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Anna Fisher, she's a good friend of mine. She

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is a clairvoyant psychic medium. And we are going

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to be discussing some relationship things that

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have to do with energies and, and auras and some

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of the things that you may be doing that can

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put your, your energy and aura at risk. Cause

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we want to discuss, you know, it's not just about

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paranormal Here, we do want to discuss how these

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things can apply to your everyday life. It's

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not necessarily you're going to see a ghost every

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day, or you want to talk to someone who's passed

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on every day. So another thing that is relevant

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to my life is dating. Right. Dating is very relevant

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to my life and it's relevant to a lot of people's

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lives. And I think a lot of people don't know

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the risks that are involved when you're getting

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involved with someone that you don't know. Right.

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So when you go out on a date, you meet somebody

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on a dating app and you're getting to know this

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person's energy, their vibe, their aura. They're

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bringing a lot of things with them. And I kind

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of wanted to get get into that and dig deeper

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because I think a lot of people are like, oh,

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I'm just getting to know this person and sharing

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energy. is something that we do on a daily basis.

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When you go to the grocery store, you're sharing

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your energy. When you ride on the bus, you're

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sharing your energy. You're sharing energy. Right.

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And you get energy in your system. So I want

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to talk about, you know, when people are dating,

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what are some of the risks that they can be putting

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themselves at when they're getting involved with

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someone who they don't know anything about? Because

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even if you know everything about someone, you

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don't know everything that is in their energy

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and the things that they're carrying with them.

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So what are some things that people should look

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out for and what are some of the risks that they

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could be facing? I think if you get in a sex

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connection with someone, you can get all their

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karma, all their ex -relationship energies. You

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can get so many bad energies. And most people

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think, oh, it's just for fun. It's just because

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I love it or I don't know. But the risk would

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you get on you is so worse because you get so...

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bad energies in your whole system, in your aura.

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And yeah, so you get all the things what the

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person have in their systems. So that's what

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I want to talk about. I want to focus on energy

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transfer. Yeah. A lot of times people don't realize

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that when you're intimate with someone, you're

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transferring energy between each other. And,

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you know, and something that you explained to

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me, which I thought was really insane was The

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person that you're intimate with, you're kind

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of being intimate with all of the people that

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they were intimate with in the past, because

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those energies can be transferred to you. And

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a lot of people will tell you when they describe

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their past relationships that it was a toxic

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relationship or it could have been an abusive

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relationship. It could have been a relationship

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where they felt controlled or manipulated. So

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thinking of those types of people, those are

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the energies that you may be taking on from this

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new person. And they all have still energy cores

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from their ex relationships on them. And if they

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have sex with you or they have a strong connection

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with you, you can get all these really worse

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energies from the ex partnership in your system.

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And that's really bad for you, I think. Well,

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that's what I'm wondering. Because when I hear

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someone say, when someone talks about their ex,

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there usually is 99 % chance it's going to be

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negative. They're not going to say something

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positive. So when I'm talking about me taking

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on the energy of someone's exes, not just one

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ex, but all of their exes, anyone that they've

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slept with, it's kind of scary. And I'm wondering,

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is there anything that I could do to protect

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myself from inheriting these energies, you know,

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because when you're dating, you know, you might

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date, you might go on five dates in a month,

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right? And it's not uncommon to be intimate with

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some of these people while dating. So what are

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we supposed to do to protect ourselves? So we're

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just not taking on massive loads of terrible

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energy and negative aura that we're going to

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be carrying along as well. That's why I produce

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my own spiritual products to clean all the time

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or I you have the aura spray to protect your

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aura, but if you going on a Tinder date or you

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get in a deeper relationship with someone it's

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Really difficult to not get all these energies

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in your field So you have to clean yourself and

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the person you are with to so both of the persons

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have to clean all the negative and all the past

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relationships, all the energy cords before you

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go in a deeper relationship. This is just my

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opinion. That's why I would never sleep with

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someone or with a stranger, because it's not

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just you having sex. It's like you get all these

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energies, all curses or demons energies. You

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can get all that bad energies in your aura field

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and you have bad luck in your life or you have

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money problems or You got nightmares, and I don't

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think that's worth it, right? I mean, no, that

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sounds terrible. But I do want to acknowledge

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that here in America, it's very common for people

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to be intimate. I know. Don't know. A lot of

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times people will be intimate on the first date.

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And so when you were telling me that and so okay,

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so for instance, say for instance, you're intimate

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with someone you used to take. Negative energy.

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Is there anything that you can do to cleanse

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yourself after the fact? Like say for instance,

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you didn't cleanse yourself before is there something

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that you can do to release that energy that negative

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energy from you now because you don't want to

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continue to carry those energies on You know

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to that to every relationship you're in and also

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I wanted to ask Follow -up question. How does

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that energy affect you? Like does it change your

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personality? Does it? Yeah, of course because

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when you having sex with someone all the chakras

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all the energy what you have the body is getting

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in once so you have like you are like the twin

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from the other person you have all that stuff

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in your system that means you get this personality

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the longer you stays with that person and you

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can do like if you're if you're not having my

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product or if you're not really spiritual but

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you can say hey I calling all my energies back

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in my field and I I want to send all the energies

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what I got back to the person what I got from

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so that's a huge step for making like a little

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ritual to get your energies back and to give

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the energies back to the sender so you can send

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the energy back to where it came from yeah right

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like kind of like if you're you have a you're

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possessed and you have a spirit or a demon you

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can send it back Oh, that's not so easy. But

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if you just are on a date and you go like on

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a diner and just drink a coffee and you feel,

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oh, this person is really bad from the energy

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and you're going home, you can say, hey, I call

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all my energies back and I will give the person

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all the energies back. But if you have a demon,

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okay, you need someone like me, a real medium

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to get this demon back from where it comes from.

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That's not so easy. You cannot say, okay, I call

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the demon back. Because even you are really obsessed

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with this demon. Oh, so what can people do like

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say they're swiping on Tinder? Is there anything

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that people can do not having your gift just

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a normal person that can help them? or what type

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of energy someone has or like I know for me I

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don't have these this gift so is there a way

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for me to know the energy of someone beforehand

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or is there a way to look for signs that that

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will give you an idea of what type of energy

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that yeah of course when you met a person and

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you feel weak or you have to feel my god I'm

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so tired I have going to sleep right now then

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you can feel that someone wants to Yeah, that

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someone wants to take your energy like a vampire

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the whole time. Then you can feel, okay, this

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person is not so good and I have to go. And when

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you feel good, when you have the feeling, oh

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my god, this person is so interesting for me

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and I feel so good. When I met this person, then

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you can feel, okay, that's really good energy.

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So I think, yeah, if you have not my gifts, but

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you're sensitive, you can feel if this person

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is good or this people has... This human has

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a bad energy. So it's a draining and tiring feeling.

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So just being around that person can make you

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feel weak, drained, and tired. So that's something

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that... Yeah, absolutely. Because it's hard to

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know, because, you know, you can look at a photo

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and tell me exactly the energy that someone has.

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So it's interesting that you're... Right now.

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Well, right. You're really good at it. I'll send

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you a picture and you're like, instantly reply

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like... Give me a whole list of things and it's

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scary because I don't have that gift So when

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I'm just out about in the world that I'm interacting

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with strangers, I don't know what you know So

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at least I know if I'm hanging around someone

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or I'm spending time with someone and I'm always

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tired or after we go out on a date I pass out

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from sleep or exhaustion or weakness. That's

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a negative. That's a negative thing That's not

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right and in turn that means that while you were

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out with that person they drained you of your

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That is actually what happened. They took all

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the... Energy vampires. I call it energy vampires.

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What do they do with all the energy? That's what

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I was wondering. When they're sucking out all

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of your energy, what do they do with it? Is it

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because they have a lack of energy, so they're

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taking yours? Yeah, because they have not enough

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energy to live with their own energy. That's

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why they need others to have enough energy to

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live. That's the reason why. That's so crazy.

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Do they know that they're doing it or do you

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think it's like a subconscious thing? Is it just

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something that their soul does on its own? Well,

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some people are really traumatized from their

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childhood and their energy level is so low that

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they just want every time a strong person with

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a strong character to To feel better to feel

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too strong with that person, but I have the feeling

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It not must be always demon or energy vampire.

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I think when someone feels too weak in themselves,

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they are searching for people who are really

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strong, who are really independent with themselves.

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And I think, yeah, so it's possible that some

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people just want your energy because they have

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not enough self -love or they not feel good when

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they are alone. Oh, so it kind of has to do with

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self -esteem and value. Yeah, right. So if the

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person doesn't have a high self -esteem or a

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high self -worth, they suck the energy of a person

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who does. Yeah, right. You feel better to grow

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in their own systems. And when they don't have

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these persons anymore, they get weak again and

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they feel worse. Wow. Okay, so I have a question.

