1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:07,440 What is up everybody? I am George Mossy. Say hello to my co-host Heather C. This is the 2 00:00:07,440 --> 00:00:13,160 George Mossy show. We are talking Extreme Sisters season two, episode seven. Oh, first 3 00:00:13,160 --> 00:00:17,100 things first. We did not get the Capasso triplets this week. So we'll have to check 4 00:00:17,100 --> 00:00:22,440 back in with them next week to see how that fundraiser is going that their family has already 5 00:00:22,440 --> 00:00:24,640 decided that they are going to screw up somehow. 6 00:00:24,640 --> 00:00:29,840 All right, so let's check in with Anna and Lucy. So it's dentist surgery day. They're 7 00:00:29,840 --> 00:00:34,480 getting their teeth extracted. And I think it's interesting that Anna, who has had the 8 00:00:34,480 --> 00:00:40,320 infected tooth for like three years, Lucy told Anna that she should go first because 9 00:00:40,320 --> 00:00:45,360 she's the older twin. And I'm thinking, well, you don't have any pain or discomfort. So 10 00:00:45,360 --> 00:00:49,800 wouldn't Anna go first because she's the one who's been suffering for so many years? 11 00:00:49,800 --> 00:00:54,960 So the dentist saw it that way. So that is how he took the twins. But they had a really 12 00:00:54,960 --> 00:01:00,800 hard time with this surgery. They really, really feel like they're not the same anymore. 13 00:01:00,800 --> 00:01:05,160 And they kind of had a little breakdown, like even in the dentist's office and even at home. 14 00:01:05,160 --> 00:01:09,520 And it's really interesting because this was a medical procedure needed to make sure that 15 00:01:09,520 --> 00:01:13,880 one of the twins was medically okay. And then the other one was just a procedure to make 16 00:01:13,880 --> 00:01:19,440 sure that the twin felt good about the situation. Like, how do you feel? Do you feel like they're 17 00:01:19,440 --> 00:01:23,600 taking it too far? Do you feel like being the same is impossible? It's impossible for 18 00:01:23,600 --> 00:01:27,600 two people to be one person. Like, do you feel like they're going to have to just accept 19 00:01:27,600 --> 00:01:28,600 that? 20 00:01:28,600 --> 00:01:35,160 I've always felt that way. I think that they take it a little too far to the extreme. I 21 00:01:35,160 --> 00:01:43,200 never see a problem with dressing alike, or even if they wanted to like order the same 22 00:01:43,200 --> 00:01:48,760 food or whatever, you know, like, I don't have a problem with all the basic stuff. But when 23 00:01:48,760 --> 00:01:55,640 it comes down to like medical procedures, dating the same person, like to me, I don't 24 00:01:55,640 --> 00:02:03,960 see why that's necessary. Like, even though you're born in this world as a twin, you have 25 00:02:03,960 --> 00:02:08,480 obviously this connection that most people are not going to understand, especially ones 26 00:02:08,480 --> 00:02:15,240 that don't have a twin or sibling for that matter at all. But what I don't understand 27 00:02:15,240 --> 00:02:25,400 is that don't you want to be your own person? Like, you were given your own identity, even 28 00:02:25,400 --> 00:02:29,480 though you look like someone else, you were given your own identity, your own name, because 29 00:02:29,480 --> 00:02:35,200 if that was the case, wouldn't it be Anna Anna? Lucy, you know what I mean? Like, they 30 00:02:35,200 --> 00:02:40,840 have different names. That alone doesn't make them the same. Anna and Lucy doesn't even 31 00:02:40,840 --> 00:02:47,160 start with the same letter. There are some parents that get creative and all their kids' 32 00:02:47,160 --> 00:02:53,000 names start with the same letter. And they don't even have that. And I hope I just didn't 33 00:02:53,000 --> 00:02:58,760 open up Pandora's box. It's something else they're going to freak out about. But I don't 34 00:02:58,760 --> 00:03:07,240 know. I feel bad because they're obviously suffering with this. And it's deeply rooted. 