1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:04,000 Hey y'all, welcome back to the Thicc AF Podcast. 2 00:00:04,000 --> 00:00:06,000 It's a new week. 3 00:00:06,000 --> 00:00:07,000 This is Sarah. 4 00:00:07,000 --> 00:00:08,000 I'm here with Emily. 5 00:00:08,000 --> 00:00:09,000 Hey, hey, hey. 6 00:00:09,000 --> 00:00:10,000 I did well. 7 00:00:10,000 --> 00:00:15,000 I called you by your first name, not your last name. 8 00:00:15,000 --> 00:00:16,000 Well, thank God. 9 00:00:16,000 --> 00:00:17,000 About time. 10 00:00:17,000 --> 00:00:22,000 So we are recording a little bit of an intro for an episode previously recorded. 11 00:00:22,000 --> 00:00:29,000 It is a part two to our lovely guest, my man Brandon. 12 00:00:29,000 --> 00:00:32,200 And so we're going to chat about a few things. 13 00:00:32,200 --> 00:00:34,200 Getting prepped for the holidays. 14 00:00:34,200 --> 00:00:35,200 Not really getting prepped. 15 00:00:35,200 --> 00:00:36,200 We just want to talk about Fuck, Marry, Kill. 16 00:00:36,200 --> 00:00:37,200 Wait, what? 17 00:00:37,200 --> 00:00:38,200 What are we getting prepped for the holidays for? 18 00:00:38,200 --> 00:00:39,200 It's almost the holidays. 19 00:00:39,200 --> 00:00:40,200 It's almost my birthday. 20 00:00:40,200 --> 00:00:44,440 And we're really just getting, we're not even getting prepped. 21 00:00:44,440 --> 00:00:46,400 We're just like, I'm not prepped for anything. 22 00:00:46,400 --> 00:00:47,560 Oh, I am. 23 00:00:47,560 --> 00:00:49,480 I'm all done shopping. 24 00:00:49,480 --> 00:00:50,480 You shopped for everyone? 25 00:00:50,480 --> 00:00:51,480 Everybody. 26 00:00:51,480 --> 00:00:52,480 Did you do it all online? 27 00:00:52,480 --> 00:00:53,480 Yes. 28 00:00:53,480 --> 00:00:58,980 So I have a problem because I have no idea what to get you for your birthday or for Christmas. 29 00:00:58,980 --> 00:01:01,600 And you're like, oh my God, I'm so excited about. 30 00:01:01,600 --> 00:01:02,600 And I'm like. 31 00:01:02,600 --> 00:01:04,600 I tried to give her her present on Sunday. 32 00:01:04,600 --> 00:01:07,200 No, no, that is not cool. 33 00:01:07,200 --> 00:01:11,640 You can't give Christmas presents like two weeks in advance if you like know the person. 34 00:01:11,640 --> 00:01:13,880 Like I mean, like we're going to see each other. 35 00:01:13,880 --> 00:01:14,880 I know. 36 00:01:14,880 --> 00:01:15,880 I just get excited. 37 00:01:15,880 --> 00:01:16,880 She was being lazy. 38 00:01:16,880 --> 00:01:22,280 Well, no, she was said, I don't want to move it to my new apartment, which is literally 39 00:01:22,280 --> 00:01:23,280 in the same apartment complex. 40 00:01:23,280 --> 00:01:28,560 It is, but it's still a box full of presents that I have to carry up there. 41 00:01:28,560 --> 00:01:31,040 But mine is one present, not a box full. 42 00:01:31,040 --> 00:01:33,200 I gave Melanie hers this weekend already. 43 00:01:33,200 --> 00:01:34,200 And she opened it. 44 00:01:34,200 --> 00:01:35,200 Yeah. 45 00:01:35,200 --> 00:01:36,200 What if you gave it to me? 46 00:01:36,200 --> 00:01:37,200 Is it wrapped? 47 00:01:37,200 --> 00:01:40,400 In a bag because I don't know how to wrap. 48 00:01:40,400 --> 00:01:41,400 Are you serious? 49 00:01:41,400 --> 00:01:43,720 Swear to God, Brandon wrapped my dad's present yesterday. 50 00:01:43,720 --> 00:01:45,720 Who raised you? 51 00:01:45,720 --> 00:01:48,800 Sorry, Chuck and Connie and whoever else. 52 00:01:48,800 --> 00:01:49,800 Donnie and Mitch. 53 00:01:49,800 --> 00:01:50,800 Donnie and Mitch. 54 00:01:50,800 --> 00:01:57,200 But like my mom, my mom will not allow me to bring gift bags to her house. 55 00:01:57,200 --> 00:01:59,760 Of course, Karen Johnson. 56 00:01:59,760 --> 00:02:06,880 Her Christmas tree has a brand and it is, listen, it has color schemes and she doesn't 57 00:02:06,880 --> 00:02:07,880 want it. 58 00:02:07,880 --> 00:02:13,240 Also her dining room table for like Christmas and for Thanksgiving or anytime we're on the 59 00:02:13,240 --> 00:02:18,280 dining room table, she doesn't want people bringing their like plastic or like aluminum 60 00:02:18,280 --> 00:02:25,160 foil tins that they get, they're reusable tins from, you know, you get from Publix or 61 00:02:25,160 --> 00:02:26,160 whatever. 62 00:02:26,160 --> 00:02:27,160 Yeah. 63 00:02:27,160 --> 00:02:28,160 And she's got it in dishes. 64 00:02:28,160 --> 00:02:32,240 So her table is beautiful with her like crystal candle light. 65 00:02:32,240 --> 00:02:34,880 No, my mom wraps presents. 66 00:02:34,880 --> 00:02:38,680 And I mean, obviously I've been living down here back down here since 2008 and she usually 67 00:02:38,680 --> 00:02:43,340 sends a box of stuff and she pre wraps it and packs the box and everything. 68 00:02:43,340 --> 00:02:49,240 My sister learned how to wrap because she worked for like a retail store that was local 69 00:02:49,240 --> 00:02:52,120 to where we grew up in high school. 70 00:02:52,120 --> 00:02:56,280 And so she learned how to wrap and she's a beautiful rapper. 71 00:02:56,280 --> 00:03:00,480 And we got my dad and Connie a shared gift this year. 72 00:03:00,480 --> 00:03:04,320 I can't say what it is because maybe they'll listen to this before Christmas, who knows, 73 00:03:04,320 --> 00:03:06,400 but there's a photo of it on the box. 74 00:03:06,400 --> 00:03:11,660 And so last night when I was like packing some things, I was like, Brandon SOS, do you 75 00:03:11,660 --> 00:03:12,720 know how to wrap? 76 00:03:12,720 --> 00:03:14,640 And he was like, yeah, I know how to wrap. 77 00:03:14,640 --> 00:03:19,720 And I was like, God, listen, I've been rapping since I was little and my brothers are always 78 00:03:19,720 --> 00:03:24,440 like they'll bring their pile of gifts over to my parents' house. 79 00:03:24,440 --> 00:03:25,720 They don't even live there anymore. 80 00:03:25,720 --> 00:03:29,800 They've been doing this since I was probably two years old because my mom taught me how 81 00:03:29,800 --> 00:03:30,800 to do it. 82 00:03:30,800 --> 00:03:32,760 She was like, when I have children, they're my slaves. 83 00:03:32,760 --> 00:03:33,760 They're not. 84 00:03:33,760 --> 00:03:37,280 So she taught me how to rap when I was two. 85 00:03:37,280 --> 00:03:42,320 But she but they will bring them over and they'll be like, Emily, wrap all these presents. 86 00:03:42,320 --> 00:03:43,640 I have wrapped my own presents. 87 00:03:43,640 --> 00:03:44,640 I'm not kidding. 88 00:03:44,640 --> 00:03:48,480 Like when I was younger, so even now still my mom does numbers. 89 00:03:48,480 --> 00:03:53,080 She doesn't put gift tags with names on them because when she was younger, you want to 90 00:03:53,080 --> 00:03:57,880 know what she did, she took her presents, she would wrap her presents and she would 91 00:03:57,880 --> 00:04:00,600 open them up and then rewrap them back. 92 00:04:00,600 --> 00:04:02,400 Me and Jerry did that once. 93 00:04:02,400 --> 00:04:04,120 It ruined Christmas. 94 00:04:04,120 --> 00:04:08,800 We were so disappointed that Christmas because there's no secret anymore. 95 00:04:08,800 --> 00:04:09,800 Exactly. 96 00:04:09,800 --> 00:04:10,800 That's so sad. 97 00:04:10,800 --> 00:04:11,800 I can't believe y'all did that. 98 00:04:11,800 --> 00:04:12,800 That's hilarious. 99 00:04:12,800 --> 00:04:15,920 I've never done that before. 100 00:04:15,920 --> 00:04:17,760 But like my mom said she used to do that. 101 00:04:17,760 --> 00:04:19,920 So she knows the trick. 102 00:04:19,920 --> 00:04:24,920 So she puts numbers and it'll be like one she for and she'll get drunk when she does 103 00:04:24,920 --> 00:04:28,400 the numbers and she'll do the numbers on different days or she used to. 104 00:04:28,400 --> 00:04:29,760 She doesn't really get drunk anymore. 105 00:04:29,760 --> 00:04:33,440 She like drinks like one drink and it'll be like after she does everything and she'll 106 00:04:33,440 --> 00:04:39,000 be like, I had two sips and now like I'm going to bed by, but she's like, she'll forget the 107 00:04:39,000 --> 00:04:43,280 numbers and she'll be like, oh God, oh God, I forgot who's number three. 108 00:04:43,280 --> 00:04:44,280 And now she has like seven numbers. 109 00:04:44,280 --> 00:04:46,640 She needs to just do it by children. 110 00:04:46,640 --> 00:04:49,840 So Eric is number one, you're number two and Daniel's number three. 111 00:04:49,840 --> 00:04:53,760 She can't do that because then we would know who we are. 112 00:04:53,760 --> 00:04:57,280 She's doing numbers because she doesn't want us to know whose gift is what. 113 00:04:57,280 --> 00:04:58,640 So we can't open them. 114 00:04:58,640 --> 00:05:00,800 We can't just pick them out and be like, oh, this is for me. 115 00:05:00,800 --> 00:05:03,640 We'd have to go through all of them and figure out who, which are number, which one is our 116 00:05:03,640 --> 00:05:04,640 number. 117 00:05:04,640 --> 00:05:09,800 Well, even better than that growing up really, I guess throughout the Christmases after 118 00:05:09,800 --> 00:05:14,160 my parents got divorced and we came back down here for Christmas, we call my grandmother's 119 00:05:14,160 --> 00:05:19,440 house the farm and we would go out to the farm and it was this old farmhouse that had 120 00:05:19,440 --> 00:05:27,040 like one bedroom, a bathroom, and then a loft upstairs that had bunks built into the wall. 121 00:05:27,040 --> 00:05:29,160 Now they've added onto it and all that jazz. 122 00:05:29,160 --> 00:05:36,320 But when we were younger, my grandmother used to buy even just the Ziploc bags for like 123 00:05:36,320 --> 00:05:38,760 your sandwiches and stuff. 124 00:05:38,760 --> 00:05:43,840 And she would buy the ones that have like the, you know, photos, if you will, on the 125 00:05:43,840 --> 00:05:47,640 outside, put a little bit of tissue paper around a present, put it in a Ziploc and throw 126 00:05:47,640 --> 00:05:48,640 it over the balcony. 127 00:05:48,640 --> 00:05:49,640 Wait, hold on, hold on. 128 00:05:49,640 --> 00:05:50,640 The balcony? 129 00:05:50,640 --> 00:05:51,640 Yeah. 130 00:05:51,640 --> 00:05:55,040 Like with the loft where the bunks were, she would go upstairs, bring the presents up there. 131 00:05:55,040 --> 00:05:56,040 She threw it a- 132 00:05:56,040 --> 00:05:57,040 Yeah. 133 00:05:57,040 --> 00:06:00,960 She would be like bombs away and like drop a bag. 134 00:06:00,960 --> 00:06:01,960 Is this, what do you call her? 135 00:06:01,960 --> 00:06:02,960 Grana? 136 00:06:02,960 --> 00:06:03,960 Grana. 137 00:06:03,960 --> 00:06:04,960 Yeah. 138 00:06:04,960 --> 00:06:05,960 I love Grana. 139 00:06:05,960 --> 00:06:06,960 I've never met Grana, but she sounds freaking cool. 140 00:06:06,960 --> 00:06:07,960 Yeah. 141 00:06:07,960 --> 00:06:08,960 It was like the most- 142 00:06:08,960 --> 00:06:09,960 Bombs away. 143 00:06:09,960 --> 00:06:10,960 Yeah. 144 00:06:10,960 --> 00:06:11,960 I mean, she would just be like, all right, next one's coming. 145 00:06:11,960 --> 00:06:14,760 And you know, right, like you would like ham and cheese on the front of the bag or whatever. 146 00:06:14,760 --> 00:06:15,760 Sarah, Jerry, Amanda. 147 00:06:15,760 --> 00:06:16,760 Oh, she put them in Ziploc bags? 148 00:06:16,760 --> 00:06:17,760 Yes. 149 00:06:17,760 --> 00:06:18,760 That's what I'm saying. 150 00:06:18,760 --> 00:06:23,440 The ones that have like the paintings on the outside or whatever you will, like not just 151 00:06:23,440 --> 00:06:25,880 the regular sandwich bags, but the Christmas themed ones. 152 00:06:25,880 --> 00:06:26,880 Oh yeah. 153 00:06:26,880 --> 00:06:27,880 I've never seen those. 154 00:06:27,880 --> 00:06:28,880 Well, I mean, I don't know if they make them anymore. 155 00:06:28,880 --> 00:06:29,880 Those are fancy AF. 156 00:06:29,880 --> 00:06:31,880 She probably spent a lot of money on those back in the day. 157 00:06:31,880 --> 00:06:32,880 I mean, they were damn Ziploc bags. 158 00:06:32,880 --> 00:06:34,880 My mom won't even buy Ziploc bags. 159 00:06:34,880 --> 00:06:39,040 She wants me to reuse my Ziploc bags because she said she's been green before green was 160 00:06:39,040 --> 00:06:40,040 cool. 161 00:06:40,040 --> 00:06:41,040 Okay, Karen. 162 00:06:41,040 --> 00:06:42,040 I know. 163 00:06:42,040 --> 00:06:43,200 That's what I said. 164 00:06:43,200 --> 00:06:44,200 Her name is Karen. 165 00:06:44,200 --> 00:06:49,000 I do have reusable Ziplocs, but I don't use them for everything. 166 00:06:49,000 --> 00:06:50,560 Like I have the disposable ones too. 167 00:06:50,560 --> 00:06:51,560 And anybody, y'all can come from me. 168 00:06:51,560 --> 00:06:53,720 She gets mad at me because I'll be like throwing away a Ziploc bag. 169 00:06:53,720 --> 00:06:56,040 She's like, you could use that for something else. 170 00:06:56,040 --> 00:06:57,040 My mom will wash them out. 171 00:06:57,040 --> 00:06:58,040 Oh my God. 172 00:06:58,040 --> 00:06:59,040 That's freaking gross. 173 00:06:59,040 --> 00:07:03,000 My mom will wash them out and hang them over the sink candle to dry out and reuse them. 174 00:07:03,000 --> 00:07:05,120 Do you know how much it costs for one of those? 175 00:07:05,120 --> 00:07:06,120 I mean, I get it. 176 00:07:06,120 --> 00:07:07,640 Like it's helping the environment. 177 00:07:07,640 --> 00:07:08,640 That's nice. 178 00:07:08,640 --> 00:07:13,480 But like my mom's, I feel like my mom is more worried about like spending more money on 179 00:07:13,480 --> 00:07:16,840 buying another one or something and not necessarily the environment maybe. 180 00:07:16,840 --> 00:07:20,120 And it's like, okay, that costs like two cents. 181 00:07:20,120 --> 00:07:22,560 Yeah, just two cents for that. 182 00:07:22,560 --> 00:07:28,440 And maybe you should just like, the time it takes for me to like rinse this out cost me 183 00:07:28,440 --> 00:07:30,440 $30 like my time. 184 00:07:30,440 --> 00:07:31,440 Oh my gosh. 185 00:07:31,440 --> 00:07:32,440 You know, so. 186 00:07:32,440 --> 00:07:33,440 Whatever. 187 00:07:33,440 --> 00:07:37,400 Well anyways, Brandon is a champ and he wrapped my dad and Connie's present for me. 188 00:07:37,400 --> 00:07:40,960 Did he teach you while he... Hey, I need you to send me a picture of what it looks like 189 00:07:40,960 --> 00:07:42,440 because I want to know if it's good wrapping. 190 00:07:42,440 --> 00:07:44,160 It actually, he got nervous at one point. 191 00:07:44,160 --> 00:07:45,360 I was like, you're right there. 192 00:07:45,360 --> 00:07:46,360 He's like, I don't know. 193 00:07:46,360 --> 00:07:48,640 I'm getting kind of nervous. 194 00:07:48,640 --> 00:07:49,640 But no, it looks good. 195 00:07:49,640 --> 00:07:50,640 It really does. 196 00:07:50,640 --> 00:07:52,600 So we're going to have to look. 197 00:07:52,600 --> 00:07:56,080 I think that this weekend we're going to have a gift wrapping teaching contest because if 198 00:07:56,080 --> 00:08:01,800 you don't know how to wrap a present, I've been, my mom tells me that if I put something 199 00:08:01,800 --> 00:08:03,600 in a bag... Emily, I do not care. 200 00:08:03,600 --> 00:08:04,600 I don't want to learn. 