1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:18,120 Welcome back to the Thick AF Podcast. We're here with part two of our Love is Blind special. 2 00:00:18,120 --> 00:00:25,520 This is again, this is Emily. Hey y'all, it's Sarah. We are happy to be here. Very happy 3 00:00:25,520 --> 00:00:29,880 to be talking about Love is Blind. Yeah, so we've got some extra stuff for the Love is 4 00:00:29,880 --> 00:00:37,160 Blind, the part two of the Love is Blind release. So like the fifth, sixth, wait, sixth, seventh 5 00:00:37,160 --> 00:00:45,080 and eighth episodes of Love is Blind season five, right? Four. Season four. So, but first, 6 00:00:45,080 --> 00:00:53,000 but first, FMK. And this time it's going to be much less lame than last week. I apologize 7 00:00:53,000 --> 00:00:58,960 everybody. Oh my gosh. It wasn't lame because nobody cares about fruit. Yes, they do. Well, 8 00:00:58,960 --> 00:01:06,440 this one's not that exciting either, but Netflix, Hulu or Prime Video. What do you think? So 9 00:01:06,440 --> 00:01:12,440 I am actually going to struggle with this one a little bit because I am currently watching 10 00:01:12,440 --> 00:01:18,680 Daisy Jones in the six. What is that? It is a based on a book. My sister has read the 11 00:01:18,680 --> 00:01:21,920 book and she told me about it last summer when she was at home at Christmas. I can't 12 00:01:21,920 --> 00:01:27,800 remember but she said it's really good and I think that it is supposed to be like loosely 13 00:01:27,800 --> 00:01:36,920 based on Fleetwood Mac. So it's a series. And which one is it on? It's on Prime. Okay. 14 00:01:36,920 --> 00:01:42,800 Yeah. And also The Summer I Turned Pretty is on Prime and I really liked both of those 15 00:01:42,800 --> 00:01:48,320 shows but I don't really, and The Marvelous Miss Maisel. Oh shoot. I haven't watched that 16 00:01:48,320 --> 00:01:55,360 one yet but I struggle. I am marrying Netflix because that's just my life and Love is Blind 17 00:01:55,360 --> 00:02:01,800 is on there and Perfect Match and all these other Netflix original shows. So I got to 18 00:02:01,800 --> 00:02:10,000 marry Netflix. And I don't know, Letter Cane is on Hulu, but again, I haven't dug into 19 00:02:10,000 --> 00:02:17,080 Prime Video that much. Same. I feel like Prime Video is getting better. Yes. I would agree 20 00:02:17,080 --> 00:02:21,460 especially and I feel like they have some really good shows but then I feel like sometimes 21 00:02:21,460 --> 00:02:25,760 I get on there and I'll watch the really good shows and then I'm done and I'll have nothing 22 00:02:25,760 --> 00:02:32,480 else to watch. Agree. But Hulu, well, I feel like Netflix is better at having new releases 23 00:02:32,480 --> 00:02:40,440 more often. I also think that Hulu is not super navigation friendly and other people 24 00:02:40,440 --> 00:02:45,840 may disagree with me but I'm not the biggest fan. Also, I think that there is a ghost living 25 00:02:45,840 --> 00:02:50,020 inside of my Hulu because there are continue watching shows on there that I've never clicked 26 00:02:50,020 --> 00:02:54,840 on before. That would be your Brandon or your Melanie. Well, they're not shows that Brandon 27 00:02:54,840 --> 00:02:58,800 would watch so I don't think that it's them. Maybe it's somebody at Melanie's house. Melanie 28 00:02:58,800 --> 00:03:04,520 and I have our own accounts in Hulu. I know but what if somebody got in your account from 29 00:03:04,520 --> 00:03:11,680 Melanie's house, like clicked on Sarah instead of... Nobody's there at Melanie's. How do 30 00:03:11,680 --> 00:03:17,520 you know? I know that nobody's at Melanie's house. What if she has a friend over there 31 00:03:17,520 --> 00:03:21,000 and they got on there and like, I mean, you don't know that she doesn't have friends come 32 00:03:21,000 --> 00:03:26,160 over. Oh my gosh. She's like, no, I know. I have a camera in there. I'm watching her. 33 00:03:26,160 --> 00:03:30,120 Are you sure she doesn't have like a dude coming over and hanging out? I'm really sure 34 00:03:30,120 --> 00:03:35,200 of that. Okay. But she doesn't have friends that come over and hang out? No. I've seen 35 00:03:35,200 --> 00:03:40,320 her have snaps of friends over there. Yeah. Me. Doing the bop it. Not you. Other people. 36 00:03:40,320 --> 00:03:45,040 No you haven't. Yes I have. That is literally a lie. No it's not. I've seen it and I've 37 00:03:45,040 --> 00:03:52,800 sent her messages. Her sister maybe. No. I guarantee you if we called Melanie right now 38 00:03:52,800 --> 00:03:57,840 and I asked her if she's ever had any friends at her house outside of me and Kelly and Victoria, 39 00:03:57,840 --> 00:04:01,040 the answer would be no. Okay. Well maybe she said that to you because she doesn't want 40 00:04:01,040 --> 00:04:07,120 you to be jealous. Cause I honestly, I feel like if... I feel like you would be like, 41 00:04:07,120 --> 00:04:12,400 no you wouldn't. But you might, you could potentially, you have the potential to be 42 00:04:12,400 --> 00:04:20,080 like Shelby, Micah's friend. Oh my gosh. In Love is Blind with Melanie if she were to 43 00:04:20,080 --> 00:04:24,560 get married. You're coming with daggers today. And I don't like it. Why? Because I said that 44 00:04:24,560 --> 00:04:31,520 was the only dagger that I had. No. What was the other dagger? The pool. The pool? The 45 00:04:31,520 --> 00:04:35,840 drowning situation. That wasn't the pool, that was a lake. And listen, we're going to delete 46 00:04:35,840 --> 00:04:41,520 that unless you want me to keep it. Like I didn't know it was a secret. I thought it was a funny 47 00:04:41,520 --> 00:04:46,080 thing. I don't know. No, Melanie does not have any friends over. I think there is somebody else who 48 00:04:46,080 --> 00:04:51,600 throughout the years got our Hulu password and they are watching my Hulu and lying about it. 49 00:04:53,760 --> 00:05:00,800 Okay. Well that's... So anyways, I'm fucking Hulu and killing Prime Video. Okay. Same for me. 50 00:05:00,800 --> 00:05:06,400 But okay. So I kind of... Netflix has been my old faithful for the longest time. I used to not have 51 00:05:06,400 --> 00:05:11,280 Hulu. I've always had Prime, but they weren't always that great. I did. I don't know. There's 52 00:05:11,280 --> 00:05:15,440 some things on there. I don't really get on it anymore unless somebody mentions, like you just 53 00:05:15,440 --> 00:05:19,360 mentioned that there's one on there that I might want to watch. I don't really get on there. So 54 00:05:19,360 --> 00:05:28,000 I'm going to kill it. Even though I literally have like Amazon everything. So like Prime, everything 55 00:05:28,000 --> 00:05:32,480 in my house. Like I have like Amazon Prime. I have like all the Alexa devices. I have like the Ring 56 00:05:33,680 --> 00:05:38,320 security system. Like I have like literally everything that you could think of that's Amazon. 57 00:05:38,320 --> 00:05:44,560 I love you, Amazon. Thank you for all the things that I have. But I'm going to kill Prime Video. 