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What's up, everybody? I'm George Massey. This

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is the George Massey show, and I'm here with

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Gina. And I know we've been MIA. I just posted

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on my story. Somebody swiped up on my story and

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said that I hadn't recorded a podcast in almost

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a month. Gina, can you... I brought it up to

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you too. I'm like, we need to record something.

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We do, right? And guys, it's me. It's not Gina.

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It's not anybody else. It's me. I've been busy

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and... I'm not gonna lie, I've just not been

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like recording, like there's no actual excuse.

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And actually we have to record another of the

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medium session podcast this week and I haven't

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even talked to Juliana. She's been messaging

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me and I haven't gotten back to her. So that's

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coming as well, don't worry. And we're gonna

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be talking about, actually Gina, that missing

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boy that we were talking about last week, the

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Canadian one. We're going to be talking about

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that on the next episode. And she has some information

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that she wants to share. And we're going to be

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reaching out to the family. They have the decision

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of being involved or not being involved. But

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we do want to give them that option. But anyway,

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we're talking about season eight of 90 Day Fiancé

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before the 90 days. And it's all new couples.

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I want to get some reactions out of you, right?

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Because we met Forrest and Sheena. And hold on,

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I have a list. Rick and what's her name? Emma.

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Emma. And there's another one. Laura. Laura.

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Yeah, so do you have a favorite so far? Because

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I've become obsessed with someone, so I wanted

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to know where you stand on that. I don't have

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a favorite right now. They all seem like... screws

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are not all in place in their head right now,

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but I do like the fact that it's not new journeys

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and new people and just new. It's not recycled.

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You can say that there's no Jasmine, there's

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no Darcy, there's no Rob. You can say it. It's

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okay. I like new people. I like fresh blood.

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I like the idea of a new storyline, not a recycled

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or reused storyline. Like, you know when you

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go to the car lot and you're buying a new car

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and there's a shiny, beautiful new car and it

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catches your eye. And then they're like, oh,

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well, we also have like a five -year -old model

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that's cheaper. And you're like, it's not as

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shiny. That's kind of how I feel, right? Like

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I want a brand new, a new model, right? Like

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fresh off the press. So that's kind of what we

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got here. So. Um, I think it's starting. I do

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have a favorite. I do have a favorite and she's

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not even, she's like a supporting character.

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So wait, you have a favorite. Who's your favorite?

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Emma's sister, Izzy. Oh, her twin sister. Yeah.

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They're twins, by the way. And it's funny because

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in my opinion, they don't look alike, but they're

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both very pretty girls though. Like I'll give

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them that they're very pretty. And I do like

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her sister and the guy who was on the show on

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the scenes with them. Was that their brother

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or their brother? Yeah, that's the whole family

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thing. So I was I was kind of like enamored by

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that. I was like, oh, they got the whole family

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involved, which is kind of cute. They're like,

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the sister is encouraging. And my favorite part,

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actually, since you brought up Emma's sister

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was when Emma sold her sister for a free checked

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bag at the airport. I was like, you can't really

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be prostituting your sister out for a free checked

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bag. That is only like $38. Like that would make

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her the cheapest hooker in Vegas. Like if you're

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gonna pimp your sister out and give some random

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dude her phone number, it should be like for

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a full round trip ticket. Right, Gina? No, it

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should be for first class. Well, yeah, a full

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first class round trip. ticket because you know

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don't be whoring me out for $38 you know like

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come on I'm a little more than that but she had

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a total of like three to four luggages I mean

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yeah but that's to be expected when you're going

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overseas remember Darcy Darcy takes like 14 luggage

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bags with her when she goes I can't I can only

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I could I can only justify taking one how one

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bag isn't enough I can't even take one bag for

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the weekend. Like, I needed two or three bags.

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Like, when I was in ATL, I needed, like, three

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bags. And I still didn't have enough stuff. I

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had to go buy a shirt, like, because I still

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didn't have enough stuff. I couldn't fit it all

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in the bag. No, I just my luggage is pretty big

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and light. So when I go to check it in, most

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check -in agents think that it's going to be

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overweight due to the size of the luggage, because

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it's so big. And then they're like, oh, dang,

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we're wrong. So yeah, I'll keep my luggage. This

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time when I went, because I only went for five

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days in Denmark, I got a smaller check luggage,

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which was like 11 pounds, 12 pounds. It didn't

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even meet the limit. That's not an option for

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me. Smaller is not going to be an option. Like

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if any bigger luggage. So and sometimes I'll

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go on a trip and I'll have to come back with

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a small luggage I didn't leave with because I

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brought stuff back. So downsizing is not an option

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for me. So but yeah, I want to talk about Forrest

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because we started the show with Forrest and

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he's the guy that has the cameras all over his

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house. And he's also a virgin. and his mom took

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him to a sex shop. So there was a, it was a very

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complex beginning episode because it was like

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a roller coaster. Like we were going up and down,

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upside down. It was crazy, right? So we started

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out with him cooking with her watching him. Like,

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and they have the cameras that you can talk to

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each other, which I have those in my house too.

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Like it's cool. I have a cat. So when I'm not

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home and I see him like trying to destroy something,

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I'll be like, Hey, stop that. But I totally get

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that. I get that. But that's a pet cam and it's

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not all around. It's like he's living in a prison.

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I don't know if that's accurate. I mean, yes.

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Yes, prisons have cameras everywhere and they're

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watching you. But they're using it as like how

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to be together, I guess, without being together.

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But he also said something really odd. He was

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like, they use the cameras to be intimate. So

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what does that mean? Like I don't do I want to

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know maybe I don't want to but what is that?

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You want to know we don't I get kicked off the

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spot if we don't want to get kicked off Work

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because you're not there and but I guess people's

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virtual chat and they do Gina I'm gonna be a

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hundred percent like real with you. I'm not like

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into that Like I'm a real in real life guy like

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if it's not like in real life. It's not really

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happening for me It's like the people that can

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like FaceTime and Stuff like I don't know like

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that's not for me And I'm not saying that it

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doesn't work for other people because I don't

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know if it does or it doesn't some people say

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that it does But it I don't know like looking

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at your phone or looking at the screen that doesn't

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necessarily It's not real for me. But at the

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same time, Forrest and Sheena are both versions,

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so they don't really know what they're missing

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because they didn't. You can't know if something

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is good or bad if you've never had it, right?

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So they think that this is great because this

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is the only thing that they've done. Oh, and

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I forgot to mention Forrest has ADHD and he's,

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I think, mildly autistic. So that explains some

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of the behaviors. But the idea that the mom takes

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him to the sex shop, I don't know how to explain

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that behavior, because that's not something my

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mom ever did, right? Like, and I don't think

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moms should do that ever, right? Like - No! Adult

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son to the sex shop and then recommend what he

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should buy? Like, that's a little much for me.

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There's lines that I don't want crossed. That's

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definitely one of the lines I don't want crossed.

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Exactly. I was like, Oh my God, no, no, no, no,

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no, no, no, no, no, no, please. No, stop. Make

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it stop. Make it stop. I was just like, I wonder

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if he has any, like, because of the fact he was

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been doozled by someone in Indonesia. Now she

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not in the Philippines. I'm wondering if the

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only communication that he has outside of family

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members is the outside world, or the outside

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world, like the virtual world. Oh, so you like

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maybe he doesn't have like friends that he hangs

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out with regularly in person. Well, yeah. So

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there was some questions that I had, you know,

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me. So when I was watching the episode, we were

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going through the complexity of his storyline.

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And they're like, Oh, well, she had a bank account

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and she was saving money. um to build their lives

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together and then her parents empty the account

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twice so i had a question though because i was

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like they because forest's mom was pissed that

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the mom and dad of shena took the money or i

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was like but did he actually send any money to

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put into the account or was it all her money

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like because technically you know in those countries

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your money is your parents money because you

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are responsible for your parents like your parents

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raise you and then when you get old enough you

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take care of them that's care of them culture

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so i was like if that was sheena's money they

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were fully entitled to her money because that's

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her culture she so them taking her money is not

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because forest mom was like well i don't trust

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her because i think she's a scammer because her

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parents took the money and i was like well if

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it was her money how does that make her a scammer

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Because her parents are entitled to her money

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like in Indonesia, especially and in those countries,

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when your parents get older, you take care of

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them for the rest of their lives. You know, in

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America, if your parents get old, you'll send

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them to a nursing home. They don't. Yeah, I think

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it's a cultural thing. It depends on like the

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culture of the person. And I know for us, like

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for me personally, I would never consider putting

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my parents in a home. Right. So well, like I

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would unless unless it was like worst case situation

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where I can't take care of them anymore and they

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have like dementia then that's obviously something

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a little bit different and more complex right

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but for the time being like absolutely not if

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well I don't know my mom lived independently

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up until the day you know she left the world

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but if my dad needed to go to a nursing home

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I I don't care. Yeah, that's because you have

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a different relationship with both parents, right?

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So if he needed a kidney. He wouldn't get a kidney

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from me. Like, I'm just going to be real with

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you, Gina, like for real, like for real and everything.

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Like if he was going to a nursing home and the

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only other place he could go was my house, he

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would go to a nursing home. But like you said,

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the relation, my him and I's relationship was

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never strong enough to get like anything out

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of me anyway. You know, I said I was going to

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get a tattoo and the tattoo was going to go on

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my wrist and it was going to be of all the things

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my dad did for me. And I got the tattoo. And

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do you know what the tattoo is, Gina? It's your

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skin color. It's blank. It's blank, exactly,

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because he's never done anything for me. So yeah,

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I totally, totally understand, you know, for

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my mom, if she, well, she was independent till

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the day, but if she ever was to go anywhere,

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I would have took care of her till the end. Like,

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and I would fight my brother and sister to keep

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her. Like, that would have been me. Like, that's

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how much I loved her, but yeah. I totally understand.

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But if that was her money and the parents took

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the money, I'm trying to figure out how they're

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holding that against her. Because if they wanted

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to start a life together, why wasn't Forrest

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actually saving some like if she had a bank account

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to save money, why wasn't he saving money, too?

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Like it always helps when two people are trying

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to build a life together than one person. Well,

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it could also be like, I don't like I'm sure

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more to the story will unfold as time goes. the

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weeks go by type of thing like that so what we

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know that people working in indonesia aren't

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going to be able to make a whole bunch of money

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to send she's not in indonesia she's in the philippines

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oh that's right she's in the philippine indonesia

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is the place where the first girl is that scam

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town exactly yeah so she's in the philippines

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but still the philippines doesn't have like a

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super high salary career over there either. It's

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really hard for you to get ahead. So when she

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was working and saving money, I was like, well,

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it would be a much easier if he was contributing

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because in America, you know, I dollar goes up

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much farther than the dollars in the Philippines.

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So it would have been more helpful, but they

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didn't really say he sent any money to her. because

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they kept saying oh they used all the money and

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the parents took all the money but they didn't

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say if it was any of his or not which i thought

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since the omission of that statement it makes

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me believe it wasn't any of his money in the

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first place well here's the thing where i think

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i think he contributed to it because then i responded

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to your tweet with well why would the mom care

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right why would his mom care if his money wasn't

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put into that account but she never said it was

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Exactly. That's why I'm saying like, I don't

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think like, that's what I think that some of

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he contributed to that amount as well. Because

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if it was just her money, then she knows putting

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into the bank account, why would her mom, why

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would his mom care at the end of the day? That's

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like, that's their money, right? Or her money?

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Maybe she thought it was their money, because

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they were together, but it was really just her

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money. I don't know. You know how moms are. There's

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moms out there who think that their children

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are just angels, even though their children are

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not angels. So, like, she's probably going to

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be like, oh, she screwed over my son, and her

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son probably wasn't even helping, because that's

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how moms are, you know? And moms tend to let

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their sons get away with murder. You know, Gina.

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Like, they can literally do nothing wrong, and

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then it's always the woman's fault. That's how,

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yeah, unfortunately, I know that and like having

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siblings that are both brothers. Yeah, I know

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that they can do no wrong. And well, you know,

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here I am. So. All right. So I don't know the

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fact that they never said it was his money. I

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was like, that wasn't even his money anyway.

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But I want to talk about Shekinah 2 .0. So we

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got Emma this season and she's basically Shekinah,

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but a little different. People are calling her

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like the team Kardashian. Nah, that's too nice

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and generous. She's like Shekinah, but with a

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bad wig. Like, she's definitely nowhere near

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a Kardashian level. Like, that's ridiculously

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generous. But she's got this weird, strange,

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like, hair store wig that she's wearing on the

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season. And she's actually dating a 27 -year

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-old. And she's 27, which never happens on this

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show. So she's dating someone that's her own

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age. But her thing is she's into Moroccan men.

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Which you know, we've we've actually met a lot

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of people on the show that were into Moroccan

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men I'm pretty sure that Nicole and as in I'm

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pretty sure as in was Moroccan wasn't he was

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from Morocco from not mistaken a lot of women

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have that fetish but her thing is a little different

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because she dated a Moroccan and it didn't work

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out his name was Mohammed and Then there's an

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overlap. So Gina the overlap means that you were

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dating both people at the same Yeah, it'd be

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hilarious if she got pregnant and Maury was still

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on and then it'd be like, oh, my baby daddy.

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And you have to bring both of them on. Well,

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luckily, she did not. But she was dating both

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of them at the same time. And then she thought,

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so here's the thing. She said that Mohammed was

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talking to other women. So she went on his social

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media and messaged all of the women that he followed.

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And she said that he was like in a relationship

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with like 20 other women. How is this possible?

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Like, for real, I'm just going to be really,

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really realistic here. I can barely remember

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to keep up with everyday basic tasks. How would

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you remember to keep up with 20 different women

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on a daily basis? Because women, you have to

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call, you have to text, you have to show that

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you care, you have to be present. So how do you

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even have the time to do all that? Scammers 101.

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You take a scammer 101 course. But Geeta, how

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would you even remember what to say to each woman?

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Because it's personalized. You can't just send

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the same text 20 times. You have to have a notebook.

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with all the information of what you've discussed.

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Doesn't that seem like a lot of work? Doesn't

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it seem like a lot of work? Because you have

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to study these people. You have to study what

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they're doing and what they like, what they don't

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like, and things. Because if you're texting with

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someone that you know really well, you know what

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they would say. Because if someone texts like,

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here's the thing, Gina, I'm a weirdo. So if one

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of my friends is texting me and I read it, I

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know if it's them or not, because I know like,

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for instance, say one of my friends is texting

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me, but it's not them. It's somebody else texting

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for them because they're busy. I can tell that

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they're not texting me because I know people

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so well. I can hear them talking through the

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text. So like if you were texting me, Gina, but

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you were like occupied, so you had like your

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cousin texting me, I would be able to tell. Like

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I would know that it's not you. Oh, I know. the

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way someone speaks or the way the message is

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transparent, going back and forth or whatnot.

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Yeah, definitely. I can definitely tell, right?

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Because it depends on the language of the person

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as well, right? When my friend's driving, I've

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had to message her cousin or whatever, her niece,

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and she knew right away it wasn't just how I

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was writing out the text. She knew right away

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that's not the way her aunt spoke to her type

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of thing. Well, right. So that's what I'm saying.

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Like this guy, Mohammed, had to be really good

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to keep up 20 different relationships at once

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because people can tell when you're not, you

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know, genuine. And when you build a rapport with

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someone, they kind of know how you talk, how

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you respond, what you would and wouldn't say.

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So, I mean, if I tried to date 20 women at once,

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they would figure me out immediately. Right?

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Like immediately, I would fail because I just

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would not have the recollection to remember what

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each person is interested in and wants to talk

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about and what the conversation would be. And

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they would immediately know that I was wasting

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their time and I would immediately be dumped.

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So it does take a lot of skill to do that. And

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I'm impressed that he was able to do that because

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I don't have it in me. But oh, so Emma's with

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this second guy. Um, help me out. Zied, Zied.

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No, Zied is with Emma. Yeah, Emma's with - His

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name is, uh, Bothan? Rothan? Uh, something like

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that, hold on. It's gonna bother me now. Wait,

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so Emma's boyfriend's name is what? I'm trying

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to figure that out right now. Zied, right? I'm

00:19:42.319 --> 00:19:44.279
pretty sure it's Zied. It's like, remember how

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she had a Zied? I think it's Zied. And he's,

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he's a Muslim guy. And it's a typical storyline,

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right? Because I remember him saying, um, when

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she asked if there was going to be any issues

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when she got there with, um, public affection

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and he said, no, and his name is Birkin. No Birkin

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is the guy with Laura, Laura, the guy with Z

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ed. Yes, that's correct. Sorry. I was just getting

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them confused. Yeah. We're going to talk about

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beer camp. later. I call him Beer Can. Actually,

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I stole that from Captain. Captain was tweeting

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about it and she called him Beer Can and it stuck.

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So I was like, I like that. I'm stealing that.