201 00:08:04,600 --> 00:08:08,080 For this weekend for Dirty Santa, I was like, am I going to put this in this box or should 202 00:08:08,080 --> 00:08:09,920 I throw this box away and put it in a bag? 203 00:08:09,920 --> 00:08:13,560 I was like, I should put it in a bag because it's easier for Dirty Santa because people 204 00:08:13,560 --> 00:08:14,560 can just pull it out. 205 00:08:14,560 --> 00:08:22,160 But I'm like, in my head I have this thing that is deeply ingrained in me of like, you're 206 00:08:22,160 --> 00:08:23,160 tacky. 207 00:08:23,160 --> 00:08:25,980 Also, there was a TV show. 208 00:08:25,980 --> 00:08:28,920 This is Us, I think, where... Do you remember this episode? 209 00:08:28,920 --> 00:08:33,160 I know you watched This is Us where the girl, the lady, they were like, oh, she's a single 210 00:08:33,160 --> 00:08:37,700 mom and she came and she wrapped her present in newspaper. 211 00:08:37,700 --> 00:08:38,700 Don't spoil it. 212 00:08:38,700 --> 00:08:39,700 I haven't seen it. 213 00:08:39,700 --> 00:08:40,700 This is an old episode. 214 00:08:40,700 --> 00:08:43,160 I've only seen season one. 215 00:08:43,160 --> 00:08:44,160 It's in season one. 216 00:08:44,160 --> 00:08:45,480 It was a very long time ago. 217 00:08:45,480 --> 00:08:46,880 It was a very long time ago for me too. 218 00:08:46,880 --> 00:08:50,560 I haven't seen all of them either, but I'm not spoiling anything. 219 00:08:50,560 --> 00:08:51,560 That's not a spoiler. 220 00:08:51,560 --> 00:08:53,080 It's just some lady that comes over. 221 00:08:53,080 --> 00:08:54,080 I think it's This is Us. 222 00:08:54,080 --> 00:08:55,400 It might be a different show. 223 00:08:55,400 --> 00:08:56,400 Somebody can tell me. 224 00:08:56,400 --> 00:09:00,860 But all the ladies are like, oh, poor girl. 225 00:09:00,860 --> 00:09:03,440 She got divorced and it was back in the day when you couldn't get divorced. 226 00:09:03,440 --> 00:09:04,440 Thank God for divorce. 227 00:09:04,440 --> 00:09:10,360 I feel so bad for that lady, but I also am like, thank God for you because you paved 228 00:09:10,360 --> 00:09:12,280 the way for the rest of us, number one. 229 00:09:12,280 --> 00:09:13,280 Number two- 230 00:09:13,280 --> 00:09:14,840 On TV she did? 231 00:09:14,840 --> 00:09:21,360 Not on TV, but that was model. 232 00:09:21,360 --> 00:09:24,760 There were people that were like that and that's why they did this. 233 00:09:24,760 --> 00:09:28,440 It's not fiction because it's fake science fiction. 234 00:09:28,440 --> 00:09:31,040 It's regular fiction. 235 00:09:31,040 --> 00:09:34,000 Anyway. 236 00:09:34,000 --> 00:09:35,560 Where was I? 237 00:09:35,560 --> 00:09:37,920 I was just talking about wrapping Charles' present. 238 00:09:37,920 --> 00:09:41,080 I'm just baffled that you cannot wrap a present because I feel like- 239 00:09:41,080 --> 00:09:45,360 I mean, I could if I had to, but it's not going to look great and I don't care. 240 00:09:45,360 --> 00:09:46,360 That's wild to me. 241 00:09:46,360 --> 00:09:50,520 I will go to the dollar store and I will buy 57 bags before I will sit there and try to 242 00:09:50,520 --> 00:09:51,520 wrap a present. 243 00:09:51,520 --> 00:09:52,520 That's so lazy. 244 00:09:52,520 --> 00:09:53,600 I don't like wrapping. 245 00:09:53,600 --> 00:09:54,600 I'm not good at it. 246 00:09:54,600 --> 00:09:56,240 I don't like to do shit I'm not good at. 247 00:09:56,240 --> 00:10:00,240 But listen, you could be good at it because you're good at everything that you try and 248 00:10:00,240 --> 00:10:01,240 you know it. 249 00:10:01,240 --> 00:10:02,240 Yeah. 250 00:10:02,240 --> 00:10:03,240 You do. 251 00:10:03,240 --> 00:10:04,240 You're good at everything. 252 00:10:04,240 --> 00:10:05,240 You're just like me. 253 00:10:05,240 --> 00:10:10,240 That is a compliment for you not for me. 254 00:10:10,240 --> 00:10:14,640 No, I'm telling you are good at everything. 255 00:10:14,640 --> 00:10:18,160 That's why I'm baffled that you don't know how to wrap a present. 256 00:10:18,160 --> 00:10:19,160 Okay. 257 00:10:19,160 --> 00:10:20,160 Can we drop it? 258 00:10:20,160 --> 00:10:21,160 No. 259 00:10:21,160 --> 00:10:22,880 I really want you to learn. 260 00:10:22,880 --> 00:10:23,880 Okay. 261 00:10:23,880 --> 00:10:28,920 But anyways, we will move on to the FMK and we'll continue this conversation later, but 262 00:10:28,920 --> 00:10:35,600 I think that I might bring wrapping paper and do a birthday party slash dirty Santa 263 00:10:35,600 --> 00:10:36,600 thing this weekend. 264 00:10:36,600 --> 00:10:45,240 I think that I'm going to bring wrapping paper and see if we can have a Christmas present 265 00:10:45,240 --> 00:10:46,240 wrapping contest. 266 00:10:46,240 --> 00:10:47,240 No. 267 00:10:47,240 --> 00:10:48,240 So, okay. 268 00:10:48,240 --> 00:10:50,120 So do your FMK. 269 00:10:50,120 --> 00:10:51,520 Okay. 270 00:10:51,520 --> 00:10:52,520 Also known as? 271 00:10:52,520 --> 00:10:54,280 Fuck, Mary Kill. 272 00:10:54,280 --> 00:11:00,240 My first one, I'm taking it back to the jam bands because Kramp C, Emily hurt my feelings. 273 00:11:00,240 --> 00:11:01,880 Oh, Lord. 274 00:11:01,880 --> 00:11:04,640 So here we go. 275 00:11:04,640 --> 00:11:12,120 Almond Brothers, widespread panic and government mule. 276 00:11:12,120 --> 00:11:17,240 Mary Almond Brothers, fuck government mule and kill widespread panic. 277 00:11:17,240 --> 00:11:23,040 I can't tell if you're doing that just to irritate me or if that is genuine. 278 00:11:23,040 --> 00:11:26,320 I've never really gotten into the widespread panic thing. 279 00:11:26,320 --> 00:11:27,320 Maybe I need to do that. 280 00:11:27,320 --> 00:11:28,600 I'm going to do it for you. 281 00:11:28,600 --> 00:11:29,600 I promise. 282 00:11:29,600 --> 00:11:30,600 I'm going to start listening. 283 00:11:30,600 --> 00:11:34,200 I'm going to learn how to wrap a present if you learn about widespread panic. 284 00:11:34,200 --> 00:11:35,200 I will do that. 285 00:11:35,200 --> 00:11:36,200 Okay. 286 00:11:36,200 --> 00:11:37,200 All right. 287 00:11:37,200 --> 00:11:38,200 Deal. 288 00:11:38,200 --> 00:11:39,200 Deal. 289 00:11:39,200 --> 00:11:40,200 We got to fist bump that. 290 00:11:40,200 --> 00:11:41,200 Make it explode. 291 00:11:41,200 --> 00:11:42,200 Okay. 292 00:11:42,200 --> 00:11:43,200 Oh my God. 293 00:11:43,200 --> 00:11:44,200 What about you? 294 00:11:44,200 --> 00:11:45,200 What is yours? 295 00:11:45,200 --> 00:11:47,720 We know what yours is, but we don't know who your second tune. 296 00:11:47,720 --> 00:11:48,720 We know your top. 297 00:11:48,720 --> 00:11:52,040 I am marrying widespread panic. 298 00:11:52,040 --> 00:11:54,800 I'm fucking Almond Brothers and I'm killing government mule. 299 00:11:54,800 --> 00:11:58,000 I really do like government mule, but still that's my choice. 300 00:11:58,000 --> 00:11:59,000 Okay. 301 00:11:59,000 --> 00:12:00,000 You want me to go? 302 00:12:00,000 --> 00:12:01,000 Yeah. 303 00:12:01,000 --> 00:12:02,000 Absolutely. 304 00:12:02,000 --> 00:12:03,000 Go ahead. 305 00:12:03,000 --> 00:12:04,000 All right. 306 00:12:04,000 --> 00:12:07,320 So my first one is we're going to do the 90s female country singers. 307 00:12:07,320 --> 00:12:16,040 I was a little torn about who to put in this, but we're going to say Shania Twain, I don't 308 00:12:16,040 --> 00:12:19,160 know, Faith Hill and the Dixie Chicks. 309 00:12:19,160 --> 00:12:20,160 Oh God. 310 00:12:20,160 --> 00:12:22,280 I was going to do like, so the Dixie Chicks is a group. 311 00:12:22,280 --> 00:12:25,400 I was going to do like a single, but then I feel like Dixie Chicks is better than her. 312 00:12:25,400 --> 00:12:28,400 I don't know if I would know them by name if you did a single. 313 00:12:28,400 --> 00:12:31,280 So no, no, no, not them single, but I meant like a somebody. 314 00:12:31,280 --> 00:12:32,280 I was going to do Leanne Rimes. 315 00:12:32,280 --> 00:12:33,280 It will kill her. 316 00:12:33,280 --> 00:12:34,280 Really? 317 00:12:34,280 --> 00:12:35,280 I love Leanne Rimes. 318 00:12:35,280 --> 00:12:36,280 Oh my God. 319 00:12:36,280 --> 00:12:37,280 I love her. 320 00:12:37,280 --> 00:12:38,280 Nope. 321 00:12:38,280 --> 00:12:39,280 She's a home wrecker. 322 00:12:39,280 --> 00:12:40,280 Is she? 323 00:12:40,280 --> 00:12:41,280 Yeah. 324 00:12:41,280 --> 00:12:42,280 Do you know? 325 00:12:42,280 --> 00:12:43,280 You don't watch the housewives. 326 00:12:43,280 --> 00:12:44,680 That's why you don't know this. 327 00:12:44,680 --> 00:12:45,680 She is a home wrecker. 328 00:12:45,680 --> 00:12:46,680 Is she a housewife? 329 00:12:46,680 --> 00:12:47,680 No. 330 00:12:47,680 --> 00:12:52,320 I mean, she wrecked the marriage of Brandi Glanville, who is a very, very, very hot mess 331 00:12:52,320 --> 00:12:54,720 and sort of controversial human. 332 00:12:54,720 --> 00:12:56,520 Do we know all of the story? 333 00:12:56,520 --> 00:12:59,880 Or is it just hers and she's a hot mess? 334 00:12:59,880 --> 00:13:00,880 No. 335 00:13:00,880 --> 00:13:04,160 I mean, it is a whole many seasons storyline. 336 00:13:04,160 --> 00:13:05,160 I didn't know this. 337 00:13:05,160 --> 00:13:07,240 On Real Housewives of Beverly Hills. 338 00:13:07,240 --> 00:13:08,240 Yes. 339 00:13:08,240 --> 00:13:09,240 Wow. 340 00:13:09,240 --> 00:13:10,600 But yeah, she's a home wrecker. 341 00:13:10,600 --> 00:13:11,600 So kill her. 342 00:13:11,600 --> 00:13:12,600 All right. 343 00:13:12,600 --> 00:13:13,600 Home wrecker. 344 00:13:13,600 --> 00:13:14,600 Bye. 345 00:13:14,600 --> 00:13:15,600 Okay. 346 00:13:15,600 --> 00:13:16,600 But we're doing Shania Twain, Faith Hill and Dixie Chicks. 347 00:13:16,600 --> 00:13:17,600 Okay. 348 00:13:17,600 --> 00:13:23,040 I'm going to marry Faith Hill because I think that she would just be like a faithful angel 349 00:13:23,040 --> 00:13:25,360 of a spouse to have. 350 00:13:25,360 --> 00:13:28,560 I'm fucking Shania Twain because she knows how to have fun. 351 00:13:28,560 --> 00:13:30,480 And she's also an angel. 352 00:13:30,480 --> 00:13:31,480 Absolutely. 353 00:13:31,480 --> 00:13:32,480 And she's Canadian. 354 00:13:32,480 --> 00:13:33,480 They're very nice. 355 00:13:33,480 --> 00:13:34,480 I can't believe you're going to kill Dixie Chicks. 356 00:13:34,480 --> 00:13:35,480 I am. 357 00:13:35,480 --> 00:13:36,480 I don't really like them. 358 00:13:36,480 --> 00:13:37,480 I never really liked them that much. 359 00:13:37,480 --> 00:13:38,480 I mean. 360 00:13:38,480 --> 00:13:39,480 I love them. 361 00:13:39,480 --> 00:13:40,480 Kind of, but like I never get into that. 362 00:13:40,480 --> 00:13:41,480 Excuse me. 363 00:13:41,480 --> 00:13:42,480 I'm sorry. 364 00:13:42,480 --> 00:13:43,480 They're not Dixie Chicks anymore. 365 00:13:43,480 --> 00:13:44,480 They're not allowed to be. 366 00:13:44,480 --> 00:13:45,480 Oh yeah. 367 00:13:45,480 --> 00:13:46,480 They're the chicks. 368 00:13:46,480 --> 00:13:47,480 Okay. 369 00:13:47,480 --> 00:13:48,480 They're the chicks. 370 00:13:48,480 --> 00:13:49,480 I'm sorry. 371 00:13:49,480 --> 00:13:52,480 But why did the Dixie Chicks have to change their name, but Winn Dixie, the grocery store, 372 00:13:52,480 --> 00:13:53,480 is still Winn Dixie? 373 00:13:53,480 --> 00:13:54,480 Oh gosh. 374 00:13:54,480 --> 00:13:55,480 I hate Winn Dixie anyway. 375 00:13:55,480 --> 00:13:56,480 So it doesn't matter to me. 376 00:13:56,480 --> 00:13:57,480 Like. 377 00:13:57,480 --> 00:13:58,480 Okay. 378 00:13:58,480 --> 00:13:59,480 Good. 379 00:13:59,480 --> 00:14:00,480 I mean, I'm on the same page with you. 380 00:14:00,480 --> 00:14:01,480 Why don't they have to change it? 381 00:14:01,480 --> 00:14:02,480 I hate them. 382 00:14:02,480 --> 00:14:03,480 Why did some people have to change their names? 383 00:14:03,480 --> 00:14:04,480 You know what? 384 00:14:04,480 --> 00:14:05,480 Grocery stores. 385 00:14:05,480 --> 00:14:09,840 Publix, Winn Dixie and the Piggly Wiggly. 386 00:14:09,840 --> 00:14:11,400 Oh, Piggly Wiggly. 387 00:14:11,400 --> 00:14:13,440 Wait, hold on. 388 00:14:13,440 --> 00:14:14,800 Depends on which Piggly Wiggly. 389 00:14:14,800 --> 00:14:16,040 No, just pick. 390 00:14:16,040 --> 00:14:17,600 Depends on which. 391 00:14:17,600 --> 00:14:20,280 So if it's like the Piggly Wiggly and like Crestline. 392 00:14:20,280 --> 00:14:23,520 Just pick your favorite Piggly Wiggly then and that's what you go off of. 393 00:14:23,520 --> 00:14:24,520 Okay. 394 00:14:24,520 --> 00:14:27,280 I like Piggly Wiggly and then I like, but I don't have one close to me. 395 00:14:27,280 --> 00:14:28,880 You're fuck, marry and kill, ding dong. 396 00:14:28,880 --> 00:14:29,880 I know. 397 00:14:29,880 --> 00:14:35,080 I'm, oh, well I'm going to marry Publix because they are tried and true and they have a pharmacy 398 00:14:35,080 --> 00:14:37,840 and that's where I go. 399 00:14:37,840 --> 00:14:42,880 And if you go to their pharmacy, you can go to their pharmacy anywhere and they can transfer 400 00:14:42,880 --> 00:14:43,880 and stuff like that. 401 00:14:43,880 --> 00:14:44,880 Piggly Wiggly, I don't know if they can do that. 402 00:14:44,880 --> 00:14:46,200 I don't even know if they have a pharmacy. 403 00:14:46,200 --> 00:14:47,360 They probably do. 404 00:14:47,360 --> 00:14:53,000 And I really like Piggly Wiggly, but so I'm going to say I'm going to, what was the other 405 00:14:53,000 --> 00:14:54,000 one? 406 00:14:54,000 --> 00:14:55,000 Winn Dixie. 407 00:14:55,000 --> 00:14:56,000 Okay. 408 00:14:56,000 --> 00:14:57,000 So I don't ever go to Winn Dixie. 409 00:14:57,000 --> 00:15:00,800 So there's kill them and then I'm going to fuck Piggly Wiggly. 410 00:15:00,800 --> 00:15:02,480 See I think I'm going to marry the Piggly Wiggly. 411 00:15:02,480 --> 00:15:04,880 I'm going to fuck Publix and I'm going to kill Winn Dixie. 412 00:15:04,880 --> 00:15:07,020 See I would have done that too, but like. 413 00:15:07,020 --> 00:15:08,020 It was interchangeable. 414 00:15:08,020 --> 00:15:10,120 I feel like because I use Publix a lot because it's close to me. 415 00:15:10,120 --> 00:15:11,120 Yeah. 416 00:15:11,120 --> 00:15:12,600 And, but you have a Publix close to you. 417 00:15:12,600 --> 00:15:14,120 Where's a pig close to you? 418 00:15:14,120 --> 00:15:15,120 Not by my parents' house. 419 00:15:15,120 --> 00:15:17,120 Oh, but that's way far. 420 00:15:17,120 --> 00:15:18,120 Not really. 421 00:15:18,120 --> 00:15:19,120 It's by Lisa's. 422 00:15:19,120 --> 00:15:20,120 Yeah. 423 00:15:20,120 --> 00:15:21,120 That's far though. 424 00:15:21,120 --> 00:15:22,120 Not for me. 425 00:15:22,120 --> 00:15:23,120 Way further than the Publix. 426 00:15:23,120 --> 00:15:24,120 That's literally you could walk to. 427 00:15:24,120 --> 00:15:25,120 So. 428 00:15:25,120 --> 00:15:26,120 I could walk, but I don't. 429 00:15:26,120 --> 00:15:27,120 All right. 430 00:15:27,120 --> 00:15:28,480 So did I do my Shania? 431 00:15:28,480 --> 00:15:29,480 Did I say who I was going to? 432 00:15:29,480 --> 00:15:30,480 No, you did not. 433 00:15:30,480 --> 00:15:31,480 Okay. 434 00:15:31,480 --> 00:15:35,240 So I am going to, you know what? 435 00:15:35,240 --> 00:15:39,200 I might do the same as you, but I kind of like, this is a hard one. 436 00:15:39,200 --> 00:15:41,640 I thought I was going to do. 437 00:15:41,640 --> 00:15:47,240 I think I might marry Shania Twain because I feel like she is like sweet and sexy. 438 00:15:47,240 --> 00:15:48,240 Yeah. 439 00:15:48,240 --> 00:15:51,280 So was Faith Hill, but she's kind of like gone forever. 