Anna Fisher, she's a good friend of mine. She
is a clairvoyant psychic medium. And we are going
to be discussing some relationship things that
have to do with energies and, and auras and some
of the things that you may be doing that can
put your, your energy and aura at risk. Cause
we want to discuss, you know, it's not just about
paranormal Here, we do want to discuss how these
things can apply to your everyday life. It's
not necessarily you're going to see a ghost every
day, or you want to talk to someone who's passed
on every day. So another thing that is relevant
to my life is dating. Right. Dating is very relevant
to my life and it's relevant to a lot of people's
lives. And I think a lot of people don't know
the risks that are involved when you're getting
involved with someone that you don't know. Right.
So when you go out on a date, you meet somebody
on a dating app and you're getting to know this
person's energy, their vibe, their aura. They're
bringing a lot of things with them. And I kind
of wanted to get get into that and dig deeper
because I think a lot of people are like, oh,
I'm just getting to know this person and sharing
energy. is something that we do on a daily basis.
When you go to the grocery store, you're sharing
your energy. When you ride on the bus, you're
sharing your energy. You're sharing energy. Right.
And you get energy in your system. So I want
to talk about, you know, when people are dating,
what are some of the risks that they can be putting
themselves at when they're getting involved with
someone who they don't know anything about? Because
even if you know everything about someone, you
don't know everything that is in their energy
and the things that they're carrying with them.
So what are some things that people should look
out for and what are some of the risks that they
could be facing? I think if you get in a sex
connection with someone, you can get all their
karma, all their ex -relationship energies. You
can get so many bad energies. And most people
think, oh, it's just for fun. It's just because
I love it or I don't know. But the risk would
you get on you is so worse because you get so...
bad energies in your whole system, in your aura.
And yeah, so you get all the things what the
person have in their systems. So that's what
I want to talk about. I want to focus on energy
transfer. Yeah. A lot of times people don't realize
that when you're intimate with someone, you're
transferring energy between each other. And,
you know, and something that you explained to
me, which I thought was really insane was The
person that you're intimate with, you're kind
of being intimate with all of the people that
they were intimate with in the past, because
those energies can be transferred to you. And
a lot of people will tell you when they describe
their past relationships that it was a toxic
relationship or it could have been an abusive
relationship. It could have been a relationship
where they felt controlled or manipulated. So
thinking of those types of people, those are
the energies that you may be taking on from this
new person. And they all have still energy cores
from their ex relationships on them. And if they
have sex with you or they have a strong connection
with you, you can get all these really worse
energies from the ex partnership in your system.
And that's really bad for you, I think. Well,
that's what I'm wondering. Because when I hear
someone say, when someone talks about their ex,
there usually is 99 % chance it's going to be
negative. They're not going to say something
positive. So when I'm talking about me taking
on the energy of someone's exes, not just one
ex, but all of their exes, anyone that they've
slept with, it's kind of scary. And I'm wondering,
is there anything that I could do to protect
myself from inheriting these energies, you know,
because when you're dating, you know, you might
date, you might go on five dates in a month,
right? And it's not uncommon to be intimate with
some of these people while dating. So what are
we supposed to do to protect ourselves? So we're
just not taking on massive loads of terrible
energy and negative aura that we're going to
be carrying along as well. That's why I produce
my own spiritual products to clean all the time
or I you have the aura spray to protect your
aura, but if you going on a Tinder date or you
get in a deeper relationship with someone it's
Really difficult to not get all these energies
in your field So you have to clean yourself and
the person you are with to so both of the persons
have to clean all the negative and all the past
relationships, all the energy cords before you
go in a deeper relationship. This is just my
opinion. That's why I would never sleep with
someone or with a stranger, because it's not
just you having sex. It's like you get all these
energies, all curses or demons energies. You
can get all that bad energies in your aura field
and you have bad luck in your life or you have
money problems or You got nightmares, and I don't
think that's worth it, right? I mean, no, that
sounds terrible. But I do want to acknowledge
that here in America, it's very common for people
to be intimate. I know. Don't know. A lot of
times people will be intimate on the first date.
And so when you were telling me that and so okay,
so for instance, say for instance, you're intimate
with someone you used to take. Negative energy.
Is there anything that you can do to cleanse
yourself after the fact? Like say for instance,
you didn't cleanse yourself before is there something
that you can do to release that energy that negative
energy from you now because you don't want to
continue to carry those energies on You know
to that to every relationship you're in and also
I wanted to ask Follow -up question. How does
that energy affect you? Like does it change your
personality? Does it? Yeah, of course because
when you having sex with someone all the chakras
all the energy what you have the body is getting
in once so you have like you are like the twin
from the other person you have all that stuff
in your system that means you get this personality
the longer you stays with that person and you
can do like if you're if you're not having my
product or if you're not really spiritual but
you can say hey I calling all my energies back
in my field and I I want to send all the energies
what I got back to the person what I got from
so that's a huge step for making like a little
ritual to get your energies back and to give
the energies back to the sender so you can send
the energy back to where it came from yeah right
like kind of like if you're you have a you're
possessed and you have a spirit or a demon you
can send it back Oh, that's not so easy. But
if you just are on a date and you go like on
a diner and just drink a coffee and you feel,
oh, this person is really bad from the energy
and you're going home, you can say, hey, I call
all my energies back and I will give the person
all the energies back. But if you have a demon,
okay, you need someone like me, a real medium
to get this demon back from where it comes from.
