1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:01,000 What's up? 2 00:00:01,000 --> 00:00:02,000 Hi. 3 00:00:02,000 --> 00:00:03,000 Welcome to the KS Podcast. 4 00:00:03,000 --> 00:00:04,000 It's been a minute. 5 00:00:04,000 --> 00:00:05,000 It has. 6 00:00:05,000 --> 00:00:06,000 Okay, yeah. 7 00:00:06,000 --> 00:00:12,000 So we went to the beach for, from Thursday to Sunday. 8 00:00:12,000 --> 00:00:13,000 Yeah. 9 00:00:13,000 --> 00:00:18,000 And so, but that means that we were supposed to be on the beach. 10 00:00:18,000 --> 00:00:19,000 Yeah. 11 00:00:19,000 --> 00:00:22,000 And we were supposed to be on the beach. 12 00:00:22,000 --> 00:00:23,000 Yeah. 13 00:00:23,000 --> 00:00:26,000 And we were supposed to be on the beach. 14 00:00:26,000 --> 00:00:27,000 Yeah. 15 00:00:27,000 --> 00:00:30,440 And so that means that we were supposed to record. 16 00:00:30,440 --> 00:00:32,000 We planned, we didn't record last week. 17 00:00:32,000 --> 00:00:34,000 We were supposed to record while we were on the beach. 18 00:00:34,000 --> 00:00:36,520 On the beach trip and we were major failures. 19 00:00:36,520 --> 00:00:37,520 Yeah, we didn't. 20 00:00:37,520 --> 00:00:38,520 So. 21 00:00:38,520 --> 00:00:39,520 There was a lot going on. 22 00:00:39,520 --> 00:00:47,240 Listen, I think we had the best of intentions, but that is a lot complicated with nine people 23 00:00:47,240 --> 00:00:50,760 in a house and going in 75 different directions. 24 00:00:50,760 --> 00:00:51,760 Exactly. 25 00:00:51,760 --> 00:00:53,480 So here we are. 26 00:00:53,480 --> 00:00:57,200 It's been like a couple of weeks, but guess what? 27 00:00:57,200 --> 00:00:58,200 Sarah got engaged. 28 00:00:58,200 --> 00:00:59,200 I did. 29 00:00:59,200 --> 00:01:03,640 The weekend that we were leaving when we recorded our two episodes with Brandon and Emily. 30 00:01:03,640 --> 00:01:04,640 Yeah. 31 00:01:04,640 --> 00:01:07,440 And I called y'all out, called y'all out for somebody's getting engaged. 32 00:01:07,440 --> 00:01:09,240 Like, because Sarah had her nails done. 33 00:01:09,240 --> 00:01:10,680 She never has her fingernails done. 34 00:01:10,680 --> 00:01:11,680 I do too. 35 00:01:11,680 --> 00:01:13,960 I've had them done for like three months now. 36 00:01:13,960 --> 00:01:14,960 Three months. 37 00:01:14,960 --> 00:01:16,480 I have not seen your hands done for three months. 38 00:01:16,480 --> 00:01:17,480 Yeah. 39 00:01:17,480 --> 00:01:18,480 They were the white before this. 40 00:01:18,480 --> 00:01:19,480 They were funny bunny before this. 41 00:01:19,480 --> 00:01:22,040 Oh, I don't remember, but she never has her nails done. 42 00:01:22,040 --> 00:01:23,040 Before the red anyways. 43 00:01:23,040 --> 00:01:24,360 She's doing it because she knows. 44 00:01:24,360 --> 00:01:27,600 Well, I didn't know shit and she knew. 45 00:01:27,600 --> 00:01:35,120 I was so funny because after it happened, I had to find out from Brandon who knew what. 46 00:01:35,120 --> 00:01:37,520 And I finally said, did Emily know? 47 00:01:37,520 --> 00:01:39,040 And he was like, no, she didn't know anything. 48 00:01:39,040 --> 00:01:42,040 I was like, if I knew, I wouldn't have said any of that. 49 00:01:42,040 --> 00:01:44,920 I wouldn't have been like, you're engaged this weekend. 50 00:01:44,920 --> 00:01:49,360 He hall like, no, I would have been like, I don't know what y'all talking about. 51 00:01:49,360 --> 00:01:50,360 Oh, your nails look so pretty. 52 00:01:50,360 --> 00:01:51,360 I'm y'all getting engaged. 53 00:01:51,360 --> 00:01:54,360 Brandon doesn't know what he's talking about. 54 00:01:54,360 --> 00:01:55,360 I don't know what you're talking about. 55 00:01:55,360 --> 00:01:56,360 Yeah. 56 00:01:56,360 --> 00:01:58,080 She's like, Brandon got a haircut and everything. 57 00:01:58,080 --> 00:02:02,720 I was like, this is sketchy and I haven't heard anything about it. 58 00:02:02,720 --> 00:02:03,720 So I really didn't. 59 00:02:03,720 --> 00:02:04,720 So, okay. 60 00:02:04,720 --> 00:02:05,720 So tell us what happened. 61 00:02:05,720 --> 00:02:06,720 I didn't either. 62 00:02:06,720 --> 00:02:08,560 How did it, how did it happen? 63 00:02:08,560 --> 00:02:13,520 Well, we were going down to Mobile where my sister Jerry and her boyfriend Thomas lives 64 00:02:13,520 --> 00:02:17,640 and we had our own Airbnb that was like a right down the street from them. 65 00:02:17,640 --> 00:02:20,720 But we were just going down there because it was Brandon's birthday weekend. 66 00:02:20,720 --> 00:02:24,440 His birthday was like the following Wednesday after that weekend, but his birthday is the 67 00:02:24,440 --> 00:02:26,800 day before my stepmom's birthday. 68 00:02:26,800 --> 00:02:29,600 So they were, my dad and Connie were leaving to go out of town. 69 00:02:29,600 --> 00:02:32,440 So we took his birthday trip the weekend before. 70 00:02:32,440 --> 00:02:36,920 Well, we had had like all sorts of different plans. 71 00:02:36,920 --> 00:02:46,040 We went down, um, on Friday and we had some dinner reservations and it was going to be 72 00:02:46,040 --> 00:02:48,660 just me and Brandon going to dinner. 73 00:02:48,660 --> 00:02:53,280 And then my sister started talking about some happy hour and I was like, well, cause they 74 00:02:53,280 --> 00:02:56,760 have also art walk on a certain Fridays of the month. 75 00:02:56,760 --> 00:03:01,640 Um, I don't know if it's just during the summer or what, but they, you know, kind of close 76 00:03:01,640 --> 00:03:06,040 off parts of dolphin street and you can, it's like an entertainment district. 77 00:03:06,040 --> 00:03:09,720 So you can carry your cocktails around and they have vendors and parks and things like 78 00:03:09,720 --> 00:03:10,720 that. 79 00:03:10,720 --> 00:03:11,720 So it was really cool. 80 00:03:11,720 --> 00:03:17,500 And I was like, well, let's just maybe cancel these dinner reservations and we'll, you know, 81 00:03:17,500 --> 00:03:20,760 go to this happy hour with Thomas and Jerry and then we'll go to, you know, we can all 82 00:03:20,760 --> 00:03:22,280 go to art walk together. 83 00:03:22,280 --> 00:03:23,280 Yeah. 84 00:03:23,280 --> 00:03:27,580 Well, Jerry was telling me that this place called red or white was having a happy hour, 85 00:03:27,580 --> 00:03:31,120 but it's not at their, you know, restaurant location. 86 00:03:31,120 --> 00:03:33,120 It was somewhere else. 87 00:03:33,120 --> 00:03:37,160 And now that she and Thomas are living together, they're living in a different part of Mobile 88 00:03:37,160 --> 00:03:39,460 that I am much less familiar with. 89 00:03:39,460 --> 00:03:45,720 So I had no idea where we were going and she pulled up to this, you know, parking lot and 90 00:03:45,720 --> 00:03:49,800 we just, you know, parked and got out and she said, I forgot I parked on the wrong side 91 00:03:49,800 --> 00:03:54,560 of the street, but we can walk through this garden to get to the happy hour. 92 00:03:54,560 --> 00:03:59,120 And so I'm like, okay, I didn't really think of any, think of it like anything of it at 93 00:03:59,120 --> 00:04:03,640 first, but then when we walked into the garden, there was nobody. 94 00:04:03,640 --> 00:04:07,020 I figured, you know, cause mobile is kind of walkable in a way. 95 00:04:07,020 --> 00:04:09,000 And so I was like, well, I'll see other people in here. 96 00:04:09,000 --> 00:04:10,800 Well, then I didn't see anybody else. 97 00:04:10,800 --> 00:04:14,040 And then Thomas was like, oh yeah, they have all these placards that tell you what kind 98 00:04:14,040 --> 00:04:17,200 of plants, you know, they are, and things about mobile history. 99 00:04:17,200 --> 00:04:22,400 So instead of it was this garden that had two, you know, pathways that winged out to 100 00:04:22,400 --> 00:04:27,760 the right and left, and then a path down the middle that goes like underneath a like pergola 101 00:04:27,760 --> 00:04:29,280 type situation or whatever. 