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Proverbs chapter 3, we're going to look at two

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more verses today. Proverbs chapter 3, verses

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11 and 12. That's going to be in the Old Testament,

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kind of close to the middle of your Bible. If

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you can find Psalms right there in the middle,

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Proverbs is going to be pretty close nearby.

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If you just keep turning. I would encourage you

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to read through the Proverbs. A lot of good instruction,

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a lot of good wisdom. In this particular part

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of the Proverb, Solomon is writing to his son,

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giving his son instruction. That's so important

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for those of you who are parents and grandparents

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to instruct your children and guide your children

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and let your children know right from wrong.

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Try to put them on the right path because somebody

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in this world and this life is going to be guiding

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your children. And it'd be far better if it were

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you than allowing somebody else to do it. And

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so it's good for us to give instruction to our

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children and to our grandchildren. And that's

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what we see here in this Proverbs. Proverbs chapter

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3, verses 11 and 12. We'll read these two verses,

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then we'll pray. Do not despise the Lord's instruction,

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my son. And do not loathe his discipline, for

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the Lord disciplines the one he loves. Just as

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a father, the son, he delights in. Let's pray.

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God, we come to you. We thank you for these good

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words. I pray that you would help us to focus

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on you today. There are a lot of stresses and

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worries and stuff that compete for our attention

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and maybe even some good things, dear Lord, that

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are competing for our attention today. But I

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pray in these few moments that your Holy Spirit

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would be in this place, that you would hide me

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behind the cross, that I would preach and teach

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in a way that brings glory and honor to you.

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Dear Lord, I pray that you would help us to pay

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attention when perhaps you're trying to get our

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attention, dear Lord. God, you give us instruction

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not to keep us from having any fun, but dear

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Lord, so oftentimes the things that seem fun

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to us are not good for us. So let us know, God,

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let us know today that you love us and what you

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command us to is because you love us. So let

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us seek to follow your commands and live in obedience

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to them. And I ask these things in Jesus' name.

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Amen. Has anybody in here ever got a whooping

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before, a paddling? Has anybody in here ever

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got, I see some hands going up. I suspect that

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some of us have. I don't know that that's even

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a thing in schools these days. When I was in

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school, you could get a paddle, and I don't expect

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you can get a paddle in these days. You did something

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wrong, and it wasn't any issue. Parents had told

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the school or the principal, hey, if he does

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something that's wrong, and you tear him up.

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And sure enough, your parents would find out

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before you got home, and you'd get two whippings.

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Because you'd get a whipping at school and you'd

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get a whipping at home. And for some young folks

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today, maybe even some in here, I don't know,

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that's all like foreign language. They don't

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even have a clue what I'm talking about. But

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there was discipline that took place. And I think

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that that's a good thing. I think that the Scripture

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says that that's a good thing. We see Scriptures

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that speak of that in Proverbs 22, verse 15.

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Foolishness is tangled up in the heart of a youth.

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The rod of discipline will drive it away from

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him. In Proverbs 13, 24, the one who will not

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use the rod hates his son, but the one who loves

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him disciplines him diligently. Now these are

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not very popular verses in our world today. There

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was a time in our culture that physical discipline

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was accepted, but nowadays it's sometimes referred

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to as discipline. child abuse. And there is a

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lack of discipline, I believe, sometimes in our

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world today. And I don't think that that's a

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good thing. We kind of tend to shy away from

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discipline or attempt discipline in a different

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way, perhaps. Used to, when I was young, it was,

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if you did good, then nothing would happen. But

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if you did bad, you were going to be disciplined.

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Now, The code for me when I was a kid was, do

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we need to go to the bathroom? If I was somewhere

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and I was misbehaving, which was very rare because

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I was a pretty good child, my dad would look

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at me and say, do you need to go to the bathroom?

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Now, I knew what was going to happen when I went

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to the bathroom. And there were a few times that

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I had to get disciplined, that I got a whipping,

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that I got a spanking with the belt. Now, it

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wasn't abusive. It didn't cause any problem.

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It was done out of love, but nevertheless, I

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didn't like it. And we don't really see that

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these days. It was, you go and you do good, you

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say yes sir and no sir and yes ma 'am and no

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ma 'am, and everything would be fine. But if

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you didn't do good, you got disciplined. Well,

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now we see kind of a different shift in our world.