That's not so easy. You cannot say, okay, I call
the demon back. Because even you are really obsessed
with this demon. Oh, so what can people do like
say they're swiping on Tinder? Is there anything
that people can do not having your gift just
a normal person that can help them? or what type
of energy someone has or like I know for me I
don't have these this gift so is there a way
for me to know the energy of someone beforehand
or is there a way to look for signs that that
will give you an idea of what type of energy
that yeah of course when you met a person and
you feel weak or you have to feel my god I'm
so tired I have going to sleep right now then
you can feel that someone wants to Yeah, that
someone wants to take your energy like a vampire
the whole time. Then you can feel, okay, this
person is not so good and I have to go. And when
you feel good, when you have the feeling, oh
my god, this person is so interesting for me
and I feel so good. When I met this person, then
you can feel, okay, that's really good energy.
So I think, yeah, if you have not my gifts, but
you're sensitive, you can feel if this person
is good or this people has... This human has
a bad energy. So it's a draining and tiring feeling.
So just being around that person can make you
feel weak, drained, and tired. So that's something
that... Yeah, absolutely. Because it's hard to
know, because, you know, you can look at a photo
and tell me exactly the energy that someone has.
So it's interesting that you're... Right now.
Well, right. You're really good at it. I'll send
you a picture and you're like, instantly reply
like... Give me a whole list of things and it's
scary because I don't have that gift So when
I'm just out about in the world that I'm interacting
with strangers, I don't know what you know So
at least I know if I'm hanging around someone
or I'm spending time with someone and I'm always
tired or after we go out on a date I pass out
from sleep or exhaustion or weakness. That's
a negative. That's a negative thing That's not
right and in turn that means that while you were
out with that person they drained you of your
That is actually what happened. They took all
the... Energy vampires. I call it energy vampires.
What do they do with all the energy? That's what
I was wondering. When they're sucking out all
of your energy, what do they do with it? Is it
because they have a lack of energy, so they're
taking yours? Yeah, because they have not enough
energy to live with their own energy. That's
why they need others to have enough energy to
live. That's the reason why. That's so crazy.
Do they know that they're doing it or do you
think it's like a subconscious thing? Is it just
something that their soul does on its own? Well,
some people are really traumatized from their
childhood and their energy level is so low that
they just want every time a strong person with
a strong character to To feel better to feel
too strong with that person, but I have the feeling
It not must be always demon or energy vampire.
I think when someone feels too weak in themselves,
they are searching for people who are really
strong, who are really independent with themselves.
And I think, yeah, so it's possible that some
people just want your energy because they have
not enough self -love or they not feel good when
they are alone. Oh, so it kind of has to do with
self -esteem and value. Yeah, right. So if the
person doesn't have a high self -esteem or a
high self -worth, they suck the energy of a person
who does. Yeah, right. You feel better to grow
in their own systems. And when they don't have
these persons anymore, they get weak again and
they feel worse. Wow. Okay, so I have a question.
Would it be feasible for you to start like a
dating service where you can kind of screen people
and let people feel the energy and the aura and
whether or not they are compatible? Because I
feel like that would be an invaluable service
because say for instance, somebody has been dating
for years and they've never met the right person.
They feel like they're wasting their time. They're
running into a wall. What if you were able to
screen people and you would only send people
to them that first of all, have good energy,
match their aura, they're compatible, and they're
clean, you know, have a clean energy, like would
that be a feasible thing for people to use? Do
you think that people would be interested in
dating people that are spiritually compatible
with them? I think so. I think in America it's
so easy to meet spiritual people, not like in
Germany, and I think that would be really cool
when there's a dating app for really sensitive
or spiritual people that they can meet with each
other because I think it's really difficult when
you're really spiritual to meet someone normal
who's not in that spiritual game, you know what
I mean? Well, yeah, so for me, I don't know how
to read energy. So when I meet someone, I base
it whether or not I like their personality and
I'm not And I don't sense energies well. I've
been known to befriend terrible people or date
terrible people. So I'm not good at reading that.
So I'm thinking, you know how matchmakers, they'll
get somebody who is financially compatible or
who has the same education level as you or who
has the same goals as you. But I think that they're
missing the spiritual level. And I think that's
why so many relationships don't work because
you can't just be compatible on finances or goals
or education. There needs to be a spiritual connection
in order for you to build a relationship. And
I think a lot of people, they're looking at looks,
income and education. Right. And they're missing
the most important component. And I think when
you can't connect on a spiritual level, you can't
connect. And I think that's why a lot of people
find dating to be a empty, a empty process because
they feel drained at the end because they give
so much energy to finding the right person and
so much energy to connecting with the person
and then at the end it doesn't work out and they
just feel and hopeless and and it seems like
a pointless process and i think it's because
they're not focusing on the spiritual level of
dating because i think a lot of people don't
realize that when you're connecting with someone
on a spiritual level that means you're connecting
emotionally intimately physically there's so
many different levels of connection and I think
a lot of people focus on the physical connection
and the visual and they don't focus on anything
else and that's why it always falls apart yeah
for example one of my best friends she's really
spiritual and she she really knows a lot and
she grows so much in her own spiritual personality
and she's dating over two years and for her it's
so difficult to go on a second date with someone
because she has the feeling that the man who
she's dating with is they are all not on a spiritual
level and she said okay what should I talk about
with them so I don't have no idea what should
I talk with them and so I think it's really difficult
to find someone with a good personality with
a good energy and with a spiritual healthy energy
level. Well, see, that's why I think you should
start or we should start an app. Yeah, absolutely.
