1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:04,720 This episode may contain strong language, adult themes, and sensitive content. 2 00:00:04,720 --> 00:00:06,400 The views expressed are ours alone. 3 00:00:06,400 --> 00:00:35,400 Please proceed with your own discussion. 4 00:00:36,400 --> 00:00:40,400 I'm Meg. 5 00:00:40,400 --> 00:00:42,400 Oh, they're starting. 6 00:00:42,400 --> 00:00:44,400 Hi, Meg. 7 00:00:44,400 --> 00:00:48,400 Hi, I'm Teresa and welcome to our podcast from teens to... 8 00:00:48,400 --> 00:00:50,400 From teens to presecho queens. 9 00:00:50,400 --> 00:00:52,400 Oh my God. 10 00:00:52,400 --> 00:00:56,400 So, I guess you can say we're back. 11 00:00:56,400 --> 00:01:01,400 You know, we were hoping to do it monthly, but at this point we're getting quarterly and that's okay as well. 12 00:01:01,400 --> 00:01:05,400 You know, our lives get in the way and we're talking to each other and we talk to each other very often. 13 00:01:05,400 --> 00:01:07,400 But recording takes some time. 14 00:01:07,400 --> 00:01:14,400 So, I'm so happy to be sitting with my girl, my lifer, one of my best friends in the whole world, and actually seeing her face. 15 00:01:14,400 --> 00:01:17,400 And Megan, what are we talking about today? 16 00:01:17,400 --> 00:01:22,400 Today, it's part two of our nostalgia series. 17 00:01:22,400 --> 00:01:30,400 We're going to be looking back in the past, present, and looking forward to the future, being that we're almost in the new year. 18 00:01:30,400 --> 00:01:31,400 2023. 19 00:01:31,400 --> 00:01:33,400 Can you believe that? 20 00:01:33,400 --> 00:01:34,400 No. 21 00:01:34,400 --> 00:01:35,400 It's weird, right? 22 00:01:35,400 --> 00:01:37,400 Because think about it. 23 00:01:37,400 --> 00:01:41,400 Everybody, we've told our history before about how we've known each other since we're 15. 24 00:01:41,400 --> 00:01:43,400 That was like 98. 25 00:01:43,400 --> 00:01:44,400 And to think... 26 00:01:44,400 --> 00:01:46,400 No. 27 00:01:46,400 --> 00:01:50,400 It's to think that in 1998, we were like 2023. 28 00:01:50,400 --> 00:01:55,400 That number didn't even ring true in my brain as a number that we would see. 29 00:01:55,400 --> 00:01:58,400 And girl, we're going to be 40 this year. 30 00:01:58,400 --> 00:01:59,400 I'm not. 31 00:01:59,400 --> 00:02:00,400 No, I'm not. 32 00:02:00,400 --> 00:02:03,400 You still got a little longer than me, so it's okay. 33 00:02:03,400 --> 00:02:04,400 But it's weird, right? 34 00:02:04,400 --> 00:02:07,400 Like, my mom will look at me and say, 40 is really young still. 35 00:02:07,400 --> 00:02:08,400 And I'm like, I get that. 36 00:02:08,400 --> 00:02:10,400 I get that in the grand scheme of things. 37 00:02:10,400 --> 00:02:11,400 It is. 38 00:02:11,400 --> 00:02:16,400 But, you know, it's... 39 00:02:16,400 --> 00:02:23,400 Looking back as we talk about nostalgia, I'm not exactly in the place I wanted to be at this age by any means. 40 00:02:23,400 --> 00:02:30,400 You know, like, I didn't know where I wanted to be, but probably not where I've been, especially after the past couple of years. 41 00:02:30,400 --> 00:02:33,400 And it's kind of weird when you think about it like that. 42 00:02:33,400 --> 00:02:38,400 So when you hear that number, it seems like such an astronomical number to me, because I don't know how I got here. 43 00:02:38,400 --> 00:02:40,400 Thank God that we got here. 44 00:02:40,400 --> 00:02:41,400 Some people never did. 45 00:02:41,400 --> 00:02:43,400 Some people didn't. 46 00:02:43,400 --> 00:02:46,400 But it's really crazy to me. 47 00:02:46,400 --> 00:02:49,400 Well, I don't feel like I'm going to be that age, but... 48 00:02:49,400 --> 00:02:51,400 And girl, I'm sorry. 49 00:02:51,400 --> 00:02:52,400 I was in college. 50 00:02:52,400 --> 00:02:56,400 I don't think that we look like we're going to be that age. 51 00:02:56,400 --> 00:02:57,400 Let's just cut to the chase. 52 00:02:57,400 --> 00:03:02,400 There are some people that look older at that age or they're younger. 53 00:03:02,400 --> 00:03:03,400 I don't feel like... 54 00:03:03,400 --> 00:03:07,400 I feel like 40 is very different now than it was back in the day. 55 00:03:07,400 --> 00:03:09,400 I need to start getting Botox. 56 00:03:09,400 --> 00:03:10,400 You're right here. 57 00:03:10,400 --> 00:03:11,400 I do not need Botox. 58 00:03:11,400 --> 00:03:12,400 Girl, please. 59 00:03:12,400 --> 00:03:14,400 My lines. 60 00:03:14,400 --> 00:03:17,400 Maybe some eye cream, but we all need eye cream, right? 61 00:03:17,400 --> 00:03:18,400 Like, forget it. 62 00:03:18,400 --> 00:03:23,400 If I got a good solid eight hours sleep at night, I wouldn't need any eye cream at all. 63 00:03:23,400 --> 00:03:27,400 That's where my issue lies is I'm a night owl, unfortunately. 64 00:03:27,400 --> 00:03:29,400 I need to get that mask. 65 00:03:29,400 --> 00:03:31,400 The mask that's infrared. 66 00:03:31,400 --> 00:03:32,400 Oh, the light mask. 67 00:03:32,400 --> 00:03:33,400 They're great. 68 00:03:33,400 --> 00:03:35,400 That's what I'm going to buy. 69 00:03:35,400 --> 00:03:36,400 They're great. 70 00:03:36,400 --> 00:03:37,400 They're definitely really good. 71 00:03:37,400 --> 00:03:42,400 Anything that keeps us tight, right? 72 00:03:42,400 --> 00:03:47,400 So what you guys listening may not know right now is the first time we're talking on Zoom. 73 00:03:47,400 --> 00:03:48,400 We're doing this via Zoom. 74 00:03:48,400 --> 00:03:57,400 So what I will post are like little pieces of it on IG as well before I actually put up the podcast. 75 00:03:57,400 --> 00:04:05,400 But we're hoping, or my plan is to have this before two years because we want to be able to start the new year with a good episode. 76 00:04:05,400 --> 00:04:12,400 And I know that our last episode at the very end, we talked about how we were going to talk about wellness this particular episode. 77 00:04:12,400 --> 00:04:21,400 We discussed that being the fact that our last episode, we talked about so many movies and we didn't really touch a lot of like music, right? 78 00:04:21,400 --> 00:04:23,400 We did Backstreet Boys because that's who we are. 79 00:04:23,400 --> 00:04:27,400 Like we love our boys, our big, our big ass grown men now, right? 80 00:04:27,400 --> 00:04:39,400 But I think that there's so much more music wise we could talk about as well as again, we wanted to touch on this past year in our lives. 81 00:04:39,400 --> 00:04:51,400 And you know, if it was what we thought it was going to be or if it just was a regular year, as well as what we might think is what we want or what we might think for the coming year as well. 82 00:04:51,400 --> 00:04:52,400 I give a little. 83 00:04:52,400 --> 00:04:54,400 It's a regular year on crack. 84 00:04:54,400 --> 00:04:56,400 Bro? 85 00:04:56,400 --> 00:05:01,400 Crack would sound real good right now after my year. 86 00:05:01,400 --> 00:05:08,400 I did find the LED light therapy mask at Shepard image for $130. 87 00:05:08,400 --> 00:05:11,400 I don't even know if that's a good deal or not. So I'll just take your word for it. 88 00:05:11,400 --> 00:05:12,400 I don't know either. 