What is up everybody? We are back. I am George Massey. Say hello to my co-host Heather C.
So it's extreme sisters. If you weren't there, there were no apostle triplets this week.
I think it's been the last episode. So next week we're going to find out about them. But
Randy and Jordan were back. Randy and Jordan had taken a week off as well. And Randy is
not feeling well. She had some alcohol and she said that normally when her sister is
sick, it's something that they ate or drank and you know alcohol can make anyone feel
sick, especially the harder liquor. So that's probably what it was. And Jordan is her caretaker
because the guys are usually working late. So Jordan is there to take care of her and
Jordan is actually there helping her and holding her hair while she throws up. And that is
a very close bond to have because like Jordan said, like for me too, the sound of it, the
smell of it, all of the idea of it, I don't want to be within like 500 feet of someone
who is throwing up or even seeing the aftermath of it. It's just, it's a lot. So the fact
that she was there for her sister really showcases how close they are and how much she is there
to be her caretaker. Because if someone calls me and says I'm sick, I'm like, Oh, that's
terrible. Let me know. You feel better. You know, I'm not interested in being a part of
that crazy smell and sound and all of that. So we were watching Jordan make plans for
their wedding. So we know that Jordan planned everything. She planned the engagement and
she is now planning the wedding, wedding venue. Now, he wants to get married in their own
home, which would be a lot cheaper. It's familiar. And she's having about 40-ish people. We haven't
seen the whole house. I don't know if that is outrageous to try to do, but Randy said
it's going to be seen on top of sardines if they try to have 40-ish people in the house.
So she decided that her boss, who is a doctor who has a beautiful home with a courtyard,
who has offered up her home to house the wedding and the reception for free. As far as I heard,
I didn't hear her say that she was going to charge them anything, which I think is an
amazing opportunity. She has brought that up to Randy, but Randy feels like Derek wanted
to get married in their home. So she feels like Jordan is just not giving him the opportunity
to make any decisions or plan the wedding. And even if he tried, she wouldn't allow it.
And I feel like in the next episode, we're going to watch them kind of go against each
other. They're going to start standing up to each other, especially Randy standing up
to Jordan because Jordan is the dominant twin. She takes control and she makes decisions
for everyone. Even if it's an easy decision, she just makes that decision. So I'm wondering
how this is going to go because we do know that Jordan is trying to invite herself onto
the honeymoon with Randy and Derek. And you know, that's a bit crazy, right? The honeymoon
is literally for those two. So do you think that this is going to affect their relationship?
Taking Randy up to her sister because I don't think she's ever done that before.
I don't think so. I think in the end, Jordan's still going to get what she wants because
like you said, she's pretty dominant and she knows how to get what she wants. But I like
that about her. She's, you know, take charge type of girl. And I think that that's kind
of cool because a lot of people are always so indecisive in life and she just knows what
she wants. And I don't blame her for not wanting to have the wedding at their home because first
of all, that's very invasive. You're having 40 something people over at your house. You
have to worry about like, where's this person? Where are they going? Oh, do they spill something
on my carpet? You know, like, are people like ruffling through my medicine cabinets?
Like, it's just, and then what about all the cleanup afterwards? Like when stuff is over
and you have big parties and events, all you want to do is take off your shoes, sit on
the couch and just be like, oh, and it's like, you can't, how do you relax when you have
your house just destroyed? So I don't blame her for wanting to kind of push her sister
into the direction of somewhere else. I think that that's very, very amazing of her boss
to offer up her brand new house because same case scenario. But in this one, it doesn't
even have anything to do with you. It has to do with your coworker. And you're letting
these people in your brand new house just living it up. So I mean, that that takes a
lot because if anything happens, Jordan's going to feel responsible if something breaks
or you know, something like that, she has to kind of treat her boss's house like it's
her own anyways. So I don't know, maybe they should just kind of put like a list of like
pros and cons of to like the different things like here, her sister out, why does she want
to get married here? Is it her sister or is it the groomsman? You know, which one is it?
You know, I just kind of listened to all the case scenarios and see if they can come up
with something so that way it won't drive a wedge between them.
Okay, so I need to talk about this Vian Ashley situation because first of all, we learned
something about Ashley. She is in school to be a mortician and she currently works at
a funeral home and she said that she not only loves working at the funeral home, she loves
working with the dead. She said that it's a job that she enjoys and she doesn't really
see herself doing anything else. And it's very quiet and they don't have an opinion.
So I don't blame her. True, true. They don't they don't argue with you. There's no disagreements.
Whatever you say, go see Jordan would like that because Jordan just likes to say how
it's going to be and that's how it's going to be. I feel like Jordan could do that job
too, right? Yeah.
So we found out that the Syraguse situation, the IVF and transferring it to a Syraguse
is a $28,000 process. Now I think I said this on the other podcast. I feel like Vian Ashley
did things a little out of order. Like I feel like the amount of it should have been something
that they kind of did first, you know, because I don't know. But again, I can't blame anybody
because when that number showed up on the screen, it shocked me. I didn't know that it
costed that much to do this. I do know that Syraguse charge a lot of money to carry the
baby. But I assume since V was the Syraguse and there will be no money exchange, the number
will be so much lower. That was just my assumption. So I'm not going to blame anybody for not
knowing it's a $30,000 process because I didn't even know. But the idea that it's going to
cost so much money is insane to me and they didn't budget for that. Like maybe they did
budget for $10,000, but $30,000 is not in the budget. So Ashley said something that
kind of hit V and it set her off. She said, I'm just going to get a dog. V was like, well,
I almost basically ended my relationship. My family's not talking to me. Your mom just
tried to beat me up and you're just going to say you want a dog after I've offered up
my body and my life and change all these things for you. And she just wanted her to, I don't
know, not necessarily apologize, but just be a little more sensitive to the fact that
she put a lot into this as well. But I think in this moment, Ashley felt so defeated because
she said that she had been getting so much bad news from doctors lately that she just
was shutting down and she didn't really want to talk about it at all. She didn't want to
talk about the pros, the cons, the options, the solutions, the res, none of that. It was
basically get me some liquor in this cup and just let me be in my feelings. And I feel
like V was ready to talk and Ashley was ready to shut down and glasses were thrown, glass
was broken, yelling, and I'm worried about their friendship because I kind of thought
that this was going to bring them closer. If this situation is the case, but if this
situation gets them less close, it tears them apart. It makes their relationship strained
and that would be the absolute worst, right? It would, but I don't think that's going to
happen, to be honest with you. I think that they're strong enough to get through this.
