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Yes, Christian said, I'm very thankful for everybody

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who could come out and gather this morning.

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I really didn't want my preaching calendar to be messed up.

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So I'm glad we can meet.

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And it's always good to be together.

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We're gonna be in Colossians.

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And we're in chapter one still.

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And for many years, if you don't know this about me,

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I was a lifeguard and swim lesson instructor

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for the YMCA for probably five or six years.

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And it was a really fun job,

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but I'll never forget the test that I had to take

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in order to become a lifeguard because it was no joke.

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And I remember at the time thinking,

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this is gonna be no problem,

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because at this point in my life,

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I was working out seven days a week.

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So I was in the best shape I have ever been in

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and will ever be in again because I'm getting old now.

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So, but I was in the best shape of my life.

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If you were to look at me at the time,

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you'd say, man, this guy looks like a lifeguard.

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Like he looks like this test is gonna be no problem for him.

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That's what I thought too.

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So first test, you had to swim 100 meters freestyle,

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nonstop.

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And I thought, that's a cake walk, all right?

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100 meters, that's it.

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I've been swimming my whole life.

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So I jump right in, I start swimming.

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And I've been swimming for about five seconds

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when the aquatics director,

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who's at the side of the pool, starts screaming to me,

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put your face in the water.

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And I was like, but then I won't be able to breathe.

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So clearly I didn't actually know how to swim

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like you were supposed to know how to swim.

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But I get through that test,

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I get through the next couple of ones.

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But then came a test that still scares me to this day.

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And it was called the 300.

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Okay, and what you had to do was basically

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you had to swim 100 meters freestyle,

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100 meters breaststroke.

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And then you got to pick your last 100 meters.

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It could be either freestyle, backstroke,

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or butterfly.

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And you had to do this nonstop.

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And you couldn't hold on to the side of the pool.

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You had to do a flip underwater and keep going.

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Now, I see a lot of faces that are like,

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okay, I don't know if that sounds bad.

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I encourage you to try it, okay?

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Go to the indoor pool and try to swim 300 meters nonstop.

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I thought it was gonna be no problem,

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but I nearly died in that water

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and barely made it back to the side.

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And then I had to go to the bathroom

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where I found my breakfast again.

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So it was a really hard test, right?

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But all of that is to say that even though

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I had the look of a lifeguard,

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I didn't necessarily have the skills to back up that look.

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And if you were to look at me back then,

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you would think, oh yeah, he's gonna get a free pass

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because he looks like he's a lifeguard,

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but that's not how it worked out for me.

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And I'm concerned that in the same way,

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just because you have the look of a Christian,

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just because your life has the appearance

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of a Christian life does not mean

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that you are necessarily pleasing to God.

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In fact, I'm concerned that we have too many people today

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who merely have the appearance of the Christian life,

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but do not actually have the life of a Christian life

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to back that up.

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We have a lot of people today

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who look the part of a mature Christian,

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a lot of people who call themselves Christians,

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who come to church,

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a lot of people who look like they can handle

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just about anything that comes their way.

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We've got a lot of people

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that you could probably even point to in this room this morning

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and say, that person is living a life

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that is pleasing to God.

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And yet for many of these people,

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they lack the walk to back up their talk.

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There's a difference between being able to talk

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like a Christian and actually live like a Christian.

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And in the same way,

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my appearance didn't enable me to perform well

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on my lifeguard test,

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your Christian appearance will not actually enable you

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or equip you to live a life that is pleasing to God.

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And yet that's exactly what Jesus wants from all of us.

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Is it not?

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I mean, Paul even says so in these verses here.

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He says that he wants us to live lives

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that are worthy of the gospel.

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He wants us to be found pleasing in the sight of the Lord.

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And so what he's trying to get to here in these verses

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is that unequipped disciples are unpleasing disciples.

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Meaning if all you have is the facade of Christianity,

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without actually having the substance of Christianity,

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God is not actually pleased with you.

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it means that you're not equipped in those areas spiritually.

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And if you're not equipped spiritually,

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it means that you're not gonna walk in a manner

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where you're not actually pleased with you.

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And so what he's trying to do is he's trying to get you

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to live a life that is pleasing to God.

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You're gonna walk in a manner worthy of the gospel

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and you're not gonna be found pleasing

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in the sight of the Lord.

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And so one of the best things that you can do,

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and I have found through studying this passage,

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is one of the best things you can do

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is you can begin to pray for all the areas

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where you're lacking and ask God to equip you

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to better be able to walk and step with him.

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So here's what I wanna do this morning.

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I'm gonna do something a little different.

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I wanna give you four prayers

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that you should start praying immediately

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for yourself and for others, especially for our church.

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These are four prayers that you should start praying

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immediately if you want to begin to live a life

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that is worthy of the gospel

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and be found pleasing in the sight of God.

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So does that sound good with everybody?

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Good?

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Good?

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All right, here's the point where we talk, all right?

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So yeah, introductions out,

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and now we're gonna get in the sermon.

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All right, so everybody, let's let out a sigh of relief

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or give me an amen or something.

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I just wanna know you're alive.

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Everybody?

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All right, there we go, man.

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I was real concerned there for a second.

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The eyes froze everybody's voices.

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All right, verse nine.

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First prayer is a prayer for spiritual wisdom.

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Look at what he says.

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And so from the day we heard,

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we have not ceased to pray for you,

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asking that you may be filled with the knowledge of his will

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in all spiritual wisdom and understanding.

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Now I want you to notice this.

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Paul's gonna use three words here,

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and it's three words that we typically lump together

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as being synonymous.

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He uses the words knowledge, understanding, and wisdom.

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And we tend to lump those together,

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but the thing is there are some important differences

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between them.

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For instance, knowledge is just brute facts.

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It's just the content of what you know.

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Understanding is the comprehension of those facts,

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and then wisdom is the right application of those facts.

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And I can show you what this looks like practically.

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So here's some knowledge for you if you did not know this.

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Studies have shown that when a father is the first

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in the family to come to faith in Christ,

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there's a, do you know what the percentage chance is

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that the rest of the family comes to Christ?

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Anybody?

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90.

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If a father is the first one in the family

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to come to Christ, there is a 90% chance

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the rest of the family will come to Christ.

