1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:07,000 How long has it been? 2 00:00:07,000 --> 00:00:08,220 Is the sound okay? 3 00:00:08,220 --> 00:00:09,220 Does it sound okay? 4 00:00:09,220 --> 00:00:10,220 Yeah, yeah. 5 00:00:10,220 --> 00:00:11,220 Alright. 6 00:00:11,220 --> 00:00:12,220 Alhamdulillah. 7 00:00:12,220 --> 00:00:13,220 Alhamdulillah. 8 00:00:13,220 --> 00:00:15,820 Yeah, so how long has it been? 9 00:00:15,820 --> 00:00:16,820 6, 7 months? 10 00:00:16,820 --> 00:00:17,820 Yeah, yeah, 6, 7 months. 11 00:00:17,820 --> 00:00:18,820 It's been a while. 12 00:00:18,820 --> 00:00:19,820 We're back home, we're back home finally. 13 00:00:19,820 --> 00:00:25,820 Yeah, it's been a long break. 14 00:00:25,820 --> 00:00:29,220 Well, I'm happy to be the first one. 15 00:00:29,220 --> 00:00:31,020 Yeah, thank you. 16 00:00:31,020 --> 00:00:33,420 I just met you when was it? 17 00:00:33,420 --> 00:00:34,420 Like 3 months? 18 00:00:34,420 --> 00:00:36,060 But when did I actually meet you in March? 19 00:00:36,060 --> 00:00:37,060 It's been a while. 20 00:00:37,060 --> 00:00:39,560 Yeah, I think so. 21 00:00:39,560 --> 00:00:43,660 And it's so nice that even though I met you since a short time and we've got this relationship. 22 00:00:43,660 --> 00:00:44,660 Absolutely. 23 00:00:44,660 --> 00:00:47,860 When you just come for a podcast without even any bothers. 24 00:00:47,860 --> 00:00:48,860 I really appreciate you coming. 25 00:00:48,860 --> 00:00:49,860 I appreciate the invite. 26 00:00:49,860 --> 00:00:52,220 Thank you very much for having me. 27 00:00:52,220 --> 00:00:56,660 So do you want to, should we start with the content they used to post out? 28 00:00:56,660 --> 00:00:57,660 Yeah. 29 00:00:57,660 --> 00:00:59,900 Do you want to move into that? 30 00:00:59,900 --> 00:01:00,980 Yeah, yeah. 31 00:01:00,980 --> 00:01:09,340 So this red pill, McDow thing started trending back in 2019 and it was booming. 32 00:01:09,340 --> 00:01:14,820 It was everywhere and it was actually needed because the way the social media was headed 33 00:01:14,820 --> 00:01:18,460 back then was just like dancing girls everywhere. 34 00:01:18,460 --> 00:01:20,820 You just start scrolling. 35 00:01:20,820 --> 00:01:26,540 You could not even like it or watch it, but it would just be forced on your feed on TikTok 36 00:01:26,540 --> 00:01:27,700 and Instagram. 37 00:01:27,700 --> 00:01:33,260 So that's why I think a few creators started this red pill thing and it was needed back 38 00:01:33,260 --> 00:01:34,260 then. 39 00:01:34,260 --> 00:01:43,000 And yeah, I think it was 2020 when I realized like there was no content in Hindi. 40 00:01:43,000 --> 00:01:50,420 So that's when I first started uploading it, but not really with my face on. 41 00:01:50,420 --> 00:01:53,140 It's just like behind the scenes. 42 00:01:53,140 --> 00:01:59,420 The voiceover was in Hindi and it took off because Indian men needed that and needed 43 00:01:59,420 --> 00:02:00,940 to hear something like that. 44 00:02:00,940 --> 00:02:08,860 And because of such a vast majority of people are like not educated in English. 45 00:02:08,860 --> 00:02:10,380 So I think it was welcomed. 46 00:02:10,380 --> 00:02:16,260 And I think even 100 videos I've posted it gained about 150,000 views in a few months 47 00:02:16,260 --> 00:02:17,340 time. 48 00:02:17,340 --> 00:02:24,740 And so it was a clear sign that men needed something harsh and a reality check. 49 00:02:24,740 --> 00:02:26,060 They needed to hear that. 50 00:02:26,060 --> 00:02:31,580 So to begin with, for people that don't know, what exactly is this red pill mentality or 51 00:02:31,580 --> 00:02:33,060 way of thinking? 52 00:02:33,060 --> 00:02:39,580 So basically it's what I focused on was Miktow men going their own way. 53 00:02:39,580 --> 00:02:41,860 That's what it stands for. 54 00:02:41,860 --> 00:02:49,300 So because of high divorce rates and over 80% of divorces being initiated by women and 55 00:02:49,300 --> 00:02:57,700 any court cases, legal actions being, which start end up being favored in women's way, 56 00:02:57,700 --> 00:02:58,780 men losing everything. 57 00:02:58,780 --> 00:03:04,980 And like the studies show men suicide rates are like three times, four times high because 58 00:03:04,980 --> 00:03:11,380 of all this drama and favoritism towards women. 59 00:03:11,380 --> 00:03:13,020 Men end up with nothing. 60 00:03:13,020 --> 00:03:20,660 So marriage was absolutely not beneficial for men at all. 61 00:03:20,660 --> 00:03:22,380 Like they were not getting anything out of it. 62 00:03:22,380 --> 00:03:24,780 They were losing money. 63 00:03:24,780 --> 00:03:30,300 And towards the end, if something doesn't work out, is a woman who's like writing, signing 64 00:03:30,300 --> 00:03:34,140 off the divorce papers first and just getting out. 65 00:03:34,140 --> 00:03:38,260 And in the end, men lose more than 50% of their assets and stuff. 66 00:03:38,260 --> 00:03:43,940 So seeing a few of my friends and stuff deal with all that. 67 00:03:43,940 --> 00:03:49,140 And that's what made me start creating this content. 68 00:03:49,140 --> 00:03:55,220 But as I grew older, I realized that I've been a bit too harsh. 69 00:03:55,220 --> 00:03:57,420 It's been with the bad women. 70 00:03:57,420 --> 00:04:02,340 It's like it's also the responsibility of men who need to be very strict in terms of 71 00:04:02,340 --> 00:04:05,020 picking who their partners are. 72 00:04:05,020 --> 00:04:06,660 Good women are super rare these days. 73 00:04:06,660 --> 00:04:10,180 And hence, the downfall of marriage. 74 00:04:10,180 --> 00:04:11,180 That's why it's happening. 75 00:04:11,180 --> 00:04:12,900 Why do you think that is? 76 00:04:12,900 --> 00:04:23,140 Why do you think it's a lot harder now to find a woman that is with all the required 77 00:04:23,140 --> 00:04:27,940 characteristics that men, or good men are looking for these days? 78 00:04:27,940 --> 00:04:28,940 Just one answer, man. 79 00:04:28,940 --> 00:04:30,100 That's the feminism. 80 00:04:30,100 --> 00:04:33,020 It's all the fault of feminism, to be honest. 81 00:04:33,020 --> 00:04:41,460 And yes, the founder of feminism were men, believe it or not. 82 00:04:41,460 --> 00:04:42,460 Why? 83 00:04:42,460 --> 00:04:47,460 It was because before in traditional families, man was working. 84 00:04:47,460 --> 00:04:51,140 The wife stayed home, took care of the kids in the house. 85 00:04:51,140 --> 00:04:53,020 But there was just one taxpayer. 86 00:04:53,020 --> 00:04:55,660 You see, there's one taxpayer per home. 87 00:04:55,660 --> 00:04:58,140 And that's not beneficial for the government. 88 00:04:58,140 --> 00:05:03,260 And they were like, oh, how do we increase the number from one to two, or maybe three 89 00:05:03,260 --> 00:05:07,460 taxpayers per household, get the women to start working? 90 00:05:07,460 --> 00:05:09,140 And that's where feminism started. 91 00:05:09,140 --> 00:05:12,980 It's like, oh, women, you're oppressing at home. 92 00:05:12,980 --> 00:05:14,780 You can do so much more. 93 00:05:14,780 --> 00:05:19,140 You can go work, earn as much as your husband. 94 00:05:19,140 --> 00:05:20,380 You could be independent. 95 00:05:20,380 --> 00:05:21,620 You don't need to listen. 