440 00:15:51,280 --> 00:15:52,280 She's gone forever. 441 00:15:52,280 --> 00:15:56,040 I haven't seen her in a long time. 442 00:15:56,040 --> 00:15:57,880 She's like real like regimented. 443 00:15:57,880 --> 00:15:59,680 I don't think she drinks alcohol. 444 00:15:59,680 --> 00:16:04,040 So like you may want to kill her or fuck her and then be done because. 445 00:16:04,040 --> 00:16:05,040 Yeah. 446 00:16:05,040 --> 00:16:06,040 I think I might kill her. 447 00:16:06,040 --> 00:16:07,040 Dixie chicks. 448 00:16:07,040 --> 00:16:08,040 They're like pretty straight laced. 449 00:16:08,040 --> 00:16:10,040 I'd fuck the Dixie chicks because that's three in one. 450 00:16:10,040 --> 00:16:11,040 That's a foursome. 451 00:16:11,040 --> 00:16:12,040 That would be weird though. 452 00:16:12,040 --> 00:16:13,040 Is it, are any of them a lesbian? 453 00:16:13,040 --> 00:16:14,040 Honestly, I do not know. 454 00:16:14,040 --> 00:16:15,040 I don't either. 455 00:16:15,040 --> 00:16:16,040 I think they were all married at one point. 456 00:16:16,040 --> 00:16:17,040 I'm not sure. 457 00:16:17,040 --> 00:16:18,040 But anyways, I like Dixie chicks. 458 00:16:18,040 --> 00:16:19,040 I think they're cool. 459 00:16:19,040 --> 00:16:20,040 I like their new album or I'm sorry, excuse me, the chicks, but everybody calls them the 460 00:16:20,040 --> 00:16:21,040 Dixie chicks from back in the day. 461 00:16:21,040 --> 00:16:22,040 So, and I honestly don't understand the reason for the name change, but. 462 00:16:22,040 --> 00:16:23,040 Well. 463 00:16:23,040 --> 00:16:24,040 I get it. 464 00:16:24,040 --> 00:16:25,040 I get it. 465 00:16:25,040 --> 00:16:26,040 But I don't, it doesn't make sense. 466 00:16:26,040 --> 00:16:27,040 I don't know. 467 00:16:27,040 --> 00:16:28,040 I don't know. 468 00:16:28,040 --> 00:16:29,040 I don't know. 469 00:16:29,040 --> 00:16:30,040 I don't know. 470 00:16:30,040 --> 00:16:31,040 I don't know. 471 00:16:31,040 --> 00:16:32,040 I don't know. 472 00:16:32,040 --> 00:16:33,040 I don't know. 473 00:16:33,040 --> 00:16:34,040 I don't know. 474 00:16:34,040 --> 00:16:35,040 I don't know. 475 00:16:35,040 --> 00:16:41,040 I don't know the reason for the name change, but I get it. 476 00:16:41,040 --> 00:16:42,040 I get it. 477 00:16:42,040 --> 00:16:46,040 But I don't, to me, Dixie, that name, it's like, it's not a thing. 478 00:16:46,040 --> 00:16:47,040 Anyways. 479 00:16:47,040 --> 00:16:48,040 Okay. 480 00:16:48,040 --> 00:16:49,040 I probably should cut that out. 481 00:16:49,040 --> 00:16:50,040 Okay. 482 00:16:50,040 --> 00:16:51,040 So do you have another one? 483 00:16:51,040 --> 00:16:53,040 I know you did grocery stores, but don't you have one more? 484 00:16:53,040 --> 00:16:54,040 Yeah, I do. 485 00:16:54,040 --> 00:16:55,040 Okay. 486 00:16:55,040 --> 00:16:57,520 We're going to go back to the men's on this one. 487 00:16:57,520 --> 00:16:58,520 The men's? 488 00:16:58,520 --> 00:16:59,520 Yeah. 489 00:16:59,520 --> 00:17:00,520 Actors. 490 00:17:00,520 --> 00:17:01,520 Okay. 491 00:17:01,520 --> 00:17:02,520 Charlie Hunnam. 492 00:17:02,520 --> 00:17:04,400 I have no idea who that is. 493 00:17:04,400 --> 00:17:06,360 While you say the others, I'll look him up. 494 00:17:06,360 --> 00:17:07,360 Okay. 495 00:17:07,360 --> 00:17:10,200 Channing Tatum and Bradley Cooper. 496 00:17:10,200 --> 00:17:11,200 Oh. 497 00:17:11,200 --> 00:17:14,240 Oh, Charlie Hunnam. 498 00:17:14,240 --> 00:17:17,280 He was in Sons of Anarchy, which is one of my all time favorite shows. 499 00:17:17,280 --> 00:17:18,280 Okay. 500 00:17:18,280 --> 00:17:19,520 So I never really got into that. 501 00:17:19,520 --> 00:17:20,800 You need to watch it. 502 00:17:20,800 --> 00:17:21,800 You'll thank yourself. 503 00:17:21,800 --> 00:17:22,800 He's hot. 504 00:17:22,800 --> 00:17:23,800 So. 505 00:17:23,800 --> 00:17:24,800 He's delicious. 506 00:17:24,800 --> 00:17:26,400 But who was, it was Bradley Cooper. 507 00:17:26,400 --> 00:17:28,800 Channing Tatum. 508 00:17:28,800 --> 00:17:30,840 He's an Alabamian. 509 00:17:30,840 --> 00:17:33,960 I would probably fuck Bradley Cooper. 510 00:17:33,960 --> 00:17:38,240 Marry Channing Tatum and kill Charlie Hunnam. 511 00:17:38,240 --> 00:17:39,240 That's hateful. 512 00:17:39,240 --> 00:17:41,920 I know, but like you picked three really good ones. 513 00:17:41,920 --> 00:17:42,920 Yeah, I know. 514 00:17:42,920 --> 00:17:48,360 And I know Bradley Cooper and Channing Tatum better than I do the others. 515 00:17:48,360 --> 00:17:53,080 And I feel like Channing Tatum, he and his, I don't know if they're still together, but 516 00:17:53,080 --> 00:17:55,520 I'm so old school with all my knowledge. 517 00:17:55,520 --> 00:17:57,520 They have been divorced for years. 518 00:17:57,520 --> 00:18:01,320 Listen, this is how bad I am about anything. 519 00:18:01,320 --> 00:18:03,520 He has a new girlfriend and I think she's like remarried or something. 520 00:18:03,520 --> 00:18:06,040 I'm the culture, I'm the worst. 521 00:18:06,040 --> 00:18:08,640 Just blame it on the alcohol. 522 00:18:08,640 --> 00:18:09,640 I don't know. 523 00:18:09,640 --> 00:18:10,640 Not really. 524 00:18:10,640 --> 00:18:12,640 It's just because I'm so busy and like honestly. 525 00:18:12,640 --> 00:18:13,640 A glass of water. 526 00:18:13,640 --> 00:18:14,640 You still aren't going to be able to know that. 527 00:18:14,640 --> 00:18:20,320 I don't, these people that know so much about like celebrities, I'm like, do you not have 528 00:18:20,320 --> 00:18:22,440 anything else better to do with your time? 529 00:18:22,440 --> 00:18:23,440 Thank you. 530 00:18:23,440 --> 00:18:24,440 How rude. 531 00:18:24,440 --> 00:18:28,920 Well, it's not, but honestly I'm jealous of those people because I'm like, why am I working 532 00:18:28,920 --> 00:18:29,920 until seven o'clock at night? 533 00:18:29,920 --> 00:18:30,920 I know a lot of it. 534 00:18:30,920 --> 00:18:37,160 When other people on their damn Facebooks or Instagram and Googling, I don't know. 535 00:18:37,160 --> 00:18:38,160 How do you find out? 536 00:18:38,160 --> 00:18:43,120 Are you watching like, oh, I had a roommate in college. 537 00:18:43,120 --> 00:18:44,120 Her name was Kayla. 538 00:18:44,120 --> 00:18:45,400 Hey Kayla, what's up? 539 00:18:45,400 --> 00:18:47,760 She used to tell me, I'd be like, what are you doing? 540 00:18:47,760 --> 00:18:50,840 She's like watching the news and it would be E news. 541 00:18:50,840 --> 00:18:51,840 It was great. 542 00:18:51,840 --> 00:18:52,840 She was so funny. 543 00:18:52,840 --> 00:18:55,680 She was like, I'm just watching the news. 544 00:18:55,680 --> 00:19:00,720 I do get E news notifications on my phone, but a lot of it comes from like obviously 545 00:19:00,720 --> 00:19:03,280 Bravo and watching Real Housewives. 546 00:19:03,280 --> 00:19:05,720 That's where that knowledge came from. 547 00:19:05,720 --> 00:19:11,040 My mom and my sister and I will text if we see something come up or what, just send to 548 00:19:11,040 --> 00:19:15,440 my sister and I more so on Instagram, just sharing stuff or whatever. 549 00:19:15,440 --> 00:19:18,160 But I don't know, I like pop culture. 550 00:19:18,160 --> 00:19:19,740 I'd be lying if I said I didn't. 551 00:19:19,740 --> 00:19:20,740 I love it. 552 00:19:20,740 --> 00:19:25,120 I think it's great, but the only time I hear of anything is when I listen. 553 00:19:25,120 --> 00:19:27,560 Well it's every Monday through Wednesday now. 554 00:19:27,560 --> 00:19:30,680 I listen to Howard Stern when I wake up in the morning. 555 00:19:30,680 --> 00:19:33,000 And what time does that go off? 556 00:19:33,000 --> 00:19:37,520 I mean my alarm, it goes off on my alarm every morning at whatever time at Howard Stern. 557 00:19:37,520 --> 00:19:38,520 6.45. 558 00:19:38,520 --> 00:19:40,280 Well, no, that does go. 559 00:19:40,280 --> 00:19:47,280 So it's supposed to go off at like, they start at like six my time I think, but like, yeah. 560 00:19:47,280 --> 00:19:48,280 I don't always listen to the whole thing. 561 00:19:48,280 --> 00:19:50,280 That's very early in the morning for that. 562 00:19:50,280 --> 00:19:53,240 I love, but it helps me wake up and they're like, they're the best. 563 00:19:53,240 --> 00:19:57,440 The only thing that I do in the morning sometimes is if I'm in the shower, I'll ask Alexa to 564 00:19:57,440 --> 00:19:59,720 play the news for me and I think that it's NPR. 565 00:19:59,720 --> 00:20:01,640 Oh, well guess what? 566 00:20:01,640 --> 00:20:05,080 They interviewed Lizzo on Monday. 567 00:20:05,080 --> 00:20:07,080 NPR or Howard Stern? 568 00:20:07,080 --> 00:20:08,080 Howard Stern. 569 00:20:08,080 --> 00:20:09,360 And I want to listen to it so bad. 570 00:20:09,360 --> 00:20:13,560 I turned it off because I was so tired because I don't know what I did on Sunday, but I think 571 00:20:13,560 --> 00:20:14,560 I set it up for- You were at my house. 572 00:20:14,560 --> 00:20:15,560 We were editing. 573 00:20:15,560 --> 00:20:16,560 Oh, that's right. 574 00:20:16,560 --> 00:20:17,560 We weren't up late. 575 00:20:17,560 --> 00:20:21,280 We weren't up late, but I came home and I like, the next morning I like couldn't, I 576 00:20:21,280 --> 00:20:26,120 like snoozed it until like 7.15 and I was like, oh, I can't listen to it. 577 00:20:26,120 --> 00:20:29,680 And so I was like, I don't want to start it now and I'm going to go back and listen to 578 00:20:29,680 --> 00:20:30,680 it. 579 00:20:30,680 --> 00:20:31,680 But like, I'm really excited to listen to that. 580 00:20:31,680 --> 00:20:32,680 All right. 581 00:20:32,680 --> 00:20:33,680 Well, let us know what you find out then. 582 00:20:33,680 --> 00:20:34,680 Yeah. 583 00:20:34,680 --> 00:20:38,320 Because I think Liz, and he talked about it this morning again about how he learned some 584 00:20:38,320 --> 00:20:40,560 stuff from Lizzo or something and I was like, oh, that's cute. 585 00:20:40,560 --> 00:20:41,560 All right. 586 00:20:41,560 --> 00:20:42,560 I'm excited to hear what it is. 587 00:20:42,560 --> 00:20:43,560 She's cool. 588 00:20:43,560 --> 00:20:44,560 Okay. 589 00:20:44,560 --> 00:20:48,000 So my next FMK is, all right. 590 00:20:48,000 --> 00:20:49,600 So these are going to be like interesting. 591 00:20:49,600 --> 00:20:50,600 I'm nervous. 592 00:20:50,600 --> 00:20:51,600 All right. 593 00:20:51,600 --> 00:20:54,840 So the first one is Lil Dicky. 594 00:20:54,840 --> 00:20:56,480 The second one is Weird Al Yankovic. 595 00:20:56,480 --> 00:20:57,480 Oh my God. 596 00:20:57,480 --> 00:20:58,480 How do you say that? 597 00:20:58,480 --> 00:20:59,480 Yankovic? 598 00:20:59,480 --> 00:21:00,480 I don't care. 599 00:21:00,480 --> 00:21:01,480 Cause I was like, I'm killing him. 600 00:21:01,480 --> 00:21:02,480 I don't even know. 601 00:21:02,480 --> 00:21:03,480 I'm killing him. 602 00:21:03,480 --> 00:21:04,480 I don't even need to know who the third one is. 603 00:21:04,480 --> 00:21:05,480 The Lonely Island. 604 00:21:05,480 --> 00:21:08,480 You know, knock it out like the SNL guy. 605 00:21:08,480 --> 00:21:11,100 Isn't that a good one? 606 00:21:11,100 --> 00:21:18,160 I'm fucking Lil Dicky just cause he's your boyfriend. 607 00:21:18,160 --> 00:21:21,080 Then I'm a very lonely Island. 608 00:21:21,080 --> 00:21:23,760 And you're going to kill weird out? 609 00:21:23,760 --> 00:21:28,760 I'm gonna fuck your boyfriend all the while bitching about Leigh-Anne Rimes being a homewrecker. 610 00:21:28,760 --> 00:21:30,960 I'm marrying little Dicky. 611 00:21:30,960 --> 00:21:31,960 Little Dicky. 612 00:21:31,960 --> 00:21:32,960 Excuse me. 613 00:21:32,960 --> 00:21:33,960 Is it little Dicky or little Dicky? 614 00:21:33,960 --> 00:21:34,960 I don't know. 615 00:21:34,960 --> 00:21:35,960 I think you know the answer to that. 616 00:21:35,960 --> 00:21:41,000 I'm fucking the lonely island because, you know, and then I'm killing Mary Delle. 617 00:21:41,000 --> 00:21:43,200 But you know, that's it. 618 00:21:43,200 --> 00:21:45,040 You weird owl. 619 00:21:45,040 --> 00:21:46,040 Gross. 620 00:21:46,040 --> 00:21:47,040 Okay. 621 00:21:47,040 --> 00:21:48,880 So do we want to get into it now? 622 00:21:48,880 --> 00:21:54,480 Yeah, let's get into it with Brandon and finish off our chat with him for part two. 623 00:21:54,480 --> 00:21:56,480 Alright, you guys enjoy. 624 00:21:56,480 --> 00:22:02,240 Alright, can I ask my next question? 625 00:22:02,240 --> 00:22:03,240 Yes. 626 00:22:03,240 --> 00:22:07,800 What do you think people most often don't understand about you? 627 00:22:07,800 --> 00:22:08,800 My face. 628 00:22:08,800 --> 00:22:14,120 I have a RBF pretty bad and then people always think that I'm always mad or upset about something, 629 00:22:14,120 --> 00:22:15,120 which is the exact opposite. 630 00:22:15,120 --> 00:22:17,120 Like I'm just like, I don't care. 631 00:22:17,120 --> 00:22:19,520 I'm just like, whatever. 632 00:22:19,520 --> 00:22:24,880 I think it's because you're monitoring, like you say your face doesn't ever look like. 633 00:22:24,880 --> 00:22:25,880 Yeah. 634 00:22:25,880 --> 00:22:28,240 He raises an eyebrow and makes weird faces. 635 00:22:28,240 --> 00:22:30,360 I don't think you have an RBF though. 636 00:22:30,360 --> 00:22:35,520 I think you make funny faces, but I think your voice is like what is makes people think 637 00:22:35,520 --> 00:22:37,400 you're like, sometimes you'll say something. 638 00:22:37,400 --> 00:22:39,120 I can't see your face. 639 00:22:39,120 --> 00:22:42,360 And I'm like, is he for real? 640 00:22:42,360 --> 00:22:47,840 I don't know. 641 00:22:47,840 --> 00:22:50,400 No, he makes funny faces and raises his eyebrow. 642 00:22:50,400 --> 00:22:53,720 He's very sarcastic and he does like sarcastic stuff a lot. 643 00:22:53,720 --> 00:22:54,720 Your face is sarcastic. 644 00:22:54,720 --> 00:22:55,720 My face is sarcastic. 645 00:22:55,720 --> 00:22:57,880 And I've only met him like four times or something. 646 00:22:57,880 --> 00:22:58,880 My face is sarcastic. 647 00:22:58,880 --> 00:22:59,880 Yes. 648 00:22:59,880 --> 00:23:01,520 I'm kind of curious, what did I say in the car the other day? 649 00:23:01,520 --> 00:23:02,520 You're like, fuck man. 650 00:23:02,520 --> 00:23:03,520 A lot of things. 651 00:23:03,520 --> 00:23:04,520 It was great. 652 00:23:04,520 --> 00:23:05,520 And I thought it was funny. 653 00:23:05,520 --> 00:23:06,520 What did you say? 654 00:23:06,520 --> 00:23:07,520 You said stuff back. 655 00:23:07,520 --> 00:23:09,280 I don't even know how many times I've been in the car with you. 656 00:23:09,280 --> 00:23:10,280 Was it? 657 00:23:10,280 --> 00:23:12,040 Oh, this is when we went to the UAB game, right? 658 00:23:12,040 --> 00:23:14,520 Well, wasn't I in the car with you another time? 659 00:23:14,520 --> 00:23:17,400 And you were like, yeah, it wasn't when the UAB game. 660 00:23:17,400 --> 00:23:21,280 I just would crack up because you would say something and it would just be real serious. 