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So yeah, Emma and Zied. are meeting for the first

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time on this episode. And he immediately started

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with the, you need to respect my authority as

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a Muslim. He started like almost immediately,

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you know, like you have to respect my religion

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and you have to, and it's funny because they

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all use the same tactic. They tell the American

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girl, oh, there's no big deal. You can do whatever

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you want. You can dress up what you can kiss

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me in public. And then when they get on their

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territory, their turf. Here's the thing she's

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been to before. She should have already known

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what most of the expectations are. What the hell

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was she wearing when she like left the plane?

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Like it looked like my mom had curtains like

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that in the 70s. Oh, you mean the red thing that

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she was wearing? Yeah. And like people were looking

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at her, like staring at her. Well, yeah, I don't

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know why she wore that. Also, I forgot to mention

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she brought a dress with her. that her ex Mohammed's

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mother made. And she was like, wouldn't, wouldn't

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they be like, that looks like, where'd you get

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that from that? Like, like, that print looks

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like you got it from here or somewhere. And then

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like, Middle East, like Morocco, Jordan, or whatnot,

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like, where did you get that from? Well, she's

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gonna have to eventually tell Zed that she's

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been there before and dated a man there before

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I mean probably not It's not gonna be a good

00:22:01.789 --> 00:22:04.529
pleasant conversation to have you know when you

00:22:04.529 --> 00:22:07.369
find out that you're part of a sex tourist scheme

00:22:07.369 --> 00:22:10.089
You know, it's like you feel good because you

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think that one likes you because they like you

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but they actually like you because you're Moroccan

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it's not gonna make you feel like 100 % confident

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You know what would be the cherry on the top

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which I would be like, oh my god And I replied

00:22:26.420 --> 00:22:29.460
to your tweet on that if they were related or

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cousins somehow Her ex and the same guy I would

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I would die. I'd be like I'm done. I'm dead Like

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I've gone I think Morocco is a small country,

00:22:42.279 --> 00:22:45.279
right? No, I don't think it's a small country,

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but I would I'd be like, this is the type of

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shit that I signed up for. This is the type of

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stuff that I want to see. I want to see freaking

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messy. And that's it. I would like to see that.

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Like, so when she like his mom and his family,

00:23:02.079 --> 00:23:05.059
the ex would be there. that would be really messy

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and be like oh so now you're marrying my cousin

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after you know I would watch it it's the type

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of um remember back in the day there was a show

00:23:16.019 --> 00:23:19.180
called it's not sally jesse rafael it was the

00:23:19.180 --> 00:23:22.799
other one ricky lake lake that's a ricky lake

00:23:22.799 --> 00:23:25.380
show story right you remember ricky lake i don't

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want to age myself but if you know who ricky

00:23:27.740 --> 00:23:29.980
lake is that's the type of stuff she would have

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on her show somebody dates somebody's cousin

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that was a ricky lake storyline and i would definitely

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love to see the look on everybody's face when

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she shows up to the family reunion and she's

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been through half the family like i would definitely

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love this but but we like i i highly doubt it

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but it would make for great tv if it was true

00:23:51.720 --> 00:23:55.680
yeah and you know we don't know yet We don't

00:23:55.680 --> 00:23:58.160
know if it's true or not. Oh, so this Michael

00:23:58.160 --> 00:24:01.140
and Laura storyline, so it's a throuple. OK,

00:24:01.140 --> 00:24:03.599
so let's answer this throuple. So there's a chick

00:24:03.599 --> 00:24:06.740
named Laura. She's a teacher. I want to say an

00:24:06.740 --> 00:24:08.900
English teacher, but I could be wrong. Yeah,

00:24:09.059 --> 00:24:12.799
an English grade five teacher. OK, yeah, she's

00:24:12.799 --> 00:24:15.799
a grade five English teacher and she has a kind

00:24:15.799 --> 00:24:17.980
of a boyfriend named Michael, like except they

00:24:17.980 --> 00:24:19.559
don't sleep together, but they do everything

00:24:19.559 --> 00:24:21.880
else together, literally like eat together, watch

00:24:21.880 --> 00:24:24.430
movies together, go places together. It's like

00:24:24.430 --> 00:24:27.410
a relationship, but it's not. And it got a little

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complicated because I thought it was one of those

00:24:29.930 --> 00:24:32.910
friends without the benefit. All right. But you

00:24:32.910 --> 00:24:35.890
know how women will have the perfect man right

00:24:35.890 --> 00:24:38.289
in front of them and they will not want that

00:24:38.289 --> 00:24:40.009
man because they want someone who's going to

00:24:40.009 --> 00:24:42.150
treat them horrifically. So I thought it was

00:24:42.150 --> 00:24:45.230
one of those situations. But in actuality, it's

00:24:45.230 --> 00:24:48.450
not actually Laura wanted to have a relationship

00:24:48.450 --> 00:24:51.359
with Michael, but Michael was the one that. Acted

00:24:51.359 --> 00:24:53.779
like he didn't want to be with her then it turns

00:24:53.779 --> 00:24:56.180
out it's because he's insecure because he was

00:24:56.180 --> 00:25:01.460
born with a birth defect You know what? I I responded

00:25:01.460 --> 00:25:03.880
to your tweet I didn't even notice the birth

00:25:03.880 --> 00:25:08.079
defect until like way later in the whole like

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Yeah, I didn't even notice it right away Well

00:25:12.680 --> 00:25:15.839
way to make me feel like a bad human being I

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noticed it almost straight away so yeah I'm a

00:25:19.279 --> 00:25:21.599
horrible person well at first I was just like

00:25:21.599 --> 00:25:24.960
oh maybe it's the angle or anything but then

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I'm like oh shit he does have something like

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but it didn't it didn't cross my mind just because

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I was more paying attention more to the storyline

00:25:35.880 --> 00:25:39.779
versus what they look like type of thing like

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that in this case so well I noticed it right

00:25:43.900 --> 00:25:47.880
away so I'm a bad person so I did notice it and

00:25:47.880 --> 00:25:51.039
he said that he didn't he felt like going to

00:25:51.039 --> 00:25:53.640
that place with his best friend would lead to

00:25:53.640 --> 00:25:55.599
rejection and he said it was her it was sad to

00:25:55.599 --> 00:25:58.640
hear he was like I'm so you it was it was it

00:25:58.640 --> 00:26:02.859
kind of broke my heart like oh this is this is

00:26:02.859 --> 00:26:08.220
like sad I'm like That you like, and maybe that's

00:26:08.220 --> 00:26:10.559
the thing they have such a strong bond with each

00:26:10.559 --> 00:26:13.640
other as friendship. If anything was to happen,

00:26:13.640 --> 00:26:17.700
like they broke up, like they wouldn't have that

00:26:17.700 --> 00:26:19.500
friendship. They possibly wouldn't have that

00:26:19.500 --> 00:26:22.920
friendship anymore. And is it worth losing like

00:26:22.920 --> 00:26:27.359
the friendship? Yeah. And I actually, I can see

00:26:27.359 --> 00:26:29.660
where the dilemma was because they do everything

00:26:29.660 --> 00:26:31.160
together. They, they go to the gym together.

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They play sports together. They play tennis together.

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They watch movies together. They cook together.

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They eat together. And. Just risking the one

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aspect of adding the intimacy to already a perfect

00:26:41.200 --> 00:26:44.720
relationship, the risk didn't outweigh the reward.

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So I understood why. But Laura saw that as a

00:26:50.000 --> 00:26:52.759
rejection in her direction. So she was like,

00:26:52.779 --> 00:26:54.380
well, if he doesn't want to move forward with

00:26:54.380 --> 00:26:57.299
me, I'm going to go look for somebody. And then

00:26:57.299 --> 00:27:01.259
that's where she met Beer Can. And he's kind

00:27:01.259 --> 00:27:03.579
of the opposite of Michael, so it kind of makes

00:27:03.579 --> 00:27:05.259
me feel like it wouldn't have worked out with

00:27:05.259 --> 00:27:08.000
her and Michael anyway because he's everything

00:27:08.000 --> 00:27:10.079
that Michael's not, right? Because she said that

00:27:10.079 --> 00:27:13.680
he has a bad boy exterior. And I think a lot

00:27:13.680 --> 00:27:18.099
of women fall into that. that trap of somebody

00:27:18.099 --> 00:27:21.019
who goes against the grain, who's not going to

00:27:21.019 --> 00:27:22.920
open the door for you, who's going to ride a

00:27:22.920 --> 00:27:25.640
motorcycle, who if you text them, he's not going

00:27:25.640 --> 00:27:28.339
to text you back. You know, like they fall for

00:27:28.339 --> 00:27:30.900
that type of guy. And I feel like it's a trap.

00:27:30.980 --> 00:27:34.259
Like it's a persona. If anything, like if anything,

00:27:34.440 --> 00:27:36.680
you should get somebody who can act like that.

00:27:36.720 --> 00:27:39.440
when you want them to but then act like a decent

00:27:39.440 --> 00:27:42.039
human being also because I think women fall into

00:27:42.039 --> 00:27:45.079
that trap of oh it's nice if a guy's you know

00:27:45.079 --> 00:27:48.119
has that persona but it's probably not fun 24

00:27:48.119 --> 00:27:50.099
hours a day seven days a week you you don't want

00:27:50.099 --> 00:27:52.420
to be treated like shit all the time just every

00:27:52.420 --> 00:27:54.359
now and then because I'm into that I like to

00:27:54.359 --> 00:27:56.019
be treated like shit every now and then but not

00:27:56.019 --> 00:28:01.579
every single day exactly so like and like a lot

00:28:01.579 --> 00:28:04.960
of women will like the like the bad boy type

00:28:04.960 --> 00:28:11.539
of man, unfortunately. Yeah, it's, it's, um,

00:28:12.220 --> 00:28:15.440
it's a trap. Oh, so he's 26 years old. How was

00:28:15.440 --> 00:28:17.539
Laura, by the way? I don't remember. She was

00:28:17.539 --> 00:28:22.099
older. Um, was she like, how old? Hold on. Let

00:28:22.099 --> 00:28:26.519
me find out here. But funny, funny story. Well,

00:28:26.559 --> 00:28:30.990
I look up her age real quick. She legit looks

00:28:30.990 --> 00:28:35.490
like a younger version of my high school English

00:28:35.490 --> 00:28:39.769
teacher. And I posted it on our group chat with

00:28:39.769 --> 00:28:43.549
90 Day Fiancé Fridays. So when we're discussing

00:28:43.549 --> 00:28:50.630
this episode on the 90 Day Fiancé Friday podcast,

00:28:50.769 --> 00:28:53.450
I will be posting a picture on Patreon of what

00:28:53.450 --> 00:28:56.839
my high school teacher looked like. Wait, I'm

00:28:56.839 --> 00:29:00.420
scrolling up. I'm scrolling up to the group chat.

00:29:01.180 --> 00:29:03.859
Oh my god, really? She does look like your high

00:29:03.859 --> 00:29:07.940
school teacher. That's weird. Yeah, just a little

00:29:07.940 --> 00:29:11.859
younger. But yeah, so all English teachers look

00:29:11.859 --> 00:29:15.480
like this. Is this? I don't know. I don't know.

00:29:15.559 --> 00:29:18.099
Like, wait a second. She's it. That's how I remembered

00:29:18.099 --> 00:29:21.410
she was an English teacher. but different grades

00:29:21.410 --> 00:29:24.210
and that's how I remembered because I'm like

00:29:24.210 --> 00:29:26.690
holy I was trying to figure out I'm like where

00:29:26.690 --> 00:29:30.069
does this chick look so familiar right like she's

00:29:30.069 --> 00:29:32.490
not from she's from Washington state she's from

00:29:32.490 --> 00:29:37.490
Vancouver Washington not where I'm from but um

00:29:37.660 --> 00:29:41.140
But it's pretty close. But I was just like, hold

00:29:41.140 --> 00:29:43.779
on a second. What we what? Where does she work

00:29:43.779 --> 00:29:46.059
so familiar from? And then it came to me. She

00:29:46.059 --> 00:29:48.299
looks like my high school English teacher, one

00:29:48.299 --> 00:29:51.059
of my high school English teachers. I'm trying

00:29:51.059 --> 00:29:55.160
to think back what my high school English teacher

00:29:55.160 --> 00:29:58.940
looked like. And now that I'm thinking about

00:29:58.940 --> 00:30:01.940
it, I went to two different high schools. So

00:30:01.940 --> 00:30:04.319
for ninth and tenth grade, I went to one in Louisiana

00:30:04.319 --> 00:30:07.269
and then for 10th. or 11th and 12th went to a

00:30:07.269 --> 00:30:11.750
school in Ohio. I'm pretty sure my English teacher

00:30:11.750 --> 00:30:16.789
in Ohio was a man. But I believe my English teacher

00:30:16.789 --> 00:30:20.690
in Louisiana in high school was a woman. And

00:30:20.690 --> 00:30:25.769
if I'm not mistaken, she was a lesbian. She had

00:30:25.769 --> 00:30:30.160
like the bowl cut. and she wore pants. But you

00:30:30.160 --> 00:30:32.119
know what, Gina, I gotta be honest with you,

00:30:32.180 --> 00:30:33.920
I don't know if she was like legit a lesbian

00:30:33.920 --> 00:30:35.720
because I went to a Christian school, you weren't

00:30:35.720 --> 00:30:37.880
exactly allowed to ask or say anything like that.

00:30:38.160 --> 00:30:41.920
She just dressed like one. So like at the end

00:30:41.920 --> 00:30:43.740
of the day, I don't know if that's true or not,

00:30:43.900 --> 00:30:45.400
because I'm pretty sure if she ever said she

00:30:45.400 --> 00:30:46.740
was, they would have fired her because they didn't

00:30:46.740 --> 00:30:50.029
allow that. We um, you know what I went to you

00:30:50.029 --> 00:30:52.049
went to a christian school. I went to a religious

00:30:52.049 --> 00:30:55.009
private school as well We had one as well. We

00:30:55.009 --> 00:30:57.990
had it like yeah, but obviously can't say anything

00:30:57.990 --> 00:31:01.569
But we knew we all knew it's an unspoken thing.

00:31:01.569 --> 00:31:03.750
We knew what was going on But you know at the

00:31:03.750 --> 00:31:07.430
end of the day we couldn't talk about it because

00:31:07.430 --> 00:31:13.390
you know exactly exactly so laura's 47 And beer

00:31:13.390 --> 00:31:18.980
can is 26 and he works in a cafe That's what

00:31:18.980 --> 00:31:21.299
I caught on the thing. So she he works in a cafe

00:31:21.299 --> 00:31:26.279
and He's a bad boy. So, you know, it sounds like

00:31:26.279 --> 00:31:29.559
the makings of a divorce, right? I mean, that's

00:31:29.559 --> 00:31:32.559
what a divorce usually sounds like a 26 year

00:31:32.559 --> 00:31:34.960
old that's marrying a 47 year old and he works

00:31:34.960 --> 00:31:38.299
as a barista That's normally what a divorce sounds

00:31:38.299 --> 00:31:41.380
like during the proceedings, but we'll see how

00:31:41.380 --> 00:31:43.920
it goes We'll see if they actually click or not

00:31:43.920 --> 00:31:47.019
because I know that The the twist in this particular

00:31:47.019 --> 00:31:50.779
storyline is Laura is bringing Michael with her

00:31:50.779 --> 00:31:53.299
What is with people bringing other people with

00:31:53.299 --> 00:31:56.559
like traveling with them? You remember who was

00:31:56.559 --> 00:31:59.359
it somebody else did this on a season and it's

00:31:59.359 --> 00:32:01.980
slipping my mind They brought their ex with them

00:32:01.980 --> 00:32:05.660
to meet their new person. Oh my god, who was

00:32:05.660 --> 00:32:08.880
it? Help me Gina. We were watching the season

00:32:08.880 --> 00:32:13.980
and The girl wait, I think it was the girl from

00:32:13.980 --> 00:32:20.460
Orlando wasn't it um She was with the guy. I

00:32:20.460 --> 00:32:22.200
Don't remember her name, but she was with her

00:32:22.200 --> 00:32:26.400
land. She was in Orlando. It wasn't um It was

00:32:26.400 --> 00:32:28.339
gonna say if it was Tim, but I don't think it

00:32:28.339 --> 00:32:31.039
was Tim No, it wasn't the girl that was with

00:32:31.039 --> 00:32:33.519
Bozo because she was from Orlando. It was the

00:32:33.519 --> 00:32:38.299
other girl She Oh, man, I can't remember. This

00:32:38.299 --> 00:32:40.160
is so embarrassing because it wasn't even that

00:32:40.160 --> 00:32:44.400
long ago. But she went to his her. They are.

00:32:44.420 --> 00:32:46.740
They are. Wait, say it again. What was her name?

00:32:47.119 --> 00:32:49.579
They are. That was her. They are. She brought

00:32:49.579 --> 00:32:53.180
her ex boyfriend with her to meet the guy and

00:32:53.180 --> 00:32:56.740
he blew up. Right. Honey. Yeah, honey. And now

00:32:56.740 --> 00:32:59.720
we have Laura who is bringing in Michael, who's

00:32:59.720 --> 00:33:01.700
not necessarily her ex -boyfriend or anything,

00:33:01.720 --> 00:33:05.019
but he's a best friend, which, you know, Muslim

00:33:05.019 --> 00:33:07.819
men don't particularly like their women, you

00:33:07.819 --> 00:33:10.640
know, associating and hanging around other men.

