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Welcome to Walk in the Truth podcast.

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How do we know where to find answers to the toughest questions in life?

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While the simplest answer is the Bible, where do we start this search and how do we discover

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this truth?

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Today, in this teaching podcast, John Metter, lead pastor of Cross City Church, takes a

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specific text of the Bible and helps us find truth for the life we're searching for.

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We are so glad that you're with us this morning and if you have your Bibles, please take them

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and turn to Philippians chapter 1 today.

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If you don't have your Bibles, we certainly have them under seat backs and we also have

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them on the tables at the back.

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We even use page numbers to help you find where they are in those versions of the Bible

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if you need those.

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We want you to turn to Philippians chapter 1 and verse 21.

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Over the last couple of weeks and for the next two more, I'll be preaching a series

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of messages that deal with some of the basic most important questions in life.

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One of them is, why are you here?

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Why are you here?

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Last week we looked at who are you or who am I?

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What is our identity?

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How does God see us?

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And this week, a question about the why.

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Why are you here?

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Would you stand with me as we read Philippians chapter 1?

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I'm going to read the first few verses after verse 21 down to verse 26.

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It's a very significant passage of scripture for me because it was very present in my life

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recently this year as I went through cancer surgery and cancer discovery before that.

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And this text spoke to me very, very loudly.

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In fact, the Bible I'm preaching out of today is a blue large Bible that was given to me

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by my staff before I went into surgery.

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So it's a very meaningful Bible for me today.

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And actually this text is highlighted because this was the text that God spoke to me so

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powerfully in those days.

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This chapter 1 beginning in verse 21 the apostle Paul is talking about life and death and the

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present threat upon his life.

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He's in prison anyway.

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He's already gone through so much as an apostle of Jesus and so death is very near him most

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of the time.

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And yet at the same time he knows that if he dies he's with the Lord and that's good.

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But at the same time he knows that if he's going to remain he's got to know why.

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What's my purpose for leaving me here on the planet?

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So here's what he says here in verse 21.

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For to me to live is Christ and to die is gain.

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Now that verse alone doesn't stand up and stand the test of time in your life.

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This is how he begins a larger section.

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So again for to me to live is Christ and to die is gain.

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I'd like for us to say that verse together.

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It's short, it's brief.

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Hopefully you see it on the screen here.

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Verse 21.

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Let's say that together.

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For to me to live is Christ and to die is gain.

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Boy that can be a great motto for your life.

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He goes on and says, but if I am to live on in the flesh this will mean fruitful labor

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for me and I do not know which to choose.

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But I am hard pressed from both directions having the desire to depart and be with Christ

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for that is very much better.

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And yet to remain on in the flesh is more necessary for your sake.

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Convinced of this I know that I will remain and continue with you all for your progress

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and joy in the faith so that your proud confidence in me may abound in Christ Jesus through my

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coming to you again.

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Father, today I pray that you will let this text speak to every heart in this room.

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Father, I know all of us are at different places in our lives and all of us have different

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ideas of how long we'll be here and what our purpose is.

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And today I pray that you'll bring them all together to where Paul was and where you want

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us to be in terms of our why.

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I ask this in Jesus' name and everybody said amen.

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Please be seated.

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If you've been with us over the years you know that I've shared several near death encounters.

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And I had a near death encounter when I was six years old.

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I remember very little about that near death encounter but I do know that my father picked

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me up and put me over his shoulder and carried me across the street to a local clinic that

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was there.

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And I had had a penicillin shot and so I was having an adverse reaction to penicillin.

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So my body just went into shock and my heart stopped beating, I stopped breathing and so

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he was rushing across the street.

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I was still conscious when he was doing that.

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And later on they laid me down on a stretcher and injected a shot of adrenaline I believe

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directly into my heart.

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It resuscitated my life.

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And later on my parents said they didn't know if I would live or die.

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Of course I didn't know all that was going on but I do know I had that near death experience.

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And then on my honeymoon, day two, Acapulco, red flags on the beach.

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This Oklahoma boy does not know what a red flag on an ocean beach means.

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And it means you can't swim because the undertow is too strong.

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Trying to impress my dear broad, I run headlong into the waves, dive in, because I have swim

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in a swimming pool, right?

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And immediately was sucked under by the undertow and it was a long time before I surfaced again.

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And during those moments I thought I'm going to die on my honeymoon.

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One day married, right?

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And eventually I came to the surface and didn't have the heart to tell my wife for another

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few days that I nearly died in that encounter.

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A few years later I was actually standing in a mechanic shop and had a 45 caliber pistol

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loaded with the finger on the trigger by another man pointed at my head.

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And I knew that I'd had a near death experience with that.

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That's another story for another day.

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Oh, it's a good story but it's another day.

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But you know in moments like that you don't have the time to think.

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You don't really have time to evaluate and think through what is the purpose of my life

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what's the why of my life.

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You don't even have time to pray.

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You just are in that moment either going to live or die.

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But what I experienced early this year was very, very different from that.

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I discovered a lump on my throat and discovered it was stage two cancer of the thyroid.

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And visiting the surgeon that was getting ready to do surgery on me a few days later

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and hearing the explanation of possible outcomes that could take place from that cancer and

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that surgery.

