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For those of you that don't know, my name is Greg Hampton.

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I'm one of the pastors here at the house.

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And if we've never met, I'd love to meet you.

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If you'd like to get a coffee sometime,

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put that on your connection card.

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I would love to meet you somewhere

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and I'll buy you a coffee or tea or whatever it is

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that's your preferred beverage and just get to know you.

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We are in our third week of a series

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that we're calling Wisdom Lit.

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That's because there's a whole category of scriptures

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that are called wisdom literature.

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And so we are just looking at the different parts

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of those Bibles or the themes that are found

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in those Bible passages that might have something

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to say to us about wisdom.

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So today we're actually gonna be going to

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the most obvious place for wisdom in the scriptures.

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If you feel brave, I'm gonna count to three,

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say the Proverbs.

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That's right.

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So the Proverbs are traditionally attributed

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to King Solomon, but it's actually a lot like

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the book of Psalms in the sense that it wasn't

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actually written by just one person.

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The Psalms is actually a compilation that's broken

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into five different books, but there's many different

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authors and the book of Proverbs actually has

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at least five different authors, but one of the primary

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ones that gathered those sayings together

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and compiled those things would have been King Solomon.

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The Solomon's origin story is pretty interesting.

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It's pretty unique in the scriptures

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if you're familiar with it.

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He's the son of King David.

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David was the second king, so then Solomon

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becomes the third king.

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God chooses him to follow in King David's footsteps.

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Now he wasn't the oldest, he's actually right

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in the middle of about 20 kids that King David had

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with multiple different wives.

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He's actually, but he is the oldest surviving son

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of his adulterous relationship with Bathsheba.

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There's something interesting when you find out

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these things, oh he's the wisest man that ever lived

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and then you find out his origin, you're like,

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oh how amazing is it that someone with that backstory,

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with some of the tragedy of where he began

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of his father's choices, that this person becomes

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being considered so wise.

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Part of that origin story is also that when God

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chosen to become king, God said, what would you like?

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I'll give you anything that you want as you set out

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to be king over Israel and Solomon, instead of asking

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for riches, he asks for wisdom so that he would rule

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over God's people with wisdom and so because he asked

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for wisdom instead of riches, it says that God gave him

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both, because of that, Solomon ended up building

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the kingdom, growing the kingdom, expanding the kingdom.

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He built the first temple for the Lord.

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It was something that his father had wanted to do

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but Yahweh had told him, no, this will be something

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that your son does and of course we know that Solomon

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became ridiculously wealthy but Solomon also took

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700 wives and 300 concubines.

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He saddled the people with giant financial burdens.

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He made deals with countries that God had told Israel

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to avoid and in his later years, he worshiped false gods

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and idols which led to the kingdom splitting in two.

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So was Solomon wise?

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Yes.

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But was he also foolish?

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Yes.

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This is one of those fascinating things about the scriptures.

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Said this 100 times over the years, one of the things

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I love about the scripture that does not hide people's faults.

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The Bible will hold someone up as a wise person

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or a man after God's own heart and then show you

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all the horrible and sinful things that they did.

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David meets consequences for his sins but he's not

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stripped of his title as a man after God's own heart.

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Solomon is not stripped of his title as wisest king

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of Israel, there's something to be learned

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in that about wisdom.

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There are no perfect people of any kind.

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There are only people with patches of wisdom.

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And if you gather enough pieces, they come together

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like a blanket.

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That's how I would describe the Proverbs,

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that's how I would describe the Psalms.

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They are like blankets of wisdom, they are all the best

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pieces that have been brought together to cover you.

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Psalms are a collection of songs and poems.

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Proverbs is a collection of sayings.

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It's the only book like it in the scriptures.

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It is a collection of sayings, there's maybe one and a half

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chapters that is a little bit more like a story

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or has a little bit more of a narrative to it.

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But almost all of it is just saying after saying

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after saying, it would be the equivalent today

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of King Solomon having a Twitter account just saying

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a saying, a saying, and they all got compiled together.

