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Let me get centered in front of the camera where mom if you're watching online, good

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morning.

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They're on their way from Kansas City from visiting my sister.

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So they're going to try to look it up.

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I gotta let my eyes adjust too.

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It's bright up here.

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I'm surprised you don't wear sunglasses.

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A little bit about me.

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As far as the chair goes, so you're kind of aware.

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Tashauna, would you bring up the water bottle?

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I already forgot that.

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I was injured in 2015, so I am a quadriplegic now.

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Two of the things that go along with my disability that make it a little challenging for me are

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one is my blood pressure.

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Basically the two are related.

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My blood pressure runs as low as about 70 over 40, which if you're familiar with blood

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pressures, that's pretty low.

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So I adjust myself in my chair quite a bit.

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So you might see me going back and forth and you'll probably notice that a lot of the times

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I'm reclined in my chair.

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And sometimes I recline more.

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And that's why it's so I don't pass out.

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And I haven't passed out in a few years now, but it does require some awareness.

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And then I also, probably because my blood pressure is so low, I get cold pretty easy.

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My blood's not flowing real fast.

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So the hat and the hood that I wear aren't a fashion statement.

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It's not a desire to scare people off.

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I let my face do that.

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It's not what the hood is for.

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I just go around glaring and trust that to communicate.

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So those are a couple things about me.

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My mouth also gets dry.

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So I take lots and lots of water breaks.

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But we'll enjoy that.

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This morning, I'm going to connect Jesus to Pokemon.

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That's my little intro.

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I'm going to say that if Jesus were here with us this morning, he would be really interested

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in Pokemon cards.

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Not because Pokemon themselves are especially interesting, but because to a lot of kids

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here, and one kid in particular I'm thinking of, Pokemon cards really matter.

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And kids really matter to Jesus.

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So if there's something that really matters to kids, then I think it would really matter

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to Jesus too.

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So that's the little connection we're going to make.

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We'll take a little while to get there.

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But that's where we're going.

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Looking at Mark, let me open with prayer and then I'll get back to Mark.

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Father, we thank you so much for the opportunity to gather this morning.

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We thank you for your word.

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We pray that you'll lead us and guide us.

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I pray that you would be with my body and my mind, that I would be able to speak clearly,

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that I would not become distracted as I deal with some of those things.

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And I pray that you would help us to open up our minds to laugh together, to listen

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together, and hopefully to hear your spirit say something.

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Amen.

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So we've been working through Mark and my favorite verses in Mark, because they really

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set the table, are verses 1, 14 to 15.

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And they read, after John was put in prison, Jesus went into Galilee, proclaiming the good

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news of God.

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The time has come, he said.

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The kingdom of God is come near.

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Repent and believe the good news.

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So toward the beginning, Jesus starts his ministry by announcing, pay attention, something

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new is happening.

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It's something you've been waiting for for a long time, but it's also different from

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how you'd imagined it.

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You're going to have to pay really close attention to notice what it is and figure out the priorities

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that it has, because it's different from anything you've understood before.

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Now last week, Pastor Greg walked us through how Jesus had now been identified as Messiah

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in chapter 8, halfway through.

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So we don't have a lot of time left in Mark.

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And chapters 14, 15, and 16 are mostly made up by the betrayal, the crucifixion, the resurrection,

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those things.

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So we have a precious few chapters in there from when Jesus first predicts his crucifixion

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in chapter 8 through to the end of Mark.

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And chapter 9, he predicts his crucifixion again.

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He's only going to do it three times.

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So the pressure is mounting and mounting what's going to happen next, what's going to be accomplished

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in this ministry.

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Now one thing that the disciples are concerned about is they're advancing toward Jerusalem.

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This new kingdom is coming.

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The Messiah has been identified is this.

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Who is going to be the most important among them?

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Who's going to be the leader?

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Because Jesus is not going to have 12 equal advisors in his kingdom as they probably would

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have thought.