35 00:03:07,240 --> 00:03:12,000 They're two individual people. Just embrace it. 36 00:03:12,000 --> 00:03:17,120 So they're working at a restaurant. And for about three weeks, and the manager sent them 37 00:03:17,120 --> 00:03:21,480 flowers to tell them that they were thinking about them and hope that they can recover 38 00:03:21,480 --> 00:03:26,040 safely and come back to work. And they actually, it sparked up a conversation where they feel 39 00:03:26,040 --> 00:03:29,880 like working is making them too different. They can't be alike. They're doing different 40 00:03:29,880 --> 00:03:35,360 tasks. And I think on the next episode, they're going to stop working this job. And I feel 41 00:03:35,360 --> 00:03:41,760 like this job was the one ray of hope for them to maybe grow into being individuals. 42 00:03:41,760 --> 00:03:45,520 And I feel like they were doing well. And it seemed like they were accepting it well 43 00:03:45,520 --> 00:03:48,480 because you know, in the restaurant business, things get crazy. You can't really think about 44 00:03:48,480 --> 00:03:52,160 OCD or you can't really think about being the exact same person when you have so many 45 00:03:52,160 --> 00:03:57,240 tasks to do in such a small amount of time. So I felt like this job was a great outlet 46 00:03:57,240 --> 00:04:02,280 for them to grow. And I feel like if they leave this job, it's going to be all bets 47 00:04:02,280 --> 00:04:06,320 are off. They're going to continue to try to be the same. And then they're not going 48 00:04:06,320 --> 00:04:10,880 to be able to find employment. And I just don't know if this is like, I know that they 49 00:04:10,880 --> 00:04:15,200 say that they're happy this way, but are they really happy this way? Because when they had 50 00:04:15,200 --> 00:04:19,880 to remove the tooth and they saw the space in the mouth and it didn't match, it really, 51 00:04:19,880 --> 00:04:24,160 really hurt deeply. And like, are they really truly happy this way? 52 00:04:24,160 --> 00:04:30,040 I think, like I said, I think a lot of it is deeply rooted. And I don't really think 53 00:04:30,040 --> 00:04:36,320 it they are. I think that they are struggling to find an identity, but they're scared to 54 00:04:36,320 --> 00:04:37,320 do it. 55 00:04:37,320 --> 00:04:41,480 All right. So I want to talk about Jessica and Christina. So apparently, John and Jessica 56 00:04:41,480 --> 00:04:45,560 told Christina that the meeting in the park went well, which I find interesting that 57 00:04:45,560 --> 00:04:49,800 Christina believes that because they're psychically connected. So I feel like Christina probably 58 00:04:49,800 --> 00:04:54,120 knows in the back of her mind that Jess is lying because I feel like they know each other's 59 00:04:54,120 --> 00:04:58,040 thoughts, but Christina hasn't really commented on it on the show. So maybe she's letting 60 00:04:58,040 --> 00:05:02,320 things play out. So we watched them come up with a charcuterie board. And I want to say 61 00:05:02,320 --> 00:05:09,400 they refer to it as a coochie board where they were preparing Josh for reproduction, 62 00:05:09,400 --> 00:05:16,200 even though he hadn't really agreed to it, but they did consent and ask first. And Christina 63 00:05:16,200 --> 00:05:23,440 was there in phase. I'm was there on a chair on John. She was a part of that conversation. 64 00:05:23,440 --> 00:05:28,520 And I felt like it was such an awkward interaction because Josh was just there thinking he was 65 00:05:28,520 --> 00:05:33,920 having dinner with his girlfriend. Everything was good. And he was actually being like harvested 66 00:05:33,920 --> 00:05:39,920 for sperm. Like it was, it was very, very crazy. And he didn't like run away because 67 00:05:39,920 --> 00:05:45,480 when Jessica got up to go to the bathroom and she left him alone in the dining room, 68 00:05:45,480 --> 00:05:51,920 that was his cue to grab his stuff and run away, change his phone number. Never. So he 69 00:05:51,920 --> 00:05:57,120 is not completely off board with this because any normal guy would have been like, this 70 00:05:57,120 --> 00:06:01,320 is my chance. I'm gone. I don't have, we're not married. We don't have kids. She's not 71 00:06:01,320 --> 00:06:06,040 pregnant. There's no ties to us whatsoever. He did have a conversation with her about 72 00:06:06,040 --> 00:06:09,960 it. He stayed there while she went in the bathroom and she came back. He was still there 73 00:06:09,960 --> 00:06:16,440 willing to talk. So I don't think that this is a lost cause, but the time is ticking because 74 00:06:16,440 --> 00:06:21,160 Christina is already pregnant. So in order for Jessica and Christina to be pregnant at 75 00:06:21,160 --> 00:06:26,400 the same time, she needs to