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If only the mother is a Christian,

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the likelihood of the rest of the family coming to Christ

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is between 17 and 20%.

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Now that's knowledge.

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Those are just brute facts, okay?

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Understanding then is realizing how essential

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the father is, not only for the sake of his own soul,

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but for the sake of the souls of his family.

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How important and essential the father is

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for the spiritual wellbeing of his family.

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And then wisdom then is a call, men.

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Wisdom here is a call for every single man

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to begin to get right with Christ immediately

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and to step up and be the spiritual leader of his household

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that God has called him to be, because your family

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and your family's souls are depending on it.

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So that's knowledge and understanding

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and wisdom, and Paul is saying that Christians need

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all three of these when it comes to God's will

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and spiritual matters.

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In other words, listen to me, it's not enough

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to just know a lot of stuff about God.

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I think everybody in here knows a lot of stuff about God.

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Do we not?

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We can give you facts, we can talk theology,

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we can quote the Bible to you.

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We have a lot of content, and the Bible is saying here,

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the content isn't enough.

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You need to understand it and you need to live it out.

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If it only ever stays in your head

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and it never moves to your hands and your feet,

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you've got a problem.

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In fact, Paul says he wants us to be filled

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with these things.

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Notice that word there, filled.

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You can circle it, underline it.

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It's a really important word, because when Paul says filled

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here, he doesn't mean that he wants Christians

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simply to possess a lot of this stuff.

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Now, obviously he does want that.

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so that you can just be full of this stuff.

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The word filled here has the idea in Greek

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of being controlled by something.

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To be so full of something that you're actually

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controlled by it.

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We still use it in this way today.

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Think about if you say a person is filled with rage.

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What are we saying?

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We're not just saying that they're really angry.

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We're saying that they're so angry that they've lost

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all sense of common sense and now their anger

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is literally controlling them.

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It's determining what they say, what they do, how they act.

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That's what it means to be filled with something.

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It means to be controlled.

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The same thing is true if we say a person is filled

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with lust.

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What are we saying?

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We're not just saying they have a lot of lust.

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We're saying they've lost the ability

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to make good decisions and now that lust

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is controlling them in what they do.

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And so in the same way Paul's prayer is that Christians

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would be so filled with the knowledge and wisdom

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and understanding of God's will that they would begin

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to be controlled by it.

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And so here's a prayer that you should start

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praying immediately for yourself and for the church.

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Here's what you say.

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You say, Lord, fill me with spiritual wisdom

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so that it controls my thoughts, attitudes, motivations,

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and actions today.

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Lord, fill me with spiritual wisdom so that it controls

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my thoughts, attitudes, motivations, and actions today.

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I think one of the biggest problems we have

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in the church today is that we have a lot of people

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who are desiring to be wise in the Lord

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and live lives that are pleasing to God

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and yet they never actually pray for God

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to make that a reality.

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The Bible tells us in James chapter one

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that you can pray and ask God for wisdom

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and the Bible says that he will give generously

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to those who ask for it.

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In fact, as far as I know, it is the only thing

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in the Bible that if you pray for it,

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you are guaranteed to get it.

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If you ask God for wisdom, he will give you wisdom.

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The problem is we're not asking for it.

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We rarely take time to pray for it.

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And so we're going, God, why am I not wise?

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Why am I not living a life that is showing

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that I have spiritual maturity and wisdom?

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It's because we're not praying for it.

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We're completely neglecting it.

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But let me ask you a question, church.

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Can you imagine how different our church would be

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and how different the world would be

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if we started to pray something like this every single day?

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If we no longer let our feelings control how we speak

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or act in any given situation.

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If we were no longer motivated by selfish ambition,

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but instead we are motivated by living

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in accordance with God's will.

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What if we were no longer acting towards

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our own selfish ends, but we were acting

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and doing everything for the glory of God alone?

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What if we stopped letting our thoughts control us

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and instead we took every thought captive

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and made it submissive to Christ

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and we were controlled by the knowledge of God and His will.

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I think the world would look drastically different.

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I think the church would look different.

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And listen, I guarantee you that your life

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would look different.

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And so we need to start praying this prayer immediately

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because we want to be a people

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who are pleasing in the sight of God.

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We want to live lives that are worthy of the gospel

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and we're not gonna do that if we're not controlled

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by the knowledge, understanding and wisdom of God's will.

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But I want you to notice what he says next.

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It's a prayer for obedient lives.

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There in verse 10,

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he says, so as to walk in a manner worthy of the Lord,

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fully pleasing to Him.

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Now here again is interesting

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because if I were to take a poll of the room

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and I'm tempted to have you raise your hands,

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but I'm not gonna do that.

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But if I were, and I said,

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how many Christians in here want to live a life

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that is pleasing to God?

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I think we'd see everybody's hands go up, right?

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Yes, amen.

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I think we'd all raise our hands.

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We all want to live a life that is pleasing to God.

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But here's where the problem comes in.

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I think that we all have different definitions

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of what that actually looks like.

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I'm convinced that most Christians

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are subconsciously thinking or hoping

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that God is gonna grade on a curve.

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If you remember back to school,

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I doubt Lorraine ever did this,

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but there were some teachers, okay?

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Yeah, no, she's saying, no, she never did this, all right?

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This doesn't apply to her.

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But there were some teachers

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where if every student did poorly enough,

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what would they do?

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They would grade on a curve.

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So now even those who did really bad have a passing grade.

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What did the teacher do?

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The teacher lowered the standard.

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And they said, okay, since everybody's doing bad,

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the standard's now gonna be lowered,

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so everybody is looking pretty good now,

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according to the state.

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Well, I think a lot of Christians

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think that way about God.

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There are many Christians who are looking around going,

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hey, listen, God, if I'm just judging myself here,

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everybody's doing pretty badly down here, okay?

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Like with a few exceptions or a couple of exceptional people,

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but pretty much everybody's doing bad.

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So God's probably gonna lower the standard, right?

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That's not how it works.

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God doesn't change his standard based on human performance.

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So we understand that church.

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God's not gonna lower his standard

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because most people on earth are doing poorly.

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In fact, the Bible says in Matthew chapter five,

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Jesus tells us that we must be perfect

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as our heavenly father is perfect.

