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All right, everybody, let's get into this week's episode of what is spiritual oneness
and how does it differ from wholeness?
So there's a lot of talk about both of these words in the spiritual community, especially
the meditation community, anyone that's discussing inner child work, spiritual awakening, soul
searching, dark night of the soul, Kundalini awakenings, etc.
But there's a little bit of confusion about it, and I want to clear some things up.
First, spiritual wholeness is your birthright.
That has been used interchangeably with oneness, but you will see the nuance difference soon.
And why it is so important that we seek wholeness instead of oneness.
It's the difference with this new paradigm around individuality and authenticity.
So deep down, we all know that wholeness is our birthright, right?
Some people, like I said, have interchanged it with oneness.
I know this, you know this, we all know this.
Thinking about it just resonates really deeply in your bones when you say wholeness.
When I think about oneness and when I was first on my journey, I wanted to return to
a oneness, like a singularity, which is true.
However, recently, it has become very clear that there is a very big difference between
the experience of oneness versus the experience of wholeness.
It's not necessarily about it being reserved for the spiritually advanced.
It's truly about a flash of an experience that we have internally with how we relate
to ourselves and the access that we have to ourselves.
Experiencing oneness can come spontaneously or after years of vigorous spiritual practice.
I know this also from experience.
There doesn't seem to be a consistent objective pattern around it.
It really just is a flash of such deep presence that you feel connected to everything.
In that connection through unity, through oneness is a wholeness type of feeling.
You can also interchange completion, feeling utterly complete.
When you are in oneness, you feel this deep connection.
When you are in deep completion or wholeness, you feel internally complete and therefore
part of a greater whole as in wholeness.
Completion can be felt by anyone at any time.
There's no secret or elite club, no matter what age, gender, race, background, intellect,
or level of spiritual development you have.
Your access to who you are is through unity, is through oneness.
Oneness is essentially everybody's destination.
The caveat to this, it's kind of like when I push you guys into the zero point, which
is access to the all that is.
That zero point, that oneness, it's literally one, okay?
One and then zero as in binary code.
When I push you into the zero point, that zero point is access to the eternal now.
The eternal now is where you truly feel complete because you don't need anything.
You have a one and then you have a zero basically.
A oneness into the zero point, into completion, into the all that is, into access to infinity.
I know this is getting a little meta, but just follow the bouncing ball.
It'll make sense later and I'll give you very practical tools to how to start feeling deeper
connections to things.
First, things first, what is oneness?
Oneness is an experience that transcends the mind.
When we experience oneness, we feel a connection with everything in existence on every level.
We feel at one with things.
This has been called all kinds of fun things like non-dual awareness, unity, Buddha nature,
Christ consciousness, and enlightenment.
Essentially it is a deep feeling of at one with all things.
Why is it so hard to experience oneness?
It's simply the reason why it's so difficult and rare for us to experience oneness is that
our minds won't let us.
We think the mind is so real.
It has such a control.
It has control over, or perceived control over how we perceive our realities.
While our minds help us to plan, imagine, create, and structure, and logically understand
life, they also simultaneously fragment existence.
When life is broken down into thoughts, concepts, ideas, and beliefs, we cannot directly experience
the oneness of everything.
We are too bogged down in the day-to-day details and the lists of our lives to stop, take a
breath, and feel connected to oneness.
As a result, we perceive life through a broken lens in a very dense layer of reality until
we take off those glasses in a way, those distorted filters.
We will continue to see ourselves as isolated and separate from the all that is, from oneness.
Essentially we've forgotten.
The powers at be, and I say that in quotes, the elite nature of this reality is the fact
that this has been perfectly orchestrated as a school of learning to be so deceptively
real that you think the illusion is real, and therefore that you are just a solid single
existing creature that doesn't live infinitely, that you're not indestructible consciousness
having a limited human experience, and that you cannot have power over your own constitution,
your body, your thought, your perception, etc. The illusion is so real, we perceive it to
be real that we have forgotten how powerful we are, and we have forgotten how to connect,
that we are all connected.
So if I put up a new possibility into the field of consciousness of oneness, someone
else has that opportunity too.
We've saw this with the four-minute mile.
We saw this with Simone Biles doing a quadruple whatever she was doing.
We're seeing this more and more and more.
And in conferences too, where they're looking to have big energetic shifts, if someone just
believes that it's possible, everybody else now has that possibility available to them.
That's really what oneness is, the idea that we're all connected and that feeling of us
being connected to the all that is, and everyone around us.
Because our minds are so dominant, we get bifurcated.
We get fragmented into binary existence, into polarity, good, bad, black, white.
We split life into opposites, which is also by design because we have to experience polarity
in order to experience unity and neutrality.
