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Thank you for listening to this message from

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Lifehouse Church. God's good. It is so good to

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have my daughter Jenna here. For those of you

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who don't know, might be a little bit newer,

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we were on staff together here at Lifehouse,

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well, way back actually since the beginning,

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since we planted the church, but really eight

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years we spent together. She put up with me for

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eight long years. I've put up with you my whole

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life. This is true. Much longer than eight years.

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So I'm celebrating today, but I'm so glad to

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have her here. She's bringing the word. She's

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a credentialed minister and God has gifted her

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in so many ways and so many fashions. And my

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mind was racing a hundred mile an hour about

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all the things that we've walked through together

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over the years. But I'm glad she got the whole

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way back from Atlanta and got the opportunity

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to be here and just to bring the word of God

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to you today. So if you would just give her a

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hand this morning and thank you. Good morning.

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How's everyone doing? It is so good to be here.

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This is my first time, well, my second time in

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this building, but I love this space. What an

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answer to prayer. There's so much more room for

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more of you. This is so good. But we are so glad

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to be here. So if you haven't met me, my name's

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Jenna. I hope I get the chance to meet you today.

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My husband, Brad, is the bald guy on the front

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row there. Wave. He loves when I'm pointing him

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out. And then our two little girls, Maisie and

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Mia, you probably saw them running around in

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pink somewhere, are here with us. And we're just

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glad to be back with our church family at LifeHouse

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and just spend time with our family this week.

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We're grateful. For those of you that don't know,

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we, for about a year, a little over a year, we've

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been in Atlanta, Georgia. The Lord... called

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us to move and be a part of what's happening

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at Passion City Church in Atlanta. And it has

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been nothing short of incredible over this last

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year. We've had challenges, we've had lots of

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growth, lots of amazing things, but God has been

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so faithful. And so I just wanna say thank you

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to those of you that sent us off in prayer and

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continued to pray and are still praying and reaching

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out. God is moving. all over the world. He's

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moving in Atlanta. He's moving in Carlisle. And

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it's just a, it's a joy to be a part of it. So

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glad to be here. Go ahead and grab your Bible.

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If you brought your Bible with you today, go

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ahead and grab it. We're going to be, which I

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love this. God was already moving before we got

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here. We're going to be in Ephesians, just like

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Beth started us off so beautifully this morning.

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So if you just want to get ready, we're going

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to spend a lot of time in Ephesians two through

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five. So, so that you're ready to jump in, it'll

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be on the screens or you can follow along as

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we read in Ephesians. While you're turning there,

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I wanna give you just a little bit of context.

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How many know it can be helpful to have some

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context around the scripture that you're reading?

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So if you're not familiar with the book of Ephesians,

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it's a pretty small book. It's about six chapters,

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more like a letter. So it was written by the

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apostle Paul, who was a church planner. He planted

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some of the very first churches. And Paul's kind

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of rhythm with church planning was he would come

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to a place that the Lord was calling him to.

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He would plant a church. get them set, get everything

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started and rolling. And then he would move on

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to the next place that God was calling him to.

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And the way that he would continue to mentor

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over time, pour in and encourage and correct

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these churches were through letters. And so that's

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actually what makes up a lot of the New Testament

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are the letters that Paul's writing back to these

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churches that he's mentored. So that's exactly

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what's happening here in Ephesians. In fact,

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this letter in Ephesians that we're reading today

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is about eight, to 10 years after Paul was physically

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there with the church of Ephesus, getting them

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started, getting them just established as a church.

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And when Paul is writing this, he is in prison.

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So that's a really interesting perspective to

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just keep reminding yourself of as we're reading

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this. He is writing everything he says in Ephesians

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from the Roman prison. So say there if you're

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there. Are you in Ephesians? All right, good

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stuff. We're going to read in Ephesians 2. We're

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gonna start in verse four. But because of his

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great love for us, God, who is rich in mercy,

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amen, we just sang about it, made us alive in

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Christ, even when we were dead in transgressions.

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It is by grace you have been saved. And God raised

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us up with Christ and seated us with him in the

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heavenly realms in Christ Jesus. In order that

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in the coming ages, he might show the incomparable

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riches of his grace expressed in his kindness

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to us in Christ Jesus. For it is by grace that

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you have been saved. Through faith, it is not

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of yourselves. It is a gift of God, not by works

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so that no one can boast. I love that we started

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off this morning and we're coming back to be

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reminded God who is rich in mercy. has made us

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alive in Christ. This is exactly what happens.

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So when Paul was writing this letter to the church

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of Ephesians, he essentially broke Ephesians

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down into two major themes. And the first...

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half of Ephesians was Paul reminding the church

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of the gospel. So he reminded them, hey, it's

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been eight to 10 years since I've been here and

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we've started this thing, but don't ever forget

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for one second the power of the gospel and what

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God has done for you and what he's pulled you

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from. And then the second half of Ephesians is

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all about how that intersects with our life.

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So that's what we're gonna talk about today.

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What happens when the gospel story meets our

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story? And so you see, we just read that exactly

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what happens when the gospel story meets our

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story. We're made alive. We sing about it, right?

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We rejoice. Did you rejoice this morning? We

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are made alive. We go from death to life. So

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Paul's words weren't just for the church of Ephesus.

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They're every bit as relevant to you and me to

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be reminded. Because when we were raised, to

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life in Christ, we weren't just, before Christ

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came into our life, we weren't just bad, right?

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We weren't just bad people who needed to be turned

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good. We were dead, spiritually dead, lost in

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darkness, hopeless. And Christ came in and made

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us alive. That is something to celebrate. And

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Paul's saying, don't forget it, guys. It's been

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eight to 10 years, but don't forget, Christ has

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made you alive. And what does that look like

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in your life, right? And the beauty of all of

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it too, he reminds them, is that it's nothing

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you did. This wasn't because you did anything.

