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Welcome to Walk in the Truth podcast. How do we know where to find answers to the toughest

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questions in life? While the simplest answer is the Bible, where do we start this search

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and how do we discover this truth? Today, in this teaching podcast, John Meador, lead

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pastor of Cross City Church, takes a specific text of the Bible and helps us find truth

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for the life we're searching for. We are so glad that you're with us this morning.

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Please take your Bibles and turn to John chapter 15 today. The secret of the abiding life.

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John chapter 15, and by the way, we have Bibles available at doorways as you come in. There

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are also some Bibles underneath the seats that you're sitting on and you're able to

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find one of those Bibles. And sometimes I'll announce actually a page number as well as

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give you a text so that if you're new to the Bible, you can be able to find out where that

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text is by looking at the page number. They'll be on the screens as well. So the secret of

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the abiding life, John chapter 15, that's along about page 1079 in that hardback version

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of the Bible. Isn't it interesting that John chapter 14, chapter 15, chapter 16, all three

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of these chapters are three chapters where Jesus is teaching about the Holy Spirit. But

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John chapter 15 is very different from 14 and 16 in that it is an entire illustration

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that gives us details about what the indwelling Holy Spirit is all about. And in this illustration,

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Jesus says, I'm the vine and you are the branches. We're going to be looking at that today. And

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I believe it's the secret to the abiding life. Let's stand together if you would, as I read

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the first 15 or the first 11 verses rather of John chapter 15, beginning in verse one.

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Imagine the disciples having heard everything that Jesus said in John 14. Imagine them being

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together in a room as he taught them. And now he's going to really take it outside that

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room to the real elements of life. He says this in verse one, he said, I am the true

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vine and my father is the vine dresser. Every branch of me that does not bear fruit, he

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takes away. Every branch that bears fruit, he prunes it so that it may bear more fruit.

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You are already clean because of the word which I have spoken to you. And this is a

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command that's repeated throughout this text. It's the only command by the way, and these

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first 11 verses, everything else is a result of this command. He said in verse four, abide

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in me and I in you. As the branch cannot bear fruit of itself unless it abides in the vine,

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so neither can you unless you abide in me. I am the vine, you are the branches. He who

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abides in me and I in him, he bears much fruit for apart from me, you can do nothing. If

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anyone does not abide in me, he is thrown away as a branch and dries up and they gather

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them and cast them into the fire and they are burned. If you abide in me and my words

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abide in you, ask whatever you wish and it will be done for you. My father is glorified

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by this that you bear much fruit and so prove to be my disciples. Just as the father has

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loved me, I have also loved you, abide in my love. If you keep my commandments, you

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will abide in my love as I've kept my father's commandments and abide in his love. And then

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verse 11, these things I've spoken to you that my joy may be in you and that your joy

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may be made full. Man, that's a great target to move towards, right? That my joy may be

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in you and that your joy may be made full. That's where all this is headed that way as

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we look at the secret of the abiding life. Let's pray together. Father, we ask that you

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illuminate this text today by your Holy Spirit so that we might know not only the theology

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of the Holy Spirit but actually how you literally dwell inside of each believer in Jesus. Father,

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today show us what we need to know about this life, this incredible life you've called us

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to. In Jesus' name we pray. All God's people said amen. Please be seated. I love this text

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because this text is really going to get us to the place where we understand we are either

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abiding in him or we are not. And as we walk through this text today, you'll see that I

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believe that this text refers to the average Christian life, just the regular ongoing Christian

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life. Not some above and beyond kind of description of the Christian life, but the way the Christian

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life is supposed to be lived out. And when we look at this today and what abiding actually

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means I believe we're going to be able to tell whether we're simply acquainted with

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the historical Jesus as in we've read the book and seen the movie. Or whether we really

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have a relationship with him where his life is flowing in us and through us. That's a

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pretty important question to answer today. So every time you hear the word abide I need

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you to know exactly what the word abide means. It's a very simple word. The word itself means

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to remain. That's it. To remain where you are. To remain or to dwell. It's often used

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as an abode, as remaining in an abode or to stay united with someone in heart and will.

