I didn't even mean to turn it down that far.
Hey guys, welcome back to the last Talk It Out sessions with Trinity of 2022.
Guys, I did not keep up with this Season 2 as much as I would have liked to.
I definitely fell off the boat on this one.
But thank you guys for hanging in there with me as much as you possibly can.
I am going to talk to you about the one thing I despise the most in the spiritual community
during this time and ever since COVID popped up.
And I'm a little biased because I also started my business during COVID and honestly I probably
would have been TikTok fans by now if I actually would have kept my shit going honestly.
But hey, it is what it is and we gonna talk about it.
So let's talk about the new age spiritualists that has been on the rise since 2020.
And y'all know I hate them love and light, gaslighting sons of bitches.
I am so sorry.
But I equate new age spirituality with being a Karen of the spiritual community.
And I don't care how you practice, what you practice, when you practice, what you practice
and etc.
That's not the issue.
The issue is more so there are a lot of spiritualists purposely, there are a lot of spiritualists
that purposely A. trauma bond their clients to them and B. gaslight the fuck out of them.
And what I mean by both of them, and like what I mean by both of those statements, what
I mean by both of those statements is, look I keep fucking with shit.
What I mean by both of those statements is that you will have a new age reader on like
tic-tac or you know Facebook or Instagram, you will literally have a new, they're mainly
on TikTok for example, which is why I got off of that.
But you will mainly find like a new age reader or spiritualist that have kind of like not
explored the spirituality, have not been settled into it for quite some time, like other spiritualists
have.
And I don't mean the ones that are, like I don't mean the ones that are just like they're
gifted and they're just getting started.
I don't mean those ones.
I mean y'all know the ones that I'm talking about when I mention it.
The ones that I'm speaking of are the ones that are like, oh yeah well, you know that's
been that very love and light of you and I'm a star seed and blah blah blah and that's
like high vibrational and low vibrational.
Like they will, they will have that punishment to them that they learned in Christianity
or like standardized religion, but the toxic kind.
And they will use that as like a catalyst to make you feel bad and make you feel horrible
for the choices that you made or the choices that you're currently making or the situations
that you're going through.
These are the type of situations that some of these new age spiritualists use against
their clients in order to like trauma bond to them or even just kind of like using a
love bombing tactic on their own clients.
It's bonkers to me that some of these new age spiritualists will use love bombing.
They will use abusive tactics to keep their clients coming to them and instead of looking
out for their best interests and growth and you know personal happiness within themselves,
meaning like within their clients having personal happiness and personal growth and growing
from a reader moving on from a reader finding a new reader that fits with their higher consciousness
as that's appropriate.
I've had readers I've gone to that I have grown out of.
I've grown out of them because I'm not in that space when I was on my twin flame journey.
I kept going to this one reader consistently, but once I grew out of that twin flame journey
and learn my lessons and learn what I need to learn from it and I got into my life partner
soulmate relationship, those readings that that reader was giving me became irrelevant.
I've grown, I moved on to a higher level of consciousness.
I've grown up, I moved on and I'm somewhere where I'm happy and stable and the reader
that I've been going to for years, she is the only reader that I remain consistent with
and to be honest with you, her readings change as my situation changed.
It's not a continuous thing about the twin flame journey and they're going to come back
and blah blah.
No, she and this is how you know intuitive readers, psychic readers are truly intuitive
and psychic because they know if you are on your right path or not.
They don't punish you, they don't belittle you, they don't gaslight you into getting
more readings or be like, oh, well, this person's coming back even though they're married three
kids has a wife has the car, the house, the mansion with this lawyer bitch or whatever
the fuck this bit like this person is to them.
While you are just a 21 year old fling and you believe that this person is your soulmate
or your twin flame, but because this reader says they're going to come back around to
you, you need to wait.
People wait and that's not every that's a very weird situation, but people, people are
preyed upon in that way.
Young people, older folks in general, like the ones that are like 40 and wondering if
this person is going to come back and it's prey on people's vulnerability and desperation
for me.
