1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:14,560 Happy Wednesday everyone and welcome to the Thick AF podcast. 2 00:00:14,560 --> 00:00:17,480 Happy hump day and recording day. 3 00:00:17,480 --> 00:00:19,800 For some reason I thought you were going to say happy Hanukkah. 4 00:00:19,800 --> 00:00:21,800 It was, it was, yeah. 5 00:00:21,800 --> 00:00:26,200 So I'm excited to be here today to hang out on Wednesday and uh. 6 00:00:26,200 --> 00:00:28,040 Me too and it's not Hanukkah. 7 00:00:28,040 --> 00:00:30,040 It's not Hanukkah. 8 00:00:30,040 --> 00:00:32,040 Oh, I know what you're talking about. 9 00:00:32,040 --> 00:00:34,040 This TV show? 10 00:00:34,040 --> 00:00:36,040 911. 11 00:00:36,040 --> 00:00:38,040 Oh, 911. Yeah. So what's it about? 12 00:00:38,040 --> 00:00:40,040 I think it's on like regular TV or whatever but it's on Hulu now. 13 00:00:40,040 --> 00:00:44,040 But it's, I mean, just one of those like firefighter cop shows. 14 00:00:44,040 --> 00:00:48,040 But it's, you know, kind of about 911 dispatchers and them getting the calls. 15 00:00:48,040 --> 00:00:50,040 And kind of how the folks respond to them. 16 00:00:50,040 --> 00:00:52,040 It's not reality. It's scripted. 17 00:00:52,040 --> 00:00:54,040 Oh, is it a comedy? 18 00:00:54,040 --> 00:00:56,040 No. 19 00:00:56,040 --> 00:00:58,040 It's like a comedy. 20 00:00:58,040 --> 00:01:00,040 Yeah. It's like serious. 21 00:01:00,040 --> 00:01:02,040 And you like it? Yeah. 22 00:01:02,040 --> 00:01:04,040 Are they like 30 minute short episodes or like an hour? 23 00:01:04,040 --> 00:01:06,040 Ooh. Um, I don't know if they're 30 minutes or not. 24 00:01:06,040 --> 00:01:08,040 Honestly. 25 00:01:08,040 --> 00:01:10,040 I mean, if it's on regular TV, I would say that they're, yeah. 26 00:01:10,040 --> 00:01:14,040 They gotta be an hour then cause they're probably about 45 minutes long or whatever without commercials. 27 00:01:14,040 --> 00:01:16,040 Okay. 28 00:01:16,040 --> 00:01:18,040 Cool. I'll have to check that out. 29 00:01:18,040 --> 00:01:20,040 I don't know. It was just like it's an, I mean, it's an easy watch sometimes. 30 00:01:20,040 --> 00:01:24,040 Sometimes it's not like the anticipation will get you of like, you know, whatever scenario somebody is. 31 00:01:24,040 --> 00:01:26,040 Yeah. 32 00:01:26,040 --> 00:01:28,040 But, um, it's been a pretty good show so far. 33 00:01:28,040 --> 00:01:32,040 I was talking to Santana yesterday about, um, you know, the show Candy that was on Hulu. 34 00:01:32,040 --> 00:01:34,040 I did not watch it. 35 00:01:34,040 --> 00:01:36,040 Oh, you didn't watch it? No. 36 00:01:36,040 --> 00:01:38,040 I thought you did. Okay. 37 00:01:38,040 --> 00:01:40,040 Well, there's another one that's on Amazon Prime. 38 00:01:40,040 --> 00:01:42,040 I saw that. And that one is so good. 39 00:01:42,040 --> 00:01:44,040 Somebody said something. I saw somebody talk about it today on TikTok. 40 00:01:44,040 --> 00:01:46,040 Um, and I have not watched either one, but they didn't make comparisons about the two. 41 00:01:46,040 --> 00:01:48,040 They just noted that there were two different ones. 42 00:01:48,040 --> 00:01:50,040 And I think that's the one that's on Amazon Prime. 43 00:01:50,040 --> 00:01:52,040 I think that's the one that's on Amazon Prime. 44 00:01:52,040 --> 00:01:54,040 They just noted that there were two different ones. 45 00:01:54,040 --> 00:01:56,040 Yeah. You know, that you could watch, which I knew about the one that. 46 00:01:56,040 --> 00:02:02,040 They're similar, but they're also, they're, I mean, obviously it's the same story, but it's, you know, a little different. 47 00:02:02,040 --> 00:02:04,040 Yeah. I like it. I mean, I like, I like the second one. 48 00:02:04,040 --> 00:02:06,040 It seems like there's more details or something. I'm not really sure. 49 00:02:06,040 --> 00:02:08,040 Yeah. 50 00:02:08,040 --> 00:02:14,040 But they're apparently, and I thought it was over, but Santana told me last night that, um, there's like new episodes every week. 51 00:02:14,040 --> 00:02:16,040 And there's another episode coming out soon. I don't know when. 52 00:02:16,040 --> 00:02:18,040 Interesting. 53 00:02:18,040 --> 00:02:20,040 And I'm really excited. I know I need to go check it out. 54 00:02:20,040 --> 00:02:22,040 So yeah. Yay. 55 00:02:22,040 --> 00:02:26,040 Well, um, want to do, want to throw us an FMK for the day? 56 00:02:26,040 --> 00:02:28,040 Uh, yes. 57 00:02:28,040 --> 00:02:30,040 But I gotta find it. Hold please. 58 00:02:30,040 --> 00:02:32,040 Um, we'll do female comedians. 59 00:02:32,040 --> 00:02:34,040 Female comedians. 60 00:02:34,040 --> 00:02:36,040 Yes. Ali Wong. 61 00:02:36,040 --> 00:02:38,040 Okay. Amy Schumer. 62 00:02:38,040 --> 00:02:40,040 Okay. And Tiffany Haddish. 63 00:02:40,040 --> 00:02:42,040 I don't know who Tiffany is. 64 00:02:42,040 --> 00:02:48,040 She was in, she's the black girl that was in, uh, Girls Trip, who's kind of the, I think that's, I think she was in it. 65 00:02:48,040 --> 00:02:50,040 You know her if you saw her face. 66 00:02:50,040 --> 00:02:52,040 Tiffany Haddish? 67 00:02:52,040 --> 00:02:54,040 Yeah. H-I-D-D-I-S-H. 68 00:02:54,040 --> 00:02:59,040 That sounds, oh, she's cute, but I have no idea who she is. I've never seen any of her. Does she have like stand up or something? 69 00:02:59,040 --> 00:03:00,040 Yes. She does. 70 00:03:00,040 --> 00:03:02,040 I need to go watch it, I guess. So I'm going to kill her because I don't know. 71 00:03:02,040 --> 00:03:03,040 Oh. 72 00:03:03,040 --> 00:03:08,040 But she's in some movies and I don't know, I've never seen any of those either. 73 00:03:08,040 --> 00:03:10,040 I've never seen Girls Trip. 74 00:03:10,040 --> 00:03:11,040 Oh gosh. Okay. 75 00:03:11,040 --> 00:03:16,040 Never seen Night School. Never seen Nobody's Fool. Never seen Like a Boss. Never seen Bad Trip. 76 00:03:16,040 --> 00:03:19,040 All these, I've never seen any of these. 77 00:03:19,040 --> 00:03:25,040 Yeah, darn. I'm sorry Tiffany, but I'll go check you out. So I'm going to kill her. She's real cute though. 78 00:03:25,040 --> 00:03:30,040 Um, I bet she's funny because she looks like in this picture that she got on Google. She got like her fingers, her hands up like she's on a snack. 79 00:03:30,040 --> 00:03:32,040 Yeah, she's sassy for sure. 80 00:03:32,040 --> 00:03:42,040 Um, and then Ali Wong. I like her. I don't think I've seen her stand up though, but I have seen her in like movies and stuff. 81 00:03:42,040 --> 00:03:50,040 And I think she's cool. So I'm going to go with marry Amy Schumer, which I know a lot of people don't like her because she's kind of like, like Amy. 82 00:03:50,040 --> 00:03:57,040 She's just Amy Schumer. I don't even know how you describe her, but I like her. And I like, honestly, I like Howard Stern and I like all the raunchy stuff and I don't think it's weird. 83 00:03:57,040 --> 00:04:06,040 So I am, I'm going to marry her. I'm going to fuck Ali Wong and I'm going to kill Tiffany. 84 00:04:06,040 --> 00:04:09,040 And I'm going in a completely opposite direction. 85 00:04:09,040 --> 00:04:11,040 Alright, let's hear it. 86 00:04:11,040 --> 00:04:19,040 I'm going to marry Tiffany Haddish because I think that she is hysterical and I think that she would make a fun life partner. 87 00:04:19,040 --> 00:04:27,040 And also she's probably a little crazy and bad. I'd want to see what that looks like. And if you're married to somebody, that can happen. 88 00:04:27,040 --> 00:04:29,040 Do you want to see what it looks like or see how it is? 89 00:04:29,040 --> 00:04:31,040 How it is. 90 00:04:31,040 --> 00:04:33,040 Are you going to watch or are you a boyer? 91 00:04:33,040 --> 00:04:35,040 No. 92 00:04:35,040 --> 00:04:39,040 Are you going to try to check it out? Is she like bisexual or lesbian? 93 00:04:39,040 --> 00:04:43,040 No, I think she's straight. I don't know. I'm just saying. 94 00:04:43,040 --> 00:04:50,040 And then I'm going to fuck Ali Wong and I'm killing Amy Schumer. I like her as an actress. I don't like her as a comedian. 95 00:04:50,040 --> 00:04:57,040 I think she's boring. Like she's very even keeled and a little monotone. 96 00:04:57,040 --> 00:04:59,040 I don't know. 97 00:04:59,040 --> 00:05:01,040 I don't think so. 98 00:05:01,040 --> 00:05:10,040 I'm a teamster. I should have just put her in here because she is so funny and she makes me laugh so hard. I've never laughed out loud at Amy Schumer. 