96 00:05:21,620 --> 00:05:23,540 You don't need to stay at home. 97 00:05:23,540 --> 00:05:30,180 But yeah, and that's how it ended up, and guess what, 100 years later, divorce rates 98 00:05:30,180 --> 00:05:31,180 are high. 99 00:05:31,180 --> 00:05:35,380 Children are out on the street because their moms don't want to stay in. 100 00:05:35,380 --> 00:05:43,500 Suicide rates of men are high because their wives are not listening or not being compliant. 101 00:05:43,500 --> 00:05:45,100 Their marriages are a wreck. 102 00:05:45,100 --> 00:05:48,900 So it's been quite sad. 103 00:05:48,900 --> 00:05:55,300 There's also the right to vote, a lot of politicians benefit from the fact that more women can 104 00:05:55,300 --> 00:06:00,020 now vote and it's easy to kind of manipulate them to vote to the left-hand side. 105 00:06:00,020 --> 00:06:05,940 So that was also a benefit towards, I'm assuming, men create that as well at the time, same 106 00:06:05,940 --> 00:06:08,580 with feminism. 107 00:06:08,580 --> 00:06:14,740 It's so interesting now, before even the car manufacturers, you know, the people that bought 108 00:06:14,740 --> 00:06:15,860 the cars were men. 109 00:06:15,860 --> 00:06:19,700 Now you get twice the same population of females buying the cars. 110 00:06:19,700 --> 00:06:23,860 And all the stock for all the manufacturers in the US, the whole skyrocket because the 111 00:06:23,860 --> 00:06:31,820 population has doubled because if a man needs a car, a woman needs a car as well. 112 00:06:31,820 --> 00:06:39,580 That's double tax, double insurance, double fuel. 113 00:06:39,580 --> 00:06:42,220 So what is the solution? 114 00:06:42,220 --> 00:06:43,620 How do you battle that? 115 00:06:43,620 --> 00:06:48,020 How would you suggest a good solution to kind of maybe not spending as much, even though 116 00:06:48,020 --> 00:06:53,780 they advertise you to get each person to get a car, each person to get a house, all that? 117 00:06:53,780 --> 00:07:00,780 Well, educating the woman as well as a man, I think that's where you start off with. 118 00:07:00,780 --> 00:07:07,980 It's like, I think I feel like we are at the other end of the circle now because the feminism 119 00:07:07,980 --> 00:07:13,260 of what it has created for the past hundred years, women of the new generation, they have 120 00:07:13,260 --> 00:07:17,660 seen their mothers, their grandmother's struggle with broken marriages, broken homes. 121 00:07:17,660 --> 00:07:20,220 They are actually reverting back to the traditional values. 122 00:07:20,220 --> 00:07:26,260 So if you, I don't know if you have noticed, but the traditional housewife, the traditional 123 00:07:26,260 --> 00:07:31,260 family content is very high now because women are reverting back. 124 00:07:31,260 --> 00:07:36,260 They are like, they've realized that I've seen my mom struggle with multiple marriages. 125 00:07:36,260 --> 00:07:47,340 I've seen my grandma struggle and my dads and moms, uncles and aunts, they are like mentally 126 00:07:47,340 --> 00:07:53,700 traumatized as well because of them being raised in broken families and all that. 127 00:07:53,700 --> 00:08:03,820 And so they're realizing this on their own, but it would be good to, content like these 128 00:08:03,820 --> 00:08:12,060 to educate people even more, the men included that you don't need two people working. 129 00:08:12,060 --> 00:08:20,300 Men and women are equally different, but equally as beautiful and they have their own purpose, 130 00:08:20,300 --> 00:08:22,220 their own standards. 131 00:08:22,220 --> 00:08:32,820 And my religion Islam sets it so straightforward and like the standard of women is so high. 132 00:08:32,820 --> 00:08:38,180 Like it's like they have been given the status of a queen from like a birthright. 133 00:08:38,180 --> 00:08:39,620 Their status is a queen. 134 00:08:39,620 --> 00:08:40,940 It's like you don't need to work. 135 00:08:40,940 --> 00:08:44,180 You will have like a man to serve you. 136 00:08:44,180 --> 00:08:45,340 Literally. 137 00:08:45,340 --> 00:08:50,580 And like that's the status, but now the government and the propaganda is like, no, no, no, come 138 00:08:50,580 --> 00:08:52,420 down from that queen position. 139 00:08:52,420 --> 00:08:55,100 Like you need to work, be a slave. 140 00:08:55,100 --> 00:08:59,740 They're just, it's basically like a queen becoming a slave, you know, it's when their 141 00:08:59,740 --> 00:09:07,820 birthright is to be provided for because they are so valued and honored, but women don't 142 00:09:07,820 --> 00:09:08,820 realize their value anymore. 143 00:09:08,820 --> 00:09:12,740 I like the saying that men have to build their value. 144 00:09:12,740 --> 00:09:15,300 Women have to have to preserve their value. 145 00:09:15,300 --> 00:09:17,460 So that's how it is. 146 00:09:17,460 --> 00:09:23,560 You also mentioned when a woman starts working, it costs the household a hundred thousand 147 00:09:23,560 --> 00:09:24,560 pounds. 148 00:09:24,560 --> 00:09:25,560 Yes. 149 00:09:25,560 --> 00:09:28,620 Because of the cost of childcare and yes. 150 00:09:28,620 --> 00:09:30,420 Yeah, yeah, yeah. 151 00:09:30,420 --> 00:09:37,460 Like if you do a study that if you calculate how much a housewife is worth, it could be 152 00:09:37,460 --> 00:09:43,220 as well as if she's worth a hundred thousand dollars pounds a year because she's saving 153 00:09:43,220 --> 00:09:49,620 money in your takeaway food and childcare nanny and like taking care, like cleaning of the 154 00:09:49,620 --> 00:09:54,460 house, the dishes and all that adds up to thousands of pounds. 155 00:09:54,460 --> 00:09:55,460 Doesn't it? 156 00:09:55,460 --> 00:09:56,460 100%. 157 00:09:56,460 --> 00:10:04,020 I think obviously with that, you can think of it both ways because if both people are 158 00:10:04,020 --> 00:10:06,980 working in the same household, there's money coming in. 159 00:10:06,980 --> 00:10:11,980 If you have your parents and stuff that are helping you look after the child, like obviously 160 00:10:11,980 --> 00:10:14,780 there's two arguments to the spectrum. 161 00:10:14,780 --> 00:10:15,780 Absolutely. 162 00:10:15,780 --> 00:10:17,340 No, I agree. 163 00:10:17,340 --> 00:10:24,180 If you can manage, like they're like my parents, the grandparents are able to help out and 164 00:10:24,180 --> 00:10:30,300 like the woman is sitting free, like is like helped around the house a lot. 165 00:10:30,300 --> 00:10:32,180 And I say, why not? 166 00:10:32,180 --> 00:10:36,180 I don't, I never say like, oh, you're a woman to stay at home. 167 00:10:36,180 --> 00:10:37,260 That's, that's, that's wrong. 168 00:10:37,260 --> 00:10:41,740 If she has the time, she can go contribute to the world outside. 169 00:10:41,740 --> 00:10:45,260 That's fine, but not at the expense of like her family. 170 00:10:45,260 --> 00:10:46,260 Yeah. 171 00:10:46,260 --> 00:10:50,100 If she can manage everything and go out, I said, do it. 172 00:10:50,100 --> 00:10:51,100 That's, that's wonderful. 173 00:10:51,100 --> 00:10:53,780 I think it's in your priorities, right? 174 00:10:53,780 --> 00:10:55,140 Yes, exactly. 175 00:10:55,140 --> 00:11:01,540 So in my family, the women I know in like my aunts, my mom and all that, they stayed at 176 00:11:01,540 --> 00:11:03,660 home while the kids were young. 177 00:11:03,660 --> 00:11:09,020 Once the kids grow up and they left the home for you to pursue universities, jobs and all 178 00:11:09,020 --> 00:11:10,500 that. 179 00:11:10,500 --> 00:11:16,780 That's when they actually started getting into their careers, starting their own businesses. 