1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:14,120 Hey y'all, welcome back to the Thicc AF Podcast. 2 00:00:14,120 --> 00:00:17,720 This episode today is Emily's episode. 3 00:00:17,720 --> 00:00:18,720 It's all about the things that she loves. 4 00:00:18,720 --> 00:00:19,720 No, it's not. 5 00:00:19,720 --> 00:00:20,720 It's our episode. 6 00:00:20,720 --> 00:00:21,720 It's always our episode. 7 00:00:21,720 --> 00:00:22,720 She's crazy. 8 00:00:22,720 --> 00:00:23,720 No, I know, but this... 9 00:00:23,720 --> 00:00:24,720 She's trying to... 10 00:00:24,720 --> 00:00:26,720 No, you love this stuff though. 11 00:00:26,720 --> 00:00:31,600 Yeah, we're gonna talk about some personality tests today. 12 00:00:31,600 --> 00:00:37,780 The Enneagram test, which is my personal favorite, and some others here and there, like the Myers-Briggs 13 00:00:37,780 --> 00:00:39,480 personality test, all that kind of stuff. 14 00:00:39,480 --> 00:00:43,080 And the most important one of all, what animal are you? 15 00:00:43,080 --> 00:00:44,080 Exactly. 16 00:00:44,080 --> 00:00:45,080 Yes. 17 00:00:45,080 --> 00:00:46,080 Can't wait to hear. 18 00:00:46,080 --> 00:00:47,080 That was my favorite one. 19 00:00:47,080 --> 00:00:49,080 It was the easiest and the shortest. 20 00:00:49,080 --> 00:00:53,080 Yeah, and it's like only got four to choose from. 21 00:00:53,080 --> 00:00:55,080 And there's really not a lot to describe everything. 22 00:00:55,080 --> 00:00:56,080 No, it's great. 23 00:00:56,080 --> 00:00:57,080 Yep. 24 00:00:57,080 --> 00:00:58,080 All right, y'all. 25 00:00:58,080 --> 00:01:03,720 So we have our FMK, and I don't even know where I got this from. 26 00:01:03,720 --> 00:01:06,280 It actually may have come from you. 27 00:01:06,280 --> 00:01:09,920 We are gonna go ahead and fuck, marry, kill some Kardashians. 28 00:01:09,920 --> 00:01:12,080 Oh, it did come from me. 29 00:01:12,080 --> 00:01:13,080 Okay, I thought so. 30 00:01:13,080 --> 00:01:14,080 That's a good one though, right? 31 00:01:14,080 --> 00:01:15,080 Yeah. 32 00:01:15,080 --> 00:01:17,080 I'm glad you put it in your notes because I would have forgotten. 33 00:01:17,080 --> 00:01:19,000 I did. 34 00:01:19,000 --> 00:01:22,080 So Kim, Khloe, and Kourtney. 35 00:01:22,080 --> 00:01:23,800 Okay, so do I have to go first? 36 00:01:23,800 --> 00:01:24,800 I can go first. 37 00:01:24,800 --> 00:01:25,800 You go first. 38 00:01:25,800 --> 00:01:26,800 Okay. 39 00:01:26,800 --> 00:01:37,080 So as much as I like Kourtney, I think that she is the most entertaining sometimes just 40 00:01:37,080 --> 00:01:38,880 because she's such a dingbat. 41 00:01:38,880 --> 00:01:39,880 Yeah, like monotone. 42 00:01:39,880 --> 00:01:40,880 Monotone, yes. 43 00:01:40,880 --> 00:01:41,880 Um, yes. 44 00:01:41,880 --> 00:01:44,880 The salad is so great, guys. 45 00:01:44,880 --> 00:01:53,880 Yeah, but they could have put a little bit more tomatoes. 46 00:01:53,880 --> 00:01:55,880 Yeah. 47 00:01:55,880 --> 00:02:01,480 So unfortunately for her, I'm killing her. 48 00:02:01,480 --> 00:02:07,320 And then I am going to fuck Kim because who wouldn't? 49 00:02:07,320 --> 00:02:10,680 I want to know if that ass is real or not. 50 00:02:10,680 --> 00:02:15,600 And then I'm going to marry Khloe because she deserves the world after what some of 51 00:02:15,600 --> 00:02:17,880 these men have put her through. 52 00:02:17,880 --> 00:02:19,440 And I will give it to her, honey. 53 00:02:19,440 --> 00:02:22,880 Look, I feel like all of them have been through it with the guys. 54 00:02:22,880 --> 00:02:23,880 Yeah, fair enough. 55 00:02:23,880 --> 00:02:26,520 But Khloe's gotten the short end of the stick. 56 00:02:26,520 --> 00:02:28,680 Yeah, I feel like that's true. 57 00:02:28,680 --> 00:02:32,160 Well, she is, she's, I feel like she's the most real. 58 00:02:32,160 --> 00:02:33,160 Yes. 59 00:02:33,160 --> 00:02:34,160 Yeah. 60 00:02:34,160 --> 00:02:35,560 I don't know if she's the nicest. 61 00:02:35,560 --> 00:02:40,480 I really like Kendall and I wanted to, I wanted, you know how they, I want to take a personality 62 00:02:40,480 --> 00:02:47,240 test that's like which, um, Kardashian Jenner or whatever are you like based on their personalities, 63 00:02:47,240 --> 00:02:50,520 not like based on what's your favorite color? 64 00:02:50,520 --> 00:02:52,280 What's your favorite Disney character? 65 00:02:52,280 --> 00:02:53,280 And then they're like, oh, Kim. 66 00:02:53,280 --> 00:02:54,280 Not the Buzzfeed kind. 67 00:02:54,280 --> 00:02:56,840 Yeah, not the Buzzfeed, like a real one. 68 00:02:56,840 --> 00:03:01,320 Like, because I feel like, I don't know, I feel like what would you be if we were trying 69 00:03:01,320 --> 00:03:02,320 to talk personalities? 70 00:03:02,320 --> 00:03:05,160 Who would you be like, would you be, I think you would be a Kim. 71 00:03:05,160 --> 00:03:06,160 You do. 72 00:03:06,160 --> 00:03:10,880 Yes, because she's very like type A, like, I mean, they kind of all are, but like, I 73 00:03:10,880 --> 00:03:11,880 feel like you would be- 74 00:03:11,880 --> 00:03:13,760 And she organizes her damn cookie jar for crying out loud. 75 00:03:13,760 --> 00:03:16,560 Yeah, probably because she was taught by Kim to do it. 76 00:03:16,560 --> 00:03:22,480 No, I think you would be definitely a Kim because you are like, need, you need your, 77 00:03:22,480 --> 00:03:24,480 like your very, your go-getter. 78 00:03:24,480 --> 00:03:25,480 Yeah, that's fair. 79 00:03:25,480 --> 00:03:26,480 Thank you. 80 00:03:26,480 --> 00:03:27,480 Yeah. 81 00:03:27,480 --> 00:03:28,480 I appreciate you. 82 00:03:28,480 --> 00:03:29,480 And I feel like she's a go-getter, you know? 83 00:03:29,480 --> 00:03:30,480 Yeah. 84 00:03:30,480 --> 00:03:31,800 Also ass and titties. 85 00:03:31,800 --> 00:03:36,640 But hopefully you wouldn't ever do like a, like a sex video accidentally. 86 00:03:36,640 --> 00:03:39,640 Wasn't an accident though? 87 00:03:39,640 --> 00:03:40,640 I don't know. 88 00:03:40,640 --> 00:03:44,680 I mean, honestly, whatever, we won't talk about that because, you know, she shouldn't 89 00:03:44,680 --> 00:03:45,680 be shamed for that. 90 00:03:45,680 --> 00:03:46,680 It's been 20 years. 91 00:03:46,680 --> 00:03:47,680 100%. 92 00:03:47,680 --> 00:03:48,680 Yeah. 93 00:03:48,680 --> 00:03:50,160 Definitely shouldn't be shamed for that. 94 00:03:50,160 --> 00:03:52,360 But also Ray J is a snake. 95 00:03:52,360 --> 00:03:55,080 Ray J. Who is Ray J anyways, anymore? 96 00:03:55,080 --> 00:03:56,080 Yeah. 97 00:03:56,080 --> 00:04:00,240 I know who he is, but like, ew, nobody cares about him anymore. 98 00:04:00,240 --> 00:04:01,240 Look at Kim. 99 00:04:01,240 --> 00:04:02,240 Look what you did to Kim. 100 00:04:02,240 --> 00:04:07,280 You blew her up and she is just like on top of the world. 101 00:04:07,280 --> 00:04:09,080 What the intention was, you know that it was. 102 00:04:09,080 --> 00:04:10,080 Right. 103 00:04:10,080 --> 00:04:11,080 Oh no, it was definitely not. 104 00:04:11,080 --> 00:04:12,080 So like- 105 00:04:12,080 --> 00:04:13,080 She, she and her mama- 106 00:04:13,080 --> 00:04:14,080 Too bad for you. 107 00:04:14,080 --> 00:04:15,880 She just did that and ran with it. 108 00:04:15,880 --> 00:04:16,880 Hell yeah. 109 00:04:16,880 --> 00:04:17,880 Yeah. 110 00:04:17,880 --> 00:04:18,880 I mean, absolutely. 111 00:04:18,880 --> 00:04:19,880 Yeah. 112 00:04:19,880 --> 00:04:23,880 So I would, so for me, I think that I thought about this the other day and I forgot what 113 00:04:23,880 --> 00:04:26,400 I landed on because it's very hard for me. 114 00:04:26,400 --> 00:04:30,520 I love all of them, but okay. 115 00:04:30,520 --> 00:04:37,040 So I'd probably kill, I don't know, I'd kill Chloe too because, not Chloe, I'm sorry, Courtney. 116 00:04:37,040 --> 00:04:38,040 Too many Ks. 117 00:04:38,040 --> 00:04:39,480 That really just about hurt my feelings. 118 00:04:39,480 --> 00:04:40,480 I know, no, no, no. 119 00:04:40,480 --> 00:04:41,480 I love Chloe. 120 00:04:41,480 --> 00:04:49,080 Actually, I think I'm going to do the same as you because, because Courtney is, is annoying. 121 00:04:49,080 --> 00:04:53,000 I do love watching what's that guy's name that has like, I think he has blonde hair 122 00:04:53,000 --> 00:04:56,040 and he does her impression and it's so good. 123 00:04:56,040 --> 00:04:58,360 He's like on Instagram and TikTok and all the things. 124 00:04:58,360 --> 00:04:59,360 Blonde hair guy? 125 00:04:59,360 --> 00:05:00,480 I think he's blonde hair. 126 00:05:00,480 --> 00:05:01,960 He might change his hair a lot. 127 00:05:01,960 --> 00:05:05,440 Are you talking about the one that was like on the show or whatever with, that's Benny 128 00:05:05,440 --> 00:05:06,440 Drama. 129 00:05:06,440 --> 00:05:07,440 Oh, Benny Drama. 130 00:05:07,440 --> 00:05:08,440 Yeah. 131 00:05:08,440 --> 00:05:09,440 That's who it is. 132 00:05:09,440 --> 00:05:10,440 I love him. 133 00:05:10,440 --> 00:05:11,440 Oh my gosh. 134 00:05:11,440 --> 00:05:12,440 He does her- Perfectly. 135 00:05:12,440 --> 00:05:13,440 Yes. 136 00:05:13,440 --> 00:05:14,440 He is, oh my gosh. 137 00:05:14,440 --> 00:05:16,440 I am so jealous of that. 138 00:05:16,440 --> 00:05:19,640 Like, so good. 139 00:05:19,640 --> 00:05:24,280 And I don't know how she doesn't know that she talks so slow. 140 00:05:24,280 --> 00:05:33,440 She should move to Alabama because she talks way slower than the rest of us. 141 00:05:33,440 --> 00:05:35,440 She would not survive here. 142 00:05:35,440 --> 00:05:38,440 No, she would not. 143 00:05:38,440 --> 00:05:41,440 Oh my God. 144 00:05:41,440 --> 00:05:45,120 I don't know if it's- Can you imagine taking her to like an SEC football game or something 145 00:05:45,120 --> 00:05:46,120 like that? 146 00:05:46,120 --> 00:05:47,120 Yes. 147 00:05:47,120 --> 00:05:49,960 Everybody would murder her or like they not murder her, but they would like, I don't know. 148 00:05:49,960 --> 00:05:51,960 They would be like, yay. 149 00:05:51,960 --> 00:05:54,080 But yeah, so I don't know. 150 00:05:54,080 --> 00:05:58,040 I'd probably not marry Kim because it seems like she gets divorced a lot. 151 00:05:58,040 --> 00:06:03,320 And I feel like after a couple of years, she'd probably pop out a couple of babies and then 152 00:06:03,320 --> 00:06:04,480 get rid of me. 153 00:06:04,480 --> 00:06:12,440 I mean, if you're referencing like what's going on with her and Kanye, I just, I don't 154 00:06:12,440 --> 00:06:15,880 co-sign that theory or whatever because Kanye is fucking crazy. 155 00:06:15,880 --> 00:06:16,880 He is crazy. 156 00:06:16,880 --> 00:06:17,880 He's very crazy. 157 00:06:17,880 --> 00:06:22,960 But she, look, she's been married like a hundred times. 158 00:06:22,960 --> 00:06:23,960 Yeah. 159 00:06:23,960 --> 00:06:24,960 Like four or five, four times. 160 00:06:24,960 --> 00:06:25,960 I think it's four. 161 00:06:25,960 --> 00:06:26,960 Is it four? 162 00:06:26,960 --> 00:06:27,960 Yeah. 163 00:06:27,960 --> 00:06:28,960 So, which I mean, whatever. 164 00:06:28,960 --> 00:06:29,960 You do you, boo boo Kim. 165 00:06:29,960 --> 00:06:31,560 I have no judgment to you. 166 00:06:31,560 --> 00:06:32,960 I think you are doing fabulous. 167 00:06:32,960 --> 00:06:33,960 No. 168 00:06:33,960 --> 00:06:34,960 You're doing way better than me. 169 00:06:34,960 --> 00:06:36,680 So I was going to say we have no room to talk. 170 00:06:36,680 --> 00:06:37,680 Neither one of us have been married. 171 00:06:37,680 --> 00:06:39,760 Well, I'm not talking about marriage either. 172 00:06:39,760 --> 00:06:45,760 I'm just look, but I'm just saying, I think I might kill her because she would probably 173 00:06:45,760 --> 00:06:49,480 kick me to the curb after a couple of years. 174 00:06:49,480 --> 00:06:51,960 And then Chloe, you know, I don't know. 175 00:06:51,960 --> 00:06:52,960 I like her. 176 00:06:52,960 --> 00:06:54,200 I'll do the same as you. 177 00:06:54,200 --> 00:06:55,200 Yeah. 178 00:06:55,200 --> 00:06:56,200 So, all right. 179 00:06:56,200 --> 00:07:01,120 Well, we're going to jump into the Myers-Briggs personality test now, you guys. 180 00:07:01,120 --> 00:07:06,880 So if you haven't heard about the Myers-Briggs, it's a Myers-Briggs type indicator and you 181 00:07:06,880 --> 00:07:10,000 can take this test on like online. 182 00:07:10,000 --> 00:07:12,160 I think that I've always taken it. 183 00:07:12,160 --> 00:07:17,920 It's on 16personalities.com and it's free. 184 00:07:17,920 --> 00:07:19,440 So it's pretty cool. 185 00:07:19,440 --> 00:07:22,680 But I believe there's like a professional one that's like actually like a Myers-Briggs 186 00:07:22,680 --> 00:07:23,960 or something and you have to pay. 187 00:07:23,960 --> 00:07:24,960 I'm not sure. 188 00:07:24,960 --> 00:07:27,440 But every time I've taken it 16personalities.com. 189 00:07:27,440 --> 00:07:33,840 So take your test and you can send us an email and tell us what you think about what we're 190 00:07:33,840 --> 00:07:37,440 talking about and our personalities and maybe yours and things like that. 191 00:07:37,440 --> 00:07:42,960 So there are five personality aspects in the Myers-Briggs type indicator or whatever. 192 00:07:42,960 --> 00:07:46,080 When combined, they define the personality type. 193 00:07:46,080 --> 00:07:50,400 So when you get your results, you'll take your test and it, I don't know how many questions 194 00:07:50,400 --> 00:07:54,040 it is, but you'll take your test and you'll get like a four letter, you'll get a five 195 00:07:54,040 --> 00:07:55,860 letter type. 196 00:07:55,860 --> 00:08:01,940 So the first one is mind and so your mind is how it describes how you interact with 197 00:08:01,940 --> 00:08:03,480 your surroundings. 198 00:08:03,480 --> 00:08:05,600 So you're either an introvert or an extrovert. 199 00:08:05,600 --> 00:08:08,640 So it's an I or an E. So like for yours, what are you? 200 00:08:08,640 --> 00:08:10,520 An E. You're an E. Of course you are. 201 00:08:10,520 --> 00:08:13,780 You're an E. So that, okay. 202 00:08:13,780 --> 00:08:20,040 So you're either an I or an E and if you're an I, you prefer solitary activities and get 203 00:08:20,040 --> 00:08:26,280 exhausted by social interaction and you tend to be quite sensitive to external stimulation, 204 00:08:26,280 --> 00:08:28,680 sound, sight or smell in general. 205 00:08:28,680 --> 00:08:32,000 Doesn't mean you have Asperger's or you're on the spectrum. 206 00:08:32,000 --> 00:08:37,440 Just means that you're like introverted and you're like, that sound is annoying, I guess. 207 00:08:37,440 --> 00:08:38,440 Those people are annoying. 208 00:08:38,440 --> 00:08:39,440 Yeah. 209 00:08:39,440 --> 00:08:44,480 I feel like that a lot, but I know that I'm not an introvert. 210 00:08:44,480 --> 00:08:46,920 So you're an extrovert and I am also an extrovert. 211 00:08:46,920 --> 00:08:47,920 Yeah. 212 00:08:47,920 --> 00:08:48,920 There's no doubt about it. 213 00:08:48,920 --> 00:08:53,920 I think extroverted individuals prefer group activities and get energized by social interaction. 214 00:08:53,920 --> 00:08:58,480 And I'm going to emphasize that get energized part because I have had conversations with 215 00:08:58,480 --> 00:09:03,400 my friend who was like an expert Jillian in like personality tests and like this, and 216 00:09:03,400 --> 00:09:04,600 like this type of thing. 217 00:09:04,600 --> 00:09:10,120 Cause she does like HR stuff and she kind of was the one that got me on this whole, 218 00:09:10,120 --> 00:09:14,320 well, cause I was like, I feel like I'm more of an introvert sometimes because sometimes 219 00:09:14,320 --> 00:09:18,280 I just like want to sit at home, you know, but I don't get energized by that. 220 00:09:18,280 --> 00:09:23,160 So like when I sit at home, I like get more deep into this, like I'm going to continue 221 00:09:23,160 --> 00:09:24,160 sitting at home. 222 00:09:24,160 --> 00:09:28,520 But like when I go out and hang out with people, I get more energized and I'm like, yay. 223 00:09:28,520 --> 00:09:33,360 And I, it's like an object in motion stays at motion and object at rest. 224 00:09:33,360 --> 00:09:37,720 I definitely think that like when there's things that we have to go do like socially 225 00:09:37,720 --> 00:09:42,560 or whatever, sometimes you're like on the dread train up until like the moment that 226 00:09:42,560 --> 00:09:47,440 you get in the car and then we start talking and you like start to liven up again. 227 00:09:47,440 --> 00:09:48,440 Yeah. 228 00:09:48,440 --> 00:09:52,440 And then I like switch flips and I'm like, Oh, I do really like doing this. 229 00:09:52,440 --> 00:09:53,440 Yeah. 230 00:09:53,440 --> 00:09:55,360 I'm like so happy I'm here. 231 00:09:55,360 --> 00:10:01,120 That's why people have to like, I have to like make people force me to do stuff sometimes. 