99 00:05:10,040 --> 00:05:17,040 Really? I have. I like her a lot. I don't know why you think she's like plain. I think she's hilarious. 100 00:05:17,040 --> 00:05:21,040 I don't know. I don't know either. That's weird that we would think different. But I don't know. 101 00:05:21,040 --> 00:05:26,040 One day you told me you were like, I don't think you would like her that comedy thing on like a net. I can't remember who it was. 102 00:05:26,040 --> 00:05:28,040 And I was like, I've seen it and I liked it. 103 00:05:28,040 --> 00:05:30,040 Who? Nikki Blazer? 104 00:05:30,040 --> 00:05:34,040 I don't honestly like her as much as I like Amy Schumer. 105 00:05:34,040 --> 00:05:38,040 Well, I was going to say you'd probably like Nikki Glaser because she has no qualms about the Raunchy stuff. 106 00:05:38,040 --> 00:05:45,040 Well, yeah, but I also don't. I don't I don't know. I don't like her as much. I don't know why. 107 00:05:45,040 --> 00:05:50,040 Yeah, I don't like her stand up, but I liked her little show that she had on Hulu. 108 00:05:50,040 --> 00:05:55,040 Oh, I never watched that. Yeah. I mean, it was just like a little eight episode show and I don't know if it's coming back for season two. 109 00:05:55,040 --> 00:06:03,040 But she's on Howard Stern a lot like they have her as like, I guess she was on this Hollywood Hollywood squares on there. 110 00:06:03,040 --> 00:06:06,040 She's funny outside of her stand up. 111 00:06:06,040 --> 00:06:11,040 Like, I like it when she interacts with other people better than just watching her stand. 112 00:06:11,040 --> 00:06:19,040 Well, I thought it was weird that they had her on there because she's like famous, but she had they had her on there with like all of the the whack back. 113 00:06:19,040 --> 00:06:25,040 Oh, my gosh. I have listened. My dad canceled my serious are serious, serious exam for. 114 00:06:25,040 --> 00:06:32,040 So you haven't been listening to it for like two months and I'm like, I can't believe you're just now telling me that it's been like the longest time. 115 00:06:32,040 --> 00:06:37,040 That's why you're not sleeping because your day is ruined every fucking morning. 116 00:06:37,040 --> 00:06:43,040 I know. It's true because that was like what I woke up to and I woke up for. 117 00:06:43,040 --> 00:06:46,040 I want to go to work on this and Howard Stern. What are you talking about? 118 00:06:46,040 --> 00:06:49,040 Oh, no. Now I know why. Yeah, I know. 119 00:06:49,040 --> 00:06:52,040 And it's like, what the hell, Grand Dan? I know, Grand Dan. 120 00:06:52,040 --> 00:06:55,040 Like, listen, last time he canceled, he didn't cancel it on purpose. 121 00:06:55,040 --> 00:07:01,040 What he does, he calls him. He's like, I'm retired and I can't afford the price to go up another year. 122 00:07:01,040 --> 00:07:07,040 So he calls him and then they like he like haggles them with for another deal for the next year. 123 00:07:07,040 --> 00:07:11,040 And they always take the Howard off. And I don't think he knows. 124 00:07:11,040 --> 00:07:16,040 And then like the next morning I'll wake up and it'll be like gone. And I'm like, Dad, did you just call? 125 00:07:16,040 --> 00:07:19,040 No. Oh, wait. Hold on. This is what he does. I forgot. 126 00:07:19,040 --> 00:07:25,040 He gets a new truck. He trades his truck in and he gets the trial that doesn't include Howard Stern. 127 00:07:25,040 --> 00:07:29,040 Oh, no. And so then after the trial's over, he'll get the Howard Stern thing, I guess. 128 00:07:29,040 --> 00:07:33,040 But he's trying to use the free thing because, you know, he's retired on a fixed income. 129 00:07:33,040 --> 00:07:36,040 OK, well, how much longer do you have to wait for? I have no idea. 130 00:07:36,040 --> 00:07:40,040 He may not even pay for the new one. He asked me. He's like, do you have to have it last time? 131 00:07:40,040 --> 00:07:42,040 And I complained. I was like, oh, my God, what am I going to do? 132 00:07:42,040 --> 00:07:44,040 I was like, never mind. I'll just get it myself. 133 00:07:44,040 --> 00:07:48,040 And he was like, it's OK. And he called and got it for me. And I was like, oh, my God, that's so nice. 134 00:07:48,040 --> 00:07:50,040 Well, it sounds like you need to make a call to Grand Dan. 135 00:07:50,040 --> 00:07:53,040 I already told him. I said, did you do it again? He's like, oh, thanks. 136 00:07:53,040 --> 00:07:56,040 So and I'm like, yeah, you did. We've already talked. 137 00:07:56,040 --> 00:08:00,040 I just figured I don't want to I don't want to make him have to pay for it. 138 00:08:00,040 --> 00:08:02,040 He's on a fixed income. I get it. 139 00:08:02,040 --> 00:08:06,040 So I mean, I'm on a fixed income, too. They don't give me a raise. 140 00:08:06,040 --> 00:08:10,040 But you know what I mean? So, OK. 141 00:08:10,040 --> 00:08:13,040 So I have a confession to make. Oh, God. 142 00:08:13,040 --> 00:08:17,040 No, it's not bad. Are you sure? Yeah, I promise. 143 00:08:17,040 --> 00:08:22,040 Last week's episode, when we were recording, I was like, I'm so excited for you to talk about this. 144 00:08:22,040 --> 00:08:26,040 I thought we were talking about something completely different than what we were talking about. 145 00:08:26,040 --> 00:08:31,040 What were we talking about? I was excited to talk about what we're actually going to talk about today. 146 00:08:31,040 --> 00:08:36,040 Oh, yeah. So I'm excited to talk about it. 147 00:08:36,040 --> 00:08:41,040 I remember I was like, I was like, OK, like you're super excited about me. 148 00:08:41,040 --> 00:08:44,040 You're like, I'm not the one in a relationship. You are. 149 00:08:44,040 --> 00:08:47,040 I'm excited for you to talk about it. OK, cool. I don't know why you're excited. 150 00:08:47,040 --> 00:08:53,040 It's weird. Well, we had the day before we had been at the pool and we were talking about this one topic. 151 00:08:53,040 --> 00:08:57,040 And I thought that's what we were going to talk about on Sunday when we recorded it. 152 00:08:57,040 --> 00:09:01,040 And it was not. Oh, my God. That's I just let it go. 153 00:09:01,040 --> 00:09:03,040 At least I didn't say it. And then, you know, we didn't talk about it. 154 00:09:03,040 --> 00:09:06,040 So. All right. Well, let you introduce your little topic. 155 00:09:06,040 --> 00:09:14,040 OK. So, OK. I the other day, you know, I wake up in the morning and sometimes not all the times. 156 00:09:14,040 --> 00:09:18,040 Not to Howard Stern anymore. Yeah, because I don't have Howard anymore. 157 00:09:18,040 --> 00:09:30,040 It makes me so sad, like because I don't have Howard anymore. I was scrolling through Instagram and an ad like, you know, you pop. 158 00:09:30,040 --> 00:09:34,040 It pops up and sometimes there's like an ad or something right there. 159 00:09:34,040 --> 00:09:38,040 And it was this thing and it was like a ring for single people to wear. 160 00:09:38,040 --> 00:09:42,040 It was like, are you single? And I'm like, yeah. 161 00:09:42,040 --> 00:09:44,040 And it's like and I'm like, what does that mean? 162 00:09:44,040 --> 00:09:48,040 Like, is it going to give me like some kind of weird thing? And it's like, you know what I mean? 163 00:09:48,040 --> 00:09:52,040 Are you single? Weird thing. You know, like, are you single? 164 00:09:52,040 --> 00:09:56,040 Click yes. And if you click yes, it's like come to the I don't know. 165 00:09:56,040 --> 00:09:58,040 Like, oh, my God, I don't know. Some stupid thing. 166 00:09:58,040 --> 00:10:00,040 You got sucked in by the ad. 167 00:10:00,040 --> 00:10:04,040 So I got sucked into the ad and I'm start looking at it and whatever. 168 00:10:04,040 --> 00:10:08,040 And it is this thing called a pair ring. P.A.R. R.I.N.G. 169 00:10:08,040 --> 00:10:14,040 And it is the ring. It's basically an engagement ring for single people, but not engagement. 170 00:10:14,040 --> 00:10:20,040 It's for a ring for people because they say that, OK, people get engaged or they get married and they get to wear a ring. 171 00:10:20,040 --> 00:10:26,040 And that says they're claimed. But there's not a ring for people or there's nothing to show that you're actually single, 172 00:10:26,040 --> 00:10:28,040 which I mean, obviously not having a ring means you're single. 