00:33:10.779 --> 00:33:13.420
They feel like, remember Adnan, he said that

00:33:13.420 --> 00:33:16.200
even. Yes, I was about to say, Adnan, whether

00:33:16.200 --> 00:33:20.420
Tiger Puffs, like, hair crew, makeup or whatever

00:33:20.420 --> 00:33:23.779
was gay, it didn't matter to him. He still didn't

00:33:23.779 --> 00:33:27.779
want, yeah. You have the right equipment. so

00:33:27.779 --> 00:33:31.640
you can't be around her. So I'm imagining that

00:33:31.640 --> 00:33:34.299
this situation is going to blow up because I

00:33:34.299 --> 00:33:35.839
don't know what it is with Muslim men, but they

00:33:35.839 --> 00:33:38.839
just they don't want other men around their women.

00:33:38.859 --> 00:33:41.660
So I'm assuming even though this guy's not a

00:33:41.660 --> 00:33:44.240
threat because Laura basically friend zoned him

00:33:44.240 --> 00:33:46.400
because he said he wasn't interested. He's going

00:33:46.400 --> 00:33:48.619
to make a big deal about it. And it's like of

00:33:48.619 --> 00:33:50.420
all the people in the world that you can bring,

00:33:50.420 --> 00:33:53.200
bring a girl. Like if you know that you're going

00:33:53.200 --> 00:33:55.240
to meet a Muslim man, don't bring another man

00:33:55.240 --> 00:33:57.599
with you. You're just going to agitate him. Like

00:33:57.599 --> 00:34:00.000
don't agitate people. You know the saying, don't

00:34:00.000 --> 00:34:03.140
poke the bear in Florida. It's don't, don't poke

00:34:03.140 --> 00:34:07.769
the alligator alligator. Florida would be. Right,

00:34:07.890 --> 00:34:09.550
if the alligator is just laying on the ground

00:34:09.550 --> 00:34:12.309
and it's not eating you, what would provoke you

00:34:12.309 --> 00:34:15.190
to poke it? Right, like why would you, you know

00:34:15.190 --> 00:34:17.130
that it's gonna cause a problem so you bring

00:34:17.130 --> 00:34:20.230
something there to agitate the person. So I feel

00:34:20.230 --> 00:34:22.809
like this is gonna be a huge blow up because

00:34:22.809 --> 00:34:26.269
in the history of this show, anytime that a Muslim

00:34:26.269 --> 00:34:28.429
man encounters another man who's too close to

00:34:28.429 --> 00:34:31.269
his wife or fiance or girlfriend, he gets really

00:34:31.269 --> 00:34:32.829
agitated. So I'm assuming that's gonna be the

00:34:32.829 --> 00:34:38.590
same situation. All right, so there was another

00:34:38.590 --> 00:34:43.909
guy this season and his name was What was his

00:34:43.909 --> 00:34:47.449
name Rick Rick? Yeah, and let me just say something

00:34:47.449 --> 00:34:50.090
Gina You know how I gave Dylan a really hard

00:34:50.090 --> 00:34:53.469
time for looking old or I was the old I said

00:34:53.469 --> 00:34:57.909
old er So Rick is 52 years old, but he doesn't

00:34:57.909 --> 00:35:01.250
look 52 years old. Dude looks really young. So

00:35:01.250 --> 00:35:03.030
I was going to give him a little props for that,

00:35:03.030 --> 00:35:05.570
because everyone said that I'm an old shamer.

00:35:05.969 --> 00:35:08.789
But I'm just going to say this guy's 52. He looks

00:35:08.789 --> 00:35:13.230
42. And you're ageist. Yeah. So I'm ageist. Yeah,

00:35:13.289 --> 00:35:15.110
they're saying. But I'm not. I just call it like

00:35:15.110 --> 00:35:16.510
I see it. If you look older, I'm going to say

00:35:16.510 --> 00:35:18.949
that. But also, you look younger. I'm going to

00:35:18.949 --> 00:35:22.570
say that. So I don't discriminate. It just tends

00:35:22.570 --> 00:35:25.219
to be people tend to look older. it's not my

00:35:25.219 --> 00:35:27.980
fault right it's not my fault it's just how the

00:35:27.980 --> 00:35:31.239
cookie breaks in half but this guy rick has two

00:35:31.239 --> 00:35:33.940
baby kids like they're little right like small

00:35:33.940 --> 00:35:36.719
and then he has three small children and two

00:35:36.719 --> 00:35:39.760
adult children or three adult you watch this

00:35:39.760 --> 00:35:43.840
the season closely when the girl that he was

00:35:43.840 --> 00:35:47.239
with which her name was trish she said that she

00:35:47.239 --> 00:35:49.179
wanted to have a couple kids he said to trish

00:35:49.179 --> 00:35:54.670
i already have five kids So I know that the story

00:35:54.670 --> 00:35:57.329
broke last night or the night before one of the

00:35:57.329 --> 00:36:01.230
show Sites, I think sarcasm maybe posted that

00:36:01.230 --> 00:36:03.909
Rick did lose a child when it was two years old

00:36:03.909 --> 00:36:07.130
So I don't know if he would to his job cuz you

00:36:07.130 --> 00:36:08.630
know Just because that child passed away doesn't

00:36:08.630 --> 00:36:10.010
mean you don't have a child that child is still

00:36:10.010 --> 00:36:12.190
in your heart So I don't know if he was referring

00:36:12.190 --> 00:36:15.239
to that child or if he actually has five living

00:36:15.239 --> 00:36:17.739
children but we don't we don't know because he

00:36:17.739 --> 00:36:20.400
said two um adult children and two young children

00:36:20.400 --> 00:36:22.960
so he could be counting the one that unfortunately

00:36:22.960 --> 00:36:26.340
passed away but but at his age like at 52 years

00:36:26.340 --> 00:36:28.699
old and you already have two little kids having

00:36:28.699 --> 00:36:30.360
more kids wouldn't you be raising kids until

00:36:30.360 --> 00:36:33.559
you were like 85 like i feel like at some point

00:36:33.559 --> 00:36:38.300
you know you're too old to have kids right right

00:36:38.989 --> 00:36:42.070
My parents had me when they were 39 and back

00:36:42.070 --> 00:36:46.489
then that was like unheard of. Oh, that's crazy.

00:36:46.570 --> 00:36:50.190
Why did they want to start over? Like in my mind,

00:36:50.190 --> 00:36:53.010
if you have adult children, the idea of having

00:36:53.010 --> 00:36:57.469
another child now is like backsliding, you know,

00:36:57.769 --> 00:37:01.110
because you've already accomplished. May I remind

00:37:01.110 --> 00:37:05.280
you, I was an accident. So I was not meant to

00:37:05.280 --> 00:37:08.639
happen. You were unplanned. You were an unplanned.

00:37:09.219 --> 00:37:12.539
Well, yeah, because my siblings and I were like

00:37:12.539 --> 00:37:16.900
10, like 10 and 13 years apart. Well, Zeena,

00:37:16.920 --> 00:37:19.340
I don't know if you knew this about you and I.

00:37:19.380 --> 00:37:24.219
I was in I was an unplanned pregnancy. I don't

00:37:24.219 --> 00:37:26.309
like to say accident. I don't know, it's kind

00:37:26.309 --> 00:37:28.530
of heartfelt. It's kind of hurtful. But I was

00:37:28.530 --> 00:37:31.150
most definitely an unplanned pregnancy. My mom

00:37:31.150 --> 00:37:33.630
was 30 years old and she had two kids already,

00:37:33.789 --> 00:37:36.610
a boy and a girl, which is all she wanted. And

00:37:36.610 --> 00:37:40.250
then I came along, I think five or six years

00:37:40.250 --> 00:37:43.929
later, but I became the most, you know, I was

00:37:43.929 --> 00:37:48.300
the favorite, but. I was not planned. And shortly

00:37:48.300 --> 00:37:50.360
after I was born, their marriage had already

00:37:50.360 --> 00:37:53.000
deteriorated. So I was not supposed to be there.

00:37:53.380 --> 00:37:57.139
So but you know, you never know, you know, if

00:37:57.139 --> 00:38:00.380
that child is going to be the gift to the family

00:38:00.380 --> 00:38:02.039
or not, because, you know, I was definitely the

00:38:02.039 --> 00:38:03.980
gift to the family. And Gina, you were the gift

00:38:03.980 --> 00:38:06.860
to the family. So that's what we have. The family

00:38:06.860 --> 00:38:10.639
didn't know about that. Well, I was definitely

00:38:10.639 --> 00:38:12.460
the gift to the family. When I was born, the

00:38:12.460 --> 00:38:14.820
family was complete. Like they could they could

00:38:14.820 --> 00:38:18.199
start You know, the the what do you call it?

00:38:18.380 --> 00:38:20.480
The paperwork like once I was there, things were

00:38:20.480 --> 00:38:26.199
ready to go. Yeah, not not in my case. Well,

00:38:26.519 --> 00:38:28.619
I don't know. Rick said that he doesn't really

00:38:28.619 --> 00:38:30.579
want to have more kids. Oh, so I forgot to mention

00:38:30.579 --> 00:38:34.159
Trish lives in Madagascar, which Gina helped

00:38:34.159 --> 00:38:36.400
me. This is in Africa, right? Like I just want

00:38:36.400 --> 00:38:39.860
to. So I believe that it was. But, you know,

00:38:39.980 --> 00:38:43.110
you know how I am with geography. was never my

00:38:43.110 --> 00:38:46.389
strong point. I'm really good at like geography,

00:38:46.570 --> 00:38:49.289
like the US, like I knew all the states and the

00:38:49.289 --> 00:38:51.750
capitals and then South America, but like other

00:38:51.750 --> 00:38:55.090
parts of the globe, I never really knew where

00:38:55.090 --> 00:38:57.429
the places were. Like Gina, I think you told

00:38:57.429 --> 00:39:01.150
me that, wait, you told me something that I didn't

00:39:01.150 --> 00:39:04.159
know. Like if I flew to Australia, didn't you

00:39:04.159 --> 00:39:06.219
say it was quicker if I flew from one side of

00:39:06.219 --> 00:39:08.360
the world or the country or another? I think

00:39:08.360 --> 00:39:11.800
you told me something that I told you, because

00:39:11.800 --> 00:39:15.699
for you, it would take like two days to get there

00:39:15.699 --> 00:39:19.280
to Australia, or a day and a half to get there.

00:39:19.380 --> 00:39:22.659
No, two days was like 27 hours. And then from

00:39:22.659 --> 00:39:26.420
where I live, it takes like 13 hours. Yeah, see,

00:39:26.420 --> 00:39:28.099
I didn't know that for some reason, I thought

00:39:28.099 --> 00:39:31.730
Australia was closer to me. how much I don't

00:39:31.730 --> 00:39:34.369
know geography because I was just but you remember

00:39:34.369 --> 00:39:38.469
I used to I didn't realize that Canada stretched

00:39:38.469 --> 00:39:41.250
all the way over by Washington like I'm just

00:39:41.250 --> 00:39:43.409
not I'm not a geography person it's funny because

00:39:43.409 --> 00:39:48.130
I've traveled we're above the United States yeah

00:39:48.130 --> 00:39:49.969
but I didn't know you were like fully above it

00:39:49.969 --> 00:39:52.210
like because when I lived in Cleveland I could

00:39:52.210 --> 00:39:55.250
see the Canadian border across the lake downtown

00:39:55.250 --> 00:39:58.579
Cleveland so and then in Detroit I would drive

00:39:58.579 --> 00:40:00.300
through the little tunnel and I'll be in Canada.

00:40:00.480 --> 00:40:02.400
I didn't realize that Canada was like the same

00:40:02.400 --> 00:40:04.539
size as the U .S. I thought it was a small country

00:40:04.539 --> 00:40:06.880
because there's so few people there. I just assumed

00:40:06.880 --> 00:40:08.579
it wasn't that big. I didn't realize it was a

00:40:08.579 --> 00:40:11.579
massive freaking country. Oh, you're hilarious.

00:40:12.119 --> 00:40:17.219
No. You've seen the map, right? You've seen the

00:40:17.219 --> 00:40:20.460
map since then, right? I was born extremely cute.

00:40:20.539 --> 00:40:23.119
So I didn't have to be extremely smart. Okay,

00:40:23.159 --> 00:40:26.039
I'm just gonna put it out there. Like I got by

00:40:26.039 --> 00:40:29.320
through the skin of my teeth and looks half the

00:40:29.320 --> 00:40:32.340
time. I was not the sharpest tool in the shed.

00:40:32.599 --> 00:40:36.320
Okay, like I'm not. I am. I wasn't either. I

00:40:36.320 --> 00:40:39.659
was not the sharpest tool in the shed. I am now

00:40:39.659 --> 00:40:43.059
more clever than like, than before. I was not

00:40:43.059 --> 00:40:46.199
a very studious person. I was just like, Oh,

00:40:46.300 --> 00:40:50.039
forget that noise. But now I'm like super diligent.

00:40:50.099 --> 00:40:52.380
Like I'm like, when the heck did this change?

00:40:52.460 --> 00:40:55.239
I'm like, but okay, here we are. It's changing.

00:40:56.039 --> 00:40:59.139
Um, but I was not a studious person. You know,

00:40:59.320 --> 00:41:03.000
like Like the only time I made the honor roll

00:41:03.000 --> 00:41:05.139
is when I actually graduated from high school.

00:41:05.179 --> 00:41:08.219
And I'm like, what can I do? I would be hustling

00:41:08.219 --> 00:41:12.039
my teachers. So far my grade is a B. What can

00:41:12.039 --> 00:41:15.699
I do to make my grade an A? What extra credit

00:41:15.699 --> 00:41:21.920
can I do? I was on the honor roll all of school.

00:41:22.219 --> 00:41:25.320
Well, my mom, she was like a crazy person. So

00:41:25.320 --> 00:41:27.960
like she told me that I had to make A's because

00:41:27.960 --> 00:41:30.539
anything below A made me an average person. And

00:41:30.539 --> 00:41:32.920
she said that I wasn't, she didn't birth average

00:41:32.920 --> 00:41:37.000
people. So I wasn't allowed to like, oh my gosh,

00:41:37.099 --> 00:41:39.420
I remember one time I got a C and she beat me

00:41:39.420 --> 00:41:42.300
until I bled. Like it wasn't really like an option

00:41:42.300 --> 00:41:44.619
for me to be average. Like I had to be, there

00:41:44.619 --> 00:41:47.610
was like an A. If I didn't get an A +, my mom

00:41:47.610 --> 00:41:50.650
was like, oh, so you just got an A, so you probably

00:41:50.650 --> 00:41:52.929
didn't study that hard. That was my household.

00:41:53.530 --> 00:41:55.989
It wasn't like, oh my gosh, you got an A. It

00:41:55.989 --> 00:41:57.650
was, well, if you would have studied harder,

00:41:57.690 --> 00:42:00.110
you would have got an A+. But that's kind of

00:42:00.110 --> 00:42:04.170
how my life was. So when I graduated, I was a

00:42:04.170 --> 00:42:07.329
valedictorian. Is that what you call it? A valedictorian?

00:42:07.889 --> 00:42:11.190
Valedictorian. I had the little gold thing on

00:42:11.190 --> 00:42:14.420
my... my robe because, you know, if I didn't,

00:42:14.480 --> 00:42:16.300
my mom would have said that I didn't work hard

00:42:16.300 --> 00:42:19.559
enough. And I, I, I strive to impress her, which

00:42:19.559 --> 00:42:21.719
was not easy, Gina. It was not easy at all. My

00:42:21.719 --> 00:42:24.900
mom had a man. Your mom, your mom was also an

00:42:24.900 --> 00:42:28.219
educator as well. Like mine weren't they like

00:42:28.219 --> 00:42:31.019
the most education they had back in Portugal

00:42:31.019 --> 00:42:36.280
was a fourth or fifth grade education. Oh, wow.

00:42:36.679 --> 00:42:41.139
Well, yeah, I was very, I was pushed very far.

00:42:41.289 --> 00:42:45.369
And like like so obviously they didn't know social

00:42:45.369 --> 00:42:49.710
studies. They didn't know like how to like teach

00:42:49.710 --> 00:42:52.489
me stuff if they didn't know it themselves. Right.

00:42:52.590 --> 00:42:55.289
Type of thing like that. So if that makes sense.

00:42:55.969 --> 00:42:59.989
Yeah. Yeah, it does. Oh, so Rick said that Trish

00:42:59.989 --> 00:43:04.170
goes with him for five days. So I want to ask

00:43:04.170 --> 00:43:07.500
you something. She said that. Somebody wrecked

00:43:07.500 --> 00:43:10.019
a motorcycle and then her ex said he robbed she

00:43:10.019 --> 00:43:12.599
robbed his house. Like what do you think of the

00:43:12.599 --> 00:43:15.039
excuses that she gave for not picking up the

00:43:15.039 --> 00:43:19.159
phone for five days? So the first thing that

00:43:19.159 --> 00:43:22.559
I thought of was she is talking to multiple men.

