1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:07,020 Good morning. Good afternoon and good evening everybody. It's your girl Sonya McQueen with your mind your body your choice. I hope 2 00:00:07,560 --> 00:00:10,880 You mothers had a beautiful wonderful Mother's Day 3 00:00:10,880 --> 00:00:14,780 and if you listen to my podcast and you receive my 4 00:00:15,520 --> 00:00:21,920 newsletter motivational monthly which should have been out yesterday. I had major difficulties out of town 5 00:00:22,560 --> 00:00:28,680 And was not able to get it completed. So I plan on releasing it no later than Friday 6 00:00:28,680 --> 00:00:36,400 But it's coming it's coming. I want to speak to you today about when you let 7 00:00:38,080 --> 00:00:40,080 situations change your 8 00:00:41,200 --> 00:00:44,080 Personality or your outlook or your your 9 00:00:45,040 --> 00:00:47,440 Motivational efforts or your positivity for the day 10 00:00:48,200 --> 00:00:51,880 So I used to be the type of person when things went bad 11 00:00:53,000 --> 00:00:55,000 Or if something happened 12 00:00:55,000 --> 00:01:00,540 It would fester in me and it would bother me if not for only one day then, for days r o weeks 13 00:01:00,540 --> 00:01:06,080 I wouldn't be able to sleep at night because I'd be so bombarded with these thoughts or I 14 00:01:06,600 --> 00:01:09,840 wouldn't be the happy me during the day because 15 00:01:10,640 --> 00:01:16,040 Something that happened earlier upset me so much. It just deflated me and sucked out my joy 16 00:01:16,560 --> 00:01:17,640 so 17 00:01:17,640 --> 00:01:21,880 This weekend my husband and I flew to Austin, Texas 18 00:01:21,880 --> 00:01:29,720 My son graduated from Texas A&M and received a masters in economics and so we got there Friday and 19 00:01:30,320 --> 00:01:36,480 Checked into our Airbnb. It was absolutely gorgeous. I've never been in an Airbnb. I'm a Hilton girl 20 00:01:36,480 --> 00:01:42,600 I usually stay in like in embassy suites or something, but we got an Airbnb and it was gorgeous 21 00:01:43,520 --> 00:01:47,480 So by the time we were able to get into our room when we arrived 22 00:01:47,480 --> 00:01:52,320 We went straight to meet my son and his sisters and his father 23 00:01:53,240 --> 00:01:58,280 And if you don't know the story he was adopted. He's my son. He was adopted 24 00:01:59,040 --> 00:02:03,400 So we went to meet all them for dinner and then we had to go do some things by the time 25 00:02:03,400 --> 00:02:04,600 We got to our Airbnb 26 00:02:04,600 --> 00:02:11,560 It was 11 o'clock at night and we had to be up at 4 to drive the two hours to where he was graduating 27 00:02:11,560 --> 00:02:15,200 So we got everything done, but I am the type of person I 28 00:02:15,200 --> 00:02:17,000 I 29 00:02:17,000 --> 00:02:24,480 Think I look much younger than my age, but if I don't get good sleep. I look much older than my age and 30 00:02:25,640 --> 00:02:31,160 If you know anything about naturally curly hair, I have that I 31 00:02:31,680 --> 00:02:36,440 Have naturally curly hair, but I had it pressed out for this event. So it was long and straight 32 00:02:37,400 --> 00:02:43,240 It rained the entire time we were there and so we get there. It's raining 33 00:02:43,240 --> 00:02:50,560 It's raining when we wake up. It's raining when we pick up my son from his hotel to drive to the location 34 00:02:51,120 --> 00:02:53,120 It's raining raining raining 35 00:02:53,240 --> 00:02:58,920 So my natural hair decided to do it and want to stay straight and it started poofing up 36 00:02:58,920 --> 00:03:04,200 Look like an aphor almost at the roots. It's it's not it wasn't funny at the moment 37 00:03:04,640 --> 00:03:10,920 Because I thought to myself I should take my flat iron with me, but I didn't so I ended up in