232 00:10:01,120 --> 00:10:02,120 So yeah, it does. 233 00:10:02,120 --> 00:10:06,600 It says they tend to, so extroverts tend to be more enthusiastic and more easily excited 234 00:10:06,600 --> 00:10:09,440 than introverts, which I am, I guess. 235 00:10:09,440 --> 00:10:10,440 Yeah. 236 00:10:10,440 --> 00:10:11,440 I get more excited. 237 00:10:11,440 --> 00:10:12,440 Maybe. 238 00:10:12,440 --> 00:10:13,440 I don't know. 239 00:10:13,440 --> 00:10:15,560 I don't, I don't really know many people that would be introverts. 240 00:10:15,560 --> 00:10:17,280 You know, any of our friends that might be an introvert? 241 00:10:17,280 --> 00:10:18,280 My old neighbor, Sean. 242 00:10:18,280 --> 00:10:24,440 Oh, well yeah, but Sean, we already know he, we took, did the Enneagram with him and he's 243 00:10:24,440 --> 00:10:25,760 like a five or something. 244 00:10:25,760 --> 00:10:26,760 I don't know. 245 00:10:26,760 --> 00:10:27,760 Okay. 246 00:10:27,760 --> 00:10:31,600 So, but who, do you know any other, any of our friends like close friends, like our separate 247 00:10:31,600 --> 00:10:35,640 club people that you would think, cause Jessica would not, she would be an extrovert for sure. 248 00:10:35,640 --> 00:10:37,880 I mean, this is from what I can see. 249 00:10:37,880 --> 00:10:38,880 Yeah. 250 00:10:38,880 --> 00:10:44,120 I mean, I think Melanie sometimes can be an introvert and she like will refuse to go and 251 00:10:44,120 --> 00:10:45,120 do things. 252 00:10:45,120 --> 00:10:46,120 Yeah. 253 00:10:46,120 --> 00:10:47,120 She's an introvert. 254 00:10:47,120 --> 00:10:48,560 I mean, that's kind of how I am. 255 00:10:48,560 --> 00:10:49,920 I don't know. 256 00:10:49,920 --> 00:10:51,760 You don't refuse to go do anything though. 257 00:10:51,760 --> 00:10:55,520 You can be easily talked into things because you have FOMO. 258 00:10:55,520 --> 00:10:59,520 There are times where she does not give a shit. 259 00:10:59,520 --> 00:11:00,520 That's true. 260 00:11:00,520 --> 00:11:04,300 She's dead set on not hanging out and being by herself. 261 00:11:04,300 --> 00:11:05,500 That is what she's going to do. 262 00:11:05,500 --> 00:11:07,040 She will skip a pool day. 263 00:11:07,040 --> 00:11:08,040 She does not care. 264 00:11:08,040 --> 00:11:09,920 Our friend Kelly is coming down from Huntsville this weekend. 265 00:11:09,920 --> 00:11:11,520 I'm like, did you want to come down here too? 266 00:11:11,520 --> 00:11:12,560 No, thank you. 267 00:11:12,560 --> 00:11:14,160 I'm like, okay, bye. 268 00:11:14,160 --> 00:11:15,160 I have FOMO so bad. 269 00:11:15,160 --> 00:11:16,160 I'd be like, no, I'm coming. 270 00:11:16,160 --> 00:11:17,160 I'm coming. 271 00:11:17,160 --> 00:11:23,080 Even if I had like I'd cancel plans, I'd be like, oh, no, you're like, but yeah, that's 272 00:11:23,080 --> 00:11:24,080 funny. 273 00:11:24,080 --> 00:11:27,320 But I don't know anybody else that would be an introvert. 274 00:11:27,320 --> 00:11:31,240 So we talked about the first aspect, which is the mind, which is the introvert, extrovert. 275 00:11:31,240 --> 00:11:32,240 Now we're on energy. 276 00:11:32,240 --> 00:11:33,320 The second one is energy. 277 00:11:33,320 --> 00:11:36,480 So it determines how we see the world and process information. 278 00:11:36,480 --> 00:11:39,680 So you're either an S or an N and S is observant. 279 00:11:39,680 --> 00:11:44,800 I know it's kind of confusing because it's like an observant and then the N is intuitive 280 00:11:44,800 --> 00:11:47,440 and let me tell you what these mean. 281 00:11:47,440 --> 00:11:52,760 So they mean observant individuals are highly practical, pragmatic and down to earth. 282 00:11:52,760 --> 00:11:57,080 They tend to have strong habits and focus on what is happening or has already happened 283 00:11:57,080 --> 00:12:01,780 and intuitive individuals are very imaginative, open minded and curious. 284 00:12:01,780 --> 00:12:08,320 They prefer novelty over stability and focus on hidden meanings and future possibilities. 285 00:12:08,320 --> 00:12:09,560 So what did you tell me? 286 00:12:09,560 --> 00:12:10,560 You are what I forgot. 287 00:12:10,560 --> 00:12:11,560 An S. 288 00:12:11,560 --> 00:12:14,400 You're an S. So you are the observant. 289 00:12:14,400 --> 00:12:15,400 For sure. 290 00:12:15,400 --> 00:12:16,400 Do you believe that? 291 00:12:16,400 --> 00:12:17,400 Yeah. 292 00:12:17,400 --> 00:12:18,720 So you're highly practical, pragmatic and down to earth. 293 00:12:18,720 --> 00:12:20,640 I forgot to tell you guys what I am. 294 00:12:20,640 --> 00:12:21,640 Oh yeah. 295 00:12:21,640 --> 00:12:22,640 What are you? 296 00:12:22,640 --> 00:12:25,000 Well, you're an E. So mine. 297 00:12:25,000 --> 00:12:28,440 So and we're kind of, I'm kind of getting off of the topic thing here. 298 00:12:28,440 --> 00:12:35,400 We'll get back to it in a minute, but every time I've taken this test, it has been different. 299 00:12:35,400 --> 00:12:38,680 But most of the time when I take it, I get the same thing. 300 00:12:38,680 --> 00:12:40,960 And I'm going to tell you that one. 301 00:12:40,960 --> 00:12:47,400 I was a protagonist, which is an E, N, F, J. So I was an E so that I'm an extrovert and 302 00:12:47,400 --> 00:12:49,320 I'm an N. Where are you? 303 00:12:49,320 --> 00:12:52,680 S. So we're different on that, which is interesting. 304 00:12:52,680 --> 00:12:59,760 I like to talk about the differences, the N. So I am very imaginative, open minded and 305 00:12:59,760 --> 00:13:00,760 curious. 306 00:13:00,760 --> 00:13:04,600 I prefer novelty over stability and focus on hidden meanings and future possibilities. 307 00:13:04,600 --> 00:13:07,400 Honestly, I don't really understand that. 308 00:13:07,400 --> 00:13:09,920 Like I don't feel like that's who I am. 309 00:13:09,920 --> 00:13:12,320 But do you think that I am more like that? 310 00:13:12,320 --> 00:13:13,320 Yeah. 311 00:13:13,320 --> 00:13:17,680 Like you, we've talked before about Jessica's husband, Dale, really like being into conspiracy 312 00:13:17,680 --> 00:13:19,880 theories and you're like really into that. 313 00:13:19,880 --> 00:13:20,880 And I'm not at all. 314 00:13:20,880 --> 00:13:21,880 Yeah, I love that. 315 00:13:21,880 --> 00:13:22,880 Love it. 316 00:13:22,880 --> 00:13:24,440 And I love like do say prepping and stuff. 317 00:13:24,440 --> 00:13:25,440 Yeah. 318 00:13:25,440 --> 00:13:26,440 Yeah, that's not my job. 319 00:13:26,440 --> 00:13:30,160 We definitely need to get him on here to talk about some conspiracy theories. 320 00:13:30,160 --> 00:13:35,440 He is listening right now and he's going to be like, yeah, I'm so excited. 321 00:13:35,440 --> 00:13:38,160 Jessica's probably rolling her eyes like, oh God. 322 00:13:38,160 --> 00:13:44,080 Okay, so the next one, the next personality aspect is nature and it determines how you 323 00:13:44,080 --> 00:13:46,960 make decisions and cope with emotions. 324 00:13:46,960 --> 00:13:53,480 So you can either be thinking or you can be the feeling T or F. What are you? 325 00:13:53,480 --> 00:13:54,480 F for sure. 326 00:13:54,480 --> 00:13:55,920 I have so many feelings. 327 00:13:55,920 --> 00:13:56,960 It's unbelievable. 328 00:13:56,960 --> 00:13:58,880 I am an F too. 329 00:13:58,880 --> 00:14:03,720 But thinking individuals focus on objectivity and rationality, prioritizing logic over emotions. 330 00:14:03,720 --> 00:14:07,760 They tend to hide their feelings and see efficiency as more important than cooperation. 331 00:14:07,760 --> 00:14:13,000 I honestly think I might be a T and that's probably why I get a different one every time. 332 00:14:13,000 --> 00:14:18,620 Maybe because I think I might be a T. But feeling individuals, which is what we both 333 00:14:18,620 --> 00:14:25,240 are according to what we scored, feeling individuals are sensitive and emotionally expressive. 334 00:14:25,240 --> 00:14:31,040 They are more empathetic and less co-op competitive than thinking types and focus on social harmony 335 00:14:31,040 --> 00:14:33,240 and cooperation. 336 00:14:33,240 --> 00:14:34,720 You think do you agree with that for yourself? 337 00:14:34,720 --> 00:14:35,720 Yeah. 338 00:14:35,720 --> 00:14:38,680 I feel like you're sensitive and emotionally expressive. 339 00:14:38,680 --> 00:14:39,680 Cooperation isn't my strong suit sometimes. 340 00:14:39,680 --> 00:14:41,720 I feel like you're competitive though. 341 00:14:41,720 --> 00:14:42,720 For sure. 342 00:14:42,720 --> 00:14:48,840 I feel like I'm not necessarily as sensitive or emotionally expressive, but I am very less 343 00:14:48,840 --> 00:14:49,840 competitive. 344 00:14:49,840 --> 00:14:50,840 Yeah. 345 00:14:50,840 --> 00:14:54,440 I mean, when we were playing cornhole this weekend at the lake, I don't even like cornhole 346 00:14:54,440 --> 00:14:56,560 and I was like ready to whip some ass. 347 00:14:56,560 --> 00:14:57,560 Yeah. 348 00:14:57,560 --> 00:14:58,560 And I was just like, I don't care who wins. 349 00:14:58,560 --> 00:15:05,640 I'm just having fun. 350 00:15:05,640 --> 00:15:07,880 Do you focus on social harmony and cooperation? 351 00:15:07,880 --> 00:15:12,040 I feel like that second part is more me than the first part. 352 00:15:12,040 --> 00:15:17,000 I do feel like I might be a T though, because I tend to hide my feelings and see efficiency 353 00:15:17,000 --> 00:15:18,520 as more important than cooperation. 354 00:15:18,520 --> 00:15:20,000 Yes, you do. 355 00:15:20,000 --> 00:15:21,000 Yeah. 356 00:15:21,000 --> 00:15:27,360 I mean, I just don't feel like my feelings really matter that much to the grand scheme 357 00:15:27,360 --> 00:15:28,360 of things. 358 00:15:28,360 --> 00:15:32,080 And I feel like my feelings are the only thing that matter in the grand scheme of things. 359 00:15:32,080 --> 00:15:35,400 I'm just like, look, my feeling will pass. 360 00:15:35,400 --> 00:15:39,160 This feeling will, this too shall pass and we can move on to the next thing. 361 00:15:39,160 --> 00:15:42,160 Like I'm going to, I'm going to feel it for a second and there's no reason. 362 00:15:42,160 --> 00:15:46,560 If I get mad or do whatever, or try to say something about my feelings, then I'm just, 363 00:15:46,560 --> 00:15:48,760 it's going to make everybody else like have a bad time. 364 00:15:48,760 --> 00:15:51,640 And then I want to talk about my feelings for the next two hours. 365 00:15:51,640 --> 00:15:52,640 Yeah. 366 00:15:52,640 --> 00:15:53,640 That's why I hate that. 367 00:15:53,640 --> 00:15:55,600 That's the one thing I don't like about you. 368 00:15:55,600 --> 00:15:58,600 Just that one thing. 369 00:15:58,600 --> 00:16:01,160 I'm like, just that one thing. 370 00:16:01,160 --> 00:16:05,240 I think, I mean, we'll talk about, well, I'll see if as we go down the list, I'll see if 371 00:16:05,240 --> 00:16:07,160 there's anything else and I'll let you know. 372 00:16:07,160 --> 00:16:08,800 Thank you so much. 373 00:16:08,800 --> 00:16:11,880 Honestly, I don't mind like talking to you about your feelings, but sometimes you get 374 00:16:11,880 --> 00:16:16,840 in your feelings so much and I have to be like, Sarah, get out, get out, get out of 375 00:16:16,840 --> 00:16:17,840 that. 376 00:16:17,840 --> 00:16:18,840 Okay. 377 00:16:18,840 --> 00:16:24,960 So next one, number four is tactics, which reflects our approach to work planning and 378 00:16:24,960 --> 00:16:26,280 decision-making. 379 00:16:26,280 --> 00:16:30,040 So you can be there a J or a P and you are a what? 380 00:16:30,040 --> 00:16:31,040 J. 381 00:16:31,040 --> 00:16:32,040 I'm a J as well. 382 00:16:32,040 --> 00:16:35,200 So we're, wait, so we're almost, we're like kind of almost the same. 383 00:16:35,200 --> 00:16:42,280 The J is judging, which judging individuals are decisive, thorough, and highly organized. 384 00:16:42,280 --> 00:16:48,420 They value clarity, predictability, and closure, preferring structure and planning to spontaneity. 385 00:16:48,420 --> 00:16:50,640 You are 100% judging. 386 00:16:50,640 --> 00:16:52,000 Like holy moly. 387 00:16:52,000 --> 00:16:58,400 Like I could, I might be like possibly like borderline judging perspective, but like you, 388 00:16:58,400 --> 00:16:59,400 yeah. 389 00:16:59,400 --> 00:17:00,400 Okay. 390 00:17:00,400 --> 00:17:01,400 So let me just say decisive. 391 00:17:01,400 --> 00:17:02,400 Yes. 392 00:17:02,400 --> 00:17:03,400 Thorough and highly organized. 393 00:17:03,400 --> 00:17:04,400 Yes. 394 00:17:04,400 --> 00:17:05,400 And then closure. 395 00:17:05,400 --> 00:17:06,400 Yes. 396 00:17:06,400 --> 00:17:08,960 All those preferring structure and planning to spontaneity. 397 00:17:08,960 --> 00:17:09,960 100%. 398 00:17:09,960 --> 00:17:14,560 Look, we went to the lake last weekend and she like four weeks ahead of time was like, 399 00:17:14,560 --> 00:17:18,240 we need to make sure we know exactly what we're eating for every meal. 400 00:17:18,240 --> 00:17:20,160 Like she was on top of it planning. 401 00:17:20,160 --> 00:17:22,800 I mean, it was great because I didn't have to do it. 402 00:17:22,800 --> 00:17:27,440 Well, the only reason why that happened that way, I mean, do I like to be in control? 403 00:17:27,440 --> 00:17:28,440 Yes. 404 00:17:28,440 --> 00:17:33,920 Because then it puts me in like a comfort zone because I know what's happening and I 405 00:17:33,920 --> 00:17:35,480 don't have to worry about it. 406 00:17:35,480 --> 00:17:39,760 Like I knew I didn't want to go back to the store and have to like go get something during 407 00:17:39,760 --> 00:17:40,760 the day, whatever. 408 00:17:40,760 --> 00:17:46,280 But I mean, I just had a previous winter time lake trip on that same lake, you know, not 409 00:17:46,280 --> 00:17:50,240 far from where we stayed and I knew we weren't going to want to leave and I knew it made 410 00:17:50,240 --> 00:17:53,240 sense to plan the entire weekend meal wise. 411 00:17:53,240 --> 00:17:54,240 Yeah. 412 00:17:54,240 --> 00:17:55,440 And it made it, it did make sense. 413 00:17:55,440 --> 00:17:59,880 But like if you had showed up and to somebody else's trip and they hadn't done all that 414 00:17:59,880 --> 00:18:02,780 and you got there and they were like, Oh, we got to go to the store. 415 00:18:02,780 --> 00:18:05,320 You would have probably been like, what the hell? 416 00:18:05,320 --> 00:18:06,600 Why did they not plan this out? 417 00:18:06,600 --> 00:18:09,880 Oh, you would have been like really kicked off. 418 00:18:09,880 --> 00:18:11,780 That happened when we went on a beach trip. 419 00:18:11,780 --> 00:18:18,560 The very last beach trip that we went on was in Destin and we stayed in Sandestin where 420 00:18:18,560 --> 00:18:21,880 we could, you know, golf cart to the publics in there or whatever. 421 00:18:21,880 --> 00:18:24,760 And we did not buy shit. 422 00:18:24,760 --> 00:18:27,800 We just said we were going to get everything while we were down there. 423 00:18:27,800 --> 00:18:28,960 Dumbest thing that we ever did. 424 00:18:28,960 --> 00:18:30,120 We bought too much stuff. 425 00:18:30,120 --> 00:18:31,880 We spent way too much money. 426 00:18:31,880 --> 00:18:33,320 It was insanity. 427 00:18:33,320 --> 00:18:38,680 I want to say that like after all the alcohol and everything, we spent $400 for like a three 428 00:18:38,680 --> 00:18:39,680 night stay. 429 00:18:39,680 --> 00:18:40,680 It was ridiculous. 430 00:18:40,680 --> 00:18:41,680 For how many people though? 431 00:18:41,680 --> 00:18:44,960 There may have been like 10 or 11 of us, something like that. 432 00:18:44,960 --> 00:18:47,320 That's not that, I mean, I mean, I don't know. 433 00:18:47,320 --> 00:18:49,680 I mean, it could have been, it could have been better. 434 00:18:49,680 --> 00:18:50,680 It could have been worse. 435 00:18:50,680 --> 00:18:51,680 Right. 436 00:18:51,680 --> 00:18:53,160 But like we also ate out twice. 437 00:18:53,160 --> 00:18:54,160 Oh yeah. 438 00:18:54,160 --> 00:18:55,160 No. 439 00:18:55,160 --> 00:18:57,080 For a three night stay and you bought all that stuff? 440 00:18:57,080 --> 00:18:58,080 Correct. 441 00:18:58,080 --> 00:18:59,080 Holy cow. 442 00:18:59,080 --> 00:19:00,080 You know what I'm saying? 443 00:19:00,080 --> 00:19:01,080 Like it was just a lot. 444 00:19:01,080 --> 00:19:02,080 It was a lot of it. 445 00:19:02,080 --> 00:19:05,200 And then like trying to pack up groceries that you've already unpacked afterwards is 446 00:19:05,200 --> 00:19:06,200 like a hot mess. 447 00:19:06,200 --> 00:19:10,640 So yes, I mean, I do appreciate that like planning aspect of it, but I get it from my 448 00:19:10,640 --> 00:19:11,640 mother. 449 00:19:11,640 --> 00:19:12,640 Yeah. 450 00:19:12,640 --> 00:19:14,680 Well, she brings her own damn ham soap to my house. 451 00:19:14,680 --> 00:19:15,680 Okay. 452 00:19:15,680 --> 00:19:17,520 As if I don't have any. 453 00:19:17,520 --> 00:19:20,040 That's a weird. 