get pregnant soon because pregnancies only last nine months 76 00:06:26,400 --> 00:06:31,600 and Christina is showing in this scene. So there isn't a whole lot of time left. So do 77 00:06:31,600 --> 00:06:36,200 you think that Jessica wants a baby with Josh because she loves him? Or do you think Jessica 78 00:06:36,200 --> 00:06:39,920 wants a baby with Josh because Christina is having a baby with John and they just have 79 00:06:39,920 --> 00:06:43,560 to be the same? Like, what do you feel? Cause that's kind of where Josh is at too. 80 00:06:43,560 --> 00:06:49,040 I'm going to say both. I'm going to say she does love him and she wants to be with him. 81 00:06:49,040 --> 00:06:53,120 But I don't think they got to the point in their relationship where they figured if this 82 00:06:53,120 --> 00:06:59,360 is long term or not. Like it's still the beginning of a relationship. They're still vibing and 83 00:06:59,360 --> 00:07:06,080 getting to know each other. And I think a lot of it has to do with her sister and wanting 84 00:07:06,080 --> 00:07:13,680 to be the same. I don't think that it would be an Anna and Lucy situation though. I think 85 00:07:13,680 --> 00:07:18,200 that if it doesn't work out that way for Jess, I don't think that she's going to have a breakdown 86 00:07:18,200 --> 00:07:22,400 and be like, oh my God, we're not the same. Like we're not trying at the same time. Like 87 00:07:22,400 --> 00:07:29,240 I think she'll handle it a little bit better. I applaud her for like going after what she 88 00:07:29,240 --> 00:07:37,240 wants. I mean, she had a way of doing it. It was very creative and you know, it takes 89 00:07:37,240 --> 00:07:44,840 a lot of guts to like be honest with somebody and tell somebody that you want something, 90 00:07:44,840 --> 00:07:49,080 especially something that's going to affect the other person, something that's long term. 91 00:07:49,080 --> 00:07:55,640 Because even if they were in a relationship for several years, that's still a big commitment. 92 00:07:55,640 --> 00:08:02,280 So to just kind of put everything aside and just be like, I want a baby with you, you 93 00:08:02,280 --> 00:08:11,520 know, like that's big. So I commend her for, you know, putting it out there on the table. 94 00:08:11,520 --> 00:08:17,320 Now they opened a new chapter. So if this is something that he wants as well, maybe now 95 00:08:17,320 --> 00:08:23,000 with the door open, they can actually talk about it. He obviously didn't know that this 96 00:08:23,000 --> 00:08:30,080 is something she wanted. So maybe now that she had the guts to say something, they can 97 00:08:30,080 --> 00:08:33,680 actually discuss it further and see if it's in their cards or not. 98 00:08:33,680 --> 00:08:38,660 Well next week or the preview that they showed us, they showed her taking a pregnancy test. 99 00:08:38,660 --> 00:08:44,920 So that makes me wonder if she is pregnant because apparently Christina was pregnant 100 00:08:44,920 --> 00:08:49,720 and no one knew she kept it a secret. So it could be very possible that Jessica was pregnant 101 00:08:49,720 --> 00:08:53,440 as well during this filming process and we didn't know. And I feel like I'm an internet 102 00:08:53,440 --> 00:08:59,280 sleuth like the Instagram and everything. So I, but I was defeated by Christina. I did 103 00:08:59,280 --> 00:09:03,520 not know that she was pregnant. So it could be possible that Jessica and Josh did work 104 00:09:03,520 --> 00:09:07,040 this out because coming from him, he said that he definitely wants kids. He doesn't 105 00:09:07,040 --> 00:09:11,160 have any and he knows that Jessica is a good mother because she's the mother to Preston. 106 00:09:11,160 --> 00:09:16,960 So it's not really a huge boundary in the relationship. It's just like he said, this 107 00:09:16,960 --> 00:09:20,920 is something that you would plan. You don't just go dinner one day and say, let's have 108 00:09:20,920 --> 00:09:23,960 a baby tomorrow. You know, this is something they were going to plan. Like what about a 109 00:09:23,960 --> 00:09:27,640 living situation? Would he live with Jessica? Would they buy a house together? She moved 110 00:09:27,640 --> 00:09:32,000 him. Like I understand from his point of view, he wants to make sure that everything is in 111 00:09:32,000 --> 00:09:35,600 order before they make this huge step because like you said, this is linking them together 112 00:09:35,600 --> 00:09:39,920 for the rest of their lives. There are absolutely no way that they can cut ties with each other 113 00:09:39,920 --> 00:09:44,280 once they bring this baby into the world, no matter how much they disagree, no matter 114 00:09:44,280 --> 00:09:49,040 if they break up and get remarried, it doesn't matter. They are going to be linked forever. 