I think that will works. I don't want anyone
to steal our idea, but I think that it's really
important that people are matched on all levels.
Like I know there's some apps that say, oh, we
match you on lots of different compatibility
levels. I think. Someone with your gift is the
only person that can actually tell you if someone
is gonna be spiritually compatible with you.
And you can be in a relationship with someone
for years and never connect with them on a spiritual
level. And I think that's the thing because this
person is a stranger to you spiritually. You
might know each other physically, you might know
each other emotionally, but spiritually you're
strangers. You don't know each other. It's like
two people passing. the street and I think that's
really scary because you would never let a stranger
in your house but you know not being spiritually
connected to someone is kind of like sleeping
in the same bed with a stranger yeah right and
I have the feeling that most people are not really
connected with themselves or with them hard and
so they want a connection with someone but they're
not connected with themselves though so how you
want to connect with someone when you have not
even the connection with yourself like okay that's
not working I want to unpack that. So when someone
is not spiritually connected with themselves,
what does that mean? How do you not be spiritually
connected with yourself? That means you cannot
have a strong energy cord to someone. You cannot
have a real connection to someone. Because if
you have not the connection to yourself, you're
just living in your head all the time. You're
just living in your mindset the whole time. But
you are not living with your heart and your whole
body and your whole system, you know? Well, what
can people do to connect with themselves? I never
thought about that. I didn't realize that I needed
to connect with myself So what I'm what what
can I do to make sure that my spiritual connection
with myself is strong going on a spiritual journey
with yourself or Find God back or yeah going
on a spiritual journey with yourself going on
meditations going to yoga or Yeah, just ask yourself
what I want to do what I like just Having time
with yourself is a big step to get the connection
with yourself, not working the whole time, not
going on TikTok the whole time. The most people
are just on their phones or they just at work,
but they're not really talking with themselves.
It's so sad, but I see a lot of people, they
are not really connected with themselves. They're
like just like a doll with no life inside it.
So the more time you spend alone, with your own
thoughts. Right, exactly. And you know what's
interesting? There's a lot of people who hate
to be alone. Like I know a lot of friends that
I have, some of them they just hate. to be alone,
they need to be out, they need to go out every
night, they need to have be somewhere where there's
a lot of noise. And I think those people are
probably the most spiritually disconnected. They
are the most afraid of people to they think if
I'm alone with myself, that's afraid that like
they have to get in panic to being or staying
with themselves by their own. Yeah. So people
need to learn that it's okay to spend some time
in your own head and get to know your get to
know the inner voice, because I learned that
too. I have like an inner voice. I have like
an inner dialogue. And I used to think that that
meant I was crazy. But it's not necessarily that.
It just means that your mind is in control of
your mouth. It's in control of your body. It's
in control of your speech. Oh, that inner dialogue
is important. You know, when you're sitting at
home in the bed laying down looking at the ceiling,
you can hear that dialogue really well. And I
think a lot of people are scared by it because
a lot of people are like, well, who is that?
Yeah, right. Talking in my head, it's you. But
you have to make sure that you and that dialogue
are connected and you're on the same page, you
want the same things, and you're listening. people
don't listen to their mental dialogue. And I
think a lot of times just because they're afraid
of the idea that, oh, that's just a voice in
my head. That's a negative thing. And if the
voice isn't saying anything negative, it's not
a negative thing. Sometimes the voice can just
be crying out for help. It's telling you things
that it wants you to do, habits it wants you
to break, or goals it wants you to work towards.
But if you don't listen to it, You're never gonna
accomplish that and if your mind is trying to
tell you something You have to listen to what
your mind is trying to tell you just like your
body tells you when you're sick Your mind can
also tell you you know when you're sick or depressed
or upset or you're in a bind or in a dilemma
Your mind will try to communicate with you the
same way. Well, I'll make will tell you that
you're you're not feeling Well, but a lot of
people are not listening to that. Do you know
the most? People when they get heart attacks
or they had heart issues That's because they're
not connected with their heart or they just don't
want to feel what the heart wants to say. And
that's so sad because the most heart attacks
also by women is when they said, okay, I have
this emotion, but I don't want to talk about
it and I don't want to feel it. And then people
get heart attacks. The heart chakra is so overloaded
and so full of emotion and it will be exploded
if you're not Listen to your heart. Well, how
does the heart communicate with you? Now I'm
curious, like, is it a feeling? Is it an inner
dialogue? Because, you know, I know that heart
attacks are very physical. They say that you
feel things in your shoulders, you can feel things
in your back. So what is the heart's way of communicating
with you? I think a good option to get in the
connection with your heart is when you're getting
on a healing session, like with me, because I'm
doing heart opener healing sessions or heart
healing sessions and people learn to listen to
their hearts or to feel their heart. Most people
don't feel their hearts. They're just running
or they go to gym and they have a little bit
heart beating, but they're not really feel what's
going on in their heart. Yeah, and that's the
first step heart meditations or You can put your
right hand on the heart and go inside and say
hey What do you want to say what you feel like
you can do that every time when you go to bed?