661 00:23:21,280 --> 00:23:23,440 And everybody's kind of like, oh, is this about the lion? 662 00:23:23,440 --> 00:23:24,440 The lion? 663 00:23:24,440 --> 00:23:25,440 It's like, oh yeah. 664 00:23:25,440 --> 00:23:26,440 What was his name? 665 00:23:26,440 --> 00:23:27,440 At the zoo. 666 00:23:27,440 --> 00:23:28,440 Yeah. 667 00:23:28,440 --> 00:23:29,440 We were walking by that. 668 00:23:29,440 --> 00:23:30,960 I was like, oh, there's the zoo. 669 00:23:30,960 --> 00:23:31,960 I knew where the zoo was. 670 00:23:31,960 --> 00:23:32,960 I know exactly where the zoo was. 671 00:23:32,960 --> 00:23:33,960 Yeah, yeah. 672 00:23:33,960 --> 00:23:37,440 Tell me about the, what's this lion thing? 673 00:23:37,440 --> 00:23:38,800 So we were in the car. 674 00:23:38,800 --> 00:23:42,400 We're heading up to the UAB basketball game. 675 00:23:42,400 --> 00:23:46,760 And then Mason was just like, oh yeah, there's, no, I was sitting there going, I was like, 676 00:23:46,760 --> 00:23:48,520 oh look, it's the Birmingham zoo. 677 00:23:48,520 --> 00:23:49,520 I've never knew where it was. 678 00:23:49,520 --> 00:23:50,520 I knew exactly where it was. 679 00:23:50,520 --> 00:23:51,520 I knew exactly where it was. 680 00:23:51,520 --> 00:23:57,840 And then Mason was like, oh yeah, that's where they lost the lion. 681 00:23:57,840 --> 00:23:59,840 I was like, oh my God, did they find it? 682 00:23:59,840 --> 00:24:00,840 Oh yeah. 683 00:24:00,840 --> 00:24:02,440 That was one of the things that you said. 684 00:24:02,440 --> 00:24:03,440 I was like, oh my God. 685 00:24:03,440 --> 00:24:05,440 But I knew that, but I feel like I was in a car. 686 00:24:05,440 --> 00:24:06,440 That's just a dad joke. 687 00:24:06,440 --> 00:24:09,840 I was somewhere with you before that car ride. 688 00:24:09,840 --> 00:24:15,880 Because when I was in that car ride, I was like, oh, he's just being funny and that's 689 00:24:15,880 --> 00:24:16,980 just how he is. 690 00:24:16,980 --> 00:24:22,120 But the first time I got in the car with you, so yeah, so I thought that, I don't know who 691 00:24:22,120 --> 00:24:24,880 we were with, but didn't we go somewhere else? 692 00:24:24,880 --> 00:24:25,880 But we were in a car together? 693 00:24:25,880 --> 00:24:26,880 Yeah. 694 00:24:26,880 --> 00:24:29,960 I think it was a car or we were going somewhere. 695 00:24:29,960 --> 00:24:31,440 Did y'all come to pick me up for something? 696 00:24:31,440 --> 00:24:36,160 No, the first time you'd ever been over here was on Sunday, right? 697 00:24:36,160 --> 00:24:37,160 Here at this place? 698 00:24:37,160 --> 00:24:38,160 Yeah. 699 00:24:38,160 --> 00:24:39,160 No, this is the first time I've ever been to your place. 700 00:24:39,160 --> 00:24:40,160 No, I know, but to pick her up. 701 00:24:40,160 --> 00:24:41,160 In the car? 702 00:24:41,160 --> 00:24:42,160 Yes. 703 00:24:42,160 --> 00:24:43,160 Yeah. 704 00:24:43,160 --> 00:24:44,160 Mason and I were in the car together. 705 00:24:44,160 --> 00:24:45,160 But we were on the way back. 706 00:24:45,160 --> 00:24:46,160 Back from. 707 00:24:46,160 --> 00:24:47,160 From UAB. 708 00:24:47,160 --> 00:24:48,160 No. 709 00:24:48,160 --> 00:24:50,520 We went to, did we go to Rosen DJ's or something? 710 00:24:50,520 --> 00:24:51,520 He's never been there. 711 00:24:51,520 --> 00:24:52,520 No. 712 00:24:52,520 --> 00:24:53,520 Did we go to Santana's? 713 00:24:53,520 --> 00:24:54,760 You were never in the car with me. 714 00:24:54,760 --> 00:25:00,760 Well, maybe, I don't know where it was, but you were making some comments and I was like, 715 00:25:00,760 --> 00:25:01,880 whoa. 716 00:25:01,880 --> 00:25:06,440 And then I realized, I mean, I knew you were being sarcastic, but I was like, dang, this 717 00:25:06,440 --> 00:25:08,240 is like bold for a newbie. 718 00:25:08,240 --> 00:25:10,480 You know, like a newbie to the group. 719 00:25:10,480 --> 00:25:12,040 Like that's kind of bold. 720 00:25:12,040 --> 00:25:13,040 Were we just at Santana's? 721 00:25:13,040 --> 00:25:14,040 Because it was like very sarcastic. 722 00:25:14,040 --> 00:25:18,600 I was going to say it's like, cause the last few times it's been you, all of us at Santana's 723 00:25:18,600 --> 00:25:21,240 the first time and then the second time. 724 00:25:21,240 --> 00:25:23,400 And then we went to the UAB game. 725 00:25:23,400 --> 00:25:24,680 That's the only times I've met you? 726 00:25:24,680 --> 00:25:25,680 Yeah, I guess. 727 00:25:25,680 --> 00:25:26,680 Yeah. 728 00:25:26,680 --> 00:25:27,680 It's a launch party. 729 00:25:27,680 --> 00:25:29,200 And then I think it was this past weekend. 730 00:25:29,200 --> 00:25:30,200 And then. 731 00:25:30,200 --> 00:25:31,200 Is it only three times? 732 00:25:31,200 --> 00:25:32,200 It was Sunday and I went to the UAB game. 733 00:25:32,200 --> 00:25:33,200 And then today's the number four. 734 00:25:33,200 --> 00:25:34,200 Number four. 735 00:25:34,200 --> 00:25:35,200 That's our fourth date, Brandon. 736 00:25:35,200 --> 00:25:36,200 Let me jot this down real quick. 737 00:25:36,200 --> 00:25:37,200 It's a triple date. 738 00:25:37,200 --> 00:25:38,200 When we were in the car, I was like, I started cracking up when you said it. 739 00:25:38,200 --> 00:25:39,200 Cause I was like, oh my God, this is hilarious. 740 00:25:39,200 --> 00:25:40,200 I think it's funny, but like, I don't know. 741 00:25:40,200 --> 00:25:41,200 When I first heard you be like sarcastic, I was like, I couldn't see your face for, that's 742 00:25:41,200 --> 00:25:42,200 why I think we were in a car. 743 00:25:42,200 --> 00:25:43,200 Or maybe you were in the car with me and he was on speaker phone or something. 744 00:25:43,200 --> 00:25:44,200 Maybe that's what it was. 745 00:25:44,200 --> 00:25:45,200 I don't know. 746 00:25:45,200 --> 00:25:46,200 There's a high probability to that. 747 00:25:46,200 --> 00:25:47,200 Yeah, but I couldn't see your face. 748 00:25:47,200 --> 00:25:48,200 I was like, I don't know. 749 00:25:48,200 --> 00:26:03,200 He is bold. 750 00:26:03,200 --> 00:26:05,200 And then I thought it was funny. 751 00:26:05,200 --> 00:26:06,200 That's what I'm saying. 752 00:26:06,200 --> 00:26:07,200 Oh, I mean, but I can tell you're just like a sarcastic, you know what? 753 00:26:07,200 --> 00:26:08,200 Maybe a whole. 754 00:26:08,200 --> 00:26:09,200 What? 755 00:26:09,200 --> 00:26:10,200 Oh, okay. 756 00:26:10,200 --> 00:26:11,200 I don't know. 757 00:26:11,200 --> 00:26:12,200 I don't know. 758 00:26:12,200 --> 00:26:13,200 I don't know. 759 00:26:13,200 --> 00:26:14,200 I don't know. 760 00:26:14,200 --> 00:26:15,200 I don't know. 761 00:26:15,200 --> 00:26:20,200 I don't know what it could be. 762 00:26:20,200 --> 00:26:23,200 I'm like, I don't know. 763 00:26:23,200 --> 00:26:25,580 I'm trying to get a cursing spelling bee. 764 00:26:25,580 --> 00:26:26,580 One, one, one podcast. 765 00:26:26,580 --> 00:26:27,580 That'd be hilarious. 766 00:26:27,580 --> 00:26:30,580 What if, because like all those words are easy. 767 00:26:30,580 --> 00:26:32,400 They're like three letter words. 768 00:26:32,400 --> 00:26:33,400 Four letter words. 769 00:26:33,400 --> 00:26:34,720 Why are you rolling your eyes? 770 00:26:34,720 --> 00:26:38,100 I spelled ashtray wrong in the second grade spelling bee. 771 00:26:38,100 --> 00:26:39,980 Did you spell it as s tray? 772 00:26:39,980 --> 00:26:43,060 No, I s I forgot the h ashtray. 773 00:26:43,060 --> 00:26:44,060 Tway. 774 00:26:44,060 --> 00:26:45,060 Ashtray. 775 00:26:45,060 --> 00:26:46,060 Ashtray. 776 00:26:46,060 --> 00:26:47,060 Ass-tray. 777 00:26:47,060 --> 00:26:48,060 So it's A-S-tray. 778 00:26:48,060 --> 00:26:49,060 Yeah. 779 00:26:49,060 --> 00:26:50,060 No, wait. 780 00:26:50,060 --> 00:26:51,060 Ass-tway. 781 00:26:51,060 --> 00:26:52,060 Yeah. 782 00:26:52,060 --> 00:26:53,060 You said tway, like T-W-A-Y. 783 00:26:53,060 --> 00:26:54,060 I don't know. 784 00:26:54,060 --> 00:26:59,060 Because you're a child, you had tway? 785 00:26:59,060 --> 00:27:05,140 Yeah, I guess, but also fuck everybody in second grade for giving that to a child to 786 00:27:05,140 --> 00:27:06,140 spell. 787 00:27:06,140 --> 00:27:07,140 Jerks. 788 00:27:07,140 --> 00:27:08,140 Well, honey, guess what? 789 00:27:08,140 --> 00:27:13,900 When I was young, and you people cannot judge me for this because I did not know any better. 790 00:27:13,900 --> 00:27:15,620 I grew up in Alabama, okay. 791 00:27:15,620 --> 00:27:17,260 Where are we going with this? 792 00:27:17,260 --> 00:27:18,260 I know. 793 00:27:18,260 --> 00:27:19,260 But listen, so I was in Nashville one time with my family. 794 00:27:19,260 --> 00:27:21,380 How hard on the pain are we going? 795 00:27:21,380 --> 00:27:24,020 And we were staying at this really nice hotel. 796 00:27:24,020 --> 00:27:25,180 It's like on a railroad track. 797 00:27:25,180 --> 00:27:26,580 I forgot what it's called. 798 00:27:26,580 --> 00:27:28,860 And I saw homeless people outside. 799 00:27:28,860 --> 00:27:31,140 And I'm like a tiny little girl. 800 00:27:31,140 --> 00:27:38,580 And I looked at my mom and dad and I'm like, look, mommy and daddy, it's the homos. 801 00:27:38,580 --> 00:27:39,580 Look at the homos. 802 00:27:39,580 --> 00:27:42,260 And I get like, and my mom and dad were like, what? 803 00:27:42,260 --> 00:27:43,260 The what? 804 00:27:43,260 --> 00:27:44,260 I was like the homos. 805 00:27:44,260 --> 00:27:46,100 They were like, oh my God. 806 00:27:46,100 --> 00:27:51,300 I meant to say hobo, but I thought it was home. 807 00:27:51,300 --> 00:27:52,780 I thought it meant like a home. 808 00:27:52,780 --> 00:27:54,340 Oh, like homeless home. 809 00:27:54,340 --> 00:27:57,820 Oh, like, you know, like you put like, oh, at the end of stuff that you don't have, like 810 00:27:57,820 --> 00:27:59,580 homo. 811 00:27:59,580 --> 00:28:03,300 But I kept saying homo and they just like, they think it's like hilarious that I thought 812 00:28:03,300 --> 00:28:06,980 that hobos were homos. 813 00:28:06,980 --> 00:28:09,180 But also it's like really terrible at the same time. 814 00:28:09,180 --> 00:28:11,740 I'm like, oh God. 815 00:28:11,740 --> 00:28:13,420 I was the worst child. 816 00:28:13,420 --> 00:28:14,420 I didn't mean it. 817 00:28:14,420 --> 00:28:15,420 I didn't know any better. 818 00:28:15,420 --> 00:28:16,420 OK, so. 819 00:28:16,420 --> 00:28:17,420 All right. 820 00:28:17,420 --> 00:28:18,420 So we. 821 00:28:18,420 --> 00:28:19,420 Onto the next. 822 00:28:19,420 --> 00:28:20,420 Yes. 823 00:28:20,420 --> 00:28:21,420 Onto the next one. 824 00:28:21,420 --> 00:28:22,420 Let's do this. 825 00:28:22,420 --> 00:28:23,420 OK. 826 00:28:23,420 --> 00:28:24,420 What one word would your family use to describe you? 827 00:28:24,420 --> 00:28:27,100 I feel like that'd be two of them. 828 00:28:27,100 --> 00:28:29,060 Bear or ADHD, even though it's an acronym. 829 00:28:29,060 --> 00:28:30,060 Oh my God. 830 00:28:30,060 --> 00:28:32,580 He was, I knew, I was thinking in my head, he already told us bear. 831 00:28:32,580 --> 00:28:35,260 Or ADHD, which is an acronym. 832 00:28:35,260 --> 00:28:36,740 And they describe you as ADHD. 833 00:28:36,740 --> 00:28:37,740 Yeah. 834 00:28:37,740 --> 00:28:38,740 You can't bear. 835 00:28:38,740 --> 00:28:39,740 I don't think bear qualifies. 836 00:28:39,740 --> 00:28:40,740 OK, fine. 837 00:28:40,740 --> 00:28:41,740 I'm not really a bear. 838 00:28:41,740 --> 00:28:42,740 I feel like you're like a comedian. 839 00:28:42,740 --> 00:28:43,740 You're like laid back. 840 00:28:43,740 --> 00:28:44,740 Laid back. 841 00:28:44,740 --> 00:28:45,740 Smoking on. 842 00:28:45,740 --> 00:28:46,740 Sipping on gin and juice. 843 00:28:46,740 --> 00:28:47,740 Laid back with my mind on my money and my money on my mind. 844 00:28:47,740 --> 00:28:48,740 That's how I feel about you. 845 00:28:48,740 --> 00:28:49,740 I'm Snoop Dogg. 846 00:28:49,740 --> 00:28:50,740 I'm Snoop Dogg. 847 00:28:50,740 --> 00:28:51,740 That's not Snoop Dogg though. 848 00:28:51,740 --> 00:28:52,740 Yes, it is. 849 00:28:52,740 --> 00:28:57,740 We did this the other day on that show thing and I won and everybody remember. 850 00:28:57,740 --> 00:28:58,740 Yeah, but. 851 00:28:58,740 --> 00:28:59,740 Oh, you weren't there. 852 00:28:59,740 --> 00:29:00,740 You weren't there. 853 00:29:00,740 --> 00:29:01,740 Yeah, but it was a good show. 854 00:29:01,740 --> 00:29:02,740 I was like, oh, I'm going to be a comedian. 855 00:29:02,740 --> 00:29:03,740 I'm going to be a comedian. 856 00:29:03,740 --> 00:29:04,740 I'm going to be a comedian. 857 00:29:04,740 --> 00:29:05,740 I'm going to be a comedian. 858 00:29:05,740 --> 00:29:06,740 I'm going to be a comedian. 859 00:29:06,740 --> 00:29:10,740 I'm going to be a comedian and everybody remember. 860 00:29:10,740 --> 00:29:11,740 Oh, you weren't there. 861 00:29:11,740 --> 00:29:12,740 You weren't there. 862 00:29:12,740 --> 00:29:13,740 Yeah, but isn't it with Blues Travelers too? 863 00:29:13,740 --> 00:29:14,740 Blues Travelers? 864 00:29:14,740 --> 00:29:15,740 No. 865 00:29:15,740 --> 00:29:18,740 We need to cut that out because that's embarrassing. 866 00:29:18,740 --> 00:29:23,740 Or keep it in because that's embarrassing. 867 00:29:23,740 --> 00:29:26,740 There is a version that's not. 868 00:29:26,740 --> 00:29:27,740 It's not Blues Travelers. 869 00:29:27,740 --> 00:29:28,740 Who is it? 870 00:29:28,740 --> 00:29:31,740 I know what you're talking about, but yeah. 871 00:29:31,740 --> 00:29:34,740 And it's not OAR either with Crazy Game of Poker. 872 00:29:34,740 --> 00:29:36,740 It's something else. 873 00:29:36,740 --> 00:29:37,740 Anyways. 874 00:29:37,740 --> 00:29:38,740 All right. 875 00:29:38,740 --> 00:29:39,740 So I'm going to ask the next one then. 876 00:29:39,740 --> 00:29:40,740 Go. 877 00:29:40,740 --> 00:29:41,740 All right. 878 00:29:41,740 --> 00:29:42,740 You have to listen. 879 00:29:42,740 --> 00:29:43,740 Okay. 880 00:29:43,740 --> 00:29:44,740 Look at my face. 881 00:29:44,740 --> 00:29:50,240 What's a lesson you learned from either your last relationship or just you learned from 882 00:29:50,240 --> 00:29:57,500 any relationship in general that you want to, I guess, do differently or what have you 883 00:29:57,500 --> 00:29:58,500 moving forward? 884 00:29:58,500 --> 00:29:59,500 That's a lot. 885 00:29:59,500 --> 00:30:02,740 I think that's the part where I'm, I told you. 886 00:30:02,740 --> 00:30:09,620 I mean, like, I think that's what I've had a lot of shit relationships. 887 00:30:09,620 --> 00:30:12,740 Some on my part, some on the other, the girls part. 888 00:30:12,740 --> 00:30:13,740 Some on the Heather? 889 00:30:13,740 --> 00:30:14,740 Heather. 890 00:30:14,740 --> 00:30:15,740 The other. 891 00:30:15,740 --> 00:30:16,740 Other. 892 00:30:16,740 --> 00:30:19,740 I thought you said the Heather, like that was her, the girls name. 893 00:30:19,740 --> 00:30:20,740 It sounded like that. 894 00:30:20,740 --> 00:30:21,740 Yeah. 895 00:30:21,740 --> 00:30:22,740 And I was like, dang, called out. 896 00:30:22,740 --> 00:30:23,740 Okay. 897 00:30:23,740 --> 00:30:29,780 But I think in the past relationships, I think it's always been about patience is a really 898 00:30:29,780 --> 00:30:30,780 important one. 899 00:30:30,780 --> 00:30:32,580 That you don't have a lot of? 900 00:30:32,580 --> 00:30:34,180 No, I think I got a lot of patience. 