173 00:10:28,040 --> 00:10:33,040 But I will tell you that my parents have never worn like I've literally never seen my parents wear wedding rings. 174 00:10:33,040 --> 00:10:36,040 Really? Yeah, they have them wedding bands. 175 00:10:36,040 --> 00:10:44,040 But like they my mom, like they don't wear. My mom is really all for my parents wear wedding bands, rings, whatever. 176 00:10:44,040 --> 00:10:56,040 But I will say that my dad has like a ring from Wal-Mart because he originally had my stepmom's late father's ring 177 00:10:56,040 --> 00:11:02,040 and they have horses and they were washing horses one day and he lost the wedding band while he was washing horses. 178 00:11:02,040 --> 00:11:08,040 And he was really upset because he knew that that meant a whole lot to Connie. 179 00:11:08,040 --> 00:11:15,040 He eventually found it, but then he very quickly went to Wal-Mart to find another ring, a ring that was not that one. 180 00:11:15,040 --> 00:11:22,040 Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. You wear the other ring when the special occasions and then when you're working, you don't. 181 00:11:22,040 --> 00:11:28,040 So so there's this ring and I'm like, you know what? This is kind of dumb. 182 00:11:28,040 --> 00:11:35,040 But I was like I text Sarah and I was like, this would actually be kind of cool for me to do because, you know, it's it's basically what there's what pair ring. 183 00:11:35,040 --> 00:11:39,040 I don't know. It's like pair ring. I'll tell you what the website is in a minute. 184 00:11:39,040 --> 00:11:44,040 But they're basically trying to say that they want to get rid of dating apps. And I'm going to pull it up. 185 00:11:44,040 --> 00:11:48,040 Is it meant to be worn on your ring finger or? 186 00:11:48,040 --> 00:11:54,040 It doesn't matter. OK. I wear it on whatever finger you want. It's like this teal looking ring. 187 00:11:54,040 --> 00:11:59,040 Let me open up the store so they have a whole community. 188 00:11:59,040 --> 00:12:05,040 And it's so when you pull it up, it says it's pair P.A.R. R.I.N.G. 189 00:12:05,040 --> 00:12:08,040 dot C.O. So pairing dot co. 190 00:12:08,040 --> 00:12:14,040 And you pull it up and it looks like a scam. Like honestly, if I I probably got scammed out of twenty five dollars. 191 00:12:14,040 --> 00:12:17,040 But oh shit, I forgot you bought it. Yeah, I did buy it. 192 00:12:17,040 --> 00:12:20,040 OK. So it says, are you single? And it's like going around in a circle and has parent and you say yes or no. 193 00:12:20,040 --> 00:12:24,040 I wonder what happens if I say no, but I'm going to press yes so that we can talk about it. 194 00:12:24,040 --> 00:12:28,040 But I'll press no in a minute. And it says at the top, it has like this thing going across. 195 00:12:28,040 --> 00:12:32,040 It's like second release is about to sell out free shipping today. 196 00:12:32,040 --> 00:12:35,040 And it's like basically looks like a scam. 197 00:12:35,040 --> 00:12:40,040 And yeah, it's a joint experiment. It's calling it. 198 00:12:40,040 --> 00:12:43,040 I like that they're calling it that. Yeah, that that's cool. 199 00:12:43,040 --> 00:12:46,040 And it's the world's biggest social experiment. 200 00:12:46,040 --> 00:12:53,040 Well, and I think it's one of those things where it's it's has the potential to go viral, you know, if it hasn't already. 201 00:12:53,040 --> 00:13:00,040 And then, you know, maybe six months from now, you're going to see a shit ton of people that are single or at least want to elude that they're single with these rings on. 202 00:13:00,040 --> 00:13:09,040 Yeah. And so it's so it's a single question mark introducing pair in the real life social experiment taking the world by storm. 203 00:13:09,040 --> 00:13:15,040 Live in USA, UK, Germany, Canada, Australia and hashtag not a dating app. 204 00:13:15,040 --> 00:13:19,040 Dang. So you can travel the world and find. Yeah, that's cool. 205 00:13:19,040 --> 00:13:24,040 But it says 76 percent of people are open to being chatted up in real life. 206 00:13:24,040 --> 00:13:28,040 And basically it's saying that this is not a dating app. 207 00:13:28,040 --> 00:13:35,040 It's a ring that is worn to identify who's single and open to conversation IRL in real life. 208 00:13:35,040 --> 00:13:37,040 So you know what that means, right? 209 00:13:37,040 --> 00:13:43,040 If you wear that ring in real life and you're out and about and somebody starts chit chatting with you, 210 00:13:43,040 --> 00:13:48,040 you can't be annoyed because that ring is saying, hey, I'm open to conversation. 211 00:13:48,040 --> 00:13:50,040 Right. I guess I'm talking to you. 212 00:13:50,040 --> 00:13:59,040 You'll be annoyed that that person came over like like it doesn't like just because you have that ring on doesn't mean that you are the one that should talk to me. 213 00:13:59,040 --> 00:14:02,040 I'm just kidding. But you know what I mean? No, you're not. 214 00:14:02,040 --> 00:14:09,040 OK, so and it says one ring worn by every single person pair makes it easy to know who is single around you and open to meeting. 215 00:14:09,040 --> 00:14:16,040 Oh, I already read that a small subtle subtle is you say subtle or subtle there. 216 00:14:16,040 --> 00:14:19,040 You do not pronounce the T and it. Wait, what? 217 00:14:19,040 --> 00:14:23,040 No, you don't pronounce the B. Yeah. 218 00:14:23,040 --> 00:14:32,040 Subtle, a subtle subtle ring subtle. 219 00:14:32,040 --> 00:14:36,040 It looks cool. I like to say subtle. It's kind of cool. OK. 220 00:14:36,040 --> 00:14:41,040 But I'm going to say subtle, a small subtle. If I wasn't reading it, I wouldn't say subtle. 221 00:14:41,040 --> 00:14:48,040 I say subtle. But look, when you read it, it's like a small subtle ring that makes a big statement. 222 00:14:48,040 --> 00:14:58,040 OK. And then it says where pair wherever you go in a bar, on a train, at the gym, on vacation, at your friend's wedding, in a restaurant, walking to work, walking to work. 223 00:14:58,040 --> 00:15:07,040 OK. Connecting the world without filters and apps. And then it's 20. So you get 20. You pay $25 and it's a one off payment to participate. 224 00:15:07,040 --> 00:15:11,040 100 percent of the profits go toward growing the social experiment around the world. 225 00:15:11,040 --> 00:15:20,040 Basically, to me, this means $25. You get like the probably whatever it probably costs him 50 cents to get this ring and send it to you and like whatever shipping was. 226 00:15:20,040 --> 00:15:25,040 And then the rest of the money goes to whoever made this. And like basically they're not doing anything. 227 00:15:25,040 --> 00:15:36,040 Well, you never know. Maybe I don't think they'll because they're trying to, you know, very much so say this is not an app, but they could have some sort of community page or something in the future. 228 00:15:36,040 --> 00:15:43,040 Well, they do. OK, so I'll tell you what you get. OK, it says 94 percent sold out. This is not a subscription. 229 00:15:43,040 --> 00:15:49,040 Subscription. I would never be able to read like a I mean, maybe never say never. 230 00:15:49,040 --> 00:15:56,040 But I feel like if I was reading a teleprompter, I'd be like, subtle, subtle, small ring. 231 00:15:56,040 --> 00:16:00,040 OK, just a one off participation fee to join the experiment. 232 00:16:00,040 --> 00:16:03,040 Blah, blah, blah. Pair can be worn any finger you choose. 233 00:16:03,040 --> 00:16:05,040 Ring holders will be issued a unique membership number. 234 00:16:05,040 --> 00:16:16,040 Get invited to Pair Fest and get access to exclusive free events in your city, which honestly, there's probably not going to be any events in Birmingham until like maybe this gets like really big. 235 00:16:16,040 --> 00:16:20,040 But I highly doubt it because Birmingham, I feel like is like the last place. 236 00:16:20,040 --> 00:16:25,040 Like it's like love is blind won't come here. So Pair probably won't either. 237 00:16:25,040 --> 00:16:28,040 Just saying I'm just complaining because I feel like Birmingham is the best. 238 00:16:28,040 --> 00:16:31,040 I love Birmingham so much and I think that more things need to come here. 239 00:16:31,040 --> 00:16:41,040 But people think that Alabama is the worst and that we're all dumb idiots, which I mean, there's some dumb idiots, but there's also some dumb idiots in California and New York and like all over the place. 