102 00:04:29,280 --> 00:04:34,000 Well, I fanned out to the right because that was the first placard that I saw. 103 00:04:34,000 --> 00:04:39,000 I didn't make it 10 feet and out of my peripheral, I saw Brandon shorter than me. 104 00:04:39,000 --> 00:04:43,640 And I was like, oh my God, I turned around and they, Jerry and Thomas did a very good 105 00:04:43,640 --> 00:04:44,640 job. 106 00:04:44,640 --> 00:04:47,880 Jerry took pictures, Thomas videoed it, but I turned around and my heart dropped and I 107 00:04:47,880 --> 00:04:52,840 was like, I knew y'all were up to something when we came in here. 108 00:04:52,840 --> 00:04:55,020 And then he proposed and poor thing. 109 00:04:55,020 --> 00:04:59,320 He was on the verge of tears and couldn't get anything out of his mouth except for, 110 00:04:59,320 --> 00:05:00,320 will you marry me? 111 00:05:00,320 --> 00:05:03,320 I was going to say, what did he say? 112 00:05:03,320 --> 00:05:04,320 Nothing. 113 00:05:04,320 --> 00:05:07,320 That's always, sometimes that's better. 114 00:05:07,320 --> 00:05:09,320 Sometimes it's, yeah. 115 00:05:09,320 --> 00:05:10,320 Yeah. 116 00:05:10,320 --> 00:05:13,520 No, it was perfect and it was hot as fire out there. 117 00:05:13,520 --> 00:05:17,800 So we took a few photos and I felt really bad because we didn't even take any pictures 118 00:05:17,800 --> 00:05:20,000 with Thomas or Jerry. 119 00:05:20,000 --> 00:05:22,520 Not one, just like 10 of us. 120 00:05:22,520 --> 00:05:23,520 That was it. 121 00:05:23,520 --> 00:05:24,520 It was hot. 122 00:05:24,520 --> 00:05:25,520 It was horrible. 123 00:05:25,520 --> 00:05:30,040 My mom sent or at least had Jerry go pick up a really nice bottle of champagne. 124 00:05:30,040 --> 00:05:36,280 So we had champagne to pop and Jerry brought these like fan battery powered fans or whatever 125 00:05:36,280 --> 00:05:37,640 that also had like spritzer. 126 00:05:37,640 --> 00:05:41,160 So I mean, they were, we were trying to stay cool and take some pictures, but it just didn't 127 00:05:41,160 --> 00:05:42,160 last long. 128 00:05:42,160 --> 00:05:47,920 It was so funny because afterwards I now get to hear all these planning details and Jerry 129 00:05:47,920 --> 00:05:52,160 was like, yeah, we had to make another dinner reservation because y'all canceled yours. 130 00:05:52,160 --> 00:05:57,680 So you couldn't go to dinner after we wanted you to be able to go to dinner and celebrate. 131 00:05:57,680 --> 00:06:02,440 So they made a reservation at this really nice place called Noja, but it was, the food 132 00:06:02,440 --> 00:06:08,280 is freaking delicious, but it was just funny because Jerry had sent him pictures of where 133 00:06:08,280 --> 00:06:12,920 to enter and everything, cause he rented the garden out for like two hours or something 134 00:06:12,920 --> 00:06:13,920 like that. 135 00:06:13,920 --> 00:06:14,920 He rented the entire garden? 136 00:06:14,920 --> 00:06:15,920 Yeah. 137 00:06:15,920 --> 00:06:17,960 So how do you rent a garden? 138 00:06:17,960 --> 00:06:22,480 Well, I think Jerry called around to a couple of places just to like figure out what the 139 00:06:22,480 --> 00:06:24,180 logistics were and whatever. 140 00:06:24,180 --> 00:06:27,400 And once she found out, she told him and he had to call and he was able to rent it out. 141 00:06:27,400 --> 00:06:30,040 So normally is it busy? 142 00:06:30,040 --> 00:06:33,920 Would there have been a bunch of people in there like chilling, looking at plaques? 143 00:06:33,920 --> 00:06:35,640 I kind of doubt it. 144 00:06:35,640 --> 00:06:42,080 It's not very big, but I don't know, honestly. 145 00:06:42,080 --> 00:06:47,000 So she has like this picture and has an arrow drawn on it, like you go in here and she's 146 00:06:47,000 --> 00:06:49,440 like walk about 50 feet and there's a koi pond. 147 00:06:49,440 --> 00:06:51,440 He didn't even make it to him. 148 00:06:51,440 --> 00:06:55,280 It was just like, okay, I'll do this. 149 00:06:55,280 --> 00:06:56,280 Oh, Jerry. 150 00:06:56,280 --> 00:07:00,200 Well, it was, and it was funny because hindsight's always 20-20. 151 00:07:00,200 --> 00:07:06,800 So like there's things that you realize that happened that you didn't think anything of 152 00:07:06,800 --> 00:07:07,800 at the time. 153 00:07:07,800 --> 00:07:12,520 Like Santana had sent me a text message and was like, have so much fun this weekend. 154 00:07:12,520 --> 00:07:16,400 I'm like, nobody usually gives a shit about what I'm doing on the weekend if I'm out of 155 00:07:16,400 --> 00:07:17,840 town or whatever. 156 00:07:17,840 --> 00:07:21,560 And then we had dropped John Lean off at my parents' house on Thursday night. 157 00:07:21,560 --> 00:07:25,600 And then I was about to leave without even really saying goodbye to my parents. 158 00:07:25,600 --> 00:07:28,640 And then I was like, I turned around and I was like, I guess I better say bye to y'all. 159 00:07:28,640 --> 00:07:31,560 And Brandon and my dad are like in a serious handshake or whatever. 160 00:07:31,560 --> 00:07:33,600 And I'm like, what the hell? 161 00:07:33,600 --> 00:07:34,600 So you knew sort of. 162 00:07:34,600 --> 00:07:37,600 I didn't know, but like that's what I'm saying. 163 00:07:37,600 --> 00:07:39,880 Thinking back, like there were clues that I just didn't pick up on. 164 00:07:39,880 --> 00:07:40,880 Were you surprised at all? 165 00:07:40,880 --> 00:07:43,680 Yeah, I had no idea that that's what was going on. 166 00:07:43,680 --> 00:07:46,800 I mean, I would, my hair was like this up in a clip. 167 00:07:46,800 --> 00:07:48,200 I would have worn something different. 168 00:07:48,200 --> 00:07:49,440 I would have done my hair different. 169 00:07:49,440 --> 00:07:55,160 Well, if he was going to propose to you, what would you have worn? 170 00:07:55,160 --> 00:07:56,160 Probably a different black dress. 171 00:07:56,160 --> 00:08:02,600 I mean, it's something I'm hot outside, you know, we got to wear black when we're sweating. 172 00:08:02,600 --> 00:08:06,760 So what was your reaction other than, oh my God, I knew y'all were up to something. 173 00:08:06,760 --> 00:08:07,760 No, I just said. 174 00:08:07,760 --> 00:08:09,360 Were you just like, did you cry? 175 00:08:09,360 --> 00:08:13,640 A little, but I absolutely, yes, I will marry you. 176 00:08:13,640 --> 00:08:15,880 And how did y'all keep this secret? 177 00:08:15,880 --> 00:08:22,960 And I'm so excited and I can't believe like it's something you think about as like a girl 178 00:08:22,960 --> 00:08:27,280 from the time that you really understand what like marriage and engagement is, like what 179 00:08:27,280 --> 00:08:28,280 it's going to be like. 180 00:08:28,280 --> 00:08:29,280 I haven't. 181 00:08:29,280 --> 00:08:30,640 You've never thought about it. 182 00:08:30,640 --> 00:08:33,320 No, like I've always been kind of like, I don't know. 183 00:08:33,320 --> 00:08:39,080 I don't know why people are always like, oh, I've been dreaming of my wedding and my engagement 184 00:08:39,080 --> 00:08:40,080 for my whole life. 185 00:08:40,080 --> 00:08:41,080 Well, no. 186 00:08:41,080 --> 00:08:46,220 Since I was a girl and I'm like, I'm not, I'm like dreading the wedding planning part 187 00:08:46,220 --> 00:08:47,220 of it. 188 00:08:47,220 --> 00:08:49,560 Like I don't want, I don't like being the center of attention. 189 00:08:49,560 --> 00:08:53,520 Like the thought of walking down the aisle is gross to me, but like I'll figure it out 190 00:08:53,520 --> 00:08:54,520 and I'll do it. 191 00:08:54,520 --> 00:08:55,520 You know, whatever. 