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This wasn't because you deserve it, right? Can

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a dead person earn anything? Can a dead person

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do anything? No, right? This was a gift freely

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given. From Jesus. And so Paul's reminding them,

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and I want to remind us this morning, that we're

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alive and that is something to celebrate. We

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have a gift that was freely given and we got

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to walk away from darkness and walk towards light.

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That's something to celebrate. A few months ago,

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our pastor at Passion City in Atlanta, he shared

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this powerful story with us about a girl who

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had an encounter where she came face to face

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with death. And I want to share this story with

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you. I'm going to read. I'm going to read you

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her story. On a bright June day in 2024, 15 -year

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-old Lulu Gribbon was swimming off Seacrest Beach

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in Florida. What started as a normal, carefree

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day turned into a moment of sheer terror when

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a shark suddenly attacked her in the water. In

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those critical moments, Lulu suffered severe

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injuries, losing part of her left arm and part

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of her right leg. It was a life -threatening

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situation that could have ended in tragedy. But

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then, a bystander on the beach, just an ordinary

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man, a father, who happened to be there with

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his kids, saw what was happening. Without a moment's

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hesitation, he rushed into the waves. He fought

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off the shark and pulled Lulu to safety, carrying

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her back to shore. His quick and selfless action

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was the difference between life and death for

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Lulu. I think we have pictures of Lulu. Actually,

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I don't know if you've heard Lulu's story, but

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she kind of went viral on Instagram for just

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this incredible rescue. This is Lulu after her

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accident. I think we've got some pictures of

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her after her accident. And the third picture

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that we have is actually her and Stephen, the

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man who rescued her, the father that was at the

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beach that day that rescued her. They got to

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reunite. a little while after the accident and

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just celebrate the rescue of what happened. Can

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you just imagine as I was hearing this story

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and I was thinking about being in Lulu's position,

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can you imagine? Has anybody endured a shark?

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Maybe somebody has in here. Has anybody endured

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a shark attack? You wouldn't have. Okay, so none

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of us have. So just imagine it with me for just

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a moment. Just imagine being in her position.

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You're swimming in the ocean. It's a beautiful

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day. You're having a great time relaxing on vacation.

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And then all of a sudden, the worst fear, the

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absolute worst possible thing happens. And you're

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all of a sudden faced with death, right? Face

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to face. Can you imagine just being locked? I

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can only imagine how hard she was fighting to

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get loose from the grip of that shark. She was

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probably fighting and fighting, and then she

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started seeing blood, and then she probably got

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really hopeless. She probably started thinking,

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you know what? This could be the end for me.

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And then all of a sudden, out of nowhere, a father

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comes and pulls her, fights off a shark, fights

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the fins of the shark, pushes the shark off of

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her, and literally pulls her from the mouth of

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the shark. Can you just imagine? Can you imagine

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what was happening in the water that day? Can

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you imagine being Lulu? Lulu's story is my story.

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Lulu's story is your story. Lulu's story is our

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story. Friends, we were drowning. We were in

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the mouth of the shark. Before Christ came into

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our lives, we were in the death grip of darkness

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and devastation. And Christ just reached out

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and he pulled us from the mouth of darkness.

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That is us. That is the gospel. It never gets

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old, right? It never gets old. It's new. It's

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exciting. I don't know about you, but I wanna

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wake up every day and I just wanna be in awe.

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I don't ever wanna, and do I? No, but I want

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to. I wanna strive every morning to wake up and

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just be in awe. Thank you, God. Thank you every

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single day. that I was headed to death and you

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just pulled me out. I can imagine Lulu every

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day is probably grateful. Probably at one point

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in her day, she gets faced with a reminder of

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how she was saved, a reminder of how her life

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could have been over and ended. But because somebody

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saved her, she was rescued and the trajectory

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of her life was changed. And that's exactly what

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Christ did for you and me. After Paul beautifully

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sets up this reminder in the beginning of Ephesians,

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he continues to go on through Ephesians 4 and

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Ephesians 5, and he really explains what it looks

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like to live in response to the gospel. So now

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we're reminded, we know, we understand this beautiful

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thing that God's done for us. How does it affect

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our lives? And so he really lays it out. So we're

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going to jump back. If you still have your Bible

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open, we're going to jump back into Ephesians

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4, and we're going to start in verse 1. As a

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prisoner of the Lord, so remember Paul's in prison

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when he's writing this. As a prisoner of the

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Lord, then I urge you to live a life worthy of

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the calling you have received. Be completely

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humble and gentle. Be patient, bearing with one

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another in love. Make every effort to keep the

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unity of the spirit through the bond of peace.

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Then jumping all the way down to verse 21, Paul

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really starts to lay out what it looks like to

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reflect the gospel. Verse 21, when you heard

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about Christ, you were taught in him in accordance

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with the truth that is in Jesus. You were taught

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with regard to your former way of life, put off

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your old self, which is being corrupted by its

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deceitful desires and to be made. new in the

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attitude of your minds and to put on the new

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self created to be like God in true righteousness

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and holiness. He goes on to explain, therefore,

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each of you must put off falsehood and speak

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truthfully to your neighbor for we're all members

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of one body and in your anger, do not sin. Do

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not let the sun go down while you're still angry.