That's the beginning for Yeah, the journey back
to you and to your heart That is so interesting
and I think a lot of people don't realize how
many steps it takes to prepare yourself be in
a relationship because a lot of people just think,
oh, I'm I'm single and I'm lonely. And if I was
in a relationship. Yeah, right. I know people
and maybe they lovely and maybe they cool, but
they have no connection to themselves. But they
want just someone who loves them, who hugs them.
But I can feel these people are not have a connection
to themselves. So if if people are not connected
with themselves, they never could have a connection
with you. Maybe they can be cute to you, maybe
they can be lovely to you or they can be respectful
to you, but they can never really love you because
they have no connection and you cannot go to
their heart when the heart is closed. So a lot
of people are looking to fall in love when their
heart is closed off and they're actually blocking
their opportunity to find someone because they
don't know that they're closed off. from from
finding someone. That's kind of interesting.
But that led me to hanging on to stress. Yeah,
I think a lot of people, we focus on stress,
we focus on work, we focus on everything that
will cause your body to be in distress. We never
focus on like you were talking about meditation
and yoga, we never focus on things that will
de stress our bodies, we usually are focused
on worrying, and problems and issues and finance.
Right. putting a strain on people don't realize
the strain that stress puts on your body because
you know a stress can actually cause a stroke
it can cause a heart attack it's and it's it's
something that happens in your mind you're creating
scenarios and situations in your mind and it's
actually in the organs of your body it's affecting
the way that your body functions and looking
for love is such a complex situation because
love can there's no real textbook definition
of love. We don't really know what it is. We
just know it feels a certain way. So when you're
looking for it, it's really interesting that
people are not prepared to do that. Like, for
instance, say you're going on a road trip, it's
going to take you two days to drive there, you're
going to go through a preparation process for
your car, you're going to check the tires, you're
going to change your oil, you're going to get
gas, you're going to you're going to take all
of this preparation. and ready for that journey.
But when we're trying to fall in love, we just
kind of show up at the date. We don't do any
back work or pre -work. And that's what's interesting.
You got to work on yourself and make sure you're
physically and mentally and emotionally prepared
to be going on this journey. Because love is
a journey. I always say it's like a road trip.
You're going to be driving across country. You're
going to go through ups, downs, hills, rain,
sleet, earthquakes. You're going to experience
so many different things. And we're not prepared.
We're not mentally prepared, spiritually prepared,
emotionally prepared. We just kind of show up.
We find a person that we think we like and we
show up to the date and we hope that it goes
well. We don't prepare our mind. We don't prepare
our heart. We don't prepare our soul. We just
show up and hope that things go well. And I think
that that's the main issue of why people have
been finding love and then losing love quickly
or are thinking they find love and then find
out it's not love because you were never ready.
to receive love you were looking you weren't
ready to receive yeah you're absolutely absolutely
right and i i think the most people who saying
oh my god i want so madly a relationship oh my
god i need a man or i need a woman these are
all the same people who wants that others loves
them but they cannot love themselves and the
feeling what they want to have from another person
is the feeling what they miss in themselves oh
okay so This is interesting. So the want and
need to being loved is actually a projection
of what you want from yourself. Yeah, of course.
Everything what you want from another person
is something what you miss in yourself or what
you search for. So when you feel lonely and sad
and wanting to be loved, it's because you're
not spending enough time loving yourself. Absolutely.
That's correct. Interesting, because we think
that happiness is what we're missing and love
is what we're missing but when it actually it's
us our lack of love or lack of emotion towards
ourselves because you know we can be pretty cold
towards ourselves right you know what they say
we're our worst critic we're hardest on ourselves
other people aren't as hard as we are on ourselves
and i think that's where that lack of love comes
from i think that a lot of people are too hard
on themselves they don't give themselves enough
credit They don't give themselves enough grace.
They blame themselves for things that go wrong.
And at the end of the day, we need to be our
biggest supporter. Don't be hard on yourself
and understand that you're not perfect. Understand
that you make mistakes and understand that you
can hold yourself accountable without beating
yourself up. And I think a lot of people have
too much time beating themselves up. And I think
the healthiest way to getting in a relationship
is when you work on yourself, when you know yourself
first. Because if you're a person who said, oh
my god, I want that this person will love me.
I want that you give me more attention. I want
that you call me the whole time. Why you don't
message me? It's just because the person is so
unsure with herself because she thinks maybe
there's someone outside who's better than me.
That's just because the person is not sure about
their own self -worth. The connection is not
there. Wow. So insecurity in a relationship is
a projection. Because you know what's crazy?
I learned something recently about myself. I'm
a needy person in a relationship. I was that
too. I'm very needy and I'm beginning to realize
that it's not something that Because I used to
think, oh, I'm needy because I really like this
person that I'm with. That's not why I'm needy
because I don't have the self acceptance that
I need. Yeah, of course. And I think I'm seeing
it much more now because I'm with a person that's
very loving that treats me really well. And I'm
very needy. And I'm like, oh, you got to call
me every five minutes. And you got to you got
to reassure me every five minutes. And I've never
been that way. But it's because I was not aware.
that I deserved to be happy. I deserved that.
