1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:13,520 Welcome back to the Thick AF Podcast. 2 00:00:13,520 --> 00:00:14,520 This is Sarah. 3 00:00:14,520 --> 00:00:15,520 This is Emily. 4 00:00:15,520 --> 00:00:17,920 Happy to be back with y'all. 5 00:00:17,920 --> 00:00:18,920 Yes. 6 00:00:18,920 --> 00:00:19,920 Happy Wednesday. 7 00:00:19,920 --> 00:00:20,920 It's hump day. 8 00:00:20,920 --> 00:00:21,920 Yeah, it's hump day. 9 00:00:21,920 --> 00:00:27,200 Remember that commercial that they used to have with the camel? 10 00:00:27,200 --> 00:00:28,200 Yes, I do. 11 00:00:28,200 --> 00:00:32,360 And it would be like, it would stick his neck in the cubicles and stuff. 12 00:00:32,360 --> 00:00:33,360 Do you know what day it is? 13 00:00:33,360 --> 00:00:34,360 Do you know what day it is? 14 00:00:34,360 --> 00:00:37,360 And they were like, yes, it's hump day. 15 00:00:37,360 --> 00:00:41,120 It was a hump day. 16 00:00:41,120 --> 00:00:43,000 I'm pretty sure that's where hump day came from. 17 00:00:43,000 --> 00:00:44,000 What was the name? 18 00:00:44,000 --> 00:00:45,000 Mike? 19 00:00:45,000 --> 00:00:46,000 Or no? 20 00:00:46,000 --> 00:00:47,000 Yeah, probably. 21 00:00:47,000 --> 00:00:48,000 Yeah, Mike. 22 00:00:48,000 --> 00:00:49,000 I can't remember. 23 00:00:49,000 --> 00:00:51,640 Or is that the camel from like camel cigarettes? 24 00:00:51,640 --> 00:00:52,960 Oh, I don't know. 25 00:00:52,960 --> 00:00:54,520 I don't know about that. 26 00:00:54,520 --> 00:00:55,520 Mike. 27 00:00:55,520 --> 00:00:59,440 I mean, a camel's look like a name if I had a camel, a pet camel, I would name it Mike. 28 00:00:59,440 --> 00:01:00,440 You would name it Mike. 29 00:01:00,440 --> 00:01:01,440 Yes. 30 00:01:01,440 --> 00:01:02,440 Would you not? 31 00:01:02,440 --> 00:01:06,880 No, I feel like I would name it Tony because it has only one toe. 32 00:01:06,880 --> 00:01:07,880 Camel toeie. 33 00:01:07,880 --> 00:01:08,880 Camel Tony. 34 00:01:08,880 --> 00:01:13,880 Yeah, that's a good one. 35 00:01:13,880 --> 00:01:16,920 It's got a camel toeie. 36 00:01:16,920 --> 00:01:17,920 Tony. 37 00:01:17,920 --> 00:01:20,920 Oh, oh, oh. 38 00:01:20,920 --> 00:01:23,920 Louise. 39 00:01:23,920 --> 00:01:25,840 Tony's like a tiger's name. 40 00:01:25,840 --> 00:01:33,360 Yeah, but I mean, why can't my camel also be named Tony? 41 00:01:33,360 --> 00:01:40,160 Tony and Mike both sound like dudes that are like, yeah, like me and heads. 42 00:01:40,160 --> 00:01:43,840 Like Mike and Tony. 43 00:01:43,840 --> 00:01:44,840 Mike and Tony. 44 00:01:44,840 --> 00:01:45,840 And they're from the Jersey Shore. 45 00:01:45,840 --> 00:01:48,280 I'm pretty sure this is the Mike and a Tony. 46 00:01:48,280 --> 00:01:50,320 Jim Tam Laundry. 47 00:01:50,320 --> 00:01:51,320 GTL. 48 00:01:51,320 --> 00:01:53,120 Remember that? 49 00:01:53,120 --> 00:01:54,120 I used to do GTL. 50 00:01:54,120 --> 00:01:55,120 Oh my God, me too. 51 00:01:55,120 --> 00:01:56,120 I loved it. 52 00:01:56,120 --> 00:01:57,120 Yep. 53 00:01:57,120 --> 00:01:58,960 I went to college with a bunch of guidos. 54 00:01:58,960 --> 00:01:59,960 I didn't. 55 00:01:59,960 --> 00:02:00,960 It's also why I left. 56 00:02:00,960 --> 00:02:04,120 But we watched the guidos on TV. 57 00:02:04,120 --> 00:02:05,120 Absolutely. 58 00:02:05,120 --> 00:02:06,120 Great stuff. 59 00:02:06,120 --> 00:02:07,480 It was hysterical. 60 00:02:07,480 --> 00:02:15,120 You couldn't get better than like at the time anyways, white trash, like on the shore, being 61 00:02:15,120 --> 00:02:19,160 so drunk that they can like barely even function. 62 00:02:19,160 --> 00:02:21,200 It made you feel a lot better about your life. 63 00:02:21,200 --> 00:02:22,200 Yeah. 64 00:02:22,200 --> 00:02:25,840 And then they got famous and now they make better choices. 65 00:02:25,840 --> 00:02:31,200 But they did that stupid stuff and they got famous and now they're rich because of it. 66 00:02:31,200 --> 00:02:35,260 And I haven't done anything stupid and I'm thinking I'm going to get rich for not doing 67 00:02:35,260 --> 00:02:38,400 anything stupid and it's not going to work. 68 00:02:38,400 --> 00:02:39,720 So that's why I made a podcast. 69 00:02:39,720 --> 00:02:44,840 I mean, I can definitely start being your production crew and video you doing some stupid 70 00:02:44,840 --> 00:02:45,840 shit and see what happens. 71 00:02:45,840 --> 00:02:47,600 What would I need to do though? 72 00:02:47,600 --> 00:02:50,100 I don't know. 73 00:02:50,100 --> 00:02:51,100 Would you rather? 74 00:02:51,100 --> 00:02:52,600 You want to start with that? 75 00:02:52,600 --> 00:02:54,400 Would you rather be rich? 76 00:02:54,400 --> 00:02:56,860 And here's my would you rather just wind it up? 77 00:02:56,860 --> 00:03:04,600 Would you rather be rich because you were dumb or poor because you're and smart? 78 00:03:04,600 --> 00:03:10,120 I guess, you know, people think you're smart, but poor or rich, but people think you're 79 00:03:10,120 --> 00:03:14,440 like stupid and you're like Jersey's for material, you know? 80 00:03:14,440 --> 00:03:19,600 I would rather be rich and stupid because I can still go get an education. 81 00:03:19,600 --> 00:03:21,720 But why would you want to? 82 00:03:21,720 --> 00:03:22,720 Yeah, but who cares? 83 00:03:22,720 --> 00:03:26,480 There's no reason to get an education after you got all the money. 84 00:03:26,480 --> 00:03:30,080 I mean, really and truly they're making money off their personalities and I have a great 85 00:03:30,080 --> 00:03:34,160 personality so I'll go make some money off that even if people think I'm stupid. 86 00:03:34,160 --> 00:03:35,160 Who cares? 87 00:03:35,160 --> 00:03:36,160 There you go. 88 00:03:36,160 --> 00:03:37,160 All right. 89 00:03:37,160 --> 00:03:38,280 What about you? 90 00:03:38,280 --> 00:03:41,720 I mean, duh, I'm like, I'll be dumb and have some money. 91 00:03:41,720 --> 00:03:42,720 I'm good. 92 00:03:42,720 --> 00:03:43,720 I don't care. 93 00:03:43,720 --> 00:03:44,720 Oh Lord. 94 00:03:44,720 --> 00:03:55,960 Okay, my would you rather is would you rather have to watch the same like three movies over 95 00:03:55,960 --> 00:04:02,480 and over and over again for the rest of your life or know the ending to every movie that 96 00:04:02,480 --> 00:04:04,360 you watch for the rest of your life? 97 00:04:04,360 --> 00:04:08,620 Like they you if you're going to watch a movie, you're going to find out the ending first. 98 00:04:08,620 --> 00:04:09,620 Know the ending. 99 00:04:09,620 --> 00:04:10,620 Me too. 100 00:04:10,620 --> 00:04:12,840 I still want to watch the new movies. 101 00:04:12,840 --> 00:04:13,840 I like to know the ending. 102 00:04:13,840 --> 00:04:14,840 You know, I like to Google the movie. 103 00:04:14,840 --> 00:04:15,840 Oh my God. 104 00:04:15,840 --> 00:04:16,840 I know you're the worst. 105 00:04:16,840 --> 00:04:21,480 I'll be like, did so and so die? 106 00:04:21,480 --> 00:04:22,480 When did they die? 107 00:04:22,480 --> 00:04:24,400 Cause I don't want to watch it. 108 00:04:24,400 --> 00:04:28,640 Like I want to be like, I need to, I hate the anticipation and I'm like, Oh, I'm too 109 00:04:28,640 --> 00:04:29,640 scared. 110 00:04:29,640 --> 00:04:30,720 Especially scary movies and stuff like that. 111 00:04:30,720 --> 00:04:32,320 I will Google the outcome. 112 00:04:32,320 --> 00:04:34,320 I'm like, I'm not watching scary movies. 113 00:04:34,320 --> 00:04:35,680 I don't want scary movies either. 114 00:04:35,680 --> 00:04:36,680 I hate it. 115 00:04:36,680 --> 00:04:37,680 It's the worst. 116 00:04:37,680 --> 00:04:40,560 Listen, I don't know if I've said this on here before, but I'm going to go ahead and 117 00:04:40,560 --> 00:04:47,200 admit it when I was heavily watching pretty little liars when it was, that was so scary. 118 00:04:47,200 --> 00:04:48,200 Yes. 119 00:04:48,200 --> 00:04:50,320 I wouldn't watch it by myself in the dark. 120 00:04:50,320 --> 00:04:54,360 Like I had to have a cutoff point at night and change it to something happy before I 121 00:04:54,360 --> 00:04:55,360 went to bed. 122 00:04:55,360 --> 00:04:56,360 Yeah. 123 00:04:56,360 --> 00:04:57,360 I was like a tiny child. 124 00:04:57,360 --> 00:04:58,360 Same with the walking dead. 125 00:04:58,360 --> 00:05:01,060 Like I never watched it to death from that. 126 00:05:01,060 --> 00:05:04,000 Like the cannibal episode where they like, Oh my God. 127 00:05:04,000 --> 00:05:06,680 They're like, Oh, that sounds terrible. 128 00:05:06,680 --> 00:05:09,400 Everyone that watches the walking dead knows what I'm talking about. 129 00:05:09,400 --> 00:05:15,680 It's the best season in my opinion, but it's also the scariest and like, like that is crazy. 130 00:05:15,680 --> 00:05:18,320 I just don't really do scary. 131 00:05:18,320 --> 00:05:23,320 Like I remember one time being out at my parents' house with Melanie, I must've been house sitting 132 00:05:23,320 --> 00:05:30,680 or something and it was when that Sandra Bullock bird box movie came out and Melanie was like, 133 00:05:30,680 --> 00:05:31,680 let's watch this. 134 00:05:31,680 --> 00:05:32,680 It looks good. 135 00:05:32,680 --> 00:05:33,680 And I was like, no, it looks scary. 136 00:05:33,680 --> 00:05:34,800 I don't want to watch it. 137 00:05:34,800 --> 00:05:39,840 And she was like, okay, we'll turn it on for 15 minutes and then we can reevaluate. 138 00:05:39,840 --> 00:05:41,560 I watched the whole damn thing and it was great. 139 00:05:41,560 --> 00:05:43,280 But it's not really a scary movie. 140 00:05:43,280 --> 00:05:45,160 So no, but it's the suspense. 141 00:05:45,160 --> 00:05:49,280 And that's that also triggers me to triggers my anxiety big time. 142 00:05:49,280 --> 00:05:50,280 Same. 143 00:05:50,280 --> 00:05:54,520 Like that's what I watched the menu recently and I was like, I'm not, I watched the trailer 144 00:05:54,520 --> 00:05:55,840 and I was like, no, that's scary. 145 00:05:55,840 --> 00:05:58,360 They're like, it's going to be so bad. 146 00:05:58,360 --> 00:05:59,360 And have you seen it? 147 00:05:59,360 --> 00:06:00,360 Yes. 148 00:06:00,360 --> 00:06:01,360 Oh, it's so good. 149 00:06:01,360 --> 00:06:02,360 I've seen like three times. 150 00:06:02,360 --> 00:06:03,840 It's, it is so good. 151 00:06:03,840 --> 00:06:07,640 But Brandon was like, I thought it was going to be a food movie because you know, Brandon 152 00:06:07,640 --> 00:06:08,640 went to culinary school. 153 00:06:08,640 --> 00:06:09,640 I mean, it was technically, yeah. 154 00:06:09,640 --> 00:06:14,320 And you know that they made that food on, like I watched the little thing that clip 155 00:06:14,320 --> 00:06:19,000 thing afterwards or about the movie and they act every all the food that they ate, the 156 00:06:19,000 --> 00:06:24,160 people in the kitchen that were in the show made that move, that food and brought it out 157 00:06:24,160 --> 00:06:25,160 to the table. 158 00:06:25,160 --> 00:06:26,160 That is so wild. 159 00:06:26,160 --> 00:06:27,160 I know. 160 00:06:27,160 --> 00:06:31,960 Now I was very unhappy once I figured out what it was because I was excited. 161 00:06:31,960 --> 00:06:36,840 I thought it was like some, you know, rom-com chef movie. 162 00:06:36,840 --> 00:06:38,720 No, the hell it was not. 163 00:06:38,720 --> 00:06:39,720 Rom-com. 164 00:06:39,720 --> 00:06:40,720 Did you watch? 165 00:06:40,720 --> 00:06:41,720 I watched the trailer. 166 00:06:41,720 --> 00:06:42,720 No, I didn't watch it. 167 00:06:42,720 --> 00:06:45,080 Brandon turned it on and I trusted him to make good choices. 168 00:06:45,080 --> 00:06:48,080 He knows I don't like scary movies. 169 00:06:48,080 --> 00:06:49,880 I know I do. 170 00:06:49,880 --> 00:06:50,880 Damn. 171 00:06:50,880 --> 00:06:53,640 Who you telling? 172 00:06:53,640 --> 00:06:56,240 Don't trust the, don't trust us. 173 00:06:56,240 --> 00:06:57,240 Sheesh. 174 00:06:57,240 --> 00:07:01,520 I know it was awful. 175 00:07:01,520 --> 00:07:02,520 Yeah. 176 00:07:02,520 --> 00:07:05,320 So worth the watch though. 177 00:07:05,320 --> 00:07:06,320 It is a good movie. 178 00:07:06,320 --> 00:07:08,960 It's a very, very, very good movie. 179 00:07:08,960 --> 00:07:11,280 I would definitely recommend that. 180 00:07:11,280 --> 00:07:12,280 Absolutely. 181 00:07:12,280 --> 00:07:13,280 Okay. 182 00:07:13,280 --> 00:07:14,280 Yeah. 183 00:07:14,280 --> 00:07:17,160 So an FMK, you got one? 184 00:07:17,160 --> 00:07:19,160 Um, okay. 185 00:07:19,160 --> 00:07:25,800 FMK for the, for today is, uh, taking us back to the nineties, baby. 186 00:07:25,800 --> 00:07:26,800 Okay. 187 00:07:26,800 --> 00:07:28,200 I guess it would be the nineties. 188 00:07:28,200 --> 00:07:30,480 So I have so many of these. 189 00:07:30,480 --> 00:07:31,840 I can't just do a few. 190 00:07:31,840 --> 00:07:32,840 So, okay. 191 00:07:32,840 --> 00:07:36,320 So Polly pockets, those sky dancers. 192 00:07:36,320 --> 00:07:38,160 Remember those where you like, they were like the dolls. 193 00:07:38,160 --> 00:07:42,800 You pulled the thing and they flew in the air or, um, trolls. 194 00:07:42,800 --> 00:07:43,800 Okay. 195 00:07:43,800 --> 00:07:45,800 Well those, what are they called? 