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And do not give the devil a foothold. He continues

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to instruct them. Anyone who has been stealing

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must steal no longer, but must work. Do something

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useful with their hands that they might have

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something to share with those in need. Do not

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let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths,

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but only for what is helpful for building up

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others according to their needs. And do not grieve

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the Holy Spirit of God with whom you were sealed

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for the day of redemption. Get rid of all bitterness,

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rage, anger, brawling, and slander, along with

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every form of malice. Be kind and compassionate

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to one another, forgiving each other just as

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in Christ God forgave you. Paul is urging the

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church, let your life be a beautiful reflection

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of what God has done for you. Don't ever forget

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it and then let your life reflect it in every

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moment. He lays out all through that passage

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some ways that we can reflect Christ. And he

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continues on. We're going to take a closer look

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in Ephesians 5 in just a second. A closer look

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at some of those parallels. Paul literally makes

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almost like a chart in just a minute. We'll look

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at that. where he parallels what it looks like

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before Christ and then what it looks like after

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Christ. But I think if we're not careful, I think

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we can look at this passage and maybe even in

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a minute when we look at those charts, I think

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we can look at those parallels that Paul makes

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and we can almost see a lot of rules and regulations,

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right? Sometimes we can see that. when we look

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at scripture. But that's why I love Paul's intention

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here. He starts the entire book off reminding

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us of the good news of the gospel. This isn't

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rules and regulations, right? This is a story

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of rescue. And this is what it looks like to

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reflect the gratefulness of what God has done

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for us. You know, he also, even in the second

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part of Ephesians, he weaves all through, when

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it's primarily instruction like we just read,

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he still weaves through the reminders of what

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Christ did, his sacrifice, and his love for us.

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You know, when we fix our hearts and our minds

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on the gospel, our only appropriate response

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becomes to desire everything of Jesus. You know,

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it kind of becomes like a lot less of I can't,

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or we shouldn't, or we won't, and more of there

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is nothing I desire more in this world than to

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align my life with Jesus in every way. You know

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what that reminds me of? Any parents in the room,

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especially parents of little kids, but parents,

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yes. It reminds me of when Brad and I became

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parents, right? So before kids, we didn't realize

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it at the time. We certainly do now. We didn't

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realize it at the time, but we had so much time

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before kids, right? There was so much time. It

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was just endless. There was time after time after

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time. Before kids, I was thinking about this,

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you know, we used to be able to just be like,

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hey, let's just go somewhere. And then we just.

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Went somewhere. Like we just got in the car and

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we just left and we just went to that place and

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there was no planning and there was no, we just

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went, right? Before kids, we could plan a vacation.

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We could plan a trip and we could pack up like

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maybe a bag, maybe like a bag and a backpack,

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get in the car and go. Now, after kids, our entire

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house goes into the Subaru, like the whole thing.

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And then as if that's not enough, we've got this

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big like black. box that goes on the top, and

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it's full of snacks, like just millions of snacks.

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Because before kids, we did not need snacks.

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We need so many snacks, right? Before kids, this

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is the last one. Before kids, I was reminded

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of this this morning, actually, right when we

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walked in here. Before kids, I used to be able

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to go to the bathroom completely alone, like

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just by myself. It was just me, right? There

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was a lot of things that I could do before kids

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that were convenient. I liked them. They were

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nice, right? But it didn't take long when Brad

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and I became parents, it didn't take long for

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those things to feel so much less valuable in

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comparison to this new life with our amazing

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kids, right? Right, because before kids, I never

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knew what it was to look at someone or to know

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someone was coming into existence and fall immediately

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and unconditionally in love with them. Now I

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fell in love with Brad deeply over time, but

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to immediately, I just, I had to make sure over

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time, right? It was quick, it was quick, but

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it wasn't immediate, right, right? Before kids,

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I didn't know what immediate unconditional love

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was. The moment that I found out there was a

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being inside of me, mamas, you know this, unconditional,

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the moment you find out you're gonna be a parent.

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Unconditional, it's like nothing you can explain.

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It's unreal, right? Before I was a parent, before

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kids, I didn't know how much joy would just come

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from the smallest things, right? How much joy

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would come from pointing them to Jesus? How much

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joy would come the first time that you hear that

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little crackly voice just whisper a prayer or

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say the name Jesus? I didn't know how much joy

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would come from little handprints that are just.

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whether they're made of paint or dirt, all over

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the house, right? I didn't know the joy that

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would come from a hug from behind that almost

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knocks you over or a little whisper of, I love

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you, mommy, at night. It became my joy to step

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into my new life with my kids and leave my old

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life behind. It became my joy to love and serve

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my kids, to teach them and walk with them. When

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we live in response to the gospel, it becomes

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our joy to set aside the old life, to set aside

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the things that were all about us. It becomes

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our joy to set those aside and walk in our new

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life with Jesus. Say it with me, out with the

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old, in with the new. Say it. Out with the old,

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in with the new. It's a joy to walk in this new

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life. And Paul instructs in chapter four that

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the believer is to take off. the old self that's

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being corrupted by deceitful desires and put

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on the new self created to be like God in true

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righteousness and holiness. And here's where

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we jump into those charts that Paul literally

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lays out for us. And I just wanted to share a

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couple of the examples that Paul shares in chapter

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five. He really lays it out. It's literally like

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a chart. Yeah, we have it up there. On one side,

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there's all of these things that our old self

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takes off and that our new self walks in, right?

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Our old self takes off lies and anger. Our new

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self in Christ puts on truth and peace. Our old

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self takes off theft and revenge and puts on

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generosity and forgiveness. Our old self takes

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off gossip and foolish talk. Our new self walks

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in encouragement and thanksgiving. And I can

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imagine for a lot of us, this list goes on and

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on. There's more and more. Maybe for you, your

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old self was gripped by fear and anxiety. And

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then Jesus came into your life and now you walk

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by faith and you're rooted in peace. Maybe our

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old self was bound to idols, but now in Christ,

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we put him above everything else. Maybe our old

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self was walking with pride. and selfishness.

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But now our new self puts on humility and we

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love people well, right? Everything in Christ

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is made new. And it might look different for

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you. Fill in the blank. We were all walking in

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some kind of darkness before Christ and he's

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made us new. Raise your hand. Anybody in the

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room ever have a new car? Anybody? Okay. So a

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good bit of you know, if not, you can just imagine.

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Think about that moment that you had a brand

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new car, right? And I'm not talking new to you,

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which absolutely, that's amazing. I'm talking

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brand new, has a new car smell, like that new

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kind of car. You have that new car, you get in

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the car. You're feeling on top of the world,

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right? You get your shades out. You put the window

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down. You crank the music. You are checking out

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all the controls. You're like realizing you at

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your seat not only gets hot, but it gets cold.