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Would it be feasible for you to start like a

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dating service where you can kind of screen people

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and let people feel the energy and the aura and

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whether or not they are compatible? Because I

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feel like that would be an invaluable service

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because say for instance, somebody has been dating

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for years and they've never met the right person.

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They feel like they're wasting their time. They're

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running into a wall. What if you were able to

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screen people and you would only send people

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to them that first of all, have good energy,

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match their aura, they're compatible, and they're

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clean, you know, have a clean energy, like would

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that be a feasible thing for people to use? Do

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you think that people would be interested in

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dating people that are spiritually compatible

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with them? I think so. I think in America it's

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so easy to meet spiritual people, not like in

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Germany, and I think that would be really cool

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when there's a dating app for really sensitive

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or spiritual people that they can meet with each

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other because I think it's really difficult when

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you're really spiritual to meet someone normal

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who's not in that spiritual game, you know what

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I mean? Well, yeah, so for me, I don't know how

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to read energy. So when I meet someone, I base

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it whether or not I like their personality and

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I'm not And I don't sense energies well. I've

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been known to befriend terrible people or date

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terrible people. So I'm not good at reading that.

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So I'm thinking, you know how matchmakers, they'll

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get somebody who is financially compatible or

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who has the same education level as you or who

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has the same goals as you. But I think that they're

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missing the spiritual level. And I think that's

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why so many relationships don't work because

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you can't just be compatible on finances or goals

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or education. There needs to be a spiritual connection

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in order for you to build a relationship. And

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I think a lot of people, they're looking at looks,

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income and education. Right. And they're missing

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the most important component. And I think when

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you can't connect on a spiritual level, you can't

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connect. And I think that's why a lot of people

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find dating to be a empty, a empty process because

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they feel drained at the end because they give

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so much energy to finding the right person and

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so much energy to connecting with the person

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and then at the end it doesn't work out and they

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just feel and hopeless and and it seems like

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a pointless process and i think it's because

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they're not focusing on the spiritual level of

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dating because i think a lot of people don't

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realize that when you're connecting with someone

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on a spiritual level that means you're connecting

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emotionally intimately physically there's so

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many different levels of connection and I think

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a lot of people focus on the physical connection

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and the visual and they don't focus on anything

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else and that's why it always falls apart yeah

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for example one of my best friends she's really

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spiritual and she she really knows a lot and

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she grows so much in her own spiritual personality

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and she's dating over two years and for her it's

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so difficult to go on a second date with someone

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because she has the feeling that the man who

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she's dating with is they are all not on a spiritual

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level and she said okay what should I talk about

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with them so I don't have no idea what should

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I talk with them and so I think it's really difficult

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to find someone with a good personality with

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a good energy and with a spiritual healthy energy

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level. Well, see, that's why I think you should

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start or we should start an app. Yeah, absolutely.

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I think that will works. I don't want anyone

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to steal our idea, but I think that it's really

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important that people are matched on all levels.

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Like I know there's some apps that say, oh, we

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match you on lots of different compatibility

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levels. I think. Someone with your gift is the

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only person that can actually tell you if someone

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is gonna be spiritually compatible with you.

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And you can be in a relationship with someone

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for years and never connect with them on a spiritual

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level. And I think that's the thing because this

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person is a stranger to you spiritually. You

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might know each other physically, you might know

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each other emotionally, but spiritually you're

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strangers. You don't know each other. It's like

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two people passing. the street and I think that's

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really scary because you would never let a stranger

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in your house but you know not being spiritually

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connected to someone is kind of like sleeping

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in the same bed with a stranger yeah right and

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I have the feeling that most people are not really

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connected with themselves or with them hard and

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so they want a connection with someone but they're

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not connected with themselves though so how you

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want to connect with someone when you have not

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even the connection with yourself like okay that's

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not working I want to unpack that. So when someone

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is not spiritually connected with themselves,

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what does that mean? How do you not be spiritually

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connected with yourself? That means you cannot

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have a strong energy cord to someone. You cannot

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have a real connection to someone. Because if

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you have not the connection to yourself, you're

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just living in your head all the time. You're

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just living in your mindset the whole time. But

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you are not living with your heart and your whole

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body and your whole system, you know? Well, what

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can people do to connect with themselves? I never

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thought about that. I didn't realize that I needed

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to connect with myself So what I'm what what

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can I do to make sure that my spiritual connection

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with myself is strong going on a spiritual journey

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with yourself or Find God back or yeah going

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on a spiritual journey with yourself going on

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meditations going to yoga or Yeah, just ask yourself

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what I want to do what I like just Having time

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with yourself is a big step to get the connection

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with yourself, not working the whole time, not

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going on TikTok the whole time. The most people

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are just on their phones or they just at work,

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but they're not really talking with themselves.

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It's so sad, but I see a lot of people, they

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are not really connected with themselves. They're

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like just like a doll with no life inside it.

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So the more time you spend alone, with your own

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thoughts. Right, exactly. And you know what's

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interesting? There's a lot of people who hate

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to be alone. Like I know a lot of friends that

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I have, some of them they just hate. to be alone,

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they need to be out, they need to go out every

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night, they need to have be somewhere where there's

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a lot of noise. And I think those people are

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probably the most spiritually disconnected. They

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are the most afraid of people to they think if

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I'm alone with myself, that's afraid that like

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they have to get in panic to being or staying

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with themselves by their own. Yeah. So people

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need to learn that it's okay to spend some time

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in your own head and get to know your get to

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know the inner voice, because I learned that

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too. I have like an inner voice. I have like

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an inner dialogue. And I used to think that that

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meant I was crazy. But it's not necessarily that.

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It just means that your mind is in control of

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your mouth. It's in control of your body. It's

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in control of your speech. Oh, that inner dialogue

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is important. You know, when you're sitting at

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home in the bed laying down looking at the ceiling,

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you can hear that dialogue really well. And I

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think a lot of people are scared by it because

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a lot of people are like, well, who is that?

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Yeah, right. Talking in my head, it's you. But

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you have to make sure that you and that dialogue

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are connected and you're on the same page, you

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want the same things, and you're listening. people

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don't listen to their mental dialogue. And I

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think a lot of times just because they're afraid

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of the idea that, oh, that's just a voice in

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my head. That's a negative thing. And if the

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voice isn't saying anything negative, it's not

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a negative thing. Sometimes the voice can just

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be crying out for help. It's telling you things

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that it wants you to do, habits it wants you

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to break, or goals it wants you to work towards.

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But if you don't listen to it, You're never gonna

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accomplish that and if your mind is trying to

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tell you something You have to listen to what

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your mind is trying to tell you just like your

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body tells you when you're sick Your mind can

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also tell you you know when you're sick or depressed

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or upset or you're in a bind or in a dilemma

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Your mind will try to communicate with you the

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same way. Well, I'll make will tell you that

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you're you're not feeling Well, but a lot of

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people are not listening to that. Do you know

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the most? People when they get heart attacks

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or they had heart issues That's because they're

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not connected with their heart or they just don't

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want to feel what the heart wants to say. And

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that's so sad because the most heart attacks

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also by women is when they said, okay, I have

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this emotion, but I don't want to talk about

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it and I don't want to feel it. And then people

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get heart attacks. The heart chakra is so overloaded

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and so full of emotion and it will be exploded

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if you're not Listen to your heart. Well, how

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does the heart communicate with you? Now I'm

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curious, like, is it a feeling? Is it an inner

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dialogue? Because, you know, I know that heart

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attacks are very physical. They say that you

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feel things in your shoulders, you can feel things

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in your back. So what is the heart's way of communicating

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with you? I think a good option to get in the

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connection with your heart is when you're getting

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on a healing session, like with me, because I'm

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doing heart opener healing sessions or heart

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healing sessions and people learn to listen to

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their hearts or to feel their heart. Most people

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don't feel their hearts. They're just running

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or they go to gym and they have a little bit

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heart beating, but they're not really feel what's

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going on in their heart. Yeah, and that's the

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first step heart meditations or You can put your

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right hand on the heart and go inside and say

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hey What do you want to say what you feel like

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you can do that every time when you go to bed?

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That's the beginning for Yeah, the journey back

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to you and to your heart That is so interesting

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and I think a lot of people don't realize how

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many steps it takes to prepare yourself be in

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a relationship because a lot of people just think,

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oh, I'm I'm single and I'm lonely. And if I was

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in a relationship. Yeah, right. I know people

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and maybe they lovely and maybe they cool, but

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they have no connection to themselves. But they

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want just someone who loves them, who hugs them.

