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Hello and welcome to the Thicc AF Podcast. We are the Thicc Alabama Females. My name

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is Emily and I'm here with Sarah. Hey y'all. And we also brought another Thicc Alabama

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female with us today. Her name is Jessica. Say hi. Hey guys. My name is actually J-Nail.

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Cordell. J-Nail Cordell. She is, should we go way back? So listen, you want to tell the story?

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It starts with me, honestly. I want to say we were seniors in high school, I think, and I came down

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here for Christmas to visit my dad one time. And this was like in the very beginning of Facebook,

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and so I had reconnected with this girl that I was in kindergarten with. And so we met up and

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through like a handful of times when I was here over Christmas break and I was introduced to

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Jessica and the rest is history. Yes, like 20 years later. Here we are. Almost 20. Yeah. Yeah,

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so then Jessica and I met each other our freshman year of college when we were, I think we met

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through rush because we couldn't go out before that. Like we were going through recruitment is

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what you call it now, I guess like rush or recruitment for our sorority. And we pledged the

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same sorority and we had way too much fun in college. Yes, we had way too much fun. We, she

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used to stay at my place. Like she had like a key to our apartment and like would sleep on the couch

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or in some people's beds sometimes. But yeah, so Jessica and I, we met and then Sarah would come

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to parties and stuff with Jessica all the time. She was like my plus one all the time. Yeah. And

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I would see her and we met a million times but like until like a couple years ago or whatever,

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Sarah was like, I've never met you before. I don't know what you're talking about. We've never met.

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And I was like, we've met like a million times. You just don't remember me because you just,

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I'm apparently I'm forgettable. That is not true. Come on. If, if I had met her and really hung out

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with her, we'd have been friends for that long. Oh yeah. Well, we didn't really hang out much

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because I had a boyfriend. Y'all would go at that point. Y'all were hanging out with a different

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fraternity. You also had to hang out with his brother. Oh yeah. Well, I wasn't allowed to hang

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out with other fraternities and y'all would, I would be stuck at the, at the fraternity house

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with my boyfriend and where all y'all were going to all the other fraternities. Yeah, but also Sarah

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didn't move down here until. Yeah. I was halfway through my sophomore year of college when I moved

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down here. Yeah. Yeah. So I think had you been down here freshman year, you really would have

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hung out with us. Yeah, for sure. I mean, well, cause the very first six months I was down here.

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I mean, I was trans I transferred to new school, but I had to live. I was going to Jeff state. So

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I was living at home with my parents and I did not hang out very much that first six months. I was

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just kind of like getting acclimated and going to school. Cause I did a terrible job at Cortland

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and my grades were horrendous. And so I had to get my life together a little bit.

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Get it together girl. Yep. Yeah. Well, sometimes, you know, that happens a lot. That happens a lot

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to a lot of people and you know what, here you are now and you are not a failure just because you

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didn't do so great. I graduated with a three, six, nine GPA. So like I made moves to. Yeah,

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I didn't bring it on up there. Honestly, my thing, my GPA was really bad. I don't know what it was.

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Oh, it might've been like, it wasn't bad. It was just like not great. I'm a star student.

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Well, we know that so shut up. We don't rub it in our face. Okay. Thanks a lot. Just go look.

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I was, I was constantly having to be do study hours for the sorority because I never, uh,

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I was never making grades. Yeah. That was VP of scholarship and I had to send you

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send in your study hours to go log study hours. And really all we did when we did study hours,

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it was like gossip in the, in the library with everybody that was doing study. That's wild.

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When I was at Cortland, you couldn't even go through recruitment. You're like at the very

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beginning of first, you had to wait one semester, have the grades and then you could participate.

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Oh, wow. Yeah. That, I mean, you know what, like that sounds terrible. Yes, it does. I would not

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have had any friends saying you have a lot of people that aren't even can't even go through it

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after their first semester. Cause like they're getting used to going to school and all that

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kind of stuff. And then, so you may have sophomores that are brand new in a sorority. Yeah. Well,

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that's interesting. I mean, so a lot of people don't like sororities. I kind of want to talk

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about that for a second. Cause you know, people are Sarah, I wasn't talking about you, but I saw

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you rolled your eyes in. So we're going to say Sarah doesn't like them either. A lot of people,

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that I don't like them. I have no issue with it whatsoever. I was rolling my eyes because you've

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got mad at me for calling you a sorority to do one time. We're not going to get back on that, but,

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but I was just saying that people, some people don't like the whole idea of it. They feel like

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you're buying your friends. Well, yeah. But like my thing is, and I was not going to do to be in

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a sorority when I came to my school, I was like, I am not, I'm, I'm coming here because I don't want

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to have to go through the whole rush at like the big universities or whatever. I would never do

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that in a big school. And, but if I didn't do it here, like I wouldn't have, it would have been

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really hard to make friends because there's not really, I mean, there, you were kind of like forced

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to be friends with people and it's like a force. I mean, it's not forced, but like it's, you know

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what I mean? Like we had to, we had to go to parties and we had to do these things and it was

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good for us. Like it was really good for us to get out. Yeah. And it helps you get out there and

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like, it helps you find people to go to class with or like that are in your classes to help you study

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and things like that. Honestly, the studying was really nice. Like if, you know, the older girls too,

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because when you had the older people, you can find, you know, if you're a freshman, you can find

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people that live in your dorm or whatever that are also freshmen. But then a lot of times you don't

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meet like the older people and the sorority helps you meet those older people that have already gone

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through those classes and they've, Oh, I've taken these, you know, had this teacher or whatever.

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I can give you tips and that, I mean, I really liked that. I just had such a very different

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experience when I first went to school because my school was not super huge. I mean, it was big,

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but it wasn't that big. But a lot of kids that went to like neighboring schools, high schools of mine

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were there, including two of my very best friends from high school that were a year older than me

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that were already there. And so, I mean, I got to do kind of what I got to do with Jessica when I was

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there, one of my best friends, Kate, she was already in a sorority there. And so I got to go,

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be included at all the parties. I didn't have to wait in line. Like I got to kind of skirt the

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process and be a part of a lot of things. Cheater, cheater, pumpkin, you don't have to pay for it.

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I didn't, but I mean, I didn't get to go to like anything special or, you know, anything like that.

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But like I had something to do a lot because of her. Yeah. Well, obviously it paid off because

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me and Emily are still very close. Yes. So, and we're so very close with all. Yeah. We pledged in

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2006. So it's a, it's almost 20 years. Oh my gosh. We're so old. Oh Lord have mercy. Anyways.

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So, um, yeah. So, okay. So Jessica, she brought the FMK for today. I did. You're going to start us.

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Are you going to start us? Okay. So my FMK is basic white bitch FMK today. Okay.

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You're already, we're talking about sororities. You're going to be basic, basic white girl.

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Okay. FMK today is seltzer brands. Oh, yeah. Okay. High noon, white claws or trulies. I already know

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what Sarah's going to do. I think. Okay. So I can, I go first. Yeah. Okay. So high noon is like Mary

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because it is vodka and it's not like it's, but it does suck that you have to go to the liquor store

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to buy them. They do have them at Costco though. So that's kind of nice. Um, but okay. So, and then

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you said truly and white call and white call. Oh, kill white call. Cause I don't like those. I don't

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think, I mean, I don't know. And I like, I like high noon's, but I don't really like white call or

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I'm not a huge seltzer person, but I do like the high noon's. Um, and I like, I don't like the manga.

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Is there a manga one? I can't, what kind do you have right now? Well, I'm drinking black cherry.

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Oh, black cherries. That's a good one. Yeah. Yeah. So anyway, watermelon's my favorite.

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So I would really like those ranch waters that they have, but I can't drink that. It's got agave.

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I don't like the ranch waters very much. So you, you don't know. I don't know. People love it. I

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can't drink it. And I'm like, when you go to Texas and have a real ranch water, you won't like the

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ones out of the can. Oh, really? Okay. Well, I won't ever have any of those. So, all right. I think,

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I think I know what you're going to do too. Can I guess what? And can you tell me if this is,

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okay, I'm going to guess. Can I guess they're guessing for me? I think you're going to say,

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you're going to fuck high noon. You're going to marry white claw and you're going to kill wrong.

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Wrong. Okay. This is my guess. She's going to fuck high noon's. She's going to marry truly

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cause she loves truly and she's going to kill white claw. Truly sponsor us, please.

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Speaking of sponsors, we did get a new sponsor and we will, we'll have a, we're going to have a

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little commercial here in a little bit. I'm excited. Oh wow. I don't know about this guys.

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Yeah, you do. Oh, okay. I guess I do. Yeah, you do. Okay. Yeah. So, uh, all right. You want

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to do one more? Okay. Well, I didn't do mine. Oh yeah. You didn't use yours. Yeah. Go, go, go.

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So it's probably pretty easy, but I'm going to marry high noon. Yeah. I'm going to fuck truly

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is cause I think truly is have better flavors and then white claws are disgusting. Gross.

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That's what I said too. Isn't it? Yeah, it is. Okay. I cannot stand a white claw. So we're all

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the same. Yeah. The only thing good about white claw is like their slogan. They're not going to

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taste stale or something to me. Ain't no laws when you're drinking. Yes, there are. That's a

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really terrible slogan for an alcoholic beverage. Don't they have to say like drive responsibly

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in the small print that nobody knows when you're drinking, drinking, covering their tracks. Yeah.

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There are laws and don't break them because we might go to jail. Yeah. Okay. Cool. All right.

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What's your next one? Okay. I have another one and this one is kind of funny. Um, it is your

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favorite dipping sauce for like chicken fingers or French fries. Okay. Okay. So here's your options,

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ranch, honey mustard, or like Zach Spees, raising cane sauce. You go first, Sarah. Okay. I'm going

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to marry ranch because I love a good homemade ranch and I like to dip my French fries in it too.

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So it has to be homemade for me. Yeah. Same for you. Well, I don't like it from the bottle.

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No, I don't either. Hidden Valley, you suck. Seriously, unless it's from the packet and you

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make it with buttermilk. Like, yeah, yeah. I'll take the packet. I've been making my own ranch,

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like not even with buttermilk, like just kind of throwing some things together. So much better.

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Well, I mean, I understand that, but I'm just saying like I've have done what I could just to

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have homemade ranch here. You have the best ranch if you're going to buy it out of a bottle. Um,

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lighthouse also has a good ranch in the refrigerator section. I like their blue cheese.

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That's my favorite, but okay. Anyway, sorry. Um, I will fuck honey mustard cause I do like honey

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mustard and I'm, I don't like Zach sauce. I love it. And like Guthrie's, whatever theirs is. I do

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like that, but I could go without. All right. So I'm going to go next because this, this is hard

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for me because it depends on my mood. Yeah. Like I'm eating for the sauce, not for the, like it's

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the food is a vessel for the sauce. So when I go up here to, um, Waldo's, uh, wasn't the guy Ryan,

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is that his name? But works up there. He's, I'm always like, they, they give you a one ounce ranch

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and they don't even fill it up. So it's like a half an ounce ranch for your 10 wings. And I'm like,

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how am I supposed to eat my wings? I have to have one, two outs for each wing. Okay. Not really,

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but you know what I mean? No, but you do like the big old container of kick and ranch. Yes. And

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that's what I was going to say. So Jimmy John's has the best kick ranch. Like it's kicking ranch

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is like, Oh, I've never had it. And I was dating this guy. Um, and he somehow got me the recipe,

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like on the recipe card. Sorry, Jimmy John's. I have it somewhere. I haven't never made it.

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Cause I can't find, they do it by like weight. And I'm like, I'm not going to weigh, I don't know how

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to do it. Like, I'm just like, whatever. I'll just figure it out. But I still just buy it. Now I

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literally buy it. Like I order it on, when I do my Jimmy John's order, I'll do like a co you can

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order a court of, is it a court or a pint, a pint or whatever it is, the little containers. It's gotta

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be a pint. Yeah. It's a pint of, um, the ranch, the kicking ranch. And they always call me and

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they'll be like, we don't have the pint. And I'm like, why don't you have a pint? They're like,

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we just have the little containers. Can we just give you like 25? And I like, sure. They send me

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like 25 of the ranches and I'll put them in my refrigerator. Well, yeah, you buy the, yeah, it's

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like the same price as those little things, but I love it. It's so good. And so I also will sometimes

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like just buy their bread and like buy the ranch and like dip the bread in the ranch. This is so

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bad. Look, I'm a thick AF. Okay. I'm thick and I'm from Alabama. This is what we do. Um, so, okay. So

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it depends on my mood. So Oh, Charlie's has really good honey mustard. I like the honey mustard.

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Creamy like that type of honey mustard, like the honey mustard that's from like Chick-fil-A.

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It's not spicy. Who else has good honey mustard? Chili's. Oh really? I've never had.

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For their chicken. Yes. Except we don't have any Chili's in Birmingham anymore. Which I haven't

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eaten at any place like that. Oh yeah. There's one in Lake Shore. That's the only one I think.

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But yeah. So I like, like, and I haven't, honestly, I haven't eaten it. Oh, Charlie's since probably

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I lived in Cater. I don't think there's any open anymore. Are there not? I don't know. They had the

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best chicken fingers and honey mustard and the curly fries. Oh my God. But let's just talk about

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if this is just like your standard honey mustard. Okay. The state, like, like one from like Chick-fil-A

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or something. No, Chick-fil-A is not that great. No, there's isn't good. That's like Arby's or,

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you know, an Arby's. So I'm going to say kill. Well, hold on. I'm going to say kill the honey

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mustard if it's just standard, like from Arby's or something like McDonald's. McDonald's is gross

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too. I don't like McDonald's honey mustard. So I like their honey mustard. So honey mustard's hit

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or miss, but ranch, honestly, if I'm getting ranch from anywhere and it's not homemade,

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I don't want it unless it's Burger King's is okay with the, I like to get their little ranch

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in the little dipping packets unless it's homemade. I don't like it, but Zach. So if it's homemade,

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I will go with ranch to Mary. If it's not, I'm going to fuck ranch and Mary's access

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because Zach sauce is always Zach sauce. No matter what it doesn't change. Like it's not like,

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you know what I mean? It's not, I agree. It's not different. So I might honestly,

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it's more consistent, but I don't want that on everything. Like I'm not going to dip my,

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I feel like has a little bit of like horseradish or something like that in horseradish. No, it's

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like ketchup and like sauce at Zach's and it's like Milo's double O sauce. Isn't that the same?

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That's Milo's sauce with a ranch. And that's basically like, no, uh-uh. When you make,

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there's recipes like on Pinterest and stuff, how to make like Zach's be saw. Okay. Well,

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what is it then? It's paprika, mayonnaise, ketchup, Worcestershire sauce. Um, okay.

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Stuff like that. Yeah. So, but in black pepper, I think garlic powder, onion powder. It's really

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good. Yeah. I love it. It's so good, but, but I'm not going to dip my wings in that. I just don't

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like Zach's piece. I think that's why we had a raisin canes. Uh, I'm putting in a plug right now,

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raisin canes, chicken, please come down Alabama. Oh my God. We would be so excited. Raisin canes.

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Well, they're about to open some in Nashville, but the closest one is in Tupelo. No, Meridian

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Mississippi. And me and Dale will be stopping there when we go to New Orleans in a couple of weeks.

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Okay. I need you bring some back for me, bring some sauce back for me so I can try it. Um,

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yeah, that sounds good. Okay. Well, um, we'll be back after a message from our sponsor.

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jump back in with another game and, um, I love games. Ooh, yeah. So, um, I've got a game for us

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and you know, that game, would you rather you ever played that before? Like, you know, would you

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rather get a toe cut off or like your arm cut off? It's pretty self-explanatory. So we're going to

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do that real quick. So, so would you rather, so have you guys, I know, Sarah, you haven't watched

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Handmaid's Tale, but Jessica, you like, yes. So, um, I was thinking, would you rather be enslaved

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as a handmade like in the Handmaid's Tale or go to the colonies? Like, you know, so like in the

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in the Handmaid's Tale, like the colonies are where they go to like work and like dig up the

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soil. That's like radioactive or something like that. I might be saying this wrong, but like,

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you know what I'm talking about? Yeah, I'm going to the colonies. You're going to colonies or,

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and if you're enslaved as a handmade, basically you are forced to have to be raped and to have a

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child and then give your child up to the family of the man that raped you. And you have to do it

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multiple times because they want multiple children. So after you have a baby, you have to go back to

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another family. And then before that they train you and then they like, like if you do something

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wrong, if you're not pregnant, they can do whatever they want to you. They can cut your, like one girl

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got her eye cut out. They like burn your, if you do something bad that they think is wrong.

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And then when you do something really bad, they hang you on the wall. Right. But they won't hang

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a handmade because they need babies apparently. And the Handmaids are the only ones. Why are the wives not having the babies?

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Because they're infertile. They're like, what do you call it? Yeah. They don't have. Yeah. All of them? Yeah.

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So it's like, so it's a futuristic thing where like people, you know, like they're saying that like the

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majority of citizens are going to be infertile. Yeah. They don't have eventually reproduced. So

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basically they're like, this new society has come in and said, we're going to make basically

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enslaved people to make them have babies. It's very fucked up. I don't know. I don't know shit about it,

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but I'm going to the colonies because I don't want to be pregnant. But of course, yeah, same. But you want

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to get, you want to get raped every day. But of course you can't do that either. But they don't want the poor

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people and the regular people to have babies on their own. They want the rich, like commander people

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to have babies. So that's why they enslaved the Handmaids. They don't allow the Handmaids to like

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get married and have their own kids and just reproduce that way, which they should have just

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done. Just should have just been like, oh, here, force everybody to have 10 kids, you know, or

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something like that. I know. But like instead of doing that, like do that, get married and force

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them to have 10 kids rather than force them to have a kid get raped by some man and then have that

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kid and then give it to the person. Like you have to like breastfeed the baby and stuff too. And it's

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a whole, it's crazy. It's messed up. Yeah. The colonies for me. So you really, you think you'd go to

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the colonies? Yes. I don't know what I would do unless I was like friends with June and I knew that

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I would probably be like, like if, if I knew that she could like help me and like get all the

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Handmaids out or like, you know, how she was trying to do, like how she got more or didn't she help

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Moira? I guess Moira kind of got out on her own. Yeah. She tried to help her. Yeah. She got all

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those people out though. She got all those kids and the, um, and she traded. She got all the,

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she got all the, um, like the servant, what were they called? The Martha's. The Martha's. She got

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a lot of the Martha's and a lot of the kids out. Yes. Yeah. So anyways, I just thought that what

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would you do, Emily? I think that I, I think that I would probably be a Handmaid, especially like,

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if like June has, has a baby, like I probably would be a Handmaid and I would probably try to

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figure out some way to, I mean, I would, I don't know. That's a really hard one. Yeah. That's,

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that's hard. Yeah. So anyways, okay, cool. So this episode, what are we talking about guys?