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And verse after verse challenge us to ask, am I wise?

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Is this wise?

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Or is this foolish?

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If you're familiar with the Beatitudes in the gospel,

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the sayings of Jesus, Proverbs is a lot like that,

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just the entire book, line after line, touching on

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everything from finances and fighting to love and leadership.

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Every day when I drive Wallace to school,

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I have in his side of the car, in the door,

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a Psalms and Proverbs, and every day on the way to school,

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he reads part of a Psalm or part of a Proverb.

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And on the way to school, we discuss what we think

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it might mean.

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Because this is how they're meant to be used.

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They're meant to shape our steps.

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It's meant to cause us to think about how we will live

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today and maybe look back and consider how today we lived.

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So today, we're gonna jump into the Proverbs.

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If you wanna grab your Bible, we're gonna be opening up

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to a bunch of different places in the Proverbs,

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but it goes like this, it goes,

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Job, Psalms, Proverbs, Ecclesiastes.

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Job, Psalms, Proverbs, Ecclesiastes.

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If you see any of those, you know that you're in

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the right neighborhood.

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If you don't have a Bible, there are Bibles on the tables.

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There's also Bibles on the bookshelf, out in the lobby

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if you wanna take one home or feel free to download

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the Bible from any of the digital app stores.

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But we also have a tradition of giving the Bible

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our full attention when it's read in the context

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of a sermon.

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You can do that any number of ways, but if you'd like

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to stand with me, you are welcome to do that

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as you are able.

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I'm gonna start in 1318, Proverbs 1318.

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And I'm gonna change chapters almost five or six times here.

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So Proverbs 1318 says this,

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whoever disregards discipline comes to poverty and shame,

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but whoever heeds correction is honored.

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Proverbs 1415, the simple believe anything,

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but the prudent give thought to their steps.

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Proverbs 1813, to answer before listening,

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that is folly and shame.

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Proverbs 1821, the tongue has the power of life and death

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and those who love it will eat its fruit.

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Proverbs 1917, whoever is kind to the poor lends to the Lord

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and he will reward them for what they have done.

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Proverbs 29, seven, 29, seven, the righteous care

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about justice for the poor, but the wicked

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have no such concern.

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Let us pray.

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God of every tribe, every tongue, every color,

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every nation, we thank you for the scriptures

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that they have persisted throughout the millennia.

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In this case, they were gathered together,

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all the sayings put together in one place.

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Whatever you have for us to learn today,

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I pray that it would stick,

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that it would become a part of the framework of our faith,

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that our faith would become stronger

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as we become more like your son Jesus.

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Amen?

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Amen, thanks, y'all, you can have a seat.

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Whoever disregards discipline comes to poverty and shame,

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but whoever heeds correction is honored.

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As you read through the Proverbs,

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it becomes extremely obvious that if you struggle

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with correction, you will struggle to find wisdom.

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I get it.

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Most of us, if not all of us, have had a bad boss.

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Most of us have had a bad boss.

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Most of us, if not all of us, have had a bad boss.

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We had a mean teacher, we had a short-tempered parent,

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we had an impatient pastor.

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I'm not always as patient or wise

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as I would like you to think that I am.

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I know that so much of the correction

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many of us have received in our lives

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was just a veiled kind of hurtful behavior.

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Trouble is that if we don't learn the difference

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between cutting to hurt and pruning for growth,

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we will bristle and reject any correction

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in crucial moments.

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Proverbs 12.1 says, whoever loves discipline

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loves knowledge, but whoever hates correction

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is unwise.

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I'll tell you a secret.

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If you just type in a Bible verse,

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just like type in Proverbs 12.1 to Google,

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one of the top hits that you'll get

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is a website called BibleHub.com.

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And if you type in just one verse,

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the nice thing that it'll do is that Bible Hub

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will actually give you an entire page of that verse

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in every conceivable translation.

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If you go to that page for this verse,

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you will only find one translation

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that uses the word unwise.

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85% of the rest of the versions says,

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whoever loves discipline loves knowledge,

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but whoever hates correction is stupid.