454 00:19:20,040 --> 00:19:21,920 My mom brings her own crystal ball. 455 00:19:21,920 --> 00:19:27,320 I call it a crystal ball, a crystal glass cup everywhere because she refuses to drink 456 00:19:27,320 --> 00:19:29,720 out of and not crystal cup. 457 00:19:29,720 --> 00:19:34,360 She brings her own toilet paper, paper towels, washcloths, hand towels. 458 00:19:34,360 --> 00:19:35,360 It's insanity. 459 00:19:35,360 --> 00:19:36,360 My mom brings her own sheets to my house. 460 00:19:36,360 --> 00:19:37,360 She brings banker boxes with her. 461 00:19:37,360 --> 00:19:42,360 Like last year when we were on our beach trip, Jerry and I were like, what is in these banker 462 00:19:42,360 --> 00:19:43,360 boxes? 463 00:19:43,360 --> 00:19:44,360 She needs to be prepared. 464 00:19:44,360 --> 00:19:49,360 And she had like fricking Windex and counter cleaner. 465 00:19:49,360 --> 00:19:52,400 And it's like, we are in somebody's home. 466 00:19:52,400 --> 00:19:53,400 You never know what you're. 467 00:19:53,400 --> 00:19:56,220 She's a mom and that is what you do when you're a mom. 468 00:19:56,220 --> 00:19:57,600 You plan for everything. 469 00:19:57,600 --> 00:20:01,360 My mom does the same thing, but not as she doesn't bring her own hand soap. 470 00:20:01,360 --> 00:20:04,120 But if I didn't have any, she would go to the store and buy some. 471 00:20:04,120 --> 00:20:05,120 That's my whole thing. 472 00:20:05,120 --> 00:20:06,120 Like you're these airbnbs. 473 00:20:06,120 --> 00:20:11,360 I mean, they're, they stay with us and an airbnb sometimes or whatever. 474 00:20:11,360 --> 00:20:12,360 The people have soap. 475 00:20:12,360 --> 00:20:13,360 Yeah. 476 00:20:13,360 --> 00:20:14,920 Usually they have like more than what I've got. 477 00:20:14,920 --> 00:20:17,120 They're not, not having soap. 478 00:20:17,120 --> 00:20:18,120 Yeah. 479 00:20:18,120 --> 00:20:19,120 It's crazy. 480 00:20:19,120 --> 00:20:20,120 Yeah, that's sorry, mom. 481 00:20:20,120 --> 00:20:21,120 Love you. 482 00:20:21,120 --> 00:20:22,120 But it's a little weird. 483 00:20:22,120 --> 00:20:23,120 You bring your own hand soap to my house. 484 00:20:23,120 --> 00:20:25,800 I think it's a little, well, so it would be different if you were like a college student 485 00:20:25,800 --> 00:20:29,440 still and you like weren't an adult and didn't have hand soap. 486 00:20:29,440 --> 00:20:30,440 I'm 35. 487 00:20:30,440 --> 00:20:33,440 I buy the 18 pack of toilet paper now. 488 00:20:33,440 --> 00:20:34,440 It's 36. 489 00:20:34,440 --> 00:20:36,800 But is it the good type of toilet paper that she wants to use? 490 00:20:36,800 --> 00:20:37,800 Do you get it from? 491 00:20:37,800 --> 00:20:38,800 It is the Sharpen red label. 492 00:20:38,800 --> 00:20:39,800 Oh, you get Sharpen. 493 00:20:39,800 --> 00:20:44,040 Oh, I get, I get Kirkland brand because it's good. 494 00:20:44,040 --> 00:20:47,160 Because that Scott we had at the lake was terrible. 495 00:20:47,160 --> 00:20:48,160 It was horrific. 496 00:20:48,160 --> 00:20:49,160 And the. 497 00:20:49,160 --> 00:20:52,040 Well, anyways, back to the personality aspects. 498 00:20:52,040 --> 00:20:53,040 Okay. 499 00:20:53,040 --> 00:20:55,240 So under the tactics, you're either judging or respecting. 500 00:20:55,240 --> 00:20:59,600 So P is I think that's how you say it. 501 00:20:59,600 --> 00:21:03,400 Prospecting prospecting prospecting prospecting. 502 00:21:03,400 --> 00:21:06,840 Individuals are very good at improvising and spotting opportunities. 503 00:21:06,840 --> 00:21:11,400 They tend to be flexible, relaxed, nonconformist who prefer keeping their options open. 504 00:21:11,400 --> 00:21:16,600 I will tell you right now, Pete is a P for Pete. 505 00:21:16,600 --> 00:21:18,880 He was like he was freaking out. 506 00:21:18,880 --> 00:21:24,800 He was like he was I screen shotted the text message or all the stuff for from like the 507 00:21:24,800 --> 00:21:28,280 Facebook thing and all the text message about like food and stuff and whatever you sent 508 00:21:28,280 --> 00:21:29,280 me from the lady. 509 00:21:29,280 --> 00:21:30,520 And I was like, here's all the stuff. 510 00:21:30,520 --> 00:21:32,000 And he was like, what in the world? 511 00:21:32,000 --> 00:21:33,480 He was like, what is this? 512 00:21:33,480 --> 00:21:34,480 This is too much. 513 00:21:34,480 --> 00:21:36,280 You guys are over the top. 514 00:21:36,280 --> 00:21:37,280 Like yes. 515 00:21:37,280 --> 00:21:41,400 And I was like, you're going to have to get used to that because this is how we roll. 516 00:21:41,400 --> 00:21:45,240 And I was like, this is this is how it goes. 517 00:21:45,240 --> 00:21:46,240 I know. 518 00:21:46,240 --> 00:21:47,240 I was like, what? 519 00:21:47,240 --> 00:21:51,000 Honestly, though, he would have showed up with more stuff than I did. 520 00:21:51,000 --> 00:21:54,320 Well, and I said the same thing that that lady sent me. 521 00:21:54,320 --> 00:21:57,280 She was so nice and it was so informative. 522 00:21:57,280 --> 00:22:02,160 But I sent it to both you and Sanjana and I gave the byline of this is really long and 523 00:22:02,160 --> 00:22:03,800 a lot of information. 524 00:22:03,800 --> 00:22:05,360 You know, read at your. 525 00:22:05,360 --> 00:22:09,600 Yeah, you sent it to me and I was like, I'm going to have to read that later. 526 00:22:09,600 --> 00:22:10,600 Not reading now. 527 00:22:10,600 --> 00:22:13,880 I gave a heads up and I was like, there's a lot of info here. 528 00:22:13,880 --> 00:22:14,880 Yeah. 529 00:22:14,880 --> 00:22:17,840 So anyways, that's that's the tactics. 530 00:22:17,840 --> 00:22:21,840 So then the last one is your identity and it's like your last letter. 531 00:22:21,840 --> 00:22:26,760 So there's four letters and then a dash and then you either have an A or a T assertive 532 00:22:26,760 --> 00:22:27,760 or turbulent. 533 00:22:27,760 --> 00:22:33,360 And this part underpins all others showing how confident we are in our abilities and 534 00:22:33,360 --> 00:22:34,620 decisions. 535 00:22:34,620 --> 00:22:39,960 So are you an A or what do you think you're an A? 536 00:22:39,960 --> 00:22:40,960 Yes. 537 00:22:40,960 --> 00:22:42,640 So and I don't know what I am. 538 00:22:42,640 --> 00:22:45,680 I need to look at mine. 539 00:22:45,680 --> 00:22:50,800 So assertive A individuals are self-assured, even-tempered and resistant to stress. 540 00:22:50,800 --> 00:22:56,120 They refuse to worry too much and do not push themselves too hard when it comes to achieving 541 00:22:56,120 --> 00:22:57,120 goals. 542 00:22:57,120 --> 00:23:02,280 So you're saying you're an A and then the T is for turbulent. 543 00:23:02,280 --> 00:23:05,320 Turbulent individuals are self-conscious and sensitive to stress. 544 00:23:05,320 --> 00:23:11,120 They are likely to experience a wide range of emotions and to be success driven, perfectionist 545 00:23:11,120 --> 00:23:12,160 and eager to improve. 546 00:23:12,160 --> 00:23:15,760 I think that I might be a T. I should be a T. Yeah. 547 00:23:15,760 --> 00:23:16,760 That's why I like I. 548 00:23:16,760 --> 00:23:20,320 Assertive just because of the word, but I am very. 549 00:23:20,320 --> 00:23:21,320 What is yours? 550 00:23:21,320 --> 00:23:22,320 What is your yours? 551 00:23:22,320 --> 00:23:24,840 Come back as a, a yes. 552 00:23:24,840 --> 00:23:25,840 Yeah. 553 00:23:25,840 --> 00:23:31,680 So I'm not necessarily self-conscious, but I am sensitive to stress and then like likely 554 00:23:31,680 --> 00:23:36,120 to experience a wide range of emotions to be success driven, perfectionist, correct 555 00:23:36,120 --> 00:23:37,120 and eager to improve. 556 00:23:37,120 --> 00:23:38,120 Yeah. 557 00:23:38,120 --> 00:23:39,120 Yeah. 558 00:23:39,120 --> 00:23:40,120 I think we're both those. 559 00:23:40,120 --> 00:23:41,120 Take yours again. 560 00:23:41,120 --> 00:23:42,120 Okay. 561 00:23:42,120 --> 00:23:43,120 Yeah, we'll take it again. 562 00:23:43,120 --> 00:23:44,120 See how it goes. 563 00:23:44,120 --> 00:23:49,840 I'm telling you this test is not in my opinion, it has not been. 564 00:23:49,840 --> 00:23:50,840 What is the word? 565 00:23:50,840 --> 00:23:51,840 Accurate. 566 00:23:51,840 --> 00:23:53,320 Not accurate, but like consistent. 567 00:23:53,320 --> 00:23:54,320 Yes. 568 00:23:54,320 --> 00:23:55,320 It hasn't been consistent. 569 00:23:55,320 --> 00:23:56,320 So. 570 00:23:56,320 --> 00:23:58,080 Do you have what you are listed? 571 00:23:58,080 --> 00:24:01,080 Yeah, but I just don't know what, what's the end of it. 572 00:24:01,080 --> 00:24:09,200 I'm a protagonist, which you can be an ENFJ A or an ENFJ T and I believe I'm a T now that 573 00:24:09,200 --> 00:24:11,440 we have each of those, there are type groups. 574 00:24:11,440 --> 00:24:16,360 So on the, once you take your tests, it comes up or you can look at the types and there's 575 00:24:16,360 --> 00:24:18,000 different types and they're kind of color coded. 576 00:24:18,000 --> 00:24:25,400 And I think there's like a few types per, per color and how do they fit together? 577 00:24:25,400 --> 00:24:27,120 So there's two different layers. 578 00:24:27,120 --> 00:24:32,160 The first layer, there's an inner layer that defines our roles and the second layer is 579 00:24:32,160 --> 00:24:33,600 the strategies. 580 00:24:33,600 --> 00:24:37,760 So the roles layer determines the goals, interests and preferred activity. 581 00:24:37,760 --> 00:24:38,760 There are four roles. 582 00:24:38,760 --> 00:24:39,760 Okay. 583 00:24:39,760 --> 00:24:41,960 So you can, the first one is analysts. 584 00:24:41,960 --> 00:24:44,880 So it's intuitive and thinking types. 585 00:24:44,880 --> 00:24:51,800 These personality types embrace rationality and impartial, impartiality. 586 00:24:51,800 --> 00:24:58,780 I'm so bad at reading, excelling in intellectual debates and scientific or technological fields. 587 00:24:58,780 --> 00:25:03,240 They are fiercely independent, open-minded, strong-willed and imaginative, approaching 588 00:25:03,240 --> 00:25:08,280 many things from utilitarian perspective and being far more interested in what works than 589 00:25:08,280 --> 00:25:09,740 what satisfies everyone. 590 00:25:09,740 --> 00:25:13,560 These traits make analysts excellent strategic thinkers, but also cause difficulties when 591 00:25:13,560 --> 00:25:15,760 it comes to social or romantic pursuits. 592 00:25:15,760 --> 00:25:18,240 I'm pretty sure, am I an analyst? 593 00:25:18,240 --> 00:25:19,240 Hold on. 594 00:25:19,240 --> 00:25:20,240 I don't know what I am. 595 00:25:20,240 --> 00:25:21,240 You're not. 596 00:25:21,240 --> 00:25:22,600 You are a, I'm going to tell you what you are. 597 00:25:22,600 --> 00:25:24,440 I'll tell you in a second. 598 00:25:24,440 --> 00:25:25,440 I'm not an analyst. 599 00:25:25,440 --> 00:25:26,680 I'm a diplomat. 600 00:25:26,680 --> 00:25:29,000 You are a sentinel, sentinel. 601 00:25:29,000 --> 00:25:30,000 Okay. 602 00:25:30,000 --> 00:25:31,000 Okay. 603 00:25:31,000 --> 00:25:32,000 So the next one, diplomat. 604 00:25:32,000 --> 00:25:34,760 So this one is the one that I fall under. 605 00:25:34,760 --> 00:25:36,760 I am a protagonist. 606 00:25:36,760 --> 00:25:39,020 So diplomats are intuitive and feeling. 607 00:25:39,020 --> 00:25:43,360 So the N and the F. So like if you're an E extrovert, E, N, F. 608 00:25:43,360 --> 00:25:46,000 F is the next two. 609 00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:48,280 Both assertive and turbulent variant. 610 00:25:48,280 --> 00:25:50,840 So you have, would have the A or the T at the end. 611 00:25:50,840 --> 00:25:57,760 So diplomats focus on empathy and cooperation, shining and diplomacy, diplomacy, diplomacy, 612 00:25:57,760 --> 00:25:59,760 diplomacy, diplomacy. 613 00:25:59,760 --> 00:26:02,240 I feel like I should be British. 614 00:26:02,240 --> 00:26:05,700 Shining and diplomacy and counseling. 615 00:26:05,700 --> 00:26:10,560 That was a really bad accent, but okay. 616 00:26:10,560 --> 00:26:16,160 People belonging to this type group are cooperative and imaginative, often playing the role of 617 00:26:16,160 --> 00:26:19,440 harmonizers in their workplace or social circles. 618 00:26:19,440 --> 00:26:25,040 These traits make diplomats warm, empathetic and influential individuals, but also cause 619 00:26:25,040 --> 00:26:32,000 issues when there is a need to rely exclusively on cold rationality or make difficult decisions. 620 00:26:32,000 --> 00:26:33,000 Interesting. 621 00:26:33,000 --> 00:26:34,000 Hmm. 622 00:26:34,000 --> 00:26:35,000 That's not good. 623 00:26:35,000 --> 00:26:38,360 I don't like that for myself, but I do like that. 624 00:26:38,360 --> 00:26:43,640 It's like cold rationality, like I guess it causes issues when there's a need to rely 625 00:26:43,640 --> 00:26:49,320 exclusively on cold rationality, which sometimes, yeah, sometimes I'm that way, but not really. 626 00:26:49,320 --> 00:26:51,400 I feel like you're worse than me. 627 00:26:51,400 --> 00:26:53,120 All right. 628 00:26:53,120 --> 00:26:54,400 This one's yours. 629 00:26:54,400 --> 00:26:59,120 Sentinels, observant and judging, which is the S and the J. So this is your group. 630 00:26:59,120 --> 00:27:00,880 The sentinel, okay. 631 00:27:00,880 --> 00:27:02,040 So observing and judging. 632 00:27:02,040 --> 00:27:03,440 So the SJ types. 633 00:27:03,440 --> 00:27:07,520 Sentinels are cooperative and highly practical, embracing and creating order, security and 634 00:27:07,520 --> 00:27:09,160 sensibility wherever they go. 635 00:27:09,160 --> 00:27:11,720 People belonging to one of these types tend to be hardworking. 636 00:27:11,720 --> 00:27:12,720 That's you. 637 00:27:12,720 --> 00:27:13,720 Meticulous. 638 00:27:13,720 --> 00:27:14,720 That's you. 639 00:27:14,720 --> 00:27:15,720 And traditional. 640 00:27:15,720 --> 00:27:16,720 Eh. 641 00:27:16,720 --> 00:27:17,720 Are you traditional? 642 00:27:17,720 --> 00:27:19,200 You can't use your words. 643 00:27:19,200 --> 00:27:20,200 You shook your head. 644 00:27:20,200 --> 00:27:21,200 She shook her head yes. 645 00:27:21,200 --> 00:27:22,200 I shook my head yes. 646 00:27:22,200 --> 00:27:23,200 Yeah. 647 00:27:23,200 --> 00:27:26,400 I mean, I would say traditional when it comes to some things. 648 00:27:26,400 --> 00:27:27,600 Like, I don't know. 649 00:27:27,600 --> 00:27:32,640 I guess I'm traditional in the sense of if it ain't broke, don't fix it type of thing. 650 00:27:32,640 --> 00:27:36,640 Like I'm not trying to come up with 75 ways to get from point A to point B. 651 00:27:36,640 --> 00:27:37,640 Oh, I'm that way. 652 00:27:37,640 --> 00:27:39,840 Just out of creativity purposes. 653 00:27:39,840 --> 00:27:40,840 Yeah. 654 00:27:40,840 --> 00:27:41,840 Okay. 655 00:27:41,840 --> 00:27:45,920 And excel in logistical or administrative fields. 656 00:27:45,920 --> 00:27:50,040 I could be the best executive administrator that's ever existed. 657 00:27:50,040 --> 00:27:54,400 That's the truth. 658 00:27:54,400 --> 00:27:56,840 You're basically mine. 659 00:27:56,840 --> 00:28:00,280 Emily, check your email. 660 00:28:00,280 --> 00:28:02,840 Check your Facebook. 661 00:28:02,840 --> 00:28:07,120 Especially those that rely on clear hierarchies and rules. 662 00:28:07,120 --> 00:28:08,120 These like a rule. 663 00:28:08,120 --> 00:28:09,120 Yeah, I don't. 664 00:28:09,120 --> 00:28:12,640 I'm like, give me a rule. 665 00:28:12,640 --> 00:28:15,480 I mean, I don't I like for other people to have rules. 666 00:28:15,480 --> 00:28:19,320 I like for other people to have rules, but I'm also not one of those that's going to 667 00:28:19,320 --> 00:28:21,920 ask for forgiveness instead of permission. 668 00:28:21,920 --> 00:28:25,400 I feel so guilty if I don't ask for permission or whatever. 669 00:28:25,400 --> 00:28:31,400 Like, and maybe that's just comes from like, working in like terrible corporate situations 670 00:28:31,400 --> 00:28:38,640 where like, I was micromanaged and I felt like I had to like, be upfront about whatever 671 00:28:38,640 --> 00:28:39,640 I was doing. 672 00:28:39,640 --> 00:28:41,200 Yeah, or you were gonna get fired or something. 673 00:28:41,200 --> 00:28:42,200 Yeah. 674 00:28:42,200 --> 00:28:43,200 Like, they're slapping on the wrist. 675 00:28:43,200 --> 00:28:44,200 Nobody should ever feel that way. 676 00:28:44,200 --> 00:28:46,480 But I think that's where that stems from. 677 00:28:46,480 --> 00:28:47,480 Yeah. 678 00:28:47,480 --> 00:28:51,240 So it depends on for me for like, sometimes I'm like, flexible. 679 00:28:51,240 --> 00:28:52,280 Sometimes I'm like, not. 680 00:28:52,280 --> 00:28:54,960 I want there to be rules for other people. 681 00:28:54,960 --> 00:28:59,780 But like, I want to like, not have rules for me. 682 00:28:59,780 --> 00:29:00,780 That's really bad. 683 00:29:00,780 --> 00:29:03,840 I sound like a one for the Enneagram for those of you who know what those are. 684 00:29:03,840 --> 00:29:06,480 And we'll talk about that later. 