58 00:05:44,560 --> 00:05:51,920 I'm going to... And I'm going to... What did I say? I'm marrying Netflix. Fucking Hulu. I do like Hulu. 59 00:05:51,920 --> 00:05:57,920 I don't like the fact that like you said, it's not easy to navigate, but I see you smiling 60 00:05:57,920 --> 00:06:01,200 over there and texting. I don't know who you texting. You know who I'm texting. Are you texting 61 00:06:01,200 --> 00:06:06,960 Melanie because you think she's had other friends over? Yeah. Oh my God. She has. Like there was 62 00:06:06,960 --> 00:06:10,320 some girl over there that had like short hair or something. I was like, who's that? She told me it 63 00:06:10,320 --> 00:06:14,560 was, it was in a Snapchat. I don't know. It was a while back. I'm telling you, there's been other 64 00:06:14,560 --> 00:06:20,000 people over there. Okay. It's probably her mom or her sister. It wasn't her mom. It was a young girl 65 00:06:20,000 --> 00:06:26,080 like our age. Anyways. So I said, maybe you have a boy there. She said, tell her I have several and 66 00:06:26,080 --> 00:06:32,480 we're eating cheese toast. Ew, cheese toast. Couldn't it... That's gross to eat with a boy. 67 00:06:32,480 --> 00:06:37,600 Yes it is. To eat cheese toast, you need to eat... Tell her to eat some strawberries or like whipped 68 00:06:37,600 --> 00:06:46,960 cream or I don't know, oysters. Okay. She said, just start making shit up. It's what I always do. 69 00:06:46,960 --> 00:06:52,800 Oh my God. So with me, why... She was probably lying to you. No, she... There was literally a video. 70 00:06:52,800 --> 00:06:57,280 Maybe it was like a fake person in her house or the ghost. It was her friendly ghost, Casper. 71 00:06:58,320 --> 00:07:02,960 Okay. So are you going to listen to my FMK? So I'm prime. I'm killing. Okay. Netflix and Mary. 72 00:07:02,960 --> 00:07:07,520 You said we're doing the same thing. But Hulu. I know, but I'm telling you why. Hulu. I'm saying, 73 00:07:07,520 --> 00:07:12,320 you said it was not easy to navigate. She doesn't listen to me guys. This is why I have to talk so 74 00:07:12,320 --> 00:07:22,400 much. So same in my whole family. My family does this too. We have prime. When you pull... I mean, 75 00:07:22,400 --> 00:07:26,880 Hulu, when you turn on the thing, you know, like on Netflix, you turn it, you put it on and it 76 00:07:26,880 --> 00:07:32,160 starts playing like the trailer or the beginning of it. Either the trailer or the beginning or 77 00:07:32,160 --> 00:07:37,840 whatever. And the sound's on. Well, on Hulu, it starts playing it, but there's no sound. You have 78 00:07:37,840 --> 00:07:41,520 to click on it. And then you have to click on it. But then it's like, I've already missed the first 79 00:07:41,520 --> 00:07:47,600 two minutes because my thing, my cursor was, or my thing wasn't in the right spot. I have ours to not 80 00:07:47,600 --> 00:07:53,920 play the previews on Netflix. We turned it off. Oh, I like it. I love that. That's my favorite part 81 00:07:53,920 --> 00:07:57,440 because I go through and I'm like, watch that preview and I'm like, oh, this is boring for the 82 00:07:57,440 --> 00:08:01,280 first couple of seconds. And then I switched the next one. No, I'll watch the actual trailer. 83 00:08:02,400 --> 00:08:08,240 Oh, well, I mean, I do that too. If the thing that the preview thing that comes up looks good. 84 00:08:08,240 --> 00:08:12,800 Oh, okay. So there's a thing on Netflix. I know we have like time up, but like there's a thing on 85 00:08:12,800 --> 00:08:19,680 Netflix that I saw yesterday. It said new and it's got Jennifer Lawrence. It has Bradley Cooper, 86 00:08:20,240 --> 00:08:26,320 but it said new on Netflix and it was filmed apparently in 2013. I feel like I know what 87 00:08:26,320 --> 00:08:30,720 you're talking about. I put it on here. Hang on. I'm going to tell you. Yeah. Tell me what it's 88 00:08:30,720 --> 00:08:35,440 called because I think I watched a preview for it the other day and I was like, I really want to get 89 00:08:35,440 --> 00:08:44,800 into this, but I just don't know if I can. I'm pulling it up right here. Netflix should be the 90 00:08:44,800 --> 00:08:53,360 first one. Nope. That's not it. It's called American Hustle. Oh, it says new. I've seen that, 91 00:08:53,360 --> 00:08:58,000 but it says, well, it may be new to Netflix. Yeah. But I'm like, I was like, oh, this looks new. I've 92 00:08:58,000 --> 00:09:01,840 never heard of it. Yeah. You have seen it. Is it good? Uh huh. It looks really good. 93 00:09:01,840 --> 00:09:07,120 Okay. Got to turn this off. So, uh, so yeah, that's what I'm going to do. Anyway, we're going to get 94 00:09:07,120 --> 00:09:16,320 into that, uh, the rest of this, uh, love is blind gossip talk. Yes. And opinions, at least we have 95 00:09:16,320 --> 00:09:20,560 somewhere to put our opinions. Yeah. You know, tell us what y'all think. Yeah. Tell us what you 96 00:09:20,560 --> 00:09:35,280 think. Love you. Thanks. Okay. What about Marshall and Jackie? I have so much to say. Okay. 97 00:09:35,280 --> 00:09:42,720 Marshall can cook by the way. Um, Marshall is amazing. A king. I love him so much. So do I. 98 00:09:42,720 --> 00:09:51,040 My favorite. A hundred thousand percent. Jacqueline is a drama queen. He is calm. He is patient. 99 00:09:51,040 --> 00:09:57,440 He can cook. He's handsome. He's hot. He's nice. He's got those eyes. Oh my gosh. Yes. And you know, 100 00:09:57,440 --> 00:10:02,320 I thought when she was, you know, pitching her fit or whatever and talking about them, you know, 101 00:10:02,320 --> 00:10:09,520 not having sex, I thought it was going to be a different reason. Uh huh. And then when that 102 00:10:09,520 --> 00:10:17,440 came out, I was like, damn. So I don't know. She basically, what I got from that, the whole thing 103 00:10:17,440 --> 00:10:25,520 was that she wanted him to be, to like throw her around in the bedroom. But like hardcore is what 104 00:10:25,520 --> 00:10:30,240 it sounds like. Yeah. And, and I think that the way that she's treating him, trying to get in a 105 00:10:30,240 --> 00:10:35,920 fight with him like that is, is her way to create that. Yeah. And preparation for makeup. Not 106 00:10:35,920 --> 00:10:40,080 reacting to it. He's not taking the bait. Because he is amazing. I love him. Can you please come 107 00:10:40,080 --> 00:10:46,960 marry me, Marshall? This is what I wrote down. Okay. I'll read part of it. Let me see. Um, I wrote 108 00:10:46,960 --> 00:10:51,440 Jacqueline acting like an asshole while she stressed out about meeting Marshall's family. And they were 109 00:10:51,440 --> 00:10:59,360 so nice. His sister was so nice, but she was being an asshole before all that. Just, I mean, so 110 00:10:59,360 --> 00:11:05,040 dramatic. And her family isn't on board, you know, with her and Marshall. And I think that she's 111 00:11:05,040 --> 00:11:11,760 projecting all of her stress and anxiety from that onto him and that relationship and just being 112 00:11:11,760 --> 00:11:16,880 like, I can't do this, you know, whatever. She freaks out way too much. Real fast. She's like, 113 00:11:16,880 --> 00:11:20,880 Oh, one little thing. And she's like, I can't talk. Oh, I don't know what to do. Oh my God, 114 00:11:20,880 --> 00:11:25,920 this is too stressful. I'm like, literally there's no stress on you right now. She's putting so much 115 00:11:25,920 --> 00:11:33,200 pressure on him. And I think she relies on him for her happiness. And she speaks over him all the 116 00:11:33,200 --> 00:11:39,920 time. When she told him you're ruining my vibe, when he tried to give her his coat at the party. 