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Now this is the definition of that most frequently used word in John chapter 15 which is the

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word abide. It's synonymous with salvation. It's the idea behind that is that we are believing

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and accepting and trusting Christ and so that believing, accepting, trusting Christ produces

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an abiding relationship through which everything he's going to do in our lives comes through

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that relationship. It's being vitally connected with Christ. I've told you the story when

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I was a kid that my dad and I had this conversation. He was a lot smarter than I was. Of course

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at ten years of age you think you're as smart as your dad is and certainly at sixteen you

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think you're smarter than him. But at ten years of age I wanted a minibike really, really

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bad. That was the thing when I was growing up in small town Oklahoma. You needed a minibike

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and at ten years of age I wanted one of those. He said, well I can help you raise the money

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to buy a minibike. And we had ten acres of land outside of town. We lived in town but

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we'd go out and do things on that ten acres and he said, you can plant pecan trees and

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when those pecans come to fruition then you can sell those pecans and buy a minibike.

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Now we didn't have Google back then. I didn't know it took three to five years for pecans

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trees to have anything at all on them. But he was smarter than I was and he gave me a

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plan. I planted one hundred pecans trees. Now I learned incredible lessons about how

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to grow those pecans trees in a drought filled series of summers in Oklahoma where I would

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spend the night with a water hose moving them from one tree to the next and so forth. But

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one of the things I learned is that you can actually take a branch off of one tree and

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graft it onto the other and it will actually take on life. It's really amazing. It's kind

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of like peeling back the bark of one, peeling back the bark of the tree you're going to

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plant it on and putting it on the tree, bringing the bark back up and wrapping it around it

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and putting duct tape, yes duct tape around a pecan tree. Continue to water and take care

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of it before long. The branch will have the same life that the trunk of the tree has.

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Incredible in a few years. It's a massive branch and it actually bears fruit. That's

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the idea behind this illustration of the vine and the branches. The idea is the branch doesn't

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really have anything in and of itself but it gets its life from the trunk of the tree

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itself and I can remember grafting those branches on and wondering will they remain, will they

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take on life? Jesus is giving this illustration personified. It says basically will that person

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stay connected with Jesus? And if they will stay connected with Jesus, if they will be

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connected and stay connected with Jesus, if they will abide in Jesus, all kinds of fruit

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comes out of that relationship but if they do not connect with Jesus there is no fruit

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to come. Now as we walk into this text it's important to answer a couple of questions

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that some of the more difficult parts of John 15 pose for us. For example if you look down

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to verse 6 of John chapter 15 it says this, if anyone does not abide in me he's thrown

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away as a branch and dries up and they gather them and cast them into the fire and they

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are burned and immediately this causes us some kind of a concern and maybe a little

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bit of fear. We're asking what is Jesus talking about? Well Jesus is not saying that Christians

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can lose their salvation. That's not what this text is about. He's also not talking

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about Christians that might be able to lose their reward. He is reminding them that everyone

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who's part of the crowd is not really connected to Christ. And that was true of this crowd.

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Judas was not connected to Christ. The other disciples were connected to Christ. He's basically

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saying a branch that is not tied into the vine, not tied into the trunk has no life

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in and of itself at all. And if you go back and read John's further commentary in the

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epistles you'll see he says that over and over again. In fact it might be really helpful

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for you today to have the book of John opened on one hand and then on the other hand open

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up first John because John is giving us commentary on some of the things he says in the book

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of John that Jesus said. So let me read to you first John chapter 2 verse 19. He says

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they went out from us but they were not really of us for if they had been of us they would

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have remained with us but they went out so that they would be shown that they're not

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all of us. I brought a branch today. I'm going to have a branch up here on the stage for

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just a few moments. Now some of you analytical types are going to immediately say okay that's

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not really a vine. It's not really something that has grapes on it or ever did. And I think

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it's kind of humorous. I live not far from grapevine Texas and everywhere I went in grapevine

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yesterday I could not find a grapevine in grapevine. Not sure how that works but several

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nurseries turned me away and said now you need to plant seeds and I said tomorrow's

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the message so I don't have time. I've already learned that lesson. But I do have a branch.

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And I want you to notice for just a few moments that this branch is broken off from a tree.