192 00:08:55,520 --> 00:09:01,280 But I mean, it's just, I think when it, once it happened, it's just different than you 193 00:09:01,280 --> 00:09:04,240 ever like imagined it being because it's real. 194 00:09:04,240 --> 00:09:05,240 Yeah. 195 00:09:05,240 --> 00:09:11,120 Because it's not going to be like legit, like fairy tales, butterflies or yeah, whatever. 196 00:09:11,120 --> 00:09:12,120 You know what I mean? 197 00:09:12,120 --> 00:09:13,120 So, okay. 198 00:09:13,120 --> 00:09:17,720 So let's jump into an FMK before we get into the rest of this engagement party episode. 199 00:09:17,720 --> 00:09:20,720 Whatever it's called. 200 00:09:20,720 --> 00:09:21,720 Okay. 201 00:09:21,720 --> 00:09:22,720 I have an FMK. 202 00:09:22,720 --> 00:09:23,720 Now you have one. 203 00:09:23,720 --> 00:09:24,720 Do you want to do yours first? 204 00:09:24,720 --> 00:09:25,720 You want me to do mine? 205 00:09:25,720 --> 00:09:26,720 No, you go first. 206 00:09:26,720 --> 00:09:27,720 Okay. 207 00:09:27,720 --> 00:09:32,280 A winter wedding, a summer wedding or a fall wedding? 208 00:09:32,280 --> 00:09:39,480 Well, I'm killing the summer wedding because you know, we thick and we sweat and I don't 209 00:09:39,480 --> 00:09:42,640 want to put, I don't want to put myself through that and I don't want to put anyone else through 210 00:09:42,640 --> 00:09:44,480 it. 211 00:09:44,480 --> 00:09:52,360 I'm going to say I would love to marry a fall wedding if we had a true fall. 212 00:09:52,360 --> 00:09:53,360 Right. 213 00:09:53,360 --> 00:09:54,360 We don't. 214 00:09:54,360 --> 00:09:57,960 Sometimes our summer bleeds into fall aggressively. 215 00:09:57,960 --> 00:10:01,320 Yeah, no, we don't really have a fall. 216 00:10:01,320 --> 00:10:04,440 No, but like, let's just be hypothetical and say like- 217 00:10:04,440 --> 00:10:05,440 Our winter is fall. 218 00:10:05,440 --> 00:10:11,560 I could like put the New York climate, the fall New York, like, I don't know, September, 219 00:10:11,560 --> 00:10:14,400 October in Birmingham, I would do it. 220 00:10:14,400 --> 00:10:17,080 So I'll marry a fall wedding and I'll fuck a winter wedding. 221 00:10:17,080 --> 00:10:18,080 I took this. 222 00:10:18,080 --> 00:10:22,040 I didn't put spring in there because I knew like that's like so easy to choose. 223 00:10:22,040 --> 00:10:23,720 I was like, duh, everybody wants a spring wedding. 224 00:10:23,720 --> 00:10:26,240 So I did all the others. 225 00:10:26,240 --> 00:10:27,840 Okay. 226 00:10:27,840 --> 00:10:39,520 So I would, I don't know, marry a winter wedding because I want to be able to wear long sleeves. 227 00:10:39,520 --> 00:10:40,520 Yeah. 228 00:10:40,520 --> 00:10:41,520 Is that weird? 229 00:10:41,520 --> 00:10:42,520 No, not at all. 230 00:10:42,520 --> 00:10:47,600 I mean, it probably won't be in style when I go get married, which will be never. 231 00:10:47,600 --> 00:10:52,680 But summer, I probably, honestly, I want to kill all of them. 232 00:10:52,680 --> 00:10:56,600 I just don't really, I don't know, really, big, I don't know, it just freaks me out a 233 00:10:56,600 --> 00:10:57,600 little bit. 234 00:10:57,600 --> 00:11:00,480 But if I were to get wet, I don't know, I think it would depend. 235 00:11:00,480 --> 00:11:04,560 I would probably want to get married when it's the cheapest. 236 00:11:04,560 --> 00:11:06,080 It's in winter. 237 00:11:06,080 --> 00:11:07,480 And that's all that really matters. 238 00:11:07,480 --> 00:11:08,480 Yeah. 239 00:11:08,480 --> 00:11:09,480 Okay. 240 00:11:09,480 --> 00:11:12,120 So what's yours? 241 00:11:12,120 --> 00:11:15,640 Mine is, I've got two. 242 00:11:15,640 --> 00:11:21,640 Mine is a big church wedding, a destination wedding, or a tiny wedding. 243 00:11:21,640 --> 00:11:23,560 Okay. 244 00:11:23,560 --> 00:11:32,960 So I want to, I mean, like, okay, so I want to, am I having it myself or am I going to 245 00:11:32,960 --> 00:11:34,040 one? 246 00:11:34,040 --> 00:11:36,120 I mean, you're having it yourself because that's- 247 00:11:36,120 --> 00:11:38,760 If I'm having it myself. 248 00:11:38,760 --> 00:11:46,160 I want to, oh, if I'm having it myself, that's really hard for me because I can't imagine. 249 00:11:46,160 --> 00:11:54,300 But I would, I want to say that I would marry the destination wedding if everyone I knew 250 00:11:54,300 --> 00:12:00,000 was really rich and I was also really rich and we had all the time off in the world that 251 00:12:00,000 --> 00:12:03,720 we could take and all that and all the money to go. 252 00:12:03,720 --> 00:12:09,000 But so I'm going to kill that one. 253 00:12:09,000 --> 00:12:10,000 But I- 254 00:12:10,000 --> 00:12:11,000 You're killing destination? 255 00:12:11,000 --> 00:12:12,000 Is that what you said? 256 00:12:12,000 --> 00:12:13,000 I think I'm going to kill it. 257 00:12:13,000 --> 00:12:14,000 Yeah, I think I'm going to kill it. 258 00:12:14,000 --> 00:12:18,740 I think I said I really want to marry it, but it's not practical for me. 259 00:12:18,740 --> 00:12:24,600 I want to marry the church wedding, but not have it be big. 260 00:12:24,600 --> 00:12:25,920 Really? 261 00:12:25,920 --> 00:12:28,240 And then I want to kill the tiny wedding. 262 00:12:28,240 --> 00:12:30,240 But where's the tiny wedding? 263 00:12:30,240 --> 00:12:32,200 Kind of like Jessica had? 264 00:12:32,200 --> 00:12:33,200 Yeah. 265 00:12:33,200 --> 00:12:34,200 I don't know. 266 00:12:34,200 --> 00:12:35,200 I just, I couldn't. 267 00:12:35,200 --> 00:12:36,200 All right. 268 00:12:36,200 --> 00:12:39,200 Well, I'm killing the big church wedding. 269 00:12:39,200 --> 00:12:40,200 Okay. 270 00:12:40,200 --> 00:12:41,200 I figured. 271 00:12:41,200 --> 00:12:43,880 Fucking the tiny wedding. 272 00:12:43,880 --> 00:12:47,960 And the most of the reason why I feel like I couldn't ever do a tiny wedding is because 273 00:12:47,960 --> 00:12:49,680 I have four parents. 274 00:12:49,680 --> 00:12:51,280 That's a lot of people to like- 275 00:12:51,280 --> 00:12:52,280 And all their friends. 276 00:12:52,280 --> 00:12:53,280 And Brandon has three. 277 00:12:53,280 --> 00:12:54,280 That's the whole wedding. 278 00:12:54,280 --> 00:12:55,280 Yeah. 279 00:12:55,280 --> 00:13:00,920 So then I'm going to marry the destination wedding because that's what I want to do anyways. 280 00:13:00,920 --> 00:13:04,760 And I mean, I completely understand like what you just said. 281 00:13:04,760 --> 00:13:08,960 Nobody has infinite time off or money. 282 00:13:08,960 --> 00:13:15,940 So completely understand that I may have, feel a little disappointed that some people 283 00:13:15,940 --> 00:13:19,480 can't come, but that is the reality and that's just life. 284 00:13:19,480 --> 00:13:24,160 But my mom is already getting her stuff together for her passport and this lady hasn't flown 285 00:13:24,160 --> 00:13:26,040 in over 30 years. 286 00:13:26,040 --> 00:13:29,440 So that's really why I want to do it because I want to get Dawn on a plane. 287 00:13:29,440 --> 00:13:33,720 But also I think I don't want to plan anything either. 288 00:13:33,720 --> 00:13:35,280 So I think that would be really helpful. 289 00:13:35,280 --> 00:13:37,880 Like I want somebody to send me options and I pick. 290 00:13:37,880 --> 00:13:40,320 That's all I want to do. 291 00:13:40,320 --> 00:13:42,320 Like I don't want to have to talk to vendors. 292 00:13:42,320 --> 00:13:46,480 I don't want to have to get a bunch of quotes from different people. 293 00:13:46,480 --> 00:13:47,480 I want to do that shit. 294 00:13:47,480 --> 00:13:50,600 I want you to tell me how much I owe you and what my options are. 295 00:13:50,600 --> 00:13:51,600 There you go. 296 00:13:51,600 --> 00:13:52,600 Yeah. 297 00:13:52,600 --> 00:13:53,600 That sounds fun. 298 00:13:53,600 --> 00:13:57,400 I don't want to do any of that. 299 00:13:57,400 --> 00:13:59,960 I mean, somebody else can do it and I'll just show up. 300 00:13:59,960 --> 00:14:04,920 I'd be like, if I got married, I would need to marry a dude that was like wanted to do 301 00:14:04,920 --> 00:14:06,400 all that. 302 00:14:06,400 --> 00:14:09,840 I want to taste the food, the like cake though. 