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That is God's standard, and God's not changing that standard.

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Now, you can never reach that standard on your own.

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It is only by being justified,

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declared right on the side of God,

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that you can actually obtain the perfection of Christ

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that he earned for us through his life.

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But listen to me, God's standard does not change.

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He does not grade on a curve.

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And so what you need to understand

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is that partial obedience

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will never be fully pleasing to God.

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I know a lot of us here this morning are thinking,

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I'm probably good in the eyes of God, right?

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I'm probably good in the eyes of God.

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If I'm looking around, I'm doing better than most people.

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I come to church when I can.

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I try to be nice to others.

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I try not to cuss or do horrible things.

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I try to help out and be a friendly person.

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So I'm pretty sure God is pleased with me.

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And I wanna suggest to you this morning

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that maybe the reason that you think

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God is pleased with your life

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is because there's actually too much distance

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between you and Jesus.

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There's this artist that I like.

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And he does this thing where sometimes

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he will try to paint a famous painting from memory

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without any reference.

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And it's really cool.

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And so he posted a video recently

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where he posted a video of him painting

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the Mona Lisa from memory.

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And when he got done with it, I was looking at it

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and I was like, yeah, that's the Mona Lisa.

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If anybody was going to walk by, they would see that

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and they'd clearly go, yeah, that's absolutely

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the Mona Lisa.

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In fact, when I was looking at it,

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I couldn't even really tell you what was wrong.

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I could tell something was off,

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but I couldn't even pinpoint it.

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And so at the end of the video,

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what he did is he got a picture of the actual Mona Lisa

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and he put it next to the one he painted.

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And then I was like, buddy.

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Like, I don't even know that I could say

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the first one's the Mona Lisa anymore.

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But once you put the real thing next to his imitation,

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you could see all the ways that his fell short.

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It was very clear where all the flaws were

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and where all the areas where he messed up.

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And so I tell you that to tell you

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that maybe the reason that you think your life is so good

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in the eyes of God is because you're spending a lot of time

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looking at just your life

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and you don't really want to hold it up

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next to the life of Jesus.

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Because let me ask you, what happens

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when you put the life of Jesus next to your life?

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Does your life look so good anymore?

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No.

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When you do that, when you put the life of Jesus

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next to yours, all of a sudden,

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all of your flaws are very obvious.

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All of the ways you fall short, they are very obvious.

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And all the ways that you need God's help,

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they are very obvious.

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In fact, I want to tell you one of the most humbling things

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you can do, open up your Bibles

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and go read one of the Gospels,

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Matthew, Mark, Luke, or John

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and just read any story about Jesus.

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And when you do that, here's what I want you to do.

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Read any story about Jesus and ask yourself,

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how would I have responded in this situation?

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What would I have said if I were Jesus in this situation?

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What would I have done?

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And if you're honest in this exercise,

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you're gonna see just how different you are from Jesus.

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I mean, there are a lot of times

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where I would have lost my patience on the Pharisees,

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the Sadducees, and Peter, bless his heart,

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and Peter, I would have lost my patience.

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And yet you see Jesus, and he is just so loving

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and kind and patient and merciful and gracious.

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And when I see that, I go, God, that is not what I am.

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I am so far from your standard.

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I'm so far from where you need me to be.

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But the point is this church,

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the further away we are from Jesus,

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the more likely we are going to be

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to think we're doing okay.

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But the closer you are to Jesus,

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the more likely you are to realize

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how much you need God's help.

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In fact, that is true of all the best Christians I know.

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There's some Christians in my life,

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and I look up to them, they are mentors to me,

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I respect them, and I would say they are so close to God.

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But if you were to ask any one of them,

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they would tell you, I love the Lord, but man,

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I'm just a sinner saved by grace.

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I'm just a sinner in desperate need of God's grace daily.

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And yet it's these other Christians,

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the ones that I know are not walking with the Lord daily.

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The ones that I know are entertaining sin in their lives.

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They're the ones who tell me, Pastor, I'm good.

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God's happy with me.

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It's because there's too much distance

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between us and Jesus.

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If we're not close to Him,

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we're gonna be tempted to think

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God's pretty pleased with what we're doing.

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And so here's the prayer

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that I want you to start praying immediately.

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You say, Lord, draw me closer to Jesus

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so that my flaws are exposed

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and I may walk more in step with Him.

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Pray this prayer every day, Lord, draw me closer to Jesus

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so that my flaws are exposed

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and I may walk more in step with Him.

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In other words, church,

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we do not want to settle for partial obedience anymore.

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We don't wanna just keep patting ourselves on the back

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because we're mostly obedient

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because being mostly obedient, being partially obedient,

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it will never be fully pleasing to God.

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And we need Jesus to expose our sins

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because here's something I know about everybody in here.

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Most of us are pretty blind to our flaws most of the time.

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Are we not?

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I mean, we might think you're doing great

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and then someone comes right alongside of you

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and they go, hey, have you noticed

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you've got a problem with patience?

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You're like, no, I did not notice that.

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I can't believe anybody did.

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We're pretty blind to our flaws most of the time, right?

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We need someone to come and expose that

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and the best person to expose that would be Jesus.

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And so your prayer every day should be,

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Lord, I don't want sin in my life.

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I want it to be exposed so that I can repent of that sin

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and so that I can start living a life

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that is more pleasing to you.

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So draw me closer to Jesus so that I can see those flaws,

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repent of them and then keep me close

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so that I can walk more in step with Jesus every day.

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Listen, I would love it if you would start praying this

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for other Christians too.

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Because here's another tendency we have in the church today

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is we have a tendency to get frustrated more than we pray.

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And so what we'll do is we'll see Christians

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who are struggling in sin

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or we'll see Christians who are getting lax in their walk

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and we go, what is wrong with them?

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Like, I thought they were so on fire for the Lord

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for a time and they were coming to church

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and I saw them here on Sunday morning

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and they were getting active

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and they were doing all these things

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and now I don't know the last time I've seen them.

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They're not reading their Bible, they're not praying.

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Like they're drifting from God

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and we have a tendency to get frustrated then.

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But what if instead of getting frustrated,

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we started praying for them?