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So naturally this branch doesn't have any life left in it. Now it kind of looks like

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it has life right now. It still has the leaves. They're still green. It looks like if I were

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able to tape it onto a tree it might kind of look like it's alive for a while. But it's

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so broken off that unless it's grafted back in it will have no life in it of itself. And

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the illustration Jesus is giving us is very very important here when he talks about that

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in verse 6. Basically unless you become connected to Jesus you cannot ever have the real fruit

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that Jesus calls us to have because you are separated from his life and his life is what

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gives us that fruit. You can't bear spiritual fruit. You can't have true joy. Not the joy

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he intends for you to have. You can't understand love the way he wanted you to understand love.

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You can't have any of those things unless you are vitally connected to the vine who

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is Jesus Christ. Remember he said I am the vine and you are the branches. He who abides

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in me and I in him he bears much fruit for apart from me you can do nothing. I'm going

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to leave this branch up here today because I want you to keep looking at this branch

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and I want you to realize this branch will never have life and neither will we if we

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are not connected vitally with Jesus Christ. Man keep that foremost in your mind because

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that connection is everything about this illustration that we have here. In John 15 we learn how

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we abide and what it looks like when we do. And again the only command in these 11 verses

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is the command to abide. Everything else that comes out of this text comes because you abide.

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You bear fruit because you abide. You love because you abide. You have joy because you

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abide. Everything else comes out of this one command. And three times Jesus uses the word

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abide in connection with a specific way we do that and that's the secret to the abiding

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life. There's three things. Number one abide in him. Abide in him. Obviously this is the

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big one. Abiding in Jesus Christ himself. Back to verse 4 abide in me and I in you.

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If you read John 14 you have all this great great theological teaching where Jesus is

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introducing the Holy Spirit to his disciples. If you jump over to John chapter 16 more of

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the same and even more practical application. But if you really want to know the secret

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of what the indwelling Holy Spirit really does in our life it's found right here. Abide

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in me and I in you. Abide is his picture. Abide is his illustration. The vine and the

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branches help us understand what it means for the Holy Spirit to be inside of us, dwelling

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in us, living in us and the power that that brings us and the life that that brings us.

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That's the illustration Jesus uses for us to understand it. And I absolutely love it.

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Everywhere you look there are branches and vines and trees and trunks and everywhere

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you look there's green and life and you understand all these things are connected. It's part

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of our everyday life. It should be part of our everyday spiritual life as well. Abide

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in him. Now we'll jump back to John 14 and look at something that Jesus said. John 14

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verse 20. He said in that day, that is in the time, in the future when he gives the

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Holy Spirit, in that day you will know that I am in my Father and you in me and I in you.

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The future event he's pointing to was his departure and the coming of the Holy Spirit

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at Pentecost. That's Acts chapter 2. Now for you and I as believers in Jesus Christ

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post Pentecost, when you and I invite Christ into our lives, we don't have to wait for

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some subsequent experience to receive the Holy Spirit. We are born again, that is born

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of the Spirit and we have the Holy Spirit of God in our lives from the moment we surrender

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our lives to Jesus as Lord and Savior. We sometimes use these terms like accepting Jesus

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into your life or receiving Jesus into your life. What we really mean is you trust in

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and believe in what Jesus did on the cross and you receive the Spirit of Jesus into your

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life. You receive the Spirit of the living God in your life. So once you come to faith

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in Jesus, you have the Holy Spirit. If you are a believer in Jesus today, you have the

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Holy Spirit of God inside of your life and you should be attached to this vine and he

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is in you. In chapter 14 verse 23 he said it this way, if anyone loves me he will keep

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my word and my father will love him and we will come to him and make our abode with him.

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Man this is strong stuff. This is the key, the secret of the believer. We will make our

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abode with him. Now I want you to notice in this illustration something very interesting

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is that this is not a two way street. The branch doesn't give anything to the vine.