00:43:22.940 --> 00:43:25.719
And maybe during those five days, another man

00:43:25.719 --> 00:43:29.920
came to Madagascar to see her. That's just and

00:43:29.920 --> 00:43:33.119
it was impossible for her to keep the communication

00:43:33.119 --> 00:43:37.000
open when that person was with her Right. So

00:43:37.000 --> 00:43:38.880
I'm assuming he was there for five days and then

00:43:38.880 --> 00:43:41.539
when he left she was able to reopen the communication

00:43:41.539 --> 00:43:44.019
That's just my theory right because what is the

00:43:44.019 --> 00:43:46.719
odds that? They just stopped talking and then

00:43:46.719 --> 00:43:48.420
all of a sudden five days later. She's ready

00:43:48.420 --> 00:43:51.219
to talk again. It had to be something devious

00:43:51.219 --> 00:43:53.420
Yeah, I would need to see a police report. I

00:43:53.420 --> 00:43:57.530
would need to say see receipts I mean, that was

00:43:57.530 --> 00:43:59.710
a weird thing to say. Like she said her ex -boyfriend

00:43:59.710 --> 00:44:03.329
said that she robbed their house. Why would you,

00:44:03.329 --> 00:44:04.989
if that's not true, why would you say that? Cause

00:44:04.989 --> 00:44:07.130
it makes it seem like you're robbing people.

00:44:07.449 --> 00:44:09.250
You know, like that's not necessarily a good

00:44:09.250 --> 00:44:11.429
excuse, but I guess there's never a good excuse

00:44:11.429 --> 00:44:14.150
for ghosting someone. I mean, regardless of what

00:44:14.150 --> 00:44:16.849
you say, you know, I think I was watching a TV

00:44:16.849 --> 00:44:18.869
show back in the day and then a girl on the show

00:44:18.869 --> 00:44:21.670
was like the only good excuse for a guy ghosting

00:44:21.670 --> 00:44:24.549
you is that he's dead. I think that's what -

00:44:24.409 --> 00:44:27.309
that and you know any other excuse other than

00:44:27.309 --> 00:44:30.050
being deceased is just not a good excuse because

00:44:30.050 --> 00:44:31.889
you could have if you weren't deceased you could

00:44:31.889 --> 00:44:34.789
have texted back and i i kind of feel like she's

00:44:34.789 --> 00:44:37.010
right you know like if you're still alive and

00:44:37.010 --> 00:44:38.989
your fingers work and your phone works you could

00:44:38.989 --> 00:44:44.789
have texted back yeah so unless like like i find

00:44:44.789 --> 00:44:49.489
that complete utter bullshit basically i mean

00:44:49.489 --> 00:44:55.099
ghosting people is it's people's go -to when

00:44:55.099 --> 00:44:58.880
they don't know how to deal with emotion and

00:44:58.880 --> 00:45:02.199
they don't know how to break up. And I think

00:45:02.199 --> 00:45:04.380
a lot of the newer people on the planet, what

00:45:04.380 --> 00:45:07.039
do you call those? Millennials? I think they

00:45:07.039 --> 00:45:09.099
don't, they're afraid, wait, do you call it that?

00:45:09.320 --> 00:45:13.420
Are they millennials or younger ones? No, I don't

00:45:13.420 --> 00:45:15.940
think so. I think we're millennials. I think

00:45:15.940 --> 00:45:18.889
they're like Gen Z. Oh, the Gen Zs. The Gen Zs

00:45:18.889 --> 00:45:22.289
are really scared of confrontation. So breaking

00:45:22.289 --> 00:45:24.969
up and having difficult conversations, they're

00:45:24.969 --> 00:45:28.190
the ones that created ghosting because they just

00:45:28.190 --> 00:45:31.730
want to avoid the difficult conversations. And

00:45:31.730 --> 00:45:33.389
confrontation is just something that they're

00:45:33.389 --> 00:45:36.389
not equipped for. You know, our generation, we

00:45:36.389 --> 00:45:38.750
confronted people. You know, if I could tell

00:45:38.750 --> 00:45:41.449
you how many times I got mad on the playground

00:45:41.449 --> 00:45:43.760
at school and yelled and went back and forth

00:45:43.760 --> 00:45:45.579
with people. Like confrontation is not something

00:45:45.579 --> 00:45:48.260
that we're new to. It's these younger people

00:45:48.260 --> 00:45:50.900
that are scared to have confrontation with people.

00:45:52.579 --> 00:45:58.219
Exactly. So yeah. All right. So was that everybody?

00:45:58.500 --> 00:46:00.059
I don't know. I got to go through my. I think

00:46:00.059 --> 00:46:06.400
so, but I sent a group chat to us and I'm like.

00:46:07.349 --> 00:46:10.449
apparently an old castmate is supposed to make

00:46:10.449 --> 00:46:14.329
a reappearance on this new season. What do you

00:46:14.329 --> 00:46:21.010
mean? Elise. Oh, we knew that. I understand that.

00:46:21.409 --> 00:46:25.210
But she hasn't been like I was reading somewhere

00:46:25.210 --> 00:46:30.630
that she wasn't on any of the like the oh, the

00:46:30.630 --> 00:46:34.389
upcoming. Right. She wasn't featured in any of

00:46:34.389 --> 00:46:39.849
that. And she also wasn't like Featured on the

00:46:39.849 --> 00:46:44.769
what's it called? She also wasn't like up until

00:46:44.769 --> 00:46:48.969
January. There's no on IMDB. There's nothing

00:46:48.969 --> 00:46:53.590
saying that she's on there Well, I have a theory

00:46:53.590 --> 00:46:59.070
I Think that someone on the show is gonna break

00:46:59.070 --> 00:47:02.690
up almost right away And I don't want to say

00:47:02.690 --> 00:47:05.469
who I think it is, but I think you know who I

00:47:05.469 --> 00:47:06.909
think it is. I think they're going to get to

00:47:06.909 --> 00:47:08.650
the country and things are going to go south

00:47:08.650 --> 00:47:10.889
really, really fast. And they're going to break

00:47:10.889 --> 00:47:13.329
up kind of like how you remember Miss Debbie

00:47:13.329 --> 00:47:16.389
and Mohammed. She got to I think was Morocco,

00:47:16.389 --> 00:47:21.170
actually, and things. turn extremely fast. And

00:47:21.170 --> 00:47:23.329
within like a few days, she had packed her shit

00:47:23.329 --> 00:47:25.429
and left. I think it's going to be one of those

00:47:25.429 --> 00:47:29.150
situations. And I think Elise and her guy and

00:47:29.150 --> 00:47:30.949
I don't like again, I don't know how far their

00:47:30.949 --> 00:47:32.829
storyline is going to go. But I think they're

00:47:32.829 --> 00:47:36.630
going to be filler for what you know, that gap

00:47:36.630 --> 00:47:39.289
that's left in the show. I think that a couple

00:47:39.289 --> 00:47:41.289
that they thought was going to be popular ended

00:47:41.289 --> 00:47:44.869
up ending things early. And then she's going

00:47:44.869 --> 00:47:47.579
to be on the show. with whoever she was with

00:47:47.579 --> 00:47:50.440
some guy from Australia, I think. And that'll

00:47:50.440 --> 00:47:52.380
be a filler. And if you notice, because I think

00:47:52.380 --> 00:47:54.840
Shibuti said, in the group chat, if you notice

00:47:54.840 --> 00:47:57.679
the picture of Elise and that guy, it doesn't

00:47:57.679 --> 00:47:59.579
look like they were standing next to each other.

00:47:59.780 --> 00:48:03.619
It looks photoshop. No, it's photoshop. Yeah,

00:48:03.619 --> 00:48:06.960
so it's one of make me one of I have questions

00:48:06.960 --> 00:48:09.019
about that. Does she actually go to Australia?

00:48:09.099 --> 00:48:10.599
Because if she was there and physically there,

00:48:10.619 --> 00:48:13.219
they would have taken those those pictures. When

00:48:13.219 --> 00:48:15.760
the first thing that you do when you when you

00:48:15.760 --> 00:48:18.639
start filming is you take those introduction

00:48:18.639 --> 00:48:20.579
pictures, you know, where you stand next to each

00:48:20.579 --> 00:48:23.239
other and you like put your yeah, you do that.

00:48:23.260 --> 00:48:26.099
So it's going to make me it's making me ask questions

00:48:26.099 --> 00:48:27.940
like, well, did he catfish her? Did he lie to

00:48:27.940 --> 00:48:30.599
her? Did he stand her up? Did she get there?

00:48:30.659 --> 00:48:33.889
And he Didn't come to the airport like it gave

00:48:33.889 --> 00:48:36.289
me a lot of questions about that. And again,

00:48:36.289 --> 00:48:40.349
I don't know any of that storyline I don't know

00:48:40.349 --> 00:48:42.750
if Elise is gonna have a big part on this season

00:48:42.750 --> 00:48:44.630
But like you said, she's gonna miss at least

00:48:44.630 --> 00:48:49.090
the first six episodes. She's not gonna X Like

00:48:49.090 --> 00:48:53.849
it's not until like January So what are you saying

00:48:53.849 --> 00:48:56.750
eight episodes? She's not gonna be on Up until

00:48:56.750 --> 00:49:00.190
almost January 18th. Well now that would only

00:49:00.190 --> 00:49:03.329
be six But still that seems like a long time

00:49:03.329 --> 00:49:06.969
and like TLC time and my time a season is like

00:49:06.969 --> 00:49:12.269
20 episodes So if she's all but so so even if

00:49:12.269 --> 00:49:14.809
she's in like eight episodes She would still

00:49:14.809 --> 00:49:18.110
be like halfway in right like I don't but again.

00:49:18.110 --> 00:49:20.650
I don't know how far her storyline is gonna go

00:49:20.650 --> 00:49:25.610
but if you notice there their promo photos didn't

00:49:25.610 --> 00:49:27.730
show her. I think in the beginning they did,

00:49:27.809 --> 00:49:29.829
and then when they started showing previews and

00:49:29.829 --> 00:49:32.849
promo photos right before the show aired, she

00:49:32.849 --> 00:49:35.070
wasn't in them anymore. And remember, this happened

00:49:35.070 --> 00:49:39.070
one time before a couple of years ago where Shida

00:49:39.070 --> 00:49:41.909
and Balal, they put them in the promo photos

00:49:41.909 --> 00:49:44.250
for Happily Ever After, a season of Happily Ever

00:49:44.250 --> 00:49:46.469
After, and then when the season aired, they never

00:49:46.469 --> 00:49:50.619
were in the season. That that has happened once

00:49:50.619 --> 00:49:53.639
before. So I'm not saying that's what's going

00:49:53.639 --> 00:49:55.860
to happen, but it could be that we're watching

00:49:55.860 --> 00:49:58.739
this season and she never shows up because that's

00:49:58.739 --> 00:49:59.940
kind of what they did with Balala and Shida.

00:50:00.019 --> 00:50:02.440
They announced them and it was around the time

00:50:02.440 --> 00:50:05.559
that she miscarried and she was having some real

00:50:05.559 --> 00:50:08.940
personal issues and they all being. That's kind

00:50:08.940 --> 00:50:10.900
of different, right? Like you're going through

00:50:10.900 --> 00:50:15.420
personal, like personal issues, right? So and

00:50:15.420 --> 00:50:19.460
that was. of like a really smart choice on their

00:50:19.460 --> 00:50:23.000
end because yeah like no one wants to film while

00:50:23.000 --> 00:50:27.219
you're in pain at the same time and yeah no no

00:50:27.219 --> 00:50:30.940
no like or no one wants to see you like oh i'm

00:50:30.940 --> 00:50:33.280
pregnant and then like you know you're filming

00:50:33.280 --> 00:50:34.559
while you're pregnant and then all of a sudden

00:50:34.559 --> 00:50:37.059
you're flashbacking to this or rewatching it

00:50:37.059 --> 00:50:42.559
it's traumatizing yeah i understand that oh so

00:50:42.559 --> 00:50:45.769
one other thing before we end this or stop talking

00:50:45.769 --> 00:50:48.369
about before the 90 days at least. There's a

00:50:48.369 --> 00:50:50.670
woman on the show, and I believe her name is

00:50:50.670 --> 00:50:55.250
Lisa, and she's dating a famous singer from Belize.

00:50:55.650 --> 00:51:00.329
Am I getting this right? What's it? I saw it

00:51:00.329 --> 00:51:02.769
in the preview for, you know, coming in this

00:51:02.769 --> 00:51:06.760
season. um her maybe her no no lisa is dating

00:51:06.760 --> 00:51:10.099
this guy named daniel from nigeria she was like

00:51:10.099 --> 00:51:14.400
the lesbian that was uh after like after 21 years

00:51:14.400 --> 00:51:18.000
turned straight oh okay that actually sounds

00:51:18.000 --> 00:51:21.219
interesting too though actually you're thinking

00:51:21.219 --> 00:51:26.960
of aviva aviva and stig or stig or something

00:51:26.960 --> 00:51:29.840
like that and you know a lot of times they use

00:51:29.840 --> 00:51:34.599
that famous word very exaggerative on the show

00:51:34.599 --> 00:51:36.539
because you remember when they're like, oh, Usman,

00:51:36.539 --> 00:51:39.260
he's a super famous Nigerian singer that that

00:51:39.260 --> 00:51:42.079
come on now, we got to use the word accurately.

00:51:42.079 --> 00:51:44.519
So when she said her boyfriend was a famous singer

00:51:44.519 --> 00:51:46.639
from Belize, I was like, how famous are we talking

00:51:46.639 --> 00:51:51.840
like Drake famous, like, underground famous that

00:51:51.840 --> 00:51:53.960
you only hear it at a nightclub if you request

00:51:53.960 --> 00:51:56.420
it, like, what are we talking here? Because I

00:51:56.420 --> 00:51:58.699
noticed on this show, people use the famous word

00:51:58.699 --> 00:52:02.619
very loosely. Because a lot of people explain

00:52:02.619 --> 00:52:04.420
it as, oh, this is a famous person. I was like,

00:52:04.880 --> 00:52:07.539
how famous? If I turn on the Grammys, am I going

00:52:07.539 --> 00:52:10.079
to see them in the audience famous or just famous

00:52:10.079 --> 00:52:13.940
to you? I need to know what we're talking about.

00:52:14.099 --> 00:52:17.139
So I'm interested in that because it's like a

00:52:17.139 --> 00:52:20.820
remix version of two different stories, Baby

00:52:20.820 --> 00:52:23.579
Girl Lisa in Usman and Kim in Usman. It's bringing

00:52:23.579 --> 00:52:26.900
back the rapper story, which we haven't really

00:52:26.900 --> 00:52:29.340
had in a while. We haven't really had that in

00:52:29.340 --> 00:52:33.579
a while. Yeah, we haven't so I guess we'll see

00:52:33.579 --> 00:52:38.239
but it's the same like Unfortunately with TLC.

00:52:38.260 --> 00:52:42.440
It's the same Storylines must like girl from

00:52:42.440 --> 00:52:47.460
America Muslim boy Girl from like rapper like

00:52:47.460 --> 00:52:51.820
what like I need better Storylines in order to

00:52:51.820 --> 00:52:55.000
get like not to say that this cast is not a good

00:52:55.000 --> 00:52:59.599
cast or so far but Yeah, you get like you can't

00:52:59.599 --> 00:53:03.739
just like have and milk off of the same storyline

00:53:03.739 --> 00:53:06.480
You've got to be more creative people. Come on.