685 00:29:06,480 --> 00:29:10,680 These personality types stick to their plans and do not shy away from difficult tasks. 686 00:29:10,680 --> 00:29:15,560 However, they can be, they can also be very inflexible and reluctant to accept different 687 00:29:15,560 --> 00:29:16,560 points of view. 688 00:29:16,560 --> 00:29:20,240 Okay, so then there are explorers. 689 00:29:20,240 --> 00:29:24,440 And those are the observant and prospecting SMP, which we aren't either of those, but 690 00:29:24,440 --> 00:29:27,480 I'll read part of this anyways. 691 00:29:27,480 --> 00:29:31,080 These types are the most spontaneous of all, and they also share the ability to connect 692 00:29:31,080 --> 00:29:34,960 with their surroundings in a way that is beyond reach of other types. 693 00:29:34,960 --> 00:29:36,600 I want to be that way so bad. 694 00:29:36,600 --> 00:29:40,880 Do you, I read these personality types sometimes and I'm like, that's what I want to be, but 695 00:29:40,880 --> 00:29:42,560 that's not what I am. 696 00:29:42,560 --> 00:29:45,400 I want to be so many personalities. 697 00:29:45,400 --> 00:29:46,400 Don't you? 698 00:29:46,400 --> 00:29:48,240 I already have 75 personalities. 699 00:29:48,240 --> 00:29:49,240 It's fine. 700 00:29:49,240 --> 00:29:50,240 No, you don't. 701 00:29:50,240 --> 00:29:51,240 You have one. 702 00:29:51,240 --> 00:29:52,240 Every test that you took was the same. 703 00:29:52,240 --> 00:29:53,240 You already said it. 704 00:29:53,240 --> 00:29:54,240 Okay. 705 00:29:54,240 --> 00:29:55,240 Okay. 706 00:29:55,240 --> 00:29:56,240 These types. 707 00:29:56,240 --> 00:29:58,640 I'm not going to talk about that. 708 00:29:58,640 --> 00:30:02,000 They also share the ability to connect with their surroundings in a way that is beyond 709 00:30:02,000 --> 00:30:03,880 reach of other types. 710 00:30:03,880 --> 00:30:08,520 Explorers are utilitarian and practical, shining in situations that require quick reaction 711 00:30:08,520 --> 00:30:09,960 and ability to think on your feet. 712 00:30:09,960 --> 00:30:10,960 I want that too. 713 00:30:10,960 --> 00:30:15,560 They are masters of tools and techniques, using them in many different ways, ranging 714 00:30:15,560 --> 00:30:18,520 from mastering physical tools to convincing other people. 715 00:30:18,520 --> 00:30:20,120 Ooh, I like that. 716 00:30:20,120 --> 00:30:26,160 Unsurprisingly, these personality types are irreplaceable in crises, crafts, and sales. 717 00:30:26,160 --> 00:30:31,780 However, their traits can also push them towards undertaking risky endeavors or focusing solely 718 00:30:31,780 --> 00:30:33,320 on sensual pleasures. 719 00:30:33,320 --> 00:30:36,400 I want that one to be mine. 720 00:30:36,400 --> 00:30:38,280 Okay. 721 00:30:38,280 --> 00:30:41,600 I actually am going to pull up my results. 722 00:30:41,600 --> 00:30:46,400 I took the test recently and got something completely different than I've never gotten 723 00:30:46,400 --> 00:30:47,400 before. 724 00:30:47,400 --> 00:30:48,400 I had taken these multiple times. 725 00:30:48,400 --> 00:30:50,200 I'm going to tell you what I got. 726 00:30:50,200 --> 00:30:51,200 Okay. 727 00:30:51,200 --> 00:30:52,200 Wait, did I do it twice? 728 00:30:52,200 --> 00:30:54,720 Yeah, I took it twice because I was like, this is wrong. 729 00:30:54,720 --> 00:31:03,760 I got a campaigner, which the campaigner is an ENFPA is what I got. 730 00:31:03,760 --> 00:31:06,440 Yeah, I didn't get Explorer. 731 00:31:06,440 --> 00:31:09,080 I really wanted to get Explorer. 732 00:31:09,080 --> 00:31:14,800 NF, I got a diplomat, which is the same as what I would have had before. 733 00:31:14,800 --> 00:31:20,560 I'm normally a protagonist, but this time I got a campaigner because I guess the last 734 00:31:20,560 --> 00:31:23,920 one, the J and the S is different. 735 00:31:23,920 --> 00:31:24,920 I don't know. 736 00:31:24,920 --> 00:31:26,160 It's interesting. 737 00:31:26,160 --> 00:31:29,200 One little thing threw me off. 738 00:31:29,200 --> 00:31:31,160 We're going to talk about what yours is. 739 00:31:31,160 --> 00:31:34,240 I would like you to tell me what your type is. 740 00:31:34,240 --> 00:31:35,240 I'm a liar. 741 00:31:35,240 --> 00:31:36,240 Sarah is a liar. 742 00:31:36,240 --> 00:31:37,240 Sarah is a liar. 743 00:31:37,240 --> 00:31:40,880 Tell us what you lied about. 744 00:31:40,880 --> 00:31:43,080 I think I lied too. 745 00:31:43,080 --> 00:31:44,080 Accidentally. 746 00:31:44,080 --> 00:31:45,560 Yes, exactly. 747 00:31:45,560 --> 00:31:47,120 Unintentional. 748 00:31:47,120 --> 00:31:50,440 I am an ESFJT. 749 00:31:50,440 --> 00:31:56,120 As soon as I said assertive in the beginning because of the word, but then once I heard 750 00:31:56,120 --> 00:32:00,240 you read the T for turbulent, I definitely thought that's what I was and I had to go 751 00:32:00,240 --> 00:32:01,560 back and check my email. 752 00:32:01,560 --> 00:32:02,560 My apologies for being a liar. 753 00:32:02,560 --> 00:32:03,560 Liar. 754 00:32:03,560 --> 00:32:04,560 Pants on fire. 755 00:32:04,560 --> 00:32:09,400 Yeah, she's T, she's turbulent, which is the one we said we thought she was. 756 00:32:09,400 --> 00:32:15,320 I went back and I'm pretty sure I'm a T because of the way it reads, but I went back and the 757 00:32:15,320 --> 00:32:18,720 two that I took, I took it twice yesterday again. 758 00:32:18,720 --> 00:32:25,280 I've never gotten these before, but I got a and I got campaign or ENFPA and then the 759 00:32:25,280 --> 00:32:30,400 second time I took it, I got executive ESTJ. 760 00:32:30,400 --> 00:32:36,920 So I'm thinking I might be an A actually. 761 00:32:36,920 --> 00:32:42,360 But normally I'm an ENFJ, but this is freaking weird that I get a different one every time. 762 00:32:42,360 --> 00:32:43,680 So I could be any of those. 763 00:32:43,680 --> 00:32:46,120 They're all pretty much all of them are in the same group. 764 00:32:46,120 --> 00:32:47,160 So what's your personality? 765 00:32:47,160 --> 00:32:48,160 The campaigner? 766 00:32:48,160 --> 00:32:49,160 No. 767 00:32:49,160 --> 00:32:54,640 So normally I am the protagonist and I'll read some stuff about that. 768 00:32:54,640 --> 00:32:57,720 But then this past time I took it yesterday. 769 00:32:57,720 --> 00:33:03,600 First time I got a campaigner and the second time I got executive, which is interesting 770 00:33:03,600 --> 00:33:07,840 because like why am I getting different results? 771 00:33:07,840 --> 00:33:09,560 But they're all very close together. 772 00:33:09,560 --> 00:33:14,620 I think executive is a sentinel, which is the same as yours, the same group as yours, 773 00:33:14,620 --> 00:33:17,560 but the protagonist and the campaigner are both in the diplomats. 774 00:33:17,560 --> 00:33:19,880 So I'm wondering what the difference is in those. 775 00:33:19,880 --> 00:33:23,120 Is that the personality or the strategy? 776 00:33:23,120 --> 00:33:24,200 That's like the type groups. 777 00:33:24,200 --> 00:33:25,200 So those are the roles. 778 00:33:25,200 --> 00:33:27,840 So there's like groups of each type. 779 00:33:27,840 --> 00:33:29,640 So you've got like we just went over. 780 00:33:29,640 --> 00:33:34,120 So you've got analysts, which is the architect, which is like INTJA. 781 00:33:34,120 --> 00:33:40,440 So your group is a sentinel group, logisticians, defender, executive and consul. 782 00:33:40,440 --> 00:33:43,960 And so then like the other, there are other groups and there's like four in each one, 783 00:33:43,960 --> 00:33:44,960 I think. 784 00:33:44,960 --> 00:33:45,960 Okay. 785 00:33:45,960 --> 00:33:46,960 I understand the hierarchy now. 786 00:33:46,960 --> 00:33:52,440 So let me look at your sentinels are cooperative and highly practical, embracing and creating 787 00:33:52,440 --> 00:33:55,000 order, security and stability wherever they go. 788 00:33:55,000 --> 00:33:58,520 People belonging to one of these types tend to be hardworking, meticulous and traditional 789 00:33:58,520 --> 00:34:02,680 and excel in logistical and administrative fields, especially those who rely blah, blah, 790 00:34:02,680 --> 00:34:03,680 blah, blah. 791 00:34:03,680 --> 00:34:04,680 We already talked about that. 792 00:34:04,680 --> 00:34:06,580 So that I am that. 793 00:34:06,580 --> 00:34:10,200 But then the other one is the diplomats. 794 00:34:10,200 --> 00:34:13,680 Diplomats focus on empathy and cooperation, shining in diplomacy and counseling. 795 00:34:13,680 --> 00:34:18,120 Honestly, I'm I might not be a diplomat. 796 00:34:18,120 --> 00:34:20,240 I would say you're more of a sentinel. 797 00:34:20,240 --> 00:34:21,240 Yeah, definitely. 798 00:34:21,240 --> 00:34:22,240 Yeah. 799 00:34:22,240 --> 00:34:28,080 So so maybe I am an executive so we can go with that instead of the other one that I 800 00:34:28,080 --> 00:34:29,080 do. 801 00:34:29,080 --> 00:34:33,240 So which would technically be mean that I am an ESTJ executive. 802 00:34:33,240 --> 00:34:35,400 I'm writing this down so that I don't forget it. 803 00:34:35,400 --> 00:34:39,200 I'm going back and forth with all my notes and I'm like very confused. 804 00:34:39,200 --> 00:34:40,200 Okay. 805 00:34:40,200 --> 00:34:41,320 So I want to talk about your type. 806 00:34:41,320 --> 00:34:45,640 So you're a your console, which is under the sentinels. 807 00:34:45,640 --> 00:34:46,960 Tell us about your type. 808 00:34:46,960 --> 00:34:50,440 So I'm just going to read a few different things that I wrote down. 809 00:34:50,440 --> 00:34:56,160 So loves sharing life, community and their home, takes responsibility seriously, finds 810 00:34:56,160 --> 00:35:02,320 it difficult not to judge, supportive, outgoing, loyal, offers a helping hand. 811 00:35:02,320 --> 00:35:04,040 And I agree with all of those things. 812 00:35:04,040 --> 00:35:07,040 I would host everything at my house all the time if I could. 813 00:35:07,040 --> 00:35:13,880 So I didn't have to leave, but I was still having social interactions as far as strengths 814 00:35:13,880 --> 00:35:14,880 go. 815 00:35:14,880 --> 00:35:19,960 Practical, strong sense of duty, sensitive and warm and weaknesses are worried about 816 00:35:19,960 --> 00:35:25,800 social status, inflexible, vulnerable to criticism, too needy and too selfless. 817 00:35:25,800 --> 00:35:26,800 Yeah. 818 00:35:26,800 --> 00:35:28,120 So let's get into this. 819 00:35:28,120 --> 00:35:29,720 Let's get in deep on that. 820 00:35:29,720 --> 00:35:30,720 Okay. 821 00:35:30,720 --> 00:35:31,720 Are you on your strengths and weaknesses? 822 00:35:31,720 --> 00:35:32,720 Is that what we're doing? 823 00:35:32,720 --> 00:35:33,720 Okay. 824 00:35:33,720 --> 00:35:35,840 So do we want to talk about the strengths first? 825 00:35:35,840 --> 00:35:36,840 We can. 826 00:35:36,840 --> 00:35:39,160 What one do you think is like your biggest strength? 827 00:35:39,160 --> 00:35:41,640 Either practical or sensitive. 828 00:35:41,640 --> 00:35:42,640 Thinking about this. 829 00:35:42,640 --> 00:35:43,640 Sorry. 830 00:35:43,640 --> 00:35:44,640 I think you are loyal. 831 00:35:44,640 --> 00:35:45,640 Well, maybe not. 832 00:35:45,640 --> 00:35:46,640 I don't know. 833 00:35:46,640 --> 00:35:47,640 I think you. 834 00:35:47,640 --> 00:35:48,640 Is that supposed to be a dig? 835 00:35:48,640 --> 00:35:49,640 Just kidding. 836 00:35:49,640 --> 00:35:50,640 No. 837 00:35:50,640 --> 00:35:51,640 I mean, shoot. 838 00:35:51,640 --> 00:35:53,240 Yeah, it sounded like one, didn't it? 839 00:35:53,240 --> 00:35:54,240 Yeah. 840 00:35:54,240 --> 00:35:55,520 You might be the sensitive and warm one. 841 00:35:55,520 --> 00:35:56,520 Yeah. 842 00:35:56,520 --> 00:36:01,840 I mean, I think that it's one of those things where I definitely try to put out into the 843 00:36:01,840 --> 00:36:05,680 world that I have this like rough and tough exterior, but I have a whole lot of feelings 844 00:36:05,680 --> 00:36:11,000 and I'm very sensitive to criticism and not being right. 845 00:36:11,000 --> 00:36:14,120 I love to be right all the time. 846 00:36:14,120 --> 00:36:15,920 I used to be more that way. 847 00:36:15,920 --> 00:36:16,920 I've gotten so much better. 848 00:36:16,920 --> 00:36:22,160 Look, I still feel that sometimes, but I have grown so much. 849 00:36:22,160 --> 00:36:24,240 I have to work on all my bad traits. 850 00:36:24,240 --> 00:36:25,520 I've been working on myself. 851 00:36:25,520 --> 00:36:26,520 Okay. 852 00:36:26,520 --> 00:36:28,600 Oh, I mean, yes, of course. 853 00:36:28,600 --> 00:36:33,080 I mean, I was a very different person, you know, 15, 20 years ago. 854 00:36:33,080 --> 00:36:34,800 Dang, it took that long? 855 00:36:34,800 --> 00:36:38,000 I'm just kidding. 856 00:36:38,000 --> 00:36:44,800 Very stubborn, did not care about what anybody else thought or whatever. 857 00:36:44,800 --> 00:36:47,520 I mean, I definitely had to change that. 858 00:36:47,520 --> 00:36:49,480 I had to be more aware of people's feelings. 859 00:36:49,480 --> 00:36:51,760 It couldn't always be my way or the highway. 860 00:36:51,760 --> 00:36:52,760 Yeah. 861 00:36:52,760 --> 00:36:57,720 So when I look at this, I believe, and I think I was wrong earlier about you being loyal 862 00:36:57,720 --> 00:36:58,720 or whatever. 863 00:36:58,720 --> 00:37:04,000 I think from my perspective, I think your strongest strength on all of these is the 864 00:37:04,000 --> 00:37:08,440 strong sense of duty where it says people with console personality type have a strong 865 00:37:08,440 --> 00:37:12,320 sense of responsibility and strive to meet their obligations through this. 866 00:37:12,320 --> 00:37:17,760 They may sometimes be more from a sense of social expectations than intrinsic drive. 867 00:37:17,760 --> 00:37:18,760 You don't feel that? 868 00:37:18,760 --> 00:37:19,760 I feel that. 869 00:37:19,760 --> 00:37:25,800 I feel like you have a feel like from what I see from you, it seems like you feel like 870 00:37:25,800 --> 00:37:33,920 you have this duty to be there for other people and to do stuff. 871 00:37:33,920 --> 00:37:35,520 I feel like I'm not there enough for myself sometimes. 872 00:37:35,520 --> 00:37:36,520 Right. 873 00:37:36,520 --> 00:37:37,520 Yeah. 874 00:37:37,520 --> 00:37:38,520 That's what I see that a lot. 875 00:37:38,520 --> 00:37:39,520 Yeah. 876 00:37:39,520 --> 00:37:40,680 Except for sometimes you'll be like, no, I'm not doing that. 877 00:37:40,680 --> 00:37:42,240 And I'm like, yes, you are. 878 00:37:42,240 --> 00:37:47,760 And then you do it anyways, because I'm like, if I have to go, you have to go. 879 00:37:47,760 --> 00:37:50,800 She like, I'm going home early. 880 00:37:50,800 --> 00:37:55,360 I'm like, no, you're not. 881 00:37:55,360 --> 00:37:58,720 And then I feel bad about it because sometimes I'm like, oh, I should have done that because 882 00:37:58,720 --> 00:38:05,440 I feel bad because I know how it is when you need to like life balance type of thing. 883 00:38:05,440 --> 00:38:08,760 So your weaknesses, let's look at your weaknesses. 884 00:38:08,760 --> 00:38:12,640 What do you think your biggest weakness out of these is? 885 00:38:12,640 --> 00:38:16,800 Either inflexible or vulnerable to criticism. 886 00:38:16,800 --> 00:38:20,880 Because when I like to be good at things, we know this. 887 00:38:20,880 --> 00:38:26,520 It's one of the things that I don't really like to do things unless I know that I'm going 888 00:38:26,520 --> 00:38:32,360 to be good at them, a.k.a. I don't rep presents because I'm not good at rapping. 889 00:38:32,360 --> 00:38:34,520 You can't not be good at rapping. 890 00:38:34,520 --> 00:38:37,400 All you have to do is rap and tape. 891 00:38:37,400 --> 00:38:40,800 It's not hard. 892 00:38:40,800 --> 00:38:41,800 You're wild. 893 00:38:41,800 --> 00:38:46,720 But I don't, it hurts my feelings and I take it to heart when it's not about that. 894 00:38:46,720 --> 00:38:51,720 Even in the professional world, I'll get my feelings hurt because of a criticism that's 895 00:38:51,720 --> 00:38:53,320 come my way. 896 00:38:53,320 --> 00:38:58,880 And maybe it's the way it was delivered, but I just like I function so much better off 897 00:38:58,880 --> 00:39:00,960 praise than I do. 898 00:39:00,960 --> 00:39:05,840 Like the need for correcting behavior or being better. 899 00:39:05,840 --> 00:39:06,840 Yeah. 900 00:39:06,840 --> 00:39:08,320 Well, I feel like most people do. 901 00:39:08,320 --> 00:39:10,920 Like if you somebody, you know, it's like, what do they call it? 902 00:39:10,920 --> 00:39:14,640 The positive reinforcement or whatever. 903 00:39:14,640 --> 00:39:15,720 I think I don't know. 904 00:39:15,720 --> 00:39:16,720 They're opposite. 905 00:39:16,720 --> 00:39:19,600 I definitely think that there are people out there in this world that like if you criticize 906 00:39:19,600 --> 00:39:24,160 them, it's going to push them that much harder to be better at something or get it done or 907 00:39:24,160 --> 00:39:25,160 whatever. 