303 00:14:09,840 --> 00:14:13,840 I want like, if I did it, I'd want like a raspberry or something in it. 304 00:14:13,840 --> 00:14:16,360 I'm having a realization right now. 305 00:14:16,360 --> 00:14:20,680 What am I going to do about the cake? 306 00:14:20,680 --> 00:14:21,680 Which where? 307 00:14:21,680 --> 00:14:22,680 I don't like cake. 308 00:14:22,680 --> 00:14:25,200 Well, eat a cookie cake then. 309 00:14:25,200 --> 00:14:26,200 You don't have to eat it. 310 00:14:26,200 --> 00:14:28,760 You just have to like take one little bite. 311 00:14:28,760 --> 00:14:30,800 Oh God. 312 00:14:30,800 --> 00:14:32,240 Oh no. 313 00:14:32,240 --> 00:14:34,160 Just do an ice cream cake or something. 314 00:14:34,160 --> 00:14:35,160 Ice cream. 315 00:14:35,160 --> 00:14:36,160 Yes. 316 00:14:36,160 --> 00:14:37,160 Okay. 317 00:14:37,160 --> 00:14:38,160 Yeah. 318 00:14:38,160 --> 00:14:39,160 Okay. 319 00:14:39,160 --> 00:14:40,160 So what's your other one? 320 00:14:40,160 --> 00:14:45,840 The other one is related to, you know, how shores and I don't know why I was thinking 321 00:14:45,840 --> 00:14:46,840 of it today. 322 00:14:46,840 --> 00:14:52,160 I probably cause Brandon was folding like two loads of laundry, but fuck Mary kill ironing, 323 00:14:52,160 --> 00:14:54,280 mopping and folding laundry. 324 00:14:54,280 --> 00:14:55,280 Kill folding laundry. 325 00:14:55,280 --> 00:14:56,280 No. 326 00:14:56,280 --> 00:14:57,280 Well, wait. 327 00:14:57,280 --> 00:14:58,280 Yeah. 328 00:14:58,280 --> 00:14:59,280 Yeah. 329 00:14:59,280 --> 00:15:00,280 Kill folding laundry. 330 00:15:00,280 --> 00:15:02,520 Fuck mopping and Mary ironing. 331 00:15:02,520 --> 00:15:03,520 Really? 332 00:15:03,520 --> 00:15:05,320 Actually, I take that back. 333 00:15:05,320 --> 00:15:06,320 Okay. 334 00:15:06,320 --> 00:15:07,320 Okay. 335 00:15:07,320 --> 00:15:08,320 Okay. 336 00:15:08,320 --> 00:15:09,320 Depends on how often you mop or iron. 337 00:15:09,320 --> 00:15:10,320 I don't ever iron. 338 00:15:10,320 --> 00:15:13,320 So I steam or throw it in the dryer. 339 00:15:13,320 --> 00:15:14,320 Yeah. 340 00:15:14,320 --> 00:15:15,320 But okay. 341 00:15:15,320 --> 00:15:18,160 You have to iron more often. 342 00:15:18,160 --> 00:15:21,600 So you, so I'm going to do this weekly. 343 00:15:21,600 --> 00:15:22,600 Just once a week. 344 00:15:22,600 --> 00:15:23,600 Yeah. 345 00:15:23,600 --> 00:15:24,600 Everything once a week. 346 00:15:24,600 --> 00:15:25,600 Okay. 347 00:15:25,600 --> 00:15:27,320 All of the tasks have to be done once a week. 348 00:15:27,320 --> 00:15:31,040 How much folding and how much, okay. 349 00:15:31,040 --> 00:15:39,000 I'm marrying mopping, killing folding laundry and, and fucking ironing. 350 00:15:39,000 --> 00:15:40,000 Same. 351 00:15:40,000 --> 00:15:41,000 Yeah. 352 00:15:41,000 --> 00:15:42,000 I hate folding laundry. 353 00:15:42,000 --> 00:15:43,000 Me too. 354 00:15:43,000 --> 00:15:44,000 It is the worst task. 355 00:15:44,000 --> 00:15:45,000 Yes. 356 00:15:45,000 --> 00:15:46,000 That's it. 357 00:15:46,000 --> 00:15:47,000 And then putting it away afterwards. 358 00:15:47,000 --> 00:15:48,000 I'm like, where am I going to put all this stuff? 359 00:15:48,000 --> 00:15:49,720 Listen, that is one of the best things that happened to me with Brandon. 360 00:15:49,720 --> 00:15:51,360 He doesn't give a shit about folding laundry. 361 00:15:51,360 --> 00:15:52,360 He folds all of it. 362 00:15:52,360 --> 00:15:53,360 I love it. 363 00:15:53,360 --> 00:15:54,680 It's the greatest thing ever. 364 00:15:54,680 --> 00:15:56,680 I'll fold it, but I don't want to put it away. 365 00:15:56,680 --> 00:15:57,680 Is that weird? 366 00:15:57,680 --> 00:15:58,680 I don't care about putting it away. 367 00:15:58,680 --> 00:15:59,680 I hate putting it away. 368 00:15:59,680 --> 00:16:01,080 I also hate folding it. 369 00:16:01,080 --> 00:16:04,280 I used to have a boyfriend that did all my laundry and folded it. 370 00:16:04,280 --> 00:16:06,240 And I think we talked about this at one point. 371 00:16:06,240 --> 00:16:07,240 Yeah. 372 00:16:07,240 --> 00:16:10,480 Where he like folded my panties and it wasn't, it was like, I think it was panties in front 373 00:16:10,480 --> 00:16:11,480 of my dad. 374 00:16:11,480 --> 00:16:12,480 Brandon folds my panties. 375 00:16:12,480 --> 00:16:13,480 Yes. 376 00:16:13,480 --> 00:16:14,480 Yeah. 377 00:16:14,480 --> 00:16:15,480 But does he do it in front of your dad? 378 00:16:15,480 --> 00:16:16,480 No. 379 00:16:16,480 --> 00:16:17,480 That's weird. 380 00:16:17,480 --> 00:16:18,800 Like, and well, Brandon might do it too. 381 00:16:18,800 --> 00:16:22,560 He might just be like doing it and not even realize cause he's just doing it. 382 00:16:22,560 --> 00:16:23,560 You know what I mean? 383 00:16:23,560 --> 00:16:26,120 He's the type of dude that would do that. 384 00:16:26,120 --> 00:16:31,400 Like, like not realize I've got my girlfriend's thong in my hand. 385 00:16:31,400 --> 00:16:32,400 Okay. 386 00:16:32,400 --> 00:16:33,400 Um, okay. 387 00:16:33,400 --> 00:16:34,400 Well, all right. 388 00:16:34,400 --> 00:16:36,600 So tell us about your wedding plans. 389 00:16:36,600 --> 00:16:40,840 What are the wedding plans since, of course, so we're at the beach and it's been like a 390 00:16:40,840 --> 00:16:42,240 week and a half since she got engaged. 391 00:16:42,240 --> 00:16:44,560 So like afterwards I was like, so when's the wedding? 392 00:16:44,560 --> 00:16:46,360 And she's like, I don't know. 393 00:16:46,360 --> 00:16:50,800 You know, of course, like I asked prematurely, but then we get to the beach and she's like, 394 00:16:50,800 --> 00:16:52,240 oh yeah, I'm doing this. 395 00:16:52,240 --> 00:16:55,280 And I'm like, well, when the hell did you find this out? 396 00:16:55,280 --> 00:16:56,280 Like where have I been? 397 00:16:56,280 --> 00:16:57,280 I don't know where I've been. 398 00:16:57,280 --> 00:16:58,280 I've been gone. 399 00:16:58,280 --> 00:17:02,840 Well, it was one of those things where I didn't want to talk about it. 400 00:17:02,840 --> 00:17:05,840 And I was like, let me just enjoy this moment. 401 00:17:05,840 --> 00:17:11,440 But the planner that I am, I couldn't help myself because I just, the thoughts were like 402 00:17:11,440 --> 00:17:12,440 consuming me. 403 00:17:12,440 --> 00:17:20,080 So we had plenty of conversations and settled on getting married with just family at my 404 00:17:20,080 --> 00:17:22,160 grandmother's farm. 405 00:17:22,160 --> 00:17:23,720 She's going to be 91 by then. 406 00:17:23,720 --> 00:17:26,360 I want her to be able to be there. 407 00:17:26,360 --> 00:17:33,200 So we're going to do that with just our family and then planning a destination wedding in 408 00:17:33,200 --> 00:17:34,360 Mexico later on. 409 00:17:34,360 --> 00:17:39,380 So she's having two weddings, ladies and gentlemen, which is a lot of money in my opinion. 410 00:17:39,380 --> 00:17:40,960 So you prepared for all that? 411 00:17:40,960 --> 00:17:41,960 Yes. 412 00:17:41,960 --> 00:17:42,960 Who's paying for all of it? 413 00:17:42,960 --> 00:17:43,960 I'm not. 414 00:17:43,960 --> 00:17:44,960 I don't know. 415 00:17:44,960 --> 00:17:45,960 You don't know? 416 00:17:45,960 --> 00:17:46,960 I'm not answering that question. 417 00:17:46,960 --> 00:17:47,960 Okay. 418 00:17:47,960 --> 00:17:49,400 So my other question is, are you going to have two wedding dresses? 