180 00:11:16,780 --> 00:11:21,700 The few of my aunts who are doctors, they became GPs and all that became proper into 181 00:11:21,700 --> 00:11:27,700 the careers because women have like a short span of their fertility, the time to raise 182 00:11:27,700 --> 00:11:30,460 their kids and all that. 183 00:11:30,460 --> 00:11:35,220 But again, the government doesn't want them to waste time because they have like this 184 00:11:35,220 --> 00:11:43,900 20 until 35, this 15 year span in which they can be, they're healthy to have kids. 185 00:11:43,900 --> 00:11:50,140 But and after, after 35, and maybe even after 40, when the kids are like all grown up, 10 186 00:11:50,140 --> 00:11:54,180 years old, 15 years old, they can, they have time to get into workforce. 187 00:11:54,180 --> 00:11:57,380 But they don't, the government doesn't want that. 188 00:11:57,380 --> 00:11:58,380 These elites don't want that. 189 00:11:58,380 --> 00:12:02,140 They want the women to start working as soon as they turn 15, 16. 190 00:12:02,140 --> 00:12:03,460 Yeah. 191 00:12:03,460 --> 00:12:09,460 What do you think motivates them to work and keep working? 192 00:12:09,460 --> 00:12:20,300 It's this inner urge to the feeling to provide for his mom, dad, wife, kids. 193 00:12:20,300 --> 00:12:24,100 It's a manly feeling only men can understand. 194 00:12:24,100 --> 00:12:30,980 It's like Andhita says, in order to protect first family, like men will charge towards 195 00:12:30,980 --> 00:12:33,660 of firing machine guns. 196 00:12:33,660 --> 00:12:34,980 Like imagine that. 197 00:12:34,980 --> 00:12:38,740 Imagine how men, why are brains are wired? 198 00:12:38,740 --> 00:12:44,140 You know, it's like, like thousands of years ago, men were charging at like firing machine 199 00:12:44,140 --> 00:12:45,140 guns. 200 00:12:45,140 --> 00:12:46,940 Like they knew they were going to die. 201 00:12:46,940 --> 00:12:51,340 But, but just because in their hearts, they knew like, if I put my life in there, there's 202 00:12:51,340 --> 00:12:59,060 a possibility my family back home could be safe, could be protected from these enemies. 203 00:12:59,060 --> 00:13:02,780 I'm going to lay out my life. 204 00:13:02,780 --> 00:13:07,900 So men are amazing, to be honest. 205 00:13:07,900 --> 00:13:12,820 Do you think it's something encoded in our DNA because of our ancestors, the way they 206 00:13:12,820 --> 00:13:19,620 lived and then throughout time, you know, it's just something that's kind of within 207 00:13:19,620 --> 00:13:22,460 us that's just kind of unlocked the older you get. 208 00:13:22,460 --> 00:13:23,460 Yeah, absolutely. 209 00:13:23,460 --> 00:13:25,060 It was always in us. 210 00:13:25,060 --> 00:13:31,300 This capability of and the passion for providing and protecting. 211 00:13:31,300 --> 00:13:36,340 It has always been from the start of mankind. 212 00:13:36,340 --> 00:13:43,900 It was given as our right to protect and provide while the women nurture and care. 213 00:13:43,900 --> 00:13:47,660 And yeah, that's all there is to say about it. 214 00:13:47,660 --> 00:13:48,660 It's very straightforward. 215 00:13:48,660 --> 00:13:50,500 They just made it very complicated these days. 216 00:13:50,500 --> 00:13:52,100 It's everything so mixed. 217 00:13:52,100 --> 00:13:54,980 Oh, it's not as straightforward as I could do this. 218 00:13:54,980 --> 00:13:56,100 I could do that. 219 00:13:56,100 --> 00:14:01,180 But coming to the base, the foundation is very straightforward, to be honest. 220 00:14:01,180 --> 00:14:05,180 And yeah, that's all there is to say. 221 00:14:05,180 --> 00:14:08,100 What do you think? 222 00:14:08,100 --> 00:14:14,300 If you could name three things that a guide can start doing or should be doing in order 223 00:14:14,300 --> 00:14:20,060 to increase their value as a man, what would you say they are? 224 00:14:20,060 --> 00:14:21,060 Working out. 225 00:14:21,060 --> 00:14:22,540 That's number one. 226 00:14:22,540 --> 00:14:25,420 Number one is working out staying fit. 227 00:14:25,420 --> 00:14:33,060 Your value as a man is your fitness because if you're too lazy, if you can't defend yourself, 228 00:14:33,060 --> 00:14:37,740 if you can't in a threat situation, if you can't even protect yourself, you're just too 229 00:14:37,740 --> 00:14:40,420 scared, you're the first to run away. 230 00:14:40,420 --> 00:14:48,020 There are videos like that of a man walking with his wife, a robber pulls up, the man 231 00:14:48,020 --> 00:14:54,260 is the first to turn away, so definitely fitness first. 232 00:14:54,260 --> 00:14:57,740 And second, I would say is knowledge. 233 00:14:57,740 --> 00:15:04,620 A 9-10% of people just stop their education as soon as they finish school, which isn't 234 00:15:04,620 --> 00:15:06,020 right. 235 00:15:06,020 --> 00:15:12,180 Keep educating yourself with the books and get rid of your ego, learn from other people 236 00:15:12,180 --> 00:15:13,680 around. 237 00:15:13,680 --> 00:15:15,460 People are egoistic, men are egoistic. 238 00:15:15,460 --> 00:15:20,740 They're like, oh no, I know what I'm doing, even though they don't. 239 00:15:20,740 --> 00:15:27,220 Have like enough, be humble enough to be like, okay, this guy knows what he's doing. 240 00:15:27,220 --> 00:15:41,980 I need to learn and read books, follow good inspiring men, so many around. 241 00:15:41,980 --> 00:15:46,700 And number three would be learning from your mistakes, I would say. 242 00:15:46,700 --> 00:15:54,460 Again, men's ego is like a very bad thing. 243 00:15:54,460 --> 00:16:01,500 In my own family, I've seen men who would make mistakes, but would never admit it. 244 00:16:01,500 --> 00:16:02,500 Never own up to it. 245 00:16:02,500 --> 00:16:06,220 They are like, oh, it's just bad luck. 246 00:16:06,220 --> 00:16:11,100 I'm going to do the same thing again, hoping for a different result, but it doesn't happen, 247 00:16:11,100 --> 00:16:12,100 you see. 248 00:16:12,100 --> 00:16:18,500 Having the humbleness to accept your mistakes and just go forward, I would say these three 249 00:16:18,500 --> 00:16:20,980 things would make a better man, definitely. 250 00:16:20,980 --> 00:16:26,100 What do you think, because I mentioned earlier about what motivates a man, what do you think 251 00:16:26,100 --> 00:16:31,380 motivates a woman from your perspective? 252 00:16:31,380 --> 00:16:33,740 That's a good question, you know. 253 00:16:33,740 --> 00:16:38,660 Obviously, we can only speak from a guy's point of view. 254 00:16:38,660 --> 00:16:39,660 Yeah. 255 00:16:39,660 --> 00:16:40,660 Yeah. 256 00:16:40,660 --> 00:16:45,460 I'm just getting to the gender differences of what motivates each gender to do what they 257 00:16:45,460 --> 00:16:47,500 want to do in life. 258 00:16:47,500 --> 00:16:51,220 Have you heard of the term baby fever women get? 259 00:16:51,220 --> 00:16:52,220 Yeah. 260 00:16:52,220 --> 00:16:56,180 So it's like the how if they don't have a baby, yeah, that's up in the weather. 261 00:16:56,180 --> 00:17:00,700 Have to actually kind of, yeah, they get like super crazy. 262 00:17:00,700 --> 00:17:02,020 And they get this. 263 00:17:02,020 --> 00:17:09,340 I think after like eight of 25, they get this periods of baby fever where the woman is craving 264 00:17:09,340 --> 00:17:12,580 a child and she's like, oh my goodness. 