89 00:05:12,400 --> 00:05:16,400 I've had a facial where they use it. I thought that was really cool. Yeah, that was really cool. 90 00:05:16,400 --> 00:05:18,400 I need to look into this. 91 00:05:18,400 --> 00:05:21,400 Yeah, but I hear those are really good. People love them. 92 00:05:21,400 --> 00:05:28,400 So I think we still have some time. I think we still have some time. 93 00:05:28,400 --> 00:05:40,400 So I'm wondering, Megan, thinking back over the past year, thinking back maybe the past couple years, thinking back to even back in the 80s and 90s, we were originally started with this series. 94 00:05:40,400 --> 00:05:42,400 For yourself. 95 00:05:42,400 --> 00:05:46,400 Did it turn out the way that you maybe maybe you didn't expect anything, right? 96 00:05:46,400 --> 00:05:49,400 Maybe you were just kind of going at the, you know, the seat of your pants, right? 97 00:05:49,400 --> 00:05:54,400 Or some people just saying screw it. I'm just going through it. I'm a little bit every day and that's it. 98 00:05:54,400 --> 00:06:00,400 But based on if you can look back, what, what did it feel like to you? 99 00:06:00,400 --> 00:06:03,400 Like what, I guess, what did, what did the time feel like to you? 100 00:06:03,400 --> 00:06:08,400 It went really fast this year. I mean, I had a lot going on personally. 101 00:06:08,400 --> 00:06:18,400 It's going to pan out the way I wanted it to, but it definitely learned a lot and looking forward to next year and we'll see what happens. 102 00:06:18,400 --> 00:06:24,400 Well, in what way you can share, did it not pan out the way you thought or that you want to share? 103 00:06:24,400 --> 00:06:27,400 Well, let's see. I did get promoted at my real jobs. That was good. 104 00:06:27,400 --> 00:06:29,400 That's good. Yeah. 105 00:06:29,400 --> 00:06:39,400 We'll see. We'll see if it turns out to be what I thought it was going to be or figure it out. 106 00:06:39,400 --> 00:06:48,400 I think that's, I think that's true. You know, and you got a very nice little stable home life, which is nice as well to have that, to have that support. 107 00:06:48,400 --> 00:06:50,400 That's always nice. Yeah. 108 00:06:50,400 --> 00:06:57,400 I also don't have kids. So that's huge. That's the huge part of my sanity. 109 00:06:57,400 --> 00:07:02,400 You are the reason you're able to sleep all night. 110 00:07:02,400 --> 00:07:06,400 I can sleep. I can come and go as I please. It's wonderful. 111 00:07:06,400 --> 00:07:17,400 Yeah. No, I agree. I agree. I agree. I agree. I think for me, I thought with the pandemic that was traumatic and awful, all of us, right? 112 00:07:17,400 --> 00:07:23,400 And regardless of how we all handled it, whether it was someone was drinking more than others. 113 00:07:23,400 --> 00:07:32,400 And I say some of us, I wasn't actually one of them, to be honest with you. I was still working, but I worked from home and the kids, you know, in school from home and my husband at home and everything else. 114 00:07:32,400 --> 00:07:45,400 But yeah, I think I was telling you earlier this past year, if I could wake up and most of this past year was a dream, that would be ideal. 115 00:07:45,400 --> 00:07:55,400 You know, maybe in a future episode, if I'm a little more comfortable going into detail, I would, but although my husband weirdly enough told me that if I wanted to share it, I could tell. 116 00:07:55,400 --> 00:07:58,400 I was like, I don't know. I'm going to go there. 117 00:07:58,400 --> 00:08:04,400 But not yet. But you know, you know, Megan knows I've had a very traumatic year. 118 00:08:04,400 --> 00:08:20,400 And only some people very, very close to me know details of that. And, you know, it's changed me, I really believe, on a cellular level of who I am, probably down to my DNA. 119 00:08:20,400 --> 00:08:30,400 And I think that's, I think when I look back now to, as I look back to it and I continue to go through it. 120 00:08:30,400 --> 00:08:36,400 By the way, that's, if you hear that, that's that's Megan's hubby background. 121 00:08:36,400 --> 00:08:38,400 You can hear him. 122 00:08:38,400 --> 00:08:42,400 He's making me laugh. 123 00:08:42,400 --> 00:08:56,400 So I think, for me, the biggest takeaway of how traumatic this year was, was one, one of the biggest takeaways, one, you can't control people. 124 00:08:56,400 --> 00:09:01,400 You cannot control everything in your surroundings. 125 00:09:01,400 --> 00:09:08,400 Realistically, not that I ever thought that I could, but you know, I'm very type of personality, Megan, you're a very type of personality. 126 00:09:08,400 --> 00:09:10,400 You can't control other people's actions. 127 00:09:10,400 --> 00:09:20,400 You can't. And you can't control other people's hearts and minds. And, you know, and it doesn't matter how much you do for people, they're going to be who they are. 128 00:09:20,400 --> 00:09:27,400 You know what I mean? It's as simple as that. They're going to be who they are. And, you know, it's, that that's the first thing that I learned. 129 00:09:27,400 --> 00:09:32,400 I learned that you can't control every situation. You know what I mean? Like you just can't. 130 00:09:32,400 --> 00:09:36,400 I also learned it's okay to show when you're not okay. 131 00:09:36,400 --> 00:09:42,400 You know, we were raised and you can attest to this too, because we talked about this in probably our first episode. 132 00:09:42,400 --> 00:09:49,400 We were raised not really to show emotions. Right. We were raised with parents that didn't show emotions. 133 00:09:49,400 --> 00:09:55,400 We were raised that if you cried, okay, well, you know, to keep crying, we'll make you cry more or whatever the case may be. 134 00:09:55,400 --> 00:10:02,400 And I've learned that I don't want, I don't do that to my kids. You know what I mean? They see when I'm upset and I try not to do it all the time, but I don't hide it either. 135 00:10:02,400 --> 00:10:09,400 Because I want them to know mommy's moving, you know, and find that things hurt mommy and things, you know, life doesn't always work out the way we expect it to work out. 136 00:10:09,400 --> 00:10:17,400 And I think so there's a few different and also that people will come and go in and out of your life. 137 00:10:17,400 --> 00:10:23,400 Yeah, and I think like people come in your lives or leave your life as like when you need it, when you need it. 138 00:10:23,400 --> 00:10:29,400 Because that's what I've noticed where there's a lot of people that, or people that let's say you wouldn't normally be friends with. 139 00:10:29,400 --> 00:10:41,400 Or you're just going through the same thing or you have the same hobbies or the same interests or like whatever that there's certain people that come into your life at the time that you need them. 140 00:10:41,400 --> 00:10:49,400 Yeah. Yeah, it's really true. And it's like, and it doesn't mean that people don't come and go doesn't mean that people don't stay. 141 00:10:49,400 --> 00:10:58,400 There's just so many different facets of it right with the experience and so crazy and then I think about again our relationship right like we could speak every day for like weeks, 142 00:10:58,400 --> 00:11:02,400 or we can go like three months and be like, I haven't spoken to Megan. How should we do it right? 143 00:11:02,400 --> 00:11:14,400 But we've been talking, we've known each other since we're 15. And it's still like we pick up like, you know, like we, like we never left off, you know, we pick up like if we, you know, you know what I mean, right? 