the bathroom for way 38 00:03:10,920 --> 00:03:15,160 Too much time trying to find a way to pin it up with one 39 00:03:15,760 --> 00:03:16,840 bread 40 00:03:16,840 --> 00:03:18,840 But I figured it out 41 00:03:18,840 --> 00:03:24,080 All the pictures we took before that were deleted because I actually look horrible 42 00:03:24,440 --> 00:03:31,160 But more than that when I don't get good sleep my face looks different. I look older 43 00:03:31,160 --> 00:03:35,680 I'm 53. I look 63 73. I look older 44 00:03:36,360 --> 00:03:37,360 instantly 45 00:03:37,360 --> 00:03:44,280 From a lack of sleep. So not only was my hair bushy. I looked older and I was letting those things 46 00:03:44,640 --> 00:03:50,680 Take away a bit from my enjoyment of being with my son because I kept constantly 47 00:03:51,000 --> 00:03:54,720 Worrying about how bad I was looking now. I am not a 48 00:03:56,400 --> 00:04:02,360 Conceded person. I am not I'm not even overly confident. I'm confident in what I'm confident in 49 00:04:02,360 --> 00:04:08,480 I think I look good enough. I don't put myself over people and I definitely don't put myself under people 50 00:04:08,480 --> 00:04:12,760 I know beauty when I see it and I recognize it and I acknowledge it 51 00:04:12,760 --> 00:04:19,960 I don't mind telling people they're beautiful because it doesn't take anything away from me to do so or to recognize beauty 52 00:04:20,240 --> 00:04:22,240 But when I look bad 53 00:04:22,760 --> 00:04:26,920 And I feel like I look bad nobody else has to feel that away 54 00:04:27,920 --> 00:04:29,920 It drives me crazy 55 00:04:29,920 --> 00:04:33,680 Especially when it's in a bit now if I just look bad 56 00:04:33,680 --> 00:04:38,840 I woke up and I had to run the Sam's Club and do some shopping go to Publix. I don't care 57 00:04:38,840 --> 00:04:44,160 I'm putting on a hat. I'm gonna go about my business. But this was an event. I knew there would be 58 00:04:44,960 --> 00:04:52,160 Hundreds of pictures taken and I felt like I looked horrible and that thought stayed 59 00:04:52,520 --> 00:04:55,760 With me. I kept going to the bathroom checking my hair 60 00:04:55,760 --> 00:05:00,280 Trying to figure out if I should put on some makeup. Okay, let me put on a little makeup 61 00:05:00,640 --> 00:05:06,560 Now that looks horrible because I'm not a makeup person. Let me take it off. Oh, I don't have any moisturizer 62 00:05:06,560 --> 00:05:09,680 Let me do this. I was all over the place 63 00:05:11,320 --> 00:05:15,080 Instead of sitting my butt in that chair just saying well, I got a shag 64 00:05:15,680 --> 00:05:18,720 Let me go ahead and enjoy this beautiful moment 65 00:05:18,720 --> 00:05:23,080 But it didn't take away from my son, but for me it took away from me 66 00:05:23,080 --> 00:05:27,480 So anyway fast forward we were there all day 67 00:05:27,480 --> 00:05:32,560 He went from being hooded with a small amount of people who were graduating 68 00:05:33,160 --> 00:05:35,160 getting their masters in 69 00:05:35,600 --> 00:05:42,680 economics from that to the actual graduation so we arrived at seven in the morning and 70 00:05:44,120 --> 00:05:49,040 We did the hooding the graduation wasn't until it didn't start until two and 71 00:05:49,040 --> 00:05:54,040 It wasn't over until four ish so from seven to four 72 00:05:54,720 --> 00:05:59,920 We're doing all that then we were in the parking lot. We're looking for him and so on and so forth 73 00:06:00,000 --> 00:06:02,000 we finally all get together and 74 00:06:02,600 --> 00:06:04,600 I'm driving back and 75 00:06:06,440 --> 00:06:10,920 We're making plans of where we're going to go eat and his adopted father's 76 00:06:11,800 --> 00:06:13,800 rental car blew a tire 77 00:06:13,800 --> 00:06:20,240 So we have to go get everybody out of the