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Your steering wheel gets hot. Like there's all

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the cool things, right? It's exciting. It's new.

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You're feeling on top of the world. And then

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if you're anything like me, not if you're a car

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person, but if you're anything like me, maybe

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four or five months goes by and all of a sudden

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it doesn't really smell like a new car anymore.

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All of a sudden there's like, wrappers and water

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bottles on the ground. I know this is not you,

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Brad. Stop looking at me like that. He's very

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clean with his car. But for me, you know, it

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just, it ends up like kids are throwing backpacks

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and bags and toys and all of the sudden over

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time, it just becomes this means of transportation.

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right? All of a sudden, this thing that was so

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new and so exciting, it's just getting me from

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place to place. It wears off, right? Or maybe

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this one is really me. I had to put the car one

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in there, but this is really me. Brad tells me

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that I have a little bit of a problem with water

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bottles. I don't know if you can relate, but

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I feel that if you buy a new water bottle every

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month, you will in fact drink more water. I tend

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to do that, right? You get a new water bottle.

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It's exciting, right? We should be drinking so

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much water. So to do that, we get a new water

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bottle. It's the perfect one, right? Like if

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it fits perfectly in your hand, it doesn't get

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stuck in the cup holder, clear straw, so no surprises.

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Like it is, it's the perfect water bottle. It's

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so exciting. And for like a full week, your water

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intake is perfect, right? You are doing good.

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Like, and then maybe a week, a week and a half,

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two weeks goes by. maybe three weeks if you're

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lucky, and that water bottle is on the top shelf

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behind all of the other water bottles and all

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of the other cups, right? It wears off or it

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breaks. That happens to me. It breaks. It wears

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off. The newness and the excitement wears off.

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Can I tell you something? Christ, our life with

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Christ, the gospel is new every day. day it doesn't

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wear off the gospel doesn't get put to the back

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shelf of the cabinet the goodness and the newness

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and the mercy and the forgiveness and the grace

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of the gospel does not lose its new car smell

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it is fresh and it is new and the scripture reminds

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us all throughout scripture we're reminded we

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can see this i want to share quickly a couple

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with you in second corinthians it says therefore

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we do not lose heart though outwardly we are

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wasting away yet inwardly we are being renewed

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day Colossians says, Lamentations says, Romans

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says, do not conform to the patterns of this

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world, but be transformed by the what? The renewing

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of your mind. Then you will be able to test and

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approve what God's will is, his good, pleasing

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and perfect will. Wouldn't it be beautiful if

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the longer we were walking with Jesus, the more

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we looked like him? Think about that for a minute.

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If we're being honest, maybe some of us who have

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been walking with Christ for a long time, if

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we're being honest on the weekends, maybe we're

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still sitting around with friends and we're still

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in that gossip circle, right? We're sitting around

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with our friends and we're still just engaging

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in every bit of that conversation about other

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people. Or maybe some of us have been walking

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with Christ for a long time, but we have... We're

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still that sarcastic person that we were before.

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And we end up tearing down more people than we're

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lifting up, right? If we're honest, like, let's

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be honest. Let's not just say, yeah, I'm new

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and I never do that stuff anymore. Let's be honest.

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Take a real look inside. The gospel is not meant

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to be relevant only on the day that you place

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your faith in Christ. The gospel is meant to

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be relevant every moment of every day. It's pertinent.

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It's not just the good news that we share and

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hope somebody puts their faith in Jesus. It is

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the message of our lives as Christ followers.

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It is the lens that we should see everything

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through. It is the lens we should make decisions

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through. It is the lens we should conversate

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through. It's the lens that we live our lives

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through. Now, I don't know about you, but I want

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to look in the mirror every morning and see just

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a little bit more of Jesus. Are you with me?

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When the gospel story meets our story, everything

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changes. We go from death to life. We live in

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response to that good news and to the freedom

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and the grace that's been extended to us. And

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then we walk in our new life that's rooted in

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God. One of the very first friends that I met

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in Atlanta that Brad and I met actually was a

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friend named Sarah and her husband Bryson. They

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were the very first people before we even moved

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to Atlanta that we connected with. And Sarah

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and Bryson. are just this amazing couple who

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love the Lord. They made our transition to moving

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to Atlanta so smooth. They welcomed us into Passion

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City Church. And Sarah in particular has just

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become a dear friend to me. Sarah is somebody

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who exudes the love of Jesus. She's that person

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that opens the door and you're meeting her for

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the very first time. And it's like you've known

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each other your whole lives and it's Christmas

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and she welcomes you in. That kind of joy exudes

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from her. incredible person. And she has an amazing

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story of what God has done in her life. And so

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I want to share my friend Sarah's story with

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you this morning. So if you just turn your attention

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to the screens, you can see what God has done

00:27:44.099 --> 00:27:47.619
in Sarah's life. Honestly, the majority of my

00:27:47.619 --> 00:27:56.279
childhood before 18 is loneliness. Always felt

00:27:56.279 --> 00:28:02.740
lonely. I felt like no one was for me. My parents

00:28:02.740 --> 00:28:09.539
divorced when I was 11. There was abuse within

00:28:09.539 --> 00:28:13.099
our family and it was just dark. It was a dark

00:28:13.099 --> 00:28:18.529
place. I started having anxiety attacks and depression

00:28:18.529 --> 00:28:21.930
by the time I was 16. I mean, I turned to alcohol

00:28:21.930 --> 00:28:27.269
early. I turned to partying early. And when I

00:28:27.269 --> 00:28:29.910
went down that path in middle school and high

00:28:29.910 --> 00:28:34.630
school, it was just darker and deeper. I sat

00:28:34.630 --> 00:28:36.710
in that loneliness, and it just became home.