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The branch only receives from the vine. This branch didn't give anything to the trunk of

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the tree it came off of. Only the trunk gave life to it. And in this illustration it is

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important for us to realize we do not contribute to who Christ is or to who God is. We don't

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make God better by being present with him because God is not going to be made any bigger

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than he already is. He is already awesome almighty God amen. But all that we receive

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is what he gives to us from abiding in him. It is a one way thing. He gives us love, he

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gives us power, he gives us wisdom by our abiding in him. So we abide in him. Someone

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defined the idea of abiding and said it like this, they said abiding basically is where

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we just simply trust, we simply have confidence, we simply savor that interaction with him,

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we receive from him. I've summarized it this way, abiding is dependence upon Christ instead

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of ourselves. Have you ever noticed how hard it is to live the Christian life, I mean fully

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live the Christian life? You ever notice that? If you were being transparent and I was saying

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on a scale of one to ten how easy is it for you to live the Christian life? And ten being

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the greatest effort and one being the easiest, you're probably going to say it's a ten on

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a scale of ten, that's how difficult it is to live the Christian life. And you would

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be correct, it's not easy to live the Christian life. But what is the price for me to say

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to you, Jesus never said you could live the Christian life. He never said you could. But

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he said he always would. He said he always would live that life through you. Therefore

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we need to be really connected with him for him to live that life through us. It's not

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about what we do apart from Jesus, it's what we do because we are in Jesus Christ. So abiding

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is dependence upon Christ instead of ourselves. It's realizing and knowing that we can't do

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it on our own. And then there's a surprising statement that I love because it reminds me

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of where I really need to be in my mind about living the life he's called me to live. It's

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in verse five. Jesus said I'm the vine and you're the branch. As he who abides in me

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and I in him, he bears much fruit. And then there's this last line. For apart from me,

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you can do nothing. Let me suggest to you that that's one of the greatest prayers or

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greatest verses you can pray back to him. Lord, I need your help today. Because I know

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that apart from you I can do nothing. Lord, I need your wisdom today because apart from

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you I can do nothing. Lord, I need you to give me the joy that I don't seem to have

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right now because apart from you I can do nothing. I need your wisdom. I need your love.

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I need your insights because apart from you I can do nothing. I really can't. I'm just

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like every other human being apart from abiding in the power of the Holy Spirit, abiding in

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Jesus Christ. There's such a huge emphasis on this kind of connection. Abiding is paying

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attention to the connection we have with Jesus instead of trying to do things by our own

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effort because you know you can't and you know he can. That's what abiding is. That's

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what abiding is. It's paying attention to the relationship that we have with him because

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we know we need him. Because we know we need him. Abiding. See, if you stay focused on

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the connection the sap will flow and the fruit will come. The sap will flow and the fruit

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will come and you'll see your life change. Not because you're trying hard to make a change

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but because you're vitally connected with the one who can change your life and you may

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even be surprised by the character that comes out of your life. The fruit that shows up

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because you're connected with Christ. You'll be able to see love and kindness that come

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out of you when it wouldn't normally naturally come out of you. You'll see he takes the edge

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off of anger and the anxiety out of stressful situations. He takes the hate out of disagreement

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and division. He influences the fruit that comes out of us. If you will pay attention

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to the connection you have, the relation you have with Jesus Christ, all kinds of fruit

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will come out of you. But if you don't pay attention to it, you can do nothing. Abide

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in him. That's the umbrella over everything else he's going to say today. So let me just

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pause for just a second and say, are you connected to him? Abide connected to him. I don't mean

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just one moment in time where you said, yes, I trust Jesus. I'll pray and ask him to forgive

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me if I sin. But are you connected to him relationally? Often for many people it begins

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with a moment like that and then they grow into this regular ongoing relationship because

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they've trusted him. But it's not just the moment of praying and accepting what he did

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on the cross. It's a matter of entering into that relationship that connect. Are you connected

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to him? Are you abiding in him? Do you have a reliance on the Lord who brings all this

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good fruit and apart from him, you can do nothing. Abide in him, Jesus said. That's

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the first secret. The second you'll find he attaches the word abide with something else.

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Abide in his word. Abide in his word. Look at verse seven for a second. It says, if you

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abide in me and my words abide in you, ask whatever you wish and it will be done for

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you. Many of us really get zeroing in on that prayer promise. Okay. Whatever I ask in his

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name he'll do for me. But really the emphasis is that first line. If you abide in me and

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my words abide in you, ask whatever you wish and it will be done for you. I promise you

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when you abide in Jesus and his words abide in your life, you're going to be asking different

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things than you would otherwise. That's an important part of our prayer life is to know

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that we're flavored by the relationship we have with Christ and by the word in our life.