117 00:11:39,920 --> 00:11:46,800 Oh yeah. Okay. Okay. Hold on. You are an asshole. That part was weird. Okay. So that part, I didn't 118 00:11:46,800 --> 00:11:51,120 like him doing that because I felt like he was doing that because, okay, so Sarah kind of already 119 00:11:51,120 --> 00:11:56,640 said this, that there were other people at the party and guess who shows up? Old Josh, who was 120 00:11:56,640 --> 00:12:03,520 the one that told Jacqueline or Jackie that she, that he was going to pay, he had his bags packed 121 00:12:03,520 --> 00:12:06,880 up. And if it wasn't her, he was going to leave. And then Marshall got pissed off and was like, 122 00:12:06,880 --> 00:12:12,160 what the hell? Who's talking to my girl? And then Josh was like, Hey, it was me or whatever. Well, 123 00:12:12,160 --> 00:12:16,320 I thought Josh was cool in the beginning. And I was like, Oh, Josh said this stuff. And you said 124 00:12:16,320 --> 00:12:22,800 something. This is on our last one. We talked about this. You were like, no, Josh sucks. And then I 125 00:12:22,800 --> 00:12:31,360 saw this episode and I was like, Oh my gosh, Josh, what the hell? Marshall doesn't deserve to be 126 00:12:31,360 --> 00:12:38,000 treated the way that she's treating him. And I think that she, and maybe I wasn't like reading 127 00:12:38,000 --> 00:12:42,400 enough because I was just so mad at her and her behavior that maybe the coat thing was a little 128 00:12:42,400 --> 00:12:45,360 aggressive on Marshall's part. I thought it was weird. I think he was trying to cover her up 129 00:12:45,360 --> 00:12:49,440 because of, because Josh was there. Yeah, maybe he was, but also she wasn't even really that 130 00:12:49,440 --> 00:12:55,120 like uncovered. No, she really wasn't. They were inside. He was like, you're going to catch a cold. 131 00:12:55,120 --> 00:13:00,800 And I was like, no, she's not. She's going to be fine. I think he was just trying to be sweet and 132 00:13:01,440 --> 00:13:06,080 it, you know, obviously wasn't received very well by her, but when he does anything, 133 00:13:06,080 --> 00:13:11,280 it's not received well aside from cooking her food. Yeah, I guess. Well, so back to when they 134 00:13:11,280 --> 00:13:18,320 were meeting the parents, I said, I was, my thing is Marshall's sister. Yeah. I was like, 135 00:13:18,320 --> 00:13:22,800 Jacqueline trying to meet the parents is a lot. She is like ruining things. Yeah. And then what 136 00:13:22,800 --> 00:13:27,200 the hell's up with her family that makes her so crazy. Like, I don't understand. Like in the, 137 00:13:27,200 --> 00:13:33,040 in the first couple of episodes, she had that breakdown, that anxiety attack. Like, yeah. And 138 00:13:33,040 --> 00:13:37,200 she was like, Oh, my family, my family, whatever. And then she said her mom's not happy that she 139 00:13:37,200 --> 00:13:41,600 did the experiment. And then she was in a whole mood when they came to visit. Like I don't, 140 00:13:41,600 --> 00:13:49,200 do we still haven't learned why her family makes her so crazy. We may not. What the hell's, I mean, 141 00:13:49,200 --> 00:13:53,520 like, I don't know. They haven't said anything about it. No. Like this. And she said, like in 142 00:13:53,520 --> 00:13:57,360 the first couple of episodes, when she had that panic panic attack on the honeymoon or whatever, 143 00:13:57,360 --> 00:14:02,640 she was like, I have to go back to my family. I have to go back to this. And like, what are 144 00:14:02,640 --> 00:14:07,040 you going back to? Like, is she taking care of her family or something? Like, does she financially 145 00:14:07,040 --> 00:14:12,160 support them? I don't really understand. It's kind of weird. And I don't know. I just don't have the 146 00:14:12,160 --> 00:14:18,080 patience for it. You're grown. You're in your late twenties. Figure it out. Yeah. And go grab some 147 00:14:18,080 --> 00:14:24,000 therapy. Yeah. Marsha was way more relaxed and obviously more stable mentally than Jackie. And I 148 00:14:24,000 --> 00:14:28,160 don't think, I don't think they're going to work out because he fully acknowledges when she tries 149 00:14:28,160 --> 00:14:34,240 to pull him into the toxicity and he's not letting it happen and props to him for that. And maybe 150 00:14:34,240 --> 00:14:39,680 they will work out because he is so good at like handling her. Cause that could be a thing that she 151 00:14:39,680 --> 00:14:43,840 needs. She needs somebody like him, but she's going to have to do some work. I think probably 152 00:14:43,840 --> 00:14:51,520 what she aches for is somebody who is stability for her, but she is pushing every button that he 153 00:14:51,520 --> 00:14:57,760 has in order to get to that point. And that could be what pushes him away. Like there's only so much 154 00:14:57,760 --> 00:15:03,600 that somebody like Marshall, who's in that position of providing stability for somebody else can take 155 00:15:03,600 --> 00:15:09,200 before they're just like, screw it. Like I don't want to do this. Oh yeah, for sure. And when she 156 00:15:09,200 --> 00:15:16,240 was like, Oh, you need a boss up. She said he needed a boss up and that he's not a man and he's not 157 00:15:16,240 --> 00:15:22,320 doing romance stuff. So he left, but then she packed her stuff. Yeah. And she was bitching at him for 158 00:15:22,320 --> 00:15:25,440 leaving and all. I mean, she was like, I'm not playing games with you. Sorry. I didn't mean that. 159 00:15:25,440 --> 00:15:30,800 Yeah. No, I mean, I get why he did that. Like take a beat, take some space. It doesn't, I mean, I 160 00:15:30,800 --> 00:15:34,480 understand what she's saying at the same time that, you know, she feels like he's running away, but I 161 00:15:34,480 --> 00:15:39,280 guarantee you that that conversation between the two of them that got him to the point of needing 162 00:15:39,280 --> 00:15:48,400 to leave was circles of her same bullshit over and over and over. Right. And he's, I mean, when, how 163 00:15:48,400 --> 00:15:52,800 long do you sit around and do that? Because if you expect somebody to do that for, you know, two days 164 00:15:52,800 --> 00:15:58,320 with you, you're crazy. Yeah. And then she came back and basically gas lit him and was like, 165 00:15:58,320 --> 00:16:02,640 absolutely. I'm not playing this game with you. When she was packing her bag, she's like, I'm not 166 00:16:02,640 --> 00:16:07,200 playing games with you. Also Michael, who's playing the games. You are the one playing the game. She 167 00:16:07,200 --> 00:16:12,160 is. Cause she was packing her shit up as soon as he got back and he gave her a heads up when he was 168 00:16:12,160 --> 00:16:17,280 coming back. And so she knew him. So she just turns on the drama and