:57,400<br>they were trying to tell him the manipulation and the control<br><br>37<br>00:01:57,400 --> 00:02:00,200<br>and to getting her personal information and it's like<br><br>38<br>00:02:00,600 --> 00:02:03,800<br>Georgie was like a secret service agent and he was like<br><br>39<br>00:02:03,800 --> 00:02:06,800<br>spying on Darcy, spying on everything she was doing and<br><br>40<br>00:02:06,800 --> 00:02:08,800<br>I'm glad that she's finally free of that.<br><br>41<br>00:02:09,000 --> 00:02:12,000<br>Honestly, like I feel like not trying to sound mean but like<br><br>42<br>00:02:12,000 --> 00:02:16,100<br>I feel like Florian didn't get it. Like he didn't get that<br><br>43<br>00:02:16,100 --> 00:02:18,800<br>Georgie was trying to just like suck information out of him.<br><br>44<br>00:02:18,800 --> 00:02:22,100<br>I feel like Florian thinks that Georgie is his friend and<br><br>45<br>00:02:22,100 --> 00:02:24,900<br>he's just making conversation because that's his sister-in-law<br><br>46<br>00:02:25,100 --> 00:02:27,700<br>but not knowingly he's spilling all the tea and I'm like<br><br>47<br>00:02:27,700 --> 00:02:32,200<br>Florian stop. Like that's what Georgie wants from you and now<br><br>48<br>00:02:32,200 --> 00:02:34,900<br>I think he really sees it like you said in the phone call<br><br>49<br>00:02:35,000 --> 00:02:38,000<br>when he answers the phone. The first thing he says is how's<br><br>50<br>00:02:38,000 --> 00:02:42,000<br>Darcy? Where's Darcy? That's like now do you get it Florian?<br><br>51<br>00:02:42,000 --> 00:02:46,000<br>Like we love you but shut your mouth. Darcy was right to get<br><br>52<br>00:02:46,000 --> 00:02:49,500<br>that phone call because she was like I need proof because you<br><br>53<br>00:02:49,500 --> 00:02:53,400<br>lured me to this place to where Georgie was and this happens<br><br>54<br>00:02:53,400 --> 00:02:56,500<br>so she was like your word isn't enough for me anymore.<br><br>55<br>00:02:56,700 --> 00:02:59,800<br>She's like I need more than that and she's like since you can't<br><br>56<br>00:02:59,800 --> 00:03:02,600<br>sign a contract and prove to me she's like call him and just<br><br>57<br>00:03:02,600 --> 00:03:05,600<br>tell him leave me alone. Stop stalking me like honestly just<br><br>58<br>00:03:05,600 --> 00:03:08,700<br>let me be. Can I have my peace? And I feel like that was so<br><br>59<br>00:03:08,700 --> 00:03:12,700<br>important for Darcy because she literally had cut off all<br><br>60<br>00:03:12,700 --> 00:03:16,400<br>communication with him and then he weaseled his way in through<br><br>61<br>00:03:16,400 --> 00:03:19,600<br>any way any means possible to get back in her life and she's<br><br>62<br>00:03:19,600 --> 00:03:22,900<br>literally trying to stay on track and her dating life is not<br><br>63<br>00:03:22,900 --> 00:03:26,200<br>necessarily in the best place so it will be very easy for her<br><br>64<br>00:03:26,200 --> 00:03:28,700<br>to fall back into that habit and give him another chance.<br><br>65<br>00:03:28,700 --> 00:03:33,100<br>So again, I applaud how strong she's being in this situation<br><br>66<br>00:03:33,100 --> 00:03:35,900<br>because it would have been very easy to be weak and just let<br><br>67<br>00:03:35,900 --> 00:03:38,200<br>someone tell you how beautiful you are and just pick up that<br><br>68<br>00:03:38,200 --> 00:03:40,700<br>phone call and make yourself feel a little better. So she<br><br>69<br>00:03:40,700 --> 00:03:43,900<br>didn't do that so I'm happy about that. So I want to talk<br><br>70<br>00:03:43,900 --> 00:03:48,000<br>about this wedding venue. So we saw