00:28:38.690 --> 00:28:42.569
And so a week before I graduated high school,

00:28:42.730 --> 00:28:45.750
I had gone to the church. And I remember that

00:28:45.750 --> 00:28:49.670
youth pastor, Reed Hughes, talking to me about

00:28:49.670 --> 00:28:52.849
Jesus. And so I talked to him about my feelings

00:28:52.849 --> 00:28:56.869
and everything I was struggling with. And he

00:28:56.869 --> 00:29:02.289
led me to the Lord, May 10, 1987. And I knew

00:29:02.289 --> 00:29:07.269
then that I was making a 180 -degree turn. I

00:29:07.269 --> 00:29:19.700
knew that night. So I grew up in a pretty violent

00:29:19.700 --> 00:29:21.920
household that had a lot of alcoholism in it.

00:29:22.019 --> 00:29:24.339
It was a very lonely home because they were so

00:29:24.339 --> 00:29:26.480
busy fighting that I just didn't really matter.

00:29:26.680 --> 00:29:29.359
And they fought on and off until I was 16. And

00:29:29.359 --> 00:29:31.400
my dad finally got arrested and he got pulled

00:29:31.400 --> 00:29:33.839
out of the home. And at that point, my mom transitioned

00:29:33.839 --> 00:29:37.220
into being an abuser. One night when I was 16,

00:29:37.460 --> 00:29:41.019
my mom's dog. bit me because my mom and I were

00:29:41.019 --> 00:29:43.180
fighting we got him off and I was laying in the

00:29:43.180 --> 00:29:45.019
yard bleeding waiting for the ambulance to come

00:29:45.019 --> 00:29:47.259
in she came out there and told me that she hated

00:29:47.259 --> 00:29:49.480
me and she would rather keep the dog and that's

00:29:49.480 --> 00:29:53.500
when I decided to leave so when I moved out I

00:29:53.500 --> 00:29:55.700
started living with a boyfriend and it just started

00:29:55.700 --> 00:29:58.539
this whole trajectory of just bouncing from relationship

00:29:58.539 --> 00:30:01.799
to relationship I would just define myself by

00:30:01.799 --> 00:30:03.480
whatever that they would say about me and however

00:30:03.480 --> 00:30:06.480
long I could hold a relationship but I didn't

00:30:06.480 --> 00:30:07.859
have any worth, and I didn't have anybody telling

00:30:07.859 --> 00:30:11.599
me I was worth anything. So I was just empty.

00:30:15.480 --> 00:30:20.000
I spent a season in my early 20s in church, and

00:30:20.000 --> 00:30:23.859
through that I met some people and just ran into

00:30:23.859 --> 00:30:25.779
some situations with them where I was really

00:30:25.779 --> 00:30:28.980
in need, and they kind of turned me away and

00:30:28.980 --> 00:30:32.440
almost shamed me. Because I had had those interactions,

00:30:32.599 --> 00:30:35.460
it was really easy for me from that to then just

00:30:35.460 --> 00:30:38.140
generalize that Christians were hypocrites. But

00:30:38.140 --> 00:30:39.680
yeah, they just didn't seem like they at all

00:30:39.680 --> 00:30:41.200
cared. They only seemed like they cared about

00:30:41.200 --> 00:30:43.480
themselves. I mean, when you already believe

00:30:43.480 --> 00:30:45.960
that you're worthless, and then you go to a place

00:30:45.960 --> 00:30:47.599
that's supposed to tell you that you're worth

00:30:47.599 --> 00:31:05.130
something, and the people don't. It really only

00:31:05.130 --> 00:31:14.849
dug that hole deeper for me. So in 2014, I started

00:31:14.849 --> 00:31:16.809
going back to college at the University of North

00:31:16.809 --> 00:31:19.410
Georgia for science. And through science, I just

00:31:19.410 --> 00:31:21.470
felt totally empowered. I could understand the

00:31:21.470 --> 00:31:23.710
concepts like it was nothing. It was easy for

00:31:23.710 --> 00:31:25.630
me. It came natural to me. And it was the first

00:31:25.630 --> 00:31:27.470
time I really felt like I had worth because I...

00:31:28.000 --> 00:31:30.839
I felt smart, and nobody had ever told me I was

00:31:30.839 --> 00:31:33.279
smart or capable my whole life. And so as I learned

00:31:33.279 --> 00:31:37.019
about science, man, just the rage against Christians

00:31:37.019 --> 00:31:39.619
was just fueled in me. Christians are hypocritical,