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What are we talking about? We are talking about having friends and the things that come along

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with it. Like how much friends cost? Yeah. How much friends cost what it's like to be a single

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person in your friend group, to be a married person in your friend group. Yeah. Okay. Cool.

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Yeah. My, my biggest thing is like complaint about having a lot of friends. It's not a complaint. I

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mean, I love my friends. I love them so much. And it is kind of a complaint is that we have so many

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things that we have to spend money on. It's like birthdays, uh, baby showers, weddings, you know,

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you've got, and when you have a wedding, you've got to do, you got to throw your friend a shower.

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You've got to be at their wedding. If they have a destination wedding, you gotta go to a bachelorette

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party. You have to, you know, it's, you gotta buy a wedding present. It's like, you gotta buy a dress

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to be in the wedding. If you go, you know, that's, that's a lot. And then how many friends you have

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getting married in the same year, like having babies, I can't afford that. I know. I mean,

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it's a lot and you know, super thankful for all the people, you know, that we have in our lives

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and every stage of their lives that they are going through and want to be there for them and

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participate in those things. But it's also a lot. Yeah. And it sucks because like sometimes it's

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like, you know, it would be like a really good friend, but I'm like, I honestly can't afford to

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do that. Like, and I don't want to say no. Right. Also FOMO. Right. FOMO. And then it's like, but I

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don't want to be like, can you just like make it less expensive or like, because, and honestly,

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another thing that sucks is that I'm not getting married and I'm not having any kids. Oh, you don't

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know that. Well, I mean, you don't know that. It's more than likely. So like, oh, you know,

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it's not like I'm going to be able to like return the favor to everybody and be like, here, cough up

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all this money. Well, and you know, Carrie Bradshaw threw herself a little, you know, shower type

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thing at one point in Sex and the City and you know, her friend that had gotten married and had

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babies or whatever. And then her Manolo's got stolen from her house. Somebody, it was a no

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shoe household. Oh my God. It was crazy. She wore Manolo's there and her shoes got stolen by somebody

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else that was at that party. And the friend whose house it was at, you know, had had a couple of

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kids and been married or whatever. So Carrie participated in all those things and she was just

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very flippant about her shoes being stolen. I mean, they're like $400 shoes, you know, I mean,

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it was a lot of money to just have stolen out of your home. And so Carrie finally like called her

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and was like, I just wanted to let you know that I'm getting married to myself and I am registered

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at Manolo Blahnik and the girl went in there and brought her kids into the store. I remember this.

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Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. I don't know. It was the same ones that got stolen that were on the registry

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and that woman bought them for her. That's funny. But I mean, it's just one of those things like,

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you know, you want to help celebrate your friends, but you know, you also have friends that you're

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friends with, you know, unfortunately, sometimes only for a period of time. So, you know, let's

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just say you and I both get married or whatever are those same people that we were there for going

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to be there for us in that same capacity. Yeah. And it looking like no.

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Well, I will be there for you ladies. Thank you. I know you will be, I know you'll be there, but like

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it's, it's, you know, a lot of times people get, and I, and I do not judge people for this because

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I know how it is. Like you get married, you get a boyfriend, and I'm actually very surprised with

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Sarah. Like you've gotten Brandon and I'm really happy because you have not been like,

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I mean, not, I hate to say it stuck up his butt. Like you're not like, you haven't dropped all your

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friends because you have a boyfriend. I've never been that kind of person though. I mean, and Jessica

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can vouch for me as far as that goes. I've dated a handful of people seriously throughout my

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friendship with her and I have never dropped my friend group like a bad habit, but I'm also the

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kind of person that I love to share my friends with whoever I'm dating and my family. Right. Like

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I would, I would much rather hang out with my friends and my family than somebody else's, and

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not in a bad way, but I think I also dated some folks that either, you know, didn't really have,

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you know, families or they weren't local and that sort of thing. So I kind of guess I just got used

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to it and that's just, well, let's just hope Brandon doesn't ever start hating us because then

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we would lose you and that will be sad except for, he's not going to hate us. We're pretty cool.

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That's not going to happen. We're cool as hell. What are you talking about? He has a great time

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with everybody. I mean, he loves it and you know, little by little he's kind of developing his own

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friendships with folks and I encourage him to, you know, reach out to people and try to further,

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you know, those friendships with some of the, especially the guys in the group. I mean,

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he needs, not that he needs friends, but I mean, he just doesn't hang out with like his work people

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outside of work. Yeah. I mean, we're past that age. I mean, I do with Rose, but like, yeah. Are we?

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Like that anyways. I mean, when we were in our early twenties, I feel like we made some good

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friends at work or whatever, but, but it's also a different vibe. I did. I feel like I made mine

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when I was like in my thirties, I guess I feel like I'm more, but I'm like, I don't know. I don't know.

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I think it's different, different places of work. Like, so I think where Rose and I worked together,

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like that setting, we're like really good friends, but like now the people we work with, we're not

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like, yeah. Well, y'all don't really get to interact with them that much because y'all are

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not there. Y'all work from home too. Well, but she was my boss before and we still hung out.

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Yeah. And I'm just saying, I think it's a lot different now. Like a hundred percent. Yeah. Yeah.

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Yeah. So like people are expensive and having friends are expensive. And it's like, okay,

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if I only had like a group of like four friends, they all get married once in the next four years,

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once each year, then I'm good. But like, that's not how it works. Yeah. But also here's another

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thing. I feel like when you're young, everybody has these huge bridal parties and all this stuff,

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but the older you get, it doesn't really matter. Like I didn't even have a bridal party because

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what the thing is now we all have money that we can spend or more money than we had when I was 20.

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I didn't have any money to buy people presents. That's true. Like I would have to go to my mom

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and be like, mom, can you give me, you know, a hundred dollars? So I go buy this person a gift.

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Are you friends with the people back then? Like think about if somebody asks you. None of my

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friends got married when they were in their twenties. But I'm just saying, like, I know so

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many people who were in all these people's weddings and they're like, I don't even know these people

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anymore. Like I would never put them in mind. It's just funny how, you know, you realize how

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much money you do spend and especially the older you get, you know, it kind of comes in a perspective

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and you're like, this is silly. Yeah. I mean, no, if I, if I have a wedding, I'm not having bridesmaids.

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It was my, it was the best decision. Now I loved you girls and I'm so glad y'all supported me.

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But you know, I didn't, I just didn't want to, I didn't want to deal with having to get everybody

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in a dress and we were doing a tiny wedding and there wasn't a lot of room. I mean, honestly,

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no, it just, it worked out. Honestly, it's not like, yeah. And I also don't want to ever go out

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and do a bachelorette party with like, and tell people it's my bad. Like I'll go out and go out

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and have a fun time, go get drinks or whatever, but I do not want anybody to be matching. I don't

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want anybody to be wearing bachelorette things. And that was like Jessica's favorite thing.

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I hate that, like to me, but I've always been that way. Yeah, but I didn't make y'all wear like

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shirts that said, Oh, thank God. You know, like Matt, like, no, hell no. No, but I, and I just,

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I don't like, that's not my vibe and I don't ever want to do that. I don't, and there's a lot of

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people that love to do that. And if, like, if you had said, Hey, I want you to wear this, I would

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have freaking worn it. And then I would have taken it off as soon as we left lips or whatever,

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you know, but like, I like, that is not, I don't want to do that. I don't ever want to wear a sash.

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I don't want to drink out of a penis straw. I mean, I'll drink out of a penis straw, but like,

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I don't want to at my house, like before, while we're pre-gaming. Yeah. But I also don't want

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people to buy a balloon arch or anything like, Oh, like don't buy anything. I just want to go sit my

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fat ass on the beach. I'm good. Y'all can just sit next to me. Yeah. And I'll eat some beach

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sandwiches and cheers me every now and again. Oh my God. That sounds like a really good time.

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Right? Yeah. I want to go to the beach. I'm so sorry. I made y'all go and dress up. No, we had,

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we didn't dress up though. We all just said to wear black. Yeah. Like, yeah. No leopard print.

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No. And that's, but I don't want to wear like a sack like that and a crown or, or a veil or

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whatever. I've just, that's not how I've, that's not you though. No, it's not me at all. Yes.

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You're very like, and you have like the earrings, like I don't know, like, but I wear like nothing.

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Like I wear black and I wear like the same thing over and over again. Like you just, I mean,

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but that's what you wanted to do. Yes. It's different. It's different. And so we,

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as we should have as your friends, we did what you wanted to do. Now when it's my turn and we

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have to go lay on a beach, nobody better bitch and complain that we're not doing anything.

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Cause I don't want to do anything to lay on the beach. That's going to be the best one. I'm going

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to, I can't wait. We're going to be on the beach listening to Ja Rule radio.

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I can't wait. We're going to be drinking a truly pool pack. And there we go.

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You on the nose sister. Ja Rule radio. That's the best. I love it. Oh my God. Listen, I worked for

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years to curate that station on Pandora. I thought you were the one that didn't like it. Or is it

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Melanie? Melanie hates it. Why? It's the best. You know what Melanie suck it. Oh man. I saw, so I

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saw this thing on, on Ticketmaster the other day and I sent it to Jessica. I was like, oh my God,

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Trina and who was it? Juvenile. It was 8ball and MJG. I didn't know who those people are. They're

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going to be here for some like Birmingham something or other. It was Trina Juvenile. It was so many

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people. It's going to be wild. Some kind of anniversary. Yeah. Some kind of like, yeah, 25th

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anniversary or something for like BJCC. I don't know. Taking us back to our college days. It wasn't

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25. It's got to be more than that because. Taking us back to our high school days. Yeah. Oh for sure.

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But I do really want to go see Lil Wayne, but it got sold out and it's like wild. No, I don't want

351
00:32:05,640 --> 00:32:11,560
to go stand and be in a crowd like that in Iron City, which is so small. It is really small. I

352
00:32:11,560 --> 00:32:15,720
wonder why he's there. And you know, everybody's going to be crunk as hell. They are. And you know

353
00:32:15,720 --> 00:32:21,080
what? There are going to be people outside just like ready. Like yeah. Partying. I feel like. For sure.

354
00:32:21,080 --> 00:32:27,000
On a Monday night. I know it's on a Monday. It's a Monday at Iron City. Yeah, that was a weird day.

355
00:32:27,000 --> 00:32:33,640
Yeah, I don't like it. Well, where's the break even point with your friends though? You know, like

356
00:32:34,440 --> 00:32:38,680
we spent all this money on everybody and you know, okay, so let me just go back to this.

357
00:32:38,680 --> 00:32:43,480
I don't expect any. I don't honestly don't want anybody to get me a birthday present. Like

358
00:32:43,480 --> 00:32:48,280
on birthdays, I'm not a big gift giver because I know how it is. Like I have too many friends and

359
00:32:48,280 --> 00:32:53,560
it's like my birthday is right after Christmas. Yours is before Christmas and it's like you're

360
00:32:53,560 --> 00:32:57,720
already having to buy Christmas. Like, and that's just a thing. Like I've always kind of been like

361
00:32:57,720 --> 00:33:01,160
if you want to do something for me, let's just go to dinner together and that'll be our gift to

362
00:33:01,160 --> 00:33:06,680
each other. Like paying for dinner is expensive enough. I also think the older, I also think the

363
00:33:06,680 --> 00:33:13,160
older we're getting, like that just doesn't become as expected. There's a limited number of people

364
00:33:13,160 --> 00:33:20,200
that I will do gifts with, but like I'm not going crazy. I mean, I go the most crazy with Jessica.

365
00:33:20,200 --> 00:33:26,840
Yeah. What I mean like that's the way it's always been. Yeah. When it's like if you, you know, if

366
00:33:26,840 --> 00:33:30,360
that's how you do it, like that's cool. But like, I don't know. I feel like I'm starting to get

367
00:33:30,360 --> 00:33:34,760
friends in there. Like I always feel like people expect. I don't know that they do. I know that

368
00:33:34,760 --> 00:33:39,400
they don't. I think the older you get, it's just like, oh, I saw this and it made me think of you.

369
00:33:39,400 --> 00:33:44,360
And it's just like a sweet little gesture. Yeah. Well, you were talking about the break even point.

370
00:33:44,360 --> 00:33:50,680
Yes. Here's, here's my thing. I think the older we get, like you do kind of have to set boundaries.

371
00:33:50,680 --> 00:33:57,240
Like I recently had somebody ask me kind of in a roundabout way to be in their wedding, but they

372
00:33:57,240 --> 00:34:01,560
knew that I had just gotten married and I had a lot on my plate. You know, I took a new job last year

373
00:34:01,560 --> 00:34:08,120
just trying to figure out the newlywed stuff and me and Dale are one year anniversary is coming up.

374
00:34:08,120 --> 00:34:12,120
I cannot believe it. Oh my gosh. The end of this month, we made it one year, babe.

375
00:34:15,240 --> 00:34:19,880
So we already had a trip plan and she knew this. And so, you know, in a roundabout way,

376
00:34:19,880 --> 00:34:23,480
she kind of said, I would love for you to be a bridesmaid, but I understand you're,

377
00:34:23,480 --> 00:34:27,320
you're in a time in your life when you have a lot going on. And I really appreciated that.

378
00:34:27,320 --> 00:34:33,080
So I think like, you know, she didn't make me feel like I had to say yes. And I told her, you know,

379
00:34:33,080 --> 00:34:38,520
thank you. And then I would be at the wedding. You know, I've already sent a gift. Um, I don't know.

380
00:34:38,520 --> 00:34:42,840
I just feel like the older we're getting, it's, it's different. I don't know. I look back, like

381
00:34:42,840 --> 00:34:46,200
when I was 25 and all these people were getting married and it's like, oh my God, you had to give

382
00:34:46,200 --> 00:34:50,280
them a gift and you had to do this and that. And it's just, I don't know. I also think the times

383
00:34:50,280 --> 00:34:55,800
are changing. Things are not as traditional as they used to be either. Oh, I couldn't agree more.

384
00:34:55,800 --> 00:35:00,520
And I think it's one of those things where as you get older, you better understand that just because

385
00:35:00,520 --> 00:35:07,080
you get invited to something doesn't mean that you have to go. And as the person inviting, you also

386
00:35:07,080 --> 00:35:10,600
have to understand that just because you invited somebody doesn't mean that they're going to show

387
00:35:10,600 --> 00:35:17,080
up. No matter how close you are to them, people have shit going on in their lives and they're not

388
00:35:17,080 --> 00:35:20,280
always going to be able to be there for you and you're not always going to be able to be there for

389
00:35:20,280 --> 00:35:26,680
them. And that's okay. And it doesn't define your friendship in any capacity. Yes, I agree.

390
00:35:26,680 --> 00:35:30,280
It does suck though. When, if you like had somebody, I mean, hopefully you're like close friend,

391
00:35:30,280 --> 00:35:34,920
but it does suck when people don't get to come, but you know, yeah, for sure. But I mean, it can't

392
00:35:34,920 --> 00:35:40,120
ruin your day. You can't let something like that, you know, ruin your day or what have you. Right.

393
00:35:40,120 --> 00:35:44,440
Regardless of whether it's a wedding or whatever, I'm talking about even just like a birthday dinner

394
00:35:44,440 --> 00:35:51,800
or, you know, whatever we have bigger fish to fry now these days. So, all right. So, you know,

395
00:35:52,440 --> 00:36:01,240
sometimes though we're single and sometimes we're not single. Like Jessica is not single anymore.

396
00:36:01,240 --> 00:36:09,480
She's married. I am single. Sarah is not married, but she's not single.

397
00:36:09,480 --> 00:36:15,240
And so I kind of want to talk about like the differences in like, in like being married versus

398
00:36:15,240 --> 00:36:21,240
being not married, but not single and versus being single. Cause you, everybody's been single.

399
00:36:22,200 --> 00:36:27,640
Everybody's been dating somebody and only one person's been married. So we're going to get a

400
00:36:27,640 --> 00:36:32,760
lot of information from you cause we don't have any idea. I'm not the expert, but like, don't y'all

401
00:36:32,760 --> 00:36:40,120
feel like sometimes like single people get the shaft. Oh yeah. I mean, I remember, you know,

402
00:36:41,080 --> 00:36:47,320
going on trips and doing things when you're single, people just assume, oh, you know, they'll,

403
00:36:47,320 --> 00:36:51,640
they'll sleep on the pullout couch. Yeah, no big deal. She'll be okay with it. She doesn't have

404
00:36:51,640 --> 00:36:58,200
somebody to, she doesn't need a bed. She'll be okay. And I'm like, for the rest of my life,

405
00:36:58,200 --> 00:37:03,240
no, and I also think it depends on who the couple is too. You know, like if you're going on a road

406
00:37:03,240 --> 00:37:07,240
trip, like surely to God, they would at least invite the single person to ride with them,

407
00:37:08,280 --> 00:37:13,240
but maybe not. Yeah, I guess. But I mean, who knows? Like, I don't know. I feel like it,

408
00:37:14,360 --> 00:37:19,880
you know, nobody's ever going to say to the, to the couple or any of the couples that are going,

409
00:37:19,880 --> 00:37:23,960
Hey, do you mind just like sleeping on the pullout couch? Like, I don't know. I don't know. I don't

410
00:37:23,960 --> 00:37:30,680
know. I've just learned my lesson, I guess, as far as that goes. And I'm not typically, I'm either

411
00:37:30,680 --> 00:37:37,640
the one planning and booking. And so I know I'm going to get a room that I want, or I know I'm

412
00:37:37,640 --> 00:37:41,800
adjacent to the person planning and booking. And so I'm not going to be like, Hey, I'm going to

413
00:37:41,800 --> 00:37:47,800
sleep on the pullout mattress. I'm going to sleep on the pullout mattress. I'm going to sleep on the

414
00:37:47,800 --> 00:38:15,980
one put plank to the point is, or whatever. I'm going to sleep on the Backing on the long

415
00:38:15,980 --> 00:38:19,980
they're not having to like pay as much as the people that get a king size bed.