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But why did Jesus make such a direct connection between abide in me and my words abide in

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you? I'm going to try to explain that over this next couple of minutes because it's so

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important. Imagine having the most wise and powerful person in the world with you yet

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ignoring what they say. You're facing a massive decision to ask your help or you're facing

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a big challenge about something in your financial future or you have some challenges in your

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relationships and you know what you want to do but you have someone right there with you

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who knows everything about relationships, everything about the future, everything about

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your own life. What are you going to do? Listen to them or are you going to listen to you?

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And if they're saying to you don't do what you would normally do, don't do what you want

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to do but do this instead, go this way. If you trust them, if you know they're wise,

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if you understand that you don't know everything then you'll yield to them and do what they

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say to do instead of your natural inclination. That's about the closest I can get to describing

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what it means to abide in the word. And it's tough to do sometimes because we're talking

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about things that are bigger than just finances or health or relationships. Sometimes things

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that really rock us to the core of fears and panic and heartbreak and everything else is

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going on inside of there. But here's what I want you to see today. It is your response

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to what the word says about your life that reveals the level of your abiding with Him.

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How you respond to His word is everything. Abide in my words. Now John also comments

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in 1 John chapter 2 about what it's like not to abide. And here's what he says in 1 John

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2, 4. He says, the one who says I've come to know Him and yet does not keep His commandments

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is a liar and the truth is not in Him. But whoever keeps His word in Him the love of

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God has truly been perfected. By this we know that we are in Him. The one who says he abides

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in Him ought himself to walk in the same manner as he walked and that word's consistent with

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His word. So our response to His word is incredibly revealing. Here's what it ought to look like.

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It ought to look like this. Over time you become more and more dependent upon His word

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than you do your opinion. Over time it becomes our go to to see what the scripture says about

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a thing instead of think this is what I want to do. This is what I feel like I ought to

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do. Let me describe it again this time on the screen. Abiding in the word means that

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we allow His word to fill our minds, to direct our wills, and transform our emotions and

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affections. It gives shape to our life but it only happens if we're connected to His

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word constantly more so than another person with us. It's like being present all the time.

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It's like you allow it to just absolutely fill your mind and life. I was trying to think

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of a way to illustrate this the other day and I really was coming up with blanks. Then

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something happened to me. Yesterday my iPhone broke and it didn't work anymore. People

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couldn't hear my voice anymore and the camera broke as well. The whole back side of the

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phone broke. I went to four different places before they finally said go back to the Apple

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store. I'm in the Apple store yesterday afternoon not far from here. They said we can fix your

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phone but we kind of have to overhaul it. It will be three hours before you get it back.

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Do you want us to do that or do you want to mail it off for about two weeks? I said three

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hours. We'll do three hours. They took my phone. Before they took it away I was able

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to text my wife and say I'm up at this place not far from us. I said I'm going to be here

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for three hours and I'll be out of contact with you and everything else. She said great,

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where do we meet for dinner? I said okay. Meet me at this restaurant not far from the

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Apple store. I texted all that on my watch and I said now this is the final word. I can't

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communicate with you anymore after this. Show up at this time so we make the agreement.

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I went to the restaurant and at that moment I was completely out of communication with

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the world because my phone was broken. I waited in that restaurant for the 30 or 40 minutes

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it took for her to get there, whatever that amount of time was. When I was sitting there

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I realized I am completely disconnected from everything I'm comfortable with knowing. I'm

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sitting there drinking my tea and water. I don't know anybody in the restaurant. I can't

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check the weather even though I know what it is outside. I can't check football scores.

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On Saturday afternoon there's some important information I need to have. I can't tell what's

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going on in the world. I can't look at all the pictures I've taken while I'm waiting

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for my wife to show up. I can't do anything I normally do and I'm thinking I do not know

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how to live without my phone. I've come to that conclusion. I don't know how to live

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without my phone. I can't Google anything. I can't look at YouTube videos. I can't check

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my Facebook friends. I can't do anything without this phone. At first I was embarrassed and

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then I thought you know what a perfect picture of what we need to be in the sense of connected

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to Jesus. We really need to be that connected to Jesus. In fact abiding in his word and

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abiding in him means that we're more connected to him than we are anything else in our lives.