00:31:39.640 --> 00:31:43.779
and they're repressive. It was just like normal

00:31:43.779 --> 00:31:50.079
to just slam Christianity. And I was in this

00:31:50.079 --> 00:31:51.900
class called The Mechanisms of Disease. There

00:31:51.900 --> 00:31:53.420
we're talking about white blood cells and the

00:31:53.420 --> 00:31:56.259
way that your body knows the specific type of

00:31:56.259 --> 00:31:58.880
infection. that it needs to respond to, whether

00:31:58.880 --> 00:32:01.319
it's a parasite or a pathogen. And it's super

00:32:01.319 --> 00:32:04.220
specific, and it's very intricate. And I just

00:32:04.220 --> 00:32:07.259
had this moment when I thought, oh no, oh no,

00:32:07.380 --> 00:32:09.960
oh no. You can't tell me that billions of years

00:32:09.960 --> 00:32:12.839
of chance have gotten us here. I think it's from

00:32:12.839 --> 00:32:16.339
a higher power. And in that moment, it was just

00:32:16.339 --> 00:32:18.720
full -on panic, because everything that I thought

00:32:18.720 --> 00:32:22.529
I knew about... Christianity and God and science,

00:32:22.529 --> 00:32:25.430
it just all collided and I had just shattered

00:32:25.430 --> 00:32:30.730
my identity again. In the same semester, I was

00:32:30.730 --> 00:32:32.730
teaching organic chemistry and there is another

00:32:32.730 --> 00:32:35.529
TA with me teaching organic chemistry. And it

00:32:35.529 --> 00:32:38.289
just grew this really sarcastic friendship. And

00:32:38.289 --> 00:32:39.950
over time, I started to realize that he wasn't

00:32:39.950 --> 00:32:42.230
just like this sarcastic man. He was actually

00:32:42.230 --> 00:32:46.849
really gentle and kind and steady. And then I

00:32:46.849 --> 00:32:49.529
realized that he was a Christian. And I was like,

00:32:49.690 --> 00:33:00.450
oh, no. I was really diving deep into young adults

00:33:00.450 --> 00:33:02.990
at Passion City Church, and I was just really

00:33:02.990 --> 00:33:04.890
trying to focus on my faith with God at that

00:33:04.890 --> 00:33:08.309
point. Along that same timeline, it was down

00:33:08.309 --> 00:33:10.589
in my basement with my mom and my sister. We

00:33:10.589 --> 00:33:12.549
were watching a show, and then after the show

00:33:12.549 --> 00:33:14.269
ended, I kind of just turned around, and I was

00:33:14.269 --> 00:33:17.240
like... Hey, I'm dating this girl that is like

00:33:17.240 --> 00:33:19.299
six years older than me, and she's not a Christian,

00:33:19.380 --> 00:33:23.279
and I'm just confused. And I kind of had this

00:33:23.279 --> 00:33:25.680
sense and feeling that I needed to try to step

00:33:25.680 --> 00:33:29.339
in and talk to Janelle. I really had this expectation

00:33:29.339 --> 00:33:31.339
that she was going to reject me or not think

00:33:31.339 --> 00:33:33.599
that I was good enough for her son, just based

00:33:33.599 --> 00:33:35.240
on what I had learned from other Christians,

00:33:35.299 --> 00:33:38.500
feeling like I had no worth or value. And it

00:33:38.500 --> 00:33:41.759
was not that way at all. She accepted me wholeheartedly,

00:33:41.799 --> 00:33:45.319
and she... made me feel and know that I had value.

00:33:45.819 --> 00:33:48.960
And that was easy for me to say because I had

00:33:48.960 --> 00:33:53.519
come from that broken place. I was that broken

00:33:53.519 --> 00:33:57.180
girl. And I'm like, this may be her one chance

00:33:57.180 --> 00:34:02.200
to see grace, to see love like she's never experienced

00:34:02.200 --> 00:34:07.440
before. And I had had that. And she was accepting

00:34:07.440 --> 00:34:11.030
and she was kind. You could just tell that she

00:34:11.030 --> 00:34:13.010
was generous, and I don't mean financially. I

00:34:13.010 --> 00:34:14.809
mean with her time and with her love and with

00:34:14.809 --> 00:34:19.210
her space. And she sat with me in those hard

00:34:19.210 --> 00:34:21.230
conversations a lot because I still was pretty

00:34:21.230 --> 00:34:23.329
unsure about Christians and what it meant to

00:34:23.329 --> 00:34:25.309
be a Christian. I had a lot of questions, and

00:34:25.309 --> 00:34:27.170
I had done a lot of things that I didn't think

00:34:27.170 --> 00:34:29.070
allowed me to be a Christian. I thought I was

00:34:29.070 --> 00:34:32.949
kind of disqualified at this point. And she modeled

00:34:32.949 --> 00:34:34.809
that idea that, like, you can never be too far

00:34:34.809 --> 00:34:40.400
gone for God's love. It's just amazing to see

00:34:40.400 --> 00:34:43.980
both of my parents, specifically my mom, just

00:34:43.980 --> 00:34:47.360
be loving and graceful and gentle towards Sarah.

00:34:48.000 --> 00:34:51.280
And she was just such a gift of generosity in

00:34:51.280 --> 00:34:54.639
that for me. I just started attending Passion

00:34:54.639 --> 00:34:56.639
to see where my relationship with God could go.

00:34:57.420 --> 00:35:00.400
And every time I saw her at church, she was becoming

00:35:00.400 --> 00:35:04.519
someone different. And then in 2017, Janelle

00:35:04.519 --> 00:35:06.639
invited me to Passion Conference for the first

00:35:06.639 --> 00:35:10.679
time. Jesus was already working in her life in

00:35:10.679 --> 00:35:14.199
turning her heart toward him. And at the very

00:35:14.199 --> 00:35:17.139
end, it was the year that Sean debuted Worthy

00:35:17.139 --> 00:35:19.039
of Your Name. I remember the purple cross and

00:35:19.039 --> 00:35:21.659
just closing my eyes and just having this full

00:35:21.659 --> 00:35:25.380
revelation of how beautiful God was. She starts

00:35:25.380 --> 00:35:29.940
worshiping with such abandon, tears flowing down

00:35:29.940 --> 00:35:33.039
her face. And just listening to when Sean is

00:35:33.039 --> 00:35:35.780
singing, you're my author, you're my maker. You

00:35:35.780 --> 00:35:37.579
know, my Redeemer, all of those things, and thinking,

00:35:37.679 --> 00:35:41.139
oh, like, you really are that for me. She said,

00:35:41.139 --> 00:35:44.219
and it was literally like a veil was lifted in

00:35:44.219 --> 00:35:47.260
that moment. And the beauty of Jesus that had

00:35:47.260 --> 00:35:50.679
never been there before. And I was like, that's

00:35:50.679 --> 00:35:54.280
it. And that moment at Passion Conference, that

00:35:54.280 --> 00:35:57.119
was really the liftoff for me. That really pushed

00:35:57.119 --> 00:35:59.539
me forward into a wholehearted pursuit of Jesus.