416
00:38:20,060 --> 00:38:23,360
Well, I don't know if I agree with that necessarily. I mean, I've done,

417
00:38:23,360 --> 00:38:28,820
and these have mostly been girls trips, not like couples trips or group trips

418
00:38:28,820 --> 00:38:31,120
or I mean, group trips as an all girls or whatever.

419
00:38:31,120 --> 00:38:36,460
But I mean, I don't I don't know if I necessarily agree with that specifically.

420
00:38:37,780 --> 00:38:42,160
But I've also been in the group that's been in shared room situations before,

421
00:38:42,160 --> 00:38:45,260
like the last time that we went on a beach trip with kind of like the

422
00:38:45,260 --> 00:38:50,020
quote unquote apartment crew and those, you know, immediately adjacent from that.

423
00:38:50,320 --> 00:38:53,820
I was in a room with three other people and granted they were two queen beds

424
00:38:53,820 --> 00:38:55,820
and it wasn't like a bunk situation.

425
00:38:55,820 --> 00:38:58,820
But I mean, I've been there and I didn't pay any less

426
00:38:58,820 --> 00:39:01,900
and I didn't expect to pay any less because I was sharing a room with somebody.

427
00:39:02,200 --> 00:39:09,160
But after that trip, that prompted me to be much more aware of.

428
00:39:10,660 --> 00:39:13,360
Where I'm going to be sleeping, if a trip is being planned,

429
00:39:13,360 --> 00:39:16,740
where I'm willing to sleep and also putting my foot down, just saying,

430
00:39:16,740 --> 00:39:18,000
I'm not going to sleep there.

431
00:39:18,000 --> 00:39:20,400
Like you said, I'm not going to sleep in a bunk room.

432
00:39:20,400 --> 00:39:22,040
Well, and that's so that's the thing.

433
00:39:22,040 --> 00:39:26,160
So but then people like get all pissy when you're when you try to put your foot down.

434
00:39:26,160 --> 00:39:33,240
Like so, you know, there have been situations I used to be very much like,

435
00:39:33,240 --> 00:39:36,800
oh, whatever, I'll just I don't want to say anything to piss anybody off.

436
00:39:37,040 --> 00:39:39,960
Now I will try and I still don't want to piss anybody off

437
00:39:39,960 --> 00:39:43,160
because I know how people get sometimes Sarah, you get like this, too.

438
00:39:43,160 --> 00:39:48,460
We all get like this where somebody's like, well, somebody you've done all this work

439
00:39:48,460 --> 00:39:52,760
and you picked out a house and then somebody's like, well, that means that who's

440
00:39:52,760 --> 00:39:55,840
that means that somebody's going to have to sleep on a bunk bed.

441
00:39:55,960 --> 00:39:58,600
So can we look for like I did this with our lake place.

442
00:39:58,600 --> 00:40:01,200
I was like, can we we need to find a different place

443
00:40:01,200 --> 00:40:05,440
because like there's not enough places for people to sleep.

444
00:40:05,440 --> 00:40:06,960
That's going to be comfortable.

445
00:40:06,960 --> 00:40:11,840
And I have gotten to the point where I'm starting to try to put my foot down.

446
00:40:11,840 --> 00:40:15,300
But then people get ticked off and they're like, why is she being so difficult?

447
00:40:15,300 --> 00:40:16,960
And I'm like, I'm not trying to be difficult.

448
00:40:16,960 --> 00:40:20,260
I'm just trying to let you know that just because you got you're married

449
00:40:20,260 --> 00:40:23,640
and you have a boyfriend or whatever doesn't mean and because you planned it

450
00:40:23,640 --> 00:40:27,760
doesn't mean that you get to put everybody else in a room that sucks.

451
00:40:28,100 --> 00:40:29,700
Well, and I understand what you're saying.

452
00:40:29,700 --> 00:40:32,860
I guess this this is where I'm coming from.

453
00:40:32,860 --> 00:40:35,660
I guess with it is that I may have picked a place,

454
00:40:35,660 --> 00:40:39,500
but and you can have every comment in the world that you want to

455
00:40:39,500 --> 00:40:41,000
until it's been booked.

456
00:40:41,000 --> 00:40:45,260
But if you've committed to it and you're you're going.

457
00:40:46,260 --> 00:40:47,600
Oh, yeah. Whatever.

458
00:40:47,600 --> 00:40:49,540
Then don't change anything.

459
00:40:49,540 --> 00:40:50,740
Don't add anybody.

460
00:40:50,740 --> 00:40:53,300
Don't do anything like that because you've already committed.

461
00:40:53,300 --> 00:40:54,500
If it's not that's different.

462
00:40:54,500 --> 00:40:56,140
But yeah, booked thing.

463
00:40:56,140 --> 00:40:57,100
Yeah, absolutely.

464
00:40:57,100 --> 00:41:00,560
You can give whatever feedback you want and say, I'm not comfortable with this.

465
00:41:00,560 --> 00:41:02,400
I would rather do this, you know, whatever.

466
00:41:02,400 --> 00:41:03,800
That's totally fair.

467
00:41:03,800 --> 00:41:07,140
But if you've committed and then somebody in that group

468
00:41:07,140 --> 00:41:09,660
decides to make alterations to things.

469
00:41:10,500 --> 00:41:12,700
No, I ain't fucking with that.

470
00:41:12,700 --> 00:41:13,700
It's not happening.

471
00:41:13,700 --> 00:41:16,700
Well, no, if you're going to have a big enough group, everybody should have a say

472
00:41:16,700 --> 00:41:17,840
or at least say, sure.

473
00:41:17,840 --> 00:41:19,540
Yes, I agree. Right.

474
00:41:19,540 --> 00:41:23,900
And I mean, I also think that it sucks sometimes because, you know, I hate

475
00:41:23,900 --> 00:41:25,040
I don't like doing it.

476
00:41:25,040 --> 00:41:30,040
And I also know that, you know, look, trying to find an Airbnb or a place to stay

477
00:41:30,040 --> 00:41:33,260
that you can get everybody in and it's going to be all comfortable.

478
00:41:33,260 --> 00:41:36,260
It's hard to find and it's hard to like research that stuff.

479
00:41:36,260 --> 00:41:37,340
And I know how it is.

480
00:41:37,340 --> 00:41:40,960
So when somebody comes back and it's like, well, I don't want to sleep on this.

481
00:41:40,960 --> 00:41:45,140
And you've planned in your head, all the couples are going to sleep in these rooms

482
00:41:45,140 --> 00:41:48,460
with the king size bed and the every brother else is going to sleep here, here

483
00:41:48,460 --> 00:41:50,060
and here and Christina.

484
00:41:50,060 --> 00:41:51,060
Hey, Christina.

485
00:41:51,060 --> 00:41:53,660
And we're going to make Christina sleep on the pullout couch just because she's

486
00:41:53,660 --> 00:41:57,000
so tiny and she won't have a problem with it, which she probably wouldn't have a

487
00:41:57,000 --> 00:41:57,500
problem with it.

488
00:41:57,500 --> 00:41:58,600
But like she shouldn't have to.

489
00:41:58,600 --> 00:41:59,360
You know what I mean?

490
00:41:59,360 --> 00:42:00,360
She can sleep with me.

491
00:42:00,360 --> 00:42:05,160
Listen, Christina slept in the bed with me at Rose and DJ's house on New Year's

492
00:42:05,160 --> 00:42:08,600
Eve and she just like it was like the tiniest little like angel over there.

493
00:42:08,600 --> 00:42:12,760
She didn't move at all either that or I was just passed out real hard, but she

494
00:42:12,760 --> 00:42:13,760
did wake me up.

495
00:42:13,760 --> 00:42:17,660
I was like, she woke me up and I, yeah, I ended up vomiting that morning.

496
00:42:17,660 --> 00:42:23,060
Listen, I don't want to sleep in a room full of people because I snore like a man.

497
00:42:23,060 --> 00:42:24,860
Well, nobody wants to sleep in a room full of people.

498
00:42:24,860 --> 00:42:26,160
I want to sleep in the room with you.

499
00:42:26,160 --> 00:42:29,960
I stay at your house on the semi-regular.

500
00:42:29,960 --> 00:42:32,660
I know I have to put in earplugs and play brown noise.

501
00:42:32,660 --> 00:42:35,160
You play brown noise every night anyway.

502
00:42:35,160 --> 00:42:39,160
I know, but that's because Rosie and Cricket snore too.

503
00:42:39,160 --> 00:42:42,860
No, but I do put in earplugs when you start snoring.

504
00:42:42,860 --> 00:42:45,760
Oh Lord.

505
00:42:45,760 --> 00:42:50,160
The other day on my lunch, Brandon was at home and I just did not feel good.

506
00:42:50,160 --> 00:42:55,260
And he laid, we just laid down on top of the covers and laid down and I mean, I

507
00:42:55,260 --> 00:42:58,860
was like, I, we never sleep like this, but I just had my head on his chest or

508
00:42:58,860 --> 00:43:02,060
whatever and we lay down for like an hour and I had an alarm that went off

509
00:43:02,060 --> 00:43:05,360
because I had a meeting, you know, after my lunch was over or whatever.

510
00:43:05,760 --> 00:43:08,960
And I woke up and he was like, girl, you were sleeping.

511
00:43:08,960 --> 00:43:10,060
I was like, what are you talking about?

512
00:43:10,060 --> 00:43:13,160
He was like, you were snoring in my face and I didn't even feel like I was

513
00:43:13,160 --> 00:43:16,960
all the way asleep or anything, but I was just like, snore ran.

514
00:43:17,160 --> 00:43:18,260
I do that all the time.

515
00:43:18,560 --> 00:43:21,860
Dale's like, I'll be like, why are you not rubbing my back anymore?

516
00:43:21,860 --> 00:43:24,560
He's like, bitch, you've been asleep for 30 minutes.

517
00:43:24,560 --> 00:43:25,260
What do you mean?

518
00:43:25,260 --> 00:43:27,660
Okay.

519
00:43:27,660 --> 00:43:32,860
And the reality, I guess I have, my dad, I wake up snoring all the time.

520
00:43:32,960 --> 00:43:33,560
Do you?

521
00:43:34,360 --> 00:43:37,260
I've only done that like a couple of times, like, and it's only like when I'm

522
00:43:37,260 --> 00:43:40,860
like, I think I've been drinking or something and I'm in a weird position and

523
00:43:40,860 --> 00:43:42,760
it'll be like, I do that.

524
00:43:44,260 --> 00:43:45,460
I don't snore though.

525
00:43:45,460 --> 00:43:46,760
And I'm like, do I sleep apnea?

526
00:43:47,860 --> 00:43:50,760
You don't want me and Jessica sleep so good in the bed together because

527
00:43:50,760 --> 00:43:51,560
we both snore.

528
00:43:51,560 --> 00:43:51,960
Yep.

529
00:43:51,960 --> 00:43:57,060
And we sleep butt to butt.

530
00:43:57,060 --> 00:43:57,660
Yes.

531
00:43:57,660 --> 00:43:58,460
That's funny.

532
00:43:58,860 --> 00:43:59,060
Yeah.

533
00:43:59,060 --> 00:44:01,160
So I thought you and Lisa slept in a bed together.

534
00:44:01,160 --> 00:44:03,560
You liked sleeping with Lisa because she doesn't move at all.

535
00:44:03,560 --> 00:44:03,960
Yeah.

536
00:44:03,960 --> 00:44:07,460
But the whole time that we were in San Diego and Lisa, this is the first

537
00:44:07,460 --> 00:44:08,560
time you might be hearing this.

538
00:44:08,560 --> 00:44:10,760
So, I mean, it's not apologies to you.

539
00:44:10,760 --> 00:44:14,760
Apologies to me because I was so damn self-conscious that she was going to

540
00:44:14,760 --> 00:44:17,560
be bitching at me for snoring that I barely slept while we were out.

541
00:44:17,660 --> 00:44:18,060
I know.

542
00:44:18,060 --> 00:44:20,360
Remember you saying that you were like, I didn't, I was like, you were like,

543
00:44:20,360 --> 00:44:22,460
I didn't sleep much because I was scared I was going to snore.

544
00:44:22,460 --> 00:44:25,360
I also like to flip-flop in the bed and whatever.

545
00:44:25,660 --> 00:44:29,360
And like I turned side to side a lot at night or whatever, especially

546
00:44:29,360 --> 00:44:30,460
when I'm falling asleep.

547
00:44:30,460 --> 00:44:33,060
But yeah, I did not sleep real good because I was so self-conscious

548
00:44:33,060 --> 00:44:33,960
about my snoring.

549
00:44:33,960 --> 00:44:35,260
I used to sleep in one position.

550
00:44:35,260 --> 00:44:37,560
My dad would be like, you're the best like sleeper because I would sleep

551
00:44:37,560 --> 00:44:39,460
in one position on my back and I wouldn't move.

552
00:44:39,760 --> 00:44:41,760
I toss and turn now.

553
00:44:41,760 --> 00:44:43,960
I don't know what's what happened.

554
00:44:44,260 --> 00:44:44,660
Huh?

555
00:44:44,760 --> 00:44:47,060
I wake up and I pull, I pull all the cover.

556
00:44:48,160 --> 00:44:49,160
I pull the cover.

557
00:44:49,160 --> 00:44:50,560
I toss and turn.

558
00:44:50,760 --> 00:44:51,560
I don't pull the covers.

559
00:44:51,560 --> 00:44:53,360
My covers pretty much stay in the same spot.

560
00:44:53,460 --> 00:44:55,860
And you know what really ticks me off if somebody else gets in the bed

561
00:44:55,860 --> 00:44:58,160
and I wake up the next morning, the covers are all over the place

562
00:44:58,260 --> 00:44:59,760
or they steal my covers.

563
00:44:59,760 --> 00:45:01,560
I'm be like, oh hell no.

564
00:45:01,560 --> 00:45:02,860
I don't do that.

565
00:45:02,860 --> 00:45:03,360
You don't do that.

566
00:45:03,360 --> 00:45:06,560
No, but there are people that do that and I'm like, why are my covers all over there?

567
00:45:06,560 --> 00:45:09,460
Joleen messes up the covers at our house.

568
00:45:09,460 --> 00:45:10,660
I woke up the other morning.

569
00:45:10,660 --> 00:45:11,860
I was so pissed.

570
00:45:12,060 --> 00:45:12,660
I woke up.

571
00:45:12,660 --> 00:45:15,060
I had like, we have a king-size bed.

572
00:45:15,260 --> 00:45:18,760
So, I mean, I say we, I have a king-size bed, but Brandon was staying

573
00:45:18,760 --> 00:45:23,360
with me that night and I had about two feet of space and no covers.

574
00:45:23,360 --> 00:45:27,460
And my dog was like cuddled up so close next to me.

575
00:45:27,460 --> 00:45:29,660
And I was like, bitch, if you're cold, get under the covers.

576
00:45:29,660 --> 00:45:30,960
And then he had all the covers.

577
00:45:30,960 --> 00:45:32,760
I was so mad when I woke up.

578
00:45:32,960 --> 00:45:33,660
So mad.

579
00:45:35,160 --> 00:45:36,560
She punched me in the face this morning.

580
00:45:36,560 --> 00:45:38,360
If you hadn't woken up, you wouldn't have known.

581
00:45:38,360 --> 00:45:39,960
No, I wouldn't have, but I woke up.

582
00:45:41,060 --> 00:45:44,760
Well, so back to the single people versus married people.

583
00:45:46,060 --> 00:45:46,760
What y'all got?

584
00:45:46,760 --> 00:45:47,160
What y'all got?

585
00:45:47,160 --> 00:45:50,860
What you got for the married peeps and the, and the, so like, I don't, I don't know.

586
00:45:50,860 --> 00:45:55,860
I think I'm struggling as far as input goes with this one because I've

587
00:45:55,860 --> 00:45:59,760
never been a single person that's traveling with couples on a trip.

588
00:45:59,760 --> 00:46:00,360
I guess.

589
00:46:00,360 --> 00:46:04,260
I mean, kind of not really my friend, Kate, that I was talking about, that

590
00:46:04,260 --> 00:46:08,160
I went to Courtland with, she moved out to Colorado after school and she

591
00:46:08,160 --> 00:46:14,260
got married a handful of years ago in Colorado and I went out there and

592
00:46:14,260 --> 00:46:16,360
met my, our other friend, Kate.

593
00:46:16,360 --> 00:46:20,560
There were two Kates, two Sarah's that was like our friend group.

594
00:46:20,560 --> 00:46:23,060
Then we had an, um, Abby and a cat too.

595
00:46:23,460 --> 00:46:28,860
But, um, I was going to meet the other Kate and she was dating the same guy

596
00:46:28,860 --> 00:46:30,160
that she's dating now at the time.

597
00:46:30,460 --> 00:46:33,060
And so I was staying in a hotel room with them.

598
00:46:33,060 --> 00:46:36,760
Granted he slept somewhere else and I slept in bed with her, but

599
00:46:36,760 --> 00:46:39,660
that was really kind of the only, I don't really remember being

600
00:46:39,660 --> 00:46:41,460
single and going on couples trips.

601
00:46:41,460 --> 00:46:43,960
I mean, you know, I were single for Jessica.

602
00:46:44,260 --> 00:46:45,460
I was single forever.

603
00:46:45,460 --> 00:46:46,160
Jesus.

604
00:46:46,160 --> 00:46:50,260
Well, we never really had boyfriends at the same time.

605
00:46:50,260 --> 00:46:53,660
Like, yeah, one didn't really travel with the other.

606
00:46:53,660 --> 00:46:54,360
I don't know.

607
00:46:54,360 --> 00:46:58,260
I mean, I've just never been in that spot to have to travel with

608
00:46:58,260 --> 00:46:59,560
couples, I guess.

609
00:46:59,560 --> 00:46:59,960
Yeah.

610
00:47:00,360 --> 00:47:04,060
Well, what about like going, like, you know, when you were single

611
00:47:04,060 --> 00:47:07,960
versus like with your friends that have husbands or boyfriends or whatever,

612
00:47:08,160 --> 00:47:11,260
that maybe we'd be going to dinner and they would invite their other

613
00:47:11,260 --> 00:47:14,160
couple friend because they need to have somebody, but then fifth wheel

614
00:47:14,160 --> 00:47:15,360
at all day, I don't need to.

615
00:47:15,360 --> 00:47:15,960
I will too.