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I was like, I don't know if I wanna use that,

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but hey, here I am.

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It's one of those.

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The foolish reject the idea that they could be wrong

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about anything.

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The foolish reject the idea that they could be wrong

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about anything.

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And so they end up rejecting legitimate correction

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if they don't like the way that it was given.

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Then, of course, for any of us

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that are in the position to offer correction,

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we, of course, should always do so

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with great understanding, great care,

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knowing that we are rarely without fault as well, right?

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If we are the ones giving correction to someone else,

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we are rarely without fault ourselves.

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Now, some of you might know the name John Bray.

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John Bray was the lead pastor

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of a church called Heritage for decades,

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literally, I think, four decades.

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He told me that he would get negative letters now and again,

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but he said he would read them carefully

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considering what truth there might be in that letter

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and then letting go of what was only meant to be hurtful.

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He was doing his best to discern the truth,

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even if it was uncomfortable,

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because he assumed that he was not perfect.

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Part of that process that the Proverbs lays out

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is learning to listen

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and then respond only after we understand.

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If your kids are in a leader in me school,

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you've heard the phrase,

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seek first to understand and then be understood.

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It's a Stephen Covey saying,

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but he got from the Proverbs.

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We listen to learn so that we can understand

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before we speak.

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Proverbs 14, 15 said,

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the simple believe everything,

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but the prudent give thought to their steps.

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18, 13 said, to answer before listening,

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that is folly and shame.

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Liam, I got a graphic I'm gonna have you put up here

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in just a second, ready?

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There's this old movie called Office Space,

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anybody seen it?

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I can't recommend it to everybody

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because it has a copious amount of swearing in it.

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So it's not for everyone,

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but if you have seen it,

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you will recognize this graphic or this idea

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because there was this moment where a guy was like,

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hey, I've got this great idea.

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When you need to make a decision,

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you just use this thing, get it?

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You jump to a conclusion.

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Dude, most of us have one of these, don't we?

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Whether we actually have one at home or not,

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most of us have one of these in our heads.

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Most of us have one of these things in our hearts.

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It feels like it has become more and more rare

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for people to really seek to understand something

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before jumping to a conclusion,

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especially if they think they already have the answer.

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Thanks, Liam.

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There's actually research that shows that across more than,

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listen, 35 million public posts

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that contained a link to another page or article

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when they got shared on Facebook between 2017 and 2020

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that around 75% of those shares or reposts

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were made without the person

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actually clicking on the link first.

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In other words, three out of four people

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just believe what they saw in the title

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and passed it on without reading it,

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like they understood what it said.

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Why?

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The blunt answer is foolishness.

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The scientific answer is called confirmation bias.

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Confirmation bias is when we interpret new evidence

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as confirmation of what we already believe.

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Your body will actually do it.

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You'll hear something or see something

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and you'll have this sense of, oh, I like that.

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That's your first warning sign.

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Why do we do that?

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Because when we get information that confirms

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what we already believe, our brain gets a surge of dopamine.

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And that feels good.

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We take the easy route

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because our brain has to work harder

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to find out if something is actually true.

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If it sounds like something we already think,

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it's just easier and it feels better

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to assume that it's true.

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Which leads us to then only seek out

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and accept information that agrees

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with what we already think.

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So whether it's politics,

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whether it's how your boss corrected you,

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whether it's considering whether the Bible means

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what someone told you that it means,

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critical thinking matters

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because critical thinking is connected with wisdom.

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It is not the fullness of wisdom,

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but it is connected with wisdom

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because then how we think leads to the way that we what?

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That we speak, that we behave.

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Proverbs 18, 21, the tongue has the power of life and death.

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Those who love it will eat its fruit.

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15, four says the soothing tongue is a tree of life,

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but a perverse tongue crushes the spirit.

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Some of you guys know that I do a bit of improv

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at Comedy Sports along with Andy over here.

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And it is funny and Andy probably can attest this.

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It is funny how often we will talk to people

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that think they can do what we do.