265 00:17:12,580 --> 00:17:14,460 Oh, I don't have a partner. 266 00:17:14,460 --> 00:17:15,460 I don't have this. 267 00:17:15,460 --> 00:17:20,420 I'm really busy with my career, but she sees babies everywhere and it upsets her. 268 00:17:20,420 --> 00:17:22,020 She wants one of her own. 269 00:17:22,020 --> 00:17:29,980 So I would say what motivates a woman is like having a family, even though they denied these 270 00:17:29,980 --> 00:17:31,740 women denied all they want. 271 00:17:31,740 --> 00:17:37,980 But in the end, they crave like a strong husband and like a family of their own kids of her 272 00:17:37,980 --> 00:17:38,980 own. 273 00:17:38,980 --> 00:17:44,820 And again, I believe that's from ancestors from seeing their grandparents and the mothers. 274 00:17:44,820 --> 00:17:48,780 I mean, you can deny all your one, but the fact that you're alive is because your mother 275 00:17:48,780 --> 00:17:49,780 had a child. 276 00:17:49,780 --> 00:17:52,020 My mother had me. 277 00:17:52,020 --> 00:17:55,340 And one thing you can't do is like, you can't forget history. 278 00:17:55,340 --> 00:17:57,420 I believe you can't forget your ancestors. 279 00:17:57,420 --> 00:18:00,380 That's rule number one in life. 280 00:18:00,380 --> 00:18:03,340 Sometimes as well, like Warren Buffer says that, you know, the biggest stock guy says 281 00:18:03,340 --> 00:18:05,500 you can only know the future if you know the past. 282 00:18:05,500 --> 00:18:07,860 You can only predict the future if you know the past. 283 00:18:07,860 --> 00:18:08,860 Absolutely. 284 00:18:08,860 --> 00:18:15,500 Yeah, also one thing which has been trending like, oh, don't worry about your past, forget 285 00:18:15,500 --> 00:18:18,900 your past, but past makes you. 286 00:18:18,900 --> 00:18:25,060 You can't just go around denying and just ignoring your past because like I said, if 287 00:18:25,060 --> 00:18:27,420 you make mistakes, you need to learn from your mistakes, you need to learn from your 288 00:18:27,420 --> 00:18:29,660 past, you know. 289 00:18:29,660 --> 00:18:34,300 So yeah. 290 00:18:34,300 --> 00:18:40,420 I want to ask you what motivates you because I know it's about men, it's about women. 291 00:18:40,420 --> 00:18:44,620 What motivates you specifically? 292 00:18:44,620 --> 00:18:50,220 Specifically I think I was raised in Saudi Arabia. 293 00:18:50,220 --> 00:18:56,100 It's where like immigrants weren't as respected. 294 00:18:56,100 --> 00:19:00,580 I've seen my uncles and my dad struggle there. 295 00:19:00,580 --> 00:19:09,940 They have put in like years, decades in building the country, helping them build the country 296 00:19:09,940 --> 00:19:16,140 and they have been in good positions, but never really got the respect they needed because 297 00:19:16,140 --> 00:19:17,980 honestly, they're very hardworking. 298 00:19:17,980 --> 00:19:22,420 They deserve so much more, so much more respect, but it's unfortunate that immigrants are 299 00:19:22,420 --> 00:19:24,500 not really respected over there. 300 00:19:24,500 --> 00:19:30,140 So I wanted to get out of there, come to the West and that's the first thing which I've 301 00:19:30,140 --> 00:19:33,940 noticed is like the respect people get over here. 302 00:19:33,940 --> 00:19:42,980 Even like the, let's say the smallest job, that person would be equally respected as 303 00:19:42,980 --> 00:19:46,420 a higher up compared to an higher up. 304 00:19:46,420 --> 00:19:55,220 And that's what my motivation was like to get out of there and come into like a good 305 00:19:55,220 --> 00:20:03,220 first world country, establish myself here and my parents who have struggled put so much 306 00:20:03,220 --> 00:20:08,180 money in, wanted to make myself something here so I could repay. 307 00:20:08,180 --> 00:20:12,100 Is that because if you have children for example, do you want to show them as a man that has 308 00:20:12,100 --> 00:20:13,100 been respected here? 309 00:20:13,100 --> 00:20:16,300 Do you feel like when you're a kid you saw your parents being disrespected, you don't 310 00:20:16,300 --> 00:20:18,300 want that to happen for yourself basically? 311 00:20:18,300 --> 00:20:19,500 Yes, 100%. 312 00:20:19,500 --> 00:20:27,900 And the thing is if you get too comfortable wherever you are, you will be disrespected 313 00:20:27,900 --> 00:20:28,900 by people around you. 314 00:20:28,900 --> 00:20:36,940 If you just get into like this whole of comfort and you stop struggling and trying to get 315 00:20:36,940 --> 00:20:43,420 out of that bubble and like it just, you don't even your wife won't respect you in the end. 316 00:20:43,420 --> 00:20:49,020 Like as a man you need to keep moving up, try to, even if you're stuck somewhere it's 317 00:20:49,020 --> 00:20:53,420 like the effort of trying to get out of there, trying to do something new, trying to learn 318 00:20:53,420 --> 00:20:58,100 something new, try to do something, like even if it's the same job, try to do something 319 00:20:58,100 --> 00:21:04,820 better, try to be better, that the constant effort is very important as a man. 320 00:21:04,820 --> 00:21:10,500 You see because you hear women complaining, the wife's complaining that oh, he's just 321 00:21:10,500 --> 00:21:16,020 too lazy, he isn't as same anymore because when they first meet the guy's like oh I'm 322 00:21:16,020 --> 00:21:20,700 passionate about this, these are my hobbies and afterwards once he gets a woman they're 323 00:21:20,700 --> 00:21:22,020 like too comfortable. 324 00:21:22,020 --> 00:21:25,020 Yes, and that can cost the relationship to be honest. 325 00:21:25,020 --> 00:21:26,020 Yeah. 326 00:21:26,020 --> 00:21:31,180 Since we're on that topic, if you, if a couple, if a married couple do get to a point where 327 00:21:31,180 --> 00:21:37,420 the woman stopped respecting the man, what do you think can be done at that point? 328 00:21:37,420 --> 00:21:39,140 So anything be done? 329 00:21:39,140 --> 00:21:40,820 Yeah, absolutely. 330 00:21:40,820 --> 00:21:47,140 So in my religion Islam divorce is the last thing you should do, that's the, like it 331 00:21:47,140 --> 00:21:55,580 is allowed, but it was the last thing to be allowed, it's very hated thing. 332 00:21:55,580 --> 00:21:58,120 So if you can make it work, you need to make it work. 333 00:21:58,120 --> 00:22:06,100 So as a man, if your woman is not interested anymore, is like disobedient and stuff, it 334 00:22:06,100 --> 00:22:13,820 is mostly likely because of the man itself, which has caused it. 335 00:22:13,820 --> 00:22:17,260 And like, let's say if they're at that point, he needs to realize that it's him which has 336 00:22:17,260 --> 00:22:18,260 caused it. 337 00:22:18,260 --> 00:22:22,100 It's 19% of the time it's a guy who has let the relationship down. 338 00:22:22,100 --> 00:22:30,420 So making sure he gets back up, stop being lazy, hits the gym, show a few of his gains 339 00:22:30,420 --> 00:22:37,940 to his wife and all that, start working more, be more passionate, be just like even somewhat 340 00:22:37,940 --> 00:22:44,220 close to what he was when they first met, like how he impressed her, like, oh, these 341 00:22:44,220 --> 00:22:47,220 are my hobbies, these are my passion, I want to be this, be that. 342 00:22:47,220 --> 00:22:51,900 Even like 10% of that would revive that relationship. 343 00:22:51,900 --> 00:22:56,380 But I'm not saying 100% because women, some women are really bad, very toxic. 