That's a good point, yeah. And I thought what
I got was what I deserved. And I think you have
to understand that no matter what has happened
to you in your life or what mistakes you've made
or bad decisions you made, you deserve to be
happy, you're capable of being happy, and you
have to let yourself be happy. I'm a self -sabotager.
I'll be happy and everything will be going great
and I'll do something to mess it up because I'm
so used to things not being perfect. Or you think
you're not worth it to having a perfect life.
Well, right. If things are going really well
and you feel like you're being loved and treated
well and it almost seems like you have imposter
syndrome, like this is not your life because
you don't deserve a perfect life. that everybody
deserves to have the life that they dream of.
And you may have gone through a bad relationship
or multiple bad relationships in the past. And
it doesn't mean that it has made you any less
desirable or capable or, or deserving of the
person you have. Because sometimes I'll go through
the thing where I don't deserve someone this
good. Right? I'll go through that. I'm like,
I'm someone that's good. You know how people
will ask, What would I do to deserve someone
this bad? I go in the opposite direction and
I'm like, they're way too good for me. What did
I do for them? That's because sometimes or not
sometimes, I think 99 % people have childhood
traumas. They learn from a mother or they learn
from a father. You have to earn the love I will
give you. You have to earn something what I want
to give you or you don't get this car. You have
to earn it. And so people learn to earn. for
that what they want to love to I don't know that
people take care or give attention to them and
a lot of people think okay I'm not worth it because
I learned when I was a child I have to earn it
before I get it see this is interesting because
when I was a child love was always conditional
uh -huh my parents loved me as long as I made
good grades as long as Do as long as I didn't
get in trouble if I went to church. It was always
conditional like we don't Love you if you do
this list of things and I think we're we're trained
to believe as Especially when you experience
that as a child that love is always conditional
if someone loves you it means They could stop
loving you if you don't do something. Yeah Is
it not perfect anymore? Right. And I think as
adults, we have to understand that love is never
supposed to be a conditional thing. If someone
loves you genuinely with all their heart, regardless
of what you do, or if we wake up one day and
make a mistake, they're not loving you because
of that. Because I learned the statement where
I can not like what you did, but I can still
love you. And I learned that. as an adult, I
can dislike something that someone did, their
actions, a decision that they made, how they
treated me, what they did to me. I can dislike
it with all my heart, but I can still love them
with all my heart. And I think a lot of people
realize that you can do both. It's like an oxymoron
because you can hate what someone did, but love
that person. And I think that you have to understand
maturity and adulthood to know. that that's possible
because as an adult I learned that I was like
I hate the way some people behave but I still
love them as a person and I'm not going to cut
them out of my life I just don't like the way
that they yeah and I think that nervous system
and you're in a child safe everything up every
memory the way people treats you so Yeah, and
sometimes people think, oh my god, I have to
do a lot. I have to give gifts all the time.
I have to give my car, all my money that this
person gets me some love. But you don't get love
just you give all that stuff. That means you're
in a needy energy. So that's really unhealthy.
Work on yourself and say, hey, no matter how
my parents treat me as a child, I treat myself
right. And I'm a lovely, perfect person. I'm
really trying to work on it. I am so needy and
I'm a clingy person. And I didn't know that I
was like that. But when you find someone that
you really love, it's always in the back of my
mind that they're going to leave me. Because
when you have that abandonment, those abandonment
issues, you just know, oh, well, I like this
person a lot. So there's going to be a point
in time where they leave. because that's how
things were when you, you know, that trauma when
you were younger or a past relationship. Wherever
you got your abandonment issues from, because
I have those, it always is in the back of your
mind. You're like, as long as things are going
right, there's a voice in the back of your head
saying, they're going to leave you at some point
and you have to leave. And it is not true. And
it's what I call that self -sabotage, where you're
living in your head and not in the moment. not
in your relationship, you're in your head. Your
relationship is being controlled by a voice in
the back of your head telling you that something
is going to go wrong. In an actuality, it may
not go wrong, but you may self -sabotage it to
the extent that it does go wrong because you're
living in your head and not in the moment. And
I'm really, really working on that. And I know
that getting to know yourself spiritually is
definitely a way to get to the bottom of those
deeply rooted issues. that live in here, you
have to get to know yourself. Like I said, listen
to your voice in your head. Listen to that inner
dialogue. It's trying to help you. 90 % of the
time when you hear that inner dialogue, it's
crying out for help. You're doing something that
it doesn't agree with. That's usually why it's
talking to you. But a lot of people wanna, they
wanna drown it out. because they're like, oh,
well, you're not supposed to have voices in your
head. You're absolutely supposed to have an inner
dialogue. Your mind is the central nervous system
control of your body. And it's going to talk
to you in many, many different ways. And we just
have to learn to be receptive and to listen,
because the worst thing you can do is ignore
your body. And that's mentally emotionally. If
you ignore what you're you will. You leave this
world at some point your body is gonna tell you
what you need to live what you need to be happy
What you need to be sad it's gonna give you all
of the tools to find happiness, but if you're
not listening It doesn't matter. It's like having
the answer key to a test So you have all the
answers, but you don't use it and you still fail
the test, right? It's useless if you don't use
it And that's why I'm saying before you go in