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He'll probably have one or two main advisors, main people that he appoints for his kingdom.

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And so we find that they're having this conversation in Mark chapter 9 verses 33 through 37.

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It says they came to Capernaum.

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When he was in the house, he asked them, what were you arguing about on the road?

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But they kept quiet because on the way they had argued about who was the greatest.

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Sitting down, Jesus called the 12 and said, anyone who wants to be first must be the very

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last and the servant of all.

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He took a little child whom he placed among them.

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Putting the child in his arms, he said to them, whoever welcomes one of these little

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children in my name, welcomes me.

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And whoever welcomes me does not welcome me, but the one who sent me.

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So when is it example of the kingdom of how the hierarchy of the disciples is going to

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work?

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He didn't start to identify who is first and who was last, but he brought a child in the

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middle and said, here's our example.

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Here's how the kingdom is going to work.

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And so the disciples and probably the readers of Mark, probably us today are going to be

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surprised to hear that as Jesus lays out his kingdom, children become a focus.

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A little bit later on, we find in Mark chapter 10 verses 13 through 16 that people were bringing

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little children to Jesus for him to place his hands on them.

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But the disciples repuked them.

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Remember the time is short.

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They're on the way to Jerusalem.

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The Messiah is going to be betrayed and then he's going to come into his kingdom.

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Everything's about to change.

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Jesus does not have time to be blessing children individually.

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He has work to do.

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He has to have important people to meet with.

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He's doing his teaching for the disciples, the last time for teaching that he has.

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So the disciples working to prioritize to advise Jesus time the best they could started

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sending people away for bringing the children to Jesus.

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When Jesus saw this, he was indignant.

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He said to them, let the little children come to me and do not hinder them for the kingdom

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of God belongs to such as these.

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Only I tell you anyone who will not receive the kingdom of God, like a little child will

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never enter it.

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And he took the children in his arms, placed his hands on them and blessed them.

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In both of those passages that I read, one thing that I really enjoy is that it says,

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and he took the children in his arms.

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It shows an intimacy and a beauty there that's special blessing them.

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You could imagine blessing them with oil on their foreheads or having a child come and

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stand in the middle and the teacher discussing them.

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That may have been more dignified.

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It might be something more, more used to thinking of when it came to Jesus, but it says that

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he took them in his arms as he blessed each child.

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When he called the child into the middle of the disciples to give them an example, he

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took the child in his arms.

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It's beautiful, but the disciples were still trying to make sense of this.

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They struggled to understand the place of children in the kingdom, why they were the

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example being used.

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I want to take a moment now to shift this morning to think about kids today.

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What keeps them from being honored in the kingdom?

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What can keep them in our culture from being recognized in their rightful place as honored

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as folks that are special to Jesus, even in the midst of their imperfections?

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Those of us who know kids well, which I think we've all had encounters with children, know

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that kids can lie.

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Kids can cheat.

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Kids can steal.

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So I don't mean to idealize them in such a way that they're always little cherubs and

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that we're always to treat them that way.

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But despite knowing their weaknesses and their flaws, Jesus still gave them this esteemed

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status.

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Now today, and especially lately, I've heard more about how kids today have it easy.

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A lot of times you hear how kids today are soft, how the culture that we're in coddles

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them too much.

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And I just want to put that in perspective for a moment.

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I heard a comedian in his 50s, not long ago, saying that he always had to get, he always

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had to change the channel for his dad.

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His dad would call him to change the channel on the TV.

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And his son asked him, why didn't you just tell your dad to do that himself?

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And he said, yeah, tell my World War II Marine dad to get up out of his chair and go over

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and change the channel himself so I wouldn't have to.

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That was never going to happen.

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And if it did, it would only happen once.

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Now the example being that each generation looks at the generation after it and has some

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of the same thoughts.

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Imagine the generation where electricity started to be a normal thing.

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What do you think the generation before them thought, these kids are going to be soft.

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They've got it made.