908 00:39:25,160 --> 00:39:26,480 And there are people that function like that. 909 00:39:26,480 --> 00:39:27,480 It's just not me. 910 00:39:27,480 --> 00:39:32,000 I also, if somebody's like, I don't know if they tell me I'm not good at something, I 911 00:39:32,000 --> 00:39:36,240 honestly might be the person that would be like, yes, I am. 912 00:39:36,240 --> 00:39:37,600 And do it and do it. 913 00:39:37,600 --> 00:39:39,000 I don't know. 914 00:39:39,000 --> 00:39:42,120 But nobody wants to hear like bad, like negative stuff. 915 00:39:42,120 --> 00:39:47,640 But I think that you seeing, I don't feel your feelings and I'm very much like if somebody 916 00:39:47,640 --> 00:39:50,000 says something to me, I kind of like just like blow it off like, uh huh. 917 00:39:50,000 --> 00:39:52,480 I don't get my feelings hurt that easily. 918 00:39:52,480 --> 00:39:56,480 If you hurt my feelings, you probably said something like really bad, like, and it like 919 00:39:56,480 --> 00:39:59,680 really it was really bad. 920 00:39:59,680 --> 00:40:05,720 But I feel like you are probably the I don't know the inflexible maybe. 921 00:40:05,720 --> 00:40:06,720 I don't know. 922 00:40:06,720 --> 00:40:07,720 I don't know which one would be. 923 00:40:07,720 --> 00:40:10,840 But I feel like maybe you're the vulnerable to criticism. 924 00:40:10,840 --> 00:40:16,800 But also if you kind of we kind of earlier talked about how your weaknesses, what couple 925 00:40:16,800 --> 00:40:19,880 of your weaknesses are one of them, it says often too needy. 926 00:40:19,880 --> 00:40:24,600 That kind of goes with your love languages because it says that they need to hear and 927 00:40:24,600 --> 00:40:26,640 see a great deal of appreciation. 928 00:40:26,640 --> 00:40:30,200 And also I feel like the vulnerable to criticism thing like kind of goes with your love language 929 00:40:30,200 --> 00:40:34,200 because you need to be able to hear because her love language is words of affirmation. 930 00:40:34,200 --> 00:40:35,200 Yeah. 931 00:40:35,200 --> 00:40:40,680 So and it's like, you know, it says that they may start fishing for compliments and in an 932 00:40:40,680 --> 00:40:46,220 attempt to get reassurance of how much they're valued, which I don't I've never seen you 933 00:40:46,220 --> 00:40:47,400 do that before. 934 00:40:47,400 --> 00:40:50,520 No, I'm not a fisher for compliments. 935 00:40:50,520 --> 00:40:51,520 Yeah. 936 00:40:51,520 --> 00:40:58,640 In that I would rather be told like I'm good at something or my food is good than I would. 937 00:40:58,640 --> 00:41:00,640 You're pretty like, yeah, no. 938 00:41:00,640 --> 00:41:01,920 Yeah, me either. 939 00:41:01,920 --> 00:41:03,000 But that's the same thing. 940 00:41:03,000 --> 00:41:04,000 I wouldn't honestly. 941 00:41:04,000 --> 00:41:05,000 I don't know. 942 00:41:05,000 --> 00:41:09,180 I don't really I don't really like I don't really like when people are like telling me 943 00:41:09,180 --> 00:41:13,160 good compliments because I feel I mean I do I guess I don't know. 944 00:41:13,160 --> 00:41:14,560 I just feel insecure a little bit. 945 00:41:14,560 --> 00:41:16,280 I'm like, oh, why are you talking about that? 946 00:41:16,280 --> 00:41:18,400 Why are you why are you noticing me? 947 00:41:18,400 --> 00:41:19,880 Like I kind of just want to be like regularly. 948 00:41:19,880 --> 00:41:20,880 I don't know. 949 00:41:20,880 --> 00:41:21,880 It's weird. 950 00:41:21,880 --> 00:41:22,880 Fly under the radar. 951 00:41:22,880 --> 00:41:23,880 Yeah, I guess. 952 00:41:23,880 --> 00:41:24,880 I don't want to be like not me. 953 00:41:24,880 --> 00:41:28,680 I mean, I would not honestly don't want to but like kind of do. 954 00:41:28,680 --> 00:41:29,680 I don't know. 955 00:41:29,680 --> 00:41:30,680 It's weird. 956 00:41:30,680 --> 00:41:31,680 I'm a weird person. 957 00:41:31,680 --> 00:41:34,800 So it says that you're loyal to the core. 958 00:41:34,800 --> 00:41:38,440 They build lasting relationships and they can be counted on to show up whenever helping 959 00:41:38,440 --> 00:41:40,760 hand or a listening ear is needed. 960 00:41:40,760 --> 00:41:41,760 I agree with that. 961 00:41:41,760 --> 00:41:42,760 Definitely. 962 00:41:42,760 --> 00:41:47,640 I could be a better listener, but yeah, I mean, if you called and needed something, 963 00:41:47,640 --> 00:41:48,640 I wouldn't hesitate. 964 00:41:48,640 --> 00:41:49,640 Yeah, definitely. 965 00:41:49,640 --> 00:41:50,640 Okay, cool. 966 00:41:50,640 --> 00:41:51,640 Okay, so I am. 967 00:41:51,640 --> 00:41:52,640 I want to know. 968 00:41:52,640 --> 00:41:53,640 Yeah, read yours. 969 00:41:53,640 --> 00:41:54,640 We're going to talk about me now. 970 00:41:54,640 --> 00:41:56,640 Even though we've been talking about me this whole time. 971 00:41:56,640 --> 00:42:07,280 Okay, so we're doing we're going to talk about I normally like a long time ago would test 972 00:42:07,280 --> 00:42:12,640 and I would get the ENFJ A and I think it's an A but it might have been a T. 973 00:42:12,640 --> 00:42:16,680 I don't remember because I don't have those test results from a long time ago and that 974 00:42:16,680 --> 00:42:22,880 is the probably in your email with 4975 emails and I know but did not tell you all that last 975 00:42:22,880 --> 00:42:26,760 week last week I told you all that I was going to go find my live journal. 976 00:42:26,760 --> 00:42:27,760 Oh, yeah. 977 00:42:27,760 --> 00:42:33,280 Well, I went to my email to find my live journal password and it got deleted and purged from 978 00:42:33,280 --> 00:42:34,280 the live journal website. 979 00:42:34,280 --> 00:42:35,760 I'm really ticked off in 2013. 980 00:42:35,760 --> 00:42:41,360 It was 10 years ago when it got purged and I'm like really upset and a set. 981 00:42:41,360 --> 00:42:42,360 Jessica text me the other day. 982 00:42:42,360 --> 00:42:43,360 She's like I had a live journal too. 983 00:42:43,360 --> 00:42:47,480 I'm like, oh my God, we're so emo. 984 00:42:47,480 --> 00:42:53,320 But yeah, anyway, so so that I was a always a protagonist and that's what I was going 985 00:42:53,320 --> 00:42:54,480 to talk about today. 986 00:42:54,480 --> 00:43:00,320 But we're going to do I took it again and I got ESTJ a and so we think that I am more 987 00:43:00,320 --> 00:43:02,360 of the executive which is a sentinel. 988 00:43:02,360 --> 00:43:05,380 Okay, so the executive is ESTJ. 989 00:43:05,380 --> 00:43:10,000 It's someone with extraverted so I'm extraverted observant thinking and judging personality 990 00:43:10,000 --> 00:43:11,000 traits. 991 00:43:11,000 --> 00:43:16,360 They possess great fortitude, empathetically following their own sensible judgment. 992 00:43:16,360 --> 00:43:21,560 They often serve as a stabilizing force among others, able to offer solid direction and 993 00:43:21,560 --> 00:43:23,920 are amid adversity. 994 00:43:23,920 --> 00:43:30,760 Executive personalities lead by example, demonstrating dedication and purposeful honesty and an utter 995 00:43:30,760 --> 00:43:33,900 rejection of laziness and cheating, especially in work. 996 00:43:33,900 --> 00:43:38,160 If anyone declares hard manual work to be an excellent way to build character, it is 997 00:43:38,160 --> 00:43:39,160 executives. 998 00:43:39,160 --> 00:43:41,280 I agree with that. 999 00:43:41,280 --> 00:43:46,640 We're aware we're aware of our surroundings and live in a world of clear verifiable facts. 1000 00:43:46,640 --> 00:43:51,240 The surety of their knowledge means that even against heavy resistance, they stick to their 1001 00:43:51,240 --> 00:43:55,440 principles and push an uncladded vision of what is and is not acceptable. 1002 00:43:55,440 --> 00:43:56,840 I'm kind of that way. 1003 00:43:56,840 --> 00:44:02,120 Maybe their opinions aren't just empty talk either as executives are more willing to dive 1004 00:44:02,120 --> 00:44:05,920 into the most challenging projects, improving action plans and sorting details along the 1005 00:44:05,920 --> 00:44:10,680 way, making making even the most complicated tasks seem easy and approachable. 1006 00:44:10,680 --> 00:44:11,680 That is you. 1007 00:44:11,680 --> 00:44:12,680 Is it? 1008 00:44:12,680 --> 00:44:13,680 Yeah. 1009 00:44:13,680 --> 00:44:14,680 You think so? 1010 00:44:14,680 --> 00:44:15,680 Yeah. 1011 00:44:15,680 --> 00:44:16,680 Oh, thanks. 1012 00:44:16,680 --> 00:44:17,680 I don't feel that way. 1013 00:44:17,680 --> 00:44:18,680 I'm glad that you think that though. 1014 00:44:18,680 --> 00:44:21,080 That makes me happy. 1015 00:44:21,080 --> 00:44:25,000 I feel like I'm a heart of myself sometimes though. 1016 00:44:25,000 --> 00:44:28,480 And don't think that I'm like have like good characteristics. 1017 00:44:28,480 --> 00:44:31,640 So like the last sentence are all of that. 1018 00:44:31,640 --> 00:44:33,020 But I don't agree with this next bar. 1019 00:44:33,020 --> 00:44:36,960 So it says, however, however, executives don't work alone and they expect their reliability 1020 00:44:36,960 --> 00:44:38,320 and work ethic to be reciprocated. 1021 00:44:38,320 --> 00:44:40,260 Well, I do agree with that. 1022 00:44:40,260 --> 00:44:43,560 It says executives don't work alone. 1023 00:44:43,560 --> 00:44:45,720 But like I do like to work alone. 1024 00:44:45,720 --> 00:44:46,820 Yeah, you do. 1025 00:44:46,820 --> 00:44:49,240 And they expect their reliability and work ethic to be reciprocated. 1026 00:44:49,240 --> 00:44:50,540 Yes, I do. 1027 00:44:50,540 --> 00:44:52,640 People with this personality type meet their promises. 1028 00:44:52,640 --> 00:44:57,440 And if partners or subordinates jeopardize them through incompetence or laziness or worse 1029 00:44:57,440 --> 00:45:01,680 still dishonesty, they do not hesitate to show their wrath. 1030 00:45:01,680 --> 00:45:03,680 Oh my God. 1031 00:45:03,680 --> 00:45:09,080 I think I have a couple of coworkers that might agree with me on that one. 1032 00:45:09,080 --> 00:45:14,920 They can earn them a reputation or this can earn them a reputation for inflexibility and 1033 00:45:14,920 --> 00:45:17,240 a trait shared by all sentinel personalities. 1034 00:45:17,240 --> 00:45:19,800 So you have that personality because you're a sentinel. 1035 00:45:19,800 --> 00:45:20,800 Right. 1036 00:45:20,800 --> 00:45:21,800 Okay. 1037 00:45:21,800 --> 00:45:22,800 A trait. 1038 00:45:22,800 --> 00:45:23,800 Okay. 1039 00:45:23,800 --> 00:45:26,640 But it's not because executives are arbitrarily stubborn, but because they truly believe that 1040 00:45:26,640 --> 00:45:28,480 these values are what makes society work. 1041 00:45:28,480 --> 00:45:29,480 I agree with that. 1042 00:45:29,480 --> 00:45:33,800 I mean, I'm pretty, um, so we're not. 1043 00:45:33,800 --> 00:45:38,280 So then my strengths and weaknesses, let's see, dedicated, strong willed, direct and 1044 00:45:38,280 --> 00:45:39,280 honest. 1045 00:45:39,280 --> 00:45:42,880 I am very direct and honest usually, but it was because I want people to be that way with 1046 00:45:42,880 --> 00:45:43,880 me. 1047 00:45:43,880 --> 00:45:49,880 I mean, you know, you can sugarcoat some things, but like I, I don't know how to like not tell 1048 00:45:49,880 --> 00:45:50,880 the truth. 1049 00:45:50,880 --> 00:45:52,880 It's very hard for me to sugarcoat something. 1050 00:45:52,880 --> 00:45:53,880 I try. 1051 00:45:53,880 --> 00:45:54,880 Right. 1052 00:45:54,880 --> 00:45:58,720 But I'm not going to be like you're fat and ugly and nobody likes you. 1053 00:45:58,720 --> 00:46:02,480 I'm probably just going to be like, Hey, this wasn't right. 1054 00:46:02,480 --> 00:46:06,480 And like, honestly, it's not like that, but I'm very, I usually am pretty direct. 1055 00:46:06,480 --> 00:46:11,360 Like if somebody asks me a question, I'm very, it's, I can ask my mom. 1056 00:46:11,360 --> 00:46:12,640 I am the worst liar. 1057 00:46:12,640 --> 00:46:13,640 I can't lie. 1058 00:46:13,640 --> 00:46:16,360 My mom would ask me a question and I'd be like trying to lie. 1059 00:46:16,360 --> 00:46:26,760 I like this look on my face with big eyes and I'm like, and she'll be like, okay, I 1060 00:46:26,760 --> 00:46:27,760 can't lie. 1061 00:46:27,760 --> 00:46:29,080 I'm just really bad. 1062 00:46:29,080 --> 00:46:31,560 So and then loyal, patient and reliable. 1063 00:46:31,560 --> 00:46:32,560 Enjoy creating order. 1064 00:46:32,560 --> 00:46:33,560 Yes. 1065 00:46:33,560 --> 00:46:34,560 I love that. 1066 00:46:34,560 --> 00:46:35,560 I love it. 1067 00:46:35,560 --> 00:46:36,760 I don't know why. 1068 00:46:36,760 --> 00:46:38,240 And I don't, I also don't know why. 1069 00:46:38,240 --> 00:46:43,200 So like I have friends and so like I was in the junior league and like in these other 1070 00:46:43,200 --> 00:46:44,560 groups of things. 1071 00:46:44,560 --> 00:46:50,360 And anytime there's like a speech that has to be had or made or like anytime everybody's 1072 00:46:50,360 --> 00:46:56,040 attention needs to be called to like talk to people and make an announcement, everybody's 1073 00:46:56,040 --> 00:46:58,120 like, Emily, come here, you have to do this. 1074 00:46:58,120 --> 00:46:59,480 I'm like, why me? 1075 00:46:59,480 --> 00:47:00,960 Why am I always the one that's chosen? 1076 00:47:00,960 --> 00:47:03,720 It's because, and I'm always like, I just don't understand that. 1077 00:47:03,720 --> 00:47:07,960 I feel like you may have done that with me too, because I will like yell and be like, 1078 00:47:07,960 --> 00:47:09,680 excuse me, can we get everybody's attention? 1079 00:47:09,680 --> 00:47:10,680 But other people get really. 1080 00:47:10,680 --> 00:47:12,240 I don't have a problem doing that. 1081 00:47:12,240 --> 00:47:16,160 I don't, I'm not a huge public speaker. 1082 00:47:16,160 --> 00:47:21,180 I've had to do it at my job and granted we are remote, but like I've had to present in 1083 00:47:21,180 --> 00:47:24,280 all company meetings where there's 200 people on there. 1084 00:47:24,280 --> 00:47:28,760 I presented an award at our holiday party and like was really proud of myself for getting 1085 00:47:28,760 --> 00:47:32,040 up in that room and doing it, but I don't strive to do that. 1086 00:47:32,040 --> 00:47:33,400 Oh me either. 1087 00:47:33,400 --> 00:47:36,240 But like I don't want to do it in like a corporate situation. 1088 00:47:36,240 --> 00:47:37,240 Yeah. 1089 00:47:37,240 --> 00:47:39,920 And I'm like, I want it to be fun because we're loud. 1090 00:47:39,920 --> 00:47:40,920 Yes. 1091 00:47:40,920 --> 00:47:41,920 That's what it is. 1092 00:47:41,920 --> 00:47:42,920 That's so messed up. 1093 00:47:42,920 --> 00:47:43,920 They're like, oh, Emily, you come over here. 1094 00:47:43,920 --> 00:47:45,520 And I'm like, why do you always make me do it? 1095 00:47:45,520 --> 00:47:46,520 Send the loud mouth. 1096 00:47:46,520 --> 00:47:47,520 Yeah. 1097 00:47:47,520 --> 00:47:50,640 Send the girl that doesn't care about like making a fool out of herself and screaming 1098 00:47:50,640 --> 00:47:51,640 above everybody. 1099 00:47:51,640 --> 00:47:55,680 And it's also a wonderful quality to have because they know that they can count on you. 1100 00:47:55,680 --> 00:47:57,240 To scream at everyone. 1101 00:47:57,240 --> 00:47:58,240 Yeah. 1102 00:47:58,240 --> 00:47:59,240 It's for a good reason. 1103 00:47:59,240 --> 00:48:02,240 Hey, hey, hey, everybody shut up. 1104 00:48:02,240 --> 00:48:03,240 Right. 1105 00:48:03,240 --> 00:48:06,920 Shut up and listen hookers. 1106 00:48:06,920 --> 00:48:07,920 Okay. 1107 00:48:07,920 --> 00:48:13,160 So, oh, it does say it's for under the create, create order thing. 1108 00:48:13,160 --> 00:48:17,760 Chaos makes things unpredictable and unpredictable things can't be trusted when they are needed 1109 00:48:17,760 --> 00:48:18,920 most. 1110 00:48:18,920 --> 00:48:22,800 With this in mind, executives strive to create order and security in their environments by 1111 00:48:22,800 --> 00:48:25,960 establishing rules, structures, and clear roles. 1112 00:48:25,960 --> 00:48:26,960 Yeah. 1113 00:48:26,960 --> 00:48:28,440 I mean, with other people. 1114 00:48:28,440 --> 00:48:29,440 Yeah. 1115 00:48:29,440 --> 00:48:30,440 Excellent organizers. 1116 00:48:30,440 --> 00:48:31,440 Yeah. 1117 00:48:31,440 --> 00:48:35,080 I'm pretty good at organizing, but like honestly, lately, I haven't been a very good organized 1118 00:48:35,080 --> 00:48:36,080 person. 1119 00:48:36,080 --> 00:48:37,240 I mean, I disagree with that. 1120 00:48:37,240 --> 00:48:43,980 You and I are very alike when it comes to like our clothes are in our closets and laundry 1121 00:48:43,980 --> 00:48:44,980 gets done. 1122 00:48:44,980 --> 00:48:48,360 It may sit in the dryer or whatever, but like the things. 