the Harbor House. Now<br><br>71<br>00:03:48,000 --> 00:03:50,200<br>first of all, did you like the Harbor House because in my<br><br>72<br>00:03:50,200 --> 00:03:53,000<br>opinion I felt like all the rooms were too small for a wedding<br><br>73<br>00:03:53,500 --> 00:03:56,400<br>like everything was beautiful but I felt like the size of the<br><br>74<br>00:03:56,400 --> 00:03:59,400<br>rooms I know it was like a beach house wedding venue. So it's<br><br>75<br>00:03:59,400 --> 00:04:02,600<br>like a very intimate setting so it would have to be a smaller<br><br>76<br>00:04:02,800 --> 00:04:05,000<br>type crowd but what did you think of the Harbor House?<br><br>77<br>00:04:05,400 --> 00:04:07,500<br>I thought it was really pretty honestly. I thought it was<br><br>78<br>00:04:07,500 --> 00:04:11,000<br>gorgeous. Like you said, I did think it was small but I feel<br><br>79<br>00:04:11,000 --> 00:04:14,700<br>like they're having a smaller wedding so it could work. I mean<br><br>80<br>00:04:14,700 --> 00:04:18,600<br>for as small as it is and as small amount of guests as<br><br>81<br>00:04:18,600 --> 00:04:22,800<br>they're having I mean $40,000 is a lot but it was beautiful.<br><br>82<br>00:04:22,800 --> 00:04:26,700<br>I love the view. I think it's so elegant and pretty and it's<br><br>83<br>00:04:26,700 --> 00:04:30,400<br>very stacy because you know it's just like very put together<br><br>84<br>00:04:30,400 --> 00:04:33,200<br>and pretty and like she knows she's a little bit more boho.<br><br>85<br>00:04:33,200 --> 00:04:38,200<br>So I see it. I see her vision. I mean $40,000 isn't $100,000.<br><br>86<br>00:04:38,300 --> 00:04:42,000<br>Remember the castle? The castle was $100,000 so we've already<br><br>87<br>00:04:42,100 --> 00:04:46,100<br>discounted $60,000 from that tag but in Florian's mind he was<br><br>88<br>00:04:46,100 --> 00:04:47,900<br>like it's still a lot of money. It's still a waste of money<br><br>89<br>00:04:47,900 --> 00:04:50,800<br>and Stacy was like everything is a lot of money to you because<br><br>90<br>00:04:50,800 --> 00:04:53,900<br>you don't have a job. She's like so at some point I'm just<br><br>91<br>00:04:53,900 --> 00:04:56,700<br>gonna have to make decisions with people who are paying and<br><br>92<br>00:04:56,700 --> 00:04:59,500<br>she's like that person is Stacy Silva right here. This is<br><br>93<br>00:04:59,500 --> 00:05:02,300<br>me. So she was like I'm gonna have to make this decision and<br><br>94<br>00:05:02,300 --> 00:05:05,200<br>she's like I feel like everything that we look at is too much<br><br>95<br>00:05:05,200 --> 00:05:08,200<br>and I think Florian's budget like remember what I said in a<br><br>96<br>00:05:08,200 --> 00:05:12,400<br>second episode is $0. It's free. So like anything over $0<br><br>97<br>00:05:12,400 --> 00:05:15,200<br>she's like I don't know. That's a little pricey and it's like<br><br>98<br>00:05:15,600 --> 00:05:17,900<br>Florian, a wedding venue is a pricey. Even if you get married<br><br>99<br>00:05:17,900 --> 00:05:20,600<br>in a church that church is gonna charge you money like and<br><br>100<br>00:05:20,600 --> 00:05:23,600<br>that's a nonprofit. You know so it's like this is just the<br><br>101<br>00:05:23,600 --> 00:05:27,600<br>business you're in of getting married and that at Florian<br><br>102<br>00:05:27,800 --> 00:05:30,800<br>under fire start working. He was like you know what? It made<br><br>103<br>00:05:30,800 --> 00:05:34,200<br>me feel really helpless and it made me feel like I couldn't<br><br>104<br>00:05:34,200 --> 00:05:37,200<br>confuse and I didn't like feeling so he went