144 00:11:14,400 --> 00:11:22,400 It's really interesting how that works. So 2023 for me, I'm empowering myself, I think. 145 00:11:22,400 --> 00:11:32,400 I'm finally going to take back the power of myself. I feel like so much of my power has been stripped this year. You know, and that's hard to kind of take back that you have to do it. 146 00:11:32,400 --> 00:11:40,400 You have to know that, you know, as you can't control other people's behaviors, other people's reactions to your reaction. I've learned that as well. 147 00:11:40,400 --> 00:11:49,400 Man, people will piss you off with a second you stand up for yourself all of a sudden you're difficult. Right. Like all of a sudden you're the problem. 148 00:11:49,400 --> 00:11:59,400 And I'm like, you know what, screw you if you can't handle the fact that you're the problem. You know what I mean? Like that's the part I am like, I'm getting so closer to learning boundaries. 149 00:11:59,400 --> 00:12:09,400 You know, boundaries are huge. Me and you have talked about boundaries before with our families, with our friends, with in-laws, with coworkers. 150 00:12:09,400 --> 00:12:20,400 Having those boundaries is so hard, but it is essential to mental health and to moving on and healing ourselves from past traumas too. 151 00:12:20,400 --> 00:12:29,400 Because for me, this year feels like it's just been a culmination of decades of trauma on top of decades of trauma. 152 00:12:29,400 --> 00:12:39,400 It's all about trying to empower yourself and get that power back. And I think in general, us as women, we need to do that no matter what our trauma was in life. 153 00:12:39,400 --> 00:12:49,400 You know, and that's why I know you haven't always had it easy as well by any means. And people may look at Megan because she looks like the quintessential person that would have no problems. 154 00:12:49,400 --> 00:12:54,400 True. I don't show emotion. 155 00:12:54,400 --> 00:13:05,400 And that's a huge part of it, right? But that's not the case. Like you have had, you know, severe stuff happen in your life and you've had traumatic events and some recently as well. 156 00:13:05,400 --> 00:13:13,400 So I think that it's really important. So I'm declaring 2023, putting it out there in the universe, manifesting for both of us. 157 00:13:13,400 --> 00:13:16,400 Megan doesn't really believe this, but I'm going to give it to her anyway. 158 00:13:16,400 --> 00:13:20,400 I believe in karma. I just don't believe it. 159 00:13:20,400 --> 00:13:29,400 Yes, I just why I'm going to take the fall for you and I'm going to say 2023. The best is yet to be. 160 00:13:29,400 --> 00:13:34,400 What do you think? I think that every year. I mean, I definitely want to travel more next year. 161 00:13:34,400 --> 00:13:37,400 There you go. Put it out there. 162 00:13:37,400 --> 00:13:39,400 I was on travel though. 163 00:13:39,400 --> 00:13:42,400 Yeah, and we can tell our listeners don't forget. 164 00:13:42,400 --> 00:13:49,400 Not everybody believes it. Sure. Manifestation is real. You put out what you get back. 165 00:13:49,400 --> 00:14:04,400 When you talk negatively and you have negative self-talk especially, you know, it's going to it's going to hinder your ability to bring anything positive, you know, and it's a known thing. 166 00:14:04,400 --> 00:14:11,400 We are energy, right? We are energy and that doesn't mean that bad things don't happen to good people. Hello. 167 00:14:11,400 --> 00:14:21,400 It doesn't mean that. It just means that, you know, understanding that the world is going to keep going regardless of how you react to it. 168 00:14:21,400 --> 00:14:26,400 You just have to try to take everything and strive and go for the best, you know. 169 00:14:26,400 --> 00:14:33,400 That's true. Going back to bring your own energy. I take this class on Peloton with this one instructor and that's her thing. 170 00:14:33,400 --> 00:14:36,400 Bring your own energy. That's your tagline. 171 00:14:36,400 --> 00:14:50,400 She's so annoying when I like her. I don't know if I would be friends with her. She's super bubbly and I'm like, alternative. 172 00:14:50,400 --> 00:14:53,400 Yes, you're like Daria. 173 00:14:53,400 --> 00:14:56,400 Yeah, I'm exactly like Daria. I was Daria for Halloween. 174 00:14:56,400 --> 00:14:57,400 Yeah. 175 00:14:57,400 --> 00:15:00,400 But um, yeah. 176 00:15:00,400 --> 00:15:03,400 And I get it. I get it, yeah. 177 00:15:03,400 --> 00:15:10,400 Like it's too bubbly, but I love her classes. Like they're great. But sometimes I'm just like shut the fuck up. 178 00:15:10,400 --> 00:15:18,400 I could see that though. There are people that I'm like sometimes like there are some people that I sit there and go, come on, you are not like this 24 seven. 179 00:15:18,400 --> 00:15:28,400 Like there's gotta be. She's cute. Like she's cute. Like she's cute. But I'm just like, give me some of your uppers. 180 00:15:28,400 --> 00:15:32,400 I always say that too. I laugh because my boss, it didn't matter. 181 00:15:32,400 --> 00:15:37,400 My boss every day would be like that. Like every day, even on Monday, she'd be like, Hey guys. 182 00:15:37,400 --> 00:15:42,400 And I'm like, what are you on because I need it. Like whatever, whatever you're on. 183 00:15:42,400 --> 00:15:47,400 I said, I said my team pictures of Garfield. So that's, that's, that's me. 184 00:15:47,400 --> 00:15:52,400 That's true. I never would have thought it up. But yes, oh, that is you for sure. 185 00:15:52,400 --> 00:15:56,400 Like, please don't call me. Call me again now. 186 00:15:56,400 --> 00:16:06,400 I have had no coffee yet. No, nothing yet. You know, so it's, it's, it's really this, this whole, the whole thing is just great. 187 00:16:06,400 --> 00:16:11,400 I don't know. It's so crazy, you know, and I don't know. I think, I think really now that I'm thinking about it. 188 00:16:11,400 --> 00:16:15,400 All of the stuff, you know, we want us to talk about, okay, wellness and health, right? 189 00:16:15,400 --> 00:16:21,400 And we were going to talk about nostalgia and we're talking about the new year. So much of that comes together. 190 00:16:21,400 --> 00:16:25,400 Music, music ties into that because music can change your mood. 191 00:16:25,400 --> 00:16:30,400 Hell yeah. And that's why to this day, and you can completely appreciate this. 192 00:16:30,400 --> 00:16:32,400 Because I know you're exactly the same way. There is nothing. 193 00:16:32,400 --> 00:16:33,400 Music and fitness. 194 00:16:33,400 --> 00:16:34,400 That's right. 195 00:16:34,400 --> 00:16:35,400 Together. 196 00:16:35,400 --> 00:16:39,400 That's right. And there's nothing like our old school music. 197 00:16:39,400 --> 00:16:46,400 We've talked about this the last one. We said it when we don't have to necessarily go into that again, but we talked about how her, I mean, well, 198 00:16:46,400 --> 00:17:00,400 when I'm feeling any type of way, I have music I can go to to either make me feel better or let me sit in that pain or that, that feeling I need to sit in for a little bit. 199 00:17:00,400 --> 00:17:04,400 And then move on, move on and keep going. You know what I'm saying? Like, 200 00:17:04,400 --> 00:17:12,400 I need to like the emo feels. Oh, that's, that's the one other thing I want to do next year is get back into Zuma possibly. 