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Even our phones. Even our phones. Moment by moment we need to be checking in with him.

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Moment by moment we need to be remembering what he said in his word. Every decision we

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need to make we need to make based on what we know he's already said to us. We need to

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be at least as connected to the word as all the other important things in our lives. It's

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so incredibly important that we do that. In 1 John chapter 3 verse 24 John said it like

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this. He said the one who keeps his commandments abides in him and he in him. We know by this

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that he abides in us that the spirit whom he has given us is present. This is why thousands

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of believers gather hundreds of thousands even millions of believers gather every Sunday

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to seek under the teaching of the word. It's why we listen to podcasts and read Christian

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books. It's why we have devotionals in quiet time. It's why we pray and read the word.

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It's why we want you in a small group talking about the truth of God's word because that's

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the only way you can really abide in the word by having it around you all the time. It doesn't

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mean you don't have the presence to know how to live in this life. It means you do have

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the spiritual presence to know how to live in this life. We want you to abide in his

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word and abide in him because that's the key to life. Paul said in Colossians chapter 3

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verse 16, let the word of Christ richly dwell in you. Richly. Let it be overflowing in your

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life and in time. You learn this dependency. You learn to rely on being connected to the

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word. We learn to discover that all the earthly wisdom out there and all my natural wisdom

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just is not enough. In fact they will steer me wrong often. I need to be connected to

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his word and that's progress. Put another way, you cannot bear fruit if you're more

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connected with other people and other things than you are with this vine. You can't bear

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his fruit. You can't bear his life unless you're connected to him. So abide in him.

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Abide in his word. Then the third one, your life. The third time he uses the word abide,

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he says abide in his love. Abide in his love. He says this in verse 9, just as the father

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has left me, I have also loved you. Let this sink in. Abide in my love. I want to remind

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you this is not a two way thing. It's a one way thing. The branch is receiving everything

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from the vine. In other words, Jesus is saying I want you to continually feel and understand

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and know and believe the flow of my love into you and through you. I want you to never have

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a moment where you don't know that I love you. I want you to remain in my love and the

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stress is not where Jesus is saying that he wants us to love him, but the stress of the

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whole conversation is I want you to let me love you. Abide in my love. Remain in my love.

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Don't disconnect from my love. Abiding in love means you come to know and believe that

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God truly loves you. Now I read those words in the English and I think that doesn't really

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communicate as powerfully as I want them to communicate because knowing something and

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believing something are kind of tepid words in the English. But if you take a step back

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and just let those two words sink in for just a moment, to know experientially, to know

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by way of experience, to fully know and grasp that he loves you is a really, really big

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deal. They can come in one experience or can come over a variety of experiences and gradually

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you become convinced and really believe, believe to the point where you're absolutely convinced

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that God absolutely loves you even when you're at your worst. For you to know and believe

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that is part of what it means to abide in my love. Now why do I know that? Because John

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says it in 1 John chapter 4. Here's what he says, he said, whoever confesses that Jesus

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is the son of God, God abides in him and he is in God. We have come to know and have believed

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the love which God has for us. God is love and the one who abides in love abides in God

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and God abides in him. Why is this such a difference maker? Why is this such a big deal?

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Why does it even matter? It matters because if I actually believe that God loves me and

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I realize the depth of his commitment to me, I have no reason to distrust him, no reason

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to run from him, no reason to disconnect from him at all. I have come to believe that his

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word for me reflects the best interest that he has in my life and even in the toughest

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of choices, the toughest of time, I can have confidence he'll never leave me, he'll never

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abandon me, he'll never desert me because he loves me. We say this all the time in John

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one who gave his life is saying to those disciples, abide in that love, remain in that love, let

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it keep flowing into your life. It radically changes how you live life. John again in 1

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John chapter 4 verse 18 says, there's no fear in love but perfect love casts out fear because

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fear involves punishment and the one who fears is not perfected in love. That's a pretty

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big deal. When I know that I'm loved by God, I don't have to fear him. He has done everything

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necessary to remove the barriers I put up between myself and him and he's cleared them

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out of the way and I can have a real relationship with him, I can really stay connected, stay

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attached to him because he loves me. Beyond that, when I abide in his love and I'm confident

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in it, loving others is risk free. You know you can love someone and not really risk anything

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because even if they reject you, you will never be rejected by God. You'll always be

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loved, you'll always be valued, you'll always be the apple of his eye, you'll always be

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one that he comes to and helps in every way. When we love people, we're afraid of being

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rejected but all that fear should go out of the window because you are fully loved in

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God. Get it this way, no human being on this planet can possibly love you to that degree.

