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Good morning, good afternoon, and good evening, everybody.

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It's your girl, Sonya McQueen with It's Your Life.

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What are you doing with it?

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Now I say that all the time,

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but I honestly don't remember the name of this season,

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but y'all know this is your mind, your body, your choice.

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And today I come to you.

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I wanna speak to you about the world's troubles, right?

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We're all born to die.

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And what we do in between the time we are of able-minded

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or we have the ability to make decisions for ourselves

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or live in a way where our thoughts are forming our future

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and our actions are before us.

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So, you know, we are responsible for our words,

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our actions, our movements from that time until we die.

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What do you do with that time?

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Because if you didn't know this, I have news for y'all.

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No matter how much you work to make all the money

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in the world and get all the riches

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and drive the nicest cars that's nice while you're here,

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none of that's going in the casket with you

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or none of it's gonna be burned up with you

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unless you, you know, you get cremating,

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you say, burn my cars and burn this and burn,

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then it might be, but then the value is nothing.

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What's most important while you're here

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is the quality time you're spending

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with your friends and your family and other loved ones,

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just the loved ones and the work you do

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to stay behind when you're gone.

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You know, I did a podcast not too long ago

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and it stemmed off of this movie I watched

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and I think it was called Generation Well

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and it was just about all the things people do

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to become wealthy and it followed some of these people

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through a span of 25 years and how they thought then

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and how they reached the climax of what they thought

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they wanted financially turned out to be nothing

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but a burden in the end.

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And I can honestly say, without missing a beat,

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I've never prayed for money.

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I've always prayed for enough just to, just enough.

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You know, I want to be able, if I feel like going to the store

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and spending $300 on worthless items at Sam's,

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I wanna be able to do it without panicking

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or without the bank sending me a notice.

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And that same day, if I wanna go to Target

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and spend another 200 and I wanna go to Coles and spend

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and I wanna go buy, I wanna be able to do it,

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but I'm sensible, I'm sensible.

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So most everything I buy is for our household.

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You know, I have enough clothes

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to wear something different every day of the year.

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I don't have any business going clothes shopping.

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I haven't gained or lost any weight.

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I have enough shoes to go with all those clothes.

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So I have no business buying shoes, none are dry rod.

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You get the point, you get the point.

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So my biggest thing is while I'm here,

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I need to help others who struggle

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because I don't struggle.

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That is why what I'm doing with this business,

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the Lead By Motivation Outreach,

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to help able-minded homeless people get back on their feet

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and get back in their own places with a job

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is so imperative to me.

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It's not about me.

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This is a 501, I'm not gonna get rich off of this,

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but this is my life's purpose.

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You know, if you look for riches to make you happy,

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you'll never find it.

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You'll find the riches

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and you might even find your happiness,

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but you're gonna find more people with their hands out,

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more people wondering why you're not doing this for them

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and that for them and this for them.

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It's just like that.

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That's the way this world goes.

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When you thrive and you try to learn from money, you fail.

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When you're making money, you're God.

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It's what you're worshiping and what you're going after.

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You've already lost.

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You know, what is most delightful to me

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is what I do in my works.

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This isn't gonna be a long podcast

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and I'm sure a lot of you probably have lost you,

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but I promise you, I promise you,

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your needs will be met.

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Your needs will be met

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if you're not so selfish with your actions.

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Don't be selfish with your thoughts.

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Me, me, I, I, me, I, me.

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You know, be loving and caring, us, we, they, them.

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And I'm not talking what you, your pronouns,

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I'm talking life.

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I'm speaking life.

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This is so profound.

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Let me tell you guys how profound this podcast is.

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I wrote down in my notes

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because sometimes I'm out for a run or a walk

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or I'm exercising and a thought hits me and it's so strong.

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I put it in my notes in my phone

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so that I could speak on it later.

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And that's what I did with this podcast.

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It hit me and then yesterday,

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I received a text message

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from somebody who I swear were related,

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but the text message sent me to a link

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which was basically about this same thing,

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about you being born

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and you really having to make choices

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to be this type of person in life or that type of person,

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but no matter what the struggle is,

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you know, no matter what,

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this is a true statement.

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When you're born, you're born into a struggle.

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You're gonna struggle.

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You're gonna have valleys.

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It is written.

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I don't care how well off your parents are

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and how well off you are,

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you're still gonna have struggles in this life,

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but you've gotta take it.