240 00:16:41,040 --> 00:16:47,040 So come to Birmingham. Just just stay for a little bit and go back home. 241 00:16:47,040 --> 00:16:50,040 Just kidding. Come to Birmingham. We like it here. 242 00:16:50,040 --> 00:16:55,040 OK, so then you get let's see. So I ordered it. 243 00:16:55,040 --> 00:17:01,040 And let me go see if I can find anything out. Oh, this is not another dating app. 244 00:17:01,040 --> 00:17:06,040 This is the most natural way to meet people. So basically they want you to wear this ring and go out and like try to meet people. 245 00:17:06,040 --> 00:17:22,040 Well, I think it's giving folks an avenue or invitation, if you will, to communicate with each other outside of just randomly walking up to somebody and hoping that they're also single and open and interested in, you know, talking to somebody else. 246 00:17:22,040 --> 00:17:27,040 Yeah. And then so there's this pair fest and it's like Paris hosting the world's first singles festival. 247 00:17:27,040 --> 00:17:37,040 Only I have no idea. It'll probably tell me it'll probably be in like Australia and I'll be like, I'm not going. And it's saying that you can go for free for your twenty five dollars. 248 00:17:37,040 --> 00:17:46,040 No, I got to pay like four million dollars to fly over there and get a hotel. OK, so they're hosting the world's big world's first singles festival. 249 00:17:46,040 --> 00:17:52,040 So it'll be like all it's like a singles cruise, but a festival and you have to have a ring to be able to participate. 250 00:17:52,040 --> 00:18:00,040 So but do you have to wear your ring there? Because like if you're wearing it, I mean, everybody already knows that you're single because you're part of the pair thing. 251 00:18:00,040 --> 00:18:08,040 I don't know. Whatever. OK, so I ordered this because I was like, you know what? I hate the dating apps. I think this is a very good idea. 252 00:18:08,040 --> 00:18:15,040 I also I do think that not wearing a ring like a wedding ring or an engagement ring means that you're single. 253 00:18:15,040 --> 00:18:27,040 So like, OK, but I like what Sarah was saying the other day and today sort of she was saying it's just saying that like, OK, it's kind of like a conversation starter like, oh, hey, you have a pairing like blah, blah, blah. 254 00:18:27,040 --> 00:18:33,040 Yeah. Well, and then you also have people who like I'm Brandon can't wear a ring at work. 255 00:18:33,040 --> 00:18:42,040 Like he will never be able to wear a ring at work doing what he does now. Oh, right. Gotcha. 256 00:18:42,040 --> 00:18:49,040 So that what he just just what he told you. I'm just kidding. 257 00:18:49,040 --> 00:18:56,040 He could wear he could wear like one of those little silicone rings. I don't know if they can. OK. Interesting. 258 00:18:56,040 --> 00:19:03,040 There's equipment that it could get caught in. No, no, no, no. 259 00:19:03,040 --> 00:19:12,040 I don't think so. You swear to love and no, I don't know unless it's got like a big diamond hanging off. I don't think he's going to be wearing one of those. 260 00:19:12,040 --> 00:19:17,040 Well, what do you think you think it's going to like? Honestly, I'm probably the first person that even bought one. 261 00:19:17,040 --> 00:19:27,040 And I'm especially in Birmingham. Listen, it was 97 percent sold out. So you ain't the first. But also, you know, that's what they said on the scam website. 262 00:19:27,040 --> 00:19:36,040 But OK, so what I'm thinking is that I'm going to be like nobody's going to have one. 263 00:19:36,040 --> 00:19:44,040 And I think regardless of whether you're the only person to have one or everybody else in Birmingham has one, it's still a conversation starter. 264 00:19:44,040 --> 00:19:51,040 And it's an opportunity, you know, for you to, you know, possibly meet other folks and ask why you have that on. 265 00:19:51,040 --> 00:20:00,040 They're going to think you're married and just don't have a diamond on. I've talked to people all the time at the bars and stuff and nobody ever like wants to talk to me about dating. 266 00:20:00,040 --> 00:20:06,040 Isn't that sad? I would never want to meet anyone at a bar anyways. 267 00:20:06,040 --> 00:20:13,040 Why? I don't know. Like at a brewery or something? That's different than like a bar. That's the same as a bar. 268 00:20:13,040 --> 00:20:23,040 I mean, I don't know. I don't go to like the bar like I don't go to a club. I mean, I don't know. I don't. 269 00:20:23,040 --> 00:20:29,040 You're always helping other people. That's true. I am always. But that's usually how it I am always helping other people. 270 00:20:29,040 --> 00:20:35,040 You have to look out for yourself. I know it sucks because you are the first to facilitate other people's conversations. 271 00:20:35,040 --> 00:20:44,040 I thought about this the other day and I was like, you know what? Like usually I think that I try to help other people because subconsciously I think that nobody would ever really be into me. 272 00:20:44,040 --> 00:20:50,040 I don't know why. Which is the dumbest thing ever. Is that sad that I feel that way? I don't know why. 273 00:20:50,040 --> 00:20:58,040 But I mean, you shouldn't feel that way. Yeah, I know. And maybe subconsciously I don't want like that. I don't know. 274 00:20:58,040 --> 00:21:04,040 I have no idea. Maybe I need to go to a psychiatrist or a therapist to talk through my dating issues. 275 00:21:04,040 --> 00:21:12,040 You might could. I don't feel like I have an issue with it. I just feel like. 276 00:21:12,040 --> 00:21:22,040 I mean, I think it's I do. And I think that everybody has their own individual self-confidence. 277 00:21:22,040 --> 00:21:31,040 And then I think that there's probably always a little bit of doubt within all of us about whatever it might be. 278 00:21:31,040 --> 00:21:49,040 What we have going on in our life, our abilities, our looks, you know, what have you, or, you know, a little bit of post-traumatic stress from like past relationships or dating experiences or whatever that can put you on the road to doubting yourself. 279 00:21:49,040 --> 00:21:55,040 But. 280 00:21:55,040 --> 00:22:01,040 You find somebody to talk to. Oh, my gosh. We went to the dog park today and there was this guy there that was kind of cute. 281 00:22:01,040 --> 00:22:06,040 He had a dog there and I thought he was kind of cute, but I was like trying to look, see it and ring on because I never do that. 282 00:22:06,040 --> 00:22:14,040 And I couldn't tell. And but he had the cutest little dog. So I'm going to start going back to see if he shows back up. 283 00:22:14,040 --> 00:22:17,040 And so I talked to him some more. Oh, I think you should do that for sure. 284 00:22:17,040 --> 00:22:25,040 He was kind of like not what I would normally go for, but he was kind of cute, like had like dark hair and was like had glasses on. 285 00:22:25,040 --> 00:22:29,040 I think you're going to have to do morning affirmations instead of Howard now. 286 00:22:29,040 --> 00:22:32,040 Morning affirmation in the mirror out loud. 287 00:22:32,040 --> 00:22:41,040 WTF. Listen, I think I'm amazing. You are. I am amazing. I just for some reason I feel I think I'm a great person. I think I don't think I'm ugly. I think I'm beautiful. 288 00:22:41,040 --> 00:22:49,040 I look in the mirror like I had the opposite of anorexia and like what do they have? What do they say? Body dysmorphia. I have the opposite of that. 289 00:22:49,040 --> 00:22:56,040 I look in the mirror and I see a skinny girl. Me too. I know. And then people try to tell me that I need to lose weight for my health. Who told you that? 290 00:22:56,040 --> 00:23:02,040 Well, we won't talk about that on here because they might hurt their feelings, but because I need to be healthy or something. 291 00:23:02,040 --> 00:23:11,040 I know who it is then. Well, you do. But I'm like I look in the mirror and I'm like, really? I feel like I look good. 292 00:23:11,040 --> 00:23:17,040 But that's all that matters. And I think that's something that you have to continuously remember and tell yourself. 293 00:23:17,040 --> 00:23:32,040 Well, but I know that I don't like I know that I'm not a small girl and I know that I'm not a small person and that normally, typically people don't go after that. 294 00:23:32,040 --> 00:23:43,040 Like men have not typically gone after like that. I mean, listen, I can sit here and and fully understand exactly how you feel. 295 00:23:43,040 --> 00:23:56,040 Right. And that's how that's how I feel. So I get I feel like I'm always trying to hook up other people because I feel like those people would not really want to be like into me because of my weight, I guess. 