I don't like that. It's like she 169 00:16:17,280 --> 00:16:25,040 wants him to show that. Yeah. Yeah. And he wants to be like, Hey, no, I want you. I want you so bad. 170 00:16:25,040 --> 00:16:31,280 Blah, blah, blah. But he's, he's also telling her, I love you. And she doesn't say that back to him. 171 00:16:31,280 --> 00:16:40,480 She is holding that out and not giving him what he's giving her. How can you bitch at somebody 172 00:16:40,480 --> 00:16:44,560 and you're not getting enough from them, whether it be sexually, emotionally, whatever, but you're 173 00:16:44,560 --> 00:16:51,040 also not giving. Yeah. You don't deserve it. If you're, if you're both, you know, giving, 174 00:16:51,040 --> 00:16:54,480 then it's one thing you're going to have a fuss about it, you know, whatever. But if you're going 175 00:16:54,480 --> 00:16:59,680 to sit there and not give and just take, take, take, take, take, nah. Yeah. I mean, sometimes, 176 00:16:59,680 --> 00:17:04,800 so I think he said he was like, said something about how he does all these things and she doesn't 177 00:17:04,800 --> 00:17:11,360 do anything that make him feel special. Um, and I, I see that and I can, I understand, I get that 178 00:17:11,360 --> 00:17:17,760 because like there are a lot of females and I'm not trying to, I'm not just trying to call out the 179 00:17:17,760 --> 00:17:26,400 girls, like call out us because I'm, I'm on team, team ladies, but like a lot of us, sometimes we 180 00:17:26,400 --> 00:17:32,880 think that the guy's supposed to do everything, but like, we don't return the favor to them. 181 00:17:32,880 --> 00:17:38,400 Does that make sense? Like we ask, we ask and we ask and we ask for all these things. And then like, 182 00:17:38,400 --> 00:17:41,680 and it's vice versa, it could be for guys too. There's some guys that think that the girl should 183 00:17:41,680 --> 00:17:47,920 do everything. Yeah. But like, you can't do that. You have to, it has, nobody's going to stick around. 184 00:17:47,920 --> 00:17:51,840 I mean, some people might cause they crazy, but nobody's going to stick around for somebody who's 185 00:17:51,840 --> 00:17:56,880 not giving anything back. No, you gotta be in the middle for sure. Um, oh, but then hold on. So he 186 00:17:56,880 --> 00:18:01,840 said at one point he said he saw, he sees her as a project. She was like, well, why did you match 187 00:18:01,840 --> 00:18:07,280 with me? He saw her as a project. Did you see that? And I don't think that's what he meant, even though 188 00:18:07,280 --> 00:18:11,520 that's what came out of his mouth. I think that he was angry in that moment. And that's what he used 189 00:18:11,520 --> 00:18:16,480 to say. But I think what he meant was he sees potential for her to be a great partner for him. 190 00:18:16,480 --> 00:18:26,080 Right. Yeah. I get that. Jackie's too much drama. I love Marshall. Um, she wants the wrong kind of 191 00:18:26,080 --> 00:18:34,800 attention. Absolutely. Um, I hate that people, when people just pick fights to make sure the other 192 00:18:34,800 --> 00:18:39,040 person's still in it. Oh my God. It makes me crazy. I don't understand that. Okay. So 193 00:18:39,040 --> 00:18:45,280 I, in my notes, I have, Oh, go ahead. I have a OMG. Did Marshall just make Jackie put his coat on? 194 00:18:45,280 --> 00:18:50,080 Because Josh is there at Chelsea's birthday party. Was it Chelsea's birthday party? Yeah. And I was 195 00:18:50,080 --> 00:18:56,400 like, wow. He said, put this on, you're not about to catch a cold. And then I said, OMG, Jackie wants 196 00:18:56,400 --> 00:19:02,560 Josh. Cause like, I think she would in a heartbeat leave Marshall because Josh would give her that 197 00:19:02,560 --> 00:19:09,200 toxic relationship that she is very clearly craving. But literally everybody at that party was like, 198 00:19:09,200 --> 00:19:15,280 why is he even here? Oh my God. It was so great. I was like, he was wasted face. Oh, absolutely. 199 00:19:15,280 --> 00:19:22,240 It was embarrassing for him. So embarrassing. Oh my God. He was talking crap about Marshall. 200 00:19:23,760 --> 00:19:30,880 Um, and you know what? Marshall was so PC and like so nice. He was just like, so as I put in my notes, 201 00:19:30,880 --> 00:19:40,960 I want to marry him. And then I put period and Paul. So, but like Marshall, Josh went up to Marshall 202 00:19:40,960 --> 00:19:47,600 and was like, man, don't be mad at me. Remember that? And he was like, wasted. Cause come trust 203 00:19:47,600 --> 00:19:52,640 you girl, you girl. And I'm like, steal your girl. I don't know if that came out right. But like, 204 00:19:53,440 --> 00:19:59,040 it was crazy. It was wild. I've never seen anything like it. And Marshall turned around after he left. 205 00:19:59,040 --> 00:20:06,640 And he was like, what just happened? I mean, it was nuts. Can we talk about Brett and Tiffany next? 206 00:20:06,640 --> 00:20:11,600 I want to leave Mike on Paul for last. Yes. Let me get to the Bretts and Tiffany's in my notes. 207 00:20:11,600 --> 00:20:16,720 I didn't take any notes, but I, um, I saw a couple of memes today, so it kept me fresh. I also watched 208 00:20:16,720 --> 00:20:24,800 this on Sunday, so it hasn't been too long, but they are so cute. She had me freaking out that she 209 00:20:24,800 --> 00:20:33,360 was going to drop that Dutch oven. I about died. And then she just laughed afterwards. I would have 210 00:20:33,360 --> 00:20:40,720 been like, Oh, I would have had like anxiety like, Oh, I would have been like, somebody else come get 211 00:20:40,720 --> 00:20:47,040 this. She's very giggly. And I do like that like fun spirit about her, but Brett does. I wonder if 212 00:20:47,040 --> 00:20:52,320 her calling him bougie Brett is going to get on his nerves eventually, because I guess it's one of 213 00:20:52,320 --> 00:20:58,080 those things that I think that Jessica, if she were here, she would back me up about this. If you have 214 00:20:58,080 --> 00:21:05,440 like the means and to spend money on something, then absolutely it, you know, it doesn't necessarily 215 00:21:05,440 --> 00:21:09,600 make you bougie, but I think if people continuously call you that it's going to be aggravating. Well, 216 00:21:09,600 --> 00:21:16,640 I just wonder if she brought that up because maybe she saw something that made it look seem to her 217 00:21:16,640 --> 00:21:21,680 that maybe he was spending his money on things that he shouldn't be spending his money on. 218 00:21:21,680 --> 00:21:26,080 He shouldn't be spending them on and not on other things. Like when she said something about like 219 00:21:26,080 --> 00:21:32,720 how she was like, I'm okay with you spending that money as long as you pay the bills. And I'm like, 220 00:21:32,720 --> 00:21:36,320 I get that. Like as long as you can take care of yourself, but there's some people that will go out 221 00:21:36,320 --> 00:21:41,680 and buy these things. Like he said, he, you know, bought expensive luggage and that's what he called 222 00:21:41,680 --> 00:21:52,640 it. He puts his luggage on the bed. Probably. Yeah, probably so. I mean, yeah, probably. But