on a relationship and you have all these issues
or you saying Oh my god, I'm so needy just work
first on yourself. Because it could happen everything,
like the person go on a walk and never come back,
or going to die, I don't know. So you could never
have this feeling in myself like, oh my god,
I cannot be alone, because I was so safe and
now I'm not. So you should have the feeling no
matter what happened, I still have myself. And
I think that's the healthiest way to have a relationship
with you and not to say, okay, now I'm in a relationship
and everything is fine. I feel safe. But imagine
what could happen with you when this person will
leave you. You feel unsafe again, right? That's
interesting because at the end of the day, we
are our own prize. Gift because we'll never leave
ourselves. We'll never give up on ourselves but
I think we put all of our Eggs in the basket
of I'm gonna be with this one person and this
one person that's gonna make me happy and they're
gonna make me feel fulfilled and they're gonna
be everything that I need but like you said that's
unhealthy because The odds of you staying with
that person for the rest of your life. Unfortunately
are slim So if your this is based only on whether
or not this person stays with you for the rest
of your life You're gambling with your happiness
So what you what you said was so true, you have
to know that at the end of the day, the person
that loves you the most is you. Yeah. No one
is ever going to love you more than you. And
if you're if loving yourself is enough and you
can be happy just being yourself and being happy
with yourself, finding love is just an added
bonus. It's not. I think a lot of people think
since in the Bible, there was Adam and Eve and
it was a man and a woman. There need to be two
people. Yeah. be happy. And I don't think that
that's true. I think that there are people who
lived a perfectly happy life and remain single.
They didn't need another person to control whether
or not they could be happy or whether or not
they had permission to be happy. And I think
we're positioned to believe, especially women,
for some reason, people are saying if a woman
is in her 30s or mid 30s and she's not married,
people will actually start asking, why aren't
you married? Don't you want to be happy? Don't
you want a family? And I think that that's very
damaging. to a woman to say things like that.
To make it like she's not official or fulfilled
until there's a man standing next to her. I think
that's a really negative thing. Because like
you said, your real happiness comes from within.
And if you can be and learn to love yourself,
you don't really need another person. You might
want someone, but needing and wanting are two
different things. Right. And you have to realize
you came into this world by your own and you
will go by your own. So you will leave this world
by your own. Yeah. And not with another person.
Maybe you meet someone in heaven, but you will
go this way alone first. Yeah. Yeah. I always
say that. And then I also add, I say you enter
the world alone, you leave the world alone. And
I say you go to judgment day alone. So when you
get to the judgment day, you don't, because I
just said this the other day, I was like, you
don't get to bring a team of people to be your
character witnesses when you get to Judgment
Day. When you face God and he asks you these
questions and whether or not you get into heaven
or not is based on your answers, you don't get
to call witnesses to the stand to talk in your
behalf. It's only you. So it's all up to you.
And I think that's the same on this earth, whether
you want to be happy, whether you want to be
sad, what your goals are, it's all up to you.
Because I think a lot of times we focus a lot
on blaming other people. We'll say, oh, well,
I could have done this if this person wouldn't
have left me, or I could have done this if this
person would have believed in me, or I could
have done this if this person would have given
me more support. We got to stop doing that. We
are in control of our own destiny. And if you
had a spouse that was unsupportive of your goals,
it doesn't necessarily mean that spouse is the
reason why you never achieved that goal. It just
means that you allowed that person to be the
reason. become the reason you allow them to become
the reason we're the only ones in control of
our destiny. And if we want to do something,
we can do it. If you're in a relationship and
your husband doesn't want you to go back to college,
then you might not need to be in that relationship.
If your goal is to get your education, then that's
where your happiness lies. Compromise between
love and happiness. I think a lot of people do
that a lot like some people want children Some
people don't and they compromise between happiness
and love those two things need to be intertwined
Or it's not gonna work Right. Yeah Well, this
was fun this was fun So I definitely wanted to
talk more about the energy exchange that we have
been discussing we actually been discussing this
for a long time and I was really taken back by
it when you were saying how the energy that you
take on in new relationships can stay with you
forever. And it can impact your happiness, your
goals, your accomplishments, the way your mind
works. This was really intriguing to me because
when people are entering the dating world, there's
already a lot of risks. There's a lot of responsibilities.
There's a lot of things that they are focusing
on and I think the main thing that they ignore
are the energy transfers because you know you
think oh we have a good intimate connection and
you may but you don't know what that person is
transferring to you it's kind of like when you
go to a party remember well I don't know if they
did this in Germany but in America when we were
younger there wasn't a cure for the flu or stocks
so our parents would find out when one kid had
the flu or the chicken pox and they would have
a sleepover and they would send all of the kids
there because once you get it once your immune
system especially for chicken pox will build
up to where you wouldn't get it again but until
you get it and you need to get it at a young
age to build up your immunity so our parents
would find out which kid had chicken pox or whatever
and then they would have a big sleepover so we
would all get it. I don't know if they did that
there, but that was kind of - No, I never did
that before. Yeah, that's something that they
do here in the US. I don't know if they still
do it, but this was like when I was growing up.