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That is one of the reasons you're born in this life

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because there's no perfection here.

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There's no perfection.

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I don't care who's listening to me.

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If you tell people you're perfect,

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you're a liar, which makes you imperfect

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because you're a liar and perfect people don't lie.

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There's no perfection in this world.

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There's none.

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So you're born to have some struggles

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and then you die.

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And based on what you believe in,

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I believe in God.

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I believe that we're either gonna go to heaven or hell.

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That's my belief.

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I won't know if I'm right until I'm dead

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and if I'm wrong, I won't know

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because I'll just be dead.

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So I'd rather live my life believing in something

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than live my life believing in nothing

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and then die and find out I was wrong.

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What's the harm?

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What's the harm in believing in an afterlife,

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living and being with God in that afterlife

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and living an eternity in happiness?

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Then to say, you know what?

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I don't believe in God.

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I don't believe in that.

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And then you die and then you're like, oh shit.

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I didn't say the word of God.

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Oh shit, I was wrong.

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Cause now you can't back battle.

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It's too late.

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It's too late and now you're in hell.

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But I also know that when I was stressed in my life

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for decades, stressed and angry and not sleeping

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and doing whatever I could to try to get sleep

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and that's ambi and y'all.

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And then I probably smoked weed

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probably 10 to 12 times in my life.

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Anything I could to get some sleep, not sleeping.

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It's showing on my body, it's showing in my face,

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it's showing in my attitude, my personality.

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Stress, stress, stress.

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When I realized this is just part of your life,

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now how are you gonna deal with it?

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Are you gonna keep dealing with stress this away?

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And affecting your quality of life and not enjoying today?

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Or are you going to learn how to live with this

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and maneuver and pray and let go?

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It took me to being 40, but I learned to do the latter.

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I learned to do the latter.

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I learned to pray and release.

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Smile and keep moving because I know

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that valley I'm gonna come out of

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and one day I'm gonna be in another valley.

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And if I stress every time I'm in a valley,

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I'm never gonna come out

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because I'm constantly gonna be stressing

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and upset and worried and thinking

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about what happened yesterday and every yesterday

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instead of living in my today and waiting on my tomorrow.

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I've learned to live in the present and not in the past.

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Not to worry about who's mad at me yesterday,

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but no, I'm okay today.

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And if they're still mad, that's their issue.

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And if they're mad for a good reason to apologize

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and for me to let it go,

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I'm not gonna let somebody hold me hostage

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to something I didn't apologize for.

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If they didn't accept it, that's their right

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and their prerogative.

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But I'm not gonna keep holding on to it

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and beating myself up for something that I've apologized for

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because you guys know what?

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I'm 53 today, I might not make it to 54.

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We're about in Virgo season, that's my season.

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I might not see the 54th birthday.

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You think I wanna worry about who's mad at me?

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Who's spreading rumors about me?

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Who's lying on me?

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Who's talking about me?

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No, sir.

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No, sir, God has put too many good people in my life.

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Good people, great people, people who love me.

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For me to keep worrying about who doesn't.

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You think I'm gonna pray and worry

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about how much money I have in the bank?

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No, sir, because God has made it a point

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ever since I prayed for having enough

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for me to always have enough in the bank.

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If you guys didn't know,

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I have not received a paycheck since September.

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I stopped working in December.

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And I'll say that again.

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I haven't received a paycheck since September

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and I stopped working in December.

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And there has not been a complaint in this household.

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And I'm spending more money now

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than I was spending when I was working,

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bringing in six figures a year.

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There's more money and less stress now because,

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and I'm spending more, let me say that.

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I'm spending more because I'm working on my own.

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On my own businesses.

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I'm tired of working for other people.

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You guys, sometimes we complain about working

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and we complain about working

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and we keep going to the same thing.

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And sometimes it's just us.

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It's just us.

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And sometimes it is the place.

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But if you can't fix something,

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stop complaining about it.

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And I've said this before,

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if you're gonna complain about something,

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fix it and shut up.

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If you can't fix it, let it go and shut up.

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But the more you complain,

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the more it weighs on you.

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And the more it weighs on you,

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the less happy you are.

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The less happy you are, the more stress and anxiety.

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And once again, you're gonna die.

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That sounds so harsh, but it's true.

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It's true.

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I might be here in 50 years.

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That's right, I said it.