car except his his adopted father 78 00:06:20,480 --> 00:06:26,360 We got to get his sisters and everybody and try to make room in our vehicle get them there long story short 79 00:06:26,640 --> 00:06:33,840 The father stays with the car that broke down because the car rental agency he used and I wish I knew 80 00:06:33,840 --> 00:06:37,000 Who it was so I can tell you don't rent with them because 81 00:06:37,000 --> 00:06:43,880 He called them and it was so many hours later before anybody even really acknowledged 82 00:06:43,880 --> 00:06:50,880 He had a problem. He's on the side of the road in Texas. He lives in Oregon and where he broke down 83 00:06:51,200 --> 00:06:56,600 There is nothing there are no stores. There are no homes nothing just an 84 00:06:57,600 --> 00:07:00,360 isolated spot in Ireland so 85 00:07:00,360 --> 00:07:06,320 We left him though and I felt bad about that because we were hour and a half away from where we were going 86 00:07:07,080 --> 00:07:09,080 We get to our location 87 00:07:09,240 --> 00:07:13,120 We my husband's exhausted. I'm exhausted, but this is my son's time 88 00:07:13,120 --> 00:07:19,240 So we all meet up to eat the father still stranded. It's dark now and I 89 00:07:19,800 --> 00:07:21,800 Didn't mention my phone 90 00:07:22,680 --> 00:07:24,240 Just locked up 91 00:07:24,240 --> 00:07:32,000 It said I phone unavailable available in and it's starting down started counting down from 60 minutes. I 92 00:07:32,800 --> 00:07:36,560 Was livid. I was livid. I can't use my GPS 93 00:07:36,560 --> 00:07:40,360 I can't do anything so I had to get somebody else's phone 94 00:07:40,680 --> 00:07:44,480 Call T-Mobile T-Mobile has no idea what's wrong with my phone 95 00:07:44,880 --> 00:07:50,840 They patch me in after sending me to three different locations three different people to Apple 96 00:07:50,840 --> 00:07:57,440 Apple has no idea what my was they're telling me I tried my access code too many times and I said 97 00:07:57,440 --> 00:08:03,600 I didn't try it one time. Oh, you shouldn't put your phone in your purse and my phone wasn't in a purse 98 00:08:04,520 --> 00:08:09,880 We weren't even allowed to take person's into graduation unless they were clear my purse is clearly not clear 99 00:08:10,480 --> 00:08:12,640 My phone was plugged up 100 00:08:13,480 --> 00:08:18,840 Giving me directions. Nobody touched my phone. It just did this that doesn't make any sense 101 00:08:18,840 --> 00:08:25,800 Are you sure so now I'm aggravated you're questioning whether I know if I tried to push codes in my phone 102 00:08:26,040 --> 00:08:30,600 And you're questioning whether my phone was in a purse that I didn't even have I 103 00:08:31,960 --> 00:08:34,880 Just said just say you don't know what's wrong with my phone 104 00:08:35,920 --> 00:08:37,880 Ma'am, I don't know what's wrong with your phone 105 00:08:37,880 --> 00:08:44,000 The only time this happens is I said I know you've already told me if somebody pushes in the wrong code too many times 106 00:08:44,000 --> 00:08:48,880 I got it. What do I do to unlock my phone right now? I need my GPS 107 00:08:50,160 --> 00:08:56,360 You're gonna have to reset it is your stuff in the cloud. I said it is we're gonna have to do a master reset 108 00:08:57,360 --> 00:09:00,920 15 minutes into the master reset the master reset isn't working 109 00:09:02,000 --> 00:09:04,800 She's clueless now. I hang up 110 00:09:05,680 --> 00:09:11,320 I'm a little frustrated because of that, but I have another phone I can use so I'm trying to let that go 111 00:09:11,320 --> 00:09:16,520 Anyway, we go up out our day so and so forth this morning. I wake up and I call T-Mobile 112 00:09:16,680 --> 00:09:24,440 Hey, this is a problem. So the young lady explains you have an older mode older model iPhone, right? 