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They see you doing it and they think,

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oh yeah, I could do that, I could do that.

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And I was talking to someone the other day about it.

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And I was, my son Wallace has baseball practice on Wednesday

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and so I'll go over to the Riverfront Grill

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and hang out while he's at baseball practice

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because it's right down there.

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I don't wanna drive, I'm sorry guys,

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I don't wanna drive all the way down there.

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I'm gonna drive all the way across the river again.

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I'm that guy now.

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And so my arm is gonna hang out at Riverfront Grill

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and I was talking to this guy, he goes,

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oh you do that improv thing.

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I was like, yeah, yeah, he goes, oh yeah,

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I could definitely do that.

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And I was like, oh okay, we do auditions

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a couple times a year.

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And he was convinced that he could do it

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until I asked him one question.

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Can you work clean?

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He said, oh no, I definitely can't do it.

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He was so convinced that he could be funny in improv

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that he was like, oh I definitely can't do those things

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because I can't control my tongue.

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Of course the Proverbs were talking

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about more than comedy, right?

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Solomon was a king.

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So when a king says the tongue has the power of life

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and death, he also means that literally.

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His words had the literal power of life and death

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for everybody that he led, for everyone in his kingdom.

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The same is true today.

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The higher you are in leadership in any organization,

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what you say and what you do will either prove wise

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and give life or prove to be foolish,

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negatively affect everyone that follows you.

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We need to be open to correction.

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We need to know how to hear so that we know how to speak

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because it all comes together in a way

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that has real world consequences.

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Because to do what is right and just is more acceptable

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to the Lord than sacrifice.

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Because the righteous care about justice for the poor

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but the wicked have no such concern.

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Now I'm gonna do something that I have,

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to my recollection, I don't know that I've ever done

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something like this before in the context of a sermon.

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I've mentioned current events before in passing

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or pointed at something, but what I've never done

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is taken something that happened in our world

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and then said, let's take what we're learning

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and actually consider what this means.

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I have a pastor friend in Minneapolis

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that he believes that pastors needs to tell

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their congregations who they should vote for.

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That pastors should be endorsing candidates

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and I said, listen, my job as a pastor

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is not to tell a congregation what to think

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but part of my job is to help a congregation

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know how to think because that's wisdom.

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Wisdom is learning how to think about

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what is happening in our world and then responding,

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not just taking something someone said

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and regurgitating, right?

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So we're gonna talk about something that happened

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this past week and I want you to keep in mind,

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I'm not saying any of this because of any affiliation

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to a political party, I'm talking about this

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because it has real world consequences

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because it specifically has to do

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with wisdom and foolishness.

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This last week, there is a young man, 25 years old,

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his name is Marco, that resigned from his role

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with a government agency.

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Earlier in the week, he was one of only two people

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that was allowed access to the treasury department system

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that is responsible for dispersing

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more than $5 trillion in annual payments.

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But then what happened is that some journalists

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found a bunch of old tweets that Marco had posted

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and as a result of that, he resigned.

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Those tweets were as follows, last July, 2024,

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just for the record, I was racist before it was cool.

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In September of 2024, you could not pay me

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to marry outside of my ethnicity.

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In September, he also posted, normalize Indian hate.

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In December of 2024, less than two months ago,

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he posted, I just want a eugenic immigration policy,

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is that too much to ask?

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His boss happens to be Elon Musk and Elon posted a poll

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to his Twitter account and asked,

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should I bring back the staffer who made inappropriate

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statements via a now deleted pseudonym?

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385,000 people voted, 78,000 said yes, rehire him.

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One of those yes votes was from our vice president

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who then retweeted and he said, I obviously disagree

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with some of Marco's posts, but I don't think

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that stupid social media activity

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should ruin a kid's life.

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Elon said he will be brought back because to err is human,

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to forgive is divine.

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And when the president was asked what he thought of it,

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he said he'd not heard about it,

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but he would side with the vice president.

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Now, consider what we've been learning about wisdom.

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What does wisdom tell us?