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I might be here to 103,

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but I won't be here in 60 years.

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I could almost guarantee you.

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I won't be here in 70.

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I'm damn sure of that.

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It is what it is, you guys.

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So don't spend your life chasing after money.

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Chase your dreams.

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And a lot of times your dreams will bring you that money.

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But if you are putting all your eggs in a basket

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to live for money, you're dying slowly.

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And you're asking for more stress than you can imagine.

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You guys might think that sounds horrible, but it's not.

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It's not.

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If your whole basis of living is for money and power,

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you can't take those things in a grave with you.

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Look to your left and right.

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If you're around people right now, that's who you live for.

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If your wife, your husband, your kids, your grandma,

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your auntie, your cousins, your friends are around you,

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that's who you pray for.

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That's who you lift up.

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That's your purpose.

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To bring better tomorrow's to the people around you,

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not just yourself.

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The world is full of people.

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If the only person you're concerned about in life is you,

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there's so many words I can call you selfish.

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Is probably the best.

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There's another word I was thinking of, narcissist.

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You are an alpha living in a world of one.

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Don't be like that, y'all.

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While you're here, try to leave a legacy.

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Try to leave positivity.

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I say it all the time.

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Everybody should write a book.

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And if you don't want to write a book for purchasing,

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write it for your family.

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Get it, copy written and print it just for your family

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so you're leaving a legacy or something for your family.

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You're leaving a legacy or something for your family.

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I said it, I wrote a book of recipes.

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And I could say this,

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because I don't think any of my kids listen to my dang on podcast.

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But I wrote recipes that says recipes for mom would love

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about 10 to 15 years ago.

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And my kids live on that book.

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But since then, I've made up so many more recipes.

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I could really make an entire cookbook.

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I have chicken recipes, beef recipes, pork recipes.

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I don't have any lamb.

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Sorry. I have recipes for gluten free.

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My daughter is whatever a pest,

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I was about to say pest, a religion.

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I can't think of what she is, but she does eat shrimp and fish.

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But she doesn't eat any chicken, any poultry, any beef, any pork.

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I wrote a whole section for her.

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I have a whole section on vegetables, baking and dessert.

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I'm going to put that in a hardcover book with my kids pictures on it.

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And they're going to get that for Christmas this year.

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That's what they're getting.

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And I'm so excited for this because I know they'll use it.

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And I know something they'll keep forever and they'll give it to their kids.

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And their kids can keep it forever.

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And they can add to it.

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That's even the, they can add to it.

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And make another book.

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So that is something I want to leave in addition to the books.

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I've already written that anybody can buy.

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And I'm still writing in these podcasts.

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But what I really am excited about is what I'm doing for the homeless.

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And I really do hope it spreads from state to state.

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And after I'm gone, they're still led by motivation outreach.

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That other people are running and doing great things and that the homeless population just

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dwindles down.

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Dwindles down.

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I'm not pacifying the homeless or just feeding them and putting them back out.

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But I'm actually changing their lives forever.

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That's what I want to leave.

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What do you want to leave?

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What do you want to do?

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And if you're still stuck on rimming your own house, you're still stuck on your own

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pockets.

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Hey, I ain't even mad at you.

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You do you.

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But remember while you're doing you and you're only thinking of you and you're only praying

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for you and your pockets are only lying for you, other people are praying for you and

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they're hoping for better for you.

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They're hoping for better because there's no way you're happy just thinking about yourself

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all the time.

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That's my belief.

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I could be dead or wrong.

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I could be dead.

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This isn't for everybody but it's for somebody.

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Pray for other people.

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Do the best you can in this life.

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Live for today.

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Let yesterday go.

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People who are mad at you.

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If you've done wrong, apologize and then you let it go.

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You don't let people pigeon hold you in their feelings.

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You don't do that.

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You don't let people hold you in a chokehold because they feel some kind of way.

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Don't do that to yourself.

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Find your happiness.

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Find your peace and you live in it and pray for others.

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This is your girl, Sonia McQueen.

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You know you can find me at Sonia M at LeadbyMotivation.com or LeadbyMotivation07 at Gmail.com.

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You could go to our website.

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We have one up.

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The organization one isn't up yet but we have LeadbyMotivation.com and always hit me

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up if you have a question, an idea or thought about a podcast.

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I love to hear from you.

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Have a great day on purpose.