I'm just saying a real intuitive reader will not as a person tell you to wait around for
somebody that is insanely unavailable, regardless of what the reading says.
People have free will that you can do what you want, but no decent human being, no real
intuitive or psychic is going to tell you to wait around for somebody that is unavailable.
They're not going to tell you to wait around for a situation to get better knowing it's
hurting you.
But because people like these and they're not even all they're not a lot of them not
even a lot of them are not even new age.
They're just people that want your money.
And this is why I don't really go on TikTok.
I usually say the Facebook and Instagram.
TikTok is kind of like hit or miss because I fight with the algorithm a lot.
There is a lot of toxicity that came with spiritualists in the past two years, because
there's been a collective conscious like risen.
But there are also people that like to monopolize off that.
And I'm glad that spirituality is getting the attention it deserves.
But because it's getting the attention it deserves, and it's very lucrative, it's very,
very hard to pick out the ones that genuinely wants to help you.
And when you're desperate, and when you're in need of something to confirm or deny to
validate you to validate your existence, your journey, why is this happening to me, it ultimately
turns back into regular organized religion, we are looking for an answer from somebody
that isn't even connected to the source.
Regardless if you do Syntharia, Brujaria, Voodoo, whether you are whether you're Yoruba
or whatever, you find you come into contact with people that prey upon people who are
in that quote unquote lower vibration, because they are in that lower vibration themselves,
but they are more tapped in to use it to their advantage instead of letting it bring them
down.
And you don't even know what type of entity or ET, like extraterrestrial is controlling
them in that nature.
Like I have a lot of spiritual spiritual friends from different backgrounds that I follow and
be talk with on a consistent basis.
And we all agree that there is something else that has wormed its way into this new age
spirituality that is trying to poison the that is trying to poison the community.
And it's up to us, people who are truly tapped in, people who are truly balanced in nature,
to really expose them for who they are.
And again, it's a very, very hard thing to do, because of social media and technology,
and people being very sucked into the internet world.
And if you're not grounded in your 3d self, the internet is just another 5d space where
if you're not grounded in this 3d if you're not grounded in your real life, you will not
be grounded when you get onto this 5d space that is the internet.
And people may think just because it's manmade, it's not it's 3d.
It's more than that is deeper than that.
People send messages, ets, communicators, there are there are magnets, there are radio
ways, there are ultraviolet rays, which is why again, we wear like glasses, right?
The orange, like the orange tinted glasses that cancel out the blue, the blue emitters,
like the blue emitting lights from our LED screens.
Because what other and it sounds crazy, but think about it.
What other higher entity beings use blue lights?
Higher beings use blue lights, they use blue waves is something that resonates easily with
people at their core, which is why it's so easy to be manipulated by these new age spiritualists
through tik tok through the internet.
And like I said, it can be a very helpful thing.
But in the same tandem in the same token, it can be so so hurtful.
And like I said, I don't, I did say earlier, I hate the new age spiritualists, but I can't
really hate them either.
I just say I have a great disdain for them, I'll change, I have a great disdain for them.
And like it's very hard.
It's very hard and frustrating where you have true intuitives getting the clout, like not
getting the clout they deserve.
But I do feel as time goes on, as the fad wears off, and I do think in the next couple
years is going to actually wear off.
And people are going to be realizing once again, like, okay, I need to get this.
I need to like check this person.
I need to vet my reader, I need to see if they're right for me.
And to see if they share my beliefs.
It's kind of like vetting.
It's like, it's kind of like vetting your therapist or vetting your doctor to see if
they're certified to see if they vie with you.
Is a like is a doctor is a is a DO like a doctor of osteopathic medicine.
Is that good for her?
Do you want a medical doctor?
DOs are more holistic in nature while medical doctors are kind of like, and they can honestly
depend on what type of care you're looking for.
Are you looking for more holistic and new in new age and herbalist care?
Or are you looking for somebody that can solve your problems with chemicals and things like
that?
It's it's up to you to really really tap into the reader that is based off of your needs.