344 00:22:56,380 --> 00:23:04,060 So it depends on the woman, but the majority of the cases, it's the man who gets lazy and 345 00:23:04,060 --> 00:23:06,740 personal story. 346 00:23:06,740 --> 00:23:12,740 I felt my motivations crash as soon as I got married. 347 00:23:12,740 --> 00:23:14,540 It happens to a lot of people. 348 00:23:14,540 --> 00:23:15,860 I think it's a natural thing. 349 00:23:15,860 --> 00:23:20,500 I think it's like something clicks in your brain that, oh, okay, I found a girl, I can 350 00:23:20,500 --> 00:23:21,500 just relax now. 351 00:23:21,500 --> 00:23:27,540 You've locked something down, it's like you've done what you had to do, now you can kind 352 00:23:27,540 --> 00:23:29,540 of take a step back. 353 00:23:29,540 --> 00:23:30,540 Absolutely. 354 00:23:30,540 --> 00:23:36,500 And but the thing is, because I was so active since my teenage years, I was into sports 355 00:23:36,500 --> 00:23:42,780 and fitness, that years of experience and practice helped me keep the momentum going. 356 00:23:42,780 --> 00:23:47,420 Because for the one year after my marriage, I had no intention, no motivation whatsoever 357 00:23:47,420 --> 00:23:48,780 to go hit the gym. 358 00:23:48,780 --> 00:23:53,500 But because I've been doing it for so many years, that discipline kicked in and I was 359 00:23:53,500 --> 00:23:55,980 able to push through it. 360 00:23:55,980 --> 00:24:00,460 Elliot Hulls, if you know him, he says life comes in circles. 361 00:24:00,460 --> 00:24:06,580 So your motivations could be at the highest point, but there's guaranteed there'll be 362 00:24:06,580 --> 00:24:09,220 a point where it comes all the way down. 363 00:24:09,220 --> 00:24:13,780 But the discipline, you need to be disciplined and make sure you continue so you can reach 364 00:24:13,780 --> 00:24:15,500 back there. 365 00:24:15,500 --> 00:24:17,420 So it comes a full circle. 366 00:24:17,420 --> 00:24:18,780 And I felt that as well. 367 00:24:18,780 --> 00:24:25,100 And now I am back to be honest, like I want to hit the gym, I want to make new gains, 368 00:24:25,100 --> 00:24:27,860 I want to eat healthy. 369 00:24:27,860 --> 00:24:30,900 But that past one year, it's been a struggle to be honest. 370 00:24:30,900 --> 00:24:36,660 So that's why I recommend like try to push all the young men or the boys or teenage years 371 00:24:36,660 --> 00:24:41,380 to get active as soon as they can from the earliest age as possible. 372 00:24:41,380 --> 00:24:47,100 Because 99% of the men, they don't even hit the gym until they're like fat. 373 00:24:47,100 --> 00:24:52,980 And imagine that after they're married and they're fat, they try to hit the gym and they've 374 00:24:52,980 --> 00:24:55,940 never been to gym before, never tried fitness before. 375 00:24:55,940 --> 00:24:56,940 They can't do it. 376 00:24:56,940 --> 00:24:59,980 They can just do like a couple of months and then just not even yeah. 377 00:24:59,980 --> 00:25:00,980 Yeah, yeah. 378 00:25:00,980 --> 00:25:01,980 Throwing some kids in there. 379 00:25:01,980 --> 00:25:02,980 Oh, absolutely. 380 00:25:02,980 --> 00:25:07,780 I'm saying the time, the energy. 381 00:25:07,780 --> 00:25:10,900 So you mentioned your motivation dropped all the way to zero. 382 00:25:10,900 --> 00:25:12,600 How did you get that back up then? 383 00:25:12,600 --> 00:25:14,900 Just from looking at your history or did you do something? 384 00:25:14,900 --> 00:25:17,860 Did you look at your earlier holds videos? 385 00:25:17,860 --> 00:25:21,500 What was the snap where you realized that and you fix up? 386 00:25:21,500 --> 00:25:28,420 Like I said, I think you just even though I knew deep down that, oh, I don't feel like 387 00:25:28,420 --> 00:25:30,060 going my motivations are low. 388 00:25:30,060 --> 00:25:34,660 Is it like I said, it's a discipline for the previous years which I've been at it, helping 389 00:25:34,660 --> 00:25:36,100 me push through. 390 00:25:36,100 --> 00:25:39,780 Honestly, man, the motivation videos, nothing worked. 391 00:25:39,780 --> 00:25:45,260 I like the motivation videos never hit as they used to. 392 00:25:45,260 --> 00:25:51,380 Yeah, it was a funny time, but I think just the discipline. 393 00:25:51,380 --> 00:25:57,700 The only answer is that discipline helped me push through that period of one year. 394 00:25:57,700 --> 00:26:02,940 And yeah, and we live in an era of millions of motivational videos, you know, and you 395 00:26:02,940 --> 00:26:09,740 see these kids like Andrew Tate, David Goggins and all that, Joe Rogan, Mike Tyson's podcast, 396 00:26:09,740 --> 00:26:16,140 there's so much content out there, but these kids consume it, but in the end they just 397 00:26:16,140 --> 00:26:20,140 watch it and then from the go back to doing what they're doing anyway. 398 00:26:20,140 --> 00:26:27,460 Yeah, yeah, you need that like a kick inside you, a spark inside you to do it, you know, 399 00:26:27,460 --> 00:26:30,860 no matter how much motivation videos you watch. 400 00:26:30,860 --> 00:26:37,620 Just to get a bit more deeper and personal, you said, you know, while you were that point 401 00:26:37,620 --> 00:26:42,860 in your life where you had the zero motivation, was it a point in your life where you were 402 00:26:42,860 --> 00:26:47,860 just going through a hard time or was there a lot of other things going on in your life 403 00:26:47,860 --> 00:26:52,420 which led up to you having, you know, meeting that point where you had zero motivation to 404 00:26:52,420 --> 00:26:53,420 do anything? 405 00:26:53,420 --> 00:26:56,420 Nah, it was just getting married. 406 00:26:56,420 --> 00:27:01,220 I think that just something goes on in your brain that says something's locked down. 407 00:27:01,220 --> 00:27:02,900 You just, you can chill now. 408 00:27:02,900 --> 00:27:12,900 So just the ability to notice that, acknowledge that thing, but still being able to push through 409 00:27:12,900 --> 00:27:18,740 that's important because I immediately noticed that, oh, I'm getting too lazy. 410 00:27:18,740 --> 00:27:23,900 I'm getting those lazy subconscious feeling that, oh, you don't need to do that. 411 00:27:23,900 --> 00:27:24,900 Right. 412 00:27:24,900 --> 00:27:27,340 No, you don't need to hit the gym. 413 00:27:27,340 --> 00:27:28,340 Is that inner voice? 414 00:27:28,340 --> 00:27:29,340 Yeah. 415 00:27:29,340 --> 00:27:30,340 Yeah. 416 00:27:30,340 --> 00:27:31,340 Yeah. 417 00:27:31,340 --> 00:27:33,740 You look fine, you don't need to hit that. 418 00:27:33,740 --> 00:27:38,660 You really want to go out in the cold, walk out 15 minutes to the gym, have you wasted? 419 00:27:38,660 --> 00:27:39,660 You don't need that. 420 00:27:39,660 --> 00:27:40,660 You look fine. 421 00:27:40,660 --> 00:27:43,140 Because yeah, I mean, at the end of the day, you can always tell yourself out of it because 422 00:27:43,140 --> 00:27:47,140 especially if you're married, it's like, what am I doing all this for? 423 00:27:47,140 --> 00:27:48,140 Do I mean like? 424 00:27:48,140 --> 00:27:49,140 Exactly, yeah. 425 00:27:49,140 --> 00:27:53,140 Like no matter how fat I get, but whatever, you think your partner's going to be happy 426 00:27:53,140 --> 00:27:54,140 because you're married now. 427 00:27:54,140 --> 00:27:55,140 Yeah, yeah. 428 00:27:55,140 --> 00:27:56,140 It's not the case. 429 00:27:56,140 --> 00:27:57,140 Never the case. 430 00:27:57,140 --> 00:28:05,540 Unfortunately, yeah, I've had so many friends who have gotten fat after getting married and 431 00:28:05,540 --> 00:28:10,660 sometimes I've seen them after like a few months, I wouldn't even recognize them. 432 00:28:10,660 --> 00:28:14,660 And it's very common, unfortunately. 