419 00:17:49,400 --> 00:17:50,400 No. 420 00:17:50,400 --> 00:17:51,400 You're going to keep the same one? 421 00:17:51,400 --> 00:17:52,400 No. 422 00:17:52,400 --> 00:17:53,400 Okay. 423 00:17:53,400 --> 00:17:55,120 Well that's, do you know what kind you're going to get? 424 00:17:55,120 --> 00:17:56,360 My mom has it. 425 00:17:56,360 --> 00:17:58,440 She has it already? 426 00:17:58,440 --> 00:17:59,440 Was it hers? 427 00:17:59,440 --> 00:18:00,440 No. 428 00:18:00,440 --> 00:18:01,560 Wait, why does she have your wedding dress? 429 00:18:01,560 --> 00:18:03,720 We ordered it and had it shipped to her house. 430 00:18:03,720 --> 00:18:04,720 So when Jerry and I- 431 00:18:04,720 --> 00:18:05,720 When? 432 00:18:05,720 --> 00:18:06,720 I don't know. 433 00:18:06,720 --> 00:18:11,640 It's been there for like a couple of days. 434 00:18:11,640 --> 00:18:15,020 So oh my God, this is so crazy. 435 00:18:15,020 --> 00:18:16,020 Did you try it on? 436 00:18:16,020 --> 00:18:17,940 No, I, that's why I had it shipped there. 437 00:18:17,940 --> 00:18:21,960 So when Jerry and I go up there at the end of September, I can try it on with both of 438 00:18:21,960 --> 00:18:22,960 them. 439 00:18:22,960 --> 00:18:23,960 Okay. 440 00:18:23,960 --> 00:18:24,960 Okay. 441 00:18:24,960 --> 00:18:25,960 Oh my God. 442 00:18:25,960 --> 00:18:26,960 Yeah. 443 00:18:26,960 --> 00:18:27,960 So I mean, there's a reason behind it. 444 00:18:27,960 --> 00:18:28,960 This is so fast. 445 00:18:28,960 --> 00:18:29,960 Normally doesn't it take like a long time to find a wedding dress? 446 00:18:29,960 --> 00:18:32,960 I mean, fast fashion, I guess. 447 00:18:32,960 --> 00:18:33,960 Shoot. 448 00:18:33,960 --> 00:18:37,960 I could, I could hate the damn thing, but we're, this is our starting point. 449 00:18:37,960 --> 00:18:38,960 All right. 450 00:18:38,960 --> 00:18:39,960 Are you going to have bridesmaids? 451 00:18:39,960 --> 00:18:40,960 No. 452 00:18:40,960 --> 00:18:41,960 No bridesmaids? 453 00:18:41,960 --> 00:18:44,160 We're having a maid of honor and best man. 454 00:18:44,160 --> 00:18:45,160 Okay. 455 00:18:45,160 --> 00:18:46,160 Who's your maid of honor? 456 00:18:46,160 --> 00:18:47,160 Jerry Marie. 457 00:18:47,160 --> 00:18:48,160 That's what I figured. 458 00:18:48,160 --> 00:18:49,160 Who's the best man? 459 00:18:49,160 --> 00:18:50,160 Thomas. 460 00:18:50,160 --> 00:18:51,160 Okay. 461 00:18:51,160 --> 00:18:56,160 Um, are you going to have an open bar? 462 00:18:56,160 --> 00:18:57,160 Yes. 463 00:18:57,160 --> 00:18:58,160 All right. 464 00:18:58,160 --> 00:19:00,360 Are you going to have flower girl and flower boy? 465 00:19:00,360 --> 00:19:04,120 I mean, our girl and can I be your flower girl? 466 00:19:04,120 --> 00:19:05,120 Just kidding. 467 00:19:05,120 --> 00:19:06,120 Just kidding. 468 00:19:06,120 --> 00:19:08,440 Um, and what are they called? 469 00:19:08,440 --> 00:19:09,440 Group? 470 00:19:09,440 --> 00:19:10,440 Uh, ring bearer. 471 00:19:10,440 --> 00:19:11,440 I'm like groomsman. 472 00:19:11,440 --> 00:19:12,440 No. 473 00:19:12,440 --> 00:19:14,680 The only, um, well, I guess, I don't know. 474 00:19:14,680 --> 00:19:20,320 We could in Mexico, but may have to have two flower girls in Mexico and one ring bearer 475 00:19:20,320 --> 00:19:24,200 because his sister has two little girls and my cousin has a little boy. 476 00:19:24,200 --> 00:19:26,320 Well, you can have like as many as you want. 477 00:19:26,320 --> 00:19:29,040 You can just have all the children walk down the aisle and get outfits. 478 00:19:29,040 --> 00:19:30,480 There's not that many kids. 479 00:19:30,480 --> 00:19:32,000 So yeah. 480 00:19:32,000 --> 00:19:34,080 So are you going to have an open bar? 481 00:19:34,080 --> 00:19:35,080 You already asked me that. 482 00:19:35,080 --> 00:19:36,080 I did. 483 00:19:36,080 --> 00:19:37,080 Yeah. 484 00:19:37,080 --> 00:19:38,080 Whoops. 485 00:19:38,080 --> 00:19:39,080 What'd you, what'd you say? 486 00:19:39,080 --> 00:19:40,080 Yes. 487 00:19:40,080 --> 00:19:41,080 Okay. 488 00:19:41,080 --> 00:19:42,080 Cool. 489 00:19:42,080 --> 00:19:43,080 At both times. 490 00:19:43,080 --> 00:19:44,080 I mean, what are the other options? 491 00:19:44,080 --> 00:19:48,520 Um, beer and wine only you can do cash bar for everybody. 492 00:19:48,520 --> 00:19:52,120 You can say there's only beer. 493 00:19:52,120 --> 00:19:54,480 You can say, you can literally have nothing. 494 00:19:54,480 --> 00:19:56,480 I say yes. 495 00:19:56,480 --> 00:19:57,480 I don't know. 496 00:19:57,480 --> 00:19:58,760 Cause we haven't picked the place. 497 00:19:58,760 --> 00:20:03,440 So I don't know what my options are, but I mean, I'll pay extra for like a top shelf 498 00:20:03,440 --> 00:20:05,720 liquor package in Mexico for sure. 499 00:20:05,720 --> 00:20:06,720 Yeah. 500 00:20:06,720 --> 00:20:07,720 Um, okay. 501 00:20:07,720 --> 00:20:11,960 So how does it feel to be engaged? 502 00:20:11,960 --> 00:20:12,960 I mean, good. 503 00:20:12,960 --> 00:20:18,680 I don't, I mean, I don't feel any different, but like, but your hand feels heavier, right? 504 00:20:18,680 --> 00:20:20,760 Yeah, I guess. 505 00:20:20,760 --> 00:20:21,760 Yeah. 506 00:20:21,760 --> 00:20:22,760 Do you like your ring? 507 00:20:22,760 --> 00:20:23,760 Yes. 508 00:20:23,760 --> 00:20:25,040 Did you get to pick it out? 509 00:20:25,040 --> 00:20:29,240 Jessica assisted, but you didn't say yes or no. 510 00:20:29,240 --> 00:20:30,460 Did you pick it out? 511 00:20:30,460 --> 00:20:31,560 It's exactly what I wanted. 512 00:20:31,560 --> 00:20:32,560 Okay. 513 00:20:32,560 --> 00:20:33,560 She picked it out. 514 00:20:33,560 --> 00:20:34,560 Let me see. 515 00:20:34,560 --> 00:20:35,560 It's huge. 516 00:20:35,560 --> 00:20:36,560 It's very relaxed. 517 00:20:36,560 --> 00:20:37,780 It's a very big ring. 518 00:20:37,780 --> 00:20:38,780 We like it. 519 00:20:38,780 --> 00:20:39,780 Okay. 520 00:20:39,780 --> 00:20:40,780 Um, has, okay. 521 00:20:40,780 --> 00:20:43,680 So now here's the big question. 522 00:20:43,680 --> 00:20:45,680 Has Brandon canceled his apartment lease yet? 523 00:20:45,680 --> 00:20:46,680 Yes. 524 00:20:46,680 --> 00:20:47,680 Oh, are you freaking kidding me? 525 00:20:47,680 --> 00:20:48,680 He did it on that Thursday. 526 00:20:48,680 --> 00:20:51,680 When does he move in? 527 00:20:51,680 --> 00:20:57,640 Um, I think like the middle of October is his, and I told him already when I leave for 528 00:20:57,640 --> 00:21:01,600 New York, by the time I get back, I think he has to be out of that apartment. 529 00:21:01,600 --> 00:21:04,440 So we have got to start going over there and like figuring shit out. 530 00:21:04,440 --> 00:21:06,840 Otherwise I'm going to come home from New York and there's just going to be his shit 531 00:21:06,840 --> 00:21:09,120 everywhere in my apartment and I can't do that. 532 00:21:09,120 --> 00:21:11,520 No, not good. 533 00:21:11,520 --> 00:21:12,520 Okay. 534 00:21:12,520 --> 00:21:15,320 So this is very fast. 535 00:21:15,320 --> 00:21:20,480 Are you guys planning to stay in your apartment after you get married or, or. 536 00:21:20,480 --> 00:21:24,240 Well, my lease is up before we plan to get married. 537 00:21:24,240 --> 00:21:30,440 So yes, I think while we do all this wedding stuff, I think it's smart for us just to stay 538 00:21:30,440 --> 00:21:31,440 put. 539 00:21:31,440 --> 00:21:32,440 Yeah. 540 00:21:32,440 --> 00:21:33,440 Okay. 541 00:21:33,440 --> 00:21:34,440 Are we going to be there forever? 542 00:21:34,440 --> 00:21:35,440 Absolutely not. 543 00:21:35,440 --> 00:21:36,440 Why not? 544 00:21:36,440 --> 00:21:37,440 You love it there. 545 00:21:37,440 --> 00:21:38,440 I do love my apartment. 546 00:21:38,440 --> 00:21:40,000 Um, okay. 547 00:21:40,000 --> 00:21:48,560 So when was the moment that you knew you were meant to marry Brandon? 