115 00:09:49,040 --> 00:09:54,880 So I think that he's being responsible by wanting to plan it out and make sure that 116 00:09:54,880 --> 00:10:01,740 their lives intertwining is a better, is a good idea because it's interesting. The situation 117 00:10:01,740 --> 00:10:06,400 with her sister already as we're watching it with John and Christina. So it's like, 118 00:10:06,400 --> 00:10:10,680 you have to make sure that you're okay with the twin dynamic and them being so close and 119 00:10:10,680 --> 00:10:14,880 the lives being intertwined because you're marrying into or you're bringing yourself 120 00:10:14,880 --> 00:10:19,760 into that relationship. And I think John is having a lot of problems with that. He didn't 121 00:10:19,760 --> 00:10:24,840 really take into consideration the dynamic of the two women before he got into that. 122 00:10:24,840 --> 00:10:29,160 And now they're kind of suffering because now he realizes my life is now forever intertwined 123 00:10:29,160 --> 00:10:34,400 with Jessica, who didn't choose. I didn't marry her. I have a child with her, but I am still 124 00:10:34,400 --> 00:10:38,200 intertwined with her forever. And I feel like Josh is kind of seeing that. And he's like, 125 00:10:38,200 --> 00:10:42,440 well, I want to make sure that our lives being intertwined in her sister's life and her sister's 126 00:10:42,440 --> 00:10:45,440 husband and children, like we have to make sure that that's something that we want. I 127 00:10:45,440 --> 00:10:50,000 think that's mature. And like you said, Jessica, that took a lot for you and don't feel like 128 00:10:50,000 --> 00:10:55,720 you were rejected. Like I feel like he just took in the information and like Christina 129 00:10:55,720 --> 00:11:00,760 said, he's going to process it. Men are processors. You know, they don't really make, you know, 130 00:11:00,760 --> 00:11:05,400 quick decisions. Hence why women have to tend to wait so long to get their engagement rings. 131 00:11:05,400 --> 00:11:11,520 Men need to process things at their own very slow, sloth pace. You know, it's very slow. 132 00:11:11,520 --> 00:11:15,560 So I think that this is a good step for you guys. And I want you to be pregnant with your 133 00:11:15,560 --> 00:11:21,160 sister. But again, it doesn't need to be rushed. And I think that's the main topic of this 134 00:11:21,160 --> 00:11:26,440 story. Don't rush into it as long as it happens and everyone is happy. It's great. You're 135 00:11:26,440 --> 00:11:31,720 not going to be any distant from your sister if you're not pregnant at the same time. I 136 00:11:31,720 --> 00:11:35,480 know this is the first time that they haven't been pregnant at the same time. So it's going 137 00:11:35,480 --> 00:11:39,360 to be a bit hard, but it is what it is. You guys are always going to be close because 138 00:11:39,360 --> 00:11:43,360 look at that. They stopped talking for four months and now they're back to the way things 139 00:11:43,360 --> 00:11:47,360 were like it never happened. So I know that that bond is never going to be broken. 140 00:11:47,360 --> 00:11:52,360 Yeah, I think that they're strong enough to get through anything now. I do too. All right, 141 00:11:52,360 --> 00:11:54,440 guys, that's it for part one. We're going to come back from part two and talk about 142 00:11:54,440 --> 00:11:59,120 the rest of the couples. V and Ashley had a very, very heated discussion regarding the 143 00:11:59,120 --> 00:12:04,920 syracuse situation and we have to break that down because I was really shocked at how intense 144 00:12:04,920 --> 00:12:07,760 it got. All right, guys, I'm George Massey. Make sure you're following all social media 145 00:12:07,760 --> 00:12:11,800 platforms at George Massey George Massey.com and anywhere you get your podcast and please 146 00:12:11,800 --> 00:12:15,320 follow my co-host as well. Well, her links are right here at the bottom. We'll talk 147 00:12:15,320 --> 00:12:17,440 to all of you guys really soon.