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But I can feel these people are not have a connection

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to themselves. So if if people are not connected

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with themselves, they never could have a connection

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with you. Maybe they can be cute to you, maybe

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they can be lovely to you or they can be respectful

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to you, but they can never really love you because

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they have no connection and you cannot go to

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their heart when the heart is closed. So a lot

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of people are looking to fall in love when their

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heart is closed off and they're actually blocking

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their opportunity to find someone because they

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don't know that they're closed off. from from

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finding someone. That's kind of interesting.

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But that led me to hanging on to stress. Yeah,

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I think a lot of people, we focus on stress,

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we focus on work, we focus on everything that

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will cause your body to be in distress. We never

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focus on like you were talking about meditation

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and yoga, we never focus on things that will

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de stress our bodies, we usually are focused

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on worrying, and problems and issues and finance.

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Right. putting a strain on people don't realize

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the strain that stress puts on your body because

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you know a stress can actually cause a stroke

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it can cause a heart attack it's and it's it's

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something that happens in your mind you're creating

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scenarios and situations in your mind and it's

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actually in the organs of your body it's affecting

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the way that your body functions and looking

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for love is such a complex situation because

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love can there's no real textbook definition

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of love. We don't really know what it is. We

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just know it feels a certain way. So when you're

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looking for it, it's really interesting that

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people are not prepared to do that. Like, for

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instance, say you're going on a road trip, it's

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going to take you two days to drive there, you're

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going to go through a preparation process for

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your car, you're going to check the tires, you're

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going to change your oil, you're going to get

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gas, you're going to you're going to take all

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of this preparation. and ready for that journey.

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But when we're trying to fall in love, we just

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kind of show up at the date. We don't do any

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back work or pre -work. And that's what's interesting.

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You got to work on yourself and make sure you're

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physically and mentally and emotionally prepared

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to be going on this journey. Because love is

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a journey. I always say it's like a road trip.

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You're going to be driving across country. You're

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going to go through ups, downs, hills, rain,

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sleet, earthquakes. You're going to experience

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so many different things. And we're not prepared.

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We're not mentally prepared, spiritually prepared,

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emotionally prepared. We just kind of show up.

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We find a person that we think we like and we

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show up to the date and we hope that it goes

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well. We don't prepare our mind. We don't prepare

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our heart. We don't prepare our soul. We just

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show up and hope that things go well. And I think

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that that's the main issue of why people have

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been finding love and then losing love quickly

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or are thinking they find love and then find

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out it's not love because you were never ready.

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to receive love you were looking you weren't

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ready to receive yeah you're absolutely absolutely

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right and i i think the most people who saying

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oh my god i want so madly a relationship oh my

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god i need a man or i need a woman these are

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all the same people who wants that others loves

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them but they cannot love themselves and the

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feeling what they want to have from another person

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is the feeling what they miss in themselves oh

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okay so This is interesting. So the want and

00:25:29.789 --> 00:25:32.950
need to being loved is actually a projection

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of what you want from yourself. Yeah, of course.

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Everything what you want from another person

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is something what you miss in yourself or what

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you search for. So when you feel lonely and sad

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and wanting to be loved, it's because you're

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not spending enough time loving yourself. Absolutely.

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That's correct. Interesting, because we think

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that happiness is what we're missing and love

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is what we're missing but when it actually it's

00:26:00.640 --> 00:26:04.559
us our lack of love or lack of emotion towards

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ourselves because you know we can be pretty cold

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towards ourselves right you know what they say

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we're our worst critic we're hardest on ourselves

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other people aren't as hard as we are on ourselves

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and i think that's where that lack of love comes

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from i think that a lot of people are too hard

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on themselves they don't give themselves enough

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credit They don't give themselves enough grace.

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They blame themselves for things that go wrong.

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And at the end of the day, we need to be our

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biggest supporter. Don't be hard on yourself

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and understand that you're not perfect. Understand

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that you make mistakes and understand that you

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can hold yourself accountable without beating

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yourself up. And I think a lot of people have

00:26:46.279 --> 00:26:49.240
too much time beating themselves up. And I think

00:26:49.240 --> 00:26:51.460
the healthiest way to getting in a relationship

00:26:51.460 --> 00:26:54.599
is when you work on yourself, when you know yourself

00:26:54.599 --> 00:26:56.900
first. Because if you're a person who said, oh

00:26:56.900 --> 00:26:58.900
my god, I want that this person will love me.

00:26:58.920 --> 00:27:01.880
I want that you give me more attention. I want

00:27:01.880 --> 00:27:05.140
that you call me the whole time. Why you don't

00:27:05.140 --> 00:27:06.940
message me? It's just because the person is so

00:27:06.940 --> 00:27:10.160
unsure with herself because she thinks maybe

00:27:10.160 --> 00:27:11.880
there's someone outside who's better than me.

00:27:12.140 --> 00:27:14.940
That's just because the person is not sure about

00:27:14.940 --> 00:27:17.670
their own self -worth. The connection is not

00:27:17.670 --> 00:27:22.930
there. Wow. So insecurity in a relationship is

00:27:22.930 --> 00:27:25.250
a projection. Because you know what's crazy?

00:27:25.650 --> 00:27:29.490
I learned something recently about myself. I'm

00:27:29.490 --> 00:27:32.630
a needy person in a relationship. I was that

00:27:32.630 --> 00:27:36.829
too. I'm very needy and I'm beginning to realize

00:27:36.829 --> 00:27:39.920
that it's not something that Because I used to

00:27:39.920 --> 00:27:42.039
think, oh, I'm needy because I really like this

00:27:42.039 --> 00:27:45.200
person that I'm with. That's not why I'm needy

00:27:45.200 --> 00:27:48.039
because I don't have the self acceptance that

00:27:48.039 --> 00:27:52.319
I need. Yeah, of course. And I think I'm seeing

00:27:52.319 --> 00:27:54.359
it much more now because I'm with a person that's

00:27:54.359 --> 00:27:57.279
very loving that treats me really well. And I'm

00:27:57.279 --> 00:27:59.480
very needy. And I'm like, oh, you got to call

00:27:59.480 --> 00:28:01.779
me every five minutes. And you got to you got

00:28:01.779 --> 00:28:04.079
to reassure me every five minutes. And I've never

00:28:04.079 --> 00:28:07.920
been that way. But it's because I was not aware.

00:28:08.240 --> 00:28:12.380
that I deserved to be happy. I deserved that.

00:28:13.000 --> 00:28:15.980
That's a good point, yeah. And I thought what

00:28:15.980 --> 00:28:18.819
I got was what I deserved. And I think you have

00:28:18.819 --> 00:28:21.559
to understand that no matter what has happened

00:28:21.559 --> 00:28:23.160
to you in your life or what mistakes you've made

00:28:23.160 --> 00:28:26.880
or bad decisions you made, you deserve to be

00:28:26.880 --> 00:28:28.680
happy, you're capable of being happy, and you

00:28:28.680 --> 00:28:32.140
have to let yourself be happy. I'm a self -sabotager.

00:28:32.480 --> 00:28:34.960
I'll be happy and everything will be going great

00:28:34.960 --> 00:28:37.619
and I'll do something to mess it up because I'm

00:28:37.619 --> 00:28:42.019
so used to things not being perfect. Or you think

00:28:42.019 --> 00:28:44.579
you're not worth it to having a perfect life.

00:28:45.319 --> 00:28:47.339
Well, right. If things are going really well

00:28:47.339 --> 00:28:49.819
and you feel like you're being loved and treated

00:28:49.819 --> 00:28:52.660
well and it almost seems like you have imposter

00:28:52.660 --> 00:28:55.519
syndrome, like this is not your life because

00:28:55.519 --> 00:29:00.079
you don't deserve a perfect life. that everybody

00:29:00.079 --> 00:29:02.079
deserves to have the life that they dream of.