00:53:07.199 --> 00:53:10.099
I Mean, yeah, it would be nice if we got all

00:53:10.099 --> 00:53:13.940
new Storylines, but you know, we we can't have

00:53:13.940 --> 00:53:17.300
it all So I don't know if you watch the other

00:53:17.300 --> 00:53:20.940
way or not. The other way came on yesterday day

00:53:20.940 --> 00:53:22.460
before yesterday now I don't know what day it

00:53:22.460 --> 00:53:26.079
is anymore and I watched it. It's Tuesday. And

00:53:26.079 --> 00:53:29.320
yes, I did watch it it's wednesday here so weird

00:53:29.320 --> 00:53:32.139
like wait hold on a sec no it's it's tuesday

00:53:32.139 --> 00:53:34.639
here because it's not midnight yeah it's still

00:53:34.639 --> 00:53:36.559
tuesday where you are it's wednesday where i

00:53:36.559 --> 00:53:38.420
am is it weird that we're talking at different

00:53:38.420 --> 00:53:42.059
dates times time and dates yeah i know right

00:53:42.300 --> 00:53:45.960
But I watched this episode and it wasn't really

00:53:45.960 --> 00:53:49.199
anything new. It was still Patia Complaining

00:53:49.199 --> 00:53:52.059
that Dylan's mom isn't dead, you know It's like

00:53:52.059 --> 00:53:53.780
it's just the same thing over and over and it's

00:53:53.780 --> 00:53:55.360
like I was wondering that because I was like

00:53:55.360 --> 00:53:58.960
is she Jealous of his mom because I don't I don't

00:53:58.960 --> 00:54:02.199
really understand what bothers her that she calls

00:54:02.199 --> 00:54:05.079
him because and her mom said something interesting

00:54:05.079 --> 00:54:06.840
She's like, well, you can't just be mad at me

00:54:06.840 --> 00:54:11.440
because he calls me too And I've, I don't know,

00:54:11.480 --> 00:54:14.579
I've never thought about like somebody's relationship

00:54:14.579 --> 00:54:17.320
with their mom being a problem for me. Like if

00:54:17.320 --> 00:54:19.920
I'm in a relationship and the woman that I'm

00:54:19.920 --> 00:54:23.199
with is close with her mom, I would never have

00:54:23.199 --> 00:54:26.880
anything negative to say about that. Like I'm

00:54:26.880 --> 00:54:29.380
not gonna like say, well, you shouldn't spend

00:54:29.380 --> 00:54:30.840
time with your mom, you should spend time with

00:54:30.840 --> 00:54:33.599
me. I think that that's the most childish. It's

00:54:33.599 --> 00:54:35.900
like fighting over attention, you know, and when

00:54:35.900 --> 00:54:38.079
you get to a certain age, you know, you just

00:54:38.079 --> 00:54:40.400
accept the fact that everything isn't about you,

00:54:40.639 --> 00:54:44.079
right? Toddlers, they have a hard time understanding

00:54:44.079 --> 00:54:46.019
that everything isn't about them because they

00:54:46.019 --> 00:54:47.699
haven't grown up yet. You know, they think that

00:54:47.699 --> 00:54:49.960
the whole world revolves around them. But as

00:54:49.960 --> 00:54:52.880
a 58 -year -old woman, I think Patia has to understand

00:54:52.880 --> 00:54:55.170
that. this man's first of all this man's mom

00:54:55.170 --> 00:54:58.070
is still alive a blessing and they're close and

00:54:58.070 --> 00:54:59.670
have a good relationship and him having a good

00:54:59.670 --> 00:55:01.510
relationship means that a man that has a good

00:55:01.510 --> 00:55:04.130
relationship with his mom is going to treat you

00:55:04.130 --> 00:55:07.190
well because a man who knows exactly learn how

00:55:07.190 --> 00:55:10.389
to treat a woman from your mother right and and

00:55:10.389 --> 00:55:12.329
i know a lot of people are like oh well the dad

00:55:12.329 --> 00:55:13.949
is supposed to teach you that too but i think

00:55:14.090 --> 00:55:17.869
The first woman that a man learns how to talk

00:55:17.869 --> 00:55:21.210
to and understand and treat is their mom. And

00:55:21.210 --> 00:55:23.690
I think that sets the stage for the type of man

00:55:23.690 --> 00:55:26.469
they're gonna become. And I think if he has a

00:55:26.469 --> 00:55:28.210
good relationship with his mom, that should be

00:55:28.210 --> 00:55:31.489
something that she would be happy about, right?

00:55:31.530 --> 00:55:34.550
Like she should appreciate the fact that he learned

00:55:34.550 --> 00:55:36.349
how to treat a woman from his mom because not

00:55:36.349 --> 00:55:39.130
every man learned that. Some men don't treat

00:55:39.130 --> 00:55:40.969
their mothers well and you can see it based on

00:55:40.969 --> 00:55:46.570
how they treat their spouses. Exactly. So I think

00:55:46.570 --> 00:55:50.710
basically she thinks, I think, that just didn't

00:55:50.710 --> 00:55:58.150
make any sense, that his mom is influencing his

00:55:58.150 --> 00:56:03.769
life choices. She is the barrier and the decision

00:56:03.769 --> 00:56:07.130
maker of what he does with his money and whether

00:56:07.130 --> 00:56:12.190
or not it should be spent on her. by paying off

00:56:12.190 --> 00:56:14.730
her 20 ,000 debt, which doesn't make any sense.

00:56:15.050 --> 00:56:17.449
So basically she doesn't want his mom there to

00:56:17.449 --> 00:56:21.969
tell him to make good choices. Exactly. Because

00:56:21.969 --> 00:56:24.610
him not paying off her bills is what I would

00:56:24.610 --> 00:56:26.889
call making good choices. Because I'm sorry,

00:56:26.949 --> 00:56:29.409
why would he need to pay off her debt? They're

00:56:29.409 --> 00:56:30.949
not married. Like I get it. If you're married,

00:56:31.090 --> 00:56:33.909
your debt becomes each other's debt. But they're

00:56:33.909 --> 00:56:36.670
not married. And at the end of the day, she keeps

00:56:36.670 --> 00:56:38.730
saying, Oh, well, you're the reason that I accumulated

00:56:38.730 --> 00:56:41.750
this debt. You can never blame another person

00:56:41.750 --> 00:56:46.210
for anything that you did. Like if you like she

00:56:46.210 --> 00:56:47.929
wants to make it seem like he was an accomplice

00:56:47.929 --> 00:56:50.079
in this. And she's like, well, it happened because

00:56:50.079 --> 00:56:52.019
of you. And it's like, at the end of the day,

00:56:52.059 --> 00:56:54.360
you're responsible for you. If you ran, I would

00:56:54.360 --> 00:56:57.920
like to have the receipts to that. Well, she's

00:56:57.920 --> 00:57:01.800
never given a real explanation as to how he forced

00:57:01.800 --> 00:57:04.420
her to spend this money. She just says, well,

00:57:04.860 --> 00:57:07.159
it didn't work out. So I had to live on my own.

00:57:07.219 --> 00:57:09.099
But you're a grown woman. Living on your own

00:57:09.099 --> 00:57:11.380
is not Dylan's responsibility. If you didn't

00:57:11.380 --> 00:57:13.880
work out, you can't blame the fact that you had

00:57:13.880 --> 00:57:17.119
to live on your own on him. Because relationships

00:57:17.119 --> 00:57:19.119
don't work out, marriages don't work out. It's

00:57:19.119 --> 00:57:21.000
still your relationship to take care of yourself

00:57:21.000 --> 00:57:23.340
after the fact. I think that she's under the

00:57:23.340 --> 00:57:25.059
impression that she's supposed to be taken care

00:57:25.059 --> 00:57:27.420
of and she's never responsible for herself. Kind

00:57:27.420 --> 00:57:30.920
of like Natalie from 90 Day Fiance who was with

00:57:30.920 --> 00:57:33.900
Big Mike. Like she's never been her own responsibility.

00:57:34.480 --> 00:57:37.139
She's always a man's responsibility. Some man

00:57:37.139 --> 00:57:39.139
is supposed to take care of her and maybe Patia

00:57:39.139 --> 00:57:41.659
has that same mindset where she's like, well,

00:57:41.820 --> 00:57:43.559
I shouldn't have to pay my bills. That should

00:57:43.559 --> 00:57:46.199
be some man's responsibility. And I think that's

00:57:46.199 --> 00:57:47.539
probably where she's saying that she's like,

00:57:47.539 --> 00:57:49.820
well, you left. So I had to pay these bills.

00:57:49.840 --> 00:57:52.340
So it's your fault. And it's not, you know, you're

00:57:52.340 --> 00:57:57.039
responsible for yourself. Exactly. So I guess,

00:57:57.059 --> 00:58:00.579
yeah, it's it's just here we thought, oh, new

00:58:00.579 --> 00:58:03.059
people, this is not going to be that bad. Right.

00:58:03.159 --> 00:58:08.079
Like the only like newcomers or old comers. or

00:58:08.079 --> 00:58:09.960
jenny and summit and jenny and summit are hardly

00:58:09.960 --> 00:58:13.380
even on it and now like we have these new people

00:58:13.380 --> 00:58:15.639
and it's just like okay these people are boring

00:58:15.639 --> 00:58:20.079
just as boring too like i don't understand well

00:58:20.079 --> 00:58:22.440
the storylines are very one -dimensional and

00:58:22.440 --> 00:58:26.000
predictable and i wish for better storylines

00:58:26.000 --> 00:58:30.440
and watching um them unfold it's almost like

00:58:30.440 --> 00:58:34.079
it's exactly what i expected like chloe and And

00:58:34.079 --> 00:58:36.199
Johnny, they're looking to get married now because

00:58:36.199 --> 00:58:37.940
the partnership agreement would force her to

00:58:37.940 --> 00:58:40.599
leave and wait for, I think, three months for

00:58:40.599 --> 00:58:42.679
it to go through. And she said something really

00:58:42.679 --> 00:58:44.659
funny on the episode. She said her relationship

00:58:44.659 --> 00:58:46.699
with Johnny would not last three months long

00:58:46.699 --> 00:58:50.119
distance. And weren't you the one that said that

00:58:50.119 --> 00:58:53.159
that's a red flag? Somebody said on Twitter to

00:58:53.159 --> 00:58:54.780
me, they were like, that should be a huge red

00:58:54.780 --> 00:58:58.039
flag. If your relationship can't survive 90 days

00:58:58.039 --> 00:59:00.280
long distance, then what makes you think it's

00:59:00.280 --> 00:59:01.659
going to last a lifetime? And I thought that

00:59:01.659 --> 00:59:04.010
that was a really good point. If because she

00:59:04.010 --> 00:59:06.230
basically is saying if she can't be with him

00:59:06.230 --> 00:59:08.630
and he can't be with her physically in the same

00:59:08.630 --> 00:59:10.170
place, they're both going to cheat each other

00:59:10.170 --> 00:59:11.989
and their relationship will deteriorate. And

00:59:11.989 --> 00:59:13.989
I think that is a huge red flag. Like if you

00:59:13.989 --> 00:59:17.969
can't commit to someone for three months being

00:59:17.969 --> 00:59:19.449
away, because, you know, there are people who

00:59:19.449 --> 00:59:21.530
go away to college that are still together and

00:59:21.530 --> 00:59:24.250
they'll be at different colleges or people that

00:59:24.250 --> 00:59:26.789
move away and accept a job somewhere and they

00:59:26.789 --> 00:59:28.550
have to be separate. They're still committed

00:59:28.550 --> 00:59:31.800
to each other. Like the fact that it's impossible

00:59:31.800 --> 00:59:34.539
for her to be committed to someone unless They're

00:59:34.539 --> 00:59:37.820
close enough for her to spy on is crazy to me

00:59:37.820 --> 00:59:39.960
like and I think that's the whole thing She doesn't

00:59:39.960 --> 00:59:43.340
trust him and she knows that if she's not there

00:59:43.340 --> 00:59:46.179
hiding in the bushes Steering through the bushes

00:59:46.179 --> 00:59:47.800
to see what he's doing He's brought he's gonna

00:59:47.800 --> 00:59:49.760
cheat on her and that's a massive red flag Like

00:59:49.760 --> 00:59:51.320
why would you even want to be with someone that

00:59:51.320 --> 00:59:53.699
you have to watch? To make sure that they're

00:59:53.699 --> 00:59:57.150
not cheating on you Well, I always said to write

00:59:57.150 --> 01:00:00.190
like and he was actually being very mature and

01:00:00.190 --> 01:00:02.650
very adult on the conversation that they had

01:00:02.650 --> 01:00:07.050
together Yeah, if you remember right he's just

01:00:07.050 --> 01:00:09.710
like I don't like kind of like I don't think

01:00:09.710 --> 01:00:14.929
we're ready to get married Well that was yeah

01:00:14.929 --> 01:00:17.550
he was not only that but he was telling her that

01:00:17.550 --> 01:00:20.349
she's not ready to give him he's right She's

01:00:20.349 --> 01:00:23.039
not ready. I don't think that they're both not

01:00:23.039 --> 01:00:24.480
ready to get married. To be honest with you,

01:00:24.559 --> 01:00:26.780
I don't think either of them are marriage material.

01:00:27.519 --> 01:00:30.519
I think that Johnny is too used to his lifestyle

01:00:30.519 --> 01:00:33.460
as being on his own and doing whatever he wants.

01:00:33.960 --> 01:00:36.960
And I think Chloe likes the idea of having a

01:00:36.960 --> 01:00:41.280
boyfriend or a husband, but I think the implications

01:00:41.280 --> 01:00:44.159
of that would destroy her. I don't think that

01:00:44.159 --> 01:00:49.119
she's ready to not be a brad. Because when you're

01:00:49.119 --> 01:00:52.000
married, it's not just about you. And marrying

01:00:52.000 --> 01:00:54.219
somebody that doesn't have a lot of money, you

01:00:54.219 --> 01:00:56.420
can't be the brat that you are. You're going

01:00:56.420 --> 01:00:58.320
to have to change it. I don't think she's capable

01:00:58.320 --> 01:01:02.780
of giving up her brat lifestyle. I also don't

01:01:02.780 --> 01:01:05.420
think that... I think he said it. He's just like,

01:01:05.559 --> 01:01:08.019
I don't think you're mature enough to handle

01:01:08.019 --> 01:01:13.360
a relationship, like a marriage. She's not. She

01:01:13.360 --> 01:01:15.760
can barely maintain their relationship as boyfriend

01:01:15.760 --> 01:01:18.239
and girlfriend. She's hiding in bushes and spying

01:01:18.239 --> 01:01:21.599
on him. And, you know, I think that at the end

01:01:21.599 --> 01:01:24.420
of the day, she likes the idea of a relationship

01:01:24.420 --> 01:01:26.260
or a marriage, but I don't think that she's marriage

01:01:26.260 --> 01:01:28.280
material. And I don't want to say that like ever.

01:01:28.599 --> 01:01:30.820
I just think at the point and stage in her maturity

01:01:30.820 --> 01:01:33.440
level in her life, she's not ready to get married.

01:01:33.599 --> 01:01:35.880
I think that marriage is something that you grow

01:01:35.880 --> 01:01:40.329
into and you... It becomes a role that you're

01:01:40.329 --> 01:01:44.869
ready to take and she's just not there yet Exactly.

01:01:45.170 --> 01:01:48.309
So what I like and she won't be there for a while

01:01:48.309 --> 01:01:50.050
They're at different stages because you have

01:01:50.050 --> 01:01:53.170
to remember he's he's got a few years on her

01:01:53.170 --> 01:01:55.769
I'm not saying it's a huge age difference, right?

01:01:55.849 --> 01:01:59.769
But he's got he's Like he's lived on his own.

01:01:59.809 --> 01:02:03.510
He like his unfortunately his mom passed away

01:02:03.510 --> 01:02:08.659
the right but he's basically Lived on his own

01:02:08.659 --> 01:02:13.139
like knows how to like have not live in the lap

01:02:13.139 --> 01:02:18.500
of luxury basically Yeah, yeah, it's not gonna

01:02:18.500 --> 01:02:21.280
last I'll speak and I'm not lasting so three

01:02:21.280 --> 01:02:23.679
days after getting to the UK Greta decided that

01:02:23.679 --> 01:02:25.820
she was no longer in love with Matt this bitch

01:02:25.820 --> 01:02:31.000
this bitch I I I told I what I said to tweet

01:02:31.000 --> 01:02:33.099
his Shibuti like on reply to one of his posts.

01:02:33.139 --> 01:02:35.199
I'm like, I don't I don't know who I hate more

01:02:35.199 --> 01:02:39.480
her or Jake now. I really don't. Well, she's

01:02:39.480 --> 01:02:42.860
only been there three days, Gina. And remember,

01:02:43.019 --> 01:02:45.400
yet one of the days she was crying in the kitchen.

01:02:46.099 --> 01:02:48.619
Like, it's weird, though, because he said it's

01:02:48.619 --> 01:02:50.159
only been three days. And I was like, is that

01:02:50.159 --> 01:02:51.780
possible? Because I remember them going to look

01:02:51.780 --> 01:02:55.079
at a house. I remember them like meeting his

01:02:55.079 --> 01:02:59.000
parents. I remember her cooking. that vegan meal

01:02:59.000 --> 01:03:00.420
that she was crying. I was like, how did all

01:03:00.420 --> 01:03:02.900
of that happen in three days? Because it seems

01:03:02.900 --> 01:03:04.800
like she had been there longer than that. But

01:03:04.800 --> 01:03:06.739
he said when she said she wasn't in love with

01:03:06.739 --> 01:03:08.579
him anymore, he was like, Jesus Christ, it's

01:03:08.579 --> 01:03:11.280
only been three days. Can you really have made

01:03:11.280 --> 01:03:14.019
that decision that quickly? And it really put

01:03:14.019 --> 01:03:15.840
it in perspective to me. I was like, well, she

01:03:15.840 --> 01:03:18.690
came here. to break up with him. And then she

01:03:18.690 --> 01:03:20.690
finally admitted she said that she kind of checked

01:03:20.690 --> 01:03:22.949
out of the relationship months before she got

01:03:22.949 --> 01:03:25.670
there. Like she stopped telling him things. She

01:03:25.670 --> 01:03:27.570
stopped looking forward to their conversations.