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First, I think that wisdom might separate forgiveness

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from employment.

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There is no doubt that Marco needs forgiveness, amen?

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He needs forgiveness.

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He, everybody, everyone needs forgiveness, everyone.

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And I hope that he apologizes,

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I hope that he works on himself.

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I hope that he considers why he said those things.

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Jesus does not want anyone to hate Marco,

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even if Marco hates someone for the color of their skin.

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Jesus does not want us to have hate or animosity

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in our hearts toward him or anyone else

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that is in this scenario.

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Jesus, going back to two weeks ago, he wants us to what?

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To pray for him, to bless him, if at all possible.

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But wisdom is taking the time to consider

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should someone that as recently as December

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that was posting racist comments online,

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should that someone have a job like that?

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The next question is,

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is there wisdom in how the story was framed?

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What do I mean?

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What did we learn earlier about online activity, right?

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What percentage of people don't actually read the article?

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75% of people don't read the article.

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Who remembers what percentage of people said,

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yes, rehire him?

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78%.

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Tracks a little bit.

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Do we think that most people looked up

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what actually happened?

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Chances are that a lot of people

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didn't look up what happened.

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They saw someone made an inappropriate post.

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Should they be rehired?

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Sure, give them grace.

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Absolutely.

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But wisdom asks,

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why didn't the question ask,

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should we bring back the staffer that made racist comments

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online over the course of six months

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and as recently as six weeks ago,

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instead of asking, should we bring back the staffer

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that made inappropriate comments?

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Wisdom would ask, why was it framed

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as stupid social media activity from a kid

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instead of racist social media activity

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from a 25-year-old man?

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Wisdom would ask, when you are asked

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if you had heard about this story

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and what you think about it,

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but you don't know any of the facts,

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should you blindly agree with your coworker

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or should you take a minute?

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Or should you take a minute and find out what happened?

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And then I think finally, wisdom would ask,

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if your pastor uses a real story from this past week

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from the country you live in,

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should you spend some time later today

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looking into it for yourself?

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Because it's not my job to tell you what to think.

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It's not even my job to tell you what happened

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in our world every week.

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It is my job to help you think,

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at least in this series, about wisdom.

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You, we, all of us have to develop our ability

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to separate wisdom and foolishness.

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Because if we don't, it is, according to the Proverbs,

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it is the vulnerable, it is the poor,

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it is the marginalized that will be left behind.

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It is those that are affected by racism

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that will be left behind.

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So read the Proverbs, maybe every day.

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At an extremely important time in my life,

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when I had come back from college,

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after I had had a failed internship,

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I had a mentor remind me that the Proverbs has 31 chapters.

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Just enough, every day.

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Read a verse, read a chapter.

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Develop, develop, develop.

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Read a verse, read a chapter, develop this wisdom within you.

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Because while Solomon was a deeply flawed man,

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so are every single one of us.

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And fortunately, the greatest hits of everything

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that Solomon ever learned got put together for us,

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so that maybe we could avoid some of the mistakes

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that he made.

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So that maybe one of us in this room

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might actually, with their daily life,

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exhibit greater wisdom than even him.

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So read them, consider them, talk with each other about them,

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and let the Scriptures shape the shape of your heart,

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the strength of your faith.

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As you become more like Jesus.

524
00:28:17,320 --> 00:28:18,160
Amen?

525
00:28:18,160 --> 00:28:19,000
Amen.

526
00:28:19,000 --> 00:28:19,840
Amen.

527
00:28:19,840 --> 00:28:20,840
Let us pray.

528
00:28:23,880 --> 00:28:26,280
Father, we thank you for the work that you did,

529
00:28:26,280 --> 00:28:28,200
and the work that you're doing.

530
00:28:28,200 --> 00:28:31,680
We pray that you would continue to develop wisdom in us

531
00:28:31,680 --> 00:28:33,880
as we approach the table.

532
00:28:33,880 --> 00:28:37,280
We're reminded what you did on the cross.

533
00:28:37,280 --> 00:28:42,280
What you did on the cross, amen.