616
00:47:15,960 --> 00:47:20,160
And I would rather fifth wheel than have honestly literally no pressure.

617
00:47:20,260 --> 00:47:20,960
Yes.

618
00:47:21,060 --> 00:47:25,660
Like I did that all the time with people don't invite a single person.

619
00:47:25,860 --> 00:47:28,460
Y'all will because I'm because we've like known each other.

620
00:47:28,460 --> 00:47:31,860
Yeah, like but like it's like people they'll be like, oh, we're going

621
00:47:31,860 --> 00:47:34,760
to go on this dinner and it's and they invite all their couple friends

622
00:47:34,760 --> 00:47:36,960
because they're like trying to get the dude they need it.

623
00:47:36,960 --> 00:47:37,860
They want to bring their husband.

624
00:47:37,860 --> 00:47:40,560
They want their husband to be able to hang out with somebody.

625
00:47:40,560 --> 00:47:40,860
Right.

626
00:47:40,860 --> 00:47:43,560
Is how I feel because I mean, that's how I would feel if I was doing it.

627
00:47:43,560 --> 00:47:47,660
Except I always, uh, Dale's the only guy or he used to me.

628
00:47:47,660 --> 00:47:48,860
I mean, think about it.

629
00:47:48,860 --> 00:47:49,260
That's true.

630
00:47:49,260 --> 00:47:51,460
Like he would tag along with all the girls.

631
00:47:51,460 --> 00:47:53,260
Brandon's the only guy sometimes too.

632
00:47:53,460 --> 00:47:53,860
Yeah.

633
00:47:53,860 --> 00:47:57,860
You know, thank you babe for being so sweet and loving my friends.

634
00:47:58,360 --> 00:48:00,860
Maybe not loving tolerating them.

635
00:48:00,860 --> 00:48:01,760
No, I'm just kidding.

636
00:48:01,760 --> 00:48:03,460
Oh my God.

637
00:48:03,460 --> 00:48:06,060
I wonder what he says about us when we get, when he gets home

638
00:48:06,060 --> 00:48:07,260
after hanging out with us all day.

639
00:48:07,960 --> 00:48:08,860
He does love y'all.

640
00:48:08,860 --> 00:48:09,560
I promise.

641
00:48:09,860 --> 00:48:10,760
We love him too.

642
00:48:10,960 --> 00:48:11,760
Absolutely.

643
00:48:11,760 --> 00:48:16,460
But in see, I feel like I personally feel like I do a good job of including

644
00:48:16,460 --> 00:48:19,960
everybody when we do stuff, I send out great messages.

645
00:48:19,960 --> 00:48:20,860
You ain't got a choice.

646
00:48:21,360 --> 00:48:24,060
No, but I'm just saying, you know, some people like we were talking

647
00:48:24,060 --> 00:48:25,460
about how people isolate.

648
00:48:25,660 --> 00:48:28,160
I feel like I have done a really good job of not doing that.

649
00:48:28,160 --> 00:48:28,460
Yeah.

650
00:48:28,560 --> 00:48:31,760
Like I'll send out messages like me and Dale are going to do this.

651
00:48:31,760 --> 00:48:35,560
If anybody wants to tag along, you know, and I know you come a lot.

652
00:48:35,760 --> 00:48:36,860
Lisa would come a lot.

653
00:48:36,860 --> 00:48:37,560
Christina.

654
00:48:37,560 --> 00:48:40,960
I mean, you know, nobody, you know, really cared if they didn't have

655
00:48:40,960 --> 00:48:42,460
a significant other to bring with them.

656
00:48:42,460 --> 00:48:43,560
It doesn't really matter.

657
00:48:43,560 --> 00:48:47,060
I have just been in situations where it's been like that and it's been

658
00:48:47,060 --> 00:48:51,960
like it's been kind of awkward and or, or I feel like it's not awkward for me.

659
00:48:52,360 --> 00:48:56,960
I feel like the other people feel like they think that I'm feel awkward

660
00:48:57,160 --> 00:48:59,560
or they're awkward because I don't have somebody.

661
00:48:59,560 --> 00:49:00,660
I don't know what it is.

662
00:49:00,760 --> 00:49:03,860
Like it's like really weird because I'm like, I'm fine being there by myself.

663
00:49:03,860 --> 00:49:04,960
Like I've always been that way.

664
00:49:05,060 --> 00:49:08,960
But like that's so bizarre to me because they'll be like, would you like a day?

665
00:49:08,960 --> 00:49:12,460
You want to invite somebody putting that on you projecting that on you

666
00:49:12,460 --> 00:49:15,560
because you and I have a very similar personality type.

667
00:49:15,560 --> 00:49:16,660
We can talk to the wall.

668
00:49:16,760 --> 00:49:18,260
It does not matter who is there.

669
00:49:18,260 --> 00:49:21,960
It doesn't matter if we have a designated human to speak to.

670
00:49:22,060 --> 00:49:23,360
We're going to figure it out.

671
00:49:23,460 --> 00:49:23,960
Right.

672
00:49:24,060 --> 00:49:25,960
So it has never bothered me.

673
00:49:25,960 --> 00:49:28,160
It's just been it's an interesting thing.

674
00:49:28,160 --> 00:49:28,860
You know what I mean?

675
00:49:28,860 --> 00:49:29,760
Like, I don't know.

676
00:49:30,160 --> 00:49:30,960
I feel like that too.

677
00:49:30,960 --> 00:49:36,260
So, um, but how is it like, so is it different being married?

678
00:49:36,360 --> 00:49:37,260
Tell us how it is.

679
00:49:37,260 --> 00:49:40,260
Um, I don't really feel like it's that much different.

680
00:49:40,260 --> 00:49:44,360
I mean, me and Dale moved in together after we got engaged.

681
00:49:45,460 --> 00:49:47,160
And I mean, it really didn't change.

682
00:49:47,160 --> 00:49:50,560
I mean, it's just like, we have rings on our fingers now on a piece of paper.

683
00:49:51,660 --> 00:49:55,260
You know, I mean, honestly, I don't feel like it's different.

684
00:49:55,260 --> 00:50:03,860
I mean, I do like the fact that it's like, you know, you have somebody to always count on and you know, a travel partner, because you know, I love to travel.

685
00:50:03,860 --> 00:50:05,860
So we always take trips.

686
00:50:05,860 --> 00:50:07,460
We just actually planned a trip today.

687
00:50:07,460 --> 00:50:09,060
We're going to Charleston in June.

688
00:50:09,060 --> 00:50:11,260
Y'all always, y'all got a lot of trips.

689
00:50:11,260 --> 00:50:11,760
Yeah.

690
00:50:11,760 --> 00:50:12,260
I don't know.

691
00:50:12,260 --> 00:50:17,460
Well, we try, well, you know, we're going to try to have fun before we, you know, have the babies.

692
00:50:17,460 --> 00:50:19,060
If that's going to happen, we'll see.

693
00:50:19,060 --> 00:50:19,860
God willing.

694
00:50:19,860 --> 00:50:22,160
But, um, I don't know.

695
00:50:22,160 --> 00:50:24,260
I don't feel like it's, I don't really feel like it's different.

696
00:50:24,260 --> 00:50:33,060
I feel like you could ask Dale and he would say the same thing, but I feel like for some people it probably is, but like our personalities and just how our relationship was before we got married.

697
00:50:33,060 --> 00:50:34,660
It's really not different.

698
00:50:34,660 --> 00:50:39,260
Yeah. And outside perspective, you know, just looking at y'all.

699
00:50:39,260 --> 00:50:46,060
Nothing has changed as far as, you know, your behavior or participation in anything.

700
00:50:46,060 --> 00:50:53,260
No, I'm just going to say right now when you and Dale have a baby, it is going to be weird AF.

701
00:50:53,260 --> 00:51:03,060
Like, and if you have a baby, like I feel like if anybody, any of us, because I feel like I've known you since you're like 17 and it's like, and I know you've known her more earlier than that.

702
00:51:03,060 --> 00:51:06,660
And I just feel like you having a little kid running around like it's weird.

703
00:51:06,660 --> 00:51:12,160
Can you imagine me having a kid running around like, no, no, it is going to be weird.

704
00:51:12,160 --> 00:51:12,860
Can you imagine?

705
00:51:12,860 --> 00:51:17,260
God, what if we all had like two kids like running around upstairs?

706
00:51:17,260 --> 00:51:19,060
Like that'd be weird.

707
00:51:19,060 --> 00:51:20,060
Yeah.

708
00:51:20,060 --> 00:51:26,360
I mean, it's just weird to me and because I don't really have that many friends that have kids and I have like my brothers have kids.

709
00:51:26,360 --> 00:51:27,460
None of us really do.

710
00:51:27,460 --> 00:51:28,960
I mean, yeah, I know.

711
00:51:28,960 --> 00:51:34,060
Even like my friends from high school, both Kate, O.G.

712
00:51:34,060 --> 00:51:35,460
Kate or Colorado.

713
00:51:35,460 --> 00:51:44,560
Okay, I guess if we will and our friend Sarah, Sarah had a kid a long time ago and you know, when she before she got married.

714
00:51:44,560 --> 00:51:50,160
But but they're the, you know, only ones out of like my tight knit friend group from high school that have kids.

715
00:51:50,160 --> 00:51:56,460
You know, I kind of feel it makes me feel a little very kind of lucky that I have that none of my friends like jumped.

716
00:51:56,460 --> 00:51:59,960
You're not the only one, but you're like not the only one that doesn't have kids.

717
00:51:59,960 --> 00:52:01,260
I'm not the only one.

718
00:52:01,260 --> 00:52:09,960
It's just that that none of my friends had had kids because I would feel so because it would be it would be a lot different because I'm single and don't have kids.

719
00:52:09,960 --> 00:52:10,360
Right.

720
00:52:10,360 --> 00:52:21,860
And if you're single and don't have kids and then everybody else has kids, they're going to be doing other stuff with their kids and you're going to be like, I'm single and I don't have dynamic is very different than the norm for people in their mid thirties.

721
00:52:21,860 --> 00:52:31,460
Like our friends are kind of just now starting to get married and within this friend group anyways and have kids.

722
00:52:31,460 --> 00:52:31,860
Yeah.

723
00:52:31,860 --> 00:52:39,260
I mean, look at all of the people that, you know, we are mutual friends with that have all had babies like in the last year.

724
00:52:39,260 --> 00:52:48,860
I mean, it's pretty much like a lot of people and it's first kids in their mid thirties, which is rare, which I'm glad that we're breaking the mold on that.

725
00:52:48,860 --> 00:52:57,260
And that's, you know, the traditional of having children when you're 24 and 25 years old is like, I don't know how people afforded to have a kid when they were 20.

726
00:52:57,260 --> 00:52:57,860
They didn't.

727
00:52:57,860 --> 00:52:58,460
They did.

728
00:52:58,460 --> 00:52:58,860
Yeah.

729
00:52:58,860 --> 00:53:00,060
It's like, just try to make it work.

730
00:53:00,060 --> 00:53:00,560
Yeah.

731
00:53:00,560 --> 00:53:03,860
No, that's wild.

732
00:53:03,860 --> 00:53:04,360
Yeah.

733
00:53:04,360 --> 00:53:18,460
You're probably asking the wrong person because I don't feel like my dynamic has changed much, but I have seen a lot of people and I've known a lot of people personally who have completely changed.

734
00:53:18,460 --> 00:53:25,860
Once they got married, not hang out with their friends anymore, completely rely on that person.

735
00:53:25,860 --> 00:53:31,060
I don't ever think you should only solely rely on your significant other.

736
00:53:31,060 --> 00:53:32,460
And that's absolutely not.

737
00:53:32,460 --> 00:53:33,060
Yeah.

738
00:53:33,060 --> 00:53:42,860
And I also think it's one of those things where like you, you have to still give to your friends what you expect to receive.

739
00:53:42,860 --> 00:53:59,460
And just because as a person who is getting married or is pregnant or, you know, has just had a baby, anything like that, you cannot just expect people to check on you because you have things going on in your life.

740
00:53:59,460 --> 00:54:06,860
Like just because, you know, your friend is single and they're not dating anybody and they don't have this like major event coming up in their life.

741
00:54:06,860 --> 00:54:15,060
Just because that's happening doesn't mean that you shouldn't check in on them.

742
00:54:15,060 --> 00:54:24,060
Okay, I'm laughing at this because it's about things you do in a relationship and you say, hey, I like you.

743
00:54:24,060 --> 00:54:26,660
Wait, why'd you do that without doing it on here?

744
00:54:26,660 --> 00:54:28,060
Go back to the recording.

745
00:54:28,060 --> 00:54:29,060
Did we talk about that?

746
00:54:29,060 --> 00:54:30,660
Yeah.

747
00:54:30,660 --> 00:54:31,960
Okay, so we're back.

748
00:54:31,960 --> 00:54:32,160
All right.

749
00:54:32,160 --> 00:54:32,860
It's still recording.

750
00:54:32,860 --> 00:54:34,060
So, okay.

751
00:54:34,060 --> 00:54:35,760
So I just want y'all to laugh at this.

752
00:54:35,760 --> 00:54:42,260
Emily was talking about, you know, things that you do in a relationship that maybe you didn't do when you were single.

753
00:54:42,260 --> 00:54:48,360
And one of the things that she said was riding a tandem bike and tandem kayaking.

754
00:54:48,360 --> 00:54:51,960
What the fuck?

755
00:54:51,960 --> 00:54:53,760
Okay, so really, okay.

756
00:54:53,760 --> 00:54:55,560
Have you ever tandem biked with somebody?

757
00:54:55,560 --> 00:54:56,860
No, but I would really like to.

758
00:54:56,860 --> 00:54:57,360
It would be fun.

759
00:54:57,360 --> 00:54:58,660
Do you want to do it?

760
00:54:58,660 --> 00:55:00,460
Let's go to the beach and do it.

761
00:55:00,460 --> 00:55:01,560
I don't want you to do it at the beach.

762
00:55:01,560 --> 00:55:03,560
Go to California and do it.

763
00:55:03,560 --> 00:55:11,260
So, okay, but really, kayaking, you can't, I mean, you can, but like it's not really safe to go kayaking alone.

764
00:55:11,260 --> 00:55:12,860
And I love to kayak.

765
00:55:12,860 --> 00:55:18,160
And unless I have a friend that will go with me, I won't ride in my own separate kayak.

766
00:55:18,160 --> 00:55:18,760
Right.

767
00:55:18,760 --> 00:55:19,360
A separate kayak.

768
00:55:19,360 --> 00:55:21,160
I know, but I put it on the second thing.

769
00:55:21,160 --> 00:55:27,060
But like, that's what, but like literally, it's not, I mean, you know, it's not, it's not safe to go.

770
00:55:27,060 --> 00:55:31,860
And then Emily says things that you do when you're in a relationship having children.

771
00:55:31,860 --> 00:55:35,560
I mean, you can do this when you're single, sort of, but not as easy.

772
00:55:35,560 --> 00:55:36,360
It's not.

773
00:55:36,360 --> 00:55:36,860
Well, also.

774
00:55:36,860 --> 00:55:40,860
You have to have sperm and an egg.

775
00:55:40,860 --> 00:55:47,360
Also, a thing that you do when you're in a relationship per Emily, have a designated driver that is going to your house.

776
00:55:47,360 --> 00:55:49,960
There's no such thing as Uber or Lyft.

777
00:55:49,960 --> 00:55:50,660
You need to be able to.

778
00:55:50,660 --> 00:55:53,760
Yeah, well, you have to pay like $50 for an Uber or Lyft.

779
00:55:53,760 --> 00:55:54,260
Excuse me.

780
00:55:54,260 --> 00:55:56,160
Dale is my designated driver half the time.

781
00:55:56,160 --> 00:55:57,460
Yeah.

782
00:55:57,460 --> 00:55:57,960
I mean, like.

783
00:55:57,960 --> 00:55:58,760
Brandon's mine for sure.

784
00:55:58,760 --> 00:56:00,060
That's like a big one.

785
00:56:00,060 --> 00:56:04,760
And it's like not somebody that you have to be like, do you mind taking me home on your way?

786
00:56:04,760 --> 00:56:06,160
Like I'm always like that.

787
00:56:06,160 --> 00:56:08,060
I'm like, can somebody take me home on your way home?

788
00:56:08,060 --> 00:56:10,460
Or like Sarah goes and she's like, I'm leaving early.

789
00:56:10,460 --> 00:56:13,060
And I'm like, can somebody else take me home, please?

790
00:56:13,060 --> 00:56:14,360
Yeah, but you know, people don't know.

791
00:56:14,360 --> 00:56:15,960
They don't because everybody lives out here.

792
00:56:15,960 --> 00:56:17,060
But like still, it's like.

793
00:56:17,060 --> 00:56:18,560
I'm never picking you up again.

794
00:56:18,560 --> 00:56:20,760
No, that's not what I meant.

795
00:56:20,760 --> 00:56:21,760
You crazy.

796
00:56:21,760 --> 00:56:24,460
Why you take, you take, she takes everything out of context.

797
00:56:24,460 --> 00:56:26,060
Well, so Emily, let's, okay.

798
00:56:26,060 --> 00:56:29,860
So we've talked about things you can do when you're in a relationship going on dates.

799
00:56:29,860 --> 00:56:30,560
Okay. Yeah.

800
00:56:30,560 --> 00:56:32,060
I mean, obviously we can go on dates.

801
00:56:32,060 --> 00:56:34,460
A traveling partner like a traveling partner is a good one.

802
00:56:34,460 --> 00:56:35,160
That's a good one.

803
00:56:35,160 --> 00:56:42,360
I mean, I will say I've always been a traveler, but it's been much easier with Dale because I'm just like,

804
00:56:42,360 --> 00:56:43,360
hey, guess what?

805
00:56:43,360 --> 00:56:45,060
We're going on a trip in two months.

806
00:56:45,060 --> 00:56:46,660
And he's like, okay.

807
00:56:46,660 --> 00:56:47,660
I mean, you know.

808
00:56:47,660 --> 00:56:50,860
Yeah, it's easy because you like friends you have to like plan it.

809
00:56:50,860 --> 00:56:57,060
And yeah, but like with, you know, a husband or a boyfriend or whatever you have like that person that's going to definitely go.

810
00:56:57,060 --> 00:56:57,860
And it's fun.

811
00:56:57,860 --> 00:56:58,460
I mean, right.