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For better or for worse, you can decide. Nowadays,

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it's, well, we're not going to discipline a child

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for doing wrong. We just ignore them when they

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do wrong. but we reward them when they do good.

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That's a whole different type of mindset. So

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just don't acknowledge the wrong and reward the

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good, and that will teach kids to do good all

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the time. And I don't know that that's a good

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concept. I don't think the Scripture teaches

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that. Now, there are a lot of people today that

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say, well, we discipline our children, but we

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don't discipline them physically. So be it. We

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still have these scriptures you have to do something

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with. You, as a parent, I'm not a parent, but

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as a parent, we have to read these scriptures

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and we have to say, well, these are command of

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God, so we have to do something with them. If

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some physical discipline was good when God had

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these words penned, then perhaps there is some

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good in it today. But as a society, as children,

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as adults, discipline helps us to respect authority.

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And I believe that that's a big problem in our

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world today. I think when I look around, I see

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a lot of people that don't respect authority.

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And perhaps that stems from a lack of discipline.

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That when children were growing up, that they

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didn't receive any discipline. That they did

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what was good and they got something for it and

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then they get into the real world and somebody

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does discipline them and say you're wrong and

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they don't know what to do. They say, but I do

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good. You should give me something for that.

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No, we do good just because it's the right thing

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to do. But in our world today, we don't see as

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much discipline perhaps as we should. And I think

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part of a result of that is there's a lack of

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authority. We don't respect that authority anymore.

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And when people do show authority, we have a

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hard time submitting to that. And so this sermon

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is not necessarily about how you discipline your

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kids, but that does have an effect in how we

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turn out in life. Because I think that that discipline

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that we experience as a young person helps us

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to begin to respect our parents. And even more

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so, that carries over into our respect for God.

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That in that discipline, that that teaches us

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that there is a higher authority. That there

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is one that we answer to. That there is a right

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and a wrong. That wrong is punished. That sometimes

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good is rewarded. But our motivation to do good

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should not just be that, man, if I'm good this

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week, I'm going to get a new Lego set. That shouldn't

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just be our... Our motivation to do good shouldn't

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just be, what are we going to get from it? Our

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motivation to do good is... God is the creator

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of the heavens and the earth. He is the authority,

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and he gives us instructions and commands that

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are for our good and for our well -being. And

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if we follow those things, blessings will occur,

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maybe not physically or financially, but just

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knowing we've made the right decision. Man, that

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feels good to know that you've done what's right.

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It's a certain sense of peace that comes along

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with that. And so we see... Passages like these

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in the scripture. It talks about discipline.

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It talks about the Lord's discipline. Did anybody

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in here ever, when they were young, enjoy, those

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of you who have gotten one, enjoy getting a whipping?

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Did anybody ever enjoy that? Don't think so.

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Praise the Lord. I didn't see any hands go up.

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Now, some of you got a lot of whippings, but

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we never enjoyed it. Let me ask you another question.

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For those of you who were on the giving end as

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parents whipping your children, did you ever

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enjoy it and just long and say, man, I hope my

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boy messes up at school today. I can't wait to

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get to bed. Did any of you parents ever do that?

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Praise the Lord, there's no hands. So nobody

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likes to receive discipline. And I'm not a parent,

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but I got a little puppy. And when she was young,

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she was bad. And now she's really bad. And it

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might be because we didn't discipline her enough.

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Because it's hard. We did discipline her some.

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We tried to at least. But it's hard, right? You

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see this life form that you love and like all

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you want more than anything, I'm guessing, I'm

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speaking, you can correct me. I say this a lot

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when I'm talking about parenting because I don't

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know. But I imagine that probably what you want

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more than anything in this world is for your

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children not to suffer. You want to try to take

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all suffering out of their life. You want them

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to avoid suffering at all costs, and especially

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at your hands. And so discipline is hard. It's

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a hard thing that we don't like to receive and

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that we don't like to give, but as hard as it

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may be, it's necessary. It's necessary, and I

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think God's Word is pretty clear on that in a

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physical sense as to how we raise our children.

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And I think God's word is clear on that in our

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relationship with God. And that's what this verse

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says. Do not despise the Lord's instruction.

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Okay, what is instruction? Instruction is do

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this or don't do this. Now, what is instruction

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for? Well, here's what happened. One day, years

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ago, there was a group of parents and they got

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together. And they said, we have kids coming

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up, and we don't want them to have any fun whatsoever.