901 00:30:34,180 --> 00:30:35,180 Well, I do too. 902 00:30:35,180 --> 00:30:36,180 That's why I'm asking. 903 00:30:36,180 --> 00:30:41,540 Um, I think you need a lot of that going into a relationship because you may not always 904 00:30:41,540 --> 00:30:46,580 agree with somebody and you need to be patient enough to, and then also communicate about 905 00:30:46,580 --> 00:30:49,420 what it is that you're trying to explain to people. 906 00:30:49,420 --> 00:30:53,140 And I know sometimes I come off pretty articulate, but then there's other times where I'm trying 907 00:30:53,140 --> 00:30:56,360 to explain something and I have no idea how to express it. 908 00:30:56,360 --> 00:31:00,700 And I am guilty of that many times in my life. 909 00:31:00,700 --> 00:31:04,060 Or many years where I just try, I'm trying to talk to somebody and I'm trying to say 910 00:31:04,060 --> 00:31:08,140 something and I just can't find the words. 911 00:31:08,140 --> 00:31:11,540 Uh, so patience and communication is definitely huge. 912 00:31:11,540 --> 00:31:14,060 We, you and I talk about that all the time. 913 00:31:14,060 --> 00:31:20,940 And then also just openness and like entirely openness, like mentally, physically, and emotionally, 914 00:31:20,940 --> 00:31:24,540 just be open about, just tell people what you're thinking and how you're feeling and 915 00:31:24,540 --> 00:31:26,180 just be out with it. 916 00:31:26,180 --> 00:31:31,020 And I think all those past relationships I've had, I've kind of got to the point where, 917 00:31:31,020 --> 00:31:36,600 you know, over this past years, the last couple of years of between therapy and own personal 918 00:31:36,600 --> 00:31:39,540 thinking and enlightenment or however you want to paint it, I've just kind of got to 919 00:31:39,540 --> 00:31:43,460 the point where I just go like, this is what I want to do in my relationship now. 920 00:31:43,460 --> 00:31:47,540 And this is how I want to move forward in my life as a person. 921 00:31:47,540 --> 00:31:49,700 And you and I connect on that way. 922 00:31:49,700 --> 00:31:53,140 And there's sometimes I try to do that with people at work or whatever the case may be. 923 00:31:53,140 --> 00:31:58,260 And it doesn't work very well because some people, not everybody's open. 924 00:31:58,260 --> 00:31:59,260 I agree with that. 925 00:31:59,260 --> 00:32:00,260 Yeah. 926 00:32:00,260 --> 00:32:01,260 I mean, that's totally fair. 927 00:32:01,260 --> 00:32:02,260 And that's sad. 928 00:32:02,260 --> 00:32:04,380 Cause there's sometimes you want to talk to people about stuff and they just don't want 929 00:32:04,380 --> 00:32:05,380 to listen to you. 930 00:32:05,380 --> 00:32:06,380 They just go, okay, cool. 931 00:32:06,380 --> 00:32:07,380 Thanks. 932 00:32:07,380 --> 00:32:08,380 And then they just turn around and walk away. 933 00:32:08,380 --> 00:32:10,180 And I was like, man, I was trying to have a deep conversation. 934 00:32:10,180 --> 00:32:11,180 Well, sometimes, okay. 935 00:32:11,180 --> 00:32:16,460 So like, I felt like right now you were deep conversationing with us and I kind of picked 936 00:32:16,460 --> 00:32:19,400 up my phone and it may have, yeah, I know. 937 00:32:19,400 --> 00:32:23,220 And it may have come off as me not wanting, but I just picked it up really quick because 938 00:32:23,220 --> 00:32:25,980 I got a text message and I read it. 939 00:32:25,980 --> 00:32:29,140 And then I thought it might be important, but it wasn't important. 940 00:32:29,140 --> 00:32:30,140 But I was listening to you. 941 00:32:30,140 --> 00:32:31,140 That sucks. 942 00:32:31,140 --> 00:32:35,820 Sometimes it, you may not think that other people want to like listen and have that conversation, 943 00:32:35,820 --> 00:32:40,820 but maybe they, maybe they're coming off as sometimes people's vibes don't show what they're 944 00:32:40,820 --> 00:32:45,860 actually like thinking, which I've, I've tried to get better at sometimes, you know, like 945 00:32:45,860 --> 00:32:50,300 understanding that people, just because somebody has this like look on their face, but also 946 00:32:50,300 --> 00:32:56,980 we as human beings need to get better as at showing that we like, instead of like being 947 00:32:56,980 --> 00:33:01,540 like, okay, well my, maybe my vibe, the way that I look and the way that I present myself 948 00:33:01,540 --> 00:33:05,920 in my body language doesn't look like that, but I am listening, but we need to get better 949 00:33:05,920 --> 00:33:10,500 at like doing the body language that goes with it because it helps body language is 950 00:33:10,500 --> 00:33:11,500 way better. 951 00:33:11,500 --> 00:33:14,500 I mean, I think that I've, I'm sorry. 952 00:33:14,500 --> 00:33:19,780 Well, what I was going to say is I think no offense, but I mean, this is also a huge distraction 953 00:33:19,780 --> 00:33:20,780 and it is terrible. 954 00:33:20,780 --> 00:33:24,220 And then not only is this a huge distraction, but this is also a great escape. 955 00:33:24,220 --> 00:33:28,700 So here I am trying to have a deep conversation with you about something and how easy is it 956 00:33:28,700 --> 00:33:32,420 for you to pick up or pull it out of your pocket and just fucking zone out while I'm 957 00:33:32,420 --> 00:33:35,460 trying to talk to you about something like, Hey, your dog did this. 958 00:33:35,460 --> 00:33:36,460 What's up? 959 00:33:36,460 --> 00:33:40,580 And you're just like, whatever, you know, and what's being referenced right now is pulling 960 00:33:40,580 --> 00:33:42,620 your phone out in the middle of a conversation. 961 00:33:42,620 --> 00:33:43,620 Yeah. 962 00:33:43,620 --> 00:33:45,780 I mean, that's not a dig at you. 963 00:33:45,780 --> 00:33:46,780 I'm just saying like in reference. 964 00:33:46,780 --> 00:33:47,780 No, no, no. 965 00:33:47,780 --> 00:33:50,660 And I called myself out on that because I did that. 966 00:33:50,660 --> 00:33:55,820 And Sarah used to do that a lot with our podcasting and I would like ask her a question and she'd 967 00:33:55,820 --> 00:33:58,340 be like, like you did earlier. 968 00:33:58,340 --> 00:34:01,260 And I'd be like, Sarah, you're not allowed to have your phone. 969 00:34:01,260 --> 00:34:02,260 And she's done so good. 970 00:34:02,260 --> 00:34:03,740 I'm like really applauding you right now. 971 00:34:03,740 --> 00:34:10,540 Like round of applause because she has done so good at like realizing she does. 972 00:34:10,540 --> 00:34:14,820 She takes good like constructive criticism. 973 00:34:14,820 --> 00:34:16,300 Thank you. 974 00:34:16,300 --> 00:34:17,300 Yeah. 975 00:34:17,300 --> 00:34:20,020 Sometimes, sometimes it's not like constructive criticism. 976 00:34:20,020 --> 00:34:22,700 I'm just like, Sarah, put your phone away. 977 00:34:22,700 --> 00:34:25,260 Well, I mean, I appreciate that. 978 00:34:25,260 --> 00:34:32,180 But like, I think it's one of those things where you and I are very open with each other 979 00:34:32,180 --> 00:34:35,900 and that is just the friendship that we have. 980 00:34:35,900 --> 00:34:41,260 And anytime that you tell me, you know, something like that, like I try to really soak it in 981 00:34:41,260 --> 00:34:46,660 and make a point of being better about whatever it is that like I need to do different. 982 00:34:46,660 --> 00:34:47,660 Yeah. 983 00:34:47,660 --> 00:34:48,660 Because I'm not going to tell you something like dumb. 984 00:34:48,660 --> 00:34:53,700 Like I'm not going to be like, hey, if you were like only did it once or something, I'd 985 00:34:53,700 --> 00:34:55,700 be like, no, that's okay. 986 00:34:55,700 --> 00:34:56,700 Yeah. 987 00:34:56,700 --> 00:34:59,300 I think that's the other problem is what is this? 988 00:34:59,300 --> 00:35:00,300 Catching vibes. 989 00:35:00,300 --> 00:35:04,180 You know, like you're trying to have a conversation with her about something or whatever the case 990 00:35:04,180 --> 00:35:08,140 may be, or you're trying to talk to somebody else at work or something. 991 00:35:08,140 --> 00:35:11,500 And it was like, maybe they're just not vibing the same way. 992 00:35:11,500 --> 00:35:12,500 Right. 993 00:35:12,500 --> 00:35:14,340 And sometimes people have other things on their mind. 994 00:35:14,340 --> 00:35:15,340 Yeah. 995 00:35:15,340 --> 00:35:16,340 And especially at work. 996 00:35:16,340 --> 00:35:19,500 Like sometimes I'll be in a meeting and I'll be like, like today that happened today, I 997 00:35:19,500 --> 00:35:22,260 was in this meeting for this like training for the same. 998 00:35:22,260 --> 00:35:27,020 And I was like, in my head, I kept telling me, telling myself, be present, be present, 999 00:35:27,020 --> 00:35:28,020 be present. 1000 00:35:28,020 --> 00:35:31,460 Do not think about all these other things that you have to do when you really don't 1001 00:35:31,460 --> 00:35:32,460 need to be doing this. 1002 00:35:32,460 --> 00:35:34,140 You already know how to do this. 1003 00:35:34,140 --> 00:35:39,620 But I, and it was, it was helpful because I actually learned like some, I didn't learn 1004 00:35:39,620 --> 00:35:44,820 it at anything new, but I learned how this like new little organization works sort of. 1005 00:35:44,820 --> 00:35:47,500 So and I was able to ask questions and things like that. 1006 00:35:47,500 --> 00:35:52,460 But like it's, it's hard when you have a million things going on and being an adult, being 1007 00:35:52,460 --> 00:35:54,060 an adult sucks. 1008 00:35:54,060 --> 00:35:58,460 They told me, so I don't want to go back to like living in high school where I can't like 1009 00:35:58,460 --> 00:36:00,740 do what I want to do. 1010 00:36:00,740 --> 00:36:06,580 But I mean, it might be nice sometimes like for the, like, like six months out of the 1011 00:36:06,580 --> 00:36:08,580 year. 1012 00:36:08,580 --> 00:36:21,740 I think it's important to learn the things that can be helpful for you, whether it be 1013 00:36:21,740 --> 00:36:30,140 through therapy, self-development, self-reflection, whatever it is, or even like a review at work, 1014 00:36:30,140 --> 00:36:34,380 you know, constructive criticism is perfectly fine. 1015 00:36:34,380 --> 00:36:37,340 And sometimes you have to do that with yourself and that's one of the hardest things that 1016 00:36:37,340 --> 00:36:38,340 you have to do. 1017 00:36:38,340 --> 00:36:39,340 Yeah. 1018 00:36:39,340 --> 00:36:40,340 Check yourself. 1019 00:36:40,340 --> 00:36:41,340 Yeah, for sure. 1020 00:36:41,340 --> 00:36:49,500 I mean, I think as far as being in a new relationship, that is one thing that like I've definitely 1021 00:36:49,500 --> 00:36:58,180 had to do here as of late is either say what I'm feeling as far as like today, I was feeling 1022 00:36:58,180 --> 00:37:00,980 very overwhelmed and very anxious. 1023 00:37:00,980 --> 00:37:05,620 The moving situation, there's boxes all over my apartment. 1024 00:37:05,620 --> 00:37:09,300 My apartment has never looked like this before and it's killing me. 1025 00:37:09,300 --> 00:37:10,300 I hate it. 1026 00:37:10,300 --> 00:37:12,780 It's only because you haven't moved in like 15 years. 1027 00:37:12,780 --> 00:37:14,420 I know that. 1028 00:37:14,420 --> 00:37:15,700 I know. 1029 00:37:15,700 --> 00:37:17,140 But like it's really killing me. 1030 00:37:17,140 --> 00:37:24,540 Like it's my vibes are like all the time right now because I'm just over it. 1031 00:37:24,540 --> 00:37:25,540 I want to move. 1032 00:37:25,540 --> 00:37:26,540 I want to get done with. 1033 00:37:26,540 --> 00:37:28,140 I want to get back organized. 1034 00:37:28,140 --> 00:37:31,300 I want everything to be in its proper place. 1035 00:37:31,300 --> 00:37:38,460 And then, you know, I have Brandon staying with me sporadically and it's new. 1036 00:37:38,460 --> 00:37:39,460 Yeah. 1037 00:37:39,460 --> 00:37:43,380 And sometimes it's like overwhelming. 1038 00:37:43,380 --> 00:37:47,140 And then also this podcast is new and it's like we spent a lot of time doing this. 1039 00:37:47,140 --> 00:37:48,140 Well, hell yeah. 1040 00:37:48,140 --> 00:37:52,540 And then having him come tonight, I'm like, oh my God, what? 1041 00:37:52,540 --> 00:37:54,940 I'm like, ugh. 1042 00:37:54,940 --> 00:37:55,940 I don't know. 1043 00:37:55,940 --> 00:37:56,940 I don't know. 1044 00:37:56,940 --> 00:37:59,460 But why are you so like, don't you think this is going here? 1045 00:37:59,460 --> 00:38:00,460 I know. 1046 00:38:00,460 --> 00:38:01,460 But don't you think this has gone great? 1047 00:38:01,460 --> 00:38:02,460 Like, I think it's gone so well. 1048 00:38:02,460 --> 00:38:05,940 Like, haven't you learned new stuff about him? 1049 00:38:05,940 --> 00:38:06,940 Absolutely I have. 1050 00:38:06,940 --> 00:38:14,020 And but I also like sent a text message today because I felt myself being like disconnected 1051 00:38:14,020 --> 00:38:17,260 a little bit and like not my normal communicative self. 1052 00:38:17,260 --> 00:38:18,260 Yeah. 1053 00:38:18,260 --> 00:38:19,260 And I was like, I'm really sorry. 1054 00:38:19,260 --> 00:38:20,820 I'm being quiet today. 1055 00:38:20,820 --> 00:38:23,340 Here's how I'm feeling. 1056 00:38:23,340 --> 00:38:24,340 You know, whatever. 1057 00:38:24,340 --> 00:38:26,500 I'm going to talk through it and we're fine. 1058 00:38:26,500 --> 00:38:27,740 Well, that's nice that you do that. 1059 00:38:27,740 --> 00:38:28,740 I don't do that. 1060 00:38:28,740 --> 00:38:32,500 If somebody if I'm just being quiet, I'm like, I'm quiet because I'm quiet. 1061 00:38:32,500 --> 00:38:35,460 And like if somebody wants to know why I'm quiet, they can ask. 1062 00:38:35,460 --> 00:38:40,100 Well, what I loved about that text message was like her and I talked throughout the day 1063 00:38:40,100 --> 00:38:42,900 because, you know, we have different jobs and stuff. 1064 00:38:42,900 --> 00:38:47,920 But I mean, like, I never thought for a second that you were being quiet at all. 1065 00:38:47,920 --> 00:38:49,460 Like it was just like we were just doing. 1066 00:38:49,460 --> 00:38:51,460 I felt that in myself, though. 1067 00:38:51,460 --> 00:38:52,460 Yeah. 1068 00:38:52,460 --> 00:38:55,860 And I was so when she finally sent me a text message about like, hey, I'm sorry for being 1069 00:38:55,860 --> 00:38:57,940 disconnected or quiet and so on and so forth. 1070 00:38:57,940 --> 00:38:58,940 I'm just going through a lot. 1071 00:38:58,940 --> 00:39:01,380 And I just finally went, OK, well, what's going on? 1072 00:39:01,380 --> 00:39:02,380 Like talk to me. 1073 00:39:02,380 --> 00:39:05,460 And then she sends me this text about everything that's going on. 1074 00:39:05,460 --> 00:39:07,500 And I was just like, oh, OK. 1075 00:39:07,500 --> 00:39:09,540 And then, you know, we talked it out and all this other stuff. 1076 00:39:09,540 --> 00:39:10,860 And I was like, I'm right here. 1077 00:39:10,860 --> 00:39:12,860 So I was like, wherever you need, just let me know. 1078 00:39:12,860 --> 00:39:14,300 I was like, you need help moving. 