812
00:56:58,460 --> 00:57:03,760
Yeah, and it's like we always have so much fun on all of our trips when you always have somebody that will be there to go with you.

813
00:57:03,760 --> 00:57:09,060
And like, like I've in the past several years thought about doing like a like a singles.

814
00:57:09,060 --> 00:57:16,560
I mean, like, but then I'm like, I mean, they were those trips that like Megan went on.

815
00:57:16,560 --> 00:57:18,160
Remember the trips that Megan went on?

816
00:57:18,160 --> 00:57:19,360
She going like a singles thing.

817
00:57:19,360 --> 00:57:21,660
I thought it was like the singles thing when she went to Europe.

818
00:57:21,660 --> 00:57:22,260
I didn't.

819
00:57:22,260 --> 00:57:25,460
I thought she went with somebody that you can find like that.

820
00:57:25,460 --> 00:57:28,360
Yeah, I'm just, I'm still a little scared to do those.

821
00:57:28,360 --> 00:57:34,360
Like, but I don't want to go on a singles cruise that is a singles cruise to find like somebody to like date.

822
00:57:34,360 --> 00:57:36,360
But like, I feel like a lot of those are that way.

823
00:57:36,360 --> 00:57:39,460
You kind of want it just to be like a natural thing.

824
00:57:39,460 --> 00:57:41,060
Like, right.

825
00:57:41,060 --> 00:57:41,960
Like, yeah.

826
00:57:41,960 --> 00:57:47,060
Well, so the things you can do in a relationship, but let's hear from you some things you can do in your single.

827
00:57:47,060 --> 00:57:51,060
Okay, so you can do anything you want anytime you want.

828
00:57:51,060 --> 00:57:56,860
Like, I know this is my, this was, I was having a hard time thinking of the things you can do in your relationship.

829
00:57:56,860 --> 00:58:00,760
Well, there's a lot of other things that I think y'all probably can add to this.

830
00:58:00,760 --> 00:58:05,660
But I have not been in one in such a long time that I don't really know.

831
00:58:05,660 --> 00:58:10,760
I was like, that's why I wrote tandem bikes and kayaks because I couldn't come up with anything.

832
00:58:10,760 --> 00:58:14,360
I feel like going grocery shopping together.

833
00:58:14,360 --> 00:58:16,660
Why do you need somebody to go grocery shopping?

834
00:58:16,660 --> 00:58:17,560
I don't need somebody.

835
00:58:17,560 --> 00:58:19,960
I hate going grocery shopping together.

836
00:58:19,960 --> 00:58:20,760
Running errands.

837
00:58:20,760 --> 00:58:23,260
You don't like to go do things with other people though.

838
00:58:23,260 --> 00:58:24,560
You like to run errands.

839
00:58:24,560 --> 00:58:26,160
See, I'm not an errand runner together.

840
00:58:26,160 --> 00:58:29,660
To go to the store together, we very rarely went by ourselves.

841
00:58:29,660 --> 00:58:30,660
Yeah, I can't do that.

842
00:58:30,660 --> 00:58:32,160
But see, Emily, I'm like you.

843
00:58:32,160 --> 00:58:35,760
I will say that it's been a big adjustment.

844
00:58:35,760 --> 00:58:39,760
You know, you do have to tell your significant other.

845
00:58:39,760 --> 00:58:43,260
Hey, I just don't want you to worry like I'm going to run and do like all the time.

846
00:58:43,260 --> 00:58:43,960
Yeah, after you get off work.

847
00:58:43,960 --> 00:58:44,660
All the time.

848
00:58:44,660 --> 00:58:47,760
I'm like, I'm going to TJ Maxx to do returns.

849
00:58:47,760 --> 00:58:50,060
I'm going to do Amazon returns.

850
00:58:50,060 --> 00:58:52,760
He's like, my God, lady quit ordering stuff.

851
00:58:52,760 --> 00:58:53,860
Like I feel weird.

852
00:58:53,860 --> 00:59:00,660
It's like weird. It would be like me having to call my mom and tell her what I'm doing every time I leave the house.

853
00:59:00,660 --> 00:59:01,860
But it's not often.

854
00:59:01,860 --> 00:59:05,960
When you find the right person because you know, I've been I was single for a very long time.

855
00:59:05,960 --> 00:59:07,360
Very independent.

856
00:59:07,360 --> 00:59:14,060
So I feel like I really knew Dale was the one when I was like, you know, I don't mind changing some of my ways.

857
00:59:14,060 --> 00:59:21,160
Well, and see, that's the thing is like, yeah, you won't feel like if you don't feel like you're changing your ways, you don't really feel like you're changing.

858
00:59:21,160 --> 00:59:24,460
It's not like it's not like you're struggling to do it.

859
00:59:24,460 --> 00:59:31,960
But like or maintain your identity and at least part of the things that you like to do your habits that sort of thing.

860
00:59:31,960 --> 00:59:38,860
If you're rearranging your whole entire life because this new person came in, they are not the one for you.

861
00:59:38,860 --> 00:59:42,460
Say it louder for the people in the back.

862
00:59:42,460 --> 00:59:45,360
I mean, you are rearranging depends on what they're rearranging.

863
00:59:45,360 --> 00:59:51,060
I mean, maybe your life's in shambles and you need to rearrange it some like, well, I just mean if you are feeling negative.

864
00:59:51,060 --> 00:59:55,460
About the things that you were having to change or no longer do or whatever.

865
00:59:55,460 --> 00:59:59,460
If it's a negative experience for you, then they are not the one.

866
00:59:59,460 --> 01:00:07,060
Well, and like another thing is like if somebody is like you need to tell me where you're going every five seconds like that.

867
01:00:07,060 --> 01:00:08,660
That is not OK.

868
01:00:08,660 --> 01:00:10,860
Like that. That's why that's not good.

869
01:00:10,860 --> 01:00:15,260
Like I honestly would probably have a hard time being like telling people.

870
01:00:15,260 --> 01:00:18,260
Oh, this is where I'm going to do like I'm going to do this or whatever.

871
01:00:18,260 --> 01:00:20,960
Like it's hard for me to tell y'all what I'm doing.

872
01:00:20,960 --> 01:00:22,560
Like I don't know what I'm doing.

873
01:00:22,560 --> 01:00:30,860
Like well, and I think if you find somebody like Dale never like I mean, he the only time he because he worries about I mean not worries about me,

874
01:00:30,860 --> 01:00:36,760
but he just wants to make sure that if I'm going somewhere, I'm getting there safely, you know, I mean, that's the only difference.

875
01:00:36,760 --> 01:00:40,060
He could care less like I'll tell him how I'm going out to run errands.

876
01:00:40,060 --> 01:00:41,360
I'll come home five hours later.

877
01:00:41,360 --> 01:00:43,160
He will not care, you know, yeah.

878
01:00:43,160 --> 01:00:48,960
But if you've got somebody that wants to know your every little move, that's that is a red flag.

879
01:00:48,960 --> 01:00:50,760
Healthy relationship.

880
01:00:50,760 --> 01:00:51,360
Yeah.

881
01:00:51,360 --> 01:00:55,660
So yeah, I mean, but basically when you're single, you can do anything you want whenever you want.

882
01:00:55,660 --> 01:00:56,060
Yeah.

883
01:00:56,060 --> 01:01:01,960
For instance, you can take a nap in the middle of the day on Saturday.

884
01:01:01,960 --> 01:01:06,460
Even though it like if you had a boyfriend or something, they probably like you want to go do this.

885
01:01:06,460 --> 01:01:08,360
You want to go do this and I'll be like, oh, shut up.

886
01:01:08,360 --> 01:01:11,160
No, you can watch whatever TV show you want.

887
01:01:11,160 --> 01:01:15,160
I mean, you can have multiple TVs in the house and so you could go to different rooms,

888
01:01:15,160 --> 01:01:19,360
but nobody wants to like sit in different rooms when you got a boyfriend or a husband.

889
01:01:19,360 --> 01:01:22,560
Like you're going to sit up there with your husband and watch whatever.

890
01:01:22,560 --> 01:01:24,060
You can still watch what you want.

891
01:01:24,060 --> 01:01:28,960
Dale puts his AirPods in and watches stuff on his phone and sits right next to me.

892
01:01:28,960 --> 01:01:30,060
Oh, I know you sent me Snapchat to that.

893
01:01:30,060 --> 01:01:31,160
He's so sweet.

894
01:01:31,160 --> 01:01:33,360
That's because he loves you.

895
01:01:33,360 --> 01:01:36,360
That or else, I mean, you'll find shows to watch together.

896
01:01:36,360 --> 01:01:41,860
Your relationship is coming to an end when you watch TV in separate rooms every night.

897
01:01:41,860 --> 01:01:42,860
Oh, is that a fact, Sarah?

898
01:01:42,860 --> 01:01:46,760
But the thing is, listen, he's watching the TV on his phone.

899
01:01:46,760 --> 01:01:47,160
Yes.

900
01:01:47,160 --> 01:01:53,160
But if he wasn't with you, he can watch it on his TV by himself and whatever he wanted.

901
01:01:53,160 --> 01:01:54,360
You know what I'm saying?

902
01:01:54,360 --> 01:01:55,360
But then he wouldn't have you.

903
01:01:55,360 --> 01:01:58,860
So yeah, but oh, so you can move for a job.

904
01:01:58,860 --> 01:02:00,860
Like, okay, so that's a big one for me.

905
01:02:00,860 --> 01:02:02,860
Like you can really just up and move.

906
01:02:02,860 --> 01:02:09,460
Like if you are in a relationship, you're not going to be like, oh, you're not really going to consider any jobs that are somewhere else.

907
01:02:09,460 --> 01:02:10,860
I mean, you might.

908
01:02:10,860 --> 01:02:12,660
I mean, you might.

909
01:02:12,660 --> 01:02:18,760
Yeah, but you're not going to like unless especially if you're married, you're going to be like, hey, are we going to live together?

910
01:02:18,760 --> 01:02:20,760
Like, do I need to move here first?

911
01:02:20,760 --> 01:02:22,860
Like, like this job's good.

912
01:02:22,860 --> 01:02:27,460
And if you take a new job, you have to ask your partner, is this going to be good for us?

913
01:02:27,460 --> 01:02:28,560
Not for me.

914
01:02:28,560 --> 01:02:30,960
Like, it's not about you anymore.

915
01:02:30,960 --> 01:02:32,660
It's about you and that other person.

916
01:02:32,660 --> 01:02:33,460
Right.

917
01:02:33,460 --> 01:02:37,160
And I mean, honestly, I know people who live in different cities.

918
01:02:37,160 --> 01:02:38,660
I've known people.

919
01:02:38,660 --> 01:02:44,860
I just don't feel like it's super healthy for a marriage for you not to be living in the same place.

920
01:02:44,860 --> 01:02:46,560
That's just my opinion.

921
01:02:46,560 --> 01:02:47,760
Yeah.

922
01:02:47,760 --> 01:02:48,460
I mean, I don't know.

923
01:02:48,460 --> 01:02:49,860
I've never done it.

924
01:02:49,860 --> 01:02:51,660
I know people who have done that.

925
01:02:51,660 --> 01:02:55,260
Yeah, but I've never done it and I've never been married.

926
01:02:55,260 --> 01:02:58,160
So I can't speak to that.

927
01:02:58,160 --> 01:02:59,660
I don't know.

928
01:02:59,660 --> 01:03:06,660
Honestly, I don't I'd probably be happy with it because I like to be by myself.

929
01:03:06,660 --> 01:03:11,060
Well, no, because if it was the person you really wanted to be with, you would want to spend time with them.

930
01:03:11,060 --> 01:03:12,660
You would not want to be apart from them.

931
01:03:12,660 --> 01:03:20,160
I think that's fair to a point, I guess, because I do think that as you said earlier,

932
01:03:20,160 --> 01:03:24,760
Jessica, things are not so traditional anymore like they used to be.

933
01:03:24,760 --> 01:03:30,960
So there are I mean, we you have to look at it also as like people that are in like polyamorous relationships.

934
01:03:30,960 --> 01:03:32,160
That's not traditional.

935
01:03:32,160 --> 01:03:34,560
That's a that's a subject change.

936
01:03:34,560 --> 01:03:36,160
Well, I'm not changing the subject.

937
01:03:36,160 --> 01:03:41,460
I'm just saying it's a non-traditional type situation.

938
01:03:41,460 --> 01:03:46,660
And that could also mean you don't cohabitate together.

939
01:03:46,660 --> 01:03:52,760
You may have your own individual places and still be married and choose to,

940
01:03:52,760 --> 01:03:57,660
you know, spend time together, you know, at specific times or what have you.

941
01:03:57,660 --> 01:04:03,160
It doesn't mean that it's a bad relationship because you're not, you know, up each other's butts and together all the time.

942
01:04:03,160 --> 01:04:05,960
Yeah, but don't you typically live in the same area?

943
01:04:05,960 --> 01:04:07,160
Yeah, for sure.

944
01:04:07,160 --> 01:04:14,560
I mean, I would say unless there is like a school situation or like somebody did get a new job and,

945
01:04:14,560 --> 01:04:19,560
you know, they are moving ahead of the other person, but the intention is for them to follow along.

946
01:04:19,560 --> 01:04:21,460
Sure. Absolutely.

947
01:04:21,460 --> 01:04:27,260
But just choosing to be in a relationship and married and live long distance is not typical.

948
01:04:27,260 --> 01:04:28,660
No.

949
01:04:28,660 --> 01:04:31,160
And typically won't work in the long run.

950
01:04:31,160 --> 01:04:33,060
In the long run. Yes.

951
01:04:33,060 --> 01:04:35,560
Well, well, well, well, what else?

952
01:04:35,560 --> 01:04:37,460
Oh, you can eat whatever you want for dinner.

953
01:04:37,460 --> 01:04:46,860
So we'll do a little bit of a subject change here and we are going to talk about plus size clothing versus regular size,

954
01:04:46,860 --> 01:04:48,960
straight sizes, I guess, if you will.

955
01:04:48,960 --> 01:04:55,060
Plus size clothing is never, never as cute as straight size.

956
01:04:55,060 --> 01:04:56,060
No.

957
01:04:56,060 --> 01:04:57,560
But why?

958
01:04:57,560 --> 01:05:00,160
Well, as the fashionista's.

959
01:05:00,160 --> 01:05:02,160
I don't know. I went shopping yesterday.

960
01:05:02,160 --> 01:05:10,360
I went to Belk and Belk at the summit especially has really cute contemporary clothes and I was seeing all this stuff

961
01:05:10,360 --> 01:05:12,360
and I was like, oh my gosh, this is adorable.

962
01:05:12,360 --> 01:05:14,160
Oh, this is so cute.

963
01:05:14,160 --> 01:05:17,260
And then I look at it and here's another thing that blows my mind.

964
01:05:17,260 --> 01:05:22,560
Like boutique clothes and contemporary clothes only goes from an extra small to a large.

965
01:05:22,560 --> 01:05:24,160
They don't even have an extra large.

966
01:05:24,160 --> 01:05:25,260
They don't. They never do.

967
01:05:25,260 --> 01:05:30,860
So then you go into the plus size, same brand of stuff and it just looks completely different.

968
01:05:30,860 --> 01:05:34,560
It does look different and it's like, first of all, it's more expensive.

969
01:05:34,560 --> 01:05:38,660
Well, and it looks like an old and it looks like old women would wear it.

970
01:05:38,660 --> 01:05:43,360
Yeah. And I that and I do have a complaint with like, so like, you know,

971
01:05:43,360 --> 01:05:47,060
juniors clothes and stuff like that and like those clothes are so cute.

972
01:05:47,060 --> 01:05:52,560
Yes. But then as soon as when you start getting older, they don't make it's not like cute clothes anymore.

973
01:05:52,560 --> 01:05:54,560
Even in the plus size or the regular size.

974
01:05:54,560 --> 01:05:56,660
It's like what are they doing?

975
01:05:56,660 --> 01:05:59,360
Like who do they think is buying this stuff?

976
01:05:59,360 --> 01:06:07,460
Like, I don't know. But I don't know where it's like they think that everybody who is plus size is just frumpy dumpy

977
01:06:07,460 --> 01:06:09,160
and doesn't care about themselves and what they look like.

978
01:06:09,160 --> 01:06:10,260
Middle-aged women.

979
01:06:10,260 --> 01:06:14,460
And we want to wear like floral print off the shoulder shirts.

980
01:06:14,460 --> 01:06:18,160
I feel like I like off the shoulder shirts, though, but I don't know.

981
01:06:18,160 --> 01:06:22,160
I feel like are those ones that are like this and they're like scrunchy at the top.

982
01:06:22,160 --> 01:06:24,560
You know, I'm talking about like those are all.

983
01:06:24,560 --> 01:06:28,160
Yeah, they're just not cute, not cute colors.

984
01:06:28,160 --> 01:06:33,360
And they also and here's my complaint, which neither one of y'all have this issue,

985
01:06:33,360 --> 01:06:42,260
but I don't have large breast and they think every plus size person has huge boobs.

986
01:06:42,260 --> 01:06:47,260
I don't believe that because I have huge boobs and the plus size stuff does not fit me.

987
01:06:47,260 --> 01:06:48,860
Well, I will.

988
01:06:48,860 --> 01:06:53,860
Well, okay, but y'all are abnormally big.

989
01:06:53,860 --> 01:06:54,360
That's true.

990
01:06:54,360 --> 01:06:56,260
But let's like look at like swimsuits.

991
01:06:56,260 --> 01:07:05,060
Like if you go to toward and toward I'm typically a zero, sometimes a one, one X, zero X, one X,

992
01:07:05,060 --> 01:07:08,060
typically a 14, you know, in jeans or whatever.

993
01:07:08,060 --> 01:07:11,860
So when I go to toward and I look at their bathing suits and I see a zero

994
01:07:11,860 --> 01:07:18,560
and then I look at the top and it's like this underwire bra that literally both of my tits

995
01:07:18,560 --> 01:07:20,560
wouldn't even fit in one side.

996
01:07:20,560 --> 01:07:22,560
What is the problem?

997
01:07:22,560 --> 01:07:26,560
That bra that you've got, okay, that would that top would never fit me.

998
01:07:26,560 --> 01:07:34,560
I cannot I have to have because my bra my band size is like a 34, but my cup size is like an H.

999
01:07:34,560 --> 01:07:38,060
Yeah, so I'm smaller around the waist, but then like the cups is like huge.