And I usually love talking to my reader like talking to my clients first, so they can kind
of get like a vibe off of me.
Like, or like, I don't mind if a potential client or a client messages me or emails me,
I don't mind because it's important to try and establish that connection with your client
as a reader beforehand.
Of course, we can all get vibes off of people.
We definitely can.
We can all get vibes off people.
But it's more so about the fact that making sure that that person is right for you and
making sure that this person isn't just telling you what you want to hear, but telling you
what you need to hear to grow.
And they don't have to be an asshole about it.
They don't have to be a dick.
They don't have to be like me or Harley, who is 13 science Taro.
A lot of people can't take people that are similar to like me or her in nature.
She's a lot more harsh than I am.
Some people need like somebody like my friend Chanel Badair, who is very like very sweet
and has a very calming voice like she's like a, she's like a two on the like on the earthquake
scale.
I'm kind of like a four or maybe a five on the best day.
I'm like 13 science Taro Harley, she's kind of like a 10.
She's super sweet.
But when she gets there, she's like a 10.
And I love her daily.
I've like she has been my reader for years, four years.
And I learned a lot just by watching her.
I learned a lot by talking with like talking with her and talking with Chanel and talking
with other readers.
They're kind of like going through this growing pain of the new age and the shift in the change
of spirituality and people's short term attention and technology.
There's a lot going on.
So I can't I can't say I hate the new age spiritualists.
I do definitely have a disdain for them.
Because like I said, like I said before, and multiple times, they do tend to take advantage
of the ones that are that are desperate and lonely and looking for an answer to something.
So they cling on to the first thing that makes them feel better, not even realize that the
thing that makes you feel better isn't the best thing for you.
It's like a drug.
People get addicted to readers and some readers know this.
So they pray off of that so they can have like a source of financial income consistently
coming off of that.
I don't mind if a person doesn't come back to me as a client, because that means I'm
not in that consciousness where you need me anymore.
And that's what people and that's what people don't realize.
You are not in the consciousness when you visit a reader, and you don't kind of vibe
with them.
You may like them as a person, but you may not vibe with them or you're not in that sense
of like, we're not really connecting.
That means you either move like you elevated and took the lessons from that reader and
applied them and moved on.
Or you didn't learn the lessons at all.
You kind of went down a couple on the rankings there, consciously.
Either way, either way, it's not a good, it's not a bad thing to like have a disconnect
with your reader.
Some people have a reader they go to all the time.
And it's because your reader has the energy, flexible enough to go with the ebb and flows
of your journey.
And even if you do have a reader that goes to ebb and flows of your journey with you,
once you get to that point and you're on your path, you might not see them as often but
you might check in every now and again and that's also okay too.
You know what I'm saying?
I don't often check in.
Well, no, I can't I can't even say that because I do quite often get readings from Harley.
I do.
Not as much as I used to go, but they're more so in terms of like money, career, finances,
life path and then I don't specifically seek out certain aspects.
It's kind of like it is what it is, because I've accepted that whatever comes my way will
be meant for me.
And I've had free readings from her every now and again because I support her I support
other people like I try when I can.
Because you know, that ADD thing be happening sometimes.
But it's kind of like there are other readers that I outgrew but she is the one that kind
of sticks with me.
And it's because I know she is going to put me on my right path but eventually I will
outgrow her or I won't see or I won't go to see her as often because I aligned with my
true self.
And you'll probably and I'll probably see her every six months to a year or something.
So like I said, I don't hate New Eight.
So to basically wrap it up, I don't necessarily hate the new I know I said I hate them.
I do.
I hate what they do when I hate that how they do it because it's abusive.
It's abusive and it's toxic and people don't like to hear that of a spiritualist because
again, they're looking for answers.
They're looking for the first thing that they tell them.
They look for the first person telling them that yes, it's okay.
And blah, blah, you can wait for them and duh.
But no one will ever want to hear the harsh truth that is needed for you to grow.