196 00:07:45,800 --> 00:07:46,880 Sky what? 197 00:07:46,880 --> 00:07:47,880 Sky dancers. 198 00:07:47,880 --> 00:07:48,880 Um, those things were dangerous. 199 00:07:48,880 --> 00:07:49,880 Were they? 200 00:07:49,880 --> 00:07:50,880 Yeah. 201 00:07:50,880 --> 00:07:51,880 No, they weren't. 202 00:07:51,880 --> 00:07:52,880 My God, me and Jerry had them. 203 00:07:52,880 --> 00:07:57,280 Things will get you good if you like, we used to like pull them and like pull them next 204 00:07:57,280 --> 00:07:58,280 to each other. 205 00:07:58,280 --> 00:07:59,280 Like so messed up. 206 00:07:59,280 --> 00:08:03,560 I was never like, I would never be like that. 207 00:08:03,560 --> 00:08:05,680 I was always like, Oh, I don't want to, I don't know. 208 00:08:05,680 --> 00:08:13,000 I mean, Jerry growing up, Jerry was definitely more girly than I was, but we had boy neighbors. 209 00:08:13,000 --> 00:08:15,720 So we were just, we were all mean to each other. 210 00:08:15,720 --> 00:08:20,200 I had boy neighbors and stuff too, but nobody was ever like shooting sky dancers at each 211 00:08:20,200 --> 00:08:21,200 other. 212 00:08:21,200 --> 00:08:22,200 Yeah, we were bad. 213 00:08:22,200 --> 00:08:27,240 Um, I did have Polly pockets, but I think, and Jerry don't get mad at me if this is 214 00:08:27,240 --> 00:08:31,760 untrue, but I think she had Polly pockets and I didn't, I mean, I feel like I've got 215 00:08:31,760 --> 00:08:36,000 like fat hands and fingers, like chubby fingers. 216 00:08:36,000 --> 00:08:38,160 I didn't play with little tiny baby. 217 00:08:38,160 --> 00:08:40,520 I don't know, but I just didn't play with like little things. 218 00:08:40,520 --> 00:08:42,400 I love Polly pocket. 219 00:08:42,400 --> 00:08:45,520 My cousin Megan still like has all of her Polly pockets. 220 00:08:45,520 --> 00:08:49,480 So her parents moved from their childhood home and they were like getting rid of everything. 221 00:08:49,480 --> 00:08:51,520 They were like, do you want anything from this house? 222 00:08:51,520 --> 00:08:53,400 Like furniture and stuff probably too. 223 00:08:53,400 --> 00:08:56,000 And she was like, the only thing I want is my Polly pockets. 224 00:08:56,000 --> 00:08:58,160 I thought that was great. 225 00:08:58,160 --> 00:09:02,200 I mean, we had some trolls, so this is hard for me. 226 00:09:02,200 --> 00:09:06,000 I think I am going to kill Polly pocket. 227 00:09:06,000 --> 00:09:08,160 I'm going to marry the sky. 228 00:09:08,160 --> 00:09:12,720 Why did you like to shoot people? 229 00:09:12,720 --> 00:09:13,720 That's the most entertaining. 230 00:09:13,720 --> 00:09:15,040 And then, I mean, I liked trolls. 231 00:09:15,040 --> 00:09:16,040 Me too. 232 00:09:16,040 --> 00:09:19,080 I like the ones with the diamonds, the jewel belly. 233 00:09:19,080 --> 00:09:20,080 Yeah. 234 00:09:20,080 --> 00:09:21,080 Yeah. 235 00:09:21,080 --> 00:09:25,200 So I think I'm going to kill the, uh, kill the sky dancer. 236 00:09:25,200 --> 00:09:30,320 I liked them, but like, I like all three, but I think that I like next. 237 00:09:30,320 --> 00:09:36,520 Probably I'm going to marry Polly pocket and fuck the troll because the Polly pockets got 238 00:09:36,520 --> 00:09:38,040 her own home and everything. 239 00:09:38,040 --> 00:09:42,320 She's like, she's like settled down and she's ready to be my wife. 240 00:09:42,320 --> 00:09:46,800 She's a wifey material. 241 00:09:46,800 --> 00:09:50,080 She is wifey material. 242 00:09:50,080 --> 00:09:51,200 Polly pocket. 243 00:09:51,200 --> 00:09:53,000 She was teaching us all how to be a wife. 244 00:09:53,000 --> 00:09:54,600 Oh my gosh. 245 00:09:54,600 --> 00:09:55,600 That's hysterical. 246 00:09:55,600 --> 00:09:56,600 I obviously didn't learn. 247 00:09:56,600 --> 00:09:57,600 Um, me either. 248 00:09:57,600 --> 00:09:58,600 Don't worry about it. 249 00:09:58,600 --> 00:09:59,600 Okay. 250 00:09:59,600 --> 00:10:00,600 Can I do one more? 251 00:10:00,600 --> 00:10:03,880 I just thought of one randomly that kind of goes with this. 252 00:10:03,880 --> 00:10:06,880 I want to do another one too. 253 00:10:06,880 --> 00:10:07,880 Okay. 254 00:10:07,880 --> 00:10:08,880 That's fine. 255 00:10:08,880 --> 00:10:14,680 Um, taking it back still in sync backstreet boys and Britney Spears. 256 00:10:14,680 --> 00:10:16,520 Okay. 257 00:10:16,520 --> 00:10:21,400 So if we're not talking about them today, too, like if, cause Britney Spears, I love 258 00:10:21,400 --> 00:10:22,400 you so much. 259 00:10:22,400 --> 00:10:28,240 And I've always loved you so much, but like, Oh, I don't know what happened. 260 00:10:28,240 --> 00:10:30,200 It makes me very sad. 261 00:10:30,200 --> 00:10:34,280 Um, but I will marry Britney Spears. 262 00:10:34,280 --> 00:10:35,280 Fuck. 263 00:10:35,280 --> 00:10:36,880 Why are you going to help her? 264 00:10:36,880 --> 00:10:39,000 No, not new today's Britney Spears. 265 00:10:39,000 --> 00:10:41,200 Old school Britney Spears. 266 00:10:41,200 --> 00:10:45,640 I have still have her little CD with the purple and the pink with the pink. 267 00:10:45,640 --> 00:10:46,640 I think it was pink. 268 00:10:46,640 --> 00:10:48,000 Um, flower on it. 269 00:10:48,000 --> 00:10:49,840 It was like Britney Spears. 270 00:10:49,840 --> 00:10:50,960 And I mean, I have all the things. 271 00:10:50,960 --> 00:10:51,960 I love her. 272 00:10:51,960 --> 00:10:52,960 It's funny. 273 00:10:52,960 --> 00:10:54,200 I love her music from back then. 274 00:10:54,200 --> 00:10:55,200 I loved it. 275 00:10:55,200 --> 00:10:58,800 Um, I will marry in sync and I will kill backstreet boys. 276 00:10:58,800 --> 00:11:01,960 Well, wait, hold on before you go. 277 00:11:01,960 --> 00:11:05,840 Have you seen the, um, I think it's like a problem. 278 00:11:05,840 --> 00:11:07,240 I don't know where it generated from. 279 00:11:07,240 --> 00:11:08,240 It's on social media. 280 00:11:08,240 --> 00:11:11,560 It's a video, either Instagram, Tik TOK, Facebook, something like that. 281 00:11:11,560 --> 00:11:14,560 Somebody did a video and they were at the bookstore with their kid and the little girl 282 00:11:14,560 --> 00:11:20,440 is like, pulls out a book and it's like serial killers and it's like the top 50 serial killers. 283 00:11:20,440 --> 00:11:24,040 And she's like, there are pictures of them on the front and she's like, is this mommy? 284 00:11:24,040 --> 00:11:28,160 Is this the backstreet boys? 285 00:11:28,160 --> 00:11:31,160 And the girl's like, um, no. 286 00:11:31,160 --> 00:11:32,160 She's like, well, who are they? 287 00:11:32,160 --> 00:11:35,160 She's like, um, I'm not sure. 288 00:11:35,160 --> 00:11:37,760 So Larry's, but they did looks like the backstreet boys. 289 00:11:37,760 --> 00:11:39,400 That's so funny. 290 00:11:39,400 --> 00:11:44,120 Um, so I'm probably going to blow everybody's mind, but that's fine. 291 00:11:44,120 --> 00:11:45,120 And I don't care. 292 00:11:45,120 --> 00:11:48,240 Um, RIP to Britney cause I'm killing her. 293 00:11:48,240 --> 00:11:50,960 I was not a huge like Britney Spears fan growing up. 294 00:11:50,960 --> 00:11:53,000 My sister was definitely more than I was. 295 00:11:53,000 --> 00:11:58,000 Um, but I was also a backstreet boy girl, so I am marrying them and I'm fucking in sync. 296 00:11:58,000 --> 00:11:59,000 Okay. 297 00:11:59,000 --> 00:12:00,000 I don't know. 298 00:12:00,000 --> 00:12:04,520 I just, I thought that like backstreet boys were like way cooler. 299 00:12:04,520 --> 00:12:11,600 You know, Nick Carter was so hot and Justin Timberlake, Timberlake, Timberlake, he had 300 00:12:11,600 --> 00:12:13,440 ramen noodles on top of his head. 301 00:12:13,440 --> 00:12:15,080 Oh my God. 302 00:12:15,080 --> 00:12:19,520 Justin Timberlake is the best Nick Carter. 303 00:12:19,520 --> 00:12:22,360 Not so much RIP Aaron. 304 00:12:22,360 --> 00:12:26,680 I'm not even like into blonde either, but like Nick Carter was fine. 305 00:12:26,680 --> 00:12:31,920 No, I liked, um, well, which one was it? 306 00:12:31,920 --> 00:12:33,920 Go tell my 13 year old self that. 307 00:12:33,920 --> 00:12:34,920 Okay. 308 00:12:34,920 --> 00:12:35,920 I forgot what his name was. 309 00:12:35,920 --> 00:12:36,920 I don't know. 310 00:12:36,920 --> 00:12:39,120 I'll think, I'll think of it later, but yeah. 311 00:12:39,120 --> 00:12:40,120 Okay. 312 00:12:40,120 --> 00:12:44,960 So I don't have the others for my thing, but I was going to say, oh, here's, here's some 313 00:12:44,960 --> 00:12:45,960 good ones. 314 00:12:45,960 --> 00:12:46,960 Okay. 315 00:12:46,960 --> 00:12:50,000 The skip it, the bop it or the light bright. 316 00:12:50,000 --> 00:12:52,960 Talking about a light bright. 317 00:12:52,960 --> 00:12:53,960 Yeah. 318 00:12:53,960 --> 00:12:55,240 I liked the light bright. 319 00:12:55,240 --> 00:12:57,240 Um, I actually used it a lot. 320 00:12:57,240 --> 00:13:02,240 So um, what was the bop it thing? 321 00:13:02,240 --> 00:13:03,240 It's like bop it. 322 00:13:03,240 --> 00:13:04,240 Bullet. 323 00:13:04,240 --> 00:13:05,240 Oh yeah. 324 00:13:05,240 --> 00:13:06,240 Okay. 325 00:13:06,240 --> 00:13:12,000 No, that thing is dying because I was good at skip it. 326 00:13:12,000 --> 00:13:16,760 So I'm probably going to marry skip it and then I'll fuck light bright. 327 00:13:16,760 --> 00:13:20,240 Cause like I go through spurts where I want to be creative. 328 00:13:20,240 --> 00:13:22,440 So it's not like all the time, like it's not a toy. 329 00:13:22,440 --> 00:13:28,800 Do you go not go through spurts where you want to be like exercising on your skip it? 330 00:13:28,800 --> 00:13:29,840 I was good at the skip it. 331 00:13:29,840 --> 00:13:31,680 We all know that I like to be good at things. 332 00:13:31,680 --> 00:13:32,680 So I'm married. 333 00:13:32,680 --> 00:13:33,680 Okay. 334 00:13:33,680 --> 00:13:34,680 Gotcha. 335 00:13:34,680 --> 00:13:35,680 Gotcha. 336 00:13:35,680 --> 00:13:36,680 Gotcha. 337 00:13:36,680 --> 00:13:39,280 And I'm fucking light bright and I'm killing the bop it. 338 00:13:39,280 --> 00:13:41,280 Cause that thing was annoying. 339 00:13:41,280 --> 00:13:42,280 Yeah. 340 00:13:42,280 --> 00:13:43,280 Bop it. 341 00:13:43,280 --> 00:13:44,280 Twist it. 342 00:13:44,280 --> 00:13:45,280 Pull it. 343 00:13:45,280 --> 00:13:46,280 Shut up. 344 00:13:46,280 --> 00:13:55,520 And it was like, and then if you like got it wrong, it was like something like you're 345 00:13:55,520 --> 00:13:56,520 crazy. 346 00:13:56,520 --> 00:13:57,520 Oh my God. 347 00:13:57,520 --> 00:13:58,520 Okay. 348 00:13:58,520 --> 00:13:59,520 All right. 349 00:13:59,520 --> 00:14:00,720 That's it for the FMKs of the day. 350 00:14:00,720 --> 00:14:02,320 Unless you got another one you want to keep going. 351 00:14:02,320 --> 00:14:03,320 Nope. 352 00:14:03,320 --> 00:14:04,320 I'm good. 353 00:14:04,320 --> 00:14:05,680 We could go all day long with the nineties. 354 00:14:05,680 --> 00:14:06,680 Probably so honestly. 355 00:14:06,680 --> 00:14:08,160 Um, all right. 356 00:14:08,160 --> 00:14:15,400 So today we are, we feel like we want to talk about the cancel culture in these times and 357 00:14:15,400 --> 00:14:18,080 the past times of the cancel culture. 358 00:14:18,080 --> 00:14:25,680 Um, because so today I got an email from, I think it was like ticket master or something. 359 00:14:25,680 --> 00:14:31,160 And it said that Ryan Adams is going to be playing at Avondale Brewing Company, which 360 00:14:31,160 --> 00:14:32,160 is in Birmingham. 361 00:14:32,160 --> 00:14:35,640 And I was like, Oh my gosh, I loved Ryan Adams or I love Ryan. 362 00:14:35,640 --> 00:14:38,720 Like I'm going to go, I'm going to see if I can get tickets. 363 00:14:38,720 --> 00:14:42,440 And then it's, it was like telling me I needed a pre-sale code and I didn't realize they 364 00:14:42,440 --> 00:14:44,640 weren't actually on sale to the public yet. 365 00:14:44,640 --> 00:14:49,440 So I get on Instagram to see if there's a code, like a pre-sale code. 366 00:14:49,440 --> 00:14:54,100 And I real, I see all the comments on the Avondale page where they posted that Ryan 367 00:14:54,100 --> 00:14:55,400 Adams is going to play. 368 00:14:55,400 --> 00:15:01,040 And it's like all these people being pissed off because apparently Ryan Adams like did 369 00:15:01,040 --> 00:15:04,000 some bad stuff to like, to females or to children. 370 00:15:04,000 --> 00:15:05,000 I don't know. 371 00:15:05,000 --> 00:15:07,120 I, I only, I didn't read it. 372 00:15:07,120 --> 00:15:09,360 There's a New York Post article, right? 373 00:15:09,360 --> 00:15:10,760 Or New York Times. 374 00:15:10,760 --> 00:15:12,480 Yeah, I didn't read all of it. 375 00:15:12,480 --> 00:15:19,200 I think out there and I didn't read a whole lot of it, but the gist that I got was that 376 00:15:19,200 --> 00:15:25,200 he essentially used his, you know, fame and popularity to kind of promise upward mobility 377 00:15:25,200 --> 00:15:28,200 for, you know, young female singers. 378 00:15:28,200 --> 00:15:38,400 And it was not necessarily, I didn't interpret it as in exchange for sexual favors, but it 379 00:15:38,400 --> 00:15:44,880 was the undertone of, you know, the scenario, I guess, if you will. 380 00:15:44,880 --> 00:15:48,800 So it just seems like he was taking advantage of his position. 