00:29:02.140 --> 00:29:04.920
And you may have gone through a bad relationship

00:29:04.920 --> 00:29:08.519
or multiple bad relationships in the past. And

00:29:08.519 --> 00:29:11.640
it doesn't mean that it has made you any less

00:29:11.640 --> 00:29:17.420
desirable or capable or, or deserving of the

00:29:17.420 --> 00:29:19.299
person you have. Because sometimes I'll go through

00:29:19.299 --> 00:29:21.640
the thing where I don't deserve someone this

00:29:21.640 --> 00:29:24.440
good. Right? I'll go through that. I'm like,

00:29:25.319 --> 00:29:26.579
I'm someone that's good. You know how people

00:29:26.579 --> 00:29:28.809
will ask, What would I do to deserve someone

00:29:28.809 --> 00:29:31.470
this bad? I go in the opposite direction and

00:29:31.470 --> 00:29:33.450
I'm like, they're way too good for me. What did

00:29:33.450 --> 00:29:37.470
I do for them? That's because sometimes or not

00:29:37.470 --> 00:29:40.710
sometimes, I think 99 % people have childhood

00:29:40.710 --> 00:29:43.569
traumas. They learn from a mother or they learn

00:29:43.569 --> 00:29:46.150
from a father. You have to earn the love I will

00:29:46.150 --> 00:29:49.710
give you. You have to earn something what I want

00:29:49.710 --> 00:29:52.549
to give you or you don't get this car. You have

00:29:52.549 --> 00:29:56.890
to earn it. And so people learn to earn. for

00:29:56.890 --> 00:30:00.430
that what they want to love to I don't know that

00:30:00.430 --> 00:30:04.029
people take care or give attention to them and

00:30:04.029 --> 00:30:07.890
a lot of people think okay I'm not worth it because

00:30:07.890 --> 00:30:10.670
I learned when I was a child I have to earn it

00:30:10.670 --> 00:30:15.250
before I get it see this is interesting because

00:30:15.250 --> 00:30:18.769
when I was a child love was always conditional

00:30:18.769 --> 00:30:21.849
uh -huh my parents loved me as long as I made

00:30:21.849 --> 00:30:25.759
good grades as long as Do as long as I didn't

00:30:25.759 --> 00:30:27.779
get in trouble if I went to church. It was always

00:30:27.779 --> 00:30:31.299
conditional like we don't Love you if you do

00:30:31.299 --> 00:30:34.799
this list of things and I think we're we're trained

00:30:34.799 --> 00:30:37.500
to believe as Especially when you experience

00:30:37.500 --> 00:30:39.660
that as a child that love is always conditional

00:30:39.660 --> 00:30:43.220
if someone loves you it means They could stop

00:30:43.220 --> 00:30:46.390
loving you if you don't do something. Yeah Is

00:30:46.390 --> 00:30:49.930
it not perfect anymore? Right. And I think as

00:30:49.930 --> 00:30:51.809
adults, we have to understand that love is never

00:30:51.809 --> 00:30:54.630
supposed to be a conditional thing. If someone

00:30:54.630 --> 00:30:57.589
loves you genuinely with all their heart, regardless

00:30:57.589 --> 00:30:59.849
of what you do, or if we wake up one day and

00:30:59.849 --> 00:31:03.809
make a mistake, they're not loving you because

00:31:03.809 --> 00:31:06.869
of that. Because I learned the statement where

00:31:06.869 --> 00:31:09.109
I can not like what you did, but I can still

00:31:09.109 --> 00:31:12.069
love you. And I learned that. as an adult, I

00:31:12.069 --> 00:31:14.470
can dislike something that someone did, their

00:31:14.470 --> 00:31:17.049
actions, a decision that they made, how they

00:31:17.049 --> 00:31:19.990
treated me, what they did to me. I can dislike

00:31:19.990 --> 00:31:22.069
it with all my heart, but I can still love them

00:31:22.069 --> 00:31:23.650
with all my heart. And I think a lot of people

00:31:23.650 --> 00:31:26.970
realize that you can do both. It's like an oxymoron

00:31:26.970 --> 00:31:30.230
because you can hate what someone did, but love

00:31:30.230 --> 00:31:33.109
that person. And I think that you have to understand

00:31:33.109 --> 00:31:36.250
maturity and adulthood to know. that that's possible

00:31:36.250 --> 00:31:38.450
because as an adult I learned that I was like

00:31:38.450 --> 00:31:42.250
I hate the way some people behave but I still

00:31:42.250 --> 00:31:44.089
love them as a person and I'm not going to cut

00:31:44.089 --> 00:31:46.289
them out of my life I just don't like the way

00:31:46.289 --> 00:31:50.789
that they yeah and I think that nervous system

00:31:50.789 --> 00:31:53.109
and you're in a child safe everything up every

00:31:53.109 --> 00:31:57.650
memory the way people treats you so Yeah, and

00:31:57.650 --> 00:32:00.269
sometimes people think, oh my god, I have to

00:32:00.269 --> 00:32:02.869
do a lot. I have to give gifts all the time.

00:32:02.869 --> 00:32:06.230
I have to give my car, all my money that this

00:32:06.230 --> 00:32:10.049
person gets me some love. But you don't get love

00:32:10.049 --> 00:32:13.069
just you give all that stuff. That means you're

00:32:13.069 --> 00:32:16.630
in a needy energy. So that's really unhealthy.

00:32:16.769 --> 00:32:19.130
Work on yourself and say, hey, no matter how

00:32:19.130 --> 00:32:22.170
my parents treat me as a child, I treat myself

00:32:22.170 --> 00:32:26.140
right. And I'm a lovely, perfect person. I'm

00:32:26.140 --> 00:32:29.240
really trying to work on it. I am so needy and

00:32:29.240 --> 00:32:31.839
I'm a clingy person. And I didn't know that I

00:32:31.839 --> 00:32:33.519
was like that. But when you find someone that

00:32:33.519 --> 00:32:36.259
you really love, it's always in the back of my

00:32:36.259 --> 00:32:38.240
mind that they're going to leave me. Because

00:32:38.240 --> 00:32:41.079
when you have that abandonment, those abandonment

00:32:41.079 --> 00:32:44.059
issues, you just know, oh, well, I like this

00:32:44.059 --> 00:32:45.599
person a lot. So there's going to be a point

00:32:45.599 --> 00:32:47.980
in time where they leave. because that's how

00:32:47.980 --> 00:32:50.279
things were when you, you know, that trauma when

00:32:50.279 --> 00:32:52.619
you were younger or a past relationship. Wherever

00:32:52.619 --> 00:32:55.420
you got your abandonment issues from, because

00:32:55.420 --> 00:32:58.180
I have those, it always is in the back of your

00:32:58.180 --> 00:33:00.359
mind. You're like, as long as things are going

00:33:00.359 --> 00:33:02.259
right, there's a voice in the back of your head

00:33:02.259 --> 00:33:04.880
saying, they're going to leave you at some point

00:33:04.880 --> 00:33:07.480
and you have to leave. And it is not true. And

00:33:07.480 --> 00:33:11.740
it's what I call that self -sabotage, where you're

00:33:11.740 --> 00:33:15.019
living in your head and not in the moment. not

00:33:15.019 --> 00:33:16.900
in your relationship, you're in your head. Your

00:33:16.900 --> 00:33:19.700
relationship is being controlled by a voice in

00:33:19.700 --> 00:33:21.059
the back of your head telling you that something

00:33:21.059 --> 00:33:24.299
is going to go wrong. In an actuality, it may

00:33:24.299 --> 00:33:27.680
not go wrong, but you may self -sabotage it to

00:33:27.680 --> 00:33:29.980
the extent that it does go wrong because you're

00:33:29.980 --> 00:33:32.259
living in your head and not in the moment. And

00:33:32.259 --> 00:33:35.319
I'm really, really working on that. And I know

00:33:35.319 --> 00:33:38.759
that getting to know yourself spiritually is

00:33:38.759 --> 00:33:41.160
definitely a way to get to the bottom of those

00:33:41.160 --> 00:33:46.230
deeply rooted issues. that live in here, you

00:33:46.230 --> 00:33:48.150
have to get to know yourself. Like I said, listen

00:33:48.150 --> 00:33:50.490
to your voice in your head. Listen to that inner

00:33:50.490 --> 00:33:53.930
dialogue. It's trying to help you. 90 % of the

00:33:53.930 --> 00:33:55.930
time when you hear that inner dialogue, it's

00:33:55.930 --> 00:33:57.789
crying out for help. You're doing something that

00:33:57.789 --> 00:33:59.890
it doesn't agree with. That's usually why it's

00:33:59.890 --> 00:34:03.650
talking to you. But a lot of people wanna, they

00:34:03.650 --> 00:34:05.549
wanna drown it out. because they're like, oh,

00:34:05.589 --> 00:34:07.069
well, you're not supposed to have voices in your

00:34:07.069 --> 00:34:08.969
head. You're absolutely supposed to have an inner

00:34:08.969 --> 00:34:12.530
dialogue. Your mind is the central nervous system

00:34:12.530 --> 00:34:14.449
control of your body. And it's going to talk

00:34:14.449 --> 00:34:17.170
to you in many, many different ways. And we just

00:34:17.170 --> 00:34:19.389
have to learn to be receptive and to listen,

00:34:20.010 --> 00:34:22.329
because the worst thing you can do is ignore

00:34:22.329 --> 00:34:24.929
your body. And that's mentally emotionally. If

00:34:24.929 --> 00:34:29.119
you ignore what you're you will. You leave this

00:34:29.119 --> 00:34:31.460
world at some point your body is gonna tell you

00:34:31.460 --> 00:34:33.320
what you need to live what you need to be happy

00:34:33.320 --> 00:34:35.360
What you need to be sad it's gonna give you all

00:34:35.360 --> 00:34:38.519
of the tools to find happiness, but if you're

00:34:38.519 --> 00:34:41.219
not listening It doesn't matter. It's like having

00:34:41.219 --> 00:34:43.820
the answer key to a test So you have all the

00:34:43.820 --> 00:34:45.599
answers, but you don't use it and you still fail

00:34:45.599 --> 00:34:48.159
the test, right? It's useless if you don't use

00:34:48.159 --> 00:34:51.199
it And that's why I'm saying before you go in

00:34:51.199 --> 00:34:53.460
on a relationship and you have all these issues

00:34:53.460 --> 00:34:56.780
or you saying Oh my god, I'm so needy just work

00:34:56.780 --> 00:35:00.119
first on yourself. Because it could happen everything,