201 00:17:12,400 --> 00:17:15,400 I was going to ask you. That was my next question. 202 00:17:15,400 --> 00:17:21,400 I don't know. After I just, I have to find somewhere to do it. I just don't, I'm not going to do it somewhere just to do it. 203 00:17:21,400 --> 00:17:27,400 I have to be in the mood to dedicate to it. It's just not, I don't feel like doing it right now. 204 00:17:27,400 --> 00:17:33,400 I don't know if we've mentioned to our listeners that Megan is a certified Zuma instructor for years now. 205 00:17:33,400 --> 00:17:35,400 It's not hard to get certified. 206 00:17:35,400 --> 00:17:36,400 It doesn't matter. 207 00:17:36,400 --> 00:17:40,400 But there's some people that are certified that shouldn't have no business doing it. 208 00:17:40,400 --> 00:17:41,400 That's facts. 209 00:17:41,400 --> 00:17:42,400 That is facts. 210 00:17:42,400 --> 00:17:50,400 And I'll tell you what though, Megan, I've taken her class for years, but even before Megan was in her shoulder, we took classes together for years. 211 00:17:50,400 --> 00:17:55,400 I think I remember starting Zuma when it came out on the DHS tapes that I would do in my basement when I was like 17. 212 00:17:55,400 --> 00:17:59,400 And then we would take me and Megan would take classes together in our 20s in the gym. 213 00:17:59,400 --> 00:18:05,400 And I was going to with Megan probably what 10 years ago, I think so close to maybe eight. 214 00:18:05,400 --> 00:18:08,400 No, no, no, maybe not take close, let us in a decade. 215 00:18:08,400 --> 00:18:13,400 We were going to take the certification class together and I just couldn't afford it at the time. 216 00:18:13,400 --> 00:18:15,400 And Megan was certified. 217 00:18:15,400 --> 00:18:18,400 They're certified in 2015. 218 00:18:18,400 --> 00:18:27,400 And then I got my own class and the pandemic happened and then I took classes like here and there, but then my gym closed. 219 00:18:27,400 --> 00:18:33,400 Let me tell you guys, Megan, not just being one of my best friends, not just knowing her as I know her, she is a fantastic instructor. 220 00:18:33,400 --> 00:18:39,400 Like I do wish that she can surprisingly surprise. 221 00:18:39,400 --> 00:18:45,400 Let me tell you, I'm surprised. I seen her in the clubs when we were teenagers. I'm surprised she got a little she got a little groove thanks to her. 222 00:18:45,400 --> 00:18:49,400 So I would love again for Megan. 223 00:18:49,400 --> 00:18:56,400 I always said I wish Megan would do a live class that you know, a bunch of us could join in and maybe one day do it too. 224 00:18:56,400 --> 00:18:58,400 One day, maybe. 225 00:18:58,400 --> 00:19:01,400 Maybe when it gets nice out. 226 00:19:01,400 --> 00:19:09,400 Yeah, but she's an amazing instructor like she really is. And I also think maybe one day, you know, maybe maybe do like a Zumba YouTube live or something. 227 00:19:09,400 --> 00:19:12,400 And then you know, you can do something like that. People do that as well. They do a lot of them live. 228 00:19:12,400 --> 00:19:18,400 I don't like doing that. You need a whole thing and it's just it's a pain. I've done it. It's pain in the ass. 229 00:19:18,400 --> 00:19:25,400 Because it's hard. You can't you can't like really see and it's like, I don't like doing it. I've done it like twice. 230 00:19:25,400 --> 00:19:28,400 Like in the early on in the pandemic. 231 00:19:28,400 --> 00:19:34,400 Yeah, Zoe, it's hard to hear the music. There's a lag. It's just no. 232 00:19:34,400 --> 00:19:37,400 And I don't I don't like doing it. 233 00:19:37,400 --> 00:19:40,400 And honestly, it's true. There's nothing like being there experiencing. 234 00:19:40,400 --> 00:19:41,400 Oh, yeah. 235 00:19:41,400 --> 00:19:44,400 I don't know. Like I get it. Some people do it. It works. 236 00:19:44,400 --> 00:19:46,400 But I want to do it. 237 00:19:46,400 --> 00:19:51,400 And I'm going to tell everybody I am so picky about my Zumba classes. 238 00:19:51,400 --> 00:19:57,400 Like I, you know, I'm very picky about like I have someone to tell me, oh, yeah, no, this instructor is good. 239 00:19:57,400 --> 00:20:07,400 Or this instructor is good. Check it out. You know what I'm saying? Like for me to just walk into we have now I just I see them doing Zumba and I'm like, I don't know if I want to do it. 240 00:20:07,400 --> 00:20:11,400 And then, you know, and I'll just kind of watch and I'll listen to the music. The music matters, right? 241 00:20:11,400 --> 00:20:15,400 Like all of that is different in it. You know, all of them is different. 242 00:20:15,400 --> 00:20:21,400 And I'll say because you have such an eclectic music taste. 243 00:20:21,400 --> 00:20:29,400 Your whole style of Zumba is very different than others as well. It's not just Latin music. 244 00:20:29,400 --> 00:20:38,400 Yours is an eclectic brand of all kinds of different music. And that makes it that makes it so much better as well. I think. 245 00:20:38,400 --> 00:20:45,400 Yeah, I like I prefer to do like like world music versus just like class like straight out. 246 00:20:45,400 --> 00:20:47,400 Exactly. Exactly. 247 00:20:47,400 --> 00:20:50,400 I get bored with stuff really fast too. 248 00:20:50,400 --> 00:20:57,400 So what's interesting is that on my phone, I get I have an app called motivation, right? 249 00:20:57,400 --> 00:21:05,400 And during the day, it sends me quotes and all kinds of stuff, you know, positive shit or just just just shit that sometimes you know, you need to see, right? 250 00:21:05,400 --> 00:21:10,400 But what's funny is that we're talking about all this transformation and we're talking about being healthy and working out everything else. 251 00:21:10,400 --> 00:21:15,400 And it's a quote from Schitt's Creek from David Rose. And it says, I think one of the most. 252 00:21:15,400 --> 00:21:21,400 Right. It says, I think one of the most important attributes is perseverance. 253 00:21:21,400 --> 00:21:28,400 And I thought that fits in so well. Right. Like that. I think when people become complacent. 254 00:21:28,400 --> 00:21:33,400 That's when that's when shit hits the fan. 255 00:21:33,400 --> 00:21:41,400 I think the whole point of life is to persevere and try to do as best as you can and keep going. 256 00:21:41,400 --> 00:21:54,400 So the only thing you can do is move forward regardless of what obstacles you run into or, you know, when you fall on your face, you got to stand up and move on. 257 00:21:54,400 --> 00:21:58,400 Yeah. Yeah. One thing Megan and I will be discussing at the end. 258 00:21:58,400 --> 00:22:08,400 Last, you know, last episode we did trivia, but this time we're going to look at our 2023 horoscopes for our signs and kind of just see if, again, we don't make it doesn't really believe in that stuff. 259 00:22:08,400 --> 00:22:17,400 And I don't know that I believe in it 100%, but I do like to use it as a kind of like a roadmap to kind of have an idea because sometimes they're spot on other times. 260 00:22:17,400 --> 00:22:22,400 There's ridiculous, right. But just to kind of get an idea to see what we're looking towards. 261 00:22:22,400 --> 00:22:31,400 So Megan, we were talking about music, right and how it can bring us back to a time that makes us feel better. 