381 00:15:48,800 --> 00:15:49,800 Yeah. 382 00:15:49,800 --> 00:15:50,800 Yeah. 383 00:15:50,800 --> 00:15:51,800 Okay. 384 00:15:51,800 --> 00:15:53,800 Well, that's interesting because I didn't know, and people are like, some girl said 385 00:15:53,800 --> 00:15:56,280 something like, I can't believe y'all are doing this. 386 00:15:56,280 --> 00:15:57,440 Maybe you didn't realize it. 387 00:15:57,440 --> 00:16:01,160 We're going to hope that you guys figure it out and cancel this show. 388 00:16:01,160 --> 00:16:04,840 I'll be curious to see if, if that happens. 389 00:16:04,840 --> 00:16:05,840 Yeah. 390 00:16:05,840 --> 00:16:08,640 Like, but I kind of still want to get, and that, that's what I was like, oh my God, can 391 00:16:08,640 --> 00:16:10,160 I even buy a ticket? 392 00:16:10,160 --> 00:16:18,160 Like if I show up and I, am I supporting somebody who is, like, doesn't do things that I would 393 00:16:18,160 --> 00:16:20,720 like, you know, I don't know. 394 00:16:20,720 --> 00:16:25,880 Where do you draw the line on like what somebody does with their life and like whether or not, 395 00:16:25,880 --> 00:16:29,920 and can they have made, could he have made a mistake and has gotten better after that? 396 00:16:29,920 --> 00:16:30,920 I don't know. 397 00:16:30,920 --> 00:16:32,520 Like, where do you draw the line on that? 398 00:16:32,520 --> 00:16:33,520 Right. 399 00:16:33,520 --> 00:16:37,720 Then it's like, okay, if I go to this because I want to listen to the music and I, I didn't 400 00:16:37,720 --> 00:16:40,520 even know about him doing that before. 401 00:16:40,520 --> 00:16:45,800 Are people going to hate on me later because I went to the Ryan Adams concert? 402 00:16:45,800 --> 00:16:46,800 You know? 403 00:16:46,800 --> 00:16:47,800 Yeah. 404 00:16:47,800 --> 00:16:48,800 Okay. 405 00:16:48,800 --> 00:16:49,800 So it's a little worse than what I thought. 406 00:16:49,800 --> 00:16:55,960 Um, Rolling Stone has an article out there, um, about this woman who claims that when 407 00:16:55,960 --> 00:17:02,240 she was 14 years old, he engaged in phone sex and had Skype calls where he exposed himself 408 00:17:02,240 --> 00:17:03,240 to her. 409 00:17:03,240 --> 00:17:06,200 So that is definitely not cool. 410 00:17:06,200 --> 00:17:11,280 I don't know what the timeframe is of when that happened regardless. 411 00:17:11,280 --> 00:17:16,560 Um, have you seen anything where he's like admitted to it or like, did they go to try? 412 00:17:16,560 --> 00:17:17,560 I don't know. 413 00:17:17,560 --> 00:17:18,560 Like what's the deal? 414 00:17:18,560 --> 00:17:20,760 I have, I didn't, I just was reading. 415 00:17:20,760 --> 00:17:21,760 Does it have a time? 416 00:17:21,760 --> 00:17:22,760 You don't know what the timeframe was? 417 00:17:22,760 --> 00:17:25,360 2019 was the Rolling Stone article. 418 00:17:25,360 --> 00:17:26,360 Interesting. 419 00:17:26,360 --> 00:17:27,360 Yeah. 420 00:17:27,360 --> 00:17:28,360 See, I don't know. 421 00:17:28,360 --> 00:17:32,960 Like, like I'm torn because I like want to go, but, but also I don't, I don't. 422 00:17:32,960 --> 00:17:36,400 Meany Moore is also claiming some sexual misconduct. 423 00:17:36,400 --> 00:17:37,400 Oh really? 424 00:17:37,400 --> 00:17:38,400 Okay. 425 00:17:38,400 --> 00:17:39,400 Interesting. 426 00:17:39,400 --> 00:17:46,080 So it sounds to be a little bit deeper than maybe what we originally thought, but, um, 427 00:17:46,080 --> 00:17:52,600 it sounds like this is what, what he is making an attempt to be his sort of kind of comeback. 428 00:17:52,600 --> 00:17:57,880 Um, and in 2020 he did apologize for harmful behavior. 429 00:17:57,880 --> 00:18:06,760 So it sounds like he has been accused and apologized, but maybe there were no, um, court 430 00:18:06,760 --> 00:18:09,200 filings in reference to it. 431 00:18:09,200 --> 00:18:16,960 But I guess, and I, I understand what you're saying about, you know, can what, what is, 432 00:18:16,960 --> 00:18:21,760 where's the line that gets drawn because you know, you've got people who are repeat offenders 433 00:18:21,760 --> 00:18:27,020 like R Kelly out there and it's like, is this person in the same boat? 434 00:18:27,020 --> 00:18:32,480 Did he make, you know, some inappropriate and misguided choices, you know, when he was 435 00:18:32,480 --> 00:18:38,720 younger and has educated himself and you know, apologize and really owned the behavior and 436 00:18:38,720 --> 00:18:45,400 is a different person or is it, you know, a public apology to kind of put a bandaid 437 00:18:45,400 --> 00:18:46,400 on a bullet hole? 438 00:18:46,400 --> 00:18:47,400 Yeah. 439 00:18:47,400 --> 00:18:52,040 And then also like, I don't know, I feel like sometimes when you, if you don't like punish, 440 00:18:52,040 --> 00:18:55,040 I guess punish would be the word somebody for something. 441 00:18:55,040 --> 00:18:59,560 So like not canceling a person or whatever, they can just be like, Oh, well nobody cared. 442 00:18:59,560 --> 00:19:01,320 So I'm just going to keep doing it. 443 00:19:01,320 --> 00:19:05,640 So like if they haven't, he hasn't learned, like what if, if we're going out and supporting 444 00:19:05,640 --> 00:19:12,040 him again after he did all that and people said something like, maybe is he going to 445 00:19:12,040 --> 00:19:14,600 think, Oh, nobody, I can still go out and make a living. 446 00:19:14,600 --> 00:19:19,680 I can still do these bad things and still like be a, whatever I am. 447 00:19:19,680 --> 00:19:20,680 Yeah. 448 00:19:20,680 --> 00:19:21,680 I mean, I don't know. 449 00:19:21,680 --> 00:19:22,680 I don't know. 450 00:19:22,680 --> 00:19:27,680 I think it's, it's between a rock and a hard place in a sense, because I'm not a huge fan 451 00:19:27,680 --> 00:19:28,920 of cancel culture. 452 00:19:28,920 --> 00:19:32,200 I don't know that I agree with it. 453 00:19:32,200 --> 00:19:37,800 I think that if somebody does something that's wrong or they made a bad choice or said something 454 00:19:37,800 --> 00:19:42,700 that was inappropriate and, or, you know, racist or whatever, if you take the steps 455 00:19:42,700 --> 00:19:49,060 to educate yourself and be better, then that should be enough. 456 00:19:49,060 --> 00:19:53,360 If you're going to be a shitty human and keep doing the bad behavior, then yeah, cancel 457 00:19:53,360 --> 00:19:54,360 your ass. 458 00:19:54,360 --> 00:19:55,360 Yeah. 459 00:19:55,360 --> 00:19:56,360 Well, and so, okay. 460 00:19:56,360 --> 00:19:57,880 So there's another thing I just thought about this. 461 00:19:57,880 --> 00:20:04,680 I saw something on the news, I guess, saying that Kanye, so because of Kanye or yay or 462 00:20:04,680 --> 00:20:08,600 whatever we want to call him now, I'm going to call him Kanye because that's what I know. 463 00:20:08,600 --> 00:20:09,600 Yeah. 464 00:20:09,600 --> 00:20:15,360 Because of him being anti-Semitic and all this stuff, he Nike, is it Nike, I guess that 465 00:20:15,360 --> 00:20:19,520 he had the contract with whoever he had the contract with for his shoes. 466 00:20:19,520 --> 00:20:23,480 They're going to like, somebody said something about burning all the shoes. 467 00:20:23,480 --> 00:20:27,140 I don't think that Nike said that, but I think that there was like people that has been done 468 00:20:27,140 --> 00:20:31,120 in the past, if somebody got canceled or whatever, or if they were like, okay, well, we're not 469 00:20:31,120 --> 00:20:34,320 going to sell your shoes anymore because of this, but what are they going to do with the 470 00:20:34,320 --> 00:20:35,320 shoes? 471 00:20:35,320 --> 00:20:39,440 They are wasting all this product because- Instead of giving them to folks who need them. 472 00:20:39,440 --> 00:20:40,440 Right. 473 00:20:40,440 --> 00:20:42,320 And see, I'm sure they will come up with something like that, but I think that somebody's- 474 00:20:42,320 --> 00:20:43,320 I would hope so. 475 00:20:43,320 --> 00:20:46,520 I think they said that maybe they're going to rebrand them and sell them as something 476 00:20:46,520 --> 00:20:47,520 else. 477 00:20:47,520 --> 00:20:48,920 And I'm like- What's the point of that? 478 00:20:48,920 --> 00:20:51,640 It's still a easy, if you will. 479 00:20:51,640 --> 00:20:53,760 I mean, I guess he wouldn't get money from it. 480 00:20:53,760 --> 00:20:54,760 You know, I guess they canceled his contract. 481 00:20:54,760 --> 00:21:01,840 And I think continuing to sell them without him receiving royalties is still, I mean, 482 00:21:01,840 --> 00:21:03,400 I don't know. 483 00:21:03,400 --> 00:21:07,120 The idea, concept, design stemmed from him. 484 00:21:07,120 --> 00:21:12,200 It still represents him regardless of whether or not he's making money in everybody's eyes. 485 00:21:12,200 --> 00:21:17,840 When you visually see that shoe, sandal, whatever it was, you're going to know that's what it 486 00:21:17,840 --> 00:21:18,840 was. 487 00:21:18,840 --> 00:21:22,840 Well, but I mean that even if you give them to people, give them away, that's still the 488 00:21:22,840 --> 00:21:23,840 same thing. 489 00:21:23,840 --> 00:21:30,080 It's like, but you can't just, I mean, in my, like that's so wasteful. 490 00:21:30,080 --> 00:21:31,560 A hundred percent. 491 00:21:31,560 --> 00:21:36,040 I mean, fast fashion is a huge issue in this country in and of itself. 492 00:21:36,040 --> 00:21:40,080 So you know, to waste product like that is crazy. 493 00:21:40,080 --> 00:21:46,400 Unless you can recycle it and use it as something else when you burn it, then otherwise repurpose. 494 00:21:46,400 --> 00:21:51,960 Yeah, but even recycling it, that's just using more energy and all that stuff too. 495 00:21:51,960 --> 00:21:57,040 And like more pollution and stuff like that, it's just like putting, it's just wasteful. 496 00:21:57,040 --> 00:21:58,040 I don't know. 497 00:21:58,040 --> 00:21:59,040 Yeah. 498 00:21:59,040 --> 00:22:00,040 So I don't know that that's the whole thing. 499 00:22:00,040 --> 00:22:06,760 So, so my other thing with like the, um, Ryan Adams stuff is, and, and this is might be 500 00:22:06,760 --> 00:22:07,760 controversial. 501 00:22:07,760 --> 00:22:14,920 So we had the whole Johnny Depp, Amber Heard thing and Amber Heard was found guilty in the 502 00:22:14,920 --> 00:22:17,080 trial or whatever. 503 00:22:17,080 --> 00:22:24,240 And so basically they said that she lied and basically what claimed that she was part of 504 00:22:24,240 --> 00:22:26,560 this Me Too movement, but she wasn't. 505 00:22:26,560 --> 00:22:29,880 And so that's happened with her. 506 00:22:29,880 --> 00:22:34,880 Who's to say that hasn't other, other people haven't done that to like get, you know, noticed 507 00:22:34,880 --> 00:22:40,360 or to get, um, I mean, I think that there's always gonna, it sucks because I think that 508 00:22:40,360 --> 00:22:46,040 there will always be people who are going to make false claims to try and be a part 509 00:22:46,040 --> 00:22:51,920 of a movement or, you know, what have you, even to punish somebody, you know, and say 510 00:22:51,920 --> 00:22:57,480 this man or woman, whatever did this, you know, X, Y, Z to me. 511 00:22:57,480 --> 00:23:00,760 Um, and it very well could not be true. 512 00:23:00,760 --> 00:23:06,880 It's just unfortunate for the victims, the people who are true victims of something, 513 00:23:06,880 --> 00:23:12,920 you know, like that sexual assault, you know, what have you, because it makes those people 514 00:23:12,920 --> 00:23:14,560 not want to come forward. 515 00:23:14,560 --> 00:23:15,720 Right. 516 00:23:15,720 --> 00:23:17,200 And that's, that sucks. 517 00:23:17,200 --> 00:23:21,880 Well, then it also makes other people not feel like other people feel like maybe those 518 00:23:21,880 --> 00:23:23,480 other people could be lying too. 519 00:23:23,480 --> 00:23:24,480 Right. 520 00:23:24,480 --> 00:23:25,480 Yeah. 521 00:23:25,480 --> 00:23:26,480 Like what you're, you're absolutely. 522 00:23:26,480 --> 00:23:27,480 Yeah. 523 00:23:27,480 --> 00:23:33,160 You're lowering their stance, I guess, or they're like, you know, their point. 524 00:23:33,160 --> 00:23:40,600 I would say their level of empathy, maybe even in, you know, believing somebody and 525 00:23:40,600 --> 00:23:42,440 it's unfortunate for sure. 526 00:23:42,440 --> 00:23:46,600 Yeah, and so that, that to me, like, you know, just because somebody comes out and says, 527 00:23:46,600 --> 00:23:50,280 oh, so and so did this, does that mean I should believe them? 528 00:23:50,280 --> 00:23:54,440 Like yeah, like, and we've been taught when I'm taught, but like with the me too movement, 529 00:23:54,440 --> 00:23:57,200 you want to believe the victims and things like that. 530 00:23:57,200 --> 00:24:01,560 But then when you have somebody that's like that lies and especially somebody like Amber 531 00:24:01,560 --> 00:24:06,600 Heard who was like in the public eye, who has the means to not lie, you know what I 532 00:24:06,600 --> 00:24:07,600 mean? 533 00:24:07,600 --> 00:24:09,920 Like she doesn't have to like, to be that way to get famous. 