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So we are going to make rules that we are going

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to tell our kids that they cannot stay up late,

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that they cannot eat sweets all the time, that

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they cannot jump off the roof onto the trampoline.

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Anything that looks fun, we're going to ban it.

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And we are going to call each other at night

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when they go to bed early, and we're going to

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say, can you believe how much fun we have kept

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them from? That's not what happened. That's not

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why parents give instructions. It seems like

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that as a kid. Oh, my parents don't want me to

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do that fun. All my other friends get to do this.

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Jimmy's dad lets him jump off the roof on the

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trampoline. We say this kind of stuff, right?

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And as kids, we just think our parents, they

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must just not want us to have fun. But that's

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not the truth. Now, why might your parents say

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don't jump off the roof on the trampoline? Well,

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you might kill your fool self. You might fall

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off and trip and hit your head. The trampoline

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might bust. You go to the ground. You might hit

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the trampoline and bounce up to the moon. You

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don't know where you're going to go. Now your

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parents are pretty wise and they know that it's

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not good to do that because they did that when

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they were a kid and they busted their head open.

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When I was young, some of you kids and adults

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too may have got this instruction. Don't jump

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on the bed. Well, jumping on the bed is pretty

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fun. It's cushy. It's springy. What could possibly

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happen? I was jumping on the bed one day just

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having a big time. You know what happened? I

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got too close. I fell off the edge of the bed,

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hit the corner of the dresser, busted my head

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open. There's a scar there today probably still.

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You can see it. Now, why did my parents tell

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me not to jump on the bed? Because they knew

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that something like that could happen. And so

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the instructions that we get from our parents,

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we may not understand it, we may not like it,

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but there's a good chance that the reason why

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our parents are telling us not to do some of

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the things they tell us not to do or to do some

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of the things they tell us to do is because they

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want what's best for us. They want to eliminate

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as much suffering in our life as they can. And

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the same is true for God. Now, we read God's

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word and, man, our human natural tendencies are

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to want to do some things that feel good and

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that seem good and that don't seem like they

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have any negative impact on us. But what the

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Lord knows is that there are some things that

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are not good for us. We see that throughout the

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Old Testament. God gives us all kind of commands.

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Hey, don't do this and don't do that and don't

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do this. And these things we say, well, maybe

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it's okay if we do a little bit of this and a

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little bit of that. But God's instructions are

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good. And he gives us these instructions because

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they are good for us. So what's the instruction

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that Solomon gives to his son here? He says,

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don't despise the Lord's instruction. The Lord's

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instruction is scripture. You say, what is the

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Lord's instruction? It's the Bible. We have to

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read the Bible. We have to read and say, okay,

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what is God instructing us to do? How does God

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want us to live? What are some things we need

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to be careful about? What are some things we

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need to stay away from? And if the Lord's given

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us that instruction, then we need to try to follow

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that instruction. Do not despise the Lord's instruction,

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my son, and do not loathe his discipline. Now,

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none of us like to be disciplined. When we're

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younger, we probably don't even like it much.

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When we're older, in whatever form, shape or

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form that discipline takes, we don't like that.

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Maybe when we were younger and we got a whipping

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from our parents, we thought, man, I can't believe

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my dad did that or my mom did that. We don't

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like that because we don't understand that. We

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can't comprehend as a child, as we grow into

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adults, especially as we grow into parents. Maybe

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we begin to understand that a lot more. I didn't

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care for a weapon when I was a kid. But now that

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I'm 42, I think, man, I probably should have

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got a lot more weapons than I got. It probably

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would have been better for me. There were a lot

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of things that my parents let me get away with

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that they shouldn't have let me get away with.

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Things that probably would have helped shape

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me to make better decisions and do better things.

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And I didn't understand that as a child, but

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I understand that. the more I grow into an adult.

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And we don't like discipline. And I guess that's

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why this has to be stated to us here. Don't loathe

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the Lord's discipline. The Lord is disciplining

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us for a reason. What does it say? For the Lord

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disciplines the one he loves just as a father

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the son he delights in. Now that seems contradictory.

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I love you, therefore I'm going to whip you.

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Your parents might say something like this. This

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hurts me more than it hurts you. Oh, really?