113 00:09:25,240 --> 00:09:29,520 Long story short. She was telling me the towers are now five 114 00:09:30,280 --> 00:09:36,600 5g five something plus I have a four four g for LTE phone 115 00:09:36,600 --> 00:09:41,880 And I need an upgrade and I told her listen a couple of months ago 116 00:09:41,880 --> 00:09:48,240 I was having so many problems. I was promised a free upgrade. She looks it's not in the notes. Okay, so 117 00:09:49,040 --> 00:09:51,040 I went to T-Mobile 118 00:09:51,200 --> 00:09:55,640 When I was offered the free upgrade to pick out one, but the guy told me oh, no 119 00:09:55,640 --> 00:09:59,680 We we're not gonna give you a free upgrade, but we'll give you a $400 credit for your phone 120 00:09:59,680 --> 00:10:04,200 I told him that's not gonna work because I was promised the free upgrade. So I left 121 00:10:04,200 --> 00:10:07,920 Today they're offering me 122 00:10:08,400 --> 00:10:12,960 Once again, not a free upgrade and even though it's not my fault about the towers 123 00:10:12,960 --> 00:10:20,200 But they're offering me $200 off of my phone no longer the $400 and the lady tells me on the phone if I do this 124 00:10:20,680 --> 00:10:24,680 Over the phone is gonna cost you an extra $35, but if you go in the store 125 00:10:25,320 --> 00:10:29,920 It's not gonna cost you that so I get in my car and I go to the store and 126 00:10:30,840 --> 00:10:32,360 here's where 127 00:10:32,360 --> 00:10:35,120 10 minutes in my podcast starts 128 00:10:37,080 --> 00:10:39,760 The guy helping me at the store at T-Mobile 129 00:10:40,800 --> 00:10:45,160 Begins to tell me how customer service has no idea what they're talking about 130 00:10:45,920 --> 00:10:48,820 What she told me is wrong then he says 131 00:10:49,640 --> 00:10:55,480 The chances of you ever getting Mary again are slim to none because you can't see her 132 00:10:55,480 --> 00:11:00,560 She doesn't care what she says to you. We're the ones who know what's going on because you see our faces 133 00:11:00,560 --> 00:11:05,280 You can come back here tomorrow and I'll be here for Mary. She just tells you anything 134 00:11:05,720 --> 00:11:10,960 Look, she didn't even put he turns his little tablet towards me. She didn't even put any notes in here 135 00:11:11,320 --> 00:11:16,920 Yeah, she she doesn't know what she's talking about and by the way, yeah, you'll get your $200 credit 136 00:11:16,920 --> 00:11:21,320 But it's gonna be blah blah blah and I looked at him and I said I thought you were all one team 137 00:11:23,520 --> 00:11:25,520 This was a very aggravating 138 00:11:25,520 --> 00:11:32,440 Situation for me my phone started stopped working while I was out of town and it counted down from 60 minutes 139 00:11:32,440 --> 00:11:34,880 And when it got to one it started over at 60 again 140 00:11:35,280 --> 00:11:41,000 Count it down to one and started over at 60 again. I could not use my phone in another state 141 00:11:41,800 --> 00:11:47,880 at a very special occasion for my child for three hours and all you're telling me is 142 00:11:48,480 --> 00:11:53,440 how customer service on the phone doesn't really care about us and they don't know anything and 143 00:11:53,440 --> 00:11:56,760 you're disputing everything they said and 144 00:11:57,560 --> 00:12:01,520 You're not gonna do this for me. You're not gonna do that for me because you're not a car salesman 145 00:12:01,520 --> 00:12:04,440 And all I did was sit down and tell you what the problem was 146 00:12:05,880 --> 00:12:10,800 He's like, man, I'm just telling you the facts, you know, you're a good customer. You've been with us for 18 years 147 00:12:10,800 --> 00:12:12,800 I said exactly and 148 00:12:12,920 --> 00:12:16,800 Before I was with you for 18 years. I was with you for six 149 00:12:16,800 --> 