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And we started saying, Lord, draw them back to you.

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Show them how much they need you in their lives

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on a daily basis, expose their sins

523
00:21:37,440 --> 00:21:39,120
and then keep them close to you

524
00:21:39,120 --> 00:21:42,240
so that they will live a life that is pleasing to you.

525
00:21:42,240 --> 00:21:44,160
What would the change look like, church,

526
00:21:44,160 --> 00:21:45,840
if we stopped getting frustrated

527
00:21:45,840 --> 00:21:47,720
and actually got down on our knees

528
00:21:47,720 --> 00:21:51,000
and started praying for our brothers and sisters in Christ?

529
00:21:51,000 --> 00:21:52,440
Do you think there'd be a noticeable difference

530
00:21:52,440 --> 00:21:53,880
in the church?

531
00:21:53,880 --> 00:21:54,720
I do.

532
00:21:55,480 --> 00:21:58,400
And so I think you should start praying this prayer immediately

533
00:21:58,400 --> 00:22:01,040
and then Paul says we should pray for a fruitful ministry.

534
00:22:01,040 --> 00:22:02,160
Look at verse 10.

535
00:22:04,400 --> 00:22:05,440
In the last part of verse 10,

536
00:22:05,440 --> 00:22:09,040
he says, bearing fruit in every good work

537
00:22:09,040 --> 00:22:12,800
and increasing in the knowledge of God.

538
00:22:12,800 --> 00:22:15,080
Now, I don't know if you've ever worked

539
00:22:15,080 --> 00:22:17,200
on a job site with someone.

540
00:22:17,200 --> 00:22:19,000
Could be an actual job site.

541
00:22:19,000 --> 00:22:20,680
Greg Berryhill's done this a lot.

542
00:22:20,680 --> 00:22:23,240
Or if you're working on a project with someone

543
00:22:23,240 --> 00:22:25,840
or a group project or any environment

544
00:22:25,840 --> 00:22:28,080
where you have to work with other people.

545
00:22:28,080 --> 00:22:29,040
But if you've done this,

546
00:22:29,040 --> 00:22:30,440
you'll notice there are typically

547
00:22:30,440 --> 00:22:33,120
about three kinds of people, maybe more,

548
00:22:33,120 --> 00:22:35,760
but here are my general three categories.

549
00:22:35,760 --> 00:22:38,880
You've got your leaders and they plan everything.

550
00:22:38,880 --> 00:22:41,800
They oversee the project, they help out.

551
00:22:41,800 --> 00:22:43,400
Then you've got your laborers.

552
00:22:43,400 --> 00:22:44,680
And as you can imagine,

553
00:22:44,680 --> 00:22:47,440
they're the ones who do the majority of the work

554
00:22:47,440 --> 00:22:48,840
and heavy lifting.

555
00:22:48,840 --> 00:22:53,160
And then you got the people that I call the lookers.

556
00:22:54,680 --> 00:22:56,160
Why do you call them the lookers, pastor?

557
00:22:56,160 --> 00:22:57,880
I'm glad you asked.

558
00:22:57,880 --> 00:23:02,160
It's because these people always look

559
00:23:02,160 --> 00:23:04,560
like they're busy with something,

560
00:23:04,560 --> 00:23:07,840
but they never actually do a thing.

561
00:23:07,840 --> 00:23:09,160
You know people like this?

562
00:23:09,160 --> 00:23:10,560
Yeah, don't look around.

563
00:23:10,560 --> 00:23:13,240
But okay, you've met a couple of these.

564
00:23:13,240 --> 00:23:16,200
No matter what, they always have their hand on something.

565
00:23:16,200 --> 00:23:18,880
They always are running around looking busy

566
00:23:18,880 --> 00:23:20,720
and looking like they're working.

567
00:23:20,720 --> 00:23:22,000
But then if you're close to it,

568
00:23:22,000 --> 00:23:24,360
you're like, hold on a second, he didn't do a thing.

569
00:23:24,360 --> 00:23:26,120
He was just standing there the whole time.

570
00:23:26,120 --> 00:23:29,080
This also applies to mission trips.

571
00:23:29,080 --> 00:23:31,440
Anybody who's been on a mission trip knows this.

572
00:23:31,440 --> 00:23:33,240
You're going and you're doing a bunch of work.

573
00:23:33,240 --> 00:23:35,560
And then there's a group of people who never do any work,

574
00:23:35,560 --> 00:23:37,800
but the camera comes out and all of a sudden,

575
00:23:37,800 --> 00:23:40,080
they're carrying two by fours and a drill,

576
00:23:40,080 --> 00:23:42,400
has no bid in it, but they've got the drill in there.

577
00:23:42,400 --> 00:23:44,000
And they're like, we're doing this for Jesus.

578
00:23:44,000 --> 00:23:46,360
And again, there's no bid, but it's for Jesus.

579
00:23:46,360 --> 00:23:48,160
And they're in every single picture.

580
00:23:48,160 --> 00:23:49,880
So that's the lookers.

581
00:23:49,880 --> 00:23:52,960
My point is there's a big difference

582
00:23:52,960 --> 00:23:57,960
between being busy and looking busy and being productive.

583
00:23:58,000 --> 00:23:59,840
There's a big difference.

584
00:23:59,840 --> 00:24:02,120
And my concern for Christians today

585
00:24:02,120 --> 00:24:06,760
is that a lot of us are really good at looking busy

586
00:24:06,760 --> 00:24:11,760
and being busy, but not a lot of us are very productive.

587
00:24:13,200 --> 00:24:17,040
I think we've got a lot of Martha's and not a lot of Mary's.

588
00:24:17,040 --> 00:24:18,520
You remember the story of Mary and Martha?

589
00:24:18,520 --> 00:24:20,160
That's one of my favorite in the Bible.

590
00:24:20,160 --> 00:24:22,920
Jesus comes to the house of the two sisters

591
00:24:22,920 --> 00:24:25,920
and Martha's like, I know what I'm gonna do.

592
00:24:25,920 --> 00:24:27,640
I'm gonna start serving.

593
00:24:27,640 --> 00:24:28,920
I'm gonna start doing everything.