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And this particular surgeon is a young surgeon very, very good at what he does.

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I would say his bedside manner has a little bit to be desired as he gave me the good news

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first.

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And the good news is we're probably going to be able to take care of that cancer.

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You're probably going to get it out.

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You're going to have to remove all your lymph nodes and it'll be this long and recuperation

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and so forth.

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But the bad news is what's next.

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In the bad news he told me all the bad things.

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You could die in surgery.

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You could lose your voice and never again speak for the rest of your life.

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Think like that.

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So it was a lot for a few moments.

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Not entirely expected.

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And I remember coming back to the car with my wife and sitting down and thinking through

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the visit we just had.

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And four things immediately hit me and hit me in the days after that.

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One was an immediate peace that came over my heart.

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You don't normally naturally get an immediate peace when you have that kind of diagnosis

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or that kind of explanation.

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But immediately I felt the peace of God come over my heart.

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That's what the Bible calls the peace that passes all understanding.

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Because it doesn't add up.

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It doesn't make sense if you're going to find peace in a moment like that that would normally

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be filled with turmoil.

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The second thing that took place was a reminder.

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A reminder of an interview I'd had with four ladies that had dealt with cancer.

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Each of them had dealt with breast cancer and they were calling themselves the bosom

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buddies because they'd been through it all, all the treatments and all that happened.

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And I included them in the ninth chapter of my book, God's Not Done With You.

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In fact, the title of that book alone came back to remind me God's Not Done With You.

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And I was happy to be reminded of that.

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The third thing that I discovered in that process was a praying church.

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A praying church.

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I've said before in praying for other people, if I ever get sick, I hope to be in a church

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like this that knows what it means to pray.

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And lo and behold, I did get sick.

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I did get cancer and I did need prayer.

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And I cannot thank you enough for the incredible amounts of prayer and expressions of prayer

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and the cards that came and everything else that told me I was a prayed for man.

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I would not be surprised if I was one of the most prayed for people on the planet during

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that period of time and I'm very grateful to you for doing that.

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And I know you're grateful for when brothers and sisters in Christ pray for you when you

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really need prayers.

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Aren't you grateful for that?

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Thank God for that.

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So I felt at peace.

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I had a reminder.

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I realized the prayers of God's people were going to accompany me through this.

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And then finally, I got a word from God.

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Now when someone tells you, you get a word from God, you have to kind of ask the question,

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what does that mean?

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What does that look like?

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How does that actually happen?

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But Kim and I sat together in the car after we came out from that doctor's appointment

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and she says in the silence, what are you thinking?

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And the first thing I said to her was, Philippians 1 21.

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I'm thinking about Philippians 1 21.

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Now there was a reason that I was thinking about Philippians 1 21.

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I'm not going to say to you that I was thinking about it just because I'm spiritual and have

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all the verses at the right times to come to my mind.

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That's not what I'm saying.

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But it just so happened that I was studying Philippians 1 21 and preparing for the message

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that coming Sunday.

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Great coincidence, right?

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And it just so happens that I'd ingested that text and had discovered its truths and had

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poured over that and immersed myself in it and found them to be riveting.

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It just so happens that the text dealt with life and death situations and the why if you

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remain.

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It was so, so meaningful.

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And it just so happens that it answers the why question for Paul and for anybody that

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wonders about the purpose of life.

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And God just spoke to me through this text in a very, very personal way.

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The way he would to any of you if you were looking for God, reading day in and day out

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for God to speak to you about something, he will speak to you in that way as well.

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And I want to emphasize God didn't shout.

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He didn't whisper.

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I didn't hear him audibly.

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He just had a word for me there.

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The way he does for everyone that opens the scripture and expects him to speak.

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Look, the Bible that you have is not just a Bible that deals with the historical truths

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of history.

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It's not just a book of doctrine.

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It's literally God's letter to you and he will speak to you from his word.

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You need to know that.

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And if you know that God's going to speak to you from his word, you're going to open

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the Bible, right?

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And you're going to find a way to get in the habit of reading God's word.

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So there I was, Philippians 1 21 was dominant in my mind and it had prepared me in advance

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for what I heard from my doctor on that day.

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And I was grateful.

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And so I'm coming to you today and I want to speak to you about this text and what it

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says to Paul and what Paul means it to understand for us to understand about it, what it meant

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to be in that moment and what it should mean to you in the days ahead.

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I find Paul making four very clear statements here in this text.

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And the first one is found in verse 21.

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And I'm going to personalize this in the sense of using the personal pronoun of you because

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God did speak to me.

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God did speak to Paul through these same words, but he intends for you to hear it for you

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as well.

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And the first point I want to bring out is you have a future to anticipate.

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You have a future to anticipate.

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Now look in verse 21 again, for it to me to live as Christ.

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And that's the focus of that message today.

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Most of what we say today is going to be based on that text, that part of the verse.

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But the other part of that verse says for it to me to live as Christ and to die is gain.

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And I want to spend a moment on that because Paul is saying that I know that I have life

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ahead of me.

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I don't know how long and I know my life at this point has been filled with threats, but

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I know that if I die, that dying is going to gain me something that I could never have

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while still on this planet to live as Christ to die is gain.