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They just flip a light switch and the lights come on.

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And there is a generation after that where cars became to be more and more prevalent.

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Tractors where you didn't have to go and plow the fields with ox or with horse.

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That generation is going to have it easy.

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They're probably going to get soft.

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And so we see that that's not a new thing.

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The kids today that we look at today, the generations that we look at today will probably

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say the same things about their kids.

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You think 10G is slow?

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We had 5G back in my day.

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It was nothing like it is now.

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Who knows having to swipe on your phone, having to drive your own car, who knows what other

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things that they'll look at.

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So we should very much hesitate before we look at kids today and think to ourselves

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or say they've got it easy.

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They're going to be soft.

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They're not going to know how to work.

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They're going to be lazy.

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Probably every generation has looked at this generation after them and said those same

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things.

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Be careful not to judge.

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It's never easy to be a kid.

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It's never been easy.

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It never will be easy.

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I think of some of the things that our kids face today that those of us in this room never

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did.

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I still remember when Columbine happened.

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I was in junior high.

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The idea of a school shooting, of a mass shooting was so foreign, it was the changing of tide

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in our culture that something like this had happened.

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Where did we go wrong?

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Was it video games?

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Was it single parent homes?

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Was it teachers?

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All of these things, everything was quenched.

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Was it the TV shows that we watched?

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But today, to hear about a school shooting, it's more of a question of where and how many.

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How many were killed?

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How many were shot?

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What type of weapon was used and we can probably guess.

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Those things aren't things that most of us grew up with.

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It's not easy to be a kid today.

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Metal detectors, sniffing dogs, a lot of those things that kids face today are different.

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In the Cold War, I hear about, I didn't live through, but in the Cold War, I hear about

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kids getting under their desks and putting books over their heads because you were worried

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about a nuclear strike from the Soviet Union, the Cold War.

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Now kids do safety drills.

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They know where to go in their building if there's an active shooter.

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They know how to prepare, who needs to lock the doors, where to go, signals to put on

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the inside, outside of the rooms, all of these things.

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It's not easy to be a kid, is it?

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We should be careful before we pass judgment about what it's like to be a kid today or

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how easy it is.

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We think of the social media that kids face today, TikTok, these different things.

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Now I think again, it's good for us to remember kids didn't invent that stuff.

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A lot of times we look on judgment on how much kids stream, how much they text, how

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much they use these different devices, the attention culture, trying to get likes.

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Kids didn't invent any of that, did they?

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That came a generation before.

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The idea now we understand of kids being addicted to social media or younger people, that wasn't

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by accident, was it?

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We found out as different things happened that actually there had been algorithms and

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different things that were specially designed to get people addicted, for our brains to

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respond, for those likes and those different things, not just to be selfish or appealing

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to our own vanity, but to try to hook us in for greed, for monetary profits, to find different

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ways to get us more involved, to keep us clicking.

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And it works on us adults too, doesn't it?

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Our brains are more formed where we might be more able to filter that through, but the

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kids are not.

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And by kids I admit, and I apologize to teenagers or older kids in the room, I am using kids

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to cover a spectrum.

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I'll go even all the way up through high school today.

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I know that's not fair.

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I know it's probably annoying, but at the same time to differentiate between the generations

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in there would be tricky.

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So I'm going to throw in kids.

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So I apologize for that.

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When I was 16, I didn't want to be told I was a kid and hear the issues kids were facing

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today, but I think it's important for this morning for us to get a grasp on some of these

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things.

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So when kids or youth or whatever they are, when they're struggling with some of these

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things, identity, bodies, body shaming, suicide, depression, isolation, they did not invent

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the factors that contribute to these things, did they?

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They didn't come up with the internet.

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They usually don't go out and buy their own phones, do they?

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Those come from adults, the access, those different things to the internet, the content

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that's on the internet.

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They're not responsible for that.

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It's not easy to be a kid.

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They face a lot of things today that even my generation, and the more I say that, the

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more I realize 36 is older than I want it to be.