00:36:05.579 --> 00:36:08.920
That is what happens when the gospel story meets

00:36:08.920 --> 00:36:13.139
our story. I don't know where you're at this

00:36:13.139 --> 00:36:15.599
morning. I know some of you. I don't know a lot

00:36:15.599 --> 00:36:17.300
of you. And I don't know where you walked in

00:36:17.300 --> 00:36:19.380
today. I don't know if you're finding yourself

00:36:19.380 --> 00:36:22.039
more like maybe Janelle. Maybe you've been walking

00:36:22.039 --> 00:36:25.079
with the Lord for a long time. And this morning,

00:36:25.099 --> 00:36:29.300
you need reminded of the goodness and the mercy

00:36:29.300 --> 00:36:31.880
and the grace. How easy it can be for us to just

00:36:31.880 --> 00:36:34.380
get used to life, right? We can just move on

00:36:34.380 --> 00:36:36.460
with our days and life gets busy and it can be

00:36:36.460 --> 00:36:40.960
so easy to just downplay the goodness and the

00:36:40.960 --> 00:36:44.639
power that the gospel has in our life every single

00:36:44.639 --> 00:36:47.719
day. Maybe for you, maybe you've been walking

00:36:47.719 --> 00:36:50.739
with the Lord for a long time and you have just

00:36:50.739 --> 00:36:52.940
got comfortable, right? You just got comfortable.

00:36:53.119 --> 00:36:56.019
If you're being honest, if you look maybe over

00:36:56.019 --> 00:36:59.179
the last year or the last two years, Not a whole

00:36:59.179 --> 00:37:01.340
lot has changed. You know, you've got, you hit

00:37:01.340 --> 00:37:03.940
that age where everything's going good and not

00:37:03.940 --> 00:37:05.659
a lot has changed. And if you're honest, you're

00:37:05.659 --> 00:37:08.760
not seeing the fruit that comes from continually

00:37:08.760 --> 00:37:12.769
walking and growing with Jesus. And in a moment,

00:37:12.789 --> 00:37:14.210
we're going to pray if you guys want to begin

00:37:14.210 --> 00:37:16.789
to play. I just want to encourage you to reflect.

00:37:16.949 --> 00:37:19.269
Take this next few minutes. We're going to sing

00:37:19.269 --> 00:37:21.789
and we're going to worship together in a moment.

00:37:21.889 --> 00:37:23.389
But I just want to encourage you, would you just

00:37:23.389 --> 00:37:25.869
take these next few moments and just reflect.

00:37:25.929 --> 00:37:29.389
Look at your life and be honest. If you've been

00:37:29.389 --> 00:37:32.010
walking with the Lord for any amount of time,

00:37:32.070 --> 00:37:35.269
years, like Janelle, or maybe a few years, or

00:37:35.269 --> 00:37:37.630
maybe even a year. Are you seeing a difference

00:37:37.630 --> 00:37:40.269
from the moment you said yes to where you are

00:37:40.269 --> 00:37:42.289
now? Are you seeing fruit? Are you seeing growth?

00:37:43.309 --> 00:37:46.750
There is so much goodness that comes from walking

00:37:46.750 --> 00:37:50.989
with Jesus. Maybe this morning you're like, no,

00:37:51.090 --> 00:37:53.389
I can actually do really a lot more with Sarah.

00:37:54.289 --> 00:37:56.570
Maybe this morning you're coming from a place

00:37:56.570 --> 00:38:01.489
of darkness. Maybe you have, like Sarah, experienced

00:38:01.489 --> 00:38:06.099
brutal. abuse and difficulties and challenges

00:38:06.099 --> 00:38:09.900
and struggles your whole life. Or maybe it's

00:38:09.900 --> 00:38:12.139
a season you've just walked into and things are

00:38:12.139 --> 00:38:16.000
hard and they're tough. And maybe you haven't

00:38:16.000 --> 00:38:19.000
officially made the decision. Maybe you're hesitant

00:38:19.000 --> 00:38:21.019
like Sarah and you haven't made the decision

00:38:21.019 --> 00:38:23.800
to put your faith in Christ. Can I just urge

00:38:23.800 --> 00:38:27.139
you this morning? There is no better decision

00:38:27.139 --> 00:38:29.960
that you will make in your life than to turn

00:38:29.960 --> 00:38:33.699
it over to Jesus. There is no place on this earth

00:38:33.699 --> 00:38:36.920
or in your own will that you can find the peace

00:38:36.920 --> 00:38:40.179
and the joy and the freedom and the growth that

00:38:40.179 --> 00:38:43.579
comes from a life with Jesus. And so I could

00:38:43.579 --> 00:38:46.019
not leave this place this morning without giving

00:38:46.019 --> 00:38:48.599
you the opportunity. If you cannot say, you know

00:38:48.599 --> 00:38:51.480
what? I don't think I've ever actually confessed

00:38:51.480 --> 00:38:53.960
my faith in Jesus. I don't think that I've put

00:38:53.960 --> 00:38:56.519
it or I've been hesitant, but I feel this pulling

00:38:56.519 --> 00:38:58.820
and I want to walk away from it. I don't wanna

00:38:58.820 --> 00:39:01.610
be stuck in the jaws. death. I want to walk in

00:39:01.610 --> 00:39:04.710
the freedom. I want to walk in newness. I want

00:39:04.710 --> 00:39:07.750
to be made new. That can happen this morning.

00:39:08.510 --> 00:39:10.110
We're going to pray in a minute, and it's not

00:39:10.110 --> 00:39:13.409
a magical prayer. The power comes from you making

00:39:13.409 --> 00:39:16.050
the decision to walk away from your old life

00:39:16.050 --> 00:39:19.170
and to step into this newness of God. Your life

00:39:19.170 --> 00:39:21.889
will never be the same. And there is a church

00:39:21.889 --> 00:39:24.869
full of people and a staff team here that is

00:39:24.869 --> 00:39:28.219
just... eagerly waiting to walk beside you to

00:39:28.219 --> 00:39:30.179
show you what it looks like to open the bible

00:39:30.179 --> 00:39:32.559
to show you what it looks like to actually get

00:39:32.559 --> 00:39:35.480
something from scripture and and see god in every

00:39:35.480 --> 00:39:37.940
part of scripture and understand what it's saying

00:39:37.940 --> 00:39:41.079
there's there's an entire team waiting to pray

00:39:41.079 --> 00:39:43.679
for you and teach you how to get on your knees

00:39:43.679 --> 00:39:47.820
and pray living for jesus isn't a magic pill

00:39:47.820 --> 00:39:50.099
it doesn't make everything better immediately

00:39:50.099 --> 00:39:53.199
but i can tell you it is a hope that you will

00:39:53.199 --> 00:39:56.170
find in no other place And it is life -changing.