And then my mom told me later in life, she was
like, yeah, the reason why, because I was like,
remember that time I went there and I got sick?
She's like, yeah, we knew you were going to get
the chicken pox. The whole point was for you
to get it at a young age so you would build an
immunity for it. And I think that that's kind
of like - what we're talking about now. You got
to get these things out in the open. You have
to learn how to love yourself, connect with yourself
spiritually. So the idea of people thinking the
inner dialogue is making you sick, it's actually
something that's going to make you healthy. And
especially if you listen to it, you pay attention
to it, you pay attention to your body and your
energy. Oh, and you taught us tonight, when you
go out with someone new and if you come home
and you feel... overly tired, drained or exhausted
or weak, that's a sign of that person stealing
your energy. And the longer you stay with that
person, the longer they will take your energy
and they will bleed you dry. So yeah, I always
say if you're having sex with someone or you
stay for a long while with someone, it's like
you're having a cold. The other person gets that
cold too, right? And it's like the same with
energies, everything. What you have inside you,
you have always an energy core to everyone you
meet. So you're going on a bus, you're going
on a supermarket, and you talk with someone or
you stand behind someone. You have an energy
core because... everything is energy. And if
you stay with someone, you get like the twin
from that other person. Do you know, sometimes
when someone gets in a relationship with someone
and they don't like some stuff, but after a while
they like that stuff because all the character,
all that main character is going to the other
person too. Like they become like the person
they're staying with. Oh, I understand. So if
you were with someone for a long time and you
think that you dislike A certain activity or
a certain type of movie or a certain type of
food and then you break up with that person And
you find yourself enjoying the things that you
thought you did not like it Yeah, because you're
getting the twin from the person you stay with
because every every energy is mixed Wow, that's
so crazy. It's a crazy. It's a crazy thought
but it's it's important that people are aware
the risks that they're taking, especially when
they're dating and they're being intimate with
new people. And I want to talk a little bit more.
So Juliana has a website that you guys can go
to where you can purchase these products, where
you can cleanse yourself of bad energy and bad
auras and spirits. I think it's important that
people know what their products are, how they
can get them. What's your website? Where can
people go? You can go on my bio on Instagram
and there's my website and they can see all my
products, what all my gifts are and my whole
life history, my spiritual life history. Thank
you for joining. Yeah, everybody, thanks for
joining. And also, if you're moving into a new
house, I know there's this website people use
called DiedInHouse .com. Juliana can help you
cleansing your home too, because when you're
moving into a new space, it's very important
that you cleanse any negative energy or spirits
or auras that were living there, because you
never know what you get in a new space. You never
know the type of people that were there before
you. So if you don't have a story what's happened
there or murder case, you don't know what's going
on there and you take that all in your system.
Right and then same with that sex sex energy
connection. So when you're going in a new home
and All the because there's now your energy.
It's now your it's your home and So you take
all that energy in your system from all the people
what lives before you meet this home Or buy this
home. I don't know Yeah, your your products can
help with that right? You can help do a cleanse
on the home Yeah, from energy cores, from memories,
from old energies, when someone passing away
and the soul is still stuck there, I can bring
the soul to heaven. Right. Oh, we have so much
questions, I think, I don't know, but I see now
we have a lot of followers who asked something,
right? Kind of when old couples start to look
like, yeah, true. I thought about something when
some people the longer people stay with each
other sometimes people die like in the same time
or just Weeks or months later because the energy
is so connected with that the other part of that
relationship the other person Have no life energy
anymore to stay without this person anymore.
That's so crazy That's actually a thing and um
the US we call it when the person died of a broken
heart. So when the husband or wife passes away
first, the other person dies within a year or
so. It's because of energy, because you have
the energy from the other person in your system
and the other person have the energy in his system
or in their systems. So I think if you live with
each other, with your energies with each other,
so when one part is going or it's going to be
to die, there's no energy to live anymore. So
that's just a spiritual thing for me. But I saw
it because my grandparents were so long in a
relationship with each other. My grandpa passed
away last May and my grandpa passed away this
January. So just nine months. And I think and
I felt when my grandma passed, it was like his
whole energy is getting more and more away because
He had not her energy anymore to live again That
was so interesting for me to see and it's I don't
like that because it's I feel like just because
your spouse Leaves it doesn't mean you you should
leave too But I know that when you're together
with someone for so long, like you said you start
sharing energy Yeah, right. This is what I mean.
You're sharing energy with each other. Yeah,
so it's sad to hear that someone when they lose
that person that they don't have the energy level
to stay here longer. Right. This is what I want
to say. Right. I hate that. It's so sad because
I mean, a lot of people might love it because
they'll say, oh, well, they're going to both
be together, you know, so they weren't separated
for long. But at the end of the day, you know,
sometimes people pass away early in life and
it's sad that their love of their life might
not get a full life. you know, because they don't
have the energy to stay without that person because
we do feed off of each other. Like when you're
in a relationship, the energy is transferred
and it's used together. So the idea of like that
person leaving the world and then you don't even
have the energy to stay, it's kind of scary because,
right? Because we don't know when we're going
to pass away and we don't know if it's going
to be five years apart, 10 years apart, a year
apart. We don't know that. So the idea that that
affects your life expectancy is kind of crazy.