00:35:00.380 --> 00:35:04.199
like the person go on a walk and never come back,

00:35:05.099 --> 00:35:09.059
or going to die, I don't know. So you could never

00:35:09.059 --> 00:35:12.940
have this feeling in myself like, oh my god,

00:35:13.059 --> 00:35:15.699
I cannot be alone, because I was so safe and

00:35:15.699 --> 00:35:19.039
now I'm not. So you should have the feeling no

00:35:19.039 --> 00:35:21.860
matter what happened, I still have myself. And

00:35:21.860 --> 00:35:24.139
I think that's the healthiest way to have a relationship

00:35:24.139 --> 00:35:27.420
with you and not to say, okay, now I'm in a relationship

00:35:27.420 --> 00:35:30.480
and everything is fine. I feel safe. But imagine

00:35:30.480 --> 00:35:33.480
what could happen with you when this person will

00:35:33.480 --> 00:35:38.179
leave you. You feel unsafe again, right? That's

00:35:38.179 --> 00:35:41.280
interesting because at the end of the day, we

00:35:41.280 --> 00:35:47.139
are our own prize. Gift because we'll never leave

00:35:47.139 --> 00:35:48.880
ourselves. We'll never give up on ourselves but

00:35:48.880 --> 00:35:51.900
I think we put all of our Eggs in the basket

00:35:51.900 --> 00:35:53.960
of I'm gonna be with this one person and this

00:35:53.960 --> 00:35:55.579
one person that's gonna make me happy and they're

00:35:55.579 --> 00:35:57.820
gonna make me feel fulfilled and they're gonna

00:35:57.820 --> 00:35:59.880
be everything that I need but like you said that's

00:35:59.880 --> 00:36:02.360
unhealthy because The odds of you staying with

00:36:02.360 --> 00:36:04.500
that person for the rest of your life. Unfortunately

00:36:04.500 --> 00:36:08.880
are slim So if your this is based only on whether

00:36:08.880 --> 00:36:10.880
or not this person stays with you for the rest

00:36:10.880 --> 00:36:13.639
of your life You're gambling with your happiness

00:36:13.900 --> 00:36:17.079
So what you what you said was so true, you have

00:36:17.079 --> 00:36:18.980
to know that at the end of the day, the person

00:36:18.980 --> 00:36:22.199
that loves you the most is you. Yeah. No one

00:36:22.199 --> 00:36:24.820
is ever going to love you more than you. And

00:36:24.820 --> 00:36:28.179
if you're if loving yourself is enough and you

00:36:28.179 --> 00:36:31.099
can be happy just being yourself and being happy

00:36:31.099 --> 00:36:33.739
with yourself, finding love is just an added

00:36:33.739 --> 00:36:37.079
bonus. It's not. I think a lot of people think

00:36:37.079 --> 00:36:39.119
since in the Bible, there was Adam and Eve and

00:36:39.119 --> 00:36:40.860
it was a man and a woman. There need to be two

00:36:40.860 --> 00:36:43.820
people. Yeah. be happy. And I don't think that

00:36:43.820 --> 00:36:45.699
that's true. I think that there are people who

00:36:45.699 --> 00:36:49.019
lived a perfectly happy life and remain single.

00:36:49.460 --> 00:36:52.760
They didn't need another person to control whether

00:36:52.760 --> 00:36:54.480
or not they could be happy or whether or not

00:36:54.480 --> 00:36:56.579
they had permission to be happy. And I think

00:36:56.579 --> 00:37:01.059
we're positioned to believe, especially women,

00:37:01.360 --> 00:37:03.199
for some reason, people are saying if a woman

00:37:03.199 --> 00:37:05.460
is in her 30s or mid 30s and she's not married,

00:37:05.519 --> 00:37:07.579
people will actually start asking, why aren't

00:37:07.579 --> 00:37:09.219
you married? Don't you want to be happy? Don't

00:37:09.219 --> 00:37:11.099
you want a family? And I think that that's very

00:37:11.099 --> 00:37:14.219
damaging. to a woman to say things like that.

00:37:14.539 --> 00:37:17.920
To make it like she's not official or fulfilled

00:37:17.920 --> 00:37:20.360
until there's a man standing next to her. I think

00:37:20.360 --> 00:37:22.039
that's a really negative thing. Because like

00:37:22.039 --> 00:37:24.559
you said, your real happiness comes from within.

00:37:25.139 --> 00:37:27.300
And if you can be and learn to love yourself,

00:37:27.360 --> 00:37:29.460
you don't really need another person. You might

00:37:29.460 --> 00:37:32.980
want someone, but needing and wanting are two

00:37:32.980 --> 00:37:36.400
different things. Right. And you have to realize

00:37:36.400 --> 00:37:39.000
you came into this world by your own and you

00:37:39.000 --> 00:37:43.030
will go by your own. So you will leave this world

00:37:43.030 --> 00:37:46.889
by your own. Yeah. And not with another person.

00:37:47.090 --> 00:37:50.530
Maybe you meet someone in heaven, but you will

00:37:50.530 --> 00:37:54.710
go this way alone first. Yeah. Yeah. I always

00:37:54.710 --> 00:37:56.969
say that. And then I also add, I say you enter

00:37:56.969 --> 00:37:58.250
the world alone, you leave the world alone. And

00:37:58.250 --> 00:38:00.909
I say you go to judgment day alone. So when you

00:38:00.909 --> 00:38:03.070
get to the judgment day, you don't, because I

00:38:03.070 --> 00:38:04.230
just said this the other day, I was like, you

00:38:04.230 --> 00:38:07.449
don't get to bring a team of people to be your

00:38:07.449 --> 00:38:09.050
character witnesses when you get to Judgment

00:38:09.050 --> 00:38:11.889
Day. When you face God and he asks you these

00:38:11.889 --> 00:38:14.349
questions and whether or not you get into heaven

00:38:14.349 --> 00:38:16.090
or not is based on your answers, you don't get

00:38:16.090 --> 00:38:20.150
to call witnesses to the stand to talk in your

00:38:20.150 --> 00:38:23.150
behalf. It's only you. So it's all up to you.

00:38:23.150 --> 00:38:25.809
And I think that's the same on this earth, whether

00:38:25.809 --> 00:38:27.750
you want to be happy, whether you want to be

00:38:27.750 --> 00:38:29.789
sad, what your goals are, it's all up to you.

00:38:29.789 --> 00:38:31.750
Because I think a lot of times we focus a lot

00:38:31.750 --> 00:38:34.550
on blaming other people. We'll say, oh, well,

00:38:34.639 --> 00:38:36.659
I could have done this if this person wouldn't

00:38:36.659 --> 00:38:38.559
have left me, or I could have done this if this

00:38:38.559 --> 00:38:40.320
person would have believed in me, or I could

00:38:40.320 --> 00:38:42.099
have done this if this person would have given

00:38:42.099 --> 00:38:45.340
me more support. We got to stop doing that. We

00:38:45.340 --> 00:38:47.760
are in control of our own destiny. And if you

00:38:47.760 --> 00:38:50.619
had a spouse that was unsupportive of your goals,

00:38:51.400 --> 00:38:53.440
it doesn't necessarily mean that spouse is the

00:38:53.440 --> 00:38:56.320
reason why you never achieved that goal. It just

00:38:56.320 --> 00:38:59.179
means that you allowed that person to be the

00:38:59.179 --> 00:39:02.579
reason. become the reason you allow them to become

00:39:02.579 --> 00:39:04.380
the reason we're the only ones in control of

00:39:04.380 --> 00:39:06.360
our destiny. And if we want to do something,

00:39:07.199 --> 00:39:09.219
we can do it. If you're in a relationship and

00:39:09.219 --> 00:39:10.920
your husband doesn't want you to go back to college,

00:39:11.039 --> 00:39:12.619
then you might not need to be in that relationship.