1123 00:48:48,360 --> 00:48:54,240 I know where things are in your kitchen, like because they have a place and they go back 1124 00:48:54,240 --> 00:48:55,240 into that place. 1125 00:48:55,240 --> 00:48:58,120 Well, have you seen my two drunk drawers that one of them's not technically not supposed 1126 00:48:58,120 --> 00:48:59,600 to be a junk drawer, but it is now. 1127 00:48:59,600 --> 00:49:01,320 You can't even open it. 1128 00:49:01,320 --> 00:49:04,900 I reorganized one of them the other day, but it's still a junk drawer. 1129 00:49:04,900 --> 00:49:13,720 But still, I mean, you and I both like things specific ways and like to do things habitually, 1130 00:49:13,720 --> 00:49:14,720 if you will. 1131 00:49:14,720 --> 00:49:15,720 Yeah. 1132 00:49:15,720 --> 00:49:20,160 And like don't come in my house and put stuff in the wrong spot because I'm going to be 1133 00:49:20,160 --> 00:49:24,680 like, that's why I'm always like, just don't do the dishes. 1134 00:49:24,680 --> 00:49:29,800 My mom, she came here one time and she washed the pots and pans that she used to cook and 1135 00:49:29,800 --> 00:49:33,360 then she like put them all out on the counter because she was like, I guess she just didn't 1136 00:49:33,360 --> 00:49:36,360 want to put them back in the wrong spot. 1137 00:49:36,360 --> 00:49:37,360 She was like, and honestly. 1138 00:49:37,360 --> 00:49:42,040 I would rather somebody do that than not. 1139 00:49:42,040 --> 00:49:43,040 I mean, I guess. 1140 00:49:43,040 --> 00:49:44,040 I guess. 1141 00:49:44,040 --> 00:49:46,040 I mean, I guess you put it back where it came from. 1142 00:49:46,040 --> 00:49:50,640 I talked about a couple of episodes ago, like I had an early morning meeting and Brandon 1143 00:49:50,640 --> 00:49:53,960 like folded the laundry or whatever and he just like left it on the bed, but it was folded 1144 00:49:53,960 --> 00:49:56,420 on the bed because he didn't know where it all went. 1145 00:49:56,420 --> 00:49:57,680 And I would rather that happen. 1146 00:49:57,680 --> 00:49:58,680 Oh yeah. 1147 00:49:58,680 --> 00:49:59,680 Just the laundry. 1148 00:49:59,680 --> 00:50:01,920 Because then you go and try to find it and you wouldn't even know where it went. 1149 00:50:01,920 --> 00:50:03,240 I'd be like, yeah, no. 1150 00:50:03,240 --> 00:50:08,240 Which also shout out to Katrina, the lady who comes in and cleans my house because this 1151 00:50:08,240 --> 00:50:11,640 new apartment that I'm in, she has not rearranged my entire house. 1152 00:50:11,640 --> 00:50:12,640 She has left things. 1153 00:50:12,640 --> 00:50:14,600 I don't know what they are. 1154 00:50:14,600 --> 00:50:17,840 Sometimes I would come back and I would be like, where is this? 1155 00:50:17,840 --> 00:50:19,840 How'd she do that? 1156 00:50:19,840 --> 00:50:25,680 Listen, I finally started leaving shit where she put it because she kept putting it in 1157 00:50:25,680 --> 00:50:29,040 the same spot after she came every time. 1158 00:50:29,040 --> 00:50:31,560 And I was like, okay, whatever. 1159 00:50:31,560 --> 00:50:32,560 Yeah. 1160 00:50:32,560 --> 00:50:33,560 I know. 1161 00:50:33,560 --> 00:50:34,560 So, okay. 1162 00:50:34,560 --> 00:50:38,080 So my weaknesses are I'm inflexible and stubborn, which is true. 1163 00:50:38,080 --> 00:50:40,800 I don't believe that you're stubborn though. 1164 00:50:40,800 --> 00:50:46,720 I'm not necessarily stubborn, but yeah, sometimes it comes down like work stuff. 1165 00:50:46,720 --> 00:50:47,720 Yes. 1166 00:50:47,720 --> 00:50:50,960 I would say, but not in your personal life as much though. 1167 00:50:50,960 --> 00:50:54,640 Like even the inflexible, you're much more go with the flow than I am. 1168 00:50:54,640 --> 00:50:58,320 It does not stress you out as much as it stresses me out to not have a plan. 1169 00:50:58,320 --> 00:51:00,280 I have like two different personalities. 1170 00:51:00,280 --> 00:51:02,360 I'm bipolar when it comes to work. 1171 00:51:02,360 --> 00:51:03,360 Work personality is my soul life. 1172 00:51:03,360 --> 00:51:04,360 I'm like, work. 1173 00:51:04,360 --> 00:51:07,520 I'm like, I'm pretty much the same in both. 1174 00:51:07,520 --> 00:51:08,520 I used to be. 1175 00:51:08,520 --> 00:51:09,680 I feel like, I don't know. 1176 00:51:09,680 --> 00:51:11,280 I fluctuate sometimes. 1177 00:51:11,280 --> 00:51:13,720 Like normally, yeah, I'm not very stubborn. 1178 00:51:13,720 --> 00:51:15,040 Like I'm just like, well, whatever. 1179 00:51:15,040 --> 00:51:20,200 I'm slowly learning to do like a pick your battles type thing and not like get my panties 1180 00:51:20,200 --> 00:51:23,520 and wad over some things that I usually do. 1181 00:51:23,520 --> 00:51:28,520 Look, we have so many like type A control freak friends. 1182 00:51:28,520 --> 00:51:29,520 Yeah. 1183 00:51:29,520 --> 00:51:30,520 So I cannot be the one. 1184 00:51:30,520 --> 00:51:33,800 And I'm kind of glad because I just want to show up and have a good time and I don't want 1185 00:51:33,800 --> 00:51:34,800 to care. 1186 00:51:34,800 --> 00:51:37,480 I don't, and they probably get frustrated because I don't care and I don't say, but 1187 00:51:37,480 --> 00:51:41,040 like for separate club, I'm just like, tell me where to be and I'll be there. 1188 00:51:41,040 --> 00:51:42,040 Yeah. 1189 00:51:42,040 --> 00:51:47,880 I mean, and that's one group that like I will let go of control and just let other people 1190 00:51:47,880 --> 00:51:49,800 kind of run with it because they're good at it. 1191 00:51:49,800 --> 00:51:50,800 Yeah. 1192 00:51:50,800 --> 00:51:51,800 Yeah. 1193 00:51:51,800 --> 00:51:52,800 Because they're good at it. 1194 00:51:52,800 --> 00:51:56,400 And because like I'm, I feel like I'm making decisions in other areas of my life, whether 1195 00:51:56,400 --> 00:52:02,000 it be at work or in my relationship or you know, whatever, like the apartment group friends, 1196 00:52:02,000 --> 00:52:07,520 like I feel like for the most part, like I'm organizing those kinds of things. 1197 00:52:07,520 --> 00:52:12,840 So if I can step away from that and other friend groups, then it's kind of a reprieve, 1198 00:52:12,840 --> 00:52:16,040 you know, from just being bossy pants all the time. 1199 00:52:16,040 --> 00:52:18,280 You know, you don't like being bossy pants all the time. 1200 00:52:18,280 --> 00:52:20,120 I like it when I like it. 1201 00:52:20,120 --> 00:52:24,460 And when I don't like it, I hate it about myself because I want to be able to let go 1202 00:52:24,460 --> 00:52:31,480 and Jesus take the wheel and you know, just not be so in my head about stuff, but can't 1203 00:52:31,480 --> 00:52:32,480 help it sometimes. 1204 00:52:32,480 --> 00:52:37,520 Well, I will tell you that there's this thing called Lexapro that I started taking. 1205 00:52:37,520 --> 00:52:38,760 Girl, I'm on pro, Zach. 1206 00:52:38,760 --> 00:52:39,760 I'm fine. 1207 00:52:39,760 --> 00:52:41,240 And that stuff helped me. 1208 00:52:41,240 --> 00:52:43,760 Like I feel like nothing matters anymore. 1209 00:52:43,760 --> 00:52:48,000 I mean, things matter, but like it's like, I don't get anxious or like, I mean, I do 1210 00:52:48,000 --> 00:52:52,240 sometimes still, but like, I don't get like, it just, it helps when I'm very happy with 1211 00:52:52,240 --> 00:52:53,400 my brain drugs right now. 1212 00:52:53,400 --> 00:52:54,400 Yeah. 1213 00:52:54,400 --> 00:52:57,680 When people like start doing stuff and like, like taking me off when we're going to do 1214 00:52:57,680 --> 00:52:59,640 something and I'm like, why can't we get this in order? 1215 00:52:59,640 --> 00:53:02,920 Like, cause normally I'd be like trying to just take control and be like, okay, this 1216 00:53:02,920 --> 00:53:04,080 is what we're going to do. 1217 00:53:04,080 --> 00:53:07,320 Now I'm just like, ah, just let it happen. 1218 00:53:07,320 --> 00:53:12,640 I will say one thing that has made a major difference in my life is like getting sleeping 1219 00:53:12,640 --> 00:53:14,960 better, falling asleep easier. 1220 00:53:14,960 --> 00:53:21,600 And I don't know if I'm just like sat so happy and like my job and my relationship and my 1221 00:53:21,600 --> 00:53:23,640 friendships right now. 1222 00:53:23,640 --> 00:53:28,280 And with my family, like I really don't have anything to complain about right now and I'm 1223 00:53:28,280 --> 00:53:31,920 sleeping better and that helps my mental health overall. 1224 00:53:31,920 --> 00:53:37,120 I think I know why you're sleeping better because you have a boyfriend. 1225 00:53:37,120 --> 00:53:40,600 I'm just saying that I think that that might be why another reason why you're sleeping 1226 00:53:40,600 --> 00:53:41,600 better. 1227 00:53:41,600 --> 00:53:45,760 Cause like, you get like endorphins and like, um, all the things that like serotonin and 1228 00:53:45,760 --> 00:53:50,680 stuff like that, that like is released when you are loved and like kissed and hugged and 1229 00:53:50,680 --> 00:53:51,680 whatever. 1230 00:53:51,680 --> 00:53:56,920 And I believe that I truly believe that that is like something that is kind of like medicine. 1231 00:53:56,920 --> 00:54:00,320 I also have a brand new king size bed and it's great that too. 1232 00:54:00,320 --> 00:54:05,000 But also I don't, I have a king size bed and I don't sleep at all because, and I don't 1233 00:54:05,000 --> 00:54:06,000 have a boyfriend. 1234 00:54:06,000 --> 00:54:07,000 So, okay. 1235 00:54:07,000 --> 00:54:12,760 So uncomfortable and unconventional with I'm, apparently I'm uncomfortable with unconventional 1236 00:54:12,760 --> 00:54:14,080 situations. 1237 00:54:14,080 --> 00:54:21,920 I'm judgmental too focused on social status, difficult to relax, difficulty expressing emotion. 1238 00:54:21,920 --> 00:54:25,960 Yes, 100% difficulty and too focused on social status. 1239 00:54:25,960 --> 00:54:26,960 Not really. 1240 00:54:26,960 --> 00:54:27,960 I'm not really. 1241 00:54:27,960 --> 00:54:28,960 So do you think I am? 1242 00:54:28,960 --> 00:54:29,960 You think I am? 1243 00:54:29,960 --> 00:54:30,960 Yes. 1244 00:54:30,960 --> 00:54:34,120 You in an earlier episode, you said you wanted to be a socialite of Birmingham. 1245 00:54:34,120 --> 00:54:36,120 No, I didn't want to be a, yeah. 1246 00:54:36,120 --> 00:54:37,120 Heck yeah. 1247 00:54:37,120 --> 00:54:38,120 Do you want to know why? 1248 00:54:38,120 --> 00:54:40,680 Because they make, they have a lot of money. 1249 00:54:40,680 --> 00:54:42,400 I'm not worried about social status. 1250 00:54:42,400 --> 00:54:47,360 I'm not trying to be like everybody's BFF and like go hang out, but yeah, that would 1251 00:54:47,360 --> 00:54:48,360 be fun. 1252 00:54:48,360 --> 00:54:52,280 I don't care about my status, like, but I do care about money. 1253 00:54:52,280 --> 00:54:55,360 So you don't, you don't want to be a socialite of Birmingham. 1254 00:54:55,360 --> 00:54:56,960 You just want to be rich. 1255 00:54:56,960 --> 00:54:57,960 Essentially. 1256 00:54:57,960 --> 00:54:58,960 Okay. 1257 00:54:58,960 --> 00:55:02,160 That's, that's a more fair statement than wanting to be a socialite of Birmingham. 1258 00:55:02,160 --> 00:55:03,160 Yes. 1259 00:55:03,160 --> 00:55:04,160 Okay. 1260 00:55:04,160 --> 00:55:05,160 But doesn't everyone want to be rich? 1261 00:55:05,160 --> 00:55:10,520 So, but I think it would be fun to just be a socialite and not have a job, you know, 1262 00:55:10,520 --> 00:55:14,360 like, but I mean these, but here, hear me out on this. 1263 00:55:14,360 --> 00:55:19,700 These people are not just, I mean, there are some that are out there and you know, strictly 1264 00:55:19,700 --> 00:55:23,760 socialites and they have family money or whatever, but a lot of these people are technically 1265 00:55:23,760 --> 00:55:27,600 influencers and they're doing brand deals and they have to show up to things. 1266 00:55:27,600 --> 00:55:32,200 Which is what a socialite was before Instagram and Facebook and all that. 1267 00:55:32,200 --> 00:55:34,960 Social media became made them influencers. 1268 00:55:34,960 --> 00:55:36,480 They were technically still influencers. 1269 00:55:36,480 --> 00:55:37,480 They were just socialites. 1270 00:55:37,480 --> 00:55:38,480 Yeah. 1271 00:55:38,480 --> 00:55:40,680 Which is what I want to be, but I'm not social status. 1272 00:55:40,680 --> 00:55:43,760 I mean, yeah, but I mean, I guess maybe, I don't know. 1273 00:55:43,760 --> 00:55:44,760 Maybe I am. 1274 00:55:44,760 --> 00:55:47,040 We're going to move right on. 1275 00:55:47,040 --> 00:55:51,440 So if anybody has any questions about your 16 person, you can go to 16personalities.com 1276 00:55:51,440 --> 00:55:53,560 take that test, send us what you think. 1277 00:55:53,560 --> 00:55:54,560 I don't know. 1278 00:55:54,560 --> 00:55:56,680 You know, we can compare our stuff. 1279 00:55:56,680 --> 00:55:59,800 Christina, I know you're going to take it right now. 1280 00:55:59,800 --> 00:56:01,560 All right. 1281 00:56:01,560 --> 00:56:03,440 Moving right along to the next test. 1282 00:56:03,440 --> 00:56:11,360 So we did a test by the Eagle Center for Leadership and I believe it's eaglecenterforleadership.com 1283 00:56:11,360 --> 00:56:13,240 and I call this the animal test. 1284 00:56:13,240 --> 00:56:15,880 I don't know what it's actually called. 1285 00:56:15,880 --> 00:56:20,880 I don't even think it's the make a difference personality profile is what it's called. 1286 00:56:20,880 --> 00:56:24,800 The goal of this assessment is to help you understand your own tendencies a bit better 1287 00:56:24,800 --> 00:56:28,480 and also to help you understand and communicate with those around you more effectively. 1288 00:56:28,480 --> 00:56:30,840 That's really what all these personality tests are for. 1289 00:56:30,840 --> 00:56:31,840 For sure. 1290 00:56:31,840 --> 00:56:35,800 So I've had friends tell me, well, I don't want like, I have a friend who told me one 1291 00:56:35,800 --> 00:56:39,280 time she was like, I don't want, I don't like personality tests because I don't like being 1292 00:56:39,280 --> 00:56:41,640 labeled or putting put in a box. 1293 00:56:41,640 --> 00:56:46,720 But in my opinion, you're not, this is just, this is helping you to understand how you 1294 00:56:46,720 --> 00:56:51,120 react to certain situations and how other people react so that you can work. 1295 00:56:51,120 --> 00:56:56,400 If you know how that person's going to be, you can help communicate with that better 1296 00:56:56,400 --> 00:56:57,400 with that person. 1297 00:56:57,400 --> 00:56:59,680 So like if I know, yeah, it's kind of like the love languages. 1298 00:56:59,680 --> 00:57:00,680 Yeah, absolutely. 1299 00:57:00,680 --> 00:57:05,160 I think it's, I mean, the whole entire time we've been talking about, well, I see this 1300 00:57:05,160 --> 00:57:08,120 in myself, but I also see this other aspect of it. 1301 00:57:08,120 --> 00:57:13,000 And it's just one of those things where it's helping you understand yourself better, be 1302 00:57:13,000 --> 00:57:17,920 introspective, because maybe you don't like what you heard and it's something that you 1303 00:57:17,920 --> 00:57:18,920 want to change. 1304 00:57:18,920 --> 00:57:23,480 And I think it's wonderful to do in your personal life and those relationships, but it's also 1305 00:57:23,480 --> 00:57:29,440 very healthy to do professionally as well, because how you communicate with others and 1306 00:57:29,440 --> 00:57:33,040 or how you manage others definitely matters. 1307 00:57:33,040 --> 00:57:34,040 100%. 1308 00:57:34,040 --> 00:57:35,040 Yes. 1309 00:57:35,040 --> 00:57:38,280 And like what you said, I like what you said about like, if you, you know, something you 1310 00:57:38,280 --> 00:57:43,120 don't like, like when we get to the Enneagram portion of when we talk about personality 1311 00:57:43,120 --> 00:57:49,600 tests, I'm going to tell you guys about part of the Enneagram number that I am that I read. 1312 00:57:49,600 --> 00:57:51,560 And I was like, I don't want to be this number. 1313 00:57:51,560 --> 00:57:53,680 Oh, oh my gosh. 1314 00:57:53,680 --> 00:57:54,920 It's terrible. 1315 00:57:54,920 --> 00:57:56,240 So yeah. 1316 00:57:56,240 --> 00:57:58,520 And yeah, just, just know that. 1317 00:57:58,520 --> 00:58:00,320 So we're not trying to put anybody in a box. 1318 00:58:00,320 --> 00:58:02,160 Yeah, it's not the end all be all. 1319 00:58:02,160 --> 00:58:03,160 It's just informative. 1320 00:58:03,160 --> 00:58:07,160 Also, my personality on the 16 personalities has changed like a hundred times. 1321 00:58:07,160 --> 00:58:10,040 So like, maybe I do, maybe I've been changing. 1322 00:58:10,040 --> 00:58:13,760 So this one, when you take the test, your results come out and you're either a lion, 1323 00:58:13,760 --> 00:58:16,280 a monkey, a camel or a turtle. 1324 00:58:16,280 --> 00:58:21,960 And you have like, I guess it gives you numbers for your scoring. 