1000
01:07:38,060 --> 01:07:42,560
And so they make it and people they say, oh, we'll just get a bigger band.

1001
01:07:42,560 --> 01:07:46,760
If you get a bigger band, like the cup is like it's like the bag, the air and it's like,

1002
01:07:46,760 --> 01:07:49,060
like my boob is all hanging out the sides.

1003
01:07:49,060 --> 01:07:54,360
Yeah, I just kind of I don't I feel like it's a little bit unfair sometimes like

1004
01:07:54,360 --> 01:07:58,460
when you can order your specific cup size in a bathing suit top.

1005
01:07:58,460 --> 01:08:00,260
Cool. Cool. Cool. No problem.

1006
01:08:00,260 --> 01:08:06,360
But like also when you have to buy matching sets, like my ass is bigger than my titties most of the time.

1007
01:08:06,360 --> 01:08:11,260
And I buy smaller top sizes because my band size same issue that you have.

1008
01:08:11,260 --> 01:08:14,560
But like when you have to buy those things together, it's a pain in the ass.

1009
01:08:14,560 --> 01:08:21,060
Why don't more companies sell sets where you can separately size the top and the bottom?

1010
01:08:21,060 --> 01:08:24,960
Right. And I don't like the underwire stuff like that kind of stuff.

1011
01:08:24,960 --> 01:08:30,760
If it's at a place like like Target or like Torrid, that's why I don't really like Torrid very much.

1012
01:08:30,760 --> 01:08:34,660
None of their stuff has like really been I just haven't really gotten into it.

1013
01:08:34,660 --> 01:08:37,360
I get like all of my clothes from I know and they're so cute.

1014
01:08:37,360 --> 01:08:40,660
But like I just feel like I haven't really gotten into I don't know why.

1015
01:08:40,660 --> 01:08:43,360
So Torrid, if you would like to sponsor us, we'll accept.

1016
01:08:43,360 --> 01:08:45,560
And maybe I'll try it and see how I like it.

1017
01:08:45,560 --> 01:08:50,960
And so she loves it. But like, you know, that would be good because I could say that I wasn't huge fan.

1018
01:08:50,960 --> 01:08:52,260
And well, but now I am.

1019
01:08:52,260 --> 01:08:56,160
Torrid is one of the only plus size stores.

1020
01:08:56,160 --> 01:08:59,560
Yes, that there is and that's really sad.

1021
01:08:59,560 --> 01:09:04,060
But I mean, and then you have like Lane Bryant who is working very hard.

1022
01:09:04,060 --> 01:09:11,960
I feel like here lately to come out with some more fashionable things instead of just your like business casual type wear,

1023
01:09:11,960 --> 01:09:14,660
if you will, or like quote unquote mom clothes.

1024
01:09:14,660 --> 01:09:18,360
Like I think folks in Old Navy is doing a really good job of that.

1025
01:09:18,360 --> 01:09:25,260
You know, they don't they even got rid of quote unquote plus size section where everything is listed.

1026
01:09:25,260 --> 01:09:30,760
You know, if a shirt whatever comes in all the sizes, they list it.

1027
01:09:30,760 --> 01:09:36,260
You can look at different size models like small, large and you know, plus size that sort of thing.

1028
01:09:36,260 --> 01:09:39,160
So like they're really making an effort to.

1029
01:09:39,160 --> 01:09:46,160
Well, like, OK, so you can get like a 14 in regular sizing and a 14 and plus size.

1030
01:09:46,160 --> 01:09:49,160
And it's different. It's completely I don't understand it.

1031
01:09:49,160 --> 01:09:54,060
And it's like weird because it's like a 14 wide is the plus size.

1032
01:09:54,060 --> 01:09:56,960
Like what like it doesn't fit right. It's weird.

1033
01:09:56,960 --> 01:09:58,560
But then I don't understand.

1034
01:09:58,560 --> 01:10:00,860
I don't know. And sizing is not consistent.

1035
01:10:00,860 --> 01:10:06,360
I mean, I am a firm believer that the size of your clothes literally means nothing.

1036
01:10:06,360 --> 01:10:10,160
Yes, I don't care if I have to go to Shein and buy a forex.

1037
01:10:10,160 --> 01:10:12,660
It does not mean that I'm four times wide.

1038
01:10:12,660 --> 01:10:15,260
It just means that that is the size that fits me.

1039
01:10:15,260 --> 01:10:20,460
But let's talk about Shein real quick because I do think that their sizing is fairly consistent.

1040
01:10:20,460 --> 01:10:26,860
It is. I like the fact that when you choose a size on their in their app on their site, whatever,

1041
01:10:26,860 --> 01:10:30,760
it gives you measurements for that piece of clothing specifically.

1042
01:10:30,760 --> 01:10:33,760
So there are times where I have to order something different.

1043
01:10:33,760 --> 01:10:36,260
So do you call it? How do you how do you say that?

1044
01:10:36,260 --> 01:10:39,560
She say she in she in or she shine shine.

1045
01:10:39,560 --> 01:10:45,560
I say she and it's like, can somebody just tell us what is the appropriate pronunciation?

1046
01:10:45,560 --> 01:10:48,660
So I have an order waiting at home for me when I get home tonight.

1047
01:10:48,660 --> 01:10:50,160
So I'm very excited.

1048
01:10:50,160 --> 01:10:55,560
I have not jumped into the she and help but order 20 pieces at the same time

1049
01:10:55,560 --> 01:10:58,160
because it's all cheap and it's free returns.

1050
01:10:58,160 --> 01:11:00,360
Yeah, and it's good quality.

1051
01:11:00,360 --> 01:11:03,260
I don't know if I would say good.

1052
01:11:03,260 --> 01:11:04,660
The great quality.

1053
01:11:04,660 --> 01:11:11,860
Yeah, like for trendy, you know, for the trendy fashion, which is also killing the world.

1054
01:11:11,860 --> 01:11:13,060
It's wonderful.

1055
01:11:13,060 --> 01:11:14,460
Yeah, we're all killing the world.

1056
01:11:14,460 --> 01:11:15,660
Like y'all need to stop with this.

1057
01:11:15,660 --> 01:11:18,360
Look, buy some black pants and a black shirt like me.

1058
01:11:18,360 --> 01:11:20,760
No, I'm here. Recycle it and wear it.

1059
01:11:20,760 --> 01:11:22,460
I'm like Jessica and I are.

1060
01:11:22,460 --> 01:11:27,960
I used to like Jessica was the biggest label whore that ever existed.

1061
01:11:27,960 --> 01:11:30,260
And she does like some fancy things.

1062
01:11:30,260 --> 01:11:35,760
She just knows she goes to TJ Maxx and a Ross and she will find a label at those stores.

1063
01:11:35,760 --> 01:11:39,360
But Jessica and I are literally the same.

1064
01:11:39,360 --> 01:11:41,260
We like to shop.

1065
01:11:41,260 --> 01:11:42,860
I like to not be in the store.

1066
01:11:42,860 --> 01:11:45,260
She'll go in the store and that's okay.

1067
01:11:45,260 --> 01:11:46,660
But we both like to shop.

1068
01:11:46,660 --> 01:11:49,860
We both like to either donate or sell our clothes when we're done.

1069
01:11:49,860 --> 01:11:50,860
Yes.

1070
01:11:50,860 --> 01:11:51,460
Shout out.

1071
01:11:51,460 --> 01:11:56,560
If anybody's listening, I've got some items listed on Facebook Marketplace.

1072
01:11:56,560 --> 01:11:57,360
Please go buy.

1073
01:11:57,360 --> 01:11:59,960
Did anybody buy those earrings yet?

1074
01:11:59,960 --> 01:12:05,860
No, but somebody bought the purse and then somebody bought the OTBT wedges that I was selling.

1075
01:12:05,860 --> 01:12:06,960
I have some really pretty.

1076
01:12:06,960 --> 01:12:09,260
I have some OTBT wedges that I can get rid of.

1077
01:12:09,260 --> 01:12:12,060
I have some pretty Kendra Scott earrings, folks.

1078
01:12:12,060 --> 01:12:13,060
Check it out.

1079
01:12:13,060 --> 01:12:16,760
Facebook Marketplace.

1080
01:12:16,760 --> 01:12:17,660
That's funny.

1081
01:12:17,660 --> 01:12:17,860
Yeah.

1082
01:12:17,860 --> 01:12:19,960
Oh, also like so bras and panties.

1083
01:12:19,960 --> 01:12:23,360
So the bigger the boobs, the uglier the bra.

1084
01:12:23,360 --> 01:12:24,160
I wouldn't know about this.

1085
01:12:24,160 --> 01:12:25,860
So I'm going to step out of this conversation.

1086
01:12:25,860 --> 01:12:26,560
But it's the truth.

1087
01:12:26,560 --> 01:12:29,960
Like have you ever looked let me go into my bra drawer and just show you.

1088
01:12:29,960 --> 01:12:32,360
I threw away some ugly ones though recently.

1089
01:12:32,360 --> 01:12:34,260
They are so ugly.

1090
01:12:34,260 --> 01:12:38,960
The big I mean and you know, you see these little teeny tiny girls and like all my little friends are like teeny tiny.

1091
01:12:38,960 --> 01:12:43,760
They get these cute little bras from Victoria's Secret and they can they can like and they're cheaper.

1092
01:12:43,760 --> 01:12:48,860
They can buy them at Target and like get the cheap $15 bra and throw it away tomorrow.

1093
01:12:48,860 --> 01:12:51,560
I have to buy a $98 bra.

1094
01:12:51,560 --> 01:12:53,760
I've never spent that much money on a bra.

1095
01:12:53,760 --> 01:12:54,460
Seriously.

1096
01:12:54,460 --> 01:12:56,760
No, I can't.

1097
01:12:56,760 --> 01:13:00,960
If I don't my boobs would be like they would suck from torrid.

1098
01:13:00,960 --> 01:13:05,960
But I also have gotten particular about I've gotten particular about my bras for the most part.

1099
01:13:05,960 --> 01:13:14,160
I won't wear anything that even has like minimal lining in it or just like the like a firm cup, you know, but not like a push up or anything.

1100
01:13:14,160 --> 01:13:14,460
Right.

1101
01:13:14,460 --> 01:13:16,460
I like an unlined bra.

1102
01:13:16,460 --> 01:13:17,060
Okay.

1103
01:13:17,060 --> 01:13:18,060
My boobs are too big.

1104
01:13:18,060 --> 01:13:18,960
I don't need any extra.

1105
01:13:18,960 --> 01:13:19,760
I went to that.

1106
01:13:19,760 --> 01:13:26,660
I did the whole unlined bra thing like for a while and then I got over that because my nipples were showing a lot and because they get hard.

1107
01:13:26,660 --> 01:13:28,060
I think that is so sexy.

1108
01:13:28,060 --> 01:13:30,460
They're not hard right now.

1109
01:13:30,460 --> 01:13:33,760
She said they will be in a minute.

1110
01:13:33,760 --> 01:13:35,360
Nipples are hard.

1111
01:13:35,360 --> 01:13:36,360
She sure did.

1112
01:13:36,360 --> 01:13:40,960
But I know I do say when I'm at home like right now I'm wearing a skim's bra and I love it.

1113
01:13:40,960 --> 01:13:41,960
Oh, there she goes.

1114
01:13:41,960 --> 01:13:43,560
Shout out for skim.

1115
01:13:43,560 --> 01:13:44,360
Look at that.

1116
01:13:44,360 --> 01:13:45,560
Look how smooth it is.

1117
01:13:45,560 --> 01:13:46,960
I love it.

1118
01:13:46,960 --> 01:13:50,060
And but okay, so but I wear it.

1119
01:13:50,060 --> 01:13:52,160
Is it a real bra or is it like a sports kind of like a...

1120
01:13:52,160 --> 01:13:53,260
There's no underwire.

1121
01:13:53,260 --> 01:13:54,160
Yeah, there's no underwire.

1122
01:13:54,160 --> 01:13:56,960
This isn't every fits everybody scoop bra.

1123
01:13:56,960 --> 01:13:57,960
See I would like that.

1124
01:13:57,960 --> 01:13:58,660
I love this.

1125
01:13:58,660 --> 01:13:58,960
I would.

1126
01:13:58,960 --> 01:14:01,860
See I love a bralette.

1127
01:14:01,860 --> 01:14:02,460
I don't know.

1128
01:14:02,460 --> 01:14:05,660
I need to like try it or something because I am thoroughly convinced.

1129
01:14:05,660 --> 01:14:11,360
I have some no underwire bras that from does that snap in the back?

1130
01:14:11,360 --> 01:14:11,560
No.

1131
01:14:11,560 --> 01:14:12,460
Hook in the back.

1132
01:14:12,460 --> 01:14:14,160
Okay, so I have one that hooks in the back.

1133
01:14:14,160 --> 01:14:15,960
The ones that hook in the back don't work for me.

1134
01:14:15,960 --> 01:14:17,560
Well, here's my problem.

1135
01:14:17,560 --> 01:14:18,560
I feel like a number one.

1136
01:14:18,560 --> 01:14:23,860
I have a uniboo, but I also still get muffin top and on my boobs and it's very annoying.

1137
01:14:23,860 --> 01:14:30,660
Like I have a 40 F bra in this no underwire torrid, you know snaps in the back bra or

1138
01:14:30,660 --> 01:14:36,560
whatever and my boobs are still misplaced and falling out the top of it and I can't

1139
01:14:36,560 --> 01:14:37,360
figure it out.

1140
01:14:38,760 --> 01:14:42,760
Well sure if you'd like to donate that if you'd like to donate some of that.

1141
01:14:42,760 --> 01:14:43,560
Victoria's secret.

1142
01:14:43,560 --> 01:14:44,860
Did I tell you all this when I was in high school?

1143
01:14:44,860 --> 01:14:48,760
I learned how to size boobies and then we would tell people anybody that was higher

1144
01:14:48,760 --> 01:14:52,060
than whatever they they now I know that they're changing but anybody that was

1145
01:14:52,060 --> 01:14:55,760
higher than like the D or double D I guess because we would have to tell them

1146
01:14:55,760 --> 01:14:56,660
to go to Lane Bryant.

1147
01:14:56,660 --> 01:14:59,260
They would be like these skinny people and they come in there and be like they

1148
01:14:59,260 --> 01:14:59,960
we'd size them.

1149
01:14:59,960 --> 01:15:00,660
They'd be like, I'm sorry.

1150
01:15:00,660 --> 01:15:01,760
We don't care your size.

1151
01:15:01,760 --> 01:15:04,760
You need to go to Lane Bryant because they're like the same brand and people

1152
01:15:04,760 --> 01:15:08,360
would be like sad because they were not like plus size and we were telling them

1153
01:15:08,360 --> 01:15:12,060
to go to Lane Bryant to get a different bra like get a bigger bra and I was like,

1154
01:15:12,060 --> 01:15:14,660
I'm sorry that we're telling but that's what they told us to tell.

1155
01:15:14,660 --> 01:15:15,060
All right.

1156
01:15:15,060 --> 01:15:18,560
Well, we'll report back then when Emily sizes me and maybe I'm not a 40 F.

1157
01:15:18,560 --> 01:15:19,660
Maybe I'm something else.

1158
01:15:19,660 --> 01:15:20,660
Yeah, you're probably not.

1159
01:15:22,360 --> 01:15:26,360
And that's why I can't buy I got sized by the double divas.

1160
01:15:26,360 --> 01:15:26,960
You remember them.

1161
01:15:26,960 --> 01:15:27,860
They had a TV show.

1162
01:15:28,260 --> 01:15:30,560
So I got sized by them and they came to Auburn.

1163
01:15:30,560 --> 01:15:32,760
One of them is on 90 day fiance now.

1164
01:15:32,760 --> 01:15:33,560
Yeah.

1165
01:15:35,660 --> 01:15:36,360
Yes.

1166
01:15:36,360 --> 01:15:37,360
The one from Georgia.

1167
01:15:37,360 --> 01:15:37,860
Yes.

1168
01:15:37,860 --> 01:15:38,360
Okay.

1169
01:15:38,460 --> 01:15:39,060
Really?

1170
01:15:39,060 --> 01:15:39,360
Okay.

1171
01:15:39,360 --> 01:15:39,960
On there twice.

1172
01:15:39,960 --> 01:15:41,260
She's been on there twice.

1173
01:15:41,260 --> 01:15:44,760
She has not been on an episode like the last two seasons.

1174
01:15:44,760 --> 01:15:48,760
But yes, her most recent boyfriend lives in New York.

1175
01:15:48,760 --> 01:15:50,760
So she's found love in the US.

1176
01:15:51,460 --> 01:15:52,760
Congratulations.

1177
01:15:52,760 --> 01:15:53,060
Yeah.

1178
01:15:53,060 --> 01:15:53,960
What's her name?

1179
01:15:54,860 --> 01:15:57,360
I can't remember what her name is black hair.

1180
01:15:57,360 --> 01:15:58,560
Yeah, really dark hair.

1181
01:15:58,660 --> 01:16:00,760
She's giant titties.

1182
01:16:00,860 --> 01:16:01,660
Oh, yeah, she does.

1183
01:16:01,660 --> 01:16:02,460
The size of my head.

1184
01:16:02,460 --> 01:16:06,860
She sized my boobs and she was all in there touching them and look she she and I

1185
01:16:06,860 --> 01:16:12,160
thought that so listen, I never had a good bra like that fit, right?

1186
01:16:12,160 --> 01:16:17,060
I'd always have like something going on because I was buying like the wrong size

1187
01:16:17,160 --> 01:16:19,760
and I wasn't buying I wasn't I was buying them from like Victoria's

1188
01:16:19,760 --> 01:16:23,760
secret trying to get the double D triple D but I was like when I did it.

1189
01:16:23,760 --> 01:16:25,960
I was like a 32 double F.

1190
01:16:26,260 --> 01:16:28,060
I think is what now I'm not anymore.

1191
01:16:28,060 --> 01:16:29,860
I'm like a 34 age.

1192
01:16:30,660 --> 01:16:32,460
I got a little bit bigger guys.

1193
01:16:32,460 --> 01:16:41,060
But but they they sheep they size me and after that my life changed like my life.

1194
01:16:41,060 --> 01:16:43,760
It not as Emily you need to change my life.

1195
01:16:43,760 --> 01:16:45,360
Okay, we'll change your life.

1196
01:16:45,360 --> 01:16:46,360
All right, let's do it.