to this open<br><br>105<br>00:05:37,200 --> 00:05:41,800<br>call casting for a local. It was a lower budget shoot but it<br><br>106<br>00:05:41,800 --> 00:05:45,600<br>was still a paying shoot and Florian is definitely not as<br><br>107<br>00:05:45,600 --> 00:05:48,200<br>experienced as these guys in Miami because you have to remember<br><br>108<br>00:05:48,200 --> 00:05:51,100<br>Miami all they do is work out and take off their shirts and<br><br>109<br>00:05:51,100 --> 00:05:54,600<br>take pictures. So these guys are definitely more experienced<br><br>110<br>00:05:54,800 --> 00:05:58,500<br>but Gigi did give him a shot. She saw potential. He does have<br><br>111<br>00:05:58,500 --> 00:06:01,400<br>that like Vogue magazine look. You know you're looking at<br><br>112<br>00:06:01,400 --> 00:06:03,700<br>adult change the bonnet ad. You know like that's what you're<br><br>113<br>00:06:03,700 --> 00:06:06,800<br>gonna get. So with experience he's gonna be able to book<br><br>114<br>00:06:06,800 --> 00:06:10,200<br>jobs but in order to book jobs you have to book jobs and I<br><br>115<br>00:06:10,200 --> 00:06:13,000<br>know that sounds weird but it's like you have to accept lots<br><br>116<br>00:06:13,000 --> 00:06:16,400<br>of jobs to get lots of jobs and Florian was like you're not<br><br>117<br>00:06:16,400 --> 00:06:18,800<br>paying me enough so I don't even know if I want to accept<br><br>118<br>00:06:18,800 --> 00:06:21,700<br>this job and I'm like Florian this is not how that works.<br><br>119<br>00:06:21,700 --> 00:06:24,000<br>It's you got to spend money to make money. You got to take<br><br>120<br>00:06:24,400 --> 00:06:26,900<br>crappy jobs to get better jobs and it's like I don't know if<br><br>121<br>00:06:26,900 --> 00:06:30,200<br>he understands the process of how the modeling world works<br><br>122<br>00:06:30,200 --> 00:06:34,000<br>you know because the highest top paid model was at some point<br><br>123<br>00:06:34,000 --> 00:06:37,400<br>in her career or his career taking crappy jobs. They work<br><br>124<br>00:06:37,400 --> 00:06:40,600<br>their way up and then people they're in demand and then that<br><br>125<br>00:06:40,600 --> 00:06:44,300<br>amount went up. He wants to get a job that's gonna pay so much<br><br>126<br>00:06:44,300 --> 00:06:49,000<br>money it impresses Stacey but I think any job at this point<br><br>127<br>00:06:49,000 --> 00:06:51,500<br>would impress Stacey right. Do you feel like that. I feel like<br><br>128<br>00:06:51,500 --> 00:06:54,700<br>Stacey just wants to see some effort you know even if it was<br><br>129<br>00:06:54,700 --> 00:06:58,500<br>a $50 shoot she'll be like I appreciate you going to that<br><br>130<br>00:06:58,500 --> 00:07:01,400<br>showing up and doing that job like I feel like Stacey isn't<br><br>131<br>00:07:01,400 --> 00:07:02,400<br>asking for a lot.<br><br>132<br>00:07:02,700 --> 00:07:05,900<br>Oh like Florian take the damn job who cares that it's only<br><br>133<br>00:07:05,900 --> 00:07:08,800<br>what was it $150 take it because that's going to give you<br><br>134<br>00:07:08,800 --> 00:07:13,300<br>exposure like you said people that are movie stars started<br><br>135<br>00:07:13,300 --> 00:07:16,900<br>out doing like the weirdest things like little infomercials<br><br>136<br>00:07:16,900 --> 00:07:20,100<br>or whatever the hell it is to get to where they are because<br><br>137<br>00:07:20,100 --> 00:07:22,800<br>you need exposure and you need to work in order for your name<br><br>138<br>00:07:22,800 --> 00:07:24,800<br>to get out there or else you're just gonna be stuck.