548 00:21:48,560 --> 00:21:50,560 I don't know. 549 00:21:50,560 --> 00:21:58,880 Um, this is going to sound like a funny answer, but I, when I think Brandon and I had gone 550 00:21:58,880 --> 00:22:07,300 out on like one or two dates and I had already had a date planned with somebody else and 551 00:22:07,300 --> 00:22:10,040 I wanted to keep that commitment. 552 00:22:10,040 --> 00:22:11,940 And so I told Brandon about it. 553 00:22:11,940 --> 00:22:12,940 Like I was honest. 554 00:22:12,940 --> 00:22:15,600 I wasn't trying to be sneaky or anything like that. 555 00:22:15,600 --> 00:22:23,280 And um, he got upset and kind of said, all right, if you feel like you have to. 556 00:22:23,280 --> 00:22:25,480 Wait, this was in the beginning? 557 00:22:25,480 --> 00:22:26,760 Yeah. 558 00:22:26,760 --> 00:22:30,960 Like whenever we had that whole conversation at your mom and dad's house, you knew that 559 00:22:30,960 --> 00:22:32,160 you were going to marry him then? 560 00:22:32,160 --> 00:22:33,160 Yeah. 561 00:22:33,160 --> 00:22:36,960 Cause he was going to fight for me and it makes me want to fight for him. 562 00:22:36,960 --> 00:22:37,960 All right. 563 00:22:37,960 --> 00:22:38,960 Okay. 564 00:22:38,960 --> 00:22:39,960 It's not what I was expecting. 565 00:22:39,960 --> 00:22:42,480 What did you think it was going to be? 566 00:22:42,480 --> 00:22:45,840 I don't know, but I don't remember you thinking that moment. 567 00:22:45,840 --> 00:22:49,280 Well, in that, no, in that moment, probably not. 568 00:22:49,280 --> 00:22:52,360 But I mean, I don't know. 569 00:22:52,360 --> 00:22:54,840 I just thought it would be like later on. 570 00:22:54,840 --> 00:22:56,360 I thought it was like, maybe, I don't know. 571 00:22:56,360 --> 00:23:00,640 I figured there might be like a moment later on like, oh, he did this. 572 00:23:00,640 --> 00:23:03,560 He, I don't know, took my car and got the gas filled over. 573 00:23:03,560 --> 00:23:04,560 Who knows? 574 00:23:04,560 --> 00:23:10,680 I mean, I would say it was that or like Thanksgiving, which was like four dates in, but like he 575 00:23:10,680 --> 00:23:14,600 came out and he had never met, you know, anybody before and Thomas and Jerry and my dad and 576 00:23:14,600 --> 00:23:19,000 Connie were out there and he, me and Jerry were both, we had stuff to cook in the kitchen 577 00:23:19,000 --> 00:23:24,920 and he just took himself downstairs and you know, I mean, my dad had met him, but like, 578 00:23:24,920 --> 00:23:27,840 like that same day or whatever, but like my dad was outside. 579 00:23:27,840 --> 00:23:30,200 He does drunk turkeys or drunk chickens. 580 00:23:30,200 --> 00:23:35,720 I mean, for Thanksgiving and he didn't stay in there with us, like in a comfort zone bubble. 581 00:23:35,720 --> 00:23:38,840 He went out there and talked to my dad and I was like, all right, he's got it. 582 00:23:38,840 --> 00:23:39,840 Cool. 583 00:23:39,840 --> 00:23:40,840 He can handle himself. 584 00:23:40,840 --> 00:23:41,840 There you go. 585 00:23:41,840 --> 00:23:42,840 Um, okay. 586 00:23:42,840 --> 00:23:43,840 All right. 587 00:23:43,840 --> 00:23:49,160 So what part of the wedding planning process are you most excited about first? 588 00:23:49,160 --> 00:23:52,520 And then what are you not looking forward to? 589 00:23:52,520 --> 00:23:57,240 I mean, the most exciting is going to be when we decide on a date in a venue in Mexico. 590 00:23:57,240 --> 00:24:01,680 Like I don't look forward to planning any of it. 591 00:24:01,680 --> 00:24:02,920 What so, so yeah. 592 00:24:02,920 --> 00:24:06,160 So that's the, okay. 593 00:24:06,160 --> 00:24:08,440 So basically, no, she doesn't like any of it. 594 00:24:08,440 --> 00:24:11,520 I look forward to booking flights, but she's already planned all of it. 595 00:24:11,520 --> 00:24:12,760 Like she's got a dress. 596 00:24:12,760 --> 00:24:17,320 She knows when she's getting married, like you're pretty much done. 597 00:24:17,320 --> 00:24:22,160 I know there's still a lot to be done, but I cannot believe you guys have all this stuff 598 00:24:22,160 --> 00:24:23,160 done already. 599 00:24:23,160 --> 00:24:24,760 I'm like, it would take me like three years. 600 00:24:24,760 --> 00:24:27,360 I'd be like, I'd have to like live in the moment. 601 00:24:27,360 --> 00:24:30,800 Oh, just got engaged for like three months and be like, yay, I got engaged. 602 00:24:30,800 --> 00:24:33,880 Now I want to start playing, but I want Grana to be there. 603 00:24:33,880 --> 00:24:36,280 So I'm like planning. 604 00:24:36,280 --> 00:24:37,280 Yeah. 605 00:24:37,280 --> 00:24:38,280 All right. 606 00:24:38,280 --> 00:24:42,600 What are you looking forward to most about married life? 607 00:24:42,600 --> 00:24:48,320 I mean, I don't know how much different it's going to be than it is now. 608 00:24:48,320 --> 00:24:55,760 So I mean, I guess, you know, just having someone for the good and the bad, you know, 609 00:24:55,760 --> 00:24:56,760 forever. 610 00:24:56,760 --> 00:24:57,760 Okay. 611 00:24:57,760 --> 00:25:03,400 Do you have a dream honeymoon destination? 612 00:25:03,400 --> 00:25:06,000 If finances were infinite, hell yeah. 613 00:25:06,000 --> 00:25:10,160 I want to go to the Maldives. 614 00:25:10,160 --> 00:25:13,520 I mean, I want to see all that bioluminescent water stuff. 615 00:25:13,520 --> 00:25:15,480 Oh, that would be cool. 616 00:25:15,480 --> 00:25:16,480 Yeah. 617 00:25:16,480 --> 00:25:17,600 Yeah, that would be cool. 618 00:25:17,600 --> 00:25:21,440 So are you going to, do you know if you're going to go on a honeymoon or are you just 619 00:25:21,440 --> 00:25:25,120 going to do your honeymoon at the Cancun or whatever it is that you're going to? 620 00:25:25,120 --> 00:25:26,760 Yeah, I think that's the plan right now. 621 00:25:26,760 --> 00:25:27,760 Okay. 622 00:25:27,760 --> 00:25:31,480 I mean, it of course can change and because I mean, I did ask him if he may want to do 623 00:25:31,480 --> 00:25:35,720 like a venue change or something like that, but I mean, we don't have anything set in 624 00:25:35,720 --> 00:25:36,720 stone. 625 00:25:36,720 --> 00:25:42,480 So what are three qualities you admire about Brandon? 626 00:25:42,480 --> 00:25:47,360 His patience. 627 00:25:47,360 --> 00:25:51,000 I mean, his weird humor. 628 00:25:51,000 --> 00:25:52,480 Oh God. 629 00:25:52,480 --> 00:25:54,960 I'd say that. 630 00:25:54,960 --> 00:25:55,960 What? 631 00:25:55,960 --> 00:26:00,800 You like it and I'm like, oh God. 632 00:26:00,800 --> 00:26:03,200 Sometimes I don't understand it, but okay. 633 00:26:03,200 --> 00:26:08,800 And I mean, just his kindness overall, like he doesn't have a mean bone in his body. 634 00:26:08,800 --> 00:26:09,800 Okay. 635 00:26:09,800 --> 00:26:16,640 So like a couple of weeks ago, I posted a survey on the social medias and let our friends 636 00:26:16,640 --> 00:26:22,160 and followers and things like that respond to the survey. 637 00:26:22,160 --> 00:26:23,640 So I'm going to go through this. 638 00:26:23,640 --> 00:26:24,640 I'm nervous. 639 00:26:24,640 --> 00:26:28,320 Are you going to read the question and all the answers or just the question and the answer? 640 00:26:28,320 --> 00:26:31,000 No, just the question and like a percentage of the answer. 641 00:26:31,000 --> 00:26:32,000 Okay. 642 00:26:32,000 --> 00:26:33,000 Okay. 643 00:26:33,000 --> 00:26:37,120 But I'm going to let you guess what you think the answer was, like the highest answer. 644 00:26:37,120 --> 00:26:38,120 Okay. 645 00:26:38,120 --> 00:26:41,320 So number one, how did Brandon and Sarah meet? 646 00:26:41,320 --> 00:26:51,120 And the options were on a dating app in line at the grocery store or Sarah ran into Brandon's 647 00:26:51,120 --> 00:26:52,120 car. 648 00:26:52,120 --> 00:26:53,120 So like they got in a car accident. 