00:39:56.269 --> 00:39:57.630
I'm gonna ask you if you would stand with me

00:39:57.630 --> 00:40:01.389
this morning. And we're gonna pray and for privacy

00:40:01.389 --> 00:40:03.210
of others. And just so we can focus, would you

00:40:03.210 --> 00:40:06.989
just bow your heads with me? And as I talk and

00:40:06.989 --> 00:40:09.630
as I pray, and even in a minute as I sing, can

00:40:09.630 --> 00:40:13.070
you just block everything out? Every distraction

00:40:13.070 --> 00:40:15.210
from the morning, every distraction that's beside

00:40:15.210 --> 00:40:17.809
you, every just thought that's going on of what's

00:40:17.809 --> 00:40:19.469
happening up in the week. Would you just lay

00:40:19.469 --> 00:40:22.500
it right now at the feet of Jesus? When you take

00:40:22.500 --> 00:40:24.559
a moment of inventory, if you were in that first

00:40:24.559 --> 00:40:26.739
group and you've been walking with the Lord for

00:40:26.739 --> 00:40:29.260
a while, take a look. What has the fruit been

00:40:29.260 --> 00:40:33.000
like? When's the last time you were in awe, on

00:40:33.000 --> 00:40:36.500
your knees, just praising him for saving you

00:40:36.500 --> 00:40:40.199
from death? And if you're in that second group

00:40:40.199 --> 00:40:43.559
this morning with every eye closed this morning,

00:40:43.619 --> 00:40:45.480
I just wanna ask you, would you take a step of

00:40:45.480 --> 00:40:47.719
boldness? If that's you this morning and you

00:40:47.719 --> 00:40:51.050
wanna say, you know what? I'm done living in

00:40:51.050 --> 00:40:54.050
the darkness. I'm done having no hope. I want

00:40:54.050 --> 00:40:55.829
to put my faith in Jesus. Would you just raise

00:40:55.829 --> 00:40:57.329
your hand this morning? Because I wanna pray

00:40:57.329 --> 00:40:59.769
with you and I wanna encourage you this morning

00:40:59.769 --> 00:41:02.789
that there is so much more in a life with Jesus.

00:41:03.349 --> 00:41:05.949
So I'm gonna give you just a moment. I wholeheartedly

00:41:05.949 --> 00:41:08.530
believe that someone is sitting here this morning

00:41:08.530 --> 00:41:13.480
and you related so much to what Sarah said. And

00:41:13.480 --> 00:41:16.139
I can tell you, Sarah is full of life and is

00:41:16.139 --> 00:41:18.519
life easy for her? No, but she's full of life

00:41:18.519 --> 00:41:21.780
and hope and joy. Her life drastically changed

00:41:21.780 --> 00:41:26.199
coming to know Jesus. I wanna give you just one

00:41:26.199 --> 00:41:28.820
more moment. Is there anyone this morning that

00:41:28.820 --> 00:41:31.340
wants to be bold, raise your hand and say, I

00:41:31.340 --> 00:41:34.079
want that freedom. I wanna walk like Sarah. I

00:41:34.079 --> 00:41:38.460
wanna walk in the freedom of Jesus. Thank you,

00:41:38.460 --> 00:41:42.329
Jesus. Thank you, Lord. I'm gonna pray over us.

00:41:42.429 --> 00:41:45.369
Father, I thank you. Thank you for those that

00:41:45.369 --> 00:41:47.710
just rose their hands. God, thank you that in

00:41:47.710 --> 00:41:50.869
this very moment, as I speak, you are changing

00:41:50.869 --> 00:41:54.090
lives. God, I thank you that you have rescued

00:41:54.090 --> 00:41:58.210
us. God, that you cared so deeply about every

00:41:58.210 --> 00:42:01.150
single person. God, that you sent your son to

00:42:01.150 --> 00:42:04.710
die a brutal death. God, so that we could live

00:42:04.710 --> 00:42:08.849
in freedom and hope with you. And God, I just

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pray for those that just rose their hands so

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boldly to put their faith in you. God, I just

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pray right now that they would have a moment

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between you and them. God, where they would confess

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and say, Lord, you are my Lord and I believe

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and I trust in you. Lord, I pray that in this

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moment they would confess their sin. And they

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would lay it at your feet and they would walk

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away from their sin. God, they would walk away

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from their old life and turn and walk toward

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you, Lord. That is how we come to salvation in

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you. And I thank you, Jesus, that it is attainable

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to us right in this moment. I thank you, Father.

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I thank you for your freedom. I thank you for

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your goodness. God, I thank you for LifeHouse

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and a body of believers who is so rooted in your

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word. God, who desires to come up beside one

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another and walk with one another and point each

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other to your word and to your freedom in you,

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Lord, to growth in you, to the things of your

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word and who you are, God. I thank you, Jesus.

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I thank you for a new life in you. God, I thank

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you for pillars that are standing in this church

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that have been walking with you for years and

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years. God, I pray that they would leave this

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room this morning strengthened. Lord, I pray

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that they would leave this room this morning

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humbled. Lord, just brought back to that moment

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when they put their faith in you, God, and in

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the all that they stood in, God, that you, a

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God of the universe, would look at a sinful,

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messy person like me. And you would choose to

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sacrifice and save me and then continue to grow

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me and walk with me and be in relationship with

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me. God, bring us back to being in all of who

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you are and what you've done for us. Father,

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we love you and we worship you and it is only

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in your name, God, that we seal all of these

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things. God, yes and amen. Thank you, Jesus.

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