01:03:28.050 --> 01:03:30.269
She was distant. And I was like, so what would

01:03:30.269 --> 01:03:34.789
possess you to sell all of your shit and get

01:03:34.789 --> 01:03:37.650
rid of your cat and move across the world for

01:03:37.650 --> 01:03:39.449
a person that you didn't even like anymore? Like

01:03:39.449 --> 01:03:43.110
what would possess you to do that? I don't know.

01:03:43.110 --> 01:03:46.079
I don't like her. I really don't. Like I said,

01:03:46.139 --> 01:03:51.360
I don't know who I hate more. It's very hard.

01:03:52.440 --> 01:03:56.840
I don't know who I hate more. I felt bad for

01:03:56.840 --> 01:04:00.679
Matthew because he was kind of blindsided because

01:04:00.679 --> 01:04:03.300
he thought that she moved there because she wanted

01:04:03.300 --> 01:04:06.519
to make things work and she also catfished him

01:04:06.519 --> 01:04:08.440
and said that she wanted kids when she really

01:04:08.440 --> 01:04:11.420
didn't. So he was kind of blindsided. This whole

01:04:11.420 --> 01:04:14.679
three days was kind of like probably every day

01:04:14.679 --> 01:04:16.679
of what the fuck, what the fuck, what the fuck.

01:04:16.800 --> 01:04:19.219
Like it was definitely something that he wasn't

01:04:19.219 --> 01:04:21.260
expecting. And I kind of feel bad for him. So

01:04:21.260 --> 01:04:23.400
he thought he was getting somebody that was coming

01:04:23.400 --> 01:04:25.719
over there that wanted, you know, the same thing

01:04:25.719 --> 01:04:27.719
that he did. And he actually got somebody over

01:04:27.719 --> 01:04:29.300
there that wanted nothing to do with him at all,

01:04:29.300 --> 01:04:32.219
which I think is even more crazy. Then like,

01:04:32.420 --> 01:04:34.539
what was the point of her even appearing on our

01:04:34.539 --> 01:04:38.699
screens? Like, go away. And she's still in London

01:04:38.699 --> 01:04:43.139
or in England. This this bitch has got I can't.

01:04:42.960 --> 01:04:45.719
I can't with her. Like she portrays herself to

01:04:45.719 --> 01:04:50.079
be one thing and she really isn't. I mean she's

01:04:50.079 --> 01:04:53.360
a lady that gave up her cat which is honestly

01:04:53.360 --> 01:04:55.320
like right now when I'm recording this with you

01:04:55.320 --> 01:04:57.280
I have a cat laying on me right now sleeping.

01:04:57.559 --> 01:05:02.199
So the idea that somebody gave up a cat so they

01:05:02.199 --> 01:05:03.940
could leave the country to be with someone that

01:05:03.940 --> 01:05:07.190
they don't even like it just annoys me. just

01:05:07.190 --> 01:05:09.570
annoys me like why would you do that and she's

01:05:09.570 --> 01:05:12.230
supposed to be an animal activist but she's just

01:05:12.230 --> 01:05:14.050
like kicking animals to the curb like they ain't

01:05:14.050 --> 01:05:17.949
shit like that's crazy to me right that's that's

01:05:17.949 --> 01:05:21.070
why i i can't there's many reasons why i can't

01:05:21.070 --> 01:05:26.849
stand stand her um like she bailed out on her

01:05:26.849 --> 01:05:31.250
cat like hasn't talked about the cat like since

01:05:31.250 --> 01:05:35.210
the showing she's still in london or in england

01:05:35.210 --> 01:05:40.050
lord knows God knows doing what like, like, how

01:05:40.050 --> 01:05:43.750
can you do this? Like how, like this man at first,

01:05:43.750 --> 01:05:46.829
like, yeah, he was kind of like an oddball, like,

01:05:46.929 --> 01:05:51.130
wait, what? But now it's just like, he grew on

01:05:51.130 --> 01:05:57.869
me. God dang. He did grow on me. Yeah. Oh, I

01:05:57.869 --> 01:06:01.690
think, hold on. Let's look at my notes. Somebody

01:06:01.690 --> 01:06:03.849
else was on tonight. Oh, wait, maybe they weren't.

01:06:03.889 --> 01:06:08.579
But the previews. for next week. Um, so Madeline

01:06:08.579 --> 01:06:11.179
or Madeline, I don't know how you say it. She

01:06:11.179 --> 01:06:13.599
might be pregnant. Did you catch that in the

01:06:13.599 --> 01:06:17.039
previews for the next week show? Yes, I did.

01:06:17.360 --> 01:06:19.900
Throwing up and she was sick and she thinks that

01:06:19.900 --> 01:06:22.539
she might be pregnant, which I think wouldn't

01:06:22.539 --> 01:06:25.699
be great, you know, because I feel like their

01:06:25.699 --> 01:06:28.679
their relationship is very chaotic. And you know,

01:06:28.739 --> 01:06:30.739
bringing a child into the relationship where

01:06:30.739 --> 01:06:33.239
you're constantly throwing things at him. I don't

01:06:33.239 --> 01:06:35.420
know how healthy that would be you know if it's

01:06:35.420 --> 01:06:37.380
not flour she's hitting him with it's cake if

01:06:37.380 --> 01:06:39.239
it's not cake I think she threw something else

01:06:39.239 --> 01:06:40.699
at him too right I can't remember what it is

01:06:40.699 --> 01:06:42.760
now but she's always throwing things at him so

01:06:42.760 --> 01:06:45.880
I was just like I don't know you know what would

01:06:45.880 --> 01:06:48.559
possess them to be having unprotected sex knowing

01:06:48.559 --> 01:06:51.239
that they're in such a bad place you know and

01:06:51.239 --> 01:06:53.769
then You know, when people do that and then they're

01:06:53.769 --> 01:06:55.590
surprised they get pregnant, that even pisses

01:06:55.590 --> 01:06:57.050
me off even more because I was like, so there

01:06:57.050 --> 01:06:58.869
was a whole health class at your school that

01:06:58.869 --> 01:07:01.429
you didn't pay attention to because people are

01:07:01.429 --> 01:07:03.489
just like, oh, we weren't trying. I was like,

01:07:03.510 --> 01:07:07.230
well, not using contraception is trying. And

01:07:07.230 --> 01:07:09.130
I don't know how to better explain it to people.

01:07:09.170 --> 01:07:10.909
You know, I watch a lot of the teen mom shows

01:07:10.909 --> 01:07:14.349
and the unexpected and, you know, the unplanned

01:07:14.349 --> 01:07:16.130
pregnancy shows and they always use the same

01:07:16.130 --> 01:07:18.190
excuse. They're like, we weren't trying to get

01:07:18.190 --> 01:07:20.889
pregnant, but we also weren't. using anything

01:07:20.889 --> 01:07:22.730
to prevent it. And I was like, that statement

01:07:22.730 --> 01:07:26.010
doesn't make sense. Like, if you're not using

01:07:26.010 --> 01:07:28.570
anything to prevent it, then you're trying, right?

01:07:28.590 --> 01:07:29.949
Like, I don't know how to explain it to people

01:07:29.949 --> 01:07:33.869
any better. Yeah, I don't know if she's pregnant

01:07:33.869 --> 01:07:36.130
or if it was just for TV, we have to remember

01:07:36.130 --> 01:07:40.489
this is TLC we're talking about here. I may be

01:07:40.489 --> 01:07:44.019
she's got food poisoning. I don't think she's

01:07:44.019 --> 01:07:45.440
pregnant. Like, I'm just going to be real. My

01:07:45.440 --> 01:07:47.960
theory is probably closer to what you are thinking.

01:07:48.019 --> 01:07:49.900
She drank too much or she has food poisoning

01:07:49.900 --> 01:07:52.659
and she was thrown up. I just don't think that.

01:07:52.739 --> 01:07:56.260
And I know that they're still together. And,

01:07:56.260 --> 01:07:58.940
you know, Jasmine really was trying to hide her

01:07:58.940 --> 01:08:01.320
pregnancy and she failed at it. So I think if

01:08:01.320 --> 01:08:04.119
she was pregnant, we would know because, you

01:08:04.119 --> 01:08:06.719
know, if it comes to the 90 day world and it's

01:08:06.719 --> 01:08:10.000
something that needs to be found out, we would

01:08:10.000 --> 01:08:12.179
have figured it out by now. So I don't think

01:08:12.179 --> 01:08:14.219
that she is. I think, like you said, she probably

01:08:14.219 --> 01:08:17.779
was sick or drank too much or, you know, whatever,

01:08:18.180 --> 01:08:20.180
nauseated. But I don't think that she's with

01:08:20.180 --> 01:08:22.939
child. And I don't I'm not one to say who should

01:08:22.939 --> 01:08:25.859
and should not have children. But I think that

01:08:25.859 --> 01:08:28.819
that Luke and Madeline have a lot of things to

01:08:28.819 --> 01:08:32.140
work on before having a kid like maybe get married

01:08:32.140 --> 01:08:33.960
first, but not even that. Like, I don't even

01:08:33.960 --> 01:08:35.359
think that they should get married. I think that

01:08:35.359 --> 01:08:37.819
they're incompatible in every possible way. But

01:08:37.819 --> 01:08:41.989
having a kid is way, way off of their like agenda,

01:08:42.149 --> 01:08:44.409
in my opinion, like they should learn how to

01:08:44.409 --> 01:08:46.250
have a conversation without throwing something

01:08:46.250 --> 01:08:49.750
at him first. Mm hmm. Mm hmm. Can you imagine

01:08:49.750 --> 01:08:52.829
if she was pregnant, like what she would do to

01:08:52.829 --> 01:08:57.189
that baby? I would assume she would throw it

01:08:57.189 --> 01:09:00.470
at Luke if it. Yeah, I'm joking, guys. I'm joking.

01:09:00.529 --> 01:09:02.390
I'm not saying that she would do that. I'm joking.

01:09:02.750 --> 01:09:05.130
But yeah, yeah, I don't think that she has the

01:09:05.130 --> 01:09:08.050
patience. I think that she's a little too self

01:09:08.050 --> 01:09:11.960
childish. Yeah, childish and self centered to

01:09:11.960 --> 01:09:15.960
have a baby like she's more about herself than

01:09:15.960 --> 01:09:18.140
anyone else kind of like Jasmine like the baby

01:09:18.140 --> 01:09:22.819
is more like a accessory than a person Because

01:09:22.819 --> 01:09:25.039
you know for some people they're just the center

01:09:25.039 --> 01:09:26.979
of attention It's only them and they can only

01:09:26.979 --> 01:09:29.520
see them and I think Madeline falls into that

01:09:29.520 --> 01:09:32.199
category where she's incapable of seeing anyone

01:09:32.199 --> 01:09:36.439
else's feelings or needs before her own it's

01:09:36.439 --> 01:09:39.829
always been her so I think if If she was to have

01:09:39.829 --> 01:09:42.069
a kid, it would be harder for her to decipher

01:09:42.069 --> 01:09:44.850
between, well, what's important, me or the kid?

01:09:45.029 --> 01:09:47.449
I think that she would always pick her because

01:09:47.449 --> 01:09:49.609
that's just where she is in her maturity level.

01:09:49.649 --> 01:09:53.289
She's the only person in her universe. Exactly.

01:09:53.489 --> 01:09:56.869
They're self -absorbed. Yeah, she's very self

01:09:56.869 --> 01:09:59.989
-absorbed. And I guess Jenny can't count cash

01:09:59.989 --> 01:10:03.770
change. So next week, because they won on this

01:10:03.770 --> 01:10:05.489
week, Jenny and submit are going to be back and

01:10:05.489 --> 01:10:08.640
Jenny is going to. be giving out. I guess they

01:10:08.640 --> 01:10:10.699
don't make money anymore because she's been giving

01:10:10.699 --> 01:10:12.979
people too much change because she doesn't know.

01:10:13.340 --> 01:10:15.699
Oh, I don't know. This has only happened to me

01:10:15.699 --> 01:10:17.939
like a handful of times in life that I went to

01:10:17.939 --> 01:10:20.260
the store and I gave someone some money and they

01:10:20.260 --> 01:10:22.359
gave me too much money. So this is my question

01:10:22.359 --> 01:10:25.539
for you, Gina. If this first of all, has this

01:10:25.539 --> 01:10:26.939
happened to you before? Did someone ever give

01:10:26.939 --> 01:10:32.300
you too much money back? Yes, it has. Oh, I'm

01:10:32.300 --> 01:10:34.479
going to ask you. I'm going to say, OK, so OK,

01:10:34.560 --> 01:10:38.189
so it's happened to me. And I guess a judge of

01:10:38.189 --> 01:10:41.789
character question. Um, I didn't give it back.

01:10:42.930 --> 01:10:45.229
So I was just going to ask you, did you also

01:10:45.229 --> 01:10:47.229
keep it or did you give it back? Cause I know

01:10:47.229 --> 01:10:49.989
you're Canadian and y 'all are like super nice.

01:10:50.189 --> 01:10:53.390
So I didn't, I saw that it was too much and I

01:10:53.390 --> 01:10:57.250
took it and I left. What did you do? The thing

01:10:57.250 --> 01:11:03.090
is I gave it back because I've worked retail

01:11:03.090 --> 01:11:09.689
before. And my till has been short because of

01:11:09.689 --> 01:11:13.029
like other people using the till too. But at

01:11:13.029 --> 01:11:15.130
the end of the day, I'm responsible for that

01:11:15.130 --> 01:11:18.909
till. You know what I mean? So let's say if I'm

01:11:18.909 --> 01:11:23.710
on till, right? Like and whatnot. And I am processing

01:11:23.710 --> 01:11:26.810
transactions. And let's say I can't jump on that

01:11:26.810 --> 01:11:30.329
same till, but someone else does. Whoever's on

01:11:30.329 --> 01:11:33.069
it, whoever was on it, the longest is responsible

01:11:33.069 --> 01:11:35.840
for that till. And that it's just a horrible

01:11:35.840 --> 01:11:39.800
feeling when your kill short. All right. So I

01:11:39.800 --> 01:11:45.199
guess I'm a bad person because I also I've also

01:11:45.199 --> 01:11:49.319
found money outside of the bar and it was I pocketed

01:11:49.319 --> 01:11:51.100
50 bucks. I'm like, oh, we're going to have a

01:11:51.100 --> 01:11:55.979
great time tonight. Let's go. That situation

01:11:55.979 --> 01:12:00.100
I've done. So I was actually in Tower City in

01:12:00.100 --> 01:12:02.779
Cleveland. This is years and years ago. And I

01:12:02.779 --> 01:12:05.359
was standing outside Tower City, like not outside,

01:12:05.520 --> 01:12:08.659
like outside one of the stores. And I had my

01:12:08.659 --> 01:12:10.520
daughter with me and she was a baby. Not like

01:12:10.520 --> 01:12:13.979
a baby, like she could walk, but like small and

01:12:13.979 --> 01:12:16.520
like a toddler. Yeah, like a toddler. And I had

01:12:16.520 --> 01:12:19.760
her with me and she was walking and I was holding

01:12:19.760 --> 01:12:21.939
her hand and we were walking and she was like,

01:12:21.960 --> 01:12:25.319
Daddy, money. And I'm like, what are you talking

01:12:25.319 --> 01:12:27.039
about? I look on the ground and there's like

01:12:27.039 --> 01:12:29.579
a 50 and two fifties and a hundred dollar bill

01:12:29.579 --> 01:12:34.460
on the ground. And so I tell her pick it up and

01:12:34.460 --> 01:12:36.359
she picks it up She hands it to me and I pick

01:12:36.359 --> 01:12:41.220
her up and we run out of them all We and I mean

01:12:41.220 --> 01:12:44.899
when I say run run because I didn't want anyone

01:12:44.899 --> 01:12:49.039
to like notice that we took it so I Guess I'm

01:12:49.039 --> 01:12:51.079
a bad person Gina. I'm just gonna put it out

01:12:51.079 --> 01:12:56.020
there. I did that I found money at the mall and

01:12:56.020 --> 01:12:58.739
then one time like I remember one time I was

01:12:58.739 --> 01:13:02.319
going I went to the mall and I had to do something

01:13:02.319 --> 01:13:05.039
or get something and I found like 20 bucks on

01:13:05.039 --> 01:13:08.359
the floor but then after like because I was going

01:13:08.359 --> 01:13:12.760
to attend mass after going to the mall I'm like

01:13:12.760 --> 01:13:18.760
oh my god I'm a freaking horrible person like

01:13:18.760 --> 01:13:21.279
because I'm like customer service would just

01:13:21.279 --> 01:13:25.189
pocket the money Right, obviously if I was to

01:13:25.189 --> 01:13:28.270
hand it in and I was just like, okay, I'm gonna

01:13:28.270 --> 01:13:29.989
pocket this and then I started I'm like, oh my

01:13:29.989 --> 01:13:31.449
god, I'm going to hell I'm gonna go to hell.