534 00:24:09,920 --> 00:24:14,080 She's already famous like, or to be in a movement or something. 535 00:24:14,080 --> 00:24:15,080 Relevant. 536 00:24:15,080 --> 00:24:16,080 Relevant. 537 00:24:16,080 --> 00:24:17,080 Yeah. 538 00:24:17,080 --> 00:24:18,080 So who do you believe? 539 00:24:18,080 --> 00:24:19,080 I mean, who do you believe? 540 00:24:19,080 --> 00:24:24,000 And is it okay for you to believe that the other person didn't do something wrong? 541 00:24:24,000 --> 00:24:29,720 I mean, I, I think that if, you know, somebody were to ever, you know, approach you about 542 00:24:29,720 --> 00:24:34,000 something like that, you have to, you know, hear them out with an open mind and an open 543 00:24:34,000 --> 00:24:39,040 heart and you know, trust that they are coming to you with a truth. 544 00:24:39,040 --> 00:24:42,960 And you know, if, if they're not, then that's their burden to bear. 545 00:24:42,960 --> 00:24:43,960 Right. 546 00:24:43,960 --> 00:24:44,960 And that just sucks. 547 00:24:44,960 --> 00:24:45,960 Yeah. 548 00:24:45,960 --> 00:24:49,680 Especially when it's like somebody that's not, it's not like somebody like when this, 549 00:24:49,680 --> 00:24:54,480 with the celebrity stuff, we can't have like a person come to us personally and be like, 550 00:24:54,480 --> 00:24:56,920 Hey, I didn't do this or whatever. 551 00:24:56,920 --> 00:24:59,720 They can, you know, release something from their publicist. 552 00:24:59,720 --> 00:25:04,120 It's going to be like, you know, all made to sound good. 553 00:25:04,120 --> 00:25:05,480 Oh, a hundred percent. 554 00:25:05,480 --> 00:25:10,760 I mean, and I know we talked about this last week and it's, you know, kind of similar kind 555 00:25:10,760 --> 00:25:17,280 of, you know, not, but this whole Vanderpump rules and, you know, Raquel and Tom Sandoval 556 00:25:17,280 --> 00:25:23,200 and her PR teams, you know, strategy was kind of leaked and they want to, you know, play 557 00:25:23,200 --> 00:25:26,200 her as a victim, you know, and all this. 558 00:25:26,200 --> 00:25:31,160 And again, that is a terrible thing to do. 559 00:25:31,160 --> 00:25:36,440 You know, she's trying to make herself less hated is what I think because she made a terrible 560 00:25:36,440 --> 00:25:41,760 decision and, you know, allowed herself to participate in infidelity of her best friend's 561 00:25:41,760 --> 00:25:43,640 boyfriend. 562 00:25:43,640 --> 00:25:44,840 So it just sucks. 563 00:25:44,840 --> 00:25:49,560 But like, you can't call yourself a victim when you're really not a victim just because 564 00:25:49,560 --> 00:25:53,160 you're in the public eye and you don't want, you know, people commenting all over your 565 00:25:53,160 --> 00:25:58,840 Instagram because it makes real people not want to come out and say something, you know, 566 00:25:58,840 --> 00:25:59,840 be a true victim. 567 00:25:59,840 --> 00:26:00,840 Right. 568 00:26:00,840 --> 00:26:01,840 You're stupid. 569 00:26:01,840 --> 00:26:02,840 You know what you did. 570 00:26:02,840 --> 00:26:03,840 You're a grownup. 571 00:26:03,840 --> 00:26:06,760 You had sex with somebody you shouldn't have been having sex with. 572 00:26:06,760 --> 00:26:08,760 You don't get to say you're stupid. 573 00:26:08,760 --> 00:26:13,800 I mean, I don't understand why like people want to cancel other people to begin. 574 00:26:13,800 --> 00:26:14,800 I mean, I get it. 575 00:26:14,800 --> 00:26:18,640 Like maybe, you know, if you don't agree with that person, whatever, but like trying to 576 00:26:18,640 --> 00:26:23,640 like blast somebody for making a mistake, like sometimes people make a mistake. 577 00:26:23,640 --> 00:26:28,000 What if every time we made a mistake, they were like, I mean, I would have been done 578 00:26:28,000 --> 00:26:29,000 a long time ago. 579 00:26:29,000 --> 00:26:35,080 Every time I was like, I went out with a child, you know, like what if as soon as you, we 580 00:26:35,080 --> 00:26:37,680 should write a, make a movie or write a book. 581 00:26:37,680 --> 00:26:39,960 Like it's like cancel culture world. 582 00:26:39,960 --> 00:26:44,280 And as soon as you turn 18, any mistake you make, you're like canceled and you have to 583 00:26:44,280 --> 00:26:49,960 go to like dig up radioactive material and die at like the colonies. 584 00:26:49,960 --> 00:26:50,960 Yeah. 585 00:26:50,960 --> 00:26:55,000 Well, it's funny that you say that because when I was on my way over here, um, my stepdad's 586 00:26:55,000 --> 00:26:57,600 birthday is today, March 9th. 587 00:26:57,600 --> 00:26:59,680 So happy birthday, Mitchie. 588 00:26:59,680 --> 00:27:04,440 Um, they were with my mom and Mitch were with our neighbors. 589 00:27:04,440 --> 00:27:09,040 Um, they're next door neighbors and they, we've lived next door to them ever since we 590 00:27:09,040 --> 00:27:10,120 lived in that house. 591 00:27:10,120 --> 00:27:14,640 And so they were all out celebrating while their youngest son, James, he lives in Florida 592 00:27:14,640 --> 00:27:16,880 and he's up visiting and he hopped on the phone with me. 593 00:27:16,880 --> 00:27:18,800 And so I was just catching up with him or whatever. 594 00:27:18,800 --> 00:27:21,880 And wherever, what bar they were at, I'd never been there before. 595 00:27:21,880 --> 00:27:22,880 And he was like, what? 596 00:27:22,880 --> 00:27:23,880 You've never been here. 597 00:27:23,880 --> 00:27:26,400 And I was like, no, but I mean, you have to remember. 598 00:27:26,400 --> 00:27:29,520 Like I wasn't 21 when I was, you know, living up there. 599 00:27:29,520 --> 00:27:34,120 I moved back to Birmingham when I was 20 and he was like, yeah, but that, why'd that stop 600 00:27:34,120 --> 00:27:35,120 you? 601 00:27:35,120 --> 00:27:39,640 And I said, the only time it stopped me is when somebody, you know, asked for an actual 602 00:27:39,640 --> 00:27:40,640 ID. 603 00:27:40,640 --> 00:27:44,760 I said, one time I did get a fake ID and I went to the bar and I didn't even know my 604 00:27:44,760 --> 00:27:45,760 name. 605 00:27:45,760 --> 00:27:46,760 So I came home that weekend. 606 00:27:46,760 --> 00:27:47,760 I was so proud of myself. 607 00:27:47,760 --> 00:27:48,760 I was like, mom, look at my fake ID. 608 00:27:48,760 --> 00:27:49,760 My name is Blah, blah. 609 00:27:49,760 --> 00:27:50,760 And she's like, uh, no, it isn't. 610 00:27:50,760 --> 00:27:55,760 I had been calling myself the wrong name for my fake ID. 611 00:27:55,760 --> 00:28:01,360 And James was like, Sarah, you need to write a book. 612 00:28:01,360 --> 00:28:06,360 And I was like, I'm going to talk about it on the podcast. 613 00:28:06,360 --> 00:28:07,360 That's not good. 614 00:28:07,360 --> 00:28:11,560 But what, like when you go into a place, are they like, what's your name? 615 00:28:11,560 --> 00:28:13,760 While you're like looking at your ID? 616 00:28:13,760 --> 00:28:18,440 I was probably 19 or 20 and I was just using it. 617 00:28:18,440 --> 00:28:22,840 But I was calling myself that all night as if the bartender gave a single shit what my 618 00:28:22,840 --> 00:28:25,700 name was out of everybody else in that bar. 619 00:28:25,700 --> 00:28:28,840 And I was like, my name is Savannah. 620 00:28:28,840 --> 00:28:33,640 And then I, when I got home that weekend, my mom was like, um, your name is Susanna. 621 00:28:33,640 --> 00:28:36,960 Susanna, Susanna can't read. 622 00:28:36,960 --> 00:28:38,960 Can't read. 623 00:28:38,960 --> 00:28:45,840 There's an N not a V. Well, so another thing like with the cancel culture, so like comedians, 624 00:28:45,840 --> 00:28:49,160 they can't go out and say, like if you were a comedian, like us being on here, we're not 625 00:28:49,160 --> 00:28:53,280 necessarily comedians, but like we can't, we there, there are certain things that we're 626 00:28:53,280 --> 00:28:54,360 like, oh, we can't say that. 627 00:28:54,360 --> 00:28:58,360 We can't talk about this because you know, it's offensive and also, also it's offensive 628 00:28:58,360 --> 00:29:04,360 to us, you know, like, but like certain things you just can't say, but comedians used to 629 00:29:04,360 --> 00:29:08,880 be able to come out and be like, you know, like Dave Chappelle can be like, oh, white 630 00:29:08,880 --> 00:29:14,740 people this and white people that, but like, oh, I was watching Chris Rock before I came 631 00:29:14,740 --> 00:29:16,120 over here. 632 00:29:16,120 --> 00:29:18,200 I think he has a new Netflix stand. 633 00:29:18,200 --> 00:29:19,200 Okay. 634 00:29:19,200 --> 00:29:25,040 I'm not going to get too far into it, but we were talking about, um, how I guess he 635 00:29:25,040 --> 00:29:30,320 was talking about Meghan Markle and Harry and like that whole interview, you know, that 636 00:29:30,320 --> 00:29:36,120 kind of happened and how, you know, she said that the Royal family kind of asked her, you 637 00:29:36,120 --> 00:29:40,400 know, how, you know, how dark skin is the baby going to be? 638 00:29:40,400 --> 00:29:41,400 Cause she's fairly light. 639 00:29:41,400 --> 00:29:42,400 They said that. 640 00:29:42,400 --> 00:29:46,840 I guess Chris Rock was like, well, first of all, that's not racist. 641 00:29:46,840 --> 00:29:50,640 Even black people want to know how black their child is going to be. 642 00:29:50,640 --> 00:29:54,240 And they were like, but also you're talking about the Royal family. 643 00:29:54,240 --> 00:29:58,980 They've been racist for years, which this is not me saying this. 644 00:29:58,980 --> 00:30:01,360 This is Chris Rock or whatever. 645 00:30:01,360 --> 00:30:07,240 Then he started talking about interracial relationships and what it would be like for, 646 00:30:07,240 --> 00:30:13,280 um, you know, a white guy to bring a black girl home and that it would be so much easier. 647 00:30:13,280 --> 00:30:16,920 Like a black family is not going to accept a white girl very well. 648 00:30:16,920 --> 00:30:17,920 Oh yeah. 649 00:30:17,920 --> 00:30:18,920 100%. 650 00:30:18,920 --> 00:30:19,920 Especially the females in the family. 651 00:30:19,920 --> 00:30:21,640 And I haven't watched that, but yeah. 652 00:30:21,640 --> 00:30:25,240 He was like, that's like, you know, somebody going home and they look over and they see 653 00:30:25,240 --> 00:30:29,360 this white woman there and they say, um, why is DHR sitting at my table? 654 00:30:29,360 --> 00:30:30,360 Social services. 655 00:30:30,360 --> 00:30:33,720 And the husband was like, mama, that's my wife. 656 00:30:33,720 --> 00:30:34,720 We've been married for nine years. 657 00:30:34,720 --> 00:30:35,720 You've got grandchildren. 658 00:30:35,720 --> 00:30:36,720 It was so funny. 659 00:30:36,720 --> 00:30:37,720 But I mean, yeah. 660 00:30:37,720 --> 00:30:38,720 Yeah. 661 00:30:38,720 --> 00:30:39,720 I mean, yeah. 662 00:30:39,720 --> 00:30:47,480 You can, but like talking about other people and making fun of say what he's said. 663 00:30:47,480 --> 00:30:48,480 Right. 664 00:30:48,480 --> 00:30:49,480 Right. 665 00:30:49,480 --> 00:30:50,480 Exactly. 666 00:30:50,480 --> 00:30:52,680 But that's, I think the race thing is a little different than some other things. 667 00:30:52,680 --> 00:30:57,520 Like talking about somebody like maybe their weight or like what they did or being stupid 668 00:30:57,520 --> 00:31:00,600 or something like that and calling somebody out for something. 669 00:31:00,600 --> 00:31:06,640 Um, I just think that it's not like everybody gets their feelings hurt. 670 00:31:06,640 --> 00:31:07,640 Right. 671 00:31:07,640 --> 00:31:09,040 Stop getting your freaking feelings hurt. 672 00:31:09,040 --> 00:31:15,160 Like if you are one of 1500 people in an audience and you like, yeah, it would be like me sitting 673 00:31:15,160 --> 00:31:19,680 in an audience and somebody made a fat joke and I'm like, Oh, this motherfucker right 674 00:31:19,680 --> 00:31:20,680 here. 675 00:31:20,680 --> 00:31:21,680 I'm canceling him. 676 00:31:21,680 --> 00:31:22,680 I'm not listening to this person. 677 00:31:22,680 --> 00:31:23,680 And he, right. 678 00:31:23,680 --> 00:31:28,800 And it's a joke personal and it's, it's not those people make, they make jokes and they're 679 00:31:28,800 --> 00:31:31,400 not doing it to like target anybody. 680 00:31:31,400 --> 00:31:32,400 Yes. 681 00:31:32,400 --> 00:31:34,440 It may not even be their own thought opinion. 682 00:31:34,440 --> 00:31:35,440 Right. 683 00:31:35,440 --> 00:31:36,840 No feeling on a certain. 684 00:31:36,840 --> 00:31:40,120 It's probably just like a thing that's happening in the world. 685 00:31:40,120 --> 00:31:41,120 Yes. 686 00:31:41,120 --> 00:31:42,120 Yeah. 687 00:31:42,120 --> 00:31:46,040 It's not like everything that they believe internally is word vomit out of their mouth. 688 00:31:46,040 --> 00:31:47,040 Yeah. 689 00:31:47,040 --> 00:31:50,040 And if they were, then they would be like Hitler and we would not like, we would cancel 690 00:31:50,040 --> 00:31:51,040 them of course. 691 00:31:51,040 --> 00:31:55,080 I mean, these are like sets that they put together for themselves. 692 00:31:55,080 --> 00:31:58,560 Every story that they tell flows into the next thing. 