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I work with a 20 year old and it really helped me to start to realize when she mentioned

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her fall drip, I had no idea that drip was describing clothing style.

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And then I heard it in a commercial and I was kind of excited because I was like, I

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know what that means.

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And then I heard the term goblin mode.

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Has anyone heard of it?

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Okay, that makes me feel better, Bradley, because I heard it and I was all excited because

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I read it in an article probably on CNN that was like the new thing that the kids were

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saying and the new thing in the dictionary.

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And then I asked a bunch of kids, like, we don't know what you're talking about.

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Like, dang it, I'm still old.

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I'm trying to use a phrase that kids might like and they don't know it anyway.

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So I'm still not the person going up and saying, you know, hey, I know the new term you kids

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are using and they have no clue what I'm talking about.

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Missed it again.

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But even just working with a 20 year old, I find myself saying a lot, you know, in my

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generation, or your generation, I even thought one day when I saw the kids and youth group

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coming up here and helping lead, which was so cool, I thought to myself, it's so good

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to see young people today participating in the church.

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And then I thought, okay, grandma, I specifically remember old ladies coming up to me in church

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when I was a teenager and saying, it's just so good to see young people in church today.

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It's so good to see you involved and enjoying being here.

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I worry about kids your age.

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We see fewer and fewer of them in church.

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And I remember rolling my eyes and being like, what are you talking about?

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Whatever.

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I'm just here.

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I enjoy being here, but also my parents make me come.

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And yeah, now I say it today.

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It's so good to see the young people up there saying the prayers, singing the songs.

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So I'm there with a lot of it.

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But yes, I recognize that the generation before me also probably thinks my generation is soft.

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And now the generation, including mine, is complaining about the working from home and

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it's going to ruin everything.

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And there's probably some truth that there's value in being in the office.

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But every generation looks at the one after it and says, boy, they're really going down

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the tubes.

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Still here.

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I think about some of the things like participation trophies, some of that stuff that you hear

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people complain about.

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Everybody gets a trophy.

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Kids did not assign themselves trophies, did they?

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They didn't all get together one day and say, let's have a meeting.

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This year when we distribute the trophies at the end of the soccer season that we as

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eight-year-olds organized and recruited people to coach, we've decided that we're going to

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give out the trophies this year to each person that participates rather than to one team

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that did really well.

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We're responsible for that, aren't we?

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Someone in here came up with that and decided to go with that.

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And judging how many parents are involved with sports teams, right, it wasn't just one

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parent that decided to do that.

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Nobody wanted to say no.

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Nobody wanted to hurt the kids' feelings.

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So it's not their fault.

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Being a kid isn't easy.

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It wasn't easy then in Jesus' day.

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Kids were often overlooked.

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They did not have the value that Jesus was trying to show that they should have.

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The special place that they have in the kingdom then, but it's still true now.

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Going ahead now to look back one more moment at what Jesus saw in kids that he said, these

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are the focus of my kingdom.

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Now this is what I call speculative theology right now.

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Okay I used to Jesus also.

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Where I'm going to choose to decide what I think Jesus was thinking and make it fit my

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sermon.

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Hopefully it's not quite that egregious.

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But I think that using Scripture as a whole and using what we've learned through the church

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over the generations and what we recognize ourselves, we can try to put together some

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of what Jesus saw in kids that connected to his kingdom.

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One thing that I love as I look at kids and now I'm talking about younger is how excited

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they get about a small gift.

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Doesn't the father want us to recognize the gifts that he gives us and get excited?

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To not take them for granted.

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To not get up each day and say, oh geez what do I have to do?

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What's on today's list?

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We had one foster kid, I'll call him Jeff, he would run to my room every morning and

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knock on the door and say, Scott are you up yet?

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Are you up yet?

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Because he was so excited to see me that morning, he was so excited to get a hug, tell me what

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he was thinking and feeling that day.