00:12:24,640 And once again, I thought you were all a team I said, so I'm so aggravated. I'm just gonna go ahead and go 150 00:12:24,800 --> 00:12:26,800 He said, okay, no problem 151 00:12:27,480 --> 00:12:30,200 No, ma'am. Okay, let me see what I could do none of that 152 00:12:31,200 --> 00:12:34,980 So I'm in my car and instantly I called T-Mobile and I asked for 153 00:12:35,960 --> 00:12:41,000 Escalations but the young lady who was helping me was very nice. She asked what the problem was and I told her everything 154 00:12:41,000 --> 00:12:43,000 He said and she was like wow 155 00:12:43,000 --> 00:12:46,600 I'm with you miss Sonny. I thought we were one team 156 00:12:47,840 --> 00:12:53,160 She was like, I'm so sorry and she basically told me everything the lady told me before I left 157 00:12:53,920 --> 00:12:55,120 but 158 00:12:55,120 --> 00:13:00,920 She had me on hold so long. I took that time to pray and I was like Lord 159 00:13:01,920 --> 00:13:04,440 My son graduated. He got a masters 160 00:13:05,720 --> 00:13:07,880 He brought me all this wonderful tea 161 00:13:07,880 --> 00:13:15,360 He gave me all this tea, you know, I love tea and I was able to spend quality time with him for the first time in 162 00:13:15,360 --> 00:13:17,960 His 30 years on Mother's Day 163 00:13:18,440 --> 00:13:23,720 He comes and visits me all the time. I've spent Thanksgiving with them. I've spent Christmas with them 164 00:13:23,720 --> 00:13:26,600 I've spent summer time with them. I've spent quality time 165 00:13:27,040 --> 00:13:30,040 But never a Mother's Day. I 166 00:13:31,880 --> 00:13:35,320 Didn't want to lose that grand feeling 167 00:13:35,320 --> 00:13:42,720 More than that, I have a working phone. I have three T-Mobile phones. I have a business on T-Mobile 168 00:13:44,880 --> 00:13:50,320 They might not all agree but the customer service on the phone both times was Sapaar 169 00:13:52,000 --> 00:13:54,360 Sapaar the guy in the store 170 00:13:55,840 --> 00:13:59,520 Was not Sapaar because he was putting down his own team members 171 00:13:59,520 --> 00:14:04,560 So I said something quick way for him as well, but I felt so much peace 172 00:14:05,440 --> 00:14:13,280 Just reminiscing on the good that I just had this weekend the time with my husband the food the 173 00:14:14,160 --> 00:14:19,600 camaraderie spending time with my son's sisters who were also adopted 174 00:14:20,160 --> 00:14:25,040 one of them loves me dearly the other one she likes me, but the other one loves me and 175 00:14:25,040 --> 00:14:29,380 And just getting all that positivity and it over 176 00:14:30,280 --> 00:14:33,080 flowed through the pits of 177 00:14:33,920 --> 00:14:35,920 my veins 178 00:14:36,720 --> 00:14:43,640 While I was on hold with customer service with T-Mobile and I like to think was you know what yeah my phone 179 00:14:44,440 --> 00:14:47,200 Broke down on me pretty much like a car 180 00:14:48,480 --> 00:14:54,120 But there were four other car phones in that car five literally I could use thank God 181 00:14:54,120 --> 00:14:58,040 I wasn't riding alone my husband. I was able to use his GPS. I 182 00:14:58,640 --> 00:15:00,920 Was able to listen to his music on his phone 183 00:15:01,560 --> 00:15:04,120 And we were able to get to our destination 184 00:15:05,480 --> 00:15:07,480 safely I 185 00:15:07,520 --> 00:15:09,520 Could have let that phone 186 00:15:10,040 --> 00:15:15,880 Push me over the edge and let it bother me and I could have griped and complained 187 00:15:16,120 --> 00:15:18,120 But what good does that do? 188 00:15:18,120 --> 00:15:22,160 What good does that do? 189 00:15:23,040 --> 00:15:25,880 Gribing and complaining about something that's not gonna change 190 00:15:26,880 --> 00:15:34,360 It's not like I start complaining and all of a