693 00:31:58,560 --> 00:31:59,560 Yeah. 694 00:31:59,560 --> 00:32:00,560 It's not that serious. 695 00:32:00,560 --> 00:32:01,960 Well, there was a guy and I don't know who he was. 696 00:32:01,960 --> 00:32:06,040 I think he's a, he was a comedian that was talking about that Chris Rock stuff and how 697 00:32:06,040 --> 00:32:10,000 he was talking about, I guess, Will Smith and all that stuff on, I think it was like 698 00:32:10,000 --> 00:32:12,920 the today show or I don't know, one of those morning shows. 699 00:32:12,920 --> 00:32:18,680 Um, it might've been yesterday and he was like, it's not when you're making a joke about 700 00:32:18,680 --> 00:32:20,280 these things, they do these things. 701 00:32:20,280 --> 00:32:25,160 It's to bring, it's not to make fun of or to like do anything to like, to offend people. 702 00:32:25,160 --> 00:32:27,240 It's to bring awareness to the matter. 703 00:32:27,240 --> 00:32:30,840 Like so, and you should usually like something that's happening in the world that they're 704 00:32:30,840 --> 00:32:33,480 like trying to bring out like, Oh, ha ha ha. 705 00:32:33,480 --> 00:32:34,480 This was happening. 706 00:32:34,480 --> 00:32:39,440 I like to it, but also bring it to the forefront of the convert, of the conversations in the 707 00:32:39,440 --> 00:32:40,440 world. 708 00:32:40,440 --> 00:32:41,440 Right. 709 00:32:41,440 --> 00:32:42,440 Yeah. 710 00:32:42,440 --> 00:32:43,440 Absolutely. 711 00:32:43,440 --> 00:32:47,280 And it's, it's making fun of something not like, no, we're not laughing. 712 00:32:47,280 --> 00:32:49,080 We're laughing with you, not at you kind of thing. 713 00:32:49,080 --> 00:32:50,080 I guess. 714 00:32:50,080 --> 00:32:51,080 Yeah. 715 00:32:51,080 --> 00:32:52,080 I totally agree. 716 00:32:52,080 --> 00:32:54,160 And other people need to learn to loosen up. 717 00:32:54,160 --> 00:32:55,160 For sure. 718 00:32:55,160 --> 00:33:00,280 And here I am saying that when I have the most feelings in the whole entire world and 719 00:33:00,280 --> 00:33:06,680 I get them hurt often, but I agree, everybody needs to lighten up. 720 00:33:06,680 --> 00:33:07,680 Yeah. 721 00:33:07,680 --> 00:33:08,680 Agreed. 722 00:33:08,680 --> 00:33:13,000 Well, you just want everybody to lighten up for you, but you want other people to lighten 723 00:33:13,000 --> 00:33:18,120 up so that you can make the jokes at them, but they're not allowed to. 724 00:33:18,120 --> 00:33:22,680 I breathe fire when it comes to my jokes to other people, but I cannot take it. 725 00:33:22,680 --> 00:33:23,680 Absolutely. 726 00:33:23,680 --> 00:33:24,680 That's so bad. 727 00:33:24,680 --> 00:33:30,200 Listen, I try to be better and I try not to get my feelings hurt, but sometimes I do. 728 00:33:30,200 --> 00:33:31,200 Sometimes. 729 00:33:31,200 --> 00:33:32,480 Why do you say sometimes? 730 00:33:32,480 --> 00:33:33,480 Like you want to say always. 731 00:33:33,480 --> 00:33:41,400 I do not always get my feelings hurt. 732 00:33:41,400 --> 00:33:42,800 You do get your feelings hurt a lot. 733 00:33:42,800 --> 00:33:43,800 So I do. 734 00:33:43,800 --> 00:33:45,120 I wear my heart on my sleeve. 735 00:33:45,120 --> 00:33:47,200 She wears her heart on her. 736 00:33:47,200 --> 00:33:48,200 Yes. 737 00:33:48,200 --> 00:33:55,840 She, she got heart pacies and those titties stick out real far. 738 00:33:55,840 --> 00:33:57,360 So they coming out. 739 00:33:57,360 --> 00:34:00,960 Her heart's coming way before she is. 740 00:34:00,960 --> 00:34:03,680 You're so crazy. 741 00:34:03,680 --> 00:34:08,400 So then also, so, okay, so another thing is celebrity influence on people. 742 00:34:08,400 --> 00:34:14,720 So and not the influencing culture or whatever de-influencing, we'll talk about that later, 743 00:34:14,720 --> 00:34:20,860 but like celebrities that have, like should a celebrity be able to use their platform 744 00:34:20,860 --> 00:34:27,840 and their voice, their fame to say what they want with politics or whatever they feel like. 745 00:34:27,840 --> 00:34:32,160 And you know, I guess in my opinion, and I kind of go back and forth because I've heard 746 00:34:32,160 --> 00:34:34,920 a lot of people say, I love, I love this person's music. 747 00:34:34,920 --> 00:34:38,800 I love this person's whatever, but I don't want to go to their concert and hear them 748 00:34:38,800 --> 00:34:41,440 talk about their politics and what they believe. 749 00:34:41,440 --> 00:34:46,400 And I'm like, uh, I don't know how I feel about that because like that's what that's 750 00:34:46,400 --> 00:34:48,160 how they can get their voice out there. 751 00:34:48,160 --> 00:34:49,640 But, but I disagree with that. 752 00:34:49,640 --> 00:34:54,300 I think that if the select, if singer or whoever wants to go out there and say what they want 753 00:34:54,300 --> 00:35:00,000 to do, then they, and they know that if they say that, that they're going to lose like 754 00:35:00,000 --> 00:35:06,000 followers or people, like their fans, then I guess that's, you know, an even thing. 755 00:35:06,000 --> 00:35:11,800 I mean, I guess my feeling on it is if you're going to a concert, that's what you're going 756 00:35:11,800 --> 00:35:12,800 for is a concert. 757 00:35:12,800 --> 00:35:16,200 And this is just in reference to concerts specifically and what you just said. 758 00:35:16,200 --> 00:35:19,040 But if you're going to a concert, you're going to, to hear music. 759 00:35:19,040 --> 00:35:23,560 You're not going to hear some speech on political views or whatever. 760 00:35:23,560 --> 00:35:29,760 You can use your platform to, you know, put out there, you know, whatever you believe 761 00:35:29,760 --> 00:35:33,680 in or how you feel, you know, your opinion, your stance on anything. 762 00:35:33,680 --> 00:35:34,680 That's cool. 763 00:35:34,680 --> 00:35:36,280 Do it on Instagram, right? 764 00:35:36,280 --> 00:35:40,440 Don't do it in the middle of a show that, you know, people who genuinely like your music 765 00:35:40,440 --> 00:35:42,280 just came to hear your music. 766 00:35:42,280 --> 00:35:46,720 I, I, I just think you could, you could separate it a little bit, you know, it doesn't have 767 00:35:46,720 --> 00:35:49,880 to be some campaign trail on a concert tour. 768 00:35:49,880 --> 00:35:50,880 Right. 769 00:35:50,880 --> 00:35:56,080 And should you, so same with like the whole Ryan Adams thing, should you stop going to 770 00:35:56,080 --> 00:36:00,500 concerts for somebody who may have a different political view than you do and they post it 771 00:36:00,500 --> 00:36:02,220 on Instagram? 772 00:36:02,220 --> 00:36:06,880 And is it fair for us to not go see that person's concert if they have a different political 773 00:36:06,880 --> 00:36:09,800 view than we do or a different opinion on something? 774 00:36:09,800 --> 00:36:11,640 I feel like that's a personal choice. 775 00:36:11,640 --> 00:36:16,440 Yeah, but it's like, I think the whole, it's just, 776 00:36:16,440 --> 00:36:22,040 yeah, political views and like sexual misconduct, sexual assault, whatever. 777 00:36:22,040 --> 00:36:23,640 Those are two very different things. 778 00:36:23,640 --> 00:36:24,640 Yes, of course. 779 00:36:24,640 --> 00:36:32,520 I think that like, for example, the chicks, you know, who used to be the Dixie chicks, 780 00:36:32,520 --> 00:36:34,400 they're pretty much raging Republicans. 781 00:36:34,400 --> 00:36:35,960 At least some of them are anyways. 782 00:36:35,960 --> 00:36:37,440 Am I a liar? 783 00:36:37,440 --> 00:36:38,960 Yes, they're very Democrat. 784 00:36:38,960 --> 00:36:40,360 Can you delete that please? 785 00:36:40,360 --> 00:36:43,840 No, this is funny because you think that they're raging Republicans. 786 00:36:43,840 --> 00:36:46,840 No, don't. 787 00:36:46,840 --> 00:36:48,840 I quit. 788 00:36:48,840 --> 00:36:49,840 I quit. 789 00:36:49,840 --> 00:36:55,360 No, they do not remember the reason that they basically got canceled is because she was 790 00:36:55,360 --> 00:36:58,200 like, basically, if you fuck George Bush. 791 00:36:58,200 --> 00:36:59,200 Oh, no, I forgot. 792 00:36:59,200 --> 00:37:00,200 She was like, our president sucks. 793 00:37:00,200 --> 00:37:01,200 I couldn't vote then. 794 00:37:01,200 --> 00:37:02,200 They, yeah, it was like a whole thing. 795 00:37:02,200 --> 00:37:03,200 Okay, so I like, that's a bad example. 796 00:37:03,200 --> 00:37:04,200 I'm trying to think of another example. 797 00:37:04,200 --> 00:37:05,200 I can't. 798 00:37:05,200 --> 00:37:06,200 What's the, like, what are you trying to- 799 00:37:06,200 --> 00:37:07,200 Please, people, thick AF podcast listeners, don't hate me. 800 00:37:07,200 --> 00:37:08,200 Don't know anything about me. 801 00:37:08,200 --> 00:37:09,200 I'm trying to think of another example. 802 00:37:09,200 --> 00:37:10,200 I can't. 803 00:37:10,200 --> 00:37:11,200 What's the, like, what are you trying to- 804 00:37:11,200 --> 00:37:12,200 Please, people, thick AF podcast listeners, don't hate me. 805 00:37:12,200 --> 00:37:16,640 Don't know anything about the Dixie Chicks, obviously. 806 00:37:16,640 --> 00:37:17,640 I'm not a fan. 807 00:37:17,640 --> 00:37:19,640 I think I killed them in my FMK. 808 00:37:19,640 --> 00:37:21,400 Honestly, I didn't really care. 809 00:37:21,400 --> 00:37:23,840 I don't really care about their, what they have to say politically. 810 00:37:23,840 --> 00:37:24,840 I like their music. 811 00:37:24,840 --> 00:37:26,960 And that's my thing is like, you know what? 812 00:37:26,960 --> 00:37:31,980 In my opinion, you should have your political, it's like, it's like at your house. 813 00:37:31,980 --> 00:37:36,680 If you have parents that are Republican, you should, you should be able to keep your stuff 814 00:37:36,680 --> 00:37:38,440 private, however you want to do it. 815 00:37:38,440 --> 00:37:43,160 I get that there needs to be people that teach other people, but like, you should, I don't 816 00:37:43,160 --> 00:37:46,560 care what you're going to vote for, and I'm not going to judge you for voting the way 817 00:37:46,560 --> 00:37:47,560 that you vote. 818 00:37:47,560 --> 00:37:48,560 100%. 819 00:37:48,560 --> 00:37:52,440 I might take your opinion into consideration, but I'm not going to be like, oh my gosh, 820 00:37:52,440 --> 00:37:57,240 I'm never going to your concert ever again because you said that you liked this person 821 00:37:57,240 --> 00:38:01,320 and you're a Democrat or you're a Republican or you're a Libertarian or whatever. 822 00:38:01,320 --> 00:38:06,640 I also think that there can be tact to the way that you, you know, put that out there. 823 00:38:06,640 --> 00:38:12,880 Like it doesn't have to be put out there in a my way or the highway kind of, you know, 824 00:38:12,880 --> 00:38:13,880 way. 825 00:38:13,880 --> 00:38:17,880 You can just say, this is, you know, what I think, what I feel, what I believe and just 826 00:38:17,880 --> 00:38:19,160 leave it at that. 827 00:38:19,160 --> 00:38:24,280 You don't have to have this whole, you know, you need to feel the same way that I feel 828 00:38:24,280 --> 00:38:26,960 or, you know, get lost from my page kind of thing. 829 00:38:26,960 --> 00:38:30,440 Well, and they shouldn't, but like, I feel like, and it's not the celebrities that are 830 00:38:30,440 --> 00:38:31,440 doing that. 831 00:38:31,440 --> 00:38:39,280 I feel like it's us as fans are saying, oh, it's my way or the highway and that person 832 00:38:39,280 --> 00:38:40,280 is not my way. 833 00:38:40,280 --> 00:38:43,880 So I'm hitting the highway, I guess. 834 00:38:43,880 --> 00:38:48,320 And I'm not going to like, and I'm just like, why can't you just like get over that? 835 00:38:48,320 --> 00:38:52,440 Like get over the, why do we hate each other for stuff like that? 836 00:38:52,440 --> 00:38:53,440 Why are we hateful? 837 00:38:53,440 --> 00:38:57,160 100% why can't we just love each other to have an opinion? 838 00:38:57,160 --> 00:38:58,160 Exactly. 839 00:38:58,160 --> 00:38:59,160 It's crazy. 840 00:38:59,160 --> 00:39:00,160 Can't have an opinion. 841 00:39:00,160 --> 00:39:03,400 No, you need to have an opinion, but it can't be different than mine. 842 00:39:03,400 --> 00:39:04,400 Right. 843 00:39:04,400 --> 00:39:05,400 Right. 844 00:39:05,400 --> 00:39:07,600 I mean, it's, it's just nutty the way that some of that stuff happens. 845 00:39:07,600 --> 00:39:12,800 And like all these people that spend their, you know, time and effort, like trolling people 846 00:39:12,800 --> 00:39:19,200 on the internet that have differing opinions from them is a waste of fucking time. 847 00:39:19,200 --> 00:39:20,200 Yeah. 848 00:39:20,200 --> 00:39:21,200 Stop. 849 00:39:21,200 --> 00:39:22,400 Go do something else. 850 00:39:22,400 --> 00:39:23,800 I can't stand that. 851 00:39:23,800 --> 00:39:24,800 It's hard. 852 00:39:24,800 --> 00:39:30,960 I know sometimes in Tik Tok and like I'm looking for like trying to follow, you know, a thread 853 00:39:30,960 --> 00:39:35,680 or find out where something is from, or maybe, you know, in the drama a little bit, who they 854 00:39:35,680 --> 00:39:36,880 might be talking about. 855 00:39:36,880 --> 00:39:41,220 But then some of these comments, they are just ripping these people to shreds. 