And you know what's crazy? When my parents passed
away, I felt it in my whole body. Like, I knew
the day last Tuesday, and I said to my mom, I
feel like I'm dying. Like, I feel that all his
energy cards, because I had a really strong connection
to my grandfather, and I feel that all these
energy cards are gone because his body is going
to die. And I said to my mom, I feel he wants
to die this day because I feel like I'm dying.
Because all the energy what I have from my grandfather
since like I was a child, all that energy is
like gone. I was laying on my couch and I thought,
my God, I have the feeling I'm dying. But I knew
that my grandpa is going to die. And I was going
to my mom and I said, I will sleep by my grandpa.
And I took his hand because I knew in a few minutes
he will die because I feel that I have less energy
and I felt now he's going to be to die. And he's
died like an hour later. So you could feel the
lack of energy. Yeah, I feel it the same with
my grandma I have such a bad heart beating and
I feel someone Mmm took all my heart energy away
like it was like someone Hit me. I cannot explain
it. It was It was really confused for me, but
I felt, okay, my grandma is going to die because
I have this heartburn and I was thinking about
her and I felt that this connection is going
away from my body. I feel all the connection,
all my chakras, where they was all the energy
cords, what I got with my grandparents. Wow.
So sorry for your loss. Yeah, but I know they
with each other and they happy, I think. Yeah.
Well, yeah, that's what I feel like is the silver
lining when they won't have to be separated anymore
and they get to reunite. I think that's the beautiful
part of it, but it's still difficult. We're never
gonna be able to accept death. Death is the only
thing that I think as humans, it's the most unhuman
aspect of our life. Like we can understand. illness,
we can understand sickness, we can understand
love, we can understand breakups. Death is like
the only thing that we've never fully understood
or grasped. Like we don't know how to cope with
it. And no matter how many centuries it's been
around, we still don't know how to handle death.
It's just the one thing that we can't master.
You know what was also interesting, I think for
all the followers, it's so interesting. I was
going to my mom when I felt that my grandpa is
now it's the time that he was going to die. And
I was going to his bed and took his hand and
I felt that his soul was already out of his body.
I felt that he was like behind me and I was running
to my mom and said, hey, his body is behind me,
but he's still breathing. and it took I think
five minutes and then he passed but it was so
a new spiritual experience for me to know sometimes
the body is still working and still breathing
and the heart is the heart beating is still there
but the person is already gone that was really
interesting to see my grandfather was staying
there on his own bed but he was still breathing
wow that is insane Well, I heard people say that
when someone passes away, there's still a moment
in time where their body is still functioning.
I don't remember what they said, but they said
like, when the body, the body or soul passes,
there's like a moment in time where the body,
they still still coherent, they still know what's
going on, but the body is legally dead. And I
think that it has to do with their spirit and
their soul because the soul and the separate
things. And I think that they can, the body can
exist without the soul, the soul, right? I think
the body can exist without the soul, but it's
just, it's just a vessel. You can't, it doesn't
go the other way around. So it's just, the whole
thing is really interesting. It's really hard
to understand if you're not spiritual, if you
don't really understand the spiritual realm.
Yeah. Well, I think we run out of time, right?
I think, yeah, it's time for us to end. I think
you have, I don't know if you guys know, it's
very late in where Juliana is. So when we do
these lives, it's a little early for me, but
it's kind of late in her - That's okay, I just
have five minutes. If you want just to talk about
something, I'm still here. Oh no, I think we
covered everything unless there's something we
wanted to cover. I feel like this was a fun conversation.
It was, it's very intriguing. I feel like I got
a little complex. I hope we were able to explain
everything to everyone in a way that they could
understand because like I said it's a very complex
subject a lot of times people are not fully open
to the spiritual realm so sometimes they don't
fully understand it so I try to explain it in
the best way I know how I try to use metaphors
I try to make sure that people understand that
it's it's more simple than you believe it could
be when you compare it to regular everyday things
that we already accept right like because I call
a relationship a journey I always say it's a
road trip you know when you compare it to something
that we've already understood and mastered, it's
a lot easier for you to fathom. Yeah. Well, thank
you so much for joining. This is Juliana Fisher.
Make sure you go and check her bio, where all
of her products are. You can book personal sessions
with her, as well as purchase her products for
cleansing. And this cleansing can be used for...
Are you going to do a pause podcast to your...
I'm sorry. Are you going to post this? Yes. Juliana
is going to save this live and she's going to
do a collaboration. So you can go back and rewatch
this on either my Instagram or Juliana's Instagram.
Thank you for that. And yeah, make sure you check
out her products, the cleansing products, as
well as products that you can use to clean your
home, as well as clean energies as well. Thank
you so much, Juliana. Thank you for having me,
George. Of course, I love having you on. I have
such an amazing response when I have you on.
I'm George Massey. This is the George Massey
Show. Thank you for Juliana Fisher, and you guys
have a wonderful night and evening. And don't
worry, we'll be doing these regularly. I know
I keep saying that, and then things keep happening,
but we are going to continue and do these regularly.
Thank you guys. Good night. Thank you guys. Good
night. Good night. Bye.