1197
01:16:46,360 --> 01:16:47,260
All right, we'll do it.

1198
01:16:47,260 --> 01:16:51,160
I mean, it's it's it's what's up and she literally she didn't even she told me

1199
01:16:51,160 --> 01:16:52,760
she said what size bra do you wear right now?

1200
01:16:52,760 --> 01:16:54,460
They didn't even measure me.

1201
01:16:54,460 --> 01:16:55,560
She came in there looked at me.

1202
01:16:55,560 --> 01:16:58,860
She said what size bra is that and I told her and she was like be right back and

1203
01:16:58,860 --> 01:17:01,660
she brought me a bunch and I put them on and it was like perfect and I was like

1204
01:17:01,660 --> 01:17:02,560
hang girl.

1205
01:17:02,560 --> 01:17:03,760
You are good at this.

1206
01:17:03,760 --> 01:17:06,560
We know there used to be that store at the summit the fitting touch.

1207
01:17:06,560 --> 01:17:09,860
Yeah, but they didn't that yeah, I wasn't a big fan of that.

1208
01:17:09,860 --> 01:17:12,060
Yeah, they sized one of my old co-workers.

1209
01:17:12,060 --> 01:17:13,560
It's the funniest story ever.

1210
01:17:13,560 --> 01:17:14,160
Sue.

1211
01:17:14,160 --> 01:17:15,760
Yes, I remember this.

1212
01:17:18,060 --> 01:17:23,560
She was a middle-aged, you know, middle-aged woman and they sized her and they were

1213
01:17:23,560 --> 01:17:24,760
not very nice to her.

1214
01:17:24,760 --> 01:17:29,460
They pretty much told her she needed a breast augmentation in her 50s.

1215
01:17:29,460 --> 01:17:33,960
If she wanted to find a bra that fit correctly, see that's what that's very

1216
01:17:33,960 --> 01:17:34,860
inappropriate.

1217
01:17:34,860 --> 01:17:38,460
But anyways, they're not open anymore and it's probably because they were assholes.

1218
01:17:38,460 --> 01:17:42,760
Anyway, that's hilarious.

1219
01:17:42,760 --> 01:17:44,060
Yeah, but I don't know.

1220
01:17:44,060 --> 01:17:45,660
We need more plus size clothing.

1221
01:17:45,660 --> 01:17:46,660
Yes, absolutely.

1222
01:17:46,660 --> 01:17:47,660
I didn't have them.

1223
01:17:47,660 --> 01:17:52,560
You can get them online and so I started carrying some in stores and they're okay.

1224
01:17:52,560 --> 01:17:57,460
Forever 21 does too, but it's all this trendy stuff and I'm sorry.

1225
01:17:57,460 --> 01:17:58,860
I don't care.

1226
01:17:58,860 --> 01:18:00,060
I'm plus size.

1227
01:18:00,060 --> 01:18:01,660
I'm not going to wear a crop top.

1228
01:18:01,660 --> 01:18:03,160
That's just my comfort level.

1229
01:18:03,160 --> 01:18:04,360
I'm not going to say I will.

1230
01:18:04,360 --> 01:18:05,460
I don't care.

1231
01:18:05,460 --> 01:18:09,060
I just don't look good in it.

1232
01:18:09,060 --> 01:18:14,960
Yeah, and that's what you know, I'm proud that there's trendy things like that.

1233
01:18:14,960 --> 01:18:19,260
But also give us like the cutesy contemporary stuff that covers me.

1234
01:18:19,260 --> 01:18:20,760
Right, but not a tent.

1235
01:18:20,760 --> 01:18:23,860
Yeah, because I feel like a lot of this stuff they make these plus size things.

1236
01:18:23,860 --> 01:18:26,460
It's like a tent and you're like, why are you trying to cover me?

1237
01:18:26,460 --> 01:18:29,260
Fashionable basics that are interchangeable.

1238
01:18:29,260 --> 01:18:30,260
Yeah.

1239
01:18:30,260 --> 01:18:33,060
Well, maybe somebody will one day.

1240
01:18:33,060 --> 01:18:34,060
We'll see.

1241
01:18:34,060 --> 01:18:35,060
Maybe.

1242
01:18:35,060 --> 01:18:36,660
I mean, there are places you can order online.

1243
01:18:36,660 --> 01:18:39,660
I know that a book of celebrities like have made.

1244
01:18:39,660 --> 01:18:42,060
I think Melissa McCarthy, not Melissa McCarthy.

1245
01:18:42,060 --> 01:18:43,060
Yeah, you're right.

1246
01:18:43,060 --> 01:18:45,360
Yeah, I was thinking Jenny in my head.

1247
01:18:45,360 --> 01:18:46,360
Melissa McCarthy.

1248
01:18:46,360 --> 01:18:47,360
I think she did one.

1249
01:18:47,360 --> 01:18:48,360
I don't know.

1250
01:18:48,360 --> 01:18:49,360
I think it might be more expensive.

1251
01:18:49,360 --> 01:18:52,460
And some boutiques have started carrying plus size and it's cute.

1252
01:18:52,460 --> 01:18:56,660
Like it's cute stuff, but it's trendy.

1253
01:18:56,660 --> 01:19:01,460
Yeah, none of the places at the mall, not the mall, the summit up there.

1254
01:19:01,460 --> 01:19:04,660
No, those places I have not been able to shop in the store anyway.

1255
01:19:04,660 --> 01:19:06,960
So anything that's online is right up my alley.

1256
01:19:06,960 --> 01:19:08,660
But I am very in between.

1257
01:19:08,660 --> 01:19:12,060
So I'm not like plus size, but I'm not like I am getting there because I've been eating

1258
01:19:12,060 --> 01:19:13,060
way too much lately.

1259
01:19:13,060 --> 01:19:15,060
I'm full spectrum plus size.

1260
01:19:15,060 --> 01:19:16,860
So yeah, so yeah, it's hard.

1261
01:19:16,860 --> 01:19:17,860
I feel like I'm in between.

1262
01:19:17,860 --> 01:19:18,860
I'm like you.

1263
01:19:18,860 --> 01:19:21,260
And it's hard for me because I'm like going back and forth and I'm like, and then I get

1264
01:19:21,260 --> 01:19:22,260
the size.

1265
01:19:22,260 --> 01:19:24,760
I need a 14, but I'm over here.

1266
01:19:24,760 --> 01:19:28,060
The 14 over here doesn't fit the way this 14 over here fit.

1267
01:19:28,060 --> 01:19:29,060
Which one do I need?

1268
01:19:29,060 --> 01:19:32,660
I feel like there's consistent stores that I shop at.

1269
01:19:32,660 --> 01:19:41,060
She in Walmart has gotten some better clothes, lame Bryant, Torrid and Target and old Navy.

1270
01:19:41,060 --> 01:19:44,060
Those are so if you are out there and your plus size and you're listening, those are

1271
01:19:44,060 --> 01:19:45,060
your go to stores.

1272
01:19:45,060 --> 01:19:46,060
Target has good pluses.

1273
01:19:46,060 --> 01:19:47,060
Hell yeah.

1274
01:19:47,060 --> 01:19:51,220
I used to get my swimsuits from there all the time this year.

1275
01:19:51,220 --> 01:19:54,020
So if you would like to sponsor us, I will even put pictures of myself.

1276
01:19:54,020 --> 01:19:55,980
I don't give a shit.

1277
01:19:55,980 --> 01:19:56,980
Cups.

1278
01:19:56,980 --> 01:19:57,980
She came through.

1279
01:19:57,980 --> 01:19:58,980
Cups.

1280
01:19:58,980 --> 01:20:01,940
She I don't know if they want you to say I don't give a you know what?

1281
01:20:01,940 --> 01:20:05,380
Well, I mean, I'll alter my verbiage if they sponsor us for sure.

1282
01:20:05,380 --> 01:20:06,980
I'll say whatever they want.

1283
01:20:06,980 --> 01:20:07,980
I don't care.

1284
01:20:07,980 --> 01:20:08,980
OK.

1285
01:20:08,980 --> 01:20:09,980
All right, guys.

1286
01:20:09,980 --> 01:20:14,460
What's everybody watching on the TV when they get home?

1287
01:20:14,460 --> 01:20:17,100
Well, what you watching, Jessica?

1288
01:20:17,100 --> 01:20:18,100
In the dark.

1289
01:20:18,100 --> 01:20:19,100
I'm obsessed.

1290
01:20:19,100 --> 01:20:20,100
Me too.

1291
01:20:20,100 --> 01:20:21,100
I love it.

1292
01:20:21,100 --> 01:20:22,100
I love the gym motivation.

1293
01:20:22,100 --> 01:20:27,780
Speaking of plus size, I am back on a workout kick and trying to get healthy again.

1294
01:20:27,780 --> 01:20:29,260
And she's lost 10 pounds.

1295
01:20:29,260 --> 01:20:30,260
Yes, I have.

1296
01:20:30,260 --> 01:20:31,260
I'm so jealous.

1297
01:20:31,260 --> 01:20:32,260
Down a size.

1298
01:20:32,260 --> 01:20:36,620
I'm trying, but I'm telling you, in the dark on Netflix keeps me going at the gym.

1299
01:20:36,620 --> 01:20:37,620
You're welcome.

1300
01:20:37,620 --> 01:20:38,620
Yeah.

1301
01:20:38,620 --> 01:20:39,620
Thank you, Sarah.

1302
01:20:39,620 --> 01:20:40,620
Great recommendation.

1303
01:20:40,620 --> 01:20:42,620
I thought you hadn't seen it yet.

1304
01:20:42,620 --> 01:20:43,620
Yes.

1305
01:20:43,620 --> 01:20:48,340
OK, listen, what you spoiled was a point that I had got to yet.

1306
01:20:48,340 --> 01:20:49,340
Are you done?

1307
01:20:49,340 --> 01:20:50,340
No, I'm not done.

1308
01:20:50,340 --> 01:20:53,580
I'm on episode one of season four.

1309
01:20:53,580 --> 01:20:54,580
She's not that far either.

1310
01:20:54,580 --> 01:20:58,860
So don't say what you said before, because you will spill the damn beans.

1311
01:20:58,860 --> 01:21:01,300
I already spilled it accidentally to Sarah.

1312
01:21:01,300 --> 01:21:03,220
So but I thought she had already watched it.

1313
01:21:03,220 --> 01:21:04,900
I was like, oh, my God, this happened.

1314
01:21:04,900 --> 01:21:05,900
And she's like, shut up.

1315
01:21:05,900 --> 01:21:08,900
I'm like, and she gets so mad at me.

1316
01:21:08,900 --> 01:21:13,720
I was done with like season three, I guess, at the time when we had that conversation.

1317
01:21:13,720 --> 01:21:17,620
And then she spilled the beans on this thing that happens.

1318
01:21:17,620 --> 01:21:22,420
And I had PTSD and I went right back to when my mom spoiled Game of Thrones for me.

1319
01:21:22,420 --> 01:21:24,420
She didn't even watch Game of Thrones.

1320
01:21:24,420 --> 01:21:27,420
And she got like an e-news notification about it.

1321
01:21:27,420 --> 01:21:31,260
And she was like, oh, my God, I didn't know that this and this happened.

1322
01:21:31,260 --> 01:21:33,620
I was like, what are you talking about?

1323
01:21:33,620 --> 01:21:36,060
I don't even know yet.

1324
01:21:36,060 --> 01:21:39,900
When I'm watching a TV show like I've been watching Handmaid's Tale, I will pause it

1325
01:21:39,900 --> 01:21:41,940
and be like, what happens to so and so?

1326
01:21:41,940 --> 01:21:42,940
No, I know.

1327
01:21:42,940 --> 01:21:43,940
Before I watch it, I can't stand.

1328
01:21:43,940 --> 01:21:44,940
You are the worst.

1329
01:21:44,940 --> 01:21:45,940
I know it's the worst.

1330
01:21:45,940 --> 01:21:46,940
I don't know why I'm like that.

1331
01:21:46,940 --> 01:21:47,940
I like need to know what's happening.

1332
01:21:47,940 --> 01:21:56,300
I put a snap out there the other day of Brandon watching the season finale of five of Game

1333
01:21:56,300 --> 01:21:57,300
of Thrones.

1334
01:21:57,300 --> 01:21:58,300
Was he crying?

1335
01:21:58,300 --> 01:21:59,300
No, he was not crying.

1336
01:21:59,300 --> 01:22:00,300
You were like, look at this guy.

1337
01:22:00,300 --> 01:22:01,300
I was confused what was happening.

1338
01:22:01,300 --> 01:22:06,180
Because he was just like jaw dropped, you know, whatever, what had happened.

1339
01:22:06,180 --> 01:22:11,160
And my best friend from New York, he sent me a reply and he was like, what was it?

1340
01:22:11,160 --> 01:22:12,640
And I told him.

1341
01:22:12,640 --> 01:22:15,980
And he was like, oh, pussy.

1342
01:22:15,980 --> 01:22:18,180
I was like, because I told him he was like, did you tell him what happened?

1343
01:22:18,180 --> 01:22:20,020
I was like, yeah, I did, because I asked him if he was good.

1344
01:22:20,020 --> 01:22:21,020
Brandon was going to Google it.

1345
01:22:21,020 --> 01:22:22,020
He said, yeah.

1346
01:22:22,020 --> 01:22:23,020
And I said, fine.

1347
01:22:23,020 --> 01:22:24,700
Then blah, blah, blah, you know, whatever.

1348
01:22:24,700 --> 01:22:26,220
And Dave was like, I cannot.

1349
01:22:26,220 --> 01:22:27,940
I hate people that Google.

1350
01:22:27,940 --> 01:22:28,940
Same.

1351
01:22:28,940 --> 01:22:29,940
So I Google it.

1352
01:22:29,940 --> 01:22:32,940
I don't have enough time.

1353
01:22:32,940 --> 01:22:37,500
I want to I want to know now something happened last night on Game of Thrones.

1354
01:22:37,500 --> 01:22:40,020
And I looked at Brandon and I said, are you going to Google it?

1355
01:22:40,020 --> 01:22:41,540
And he said, no, I promise I won't.

1356
01:22:41,540 --> 01:22:42,540
Whatever Brandon Googled it.

1357
01:22:42,540 --> 01:22:43,540
He probably did.

1358
01:22:43,540 --> 01:22:44,540
But he's not going to tell me that.

1359
01:22:44,540 --> 01:22:46,740
He's not going to tell me that he did.

1360
01:22:46,740 --> 01:22:47,740
I stand with you.

1361
01:22:47,740 --> 01:22:49,740
And I'm just like, God, these people that Google.

1362
01:22:49,740 --> 01:22:51,740
OK, but I will say this much.

1363
01:22:51,740 --> 01:22:55,420
I am I guess I'm kind of like a cheater, cheater, punk, but either when it comes to that kind

1364
01:22:55,420 --> 01:22:57,700
of stuff, but it's reality shows.

1365
01:22:57,700 --> 01:23:00,940
I will Google outcomes of reality shows that have been.

1366
01:23:00,940 --> 01:23:01,940
Oh, see what the hell.

1367
01:23:01,940 --> 01:23:03,020
It's the same thing.

1368
01:23:03,020 --> 01:23:04,580
I disagree.

1369
01:23:04,580 --> 01:23:06,260
Reality shows are bullshit.

1370
01:23:06,260 --> 01:23:09,500
It's not like those are like just like real people's lives.

1371
01:23:09,500 --> 01:23:10,500
Like Bravo shows?

1372
01:23:10,500 --> 01:23:11,500
No, no, no.

1373
01:23:11,500 --> 01:23:12,500
OK.

1374
01:23:12,500 --> 01:23:13,500
No, like Netflix shows.

1375
01:23:13,500 --> 01:23:15,740
See, I don't even care about that stuff.

1376
01:23:15,740 --> 01:23:17,740
I don't care about what happens.

1377
01:23:17,740 --> 01:23:18,740
Those are my favorite shows.

1378
01:23:18,740 --> 01:23:21,100
I mean, I do like what are you watching?

1379
01:23:21,100 --> 01:23:22,100
Summer House right now?

1380
01:23:22,100 --> 01:23:25,500
I start watching Winter House.

1381
01:23:25,500 --> 01:23:26,500
It's an old one on Bravo.

1382
01:23:26,500 --> 01:23:27,820
You watching Vanderpump Rules?

1383
01:23:27,820 --> 01:23:28,820
I watched it last night.

1384
01:23:28,820 --> 01:23:29,820
I've been watching.

1385
01:23:29,820 --> 01:23:33,700
Listen, I've been watching Handmaid's Tale.

1386
01:23:33,700 --> 01:23:34,700
I'm almost done with it.

1387
01:23:34,700 --> 01:23:36,140
Game of Thrones, Game of Thrones.

1388
01:23:36,140 --> 01:23:38,980
But I stopped to the Game of Thrones, got back on the Handmaid's Tale.

1389
01:23:38,980 --> 01:23:45,420
I started that show with the girl from what's the girl's name that she gets pregnant and

1390
01:23:45,420 --> 01:23:46,420
she was a virgin.

1391
01:23:46,420 --> 01:23:47,420
Jane the Virgin.

1392
01:23:47,420 --> 01:23:48,420
Jane the Virgin.

1393
01:23:48,420 --> 01:23:49,420
Yeah.

1394
01:23:49,420 --> 01:23:50,420
What's the actress?

1395
01:23:50,420 --> 01:23:51,420
Never watched that.

1396
01:23:51,420 --> 01:23:52,420
She's in this new one.

1397
01:23:52,420 --> 01:23:53,420
Not dead yet.

1398
01:23:53,420 --> 01:23:54,420
I started watching that.

1399
01:23:54,420 --> 01:23:55,420
I haven't started it yet.

1400
01:23:55,420 --> 01:23:56,420
I think they only release like a couple of them.

1401
01:23:56,420 --> 01:23:57,420
Yeah.

1402
01:23:57,420 --> 01:24:00,620
So I've only seen like two episodes of that or three or however many have come out.

1403
01:24:00,620 --> 01:24:01,900
And then what else am I watching?

1404
01:24:01,900 --> 01:24:03,500
I'm watching 90 Day Fiance.

1405
01:24:03,500 --> 01:24:04,500
The other way.

1406
01:24:04,500 --> 01:24:05,500
See.

1407
01:24:05,500 --> 01:24:06,500
On Sunday.

1408
01:24:06,500 --> 01:24:07,500
Always.