1325 00:58:21,960 --> 00:58:26,320 And so both I did this and I knew I was like, I sent it to Sarah and I was like, she's a 1326 00:58:26,320 --> 00:58:29,420 lion for sure because I'm a lion. 1327 00:58:29,420 --> 00:58:34,100 And I was like, and I read it to her and I said, you're way more of a lion than I am. 1328 00:58:34,100 --> 00:58:37,240 And then when she showed me her score, what was her score, 11? 1329 00:58:37,240 --> 00:58:38,240 Yes. 1330 00:58:38,240 --> 00:58:39,240 And mine was 10. 1331 00:58:39,240 --> 00:58:42,600 So I was like, ha ha, she was, she was a lion and she was more of a lion than me. 1332 00:58:42,600 --> 00:58:47,360 So the leading lion is the classic type A person who loves to task. 1333 00:58:47,360 --> 00:58:51,200 They are a doer, which is exactly what Sarah is. 1334 00:58:51,200 --> 00:58:52,440 We've talked about this before. 1335 00:58:52,440 --> 00:58:53,440 Yes. 1336 00:58:53,440 --> 00:58:55,600 You're a task person. 1337 00:58:55,600 --> 00:59:00,520 The lion has the ability to tackle large and difficult projects with fearless confidence. 1338 00:59:00,520 --> 00:59:04,640 The lion is driven by the accomplishment of the task and is generally more concerned with 1339 00:59:04,640 --> 00:59:08,640 reaching the goal, even if it costs relationship, collateral, collateral, collateral. 1340 00:59:08,640 --> 00:59:09,640 Yes. 1341 00:59:09,640 --> 00:59:10,640 I'm the worst reader. 1342 00:59:10,640 --> 00:59:15,640 We shouldn't make, I should let you read this. 1343 00:59:15,640 --> 00:59:18,640 You're not a bad reader. 1344 00:59:18,640 --> 00:59:20,800 I hate reading out loud. 1345 00:59:20,800 --> 00:59:25,320 Since lions are driven by accomplishing tasks, that is what they generally do. 1346 00:59:25,320 --> 00:59:26,320 They task. 1347 00:59:26,320 --> 00:59:30,720 You will often find lions tackling one project after another without taking a break or stopping 1348 00:59:30,720 --> 00:59:32,800 for input from others. 1349 00:59:32,800 --> 00:59:35,760 They are the preeminent task masters. 1350 00:59:35,760 --> 00:59:38,120 That is 100% Sarah. 1351 00:59:38,120 --> 00:59:46,040 And when I hear lion, I feel like that's me because I'm kind of like a loud roaring big 1352 00:59:46,040 --> 00:59:50,080 animal that like wants to dominate. 1353 00:59:50,080 --> 00:59:54,240 But my second and Sarah's second best, I'm going to go to that one. 1354 00:59:54,240 --> 00:59:55,360 That was the camel. 1355 00:59:55,360 --> 00:59:56,360 What was your number? 1356 00:59:56,360 --> 00:59:57,880 I think I was, you were a six. 1357 00:59:57,880 --> 00:59:59,760 So I was, are you sure you were a six? 1358 00:59:59,760 --> 01:00:00,760 Yeah. 1359 01:00:00,760 --> 01:00:01,760 I think I was a six too. 1360 01:00:01,760 --> 01:00:03,600 I was a six because you had three in the other one. 1361 01:00:03,600 --> 01:00:04,600 Okay. 1362 01:00:04,600 --> 01:00:06,840 So a competent camel tends to focus on the details. 1363 01:00:06,840 --> 01:00:07,840 Okay. 1364 01:00:07,840 --> 01:00:12,320 And I'm just going to stop there because I feel like I am more of a camel based on the 1365 01:00:12,320 --> 01:00:14,400 description than I am a lion. 1366 01:00:14,400 --> 01:00:19,280 So I feel like I'm like a mix, but based on the test results, I am a lion and I'm like 1367 01:00:19,280 --> 01:00:21,120 way more of a lion than I am a camel. 1368 01:00:21,120 --> 01:00:25,880 I'm going to say they tend to focus on the details and on how a project is completed. 1369 01:00:25,880 --> 01:00:31,160 They prefer to focus on the smaller tasks and on creating and working within processes 1370 01:00:31,160 --> 01:00:32,160 and systems. 1371 01:00:32,160 --> 01:00:35,360 And they generally have a logical processing analytical mindset. 1372 01:00:35,360 --> 01:00:39,600 They want to follow the steps and the rules that have been laid out and they want sure 1373 01:00:39,600 --> 01:00:42,660 that every I is dotted and every T is crossed. 1374 01:00:42,660 --> 01:00:46,400 These are the people that read the entire instruction manual for the new microwave in 1375 01:00:46,400 --> 01:00:55,000 the break room cover to cover and file it away in an alphabetized color coded filing 1376 01:00:55,000 --> 01:00:57,160 cabinet for future reference. 1377 01:00:57,160 --> 01:01:01,520 And we both, I read this earlier to us and we were both like, that's us. 1378 01:01:01,520 --> 01:01:02,520 That's me. 1379 01:01:02,520 --> 01:01:06,400 Well, it's not, I don't, I will throw the directions out in a heartbeat and try to do 1380 01:01:06,400 --> 01:01:07,400 something about it. 1381 01:01:07,400 --> 01:01:08,400 Oh, I know. 1382 01:01:08,400 --> 01:01:09,400 I'm aware. 1383 01:01:09,400 --> 01:01:11,400 Because you've seen them in my junk drawer. 1384 01:01:11,400 --> 01:01:15,640 Listen, there was a lot of research that needed to go into the equipment that we bought for 1385 01:01:15,640 --> 01:01:16,640 this podcast. 1386 01:01:16,640 --> 01:01:18,360 I did literally gave no ships. 1387 01:01:18,360 --> 01:01:19,360 I did not care. 1388 01:01:19,360 --> 01:01:24,400 I knew she was going to do the research and I let her have that because that is just who 1389 01:01:24,400 --> 01:01:25,400 she is. 1390 01:01:25,400 --> 01:01:26,520 And I like to do it. 1391 01:01:26,520 --> 01:01:30,280 I want to show up and talk to y'all and to her. 1392 01:01:30,280 --> 01:01:31,280 And that's what I want to do. 1393 01:01:31,280 --> 01:01:33,280 And I want to put my end of the bread post out there. 1394 01:01:33,280 --> 01:01:35,440 I will let you pick out our food. 1395 01:01:35,440 --> 01:01:37,560 I don't care about the food. 1396 01:01:37,560 --> 01:01:38,560 Like if somebody picked it. 1397 01:01:38,560 --> 01:01:39,840 I mean, I love, yeah. 1398 01:01:39,840 --> 01:01:41,960 I like, honestly, you're always like, what do you want? 1399 01:01:41,960 --> 01:01:43,600 And I'm like, I don't know. 1400 01:01:43,600 --> 01:01:47,880 If somebody could pick out my clothes and my food every day, my life would be so much 1401 01:01:47,880 --> 01:01:48,880 easier. 1402 01:01:48,880 --> 01:01:49,880 I could do that for you. 1403 01:01:49,880 --> 01:01:50,880 Please. 1404 01:01:50,880 --> 01:01:54,160 I've asked you before, like I need you and like Jessica or somebody or Melanie or somebody 1405 01:01:54,160 --> 01:01:58,480 come style me because I feel like I wear the same black everything all day long every day. 1406 01:01:58,480 --> 01:01:59,480 All black everything. 1407 01:01:59,480 --> 01:02:00,480 Yeah. 1408 01:02:00,480 --> 01:02:04,080 And sometimes I look at myself and I'm like, why am I so drab? 1409 01:02:04,080 --> 01:02:06,320 Black looks good on you though. 1410 01:02:06,320 --> 01:02:07,320 Yeah. 1411 01:02:07,320 --> 01:02:08,320 Yeah. 1412 01:02:08,320 --> 01:02:09,320 Sometimes. 1413 01:02:09,320 --> 01:02:10,320 So anyway, where was I? 1414 01:02:10,320 --> 01:02:11,320 So yeah. 1415 01:02:11,320 --> 01:02:13,600 I had to read the entire manual for like everything. 1416 01:02:13,600 --> 01:02:14,760 And you know what I really hate? 1417 01:02:14,760 --> 01:02:17,080 So I'm going to give an example of this. 1418 01:02:17,080 --> 01:02:22,840 So my brother, my older brother for my birthday, got me an outdoor heater, like a, like they 1419 01:02:22,840 --> 01:02:26,320 have at restaurants, you know, they look like stand up and they have like the little tent 1420 01:02:26,320 --> 01:02:27,320 thing on top. 1421 01:02:27,320 --> 01:02:28,320 Yeah. 1422 01:02:28,320 --> 01:02:31,920 And my dad and my brother, they were here and they put it together for me that night 1423 01:02:31,920 --> 01:02:33,240 that he gave it to me. 1424 01:02:33,240 --> 01:02:35,560 And I had the whole time I was thinking, oh my God, they're going to do it. 1425 01:02:35,560 --> 01:02:39,920 Because I know them, they're men and they're just like, not going to read the instructions. 1426 01:02:39,920 --> 01:02:40,920 They're going to do it. 1427 01:02:40,920 --> 01:02:42,840 And it's going to be all messed up. 1428 01:02:42,840 --> 01:02:48,720 So the next day I come, I come back in and my dad has got this bag and it's got, it's 1429 01:02:48,720 --> 01:02:52,160 full of like screws and like, yes, leftovers. 1430 01:02:52,160 --> 01:02:56,160 And then outside they're like little like things, washers and stuff all over the ground 1431 01:02:56,160 --> 01:02:57,160 outside. 1432 01:02:57,160 --> 01:03:00,800 And I'm like, normally they don't give you this many extras. 1433 01:03:00,800 --> 01:03:04,800 Like maybe like one or two, but, uh, I don't think so. 1434 01:03:04,800 --> 01:03:05,800 And I'm like, this is weird. 1435 01:03:05,800 --> 01:03:08,160 So I kept them and I put them and I found one the other day. 1436 01:03:08,160 --> 01:03:11,120 There's one in my room right there by the back door. 1437 01:03:11,120 --> 01:03:12,840 Cause I was like, this has to go to the heater. 1438 01:03:12,840 --> 01:03:17,680 Well then I'm looking out the window in my dining room and I looked down at the heater 1439 01:03:17,680 --> 01:03:22,000 and realized there's like, like a couple of screws on the top of the thing that are not 1440 01:03:22,000 --> 01:03:23,000 there. 1441 01:03:23,000 --> 01:03:25,680 I sent a picture to my dad and my brother and I was like, seriously? 1442 01:03:25,680 --> 01:03:28,880 I was like, you guys didn't read the directions. 1443 01:03:28,880 --> 01:03:32,240 Like, and I knew this was going to happen and that makes me crazy. 1444 01:03:32,240 --> 01:03:33,720 And that's why I keep all that stuff. 1445 01:03:33,720 --> 01:03:36,120 And like, I will be the one that like, I put it all together. 1446 01:03:36,120 --> 01:03:39,080 Yeah, like exactly how it was going to go read the instructions. 1447 01:03:39,080 --> 01:03:41,440 Even if I, it's like self-explanatory, I'm still going to do it. 1448 01:03:41,440 --> 01:03:42,720 I'm a dude when it comes to that. 1449 01:03:42,720 --> 01:03:47,480 I don't care when Brandon put together my standup desk that I got for Christmas, he 1450 01:03:47,480 --> 01:03:51,560 read every instruction and I had to sit there and just shut up because it would have been 1451 01:03:51,560 --> 01:03:54,920 so rude of me to just try to take over the project when I don't even want to read the 1452 01:03:54,920 --> 01:03:55,920 instructions. 1453 01:03:55,920 --> 01:03:59,240 So I sat there and shut up and let him do his thing. 1454 01:03:59,240 --> 01:04:00,240 Yeah. 1455 01:04:00,240 --> 01:04:04,520 You should definitely read the instructions cause that's why your bed is halfway falling 1456 01:04:04,520 --> 01:04:05,520 apart on one side. 1457 01:04:05,520 --> 01:04:06,520 What? 1458 01:04:06,520 --> 01:04:07,520 No, that, okay. 1459 01:04:07,520 --> 01:04:11,320 You can hold the phone on that one, but, and my dad will be mad too. 1460 01:04:11,320 --> 01:04:12,720 Oh, your dad did it. 1461 01:04:12,720 --> 01:04:13,720 We did it together. 1462 01:04:13,720 --> 01:04:14,720 Yes. 1463 01:04:14,720 --> 01:04:16,440 And we could not get the damn screw to go in. 1464 01:04:16,440 --> 01:04:20,480 And so it is rigged up and I don't care, but the bed's still together and we've been that 1465 01:04:20,480 --> 01:04:22,040 way for over 60 days now. 1466 01:04:22,040 --> 01:04:24,440 At least it didn't fall apart like mine did that one day. 1467 01:04:24,440 --> 01:04:26,440 Listen, I've already set his own brand inside it. 1468 01:04:26,440 --> 01:04:27,920 If anybody's following us, him. 1469 01:04:27,920 --> 01:04:29,760 Look, Sarah and I, we haven't told this story yet. 1470 01:04:29,760 --> 01:04:30,760 It's a little bit embarrassing. 1471 01:04:30,760 --> 01:04:35,000 We were over here working on the podcast and we were like, can we go get in the bed? 1472 01:04:35,000 --> 01:04:36,840 It was kind of late and we were like editing. 1473 01:04:36,840 --> 01:04:39,280 And so we brought the computer, the laptop and everything. 1474 01:04:39,280 --> 01:04:44,040 And Jolene was here, her dog and her dog probably weighs more than us. 1475 01:04:44,040 --> 01:04:45,040 Not really. 1476 01:04:45,040 --> 01:04:46,040 She's just really tall. 1477 01:04:46,040 --> 01:04:50,160 Um, she's probably as tall as me cause I'm about the shortest person ever. 1478 01:04:50,160 --> 01:04:53,520 Um, and we're all sitting in the bed. 1479 01:04:53,520 --> 01:04:55,760 Like I'm on my side, Sarah's on her side. 1480 01:04:55,760 --> 01:04:58,280 Jolene's in the all sides. 1481 01:04:58,280 --> 01:04:59,280 Yeah. 1482 01:04:59,280 --> 01:05:02,640 And all of a sudden we're just literally just sitting there. 1483 01:05:02,640 --> 01:05:03,640 Boom. 1484 01:05:03,640 --> 01:05:06,240 And it's like fall through and it's freaking broke. 1485 01:05:06,240 --> 01:05:08,160 And I was like, oh my God. 1486 01:05:08,160 --> 01:05:11,760 And we get up and I try to look at it because I was like, well, maybe the slats, but I have 1487 01:05:11,760 --> 01:05:13,760 like particle, like particle board. 1488 01:05:13,760 --> 01:05:14,920 Oh, is it particle board? 1489 01:05:14,920 --> 01:05:15,920 Yeah. 1490 01:05:15,920 --> 01:05:16,920 Whatever that stuff is. 1491 01:05:16,920 --> 01:05:18,720 That's like on top of the slats or whatever. 1492 01:05:18,720 --> 01:05:20,200 And it's metal. 1493 01:05:20,200 --> 01:05:25,880 I think we have, I have metal things that go across and this, it wasn't that, that broke. 1494 01:05:25,880 --> 01:05:32,000 It was the screw that screws it into the sideboard thing. 1495 01:05:32,000 --> 01:05:34,600 I was like, oh my God, I can't believe we broke this. 1496 01:05:34,600 --> 01:05:37,840 So I had to sleep on the couch at night. 1497 01:05:37,840 --> 01:05:38,840 We had to get up. 1498 01:05:38,840 --> 01:05:40,840 We were like, okay, we weren't even doing anything crazy. 1499 01:05:40,840 --> 01:05:43,360 We were just literally sitting, we weren't even moving. 1500 01:05:43,360 --> 01:05:44,360 Yeah. 1501 01:05:44,360 --> 01:05:45,360 It was crazy. 1502 01:05:45,360 --> 01:05:48,360 I'm like, oh my God, thick AF. 1503 01:05:48,360 --> 01:05:49,360 Boom. 1504 01:05:49,360 --> 01:05:51,240 Living up to our name. 1505 01:05:51,240 --> 01:05:52,640 Luckily Pete fixed it for me. 1506 01:05:52,640 --> 01:05:54,000 So that was nice. 1507 01:05:54,000 --> 01:05:55,000 All right. 1508 01:05:55,000 --> 01:05:56,040 So thanks Pete. 1509 01:05:56,040 --> 01:06:04,720 My mom would say, Emily, that's because boys can do some things and girls can't, or wait, 1510 01:06:04,720 --> 01:06:10,320 that means that sometimes boys are better at some things than girls are. 1511 01:06:10,320 --> 01:06:15,440 And I say middle finger to that. 1512 01:06:15,440 --> 01:06:22,560 Next, the camel is generally a linear thinker and they need to know that they have received 1513 01:06:22,560 --> 01:06:26,040 all the information that is required before engaging in a new venture or project. 1514 01:06:26,040 --> 01:06:29,600 Above all else, the camel is motivated by the details and wants to ensure the quality 1515 01:06:29,600 --> 01:06:30,600 of the work. 1516 01:06:30,600 --> 01:06:31,600 Are you not that way? 1517 01:06:31,600 --> 01:06:32,600 I am. 1518 01:06:32,600 --> 01:06:33,600 No. 1519 01:06:33,600 --> 01:06:34,600 I'm very much that way. 1520 01:06:34,600 --> 01:06:35,840 I need to have a lot of information. 1521 01:06:35,840 --> 01:06:36,840 I want to have a lot of it. 1522 01:06:36,840 --> 01:06:39,240 I can't stand it when people are like, just show up. 1523 01:06:39,240 --> 01:06:42,560 And I'm like, no, just do this. 1524 01:06:42,560 --> 01:06:46,000 And I'm like, no, I need to have the stuff, the information. 1525 01:06:46,000 --> 01:06:47,000 Okay. 1526 01:06:47,000 --> 01:06:49,440 So the next one, monkey, a much loved monkey. 1527 01:06:49,440 --> 01:06:53,560 I think Rose is a much loved monkey because we had to take this test at my old job. 1528 01:06:53,560 --> 01:06:56,400 Much loved monkey is a personality that loves people. 1529 01:06:56,400 --> 01:06:57,400 They love to laugh. 1530 01:06:57,400 --> 01:07:00,560 They love to tell stories and they're very verbal. 1531 01:07:00,560 --> 01:07:01,560 We're both of that. 1532 01:07:01,560 --> 01:07:02,560 Yeah. 1533 01:07:02,560 --> 01:07:05,280 But like we're more lion apparently. 1534 01:07:05,280 --> 01:07:06,280 Absolutely. 1535 01:07:06,280 --> 01:07:08,320 This personality is generally extroverted. 1536 01:07:08,320 --> 01:07:09,960 Yes, both check. 1537 01:07:09,960 --> 01:07:11,280 And it's comfortable in groups. 1538 01:07:11,280 --> 01:07:13,280 Yes, both of us check. 1539 01:07:13,280 --> 01:07:16,040 They love social settings and love to connect with others. 1540 01:07:16,040 --> 01:07:18,240 Yes, check for both of us. 1541 01:07:18,240 --> 01:07:23,120 Is have a wonderful skill of truly caring about and understanding people. 