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You're the one that's got the belt. How is this

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hurting you? And you say those things as a parent,

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and it's true. It does hurt you more than it

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hurts the child. What does the Lord say? The

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Lord disciplines the one he loves. Now, do you

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love your child? Well, hopefully you love your

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child. Do you want your child to be a productive

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citizen? Do you want your child to be safe? Do

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you want your child to make good decisions? Well,

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that comes about by disciplining them in some

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way, shape, or form. Maybe you say, I'm not using

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physical discipline. So be it. That's between

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you and the Lord. But there has to be some discipline

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that takes place. Because if there is not, It's

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trouble. If a child grows up and gets everything

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they want and gets to do everything that they

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want, and I would imagine, I'm not a parent,

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I would imagine that the temptation to try to

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give your kid everything that they want and to

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take all suffering out of their life, I would

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imagine that temptation is super strong. But

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that comes with some very bad consequences. Because

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if a child doesn't learn discipline, doesn't

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learn correction, doesn't learn right from wrong,

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and always gets what they want when they're young,

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guess what? One day they're going to be 40 years

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old, and they're going to be pouting, and they're

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going to be whining, and they're going to act

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just like they did when they were 8 years old.

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Because what they have learned is if this is

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how I act, this is how I get what I want. Now,

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discipline takes care of that. Train up a child

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in the way he should go. When he is old, he will

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not depart from it. Praise the Lord. That's good

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if you're training up a child in good ways. But

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I think it also is applicable if you train up

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a child in bad ways. However you train up your

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child, that's how he or she will be when she

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gets older. Children don't just grow out of these

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things most of the time. If they get away with

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everything, if they have everything, and you've

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tried to protect them from all suffering, then

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all you are doing is preparing them for an even

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greater suffering. And praise the Lord, He doesn't

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do that for us. Now, we may look at God and say,

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man, God's just a big meanie. He don't want us

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to do anything good. Okay, maybe that's true.

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Or maybe God only wants what is good for us.

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That's what Scripture says. God only wants what

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is good for you. So God has a way of getting

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our attention. Now, a good example of this, if

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you've never read in the Bible the story of Jonah,

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you can find that story, a real short book of

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the Bible. Go read it. It's only four chapters.

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It's a great little story. God called Jonah to

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go preach in Nineveh, and Jonah said, not going

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to do it. Not going to do it. I'm going to get

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in the boat, and I'm going to go the other way.

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away. And guess what God did? God disciplined

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him. God says, here's what you should do. Here's

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what I've called you to do. You've chosen to

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not listen to me. And so therefore, I'm going

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to make things hard on you so that I can get

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your attention so that you'll do what's right.

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So he's out of the boat. Storm comes through.

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Nobody can figure out what's going on. Jonah

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says, it's me. It's me. I know why these things

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are happening. I've been disobedient to the Lord.

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Throw me overboard. He gets ate by a big fish.

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He's in the belly of this big fish. And he says,

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God, a beautiful prayer. In Jonah chapter 2,

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he says, look, God, I need you. I have done wrong.

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God, help me. Beautiful prayer. It's a good example

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of what it means to... experience the Lord's

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discipline. And maybe there are some things in

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our life that have happened or happening right

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now or will happen in which the Lord's trying

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to get our attention. Some consequences to the

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bad decisions that we make that God says, okay,

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I don't want you to have to go through hard times,

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but I want to get your attention. So that you'll

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do what's right. We see that time and again in

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the Old Testament. God gave his people all kind

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of good instructions to keep them safe and healthy.

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And man, they would just blow through the stop

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sign and just go do what they wanted to do. And

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God would, he'd turn them over to their enemies.

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He would allow them to go through hard times.

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Why? So that he'd get their attention. He didn't

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just bless them in their evil. He didn't just

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bless them in their sinfulness and say, ah, those

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Israelites, those kids of mine, kids will be

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kids. He didn't just turn a blind eye to it.

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He said, look, if they continue doing these things,

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it's unhealthy for them. They'll die apart from

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me. They'll get into all kind of evil. There

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will be all kind of horrible junk in their life.

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And so he says, I must crack the whip and get

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their attention. And he'd allow them to go through

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some hard times. And guess what they'd do? They'd

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say, oh, Lord, we are sorry. We've done wrong.

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We'll never do this again. God, just help us.