1409
01:24:07,500 --> 01:24:08,900
Oh, and then A Million Little Things.

1410
01:24:08,900 --> 01:24:09,900
If anybody watches that.

1411
01:24:09,900 --> 01:24:10,900
Is that good?

1412
01:24:10,900 --> 01:24:11,900
It's a great show.

1413
01:24:11,900 --> 01:24:12,900
It's the final season.

1414
01:24:12,900 --> 01:24:14,380
I know Lisa's watching it.

1415
01:24:14,380 --> 01:24:15,380
We've been talking about it.

1416
01:24:15,380 --> 01:24:17,100
It's on Hulu, right?

1417
01:24:17,100 --> 01:24:19,300
It comes on ABC, but yeah, I think it's on Hulu.

1418
01:24:19,300 --> 01:24:20,300
It's a great show.

1419
01:24:20,300 --> 01:24:21,300
I see it on there, yeah.

1420
01:24:21,300 --> 01:24:22,300
Great show.

1421
01:24:22,300 --> 01:24:24,700
So we have watched Tell Me Lies.

1422
01:24:24,700 --> 01:24:25,700
Yes.

1423
01:24:25,700 --> 01:24:28,700
And the first season, I think there's another season coming out soon.

1424
01:24:28,700 --> 01:24:29,700
It's on Hulu.

1425
01:24:29,700 --> 01:24:30,700
It's based on a book.

1426
01:24:30,700 --> 01:24:31,700
It is fire.

1427
01:24:31,700 --> 01:24:32,700
I love it.

1428
01:24:32,700 --> 01:24:33,700
It's so good.

1429
01:24:33,700 --> 01:24:34,700
I loved it.

1430
01:24:34,700 --> 01:24:35,700
Okay.

1431
01:24:35,700 --> 01:24:36,700
I did too.

1432
01:24:36,700 --> 01:24:37,700
Yeah.

1433
01:24:37,700 --> 01:24:38,700
I think you'll like it.

1434
01:24:38,700 --> 01:24:39,700
I do.

1435
01:24:39,700 --> 01:24:40,700
Yeah.

1436
01:24:40,700 --> 01:24:42,940
What else were we watching that was like that?

1437
01:24:42,940 --> 01:24:43,940
There's some other stuff.

1438
01:24:43,940 --> 01:24:44,940
I don't know.

1439
01:24:44,940 --> 01:24:48,100
I can't remember.

1440
01:24:48,100 --> 01:24:49,180
So many things.

1441
01:24:49,180 --> 01:24:50,180
So many shows.

1442
01:24:50,180 --> 01:24:52,340
You had me watching The 100 for a while.

1443
01:24:52,340 --> 01:24:53,340
Oh, I love The 100.

1444
01:24:53,340 --> 01:24:54,340
That's an old one.

1445
01:24:54,340 --> 01:24:55,340
I know.

1446
01:24:55,340 --> 01:24:56,340
And then I kind of quit for a second.

1447
01:24:56,340 --> 01:24:59,060
But I feel like I start and stop stuff a lot.

1448
01:24:59,060 --> 01:25:00,060
Same.

1449
01:25:00,060 --> 01:25:03,060
But unless I am really enthralled to binge it.

1450
01:25:03,060 --> 01:25:07,700
Brandon came home last night and I was watching Broad City and he was like, I love this show.

1451
01:25:07,700 --> 01:25:10,980
And I was like, I just watch it when I like can't commit to really pay attention.

1452
01:25:10,980 --> 01:25:12,380
I've already seen all of them.

1453
01:25:12,380 --> 01:25:13,380
I haven't.

1454
01:25:13,380 --> 01:25:14,380
Oh, you haven't?

1455
01:25:14,380 --> 01:25:17,500
No, but sometimes they like just do too damn much.

1456
01:25:17,500 --> 01:25:18,500
Yeah, it's a lot.

1457
01:25:18,500 --> 01:25:19,500
Fuck you guys.

1458
01:25:19,500 --> 01:25:20,940
Like this is this is a little ridiculous.

1459
01:25:20,940 --> 01:25:24,580
I turned it on the other day again and I was like, I don't know why I turned this on because

1460
01:25:24,580 --> 01:25:28,620
I've seen it and I was just like, I don't know what that is.

1461
01:25:28,620 --> 01:25:29,620
Broad City.

1462
01:25:29,620 --> 01:25:33,060
It's like a two girls and they kind of like live in New York City.

1463
01:25:33,060 --> 01:25:37,180
They're both like they're writers, creators of the show.

1464
01:25:37,180 --> 01:25:39,460
It's I mean, it's a funny haha.

1465
01:25:39,460 --> 01:25:41,580
Like you can't take it seriously.

1466
01:25:41,580 --> 01:25:42,580
They're real stupid.

1467
01:25:42,580 --> 01:25:47,060
They do some very outlandish stuff, but it's like very hysterical.

1468
01:25:47,060 --> 01:25:50,060
What was the show that had Hilary Duff in it?

1469
01:25:50,060 --> 01:25:51,060
Oh, single?

1470
01:25:51,060 --> 01:25:52,060
No, I mean, younger, younger.

1471
01:25:52,060 --> 01:25:53,060
I love younger.

1472
01:25:53,060 --> 01:25:54,060
My favorite.

1473
01:25:54,060 --> 01:25:57,060
I can't believe they are done.

1474
01:25:57,060 --> 01:26:00,460
So I didn't I don't think I finished the last.

1475
01:26:00,460 --> 01:26:03,460
You said, yeah, you need it because I love Sutton Foster.

1476
01:26:03,460 --> 01:26:04,460
Me too.

1477
01:26:04,460 --> 01:26:08,380
You need to finish that and then also the bold type is the bold type is good.

1478
01:26:08,380 --> 01:26:10,180
You're so I need to watch that.

1479
01:26:10,180 --> 01:26:11,180
I haven't even heard of that.

1480
01:26:11,180 --> 01:26:15,540
That was on the CW.

1481
01:26:15,540 --> 01:26:16,540
The bold type was on the CW.

1482
01:26:16,540 --> 01:26:20,180
She's talking about these these channels that I don't even want to be on TV.

1483
01:26:20,180 --> 01:26:21,180
Yeah.

1484
01:26:21,180 --> 01:26:25,660
Yeah, but like in the dark was on CW and now it's on Netflix.

1485
01:26:25,660 --> 01:26:26,660
All American.

1486
01:26:26,660 --> 01:26:27,660
That's another good one.

1487
01:26:27,660 --> 01:26:29,540
If you never watch that, that's on Netflix.

1488
01:26:29,540 --> 01:26:30,900
That's a great show.

1489
01:26:30,900 --> 01:26:32,900
That was a CW show.

1490
01:26:32,900 --> 01:26:38,100
Have you seen the new That 70s Show or that 90s show or whatever it is?

1491
01:26:38,100 --> 01:26:39,100
I've watched part of it.

1492
01:26:39,100 --> 01:26:40,100
I watched the first episode.

1493
01:26:40,100 --> 01:26:41,660
I didn't I didn't like that 70s show.

1494
01:26:41,660 --> 01:26:44,660
I like that the old people were in it like the from the old.

1495
01:26:44,660 --> 01:26:45,940
They look exactly the same.

1496
01:26:45,940 --> 01:26:48,420
I swear they don't look like they've aged at all.

1497
01:26:48,420 --> 01:26:49,660
Yeah, it's wild.

1498
01:26:49,660 --> 01:26:55,260
It's I mean, it's been kind of fun to watch just because like we grew up with that 70s

1499
01:26:55,260 --> 01:26:58,340
show, but I did love that 70s show.

1500
01:26:58,340 --> 01:27:01,620
I liked it too, but it I mean, it's been interesting.

1501
01:27:01,620 --> 01:27:05,300
It's not like one that I'm going to like sit down and like binge, but well, you know, have

1502
01:27:05,300 --> 01:27:08,180
y'all watched there's some movies that have come out.

1503
01:27:08,180 --> 01:27:11,780
Have you watched the movie on Netflix with Jonah Hill?

1504
01:27:11,780 --> 01:27:12,780
You people?

1505
01:27:12,780 --> 01:27:18,420
No, I haven't watched it yet, but I did watch his little documentary with his psychiatrist.

1506
01:27:18,420 --> 01:27:19,420
What was that one called?

1507
01:27:19,420 --> 01:27:20,420
I forgot.

1508
01:27:20,420 --> 01:27:21,420
Oh, I didn't know.

1509
01:27:21,420 --> 01:27:22,420
It was good.

1510
01:27:22,420 --> 01:27:23,420
I liked it.

1511
01:27:23,420 --> 01:27:24,420
No, I watched.

1512
01:27:24,420 --> 01:27:25,420
I don't remember if we finished it or not.

1513
01:27:25,420 --> 01:27:26,420
I can't.

1514
01:27:26,420 --> 01:27:27,420
I know I should know this.

1515
01:27:27,420 --> 01:27:29,980
I don't think Jerry and I finished it, but I watched it with my sister when I was down

1516
01:27:29,980 --> 01:27:30,980
there a few weekends ago.

1517
01:27:30,980 --> 01:27:31,980
It was funny.

1518
01:27:31,980 --> 01:27:34,420
And then me and Dale just watched where the crawl dad sing.

1519
01:27:34,420 --> 01:27:38,060
I've never, never read the book, but I've heard it was great.

1520
01:27:38,060 --> 01:27:39,060
You haven't seen the movie.

1521
01:27:39,060 --> 01:27:40,060
It's good.

1522
01:27:40,060 --> 01:27:41,060
It's a great movie.

1523
01:27:41,060 --> 01:27:43,500
I watched that movie with Mason and Santana.

1524
01:27:43,500 --> 01:27:46,980
Is this a crying movie like a Nicholas Sparks movie?

1525
01:27:46,980 --> 01:27:49,300
Hell no, you're not going to cry.

1526
01:27:49,300 --> 01:27:51,180
No, but it's a, it's a good movie.

1527
01:27:51,180 --> 01:27:53,700
I mean, it'll tug at your heartstrings, but you're not going to cry.

1528
01:27:53,700 --> 01:27:55,260
You're going to be like, fuck.

1529
01:27:55,260 --> 01:27:56,260
Yeah.

1530
01:27:56,260 --> 01:27:57,260
Yeah.

1531
01:27:57,260 --> 01:28:00,220
So the, the title just sounds like something that you will cry to for somebody.

1532
01:28:00,220 --> 01:28:04,140
Like there would be like a sad ending or something like, or a sad, happy ending.

1533
01:28:04,140 --> 01:28:05,620
Um, but there, okay.

1534
01:28:05,620 --> 01:28:08,740
So there's some, was it last weekend or the weekend before?

1535
01:28:08,740 --> 01:28:14,540
I don't know when it was that I went to the movies and it was last God and I, it was last

1536
01:28:14,540 --> 01:28:15,540
Friday.

1537
01:28:15,540 --> 01:28:16,540
Y'all want to know what I saw?

1538
01:28:16,540 --> 01:28:17,540
Y'all know what I saw.

1539
01:28:17,540 --> 01:28:19,740
The dumbest movie that is out right now.

1540
01:28:19,740 --> 01:28:20,740
What is it called?

1541
01:28:20,740 --> 01:28:22,580
Cocaine bear.

1542
01:28:22,580 --> 01:28:25,340
I went and saw cocaine bear at the theater.

1543
01:28:25,340 --> 01:28:28,580
I haven't been to the theater in probably 10 years.

1544
01:28:28,580 --> 01:28:30,980
Um, also the popcorn there.

1545
01:28:30,980 --> 01:28:34,820
So they won't, they like make you do your own popcorn butter.

1546
01:28:34,820 --> 01:28:37,700
And so they give you the popcorn and they don't layer the butter in there.

1547
01:28:37,700 --> 01:28:41,940
So then like, you only have butter on the top and like the butter's not in the inside.

1548
01:28:41,940 --> 01:28:46,600
So Pete, of course get, he's like, he's like, Oh, I hate that they don't layer it.

1549
01:28:46,600 --> 01:28:52,060
So he gets a straw, gets them to give him an extra straw and he puts the straw down

1550
01:28:52,060 --> 01:28:54,540
into the popcorn and he put force of butter.

1551
01:28:54,540 --> 01:28:56,140
I know I was like, what are you doing?

1552
01:28:56,140 --> 01:28:59,500
And I looked over there and he's like, can't they won't layer it for me.

1553
01:28:59,500 --> 01:29:00,500
So I got to do it myself.

1554
01:29:00,500 --> 01:29:03,500
I was like, Oh my God.

1555
01:29:03,500 --> 01:29:06,740
It was funny.

1556
01:29:06,740 --> 01:29:10,940
I mean, worked out, I guess there was also a dude in there with a bulletproof jacket.

1557
01:29:10,940 --> 01:29:14,820
I was getting my drink and this dude walks up next to me and he had a bulletproof jacket

1558
01:29:14,820 --> 01:29:18,900
on and I was like, and I looked at him and I knew he could tell that that was like, what

1559
01:29:18,900 --> 01:29:19,900
the hell?

1560
01:29:19,900 --> 01:29:21,460
Why is he wearing a bulletproof jacket?

1561
01:29:21,460 --> 01:29:22,740
And so I finally, I just spoke to him.

1562
01:29:22,740 --> 01:29:25,740
I was like, I was like, Oh, I was like, are you wearing a bulletproof jacket?

1563
01:29:25,740 --> 01:29:26,740
Are you an undercover cop?

1564
01:29:26,740 --> 01:29:28,040
Bulletproof vest?

1565
01:29:28,040 --> 01:29:30,460
And he was like, yes, I am.

1566
01:29:30,460 --> 01:29:34,300
And I was like, I was like, why are you scared of getting like shot or something?

1567
01:29:34,300 --> 01:29:36,980
And he's like, no ma'am.

1568
01:29:36,980 --> 01:29:39,220
And he, he was like, no ma'am or something like that.

1569
01:29:39,220 --> 01:29:40,220
And then he was like, no.

1570
01:29:40,220 --> 01:29:41,980
And he was like, I don't even have the plates in it right now.

1571
01:29:41,980 --> 01:29:43,940
I'm just, I was like, well, why are you wearing it?

1572
01:29:43,940 --> 01:29:44,940
Like you're freaking.

1573
01:29:44,940 --> 01:29:45,940
And I was like, I'm not going to lie.

1574
01:29:45,940 --> 01:29:49,660
It's a little bit freaky because going into the movie theaters, people get, you know,

1575
01:29:49,660 --> 01:29:51,100
those movie theater shootings and stuff.

1576
01:29:51,100 --> 01:29:52,100
I was like, is he in here?

1577
01:29:52,100 --> 01:29:53,100
Like, I don't know.

1578
01:29:53,100 --> 01:29:54,100
It was weird.

1579
01:29:54,100 --> 01:29:55,100
And it wasn't a dude.

1580
01:29:55,100 --> 01:29:56,100
He did not buy himself.

1581
01:29:56,100 --> 01:29:57,100
He was not a police officer.

1582
01:29:57,100 --> 01:29:58,100
Was he by himself?

1583
01:29:58,100 --> 01:30:02,600
What does a police officer look like?

1584
01:30:02,600 --> 01:30:08,980
Like one that has a belt and like a, like a, with a holster and like all that stuff.

1585
01:30:08,980 --> 01:30:12,180
Maybe he was off duty.

1586
01:30:12,180 --> 01:30:14,420
I'll tell you what a police officer looks like.

1587
01:30:14,420 --> 01:30:16,380
They have a douchebag haircut.

1588
01:30:16,380 --> 01:30:17,380
Yeah.

1589
01:30:17,380 --> 01:30:19,100
This dude did not have a douchebag haircut.

1590
01:30:19,100 --> 01:30:23,780
This dude looks more like, like he, he looked like a regular dude.

1591
01:30:23,780 --> 01:30:24,780
I've dated some cops.

1592
01:30:24,780 --> 01:30:26,420
He did have some like janky teeth.

1593
01:30:26,420 --> 01:30:28,060
It was like some gold teeth in there.

1594
01:30:28,060 --> 01:30:31,460
I think, but like, but I want to go.

1595
01:30:31,460 --> 01:30:33,220
It's about to be St. Patty's day guys.

1596
01:30:33,220 --> 01:30:34,420
I want to gold.

1597
01:30:34,420 --> 01:30:35,420
I want to go.

1598
01:30:35,420 --> 01:30:36,420
Must be a crackhead.

1599
01:30:36,420 --> 01:30:43,420
Got a hold of the wrong stuff.

1600
01:30:43,420 --> 01:30:45,740
Saw him a leprechaun up in the tree.

1601
01:30:45,740 --> 01:30:46,900
Mobile Alabama.

1602
01:30:46,900 --> 01:30:47,900
We talking about you.

1603
01:30:47,900 --> 01:30:50,900
Oh my God guys.

1604
01:30:50,900 --> 01:30:53,580
I was, I'm so glad you got to come out today, Jessica.

1605
01:30:53,580 --> 01:30:55,820
Thank you so much for being here.

1606
01:30:55,820 --> 01:30:56,820
It's been a lot of fun.

1607
01:30:56,820 --> 01:30:57,820
Are you going to return?

1608
01:30:57,820 --> 01:30:58,820
Yeah.

1609
01:30:58,820 --> 01:30:59,820
Are you going to come back and do that?

1610
01:30:59,820 --> 01:31:01,820
The Enneagram episode with us?

1611
01:31:01,820 --> 01:31:02,820
Sure.

1612
01:31:02,820 --> 01:31:03,820
Yay.

1613
01:31:03,820 --> 01:31:04,820
Yeah.

1614
01:31:04,820 --> 01:31:05,820
Thank you guys for joining us this week.

1615
01:31:05,820 --> 01:31:14,060
If you want to send us some FMKs or any questions, feedback, comments, concerns, surely you

1616
01:31:14,060 --> 01:31:20,380
won't have any concerns, but you can send those to thick AF podcast at gmail.com.

1617
01:31:20,380 --> 01:31:27,140
Give us a like, follow, share on Instagram at thick AF podcast and we will see you next

1618
01:31:27,140 --> 01:31:28,140
week.

1619
01:31:28,140 --> 01:31:29,140
Bye.

1620
01:31:29,140 --> 01:31:55,140
I don't know what else to say.

1621
01:31:55,140 --> 01:31:56,740
A B C D E F G.

1622
01:31:56,740 --> 01:32:09,220
I have to go.