she, 223 00:21:52,640 --> 00:21:56,320 at first, before they started talking about all that, she was like, Brett said he was a simple 224 00:21:56,320 --> 00:22:02,320 person and she was like, um, no, you aren't. Which I think is fair. Yeah. But like, it's funny that 225 00:22:02,320 --> 00:22:07,440 he thought he was a simple person, but cause, and I don't know, I don't, I don't really know. I feel 226 00:22:07,440 --> 00:22:12,880 like we haven't dug into him much. No, I don't feel like I know a whole lot about either one of them. 227 00:22:12,880 --> 00:22:18,400 Same. Just I think because there isn't drama surrounding the relationship, they, it's hard 228 00:22:18,400 --> 00:22:23,680 for the cameras to kind of dig in. I mean, they've had a few, you know, I wouldn't even call that last 229 00:22:23,680 --> 00:22:30,640 conversation a tough conversation. I mean, they, you know, pretty much agreed to, you know, not 230 00:22:30,640 --> 00:22:35,920 necessarily, you know, split bills. They don't want to pay each other for a mortgage, you know, 231 00:22:35,920 --> 00:22:41,280 via Venmo and you know, that's for real. Like that's legit conversations you have to have. 232 00:22:41,280 --> 00:22:44,800 Absolutely. Like who's going to pay for this? I mean, we still don't know much about him. Other 233 00:22:44,800 --> 00:22:50,000 than that, he likes, you know, his Jordans. That's about it. Oh, I didn't even know that. Yeah. Do 234 00:22:50,000 --> 00:22:55,920 you not remember the shoe boxes? He's got the plastic shoe containers that have the front facing 235 00:22:55,920 --> 00:23:00,880 flaps that open up and you can get, he can get his J's out of there. Oh, nice. Yeah. I like that. 236 00:23:00,880 --> 00:23:03,680 She was like, where am I? She's going to go. And he's like, we can get you boxes. 237 00:23:03,680 --> 00:23:12,080 Yes. Thank you. Buy me some boxes and some, some $1,200 suitcases. Yeah. I don't really have a lot 238 00:23:12,080 --> 00:23:16,480 of notes about Brett and Tiffany. I think that they're probably going to get married. Yeah. 239 00:23:16,480 --> 00:23:21,760 When they did that little like picnic situation or whatever, they also, I don't remember exactly 240 00:23:21,760 --> 00:23:26,560 what was said, but they seem to be on the same page about things. And so I feel confident in them. 241 00:23:26,560 --> 00:23:35,360 Yeah. So, but also, I'm sorry, one last thing, the previews that it shows for like the altar 242 00:23:35,360 --> 00:23:39,680 makes it look like Tiffany is hyperventilating and going to say no. So I'm very curious to see how 243 00:23:39,680 --> 00:23:47,760 that plays out. See, I need to go back and watch those. Okay. So let's, do you have anything else 244 00:23:47,760 --> 00:23:51,680 about Brett and Jackie? Right now? I don't really have anything. I didn't write anything down. This 245 00:23:51,680 --> 00:23:56,640 is all just from, yeah, mine was really just like his expense. Call it, she called him, boozy Brett. 246 00:23:57,600 --> 00:24:04,000 Okay. So Paul and Micah, Paul got one of his couches off the side of the road and he has a 247 00:24:04,000 --> 00:24:09,920 lot of pocket knives. Like, did you see how many pocket knives he, I mean, like, it's just like 248 00:24:09,920 --> 00:24:14,480 weird for them to be sitting out on every table. He's a dude. That's, I have pocket knives too, 249 00:24:14,480 --> 00:24:20,480 but I don't have them like chilling everywhere. It was interesting. And it looks like he lives 250 00:24:20,480 --> 00:24:26,400 in a frat house or like a dorm. I don't know how old he is. It looks like he moved into like his 251 00:24:26,400 --> 00:24:31,840 second apartment after college. And like, why would you also, who has two sofas? Like where's 252 00:24:31,840 --> 00:24:36,240 your chairs? Where are the chairs? Well, see, that's why I think he lives in a frat house. 253 00:24:36,960 --> 00:24:45,600 Like that, like, and I get it. So a lot of times there are men who in our world are brought up 254 00:24:45,600 --> 00:24:50,880 that women are the ones that, you know, do everything. And like, they're the ones that 255 00:24:50,880 --> 00:24:55,520 make the home. And, you know, his house wasn't that dirty or anything, I don't think, but like, 256 00:24:56,320 --> 00:25:02,080 he obviously took the advice of our society and said, I'm not going to be the one that 257 00:25:03,920 --> 00:25:09,520 focuses on the house. And he just looks like he lives like, like a frat boy. And it's like, 258 00:25:09,520 --> 00:25:16,640 maybe his mom probably bought him his, you know, cups and bowls and stuff. I'm sure. I mean, 259 00:25:16,640 --> 00:25:20,640 because she probably came over and was like, I'll clean your bathtub before your new girlfriend 260 00:25:20,640 --> 00:25:24,800 comes over because you don't know how to do it. I mean, I don't know. It's one of those things 261 00:25:24,800 --> 00:25:30,560 where like, I even feel like I can say that, like, I drank out of like plastic cups, you know, 262 00:25:31,120 --> 00:25:35,760 a lot for a while. And I just started like collecting like nice glassware, but I also 263 00:25:35,760 --> 00:25:40,240 didn't really have cupboard space before. And I like didn't unpack all my kitchen stuff. So like, 264 00:25:40,240 --> 00:25:44,720 I had some room to collect new stuff and I'm 35. So like, I'm still getting there. Like I 265 00:25:44,720 --> 00:25:47,760 just bought pasta bowls for myself for the first time this year. So like, 266 00:25:47,760 --> 00:25:50,720 what is the difference between a regular bowl and a pasta bowl? 267 00:25:50,720 --> 00:25:54,640 I don't know, like a big fat, not, not super deep bowl. Like, 268 00:25:55,600 --> 00:25:58,000 Oh, like, oh, gotcha, gotcha, gotcha. Like a restaurant pasta bowl. 269 00:25:58,000 --> 00:26:02,960 Okay, cool. Yeah. Yeah. See, I don't have those. Yeah. My mom though. So, 270 00:26:02,960 --> 00:26:07,840 but I don't have cereal bowls either. Oh, I don't eat cereal. Like regular bowls. 271 00:26:07,840 --> 00:26:09,760 Like what's the difference? Like the bowls that we had out tonight were cereal bowls for me. 272 00:26:09,760 --> 00:26:12,720 Oh, I was like, that's a cereal bowl. I was like, I don't know. It's just a bowl to me. 273 00:26:13,280 --> 00:26:18,000 Like a bowl. I don't call it. I don't eat cereal either, but I eat stuff out of bowls. 