649 00:26:53,120 --> 00:26:56,640 That would be hilarious if that was the top rated answer. 650 00:26:56,640 --> 00:26:58,560 What do you think everyone answered? 651 00:26:58,560 --> 00:27:02,040 I mean, I think most people know how we met and so I'm going with the dating app. 652 00:27:02,040 --> 00:27:03,440 Yes, you are correct. 653 00:27:03,440 --> 00:27:07,320 A hundred percent of all the people said dating app. 654 00:27:07,320 --> 00:27:10,200 So they all know you. 655 00:27:10,200 --> 00:27:13,640 Question number two, where was their first date? 656 00:27:13,640 --> 00:27:21,960 The choices are the movie theater, Brandon's apartment, walk on sports be true or Sarah's 657 00:27:21,960 --> 00:27:24,400 apartment complex pool. 658 00:27:24,400 --> 00:27:27,760 Which one do you think is the answer that people answered? 659 00:27:27,760 --> 00:27:32,480 I feel like people are going to say my complex pool, but we didn't meet in the summer. 660 00:27:32,480 --> 00:27:36,040 So he said Brandon's apartment. 661 00:27:36,040 --> 00:27:41,320 75% said walk ons and 25% said Brandon's apartment. 662 00:27:41,320 --> 00:27:45,520 Like you mean Brandon's apartment. 663 00:27:45,520 --> 00:27:46,720 I don't know who said that. 664 00:27:46,720 --> 00:27:53,120 I can't tell you who that responsive, but it would be funny if we could know. 665 00:27:53,120 --> 00:27:54,120 Okay. 666 00:27:54,120 --> 00:27:55,120 All right. 667 00:27:55,120 --> 00:28:00,400 The question number three, who was most likely to get a speeding ticket, Sarah or Brandon? 668 00:28:00,400 --> 00:28:01,760 Oh, me. 669 00:28:01,760 --> 00:28:02,760 Well, okay. 670 00:28:02,760 --> 00:28:14,000 So 80% said you and a whopping 20% said Brandon, which, you know, I, I've literally never seen 671 00:28:14,000 --> 00:28:15,000 Brandon drive. 672 00:28:15,000 --> 00:28:16,000 Really? 673 00:28:16,000 --> 00:28:17,720 I don't think so. 674 00:28:17,720 --> 00:28:19,040 He doesn't ever really. 675 00:28:19,040 --> 00:28:20,040 Yeah. 676 00:28:20,040 --> 00:28:23,120 Sarah is a control freak and she likes to drive. 677 00:28:23,120 --> 00:28:26,920 Listen, when we went to mobile and came back, I let him drive both times. 678 00:28:26,920 --> 00:28:31,840 And the like first couple of times that I did that, like when we went somewhere, I was 679 00:28:31,840 --> 00:28:33,120 like, oh, I hate this. 680 00:28:33,120 --> 00:28:35,240 But now I'm like, yes, passenger princess. 681 00:28:35,240 --> 00:28:37,480 I love being the passenger. 682 00:28:37,480 --> 00:28:43,640 I used to hate it before I had this one boyfriend, like a long time ago, it was been years, like 683 00:28:43,640 --> 00:28:45,240 10 years or so. 684 00:28:45,240 --> 00:28:49,080 I was like, I couldn't stand that he always wanted to drive, but then he started chauffeuring 685 00:28:49,080 --> 00:28:52,360 me and I was like, oh my God, this is the best thing ever. 686 00:28:52,360 --> 00:28:54,800 Cause you can like do your makeup in the car. 687 00:28:54,800 --> 00:28:55,800 Yes. 688 00:28:55,800 --> 00:28:56,800 And I've done that. 689 00:28:56,800 --> 00:28:58,080 Play on your phone, do whatever you want. 690 00:28:58,080 --> 00:29:03,240 Well, he's a terrible co-pilot because when he doesn't have anything to do, he just wants 691 00:29:03,240 --> 00:29:04,640 to like go to sleep or whatever. 692 00:29:04,640 --> 00:29:09,800 And I can't stand that because I need you to at least talk to me or be available for 693 00:29:09,800 --> 00:29:12,560 a conversation should I want to have one. 694 00:29:12,560 --> 00:29:13,560 Yeah. 695 00:29:13,560 --> 00:29:14,560 And I do that for him. 696 00:29:14,560 --> 00:29:17,520 Like I don't, I'm not a sleep in the car kind of person, not anymore. 697 00:29:17,520 --> 00:29:18,520 Oh my God. 698 00:29:18,520 --> 00:29:19,520 I will. 699 00:29:19,520 --> 00:29:20,520 I normal, I don't know. 700 00:29:20,520 --> 00:29:22,840 I don't know if I sleep in a car unless it's on a long trip. 701 00:29:22,840 --> 00:29:23,840 Yeah. 702 00:29:23,840 --> 00:29:24,840 Okay. 703 00:29:24,840 --> 00:29:27,720 So next question's how old question? 704 00:29:27,720 --> 00:29:30,600 How many kids do they want? 705 00:29:30,600 --> 00:29:34,600 Answer choices are four, three, two, or one, or kids. 706 00:29:34,600 --> 00:29:36,840 Are you crazy? 707 00:29:36,840 --> 00:29:37,840 And what do you think? 708 00:29:37,840 --> 00:29:42,200 I mean, I know what the answer is, but you know, I know you know what the answer is. 709 00:29:42,200 --> 00:29:43,200 People are going to guess one. 710 00:29:43,200 --> 00:29:44,600 They're going to guess one. 711 00:29:44,600 --> 00:29:45,600 Okay. 712 00:29:45,600 --> 00:29:47,240 But the actual answer is none. 713 00:29:47,240 --> 00:29:48,240 None. 714 00:29:48,240 --> 00:29:49,240 Kids, are you crazy? 715 00:29:49,240 --> 00:29:54,640 So you had a whopping 75% said kids, are you crazy? 716 00:29:54,640 --> 00:29:59,320 And 25% of the people said three. 717 00:29:59,320 --> 00:30:00,320 What? 718 00:30:00,320 --> 00:30:01,320 I know. 719 00:30:01,320 --> 00:30:02,320 That's what I'm saying. 720 00:30:02,320 --> 00:30:06,520 I'm like, I think somebody like put it like intentionally like botched it. 721 00:30:06,520 --> 00:30:12,240 100,000% because if anyone is a true fan of the podcast, they know how you and I both 722 00:30:12,240 --> 00:30:14,240 feel about kids. 723 00:30:14,240 --> 00:30:17,760 Well, you know, I wouldn't be opposed to having kids. 724 00:30:17,760 --> 00:30:24,440 I just can't have kids because there's no sperm to like make a baby with, you know? 725 00:30:24,440 --> 00:30:26,080 And anyway, okay. 726 00:30:26,080 --> 00:30:31,640 So number question number five, what is Brandon's middle name? 727 00:30:31,640 --> 00:30:39,040 Choices are Brandon, Dale, Smithers and Mitchell. 728 00:30:39,040 --> 00:30:45,860 And you have a, most people said Mitchell. 729 00:30:45,860 --> 00:30:52,080 You had a couple people said Brandon and a couple people said Dale. 730 00:30:52,080 --> 00:30:53,080 Brandon Dale. 731 00:30:53,080 --> 00:30:54,080 Brandon Dale. 732 00:30:54,080 --> 00:30:59,720 I mean, Brandon, Brandon has a middle name is like, I mean, a quality guess because it's 733 00:30:59,720 --> 00:31:00,720 his first name. 734 00:31:00,720 --> 00:31:01,720 Yeah. 735 00:31:01,720 --> 00:31:06,520 But I'm not surprised though that majority got it right because I will say Brandon Mitchell 736 00:31:06,520 --> 00:31:07,520 a lot. 737 00:31:07,520 --> 00:31:08,520 Yeah. 738 00:31:08,520 --> 00:31:09,520 Well, I haven't heard you say that. 739 00:31:09,520 --> 00:31:10,520 Maybe I have. 740 00:31:10,520 --> 00:31:13,080 I just don't pay attention, but Mitchell is his middle name. 741 00:31:13,080 --> 00:31:15,120 So I can't believe you didn't put Sue on there. 742 00:31:15,120 --> 00:31:16,120 Oh my gosh. 743 00:31:16,120 --> 00:31:17,120 I forgot about that. 744 00:31:17,120 --> 00:31:20,480 See you call Brandon Sue and I'll leave. 745 00:31:20,480 --> 00:31:23,160 I had to text you and be like, what's what's Brandon's middle name? 746 00:31:23,160 --> 00:31:24,160 I forgot it. 747 00:31:24,160 --> 00:31:28,160 I was like, oh my God, I like know what this is and I can't remember. 748 00:31:28,160 --> 00:31:29,680 Okay. 749 00:31:29,680 --> 00:31:30,680 Next question. 750 00:31:30,680 --> 00:31:36,300 Question number six, who is the better cook, Sarah or Brandon? 751 00:31:36,300 --> 00:31:37,400 And what do you think the answer is? 752 00:31:37,400 --> 00:31:43,520 I feel like people are going to guess me just because I have been around a lot of people 753 00:31:43,520 --> 00:31:47,360 for a long time and like I always bring food and I am pretty damn good at cooking. 