262 00:22:31,400 --> 00:22:38,400 That's how it makes us feel worse. Music might bring us back to something that happened in the past. 263 00:22:38,400 --> 00:22:42,400 So what other than, you know, again, back to voice because we've talked about that. 264 00:22:42,400 --> 00:22:47,400 Well, we know how we feel about them, but being a dead horse with that. 265 00:22:47,400 --> 00:22:55,400 For you back in the exactly back in the day. What was some and again, I know a lot of it with you too, because we had a lot of the same. 266 00:22:55,400 --> 00:23:08,400 We also have very different tastes in certain music. So like, what are some of the things that you may still listen to or that you listen to back then that really either did something for you or just made you happy or made you feel any type of way? 267 00:23:08,400 --> 00:23:14,400 I would have to go with Justin Timberlake, the first album. 268 00:23:14,400 --> 00:23:16,400 Oh, yeah. 269 00:23:16,400 --> 00:23:20,400 Oh, I don't even know what you're putting in. 270 00:23:20,400 --> 00:23:25,400 I want to say maybe 2000. 271 00:23:25,400 --> 00:23:28,400 I don't know. It's a good trivia question, right? 272 00:23:28,400 --> 00:23:33,400 No, it is. Let's say Justin Timberlake. 273 00:23:33,400 --> 00:23:39,400 Yeah, maybe 2000, maybe 2002. No, I think 2009 or 20, 2001. 274 00:23:39,400 --> 00:23:41,400 1999. No. 275 00:23:41,400 --> 00:23:46,400 Oh, 2002. November, November 5th, 2002. 276 00:23:46,400 --> 00:23:53,400 It's like, when I hear Senorita or just, it just brings me back to college. 277 00:23:53,400 --> 00:23:58,400 Oh, my God. Or college or was it what goes around comes around on that one too? 278 00:23:58,400 --> 00:24:03,400 Yes. And my other favorite album is because I think his older stuff is better. 279 00:24:03,400 --> 00:24:09,400 It's Future Sex Love Sounds when he was dating Cameron Diaz. 280 00:24:09,400 --> 00:24:16,400 I just cannot stand the first single off of that album, still to this day, the one where Sexy Back. 281 00:24:16,400 --> 00:24:20,400 That was on that one, right? That was the main, because it just didn't sound like it to me. 282 00:24:20,400 --> 00:24:25,400 It was so, it was so, it just, it just, to this day, weirdly enough, I'll sing it. 283 00:24:25,400 --> 00:24:26,400 Yeah. 284 00:24:26,400 --> 00:24:31,400 But that album was fire. Yes, it really was. Oh my God. 285 00:24:31,400 --> 00:24:33,400 I can't believe you just used fire. 286 00:24:33,400 --> 00:24:35,400 I did it again. No. 287 00:24:35,400 --> 00:24:37,400 I did it last time also. No. 288 00:24:37,400 --> 00:24:43,400 You know what? You know what it is? Again, it's when you type in stuff and you use fire, it comes out. 289 00:24:43,400 --> 00:24:48,400 Again, I live with a kid. I live and I live with a baby boy now who's obsessed with Fortnite. 290 00:24:48,400 --> 00:24:53,400 So he'll randomly be like, oh, this is fire. Oh, Fortnite. 291 00:24:53,400 --> 00:24:55,400 Oh, for anybody who's listening, yeah, I don't know what Fortnite is. 292 00:24:55,400 --> 00:25:02,400 It is a fantasy game for, you know, it's a video game. It's like a fantasy game. 293 00:25:02,400 --> 00:25:07,400 And you go around, you land in different areas and you basically fight and kill people. 294 00:25:07,400 --> 00:25:14,400 While you're doing it, you have like these different skins or characters that you put on and different kinds of weapons and you bring all kinds of things. 295 00:25:14,400 --> 00:25:19,400 So, but I have a six year old who's obsessed right now and he's so damn good. 296 00:25:19,400 --> 00:25:26,400 Like he's so damn good. Like I watch his little teeny tiny hands on this giant thing, this controller and I'm just like, come on, really? 297 00:25:26,400 --> 00:25:31,400 But like, he's so, he's so good. We don't let him use the headphones and talk to people because I don't want to talk to him. 298 00:25:31,400 --> 00:25:41,400 But it's funny because he will sit with you two in front of him on this tablet where he's watching people play and he learns glitches and he learns how to do this crazy crap. 299 00:25:41,400 --> 00:25:49,400 So it's really weird. So it's like, yeah, so fire happens a lot in my house and it comes out when I least expect it. 300 00:25:49,400 --> 00:25:53,400 Apparently that's what happens. Oh my gosh. That's what happens. Oh my God. Yeah. Yeah. 301 00:25:53,400 --> 00:25:57,400 You don't have the same affliction inside your house. 302 00:25:57,400 --> 00:26:08,400 No, no, no, no, no. You know, there is an album that I go to. There's a few of them, obviously, but there's an album I go to that I still think and people can argue with me. 303 00:26:08,400 --> 00:26:16,400 I want to. That is one of my favorite. One of the best of the 90s, if not fantastically of all times is Supernatural by Santana. 304 00:26:16,400 --> 00:26:19,400 Oh, that was good. With a smooth with a Rob Tom. 305 00:26:19,400 --> 00:26:23,400 Oh, yeah, with smooth. I mean, with Maria Maria. We had Lauren Hill. 306 00:26:23,400 --> 00:26:31,400 It had Rob Thomas. It had you go like cherry like this whole album is beyond like it is amazing. 307 00:26:31,400 --> 00:26:37,400 And if no one has heard it or seen it, I am for you right now. Go get it. Get it on iTunes. 308 00:26:37,400 --> 00:26:48,400 I just told my daughter the other day and there are some instrumentals on it and I will put this CD or album or play it on iTunes, whatever we do now on and just some of the instrumentals alone. 309 00:26:48,400 --> 00:26:55,400 I'll just sit back and be like, damn, you know, it'll take me back to that time because it is a fantastic, fantastic album. 310 00:26:55,400 --> 00:26:59,400 It is just one of those. And Santana is amazing. It always has been. But oh my God. 311 00:26:59,400 --> 00:27:03,400 I love Rob Thomas. He is so good. Like that's why I like to. 312 00:27:03,400 --> 00:27:04,400 Rob Thomas is great. 313 00:27:04,400 --> 00:27:07,400 Yep. Matt Sparks won. He was fantastic. Yes. Yes. 314 00:27:07,400 --> 00:27:12,400 We've had so many really good collaborations, like amongst different genres. 315 00:27:12,400 --> 00:27:20,400 Like he's he's definitely won even still, I think now he does like a lot of TV production and that type of thing. 316 00:27:20,400 --> 00:27:24,400 But he's just very talented and he's he's a very eclectic artist, I think. 317 00:27:24,400 --> 00:27:30,400 He just did one I saw on the view the other day with this older. She's a she's a this older singer. 318 00:27:30,400 --> 00:27:34,400 Her name is Darlene Love. And back in the 60s, she did they call her like the Queen of Christmas. 319 00:27:34,400 --> 00:27:39,400 I know Mariah Carey kind of seemed to take over that with all I want for Christmas is you. 320 00:27:39,400 --> 00:27:43,400 But she baby it's something I forgot something Christmas song that came out in the 60s. 321 00:27:43,400 --> 00:27:45,400 She sang and is one of the biggest Christmas songs. 322 00:27:45,400 --> 00:27:50,400 Baby it's cold outside. No, it's not that one. It's it's something something Christmas. 