See what I think a lot of people might say is that, oh, was V in the wrong for, you know,
how she acted at the restaurant? And no, she wasn't. First of all, you could tell that
they're both passionate people, but they carry their feelings differently. Like I feel like
how you had said, I think that Ashley had that moment where she just kind of felt defeated.
And if she would have came out and been like, okay, so here's my checklist. You know, I
got this, it worked out this, we got to work on it. This, and then you get to the money
situation, you're like, at this point, you're like, is there anything else? You know, is
there really anything else? And it's like, if you sit there and you dwell on it, you're
going to sink into depression, you're going to be upset. And at that moment, whether or
not she handled it the right way or not, to herself, she handled it how she could, because
she didn't want to have a breakdown. And maybe she should have, maybe she should have let
her emotions show. So that way, she could see that she's passionate, because first of all,
I don't fault V at all for how she acted. I don't even think that she overreacted, because
I think that she looks at it like, are you kidding me? Because you can only read what
people are giving you. So if Ashley doesn't say to her, oh my God, I'm so upset, you know,
why is this happening to me? If the only thing she's saying to her is, well, guess what,
dog, she's like, what the heck, you know, like, like you said, this my body, my relationship,
my kids, everything. And you don't even want to address this. Like, I understand completely.
And I think that she feels that she's going to be portrayed as a bad guy in the situation.
And she's really not, if anything, she's one of the most compassionate people towards
her sister. She's been consistently on her sister's side through this whole process.
When everybody else kind of either turned their nose up or looked at her crazy, her
sister was there, writing it along with her. And that's why she was so passionate. That's
why she, you know, got into the moment and you know, through the glass because she was
acting on passion. She was acting as, oh my God, I give a damn, why don't you? And you
want this baby? It can't just be me. Like, are we really going to give up? And I think
that it just wasn't explained. Their words were not brought the right way. But I really
do believe that in that moment, they're just, they were on the same page, but they weren't
because they didn't address it the right way.
I mean, I hope so because the way she smacked that cup off the table, I was like, oh, I
don't know how well this friendship is going to last of these sisters because she is so
angry in this moment. And I didn't know if she was angry at the fact that Ashley was
like dismissing the idea of all of the work and the compromise that she had for her or
she was just angry at the fact that Ashley was coming up. Because I couldn't really tell
because I feel like V knows how much she wants this. So she's probably more angry at the fact
that Ashley is just like, oh, I saw that number and it's too much. So oh well. And that's the
thing. And there are options. And V's right, there are options. There's payment plans.
Like there's people who want new noses. They don't have the money for those new noses.
They get on a payment plan. They make it happen. If you really want something done, there are
options out there. And I just feel like V wanted Ashley just to be undefeated and be
open to a solution. But I will say this, when I'm upset and I'm sad and defeated, I just want to
sit in the corner for like a few hours and feel bad for myself. That's just how I deal with myself.
So it could be possible that Ashley wasn't giving up. She just needed a moment, you know,
a moment to just sit there. I'm like, V, that's what I see. I'm very compassionate. I'm very
strong minded. And I like, I want to find the resolution right then and there. And if I know
and if I believe in something, I want the person to know how passionate I am. And even if I look
crazy or overreact, I want you to know like, oh my God, we can do this. Like, why are you giving up?
So that's why I understand why she handled it the way that she did. She loves her and she wants
her to have that baby. So hopefully we will see this baby be seen this season because I don't want
them to give up. They went through so much. And I've already told everyone the fans type of,
and I mean, it will undo a lot of the negative responses if it doesn't happen. But that's not
what we really want because why can't she have this baby? You know, like why not? It's not hurting
anyone. She's bringing a baby into the world that she's going to love and take care of. And it's
going to be loved by so many different people. And even her mom, Dana, I don't care what Dana
says. Dana's going to love that little girl, right? That baby is going to be born and Dana's
going to forget all about where it came from and be carried or whatever. She's not going to care
about that. She's just going on to want to hold her grandbaby and everybody is going to be one big
happy family. So that's what we really want. And I hate to see that people are spending $28,000
just to have a child. That is ridiculous. Everyone should have the right and option to have a child.
If you can afford it and you can love that child, you should have that option. I feel like that
number is outrageous. I wish there was some other way to have it done other than spend that much
money. I feel the same way. I think the $28,000 should go after the baby's born for taking care of
it. College health care. I don't think that with the way the world is that we should have to pay
that much to all this stuff that probably doesn't even cost half of that. It's not fair to people.
The way that we're treated in this world is horrible. You should never have to choose medicine
or rent. All right, guys. That's all the time we have this week. So we will be back next week to see
more of Vee and Ashley and more of Randy and Jordan because I heard from a little birdie that
we're going to actually see a wedding between Randy and Derek this season. So I'm kind of interested
in seeing where the venue will be. All right, guys, I'm George Massey. Make sure you follow me at
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