594
00:24:28,920 --> 00:24:31,080
I'm gonna start cooking and cleaning and tidying up

595
00:24:31,080 --> 00:24:31,960
and getting everything ready.

596
00:24:31,960 --> 00:24:34,480
And the Bible even says she distracted herself,

597
00:24:34,480 --> 00:24:37,160
and she's busy herself with much serving.

598
00:24:37,160 --> 00:24:39,280
And so she's doing all this, and the problem is what?

599
00:24:39,280 --> 00:24:41,760
Her sister is not helping her.

600
00:24:41,760 --> 00:24:43,880
And she's like, well, this isn't fair.

601
00:24:43,880 --> 00:24:44,720
I'm doing all this work.

602
00:24:44,720 --> 00:24:45,640
And she even goes to Jesus.

603
00:24:45,640 --> 00:24:47,600
She's like, hey, I don't know if you've noticed this.

604
00:24:47,600 --> 00:24:48,680
I've done everything.

605
00:24:48,680 --> 00:24:50,040
She hasn't done a thing.

606
00:24:50,980 --> 00:24:52,080
But where was Mary?

607
00:24:53,600 --> 00:24:56,280
She was sitting at the feet of Jesus.

608
00:24:56,280 --> 00:24:59,680
And Jesus tells Martha, I'm not gonna scold her

609
00:24:59,680 --> 00:25:03,880
because Mary has chosen the better portion.

610
00:25:03,880 --> 00:25:06,400
She's chosen the good portion.

611
00:25:07,360 --> 00:25:10,000
And I think a lot of people today,

612
00:25:10,000 --> 00:25:11,080
you know, look at our church,

613
00:25:11,080 --> 00:25:12,920
and something that's true about our church

614
00:25:12,920 --> 00:25:14,800
is pretty much everyone in here

615
00:25:14,800 --> 00:25:17,520
is wearing 10 different hats.

616
00:25:17,520 --> 00:25:18,360
And that's great.

617
00:25:18,360 --> 00:25:19,200
I appreciate that.

618
00:25:19,200 --> 00:25:21,200
I'm wearing about 15 or so myself.

619
00:25:21,200 --> 00:25:23,920
So I love you and I appreciate you doing that.

620
00:25:23,920 --> 00:25:26,040
But one of the problems is people get so busy

621
00:25:26,040 --> 00:25:27,360
that they end up burning out.

622
00:25:27,360 --> 00:25:28,640
And I think one of the reasons

623
00:25:28,640 --> 00:25:30,760
that so many people burn out in church

624
00:25:30,760 --> 00:25:32,840
is because we've got a lot of people today

625
00:25:32,840 --> 00:25:36,120
who are much more eager and willing to serve Jesus

626
00:25:36,120 --> 00:25:38,120
than they are to simply sit with Jesus.

627
00:25:39,520 --> 00:25:42,640
And if you never take the time to sit with Jesus

628
00:25:42,640 --> 00:25:45,400
and all you ever do is serve Jesus,

629
00:25:45,400 --> 00:25:47,880
you're gonna end up burning out real quick.

630
00:25:49,000 --> 00:25:52,840
Because it's no longer gonna be about serving a living savior.

631
00:25:52,840 --> 00:25:54,800
It's gonna be about making sure you do

632
00:25:54,800 --> 00:25:57,120
as much as you possibly can.

633
00:25:57,120 --> 00:25:58,160
And you're gonna end up doing it

634
00:25:58,160 --> 00:26:00,160
in your own strength and power,

635
00:26:00,160 --> 00:26:02,520
which is absolutely pointless.

636
00:26:02,520 --> 00:26:04,280
Because we can do nothing in our own power.

637
00:26:04,280 --> 00:26:07,200
The Bible tells us that we can either plant a seed

638
00:26:07,200 --> 00:26:08,960
or we can water a plant.

639
00:26:08,960 --> 00:26:11,160
But who is it that gives the growth, church?

640
00:26:12,160 --> 00:26:13,400
God, that's an easy answer.

641
00:26:13,400 --> 00:26:15,400
You could have said Jesus is the Sunday school answer.

642
00:26:15,400 --> 00:26:17,560
Who gives the growth, church?

643
00:26:17,560 --> 00:26:18,600
Jesus, God, okay.

644
00:26:18,600 --> 00:26:20,680
Again, not a lot of response there.

645
00:26:20,680 --> 00:26:23,160
We'll chalk it up to cold weather, but it'll be all right.

646
00:26:23,160 --> 00:26:25,560
God is the one who gives the growth.

647
00:26:25,560 --> 00:26:28,880
God is the one who causes something to bear fruit.

648
00:26:28,880 --> 00:26:32,800
The Bible says unless the Lord builds the house,

649
00:26:32,800 --> 00:26:37,080
those who labor do so in vain.

650
00:26:37,080 --> 00:26:40,160
And so if you want your life in ministry to be fruitful,

651
00:26:40,160 --> 00:26:41,680
you need to remember who it is

652
00:26:41,680 --> 00:26:45,560
that actually brings forth the fruit in the first place.

653
00:26:45,560 --> 00:26:46,440
And so here's the prayer.

654
00:26:46,440 --> 00:26:48,960
You should start praying immediately.

655
00:26:48,960 --> 00:26:53,960
Lord, remind me to sit with you before I serve you.

656
00:26:53,960 --> 00:26:58,960
So that I will depend on you for a fruitful life in ministry.

657
00:27:00,840 --> 00:27:04,960
Lord, remind me to sit with you before I serve you

658
00:27:04,960 --> 00:27:08,960
so that I will depend on you for a fruitful life in ministry.

659
00:27:08,960 --> 00:27:11,240
Church, we need to be praying this for each other

660
00:27:11,240 --> 00:27:12,640
on a daily basis.

661
00:27:12,640 --> 00:27:15,640
We need to be praying this for our church on a daily basis

662
00:27:15,640 --> 00:27:18,760
because I am praying that the Lord will continue

663
00:27:18,760 --> 00:27:21,760
to produce and bear much fruit in this church.

664
00:27:21,760 --> 00:27:25,160
We want to have a fruitful ministry here at George's Creek.

665
00:27:25,160 --> 00:27:28,400
And I want to just take this opportunity to remind you

666
00:27:28,400 --> 00:27:31,040
that we have seen a lot of fruit over the past five years.