323 00:27:50,400 --> 00:27:53,400 I forgot if you look at Christmas baby, please come home. 324 00:27:53,400 --> 00:27:59,400 Yes. Christmas baby, please come home. Yes. And she's performing this and Rob Thomas was just on the view singing it with her. 325 00:27:59,400 --> 00:28:02,400 Like they did a collab for her new Christmas album as well. 326 00:28:02,400 --> 00:28:07,400 Speaking of Rob Thomas, this was last week. I was just watching him on the view and I haven't seen him for like 10 years. 327 00:28:07,400 --> 00:28:11,400 Yeah. Yeah, she is. Yeah. Very nice. Very beautiful. The lady. 328 00:28:11,400 --> 00:28:15,400 And so she's in the in the Ronettes. Ronettes. 329 00:28:15,400 --> 00:28:19,400 Is she see you learn something every day. I had no idea. I just knew her name. So there you go. 330 00:28:19,400 --> 00:28:25,400 You know, so yeah, Rob Thomas is amazing. I laugh. I think of Mark like Mark McGrath. 331 00:28:25,400 --> 00:28:29,400 Remember that Mark McGrath was huge back then and those kind of in those sugar. 332 00:28:29,400 --> 00:28:33,400 Yeah, sugar rain that in that whole genre. Right. 333 00:28:33,400 --> 00:28:41,400 But one thing we didn't talk about a lot two things last time was the female music influences of the 90s. 334 00:28:41,400 --> 00:28:47,400 Right. Yeah. And we touched on it. But I realized I we talked about Selena, right? That's great. 335 00:28:47,400 --> 00:28:56,400 I forgot TLC. So yeah, saw him pepper. I mean, there was TLC saw him pepper. There was and vote and vote. 336 00:28:56,400 --> 00:29:02,400 We're talking J. We're talking, I mean, I again, the list is another one. 337 00:29:02,400 --> 00:29:07,400 That was bad. Bad boy records. Total. Total. Total was huge. 338 00:29:07,400 --> 00:29:13,400 Faith Evans. I mean, like we can keep the amount of girl groups that was Queen Latifah. 339 00:29:13,400 --> 00:29:18,400 There was MC lights. And she's freaking beautiful and phenomenal. 340 00:29:18,400 --> 00:29:23,400 There's MC lights. There were people please send us again. 341 00:29:23,400 --> 00:29:27,400 Little Kim. Little Kim. Foxy Brown. 342 00:29:27,400 --> 00:29:33,400 I mean, I get a lot of. You know, boxy brown. I mean, and it was every genre. Right. It wasn't just like, OK, one was here. 343 00:29:33,400 --> 00:29:39,400 One was there. They were bad ass in every single genre. Look at country pop. We had Shania Twain. 344 00:29:39,400 --> 00:29:43,400 Right. She was in the 90s. Carrie Underwood came up. What? 345 00:29:43,400 --> 00:29:47,400 Early 2000s. Black. Oh, remember that? 346 00:29:47,400 --> 00:29:52,400 Bring it on. In sync. No, she's a. 347 00:29:52,400 --> 00:29:57,400 From it. Exactly. Exactly. And it goes. It goes on and on. 348 00:29:57,400 --> 00:30:02,400 You know, I was thinking again about three LW. 349 00:30:02,400 --> 00:30:07,400 W. They were a little younger than us. Three LW. 350 00:30:07,400 --> 00:30:11,400 Oh, Danny D. Kane. I like them. They were like super slutty. 351 00:30:11,400 --> 00:30:15,400 Well, because you hit the nail on the head. 352 00:30:15,400 --> 00:30:20,400 Destiny's Child. Yeah. Oh, OK. Thank you. Destiny's Child. Because. 353 00:30:20,400 --> 00:30:24,400 Piancé. Piancé. But Destiny's Child. She didn't have a gray all or all on her own. 354 00:30:24,400 --> 00:30:30,400 Exactly. But Destiny's Child. Let's do. You know, they were so phenomenal as a group. 355 00:30:30,400 --> 00:30:36,400 Like phenomenal. Again, like I say with TLC. Let me tell you 1994's Red Lights Special. 356 00:30:36,400 --> 00:30:40,400 Crazy Sexy Fool. I still am again. I was the gray album. 357 00:30:40,400 --> 00:30:45,400 This day is one of the best probably ever created. 358 00:30:45,400 --> 00:30:50,400 It is just fantastic. And it holds true still to this day. 359 00:30:50,400 --> 00:30:53,400 That entire album. It is unbelievable. Unbelievable. 360 00:30:53,400 --> 00:30:57,400 I mean, I feel like a lot, even though I feel like a lot of artists, 361 00:30:57,400 --> 00:31:02,400 like their first album is the best album. I mean, even like switching gears, 362 00:31:02,400 --> 00:31:06,400 even like usher like that, like nice and slow. Oh my God. 363 00:31:06,400 --> 00:31:08,400 Let me tell you. Sure. 364 00:31:08,400 --> 00:31:12,400 R&B is not what it like what it used to be. 365 00:31:12,400 --> 00:31:16,400 Because I mean like babyface. I mean, he's written so many songs. 366 00:31:16,400 --> 00:31:21,400 Brian McKnight is just. Drew Hill. Joe. Drew Hill, Cisco. 367 00:31:21,400 --> 00:31:25,400 Oh my God. Like, Joe to see. 368 00:31:25,400 --> 00:31:30,400 There are so many of them. They're just, it's, it's not voice to men. 369 00:31:30,400 --> 00:31:34,400 We didn't even talk about voice to men last time. I, listen, I wasn't. 370 00:31:34,400 --> 00:31:37,400 I was insulted at myself. I wasn't insulted at myself. 371 00:31:37,400 --> 00:31:42,400 I was like, I got myself the, we got off last time. I said, how did we not mention voice to men? 372 00:31:42,400 --> 00:31:46,400 Do you know what I heard like a week ago when I was driving to the store? 373 00:31:46,400 --> 00:31:50,400 I heard Bobby Brown like humping around. 374 00:31:50,400 --> 00:31:56,400 Oh, and you know what? Bobby Brown's old shit is fire. 375 00:31:56,400 --> 00:32:00,400 I said it. I said it. Okay. Like his voice. I just couldn't. 376 00:32:00,400 --> 00:32:03,400 I was too like, I don't know. I loved all of them. 377 00:32:03,400 --> 00:32:07,400 I lived to bow only had like one good, one song. They had it. Yeah. 378 00:32:07,400 --> 00:32:11,400 And Tevin Campbell was another one. Oh, yeah. 379 00:32:11,400 --> 00:32:15,400 Tevin Campbell and, and, and genuine, although. 380 00:32:15,400 --> 00:32:22,400 Oh yeah. You see videos now, genuine. And it's like, Poppy, please stop. 381 00:32:22,400 --> 00:32:29,400 It's like, you can still see some of that other stuff. Maybe slow it down a notch, you know, it's a, it's a little much for me now. 382 00:32:29,400 --> 00:32:35,400 But, you know, there's so many influences that we had growing up. 383 00:32:35,400 --> 00:32:46,400 And to this day, I, like I said, I put that on a pedestal, right? Like I put that music on a pedestal just because I, you know what is I know what I need for the time that I needed. 384 00:32:46,400 --> 00:32:48,400 Right. Like I had, I had. 385 00:32:48,400 --> 00:32:53,400 You need, you need like, right. You need like thrice or like heavy. 386 00:32:53,400 --> 00:33:04,400 And right. I had on ever will be the other day. I really shouldn't laugh because I don't like the pop stuff. But like her like slow, her slower songs are actually, they're good. 387 00:33:04,400 --> 00:33:12,400 Yes. Yes. I literally had her on the other day and I was like, Oh my God, this song is like touching me right now. Like I needed this right now. 388 00:33:12,400 --> 00:33:17,400 So there's, she is a, she is a good songwriter. Yeah. Yeah. 389 00:33:17,400 --> 00:33:24,400 And when I think back to like, I looked some of the same and I go, she was a really good singer too. Like she had, she has going for her. We saw her. Do you remember? 390 00:33:24,400 --> 00:33:26,400 Yeah. With the back. With the back. 391 00:33:26,400 --> 00:33:30,400 I went to see boys to men. Me and my sister a couple weeks ago. 392 00:33:30,400 --> 00:33:31,400 Oh, really? 