856 00:39:41,220 --> 00:39:44,760 And most of these people on Tik Tok are average Joes. 857 00:39:44,760 --> 00:39:46,680 Oh, and that's right there. 858 00:39:46,680 --> 00:39:53,040 Those people, our friend Christina got banned from Tik, from, from Tinder for doing nothing. 859 00:39:53,040 --> 00:39:55,160 And these people on Tik Tok and Instagram. 860 00:39:55,160 --> 00:39:56,160 Yeah. 861 00:39:56,160 --> 00:40:02,200 And so did Sarah, but people on Tik Tok, Twitter, whatever, nobody gets banned for being a-holes. 862 00:40:02,200 --> 00:40:03,200 No. 863 00:40:03,200 --> 00:40:04,200 Like what? 864 00:40:04,200 --> 00:40:05,600 How is that even possible? 865 00:40:05,600 --> 00:40:06,600 I get it. 866 00:40:06,600 --> 00:40:09,720 It's like dating, but like still they should have proof. 867 00:40:09,720 --> 00:40:11,200 I mean, it's just wild. 868 00:40:11,200 --> 00:40:16,760 Like Tik Tok does have guidelines as far as like you can, I couldn't go on your page and 869 00:40:16,760 --> 00:40:19,000 you post this video and I say, go kill yourself. 870 00:40:19,000 --> 00:40:22,800 Like I am going to get, they do ban people on Tik Tok. 871 00:40:22,800 --> 00:40:25,080 But like, so you can't do that. 872 00:40:25,080 --> 00:40:27,840 But I mean, some of these other comments are just awful. 873 00:40:27,840 --> 00:40:32,000 Like they're not going to ban somebody because you know, you call someone fat or ugly and 874 00:40:32,000 --> 00:40:33,840 that still hurts people's feelings. 875 00:40:33,840 --> 00:40:37,040 Well then, you know, if they did start doing that, then people would be like, it would 876 00:40:37,040 --> 00:40:42,000 be the whole Twitter thing where, oh, you're not allowing us to like freedom of speech 877 00:40:42,000 --> 00:40:44,400 and body ball, whatever. 878 00:40:44,400 --> 00:40:46,000 I don't know. 879 00:40:46,000 --> 00:40:50,240 We have, we are America and we want like all these like freedoms and we want to be able 880 00:40:50,240 --> 00:40:51,240 to do this. 881 00:40:51,240 --> 00:40:53,280 Cause everyone wants to bitch at each other about it. 882 00:40:53,280 --> 00:40:54,280 Yeah. 883 00:40:54,280 --> 00:40:55,280 And it's like everybody hates each other. 884 00:40:55,280 --> 00:41:01,280 Why can't we just like be loving people and just like, like come together and be nice 885 00:41:01,280 --> 00:41:02,280 about everything. 886 00:41:02,280 --> 00:41:05,280 I just don't understand why everybody has to be so hateful. 887 00:41:05,280 --> 00:41:07,200 Everybody is bored. 888 00:41:07,200 --> 00:41:10,100 I mean, that's, that's just my personal opinion. 889 00:41:10,100 --> 00:41:11,100 People are bored. 890 00:41:11,100 --> 00:41:13,160 They have nothing better to do than bitch and complain. 891 00:41:13,160 --> 00:41:15,400 I have so many things to do. 892 00:41:15,400 --> 00:41:18,480 I mean, I know, but you're not bitching and complaining. 893 00:41:18,480 --> 00:41:21,840 I know, but like, why are, why can't they go out and do something? 894 00:41:21,840 --> 00:41:24,140 I have got so many things for you guys to do. 895 00:41:24,140 --> 00:41:29,600 How many, so many things, how many Karen videos do you keep seeing coming up? 896 00:41:29,600 --> 00:41:32,640 I mean, these things are going viral left and right. 897 00:41:32,640 --> 00:41:35,600 When are people going to learn a lesson to not be a dickhead? 898 00:41:35,600 --> 00:41:40,020 I saw this video the other day of this woman sitting in her car. 899 00:41:40,020 --> 00:41:44,440 She had had a doctor's appointment and it, I mean, it was cold outside or whatever and 900 00:41:44,440 --> 00:41:47,360 I couldn't get a real good view of like what the situation was like. 901 00:41:47,360 --> 00:41:51,000 I don't think she was quite in a parking deck, but it looked to be like wherever she was 902 00:41:51,000 --> 00:41:55,320 at had limited parking while she's in her car and some women comes up and starts harassing 903 00:41:55,320 --> 00:41:56,320 her. 904 00:41:56,320 --> 00:41:57,660 You don't need to be here. 905 00:41:57,660 --> 00:42:01,680 If you're done, you need to go home because this bitch is waiting for a parking spot. 906 00:42:01,680 --> 00:42:04,200 Go away, ma'am. 907 00:42:04,200 --> 00:42:05,200 That is ridiculous. 908 00:42:05,200 --> 00:42:08,000 I mean, it was insanity. 909 00:42:08,000 --> 00:42:09,240 Yeah. 910 00:42:09,240 --> 00:42:11,160 People are, people are wild. 911 00:42:11,160 --> 00:42:15,500 If that is all in this, the lady who was coming up to her car bitching at her was driving 912 00:42:15,500 --> 00:42:16,920 a Range Rover. 913 00:42:16,920 --> 00:42:18,800 You literally have nothing better to do. 914 00:42:18,800 --> 00:42:21,640 You asshole go home. 915 00:42:21,640 --> 00:42:25,880 I mean, so, you know, I try to think about this time I was in this leadership development 916 00:42:25,880 --> 00:42:30,880 class and there's a lady that I really admire teaching the classroom names. 917 00:42:30,880 --> 00:42:36,080 We'll almost say names, but she one time told us she was like, you know, because I guess 918 00:42:36,080 --> 00:42:40,920 she drove back and forth from Montgomery to Opelika is where the hospital that I worked 919 00:42:40,920 --> 00:42:45,800 was and she told us she was like, yeah, you know, sometimes I'm on the road and like if 920 00:42:45,800 --> 00:42:51,000 somebody's going either speeding by me or going too slow or something like that, like, 921 00:42:51,000 --> 00:42:54,420 you know, you want to, you want to stop and you want to get mad and be like, why are you, 922 00:42:54,420 --> 00:42:55,840 you know, why are you passing me? 923 00:42:55,840 --> 00:42:56,840 Why are you getting it? 924 00:42:56,840 --> 00:42:59,560 You know, why are you doing whatever you're doing on the road? 925 00:42:59,560 --> 00:43:03,120 But you don't know what's going on in that person's life and you don't know whether or 926 00:43:03,120 --> 00:43:07,080 not, you know, that lady might've been going to somewhere and she was trying to get somewhere. 927 00:43:07,080 --> 00:43:10,840 She was late for her appointment and she didn't or somebody was in the emergency room. 928 00:43:10,840 --> 00:43:12,060 Who knows? 929 00:43:12,060 --> 00:43:16,440 And they needed to get in there so that, and she was stressed out because maybe she found 930 00:43:16,440 --> 00:43:17,960 out she got cancer or something. 931 00:43:17,960 --> 00:43:20,180 Who knows? 932 00:43:20,180 --> 00:43:23,280 Or somebody was in the hospital and she needed to get to that person and they're trying to 933 00:43:23,280 --> 00:43:24,280 get out. 934 00:43:24,280 --> 00:43:27,120 And I don't know, sometimes you just need to overlook those things. 935 00:43:27,120 --> 00:43:32,600 But also the person on that side needs to, that's yelling and screaming needs to like 936 00:43:32,600 --> 00:43:33,600 take a chill bill. 937 00:43:33,600 --> 00:43:36,720 They need to do some introspective thinking. 938 00:43:36,720 --> 00:43:38,360 Yeah, I don't know. 939 00:43:38,360 --> 00:43:41,800 I've got, I don't think I've done something like that, but like, I mean, we all have our 940 00:43:41,800 --> 00:43:46,280 moments and I hate it that if somebody has one moment, hopefully that person has had 941 00:43:46,280 --> 00:43:48,000 multiple moments like that. 942 00:43:48,000 --> 00:43:49,960 And that's not the only time that that happened to them. 943 00:43:49,960 --> 00:43:53,040 And then they got blown up on the internet because that would suck if it happened to 944 00:43:53,040 --> 00:43:54,120 me. 945 00:43:54,120 --> 00:43:57,840 And I was like turned into a Karen because I had one bad day. 946 00:43:57,840 --> 00:44:02,240 Yeah, but your bad day is never going to be something like that. 947 00:44:02,240 --> 00:44:03,360 You never know though. 948 00:44:03,360 --> 00:44:08,680 You don't know that I'm, I might get a bunch of stress on me and one day something really 949 00:44:08,680 --> 00:44:13,320 bad happens and I freak out because of one little thing like that. 950 00:44:13,320 --> 00:44:15,440 You know that can happen to anybody. 951 00:44:15,440 --> 00:44:16,440 It can happen. 952 00:44:16,440 --> 00:44:17,440 I mean, I guess. 953 00:44:17,440 --> 00:44:19,720 I'd like to think it won't, but. 954 00:44:19,720 --> 00:44:21,080 Oh, hopefully it won't. 955 00:44:21,080 --> 00:44:25,360 But like it might and you never know what's going to happen in your life. 956 00:44:25,360 --> 00:44:27,960 And I try to think about it that way. 957 00:44:27,960 --> 00:44:28,960 Like I don't know. 958 00:44:28,960 --> 00:44:33,360 I don't want to be that person that is judging somebody for losing it one time. 959 00:44:33,360 --> 00:44:38,640 I mean, if you do it over and over again and, or if you're doing it about, if you're doing 960 00:44:38,640 --> 00:44:43,000 it about like a race or like, you know, like the other people that were like, Oh, you're 961 00:44:43,000 --> 00:44:44,640 a black person in my neighborhood. 962 00:44:44,640 --> 00:44:45,640 You don't belong here. 963 00:44:45,640 --> 00:44:46,640 That kind of thing. 964 00:44:46,640 --> 00:44:47,640 That's messed up. 965 00:44:47,640 --> 00:44:48,640 That's not right. 966 00:44:48,640 --> 00:44:49,720 Like you don't live here. 967 00:44:49,720 --> 00:44:50,720 You don't live here. 968 00:44:50,720 --> 00:44:51,720 Right. 969 00:44:51,720 --> 00:44:52,720 Yeah. 970 00:44:52,720 --> 00:44:56,280 We know you don't live here because you are not white and whatever some, you know what 971 00:44:56,280 --> 00:44:57,280 I mean? 972 00:44:57,280 --> 00:44:58,280 Like that's not right. 973 00:44:58,280 --> 00:44:59,280 That's messed up. 974 00:44:59,280 --> 00:45:00,280 Definitely not. 975 00:45:00,280 --> 00:45:05,480 But like somebody, yeah, I don't know losing it because of, I don't know, I try to go sparingly 976 00:45:05,480 --> 00:45:11,120 with my hate towards those people because I, it might happen to me and I'm not perfect. 977 00:45:11,120 --> 00:45:12,320 Nobody's perfect. 978 00:45:12,320 --> 00:45:15,680 We all need to understand that none of us are perfect. 979 00:45:15,680 --> 00:45:17,760 We're all just trying to fake it till we make it. 980 00:45:17,760 --> 00:45:20,480 Not everybody, but like fake it till you make it. 981 00:45:20,480 --> 00:45:25,440 And I mean, I don't like hate these people or whatever that are, you know, acting like 982 00:45:25,440 --> 00:45:32,480 idiots and just hateful and mean and whatever, but it just, I'm just like, why? 983 00:45:32,480 --> 00:45:35,280 Like I can't, I can't wrap my head around. 984 00:45:35,280 --> 00:45:36,280 Yeah. 985 00:45:36,280 --> 00:45:37,280 That behavior. 986 00:45:37,280 --> 00:45:38,280 I agree. 987 00:45:38,280 --> 00:45:39,280 I mean, I see you. 988 00:45:39,280 --> 00:45:42,200 I would, if that happened to me, I would be like, what is happening? 989 00:45:42,200 --> 00:45:45,080 I don't even know what I would do. 990 00:45:45,080 --> 00:45:48,120 I would probably just roll out my window and be like, I am so sorry. 991 00:45:48,120 --> 00:45:49,320 Is there something I can help you with? 992 00:45:49,320 --> 00:45:51,960 I will let you have this parking spot right now. 993 00:45:51,960 --> 00:45:54,200 And, but can I also help you do something else? 994 00:45:54,200 --> 00:45:55,200 I don't know. 995 00:45:55,200 --> 00:45:58,200 I would hope, hopefully I would do something like that because I feel like that person 996 00:45:58,200 --> 00:46:01,280 needed help and needed, needed you. 997 00:46:01,280 --> 00:46:05,360 So in that point, you can be the bigger person and help that person realize that they were 998 00:46:05,360 --> 00:46:06,360 being an a-hole. 999 00:46:06,360 --> 00:46:07,360 Yeah. 1000 00:46:07,360 --> 00:46:08,460 Like don't fight. 1001 00:46:08,460 --> 00:46:10,800 If you fight back, you're just going to piss them off and to make them worse and they're 1002 00:46:10,800 --> 00:46:12,120 going to do it again. 1003 00:46:12,120 --> 00:46:13,960 And they're going to be like, Oh, what's their fault and blah, blah, blah. 1004 00:46:13,960 --> 00:46:16,720 And they were being what, but if you're just like a bigger person and you're like, Oh my 1005 00:46:16,720 --> 00:46:18,320 gosh, I'm so sorry. 1006 00:46:18,320 --> 00:46:19,320 What can I do to help you? 1007 00:46:19,320 --> 00:46:20,880 Let me get this instance. 1008 00:46:20,880 --> 00:46:24,040 That woman was, you know, not yelling back. 1009 00:46:24,040 --> 00:46:25,320 She was not being hateful. 1010 00:46:25,320 --> 00:46:26,320 Yeah. 1011 00:46:26,320 --> 00:46:30,600 I mean, the lady was like calling her fat and stuff like that, that was waiting for the 1012 00:46:30,600 --> 00:46:32,440 parking lot or parking spot. 1013 00:46:32,440 --> 00:46:37,320 And I mean, it was just, it was too much and she wasn't reacting at all. 1014 00:46:37,320 --> 00:46:40,120 Well then that's another thing is that that lady may have been going through something, 1015 00:46:40,120 --> 00:46:43,800 the lady that was screaming, but the person in the car could have just found out they 1016 00:46:43,800 --> 00:46:49,680 had cancer or like somebody could have just died or whatever, or she might be depressed. 