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Now you need to remember that death has an advantage for you as a believer in Jesus that

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we don't have while alive.

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The benefits that we get when we die are beyond anything we can imagine here and now.

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And I walked through this text earlier this year and I hope you'll remember that you gain

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the presence of Jesus like never before when you die.

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You know we talk about the presence of Jesus in worship, the presence of the Holy Spirit.

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We talk about the presence of God in our life.

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But the first thing Paul thought of when he thought of dying was not the process, not

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the pain, but the presence.

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He said for it to me to live as Christ, but to die is gain.

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He was thinking about all that he was going to have and who he was going to face.

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Now the apostles were mesmerized by this idea.

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Paul said it like this in 2 Corinthians 5.

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He said, we are of good courage I say and prefer rather to be absent from the body and

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to be at home with the Lord.

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You guys have heard this before in funerals.

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Absent from body, present with Christ.

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Say that with me.

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Absent from body, present with Christ.

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That's a theologically solid concept that the moment when you die as a believer in Jesus,

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you close your eyes to this physical life and you open them to a spiritual world in

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which you stand face to face with Jesus Christ.

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Now that's a great, great threat isn't it?

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That's a great opportunity isn't it?

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Amen.

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Somebody celebrate.

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Ron Dunn used to say it like this.

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He had had many, many surgeries and many illnesses through the years and he used to say, do not,

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do not bring me back if I die.

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Do not bring me back.

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He said, if I see the face of Jesus and then you bring me back, I'm going to be very angry

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at you.

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We gain the presence of God.

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We gain the face to face sight with Jesus.

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John in 1 John chapter 3 verse 2 says, we know that when he appears, we shall be just

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like him because we will see him just as he really is.

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Man, you can't, you can't duplicate that on the planet.

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Some of us have seen celebrities and we've seen famous people and some of us have even

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seen famous people up close.

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I remember seeing Muhammad Ali 15 or 20 years ago for the first time I saw him face to face

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and my heart literally didn't stop beating.

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It was beating very, very fast because it was Muhammad Ali.

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I mean, float like a butterfly, sting like a bee, Muhammad Ali, right?

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And he was the guy that I watched all my life growing up.

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But that's nowhere in comparison to what will happen when I see Jesus Christ face to face.

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You're going to have to have a glorified body to see him face to face because you can't

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handle seeing Jesus face to face and still just being a human body.

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The apostles were talking about the fact that we will have the presence of Jesus in a way

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that is almost unimaginable.

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We also gain the promises of Jesus.

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To die is gain means that everything that God has promised us that has not been fulfilled

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on earth will be fulfilled in eternity and many of the promises God gives us are eternal

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promises.

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For example, if you read Revelation chapter 21, you'll see some of that.

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He says, and he will wipe away every tear from their eyes, there will no longer be any

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death, there will no longer be any mourning, there will no longer be any pain for the first

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things that passed away.

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Can you imagine a life without pain, without mourning, without death, without all the awful

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things that we deal with day in and day out, that the promises of Jesus will come to pass

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when you die?

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Now, if you wonder why we're very enthusiastic about helping people who don't know Christ

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come to Christ, maybe you need to remember what we just said.

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When you come to Christ at death, you see the presence of Jesus and the promises of

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Jesus.

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We want people to know they have a relationship with Jesus Christ.

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We want them to know that they don't have to fear death because to live is Christ but

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to die is absolutely gain.

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Heaven is that place of every promise of Jesus untouched by human unbelief and sin and depravity

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and decay and hatred and injustice.

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It is unlettered glory.

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A few years ago my wife and I did a mission trip to the island of Eleuthera in the Bahamas

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and I know some of you will roll your eyes and say, yeah, some mission trip that probably

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was.

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We were training pastors in the nighttime and the evening because they worked in the

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day.

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So all day long, Kim and I had a chance to walk on those famous beaches of the Bahamas.

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Eleuthera is 110 miles long and about three miles wide, meaning that it was all beach.

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On one side the Atlantic, on the other side the Caribbean.

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And it was gorgeous.

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It was untouched because very few of the citizens went to the beach at all.

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It was just part of their backyard to them.

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They just weren't out there.

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And so I remember one day we walked on the beach and looked at all the glorious things

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in the ocean, on the beach for four solid hours and never saw another human being in

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four hours.

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Just one dog that came running up to us with a dog collar that said, great vine Texas.

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That's all we saw, literally.

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We love that place.

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Can you imagine a whole earth, a whole world that God has created that is unlettered, unmarked

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by humanity?

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The new heavens and the new earth.

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You and I will experience that to live as Christ, to die as game.

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But Paul here is not talking about heaven as much as he's talking about what he's going

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to do while he stays.

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Paul realizes he's staying for a time so he's not just talking about heaven.

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But he is saying that if you die, that's not a bad thing.

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And let me just tell you something, as a believer in Jesus, facing death in any form, whether

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expected or unexpected.

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It's not a bad thing to look ahead and say, if I die, Christ has me covered in His blood.

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If I die, I have a home in eternity that He has prepared for me.

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If I die, it'll all be good.

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I want you to know that's real today.

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It's real.

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And if you have a relationship with Jesus Christ, then it's real to you as well.

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So first of all, Paul says, you have a future to anticipate.