393 00:33:31,400 --> 00:33:38,400 We did. We saw them at NJ pack and it was fantastic. They really, really were the place was damn near sold out. 394 00:33:38,400 --> 00:33:42,400 They put on a whole like it was an hour and a half of a show. 395 00:33:42,400 --> 00:33:50,400 Yeah. It was a real, and it was like boom, boom, boom hour and a half. We've been to concerts where they bullshit for like a while. No, you can tell they were like, we get through this. 396 00:33:50,400 --> 00:33:57,400 Like who else we didn't talk about? Jenna Jackson, Rosie, Monica. Thank you. 397 00:33:57,400 --> 00:34:01,400 Oh, remember Sofria? Sofria, we got you. 398 00:34:01,400 --> 00:34:04,400 Okay. Then there's also one. 399 00:34:04,400 --> 00:34:05,400 Tony Braxton. 400 00:34:05,400 --> 00:34:08,400 So, and then there's also one from Issa. 401 00:34:08,400 --> 00:34:13,400 I swear. And I can love you like that. Color me bad. Ghost town DJs. 402 00:34:13,400 --> 00:34:18,400 Tell me bad. I was like, you know, 10 years old talking about I want to sexy you up. 403 00:34:18,400 --> 00:34:27,400 Oh my God. Now, my kids were singing. I'd be like, Oh, sing on us. But I was a kid singing this these all these songs, right? 404 00:34:27,400 --> 00:34:29,400 And you're like Mary J Blige. 405 00:34:29,400 --> 00:34:31,400 Oh my God. The list keeps going. 406 00:34:31,400 --> 00:34:36,400 They're singing and all of them are still relevant today. 407 00:34:36,400 --> 00:34:44,400 They are because you tell me, could you even name any R&B singers? No, I couldn't. I couldn't. 408 00:34:44,400 --> 00:34:52,400 I'm sure they're I'm sure they're out there. I really am. However, I don't know that they have the same impact or that they have the same. 409 00:34:52,400 --> 00:34:59,400 No, no, no, as the ones that we're used to and the ones that were growing up. But I definitely don't. I think that they're I'm sure they have. 410 00:34:59,400 --> 00:35:05,400 I'm sure there's great ones. I'm sure there's great ones out there. But it's just very different now. I think the whole impact is very different. 411 00:35:05,400 --> 00:35:13,400 You know, as a Z, as the A who is a C is a CZA. She's a few say that. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. 412 00:35:13,400 --> 00:35:20,400 You said as the A right? Yeah. That's CZA. Yeah. You know, and that's another one too. That's the thing. We have so many. 413 00:35:20,400 --> 00:35:26,400 I mean, like I like Lizzo now. She's not actually R&B. I don't really know what she's considered if she's considered pop or whatever. 414 00:35:26,400 --> 00:35:32,400 I would say she's pop. Yeah, but I love because you know, she plays the flute. She's a floutist and she plays the flute. She's fantastic. 415 00:35:32,400 --> 00:35:37,400 You know what I mean? She's not even like a singer. She said herself. She just she plays her flute and it just became a thing. 416 00:35:37,400 --> 00:35:45,400 And I think she's great. She's really good at her music is good. So there's so many. There's so much out there now that even I'm not necessarily aware of. 417 00:35:45,400 --> 00:35:51,400 But I still look back and I still look back because it's easy to look back while you're looking forward. Yeah. 418 00:35:51,400 --> 00:36:00,400 Because I feel like a lot of what I went through back in the day up till probably this morning will help me, you know, going forward. 419 00:36:00,400 --> 00:36:07,400 And I don't think there's anything wrong with doing nostalgic and wanting and wanting that feeling of what we thought were simpler times. 420 00:36:07,400 --> 00:36:14,400 Right. You know, when you when I look back at what I have what I weighed in my mind, they were simpler. They were simpler times. 421 00:36:14,400 --> 00:36:22,400 I wish right. They were simpler. But also we they were. But we also didn't have all these means of communication or. 422 00:36:22,400 --> 00:36:25,400 Oh, depressing. Or apps like all that. 423 00:36:25,400 --> 00:36:32,400 All those types of things either. Yeah. I mean, I'm glad we didn't we didn't have any of that stuff. 424 00:36:32,400 --> 00:36:38,400 Oh, I was telling Natalie. I was telling Natalie and we're all going to find this really funny. 425 00:36:38,400 --> 00:36:46,400 Megan and I listen. First of all, it was normal. These were what girls did guys did it too. We have like photo shoots, you know, with our disposable cameras and everything else. 426 00:36:46,400 --> 00:36:52,400 And then I was thinking about today I was telling my daughter about that. And I was like, oh my God, we're worried about things being online today. 427 00:36:52,400 --> 00:36:55,400 Imagine the creepers who were developing these films. 428 00:36:55,400 --> 00:37:02,400 But even now I get developing these films and looking at them and saying came through the young girls. 429 00:37:02,400 --> 00:37:07,400 And the way we could tell you to think about that. Did you know? But oh, no, now I am. 430 00:37:07,400 --> 00:37:12,400 But even now, though, like I'll get I mean, I don't get like dirty pictures develop. 431 00:37:12,400 --> 00:37:19,400 But I mean, when I sent pictures for like from like vacation or like vacation, I think people, you know, people are looking at those. 432 00:37:19,400 --> 00:37:24,400 But they're printing them out. Exactly. Exactly. Oh my God. That's crazy. 433 00:37:24,400 --> 00:37:32,400 You know, they you know, they were you know, they are. I mean, even you know, even like, you know, our digital footprint, you don't know who's looking at that stuff. 434 00:37:32,400 --> 00:37:39,400 Very true. Very true. Oh my God. You know, we were talking about dance hall. Dance hall was one of my favorites. 435 00:37:39,400 --> 00:37:40,400 Oh, yeah. 436 00:37:40,400 --> 00:37:49,400 And the players there was Lou Juvanshan, there was Sasha, there was Diana King, Sean Paul, I don't know if Shaggy's considered dance hall or if he's I'm not quite sure. 437 00:37:49,400 --> 00:37:56,400 But you know, he's gone. Yes, he was a crossover. That's why. Because he was a little yeah, he had some stuff to and freestyle. 438 00:37:56,400 --> 00:38:00,400 We forgot freestyle. I mean, like, I don't know what freestyle is. 439 00:38:00,400 --> 00:38:04,400 Thank you. I was going to ask you because growing up in New York freestyle was huge. 440 00:38:04,400 --> 00:38:06,400 I have no idea what that is. 441 00:38:06,400 --> 00:38:09,400 And I was going to ask you if in Jersey they had it. I can't honestly. 442 00:38:09,400 --> 00:38:11,400 I don't even know what that is. 443 00:38:11,400 --> 00:38:18,400 I can't even explain it to you when we're done here looking up and listen to it. Unfortunately, because of licensing, you can't actually play any of it. 444 00:38:18,400 --> 00:38:29,400 We're trying to suck. I would love to play some of it. But realistically, look it up and anybody who has grew up in that area, no freestyle, send it to Megan. 445 00:38:29,400 --> 00:38:30,400 She'll know. 446 00:38:30,400 --> 00:38:34,400 I can't even explain it to be honest with you. Like that was even funny about it. 447 00:38:34,400 --> 00:38:37,400 So I don't even know what it is. 448 00:38:37,400 --> 00:38:41,400 I don't know. 449 00:38:41,400 --> 00:38:52,400 So, you know, Meg, we've talked a lot about what we went through, what we hope for, and what we've learned. 