<br><br>139<br>00:07:24,900 --> 00:07:28,200<br>$150 to him was like chum change it's not even about the<br><br>140<br>00:07:28,200 --> 00:07:32,200<br>money so a lot of people were doing free stuff like beginning<br><br>141<br>00:07:32,200 --> 00:07:34,600<br>they weren't even they were just doing for their portfolio<br><br>142<br>00:07:34,600 --> 00:07:36,500<br>you have to pay them if you would photograph him and print<br><br>143<br>00:07:36,500 --> 00:07:39,100<br>it somewhere that was all they wanted because they know that<br><br>144<br>00:07:39,500 --> 00:07:43,800<br>was your is going to go far if you not just open up to that<br><br>145<br>00:07:43,800 --> 00:07:46,600<br>and I know it's hard because $40,000 and he wants to probably<br><br>146<br>00:07:46,600 --> 00:07:49,100<br>contribute half of it. So you're not going to get that on<br><br>147<br>00:07:49,100 --> 00:07:52,100<br>one shoot you know like I'm pretty sure Ariana Grande doesn't<br><br>148<br>00:07:52,100 --> 00:07:56,200<br>get $40,000 or $20,000 on one shoot and she's she's Ariana<br><br>149<br>00:07:56,200 --> 00:07:59,300<br>Grande you know you got to start somewhere so I want him to<br><br>150<br>00:07:59,500 --> 00:08:04,000<br>just be more open to taking a chance and getting that<br><br>151<br>00:08:04,000 --> 00:08:06,900<br>experience because he looks like a model even Gigi says<br><br>152<br>00:08:06,900 --> 00:08:09,200<br>he's like you look like a model you look like a sophisticated<br><br>153<br>00:08:09,200 --> 00:08:12,400<br>high-end model we just have to get you the rough edges you<br><br>154<br>00:08:12,400 --> 00:08:15,200<br>know done and get your your portfolio thicker and get you<br><br>155<br>00:08:15,200 --> 00:08:17,700<br>booked on more jobs and we can do it and he's like I'll let<br><br>156<br>00:08:17,700 --> 00:08:21,300<br>you know that was a bad move that was a bad move. So there's<br><br>157<br>00:08:21,300 --> 00:08:25,600<br>this photo on Cicero's Instagram of a woman that he's very<br><br>158<br>00:08:25,600 --> 00:08:29,300<br>very much hugged up on and it's around the same week that he<br><br>159<br>00:08:29,300 --> 00:08:34,000<br>and Darcy started dating can I say because they met their<br><br>160<br>00:08:34,000 --> 00:08:36,500<br>gay to know each other but I don't know if they were they<br><br>161<br>00:08:36,500 --> 00:08:39,800<br>weren't exclusive at the time but they were dating because<br><br>162<br>00:08:40,000 --> 00:08:43,900<br>Michelle said that when she matches someone you're supposed<br><br>163<br>00:08:43,900 --> 00:08:47,000<br>to not see other people so I don't know like say I don't<br><br>164<br>00:08:47,000 --> 00:08:49,100<br>know let's let's put it in perspective say he was with that<br><br>165<br>00:08:49,100 --> 00:08:52,000<br>woman on a Monday he met Darcy on a Friday technically that<br><br>166<br>00:08:52,000 --> 00:08:54,900<br>could be okay. Like because technically between that Monday<br><br>167<br>00:08:54,900 --> 00:08:56,900<br>and that Friday they could have broken up or stop talking.<br><br>168<br>00:08:57,100 --> 00:09:00,600<br>So we don't know exactly what happened and in order for us<br><br>169<br>00:09:00,600 --> 00:09:04,300<br>to find out Darcy Stacy and Florian wanted to ask Cicero<br><br>170<br>00:09:04,300 --> 00:09:07,500<br>what happened and he decided to not show up and this isn't<br><br>171<br>00:09:07,500 --> 00:09:10,600<br>the first time he decided to not show up on a date. I mean<br><br>172<br>00:09:10,600 --> 00:09:13,700<br>the first time he did give an excuse but this time he didn't<br><br>173<br>00:09:13,700 --> 