433 00:28:14,660 --> 00:28:22,100 And yeah, just that's why like a good friend of mine, he was in his late teens and he's 434 00:28:22,100 --> 00:28:29,220 never been to the gym and I was like, you need to start getting into habit now. 435 00:28:29,220 --> 00:28:34,780 It's going to get even more difficult as you get grow old and when you start time for marriage, 436 00:28:34,780 --> 00:28:38,580 if you can't do it now, it's impossible to do it after marriage. 437 00:28:38,580 --> 00:28:43,820 One more thing I want to say was good company, men need. 438 00:28:43,820 --> 00:28:45,460 You asked for three good things which make a great man. 439 00:28:45,460 --> 00:28:50,300 I think number four, I would even say top three is like having good, strong masculine 440 00:28:50,300 --> 00:28:56,900 friends and try to like, they should be more than your level. 441 00:28:56,900 --> 00:28:59,700 Try to find like older, more accomplishment. 442 00:28:59,700 --> 00:29:03,860 So they push you, you should never hang out with friends who are like below you at least 443 00:29:03,860 --> 00:29:07,500 your level or higher than you. 444 00:29:07,500 --> 00:29:14,380 And you get into those friend circles when you have no ego in you understand, no ego. 445 00:29:14,380 --> 00:29:18,220 Because if you have ego, it's really like, oh, I'm just better than him. 446 00:29:18,220 --> 00:29:22,060 It doesn't allow you to get into good friend circles. 447 00:29:22,060 --> 00:29:28,420 When I was in India for my engineering, I made some good friends. 448 00:29:28,420 --> 00:29:30,260 I was 20 years old. 449 00:29:30,260 --> 00:29:35,460 I was hanging out with 30 year old well established men. 450 00:29:35,460 --> 00:29:37,340 They would have like four or five kids. 451 00:29:37,340 --> 00:29:42,500 They run their own business 12 hours a day and still managed to find two hours gym at 452 00:29:42,500 --> 00:29:47,020 night, 10 p.m. to 12 a.m. at night. 453 00:29:47,020 --> 00:29:48,900 And they have like kids at home. 454 00:29:48,900 --> 00:29:53,540 They have to get up six o'clock in the morning, go take care of the businesses. 455 00:29:53,540 --> 00:29:55,860 They were like proper millionaires, right? 456 00:29:55,860 --> 00:30:00,340 I was fortunate enough to be, go to the gym in a good part of town. 457 00:30:00,340 --> 00:30:07,140 And I literally saw what work ethic was compared to like my previous gym. 458 00:30:07,140 --> 00:30:08,740 Like there'll be uncles and stuff. 459 00:30:08,740 --> 00:30:13,420 They're like, oh, beta, you don't need to do it as much. 460 00:30:13,420 --> 00:30:14,420 You're coming too frequently. 461 00:30:14,420 --> 00:30:16,740 You can just come here two days a week. 462 00:30:16,740 --> 00:30:18,620 Because he couldn't come more than two days a week. 463 00:30:18,620 --> 00:30:20,620 So he would try to tell others and try to bring them down. 464 00:30:20,620 --> 00:30:23,420 So there was a people that are doing shit in life. 465 00:30:23,420 --> 00:30:24,420 Yeah, yeah, yeah. 466 00:30:24,420 --> 00:30:25,420 Borsh advice. 467 00:30:25,420 --> 00:30:26,420 Exactly, exactly. 468 00:30:26,420 --> 00:30:28,420 Let's try to make you content. 469 00:30:28,420 --> 00:30:29,420 Like don't try. 470 00:30:29,420 --> 00:30:31,900 You don't have to stress you save enough to like pressure yourself. 471 00:30:31,900 --> 00:30:36,780 They feel threatened because you are getting out of the box while they're stuck in the 472 00:30:36,780 --> 00:30:39,220 box so they're trying to pull you back in. 473 00:30:39,220 --> 00:30:44,620 And so when I went, changed my gym, these guys, man, I think they honestly changed my 474 00:30:44,620 --> 00:30:48,380 life because they set a standard so high. 475 00:30:48,380 --> 00:30:51,740 I was able to see what a man can accomplish. 476 00:30:51,740 --> 00:30:54,500 He has four kids at home, this particular guy. 477 00:30:54,500 --> 00:30:56,100 And he's 12 hours on site. 478 00:30:56,100 --> 00:31:00,380 He has some business with a warehouse. 479 00:31:00,380 --> 00:31:04,460 And he would always be there six days a week, two hours at night. 480 00:31:04,460 --> 00:31:06,780 And he was the biggest guy in the gym as well. 481 00:31:06,780 --> 00:31:07,780 And natural. 482 00:31:07,780 --> 00:31:10,340 No steroids as well. 483 00:31:10,340 --> 00:31:12,860 And I was like, I want to be like you, man. 484 00:31:12,860 --> 00:31:16,900 I like what you said earlier, try to hang around with people older than you. 485 00:31:16,900 --> 00:31:19,940 Is that because the experience of being through the being through all the silly things you're 486 00:31:19,940 --> 00:31:23,900 going to go through at the moment in your life and you kind of learn from how they went 487 00:31:23,900 --> 00:31:26,100 through it and the advice that they give you. 488 00:31:26,100 --> 00:31:27,100 Absolutely. 489 00:31:27,100 --> 00:31:28,100 Absolutely. 490 00:31:28,100 --> 00:31:30,180 So I'm not saying just hang out with men older than you. 491 00:31:30,180 --> 00:31:36,180 You can hang out with friends, but make sure that they are as motivated and want to achieve 492 00:31:36,180 --> 00:31:38,500 something in life. 493 00:31:38,500 --> 00:31:44,340 But also make sure you have a couple of good friends who are older and so they can give 494 00:31:44,340 --> 00:31:48,820 you and guide you to the right path and keep you on the right path. 495 00:31:48,820 --> 00:31:55,980 Because if you have like even one friend who is like the lazy, the dirty kind, he will 496 00:31:55,980 --> 00:31:56,980 pull you down. 497 00:31:56,980 --> 00:31:59,420 And it's so easy to fall, by the way. 498 00:31:59,420 --> 00:32:00,420 Absolutely. 499 00:32:00,420 --> 00:32:05,900 Because it's easier to be lazy and to just watch movies online and eat bad food than 500 00:32:05,900 --> 00:32:07,220 it is to work hard. 501 00:32:07,220 --> 00:32:08,220 Absolutely. 502 00:32:08,220 --> 00:32:10,900 And I know that for example, it's so easy for you to fall. 503 00:32:10,900 --> 00:32:13,100 You can even say some things like, oh, let's go out for food today. 504 00:32:13,100 --> 00:32:16,340 And the next thing you know, you're like spending the whole day doing dumb shit. 505 00:32:16,340 --> 00:32:17,340 I know. 506 00:32:17,340 --> 00:32:19,220 Or you've got friends that play video games all day. 507 00:32:19,220 --> 00:32:22,300 It's so easy to like fall into that category. 508 00:32:22,300 --> 00:32:23,300 Absolutely. 509 00:32:23,300 --> 00:32:24,300 Absolutely. 510 00:32:24,300 --> 00:32:28,260 And you know, the media says like, oh, don't judge. 511 00:32:28,260 --> 00:32:29,260 Don't judge people. 512 00:32:29,260 --> 00:32:30,260 Don't judge my past. 513 00:32:30,260 --> 00:32:31,420 Don't judge this, that. 514 00:32:31,420 --> 00:32:37,260 I think that's silly because I think it's one of the best capabilities of human to judge. 