It's kind of the way that it is.
The problem is we stay way too much in the pendulum swing.
And so life is just a huge, undulating roller coaster, instead of it being like a slow,
chill wave, and you know how to ride on top of it, get on top of those waves, and utilize
things that are crunchy times, let's say, like when you're in spiritual detox or when
things are really heavy, you know that it's fleeting and you surrender into the process
and you use that to catalyze you into the next layer.
When we start to perceive ourselves in a fragmented way, we feel flawed.
This is when lack comes in.
We don't feel as authentic.
This is where people feel fake, a feeling of overall dilution, just a diluted essence
of somebody and a general emptiness.
This is how I think awakening really starts for a lot of people.
They hit an emotional bottom.
They are in a frustrated way where they know that there's more.
And I think that more happens at various stages along the way.
You kind of like, oh, okay, I've come to this level.
Now what?
Now where can I go?
In the very beginning, that feeling of emptiness and that feeling of really not being seen,
you know how you feel about yourself on the inside or you have a way that you experience
yourself and that is not being reciprocated back to you in your reality.
That gap is an inversion.
It's not singular.
Your feedback loop is in a constant state of perpetuating and propelling the separation
and the distortion patterns that you feel about yourself.
So if you don't feel good enough about yourself and you haven't caught that pattern, that
feedback loop is going to continue to manifest situations, create simulations for you to
experience that is going to validate that program until you become aware of it and do
something about it.
So is oneness and enlightenment the same thing?
Sure.
Right?
I think enlightenment gets thrown around a lot.
It's really semantics at this point.
Enlightenment just means to illuminate things that have been veiled from you, that have
been in shadow.
So you can have an enlightening conversation because a totally different perspective has
been presented to an otherwise binary topic that you thought that you had a pretty clear
understanding of, but a totally different perspective comes in and it kind of blows your whole reference
point around a topic and it was very enlightening.
So to me, enlightenment is very fleeting.
It's an illumination process of your ideas.
Oneness is, yes, you see all of those ideas, but you're not necessarily letting it change
you or you're not being deeply digging in your heels about your idea and trying to convince
others to see things your way, just in practical application.
A lot of the times along the spiritual journey, you'll meet people who really are looking.
They're like, Tally, when will I reach the zero point?
When will I reach oneness?
They want a destination because I had the same questions and I had a lot of ego that
was running the filters because I felt like I was really running out of time.
I had a lot to do in the world.
I was running out of time.
I didn't have time to sit there and meditate and reflect.
I had to get shit done and be something extra in the world.
This is what we're taught.
We're taught that we have to do something in order to be valuable.
We are conditioned that we have to do it all.
We can be mothers, wives, seven figure CEOs.
We can do it all and stay as eyes for and still be a tradwife, traditional trophy, whatever,
or just the ultimate progressive mom who's like uber sex positive with her kids and
just totally cool and lets their kids do whatever and is in the friend zone with their teens.
You see what I'm saying.
We've been taught that we have to do something in the world, especially as women, when what
has been compromised as a result is our being.
Motherhood is the most important role in the world, truly.
There's nothing more nourishing than a woman who's in her feminine energy, regardless if
she has biological children of her own or not.
That doesn't necessarily make you a mother.
I know a lot of women who have had biological children who don't really like their kids.
I've seen it traveling all over the place.
You can tell kids are a burden.
I've seen incredible women who are so deeply, deeply integrated with their feminine energy
and they don't have biological children.
Those kids are exceptional because that woman knows her power.
She knows the richness and the nourishment of her feminine energy and she's embodied
with it.
This is truly like it's magic.
But I say that because I had a lot of that conditioning myself where I felt like I had
to do more, more, more, more, more.
And I've even run into it with aspects of Super Freak because there's so much that
I quote unquote want to offer and I'm literally a single person with a wonderful, small but
mighty team.
And I have to honor my energy.
My body can't keep up with what's happening with me at spirit level right now.
As a result, I have paid the price and blown out my adrenals and we are in a recalibration
period.
So thank you for your patience.
I'm definitely trying to stay consistent with what feels natural for me.
That's why I do these podcasts literally from my bed.
I'm not even set up on my microphone.
I'm literally talking into my phone.
That is how I make these.
But this topic has been on my mind too because wholeness is a whole different experience.
Oneness is a flash.
You feel connected to two people in meditation.
You have a deep expansive experience and it's euphoric.
And you're like, God, that's so awesome.
You may feel like it's the people that you were with or you had an out of body or just
a super spiritual deeply connected experience to everyone around you at a concert where
you just felt deeply connected.
That's a oneness experience.