00:39:12.880 --> 00:39:15.920
If your goal is to get your education, then that's

00:39:15.920 --> 00:39:20.500
where your happiness lies. Compromise between

00:39:20.500 --> 00:39:22.639
love and happiness. I think a lot of people do

00:39:22.639 --> 00:39:25.099
that a lot like some people want children Some

00:39:25.099 --> 00:39:27.460
people don't and they compromise between happiness

00:39:27.460 --> 00:39:30.980
and love those two things need to be intertwined

00:39:30.980 --> 00:39:37.320
Or it's not gonna work Right. Yeah Well, this

00:39:37.320 --> 00:39:39.900
was fun this was fun So I definitely wanted to

00:39:39.900 --> 00:39:42.000
talk more about the energy exchange that we have

00:39:42.000 --> 00:39:43.800
been discussing we actually been discussing this

00:39:43.800 --> 00:39:48.360
for a long time and I was really taken back by

00:39:48.360 --> 00:39:52.260
it when you were saying how the energy that you

00:39:52.260 --> 00:39:55.460
take on in new relationships can stay with you

00:39:55.460 --> 00:39:59.920
forever. And it can impact your happiness, your

00:39:59.920 --> 00:40:02.780
goals, your accomplishments, the way your mind

00:40:02.780 --> 00:40:05.820
works. This was really intriguing to me because

00:40:05.820 --> 00:40:09.059
when people are entering the dating world, there's

00:40:09.059 --> 00:40:11.440
already a lot of risks. There's a lot of responsibilities.

00:40:11.679 --> 00:40:14.969
There's a lot of things that they are focusing

00:40:14.969 --> 00:40:17.369
on and I think the main thing that they ignore

00:40:17.369 --> 00:40:20.949
are the energy transfers because you know you

00:40:20.949 --> 00:40:24.030
think oh we have a good intimate connection and

00:40:24.030 --> 00:40:27.250
you may but you don't know what that person is

00:40:27.250 --> 00:40:29.190
transferring to you it's kind of like when you

00:40:29.190 --> 00:40:31.590
go to a party remember well I don't know if they

00:40:31.590 --> 00:40:33.550
did this in Germany but in America when we were

00:40:33.550 --> 00:40:37.670
younger there wasn't a cure for the flu or stocks

00:40:37.670 --> 00:40:41.409
so our parents would find out when one kid had

00:40:41.480 --> 00:40:43.519
the flu or the chicken pox and they would have

00:40:43.519 --> 00:40:46.320
a sleepover and they would send all of the kids

00:40:46.320 --> 00:40:48.820
there because once you get it once your immune

00:40:48.820 --> 00:40:51.480
system especially for chicken pox will build

00:40:51.480 --> 00:40:53.860
up to where you wouldn't get it again but until

00:40:53.860 --> 00:40:55.800
you get it and you need to get it at a young

00:40:55.800 --> 00:40:58.280
age to build up your immunity so our parents

00:40:58.280 --> 00:41:00.460
would find out which kid had chicken pox or whatever

00:41:00.460 --> 00:41:02.119
and then they would have a big sleepover so we

00:41:02.119 --> 00:41:04.730
would all get it. I don't know if they did that

00:41:04.730 --> 00:41:06.730
there, but that was kind of - No, I never did

00:41:06.730 --> 00:41:08.769
that before. Yeah, that's something that they

00:41:08.769 --> 00:41:10.409
do here in the US. I don't know if they still

00:41:10.409 --> 00:41:12.309
do it, but this was like when I was growing up.

00:41:12.590 --> 00:41:14.610
And then my mom told me later in life, she was

00:41:14.610 --> 00:41:16.570
like, yeah, the reason why, because I was like,

00:41:16.710 --> 00:41:18.050
remember that time I went there and I got sick?

00:41:18.110 --> 00:41:19.670
She's like, yeah, we knew you were going to get

00:41:19.670 --> 00:41:21.650
the chicken pox. The whole point was for you

00:41:21.650 --> 00:41:24.050
to get it at a young age so you would build an

00:41:24.050 --> 00:41:27.309
immunity for it. And I think that that's kind

00:41:27.309 --> 00:41:30.159
of like - what we're talking about now. You got

00:41:30.159 --> 00:41:32.139
to get these things out in the open. You have

00:41:32.139 --> 00:41:34.440
to learn how to love yourself, connect with yourself

00:41:34.440 --> 00:41:38.619
spiritually. So the idea of people thinking the

00:41:38.619 --> 00:41:41.820
inner dialogue is making you sick, it's actually

00:41:41.820 --> 00:41:44.039
something that's going to make you healthy. And

00:41:44.039 --> 00:41:46.099
especially if you listen to it, you pay attention

00:41:46.099 --> 00:41:49.820
to it, you pay attention to your body and your

00:41:49.820 --> 00:41:54.539
energy. Oh, and you taught us tonight, when you

00:41:54.539 --> 00:41:56.659
go out with someone new and if you come home

00:41:56.659 --> 00:42:00.190
and you feel... overly tired, drained or exhausted

00:42:00.190 --> 00:42:03.789
or weak, that's a sign of that person stealing

00:42:03.789 --> 00:42:06.309
your energy. And the longer you stay with that

00:42:06.309 --> 00:42:08.269
person, the longer they will take your energy

00:42:08.269 --> 00:42:11.769
and they will bleed you dry. So yeah, I always

00:42:11.769 --> 00:42:14.369
say if you're having sex with someone or you

00:42:14.369 --> 00:42:16.309
stay for a long while with someone, it's like

00:42:16.309 --> 00:42:18.489
you're having a cold. The other person gets that

00:42:18.489 --> 00:42:20.630
cold too, right? And it's like the same with

00:42:20.630 --> 00:42:24.559
energies, everything. What you have inside you,

00:42:24.739 --> 00:42:27.039
you have always an energy core to everyone you

00:42:27.039 --> 00:42:28.659
meet. So you're going on a bus, you're going

00:42:28.659 --> 00:42:32.079
on a supermarket, and you talk with someone or

00:42:32.079 --> 00:42:34.760
you stand behind someone. You have an energy

00:42:34.760 --> 00:42:37.469
core because... everything is energy. And if

00:42:37.469 --> 00:42:39.449
you stay with someone, you get like the twin

00:42:39.449 --> 00:42:42.289
from that other person. Do you know, sometimes

00:42:42.289 --> 00:42:45.050
when someone gets in a relationship with someone

00:42:45.050 --> 00:42:48.130
and they don't like some stuff, but after a while

00:42:48.130 --> 00:42:50.789
they like that stuff because all the character,

00:42:50.889 --> 00:42:53.650
all that main character is going to the other

00:42:53.650 --> 00:42:56.550
person too. Like they become like the person

00:42:56.550 --> 00:43:00.849
they're staying with. Oh, I understand. So if

00:43:00.849 --> 00:43:03.110
you were with someone for a long time and you

00:43:03.110 --> 00:43:06.139
think that you dislike A certain activity or

00:43:06.139 --> 00:43:08.019
a certain type of movie or a certain type of

00:43:08.019 --> 00:43:10.300
food and then you break up with that person And

00:43:10.300 --> 00:43:12.960
you find yourself enjoying the things that you

00:43:12.960 --> 00:43:15.780
thought you did not like it Yeah, because you're

00:43:15.780 --> 00:43:17.780
getting the twin from the person you stay with

00:43:17.780 --> 00:43:22.539
because every every energy is mixed Wow, that's

00:43:22.539 --> 00:43:25.000
so crazy. It's a crazy. It's a crazy thought

00:43:25.000 --> 00:43:28.199
but it's it's important that people are aware

00:43:28.489 --> 00:43:31.010
the risks that they're taking, especially when

00:43:31.010 --> 00:43:33.030
they're dating and they're being intimate with

00:43:33.030 --> 00:43:35.949
new people. And I want to talk a little bit more.