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And then he gets into the details of what it means to live here and now.

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Secondly, he said, you have a work to do.

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You have a work to do.

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Notice what he says in verse 22, for if I am to live on in the flesh, this will mean

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fruitful labor for me.

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And I do not know which to choose.

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He said, I'm hard pressed from either direction.

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Now Paul's actually rotting as though he gets to decide whether he stays or goes, but that's

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not actually the case.

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He's simply presenting it that way.

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He knows he's at a critical juncture in his life.

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He's actually in prison at this moment when he writes this letter.

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And he's been in prison many other times.

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As a matter of fact, once Paul was called to ministry, he did not have an easy life.

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We're not talking about a guy that had the comforts of life that you and I have.

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We're not talking about somebody that always had food on the table.

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Paul said, I know what it means to be hungry.

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I know what it means to be full.

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I know what it means to have much.

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And I know what it means to have nothing.

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In one particular chapter, he detailed all of the hardships he went through, beaten with

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numbers of times, beaten within an inch of his life, even left for dead, shipwrecked

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in the deep all by himself, bitten by poisonous snakes while on mission, all kinds of things

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Paul went through.

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Life was not easy for Paul.

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And he said, I'm hard pressed in either way.

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On one hand, I could leave this hardship behind and go be with Jesus and I'll be just fine

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with that.

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But I know that if I remain, I have a purpose of why, a mission.

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And I believe that that's what I should do.

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He says, basically, I've got a fruitful work ahead in my remaining days.

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Paul says, God is remaining me here for the purpose that he has for me.

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And that's when I want to pose a question to you, what's your why?

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Why are you here?

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Why are you breathing air and taking up space?

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Why are you getting up every day?

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What drives you?

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What motivates you?

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What is your why in life?

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Paul says, my why for God leaving me on the planet is fruitful labor on your behalf.

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I'm going to help you grow in your faith.

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There are going to be a number of things that I do, but I'm here for fruitful labor.

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What's your why?

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I read a very interesting story about a young woman by the name of Vanessa Chaput, 24 years

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old, was jogging recently on a paved path near Ontario, Canada.

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And suddenly, outside the path where she was running, not one, not two, but three bears,

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three grizzly bears appeared in front of her.

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Of course, being from that part of the world, she knew that that was an extremely dangerous

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moment.

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So she did everything she could to protect herself, but it didn't work because the largest

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of the grizzly bear overtook her and literally gripped her head in his jaws.

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So here she is gripped in the jaws of this massive grizzly bear.

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And all of a sudden she starts thinking about her purpose and her why.

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And she said, you know, I'm not ready to leave my daughter behind.

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I'm not ready to leave my husband behind.

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I believe that I have some other purpose in which to live.

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And somehow during that encounter, she was pushing back and the bear unexplainably let

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go of her head and they ran off into the woods.

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She was left with numbers of lacerations, hospitalized for 10 days.

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She has 35 or 40 stitches on her head, a broken arm.

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She said, I'm very shocked at how lucky I was that day.

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I'm thankful for God watching out for me for that day.

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She said, but I refuse to die because I have a purpose to live.

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I want to live for my family.

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She reminded me of Nietzsche's reflection over the years.

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He who has a why to live can bear almost any how.

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I think that's a good statement.

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This guy was an atheistic philosopher who didn't have the benefit that we have of a

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purpose that God gives us.

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But he says, you can go through almost any how if you know why you're on the planet.

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And I would say to you as a believer in Jesus Christ, you have the greatest why that any

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other people on the planet have for why you are here.

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So Paul is saying you have a work to do and he saw himself as having a work to do.

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Now, you may not have a life death thing going on.

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You may not have a grizzly bear crushing your head at the moment, but something may be keeping

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you from knowing your why from God and you need to get around it.

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Maybe you need to push aside the sin in your life.

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Maybe you need to put away the temptation.

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Maybe you need to stop wasting the time that you've wasted in your life and find out what

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the why is.

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You are presently alive and you have a purpose.

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God has you here.

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You can know this every day you wake up.

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You can know this that you wake up because God has a purpose for your life and you should

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find out what it is and live in the fullness of that purpose.

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Purpose and why's are all the way through the book of Philippians.

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In Philippians chapter three verse 12, Paul said, not that I've already obtained it yet

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or have already become perfect, but I press on so that I may lay hold of that for which

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also I was laid hold of by Jesus Christ.

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That's a gripping purpose.

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Christ gripped me.

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Why did he grip me?

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I want to lay hold of that because he gripped me for a reason.

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Robert Lewis used to say, this is what makes you slam your fist on the table and weep.

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In other words, the purpose for which you were called, the meaning that you have in

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life causes you to be moved more than anything else.

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So what's your purpose?

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What's your why when it comes to life?

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I would tell you this, some of you have had near-death experiences in your life.

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How many of you have had near-death experiences?

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Would you raise your hand?

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There's a number of you in the room.

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Some of you probably have had them without knowing that you had them, things that could

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have happened that didn't.

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But if you've had a near-death experience, if you've had something like that happen to

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you, then you realize I've got to have a higher purpose for me being here.

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That higher purpose is something more than, oh good, I get to face rush hour traffic again

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in Dallas-Fort Worth, or oh boy, I get to enjoy another feudal cowboy football season.