And a lot of new and again, a lot of new age spiritualists are abusive and narcissistic
in nature because they look for themselves from that client that validation to make them
feel important to make them feel wanted and needed.
And that's a different wound in itself.
Some of them and I can only say probably about 5% of the spiritualists that are on tick take
right now are narcissistic truly.
Others just have a validation that they need to be filled that they need to be wanted and
needed to feel important because they never felt important themselves.
And that's a whole nother rabbit hole.
Like I said, only 5% of the new age spiritualists are even truly narcissists.
The rest of them are just repeating the cycle that they grew up around and they were they
had the gift, but they were never able to utilize their gift in a healthy way.
So it turns out, it turns out when they share their gift, they realize that they they can
be needed, they can be wanted by their clients.
So they tell them whatever they want to hear so they can keep coming back and they form
a trauma bond with their client.
Because they share the same pain, they share the same pain.
They share the same needs.
And the same need for a validation.
Yes, if I wait around for this person, they will come back.
Same thing.
Yes, if I tell this person what they want to hear, they'll be my friend, they'll be
my client forever.
And I get to get money off of them and they'll do nice things and they'll buy me things and
they'll do this and do this to support me.
Ain't it crazy?
And you know, it takes 20 minutes to get to my point y'all know me by now.
But it's so crazy and it's and it's and it's scary because these are the type of people
that tap into your energy and they siphon it from you.
And this leaves the client feeling so tired and exhausted.
Because not only do you have an energy vampire that is unloved and trauma bonded to you,
you're now not only trauma bonded to that reader, you're trauma bonded to the situation
that they have put you in.
You are you are bonded to that situation that that reader put you in.
And some people do have like that spiritual strength to like get up out of it.
But for somebody who is desperate and lonely and feeling hopeless, it's hard to get out
of that rut.
It's hard to get out of that, especially if you have a wrote like a over a codependency
on getting terror readings.
And I talk about this quite, I talk about this.
Not enough, I think I don't talk about this enough.
And I do kind of want to change a lot of things about my platform where I do address these
things because they're not addressed enough, I believe.
And I do feel like this might not be my most popular podcast episode, but it's something
I want to end with at the end of the year to really make you guys think and really,
really make you guys sit with the fact that some of the new age spiritualists or the newer
social media influencer spiritualists are insanely unhealed.
And they're codependent on their clients for a sense of validation.
Some some new age readers want to be validated because they need it.
They need it from their clients.
So again, like I said, they trauma bond the clients to them.
They make the clients codependent on them, because they themselves again are codependent.
We don't keep talking about it.
So again, I have a great disdain for the new age spiritualists and things like that, simply
because they're too they're too caught up in their own pain to see their way to caught
up in their own pain to see that they are turning into they're turning into what they
what what their clients are.
They're turning into their clients basically.
And the ones that talk about these type of codependencies and all that rhetoric.
I mean, let me tell you, they're the main ones.
They are the main ones that need to point the mirror at themselves.
And even I had to do it a couple of times, I definitely had to do it quite a few times
when I when I really, really had to like, look at how I was reading and what I was reading
the Twin Flame journey and the karmic stuff like that.
Like, I really, really had to look deep within myself and be like, okay, I'm telling my clients
this, but what am I doing?
And this is during my whole twin flame relationship.
I'm like, what the hell am I doing then?
I'm telling my client this and what the hell am I doing?
I'm acting just like them.
And as soon as I follow my own advice, I got the love of my wife and I am so happy.
And all of my readings have been about financial abundance and being married and having a baby.
And I super into that.
But I know, I know, I know.
I hope you guys enjoyed this.
And I hope we bring in the new year with a season three of Talk it Out Sessions with
Trinity.
And I will see you guys next year.
Stay tuned.
There probably won't be more.
I'm not gonna lie, the episodes are probably gonna be a lot more sporadic because I'll
be in school and stuff.
Well, honestly, I'm gonna try and keep up with this year.
We're trying to keep up with this year.
But anyway, guys, see you next year.
Happy new year.
And I hope we see you next year.
I think that was it.
I can't wait until next year.