Wholeness is integrated.
It's embodied and you know how to hold the resonance of wholeness longer because you
are complete within yourself.
Wholeness to me feels like you have done the work, baby.
You're constantly in it.
You're getting really familiar with identifying the patterns, clearing them in the body space,
stepping them, you know, stepping into gratitude, rinse and repeat.
You really got to handle on the mechanics and it's an embodiment.
You truly are becoming the master of your reality and you know you're creating in every
single moment and you're in deep levels of trust with your highest self.
So if you look at it like oneness is merging the emotional mental body and then you move
past that veil of forgetting and you're connected to your highest self.
That's a oneness, that singularity.
Wholeness is you basically are operating within that relationship with you and your highest
self.
You're in that kind of interest and then where you go from there is infinite.
You expand infinitely into, there's an infinite number of me and every expanded timeline available
to me and my game now is just to see how quickly and how efficiently I can start rendering
myself in these different realities to experience them in physicality without dropping the body
off down the street.
So my body space and modulating my body space and really honoring that is still an ongoing
practice for me because my mind is sharp, my spirit is vast and I just want to go and
my body is like no baby.
It's not a sprint.
It is literally a very long marathon.
You have a very long time on this planet, pace yourself and I'm like, so it's a constant
practice for me too.
So if you're looking to experience more oneness on your way to wholeness, which is for me the
difference between moving away from individuality, a very me, me, me type of dynamic into more
of a fundamental authenticity experience.
That's a wholeness experience.
When you're in your fundamental authenticity, people can feel it and no one can fuck with
you.
They just can't.
You just attract the right people.
You don't feel like you have to be in competition because you know who you are and you know what
you offer.
You know how you do it.
You love what you do.
You love who you are.
You're tapped into who you are.
You're tapped into self.
There's no need for the me, me, me and the I and the lack and feeling like there only
has to be one version of something.
There's plenty available for everybody and everyone has a very specific role in this
simulation and there's a lot of opportunity available for everybody and that role evolves
as you continue to hold the light of who you are, more higher bandwidths of frequencies
of who you are into the physical body space.
Can happen in a very short period of time and it also can feel really long too.
I'm kind of an example of both of those things.
I feel like I worked so long for so many decades and then all of a sudden it got smashed into
like less than a year period where I just have this extraordinary growth and it took
a little bit of a hit on my body.
But it's all good.
I signed up for it all and I'm doing what I can to take care of myself and it's been
a wonderful learning because I've softened a lot.
If I was new to all of this and I wanted to experience more oneness, like I said, I would
literally do a dopamine detox all the time.
I would spend hours and hours on the weekends without my phone.
I would see if you can turn off your phone for a weekend and just get deeply present
with yourself and see how it feels when you can't check your phone, when you can't check
social media and you just have to hang out with yourself to see if you can move through
the anxiety of what that feels like.
Then I would go for a walk without my phone.
I wouldn't listen for podcasts on my walk.
I wouldn't make videos or content on my walks.
I would just go on a walk and I would actively practice thanking nature around me, looking
people in the eye saying hello, just having gratitude in my heart, even if you don't want
to look at people and say hello, walking with gratitude in my heart, thanking the experience
that you have to be in a body to learn, thanking the trees, looking at nature and noticing the
details around you, just noticing it and seeing how deeply present you can get with your senses
around you.
That's how I'd start to connect more oneness.
Animals are a fantastic way to connect to oneness because they're always in it.
They're just in the moment.
They create incredible feedback loops for you.
That's why I always surround myself with them because I love them so much and I need that
feedback loop.
I can't always see myself.
If I don't have a friend to drop in with, I will always be able to see where my energy
is through animal feedback and animal communication.
Listen to the birds, thank the birds.
Maybe there's a local pond, maybe grab old bagels, buy old bagels from people or whatever.
Go feed some ducks.
Go connect with nature.
Go on a walk, but my point is move away from technology and harmonize yourself back into
the frequency of nature.
It seems so simple, but let me tell you, I complicated things so much because I'm smart
and I know that my intellect has gotten in the way at times.
When you want to move into oneness, you have to let go of the mind.
You have to lose it.
You've got to lose the mental plane.
You move beyond the veil, then you move beyond the construct of time.
Don't worry, whatever, if you need to have high intellect, it will be available for you
on the other side, but it's not going to drive you.
You'll be able to keep it in check.
I think we're afraid to lose something in order to get something else because of what
we feel the mediocrity of it will be, but I can promise you that the more you let go,
the more whole you feel.
All right, guys.
I hope you enjoyed this episode.
Take care, question everything, be kind to yourself and others, and I will see you next
week.
Thanks so much for listening, you guys.
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