667
00:27:31,040 --> 00:27:32,560
Have we not, church?

668
00:27:32,560 --> 00:27:35,240
We've seen some wonderful blessings over the past five years.

669
00:27:35,240 --> 00:27:37,880
We've seen tons of fruit here in this church.

670
00:27:37,880 --> 00:27:39,760
So let me remind you,

671
00:27:39,760 --> 00:27:44,760
I am not the one who is responsible for the fruit

672
00:27:44,760 --> 00:27:46,960
that we have seen in this church.

673
00:27:46,960 --> 00:27:49,560
I am not the one who made this church grow.

674
00:27:49,560 --> 00:27:52,360
I am not the one who made this church effective.

675
00:27:52,360 --> 00:27:56,000
I am not the one who made this church produce fruit.

676
00:27:56,000 --> 00:27:59,160
It was all God and God alone.

677
00:27:59,160 --> 00:28:00,440
Are we all clear on that?

678
00:28:00,440 --> 00:28:02,360
It was not Alex, it was God.

679
00:28:02,360 --> 00:28:05,680
To God alone belongs the glory.

680
00:28:05,680 --> 00:28:07,960
And we want to continue to see this fruit.

681
00:28:07,960 --> 00:28:11,600
And so we need to pray that we would be a people

682
00:28:11,600 --> 00:28:15,200
who are not just busy, but bountiful,

683
00:28:15,200 --> 00:28:19,200
making sure that we never disconnect our service to God.

684
00:28:19,200 --> 00:28:21,960
And we need to be a people who are not just busy,

685
00:28:21,960 --> 00:28:25,240
but are busy with our service to the Lord

686
00:28:25,240 --> 00:28:27,840
from our relationship with the Lord.

687
00:28:27,840 --> 00:28:31,000
Because if you start removing Jesus from that relationship,

688
00:28:31,000 --> 00:28:33,440
you're just going to turn into a bunch of Pharisees.

689
00:28:33,440 --> 00:28:35,600
And this church will die out quickly.

690
00:28:35,600 --> 00:28:39,040
We need to be like Mary and not like Martha.

691
00:28:39,040 --> 00:28:41,160
So notice this final thing that Paul says

692
00:28:41,160 --> 00:28:42,560
we should be praying for.

693
00:28:42,560 --> 00:28:47,040
And it is joyful perseverance in verses 11 through 12.

694
00:28:47,040 --> 00:28:49,760
According to his glorious might for all endurance

695
00:28:49,760 --> 00:28:53,400
and patience with joy, giving thanks to the Father

696
00:28:53,400 --> 00:28:57,080
who has qualified you to share in the inheritance

697
00:28:57,080 --> 00:28:59,760
of the saints in light.

698
00:28:59,760 --> 00:29:01,840
Now as Paul's talking about perseverance here

699
00:29:01,840 --> 00:29:04,720
and having joy, he's alluding to the fact

700
00:29:04,720 --> 00:29:08,840
that the Christian life is not a sprint.

701
00:29:08,840 --> 00:29:12,200
It is a marathon and it is grueling.

702
00:29:12,200 --> 00:29:14,200
You don't just come to faith

703
00:29:14,200 --> 00:29:16,760
and then you're immediately perfected and that's it.

704
00:29:16,760 --> 00:29:18,360
You just sit around and wait.

705
00:29:18,360 --> 00:29:21,480
You come to faith in Christ, God saves you,

706
00:29:21,480 --> 00:29:23,840
and then he puts you on this journey

707
00:29:23,840 --> 00:29:27,240
of getting to walk with Christ throughout all of your life

708
00:29:27,240 --> 00:29:31,280
and having the Holy Spirit slowly make you more and more

709
00:29:31,280 --> 00:29:32,120
like Christ.

710
00:29:32,120 --> 00:29:37,120
And Paul is saying God wants you to enjoy that journey.

711
00:29:37,160 --> 00:29:38,280
I think I've told you all before

712
00:29:38,280 --> 00:29:42,960
that I am absolutely no fun to hike with whatsoever.

713
00:29:42,960 --> 00:29:44,920
And I don't think I can overstate that enough.

714
00:29:44,920 --> 00:29:47,440
I mean, you don't want me on a hike with you, okay?

715
00:29:47,440 --> 00:29:52,080
Because if you tell me we're gonna go hike to a waterfall,

716
00:29:52,080 --> 00:29:54,160
I'm gonna get us to that waterfall, okay?

717
00:29:54,160 --> 00:29:56,280
And we're gonna be going like left, right, left, right,

718
00:29:56,280 --> 00:29:58,120
drill sergeant type stuff out there.

719
00:29:58,120 --> 00:30:00,640
Let's get going and get to that waterfall.

720
00:30:01,680 --> 00:30:05,720
Anna and Judah are not like that, however.

721
00:30:06,680 --> 00:30:08,360
And that's because they actually know how to hike.

722
00:30:08,360 --> 00:30:10,720
So that's not on them, but they move at a snail's pace

723
00:30:10,720 --> 00:30:12,160
or a little slower than a snail,

724
00:30:12,160 --> 00:30:15,120
but they move there about at a snail's pace.

725
00:30:15,120 --> 00:30:16,760
Oh, I got to look there, okay?

726
00:30:16,760 --> 00:30:19,040
But here's what they do.

727
00:30:19,040 --> 00:30:21,440
When they're hiking, they're gonna stop and look

728
00:30:21,440 --> 00:30:25,680
at every snail, every tree, every branch, every leaf,

729
00:30:25,680 --> 00:30:27,600
every rock, every body of water,

730
00:30:27,600 --> 00:30:29,240
every little critter they can find.

731
00:30:29,240 --> 00:30:31,480
They're gonna be stopping constantly.

732
00:30:31,480 --> 00:30:33,600
And the whole point is, oh, we'll get to the waterfall

733
00:30:33,600 --> 00:30:34,440
when we get there.

734
00:30:34,440 --> 00:30:35,280
It's not moving.

735
00:30:35,280 --> 00:30:37,520
It's still gonna be there by the time we get there.

736
00:30:37,520 --> 00:30:39,720
And I'm like, well, then what's the point of even going?