00:09:16,100<br>even answer the phone he didn't even answer a text that makes<br><br>174<br>00:09:16,100 --> 00:09:19,000<br>you look pretty guilty Cicero. You know like I'm saying like<br><br>175<br>00:09:19,100 --> 00:09:21,400<br>that makes you look pretty bad because if there is an explanation<br><br>176<br>00:09:21,400 --> 00:09:24,100<br>and a reason it's very easy to just pick up the phone and say<br><br>177<br>00:09:24,100 --> 00:09:27,100<br>hey that's my sister that's my cousin that's my friend's<br><br>178<br>00:09:27,100 --> 00:09:31,500<br>girlfriend whatever explanations matter we can always make<br><br>179<br>00:09:31,500 --> 00:09:34,500<br>assumptions when we have no information so you not picking<br><br>180<br>00:09:34,500 --> 00:09:38,500<br>up and not showing up says a lot and the fact that he went<br><br>181<br>00:09:38,500 --> 00:09:41,500<br>to the matchmaker and had all these negative things to say<br><br>182<br>00:09:41,500 --> 00:09:45,100<br>about Darcy really pissed me off right. He's saying that she's<br><br>183<br>00:09:45,100 --> 00:09:48,100<br>drinking too much but he's the one paying for the drinks and<br><br>184<br>00:09:48,100 --> 00:09:51,100<br>he's saying that her Instagram is too provocative but at the<br><br>185<br>00:09:51,100 --> 00:09:54,900<br>first meeting he said I looked at your Instagram and I like it.<br><br>186<br>00:09:55,100 --> 00:09:58,100<br>I feel like he's playing games and it's like we've been telling<br><br>187<br>00:09:58,100 --> 00:10:00,400<br>Darcy this whole time she needs to date an older man who's more<br><br>188<br>00:10:00,400 --> 00:10:04,300<br>mature. I feel like Cicero is the most immature man out there<br><br>189<br>00:10:04,300 --> 00:10:07,300<br>and I feel like we set Darcy up right. We set her up to fail<br><br>190<br>00:10:07,300 --> 00:10:10,900<br>because this is the worst old guy that could have won a date<br><br>191<br>00:10:10,900 --> 00:10:14,000<br>with him. He's such a liar right. He's like completely lying.<br><br>192<br>00:10:14,000 --> 00:10:16,900<br>He's telling the matchmaker one thing telling Darcy another<br><br>193<br>00:10:17,100 --> 00:10:19,400<br>I'm just trying to figure out what his in game was. What was<br><br>194<br>00:10:19,400 --> 00:10:20,700<br>the problem? What did he want?<br><br>195<br>00:10:21,100 --> 00:10:23,500<br>That was disgusting to me honestly the fact that he went<br><br>196<br>00:10:23,500 --> 00:10:26,200<br>behind her back after taking her to dinner and not even<br><br>197<br>00:10:26,200 --> 00:10:31,000<br>offering to drive her home and ghosting her completely when<br><br>198<br>00:10:31,000 --> 00:10:35,000<br>he made the plan don't even make plans to go like why did you<br><br>199<br>00:10:35,000 --> 00:10:38,700<br>even accept the offer like I don't know that was really bad.<br><br>200<br>00:10:38,700 --> 00:10:41,700<br>I mean Darcy really was putting herself out there for someone<br><br>201<br>00:10:41,700 --> 00:10:45,100<br>that was her own age and then he just like basically like<br><br>202<br>00:10:45,400 --> 00:10:48,500<br>spit in her face and I don't like that because Darcy deserves<br><br>203<br>00:10:48,500 --> 00:10:50,900<br>someone that's going to treat her like a queen and we don't<br><br>204<br>00:10:50,900 --> 00:10:53,500<br>want her to fall back into Georgie or like someone else<br><br>205<br>00:10:53,500 --> 00:10:55,900<br>that's young and just trying to take advantage of her like<br><br>206<br>00:10:55,900 --> 00:10:58,500<br>we need a solid dude and we thought he could have been<br><br>207<br>00:10:58,500 --> 