274 00:26:18,000 --> 00:26:22,400 I have salad bowls that like aren't super wide and, but they're also not that deep. 275 00:26:22,400 --> 00:26:24,880 So what's the difference between a salad bowl and a cereal bowl? 276 00:26:24,880 --> 00:26:27,920 A cereal bowl comes up much higher. It's deep. So it can hold the milk. 277 00:26:27,920 --> 00:26:35,440 So there's a, okay. I, yeah, no, I just, a bowl is a bowl to me. I don't know. My mom started giving 278 00:26:35,440 --> 00:26:39,840 me, which I have been very, very fortunate that my mom did this. And I think that when I was younger, 279 00:26:39,840 --> 00:26:44,160 I'll probably didn't like appreciate it as much, but she, like for Christmas or like my birthday 280 00:26:44,160 --> 00:26:49,520 or something, she'll buy me like, like my China that I have, I've gotten that and she's got more 281 00:26:49,520 --> 00:26:54,080 at her house. So like when I get a bigger place and she has the same China too, because we both 282 00:26:54,080 --> 00:27:01,040 liked it. And so when I get a bigger place, she'll either pass me hers and the extra that she bought 283 00:27:01,040 --> 00:27:05,200 me so that I have more. Cause right now I think I only have like eight place settings because I 284 00:27:05,200 --> 00:27:11,440 don't have a big house and I don't, right. And so that's been really nice. She bought me silverware, 285 00:27:11,440 --> 00:27:16,880 like white, like crystal glasses, like random stuff like that, that she's done. And it's, 286 00:27:16,880 --> 00:27:24,800 it's been very helpful to, you know, get things going. And a lot of times people don't have that. 287 00:27:24,800 --> 00:27:29,600 Yeah. And a lot of times parents don't do that for, cause people don't care about it, stuff like 288 00:27:29,600 --> 00:27:34,960 that. My mom does, she's kind of old school. She loves that. Like she likes to give me things for 289 00:27:34,960 --> 00:27:41,360 the kitchen. I'm pretty sure if we went through my kitchen, like legit, like I'm pretty sure like 290 00:27:41,360 --> 00:27:48,320 most everything she bought for me or like handed down to me. I mean, except for maybe like the 291 00:27:48,320 --> 00:27:54,240 spatulas that I bought at the dollar store. You know, it's, it's nice. It's nice to have that 292 00:27:54,240 --> 00:28:00,720 stuff. And I get it. But like his house looks like, honestly, he could have bought a couch by now. 293 00:28:01,760 --> 00:28:09,200 Right. Like if, if, I don't know, maybe he's got a lot of money saved up. And if he doesn't, then 294 00:28:09,200 --> 00:28:17,120 that's sad. I don't know. Some people don't spend their money on stuff like that. Yeah. I have dated 295 00:28:17,120 --> 00:28:22,960 boys where I went to their house and I was like, you want to know what a red flag for me is? Like 296 00:28:22,960 --> 00:28:30,160 red flag number one, what dirty toilet, Navy blue sheets. Why Navy blue sheets? They just 297 00:28:30,160 --> 00:28:35,760 reek of like dirty college boys. Yeah. But like, I'm pretty sure like every dude I've known has had 298 00:28:35,760 --> 00:28:40,960 Navy blue sheets. I don't like Navy blue. Like I would never like, why would you want that dark of 299 00:28:40,960 --> 00:28:48,400 colored sheets? I don't know. I don't want them. And I don't ever want to sleep on them. 300 00:28:50,480 --> 00:28:56,720 So, and also if you're in college and you buy Navy blue sheets, you should not do that because 301 00:28:57,360 --> 00:29:03,440 stains on there show up really well. So you should get white sheets. 100% 302 00:29:03,440 --> 00:29:09,440 or off white sheets. Yeah, absolutely. Just in case you got a little color in that stain. 303 00:29:09,440 --> 00:29:15,520 I mean, I don't know. You might be gay. I don't know. I'm gonna take that out. 304 00:29:15,520 --> 00:29:20,720 Yeah. Don't get Navy blue sheets guys. So, okay. So Paul and Micah, let me see what else we got. 305 00:29:20,720 --> 00:29:27,680 I thought Micah's parents were so cute. Yeah. Also Paul's mom is literally Micah's 306 00:29:27,680 --> 00:29:33,920 in like a younger version. Absolutely. Or older version. Yeah. And it's so funny because like, 307 00:29:33,920 --> 00:29:38,880 how did Paul know? Like that they were gonna, I mean, it's like he's literally marrying his mom. 308 00:29:38,880 --> 00:29:43,840 Absolutely. Yeah. So we're, okay. So hold on. They started talking about their places where they're 309 00:29:43,840 --> 00:29:51,120 gonna live. And she said something about Arizona. Yeah. I'm like, does she from, is she from there 310 00:29:51,120 --> 00:29:55,920 and just move there? And she's like, I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. 311 00:29:55,920 --> 00:29:59,920 Is she from there and just moved there for the show? Like you were trying to get me to do 312 00:29:59,920 --> 00:30:04,640 in Charlotte or like she's, I mean, like why does she have a place in Arizona? 313 00:30:04,640 --> 00:30:10,960 I don't know. I couldn't catch that because at one point I thought, I thought it was her that she had 314 00:30:11,920 --> 00:30:19,280 somebody that lived in Mobile, but I thought it was her too. Oh, was it? But I don't know. 315 00:30:19,280 --> 00:30:26,560 But then she said when she talked to, I can't remember who it was. I don't know. 316 00:30:26,560 --> 00:30:31,760 That was her. His mom said that to her. His mom was like, I knew everything about you. We did a 317 00:30:31,760 --> 00:30:36,880 Google because I'm a paralegal or whatever. And something in Mobile. I think it was like an aunt 318 00:30:36,880 --> 00:30:43,600 or somebody in Mobile. Okay. Yeah. Yeah. Cause I did not get the vibe that her parents were from 319 00:30:43,600 --> 00:30:51,520 the South. Oh, no. No, not at all. Definitely not. Yeah. And her dad. So at one point her dad's, 320 00:30:51,520 --> 00:30:56,080 his name's Paul too. Yes it is. Cause at first he was, he said, Oh, I like him. Of course. Cause 321 00:30:56,080 --> 00:30:59,600 he's Paul. And I was like, what is he talking about? And then later they were like, Paul. 322 00:30:59,600 --> 00:31:05,280 And I was like, Oh, it's the Paul's name. But her mom said, she said her biggest fear is that 323 00:31:05,280 --> 00:31:09,360 Micah is going to get her heart broken. And her dad was like, Oh, I never really thought of that, 324 00:31:09,360 --> 00:31:16,320 but I guess that's a big deal too. Okay. Well, I think it's easy to get caught up in the moment 325 00:31:16,320 --> 00:31:21,040 of that. Like you're a number one on TV, which is something that they're probably not used to. 326 00:31:21,040 --> 00:31:27,920 A number one. Sorry. On TV. And then they're being asked these interview questions after they just 327 00:31:27,920 --> 00:31:33,520 got done meeting this man that their daughter is going to marry. And the immediate, like the whole 328 00:31:33,520 --> 00:31:38,080 premise of that meeting was just to get to know him and kind of approve or not approve of him. 329 00:31:38,080 --> 00:31:42,400 You know what I mean? So then to be asked the question, you know, what's your biggest fear of 330 00:31:42,400 --> 00:31:48,560 what's going to happen? That probably hasn't been thought through yet. But like that to me would be 331 00:31:48,560 --> 00:31:57,760 the number one fear. What other fear would you have at this point? I mean, he did her dad did say he 332 00:31:57,760 --> 00:32:04,880 could be a serial killer. Cause then that's, I think that she said that too. Michael was like, 333 00:32:04,880 --> 00:32:10,320 are you a serial killer with the knives or something? Oh my gosh. Well, so, okay. So back 334 00:32:10,320 --> 00:32:14,880 to the Arizona thing. So she tried to get him, she was trying to get him to move to Arizona or like 335 00:32:14,880 --> 00:32:19,680 split time. And then later on she was like, I'm going to move in with him. Right. I did think 336 00:32:19,680 --> 00:32:23,520 that was strange. So there was obviously a conversation that happened in between. Yeah. 337 00:32:23,520 --> 00:32:28,480 Either off camera or it got edited out or whatever that we were not privy to because that definitely 338 00:32:29,680 --> 00:32:34,240 threw me for a loop-de-loop. And I'm so I'm really proud of her for compromising with that, even 339 00:32:34,240 --> 00:32:39,520 though she hated his place. Like she was like, Oh, I don't think so. And she was like, you know what? 340 00:32:39,520 --> 00:32:43,680 I'm going to move here. Cause I work remote. Well, I do wonder if maybe that was part of their 341 00:32:43,680 --> 00:32:48,000 compromise. Obviously we weren't part of that conversation, but maybe he didn't agree to split 342 00:32:48,000 --> 00:32:53,120 time with her if they moved into his house instead of hers. Yeah. Oh yeah. That's good idea. That 343 00:32:53,120 --> 00:33:02,480 would be a good thought. Yeah. Interesting. Okay. Um, so Micah's friends, I look green dress, 344 00:33:02,480 --> 00:33:11,520 Shelby is that her name? Shelby. Yeah. What in the world? She has some nerve coming in hot like that. 345 00:33:12,320 --> 00:33:19,920 And also I think that she just, she must have a thousand insecurities because she's jealous 346 00:33:19,920 --> 00:33:25,840 too, probably a hundred percent because she was very straight up and like almost boastful that 347 00:33:25,840 --> 00:33:33,040 she has ended some of Micah's relationships before. If any of my friends ever did that to me, I would 348 00:33:33,040 --> 00:33:39,920 be pissed. You come to me, we have a one-on-one conversation and we talk about it, but to allow 349 00:33:39,920 --> 00:33:45,200 your friends to end a relationship, you are also insecure and not able to make decisions on your 350 00:33:45,200 --> 00:33:51,040 own. Well, and obviously you could tell that she, whenever Shelby, her friend was like saying all 351 00:33:51,040 --> 00:33:56,000 this stuff and then Paul, I thought he handled it well. He was like, well, I don't really care 352 00:33:56,000 --> 00:34:01,360 what you think kind of thing. And Shelby was like, excuse me, you don't care. He didn't say anything 353 00:34:01,360 --> 00:34:06,160 mean at all. He didn't. But also Micah never should have let her go in on him. No. And that's what I'm 354 00:34:06,160 --> 00:34:11,920 saying. It's like she, when she was like kind of going, exactly. That he was wrong after he said, 355 00:34:11,920 --> 00:34:17,440 I don't care what you think. I care about what you think. You're my partner. And that is how it 356 00:34:17,440 --> 00:34:22,560 should be. Right. Well, and I get it. Like I think that he probably would have cared more what that 357 00:34:22,560 --> 00:34:28,080 other girl thought if she hadn't acted like that. I mean, wouldn't you like at this point, I'm like, 358 00:34:28,080 --> 00:34:33,360 you know what? You are a little bit ridiculous and I don't really give a hell damn whatever you 359 00:34:33,360 --> 00:34:40,560 absolutely you think because you suck. If she had come in and nicely explained her concerns or 360 00:34:40,560 --> 00:34:46,480 whatever, then I think that he would have been able to have a very intellectual conversation with her 361 00:34:46,480 --> 00:34:52,560 that was level headed and calm. Instead, she just came in like a damn bulldozer acting like she runs 362 00:34:52,560 --> 00:34:57,920 Micah's life and it seems like Micah lets her. Oh yeah, it does. And so I wrote on here, my last 363 00:34:57,920 --> 00:35:03,280 comment about them was, is Shelby a lesbian or something and is jealous of Paul? Like maybe 364 00:35:03,280 --> 00:35:10,400 Shelby has feelings for Micah. And I mean, like this is just a theory. Yeah. And is jealous of him 365 00:35:10,400 --> 00:35:14,720 or like she's maybe she's afraid of losing her friend. Like, why doesn't she like Paul? Paul has 366 00:35:14,720 --> 00:35:19,520 not done anything to her. Paul has literally not said, I mean, I don't know what conversations were 367 00:35:19,520 --> 00:35:26,560 off camera or what, but like he's not even that weird. Like he's super nice. Well, and I, this is 368 00:35:26,560 --> 00:35:31,360 clearly where Micah gets her mean girl behavior. Oh yeah. Due to her friendships and the other girl 369 00:35:31,360 --> 00:35:37,680 wasn't that bad at all. Like she seemed to be supportive, you know, whatever. And she didn't 370 00:35:37,680 --> 00:35:42,960 really, you know, she didn't say much. No, the only thing. Yeah. The only, she did say one thing. 371 00:35:42,960 --> 00:35:48,080 Basically about like, if you can date Micah, then that's something that other folks haven't really 372 00:35:48,080 --> 00:35:52,720 been able to do almost as if she was like a difficult person. Yeah. Which I would be upset 373 00:35:52,720 --> 00:35:57,760 if my friend said that about like during a first meeting anyways. I mean, you would tell Brandon 374 00:35:57,760 --> 00:36:01,760 that if he texted you tomorrow was like Sarah's being an asshole and you'd be like, well, sometimes 375 00:36:01,760 --> 00:36:05,600 she's like that, you know, whatever. But like on a first meeting. But Brandon wouldn't do that. 376 00:36:06,320 --> 00:36:10,880 No, he wouldn't. But you know what I'm saying? Right. Yeah. The first time that you met him, 377 00:36:10,880 --> 00:36:18,560 you were not mean to him. Right. No, I was super nice to him because I wanted him to feel 378 00:36:18,560 --> 00:36:23,120 comfortable. I didn't want him to like, like, obviously if I was jealous of you having a 379 00:36:23,120 --> 00:36:26,880 boyfriend, then I would have been mean. That's why I think she's jealous. It's just bizarre that 380 00:36:26,880 --> 00:36:33,440 that's how you decide to show up, you know, and in first impression for, you know, somebody who's 381 00:36:33,440 --> 00:36:38,800 supposed to be your best friend that you know is going on the show and is quite obviously 382 00:36:38,800 --> 00:36:43,360 engaged to this human. I mean, unless Paul did something off camera that we didn't see 383 00:36:43,360 --> 00:36:49,120 that was really terrible, because I can see myself if some guy showed up and was talking shit to you 384 00:36:49,120 --> 00:36:53,680 and saying stuff, I can probably see myself. It would take a lot. It would take a lot for me to 385 00:36:53,680 --> 00:36:57,840 say something mean to him. So like Brandon, if he did that, if you showed up, I don't think that 386 00:36:57,840 --> 00:37:04,640 I don't think that Paul would do that. And I mean, the internet is dragging this girl. Yeah. Like 387 00:37:04,640 --> 00:37:10,640 it's wild and she deserves every bit of it. And not to say that producers wouldn't let that happen. 