737
00:30:39,720 --> 00:30:44,280
But anyways, the whole point is that the purpose of hiking

738
00:30:44,280 --> 00:30:46,840
is not to get to the destination.

739
00:30:46,840 --> 00:30:50,640
The whole point of hiking is to enjoy the journey

740
00:30:50,640 --> 00:30:52,680
to that destination.

741
00:30:52,680 --> 00:30:53,960
And I think if we're not careful,

742
00:30:53,960 --> 00:30:55,440
we can make this same mistake

743
00:30:55,440 --> 00:30:58,000
when it comes to our spiritual lives.

744
00:30:58,000 --> 00:31:01,760
We can get so called up in reaching that end goal

745
00:31:01,760 --> 00:31:04,680
of perfection that we fail to appreciate

746
00:31:04,680 --> 00:31:07,640
that the journey the Lord has us on right now.

747
00:31:07,640 --> 00:31:09,440
But I want you to understand something this morning.

748
00:31:09,440 --> 00:31:12,360
The Lord actually does care about that journey.

749
00:31:12,360 --> 00:31:14,080
And I can prove it to you too.

750
00:31:14,080 --> 00:31:17,880
Because as I said, God is all powerful, yes?

751
00:31:17,880 --> 00:31:22,880
So when he saved you, he could have just made you perfect

752
00:31:22,880 --> 00:31:24,640
at that time, yes?

753
00:31:24,640 --> 00:31:26,360
He could have removed all the sin,

754
00:31:26,360 --> 00:31:28,600
made it to where you were never tempted again,

755
00:31:28,600 --> 00:31:31,280
made it to where you never walked in disobedience again.

756
00:31:31,280 --> 00:31:33,280
He could have said they're perfect right now,

757
00:31:33,280 --> 00:31:35,400
but he didn't do that.

758
00:31:35,400 --> 00:31:40,400
Instead, he chose to allow you to start on this journey

759
00:31:42,160 --> 00:31:46,480
of walking with Christ and slowly learn obedience,

760
00:31:46,480 --> 00:31:49,520
slowly learn to turn away from sin more and more,

761
00:31:49,520 --> 00:31:53,800
slowly learn to enjoy the Lord more and more and more.

762
00:31:53,800 --> 00:31:57,240
And this journey just gets sweeter the longer you're on it.

763
00:31:57,240 --> 00:31:58,400
Does it not?

764
00:31:58,400 --> 00:32:00,320
I mean, the more you walk with the Lord,

765
00:32:00,320 --> 00:32:02,040
the sweeter that walk gets.

766
00:32:02,040 --> 00:32:03,280
And so I need you to understand

767
00:32:03,280 --> 00:32:06,920
that God actually does care about that journey.

768
00:32:06,920 --> 00:32:09,280
God doesn't want you to view your spiritual growth

769
00:32:09,280 --> 00:32:11,280
like I view hiking.

770
00:32:11,280 --> 00:32:13,280
He doesn't want you to just white knuckle your way

771
00:32:13,280 --> 00:32:14,200
to perfection.

772
00:32:14,200 --> 00:32:17,480
He wants you to enjoy the journey of growing in him

773
00:32:17,480 --> 00:32:20,080
and walking with him.

774
00:32:20,080 --> 00:32:21,320
And it's beautiful.

775
00:32:21,320 --> 00:32:24,200
I mean, there are gonna be some bumps along the road,

776
00:32:24,200 --> 00:32:25,960
but few things are more satisfying

777
00:32:25,960 --> 00:32:28,760
than embracing that journey and seeing the progress

778
00:32:28,760 --> 00:32:32,400
and change that God brings about in your life.

779
00:32:32,400 --> 00:32:33,800
And I love witnessing this journey.

780
00:32:33,800 --> 00:32:36,000
One of my favorite examples is Kaylee.

781
00:32:36,000 --> 00:32:39,080
I got her permission before service to mention her.

782
00:32:39,080 --> 00:32:40,720
Kaylee is a horrible no-goods.

783
00:32:40,720 --> 00:32:41,720
No, can you imagine?

784
00:32:41,720 --> 00:32:46,720
No, I love seeing what the Lord has done in Kaylee's life.

785
00:32:47,680 --> 00:32:50,600
And she posted recently on Facebook

786
00:32:50,600 --> 00:32:52,680
and it really just, it made me so proud

787
00:32:52,680 --> 00:32:54,680
as her pastor is one of my proudest moments

788
00:32:54,680 --> 00:32:56,720
because she said in this post

789
00:32:56,720 --> 00:32:58,760
that before she came to George's Creek,

790
00:32:58,760 --> 00:33:02,760
she had never read a full chapter of the Bible

791
00:33:02,760 --> 00:33:05,040
before she came to this church.

792
00:33:05,040 --> 00:33:07,440
But she said last year by God's grace,

793
00:33:07,440 --> 00:33:11,160
she read through the entire Bible for the very first time,

794
00:33:11,160 --> 00:33:15,760
every single word of the Bible and she read through it.

795
00:33:15,760 --> 00:33:17,880
And now, listen, again,

796
00:33:17,880 --> 00:33:19,480
Kaylee would be the first one to tell you this.

797
00:33:19,480 --> 00:33:21,800
If you were in my gospel group,

798
00:33:21,800 --> 00:33:23,800
she would be the one to tell you this, okay?

799
00:33:23,800 --> 00:33:25,960
Kaylee's not perfect.

800
00:33:25,960 --> 00:33:27,040
She is far from perfect.

801
00:33:27,040 --> 00:33:29,320
She still has her problems and her difficulties

802
00:33:29,320 --> 00:33:31,720
and her challenges that she's working through,

803
00:33:31,720 --> 00:33:34,400
but you can look at where she was

804
00:33:34,400 --> 00:33:36,360
and where God has brought her

805
00:33:36,360 --> 00:33:39,080
and see the change that he has brought about in her life

806
00:33:39,080 --> 00:33:41,120
in such a short amount of time.

807
00:33:41,120 --> 00:33:42,440
And she even said in her post

808
00:33:42,440 --> 00:33:44,800
that she was eternally grateful to God

809
00:33:44,800 --> 00:33:48,040
for giving her a desire, not obligation,

810
00:33:48,040 --> 00:33:51,040
a desire to be closer to him every day.