1017 00:46:49,680 --> 00:46:50,680 Yeah. 1018 00:46:50,680 --> 00:46:53,520 Hoping maybe she was about to go jump off the parking deck. 1019 00:46:53,520 --> 00:46:55,280 Like who knows? 1020 00:46:55,280 --> 00:47:00,560 Like that type of thing is you can, I mean, you've got to, everyone needs to understand 1021 00:47:00,560 --> 00:47:03,000 that what you do affects other people. 1022 00:47:03,000 --> 00:47:04,000 Yes. 1023 00:47:04,000 --> 00:47:12,680 And not only that, but how you react, yes, you know, matters as well and how you receive, 1024 00:47:12,680 --> 00:47:16,920 you know, people's opinions matters and how you react to those. 1025 00:47:16,920 --> 00:47:19,960 I mean, it's all a circle. 1026 00:47:19,960 --> 00:47:20,960 Everything matters. 1027 00:47:20,960 --> 00:47:24,200 I mean, can people come back from, you know, bad behavior? 1028 00:47:24,200 --> 00:47:25,640 Yes, I think that they can. 1029 00:47:25,640 --> 00:47:26,640 Oh yeah. 1030 00:47:26,640 --> 00:47:27,640 For sure. 1031 00:47:27,640 --> 00:47:28,640 They have to make the choice to do that. 1032 00:47:28,640 --> 00:47:30,680 I definitely think that. 1033 00:47:30,680 --> 00:47:31,680 And you know what? 1034 00:47:31,680 --> 00:47:34,000 Like I hope that, I don't know. 1035 00:47:34,000 --> 00:47:38,560 I hope that if somebody did that to me, I wouldn't record it and post it on the internet 1036 00:47:38,560 --> 00:47:43,440 because I would, I don't know, unless that person did something real bad, I might send 1037 00:47:43,440 --> 00:47:47,760 it to y'all, to my friends, but I don't also don't do social media, but I probably wouldn't 1038 00:47:47,760 --> 00:47:52,640 post it on the internet unless it was like, because I feel like, like if it were, like 1039 00:47:52,640 --> 00:47:56,720 I try to think about myself, like what if I was having a bad day and I like lost it on 1040 00:47:56,720 --> 00:47:57,720 somebody? 1041 00:47:57,720 --> 00:47:58,720 I would post it on the internet. 1042 00:47:58,720 --> 00:47:59,720 Yeah. 1043 00:47:59,720 --> 00:48:02,320 They're, they're definitely posting it on the internet, but I would hope that. 1044 00:48:02,320 --> 00:48:03,320 Unfortunately for you. 1045 00:48:03,320 --> 00:48:05,880 And then at that point I don't have to be like, oh my gosh, I'm going to go in here 1046 00:48:05,880 --> 00:48:10,360 and apologize and do like an appall and be like, this is what happened to me. 1047 00:48:10,360 --> 00:48:13,200 And I hope you guys believe me. 1048 00:48:13,200 --> 00:48:17,400 I mean, I just want to know when people are going to stop posting stuff on the internet. 1049 00:48:17,400 --> 00:48:18,400 Yeah. 1050 00:48:18,400 --> 00:48:22,840 Well stop posting, but also stop the bad behavior because there are so many internet sleuths 1051 00:48:22,840 --> 00:48:26,920 out there that could find you and they have found people and these people have gotten 1052 00:48:26,920 --> 00:48:28,160 fired from their jobs. 1053 00:48:28,160 --> 00:48:36,680 Some rightfully so, but like these viral videos are sometimes taken to the extreme where employers 1054 00:48:36,680 --> 00:48:39,280 are contacted, family members are contacted. 1055 00:48:39,280 --> 00:48:41,560 Like people take it for what? 1056 00:48:41,560 --> 00:48:42,560 Like what do you mean? 1057 00:48:42,560 --> 00:48:50,080 Like contact is something I would say it's more when it's like physical altercations 1058 00:48:50,080 --> 00:48:56,300 or if it's like racist behavior, things like that, these people on the internet will go 1059 00:48:56,300 --> 00:48:58,240 figure out who that person is. 1060 00:48:58,240 --> 00:49:05,200 I mean, if this video goes viral, somebody in that town, in that city, in a radius close 1061 00:49:05,200 --> 00:49:10,040 to that person who is the offender is going to recognize that person. 1062 00:49:10,040 --> 00:49:11,760 They're going to identify them. 1063 00:49:11,760 --> 00:49:15,160 They're going to figure out where it go to their LinkedIn, figure out where they work, 1064 00:49:15,160 --> 00:49:18,160 you know, communicate with whoever that person is that identifies them. 1065 00:49:18,160 --> 00:49:19,520 They can figure all that out. 1066 00:49:19,520 --> 00:49:20,520 People have gotten fired. 1067 00:49:20,520 --> 00:49:23,240 Well, this kind of goes towards that cancel culture thing. 1068 00:49:23,240 --> 00:49:29,600 It's like it can happen to us too, but like that to me is like, shoot, what if I had a 1069 00:49:29,600 --> 00:49:30,600 bad day? 1070 00:49:30,600 --> 00:49:32,520 I'm going to get canceled because I said the Dixie chicks were Republicans. 1071 00:49:32,520 --> 00:49:34,800 No, you were not. 1072 00:49:34,800 --> 00:49:35,800 Everybody's going to look. 1073 00:49:35,800 --> 00:49:40,560 I already like, I think that's weird that you didn't know that they're definitely not 1074 00:49:40,560 --> 00:49:41,560 Republican. 1075 00:49:41,560 --> 00:49:43,400 Because I was not ever a fan of theirs. 1076 00:49:43,400 --> 00:49:46,040 They're like 100% not Republican. 1077 00:49:46,040 --> 00:49:47,840 They're like way not Republican. 1078 00:49:47,840 --> 00:49:50,520 Well, let me tell you, I will never forget it. 1079 00:49:50,520 --> 00:49:51,520 Okay? 1080 00:49:51,520 --> 00:49:52,520 Okay. 1081 00:49:52,520 --> 00:49:55,520 I'm going to learn something new every day. 1082 00:49:55,520 --> 00:50:00,080 But we're not, nobody's going to cancel you because you didn't know or that you made a 1083 00:50:00,080 --> 00:50:01,080 mistake. 1084 00:50:01,080 --> 00:50:04,800 I was going to come up with this super profound example. 1085 00:50:04,800 --> 00:50:12,880 It was not, but like we might cancel you if you yell at somebody later tonight. 1086 00:50:12,880 --> 00:50:13,880 I don't yell at anybody. 1087 00:50:13,880 --> 00:50:15,240 I don't know why you think I'd be yelling. 1088 00:50:15,240 --> 00:50:16,440 I didn't say you were. 1089 00:50:16,440 --> 00:50:17,800 I'm just saying if you do. 1090 00:50:17,800 --> 00:50:19,960 The only one I yell at is you. 1091 00:50:19,960 --> 00:50:20,960 You never yelled at me. 1092 00:50:20,960 --> 00:50:22,080 When you tell me how to drive. 1093 00:50:22,080 --> 00:50:23,360 You didn't really yell at me though. 1094 00:50:23,360 --> 00:50:27,280 You just were like, this should not be a thing right now. 1095 00:50:27,280 --> 00:50:29,560 And I was like, Oh, you're right. 1096 00:50:29,560 --> 00:50:30,560 But I could tell. 1097 00:50:30,560 --> 00:50:32,640 I was like, she was holding back a yell. 1098 00:50:32,640 --> 00:50:34,640 She wanted to yell. 1099 00:50:34,640 --> 00:50:35,720 Oh Lord. 1100 00:50:35,720 --> 00:50:37,040 I don't yell at my dog. 1101 00:50:37,040 --> 00:50:38,040 That's about it. 1102 00:50:38,040 --> 00:50:40,280 She's a little angel baby nugget. 1103 00:50:40,280 --> 00:50:41,280 Yeah. 1104 00:50:41,280 --> 00:50:45,080 I used to yell at my cat a lot when I first got him. 1105 00:50:45,080 --> 00:50:49,120 I did a lot of vocal cry on that one. 1106 00:50:49,120 --> 00:50:50,600 He's the president of the bad kitty club. 1107 00:50:50,600 --> 00:50:52,200 Well, he's not anymore. 1108 00:50:52,200 --> 00:50:53,200 And the best. 1109 00:50:53,200 --> 00:50:54,620 He's so good. 1110 00:50:54,620 --> 00:50:57,360 But when I first got him, I was giving him up every day. 1111 00:50:57,360 --> 00:50:59,440 I was like, boy, I'm gonna find him. 1112 00:50:59,440 --> 00:51:01,240 And I didn't want to begin with. 1113 00:51:01,240 --> 00:51:03,000 I was accidentally got him. 1114 00:51:03,000 --> 00:51:05,640 Like I found him and I was trying to find his owner. 1115 00:51:05,640 --> 00:51:07,040 I couldn't, they didn't have a microchip. 1116 00:51:07,040 --> 00:51:08,040 He was a baby kitty. 1117 00:51:08,040 --> 00:51:09,040 I mean, he was like lost on the street. 1118 00:51:09,040 --> 00:51:10,520 Like, you know, he was on the screech. 1119 00:51:10,520 --> 00:51:13,080 He was a screech kitty. 1120 00:51:13,080 --> 00:51:15,160 And he was just so bad. 1121 00:51:15,160 --> 00:51:17,280 Like everything he was tearing up something. 1122 00:51:17,280 --> 00:51:23,920 My favorite was back when he would climb between the sliding glass door and the screen door. 1123 00:51:23,920 --> 00:51:30,920 And he would just be like, I mean, spread out, stuck, like not stuck, but like just squeezed 1124 00:51:30,920 --> 00:51:32,920 between there thinking that he was living his best. 1125 00:51:32,920 --> 00:51:34,800 And I'm like climbing up that screen door. 1126 00:51:34,800 --> 00:51:36,280 He doesn't climb up it anymore. 1127 00:51:36,280 --> 00:51:41,600 But like he, um, he can't, I don't think he can fit between now, but he can still, he 1128 00:51:41,600 --> 00:51:43,600 would, he hasn't climbed up that in a long time. 1129 00:51:43,600 --> 00:51:44,600 So I did. 1130 00:51:44,600 --> 00:51:47,480 You know, I think they say you're not supposed to like spray bottle your cats. 1131 00:51:47,480 --> 00:51:48,480 Oh man. 1132 00:51:48,480 --> 00:51:49,480 That was the best thing that ever happened to me. 1133 00:51:49,480 --> 00:51:51,200 I don't have to spray him anymore. 1134 00:51:51,200 --> 00:51:53,360 He knows the word no. 1135 00:51:53,360 --> 00:51:57,120 Most of the time, sometimes he's like, Oh, you said no, I heard it. 1136 00:51:57,120 --> 00:51:58,120 I'm looking at you. 1137 00:51:58,120 --> 00:52:02,760 You said no, but I'm going to still do it and see if you he's testing my, and I'm like, 1138 00:52:02,760 --> 00:52:05,760 no, but, um, he's good now. 1139 00:52:05,760 --> 00:52:10,240 He just like, I wanted to give him away and I couldn't, but I couldn't. 1140 00:52:10,240 --> 00:52:12,000 So I was like, Oh, I gotta find somebody. 1141 00:52:12,000 --> 00:52:13,420 But then I couldn't do it. 1142 00:52:13,420 --> 00:52:18,400 And I, I was not keeping that cat, but then I fell in love with him and he's the sweetest. 1143 00:52:18,400 --> 00:52:20,240 He's got extra claws. 1144 00:52:20,240 --> 00:52:21,240 He is the coolest. 1145 00:52:21,240 --> 00:52:22,240 Yeah. 1146 00:52:22,240 --> 00:52:24,520 He has such a great personality though. 1147 00:52:24,520 --> 00:52:25,520 He does. 1148 00:52:25,520 --> 00:52:29,400 He's like a little person, little man, like an old man with a monocle and a cigar. 1149 00:52:29,400 --> 00:52:30,400 Yeah. 1150 00:52:30,400 --> 00:52:31,400 And he needs like, he's waiting. 1151 00:52:31,400 --> 00:52:36,440 He put, he sits with it like sideways with like a person with his arm up in the chair. 1152 00:52:36,440 --> 00:52:38,880 I need to, we need to post a picture of him on it. 1153 00:52:38,880 --> 00:52:39,880 Yeah. 1154 00:52:39,880 --> 00:52:40,880 I'll have to find it. 1155 00:52:40,880 --> 00:52:46,560 But neighbor Catherine, neighbor and friend, she made me for my birthday. 1156 00:52:46,560 --> 00:52:51,160 She made me cocktail napkins with him on it, like with his little bow tie. 1157 00:52:51,160 --> 00:52:52,160 He's so cute. 1158 00:52:52,160 --> 00:52:53,160 Oh my God. 1159 00:52:53,160 --> 00:52:54,160 I love him. 1160 00:52:54,160 --> 00:52:55,160 Anyways. 1161 00:52:55,160 --> 00:52:56,160 Um, do you want to talk about de-influencing? 1162 00:52:56,160 --> 00:52:57,160 Yeah. 1163 00:52:57,160 --> 00:53:02,880 I mean, I think we've talked about it before and I think that our opinions differ on this 1164 00:53:02,880 --> 00:53:08,560 one just a little bit, but I'm still seeing a lot on Tik TOK of what they're calling de-influencing 1165 00:53:08,560 --> 00:53:14,040 where, you know, these content creators and makeup artists and things like that are picking 1166 00:53:14,040 --> 00:53:20,120 products, products that may have been, you know, sent to them and PR boxes or whatever. 1167 00:53:20,120 --> 00:53:25,640 And I don't know, you know, if they've had working relationships with any of these, um, 1168 00:53:25,640 --> 00:53:31,160 brands before or not, but now, you know, they're kind of speaking out and saying, you know, 1169 00:53:31,160 --> 00:53:35,520 here, I'm going to do a full face of makeup of, you know, products that I wouldn't recommend 1170 00:53:35,520 --> 00:53:38,080 or I don't like or whatever. 1171 00:53:38,080 --> 00:53:40,240 And they're calling it de-influencing. 1172 00:53:40,240 --> 00:53:45,200 And I totally understand where Emily is coming from because, you know, she's says that's 1173 00:53:45,200 --> 00:53:46,640 basically influencing. 1174 00:53:46,640 --> 00:53:48,240 It is influencing. 1175 00:53:48,240 --> 00:53:52,660 And to prove my point today, I Googled it and I was like, I just, I was trying to look 1176 00:53:52,660 --> 00:53:54,080 up other things about de-influencing. 1177 00:53:54,080 --> 00:53:55,080 Yeah. 1178 00:53:55,080 --> 00:54:01,960 And like one of the first things that came up was a BudFeed, uh, Buzz, BudFeed, BuzzFeed 1179 00:54:01,960 --> 00:54:02,960 news. 1180 00:54:02,960 --> 00:54:03,960 BudFeeds. 1181 00:54:03,960 --> 00:54:04,960 BudFeeds news. 1182 00:54:04,960 --> 00:54:12,280 BuzzFeed, crap, BuzzFeed news article. 1183 00:54:12,280 --> 00:54:16,880 And it's called titled, sorry, but the de-influencing trend is just influencing. 