01:13:31.449 --> 01:13:34.029
I'm gonna go to hell. I'm like, okay. No, we're

01:13:34.029 --> 01:13:41.869
not doing this So what I did what I did was I

01:13:41.869 --> 01:13:44.609
Ended up donating the same amount that I found

01:13:44.609 --> 01:13:49.619
to the food bank Aren't you just a little saint?

01:13:50.220 --> 01:13:52.859
Well, I am not if I wasn't going to church right

01:13:52.859 --> 01:13:56.840
after that the mall trip I would have pocketed

01:13:56.840 --> 01:13:59.880
it and not done anything but I was like it started

01:13:59.880 --> 01:14:03.199
to like eat away at me like oh my god, I'm going

01:14:03.199 --> 01:14:07.260
I'm going to the house of God and I just like

01:14:07.260 --> 01:14:11.279
stole money off the money from the ground because

01:14:11.279 --> 01:14:14.840
the ground isn't a person I'm a finders, keepers,

01:14:14.899 --> 01:14:17.539
losers, weepers guy. So, you know, so if it's

01:14:17.539 --> 01:14:18.779
on the ground, it doesn't belong to anyone. I

01:14:18.779 --> 01:14:20.239
can't steal from the ground. The ground is that

01:14:20.239 --> 01:14:23.619
person. So and also in a Wal -Mart parking lot,

01:14:23.619 --> 01:14:27.420
I found two twenty dollar bills. Which I went

01:14:27.420 --> 01:14:31.619
into the ballpark and spent on myself. My my

01:14:31.619 --> 01:14:34.479
dad, after I told them after I met my parents

01:14:34.479 --> 01:14:37.979
at church, I told them what happened. My dad's

01:14:37.979 --> 01:14:42.170
like, are you stupid and crazy? Right? What's

01:14:42.170 --> 01:14:45.670
wrong with you? Like, like I didn't raise no

01:14:45.670 --> 01:14:49.869
fool, but clearly you're the fool. Well, what

01:14:49.869 --> 01:14:53.350
did you mean? Thanks. Well, because I had like

01:14:53.350 --> 01:14:55.289
donated the money because I was just like, Oh

01:14:55.289 --> 01:14:58.229
yeah, I don't like, I just couldn't like live

01:14:58.229 --> 01:15:00.989
with myself. I donated the money. Yeah, I agree

01:15:00.989 --> 01:15:04.069
with you. Like that was and I could live with

01:15:04.069 --> 01:15:06.850
myself like I have no like you know how people

01:15:06.850 --> 01:15:08.710
ask you like how do you sleep at night I would

01:15:08.710 --> 01:15:11.369
sleep like a baby after taking that money like

01:15:11.369 --> 01:15:13.649
I could totally live with myself it would not

01:15:13.649 --> 01:15:17.079
bother I wouldn't even lose like 15 minutes like

01:15:17.079 --> 01:15:18.899
you know how some people have guilt I wouldn't

01:15:18.899 --> 01:15:21.100
even have any the first thing I would think is

01:15:21.100 --> 01:15:23.600
what I was gonna buy myself like I would not

01:15:23.600 --> 01:15:25.960
have had that issue that was just an issue that

01:15:25.960 --> 01:15:28.539
you had like I would have that was just an issue

01:15:28.539 --> 01:15:31.460
that I had because I was attending mass right

01:15:31.460 --> 01:15:34.800
after I wouldn't have cared I went to church

01:15:34.800 --> 01:15:37.539
seven days a week for most of my life and if

01:15:37.539 --> 01:15:40.779
I found $100 on the ground that is my money like

01:15:40.779 --> 01:15:43.760
I don't care like I am not holier than nobody

01:15:43.760 --> 01:15:46.449
or whatever it was was mine, and I will fight

01:15:46.449 --> 01:15:50.069
you for it. Like, I have no conscious when it

01:15:50.069 --> 01:15:51.949
comes to ground money, because the ground is

01:15:51.949 --> 01:15:53.949
not a person, you can't steal from the ground.

01:15:54.750 --> 01:15:56.850
But my mom's just like, Oh, you did a good thing.

01:15:56.850 --> 01:16:02.470
It's okay. But my dad's like, you're dumb. Yeah,

01:16:02.710 --> 01:16:06.710
I'm team dad with this. Because there was nothing

01:16:06.710 --> 01:16:10.470
wrong with keeping it. That's what he said. Well,

01:16:10.729 --> 01:16:12.710
you have to look at it like, you know, when something

01:16:12.710 --> 01:16:14.710
good happens and people are like, oh, look at

01:16:14.710 --> 01:16:17.130
God helping me out. That's good. You should have

01:16:17.130 --> 01:16:19.350
said God was handing you the money. That's what

01:16:19.350 --> 01:16:20.350
you should have said. It would have made you

01:16:20.350 --> 01:16:23.289
feel better. Like, that's how I look at it. I

01:16:23.289 --> 01:16:26.289
was like, oh, I was just saying how I was struggling.

01:16:26.289 --> 01:16:28.909
And then, oh, look, I just God just handed me

01:16:28.909 --> 01:16:30.649
some cash. You know, that's how I would look

01:16:30.649 --> 01:16:34.229
at it. But I don't need any justification. You

01:16:34.229 --> 01:16:36.449
know, I'm going to. You know, I was like, I'm

01:16:36.449 --> 01:16:38.050
gonna take it anyway. I'm just saying if I needed

01:16:38.050 --> 01:16:41.630
any, that would have been it. If you needed any

01:16:41.630 --> 01:16:43.750
signs like, oh, it's a blessing in disguise.

01:16:43.989 --> 01:16:47.989
Here I go. Yeah, but I didn't need any. What

01:16:47.989 --> 01:16:50.159
do you call it? I didn't need anyone to coach

01:16:50.159 --> 01:16:52.779
me into to sleeping better about it because I

01:16:52.779 --> 01:16:55.319
wasn't gonna feel bad Like I'm not gonna feel

01:16:55.319 --> 01:16:58.520
bad. I mean, I guess I'm a bad person, but I'm

01:16:58.520 --> 01:17:01.279
fine with it You know, like I'm not I never said

01:17:01.279 --> 01:17:03.779
I was perfect and I think there's no such thing

01:17:03.779 --> 01:17:05.979
as a perfect person anyway So it would be stupid

01:17:05.979 --> 01:17:08.359
for me to even say that like but yeah, I have

01:17:08.359 --> 01:17:10.899
no I don't say I have no conscience I do have

01:17:10.899 --> 01:17:14.180
a conscience but not for ground money Not for

01:17:14.180 --> 01:17:18.630
that But besides that, those two times, like

01:17:18.630 --> 01:17:21.689
that time, I'm just like, yeah, no, but poor,

01:17:22.050 --> 01:17:24.829
poor Jenny, but seriously, I understand if they

01:17:24.829 --> 01:17:28.029
can't afford a cash register, but at the end

01:17:28.029 --> 01:17:31.970
of the day, like you have a phone, use the calculator.

01:17:32.829 --> 01:17:34.649
Like I'm confused. How can they not afford a

01:17:34.649 --> 01:17:36.930
cash register? Like, but you can afford all that

01:17:36.930 --> 01:17:40.189
equipment to use. I don't know. I'm just saying,

01:17:40.250 --> 01:17:43.130
I'm just justifying. Okay. Like I'm not saying

01:17:43.130 --> 01:17:46.289
they can't afford it. doesn't make sense and

01:17:46.289 --> 01:17:47.970
a cash register i don't know if you've been to

01:17:47.970 --> 01:17:50.590
like i don't remember who used to sell them back

01:17:50.590 --> 01:17:52.689
in the day sam's club or cosco but you could

01:17:52.689 --> 01:17:55.930
buy as your cash register for 249 you ever seen

01:17:55.930 --> 01:17:58.229
them there because i used to yeah cosco business

01:17:58.229 --> 01:18:01.390
center they have everything there i used to tell

01:18:01.390 --> 01:18:03.430
my mom like mom i want a cash register and she

01:18:03.430 --> 01:18:06.489
would be like for what and i i didn't have an

01:18:06.489 --> 01:18:09.250
answer i just wanted one but they sold them there

01:18:09.250 --> 01:18:11.329
at cosco and i was just like can we get one they

01:18:11.329 --> 01:18:12.869
have cash register and she would just always

01:18:12.869 --> 01:18:15.310
hit me with the What exactly would you do with

01:18:15.310 --> 01:18:18.250
it? Because you don't need that. And I couldn't

01:18:18.250 --> 01:18:21.090
justify it. I just knew I wanted it. Well, she's

01:18:21.090 --> 01:18:24.149
not wrong. Well, no, she was usually right. I

01:18:24.149 --> 01:18:26.689
just I just wanted it. You know how when you're

01:18:26.689 --> 01:18:28.829
younger, you want things that make no sense?

01:18:29.149 --> 01:18:31.949
Like I've wanted a lot of things. I answer was

01:18:31.949 --> 01:18:33.590
what the hell would you do with that? But that

01:18:33.590 --> 01:18:37.569
was just because I was young and stupid. But

01:18:37.569 --> 01:18:39.850
yeah cash registers aren't that expensive and

01:18:39.850 --> 01:18:42.310
they tell you exactly what to give people but

01:18:42.310 --> 01:18:46.649
like you said your phone does too So like even

01:18:46.649 --> 01:18:48.470
if you didn't have a cash register, you could

01:18:48.470 --> 01:18:51.250
use your calculator app on your phone to make

01:18:51.250 --> 01:18:54.289
change But I don't know. I used to work retail

01:18:54.289 --> 01:18:56.789
my first job ever in the whole wide world I worked

01:18:56.789 --> 01:18:59.250
at this place called Mark's it was the grocery

01:18:59.250 --> 01:19:02.810
store in Ohio and I was a cash register Guy,

01:19:03.109 --> 01:19:05.670
what do you call those a cashier? And the funny

01:19:05.670 --> 01:19:09.949
part is, it was when this happened, cash register

01:19:09.949 --> 01:19:14.369
jobs were for girls. So I got interviewed for

01:19:14.369 --> 01:19:17.729
the job, right? I remember I was in the 10th

01:19:17.729 --> 01:19:20.529
grade and I got interviewed for the job. Nope,

01:19:20.689 --> 01:19:24.720
I lied. I was in the 11th grade and After the

01:19:24.720 --> 01:19:26.880
interview, the lady was like, you got the job.

01:19:26.979 --> 01:19:29.220
She was like, you'll be pushing carts or whatever.

01:19:29.239 --> 01:19:31.060
And I was like, nah, I ain't pushing carts. I'm

01:19:31.060 --> 01:19:33.479
too cute for that. So I didn't want the job.

01:19:33.659 --> 01:19:36.500
So I turned the job down and then I got back

01:19:36.500 --> 01:19:40.600
home to my house. And the lady called the house.

01:19:40.640 --> 01:19:44.000
When I walked in the house, actually, she was

01:19:44.000 --> 01:19:46.260
on a phone with my aunt and she was trying to

01:19:46.260 --> 01:19:47.819
get a hold of me. And she was like, tell him

01:19:47.819 --> 01:19:51.100
that I have a cashier job for him. But she's

01:19:51.100 --> 01:19:53.869
like, I didn't offer. that to him because no

01:19:53.869 --> 01:19:57.149
boy has ever been a cashier here before or whatever

01:19:57.149 --> 01:19:59.989
and I was like yeah I'll do that and I was really

01:19:59.989 --> 01:20:03.409
good at it because I remember every time the

01:20:03.409 --> 01:20:05.390
lady who counted the registers at the end of

01:20:05.390 --> 01:20:08.029
the night would come out she would be like your

01:20:08.029 --> 01:20:10.949
cash register balances to zero every every time

01:20:10.949 --> 01:20:13.470
you work and I was like is that good and she

01:20:13.470 --> 01:20:17.210
was like no one is ever perfect with their money,

01:20:17.529 --> 01:20:19.550
but she was like, your cash register balances

01:20:19.550 --> 01:20:22.350
to zero every night. And then I don't even think

01:20:22.350 --> 01:20:24.289
I was a cashier that long. I think after a few

01:20:24.289 --> 01:20:26.029
months, they put me at customer service. And

01:20:26.029 --> 01:20:27.390
then after that, I was some sort of manager,

01:20:27.390 --> 01:20:30.510
but I was really good at making change though.

01:20:30.710 --> 01:20:33.189
Cause everybody, like all the managers were like,

01:20:33.569 --> 01:20:35.329
they put me in charge of like, I don't remember

01:20:35.329 --> 01:20:37.310
what the job was, but I was in charge of the

01:20:37.310 --> 01:20:40.029
cashiers where you give them change and you make

01:20:40.029 --> 01:20:42.909
change for the cashiers. I had that job. So when

01:20:42.909 --> 01:20:44.789
Jenny said that she was not having a hard time

01:20:44.789 --> 01:20:46.350
counting money I was like see I never had that

01:20:46.350 --> 01:20:48.250
issue when it come to money. That's the only

01:20:48.250 --> 01:20:50.689
language I speak I had the only language I speak

01:20:50.689 --> 01:20:52.890
like if this money you ain't never gonna get

01:20:52.890 --> 01:20:54.989
over on me cuz I speak that that's like a foreign

01:20:54.989 --> 01:21:00.090
language that I am fluent in Yeah, but like what

01:21:00.090 --> 01:21:03.449
like what can she do she can't she can't cook

01:21:03.760 --> 01:21:07.920
She can't clean. She can't do anything. Like,

01:21:08.399 --> 01:21:11.800
like make it make sense. Like what, what is wrong

01:21:11.800 --> 01:21:15.140
with you in her defense? She should be retired.

01:21:15.180 --> 01:21:17.539
She shouldn't be doing anything. That's like

01:21:17.539 --> 01:21:19.779
her defense. Like at her age, she shouldn't be

01:21:19.779 --> 01:21:22.079
doing anything at all. Like, so I don't get mad

01:21:22.079 --> 01:21:24.239
at her for not being good at things because she's

01:21:24.239 --> 01:21:26.119
not supposed to be doing anything. She's old

01:21:26.119 --> 01:21:29.670
and she should be living out her best life. And,

01:21:29.689 --> 01:21:32.090
you know, being retired and laying in bed and

01:21:32.090 --> 01:21:33.989
drinking coffee or whatever old people drink.

01:21:34.130 --> 01:21:35.729
I don't know. Like she shouldn't whatever she's

01:21:35.729 --> 01:21:38.149
doing now. It's too much for her age. You know,

01:21:38.149 --> 01:21:40.409
she shouldn't be trying to work in a cafe seven

01:21:40.409 --> 01:21:43.289
days a week. She's she's retired. And, you know,

01:21:43.289 --> 01:21:45.229
I know that people are like, oh, she should be

01:21:45.229 --> 01:21:47.350
better at things. It's like, well, maybe she

01:21:47.350 --> 01:21:51.029
was better at things like 30 years ago. And now

01:21:51.029 --> 01:21:54.069
she's just passed her prime. You know, like she's

01:21:54.069 --> 01:21:56.210
you know how they say you can't teach somebody

01:21:56.210 --> 01:21:59.479
who's been doing What do they say somebody wasn't

01:21:59.479 --> 01:22:01.460
going to teach a dog new tricks? Well, yeah,

01:22:01.479 --> 01:22:03.319
I didn't want to call her a dog though, but like.