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And God, being a good father, he'd help them,

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and they'd mess up again, and he'd have to discipline

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them. Not so unlike you and I. That's what this

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example is. That's the example of the comparison

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that's being made. Hey, don't loathe the Lord's

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discipline because he's just like a father disciplining

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a son. He doesn't do it because he hates you.

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He does it because he loves you. And he wants

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you to grow into a strong man, into a strong

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woman that knows right from wrong, that respects

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authority, that respects God, that seeks God

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before we make a decision. And so we see plenty

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of examples in the scripture of God disciplining

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his people. And the scripture says that God disciplines

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those he loves. In Hebrews chapter 12, verse

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11, it says this, No discipline seems enjoyable

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at the time, but painful. Later on, however,

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it yields the fruit of peace and righteousness

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to those who have been trained by it. Now, when

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we make boneheaded decisions, and we're going

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through hard times as a result of those decisions,

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maybe we should pause for a moment. and say,

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God, maybe you're trying to get my attention.

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Now, I'm not suggesting that every bad thing

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that happens to you is God getting on to you.

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I'm not suggesting that at all. Sometimes life

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just happens. Sometimes bad things happen. I'm

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not saying that everything you do is because

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of the Lord, but I believe, I believe that in

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our heart, we kind of know when we do wrong.

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I think our conscious convicts us of that. And

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sometimes maybe there are things that we do and

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And maybe the thought that comes to our heart

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and mind is, maybe the Lord's trying to get my

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attention. I remember when I was a kid, I'll

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never forget this. This is such a simple story

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and not much to it, but I still remember it for

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whatever reason. When I was in elementary school,

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one of my friends, he said something to me, called

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me a name or something. I don't even remember.

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I don't even remember what he said, and I didn't

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even think anything of it at the time. But after

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recess was over, I was at the water fountain

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getting a drink of water. And he come up to me

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and he said, he had skinned his arm or scraped

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his arm or something. It wasn't nothing serious.

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And he said, I want to apologize to you. He said,

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because I got hurt today and I think it's because

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I called you that name. Now, whether or not that

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was God getting on to him or not, I don't know

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if that was the Lord's discipline. But in his

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heart, he associated those two things. In his

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heart, that action, that consequence, that pain

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that occurred. And that triggered something in

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his heart that said, wait a minute, I did something

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I should not have done. And this thing that's

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happened to me has helped me to see that. I don't

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know if that was the Lord or not, but I believe

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that the same thing happens in our life. I believe

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that there are times that we do wrong and we

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know we're doing wrong. We need to read God's

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word to know what he calls us to. There are times

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that we do wrong and something happens and maybe

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that's the first thought to our mind. Maybe the

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Lord's trying to get my attention. Okay, well

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that's a good place to be. That's a good place

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to be. Because if we get there, we need to remember

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this passage. God disciplines the one he loves.

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That's good. We don't like discipline, but when

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you are disciplined, you know you are loved.

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I think even kids... like discipline in some

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way. Some of you may have experienced this before.

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There are some kids that don't ever receive any

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discipline, any instruction, any encouragement.

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Those of you who teach kids or have dealt with

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kids in any way, maybe you've seen this. They've

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never had anybody to get on to them and say,

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that's wrong and I expect better of you. You're

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better than that. That's not good. They've never

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had anybody say that to them. And they just run

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around doing all kinds of bad stuff because they've

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never been disciplined. They don't have any respect

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for anybody. But you may be surprised that when

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you set a kid down and you say, I'm disappointed

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in you, that's not right. And we don't do that.

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And you give them some form of discipline. I'm

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not saying it has to be physical, but you kind

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of hold their feet to the fire. You might be

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surprised that that child doesn't hate you more.

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that that child may have a much greater respect

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for you than they have for any other adult in

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their life because nobody else has ever loved

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them enough to say that's wrong and you're better

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than that. I think kids need discipline. I think

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we need discipline. We need God to show us his

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word and to call us out and say, look, I know

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that temptation to sin and do wrong is strong,

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but I want better for you. I want you to receive

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my blessing. You keep living in sin and doing

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this junk. The consequences you're going to experience

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are going to be full of pain and heartache, and

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I don't want you to have that. And so therefore,

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I'm going to shake you up a little bit. I'm going

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to let you go through some hard times in hopes

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that you would seek me and come back to me. That's

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what God wants, is for us to seek him and to

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come back to him and to live by his commands.