388 00:37:10,640 --> 00:37:15,600 And if Paul did something obnoxious, then we would all know. Right. I mean, they've she's essentially 389 00:37:15,600 --> 00:37:20,400 a villain at this point, but nobody gives a shit about her because she may show up and sit in the 390 00:37:20,400 --> 00:37:25,520 audience at the wedding. But like, she's not going to be a part of like everyday, you know, scenes 391 00:37:25,520 --> 00:37:31,600 that they're shooting. Right. So surely he didn't say anything that was out of grievous. I don't 392 00:37:31,600 --> 00:37:36,880 know. Poor Paul. He's the best. Well, and then he sat there while I think, and here's the other 393 00:37:36,880 --> 00:37:42,080 thing that popped out at me. Shelby started crying after that saying, you know, he's not the one for 394 00:37:42,080 --> 00:37:47,280 you, whatever. No girl, you're crying because you know, you just got embarrassed on national television 395 00:37:47,280 --> 00:37:51,680 for being a bitch. Or she should be crying. That's why you're crying. Or she should be. Yeah. 396 00:37:51,680 --> 00:37:59,040 I have a note that says, Zach has the best advice. It's next to my Paul is the best thing. Zach has 397 00:37:59,040 --> 00:38:02,560 the best advice. I can't remember what they were talking about. But if we go back talking about 398 00:38:02,560 --> 00:38:08,320 Chelsea's birthday party, like just all the little things that happened because we had Josh show up. 399 00:38:08,320 --> 00:38:13,280 Okay. And then I think the producers are assholes because they brought him because Marshall and 400 00:38:13,280 --> 00:38:18,800 Jackie were fighting. Well, they also brought Amber. Yes. Amber showed up. And then they brought 401 00:38:18,800 --> 00:38:23,920 Michael. And there was zero conversation there. Yeah. And you know, by the end of that party, 402 00:38:23,920 --> 00:38:29,760 she found out who Paul was and I guarantee you, if she tried to approach him, I bet you he said no. 403 00:38:29,760 --> 00:38:35,520 So Amber was Paul's second choice. And of course, and Micah immediately when she shows up, Micah is 404 00:38:35,520 --> 00:38:40,560 like immediately over on him, hanging on him, even though she had been talking to Kwame the whole time. 405 00:38:40,560 --> 00:38:46,400 Yes, she had again. Yeah. And then Kwame and Micah were talking and Kwame has been talking to 406 00:38:46,400 --> 00:38:52,800 him. And Kwame has his laugh is the worst. I think you texted me about it too. Didn't you? 407 00:38:53,600 --> 00:38:58,240 You were like, Oh my God. Was it Josh's laugh? Oh, I was talking about, I thought it was, 408 00:38:58,240 --> 00:39:04,480 we were talking about Kwame's laugh. Kwame was like, yeah, you respond and said, have you listened 409 00:39:04,480 --> 00:39:10,160 to Kwame's? It was like, Josh was just like taking over that whole party. I mean, it was just crazy. 410 00:39:10,160 --> 00:39:17,360 But I mean, I'm trying to think of what else happened that popped out at me at that party. 411 00:39:17,360 --> 00:39:22,800 I think, well, Irena wasn't there. So we got to talk about Kick Rocks Irena for a second, 412 00:39:22,800 --> 00:39:31,920 because she also had a meeting with Micah because there was romantic feelings or something. 413 00:39:31,920 --> 00:39:39,280 She told Irena before they left the honeymoons or whatever. She told, was it Micah? She told Micah 414 00:39:39,280 --> 00:39:44,320 that she had feelings for Paul, right? Yeah, which was the craziest thing because I don't 415 00:39:44,320 --> 00:39:48,880 even remember watching them in the pods, like have a conversation at all. No, she didn't. She 416 00:39:48,880 --> 00:39:54,640 only had feelings for him after she saw him. Right. Which is just crazy. And like, she didn't even 417 00:39:54,640 --> 00:40:00,080 own anything when Micah was trying to have that conversation with you. She was just like, Irena 418 00:40:00,080 --> 00:40:06,000 was like, I appreciate you. And I'm so glad that we're friends. It's like, bitch, you've been 419 00:40:06,000 --> 00:40:12,640 friends with a girl for two weeks. She ain't your real friend. No. And you're crazy trying to go 420 00:40:12,640 --> 00:40:18,400 after her man when she is the only one who rode for you in that pod house. Oh yeah. The only one. 421 00:40:19,680 --> 00:40:24,880 And so now Irena has come out and said that she has privately apologized to the people that she 422 00:40:24,880 --> 00:40:29,200 has wronged. No girl, that's because you have a business and your business is probably being 423 00:40:29,200 --> 00:40:36,960 affected by your terrible ass behavior on this show. Mean girl shit. I'm interested to see who 424 00:40:36,960 --> 00:40:44,720 they bring that didn't get matched up onto the reunion. Is it called a reunion? They've got to 425 00:40:44,720 --> 00:40:49,280 bring Irena. I mean, Irena is going to be on there for sure because obviously. Yeah. And then do you 426 00:40:49,280 --> 00:40:52,480 think Josh is going to be there? I think Josh is going to be on there. And the only reason why I 427 00:40:52,480 --> 00:40:58,160 say that is because the previews for the next handful of episodes, he's meeting with Jackie 428 00:40:58,160 --> 00:41:02,560 again. So like he's popping up again. Well, so, okay. So Josh went over and 429 00:41:03,280 --> 00:41:07,280 shoot all the girls away from Jackie and was like, let me have a conversation with you. 430 00:41:07,280 --> 00:41:12,800 And he started saying how, how he felt about her or whatever. Well, he was fumble bumbling through 431 00:41:12,800 --> 00:41:18,480 his slurry words. He couldn't even tell what he was saying. But Jackie was like, oh, I had no idea 432 00:41:18,800 --> 00:41:25,920 he felt that way. And I'm like, he was the one that told you he was packing his bags because if 433 00:41:25,920 --> 00:41:33,120 it wasn't you, like she, I feel like she is playing both sides of the fence. Yeah. She's in 434 00:41:33,120 --> 00:41:39,280 jaw. Like, listen, Jackie, if you get with Josh, good luck to you, honey. You're going to be broken 435 00:41:39,280 --> 00:41:43,600 up very soon because he sucks. Well that or else you're going to be in a lifelong toxic ass 436 00:41:43,600 --> 00:41:52,480 relationship. Right. Marshall, I'll take you. You can move to Seattle. Hell yeah. He can move to 437 00:41:52,480 --> 00:41:58,720 Alabama if he wants to Birmingham, but I work remote so I can work anywhere. Exactly. It's the 438 00:41:58,720 --> 00:42:02,800 only thing is the healthcare. I hope he has a good health insurance because my health insurance would 439 00:42:02,800 --> 00:42:08,320 technically only be able to be in Alabama. Some hole anyways, I think you should slide into his 440 00:42:08,320 --> 00:42:14,080 DMS. I mean, I'm pretty sure he has lots of girls sliding into it. I'm pretty sure he does too, but 441 00:42:14,080 --> 00:42:19,920 who's to say that you're not the one he picks. Why are you looking at me like that? She did her 442 00:42:19,920 --> 00:42:26,320 eyebrows. She's like, she, she always makes these faces at me and nobody can see them except for me 443 00:42:27,200 --> 00:42:34,640 because why not shoot your shot girl. I mean, what if he's married though? We don't know if he's 444 00:42:34,640 --> 00:42:43,200 married to Jackie. You have three weeks to slide in the DMS. We need to find, we need to wait for 445 00:42:43,200 --> 00:42:54,480 like the after the altar after the altar. Yeah. Yeah. And all that stuff. So, okay. 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