00:43:36.530 --> 00:43:38.489
So Juliana has a website that you guys can go

00:43:38.489 --> 00:43:40.130
to where you can purchase these products, where

00:43:40.130 --> 00:43:43.710
you can cleanse yourself of bad energy and bad

00:43:43.710 --> 00:43:45.969
auras and spirits. I think it's important that

00:43:45.969 --> 00:43:48.429
people know what their products are, how they

00:43:48.429 --> 00:43:51.630
can get them. What's your website? Where can

00:43:51.630 --> 00:43:55.369
people go? You can go on my bio on Instagram

00:43:55.369 --> 00:43:57.889
and there's my website and they can see all my

00:43:57.889 --> 00:44:02.670
products, what all my gifts are and my whole

00:44:02.670 --> 00:44:06.409
life history, my spiritual life history. Thank

00:44:06.409 --> 00:44:09.559
you for joining. Yeah, everybody, thanks for

00:44:09.559 --> 00:44:11.400
joining. And also, if you're moving into a new

00:44:11.400 --> 00:44:13.840
house, I know there's this website people use

00:44:13.840 --> 00:44:17.400
called DiedInHouse .com. Juliana can help you

00:44:17.400 --> 00:44:18.900
cleansing your home too, because when you're

00:44:18.900 --> 00:44:21.039
moving into a new space, it's very important

00:44:21.039 --> 00:44:23.280
that you cleanse any negative energy or spirits

00:44:23.280 --> 00:44:24.960
or auras that were living there, because you

00:44:24.960 --> 00:44:27.920
never know what you get in a new space. You never

00:44:27.920 --> 00:44:29.579
know the type of people that were there before

00:44:29.579 --> 00:44:31.880
you. So if you don't have a story what's happened

00:44:31.880 --> 00:44:34.380
there or murder case, you don't know what's going

00:44:34.380 --> 00:44:36.679
on there and you take that all in your system.

00:44:37.380 --> 00:44:40.460
Right and then same with that sex sex energy

00:44:40.460 --> 00:44:43.199
connection. So when you're going in a new home

00:44:43.199 --> 00:44:47.219
and All the because there's now your energy.

00:44:47.219 --> 00:44:52.400
It's now your it's your home and So you take

00:44:52.400 --> 00:44:55.039
all that energy in your system from all the people

00:44:55.039 --> 00:44:59.699
what lives before you meet this home Or buy this

00:44:59.699 --> 00:45:03.059
home. I don't know Yeah, your your products can

00:45:03.059 --> 00:45:05.079
help with that right? You can help do a cleanse

00:45:05.079 --> 00:45:08.820
on the home Yeah, from energy cores, from memories,

00:45:09.119 --> 00:45:11.940
from old energies, when someone passing away

00:45:11.940 --> 00:45:15.199
and the soul is still stuck there, I can bring

00:45:15.199 --> 00:45:18.920
the soul to heaven. Right. Oh, we have so much

00:45:18.920 --> 00:45:21.639
questions, I think, I don't know, but I see now

00:45:21.639 --> 00:45:26.679
we have a lot of followers who asked something,

00:45:27.300 --> 00:45:30.639
right? Kind of when old couples start to look

00:45:30.639 --> 00:45:37.250
like, yeah, true. I thought about something when

00:45:37.250 --> 00:45:39.889
some people the longer people stay with each

00:45:39.889 --> 00:45:43.789
other sometimes people die like in the same time

00:45:43.789 --> 00:45:47.630
or just Weeks or months later because the energy

00:45:47.630 --> 00:45:51.150
is so connected with that the other part of that

00:45:51.150 --> 00:45:54.869
relationship the other person Have no life energy

00:45:54.869 --> 00:45:57.670
anymore to stay without this person anymore.

00:45:57.670 --> 00:46:02.030
That's so crazy That's actually a thing and um

00:46:02.030 --> 00:46:05.050
the US we call it when the person died of a broken

00:46:05.050 --> 00:46:09.369
heart. So when the husband or wife passes away

00:46:09.369 --> 00:46:12.409
first, the other person dies within a year or

00:46:12.409 --> 00:46:17.289
so. It's because of energy, because you have

00:46:17.289 --> 00:46:19.250
the energy from the other person in your system

00:46:19.250 --> 00:46:21.969
and the other person have the energy in his system

00:46:21.969 --> 00:46:26.670
or in their systems. So I think if you live with

00:46:26.670 --> 00:46:29.750
each other, with your energies with each other,

00:46:30.030 --> 00:46:33.199
so when one part is going or it's going to be

00:46:33.199 --> 00:46:37.059
to die, there's no energy to live anymore. So

00:46:37.059 --> 00:46:39.559
that's just a spiritual thing for me. But I saw

00:46:39.559 --> 00:46:41.460
it because my grandparents were so long in a

00:46:41.460 --> 00:46:43.760
relationship with each other. My grandpa passed

00:46:43.760 --> 00:46:48.820
away last May and my grandpa passed away this

00:46:48.820 --> 00:46:51.780
January. So just nine months. And I think and

00:46:51.780 --> 00:46:55.780
I felt when my grandma passed, it was like his

00:46:55.780 --> 00:46:59.960
whole energy is getting more and more away because

00:47:00.190 --> 00:47:04.630
He had not her energy anymore to live again That

00:47:04.630 --> 00:47:07.769
was so interesting for me to see and it's I don't

00:47:07.769 --> 00:47:10.750
like that because it's I feel like just because

00:47:10.750 --> 00:47:13.909
your spouse Leaves it doesn't mean you you should

00:47:13.909 --> 00:47:17.530
leave too But I know that when you're together

00:47:17.530 --> 00:47:19.530
with someone for so long, like you said you start

00:47:19.530 --> 00:47:22.550
sharing energy Yeah, right. This is what I mean.

00:47:22.690 --> 00:47:25.090
You're sharing energy with each other. Yeah,

00:47:25.150 --> 00:47:28.670
so it's sad to hear that someone when they lose

00:47:28.670 --> 00:47:31.090
that person that they don't have the energy level

00:47:31.090 --> 00:47:34.449
to stay here longer. Right. This is what I want

00:47:34.449 --> 00:47:38.010
to say. Right. I hate that. It's so sad because

00:47:38.010 --> 00:47:39.730
I mean, a lot of people might love it because

00:47:39.730 --> 00:47:41.329
they'll say, oh, well, they're going to both

00:47:41.329 --> 00:47:44.309
be together, you know, so they weren't separated

00:47:44.309 --> 00:47:47.510
for long. But at the end of the day, you know,

00:47:47.750 --> 00:47:50.230
sometimes people pass away early in life and

00:47:50.230 --> 00:47:52.190
it's sad that their love of their life might

00:47:52.190 --> 00:47:54.780
not get a full life. you know, because they don't

00:47:54.780 --> 00:47:58.219
have the energy to stay without that person because

00:47:58.219 --> 00:48:00.199
we do feed off of each other. Like when you're

00:48:00.199 --> 00:48:04.260
in a relationship, the energy is transferred

00:48:04.260 --> 00:48:09.820
and it's used together. So the idea of like that

00:48:09.820 --> 00:48:11.500
person leaving the world and then you don't even

00:48:11.500 --> 00:48:15.099
have the energy to stay, it's kind of scary because,

00:48:15.219 --> 00:48:16.559
right? Because we don't know when we're going

00:48:16.559 --> 00:48:18.320
to pass away and we don't know if it's going

00:48:18.320 --> 00:48:20.780
to be five years apart, 10 years apart, a year

00:48:20.780 --> 00:48:24.070
apart. We don't know that. So the idea that that

00:48:24.070 --> 00:48:26.570
affects your life expectancy is kind of crazy.

00:48:27.050 --> 00:48:29.889
And you know what's crazy? When my parents passed

00:48:29.889 --> 00:48:32.630
away, I felt it in my whole body. Like, I knew

00:48:32.630 --> 00:48:36.150
the day last Tuesday, and I said to my mom, I

00:48:36.150 --> 00:48:39.130
feel like I'm dying. Like, I feel that all his

00:48:39.130 --> 00:48:41.650
energy cards, because I had a really strong connection

00:48:41.650 --> 00:48:44.610
to my grandfather, and I feel that all these

00:48:44.610 --> 00:48:48.030
energy cards are gone because his body is going

00:48:48.030 --> 00:48:51.050
to die. And I said to my mom, I feel he wants

00:48:51.050 --> 00:48:53.889
to die this day because I feel like I'm dying.

00:48:54.420 --> 00:48:57.400
Because all the energy what I have from my grandfather

00:48:57.400 --> 00:49:00.940
since like I was a child, all that energy is

00:49:00.940 --> 00:49:03.139
like gone. I was laying on my couch and I thought,

00:49:03.199 --> 00:49:05.199
my God, I have the feeling I'm dying. But I knew

00:49:05.199 --> 00:49:07.900
that my grandpa is going to die. And I was going

00:49:07.900 --> 00:49:11.019
to my mom and I said, I will sleep by my grandpa.