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That's another thing to live for.

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Or I get to watch a few more sunsets.

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No, it's got to be higher than that.

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It can't be about some activity that you do or don't do.

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It's got to be fruitful labor.

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That's the phrase he uses, fruitful labor, significant, meaningful labor.

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The emphasis is not on the work.

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It's not how hard it is.

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It's that it will make a difference in someone's life.

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Fruitful labor that counts in the life of family or kingdom or friends or the world.

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And it will be somewhat different for every person in this room.

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One verse that came to me over and over as I was walking through those weeks from surgery

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onward was Psalm 90-12.

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Most of you know this verse pretty well, so teach us the number of our days so that we

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may present to you a heart of wisdom.

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And David is simply saying, the psalmist is saying, look, Lord, teach us to use our time

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wisely.

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I know there's a million ways that we can evaluate our time and analyze our time, but

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the reality is we only have so much time, so how do we do it well?

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I'm encouraging you like Paul was to find your focus that you need to have while you're

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here.

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God has not left you here just to take up His faith.

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Paul had one primary focus and who he was here for was the Church of Jesus.

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And that's who he was writing to.

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That's who the fruitful labor was for.

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There are several groups of people that God began to speak to me about in this time period.

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The first was my biological family.

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The fact that I've got six adult kids now, one grandchild that you hear me talk about

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a lot and an amazing wife, and my responsibility and my opportunity to invest in their lives

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more.

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That's a big important part of why I believe God has left me here, to invest in their life,

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to know that whatever God is doing, He's going to do something through whatever I've gone

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through in their lives.

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If you've got children, you know it's really important to you that children respond to

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God in a good way, that they are sensitive to God or they are open to God.

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And when they're not, you really pray for them to do that.

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I remember one of the responses that all six of my kids gave me were good responses.

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They were loving, they were encouraging.

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But one of my sons wrote me a text and he said this.

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He said, I don't know what to do.

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He said, referring to me as his dad, the man who fixes all my problems has a problem I

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can't fix.

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And all I know to do is get on my knees and pray.

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And little did he know that that's all I ever wanted my kids to do, get on their knees and

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00:28:36,960 --> 00:28:41,960
pray, to trust God in a fresh way that maybe they didn't do last week or last month or

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00:28:41,960 --> 00:28:44,800
last year, that God would use any of us.

477
00:28:44,800 --> 00:28:48,960
And I think most parents would say, God, do anything to me as long as my kids would find

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00:28:48,960 --> 00:28:53,200
faith and be able to walk with you in the way I know they can.

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00:28:53,200 --> 00:28:59,880
I felt an enormous responsibility to my biological family to love them well, to appreciate them

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well.

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I can't even begin to enumerate the ways in which my wife demonstrated such faithful support

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during that time.

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What an incredible woman my wife is.

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And I want to love her well.

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When we talked about the cancer thing, she said, well, you're not supposed to go yet.

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We have some more things to do.

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I've got more things I want you to do for me.

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And I was like, okay, I'll live for that purpose.

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We've got some plans here.

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But Paul was referring not to his biological family, but to the church family, the faith

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family.

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He said, I'm here to build your faith.

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I want to have fruitful labor with you.

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And what an incredible purpose to be about, to build the faith of different individuals

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or all individuals in the church so that we might all aspire to follow Jesus.

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Paul had that as a heart.

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That's what he wanted to do.

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And that's what God left him there on the planet to do in this most significant church

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at Philippi.

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And I will say to you, I feel a renewed sense of purpose as a pastor of this church.

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00:30:03,840 --> 00:30:06,400
What a privilege to be a pastor of Cross City Church.

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00:30:06,400 --> 00:30:08,380
An incredible privilege for me.

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One that I do not take lightly.

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In any days that I have, I want to invest them well in the body of Christ here at Cross

505
00:30:14,920 --> 00:30:15,920
City Church.

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I'm extremely thankful for the opportunity to do that.

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And I see that in Paul's life as well.

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I'm here for that purpose, he said.

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Third statement would be, you have a blessing to impart.

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A blessing to impart.

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He said, convinced of this, I know that I will remain and continue with you all for

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your progress and joy in the faith.

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That's his way of saying, I'm going to bless you in every way I know how.

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I'm going to serve you in every way I can so that your faith and joy grows.

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Paul said, that's why I'm on the planet.

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I could be with Jesus, I would love to be there, but he's left me here for that purpose

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to help you, to bless you in your faith with Jesus Christ.

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Paul was basically saying, I've got more to impart to you, more to teach you, more to

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00:31:05,140 --> 00:31:07,240
share with you, and I want to do that.

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00:31:07,240 --> 00:31:10,000
And why shouldn't he say that?

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You know, sometimes when you go through hardship, you have more to give than if you were just

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going through normal life.

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When I interviewed those women for that chapter of the book, God's Not Done With You, these

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four bosom buddies talked to me about the joy and the excitement of what God was going

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00:31:28,760 --> 00:31:36,000
to do in spite of, and some of them had pretty drastic kind of prognosis.

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And they said, you know, through it all, God came to me and helped me and strengthened

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me and gave me grace.