1079 00:39:14,300 --> 00:39:15,300 Let's go. 1080 00:39:15,300 --> 00:39:16,300 You haven't asked me, but I'm here. 1081 00:39:16,300 --> 00:39:17,300 Let's do it. 1082 00:39:17,300 --> 00:39:18,300 Oh, no, I need all the help. 1083 00:39:18,300 --> 00:39:19,300 You haven't asked me either. 1084 00:39:19,300 --> 00:39:24,020 And I thought about that the other day when you were like, I can't go to whatever we were 1085 00:39:24,020 --> 00:39:27,580 going like Jessica asked us to go to the thing. 1086 00:39:27,580 --> 00:39:28,860 And you were like, I have to pack. 1087 00:39:28,860 --> 00:39:29,860 You said no. 1088 00:39:29,860 --> 00:39:30,860 You said I need to pack. 1089 00:39:30,860 --> 00:39:33,980 And I was like, oh, she just said she needed to pack. 1090 00:39:33,980 --> 00:39:37,740 So like that doesn't mean I was going to send a message back and be like, well, that didn't 1091 00:39:37,740 --> 00:39:40,860 mean you have to pack so you can still come. 1092 00:39:40,860 --> 00:39:42,020 Well, I did. 1093 00:39:42,020 --> 00:39:48,460 So I guess in full transparency to the people on the podcast, last Thursday, I flew up to 1094 00:39:48,460 --> 00:39:56,420 Philly for my company holiday party and I flew right back on Friday and Emily came over 1095 00:39:56,420 --> 00:40:06,220 on Friday night and we edited the podcast for what is will drop tomorrow, not this one. 1096 00:40:06,220 --> 00:40:11,020 And then Saturday, I mean, Brandon stayed that night and he went up and got went to 1097 00:40:11,020 --> 00:40:15,840 work and I just needed like a low key day. 1098 00:40:15,840 --> 00:40:24,620 So like I was very weird about like my day and I got up and I like made breakfast and 1099 00:40:24,620 --> 00:40:26,180 hung out for a little while. 1100 00:40:26,180 --> 00:40:31,260 And then I would pause like whatever show I was watching and pack a little bit or organize 1101 00:40:31,260 --> 00:40:39,020 and throw things away and like whatever, you know, compartmentalize like boxes and whatever. 1102 00:40:39,020 --> 00:40:44,700 But I just took my time doing it because that's how I needed to get it done that day. 1103 00:40:44,700 --> 00:40:48,580 Well, I felt like I needed that day too, because I feel like I've been go, go, go, go, go, 1104 00:40:48,580 --> 00:40:49,580 go, go. 1105 00:40:49,580 --> 00:40:50,940 Yes, you should say I know. 1106 00:40:50,940 --> 00:40:52,420 Did you see what I said? 1107 00:40:52,420 --> 00:40:57,100 I was like, I was supposed to stay home and do laundry and clean my house and watch the 1108 00:40:57,100 --> 00:41:01,900 second season of what's this show called with Big Mouth? 1109 00:41:01,900 --> 00:41:02,900 No, no. 1110 00:41:02,900 --> 00:41:03,900 Rick and Morty. 1111 00:41:03,900 --> 00:41:05,900 No, is that a second season? 1112 00:41:05,900 --> 00:41:08,180 No, they have a lot of seasons. 1113 00:41:08,180 --> 00:41:10,220 What's the show? 1114 00:41:10,220 --> 00:41:13,060 It's got Katherine Heigl in it. 1115 00:41:13,060 --> 00:41:14,060 Oh, Firefly Lane. 1116 00:41:14,060 --> 00:41:15,060 Oh, Firefly Lane. 1117 00:41:15,060 --> 00:41:16,060 Seinfeld. 1118 00:41:16,060 --> 00:41:17,060 Oh my God. 1119 00:41:17,060 --> 00:41:18,060 Brandon, you're such a gem. 1120 00:41:18,060 --> 00:41:19,060 You're fired. 1121 00:41:19,060 --> 00:41:20,060 Is she not in that? 1122 00:41:20,060 --> 00:41:21,060 No. 1123 00:41:21,060 --> 00:41:22,060 Definitely not. 1124 00:41:22,060 --> 00:41:23,060 I think she was not born at that point. 1125 00:41:23,060 --> 00:41:24,060 Oh, that's Jason Alexander. 1126 00:41:24,060 --> 00:41:25,060 I was way off. 1127 00:41:25,060 --> 00:41:26,060 Oh my God. 1128 00:41:26,060 --> 00:41:27,060 Oh my God. 1129 00:41:27,060 --> 00:41:28,060 Oh my God. 1130 00:41:28,060 --> 00:41:29,060 Oh my God. 1131 00:41:29,060 --> 00:41:30,060 Oh my God. 1132 00:41:30,060 --> 00:41:31,060 Oh my God. 1133 00:41:31,060 --> 00:41:32,060 Yeah. 1134 00:41:32,060 --> 00:41:33,060 So yeah, Firefly Lane. 1135 00:41:33,060 --> 00:41:43,940 I started it and then like halfway through the first episode tech. 1136 00:41:43,940 --> 00:41:49,220 I was like 10 minutes in Jessica sends that message and I'm like, I'll come. 1137 00:41:49,220 --> 00:41:50,220 Of course I will. 1138 00:41:50,220 --> 00:41:51,220 I immediately responded. 1139 00:41:51,220 --> 00:41:56,500 I had a little bit of FOMO and I was like, maybe I should just like get in the shower 1140 00:41:56,500 --> 00:41:57,900 and then I want to go or whatever. 1141 00:41:57,900 --> 00:42:02,260 And I was like, no, I'm not because I knew what I needed to do. 1142 00:42:02,260 --> 00:42:04,180 And I'm glad you did that. 1143 00:42:04,180 --> 00:42:11,100 I did what I mostly, I honestly, I got home by like five o'clock or six o'clock or something. 1144 00:42:11,100 --> 00:42:13,100 Wait, that's not the same thing. 1145 00:42:13,100 --> 00:42:14,100 That was for the game. 1146 00:42:14,100 --> 00:42:19,100 I know I didn't, I didn't get home till like midnight maybe or later. 1147 00:42:19,100 --> 00:42:20,100 Later. 1148 00:42:20,100 --> 00:42:21,100 Was it later? 1149 00:42:21,100 --> 00:42:22,100 Yeah. 1150 00:42:22,100 --> 00:42:23,100 Boo. 1151 00:42:23,100 --> 00:42:24,100 For sure. 1152 00:42:24,100 --> 00:42:25,100 All right. 1153 00:42:25,100 --> 00:42:26,100 Anyways, we only have two questions left. 1154 00:42:26,100 --> 00:42:27,100 Let's do this. 1155 00:42:27,100 --> 00:42:28,100 I think we skipped one though. 1156 00:42:28,100 --> 00:42:29,100 No, you skipped a couple. 1157 00:42:29,100 --> 00:42:30,100 We ended up going back to them. 1158 00:42:30,100 --> 00:42:31,100 I have no idea what the questions are. 1159 00:42:31,100 --> 00:42:32,100 We ended up going back to them. 1160 00:42:32,100 --> 00:42:33,100 So the last, one of the last two is already, look, can I say this? 1161 00:42:33,100 --> 00:42:44,100 What I told you? 1162 00:42:44,100 --> 00:42:46,100 We, it's already out there. 1163 00:42:46,100 --> 00:42:47,100 I already said it. 1164 00:42:47,100 --> 00:42:49,100 Yeah, but you can say it again. 1165 00:42:49,100 --> 00:42:50,100 Okay. 1166 00:42:50,100 --> 00:42:55,100 Well, anyways, I said that I told Sarah before she, after you met, before I met you. 1167 00:42:55,100 --> 00:42:56,100 No, wait, where was it? 1168 00:42:56,100 --> 00:42:57,100 It was not. 1169 00:42:57,100 --> 00:42:58,100 It was after y'all first met. 1170 00:42:58,100 --> 00:42:59,100 No, it wasn't. 1171 00:42:59,100 --> 00:43:00,100 Yes, it was. 1172 00:43:00,100 --> 00:43:02,100 It was after they, y'all first met. 1173 00:43:02,100 --> 00:43:08,100 It was, I said, I have a feeling, cause you guys had that whole like, we were at your 1174 00:43:08,100 --> 00:43:09,100 parents' house, remember? 1175 00:43:09,100 --> 00:43:13,100 And then we came back and that was after your first date and everything. 1176 00:43:13,100 --> 00:43:14,100 I wasn't there. 1177 00:43:14,100 --> 00:43:15,100 And I was like- 1178 00:43:15,100 --> 00:43:17,100 You said it after we met. 1179 00:43:17,100 --> 00:43:18,100 After you met, yes. 1180 00:43:18,100 --> 00:43:19,100 Okay. 1181 00:43:19,100 --> 00:43:20,100 After you met. 1182 00:43:20,100 --> 00:43:21,100 I said, okay. 1183 00:43:21,100 --> 00:43:22,100 After you first met and everything. 1184 00:43:22,100 --> 00:43:27,660 And I told Sarah, I was like, I don't know what conversation we were having, but she 1185 00:43:27,660 --> 00:43:28,660 told me something. 1186 00:43:28,660 --> 00:43:29,660 I don't know. 1187 00:43:29,660 --> 00:43:35,500 But I was like, I just got, I just had this feeling that this is it. 1188 00:43:35,500 --> 00:43:38,020 This is it for you. 1189 00:43:38,020 --> 00:43:40,140 And I have feelings. 1190 00:43:40,140 --> 00:43:41,140 I don't know. 1191 00:43:41,140 --> 00:43:42,140 I have good feelings. 1192 00:43:42,140 --> 00:43:45,260 And I think it is. 1193 00:43:45,260 --> 00:43:47,260 And I'm telling you, I don't know. 1194 00:43:47,260 --> 00:43:53,020 I'm not trying to say I have superpowers or anything, but I just have, I don't know what 1195 00:43:53,020 --> 00:43:54,020 to say. 1196 00:43:54,020 --> 00:43:55,020 You're empathic, is that what you're trying to say? 1197 00:43:55,020 --> 00:43:56,020 Possibly. 1198 00:43:56,020 --> 00:43:57,020 And people have told me that before. 1199 00:43:57,020 --> 00:44:00,300 But also, I don't know, I have good- 1200 00:44:00,300 --> 00:44:01,300 ESP. 1201 00:44:01,300 --> 00:44:02,300 I have a good read. 1202 00:44:02,300 --> 00:44:05,700 But I haven't even met you yet. 1203 00:44:05,700 --> 00:44:06,700 But I could tell- 1204 00:44:06,700 --> 00:44:07,700 That's what it was. 1205 00:44:07,700 --> 00:44:11,260 I had gone out with him, but you had not met him yet. 1206 00:44:11,260 --> 00:44:12,260 Okay. 1207 00:44:12,260 --> 00:44:13,260 Yeah. 1208 00:44:13,260 --> 00:44:14,620 And I was like, I don't know what you were going to do. 1209 00:44:14,620 --> 00:44:18,940 And I was like, Sarah, I can just tell you right now, I think based on the conversations, 1210 00:44:18,940 --> 00:44:25,980 she had been sharing some, not anything personal, she hadn't read your text messages, but this 1211 00:44:25,980 --> 00:44:27,420 is what girls do. 1212 00:44:27,420 --> 00:44:31,220 We talk about the new guys we're dating and stuff, and the things that she was sharing 1213 00:44:31,220 --> 00:44:34,060 with me, and the way that she was feeling and stuff like that. 1214 00:44:34,060 --> 00:44:40,260 And I was just like, I can just tell that she, this is it. 1215 00:44:40,260 --> 00:44:45,420 And I don't know about y'all, how y'all feel about it, but maybe it is, maybe it isn't. 1216 00:44:45,420 --> 00:44:47,000 We'll see how it goes. 1217 00:44:47,000 --> 00:44:48,100 And we'll see if I'm right. 1218 00:44:48,100 --> 00:44:49,100 If I am, dang. 1219 00:44:49,100 --> 00:44:53,620 Are you going to appreciate my wedding as well? 1220 00:44:53,620 --> 00:44:54,620 Sure. 1221 00:44:54,620 --> 00:44:56,100 I'm so going to start a company. 1222 00:44:56,100 --> 00:44:58,220 Oh shoot, I hit the lamp. 1223 00:44:58,220 --> 00:45:01,300 I'm going to start a company and we're going to like, but you have to be- 1224 00:45:01,300 --> 00:45:02,840 We should call it ride or die. 1225 00:45:02,840 --> 00:45:03,840 Ride or die. 1226 00:45:03,840 --> 00:45:04,840 Yeah. 1227 00:45:04,840 --> 00:45:05,840 Yeah. 1228 00:45:05,840 --> 00:45:06,840 Or like best friend versus life partner. 1229 00:45:06,840 --> 00:45:07,840 Life partner. 1230 00:45:07,840 --> 00:45:08,840 It's just the same thing. 1231 00:45:08,840 --> 00:45:09,840 But yeah. 1232 00:45:09,840 --> 00:45:10,840 So anyways. 1233 00:45:10,840 --> 00:45:11,840 Okay. 1234 00:45:11,840 --> 00:45:12,840 So we're going to do the life thing. 1235 00:45:12,840 --> 00:45:13,840 Are you mad? 1236 00:45:13,840 --> 00:45:14,840 Huh? 1237 00:45:14,840 --> 00:45:15,840 Are you mad? 1238 00:45:15,840 --> 00:45:16,840 Yeah. 1239 00:45:16,840 --> 00:45:17,840 Why are you mad? 1240 00:45:17,840 --> 00:45:18,840 Because you're not her best friend yet? 1241 00:45:18,840 --> 00:45:22,420 I don't care about being her best friend, but I mean, if I was to put somebody in a car 1242 00:45:22,420 --> 00:45:25,220 with me that was going to be my ride or die, she would be it. 1243 00:45:25,220 --> 00:45:26,220 I know. 1244 00:45:26,220 --> 00:45:27,220 I know. 1245 00:45:27,220 --> 00:45:28,220 I wouldn't even think twice about it. 1246 00:45:28,220 --> 00:45:30,420 But like I said, this is where we're different. 1247 00:45:30,420 --> 00:45:36,460 Listen, so do you, so Sarah has, and I don't know your past relationships and stuff. 1248 00:45:36,460 --> 00:45:37,460 Yeah. 1249 00:45:37,460 --> 00:45:40,460 And I'm not trying to get into Sarah's past relationships, but she's been burned sometimes. 1250 00:45:40,460 --> 00:45:41,460 Yeah, I know. 1251 00:45:41,460 --> 00:45:42,740 She's told me about them. 1252 00:45:42,740 --> 00:45:44,940 And it's been not great. 1253 00:45:44,940 --> 00:45:45,940 And we- 1254 00:45:45,940 --> 00:45:46,940 And she's had- 1255 00:45:46,940 --> 00:45:50,340 We still talk about that and I keep telling her, I was like, I'm not, I have no- 1256 00:45:50,340 --> 00:45:51,500 And I told her that. 1257 00:45:51,500 --> 00:45:57,180 I'm like, I told her, I'm like, she has had some bad ones and I have not met a lot of 1258 00:45:57,180 --> 00:45:58,180 them. 1259 00:45:58,180 --> 00:46:00,860 But I, and I haven't met any of them actually, have I? 1260 00:46:00,860 --> 00:46:01,860 Have I? 1261 00:46:01,860 --> 00:46:04,140 I don't think I've met any of them. 1262 00:46:04,140 --> 00:46:11,300 But this last dude, not you, obviously, the last dude, he was- 1263 00:46:11,300 --> 00:46:12,580 That's not even the worst. 1264 00:46:12,580 --> 00:46:13,580 Yeah. 1265 00:46:13,580 --> 00:46:14,920 He's not even the worst. 1266 00:46:14,920 --> 00:46:15,920 And he was bad. 1267 00:46:15,920 --> 00:46:18,840 Like it was, it was like toxic, like not good. 1268 00:46:18,840 --> 00:46:21,020 I think she just picked the wrong guys. 1269 00:46:21,020 --> 00:46:25,100 She finally found somebody that's good and I'm happy for her. 1270 00:46:25,100 --> 00:46:31,740 And she, but I don't think she realizes, she doesn't know how to, I don't know, maybe 1271 00:46:31,740 --> 00:46:34,660 I'm putting words and thoughts into you, but like- 1272 00:46:34,660 --> 00:46:36,780 No, I'm like, I want to hear what you have to say. 1273 00:46:36,780 --> 00:46:37,780 I'm sure. 1274 00:46:37,780 --> 00:46:42,100 I don't feel like you know how to, she's not, not know, she doesn't know how to, she knows 1275 00:46:42,100 --> 00:46:43,100 how to. 1276 00:46:43,100 --> 00:46:50,620 She isn't able to open up to you like that yet because it's so early and she needs some 1277 00:46:50,620 --> 00:46:53,340 time and it's going to take up and it's going to take a minute. 1278 00:46:53,340 --> 00:46:56,200 And I think y'all probably had conversations about this already. 1279 00:46:56,200 --> 00:47:00,720 And I think she gets very scared that she's going to get burned again. 1280 00:47:00,720 --> 00:47:01,720 And so- 1281 00:47:01,720 --> 00:47:02,720 We've had this conversation. 1282 00:47:02,720 --> 00:47:03,720 Yeah. 1283 00:47:03,720 --> 00:47:04,720 We've had this conversation. 1284 00:47:04,720 --> 00:47:05,720 And I am making this all up. 1285 00:47:05,720 --> 00:47:07,020 I haven't had this conversation with her at all. 1286 00:47:07,020 --> 00:47:08,020 No. 1287 00:47:08,020 --> 00:47:09,020 At all. 1288 00:47:09,020 --> 00:47:10,020 She hasn't. 1289 00:47:10,020 --> 00:47:11,020 I'm just making it up. 1290 00:47:11,020 --> 00:47:12,020 I don't know. 1291 00:47:12,020 --> 00:47:13,020 No, we've, we've had this- 1292 00:47:13,020 --> 00:47:15,540 This was, I mean, this was actually part of a text that I sent him today. 1293 00:47:15,540 --> 00:47:16,540 Yeah. 1294 00:47:16,540 --> 00:47:17,540 Really? 