sudden it doesn't exist anymore. It still exists. My phone was still locked 191 00:15:35,320 --> 00:15:40,120 But there was a solution and let's just say for a second. I was by myself 192 00:15:41,560 --> 00:15:46,520 I'm smart enough to know there's still something called a paper map. I wouldn't have been happy 193 00:15:46,520 --> 00:15:50,960 I probably would have had to find a radio station and listen to it 194 00:15:51,000 --> 00:15:54,800 But I had a car that was giving me from point a to point B. I 195 00:15:55,960 --> 00:16:00,120 Had a plane that got me from point a to point B 196 00:16:01,760 --> 00:16:03,760 And I'm great 197 00:16:04,360 --> 00:16:09,360 The guy at T-Mobile today he irritated me you guys have no idea 198 00:16:09,360 --> 00:16:13,840 But then I remember while I was on hold girl you own a motivational speaking company 199 00:16:13,840 --> 00:16:21,760 You go and you teach other people how to give the best customer service possible you train the trainer 200 00:16:22,080 --> 00:16:25,440 You're a trainer you go into companies and you help them 201 00:16:27,480 --> 00:16:29,480 Apparently he needs a little help 202 00:16:31,000 --> 00:16:33,000 Without trying to get him in trouble 203 00:16:35,560 --> 00:16:42,480 He needs to learn the customer service experience, but I'm not gonna take that on I know the customer service experience 204 00:16:42,480 --> 00:16:46,880 Lead by motivation is led to motivate if I walk around 205 00:16:47,400 --> 00:16:51,120 With my lips poked out and my nose turned up 206 00:16:51,720 --> 00:16:56,920 For every little situation that bothers me you guys my nose would be full of rain 207 00:16:58,240 --> 00:17:03,520 Every time I went outside and it rained I would be overwhelmed drowning 208 00:17:06,360 --> 00:17:08,360 I'd always look at the ceiling I 209 00:17:08,360 --> 00:17:15,320 Would never look at anybody else you know why because situations are gonna come they're going to come 210 00:17:16,360 --> 00:17:22,200 Obstacles there will be things you do not like but you persevere because 211 00:17:22,920 --> 00:17:27,360 Think of all the things before that you didn't like and you're still here 212 00:17:29,400 --> 00:17:32,080 A lot of times it's a lesson learn the lesson 213 00:17:32,800 --> 00:17:35,040 Sometimes it's just a moment let it go 214 00:17:35,040 --> 00:17:37,840 I wrote an article once and 215 00:17:38,480 --> 00:17:46,160 I don't remember what I wrote so I'm gonna write another article but use the same title and it was titled when yesterday comes 216 00:17:48,400 --> 00:17:52,240 When yesterday comes think about that we are so 217 00:17:53,680 --> 00:17:56,080 good at living in the past and 218 00:17:57,080 --> 00:17:59,080 reliving things and reliving things 219 00:17:59,080 --> 00:18:04,440 That we don't even have time for our day. We are so stuck in yesterday 220 00:18:05,560 --> 00:18:10,440 In the day before in the day before that we're not living to our full potential today 221 00:18:11,240 --> 00:18:13,240 And getting all of our blessings today 222 00:18:14,440 --> 00:18:16,440 And then tomorrow letting today go 223 00:18:17,720 --> 00:18:19,720 Whatever went wrong 224 00:18:19,720 --> 00:18:22,120 We are so stuck in our past 225 00:18:23,400 --> 00:18:25,400 We are stuck in our past 226 00:18:25,400 --> 00:18:32,840 We are so stuck in our past that we're not living fully in our moments 227 00:18:35,400 --> 00:18:41,640 We are so upset when somebody wrongs us cuts us off in traffic says the wrong words when they speak to us 228 00:18:42,120 --> 00:18:48,280 Rows their eyes looks us up and down a couple of times uses a derogatory word 229 00:18:48,840 --> 00:18:50,840 That's all their problem 230 00:18:51,080 --> 00:18:53,080 You smile 231 00:18:53,080 --> 00:18:56,200 Long as they're