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00:31:40,800 --> 00:31:45,160
And through it all, I was able to help point my family to how to weather tough times in

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life by relying on Jesus Christ.

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00:31:48,080 --> 00:31:52,520
So what God did with them in their season of life, and some of them have done that more

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than 20 years ago is when it took place for some of them, they saw that they could impart

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00:31:57,240 --> 00:32:00,160
a blessing even in pain.

533
00:32:00,160 --> 00:32:02,880
And I want to challenge you on this.

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Even in pain, we're here to impart a blessing.

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00:32:05,680 --> 00:32:12,120
We're like a messenger delivering the good news that God knows, God cares, God is able.

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00:32:12,120 --> 00:32:15,840
The only time you can really say that knowingly is when you go through pain and suffering

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00:32:15,840 --> 00:32:17,000
and hardship.

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00:32:17,000 --> 00:32:21,160
But in that pain and that suffering and that doubt and that uncertainty, you can come out

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00:32:21,160 --> 00:32:25,680
of that time and look at others that may be going through it and say, trust me, I've been

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00:32:25,680 --> 00:32:27,060
through that fire.

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God is real.

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00:32:28,060 --> 00:32:29,600
He'll meet you right in the middle of it.

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He will not abandon you.

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He will not leave you alone.

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I am thankful we have a God like that.

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00:32:34,840 --> 00:32:38,840
That real, that personal, that attendee to who we are.

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00:32:38,840 --> 00:32:41,200
Thank God for that.

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00:32:41,200 --> 00:32:42,200
Thank God for that.

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00:32:42,200 --> 00:32:48,200
Paul is saying that to the people at Philippi.

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To impart a blessing means to exercise your gifts, to use your resources, to use your

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00:32:53,320 --> 00:32:58,960
words, to aim your influence of helping people grow in their faith in Jesus Christ.

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That's a high calling, but it's also a whine calling.

553
00:33:04,320 --> 00:33:10,160
You can't do better than to point people in the direction of following Jesus.

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00:33:10,160 --> 00:33:13,760
You can't be a better influence than that.

555
00:33:13,760 --> 00:33:14,760
Paul was doing that.

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00:33:14,760 --> 00:33:21,480
He said this in 1 Corinthians 11, be imitators of me as I also am of Christ.

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00:33:21,480 --> 00:33:25,120
And I can imagine that some of us in this room would say, well, I can't quite be like

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00:33:25,120 --> 00:33:26,960
that, like Paul.

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I'm not sure others can say that about my life the way they could say it about Paul's

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00:33:31,560 --> 00:33:32,560
life.

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But I can say, why not?

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00:33:34,520 --> 00:33:38,200
You have obviously more time on the planet to live.

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Clearly you're still alive and breathing and taking up space right now.

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00:33:42,400 --> 00:33:47,080
And so because of that, God's left you on the planet for a purpose.

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00:33:47,080 --> 00:33:51,520
Think about the first line of this passage, for to me to live is Christ.

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What does that mean for you?

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How do you take steps to do that in a tangible way?

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00:33:56,400 --> 00:34:02,200
And while you're pursuing that, teach and write and mentor and counsel and spend time

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and pray and influence and serve in every way you possibly can.

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Because when you do that, you're helping build the faith of other people.

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00:34:13,840 --> 00:34:18,040
So we ought to be asking the question on a daily basis and sometimes only a kind of a

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00:34:18,040 --> 00:34:21,600
close touch to death will get you thinking about it.

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We ought to be asking the question, how can I live in such a way, speak in such a way,

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00:34:25,080 --> 00:34:30,520
interact in such a way as to impart a blessing to other people as a result of a gospel filled

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00:34:30,520 --> 00:34:31,940
life?

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00:34:31,940 --> 00:34:35,520
How do I help others find that life as well?

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00:34:35,520 --> 00:34:39,640
I can say, he can say, it was a well-lived life of faith.

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00:34:39,640 --> 00:34:40,640
That's what we want.

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And it's important that people say that about us.

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00:34:45,280 --> 00:34:48,640
And then finally, you have a witness to leave.

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There's an interesting twist of words here, verse 26, that catches us off guard at first.

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He says, so that your proud confidence in me or your boasting in me may abound in Christ

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00:34:59,640 --> 00:35:02,400
Jesus through my coming to you again.

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The proud confidence is sometimes rendered in translators, they use the word boast, but

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not in a prideful way.

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00:35:08,240 --> 00:35:13,960
Paul said, I know you're not bragging on me, but you see the line after that, proud confidence

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00:35:13,960 --> 00:35:16,280
in me may abound in Christ Jesus.

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00:35:16,280 --> 00:35:20,640
In other words, if you're going to say any good thing about me, Paul said, about my life

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00:35:20,640 --> 00:35:28,920
or my influence, you're going to attribute it to Jesus and his work in my life.

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00:35:28,920 --> 00:35:36,400
Years ago, I attended a funeral in our chapel here and I was seated next to another pastor

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who served here years ago.

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And after the funeral, he turned to me and said, you know, a lot of good things were

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00:35:44,000 --> 00:35:48,560
said about that person's life, but did you notice that nothing that was said was remotely

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00:35:48,560 --> 00:35:50,560
connected to Christ?