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So maybe today you're experiencing some discipline

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in your life. Maybe God wants us to examine how

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we discipline our children or our grandchildren

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to help teach them that there is a right or a

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wrong. To help teach them that there is one that

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we need to respect. And that one that we need

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to respect is God. And if a child won't respect

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their parents, then it's unlikely that they will

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respect God. And so these words are good for

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us. They're a good reminder for us. No one likes

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discipline. No one likes pain. And I don't think

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there are many people, except for some really

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evil people, who like doling it out. And I certainly

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don't believe that God finds any enjoyment in

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disciplining us, but he does it because he loves

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us. God so loved the world, he gave his only

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begotten son. That's love. There is no greater

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love than this, the scripture says, that a man

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would lay down his life for others. The greatest

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discipline that we see in scripture that should

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have been reserved for us was poured out on Jesus

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Christ, that he suffered and bled and died, that

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he was nailed to a cross so that our sins could

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be forgiven. That's love right there. That God

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would sacrifice his only son? And you want to

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say, God, you're being a meanie because I'm having

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to suffer? No. Jesus knows what it means to suffer

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and die. The Lord knows what it means to sacrifice

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his only son. That's a God who loves you. And

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if a God loves you that much, that he would send

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his only son to die for you, then maybe he's

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a God we need to listen to. Maybe if we don't

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read his word, we need to say, okay, God, if

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you love me that much, I want to hear what you

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have to say. God, I want to try to live by it.

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So maybe today we feel the Holy Spirit working

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on us. Maybe today the Lord has disciplined us

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in some way. Maybe this week we've had that conviction

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that there's been some stuff that's just not

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good, not right, that we've been doing. And we

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need to stop doing that. If the Lord has been

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disciplined in you, then rejoice in him today

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because you can know that he loves you. Listen

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to his discipline. Repent of your sinfulness.

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Turn from your evil ways. Know that he has your

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best interest in heart. Turn to Jesus Christ.

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Know that your sin can be forgiven and you'll

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find the peace and the love of God. Let's pray.

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God, we come to you. We thank you for this truth.

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Dear Lord, these words are kind of hard to think

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about and comprehend and wrap our heads around,

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dear Lord. We talk about discipline and what

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your commands are and discipline our children

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and what that looks like and how that works,

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dear Lord. I pray that you would just guide all

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of these parents and grandparents to let them

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know what that needs to look like and how that

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needs to take place, dear Lord, but that we can

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learn to discipline as hard as it is. It's not

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a bad thing. But it's a necessity, dear Lord.

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If we love our children, we cannot allow them

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to do things that are dangerous, that are not

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good for them, dear Lord. And if we're a parent

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that lets our kids do anything, dear Lord, we

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really have to look at our life, dear Lord. So

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I pray that you would help us to be those who

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would love and care for our children and discipline

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them in the ways that are necessary, God. I pray,

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God, that we would see that connection. between

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this and between your love for us, dear Lord.

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God, you wouldn't be a very good God if you just

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let us get away with everything and let us do

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whatever we wanted to do. God, you know that's

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not healthy for us. And so we thank you for loving

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us enough to give us instruction. And most importantly,

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we thank you for loving us enough to give us

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Jesus Christ, that our sins may be forgiven.

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So dear Lord, maybe there are some today that...

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or parents or children that struggle with discipline,

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that you would just help them to see love in

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that. God, maybe there are some today that they

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just feel the conviction. They know that there's

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some stuff that is in their life that shouldn't

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be going on. Maybe some of the situations they're

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in now are a result of just not making good decisions,

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not being obedient, not doing what you say, dear

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Lord. When we are disobedient to you, we find

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ourselves in a mess. And you could keep us from

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those messes, but dear Lord, you allow us to

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suffer sometimes, to discipline us, to get our

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attention. So God, I pray that if there's one

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like Jonah today, maybe they've been disobedient

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and run from you in a lot of ways, and maybe

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today they're just in the mess that they're in,

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I pray that like Jonah, they'd call out to you,

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that they would seek you, that they would repent,

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that they would turn to you, that they would

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turn to Jesus Christ to know that their sins

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can be forgiven. That they would experience that

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love and discipline, dear Lord. That when they

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come and submit to you, dear Lord, that they

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would experience the peace that comes from that.

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And I ask these things in Jesus' name. Amen.