1184 00:54:16,880 --> 00:54:18,840 And I was like, oh my God, I immediately sent it to Sarah. 1185 00:54:18,840 --> 00:54:19,840 I didn't even read it. 1186 00:54:19,840 --> 00:54:21,980 And I was like, it's the truth. 1187 00:54:21,980 --> 00:54:27,880 And we talked about this, I think on one of our recent episodes, because it is, it's like 1188 00:54:27,880 --> 00:54:29,280 de-influencing isn't a really a word. 1189 00:54:29,280 --> 00:54:30,280 They just made that up. 1190 00:54:30,280 --> 00:54:31,280 Influencing. 1191 00:54:31,280 --> 00:54:33,320 You're influencing one way or the other. 1192 00:54:33,320 --> 00:54:34,320 Right. 1193 00:54:34,320 --> 00:54:40,240 And it's still bringing brands and product names to the forefront. 1194 00:54:40,240 --> 00:54:44,560 Even if they're saying I wouldn't recommend, it's still talking about them. 1195 00:54:44,560 --> 00:54:49,040 It's still getting the name out there regardless of what the intention is. 1196 00:54:49,040 --> 00:54:51,800 The intention is to say, I didn't like this. 1197 00:54:51,800 --> 00:54:56,200 You might, but I don't recommend purchasing, you know, whatever. 1198 00:54:56,200 --> 00:55:02,000 But again, it is still putting those products in front of people's faces and people may 1199 00:55:02,000 --> 00:55:03,000 try them. 1200 00:55:03,000 --> 00:55:07,200 I feel like, you know, if these influencers, instead of trying to make a buck and just 1201 00:55:07,200 --> 00:55:12,440 like posting about every little product so they can get free product or whatever, do 1202 00:55:12,440 --> 00:55:19,240 stuff that's like actually good and like tell the truth and you don't have to de-influence 1203 00:55:19,240 --> 00:55:20,240 to do that. 1204 00:55:20,240 --> 00:55:25,800 Like also how, when you're a de-influencer or de-influencing, how do you make money? 1205 00:55:25,800 --> 00:55:27,760 Well, I, yeah. 1206 00:55:27,760 --> 00:55:30,660 And I don't know how the whole PR world works. 1207 00:55:30,660 --> 00:55:35,560 So I would really love to do some research on that and kind of figure it out because 1208 00:55:35,560 --> 00:55:39,680 these PR boxes are free for these people. 1209 00:55:39,680 --> 00:55:43,880 But is there some sort of, is there a contractual agreement for that? 1210 00:55:43,880 --> 00:55:49,760 Or is, are these people, you know, you're sending them to these folks to hope that they 1211 00:55:49,760 --> 00:55:55,360 use these products in their video when they're creating content and you also hope that there's 1212 00:55:55,360 --> 00:55:56,640 a good review. 1213 00:55:56,640 --> 00:55:59,160 Or again, is there a contract in place? 1214 00:55:59,160 --> 00:56:01,960 Are they, do they have to use, you know, these products? 1215 00:56:01,960 --> 00:56:03,640 Do they have to use a set number of products? 1216 00:56:03,640 --> 00:56:05,440 Do they have to give a positive review? 1217 00:56:05,440 --> 00:56:08,480 Like what is the story behind all that? 1218 00:56:08,480 --> 00:56:13,240 Because I would be super curious and you know, if they're choosing products that to quote 1219 00:56:13,240 --> 00:56:18,800 unquote de-influence, are there repercussions for that? 1220 00:56:18,800 --> 00:56:19,800 Right. 1221 00:56:19,800 --> 00:56:20,800 Yeah. 1222 00:56:20,800 --> 00:56:26,160 Or, or is it just a free for all and you can give a good review at one point because you 1223 00:56:26,160 --> 00:56:29,880 know, you have a contract with somebody, but let's say that contract is six months long 1224 00:56:29,880 --> 00:56:31,080 and you've ended it. 1225 00:56:31,080 --> 00:56:33,560 Do you get to go back and shit on that product now? 1226 00:56:33,560 --> 00:56:38,600 Well, so I will tell you that like my dad and I may be getting this wrong, but he worked 1227 00:56:38,600 --> 00:56:39,600 for a radio station. 1228 00:56:39,600 --> 00:56:43,440 It was completely different than an influencer, but he, I mean, he, that's what, I mean, they 1229 00:56:43,440 --> 00:56:48,300 had advertisers that would come in and they would have, um, so for instance, like sleep 1230 00:56:48,300 --> 00:56:53,560 number and they would give, and I think that he had to pay for it with his, his, I think 1231 00:56:53,560 --> 00:56:57,920 that they would give him like a certain amount off the bed or something, probably got a discount 1232 00:56:57,920 --> 00:57:05,800 and then they would give him the bed and he would use basically him doing the advertisement 1233 00:57:05,800 --> 00:57:06,900 paid for the bed. 1234 00:57:06,900 --> 00:57:08,600 So we had to do so many, you know, to get the bed. 1235 00:57:08,600 --> 00:57:10,600 I don't know how that, I don't really know how that worked. 1236 00:57:10,600 --> 00:57:14,400 Or like maybe they would give like, like a restaurant or something would give like a 1237 00:57:14,400 --> 00:57:17,040 free meal to them so that they could do the thing. 1238 00:57:17,040 --> 00:57:23,720 But like when you're doing your advertising with a company, even though that type of like 1239 00:57:23,720 --> 00:57:28,160 on a radio station, you're not, they don't do bad advertisements. 1240 00:57:28,160 --> 00:57:33,040 And I feel like influencers should have been before they were supposed to be people who 1241 00:57:33,040 --> 00:57:37,280 told you whether or not something was good or whether or not something was bad. 1242 00:57:37,280 --> 00:57:42,220 If and telling you the truth about the product, their actual review, not an advertisement 1243 00:57:42,220 --> 00:57:45,520 like on a radio station or like on a TV station. 1244 00:57:45,520 --> 00:57:51,480 This is different, but now it's become an advertisement so that they can make them make 1245 00:57:51,480 --> 00:57:54,720 money like they would on a radio station or TV station. 1246 00:57:54,720 --> 00:57:55,720 There are separate paid partnerships. 1247 00:57:55,720 --> 00:57:56,720 I do want to say. 1248 00:57:56,720 --> 00:57:57,720 Right. 1249 00:57:57,720 --> 00:57:58,720 That's what I'm saying. 1250 00:57:58,720 --> 00:57:59,720 That would be the same thing. 1251 00:57:59,720 --> 00:58:00,720 Yeah. 1252 00:58:00,720 --> 00:58:04,080 But it's, it's not though, because the paid partnerships have to have that paid partnership 1253 00:58:04,080 --> 00:58:06,600 acknowledgement within that video. 1254 00:58:06,600 --> 00:58:12,040 So some of these other videos are just content, you know, creators putting videos out there 1255 00:58:12,040 --> 00:58:13,520 with whatever products they want. 1256 00:58:13,520 --> 00:58:15,640 So I mean, it's definitely a mix. 1257 00:58:15,640 --> 00:58:17,040 I understand what you're saying. 1258 00:58:17,040 --> 00:58:19,440 Paid partnerships are obviously going to be something good. 1259 00:58:19,440 --> 00:58:20,440 Right. 1260 00:58:20,440 --> 00:58:21,440 They're getting paid. 1261 00:58:21,440 --> 00:58:24,400 Well, but, and I don't know, I mean, maybe they're not doing reviews on the stuff that 1262 00:58:24,400 --> 00:58:27,040 they're not, that they have, they're getting paid for. 1263 00:58:27,040 --> 00:58:28,040 I don't know. 1264 00:58:28,040 --> 00:58:29,040 Right. 1265 00:58:29,040 --> 00:58:30,040 Um, I am curious about that. 1266 00:58:30,040 --> 00:58:31,840 I may do some research and come back to us. 1267 00:58:31,840 --> 00:58:32,840 Yeah. 1268 00:58:32,840 --> 00:58:37,440 But my dad was never going to be like, Oh yeah, I got the sleep number at a bed and it was 1269 00:58:37,440 --> 00:58:39,880 terrible, but he, they still have it. 1270 00:58:39,880 --> 00:58:43,600 So like, they still have one and they got one after he like, and he's retired. 1271 00:58:43,600 --> 00:58:46,880 So I mean, it's not like he was lying necessarily. 1272 00:58:46,880 --> 00:58:50,040 It just, yeah, he had to do it. 1273 00:58:50,040 --> 00:58:51,040 It was his job. 1274 00:58:51,040 --> 00:58:52,040 Like it's his job to advertise. 1275 00:58:52,040 --> 00:58:58,680 Well, and I mean, I think, you know, it shouldn't go unnoticed that like these content creators, 1276 00:58:58,680 --> 00:59:00,040 that's also their job. 1277 00:59:00,040 --> 00:59:01,040 Yeah, exactly. 1278 00:59:01,040 --> 00:59:06,400 And that's, but it wasn't in the, that my thing is like back in the day of YouTube starting 1279 00:59:06,400 --> 00:59:07,800 to become a thing. 1280 00:59:07,800 --> 00:59:09,440 It was not their job. 1281 00:59:09,440 --> 00:59:10,440 Absolutely. 1282 00:59:10,440 --> 00:59:11,440 And it became that. 1283 00:59:11,440 --> 00:59:14,680 And now it's like, it's like a TV very different world now. 1284 00:59:14,680 --> 00:59:15,680 Yes. 1285 00:59:15,680 --> 00:59:16,680 For sure. 1286 00:59:16,680 --> 00:59:19,440 Which is it sucks because like, how do you know if it's actually a good review? 1287 00:59:19,440 --> 00:59:24,280 I mean, you do have some folks out there that do give honest, genuine reviews and I'm not 1288 00:59:24,280 --> 00:59:27,680 sure that they have any, you know, paid partnerships and things like that. 1289 00:59:27,680 --> 00:59:34,360 They may make money otherwise, you know, in other ways or whatever, but you know, you, 1290 00:59:34,360 --> 00:59:38,040 you gotta be careful, you know, who you choose to follow and, and things like that. 1291 00:59:38,040 --> 00:59:40,520 And also I say, you gotta be careful. 1292 00:59:40,520 --> 00:59:41,820 We don't know these people. 1293 00:59:41,820 --> 00:59:44,800 We see them on a social media platform of sorts. 1294 00:59:44,800 --> 00:59:49,840 I there's, there's no way that we could know, you know, what they are like or their lives 1295 00:59:49,840 --> 00:59:56,040 or how they really feel or the products that they use are what they say they are unless 1296 00:59:56,040 --> 00:59:57,200 we were behind those doors. 1297 00:59:57,200 --> 00:59:58,480 Well, then yeah, that's true. 1298 00:59:58,480 --> 01:00:03,160 But I do like, I, I appreciate the ones that will be like, Hey, I didn't get paid for this 1299 01:00:03,160 --> 01:00:09,520 and or they'll like, for instance, like if I got something and later on I tried it on 1300 01:00:09,520 --> 01:00:13,920 the first day I got it and I told you guys about it, like for instance, the skims panties 1301 01:00:13,920 --> 01:00:17,560 and then a couple of weeks later I'm like, Oh yeah, by the way, some of the panties that 1302 01:00:17,560 --> 01:00:23,320 I got had like a really skinny VJJ area like area and like us big girls. 1303 01:00:23,320 --> 01:00:27,800 Like, so I was watching the Kardashian show and Khloe was telling Kim, Hey, by the way, 1304 01:00:27,800 --> 01:00:31,240 you need to make that thicker because she was like, I guess it doesn't matter for you 1305 01:00:31,240 --> 01:00:35,800 skinny girls, but are like not skinny, but like little bitty girls, but like us big girls, 1306 01:00:35,800 --> 01:00:37,960 we need like some more lip cover. 1307 01:00:37,960 --> 01:00:38,960 Yes. 1308 01:00:38,960 --> 01:00:40,160 And I was like, Oh my God, it's so true. 1309 01:00:40,160 --> 01:00:43,140 Like sometimes and it's not, I think it was like, I don't know. 1310 01:00:43,140 --> 01:00:47,680 But anyways, but yeah, I appreciate people that come back and, and we'll be like, you 1311 01:00:47,680 --> 01:00:48,680 know what? 1312 01:00:48,680 --> 01:00:52,560 I'm changing my review of this because, and that type of thing to me gains my respect 1313 01:00:52,560 --> 01:00:56,880 and like, I will come back and watch their reviews more other than the people that are 1314 01:00:56,880 --> 01:01:00,200 going to be like, Oh, I bought this and I'm getting paid. 1315 01:01:00,200 --> 01:01:02,320 So yeah, that's fair. 1316 01:01:02,320 --> 01:01:03,320 Yeah. 1317 01:01:03,320 --> 01:01:04,320 I don't know. 1318 01:01:04,320 --> 01:01:05,320 I like hope scope. 1319 01:01:05,320 --> 01:01:06,720 I don't know who that is. 1320 01:01:06,720 --> 01:01:07,720 And she gets paid. 1321 01:01:07,720 --> 01:01:08,880 She gets paid by all kinds of people. 1322 01:01:08,880 --> 01:01:12,920 I like remember when she was doing it, she's, I think, I don't know how many times she's 1323 01:01:12,920 --> 01:01:18,760 moved, but like her house looks so much nicer now than she, when she first started it, she 1324 01:01:18,760 --> 01:01:25,520 was like back and like, like not a fancy house and like just, and now she has like upgraded. 1325 01:01:25,520 --> 01:01:27,080 Let me upgrade you on YouTube. 1326 01:01:27,080 --> 01:01:28,480 Maybe that'll be us one day. 1327 01:01:28,480 --> 01:01:29,480 I hope so. 1328 01:01:29,480 --> 01:01:34,640 We should post a picture of our space that we were, and then like later on when we get 1329 01:01:34,640 --> 01:01:40,920 a real studio, we got to have the before so we can have the after. 1330 01:01:40,920 --> 01:01:43,180 Well thanks for listening guys. 1331 01:01:43,180 --> 01:01:45,040 We had a great time with you today. 1332 01:01:45,040 --> 01:01:47,840 This, this hump day. 1333 01:01:47,840 --> 01:01:49,880 Can't wait to see you back next home day. 1334 01:01:49,880 --> 01:01:57,560 You can find us on Instagram at thick AF podcast and give us a follow, like our stories, share 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