515 00:32:37,260 --> 00:32:40,540 Because that's how you, how do you differentiate good from bad? 516 00:32:40,540 --> 00:32:41,540 You judge, don't you? 517 00:32:41,540 --> 00:32:42,540 Yes. 518 00:32:42,540 --> 00:32:43,540 Yeah. 519 00:32:43,540 --> 00:32:48,020 What, what the media, the least one is like, like blurred lines between good and bad. 520 00:32:48,020 --> 00:32:51,420 So like everyone is average and bad. 521 00:32:51,420 --> 00:32:57,460 And I think it's, it's, Andrew Tate says this, like, I have been so hard on myself, strict 522 00:32:57,460 --> 00:33:04,320 diet, strict workout, trying to stay like a fit, sleepless nights for my businesses 523 00:33:04,320 --> 00:33:05,460 and all that. 524 00:33:05,460 --> 00:33:10,100 Why the hell should I not judge the person I'm going to hang out with? 525 00:33:10,100 --> 00:33:17,660 If I judge myself so hard that I've put myself through so much hard shit, why should I not 526 00:33:17,660 --> 00:33:19,700 judge the people around me? 527 00:33:19,700 --> 00:33:22,140 Of course I'm going to judge them. 528 00:33:22,140 --> 00:33:25,940 You think, uh, judging other people is a way to like, you're kind of seeing yourself in 529 00:33:25,940 --> 00:33:31,020 the mirror or someone that you used to be and you're kind of portraying that hatred towards 530 00:33:31,020 --> 00:33:33,860 yourself in a way, but you're actually talking about somebody else. 531 00:33:33,860 --> 00:33:39,500 Yeah, I can get in a position where I could be judging someone, which is quite bad, but 532 00:33:39,500 --> 00:33:43,260 I'm also looking at myself that I used to be doing that. 533 00:33:43,260 --> 00:33:46,300 And I'm just like, man, I can't believe I was like that. 534 00:33:46,300 --> 00:33:50,980 So I judge in a way of like saying, that used to be me, but then I realized after that I 535 00:33:50,980 --> 00:33:55,340 really should shut myself up because, you know, they'll come a time where this person 536 00:33:55,340 --> 00:33:58,780 might be, uh, find themselves and come back to the light. 537 00:33:58,780 --> 00:33:59,780 Absolutely. 538 00:33:59,780 --> 00:34:00,780 Absolutely. 539 00:34:00,780 --> 00:34:05,380 And in a way like you shouldn't judge people because that time could be coming a bit later 540 00:34:05,380 --> 00:34:08,380 because we've all been in a place where we were like proper losers. 541 00:34:08,380 --> 00:34:15,460 But you need to realize that not everyone is as lucky because there is a reason only 542 00:34:15,460 --> 00:34:20,060 like less than 5% of men continue to hit the gym. 543 00:34:20,060 --> 00:34:22,420 Um, maybe you could have escaped that. 544 00:34:22,420 --> 00:34:23,820 Doesn't mean that he will. 545 00:34:23,820 --> 00:34:29,700 But what a good man will do is like, if he sees someone doing some bad stuff, um, is 546 00:34:29,700 --> 00:34:31,620 going and trying to help him out. 547 00:34:31,620 --> 00:34:37,740 And if that person, uh, his, he doesn't have, um, high ego, he would appreciate you giving 548 00:34:37,740 --> 00:34:38,820 advice. 549 00:34:38,820 --> 00:34:44,980 So like to be a bigger man is like, um, uh, obviously you escaped something bad and like 550 00:34:44,980 --> 00:34:50,900 you try to, um, like teach people to not do what you have done. 551 00:34:50,900 --> 00:34:54,980 If you see people doing the same thing, trying to say like, Oh, I've been there, man. 552 00:34:54,980 --> 00:34:59,660 Don't having the courage to speak out and, uh, try to get out. 553 00:34:59,660 --> 00:35:02,300 Try to teach and make other in the community better. 554 00:35:02,300 --> 00:35:03,980 Uh, try to make people better. 555 00:35:03,980 --> 00:35:08,460 That's what a big man does, you know, I want to ask you one more question. 556 00:35:08,460 --> 00:35:13,660 Um, why has been the most painful period in your life? 557 00:35:13,660 --> 00:35:22,260 Oh, it's, uh, let's, let's say, uh, interesting question. 558 00:35:22,260 --> 00:35:31,740 I would say, um, uh, the period of time which made me, uh, go from grow from a boy to a 559 00:35:31,740 --> 00:35:38,740 man, uh, would be, I think it was 2017 till 2019. 560 00:35:38,740 --> 00:35:44,820 And, um, I was like, uh, 20 till 22 years old. 561 00:35:44,820 --> 00:35:49,780 That's when like, um, my, my dad like lost his job. 562 00:35:49,780 --> 00:35:58,980 And it's like I said, um, so much disrespected over there because he, my dad has the best 563 00:35:58,980 --> 00:36:04,820 CV I've ever seen on a man, uh, the greatest CV, very high accomplished, but it was so 564 00:36:04,820 --> 00:36:07,740 sad to see him being disrespected over there. 565 00:36:07,740 --> 00:36:15,740 And so he, uh, he lost his job in Saudi Arabia and, um, because like he was my main funder. 566 00:36:15,740 --> 00:36:16,740 I was in India. 567 00:36:16,740 --> 00:36:18,940 I was doing my engineering and it just hit me. 568 00:36:18,940 --> 00:36:22,300 I was like, oh, shit, I don't have money anymore. 569 00:36:22,300 --> 00:36:28,180 But he still, uh, managed somewhat to keep some money, uh, coming to me. 570 00:36:28,180 --> 00:36:30,940 Uh, I appreciate that a lot. 571 00:36:30,940 --> 00:36:36,060 Uh, never let me fell the pinch, but because me being a man, I knew what he was going through. 572 00:36:36,060 --> 00:36:45,100 Um, and because I think it was like two years he struggled and, uh, obviously, uh, I struggled 573 00:36:45,100 --> 00:36:51,940 and that's when I realized that employment, um, working for someone isn't the best. 574 00:36:51,940 --> 00:36:57,940 You need to make yourself something, uh, and do something on your own, uh, because your 575 00:36:57,940 --> 00:37:00,540 employment could just come to an end any day. 576 00:37:00,540 --> 00:37:01,540 They don't respect you. 577 00:37:01,540 --> 00:37:05,100 Uh, they're just like a tiny asset. 578 00:37:05,100 --> 00:37:08,460 Uh, they could replace you in a second. 579 00:37:08,460 --> 00:37:16,900 So those two years, uh, I realized, uh, the value of a person, uh, and like how much, 580 00:37:16,900 --> 00:37:23,700 um, uh, how important it is to like, you know, make yourself something instead of just relying 581 00:37:23,700 --> 00:37:27,020 on like a nine to five throughout your life. 582 00:37:27,020 --> 00:37:29,420 And also made me more responsible on money. 583 00:37:29,420 --> 00:37:31,420 Uh, I was very materialistic. 584 00:37:31,420 --> 00:37:36,620 Uh, my parents spoiled me, uh, growing up with so much stuff. 585 00:37:36,620 --> 00:37:41,020 Uh, and this was a period of time like I had no money for the first time you see, and no 586 00:37:41,020 --> 00:37:43,300 money to spend, no, no money to go out. 587 00:37:43,300 --> 00:37:46,500 Um, so it made me more responsible money. 588 00:37:46,500 --> 00:37:52,540 Um, and since then, uh, even when the times were good, I, I just wouldn't, I wouldn't 589 00:37:52,540 --> 00:37:53,540 spend money on. 590 00:37:53,540 --> 00:37:57,740 I realized like it's, um, these materialistic things. 591 00:37:57,740 --> 00:37:58,740 Yeah. 592 00:37:58,740 --> 00:38:00,100 It don't fulfill you. 593 00:38:00,100 --> 00:38:01,100 You don't need it. 594 00:38:01,100 --> 00:38:02,860 You can be as happy without them. 595 00:38:02,860 --> 00:38:03,860 Yeah. 596 00:38:03,860 --> 00:38:11,220 And as you invest in some good memories with your family, uh, like going out, having, uh, 597 00:38:11,220 --> 00:38:15,900 dinner together instead of like expensive clothes, expensive watches, expensive shoes, 598 00:38:15,900 --> 00:38:23,580 I don't, uh, after those two years, I've realized that, um, you don't need money to be happy. 