811
00:33:51,040 --> 00:33:54,840
And she said, I'm finally learning to hear his voice

812
00:33:54,840 --> 00:33:58,000
and to recognize it above all the noise.

813
00:33:58,000 --> 00:34:00,160
And church, that's what God does.

814
00:34:00,160 --> 00:34:01,360
That's what God can do.

815
00:34:01,360 --> 00:34:04,400
He can take any person on earth,

816
00:34:04,400 --> 00:34:06,640
he can save them and then he can put them

817
00:34:06,640 --> 00:34:11,040
on a spiritual journey to transform their life.

818
00:34:11,040 --> 00:34:12,440
And notice what she did there.

819
00:34:12,440 --> 00:34:15,400
She didn't focus on where she wasn't,

820
00:34:15,400 --> 00:34:17,840
she focused on where she had been.

821
00:34:17,840 --> 00:34:19,680
I just want to tell you this morning,

822
00:34:19,680 --> 00:34:24,360
if you will stop focusing solely on the destination

823
00:34:24,360 --> 00:34:26,760
and learn to appreciate the change

824
00:34:26,760 --> 00:34:28,760
and how far God has brought you,

825
00:34:28,760 --> 00:34:30,720
you're gonna start enjoying walking with him

826
00:34:30,720 --> 00:34:32,400
a whole lot more.

827
00:34:32,400 --> 00:34:33,800
And so here's what I want you to pray.

828
00:34:33,800 --> 00:34:35,640
This prayer you should pray immediately.

829
00:34:35,640 --> 00:34:40,640
Lord, help me to have joy in my walk with Christ

830
00:34:40,720 --> 00:34:43,440
and give thanks for becoming more like Christ.

831
00:34:44,720 --> 00:34:47,600
Lord, help me to have joy in my walk with Christ

832
00:34:47,600 --> 00:34:51,240
and give thanks for becoming more like Christ.

833
00:34:51,240 --> 00:34:52,360
In other words, church,

834
00:34:52,360 --> 00:34:57,080
I want you to start learning to celebrate small victories.

835
00:34:57,080 --> 00:34:59,160
I want you to learn to celebrate the progress

836
00:34:59,160 --> 00:35:01,400
and not just the perfection.

837
00:35:01,400 --> 00:35:03,440
And so if you're here this morning, listen to me,

838
00:35:03,440 --> 00:35:08,040
if you were praying more now than you were a year ago,

839
00:35:08,040 --> 00:35:10,160
then that has changed, that has progressed

840
00:35:10,160 --> 00:35:12,480
and you should take time to praise God

841
00:35:12,480 --> 00:35:15,720
because he's the one who made that a reality in your life.

842
00:35:15,720 --> 00:35:18,840
If you're studying the Bible more than you were a year ago,

843
00:35:18,840 --> 00:35:21,160
then praise God because that's progress.

844
00:35:21,160 --> 00:35:23,720
And that's something that God has done in your life.

845
00:35:23,720 --> 00:35:26,600
If you're learning more, growing more, trusting more,

846
00:35:26,600 --> 00:35:28,520
if you're walking with God more closely

847
00:35:28,520 --> 00:35:30,080
than you were a year ago,

848
00:35:30,080 --> 00:35:34,040
then you need to take time to praise God for that change

849
00:35:34,040 --> 00:35:36,920
and for that progress that he's brought about in your life.

850
00:35:36,920 --> 00:35:39,520
So don't get so focused on the destination

851
00:35:39,520 --> 00:35:42,160
that you fail to appreciate the journey

852
00:35:42,160 --> 00:35:44,560
and what God is doing all around you.

853
00:35:44,560 --> 00:35:46,760
And I'm just gonna tell you this joy,

854
00:35:46,760 --> 00:35:49,320
it doesn't come naturally to us,

855
00:35:49,320 --> 00:35:52,400
which is why Paul says we need to be praying for this joy.

856
00:35:52,400 --> 00:35:56,960
God, give me joy in my walk with Christ

857
00:35:56,960 --> 00:35:59,120
so that I'll learn to appreciate it

858
00:35:59,120 --> 00:36:03,000
and give thanks for what you're doing in my life.

859
00:36:03,000 --> 00:36:06,040
And so if you want to live lives that are pleasing to God

860
00:36:06,040 --> 00:36:07,600
and be found worthy in his sight,

861
00:36:07,600 --> 00:36:10,280
then we need to be equipped to live those kind of lives,

862
00:36:10,280 --> 00:36:11,120
do we not?

863
00:36:12,040 --> 00:36:13,920
And one of the best ways that you can be equipped

864
00:36:13,920 --> 00:36:17,640
for that kind of life is to start praying for it

865
00:36:17,640 --> 00:36:20,200
and praying for all the areas where you were lacking

866
00:36:20,200 --> 00:36:21,760
and needing help.

867
00:36:21,760 --> 00:36:22,920
One of the best things you can do

868
00:36:22,920 --> 00:36:25,640
for your spiritual life here in 2025,

869
00:36:25,640 --> 00:36:27,880
the sermon insert that you normally throw away

870
00:36:27,880 --> 00:36:32,320
on your way out the door, do me a favor, keep that one, okay?

871
00:36:32,320 --> 00:36:34,880
I want you to keep that one, put it on your fridge,

872
00:36:34,880 --> 00:36:37,760
keep it in your Bible, add it to your daily prayer list

873
00:36:37,760 --> 00:36:41,280
and start praying these prayers every single day

874
00:36:41,280 --> 00:36:44,240
for yourself and for this church,

875
00:36:44,240 --> 00:36:46,720
because only through this will God begin

876
00:36:46,720 --> 00:36:49,200
to make us live lives that are worthy

877
00:36:49,200 --> 00:36:51,920
of the gospel of Christ and pleasing in his sight.

878
00:36:51,920 --> 00:36:53,240
And that's exactly what we want.

879
00:36:53,240 --> 00:36:54,800
Is it not church?

880
00:36:54,800 --> 00:36:55,880
Amen.

881
00:36:55,880 --> 00:37:17,880
All right, let's pray.