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00:35:50,560 --> 00:35:55,400
And I thought about it and I thought, wow, we did hear a list of all the things this

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00:35:55,400 --> 00:36:01,440
fellow did and all the ways he was involved, but not one reference to doing anything in

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00:36:01,440 --> 00:36:05,480
the power of Christ or the character of Christ or the gospel of Christ.

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00:36:05,480 --> 00:36:09,400
And we both concluded that would be an empty life.

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00:36:09,400 --> 00:36:13,240
That would be an empty remembrance of life.

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00:36:13,240 --> 00:36:17,440
In other words, if you're living life apart from the power of Christ, it's not going to

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00:36:17,440 --> 00:36:19,120
be a fulfilled life.

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00:36:19,120 --> 00:36:21,240
It's not going to have in it what you want.

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00:36:21,240 --> 00:36:25,680
Paul is saying in the end, I don't want my witness to disappoint you and I certainly don't

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00:36:25,680 --> 00:36:27,760
want my witness to disappoint him.

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I want the witness I leave you to point to the greatness of the Savior that I serve.

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Let me ask you this question today.

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If your life were to end today, what would it point to?

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00:36:41,800 --> 00:36:45,960
I've asked that question of myself in recent months.

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00:36:45,960 --> 00:36:48,840
What witness would you leave behind?

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00:36:48,840 --> 00:36:54,080
What one sentence epitaph would be on your gravestone?

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00:36:54,080 --> 00:36:57,440
What would people say about your life before they moved on to other things?

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00:36:57,440 --> 00:37:01,200
And they will move on to other things very quickly.

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00:37:01,200 --> 00:37:07,440
I've actually thought of that to the degree of wanting my funeral to look a certain way

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00:37:07,440 --> 00:37:11,080
at the point in a certain direction, as you should.

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00:37:11,080 --> 00:37:17,720
Don't worry, I don't have a funeral date planned yet, just a funeral.

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00:37:17,720 --> 00:37:21,360
I want my witness, Paul said.

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00:37:21,360 --> 00:37:26,080
Any fragrance that still remains in my life, I want it to point to Christ.

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00:37:26,080 --> 00:37:31,160
If I come back to you, if I'm spared of death and I come back to you, I want it to leave

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00:37:31,160 --> 00:37:35,080
behind something that's worth leaving behind.

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And dear friend, I think that's what all of us just want.

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Paul says basically, make life count.

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00:37:44,080 --> 00:37:49,440
Make it count with a purpose, make it count with a meaning that in eternity will still

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00:37:49,440 --> 00:37:51,440
matter.

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00:37:51,440 --> 00:37:55,760
Because as the old line says, soon one life will be passed.

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00:37:55,760 --> 00:38:00,240
Only what's left, only what's done for Christ will last.

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00:38:00,240 --> 00:38:05,040
Only what we do in serving Him, only what He does through us will last.

627
00:38:05,040 --> 00:38:09,720
Now there's some things I know now that I didn't know when I walked into that surgeon's

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00:38:09,720 --> 00:38:10,720
office.

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00:38:10,720 --> 00:38:15,760
Now I know that my thyroid cancer is often successfully treated.

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00:38:15,760 --> 00:38:20,240
Now I know that the surgeons and the doctors in Canada just often have expertise in dealing

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00:38:20,240 --> 00:38:21,240
with this.

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00:38:21,240 --> 00:38:24,900
And now I have several friends that have come to me now and they're close friends now because

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00:38:24,900 --> 00:38:29,960
they told me about their experiences and their encounters and some of them had this 20 years

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00:38:29,960 --> 00:38:34,240
ago so I'm not worried about length of life as it pertains to this.

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00:38:34,240 --> 00:38:37,000
God may take me tomorrow, I don't know.

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00:38:37,000 --> 00:38:40,700
But up front, I'm glad I didn't know any of those things.

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00:38:40,700 --> 00:38:48,480
Because I didn't want and I didn't need assurance of some medical ability, I needed to face

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00:38:48,480 --> 00:38:53,640
the reality of life and death in a way that made me think more deeply about my life and

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00:38:53,640 --> 00:38:55,040
my death.

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00:38:55,040 --> 00:38:58,960
The threat of cancer seems less serious to me right now because of those things but it

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00:38:58,960 --> 00:39:06,000
in no way diminished the encounter I have with Christ to make me think more deeply about

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00:39:06,000 --> 00:39:07,960
my why.

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I know why I'm here.

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00:39:10,400 --> 00:39:12,680
Why are you here?

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00:39:12,680 --> 00:39:13,680
What's your purpose?

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00:39:13,680 --> 00:39:19,960
And I assure you if it's not clear, there is one man that can make it clear and his name

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00:39:19,960 --> 00:39:25,200
is Jesus and he will make it as clear as you'll let him make it.

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00:39:25,200 --> 00:39:30,640
And you can live the rest of your days with that kind of focus, that kind of passion,

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00:39:30,640 --> 00:39:31,640
that kind of why.

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00:39:31,640 --> 00:39:33,600
That's what I want for you.

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00:39:33,600 --> 00:39:34,880
That's what he wants for you.

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00:39:34,880 --> 00:39:39,400
In just a moment I'm going to close this in prayer and there'll be three invitations

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that I make to you.