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No human being can possibly fulfill your need to be loved like God fulfills that need to

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be loved. That means we can love irregular people who may throw stuff back at us who

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may not treat us well. We can love them anyway because we've been loved by God. In 1 John,

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it goes on to say, brothers we love because he first loved us. And that's how we love

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unconditionally. Do you have any irregular people in your life that sometimes you struggle

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to love? Anybody have irregular people? Some of you don't want to raise your hand because

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you're sitting next to the irregular person that's hard to love. That's got to be why.

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Got a lot of glances being exchanged in this room. It's threefold secret, abide in Jesus,

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abide in his word, abide in his love. I don't have time to talk about all the great results

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of all this but let me summarize them really quickly. This passage says that when you abide

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you bear much fruit and prove to be his disciples. That's where the fruit comes from. I'm

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not going to give you ten steps to bearing more fruit but if they didn't include as the

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top step abiding in Jesus it would never happen. When you abide you bear much fruit and then

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when you abide you find the love and joy that's found nowhere else. Nowhere else but him.

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I was watching a guy talk about this subject recently and he posed the question, he goes,

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how is it that the son of God seems to be begging his disciples to stay, to remain,

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to abide? Why would Jesus be saying it like that? Because he says it so many different

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times and the plea is very obvious. If you were to use your own language about abiding

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it would be remain attached to me, let my word dwell in you, let my love flow through

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you, stay connected to me. I'm strong enough to help you with everything. You're not that

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strong. I'm able to love more than you can love me. You're not by yourself able to love

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other people. Abide in me, stay in me. Why is he pleading with the disciples to do that?

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And the reason he's pleading with them is because it's the only way to live the life

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he calls us to live. Apart from that, we're this. No hope, no promise, no future, no joy,

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no love, none of that. Abide in me and I in you. That's his invitation to you today.

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There may be today that you've never come to the place where you've ever trusted Jesus

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for what he did on the cross. That's the starting point for abiding. Abiding means coming to

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him in the first place. He has done everything necessary for you to come to him and put your

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faith and trust in him. In fact, the gospel, the good news is Jesus died, was buried, rose

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again the third day. And as a result of the resurrection offers the life that he alone

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can give. He overcame death, he overcame sin and in his resurrected state he said, I've

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come to give you life. It's accepting that. That's the beginning of abiding. That's when

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you start that grafting in. And then day by day, week by week, you begin to depend and

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abide and remain. Maybe today you've never, you've realized you've never made that decision.

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Today at the end of our service, I invite you to stop by a decision station. There are

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two different places on the way out. There'll be counselors there that would love to talk

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to you. My first invitation to you today is stop on the way out and say, I need to know

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what it means to start this relationship and we can help you. My second invite is to come

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out of the worship center into our guest reception room. I would love to visit with you personally.

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Kind of hard to do that in a big room. I'd love to do that personally. For about 10 minutes

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we have a guest reception time together out the center exit doors just across the hallway.

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A glass 10 room is there. My third invite is when you come next week, bring someone

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with you. We have invite cards out there. We're looking at the second half of John 15.

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More about what it means to abide in Christ. And I want to encourage you to bring someone

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with you. People need to hear what this is all about. Would you stand with me as we close

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out in prayer today? Father, thank you so much that you have done everything necessary

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for us to bear fruit, to experience love and joy. And Father, today I want to ask you that

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you allow each of us that needs to stop, stop our movement from here to anywhere else until

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we settle the question of our salvation. Have we made this decision? Have we begun abiding?

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Father, help us to have the courage to ask those questions and to get those answers.

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And Father, as we leave today, I pray that we will enter into this abiding remaining

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connection with you so that we can see you live through us in a way only you can. Thank

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you Lord Jesus for inviting us, even pleading with us to do this. I ask this in Jesus name.

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Amen. God bless you.