1295 00:47:17,540 --> 00:47:18,540 Okay. 1296 00:47:18,540 --> 00:47:19,540 Yeah. 1297 00:47:19,540 --> 00:47:20,540 Yeah. 1298 00:47:20,540 --> 00:47:24,620 And he sent that to me and I was like, I feel the exact same way, but I mean, like, what 1299 00:47:24,620 --> 00:47:28,460 did, I mean, I can't remember everything I said, but I was like, you know, it's like, 1300 00:47:28,460 --> 00:47:31,500 we've both gone through a lot or whatever, you know, we've talked about different things 1301 00:47:31,500 --> 00:47:32,500 in the past about it. 1302 00:47:32,500 --> 00:47:34,580 It's like, we've all gone through a lot and now we're in this point in our life right 1303 00:47:34,580 --> 00:47:40,820 now where I feel like we're both in good places and I feel like we're both mentally in good 1304 00:47:40,820 --> 00:47:43,340 places and emotionally. 1305 00:47:43,340 --> 00:47:45,900 And I feel like this is a good stuff for both of us. 1306 00:47:45,900 --> 00:47:51,140 You know, and then you say what you say, you know, usually you can agree with me. 1307 00:47:51,140 --> 00:47:57,500 And then, but we also fear that this is not, I say we were afraid of this, but not we're 1308 00:47:57,500 --> 00:47:59,860 afraid that this really is it. 1309 00:47:59,860 --> 00:48:01,220 And that's not a bad thing about it. 1310 00:48:01,220 --> 00:48:06,300 We just agree that we just both agree like this really is probably the both of us. 1311 00:48:06,300 --> 00:48:07,300 Yeah. 1312 00:48:07,300 --> 00:48:10,820 And it's scary to think that sometimes where it's just like, 1313 00:48:10,820 --> 00:48:20,860 it's scary to feel like this could be the great thing that we both think it is. 1314 00:48:20,860 --> 00:48:25,620 And then it not be, no, I wasn't even going to say that. 1315 00:48:25,620 --> 00:48:30,740 I was just going to say like, there's also a fear of the other shoe is going to drop 1316 00:48:30,740 --> 00:48:33,140 and it's going to be a shit storm. 1317 00:48:33,140 --> 00:48:34,420 And then where, what do you do? 1318 00:48:34,420 --> 00:48:39,500 But that's the thing is like you, Sarah, especially because I don't know how to let myself live 1319 00:48:39,500 --> 00:48:48,820 in the moment and 100% you need to, instead of being like, Oh no, he did this or something. 1320 00:48:48,820 --> 00:48:51,060 You'd be like, and that's a red flag or something. 1321 00:48:51,060 --> 00:48:52,060 Boom. 1322 00:48:52,060 --> 00:48:53,060 Oh my God. 1323 00:48:53,060 --> 00:48:54,060 I'm freaked out. 1324 00:48:54,060 --> 00:49:02,100 As she, I think that she, like you could say, you could, you could like, like poop in your 1325 00:49:02,100 --> 00:49:03,100 hand and not really. 1326 00:49:03,100 --> 00:49:04,100 Okay. 1327 00:49:04,100 --> 00:49:05,100 That was, that was, I don't know. 1328 00:49:05,100 --> 00:49:06,100 I'm so glad you brought this up. 1329 00:49:06,100 --> 00:49:07,100 You could do something. 1330 00:49:07,100 --> 00:49:08,100 All right. 1331 00:49:08,100 --> 00:49:09,700 Like poop in your hand. 1332 00:49:09,700 --> 00:49:10,700 No, poop in my hand. 1333 00:49:10,700 --> 00:49:11,700 I'm like, I don't know. 1334 00:49:11,700 --> 00:49:13,820 You could like do something really small. 1335 00:49:13,820 --> 00:49:14,820 You could like spill your drink. 1336 00:49:14,820 --> 00:49:15,820 Like poop in my hand? 1337 00:49:15,820 --> 00:49:16,820 Yes. 1338 00:49:16,820 --> 00:49:17,820 Like that's so small. 1339 00:49:17,820 --> 00:49:19,380 I hope that doesn't upset her. 1340 00:49:19,380 --> 00:49:23,420 You could like, you could like spill your drink or something. 1341 00:49:23,420 --> 00:49:27,620 And she would be like, Oh my God, he spills his drink. 1342 00:49:27,620 --> 00:49:29,780 I can't do this anymore. 1343 00:49:29,780 --> 00:49:35,620 But I think that's because she's scared that, and spilling your drink is a metaphor for 1344 00:49:35,620 --> 00:49:36,620 something else. 1345 00:49:36,620 --> 00:49:37,980 Like not a metaphor, but like, you know what I mean? 1346 00:49:37,980 --> 00:49:38,980 Like tea. 1347 00:49:38,980 --> 00:49:39,980 Yes. 1348 00:49:39,980 --> 00:49:40,980 Spill your tea. 1349 00:49:40,980 --> 00:49:41,980 No, not a tea. 1350 00:49:41,980 --> 00:49:42,980 No, that's not what I meant. 1351 00:49:42,980 --> 00:49:47,420 But she could, she would be like that and she needs to be talked down from the ledge 1352 00:49:47,420 --> 00:49:52,620 basically because she doesn't really, she does, she knows what she has, but she's scared 1353 00:49:52,620 --> 00:49:54,380 that she's going to get hurt. 1354 00:49:54,380 --> 00:50:04,180 But he's very good about allowing me with no judgment to voice my concerns, insecurities, 1355 00:50:04,180 --> 00:50:05,180 whatever. 1356 00:50:05,180 --> 00:50:06,180 Yes. 1357 00:50:06,180 --> 00:50:09,820 Which is why you need to stop freaking out so much. 1358 00:50:09,820 --> 00:50:12,820 I'm not freaking out. 1359 00:50:12,820 --> 00:50:15,300 I'm not freaking out. 1360 00:50:15,300 --> 00:50:16,500 So good. 1361 00:50:16,500 --> 00:50:23,540 I know this and, but that's, I'm happy that I can live in a Brandon. 1362 00:50:23,540 --> 00:50:29,180 Um, no, I think it's, it's just hard for me to live in this world where I am dating this 1363 00:50:29,180 --> 00:50:36,140 human that is very, very, very wonderful without feeling like the other shoe is going to dry 1364 00:50:36,140 --> 00:50:39,260 up and something is going to be terrible. 1365 00:50:39,260 --> 00:50:48,420 And I think even though I'm almost 35 years old, it's also scary to think that, and what 1366 00:50:48,420 --> 00:50:51,980 I think a lot of people would think is like a very short time period, even though we've 1367 00:50:51,980 --> 00:50:59,580 known each other for like over a year, that this could be, you know, my end all be all, 1368 00:50:59,580 --> 00:51:05,700 you know, and not in a negative way, but I think it's, it was me. 1369 00:51:05,700 --> 00:51:08,020 I think it's scary. 1370 00:51:08,020 --> 00:51:10,060 Did you fart? 1371 00:51:10,060 --> 00:51:14,340 No, my chair hit the table. 1372 00:51:14,340 --> 00:51:15,340 Jesus Christ. 1373 00:51:15,340 --> 00:51:16,340 No. 1374 00:51:16,340 --> 00:51:21,260 And like I said, we've had this conversation where it's like we, I agreed with you. 1375 00:51:21,260 --> 00:51:25,420 I just like, this is, I knew if I want to date with you, I would end up dating you. 1376 00:51:25,420 --> 00:51:26,420 I knew it. 1377 00:51:26,420 --> 00:51:31,220 And I told you, I was like, I knew that if we ended up dating, I would end up dating 1378 00:51:31,220 --> 00:51:32,220 you. 1379 00:51:32,220 --> 00:51:33,220 Like seriously. 1380 00:51:33,220 --> 00:51:39,140 And I think, but I think that that's one thing that like, I really appreciated about you 1381 00:51:39,140 --> 00:51:47,780 is even though we were in communication for a very long time, you did, you know, kind 1382 00:51:47,780 --> 00:51:51,660 of pump the brakes and put everything into perspective and be like, I don't know if I'm 1383 00:51:51,660 --> 00:51:52,660 staying here. 1384 00:51:52,660 --> 00:52:00,300 I don't know if I'm staying local and I don't want to, you know, do that to you or myself. 1385 00:52:00,300 --> 00:52:05,820 And I don't want to meet you and have something, you know, fantastic get started. 1386 00:52:05,820 --> 00:52:07,380 And then I have to go somewhere else. 1387 00:52:07,380 --> 00:52:09,380 No, I've told you that a couple of times. 1388 00:52:09,380 --> 00:52:10,380 Yeah. 1389 00:52:10,380 --> 00:52:11,380 And I was like, I don't want us to be dating. 1390 00:52:11,380 --> 00:52:15,100 And then it turns out there's this wonderful relationship starting or whatever it may be. 1391 00:52:15,100 --> 00:52:16,100 Yeah. 1392 00:52:16,100 --> 00:52:18,100 And then it's like, oh, by the way, I'm moving to Miami. 1393 00:52:18,100 --> 00:52:19,100 Thanks. 1394 00:52:19,100 --> 00:52:20,100 Yeah. 1395 00:52:20,100 --> 00:52:21,100 Cause I'm not living in Miami. 1396 00:52:21,100 --> 00:52:22,100 All right. 1397 00:52:22,100 --> 00:52:23,100 We have one, one question. 1398 00:52:23,100 --> 00:52:24,100 All right. 1399 00:52:24,100 --> 00:52:25,100 Yeah. 1400 00:52:25,100 --> 00:52:26,100 So I think that this is a good question. 1401 00:52:26,100 --> 00:52:27,100 I think we should do it. 1402 00:52:27,100 --> 00:52:28,100 Do you know your love language? 1403 00:52:28,100 --> 00:52:29,100 This is a Sarah thing. 1404 00:52:29,100 --> 00:52:31,860 And I don't, I can't remember mine, but I think I know what it is. 1405 00:52:31,860 --> 00:52:32,860 But do you know what it is? 1406 00:52:32,860 --> 00:52:33,860 Hold on, hold on. 1407 00:52:33,860 --> 00:52:34,860 He's smiling so big at me. 1408 00:52:34,860 --> 00:52:35,860 Does he even know what it is? 1409 00:52:35,860 --> 00:52:36,860 He doesn't know what it is. 1410 00:52:36,860 --> 00:52:37,860 We literally talked about this today. 1411 00:52:37,860 --> 00:52:38,860 I do talk about it today. 1412 00:52:38,860 --> 00:52:39,860 Sarah, what's my love language? 1413 00:52:39,860 --> 00:52:40,860 I have to... 1414 00:52:40,860 --> 00:52:41,860 No, you, I want you to tell me. 1415 00:52:41,860 --> 00:52:42,860 No, no, no. 1416 00:52:42,860 --> 00:52:47,620 Sarah knows because we literally just got done talking about this. 1417 00:52:47,620 --> 00:52:48,620 Did you take the test? 1418 00:52:48,620 --> 00:52:49,620 No. 1419 00:52:49,620 --> 00:52:50,620 Yeah. 1420 00:52:50,620 --> 00:52:53,580 But also at the same time, like my ex was really into it, which was really funny to 1421 00:52:53,580 --> 00:52:57,620 me because we had completely opposite love languages. 1422 00:52:57,620 --> 00:52:59,580 So, um... 1423 00:52:59,580 --> 00:53:00,580 Was her name Heather? 1424 00:53:00,580 --> 00:53:01,580 No. 1425 00:53:01,580 --> 00:53:02,580 No, no. 1426 00:53:02,580 --> 00:53:03,580 No, it's not. 1427 00:53:03,580 --> 00:53:04,580 Acts of service, physical touch. 1428 00:53:04,580 --> 00:53:05,580 You have three? 1429 00:53:05,580 --> 00:53:06,580 Yeah, everybody has three. 1430 00:53:06,580 --> 00:53:07,580 That's right, that's right. 1431 00:53:07,580 --> 00:53:08,580 You have two minors and one major. 1432 00:53:08,580 --> 00:53:09,580 I'm going to look minor. 1433 00:53:09,580 --> 00:53:10,580 I cannot believe I know this shit. 1434 00:53:10,580 --> 00:53:11,580 Hang on. 1435 00:53:11,580 --> 00:53:12,580 I don't know what third one is. 1436 00:53:12,580 --> 00:53:13,580 Gift giving, remember? 1437 00:53:13,580 --> 00:53:14,580 Yes. 1438 00:53:14,580 --> 00:53:15,580 Because I said if I ever brought you a tell you ride home. 1439 00:53:15,580 --> 00:53:16,580 Oh, yes. 1440 00:53:16,580 --> 00:53:17,580 Don't finish that sentence. 1441 00:53:17,580 --> 00:53:18,580 I'm going to look minor. 1442 00:53:18,580 --> 00:53:19,580 I'm going to look minor. 1443 00:53:19,580 --> 00:53:20,580 I'm going to look minor. 1444 00:53:20,580 --> 00:53:21,580 I'm going to look minor. 1445 00:53:21,580 --> 00:53:22,580 I'm going to look minor. 1446 00:53:22,580 --> 00:53:23,580 I'm going to look minor. 1447 00:53:23,580 --> 00:53:24,580 I'm going to look minor. 1448 00:53:24,580 --> 00:53:27,860 Don't finish that sentence. 1449 00:53:27,860 --> 00:53:29,860 I just left it at that. 1450 00:53:29,860 --> 00:53:30,860 Thank you. 1451 00:53:30,860 --> 00:53:34,580 But, but I ended up, I was like, these are my three love languages. 1452 00:53:34,580 --> 00:53:37,220 And I go, so I'm going to spoil you. 1453 00:53:37,220 --> 00:53:38,540 You're just going to have to fucking deal with it. 1454 00:53:38,540 --> 00:53:39,540 I have five. 1455 00:53:39,540 --> 00:53:40,540 Oh, well. 1456 00:53:40,540 --> 00:53:41,540 They're in, hold on. 1457 00:53:41,540 --> 00:53:42,540 These are old. 1458 00:53:42,540 --> 00:53:44,420 I don't think these are right. 1459 00:53:44,420 --> 00:53:45,420 There's like five or six. 1460 00:53:45,420 --> 00:53:46,420 Aren't there five love languages, period? 1461 00:53:46,420 --> 00:53:50,500 So, my first one, my top one is acts of service. 1462 00:53:50,500 --> 00:53:53,000 Minor words of affirmation. 1463 00:53:53,000 --> 00:53:54,000 And then, what's your next one? 1464 00:53:54,000 --> 00:53:55,740 You tell me all yours first. 1465 00:53:55,740 --> 00:53:58,820 Mine, my first one is words of affirmation. 1466 00:53:58,820 --> 00:54:03,500 My second, and this is what I need to receive, not what I give. 1467 00:54:03,500 --> 00:54:05,340 Oh, I don't know the difference. 1468 00:54:05,340 --> 00:54:11,540 Words of affirmation, acts of service, and physical touch. 1469 00:54:11,540 --> 00:54:18,740 But I feel like I'm good at giving acts of service and words of affirmation. 1470 00:54:18,740 --> 00:54:22,420 I feel like words of affirmation you're better at. 1471 00:54:22,420 --> 00:54:23,420 And gift giving. 1472 00:54:23,420 --> 00:54:24,420 I think I'm good at those. 1473 00:54:24,420 --> 00:54:25,420 You're good at gift giving. 1474 00:54:25,420 --> 00:54:31,300 If I were to place those, I would place, for you, I would place, what was the first one? 1475 00:54:31,300 --> 00:54:34,140 What was the other one that I said? 1476 00:54:34,140 --> 00:54:38,460 Words of affirmation, and then you would do gift giving, and then I would say acts of 1477 00:54:38,460 --> 00:54:39,460 service. 1478 00:54:39,460 --> 00:54:44,660 But okay, so my, no, maybe quality time, because you like to spend quality time. 1479 00:54:44,660 --> 00:54:45,660 Quality time's good. 1480 00:54:45,660 --> 00:54:47,380 I do like to, that's fair. 1481 00:54:47,380 --> 00:54:49,060 I like to spend quality time. 1482 00:54:49,060 --> 00:54:56,420 And my version of quality time can often be existing in the same space, even with no words. 1483 00:54:56,420 --> 00:54:57,420 Exactly. 1484 00:54:57,420 --> 00:54:58,420 And that's what I mean. 1485 00:54:58,420 --> 00:55:01,380 That's why I said that, because I feel like you like to hang out. 1486 00:55:01,380 --> 00:55:03,860 I think I like quality time. 1487 00:55:03,860 --> 00:55:09,300 I like to give and get quality time more than gift giving, maybe. 1488 00:55:09,300 --> 00:55:10,900 What is this? 1489 00:55:10,900 --> 00:55:11,900 How? 1490 00:55:11,900 --> 00:55:14,260 My dog keeps getting down here, even though there's a gate. 1491 00:55:14,260 --> 00:55:15,260 Cri-e-houdini. 1492 00:55:15,260 --> 00:55:17,500 She's like the hooney-dini dog. 1493 00:55:17,500 --> 00:55:23,900 Okay, so mine from, this is a long time ago, and I don't know if this is the right mine 1494 00:55:23,900 --> 00:55:26,660 or somebody else's, but I'm pretty sure this is right. 1495 00:55:26,660 --> 00:55:31,900 So it's acts of service, and it's like a score way above all the others. 1496 00:55:31,900 --> 00:55:34,060 Acts of service is my big one. 1497 00:55:34,060 --> 00:55:42,700 I feel like if you have time, because I feel like my time is very valuable, and if I give 1498 00:55:42,700 --> 00:55:45,660 my time to somebody else, that's a lot. 1499 00:55:45,660 --> 00:55:52,620 So I also feel like if somebody else were to like, having somebody help me do something 1500 00:55:52,620 --> 00:55:58,660 is like the freaking best thing that they could do. 1501 00:55:58,660 --> 00:56:03,060 Acts of service, quality time, then words of affirmation, and then physical touch, and 1502 00:56:03,060 --> 00:56:05,340 then receiving gifts are my list. 1503 00:56:05,340 --> 00:56:11,820 So acts of service is like 11 points, six points quality time, six points words of affirmation, 1504 00:56:11,820 --> 00:56:15,020 six points physical touch, and six points receiving gifts. 