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And it was wonderful, it was beautiful, I loved it.

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That's the kind of joy that's so much fun to experience.

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If my wife did that I would be totally freaked out, I'd be like whoa chill.

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Fortunately neither one of us are like really big high energy morning people, she is more

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than me.

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But she does not roll over and say, hey it's a great day.

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I don't think I'd like it if she did.

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But kids also value gifts differently.

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I decided that I was going to get one of our foster kids who had been with us for a while

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a new bike.

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He loved to ride the bike and the bike that he was riding was a bike that my parents had

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found by the side of the road that was painted different colors and had no brakes.

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So I made him get off it like a block away before we got to an intersection and he had

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to walk his bike because I didn't want him to roll through the intersection.

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So it was not a pretty bike.

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I always felt a little embarrassed when we would go around the neighborhood that he didn't

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have a little bit nicer bike.

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It wasn't the safest bike, I felt bad about that.

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And so I got him a new bike and when I got him a new bike I wanted to get him a pretty

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nice new bike.

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I was excited.

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I'd always wanted this kind of bike when I was a kid.

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I wanted him to have something to ride that he was really proud of.

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And so I did this big reveal for his birthday.

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I have an elevator in my house for my wheelchair but I thought it would be cool to put the

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bike in the elevator and open the door.

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And so I opened the door, bring out the new bike and I look at his face and I'm expecting

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a response and he gives me kind of a confused look.

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And he said, but I have a bike.

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It's laying right over there.

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He didn't see the need for it.

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He wasn't worried about the paint job.

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The three different colors were okay with him.

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Why worry about brakes when you can just slide your feet on the cement?

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I mean after all I buy his shoes what is he doing?

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You can just wear him out every other week.

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He doesn't need brakes.

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And it taught me a good lesson that he saw the world very, very differently.

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That he didn't need gifts to look a certain way.

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He was grateful for what he had and he would have much preferred a five dollar baby Yoda

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from five below.

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Which I'm guessing he got to then this new bike when he already had one.

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I went to a kids program not too long ago and they were making valentines and I was

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asking the kids who they were making valentines for and the little girl looked at me and she

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set the one for her mom aside and she started making a new one and I said who's that one

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for?

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And she said it's for you.

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You're my new friend.

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And she started I told her I like that she was painting a black valentine.

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I had never seen it.

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One with black on it.

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And so she immediately started putting my new favorite color on it.

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Asked how to spell my name.

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All those things.

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Ran out of room you know so like half the words you know ran over from one side.

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That cute way that kids do.

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I think that type of friendship that type of love that type of affection isn't that

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what the father wants from us.

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When the disciples are debating who's the most important.

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Is it possible that that's what Jesus was calling a child and in the middle for.

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To remind them of some of those things some of those lessons that were true of kids today

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and true of kids then.

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Now how do we handle kids here at the house.

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Our church is a special place for children.

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We value children very much.

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When we had tree house back there you could hear the feet of kids.

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I never heard anyone complain.

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Now we have tree house out there.

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Is it convenience.

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No is it loud.

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Yes.

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Does it look kind of funny to have those temporary curtains up when you come in.

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Yes.

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But Pastor Greg did you think twice about any of that stuff.

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I want to go out on a limb and say no because kids are important here.

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And that's focused on more than anything else.

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We do a food pantry at Earl Hansen.

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That's the name right.

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I always hesitate.

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Michelle leads it.

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And can you wave hi Michelle.

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Just so I know she hates it.

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But if you want to volunteer to learn more that's who you go talk to.

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This last week.

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The last time we had it was it two weeks ago.

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Two weeks ago over 50 kids received food from the food pantry.

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Over 80 people we have each person that comes in sign in and write down how many people

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were in their household and how many kids.

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Over 50 kids.

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Over 80 people.

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That's beautiful isn't it.

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I think it's awesome and it's so much fun to meet the people as they come through.

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I learned that some of the people coming through speak language Karen.