296 00:23:56,040 --> 00:24:01,040 Yeah, I listen, I full on get it. Yeah. I mean, I know you do. 297 00:24:01,040 --> 00:24:20,040 And I mean, even though like I did like match with Brandon on the apps, that's not really truly how like we ended up dating. But I mean, I think this pairing at least, you know, gives you some sort of avenue to meet some folks. 298 00:24:20,040 --> 00:24:30,040 Right. Because I do not everybody knows I don't like the dating app stuff. You have fun with it sometimes. And then I haven't. No, I don't like it. 299 00:24:30,040 --> 00:24:41,040 I don't. I know you don't. I know that. But I'm not saying that you're like lying about it or whatever. I'm saying it's entertaining for a period of time and then it becomes a chore and a job and no longer entertain. 300 00:24:41,040 --> 00:24:52,040 I haven't entertained it in over a year. Remember? Yeah. We talked about that last January whenever I went. Yeah. On a date. And then I was like, after that, I didn't even touch it. I haven't touched it. 301 00:24:52,040 --> 00:25:04,040 But I think I also think that it's OK to just be happy and content with where you are in life as a single person. You don't just because you're single doesn't mean that you should be constantly out there searching for your person. 302 00:25:04,040 --> 00:25:17,040 Well, I'm not right. Yeah. And I think that that's OK. And as long as that's, you know, you're OK with that and where you're at, you know, in this moment and chapter of your life, then that's all that matters. 303 00:25:17,040 --> 00:25:26,040 You don't just because we, you know, do a podcast about life, dating, relationships, whatever, doesn't mean you got to be on the hunt. Well, I'm not on the hunt. 304 00:25:26,040 --> 00:25:36,040 But, you know, sometimes I like wonder about it. I'm like, maybe I should be. Am I going to regret not doing this later? Is my is what I worry about. 305 00:25:36,040 --> 00:25:47,040 If you're not questioning that at all, then the answer is yes. If that seed is already in your mind right now at this moment. Yes, you're right. I also don't want to do it. 306 00:25:47,040 --> 00:26:00,040 I like and I have so much other stuff on my plate. Like now I'm on the board for the H.O.A. and I do this podcast and then like I have four animals and I have a lot of friends and it's just a lot. 307 00:26:00,040 --> 00:26:07,040 I feel like if I had a boyfriend, they would want me to like have more time to spend with them and I wouldn't be able to do it. 308 00:26:07,040 --> 00:26:11,040 Or you could just bring them along. Do what I do. 309 00:26:11,040 --> 00:26:16,040 Well, normally I hope I would hope that I don't know. We won't get into that. 310 00:26:16,040 --> 00:26:22,040 But yeah, so the dating app, I don't know. We'll see what this pairing does. So we're going to once I get it, let me see if I can find a tracking. 311 00:26:22,040 --> 00:26:27,040 I have it on my shop app because oh, by the way, I ordered another T.A. three bathing suit. 312 00:26:27,040 --> 00:26:33,040 No, you did it on the 12th. What is it? Freaking black. I got the square. I knew you would. 313 00:26:33,040 --> 00:26:41,040 Oh, my God. It's but I'm worried about this one because it doesn't it doesn't the straps don't go adjust all the way around. 314 00:26:41,040 --> 00:26:46,040 But I'm really excited about it because the other ones that I have are too high cut. 315 00:26:46,040 --> 00:26:52,040 Listen, and I got this bathing suit on Saturday to the pool and it's the plunge T.A. three bathing suit. 316 00:26:52,040 --> 00:26:57,040 That's also high cut. It was not too high cut by any means. 317 00:26:57,040 --> 00:27:01,040 And also the plunge. She was like, I look like what do you say? 318 00:27:01,040 --> 00:27:04,040 Who's your mama or something? I had my titties out. Yeah. 319 00:27:04,040 --> 00:27:08,040 That was not the case at all. My tits were way more out and yours were. 320 00:27:08,040 --> 00:27:13,040 They were. But I just feel like I don't know. And that bathing suit, it's like the bottom. 321 00:27:13,040 --> 00:27:18,040 I don't know if it doesn't it just doesn't fit right. I feel like every time I moved like it was going to because it's kind of loose. 322 00:27:18,040 --> 00:27:22,040 But it's also tight. It's like tight everywhere else. But it's like I don't know. 323 00:27:22,040 --> 00:27:27,040 Regular torso or the regular one. But the short one, I got a short one and it's like real short. 324 00:27:27,040 --> 00:27:30,040 And I'm like in between. I'm like five, three and a half. 325 00:27:30,040 --> 00:27:36,040 And they say anybody below five. Well, but I'm technically kind of five or but like I have big boobs. 326 00:27:36,040 --> 00:27:40,040 So I was like, if I have I need to get the regular one, it's a whole thing. 327 00:27:40,040 --> 00:27:44,040 So I'm going to try this one to see. But I like it. But also, OK, so there's this new app that they have. 328 00:27:44,040 --> 00:27:48,040 And I forgot not app. It's a thing that I did. 329 00:27:48,040 --> 00:27:52,040 And it's called something on the T3 website and you get points back. 330 00:27:52,040 --> 00:27:57,040 And so I got like twenty something dollars on my purchase to spend at that place. 331 00:27:57,040 --> 00:28:00,040 So next time I get to buy another one, I get like twenty something dollars off. 332 00:28:00,040 --> 00:28:03,040 There you go. Of these really effing expensive bathing suits. 333 00:28:03,040 --> 00:28:06,040 Yeah. So I'm excited about that. But yeah, it'll be coming in. 334 00:28:06,040 --> 00:28:10,040 And I'm pumped about that. So my ring, I'm looking at it. 335 00:28:10,040 --> 00:28:14,040 It says the order has shipped. Oh, by the way, you get three rings. 336 00:28:14,040 --> 00:28:18,040 You get a small, a medium and a large. So like you don't have to like measure your finger or whatever. 337 00:28:18,040 --> 00:28:21,040 And you can wear it on whatever finger you so you want to wear it on your pinky. 338 00:28:21,040 --> 00:28:27,040 You could probably wear the small or whatever. Or if it because me, because I have like really big fingers. 339 00:28:27,040 --> 00:28:30,040 I probably need the large. I probably need a medium on my pinky, honestly. 340 00:28:30,040 --> 00:28:38,040 But I told Christina, our friend Christina, who is single, that I would give her whichever one, probably the small one if I don't want the small one. 341 00:28:38,040 --> 00:28:43,040 But but yeah, so hopefully it'll be it doesn't say when it's going to be here. 342 00:28:43,040 --> 00:28:47,040 It does say that it shipped, but it doesn't have a tracking. 343 00:28:47,040 --> 00:28:51,040 So that's a little sad. But I'm excited. We'll see. Yeah. 344 00:28:51,040 --> 00:28:53,040 I'm going to have to go out a lot then. All right. 345 00:28:53,040 --> 00:28:56,040 But that means I'm just going to go to the dog park like a bunch now. 346 00:28:56,040 --> 00:29:01,040 Well, I have a dog. OK, bring your dog. 347 00:29:01,040 --> 00:29:06,040 Yeah. So I'm excited about that. OK, cool. What's next? 348 00:29:06,040 --> 00:29:15,040 Let's see here. OK, so we were going to talk about some more like we talked about dating apps pretty much and how I don't like it and online dating. 349 00:29:15,040 --> 00:29:18,040 But like I have a question for you. Yes, ma'am. 350 00:29:18,040 --> 00:29:26,040 Well, so would you could you ever be like in an open relationship? 351 00:29:26,040 --> 00:29:29,040 No, I don't want to share. 352 00:29:29,040 --> 00:29:32,040 What are you so selfish for? 353 00:29:32,040 --> 00:29:34,040 Just kidding. You wouldn't either. I would not. 354 00:29:34,040 --> 00:29:37,040 No, I'm sorry. And it's not because I don't like sharing. 355 00:29:37,040 --> 00:29:43,040 It's because I don't I don't like sharing genitals. Yeah, that's what I mean. 356 00:29:43,040 --> 00:29:47,040 Also, also because I don't know why. 357 00:29:47,040 --> 00:29:57,040 I guess it's because, you know, honestly, I wonder if we had ever like grown up, if we had been grown, if we excuse me, we had been taught as children that like 358 00:29:57,040 --> 00:30:04,040 open relationships were how things were supposed to be. Yeah, you weren't supposed to get married and like stay with the same person and blah blah blah. 359 00:30:04,040 --> 00:30:10,040 Do you think that like how crazy would life be? It would be wild. That would be so crazy. 