1542 01:07:23,120 --> 01:07:25,840 Maybe you, I don't know if I'm that way. 1543 01:07:25,840 --> 01:07:31,400 I mean, I care about people, but I'm not the greatest at all that. 1544 01:07:31,400 --> 01:07:32,400 You know what I mean? 1545 01:07:32,400 --> 01:07:33,400 I do care about people. 1546 01:07:33,400 --> 01:07:34,400 I love you guys. 1547 01:07:34,400 --> 01:07:37,640 I love our listeners and all my friends and family. 1548 01:07:37,640 --> 01:07:39,880 They have the natural ability to read. 1549 01:07:39,880 --> 01:07:41,200 Are you saying your good night prayers? 1550 01:07:41,200 --> 01:07:42,200 Yes. 1551 01:07:42,200 --> 01:07:43,200 Oh my gosh. 1552 01:07:43,200 --> 01:07:44,860 Do you do that too? 1553 01:07:44,860 --> 01:07:48,160 Did you do like, God bless mommy and daddy and grandma and grandpa? 1554 01:07:48,160 --> 01:07:49,640 I'm sure I did. 1555 01:07:49,640 --> 01:07:52,760 And we did all, and we had it all. 1556 01:07:52,760 --> 01:07:56,320 I don't remember it, but my older brother, he does it with his kids now. 1557 01:07:56,320 --> 01:07:58,320 And I'm like, how do you remember that? 1558 01:07:58,320 --> 01:08:00,520 We literally had like everybody. 1559 01:08:00,520 --> 01:08:02,760 It was like, it was the craziest thing. 1560 01:08:02,760 --> 01:08:04,160 Like everybody in our family. 1561 01:08:04,160 --> 01:08:05,160 Okay. 1562 01:08:05,160 --> 01:08:06,340 Where was I? 1563 01:08:06,340 --> 01:08:12,460 They have the natural ability to read others' feelings with accuracy. 1564 01:08:12,460 --> 01:08:15,280 They're natural connectors and thus can be powerful influencers. 1565 01:08:15,280 --> 01:08:18,960 I want to be that. 1566 01:08:18,960 --> 01:08:22,800 I want to be an influencer and I want to be a monkey. 1567 01:08:22,800 --> 01:08:23,800 Honestly, it would be so much more fun. 1568 01:08:23,800 --> 01:08:24,800 I want to be a monkey. 1569 01:08:24,800 --> 01:08:30,280 It would be so much more fun to stop stressing out about details and being an A personality, 1570 01:08:30,280 --> 01:08:32,000 be more fun to be a monkey. 1571 01:08:32,000 --> 01:08:36,040 However, oh, however, monkeys. 1572 01:08:36,040 --> 01:08:38,960 You guys can wear your feelings on your sleeves. 1573 01:08:38,960 --> 01:08:39,960 You're like that. 1574 01:08:39,960 --> 01:08:40,960 Yeah. 1575 01:08:40,960 --> 01:08:41,960 I'm not really like that. 1576 01:08:41,960 --> 01:08:42,960 Actually, I'm not like that at all. 1577 01:08:42,960 --> 01:08:44,280 I don't really have feelings. 1578 01:08:44,280 --> 01:08:48,360 I don't think my mom one time told me I cried when my grandmother was like in the hospital 1579 01:08:48,360 --> 01:08:52,560 one time and she was like, you do have feelings. 1580 01:08:52,560 --> 01:08:56,000 I was like 15 or 12 or something. 1581 01:08:56,000 --> 01:09:00,800 I don't know how I was really young or like, you know, middle school, high school age. 1582 01:09:00,800 --> 01:09:02,800 And she hugged me and she was like, oh, you do have feelings. 1583 01:09:02,800 --> 01:09:04,320 It's like, I don't think I've ever cried. 1584 01:09:04,320 --> 01:09:05,320 Melanie. 1585 01:09:05,320 --> 01:09:06,320 She has two feelings. 1586 01:09:06,320 --> 01:09:07,320 She has two. 1587 01:09:07,320 --> 01:09:08,320 What are they? 1588 01:09:08,320 --> 01:09:09,320 Just two of them. 1589 01:09:09,320 --> 01:09:13,320 You don't know what feelings they are. 1590 01:09:13,320 --> 01:09:15,040 So like happy and sad. 1591 01:09:15,040 --> 01:09:19,840 Well, it should be like you hurt my one feeling. 1592 01:09:19,840 --> 01:09:20,840 You have a lot of feelings. 1593 01:09:20,840 --> 01:09:24,760 About four thousand. 1594 01:09:24,760 --> 01:09:26,080 You act like you don't, though. 1595 01:09:26,080 --> 01:09:27,080 A hundred percent. 1596 01:09:27,080 --> 01:09:28,080 I don't want people to know I have feelings. 1597 01:09:28,080 --> 01:09:29,080 And now I'm telling them. 1598 01:09:29,080 --> 01:09:30,080 That's why I think you're an eight. 1599 01:09:30,080 --> 01:09:35,040 That's why I think you have you're an eight personality for the Enneagram. 1600 01:09:35,040 --> 01:09:37,040 We'll talk about that later. 1601 01:09:37,040 --> 01:09:38,600 OK, so they're sensitive creatures. 1602 01:09:38,600 --> 01:09:39,600 Oh, that's you. 1603 01:09:39,600 --> 01:09:42,520 And they can be hurt with insensitive words or behavior. 1604 01:09:42,520 --> 01:09:43,520 That's you. 1605 01:09:43,520 --> 01:09:47,560 They can react with emotion instead of with a thought through. 1606 01:09:47,560 --> 01:09:50,720 I think that should have been like a thorough thought or thought through. 1607 01:09:50,720 --> 01:09:52,440 Maybe or think. 1608 01:09:52,440 --> 01:09:55,480 Basically you can act with emotion without thinking it through. 1609 01:09:55,480 --> 01:09:56,480 Yeah. 1610 01:09:56,480 --> 01:09:57,480 Do you do that? 1611 01:09:57,480 --> 01:09:58,760 Sometimes depends. 1612 01:09:58,760 --> 01:10:01,760 I'm a very logical arguer. 1613 01:10:01,760 --> 01:10:06,920 If I've had time to process, if I haven't, then I might cut you with my words for sure. 1614 01:10:06,920 --> 01:10:08,520 Yeah, I'm not like that. 1615 01:10:08,520 --> 01:10:11,680 No, I'm not really like getting into it at all. 1616 01:10:11,680 --> 01:10:14,440 OK, tranquil turtle is next. 1617 01:10:14,440 --> 01:10:15,440 That is not me. 1618 01:10:15,440 --> 01:10:21,760 I got a whole one. 1619 01:10:21,760 --> 01:10:25,040 One that you don't you might there might be some stuff in here. 1620 01:10:25,040 --> 01:10:32,120 OK, tranquil turtle is person oriented, not to be confused with people oriented. 1621 01:10:32,120 --> 01:10:36,280 Turtles tend to be driven by a few significant relationships. 1622 01:10:36,280 --> 01:10:40,640 So they're like they got their boyfriend and their best friend and then they're like BFFs 1623 01:10:40,640 --> 01:10:41,640 and that's it. 1624 01:10:41,640 --> 01:10:44,400 They can like go out in like groups, I guess. 1625 01:10:44,400 --> 01:10:45,400 Turtles turtles. 1626 01:10:45,400 --> 01:10:47,080 I love that turtle is such a weird word. 1627 01:10:47,080 --> 01:10:49,320 It's like saying Thorc over and over again. 1628 01:10:49,320 --> 01:10:51,000 Turtle turtle turtle turtle. 1629 01:10:51,000 --> 01:10:53,000 What's that from? 1630 01:10:53,000 --> 01:10:54,360 Literally no idea. 1631 01:10:54,360 --> 01:10:56,480 Turtle is some movie or something. 1632 01:10:56,480 --> 01:11:02,960 Anyways, sorry, I digress a lot. 1633 01:11:02,960 --> 01:11:05,040 I hopefully it's funny for you guys. 1634 01:11:05,040 --> 01:11:06,040 Let's see. 1635 01:11:06,040 --> 01:11:07,040 Turtles for it. 1636 01:11:07,040 --> 01:11:10,040 Flourish flour flourish flourish flourish. 1637 01:11:10,040 --> 01:11:12,800 How do you still flower? 1638 01:11:12,800 --> 01:11:13,800 F.L.O.U.R. 1639 01:11:13,800 --> 01:11:16,120 That's how it's spelled flourish. 1640 01:11:16,120 --> 01:11:17,760 But I know it's flourish. 1641 01:11:17,760 --> 01:11:19,600 I'm just being jokey. 1642 01:11:19,600 --> 01:11:20,600 Turtles flourish. 1643 01:11:20,600 --> 01:11:21,600 Flourish. 1644 01:11:21,600 --> 01:11:24,120 No, I don't know what it is. 1645 01:11:24,120 --> 01:11:25,840 No, I can't say it. 1646 01:11:25,840 --> 01:11:26,920 Oh my God. 1647 01:11:26,920 --> 01:11:27,920 Turtles flourish. 1648 01:11:27,920 --> 01:11:28,920 Flourish. 1649 01:11:28,920 --> 01:11:30,920 Am I saying it right? 1650 01:11:30,920 --> 01:11:31,920 Flourish. 1651 01:11:31,920 --> 01:11:32,920 Yes. 1652 01:11:32,920 --> 01:11:35,520 Turtles flourish when they are purposeful. 1653 01:11:35,520 --> 01:11:38,040 I don't know if I keep going. 1654 01:11:38,040 --> 01:11:39,040 We're not cutting. 1655 01:11:39,040 --> 01:11:43,120 They are purposeful and meaningful one on one conversations. 1656 01:11:43,120 --> 01:11:45,320 They like to go deep. 1657 01:11:45,320 --> 01:11:50,720 Trust is vital to the success of any relationship developed with turtles. 1658 01:11:50,720 --> 01:11:51,720 Turtles. 1659 01:11:51,720 --> 01:11:56,860 Consequently, turtles can teach us much about that important trait of trust. 1660 01:11:56,860 --> 01:12:01,600 They need time to process and think before making a major decision or for that matter, 1661 01:12:01,600 --> 01:12:02,600 any decision at all. 1662 01:12:02,600 --> 01:12:04,040 I'm kind of that way. 1663 01:12:04,040 --> 01:12:13,920 I think I feel like I that's what I need. 1664 01:12:13,920 --> 01:12:18,080 The turtle possesses wisdom and is an intuitive thinker. 1665 01:12:18,080 --> 01:12:20,120 I think I'm wise. 1666 01:12:20,120 --> 01:12:21,120 Just kidding. 1667 01:12:21,120 --> 01:12:22,120 I'm probably not really wise. 1668 01:12:22,120 --> 01:12:23,120 What do you think? 1669 01:12:23,120 --> 01:12:24,120 You think I'm wise? 1670 01:12:24,120 --> 01:12:25,120 Yeah. 1671 01:12:25,120 --> 01:12:26,120 Oh, thanks. 1672 01:12:26,120 --> 01:12:27,120 I'm an owl. 1673 01:12:27,120 --> 01:12:28,120 Who? 1674 01:12:28,120 --> 01:12:29,120 Who? 1675 01:12:29,120 --> 01:12:30,120 Okay. 1676 01:12:30,120 --> 01:12:33,400 While the turtle may not use very many words when they do speak, you should listen. 1677 01:12:33,400 --> 01:12:34,400 Okay. 1678 01:12:34,400 --> 01:12:35,400 That is not me. 1679 01:12:35,400 --> 01:12:37,680 I use a lot of words, but you should listen to them. 1680 01:12:37,680 --> 01:12:38,680 Yeah, absolutely. 1681 01:12:38,680 --> 01:12:42,480 You should listen to this podcast. 1682 01:12:42,480 --> 01:12:48,080 The turtle has a keen insight and the ability to make strong, effective decisions. 1683 01:12:48,080 --> 01:12:49,080 See me. 1684 01:12:49,080 --> 01:12:51,080 I don't think I'm that way, especially during a crisis. 1685 01:12:51,080 --> 01:12:52,080 I think I'm that way. 1686 01:12:52,080 --> 01:12:54,800 I think I'm really good about that, but maybe not. 1687 01:12:54,800 --> 01:12:56,200 Generally, they do not panic. 1688 01:12:56,200 --> 01:12:57,200 Okay. 1689 01:12:57,200 --> 01:13:01,200 Well, no, I mean, I don't think that you panic when other people are panicking. 1690 01:13:01,200 --> 01:13:02,200 I don't panic. 1691 01:13:02,200 --> 01:13:04,360 If nobody else is panicking, I kind of panic. 1692 01:13:04,360 --> 01:13:05,360 It's weird. 1693 01:13:05,360 --> 01:13:06,720 I can see that because- 1694 01:13:06,720 --> 01:13:10,560 I try to like, if other people are panicking, I'm like, oh my God, we don't need anybody 1695 01:13:10,560 --> 01:13:11,560 else. 1696 01:13:11,560 --> 01:13:12,560 I have to be the one to hold it together. 1697 01:13:12,560 --> 01:13:13,560 Yeah. 1698 01:13:13,560 --> 01:13:14,560 No, I'm going to panic. 1699 01:13:14,560 --> 01:13:15,560 But if nobody else is panicking, I'm like, why is nobody panicking? 1700 01:13:15,560 --> 01:13:16,560 I'm like, this is not good. 1701 01:13:16,560 --> 01:13:17,560 Somebody's got to be panicking. 1702 01:13:17,560 --> 01:13:24,000 Do you not remember the very last night when we were in San Diego and I didn't have a flight 1703 01:13:24,000 --> 01:13:25,480 and I was losing my shit? 1704 01:13:25,480 --> 01:13:26,480 Yes. 1705 01:13:26,480 --> 01:13:27,480 You were freaking out and I was just like- 1706 01:13:27,480 --> 01:13:30,320 As if I was going to get to the airport and they were never going to let me get on an 1707 01:13:30,320 --> 01:13:32,120 airplane to get home ever again. 1708 01:13:32,120 --> 01:13:33,120 Yeah. 1709 01:13:33,120 --> 01:13:35,720 I think you had the next day off work too. 1710 01:13:35,720 --> 01:13:36,720 No, I didn't. 1711 01:13:36,720 --> 01:13:37,720 Oh, you didn't? 1712 01:13:37,720 --> 01:13:38,720 Oh, well, yeah. 1713 01:13:38,720 --> 01:13:39,720 Yeah, I mean, of course I did. 1714 01:13:39,720 --> 01:13:40,720 Yeah, you did. 1715 01:13:40,720 --> 01:13:41,720 I had all day to get back, but- 1716 01:13:41,720 --> 01:13:43,480 Yeah, you were really upset about that. 1717 01:13:43,480 --> 01:13:48,520 Well, I think it's one of those things where like, I mean, of course I've traveled alone 1718 01:13:48,520 --> 01:13:53,320 or whatever, but it's much better to do with people and I was on Jessica's flight coming 1719 01:13:53,320 --> 01:13:57,280 back with her and I wanted it to be that way. 1720 01:13:57,280 --> 01:14:03,440 I think I also get anxious about travel and getting to the airport in time and like- 1721 01:14:03,440 --> 01:14:04,440 Oh my gosh, me too. 1722 01:14:04,440 --> 01:14:05,720 ... and all that kind of stuff. 1723 01:14:05,720 --> 01:14:11,640 I will be like five hours early to the airport and people... It's because I'm not missing 1724 01:14:11,640 --> 01:14:12,640 that flight. 1725 01:14:12,640 --> 01:14:13,640 Right. 1726 01:14:13,640 --> 01:14:15,200 And people will be like, we don't need to leave at that time. 1727 01:14:15,200 --> 01:14:17,640 And I'm like, yes, we do because you never know. 1728 01:14:17,640 --> 01:14:19,720 The line might be backed up or whatever. 1729 01:14:19,720 --> 01:14:20,720 I'm like, I'm sorry. 1730 01:14:20,720 --> 01:14:22,080 There could be an accident on the way to the airport. 1731 01:14:22,080 --> 01:14:23,080 I totally agree. 1732 01:14:23,080 --> 01:14:24,080 Yeah. 1733 01:14:24,080 --> 01:14:25,080 I'm not missing the flight. 1734 01:14:25,080 --> 01:14:27,760 I'm not getting there early enough to have to sit there. 1735 01:14:27,760 --> 01:14:28,760 I don't care. 1736 01:14:28,760 --> 01:14:30,560 I'm not trying to run and catch a flight. 1737 01:14:30,560 --> 01:14:32,360 And the time it would take to have to like- 1738 01:14:32,360 --> 01:14:33,360 I don't run. 1739 01:14:33,360 --> 01:14:34,360 I'm fat. 1740 01:14:34,360 --> 01:14:35,360 I'm not running. 1741 01:14:35,360 --> 01:14:36,360 Okay? 1742 01:14:36,360 --> 01:14:38,720 I'm getting there early and I'm getting my Chick-fil-A or my Starbucks. 1743 01:14:38,720 --> 01:14:39,720 Right. 1744 01:14:39,720 --> 01:14:40,720 Yeah. 1745 01:14:40,720 --> 01:14:41,720 And the time it would take for you... Okay. 1746 01:14:41,720 --> 01:14:46,840 So you getting there early versus you having to miss your flight and miss all the stuff 1747 01:14:46,840 --> 01:14:52,040 that you were supposed to be at and then talking to the people to rearrange your flight. 1748 01:14:52,040 --> 01:14:56,800 Unless you're like a gold platinum medallion, diamond, whatever it is. 1749 01:14:56,800 --> 01:14:57,800 Right. 1750 01:14:57,800 --> 01:14:59,960 And they're going to be like, oh, yes, ma'am. 1751 01:14:59,960 --> 01:15:00,960 Yes, sir. 1752 01:15:00,960 --> 01:15:06,280 We will do anything for you because you spend a gajillion dollars on Delta or whoever. 1753 01:15:06,280 --> 01:15:07,280 It's going to take a while. 1754 01:15:07,280 --> 01:15:09,680 And I mean, like get there another hour early. 1755 01:15:09,680 --> 01:15:10,680 Yeah. 1756 01:15:10,680 --> 01:15:11,680 For sure. 1757 01:15:11,680 --> 01:15:15,160 So anyways, those are our personality tests for today. 1758 01:15:15,160 --> 01:15:16,160 I know. 1759 01:15:16,160 --> 01:15:17,800 I talked a lot. 1760 01:15:17,800 --> 01:15:18,800 My mouth is hurting. 1761 01:15:18,800 --> 01:15:20,280 I told you this was your episode. 1762 01:15:20,280 --> 01:15:22,440 I wish Sarah would talk some. 1763 01:15:22,440 --> 01:15:23,440 I do. 1764 01:15:23,440 --> 01:15:24,440 I'm making her talk in the next one. 1765 01:15:24,440 --> 01:15:25,440 We're doing some more research. 1766 01:15:25,440 --> 01:15:26,560 I'm going to... Yeah. 1767 01:15:26,560 --> 01:15:30,960 I'll do some more research about my enneagram and come a little bit better prepared. 1768 01:15:30,960 --> 01:15:33,160 Don't you worry because I'm going to have lots to say about the enneagram. 1769 01:15:33,160 --> 01:15:34,160 Oh, we know. 1770 01:15:34,160 --> 01:15:35,160 Oh, I love it. 1771 01:15:35,160 --> 01:15:36,160 It's so great. 1772 01:15:36,160 --> 01:15:40,800 Anyway, how about we have Sarah do a little talking now? 1773 01:15:40,800 --> 01:15:42,440 I guess I can do that. 1774 01:15:42,440 --> 01:15:44,960 Well thanks for being here with us this week. 1775 01:15:44,960 --> 01:15:47,240 This is a really cool topic to discuss. 1776 01:15:47,240 --> 01:15:51,600 We're going to kind of do a two-parter, if you will, so we'll be back next week with 1777 01:15:51,600 --> 01:15:53,480 the enneagram and some other things. 1778 01:15:53,480 --> 01:16:00,640 So in the meantime, hope you enjoy this episode and go out there, like, subscribe, follow, 1779 01:16:00,640 --> 01:16:04,200 share our stories, share our episodes with your friends. 1780 01:16:04,200 --> 01:16:07,960 You can find us on Instagram at Thick AF Podcast. 1781 01:16:07,960 --> 01:16:12,880 Send us an email if you've taken any of these personality tests and want to share your results. 1782 01:16:12,880 --> 01:16:15,800 Thick AF Podcast at gmail.com. 1783 01:16:15,800 --> 01:16:17,800 We will see you all next week. 1784 01:16:17,800 --> 01:16:18,800 Bye. 1785 01:16:18,800 --> 01:16:47,800 Bye. 1786 01:16:48,800 --> 01:17:05,800 ABCDEFG, I have to go.