00:11:00,800<br>pretty solid because a little sketchy throughout the times<br><br>208<br>00:11:00,800 --> 00:11:03,300<br>we did see him because like a lot of the things he did I did<br><br>209<br>00:11:03,300 --> 00:11:06,700<br>not like. I like to end the first date and then now he's<br><br>210<br>00:11:06,700 --> 00:11:09,300<br>just an asshole and I don't like him at all and I hope that<br><br>211<br>00:11:09,300 --> 00:11:12,900<br>she blocks him and that he could go do whatever he wants<br><br>212<br>00:11:12,900 --> 00:11:13,600<br>on Instagram.<br><br>213<br>00:11:13,600 --> 00:11:15,100<br>And I want to talk about Michelle.<br><br>214<br>00:11:15,100 --> 00:11:18,000<br>So Michelle had a conversation with Darcy because Darcy<br><br>215<br>00:11:18,000 --> 00:11:21,800<br>decided to end their matchmaking relationship because she said<br><br>216<br>00:11:21,800 --> 00:11:24,500<br>you know I'm paying this money and doing the work that you<br><br>217<br>00:11:24,500 --> 00:11:27,500<br>told me to do and then the person that I'm set up with this<br><br>218<br>00:11:27,500 --> 00:11:29,900<br>is what happened and she's like this isn't what I signed up<br><br>219<br>00:11:29,900 --> 00:11:34,100<br>for and Michelle said something that kind of got to Darcy.<br><br>220<br>00:11:34,100 --> 00:11:36,500<br>She was like well two things actually she's like first of<br><br>221<br>00:11:36,500 --> 00:11:38,700<br>all the common denominator of your failed relationships is<br><br>222<br>00:11:38,700 --> 00:11:42,300<br>you which is a true statement but it's also a hurtful statement<br><br>223<br>00:11:42,500 --> 00:11:46,000<br>because it's saying that she's doing something wrong even though<br><br>224<br>00:11:46,000 --> 00:11:48,900<br>Darcy has been doing a lot of work to correct those things.<br><br>225<br>00:11:48,900 --> 00:11:51,300<br>So kicking someone while they're down I've never been a<br><br>226<br>00:11:51,300 --> 00:11:54,600<br>fan of like obviously Darcy knows that she's the common<br><br>227<br>00:11:54,600 --> 00:11:56,800<br>denominator in all those relationships that's common<br><br>228<br>00:11:56,800 --> 00:12:00,100<br>knowledge she knew and then she said that she wanted to recommend<br><br>229<br>00:12:00,100 --> 00:12:00,800<br>therapy.<br><br>230<br>00:12:00,900 --> 00:12:04,700<br>Now this is a hard thing because I'm an advocate for therapy.<br><br>231<br>00:12:04,700 --> 00:12:05,600<br>I have a therapist.<br><br>232<br>00:12:05,600 --> 00:12:08,500<br>I was raised in a religious cult so I have things that I need<br><br>233<br>00:12:08,500 --> 00:12:11,900<br>to talk to the therapist about but I also know telling people<br><br>234<br>00:12:11,900 --> 00:12:16,100<br>that they need therapy is a very touchy subject like it's not<br><br>235<br>00:12:16,100 --> 00:12:18,800<br>the same as when you go to the doctor and they prescribe<br><br>236<br>00:12:18,800 --> 00:12:21,400<br>medicine to you because people are like oh no well if you have<br><br>237<br>00:12:21,400 --> 00:12:24,000<br>something wrong therapy is like medicine will make you better<br><br>238<br>00:12:24,000 --> 00:12:27,000<br>people don't feel that way because there's a negative stigma<br><br>239<br>00:12:27,200 --> 00:12:31,600<br>around therapy mental health depression people have a negative<br><br>240<br>00:12:31,600 --> 00:12:34,200<br>outlook on those things even though they're real and anyone<br><br>241<br>00:12:34,200 --> 00:12:36,400<br>can suffer from it and there's absolutely nothing wrong with<br><br>242<br>00:12:36,400 --> 00:12:40,100<br>you if you do people have a negative