360 00:30:10,040 --> 00:30:17,040 I can't even imagine. I can't. There would be babies everywhere. I mean, there's already babies everywhere, but everybody be having babies. 361 00:30:17,040 --> 00:30:23,040 No, and no, no hate, no shade to anybody who lives that lifestyle. I'm good for you. 362 00:30:23,040 --> 00:30:31,040 You know, whatever. I think if I had to be in an open relationship, it would be one of those don't ask, don't tell. 363 00:30:31,040 --> 00:30:37,040 I don't want to know anything about what you're doing, who you're doing it with. Whatever. Don't bring that shit home. 364 00:30:37,040 --> 00:30:42,040 Leave it. Oh, my God. Mine would not be known as don't tell. 365 00:30:42,040 --> 00:30:46,040 I would be like, you better tell me every little thing. I don't know. I don't like that. Don't ask. 366 00:30:46,040 --> 00:30:49,040 I'll tell because if they don't ask, don't tell. And you know, they're going out and doing something. 367 00:30:49,040 --> 00:30:53,040 I would be like, oh, they're cheating on me. Oh, what are they doing? What are they doing? 368 00:30:53,040 --> 00:31:00,040 Well, I mean, and I get what you say, but then I feel like if I were to say, I want to know every detail, it would consume me. 369 00:31:00,040 --> 00:31:09,040 I would need to put a camera on everything. I would. It would make me question everything all day, every day. 370 00:31:09,040 --> 00:31:14,040 Yeah, they have to wear a body cam like the police. 371 00:31:14,040 --> 00:31:20,040 I need to see what that person is doing to you, like what they're saying. I don't think I could handle it emotionally. 372 00:31:20,040 --> 00:31:24,040 I'm not built for that. Yeah, you definitely couldn't. I could not either. 373 00:31:24,040 --> 00:31:29,040 I could not. And if I can't, you definitely can't. Yeah. No, that would not be good. 374 00:31:29,040 --> 00:31:34,040 No. Yeah. But I feel like you wouldn't be like mad. You would just be like really sad. 375 00:31:34,040 --> 00:31:42,040 Yeah, I would. My anxiety would overtake my life and I would probably slip into a depression. Oh, Lord. 376 00:31:42,040 --> 00:31:46,040 So we already talked about like hall passes one time, but like, would you allow it? 377 00:31:46,040 --> 00:31:57,040 I mean, if it were some sort of ridiculous celebrity situation and like they were like fuck J. 378 00:31:57,040 --> 00:32:02,040 Lowe. Hell, yeah. Let him fuck J. Lowe. Would you would he need to wear a body cam? 379 00:32:02,040 --> 00:32:08,040 Yeah. J. Lowe would be like, no, it has to sign an NDA. 380 00:32:08,040 --> 00:32:13,040 J. Lowe has gotten Ben. So and you know, I love Ben, even though he's crazy. 381 00:32:13,040 --> 00:32:21,040 Yeah, but like it. I feel like there are some people out here that don't have, you know, quote unquote, like formal open relationships, 382 00:32:21,040 --> 00:32:28,040 but they do like a hall pass like every five years or something. I would never do that. No, I can't. 383 00:32:28,040 --> 00:32:32,040 I mean, to me, it's they're not the same thing, but like I don't want to go. 384 00:32:32,040 --> 00:32:38,040 I don't want to do the work to have to find somebody else to bang. You know what I mean? 385 00:32:38,040 --> 00:32:42,040 I don't like that. I don't either. I don't even want to get on a dating app to do it. 386 00:32:42,040 --> 00:32:47,040 Like, that's the easiest way to find somebody to go. I don't even want to do that. 387 00:32:47,040 --> 00:32:51,040 I like honestly, I just feel like I'll just be celibate for the rest of my life. 388 00:32:51,040 --> 00:32:56,040 Is that the word celibate? Yes. Celebrate. No, we are not celebrating celibacy. 389 00:32:56,040 --> 00:32:58,040 No, we are not. I feel that. I mean, we are. 390 00:32:58,040 --> 00:33:02,040 That's your choice or whatever, but not for you know, you need to get some dick. 391 00:33:02,040 --> 00:33:07,040 Oh, my God. Oh, Lord have mercy. I need some vitamin D, apparently. 392 00:33:07,040 --> 00:33:11,040 Yes. My mom always says I need vitamin D, but she's talking about the sun. 393 00:33:11,040 --> 00:33:15,040 Or like I need to take a look. I'm giving you a different prescription. 394 00:33:15,040 --> 00:33:21,040 Oh, my God. Oh, see, my thing is I can't just like go out and like do that. 395 00:33:21,040 --> 00:33:27,040 No. Yeah, I would never be able to do that. No, I mean, it's yeah, that's foreign to me. 396 00:33:27,040 --> 00:33:32,040 Yeah, I can't just I mean, it didn't used to be, but now it is. 397 00:33:32,040 --> 00:33:37,040 Now we're older. Yeah. Well, it's always kind of been that way for me. 398 00:33:37,040 --> 00:33:43,040 It's most. Yeah. OK, so could you like speaking about like open relationships 399 00:33:43,040 --> 00:33:49,040 and things like that, do you think that you could be in love with more than one person at once? 400 00:33:49,040 --> 00:33:57,040 No, I don't I don't know. I mean, it's never been a situation that I've been in. 401 00:33:57,040 --> 00:34:06,040 So I can't like firsthand say. Yes, obviously, because it's not been a situation that I've been in. 402 00:34:06,040 --> 00:34:13,040 But I would find it very hard to believe that I could say yes to that. 403 00:34:13,040 --> 00:34:17,040 So what do you think about like if you were on Love is Blind and there were two guys and you were like, oh, my God, 404 00:34:17,040 --> 00:34:20,040 I mean, I think I'm in love with both of them. 405 00:34:20,040 --> 00:34:30,040 I mean, I don't think that is the best example to give, I guess, because when they're doing that show, 406 00:34:30,040 --> 00:34:35,040 they're in these pods for 10 days. I don't care what anybody says they get proposed to. 407 00:34:35,040 --> 00:34:39,040 They know that they're going, you know, on to the next step. 408 00:34:39,040 --> 00:34:45,040 I don't know if for real, for real, like the day that they meet and see one another, 409 00:34:45,040 --> 00:34:49,040 they're truly for real, for real in love. Yeah. You know what I mean? 410 00:34:49,040 --> 00:34:53,040 I feel you. Like I think that they can say that. 411 00:34:53,040 --> 00:34:56,040 And I think saying it and meaning it are two different things as well. 412 00:34:56,040 --> 00:35:00,040 Like I think that there are times that those folks say it and they don't necessarily mean it. 413 00:35:00,040 --> 00:35:06,040 But it's just like this is this is the plan of this social experiment, if you will. 414 00:35:06,040 --> 00:35:10,040 But I think that the more intense feelings would develop later. 415 00:35:10,040 --> 00:35:13,040 So could you love someone and care about them? 416 00:35:13,040 --> 00:35:16,040 Sure. Are you in love with them after 10 days? 417 00:35:16,040 --> 00:35:20,040 There ain't no way. Interesting. 418 00:35:20,040 --> 00:35:26,040 I don't know. I want to hear your thoughts about being in love with multiple people at once. 419 00:35:26,040 --> 00:35:28,040 I think that it's very possible because you know what? 420 00:35:28,040 --> 00:35:36,040 Like I love I mean, and in love versus loving someone like I don't know what people you know, 421 00:35:36,040 --> 00:35:42,040 like the difference like if you're like, I mean, I love my family, like my parents and stuff, 422 00:35:42,040 --> 00:35:45,040 but I'm not going to like go like have sex with them, you know? 423 00:35:45,040 --> 00:35:47,040 Oh, my God. Well, obviously. 424 00:35:47,040 --> 00:35:54,040 But like if if if you're saying, can you love more than one person at once? 425 00:35:54,040 --> 00:35:56,040 Yes, of course, because I love a lot of people. 426 00:35:56,040 --> 00:36:01,040 But like, can you be in love like like sexually? 427 00:36:01,040 --> 00:36:06,040 I think or like I think it's hard for me to like. 428 00:36:06,040 --> 00:36:11,040 It's hard for me to think about because I'm in a relationship currently. 429 00:36:11,040 --> 00:36:16,040 So like me thinking about being in love with somebody else right now while I'm, you know, 430 00:36:16,040 --> 00:36:21,040 with Brandon in love with Brandon, probably go marry him is very hard for me to think about. 