01:22:03.420 --> 01:22:06.539
No, no, I'm not saying like metaphorically, like

01:22:06.539 --> 01:22:09.239
it's just the phrase that they say. You're a

01:22:09.239 --> 01:22:11.300
person that's worked at a job for 40 years and

01:22:11.300 --> 01:22:14.000
then the company does a restructuring. You're

01:22:14.000 --> 01:22:16.000
probably going to have to lay off that person

01:22:16.000 --> 01:22:17.859
who's been there for 40 years because there's

01:22:17.859 --> 01:22:20.079
no way they're going to be able to learn a new

01:22:20.079 --> 01:22:22.859
way of doing that job because they've been there

01:22:22.859 --> 01:22:24.359
for 40 years. They've been doing it the same

01:22:24.359 --> 01:22:25.939
way the whole time. You're just going to have

01:22:25.939 --> 01:22:27.579
to force them in their retirement. You're not

01:22:27.579 --> 01:22:29.399
going to be able to restructure the company with

01:22:29.399 --> 01:22:31.779
them because they'll never do it. They're stuck

01:22:31.779 --> 01:22:33.270
in their ways. And I feel like That's how I feel

01:22:33.270 --> 01:22:36.130
about Jenny. She's made it so far in life, doing

01:22:36.130 --> 01:22:39.270
things a certain way, and she retired. Trying

01:22:39.270 --> 01:22:41.550
to teach her new skills at this point is a waste

01:22:41.550 --> 01:22:46.779
of time. Agreed. Totally agreed. Sorry Jenny,

01:22:47.319 --> 01:22:51.479
but but at the same time it's a family business

01:22:51.479 --> 01:22:54.640
Right like you didn't want to meet working because

01:22:54.640 --> 01:22:56.960
he's like at the other place because it was too

01:22:56.960 --> 01:22:59.560
much for him And not he wasn't spending enough

01:22:59.560 --> 01:23:02.279
time for you. You're just gonna age him to the

01:23:02.279 --> 01:23:07.960
same age bracket as you Well, somebody has to

01:23:07.960 --> 01:23:09.520
work. That's what I'd be telling people. I was

01:23:09.520 --> 01:23:11.300
like, y 'all can't just be looking in each other's

01:23:11.300 --> 01:23:13.199
face all day. Somebody got to go to work. Well,

01:23:13.199 --> 01:23:18.000
that's what you wanted him to do. Well, she wants,

01:23:18.140 --> 01:23:20.380
but that's the thing though. She's kind of like,

01:23:20.939 --> 01:23:23.039
who's that person that was like, I want you to

01:23:23.039 --> 01:23:24.659
get a job. And then when the person got a job,

01:23:24.720 --> 01:23:26.500
they complained that they were never there. I

01:23:26.500 --> 01:23:28.399
can't remember which cast member that was now,

01:23:28.619 --> 01:23:31.539
but - It was Jenny. Jenny? Okay, yeah. So that's

01:23:31.539 --> 01:23:33.770
what a lot of people think. They think, oh, I

01:23:33.770 --> 01:23:35.930
want you to get a job so we can do better. And

01:23:35.930 --> 01:23:37.949
then when the person gets the job, they realize

01:23:37.949 --> 01:23:39.510
that it takes up all their time. They realize

01:23:39.510 --> 01:23:41.289
they don't actually want the person to have a

01:23:41.289 --> 01:23:43.470
job because they don't want to compromise the

01:23:43.470 --> 01:23:44.970
time. And it's like you can't have the best of

01:23:44.970 --> 01:23:46.890
both worlds. You can't just sit around the house

01:23:46.890 --> 01:23:48.369
and look at each other all day. Somebody has

01:23:48.369 --> 01:23:51.750
to make money. Like that's just how the world

01:23:51.750 --> 01:23:54.369
works. Life works that way. Somebody has to work.

01:23:54.489 --> 01:23:56.710
So I think a lot of women are confused because

01:23:56.710 --> 01:23:58.689
they're like, oh, you work too much. I never

01:23:58.689 --> 01:23:59.970
see you. You should make time for me. But at

01:23:59.970 --> 01:24:02.590
the end of the day, somebody got to go to work.

01:24:02.859 --> 01:24:06.180
Right like exactly. Yeah, just sit around and

01:24:06.180 --> 01:24:08.079
look at each other and because money doesn't

01:24:08.079 --> 01:24:09.680
grow on trees and it doesn't fall out of the

01:24:09.680 --> 01:24:13.260
sky So somebody is gonna have to go and donate

01:24:13.260 --> 01:24:15.600
their time to a job and make money right like

01:24:15.600 --> 01:24:21.300
that's just part of life Like I don't I don't

01:24:21.300 --> 01:24:24.699
know Well, the cafe is non -existent anymore.

01:24:24.699 --> 01:24:26.840
So I'm assuming they're off to their next business

01:24:26.840 --> 01:24:31.380
venture because You know we talked about on the

01:24:31.380 --> 01:24:34.800
other podcast that cafe is already another business.

01:24:34.800 --> 01:24:39.079
It's already rebranded as something else Yeah,

01:24:39.079 --> 01:24:43.520
I tried to find it I'm like Maps Google Maps,

01:24:43.560 --> 01:24:46.880
and I couldn't find it It's probably a good thing

01:24:46.880 --> 01:24:50.000
now because I didn't really want to eat anywhere

01:24:50.000 --> 01:24:52.819
where they slash cow urine everywhere like it

01:24:52.819 --> 01:24:55.699
I also did say that it was probably just a pop

01:24:55.699 --> 01:25:00.579
-up I mean, true TLC fashion. It could have been

01:25:00.579 --> 01:25:04.720
like, um, made beauty. Yeah. It was a pop -up

01:25:04.720 --> 01:25:07.439
and you know, or if we want to go back real far,

01:25:07.460 --> 01:25:10.739
remember Nicole and Azan's clothing store. It

01:25:10.739 --> 01:25:12.399
didn't, it was such a pop -up. It didn't even.

01:25:12.960 --> 01:25:18.039
Or, or like the makeshift, like what beauty pageant

01:25:18.039 --> 01:25:21.619
at the holiday inn or the Darcy and Stacy fashion

01:25:21.619 --> 01:25:25.930
show in the hallway of a hotel. Oh yeah, I do

01:25:25.930 --> 01:25:29.369
remember that, yeah. You're right, TLC is big

01:25:29.369 --> 01:25:31.989
for making up fake events for their cast members.

01:25:32.270 --> 01:25:35.250
You actually, you're onto something there. Instead

01:25:35.250 --> 01:25:37.710
of sponsoring them and putting them in real pageants

01:25:37.710 --> 01:25:39.770
and real fashion shows, they just create fake

01:25:39.770 --> 01:25:43.130
ones for them, which is even more crazy. Exactly,

01:25:43.409 --> 01:25:46.529
like you pay everybody else, like, or you dress

01:25:46.529 --> 01:25:48.529
grab people on the street, like, hey, do you

01:25:48.529 --> 01:25:51.850
want to show up for this free event? Right like

01:25:51.850 --> 01:25:54.869
you'll be on TV. It's exposure. I know like who's

01:25:54.869 --> 01:25:58.590
gonna like no one's gonna turn that down Well,

01:25:58.710 --> 01:26:00.949
now I will show up anywhere where people are

01:26:00.949 --> 01:26:03.109
looking at me and taking pictures of me like

01:26:03.109 --> 01:26:08.979
I was sure Exactly. You want to put me on TV,

01:26:08.979 --> 01:26:15.619
say less. What do I have to do? OK, you got it.

01:26:16.300 --> 01:26:19.960
I got you. Don't even ask. I'll be there. Say

01:26:19.960 --> 01:26:22.859
less. All right. So we're going to wrap and then

01:26:22.859 --> 01:26:26.840
we're going to be back. We'll probably do a pop

01:26:26.840 --> 01:26:30.439
culture podcast this weekend. um at some point

01:26:30.439 --> 01:26:32.279
because it's been a while since we've done that

01:26:32.279 --> 01:26:36.640
and we're gonna talk um diddy documentary which

01:26:36.640 --> 01:26:38.939
Gina and I watched Gina you watched that right

01:26:39.229 --> 01:26:42.229
Of course I did. There's a lot of stuff I wanna

01:26:42.229 --> 01:26:44.829
talk about with the Diddy documentary. And then

01:26:44.829 --> 01:26:48.529
that David trial, they've been questioning some

01:26:48.529 --> 01:26:51.250
people. I think the head of David's touring company

01:26:51.250 --> 01:26:53.590
was questioned by a grand jury the other day.

01:26:53.890 --> 01:26:55.670
So there's been some developments in that story

01:26:55.670 --> 01:26:57.869
that we talked about it weeks, oh my God, probably

01:26:57.869 --> 01:27:00.850
months ago now. Months ago. Yeah, we'll talk

01:27:00.850 --> 01:27:03.170
about some developments in that. And then I think

01:27:03.170 --> 01:27:06.050
the Backstreet Boy Brian is suing another person

01:27:06.050 --> 01:27:10.390
for walking on the beach by his house. So we'll

01:27:10.390 --> 01:27:14.090
be talking about that. There's something else

01:27:14.090 --> 01:27:16.029
that I think we were going to talk about in pop

01:27:16.029 --> 01:27:18.050
culture, too. We'll talk about that this coming

01:27:18.050 --> 01:27:21.939
sometime this week or this weekend. um either

01:27:21.939 --> 01:27:25.000
you know it's been a weird a weird time the news

01:27:25.000 --> 01:27:27.699
has been disturbing and strange lately so we'll

01:27:27.699 --> 01:27:30.560
get into some of that stuff and oh and i wanted

01:27:30.560 --> 01:27:33.859
to get into the luigi mangione case i haven't

01:27:33.859 --> 01:27:36.079
really talked about it but i guess that the case

01:27:36.079 --> 01:27:38.300
has been going on so i wanted to talk to you

01:27:38.300 --> 01:27:40.220
about some of the stuff that i heard about the

01:27:40.220 --> 01:27:43.899
case and get your opinion on that too yeah we'll

01:27:43.899 --> 01:27:46.060
have we'll have to do because i haven't really

01:27:46.060 --> 01:27:53.390
been up to date like on that Aspect with like

01:27:53.390 --> 01:27:56.750
the Luigi Luigi mountain G only like I haven't

01:27:56.750 --> 01:28:00.109
been like I just read sometimes our TMZ or whatnot

01:28:00.109 --> 01:28:03.869
So I haven't been really up to date on that But

01:28:03.869 --> 01:28:06.869
I will have to do some research upon that right

01:28:06.869 --> 01:28:08.989
so to see what's going on same thing with the

01:28:08.989 --> 01:28:11.510
David I haven't really heard or seen anything.

01:28:11.510 --> 01:28:15.449
So I will have to do some research on that of

01:28:15.449 --> 01:28:18.689
what's going on with that. So, but regardless,

01:28:18.729 --> 01:28:21.609
I'm sure it will be interesting and I'll be like,

01:28:21.949 --> 01:28:25.390
Oh, I told you great. Like, like I said before

01:28:25.390 --> 01:28:29.090
with the David trial, I'm like persons only guilty,

01:28:29.609 --> 01:28:32.869
like guilty once it's been proven and they probably

01:28:32.869 --> 01:28:35.550
need to collect more evidence and more evidence.

01:28:36.210 --> 01:28:39.130
So well, the grand jury is interviewing people

01:28:39.130 --> 01:28:41.949
and you know, when you are, when someone is indicted,

01:28:42.430 --> 01:28:44.609
they're usually indicted by a grand jury, meaning

01:28:44.609 --> 01:28:47.010
that you have to convince all of the people on

01:28:47.010 --> 01:28:48.970
that grand jury that this person did this in

01:28:48.970 --> 01:28:52.369
order to bring charges. So that's the stage that

01:28:52.369 --> 01:28:54.029
they're at now. So they've been interviewing

01:28:54.029 --> 01:28:56.890
people to try to - Wait, where is this taking

01:28:56.890 --> 01:29:01.149
place? This grand jury selection? It's in California.

01:29:01.149 --> 01:29:03.569
Oh, it's in California. Okay. Nevermind. Because

01:29:03.569 --> 01:29:09.189
I had emailed one of our vendors. for my work

01:29:09.189 --> 01:29:11.890
and they're on jury duty but I think they're

01:29:11.890 --> 01:29:16.220
located in Michigan. Oh, yeah, they're in Ohio.

01:29:16.619 --> 01:29:19.760
Oh, like it's somewhere in the East. I'm like,

01:29:19.760 --> 01:29:22.100
wait, wait, can there be like two ties to this?

01:29:22.340 --> 01:29:24.880
But it's weird because he said the person's email

01:29:24.880 --> 01:29:28.079
said, and I don't know, basically, jury duty

01:29:28.079 --> 01:29:31.439
here means like you don't if it's a high profile

01:29:31.439 --> 01:29:35.380
case, you can't have access to like, I don't

01:29:35.380 --> 01:29:37.600
think you can have access to your mobile devices

01:29:37.600 --> 01:29:41.180
or emails or whatever. But I don't know how that

01:29:41.180 --> 01:29:43.640
works in the States. So if it's the same thing.

01:29:43.840 --> 01:29:47.159
Not not all cases are like that. Um, and that's

01:29:47.159 --> 01:29:50.279
called yeah three sequestering I believe it's

01:29:50.279 --> 01:29:54.300
where you can't watch TV or or have your yes,

01:29:54.300 --> 01:29:58.739
sir questioning They do that for certain cases

01:29:58.739 --> 01:30:02.260
That's why I said high profile. Yeah, it's just

01:30:02.260 --> 01:30:06.100
so you're not Influenced by the outside world

01:30:06.100 --> 01:30:09.460
type of thing like that and that be factual But

01:30:09.460 --> 01:30:12.739
the grand jury is just who does the indictment.

01:30:13.020 --> 01:30:15.920
The grand jury wouldn't be the jury that listens

01:30:15.920 --> 01:30:19.220
to the case. The grand jury are the people that

01:30:19.220 --> 01:30:22.520
decide if they want to charge this person with

01:30:22.520 --> 01:30:24.659
that crime. So that's kind of what they're doing.

01:30:25.739 --> 01:30:28.819
Those grand jury, they're not like, I don't want

01:30:28.819 --> 01:30:30.880
to say they're not like regular 12 people, but

01:30:30.880 --> 01:30:34.399
those are people who listen to police reports

01:30:34.399 --> 01:30:37.359
and decide. how to charge people, like how to

01:30:37.359 --> 01:30:41.319
proceed further. Yeah. Got it. Okay. Just the

01:30:41.319 --> 01:30:44.479
digital system works differently. I believe here.

01:30:44.680 --> 01:30:48.060
Right. So that's why. Okay. Well, I've got some

01:30:48.060 --> 01:30:50.479
homework to do then to catch up on what you know.

01:30:51.159 --> 01:30:55.760
So, well, you know, me, I'm a knowledge head.

01:30:55.840 --> 01:30:58.550
I like to know Things that aren't going to ever

01:30:58.550 --> 01:31:00.750
help me in life. I'm just I just want to know.

01:31:01.170 --> 01:31:04.270
So yeah, except for geography, not not. Well,

01:31:04.470 --> 01:31:06.229
how would that help me? I could just tell the

01:31:06.229 --> 01:31:08.229
airport where I want to go and they'll take me.

01:31:08.229 --> 01:31:09.989
I don't need to know where. Why would I ever

01:31:09.989 --> 01:31:11.689
need to know where it is? You know, I'm not flying

01:31:11.689 --> 01:31:14.590
the plane. Like, why would I ever need to know

01:31:14.590 --> 01:31:16.909
where it physically is? I just tell the people

01:31:16.909 --> 01:31:19.550
at the airport or the the airline where I want

01:31:19.550 --> 01:31:22.050
to go. And then they tell me get on this plane

01:31:22.050 --> 01:31:24.109
and you'll go there. That's that's the only information

01:31:24.109 --> 01:31:27.550
I would ever need. Yeah, just don't like there's

01:31:27.550 --> 01:31:30.250
a Paris Texas and then there's a Paris France

01:31:30.250 --> 01:31:33.750
don't make that don't make that choice Well,

01:31:33.750 --> 01:31:35.329
I'm pretty sure I don't want to go to Paris,

01:31:35.350 --> 01:31:37.729
Texas. I mean, I'm not saying I don't I know

01:31:37.729 --> 01:31:41.189
what's there, but I probably don't want to go

01:31:41.189 --> 01:31:43.489
Yeah, wouldn't blame you. I remember Vancouver

01:31:43.489 --> 01:31:46.489
has to like Vancouver Canada and then there's

01:31:46.489 --> 01:31:49.329
Vancouver Washington where Laura's from I don't

01:31:49.329 --> 01:31:50.890
think you want to go to Vancouver, Washington

01:31:54.880 --> 01:31:57.380
that there was two vancouver's so yeah that's

01:31:57.380 --> 01:31:59.039
good information see that's the type of information

01:31:59.039 --> 01:32:03.300
i like to have useless information all right

01:32:03.300 --> 01:32:06.359
guys i'm sorry again that it's been almost a

01:32:06.359 --> 01:32:08.079
month someone dm me and said it's been almost

01:32:08.079 --> 01:32:10.619
a month since we recorded a podcast and that's

01:32:10.619 --> 01:32:12.659
horrible and i'm sorry and we'll get back on

01:32:12.659 --> 01:32:16.279
it i promise um thanks for listening thank you

01:32:16.279 --> 01:32:20.779
to gina for joining and This has been fun, right?

01:32:21.319 --> 01:32:24.720
It has been. We've caught up. We've talked about

01:32:24.720 --> 01:32:28.800
personal stuff. We've talked about both shows.

01:32:28.859 --> 01:32:32.039
This has been an epic episode. Yeah, it's been

01:32:32.039 --> 01:32:34.779
good. It's been fun. And we'll be back soon with

01:32:34.779 --> 01:32:36.399
the pop culture, and then we'll be back for more

01:32:36.399 --> 01:32:40.060
Before the 90 Days. um and and whatever that

01:32:40.060 --> 01:32:42.939
entails i'm excited about so everybody have a

01:32:42.939 --> 01:32:45.680
good week hope you had a good thanksgiving and

01:32:45.680 --> 01:32:48.060
it's christmas time so don't be like me i haven't

01:32:48.060 --> 01:32:50.060
purchased one christmas present yet don't be

01:32:50.060 --> 01:32:52.260
like me be better than me because i hope y 'all

01:32:52.260 --> 01:32:53.859
have already started because i haven't so if

01:32:53.859 --> 01:32:56.319
you haven't get on it because i'm behind all

01:32:56.319 --> 01:33:03.100
right guys we'll talk yes already soon bye bye