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One of them is that we have decision stations at every entrance as you leave today, one

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00:39:45,600 --> 00:39:48,440
back to my right and one to my left.

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00:39:48,440 --> 00:39:53,960
Decision stations are there to provide for you someone that can converse with you about

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00:39:53,960 --> 00:39:56,200
spiritual decisions.

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00:39:56,200 --> 00:39:59,600
For example, if you're in this room today and you don't have the confidence that when

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00:39:59,600 --> 00:40:04,000
you die that you'll spend eternity with God in heaven, we want to talk to you about that

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00:40:04,000 --> 00:40:07,760
and help you get the answer to that so we can have that conversation where you can place

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00:40:07,760 --> 00:40:13,200
your trust and faith in Jesus and know that you've done that and know that he's responded.

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So we invite you to stop by the decision stations.

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00:40:16,280 --> 00:40:20,840
I would also invite you to join us if you're a guest today in our guest reception room

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right outside the center exit doors across the hallway.

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It's a glass room.

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00:40:25,120 --> 00:40:26,120
I'll be in there.

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00:40:26,120 --> 00:40:30,240
You'll be able to see me there and I'd like to talk with you for just a few moments.

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00:40:30,240 --> 00:40:32,920
And if you're a guest today we're going to invite you to eat with us free.

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We have a food truck out there and it's free to all guests and we want you to come in that

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00:40:37,200 --> 00:40:40,720
room and I'll give you the way to get that food and we want to just visit with you and

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00:40:40,720 --> 00:40:43,200
tell you about Cross City Church.

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Third invite is this.

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00:40:44,700 --> 00:40:49,560
Come back next week because I'm going to answer the question, how can I live the Christian

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life?

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00:40:50,560 --> 00:40:53,120
You talk about it all the time, but how can I do it?

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00:40:53,120 --> 00:41:00,160
What means are available for me to actually live for Christ, to die to old things, to

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00:41:00,160 --> 00:41:02,120
be alive to the new things that he wants.

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00:41:02,120 --> 00:41:06,760
Give me the details about how do I do that specifically, practically, and you're going

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00:41:06,760 --> 00:41:10,480
to get as practical as you can possibly imagine next Sunday morning.

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00:41:10,480 --> 00:41:11,480
How can I live this life?

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00:41:11,480 --> 00:41:19,040
Would you stand with me as we close in prayer today?

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Okay while they stand, you want to do that?

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00:41:21,240 --> 00:41:22,240
Yes.

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00:41:22,240 --> 00:41:23,640
Is that right?

685
00:41:23,640 --> 00:41:26,720
I'm just learning that we're going to have an impromptu baptisms in here.

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00:41:26,720 --> 00:41:29,080
Someone's come to faith and they want to be baptized right now.

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00:41:29,080 --> 00:41:32,080
I think we ought to let them do it.

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00:41:32,080 --> 00:41:36,560
What do you think?

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00:41:36,560 --> 00:41:39,560
Sometimes they put messages on the back of the screen, but I never look at them, so I

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00:41:39,560 --> 00:41:40,560
don't know.

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00:41:40,560 --> 00:41:41,560
So here we are.

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All right.

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We're all ready to go.

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00:41:45,560 --> 00:41:46,560
Thank you, pastor.

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00:41:46,560 --> 00:41:49,280
Ladies and gentlemen, we're so excited.

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This is Jonathan.

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00:41:50,280 --> 00:41:52,560
Jonathan was setting exactly where you're setting.

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We're going to grab a seat right there, right where you were setting.

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00:41:55,960 --> 00:42:00,800
And he watched the two baptisms take place and God just moved in his heart in that moment.

700
00:42:00,800 --> 00:42:05,240
Jonathan had already prayed to receive Christ, had gone down a road and kind of drifted a

701
00:42:05,240 --> 00:42:08,360
little bit as a lot of people do and said, you know what?

702
00:42:08,360 --> 00:42:10,600
Today, today I need to be baptized today.

703
00:42:10,600 --> 00:42:13,000
So he came out, met with Sharon for a little bit.

704
00:42:13,000 --> 00:42:16,800
I had an opportunity to visit with him and Jonathan's here today because he wants to

705
00:42:16,800 --> 00:42:19,480
follow Jesus Christ and being baptized.

706
00:42:19,480 --> 00:42:20,480
Jonathan, what is your testimony?

707
00:42:20,480 --> 00:42:22,160
My name is Jonathan.

708
00:42:22,160 --> 00:42:26,200
Jesus Christ is my Lord and Savior and I am not ashamed.

709
00:42:26,200 --> 00:42:29,520
Amen, amen, amen.

710
00:42:29,520 --> 00:42:34,080
Jonathan, because you're a professor of faith, it is my great privilege to get to baptize

711
00:42:34,080 --> 00:42:37,320
you in the name of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit.

712
00:42:37,320 --> 00:42:39,960
Bear with Christ in baptism.

713
00:42:39,960 --> 00:42:46,360
Raise to walk in a new way of life.

714
00:42:46,360 --> 00:42:47,360
You are dismissed.

715
00:42:47,360 --> 00:43:04,600
Have a wonderful Lourdes Day.