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And that they moved here from Thailand but their families were originally from Burma.

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It was really cool.

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It was so interesting.

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And now I have my little list of words that I'm trying to learn in Karen.

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It's going to be ugly but I'm going to try.

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And it's so fun to see the kids they interpret for their parents.

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They have so many jobs.

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Being a kid isn't easy.

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But Jesus wants us to see how they behave and model it in the kingdom.

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We do angel tree.

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We do closet to closet.

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We do all these things.

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And now I'm going to wrap up.

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What else.

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What else can we do.

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Or could we do.

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Two simple things.

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Learn a kid's name and ask a kid a question.

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That would bless kids in our church.

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A lot of us know kids.

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But learn one kid's name that you don't know.

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I had a conversation with.

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I'll go ahead and call my friend Wallace.

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I don't know if he'd call me that but I'm going to call him.

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I asked him what are you looking at.

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He was looking at Pokemon cards.

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And he immediately started to tell me about the Pokemon.

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Now I know a decent amount about Pokemon from growing up.

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From kids with Pokemon cards.

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I still had no clue what he was talking about.

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If you knew about Pokemon five years ago you have no idea what's going on now.

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It's all changed.

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But not only could he tell me about the Pokemon.

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He could tell me what store he got each deck at.

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And who he was with.

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I got this one at Target with my dad.

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We got it two weeks ago.

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And he could tell me each store how much they cost at that store.

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Who had the best packs.

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The best cards in it.

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He could tell me so many things.

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And so I got to learn a lot about his world.

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Who he spends time with.

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Where he goes.

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How he spends his money.

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Or his parents money.

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But what he values.

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And it was such a fun moment.

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And so you don't have to know about Pokemon.

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You don't have to know about what kids are into.

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You don't have to know what interests them to break into their world.

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To bless them.

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And to be a church where we know about kids in a special way.

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Where we know their names.

484
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Kids that we didn't bring to church.

485
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Or aren't friends of our family.

486
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I think would take us to the next level of honoring kids and showing them their special

487
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place in the kingdom.

488
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Amen?

489
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So if you learn a kid's name and ask them a question.

490
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I'll have a prize for you next week.

491
00:36:12,380 --> 00:36:15,080
Kids will do anything for a prize won't they?

492
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They don't even have to know what it is.

493
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So we're going to operate by that principle.

494
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Next week either after church today or at a community table or before church next week.

495
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Ask a kid their name and ask them a question.

496
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I love to ask what did you have for lunch today?

497
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What did you have for breakfast?

498
00:36:37,800 --> 00:36:40,400
Something even as simple as that.

499
00:36:40,400 --> 00:36:43,680
What's your favorite thing at school?

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Lunch or recess?

501
00:36:44,680 --> 00:36:48,520
And you know what do you like to do at recess?

502
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There's always another question you can ask.

503
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Alright let's pray.

504
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Do I do communion directly after that?

505
00:36:57,960 --> 00:36:58,960
After I pray?

506
00:36:58,960 --> 00:36:59,960
Alright.

507
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Pastor Chris and Pastor Jen if you guys would come up and then we'll do communion.

508
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I'll pray first and then we'll pass it out and I'll pray again.

509
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Father we thank you for kids.

510
00:37:30,280 --> 00:37:34,560
We thank you for the blessings and comforts that kids have today that they haven't had

511
00:37:34,560 --> 00:37:35,560
in the past.

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But we also recognize it's not easy to be a kid.

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It's not now.

514
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It never has been.

515
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It never will be.

516
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And you call us to protect them and love them in a special way.

517
00:37:50,680 --> 00:37:53,880
Help us to fulfill that.

518
00:37:53,880 --> 00:37:58,840
Help us to ask kids their names and ask them questions.

519
00:37:58,840 --> 00:38:08,160
And I thank you for the way that we honor kids in our church every week, every day.

520
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And we thank you for leaders that value that.

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In Jesus' name, Amen.