00:49:11.280 --> 00:49:13.980
And I took his hand because I knew in a few minutes

00:49:13.980 --> 00:49:17.699
he will die because I feel that I have less energy

00:49:17.699 --> 00:49:21.360
and I felt now he's going to be to die. And he's

00:49:21.360 --> 00:49:26.650
died like an hour later. So you could feel the

00:49:26.650 --> 00:49:29.690
lack of energy. Yeah, I feel it the same with

00:49:29.690 --> 00:49:32.409
my grandma I have such a bad heart beating and

00:49:32.409 --> 00:49:38.369
I feel someone Mmm took all my heart energy away

00:49:38.369 --> 00:49:42.969
like it was like someone Hit me. I cannot explain

00:49:42.969 --> 00:49:46.469
it. It was It was really confused for me, but

00:49:46.469 --> 00:49:49.250
I felt, okay, my grandma is going to die because

00:49:49.250 --> 00:49:51.530
I have this heartburn and I was thinking about

00:49:51.530 --> 00:49:53.989
her and I felt that this connection is going

00:49:53.989 --> 00:49:56.969
away from my body. I feel all the connection,

00:49:57.369 --> 00:50:00.269
all my chakras, where they was all the energy

00:50:00.269 --> 00:50:04.590
cords, what I got with my grandparents. Wow.

00:50:05.550 --> 00:50:09.530
So sorry for your loss. Yeah, but I know they

00:50:09.530 --> 00:50:12.429
with each other and they happy, I think. Yeah.

00:50:12.800 --> 00:50:16.199
Well, yeah, that's what I feel like is the silver

00:50:16.199 --> 00:50:19.019
lining when they won't have to be separated anymore

00:50:19.019 --> 00:50:21.940
and they get to reunite. I think that's the beautiful

00:50:21.940 --> 00:50:23.980
part of it, but it's still difficult. We're never

00:50:23.980 --> 00:50:26.719
gonna be able to accept death. Death is the only

00:50:26.719 --> 00:50:30.719
thing that I think as humans, it's the most unhuman

00:50:30.719 --> 00:50:34.010
aspect of our life. Like we can understand. illness,

00:50:34.309 --> 00:50:36.250
we can understand sickness, we can understand

00:50:36.250 --> 00:50:38.789
love, we can understand breakups. Death is like

00:50:38.789 --> 00:50:41.530
the only thing that we've never fully understood

00:50:41.530 --> 00:50:43.929
or grasped. Like we don't know how to cope with

00:50:43.929 --> 00:50:47.469
it. And no matter how many centuries it's been

00:50:47.469 --> 00:50:51.110
around, we still don't know how to handle death.

00:50:51.269 --> 00:50:53.269
It's just the one thing that we can't master.

00:50:53.809 --> 00:50:55.929
You know what was also interesting, I think for

00:50:55.929 --> 00:50:58.809
all the followers, it's so interesting. I was

00:50:58.809 --> 00:51:01.909
going to my mom when I felt that my grandpa is

00:51:01.909 --> 00:51:06.019
now it's the time that he was going to die. And

00:51:06.019 --> 00:51:08.519
I was going to his bed and took his hand and

00:51:08.519 --> 00:51:13.579
I felt that his soul was already out of his body.

00:51:13.659 --> 00:51:16.820
I felt that he was like behind me and I was running

00:51:16.820 --> 00:51:21.139
to my mom and said, hey, his body is behind me,

00:51:21.360 --> 00:51:24.659
but he's still breathing. and it took I think

00:51:24.659 --> 00:51:27.079
five minutes and then he passed but it was so

00:51:27.079 --> 00:51:30.300
a new spiritual experience for me to know sometimes

00:51:30.300 --> 00:51:32.559
the body is still working and still breathing

00:51:32.559 --> 00:51:34.960
and the heart is the heart beating is still there

00:51:34.960 --> 00:51:39.760
but the person is already gone that was really

00:51:39.760 --> 00:51:42.900
interesting to see my grandfather was staying

00:51:42.900 --> 00:51:46.960
there on his own bed but he was still breathing

00:51:46.960 --> 00:51:53.460
wow that is insane Well, I heard people say that

00:51:53.460 --> 00:51:57.199
when someone passes away, there's still a moment

00:51:57.199 --> 00:52:00.119
in time where their body is still functioning.

00:52:00.659 --> 00:52:02.739
I don't remember what they said, but they said

00:52:02.739 --> 00:52:07.380
like, when the body, the body or soul passes,

00:52:07.880 --> 00:52:10.420
there's like a moment in time where the body,

00:52:10.480 --> 00:52:12.820
they still still coherent, they still know what's

00:52:12.820 --> 00:52:16.340
going on, but the body is legally dead. And I

00:52:16.340 --> 00:52:18.639
think that it has to do with their spirit and

00:52:18.639 --> 00:52:21.730
their soul because the soul and the separate

00:52:21.730 --> 00:52:24.590
things. And I think that they can, the body can

00:52:24.590 --> 00:52:26.849
exist without the soul, the soul, right? I think

00:52:26.849 --> 00:52:29.570
the body can exist without the soul, but it's

00:52:29.570 --> 00:52:33.730
just, it's just a vessel. You can't, it doesn't

00:52:33.730 --> 00:52:35.530
go the other way around. So it's just, the whole

00:52:35.530 --> 00:52:38.030
thing is really interesting. It's really hard

00:52:38.030 --> 00:52:40.389
to understand if you're not spiritual, if you

00:52:40.389 --> 00:52:42.309
don't really understand the spiritual realm.

00:52:44.750 --> 00:52:47.269
Yeah. Well, I think we run out of time, right?

00:52:47.329 --> 00:52:50.659
I think, yeah, it's time for us to end. I think

00:52:50.659 --> 00:52:53.039
you have, I don't know if you guys know, it's

00:52:53.039 --> 00:52:56.900
very late in where Juliana is. So when we do

00:52:56.900 --> 00:52:58.639
these lives, it's a little early for me, but

00:52:58.639 --> 00:53:01.039
it's kind of late in her - That's okay, I just

00:53:01.039 --> 00:53:03.320
have five minutes. If you want just to talk about

00:53:03.320 --> 00:53:08.199
something, I'm still here. Oh no, I think we

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covered everything unless there's something we

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wanted to cover. I feel like this was a fun conversation.

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It was, it's very intriguing. I feel like I got

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a little complex. I hope we were able to explain

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everything to everyone in a way that they could

00:53:20.250 --> 00:53:22.489
understand because like I said it's a very complex

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subject a lot of times people are not fully open

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to the spiritual realm so sometimes they don't

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fully understand it so I try to explain it in

00:53:31.130 --> 00:53:33.110
the best way I know how I try to use metaphors

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I try to make sure that people understand that

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it's it's more simple than you believe it could

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be when you compare it to regular everyday things

00:53:41.469 --> 00:53:44.590
that we already accept right like because I call

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a relationship a journey I always say it's a

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road trip you know when you compare it to something

00:53:50.030 --> 00:53:52.130
that we've already understood and mastered, it's

00:53:52.130 --> 00:53:58.269
a lot easier for you to fathom. Yeah. Well, thank

00:53:58.269 --> 00:54:01.070
you so much for joining. This is Juliana Fisher.

00:54:01.329 --> 00:54:03.849
Make sure you go and check her bio, where all

00:54:03.849 --> 00:54:06.909
of her products are. You can book personal sessions

00:54:06.909 --> 00:54:09.969
with her, as well as purchase her products for

00:54:09.969 --> 00:54:13.730
cleansing. And this cleansing can be used for...

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Are you going to do a pause podcast to your...

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I'm sorry. Are you going to post this? Yes. Juliana

00:54:21.280 --> 00:54:23.940
is going to save this live and she's going to

00:54:23.940 --> 00:54:27.320
do a collaboration. So you can go back and rewatch

00:54:27.320 --> 00:54:29.960
this on either my Instagram or Juliana's Instagram.

00:54:30.179 --> 00:54:32.199
Thank you for that. And yeah, make sure you check

00:54:32.199 --> 00:54:34.099
out her products, the cleansing products, as

00:54:34.099 --> 00:54:35.579
well as products that you can use to clean your

00:54:35.579 --> 00:54:37.920
home, as well as clean energies as well. Thank

00:54:37.920 --> 00:54:40.360
you so much, Juliana. Thank you for having me,

00:54:40.360 --> 00:54:43.510
George. Of course, I love having you on. I have

00:54:43.510 --> 00:54:46.309
such an amazing response when I have you on.

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I'm George Massey. This is the George Massey

00:54:48.329 --> 00:54:50.530
Show. Thank you for Juliana Fisher, and you guys

00:54:50.530 --> 00:54:53.130
have a wonderful night and evening. And don't

00:54:53.130 --> 00:54:54.889
worry, we'll be doing these regularly. I know

00:54:54.889 --> 00:54:56.909
I keep saying that, and then things keep happening,

00:54:57.010 --> 00:54:59.250
but we are going to continue and do these regularly.

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Thank you guys. Good night. Thank you guys. Good

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night. Good night. Bye.