450 00:38:52,400 --> 00:39:01,400 And so I think to end this podcast and to hopefully a prosperous 2023 and healthy and blessed. 451 00:39:01,400 --> 00:39:03,400 I said it Megan and blessed. 452 00:39:03,400 --> 00:39:06,400 New year. 453 00:39:06,400 --> 00:39:11,400 So I'm going to end this podcast with our horoscopes and I'll start with mine. 454 00:39:11,400 --> 00:39:15,400 So for a Pisces, I'm a Pisces. I'm March 10. 455 00:39:15,400 --> 00:39:19,400 I'm not going to read the whole thing. I'll just give you all a just an idea. 456 00:39:19,400 --> 00:39:26,400 2023 is not a bad year for Pisces as a whole, especially the first half of the year, no matter what you do, it will be exceptionally smooth. 457 00:39:26,400 --> 00:39:29,400 But you also can make many like minded good friends. 458 00:39:29,400 --> 00:39:34,400 Pisces will get a lot of new opportunities in 2023 and we continue to get promoted and raised. 459 00:39:34,400 --> 00:39:38,400 Pisces will make a lot of money in 2023, but it comes with some risks. 460 00:39:38,400 --> 00:39:39,400 Well wouldn't it. 461 00:39:39,400 --> 00:39:42,400 Pisces will encounter some emotional problems in 2023. 462 00:39:42,400 --> 00:39:45,400 That's not shocking because 2022 was a doozy. 463 00:39:45,400 --> 00:39:49,400 You will eventually have a peaceful love and marriage life. That's all I asked for. 464 00:39:49,400 --> 00:39:51,400 And my health horoscope. 465 00:39:51,400 --> 00:39:56,400 Pisces will be in good health in 2023 and will not be hit by severe illnesses, but minor ailments will be unavoidable. 466 00:39:56,400 --> 00:39:59,400 This year we should pay attention to body maintenance. 467 00:39:59,400 --> 00:40:08,400 I'm going to close that off. That is something that I've been paying attention to because you know, when you are stressed and you are emotionally drained, your body goes with that. 468 00:40:08,400 --> 00:40:12,400 Right. So it's about trying to get your body and your mind centered and get it right. 469 00:40:12,400 --> 00:40:15,400 What about you, Megan? Anything for Gemini? 470 00:40:15,400 --> 00:40:19,400 Oh, I found a really long one. There we go. 471 00:40:19,400 --> 00:40:29,400 It says, although the season tends to be super social and full of the exact level of travel and doozy thrive on, it's probably been a bit sleepier this year. 472 00:40:29,400 --> 00:40:41,400 I'd beg to differ. After all, you're kicking off 2023 with your ruler messenger mercury moving backward through your intimacy sector and throwing your focus on pretty heavy matters of the heart. 473 00:40:41,400 --> 00:40:50,400 You've been asking yourself what makes you comfortable within your closest bond and how you can continue or even better nurture whatever that is. 474 00:40:50,400 --> 00:40:51,400 Interesting. 475 00:40:51,400 --> 00:40:53,400 We'll see what happens. 476 00:40:53,400 --> 00:40:54,400 Yeah. 477 00:40:54,400 --> 00:40:59,400 Like I said, we can just put that try as hard as we can with that positive energy out there and hope for the best, right? 478 00:40:59,400 --> 00:41:02,400 Because that's really all we can do. 479 00:41:02,400 --> 00:41:06,400 We can just take one foot, one step at a time and take care of ourselves. 480 00:41:06,400 --> 00:41:09,400 Everybody take care of yourself. Remember that out there. 481 00:41:09,400 --> 00:41:14,400 It's important. Take care of your soul, your mind, your body, your spirit, your emotions. 482 00:41:14,400 --> 00:41:17,400 Don't be afraid to reach out when you need it. 483 00:41:17,400 --> 00:41:24,400 If anything, we've noticed that people don't reach out when they're feeling any type of way. 484 00:41:24,400 --> 00:41:27,400 And that's just, that's just, you know, headed for a disaster. 485 00:41:27,400 --> 00:41:29,400 And there's so much. 486 00:41:29,400 --> 00:41:30,400 Put yourself first. 487 00:41:30,400 --> 00:41:33,400 Yeah. Put yourself first. Take care of yourself. 488 00:41:33,400 --> 00:41:41,400 Don't let people drain the crap out of you because people are drains and it doesn't matter if they're family, friends, if it's a toxic relationship, take care of that shift. 489 00:41:41,400 --> 00:41:43,400 Put yourself first and learn how to do that. 490 00:41:43,400 --> 00:41:57,400 And to me, I feel like I'm preaching from the choir, but that's something that I'm working on myself, you know, and don't let people drain your energy because it just, it's just, you'll be the one to get sick off of it before somebody else does. 491 00:41:57,400 --> 00:42:02,400 Well, also, if you, but if you also like take care of yourself and better yourself, it will trickle out eventually. 492 00:42:02,400 --> 00:42:06,400 Oh my God. Yeah, you are so correct. 493 00:42:06,400 --> 00:42:10,400 You know, what is again, it's that same idea that positive attracts positive, right? 494 00:42:10,400 --> 00:42:16,400 It's the same shit when you're, when you're around someone who's just got dark negative energy and aura, you can feel that shit. 495 00:42:16,400 --> 00:42:19,400 They're called energy suckers and it's a real thing. 496 00:42:19,400 --> 00:42:22,400 And I think that if I'm an energy sucker, you can be. 497 00:42:22,400 --> 00:42:23,400 You can be. 498 00:42:23,400 --> 00:42:26,400 What? Here's the thing though. So can I. 499 00:42:26,400 --> 00:42:29,400 Everybody is an energy sucker though. 500 00:42:29,400 --> 00:42:42,400 This past year I told my cousin, I said, I don't think I'm very good company that times this year because what I've gone through, I feel like sometimes it becomes just this thing where I'm just viewing it because I'm just not thinking about it. 501 00:42:42,400 --> 00:42:47,400 It's just because it's like when you have no one to talk to about certain things, sometimes you try to get it out and you don't realize, right? 502 00:42:47,400 --> 00:42:52,400 And that becomes, then I feel afterwards, holy shit, that I just sucked a life out of somebody with this shit, right? 503 00:42:52,400 --> 00:42:58,400 And you can, but if you have a really solid foundation of people that care for you, that's what they're there for. 504 00:42:58,400 --> 00:43:01,400 Right? So to sit there and feel you and listen to that. 505 00:43:01,400 --> 00:43:02,400 And that's what's really important. 506 00:43:02,400 --> 00:43:10,400 And I, I wish that for you, Megan, because I love you and I wish that for all of our listeners, friends, family, everybody are happy and prosperous new year. 507 00:43:10,400 --> 00:43:12,400 I'm down with jays. 508 00:43:12,400 --> 00:43:13,400 Right. 509 00:43:13,400 --> 00:43:14,400 Enjoy juries. 510 00:43:14,400 --> 00:43:16,400 Bye bye. 511 00:43:16,400 --> 00:43:22,400 So everybody, don't forget to follow us on IG at Perseco Queens podcast and to share with your friends and family. 512 00:43:22,400 --> 00:43:32,400 And we would love for you to send us emails regarding today's show, nostalgia of your own, any show ideas and your thoughts at Perseco Queens podcast at gmail.com. 513 00:43:32,400 --> 00:43:35,400 And for show updates, follow us as well. 514 00:43:35,400 --> 00:43:39,400 Tip your glasses, 23 with your Perseco Queens. 515 00:43:39,400 --> 00:43:40,400 Happy new year, everybody. 516 00:43:40,400 --> 00:43:41,400 Take care. 517 00:43:41,400 --> 00:43:42,400 Bye. 518 00:43:42,400 --> 00:43:52,400 Bye.