754 00:31:47,360 --> 00:31:49,600 But I mean, Brandon is the one who went to culinary school. 755 00:31:49,600 --> 00:31:53,520 So I'm going to say that I'm just going to let you down a little bit because the majority 756 00:31:53,520 --> 00:31:54,520 of people said Brandon. 757 00:31:54,520 --> 00:31:59,520 I'm never bringing any of your hosts, creamy salsa or creamy jalapeno or buffalo chicken. 758 00:31:59,520 --> 00:32:07,520 You had a couple of people on the Sarah side, but I think they were just being nice. 759 00:32:07,520 --> 00:32:08,520 I'm just kidding. 760 00:32:08,520 --> 00:32:09,520 I'm just kidding. 761 00:32:09,520 --> 00:32:10,520 Okay. 762 00:32:10,520 --> 00:32:11,820 I'm a good cook though. 763 00:32:11,820 --> 00:32:14,880 This next one will surprise you either. 764 00:32:14,880 --> 00:32:18,320 Well, this one's, you think you'll get this one right. 765 00:32:18,320 --> 00:32:21,520 I'll see maybe who is more stubborn, Sarah or Brandon? 766 00:32:21,520 --> 00:32:22,520 Me a hundred percent. 767 00:32:22,520 --> 00:32:23,520 Yes. 768 00:32:23,520 --> 00:32:24,520 A hundred percent of all people said Sarah. 769 00:32:24,520 --> 00:32:25,520 I am not surprised. 770 00:32:25,520 --> 00:32:26,520 That is facts. 771 00:32:26,520 --> 00:32:27,520 All right. 772 00:32:27,520 --> 00:32:35,640 Question number eight, when did Brandon meet Sarah's parents for the first time? 773 00:32:35,640 --> 00:32:47,200 The answer choices are Christmas 2022, iron bowl, which is Alabama Auburn game 2022, just 774 00:32:47,200 --> 00:32:51,980 a random Tuesday or Thanksgiving 2022. 775 00:32:51,980 --> 00:32:53,560 What do you think they put? 776 00:32:53,560 --> 00:32:57,240 I think they put the right answer, which is Thanksgiving. 777 00:32:57,240 --> 00:33:01,600 Well, most people did say Thanksgiving, but we did have a few that said iron bowl and 778 00:33:01,600 --> 00:33:04,040 a few that said just a random Tuesday. 779 00:33:04,040 --> 00:33:06,600 Well, I mean, they did. 780 00:33:06,600 --> 00:33:10,600 We went to Leann's for the iron bowl, but he did go back there with me after it. 781 00:33:10,600 --> 00:33:13,720 So we did technically see them then. 782 00:33:13,720 --> 00:33:14,720 Yeah. 783 00:33:14,720 --> 00:33:16,820 All right. 784 00:33:16,820 --> 00:33:18,840 Let's see. 785 00:33:18,840 --> 00:33:22,360 What is their dog's name? 786 00:33:22,360 --> 00:33:24,560 Sorry. 787 00:33:24,560 --> 00:33:32,680 I'm like question nine, what is their dog's name? 788 00:33:32,680 --> 00:33:40,640 Answer choices are cricket, Rosie, butterbean, Jolene or ace. 789 00:33:40,640 --> 00:33:41,640 What do you think? 790 00:33:41,640 --> 00:33:42,960 I think people got it right. 791 00:33:42,960 --> 00:33:43,960 Everyone got it right. 792 00:33:43,960 --> 00:33:44,960 A hundred percent. 793 00:33:44,960 --> 00:33:45,960 Jolene. 794 00:33:45,960 --> 00:33:50,400 Jolene, Jolene, Jolene, Jolene. 795 00:33:50,400 --> 00:33:53,720 I'm not on key or anything like that. 796 00:33:53,720 --> 00:33:55,400 No, please don't steal my man. 797 00:33:55,400 --> 00:33:59,760 I do have to sing that to her because she likes him better than me. 798 00:33:59,760 --> 00:34:02,000 Does he like her better than you? 799 00:34:02,000 --> 00:34:03,420 Probably. 800 00:34:03,420 --> 00:34:04,920 She doesn't make him do things. 801 00:34:04,920 --> 00:34:06,320 No, she doesn't at all. 802 00:34:06,320 --> 00:34:07,320 She might. 803 00:34:07,320 --> 00:34:10,600 She might make him take a walk every now and then. 804 00:34:10,600 --> 00:34:11,600 Okay. 805 00:34:11,600 --> 00:34:13,280 Next question. 806 00:34:13,280 --> 00:34:16,160 Question number 10, who made the first move? 807 00:34:16,160 --> 00:34:19,000 Who do you think? 808 00:34:19,000 --> 00:34:20,760 What do you think the answer is? 809 00:34:20,760 --> 00:34:23,320 I think the answer is me. 810 00:34:23,320 --> 00:34:24,920 Really? 811 00:34:24,920 --> 00:34:25,920 You think so? 812 00:34:25,920 --> 00:34:26,920 Are you sure? 813 00:34:26,920 --> 00:34:27,920 You sure about that? 814 00:34:27,920 --> 00:34:28,920 I'm not sure. 815 00:34:28,920 --> 00:34:29,920 Okay. 816 00:34:29,920 --> 00:34:30,920 Well, it was split down the middle 50-50, Sarah and Brandon. 817 00:34:30,920 --> 00:34:31,920 I think it was Brandon. 818 00:34:31,920 --> 00:34:34,200 We actually had this conversation. 819 00:34:34,200 --> 00:34:35,600 On our first date, we went to walk ons. 820 00:34:35,600 --> 00:34:39,440 Our second date, we were supposed to go bowling, but it was bowling league or something. 821 00:34:39,440 --> 00:34:44,520 We ended up going back to walk ons again and he kissed me in the parking lot. 822 00:34:44,520 --> 00:34:48,200 Oh, go Brandon. 823 00:34:48,200 --> 00:34:52,040 Let's go Brandon. 824 00:34:52,040 --> 00:34:56,480 Let's go Brandon. 825 00:34:56,480 --> 00:34:59,480 Unfortunate for you, Brandon. 826 00:34:59,480 --> 00:35:00,480 Okay. 827 00:35:00,480 --> 00:35:01,480 That's it. 828 00:35:01,480 --> 00:35:02,480 Oh my gosh. 829 00:35:02,480 --> 00:35:04,800 I thought we had more than that, but that is the result of the question. 830 00:35:04,800 --> 00:35:06,800 Essentially, everyone knows. 831 00:35:06,800 --> 00:35:08,440 Everyone but maybe two or three people. 832 00:35:08,440 --> 00:35:09,440 I'm just kidding. 833 00:35:09,440 --> 00:35:10,440 Not two or three. 834 00:35:10,440 --> 00:35:11,440 Or somebody just messing with us. 835 00:35:11,440 --> 00:35:19,480 We'll just say a percentage of all the people, maybe 25% don't know Sarah as well as they 836 00:35:19,480 --> 00:35:23,200 thought they did or Brandon as well. 837 00:35:23,200 --> 00:35:25,840 I missed that. 838 00:35:25,840 --> 00:35:28,760 Say that again. 839 00:35:28,760 --> 00:35:29,760 That was cute. 840 00:35:29,760 --> 00:35:30,760 Thank you for doing that. 841 00:35:30,760 --> 00:35:31,760 You're welcome. 842 00:35:31,760 --> 00:35:32,760 All right. 843 00:35:32,760 --> 00:35:35,040 Well, that's it for today, you guys. 844 00:35:35,040 --> 00:35:36,040 That was fun. 845 00:35:36,040 --> 00:35:37,040 Thank you. 846 00:35:37,040 --> 00:35:38,040 I appreciate that. 847 00:35:38,040 --> 00:35:39,040 I'm going to give the engagement party to Sarah. 848 00:35:39,040 --> 00:35:40,040 I don't know. 849 00:35:40,040 --> 00:35:41,040 What is the... 850 00:35:41,040 --> 00:35:42,040 How does the song go? 851 00:35:42,040 --> 00:35:51,040 Or what's the other one that's like the actual wedding when you walk down the aisle? 852 00:35:51,040 --> 00:35:52,040 The wedding march thing? 853 00:35:52,040 --> 00:35:53,040 Yeah. 854 00:35:53,040 --> 00:35:54,040 I don't know. 855 00:35:54,040 --> 00:35:55,040 I'm just kidding. 856 00:35:55,040 --> 00:36:06,520 I feel like that's from the beginning of a movie thing when they open up, like Paramount 857 00:36:06,520 --> 00:36:08,520 Pictures or something. 858 00:36:08,520 --> 00:36:13,400 It's the one with the lion, isn't it? 859 00:36:13,400 --> 00:36:14,400 Or is it the Pegasus? 860 00:36:14,400 --> 00:36:15,400 I have no idea. 861 00:36:15,400 --> 00:36:16,400 All of them. 862 00:36:16,400 --> 00:36:17,400 Or is it like Disney Castle? 863 00:36:17,400 --> 00:36:18,400 Anyways. 864 00:36:18,400 --> 00:36:19,400 All right. 865 00:36:19,400 --> 00:36:28,760 Well, you all can find us at Thick AF Podcast on Instagram. 866 00:36:28,760 --> 00:36:29,760 Find us wherever you get your podcasts. 867 00:36:29,760 --> 00:36:30,760 Send us an email at thickafpodcast.com and give us a like. 868 00:36:30,760 --> 00:36:37,760 Reading, review, all that jazz. 869 00:36:37,760 --> 00:36:46,760 Make sure it's five stars, bitches. 870 00:36:46,760 --> 00:36:49,760 Bye. 871 00:36:49,760 --> 00:36:57,960 A, B, C, D, E, F, G. 872 00:36:57,960 --> 00:36:58,960 I have to go. 873 00:36:58,960 --> 00:37:07,960 I don't know why it's so good.