stigma around it and<br><br>243<br>00:12:40,100 --> 00:12:44,500<br>it just was a hard way to tell her something especially right<br><br>244<br>00:12:44,500 --> 00:12:46,700<br>after she ended their relationship because it looked<br><br>245<br>00:12:46,700 --> 00:12:50,700<br>like it was a attack and even if it was coming from a good<br><br>246<br>00:12:50,700 --> 00:12:55,000<br>place it didn't feel that way it felt like an attack so I don't<br><br>247<br>00:12:55,000 --> 00:12:57,300<br>know how I feel about the situation because you know<br><br>248<br>00:12:57,300 --> 00:12:59,400<br>we've had Michelle on the show and I love Michelle and I don't<br><br>249<br>00:12:59,400 --> 00:13:02,700<br>know if this is exactly how it was filmed or if it was edited<br><br>250<br>00:13:02,700 --> 00:13:05,200<br>a certain way but I don't know how I feel about this interaction.<br><br>251<br>00:13:05,200 --> 00:13:09,700<br>Yeah I really felt very uncomfortable because I feel like<br><br>252<br>00:13:10,300 --> 00:13:13,800<br>I almost feel like Michelle got her feelings hurt that Darcy<br><br>253<br>00:13:13,800 --> 00:13:17,200<br>didn't want to work with her anymore and maybe you know<br><br>254<br>00:13:17,200 --> 00:13:19,600<br>she just got a little bit upset and that's why she said these<br><br>255<br>00:13:19,600 --> 00:13:23,600<br>things but I mean I feel like Michelle come like she comes<br><br>256<br>00:13:23,600 --> 00:13:26,700<br>off stronger which we've seen the whole time she's very like<br><br>257<br>00:13:26,700 --> 00:13:29,800<br>you know she comes up very strong personality which that's<br><br>258<br>00:13:29,800 --> 00:13:33,100<br>not wrong like you know that's her but sometimes some people<br><br>259<br>00:13:33,100 --> 00:13:36,600<br>don't know how to react like to that because I know like Darcy<br><br>260<br>00:13:36,600 --> 00:13:38,700<br>like she needs things like she kind of needs someone to be a<br><br>261<br>00:13:38,700 --> 00:13:42,200<br>little bit sweeter and softer I mean she can handle anything<br><br>262<br>00:13:42,300 --> 00:13:44,400<br>but like when it comes to relationships someone needs to<br><br>263<br>00:13:44,400 --> 00:13:48,200<br>be a little bit more understanding where she's coming from<br><br>264<br>00:13:48,400 --> 00:13:50,600<br>and you know just the way I feel like Darcy was being very<br><br>265<br>00:13:50,600 --> 00:13:52,800<br>professional and I feel like Michelle didn't have to say<br><br>266<br>00:13:52,800 --> 00:13:55,300<br>those things the way that she said them she could have said<br><br>267<br>00:13:55,300 --> 00:13:58,400<br>them in like a way nicer way that would have made Darcy not<br><br>268<br>00:13:58,400 --> 00:14:00,000<br>feel like she was attacking her.<br><br>269<br>00:14:00,000 --> 00:14:03,600<br>Yeah it's the delivery delivery people always say deliver<br><br>270<br>00:14:03,600 --> 00:14:06,300<br>how you say things and how you deliver it makes a difference<br><br>271<br>00:14:06,300 --> 00:14:11,200<br>so I'm hoping that the relationship between Darcy and Michelle<br><br>272<br>00:14:11,200 --> 00:14:14,000<br>isn't severed based on this interaction because it could<br><br>273<br>00:14:14,000 --> 00:14:18,600<br>be Darcy ready soon to go to that matchmaker situation and<br><br>274<br>00:14:18,600 --> 00:14:21,700<br>find the right guy so I'm hoping that things are okay next<br><br>275<br>00:14:21,700 --> 00:14:25,100<br>week there is a physical fight between Georgie and Michael<br><br>276<br>00:14:25,300 --> 00:14:27,500<br>Ben so 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