599 00:38:23,580 --> 00:38:28,180 You can, uh, and you don't need materialistic things that after that, I think after that 600 00:38:28,180 --> 00:38:31,700 period, that that's how, um, I've grown. 601 00:38:31,700 --> 00:38:32,980 Uh, I don't spend anymore. 602 00:38:32,980 --> 00:38:34,340 I don't enjoy spending anymore. 603 00:38:34,340 --> 00:38:40,180 Uh, even though I could afford something nice, uh, I wouldn't get something. 604 00:38:40,180 --> 00:38:44,340 I wouldn't recommend, um, I would say it's the best thing that everyone should do it. 605 00:38:44,340 --> 00:38:48,380 But I think it's just me that, um, if I could get something for a hundred pounds, which 606 00:38:48,380 --> 00:38:51,940 is very good compared to something for 50 pounds, which is like average, I'll get the 607 00:38:51,940 --> 00:38:54,300 50 pound one because it just, I can do off that. 608 00:38:54,300 --> 00:39:00,180 If something, if it breaks down, I can get another one and it plays the same role. 609 00:39:00,180 --> 00:39:07,660 And, uh, like I would instead invest in, um, like a Crips, uh, if I can, or just, just 610 00:39:07,660 --> 00:39:15,220 like, uh, something which creates memories, you know, you don't need to spend big, uh, 611 00:39:15,220 --> 00:39:18,740 to like live life and be happy and be satisfied. 612 00:39:18,740 --> 00:39:25,940 I think if you can learn to live with like something little, um, it goes a long way. 613 00:39:25,940 --> 00:39:31,860 Cause if, obviously if you get used to, you know, having things that are expensive, living 614 00:39:31,860 --> 00:39:35,700 an expensive luxurious lifestyle, then you can never step down. 615 00:39:35,700 --> 00:39:36,700 Absolutely. 616 00:39:36,700 --> 00:39:37,700 Oh, a hundred percent. 617 00:39:37,700 --> 00:39:41,820 That's what I tell my wife as well, actually that, um, I was raised spoiled. 618 00:39:41,820 --> 00:39:45,860 My parents were kind enough to, um, give me whatever I wanted growing up. 619 00:39:45,860 --> 00:39:47,420 I would just ask for something. 620 00:39:47,420 --> 00:39:48,660 They would give it to me. 621 00:39:48,660 --> 00:39:52,740 And that's why you see when there was no money, I was breaking down. 622 00:39:52,740 --> 00:39:55,500 I was, I was out mentally. 623 00:39:55,500 --> 00:39:57,900 Uh, I, like I was just being extra dramatic as well. 624 00:39:57,900 --> 00:39:59,460 Like, like actually sheared my head. 625 00:39:59,460 --> 00:40:00,980 Uh, yeah, I was that dramatic. 626 00:40:00,980 --> 00:40:03,100 I was like, damn, I can't deal with this. 627 00:40:03,100 --> 00:40:09,020 I'm, um, and that's when I like, I look back and really like, I was so mentally fragile. 628 00:40:09,020 --> 00:40:13,700 Um, uh, and I'm happy that happened because it made me grow. 629 00:40:13,700 --> 00:40:14,700 Yeah. 630 00:40:14,700 --> 00:40:20,220 Uh, it also made me get into gym more, uh, get into reading finance books, motivational 631 00:40:20,220 --> 00:40:22,100 books, uh, and all that. 632 00:40:22,100 --> 00:40:23,180 I've educated myself. 633 00:40:23,180 --> 00:40:25,340 I've used that time really well to grow up. 634 00:40:25,340 --> 00:40:34,420 So bad times does make a man, but, uh, only if he's smart enough to acknowledge, uh, what's, 635 00:40:34,420 --> 00:40:36,180 what's wrong, what, what happened. 636 00:40:36,180 --> 00:40:40,500 Um, and like how he could prevent it next time. 637 00:40:40,500 --> 00:40:41,500 Yeah. 638 00:40:41,500 --> 00:40:43,820 That's very interesting. 639 00:40:43,820 --> 00:40:46,860 Um, last question. 640 00:40:46,860 --> 00:40:47,860 Yeah. 641 00:40:47,860 --> 00:40:49,700 What is your end goal? 642 00:40:49,700 --> 00:40:54,060 Cause I know you mentioned that guy before that was doing all the businesses and four 643 00:40:54,060 --> 00:40:55,500 kids. 644 00:40:55,500 --> 00:40:59,140 Is that something that you want to spike to be in the future or is it you're working towards 645 00:40:59,140 --> 00:41:01,660 our kind of, um, goal that you see? 646 00:41:01,660 --> 00:41:03,740 Cause you, that person set the standard for you. 647 00:41:03,740 --> 00:41:08,620 So I, I would say I would be very happy if I end up in a position like him. 648 00:41:08,620 --> 00:41:16,060 Um, like, uh, um, lots of kids, a happy wife, a good business, you're self-reliant on yourself. 649 00:41:16,060 --> 00:41:18,740 You're, you're healthy, you're, um, fit. 650 00:41:18,740 --> 00:41:20,900 You look the best, uh, at your age. 651 00:41:20,900 --> 00:41:23,900 Um, I think it was like, like, I think. 652 00:41:23,900 --> 00:41:29,220 Um, mid thirties and he was the biggest guy in the gym. 653 00:41:29,220 --> 00:41:35,380 So it would definitely be a good, um, uh, good endpoint to be honest. 654 00:41:35,380 --> 00:41:39,980 Um, and just carrying that same standard into your sixties. 655 00:41:39,980 --> 00:41:43,300 Uh, um, yeah. 656 00:41:43,300 --> 00:41:51,540 And I would say, obviously, um, uh, be, uh, prioritize my Dean as well, uh, be religious 657 00:41:51,540 --> 00:41:54,900 and the be charitable. 658 00:41:54,900 --> 00:41:59,780 What my religion teaches you, try to be the, uh, good person. 659 00:41:59,780 --> 00:42:04,180 Islam teaches you to be the charitable, the helping hand, uh, in the society. 660 00:42:04,180 --> 00:42:11,060 Um, and yeah, be a source of motivation to young men, uh, women and everyone around. 661 00:42:11,060 --> 00:42:15,860 Is there anything else you want to, no, nothing. 662 00:42:15,860 --> 00:42:20,260 I think we pretty much covered everything I wanted to go through. 663 00:42:20,260 --> 00:42:23,020 Um, it was a fun being here. 664 00:42:23,020 --> 00:42:24,020 Thank you for having me. 665 00:42:24,020 --> 00:42:25,020 Honestly, thank you for coming on. 666 00:42:25,020 --> 00:42:28,700 Obviously it's been a long time since we even did a podcast. 667 00:42:28,700 --> 00:42:32,660 So this was quite, uh, did feel quite new to us as well. 668 00:42:32,660 --> 00:42:33,660 Yeah. 669 00:42:33,660 --> 00:42:34,660 We've been out for so long. 670 00:42:34,660 --> 00:42:36,940 Um, so yeah, it's been great. 671 00:42:36,940 --> 00:42:41,020 Um, new setting, everything, everything's pretty much new. 672 00:42:41,020 --> 00:42:42,020 Even rebranded. 673 00:42:42,020 --> 00:42:44,860 So everything, everything's like new now. 674 00:42:44,860 --> 00:42:46,940 So I wish you guys the best. 675 00:42:46,940 --> 00:42:49,060 Uh, thank you for having me once again. 676 00:42:49,060 --> 00:42:52,500 It's, um, honestly, it's a good thing what you guys are doing. 677 00:42:52,500 --> 00:42:54,220 Uh, it's very noble. 678 00:42:54,220 --> 00:43:02,900 Um, and for a noble cause, um, trying to motivate men, uh, trying to bring betterment 679 00:43:02,900 --> 00:43:03,900 to the society. 680 00:43:03,900 --> 00:43:05,980 Uh, it's a noble cause. 681 00:43:05,980 --> 00:43:08,340 I wish you guys the best. 682 00:43:08,340 --> 00:43:09,340 Appreciate that, bro. 683 00:43:09,340 --> 00:43:10,340 Thank you for coming on. 684 00:43:10,340 --> 00:43:11,340 Um, yeah. 685 00:43:11,340 --> 00:43:13,340 Thank you for listening to the podcast. 686 00:43:13,340 --> 00:43:14,860 Hope you guys enjoyed it. 687 00:43:14,860 --> 00:43:15,860 Stay tuned for the next one. 688 00:43:15,860 --> 00:43:16,860 Peace. 689 00:43:16,860 --> 00:43:22,860 Bye.