431 00:36:21,040 --> 00:36:24,040 So do I think that it's a possibility? 432 00:36:24,040 --> 00:36:29,040 Sure. Do I think that that's ever going to be my situation? 433 00:36:29,040 --> 00:36:33,040 No. Right. I think that it's I think that you can be. 434 00:36:33,040 --> 00:36:38,040 I mean, I would have to cheat. I don't have that. I would ever want to be like, yeah, I don't want. 435 00:36:38,040 --> 00:36:43,040 I don't ever want that scenario. I don't ever want that possibility even. 436 00:36:43,040 --> 00:36:49,040 Yeah. So, OK, so that OK, so I have another thing to ask you. 437 00:36:49,040 --> 00:36:53,040 OK. And so this is going to be kind of interesting. 438 00:36:53,040 --> 00:37:00,040 OK, so if you if Brandon were out somewhere and like some girl or guy, 439 00:37:00,040 --> 00:37:06,040 probably more I don't think you'd be like jealous about the girl, but the guy, I mean, the guy. 440 00:37:06,040 --> 00:37:15,040 Let's start over again. Yeah. So some girl decides to like pull Brandon aside and like starts kissing him. 441 00:37:15,040 --> 00:37:18,040 But Brandon didn't didn't initiate that kiss. 442 00:37:18,040 --> 00:37:23,040 Brandon's just talking to this person. This girl starts making out with him and he's like, whoa, he's pulled into it. 443 00:37:23,040 --> 00:37:28,040 And then he's like, whoa, hold on or whatever. Would you be mad at Brandon? 444 00:37:28,040 --> 00:37:32,040 Because OK, so a lot of times like you watch these TV shows or movies or whatever. 445 00:37:32,040 --> 00:37:41,040 We kissed and like the girl or the guy or whoever is in the other the other party to this is like y'all kiss. 446 00:37:41,040 --> 00:37:44,040 And that's all that matters. And you are to blame. 447 00:37:44,040 --> 00:37:49,040 And they get mad at the guy, even though it was like the girl that grabbed him and like kissed him or something. 448 00:37:49,040 --> 00:37:54,040 Well, I have some context questions. Am I there when it happens? 449 00:37:54,040 --> 00:38:05,040 We'll do yes first. OK, if I'm there when it happens and I can visually see that there is like it's just some crazy drunk girl 450 00:38:05,040 --> 00:38:15,040 and there's no physical participation, like some girls just walking by, you know, climbs him like a tree and plants one on him. 451 00:38:15,040 --> 00:38:21,040 Well, what if he's like talking to a girl at the bar or something or if that girl and you're there and the girl. 452 00:38:21,040 --> 00:38:25,040 It's not like a random like she just like jumps on him and kisses him. 453 00:38:25,040 --> 00:38:36,040 It's like they're talking first and then I think I would not be OK with that because you it would make me feel like he gave off some sort of vibe, 454 00:38:36,040 --> 00:38:42,040 sign vibe, whatever that invited that person into his space. Yes, I agree with that. 455 00:38:42,040 --> 00:38:47,040 OK, so if you weren't there and it happened, how would you feel? 456 00:38:47,040 --> 00:38:54,040 I would feel the same as what I just said. You obviously gave somebody the thought in their mind that it was OK to do that 457 00:38:54,040 --> 00:39:01,040 and get close enough to you, your face, your lips, whatever, to lay a smooch on you. 458 00:39:01,040 --> 00:39:07,040 I'm not OK with that. OK, yeah, I'm on board with that. OK, cool. 459 00:39:07,040 --> 00:39:16,040 Yeah, so Brandon, don't be making out with no hoes at the bar because you go to the bar all the time, you know. 460 00:39:16,040 --> 00:39:22,040 I mean, it doesn't have to be at the bar. It could be at work. It could be you never know. 461 00:39:22,040 --> 00:39:29,040 OK, so would you die for your partner, for Brandon or for any of your people? 462 00:39:29,040 --> 00:39:37,040 Yeah, of course. You would die for Brandon. Yeah, she hesitated. 463 00:39:37,040 --> 00:39:46,040 Don't start no shit. I think maybe, but in our heads she's thinking, yeah, but he better die for me first. 464 00:39:46,040 --> 00:39:53,040 Well, I mean, yeah, his answer better be the same, but also, like, I guess it might depend on what kind of death. 465 00:39:53,040 --> 00:40:02,040 Like, I don't want to be tortured for him. Like, he said the craziest laugh and look on your face. 466 00:40:02,040 --> 00:40:08,040 You're scared. I mean, I don't know, slip my throat, shoot me in the head, something like that if you have to. 467 00:40:08,040 --> 00:40:14,040 But like, I don't want to be tortured for him. No, like if they had a gun to his head, would you be like, don't take him? 468 00:40:14,040 --> 00:40:20,040 Take me kind of thing that was real loud. I don't. That's a terrible scenario. 469 00:40:20,040 --> 00:40:24,040 Yeah, it is a terrible scenario, but this is this is what we're trying to get at. 470 00:40:24,040 --> 00:40:28,040 Like, would you do that? I mean, yeah, you don't want to answer it. 471 00:40:28,040 --> 00:40:32,040 Yeah, if I had to. OK, the answer is no, people. It's not. 472 00:40:32,040 --> 00:40:36,040 No, you. Yeah, but ask. She asked me another question earlier. 473 00:40:36,040 --> 00:40:41,040 Hold on. OK. All right. Go ahead. OK. But yeah. 474 00:40:41,040 --> 00:40:46,040 Yes, I would take a bullet. Would you do that for your mom or dad or your sister? 475 00:40:46,040 --> 00:40:52,040 Yeah, absolutely. Would you do it? Would you die for your sister over Brandon? 476 00:40:52,040 --> 00:41:00,040 If I had to like if you had to choose if if I were like one of y'all is going to die. 477 00:41:00,040 --> 00:41:10,040 No, two of you guys is going to die. And it's going to be Sarah and either Jerry or Brandon. 478 00:41:10,040 --> 00:41:19,040 Wait, hold on. I didn't do that right. Did I? No, just say, OK, so they could say they were going to say, OK, Jerry or Brandon's going to die. 479 00:41:19,040 --> 00:41:22,040 But you can put yourself in place of one of them. Both of them are going to die. 480 00:41:22,040 --> 00:41:25,040 You can put your place in one of them. You can take one of their places. 481 00:41:25,040 --> 00:41:28,040 Which one would you take? I'm not letting my sister die. I know. 482 00:41:28,040 --> 00:41:33,040 Oh, yeah. Absolutely not. OK. Sorry, Brandon. You don't die. 483 00:41:33,040 --> 00:41:39,040 We haven't known you that long. OK, so also here's the other one. 484 00:41:39,040 --> 00:41:44,040 Would you give your kidney to Brandon? Yeah, I got to. OK. 485 00:41:44,040 --> 00:41:49,040 So I told Sarah this earlier, like she would give. 486 00:41:49,040 --> 00:41:52,040 But OK, so what? OK, here we go. Let me do this scenario. 487 00:41:52,040 --> 00:42:00,040 What if Brandon and Jerry needed both needed a kidney and you were a match for both of them? 488 00:42:00,040 --> 00:42:06,040 And you can only give one, obviously. I'm already I'm picking Jerry again. I'm not. I am. 489 00:42:06,040 --> 00:42:17,040 I know it's OK until he puts a ring on my finger. I'm picking Jerry. What about Melanie and Brandon? 490 00:42:17,040 --> 00:42:21,040 You should see the look on Sarah's face. That was hilarious. 491 00:42:21,040 --> 00:42:24,040 OK, don't answer that question. You're putting me in a really bad position. 492 00:42:24,040 --> 00:42:27,040 I think it's hilarious. I love it. I mean, it is a bad position, but these are the questions. 493 00:42:27,040 --> 00:42:30,040 These are the tough questions that you ask yourself before you get married. 494 00:42:30,040 --> 00:42:34,040 OK, Melanie is like my sister. I probably say Melanie. That's what I'm saying. 495 00:42:34,040 --> 00:42:39,040 OK, I'm just saying Brandon Brandon can't get mad at me for the love of Jesus. 496 00:42:39,040 --> 00:42:43,040 Brandon can get like one of his brother's sisters or some mom or somebody to get a kidney. 497 00:42:43,040 --> 00:42:46,040 Yeah, he got a sister. She can say, yeah. OK, so. 498 00:42:46,040 --> 00:42:51,040 But OK, so I was just saying, I think that deciding whether or not you would give 499 00:42:51,040 --> 00:42:57,040 if you will not give your kidney to your partner or significant boyfriend, girlfriend, significant other, 500 00:42:57,040 --> 00:43:03,040 you should not get married to that person. But that's I did say I would get my I know. 501 00:43:03,040 --> 00:43:06,040 But I'm just saying I think that should be a deciding factor in like getting married. 