1505 00:56:15,020 --> 00:56:21,340 But most of the time, I've talked to guys who have been like, what's your love language? 1506 00:56:21,340 --> 00:56:23,940 And I tell them, and they're like, I'm like, what's yours? 1507 00:56:23,940 --> 00:56:25,940 They're like, physical touch is number one. 1508 00:56:25,940 --> 00:56:31,020 And I'm like, well, dang, because that's not going to match with me. 1509 00:56:31,020 --> 00:56:35,100 I think all guys just automatically assume that's what it is, and I can understand why, 1510 00:56:35,100 --> 00:56:36,100 because I'm one of them. 1511 00:56:36,100 --> 00:56:37,500 They want to be touched. 1512 00:56:37,500 --> 00:56:41,420 Because we want the physical touch, and we want to be able to, whatever the case may 1513 00:56:41,420 --> 00:56:42,420 be. 1514 00:56:42,420 --> 00:56:45,460 I honestly believe that, I mean, I know what I like to receive. 1515 00:56:45,460 --> 00:56:47,420 I like to receive physical touch, of course. 1516 00:56:47,420 --> 00:56:49,420 I like to receive quality time. 1517 00:56:49,420 --> 00:56:54,860 So I mean, like the times that you and I sit on the couch watching TV doing absolutely nothing. 1518 00:56:54,860 --> 00:56:55,860 I'm in my zone. 1519 00:56:55,860 --> 00:56:56,860 I'm in my happy space. 1520 00:56:56,860 --> 00:56:57,860 Oh, I'm good too. 1521 00:56:57,860 --> 00:56:58,860 100%. 1522 00:56:58,860 --> 00:56:59,860 I mean- 1523 00:56:59,860 --> 00:57:04,020 I'm in my happy place where I can just sit there with my girl, hang out, watch TV, and 1524 00:57:04,020 --> 00:57:05,700 hang out with the dog. 1525 00:57:05,700 --> 00:57:07,140 Just the three of us on the couch. 1526 00:57:07,140 --> 00:57:08,500 I'm loving it. 1527 00:57:08,500 --> 00:57:13,260 And then I think a lot of times that guys don't understand is how much words of affirmation 1528 00:57:13,260 --> 00:57:18,420 from our women is how important it is to us. 1529 00:57:18,420 --> 00:57:23,580 Her telling me she loves me is amazing, but then she tells me other things also, and it's 1530 00:57:23,580 --> 00:57:27,180 just like I love her even more. 1531 00:57:27,180 --> 00:57:31,100 And I think a lot of guys fail to acknowledge that. 1532 00:57:31,100 --> 00:57:34,840 How important it is for their girlfriend to go, I'm proud of you. 1533 00:57:34,840 --> 00:57:35,840 Thank you for everything you do. 1534 00:57:35,840 --> 00:57:37,820 I appreciate you. 1535 00:57:37,820 --> 00:57:38,820 I will fucking- 1536 00:57:38,820 --> 00:57:39,820 Well, sometimes maybe don't- 1537 00:57:39,820 --> 00:57:40,820 I will fucking kill anybody else playing for you. 1538 00:57:40,820 --> 00:57:41,820 Maybe that's not their love language. 1539 00:57:41,820 --> 00:57:44,060 You can say that to me. 1540 00:57:44,060 --> 00:57:46,660 I will give you the moon if I could. 1541 00:57:46,660 --> 00:57:47,660 She's good at that. 1542 00:57:47,660 --> 00:57:48,660 She's really good at that. 1543 00:57:48,660 --> 00:57:49,660 Yeah. 1544 00:57:49,660 --> 00:57:50,660 And I think that's- 1545 00:57:50,660 --> 00:57:52,180 I'm not as good at that. 1546 00:57:52,180 --> 00:57:54,140 And I feel like I need to be better. 1547 00:57:54,140 --> 00:57:56,860 I try to be better, but I don't feel like I'm very good at being like- 1548 00:57:56,860 --> 00:57:57,860 What? 1549 00:57:57,860 --> 00:57:58,860 Words of affirmation? 1550 00:57:58,860 --> 00:57:59,860 Yeah, words of affirmation. 1551 00:57:59,860 --> 00:58:04,380 I am a- I'm also- I feel like I do give acts of service. 1552 00:58:04,380 --> 00:58:10,820 You 1,000% give acts of service, and this is something that we have actually talked 1553 00:58:10,820 --> 00:58:16,920 about as- Well, and she may not even acknowledge this, but as far as the podcast goes, because 1554 00:58:16,920 --> 00:58:25,260 she will take the initiative to do research and do editing before I even say anything 1555 00:58:25,260 --> 00:58:26,260 about it. 1556 00:58:26,260 --> 00:58:30,620 And I, all the time, tell her, I don't think I do enough for this. 1557 00:58:30,620 --> 00:58:31,620 I don't think that- 1558 00:58:31,620 --> 00:58:34,900 She says that all the time, and I'm like, no, you're doing so much. 1559 00:58:34,900 --> 00:58:36,700 What are you doing? 1560 00:58:36,700 --> 00:58:37,700 She does the same thing to me. 1561 00:58:37,700 --> 00:58:40,980 She's like, I feel like you do so much, and I don't do any little- I was like, you do 1562 00:58:40,980 --> 00:58:44,180 so much for me in this relationship. 1563 00:58:44,180 --> 00:58:47,780 I think she's manipulating us into doing more for her. 1564 00:58:47,780 --> 00:58:49,820 Just kidding, she's not. 1565 00:58:49,820 --> 00:58:53,660 Well, I mean, she says that to me, and I tell her all the time. 1566 00:58:53,660 --> 00:58:54,660 I was like, no. 1567 00:58:54,660 --> 00:58:56,900 It's like, you're doing great. 1568 00:58:56,900 --> 00:59:03,220 We wouldn't do it if we thought you were not going to doing enough or not contributing, 1569 00:59:03,220 --> 00:59:04,220 then we wouldn't do it. 1570 00:59:04,220 --> 00:59:05,220 I mean, I feel like that. 1571 00:59:05,220 --> 00:59:06,220 I think it's- 1572 00:59:06,220 --> 00:59:08,580 I would be like, you would know. 1573 00:59:08,580 --> 00:59:14,420 You would see like a, there'd be animosity, kind of. 1574 00:59:14,420 --> 00:59:16,660 They'd be like, oh my God, why aren't you doing enough? 1575 00:59:16,660 --> 00:59:26,240 I think that's probably fair, but I think also that I just want to make sure that I'm 1576 00:59:26,240 --> 00:59:34,980 pulling my weight, and I think because sometimes I feel like I steamroll people, and just my- 1577 00:59:34,980 --> 00:59:41,300 I have a big personality, and I have a lot of opinions, and I think sometimes I seem 1578 00:59:41,300 --> 00:59:48,620 to steamroll people, and I don't want to feel like that I'm doing that with any of y'all, 1579 00:59:48,620 --> 00:59:56,660 and so I try to double, triple check in with you to make sure that you are getting what 1580 00:59:56,660 --> 01:00:00,300 you need from me, and it goes for both of you. 1581 01:00:00,300 --> 01:00:01,300 All right. 1582 01:00:01,300 --> 01:00:03,300 I need you right now to get down to do 50 pushups. 1583 01:00:03,300 --> 01:00:04,300 I'm just kidding. 1584 01:00:04,300 --> 01:00:05,300 I don't even know- 1585 01:00:05,300 --> 01:00:06,300 That ain't fucking happening. 1586 01:00:06,300 --> 01:00:07,300 I was like, I don't know if I can do 50 pushups. 1587 01:00:07,300 --> 01:00:10,620 You can do it on your knees if you want. 1588 01:00:10,620 --> 01:00:13,180 Girl, you couldn't do 50 pushups on your knees. 1589 01:00:13,180 --> 01:00:14,180 I bet you I could. 1590 01:00:14,180 --> 01:00:15,180 You want to try? 1591 01:00:15,180 --> 01:00:16,180 You want to do a- 1592 01:00:16,180 --> 01:00:17,180 No, I'm good. 1593 01:00:17,180 --> 01:00:18,860 You want to do a competition. 1594 01:00:18,860 --> 01:00:23,380 I bet you I can do 50 pushups on my knees. 1595 01:00:23,380 --> 01:00:25,540 I think this would be something for the Instagram. 1596 01:00:25,540 --> 01:00:26,540 All right. 1597 01:00:26,540 --> 01:00:29,420 So I do have one more thing. 1598 01:00:29,420 --> 01:00:32,620 Do you guys know what your Enneagram number is? 1599 01:00:32,620 --> 01:00:33,620 Yes. 1600 01:00:33,620 --> 01:00:34,620 12? 1601 01:00:34,620 --> 01:00:35,620 Yes. 1602 01:00:35,620 --> 01:00:36,620 100%. 1603 01:00:36,620 --> 01:00:37,620 That's it. 1604 01:00:37,620 --> 01:00:38,620 I don't know. 1605 01:00:38,620 --> 01:00:39,620 No, I'm a two wing three. 1606 01:00:39,620 --> 01:00:40,620 A two. 1607 01:00:40,620 --> 01:00:41,620 Interesting. 1608 01:00:41,620 --> 01:00:47,020 I thought you were a three wing two. 1609 01:00:47,020 --> 01:00:50,900 Also I thought you might possibly be an eight because I feel like you're more of an- 1610 01:00:50,900 --> 01:00:51,900 Don't put that shit on me. 1611 01:00:51,900 --> 01:00:52,900 You're more of an eight. 1612 01:00:52,900 --> 01:00:53,900 I have an eight. 1613 01:00:53,900 --> 01:00:54,900 What is this? 1614 01:00:54,900 --> 01:00:55,900 It's an Enneagram. 1615 01:00:55,900 --> 01:00:56,900 It's like a personality test. 1616 01:00:56,900 --> 01:01:00,060 You know like the Myers Briggs personality test? 1617 01:01:00,060 --> 01:01:01,740 Is it like the palm? 1618 01:01:01,740 --> 01:01:02,740 Not like reading your palm, no. 1619 01:01:02,740 --> 01:01:03,740 Oh, okay. 1620 01:01:03,740 --> 01:01:04,740 It's a little different. 1621 01:01:04,740 --> 01:01:05,740 You're a little lady and she's like- 1622 01:01:05,740 --> 01:01:11,300 You want to know what you can do tomorrow while I have all my meetings? 1623 01:01:11,300 --> 01:01:12,300 Take that test. 1624 01:01:12,300 --> 01:01:13,300 Go to the psychic? 1625 01:01:13,300 --> 01:01:14,300 No. 1626 01:01:14,300 --> 01:01:15,300 It only takes like five minutes. 1627 01:01:15,300 --> 01:01:16,300 It's not a psychic. 1628 01:01:16,300 --> 01:01:17,300 Are you joking? 1629 01:01:17,300 --> 01:01:18,300 The Enneagram test? 1630 01:01:18,300 --> 01:01:20,220 Yeah, it's really short. 1631 01:01:20,220 --> 01:01:22,020 No, it is not. 1632 01:01:22,020 --> 01:01:23,020 It's not that long. 1633 01:01:23,020 --> 01:01:24,020 Maybe 10 minutes. 1634 01:01:24,020 --> 01:01:26,020 Which Enneagram test are you taking? 1635 01:01:26,020 --> 01:01:27,020 I don't know. 1636 01:01:27,020 --> 01:01:28,020 Whatever Victoria told me to take. 1637 01:01:28,020 --> 01:01:29,020 She's a therapist. 1638 01:01:29,020 --> 01:01:30,020 Do I study? 1639 01:01:30,020 --> 01:01:31,020 No, it doesn't take that long. 1640 01:01:31,020 --> 01:01:32,020 No. 1641 01:01:32,020 --> 01:01:33,020 We do not study for it. 1642 01:01:33,020 --> 01:01:34,300 You answer questions honestly. 1643 01:01:34,300 --> 01:01:36,900 About your habits and things. 1644 01:01:36,900 --> 01:01:38,580 Like your personal habit. 1645 01:01:38,580 --> 01:01:42,060 Like how you are and what you think and things like that. 1646 01:01:42,060 --> 01:01:43,060 It's easy. 1647 01:01:43,060 --> 01:01:44,060 It's not a hard test. 1648 01:01:44,060 --> 01:01:45,060 Oh, no. 1649 01:01:45,060 --> 01:01:46,060 It's not a test. 1650 01:01:46,060 --> 01:01:47,060 It's not a test. 1651 01:01:47,060 --> 01:01:50,220 It's just like a survey kind of thing. 1652 01:01:50,220 --> 01:01:53,700 Like how you feel this out and then we'll tell you what we think you are. 1653 01:01:53,700 --> 01:01:55,780 Like you're a part of this. 1654 01:01:55,780 --> 01:01:56,780 You know. 1655 01:01:56,780 --> 01:01:58,660 Is this like which Ninja Turtle you are? 1656 01:01:58,660 --> 01:01:59,660 Yes. 1657 01:01:59,660 --> 01:02:00,660 I love this. 1658 01:02:00,660 --> 01:02:02,660 It's like what are they called? 1659 01:02:02,660 --> 01:02:03,660 The Buzzfeed. 1660 01:02:03,660 --> 01:02:08,100 Okay, so listen, those quizzes have gotten so dumb. 1661 01:02:08,100 --> 01:02:09,100 Yeah. 1662 01:02:09,100 --> 01:02:15,140 Like I wish they would actually match the personality of the Ninja Turtle or of the 1663 01:02:15,140 --> 01:02:19,060 Gilmore girl or of the whoever you're trying to match. 1664 01:02:19,060 --> 01:02:20,060 Like the golden girl. 1665 01:02:20,060 --> 01:02:21,060 I can do Donatello and I'm like I am not Donatello. 1666 01:02:21,060 --> 01:02:22,060 I don't know why you guys can't tell. 1667 01:02:22,060 --> 01:02:23,060 Donatello? 1668 01:02:23,060 --> 01:02:24,060 I love Donatello. 1669 01:02:24,060 --> 01:02:25,060 Why do you all keep putting me in a color? 1670 01:02:25,060 --> 01:02:26,060 What color is Donatello? 1671 01:02:26,060 --> 01:02:27,060 Is he purple? 1672 01:02:27,060 --> 01:02:28,060 Yeah, he's a purple one. 1673 01:02:28,060 --> 01:02:29,060 I like purple Donatello. 1674 01:02:29,060 --> 01:02:32,060 Now we know why you said earlier if I tell you not to think about the color purple, what 1675 01:02:32,060 --> 01:02:33,060 are you going to think about? 1676 01:02:33,060 --> 01:02:34,060 Yeah, that's it. 1677 01:02:34,060 --> 01:02:35,060 That's how I peppered this into the podcast real quick. 1678 01:02:35,060 --> 01:02:36,060 Don't think about the color purple. 1679 01:02:36,060 --> 01:02:37,060 By the way, Donatello is six hours later. 1680 01:02:37,060 --> 01:02:38,060 Is it better to be a purple than a golden? 1681 01:02:38,060 --> 01:02:39,060 I don't know. 1682 01:02:39,060 --> 01:02:40,060 I don't know. 1683 01:02:40,060 --> 01:02:50,500 But the question is, what color do you like? 1684 01:02:50,500 --> 01:02:53,340 And it has all the colors of the Ninja Turtles there. 1685 01:02:53,340 --> 01:02:56,020 And it's like whichever one you pick, you get. 1686 01:02:56,020 --> 01:02:58,980 And then you answer all these stupid other questions. 1687 01:02:58,980 --> 01:03:00,960 Like, are you happy or sad? 1688 01:03:00,960 --> 01:03:04,940 And it's like so dumb and then you still get the one that you picked the color of. 1689 01:03:04,940 --> 01:03:05,940 Yeah. 1690 01:03:05,940 --> 01:03:07,940 I don't know. 1691 01:03:07,940 --> 01:03:09,500 So, okay. 1692 01:03:09,500 --> 01:03:11,460 That was good. 1693 01:03:11,460 --> 01:03:12,460 It was nice to meet you, Brandon. 1694 01:03:12,460 --> 01:03:13,460 I see you're tired. 1695 01:03:13,460 --> 01:03:15,260 So we can we can let you go. 1696 01:03:15,260 --> 01:03:16,260 But. 1697 01:03:16,260 --> 01:03:17,260 Oh, thanks. 1698 01:03:17,260 --> 01:03:18,260 Or you can stay. 1699 01:03:18,260 --> 01:03:19,260 We can stay and have a party. 1700 01:03:19,260 --> 01:03:20,260 Don't tell Sarah. 1701 01:03:20,260 --> 01:03:24,180 Hey, will you guys stay though? 1702 01:03:24,180 --> 01:03:28,180 I know it's tired time, but at least save our 20 minutes. 1703 01:03:28,180 --> 01:03:30,140 Yeah, let's wrap this up. 1704 01:03:30,140 --> 01:03:31,140 Okay. 1705 01:03:31,140 --> 01:03:32,140 So thanks for coming. 1706 01:03:32,140 --> 01:03:33,140 Thanks, babe, for being here. 1707 01:03:33,140 --> 01:03:34,140 Thank you so much. 1708 01:03:34,140 --> 01:03:35,140 Hey, you guys can find us. 1709 01:03:35,140 --> 01:03:36,140 He's probably going to break up with me. 1710 01:03:36,140 --> 01:03:41,140 After that, so stay tuned for that episode. 1711 01:03:41,140 --> 01:03:43,460 Yeah, stay tuned for that. 1712 01:03:43,460 --> 01:03:48,420 We are on Instagram, a thick podcast. 1713 01:03:48,420 --> 01:03:54,740 And you can find us anywhere where you can get your podcasts, download, listen, like, 1714 01:03:54,740 --> 01:03:59,420 give us a rating and a review and we'll see you next week. 1715 01:03:59,420 --> 01:04:00,420 Thank you so much. 1716 01:04:00,420 --> 01:04:01,420 Toodle-oo. 1717 01:04:01,420 --> 01:04:02,420 Mother truckers. 1718 01:04:02,420 --> 01:04:03,420 Sarah. 1719 01:04:03,420 --> 01:04:04,420 Love you. 1720 01:04:04,420 --> 01:04:06,860 ABCDEFG. 1721 01:04:06,860 --> 01:04:21,900 I have to go. 1722 01:04:21,900 --> 01:04:31,900 I don't know why it's so good. 1723 01:04:31,900 --> 01:04:39,660 I like it. 1724 01:04:39,660 --> 01:04:55,700 So good.