not in your personal space and they're not touching you 232 00:18:57,480 --> 00:18:59,480 It is what it is 233 00:19:00,760 --> 00:19:07,320 I said it the last podcast people who drive crazy and cut you off in traffic and that they're doing that period 234 00:19:07,320 --> 00:19:11,720 They don't know you personally so don't take it personally. I had to learn that myself 235 00:19:13,000 --> 00:19:15,000 And I'm better for it 236 00:19:16,600 --> 00:19:19,240 But what I'm really better for is growth 237 00:19:19,240 --> 00:19:27,240 And believe me you guys a couple years ago. This would have happened. I'd still be steam would be coming out of my 238 00:19:27,240 --> 00:19:29,240 I would look like a choo choo train 239 00:19:30,360 --> 00:19:32,360 There would be so much steam 240 00:19:32,840 --> 00:19:34,840 And so much heat coming off of me 241 00:19:35,560 --> 00:19:38,040 Probably fry an egg on my forehead 242 00:19:38,920 --> 00:19:41,400 But I've learned the situation of 243 00:19:42,520 --> 00:19:47,880 It doesn't change the fact that my phone wasn't working doesn't change the fact if I want 244 00:19:47,880 --> 00:19:49,240 I want 245 00:19:49,240 --> 00:19:52,200 Better service. I need to upgrade to a 5 246 00:19:53,400 --> 00:19:55,400 G phone 247 00:19:55,720 --> 00:19:57,720 None of that changes 248 00:19:59,480 --> 00:20:01,480 Doesn't change the fact 249 00:20:01,480 --> 00:20:02,760 At all 250 00:20:02,760 --> 00:20:07,880 So what do I do? I go on t-mobile and I look for a new phone first the young lady was going to help me 251 00:20:07,880 --> 00:20:13,960 I said no, I want to I want to go ahead and make a great decision and then guess what I was able to do 252 00:20:14,840 --> 00:20:16,840 I was able to bless her 253 00:20:16,840 --> 00:20:19,960 Because when she asked me what do I do and I told her 254 00:20:20,600 --> 00:20:27,320 She wanted to talk about being motivated in her past and how she felt and I was able to talk to this young lady 255 00:20:29,160 --> 00:20:31,160 And bless her 256 00:20:31,560 --> 00:20:34,680 And maybe all this happened just so I could talk to her you never know 257 00:20:37,560 --> 00:20:39,560 But it made me feel good 258 00:20:39,720 --> 00:20:41,720 And I hung up that phone 259 00:20:42,120 --> 00:20:44,120 Without any other pressure 260 00:20:44,120 --> 00:20:51,320 Of my phone breaking down without any of the thoughts of having my as matter of fact when I think of my little shag afro 261 00:20:52,440 --> 00:20:55,400 ends curl puffy hair from saturday 262 00:20:56,200 --> 00:20:59,480 It's funny and we laughed about it last night 263 00:20:59,880 --> 00:21:03,160 We were cracking up because I was like, yeah every picture that I was in 264 00:21:03,720 --> 00:21:07,000 Before I pinned my hair back has been deleted 265 00:21:07,000 --> 00:21:14,920 All them crow's feet look like my face looked so much older all deleted. We were cracking up. It was funny 266 00:21:16,760 --> 00:21:21,400 When in the past that would have bothered me so greatly I would have missed the joy of seeing my son 267 00:21:22,600 --> 00:21:24,600 Get hooded and get his masters 268 00:21:25,400 --> 00:21:27,400 Don't sweat the little things you guys 269 00:21:27,720 --> 00:21:31,880 And if it's even a bigger thing if you can't change it pray about it and let it go 270 00:21:31,880 --> 00:21:35,080 Let it go 271 00:21:37,160 --> 00:21:40,760 All right, I am led by motivation 272 00:21:41,320 --> 00:21:43,320 You can find me at 273 00:21:43,480 --> 00:21:47,800 www.ledledbymotivation.com and you could always email me 274 00:21:48,440 --> 00:21:55,320 I am led by motivation 07 at gmail.com. I appreciate everybody who listens to this podcast 275 00:21:55,320 --> 00:22:02,360 Have a beautiful day and share this with somebody new. Thank you