502 00:43:06,040 --> 00:43:12,040 Oh, you. But also, I think that if I think that if you would give your sister 503 00:43:12,040 --> 00:43:19,040 your kidney and your best friend your kidney over your boyfriend, you probably shouldn't get married to them either. 504 00:43:19,040 --> 00:43:24,040 Just kidding. But that's funny, right? No, no. You think it's oh, no, you can't. 505 00:43:24,040 --> 00:43:28,040 You're like I put you in a hot spot, didn't I? That's a really hard. 506 00:43:28,040 --> 00:43:30,040 Oh, my God. I don't know what I would say either. 507 00:43:30,040 --> 00:43:35,040 I can't wait for you to start dating somebody so I can do this shit to you. OK. 508 00:43:35,040 --> 00:43:44,040 Maybe the ring pairing. Please come through because I need to roast Emily for an episode. 509 00:43:44,040 --> 00:43:47,040 Oh, my God. OK, so let's see what else we got. 510 00:43:47,040 --> 00:43:53,040 Oh, all right. What are some things that you guys that couples fight about? 511 00:43:53,040 --> 00:43:58,040 Oh, I don't know, because I haven't been I haven't been in a couple in a long time. 512 00:43:58,040 --> 00:44:04,040 So I pulled up it's an article, but I'm not really going to read the article, 513 00:44:04,040 --> 00:44:08,040 but I'm just going to list them so we can just kind of talk about them. 514 00:44:08,040 --> 00:44:15,040 Divisions of labor in laws, the timing of life events, divisions of labor. 515 00:44:15,040 --> 00:44:19,040 Oh, like at the house chores, I would assume. Yeah. 516 00:44:19,040 --> 00:44:23,040 Quality time together. I want to know what y'all argue about. 517 00:44:23,040 --> 00:44:31,040 Like not like a list from the Internet's. I mean, 518 00:44:31,040 --> 00:44:43,040 I think the thing that we probably argue about the most is like hasty decision making. 519 00:44:43,040 --> 00:44:45,040 Because Brandon makes decisions quick and you don't. 520 00:44:45,040 --> 00:44:49,040 Yeah. Or you want him to consider you maybe in decisions. 521 00:44:49,040 --> 00:44:53,040 I mean, yeah, but like there's not been any decision that's like 522 00:44:53,040 --> 00:44:59,040 been made that like sent me off the deep end or anything like that. 523 00:44:59,040 --> 00:45:05,040 But he just he gets so excited about things sometimes that he will just either say, 524 00:45:05,040 --> 00:45:10,040 do order, you know, try to start planning, you know, whatever, 525 00:45:10,040 --> 00:45:15,040 and not necessarily like sit back and be like, OK, like, 526 00:45:15,040 --> 00:45:17,040 what are the pros and cons of whatever is happening? 527 00:45:17,040 --> 00:45:19,040 And not everything needs like some major. Oh, my God. 528 00:45:19,040 --> 00:45:24,040 Cons or whatever. If you want somebody to do pros and cons, you got your girl right here. 529 00:45:24,040 --> 00:45:27,040 100 percent. Listen, I don't make a lot of I don't make a lot. 530 00:45:27,040 --> 00:45:33,040 If I do make a lot of if I do make a decision on a whim. 531 00:45:33,040 --> 00:45:37,040 I don't do it a lot. Yeah, it's bad. I mean, right. 532 00:45:37,040 --> 00:45:40,040 Like we're I don't know. We're just in a good spot. 533 00:45:40,040 --> 00:45:43,040 You know, within our relationship, we communicate a lot. We ask the hard questions. 534 00:45:43,040 --> 00:45:48,040 We have the discussions that nobody else wants to have. Like I usually start the laundry and he folds it. 535 00:45:48,040 --> 00:45:50,040 I hate folding. I don't like to do it. 536 00:45:50,040 --> 00:45:56,040 I'm the one who is loading the dishwasher mainly because I know how to do it correctly. 537 00:45:56,040 --> 00:46:01,040 So they they argue about the wrong the right and wrong way to do to load the dishwasher. 538 00:46:01,040 --> 00:46:03,040 There we go. What else you are? 539 00:46:03,040 --> 00:46:07,040 Tell me what else you are good about and I'll tell you what you're arguing about. 540 00:46:07,040 --> 00:46:11,040 Him snoring and waking up in the morning early and waking you up. 541 00:46:11,040 --> 00:46:13,040 But he doesn't do that anymore. No. And I snore, too. 542 00:46:13,040 --> 00:46:17,040 And I'm probably snore worse than he does. Oh, my God. I told her that in the beginning. 543 00:46:17,040 --> 00:46:19,040 She was like in the beginning when they first started dating. 544 00:46:19,040 --> 00:46:23,040 Sarah was like, oh, my God, Brandon snores. And this was like really early. 545 00:46:23,040 --> 00:46:27,040 She like spent the night and she'd be like, I was up all night because Brandon snores. 546 00:46:27,040 --> 00:46:31,040 And I was like, honey, you probably snored him out worse than you. 547 00:46:31,040 --> 00:46:34,040 He's snoring you out. OK. She's like, I had to move. 548 00:46:34,040 --> 00:46:37,040 No, I don't know if did you ever move to like the couch or anything? 549 00:46:37,040 --> 00:46:41,040 The only time that I had to do that is when we were house sitting for my parents one time. 550 00:46:41,040 --> 00:46:45,040 And he was just it was one of those nights where he was just exhausted. 551 00:46:45,040 --> 00:46:49,040 And my parents beds also like 20 frickin years old. 552 00:46:49,040 --> 00:46:51,040 And so in the middle of the night, I could not go to sleep. 553 00:46:51,040 --> 00:46:54,040 I went to the couch first, couldn't sleep there. So then I went up to my old bedroom. 554 00:46:54,040 --> 00:46:57,040 Oh, yeah. I remember that. Yes. And I had to. 555 00:46:57,040 --> 00:47:01,040 You were like I had to leave. This was very early. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. 556 00:47:01,040 --> 00:47:04,040 Yeah. That's funny, though. I think that was right after Christmas, maybe. 557 00:47:04,040 --> 00:47:08,040 I can't remember. And you know what else they argue about? 558 00:47:08,040 --> 00:47:11,040 They argue about him kicking sand on her at the beach. 559 00:47:11,040 --> 00:47:14,040 Oh, that was the worst. No, I mean, I don't. 560 00:47:14,040 --> 00:47:17,040 I think the only other thing we might argue about is sometimes like 561 00:47:17,040 --> 00:47:24,040 I may not appreciate like an inappropriate joke or two or something, but it's not an argument. 562 00:47:24,040 --> 00:47:26,040 I'm just like, God, what are they? 563 00:47:26,040 --> 00:47:29,040 Give me an example of one of the inappropriate jokes that he does. 564 00:47:29,040 --> 00:47:32,040 Oh, I don't even know. Like what type of an inappropriate joke? 565 00:47:32,040 --> 00:47:37,040 Like something sexual or something like you don't where you don't have to take it there, 566 00:47:37,040 --> 00:47:41,040 especially when we're in a coed group of people or whatever, like that. 567 00:47:41,040 --> 00:47:45,040 And it may just be a me thing. Everybody else may be fine with it. 568 00:47:45,040 --> 00:47:47,040 And it may just make me a little uncomfortable or whatever. 569 00:47:47,040 --> 00:47:52,040 I'm just like, why? Well, maybe because it it's like kind of like he's talking about. 570 00:47:52,040 --> 00:47:56,040 It's not that he's talking about you, but it's like because you all are the sex. 571 00:47:56,040 --> 00:47:58,040 Yeah, yeah, yeah, I get that. 572 00:47:58,040 --> 00:48:01,040 But obviously nobody else is thinking those things. 573 00:48:01,040 --> 00:48:05,040 I mean, if we did, I'd be like, you know, I have a look on my face like 574 00:48:05,040 --> 00:48:07,040 and I'd probably be like Brandon. 575 00:48:07,040 --> 00:48:09,040 No, we communicate very well. 576 00:48:09,040 --> 00:48:14,040 I'm very appreciative of him being open and he lets me bitch about things 577 00:48:14,040 --> 00:48:17,040 and doesn't get mad at me. Yeah. 578 00:48:17,040 --> 00:48:23,040 I'm my Carol from my the my condos is calling me. 579 00:48:23,040 --> 00:48:25,040 I have to send her a message really quick. Sorry. 580 00:48:25,040 --> 00:48:29,040 So I told her I'm recording, but she did say I told her I was going to be done at seven thirty 581 00:48:29,040 --> 00:48:31,040 and I was going to come back over there at seven forty three. 582 00:48:31,040 --> 00:48:35,040 We'll wrap it up. Well, but I want to know what else are you about? 583 00:48:35,040 --> 00:48:39,040 That's it. I'm fine. Listen, we have dug into me and Brandon enough tonight. 584 00:48:39,040 --> 00:48:42,040 This episode wasn't even supposed to be about us. All right. 585 00:48:42,040 --> 00:48:45,040 Then you know what? 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